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- 0:25SPEAKER_00: Welcome back to Plan Like a Boss.
- 0:27SPEAKER_00: I'm Tanya, music teacher, planning fanatic, and business owner of over 20 years.
- 0:32SPEAKER_00: And today we're talking about how to prioritize when everything feels important.
- 0:39SPEAKER_00: Let's be real for a second.
- 0:41SPEAKER_00: Some days it feels like your life is a giant dumpster fire.
- 0:46SPEAKER_00: I mean, everything is on fire.
- 0:48SPEAKER_00: The emails are piling up.
- 0:50SPEAKER_00: Your planner looks like a freaking crime scene, and every task on your list is screaming, I'm urgent.
- 0:59SPEAKER_00: If you've ever sat down at your desk and thought, I don't even know where to start, I want you to know that you are not alone.
- 1:06SPEAKER_00: I have been there more times than I can count.
- 1:10SPEAKER_00: Especially when I'm running multiple businesses, creating content, and managing all the adulting that comes with life.
- 1:17SPEAKER_00: But here's the truth: not everything that feels important actually is important.
- 1:24SPEAKER_00: So today we're gonna walk through how to untangle that chaos and figure out what really deserves your time, energy, and focus.
- 1:33SPEAKER_00: Now, when everything feels equally urgent, your brain short circuits.
- 1:37SPEAKER_00: It's like trying to juggle 10 balls while balancing on a yoga ball.
- 1:42SPEAKER_00: Eventually, something's gonna hit the floor.
- 1:44SPEAKER_00: And here's what makes it worse: you care deeply.
- 1:48SPEAKER_00: You want to do your best work, you want to show up for your people, and you don't want to drop the ball on the things that really matter.
- 1:56SPEAKER_00: But trying to do everything at once just dilutes your impact, and you end up doing 10 things halfway instead of doing one thing really well.
- 2:06SPEAKER_00: So, first, I want you to give yourself permission to pause because you're not lazy, you're not behind, you're human.
- 2:15SPEAKER_00: And clarity can't exist in chaos.
- 2:18SPEAKER_00: You have to give yourself permission to slow down long enough to think clearly.
- 2:23SPEAKER_00: So, step one, you are going to braind the chaos.
- 2:27SPEAKER_00: When everything feels urgent, your first job isn't to prioritize, it's to externalize.
- 2:34SPEAKER_00: So grab a notebook, index cards, or even a piece of junk mail.
- 2:38SPEAKER_00: I personally like to use a piece of paper from the recycling can I keep next to my desk.
- 2:43SPEAKER_00: Next, I want you to write everything down.
- 2:46SPEAKER_00: Don't organize it, don't make it cute.
- 2:49SPEAKER_00: The uglier, the better.
- 2:52SPEAKER_00: Just get it out of your head.
- 2:54SPEAKER_00: Because when your brain is trying to hold your to-do list, your deadlines, your grocery list, and your big goals all at once, it treats them all as equally urgent.
- 3:04SPEAKER_00: That's why it feels like you're drowning.
- 3:06SPEAKER_00: Your brain hasn't had the chance to see the big picture.
- 3:10SPEAKER_00: But once it's all out, you can finally see what you're working with.
- 3:14SPEAKER_00: Step two, I want you to ask yourself a question.
- 3:17SPEAKER_00: What is going to move the needle?
- 3:19SPEAKER_00: Now, here is where things shift.
- 3:21SPEAKER_00: I want you to look at that list and ask what will actually move the needle towards the goal that I'm working on right now.
- 3:29SPEAKER_00: Not what's the loudest, not what's the easiest, not what's gonna make someone else happy, but what will create meaningful progress towards your goals?
- 3:39SPEAKER_00: This is one of my favorite questions because it immediately filters out all the busy work.
- 3:45SPEAKER_00: Sometimes that means doing the uncomfortable thing, like finally launching that sales page or recording that podcast episode while letting all the other small stuff wait another day.
- 3:56SPEAKER_00: But I want you to remember, progress doesn't come from checking more boxes.
- 4:01SPEAKER_00: It comes from checking the right boxes.
- 4:04SPEAKER_00: Now, step three, I want you to define your top three.
- 4:09SPEAKER_00: Once you know what's going to move the needle, I want you to narrow your focus to three things max.
- 4:15SPEAKER_00: That's it.
- 4:16SPEAKER_00: Now, I love the one, three, five rule.
- 4:18SPEAKER_00: One big task, three medium tasks, and five small ones.
- 4:22SPEAKER_00: If you have the capacity.
- 4:24SPEAKER_00: But honestly, even just choosing your top three priorities can completely change how your entire day feels.
- 4:33SPEAKER_00: When you give your energy to fewer things, you actually make progress instead of constantly spinning your wheels.
- 4:40SPEAKER_00: At the end of the day, that progress, no matter how small, is what builds momentum.
- 4:46SPEAKER_00: And that's what really gets you moving.
- 4:48SPEAKER_00: Step four, I want you to match your energy to your tasks.
- 4:52SPEAKER_00: Now, one thing that often gets overlooked: your energy matters as much as your time.
- 4:58SPEAKER_00: If you're low energy, don't force yourself to do your most creative or strategic work.
- 5:03SPEAKER_00: Instead, match the task to your energy level.
- 5:06SPEAKER_00: So if you're tired, do something administrative or mechanical, something that is going to take no brain cells to do.
- 5:13SPEAKER_00: If you're feeling sharper inspired, then that's the time to dive into some deep work.
- 5:18SPEAKER_00: That's the time to start creating.
- 5:21SPEAKER_00: When you plan around your energy instead of just around your clock, prioritization stops feeling like punishment and it starts feeling like alignment.
- 5:31SPEAKER_00: Step five, reassess and release.
- 5:34SPEAKER_00: I want you to remember this.
- 5:36SPEAKER_00: Priorities aren't permanent.
- 5:39SPEAKER_00: That's right.
- 5:40SPEAKER_00: Priorities are not permanent.
- 5:42SPEAKER_00: What's most important this week may not be the most important thing next week.
- 5:46SPEAKER_00: Maybe this week it's launching your new website, but next week your mom ends up in the hospital.
- 5:51SPEAKER_00: Mom is way more important than anything business related.
- 5:56SPEAKER_00: So you're going to have to change your priorities.
- 5:59SPEAKER_00: This doesn't just apply to emergencies either.
- 6:01SPEAKER_00: So give yourself permission to reassess regularly.
- 6:05SPEAKER_00: Things change, life changes, and so do your priorities.
- 6:10SPEAKER_00: And maybe most importantly, release the guilt over what doesn't get done because priority is not a moral issue.
- 6:18SPEAKER_00: You are not a bad entrepreneur or creative because you didn't finish everything.
- 6:23SPEAKER_00: Instead, you're learning to focus on what matters most.
- 6:26SPEAKER_00: And that is powerful growth.
- 6:28SPEAKER_00: So next time you feel pulled in a hundred different directions, pause and ask yourself, what will move the needle right now?
- 6:36SPEAKER_00: That one question can pull you out of the overwhelm and back into momentum.
- 6:42SPEAKER_00: Now, if this episode hit home for you, I want you to take a screenshot and share it on Instagram.
- 6:47SPEAKER_00: Tag me at dr.
- 6:49SPEAKER_00: Tanya Lawson.
- 6:50SPEAKER_00: That's at dr.tanyawson.
- 6:52SPEAKER_00: I'd love to hear what needle moving task you're focusing on this week.
- 6:57SPEAKER_00: And if you're ready to get more intentional about your planning, my next quarterly planning workshop is coming up on December 13th.
- 7:04SPEAKER_00: So if you're tired of feeling behind, overwhelmed, or like you're doing everything except the things that truly move your business forward, this workshop was made for you.
- 7:16SPEAKER_00: Hop on over to tanyalawson.comslash plan to make sure you get a seat.
- 7:22SPEAKER_00: I'll put it in the show notes as well.
- 7:24SPEAKER_00: And until next time, keep planning like a boss.