Latest / The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast / After, After the Final Rose
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- 0:00Speaker 1: This is the Benn and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast
- 0:03Speaker 1: with I R Radio. Welcome to the Girls, Tell all
- 0:12Speaker 1: the girls room, We're here, and it's it's after the
- 0:20Speaker 1: final It's after the final rose, after after the final rose.
- 0:24Speaker 1: That's what it is. It's after after the final rows.
- 0:27Speaker 1: And I am here with a group of Bachelor ladies.
- 0:30Speaker 1: I have to my left, all in pajamas and sweat
- 0:37Speaker 1: you know, sweatpants and slippers and you know, wine in hand. Dessert.
- 0:43Speaker 1: I got Amanda Stanton right there, Hey, say hey Amanda,
- 0:46Speaker 1: Hi guys. Then I got Angela, Hey guys, she flew
- 0:50Speaker 1: in just for this, just for this girl's party. And
- 0:53Speaker 1: then I'm so glad I came having so much fun.
- 0:55Speaker 1: Good thanks. Then I got Crystal, Hi, Hi, Tasa, Hello,
- 1:05Speaker 1: And Savannah's back for part two of the Bachelor finale
- 1:11Speaker 1: recaps on Almost Famous. So I'm going to go in order,
- 1:16Speaker 1: except for this one thing. I must start off the
- 1:20Speaker 1: bat with Madison Run Far Away, Run Run roung. I
- 1:27Speaker 1: am just slightly confused after watching this entire season, especially tonight.
- 1:32Speaker 1: Are her Peter dating Um or she like afraid of
- 1:36Speaker 1: his mom because I would be terrified. I don't know.
- 1:41Speaker 1: I don't really feel like I don't really feel like
- 1:44Speaker 1: he was fighting for her the way I would want
- 1:46Speaker 1: someone to fight for me. After making all those mistakes,
- 1:48Speaker 1: he was like, well, it's going to be And I
- 1:52Speaker 1: kind of think she was expecting it because she spoke
- 1:55Speaker 1: first and I was expecting him to give more and
- 1:57Speaker 1: then he didn't. He didn't even see the date, although
- 2:01Speaker 1: he did defend her to his parents. I'm good. If
- 2:05Speaker 1: he didn't do that, then I'd be very concerned. But
- 2:07Speaker 1: the fact is he's like, we're in love. He did
- 2:10Speaker 1: say I'm in love with her. So weird because it
- 2:12Speaker 1: was almost like they were like, I'm in love, I'm
- 2:14Speaker 1: in love, but then when the word date came up,
- 2:17Speaker 1: they got scared. But I don't think she did. I
- 2:21Speaker 1: think dtie came out and she was like, I'm in
- 2:25Speaker 1: love with him, We're in love. She was so excited
- 2:28Speaker 1: and bubbly and like giddy, and it seemed like she
- 2:32Speaker 1: was expecting a proposal or like expecting the relationship to
- 2:36Speaker 1: be absolutely and when she tossed it to Peter and
- 2:43Speaker 1: what like, his remarks were like the challenges, Yes, this
- 2:48Speaker 1: is going to be an uphill battle, probably most the way,
- 2:51Speaker 1: and you see her just go are you like? She
- 2:53Speaker 1: threw up her hands, like are you serious? Like what
- 2:58Speaker 1: I thought we were like gonna published ourselves as a relationship.
- 3:02Speaker 1: And then we backtrack or flash forward thirty minutes later
- 3:05Speaker 1: after his mom jumps in and then he's defending her
- 3:08Speaker 1: and defending how much he loves her. But he didn
- 3:09Speaker 1: tell Madison that he loved her, not to her. He
- 3:12Speaker 1: said it to his mom. And then another thing I
- 3:15Speaker 1: noticed when he was breaking up with Hannah. Hannah asked
- 3:18Speaker 1: if it had to do with his feelings for Maddie.
- 3:21Speaker 1: He didn't say anything about Maddie during the breakup, and
- 3:24Speaker 1: he even said a little bit, but not fully mostly
- 3:27Speaker 1: like you know, he didn't really say that they're breaking
- 3:29Speaker 1: up because of Maddie. And then when Chris Harrison went
- 3:32Speaker 1: to talk to Maddie, he said it was because of Maddie.
- 3:35Speaker 1: But Peter never really said that we'll get there. M Yeah,
- 3:38Speaker 1: I want to clarify furthermore why I said, Maddie run
- 3:43Speaker 1: I need. I think that Maddy needs to run from
- 3:45Speaker 1: the entire Weber family because one Peter decided to propose
- 3:51Speaker 1: to another woman who he obviously wasn't as in love
- 3:54Speaker 1: with clearly, like we know this, he made that decision
- 3:58Speaker 1: to just end up with somebody when he had stronger
- 4:01Speaker 1: feelings for somebody else, and then this mom it's horrible.
- 4:07Speaker 1: I mean, like, I'm sorry, I don only even really
- 4:09Speaker 1: feel bad saying that. I think the first the first
- 4:12Speaker 1: half of this episode, I was like, I wonder how
- 4:13Speaker 1: much I'm going to rip on her during the podcast
- 4:16Speaker 1: because I feel weird speaking about an older woman like that,
- 4:19Speaker 1: a woman older than me. But like the second half
- 4:22Speaker 1: of the episode kind of proved to me that I
- 4:24Speaker 1: don't really have to feel bad because she doesn't feel
- 4:27Speaker 1: bad ripping on someone else. I think that's why maybe
- 4:30Speaker 1: I feel like that. That's how I feel because I've
- 4:32Speaker 1: always like Ben, like pro his parents because I thought
- 4:36Speaker 1: they were so nice and like, you know what I mean,
- 4:38Speaker 1: And then all of a sudden, it's like Jekyll and Hide.
- 4:41Speaker 1: We see this other side, and I get it she's
- 4:43Speaker 1: defending her child, but at the same time, you don't
- 4:45Speaker 1: have to be like kind of flat out rude. Like
- 4:47Speaker 1: when she was talking to Maddie, I was like, did
- 4:50Speaker 1: she just say that? I know it was it was.
- 4:53Speaker 1: It was feisty, but like you have to sheer than Yeah,
- 4:59Speaker 1: she's just a ending Peter. She's defending herself to America
- 5:02Speaker 1: because yesterday was the like part one of the finale
- 5:05Speaker 1: where she was attacked. So you have to understand she's
- 5:08Speaker 1: probably operating out of her root chakra, her fight or
- 5:11Speaker 1: fly or freeze response, and so she's completely defending herself here,
- 5:15Speaker 1: and she she's just on the defense, the defense mode,
- 5:18Speaker 1: and I think being put in that position, I doubt
- 5:21Speaker 1: she even wanted to be sitting in the audience, and
- 5:23Speaker 1: I think she felt coerced into it. Also, I feel
- 5:27Speaker 1: like no matter what Maddie was going to say, she
- 5:29Speaker 1: was going to have a problem with it, because the
- 5:30Speaker 1: second Maddie opened her mouth, her eyes were rolling. Well,
- 5:32Speaker 1: what's interesting. As they said that, they go the dad,
- 5:35Speaker 1: what's the dad's named Kevin, Peter, Peter. The dad's name
- 5:38Speaker 1: is Heatherly Kevin, I don't know, like Kevin was Kevin.
- 5:44Speaker 1: Kevin was coming to Peter's dad is Peter, Papa Peter?
- 5:49Speaker 1: Okay Pete Um he was saying, he was like, um.
- 5:54Speaker 1: She train the thought what was he saying? He goes,
- 5:56Speaker 1: there's so much that you guys didn't see, and if
- 5:59Speaker 1: you would have seen what we saw you would have
- 6:02Speaker 1: a different opinion. So I'm as really curious as we
- 6:04Speaker 1: all know because you've all been on the show. You
- 6:06Speaker 1: can only there's like a six hours filmed and they
- 6:09Speaker 1: show twenty. Right, There's so much that you don't see
- 6:13Speaker 1: and then the viewers don't see, And there's so much
- 6:15Speaker 1: that happens through the editing process that can completely, you know,
- 6:18Speaker 1: manipulate a situation to create an outcome and emotion that
- 6:23Speaker 1: wasn't really there or really just accentuates it. So I
- 6:27Speaker 1: want to know, Papa Pete, what do you know? I
- 6:30Speaker 1: think we're missing something. Absolutely all said that the whole episode,
- 6:34Speaker 1: but then the second episode started, we were all like,
- 6:37Speaker 1: are we missing something? Thanks for bringing us back to
- 6:39Speaker 1: the beginning. Let's start with that heater facetimes Hannah Ann's
- 6:43Speaker 1: dad to ask for permission for her hand in marriage.
- 6:46Speaker 1: I walked into this apartment at eight oh three and
- 6:50Speaker 1: I see him on the phone with the dad, and
- 6:52Speaker 1: you guys go, yeah, he's asking for permission to marry Hannah,
- 6:56Speaker 1: and and I go, um, can be rewind what they
- 7:00Speaker 1: just re Wait? How are we already? I think that
- 7:05Speaker 1: doesn't make any sense because we needed to deal with
- 7:09Speaker 1: like him telling Hannah and that Madison left. We where
- 7:14Speaker 1: was Neia Lane? There was like a whole bunch of
- 7:16Speaker 1: doors that were missing, and just like even his decision making,
- 7:21Speaker 1: like why didn't we see like so many contemplation scenes
- 7:24Speaker 1: of Peter looking at the distance, being like trying to
- 7:27Speaker 1: ponder whether or not he was going to propose to
- 7:30Speaker 1: Hannah and or what whether he was going to go
- 7:32Speaker 1: fight for Maddie. Who knows? Crazy that we start out
- 7:36Speaker 1: like that shows that something's missing. Um, sorry for the proposal.
- 7:41Speaker 1: And then Chris shows up and he we see what
- 7:45Speaker 1: has been teased so much this season. Chris approaches the podium,
- 7:52Speaker 1: the proposal podium, the altar, and says, so, I just
- 7:56Speaker 1: gotta tell you this might darken the day a bit.
- 7:59Speaker 1: Hannah and may not show up. What do you guys
- 8:01Speaker 1: think was the point of saying that produced? I think
- 8:05Speaker 1: it was just to build hype, to be quite honest
- 8:08Speaker 1: with you, because she's in the car. No, it's because
- 8:10Speaker 1: they it's the last day. We're going to suck a
- 8:14Speaker 1: Peter even more than we sucked with him. Seriously, Like honestly,
- 8:19Speaker 1: it's like, what do you mean she may or may
- 8:21Speaker 1: not come? Of course she may or may not come.
- 8:23Speaker 1: Why would you pull him in the middle of this
- 8:25Speaker 1: like monumental moment for him that I'm sure it took
- 8:27Speaker 1: a lot of like guts encouraged for him to even
- 8:29Speaker 1: stand there, And I'm sure there was so much spinning
- 8:32Speaker 1: in his head to even just like mess with him
- 8:35Speaker 1: when he's so vulnerable. I just felt it's so symbolic
- 8:38Speaker 1: of exactly how the season has gone. I feel like
- 8:41Speaker 1: they should have waited until Hannah and made her decision
- 8:44Speaker 1: to be like, yes, I'm going to go. No, I'm
- 8:46Speaker 1: not going to go to even tell Peter like that
- 8:49Speaker 1: that was even a thing. It was almost like last
- 8:51Speaker 1: a Colton season we had the fence jump Hannah's season,
- 8:55Speaker 1: we had that whole confrontation tease the entire time, and
- 8:58Speaker 1: it was almost like, oh, we need that one moment
- 9:00Speaker 1: to just tease the entire time that will symbolize the ending.
- 9:04Speaker 1: Had a thousand and one moments of like uncertaintyam like
- 9:08Speaker 1: she's already like why did we need to like string
- 9:10Speaker 1: along even more? Like the guy looked like he was
- 9:13Speaker 1: about to pass out, literally could not go through anything more.
- 9:20Speaker 1: I really don't think so, like he had gone through
- 9:22Speaker 1: so much TURMOI already it was like pale. Yeah, it's
- 9:25Speaker 1: like Madison had left him, and then he's thinking Hannah
- 9:28Speaker 1: Ann has left him, and at that moment, I'm sure
- 9:30Speaker 1: like his whole world came crashing down, like I failed. Yeah.
- 9:35Speaker 1: I think he wanted so badly to just end up
- 9:38Speaker 1: with somebody that it didn't really matter who it was.
- 9:41Speaker 1: He just wanted this to be successful for him and
- 9:43Speaker 1: not be single at the end of it. Successful as
- 9:46Speaker 1: in like his heart is so filled, or successful as
- 9:48Speaker 1: in like he's a bachelor who chose a woman. I
- 9:51Speaker 1: think he just wanted to be a bachelor who chose
- 9:53Speaker 1: a woman. I mean, clearly he loves Maddie, but it's
- 9:57Speaker 1: just at the end of it, it seemed like that
- 9:59Speaker 1: if he was is going to just run to hand Anne.
- 10:01Speaker 1: So so then Chris comes and says she's coming, and
- 10:04Speaker 1: then she says hello, Chris Harrison, which was super awkward,
- 10:07Speaker 1: And then I think he's the only person that gets
- 10:12Speaker 1: like as by his whole name, like hi Chris Harrison,
- 10:15Speaker 1: Like it's not just Chris Chris Harrison. Chris on set.
- 10:22Speaker 1: So then Hannah and is of course emotional walking towards
- 10:27Speaker 1: the proposal. Peter starts his speech, we hear the heartbeats again,
- 10:31Speaker 1: and Peter starts to propose in the middle of the
- 10:34Speaker 1: proposal in something that sounds very edited, like, you know,
- 10:37Speaker 1: we gotta go back and watch it. But the sound
- 10:39Speaker 1: bite of him saying Maddie left two days ago sounded
- 10:42Speaker 1: like it was placed in the wrong spot. It was
- 10:46Speaker 1: maybe it was like a flint in the wrong spot,
- 10:48Speaker 1: because when they talked, she even said, you didn't bring
- 10:52Speaker 1: up that Maddie left until you were proposing to in
- 10:55Speaker 1: the middle of the proposal, And I was like, so,
- 10:58Speaker 1: you know, in another world, I didn't even know how
- 10:59Speaker 1: to and can we bring up how could a guy
- 11:03Speaker 1: bring up another girl during a proposal? Literally, no way
- 11:07Speaker 1: I would ever say yes to propose, Literally two sentences
- 11:11Speaker 1: of proposing, like, excuse me, what some of your second choice?
- 11:14Speaker 1: There's no way I would have And why are you
- 11:16Speaker 1: even thinking about another woman when you're about to ask
- 11:19Speaker 1: for my hand in marriage? So I think we all
- 11:21Speaker 1: said it was just like at that moment I would
- 11:23Speaker 1: have asked the context of that of her leaving. Yeah,
- 11:27Speaker 1: So for you guys to know, here sitting as a
- 11:29Speaker 1: group of women, I go, do you would you guys
- 11:32Speaker 1: stop him right there after that comment and been like, okay,
- 11:35Speaker 1: well that was that her decision or your decision when
- 11:38Speaker 1: she left and we all said we would want But
- 11:42Speaker 1: here's the thing. I think she was just in shock
- 11:44Speaker 1: because I don't think she thought that he was going
- 11:46Speaker 1: to propose, So I think she was like, she was
- 11:50Speaker 1: just too in shocked to stop and ask any questions.
- 11:52Speaker 1: Her face said it all like whenever he said he
- 11:54Speaker 1: finally said that he loved her, she looked in shock.
- 11:57Speaker 1: And I felt sad for her that she was like
- 12:01Speaker 1: she because he just gave her nothing the whole time,
- 12:03Speaker 1: and the fact that she had no clue and just
- 12:06Speaker 1: felt that shocked but still said yes, I feel like
- 12:09Speaker 1: that says a lot. This morning, Savannah and I were
- 12:12Speaker 1: talking about how we were. We were speculating that she
- 12:15Speaker 1: was going to leave on her own because she felt
- 12:18Speaker 1: so second place. I mean, hence why they teased her
- 12:21Speaker 1: not showing up, because I think like those feelings were
- 12:24Speaker 1: obviously lingering towards the proposal. But the fact that, yeah,
- 12:28Speaker 1: I don't know, it's just I would have I think
- 12:31Speaker 1: I would have stopped right then and there or whenever.
- 12:34Speaker 1: I mean, just the fact again that he said Madison's
- 12:37Speaker 1: name during the proposal, Like, again, that's like that moment
- 12:40Speaker 1: she was talking about this, He took that moment from
- 12:42Speaker 1: her that, you know, the engagement moment, and like, I
- 12:45Speaker 1: feel so sad for her, but you know what good
- 12:47Speaker 1: good for Hannah And because she handled that like a boss,
- 12:49Speaker 1: she said what she needed to say and it came
- 12:51Speaker 1: across in a good way. And she's strong. And I
- 12:54Speaker 1: think I speak for all of us as we said here,
- 12:57Speaker 1: like it's so empowering to tell a man like and
- 13:00Speaker 1: call him out and for him to be like, yeah,
- 13:03Speaker 1: I did that and admit it, because a lot of
- 13:05Speaker 1: the times they don't so good. Do we think that
- 13:08Speaker 1: Peter didn't go to Hannah and because that would have
- 13:11Speaker 1: been proof to her that she was second place, and
- 13:14Speaker 1: then she would have left. So he was like, I'm
- 13:16Speaker 1: not going to tell her because she's going to probably
- 13:19Speaker 1: leave when she hears this. No, I I don't think
- 13:21Speaker 1: she was conflicted, like because his mom wanted him to
- 13:26Speaker 1: be with her so badly. Yeah, but you know that
- 13:28Speaker 1: he was going to have to tell her at some
- 13:30Speaker 1: point that Maddie left on her own, and then she
- 13:31Speaker 1: was going to start to thinking, well, here's the question
- 13:35Speaker 1: I just thought of. If Maddie wouldn't have eliminated herself,
- 13:39Speaker 1: we all thank you for sure you think so, I didn't.
- 13:44Speaker 1: Really are you being sarcastic, No, I'm being for real.
- 13:48Speaker 1: It's like, was he just tempted because she played hard
- 13:52Speaker 1: to get because the guys love the chase, and she
- 13:55Speaker 1: definitely proposed that element of it. She's there for me.
- 14:02Speaker 1: I want to say, I don't think he would have
- 14:05Speaker 1: chosen Maddie if if Maddie wouldn't have left, I think
- 14:09Speaker 1: he still I think you would have chosen Hannah And
- 14:12Speaker 1: being somebody that was in the house with all of it.
- 14:14Speaker 1: Like I every girl that was on our season would
- 14:17Speaker 1: tell you that their connection was just like when she
- 14:21Speaker 1: would walk in the room, it was like none of
- 14:23Speaker 1: us existed Maddie, so like we knew from that first
- 14:29Speaker 1: one on one that they had. We just knew, you know,
- 14:32Speaker 1: I mean, at least I did, I know, Sidney did.
- 14:34Speaker 1: We talked about that earlier today. I was going to say,
- 14:36Speaker 1: earlier on part one of this podcast, they said that
- 14:40Speaker 1: Hannah And was an obvious second to Maddie in the house. Really, yeah,
- 14:44Speaker 1: I mean I think that their relationship was just um
- 14:48Speaker 1: more I mean obviously more fun um you know, because
- 14:52Speaker 1: Hannah Anne was just really lighthearted and everything. And I
- 14:56Speaker 1: think Maddie was just really taking this seriously and like
- 14:59Speaker 1: she said, um, you know, she just felt like this
- 15:02Speaker 1: was her journey to this wasn't just Peter. So I
- 15:06Speaker 1: think she's right in saying that too, like both people
- 15:09Speaker 1: have to choose each other. So glad that she called
- 15:11Speaker 1: barbab out on that. It was truly like one two
- 15:15Speaker 1: sentences that summed up everything. It was the ultimate comeback
- 15:18Speaker 1: at her because Barba made this entire episode last night
- 15:23Speaker 1: and tonight about her, about Peter and like Peter's happiness
- 15:28Speaker 1: and somebody choosing Peter and not a two way street,
- 15:31Speaker 1: like she wanted her son to find somebody who worshiped
- 15:35Speaker 1: him that would take care of him. Yeah, Amanda, anything no,
- 15:39Speaker 1: I was going to say, you also have to think
- 15:40Speaker 1: to like coming from Maddie is when you're in a
- 15:43Speaker 1: situation where you know that he might not pick you
- 15:46Speaker 1: at the end, you're automatically like protecting yourself, so you're
- 15:49Speaker 1: kind of guarding yourself, which is probably why she wasn't
- 15:52Speaker 1: saying openly that she was super in love with him
- 15:55Speaker 1: because she's protecting herself. So I think that makes sense too.
- 15:59Speaker 1: And also they had known each other for what like
- 16:00Speaker 1: six weeks at the time, so yeah, yeah. After the proposal,
- 16:06Speaker 1: we see Peter go home and he walks in the door.
- 16:10Speaker 1: He's about to announce to his family who he got
- 16:13Speaker 1: engaged to. The family finds out it was Hannah Ann
- 16:17Speaker 1: and then Um Barbe says things like he's with his person,
- 16:21Speaker 1: he followed his heart and like that, she goes crazy.
- 16:25Speaker 1: She's like blubbering again, which you know, no no emotional
- 16:28Speaker 1: shaming here, but the woman is a little overboard. This
- 16:33Speaker 1: is coming from me, um. And then she goes and
- 16:38Speaker 1: they lived happily ever after, which is the ultimate ironic statement.
- 16:43Speaker 1: Anybody's happy right now, it's including the audience. So before
- 16:49Speaker 1: I tweeted, I tweeted, um, Jane Fonda has nothing on
- 16:54Speaker 1: barbed hashtag monster in law. And somebody responded to my
- 16:59Speaker 1: tweet with a d M that Barb sent them last night.
- 17:06Speaker 1: I'll tell you what the tweet said after the break.
- 17:16Speaker 1: Before the break, I teased some teased that somebody had
- 17:22Speaker 1: tweeted me a d M from Peter's mom, and I
- 17:26Speaker 1: guess this person questioned why she just seemed to have
- 17:30Speaker 1: such a hatred towards Maddie for no really apparent reason
- 17:35Speaker 1: on Monday Nights episode, especially having that she met Maddie
- 17:39Speaker 1: earlier in the season and that's that date went swimmingly.
- 17:43Speaker 1: It seemed like they had a great bond. So this
- 17:46Speaker 1: is what Peter's mom said. Unfortunately, what wasn't shown was
- 17:52Speaker 1: how it all started. Madison had us wait for three
- 17:55Speaker 1: hours because she didn't want to come in to meet us,
- 17:58Speaker 1: which is interesting that she uses the word me us
- 18:00Speaker 1: because she already met that my son begged her to
- 18:05Speaker 1: do so once in she never offered an apology, to
- 18:09Speaker 1: which I wonder, Oh, she had to apologize for keeping
- 18:12Speaker 1: them waiting. So she goes, keep in mind, we traveled
- 18:15Speaker 1: across the world to meet both girls. Does this woman
- 18:18Speaker 1: not remember having met Madison and like had her be
- 18:22Speaker 1: there for their vow renewal and the reception. It was
- 18:27Speaker 1: like an extended period of time, not just a little
- 18:29Speaker 1: home popping anyway. Then she goes, when I asked her
- 18:32Speaker 1: if she loved my son, she said no and that
- 18:36Speaker 1: she would not accept the proposal from him in four days. Um.
- 18:40Speaker 1: Then I wondered to myself, what is she doing there?
- 18:43Speaker 1: Then my son Jack pointed out that Peter, in that
- 18:48Speaker 1: small amount of time that she was in there, was
- 18:50Speaker 1: all about herself and not about Peter. Trust me when
- 18:55Speaker 1: I say all that glitters is not gold? Thank you?
- 18:59Speaker 1: Um okay. So, so that basically reiterates what she said
- 19:02Speaker 1: on tonight's episode when Chris asked, why do you have
- 19:07Speaker 1: so much against this girl? And it is so petty?
- 19:10Speaker 1: Do you not think that this explanation is so petty
- 19:14Speaker 1: it seems really immature? Yeah? Well, also, do you really
- 19:17Speaker 1: think Mattie refused to come in? Sometimes it takes a
- 19:19Speaker 1: really long time for us to get up and wait.
- 19:23Speaker 1: You guys, if they tell you be ready for a
- 19:25Speaker 1: day in an hour, you know it's going to be
- 19:28Speaker 1: three hours. So I don't even know that. I believe
- 19:31Speaker 1: that she didn't want to come in. And even if
- 19:33Speaker 1: she didn't want to come in, we all know it
- 19:35Speaker 1: was because Maddie wasn't even sure like how she was
- 19:39Speaker 1: going to deal with the situation at hand, which was
- 19:41Speaker 1: him sleeping with the other women. When I also feel
- 19:43Speaker 1: like probably Maddie didn't want to use her very little
- 19:46Speaker 1: time that she had with a family to be like,
- 19:48Speaker 1: oh my gosh, I'm so sorry that they made us
- 19:50Speaker 1: wait three hours to come in here. Like she probably
- 19:52Speaker 1: she probably wanted to use family and faith is really
- 19:55Speaker 1: important to Maddie. So if she was going to go
- 19:58Speaker 1: into again me Peter's family, knowing that Peter had betrayed
- 20:02Speaker 1: her trust, why would she want to build that connection
- 20:06Speaker 1: with his family. I certainly wouldn't if I didn't see
- 20:10Speaker 1: it like a man. I was not in alignment with
- 20:12Speaker 1: a man and his core values, and I felt disrespected.
- 20:15Speaker 1: I would not want to go in and try to
- 20:17Speaker 1: be fake with his family. I agree. I agree with you.
- 20:20Speaker 1: Why would she? They had like a roadblock, right, so
- 20:24Speaker 1: she was probably like, I don't think it's appropriate of
- 20:26Speaker 1: me to be hanging out with your family right now.
- 20:28Speaker 1: We gotta absolutely not. Yeah, I think Maddie is a
- 20:30Speaker 1: real one. And I like applaud her for not going
- 20:33Speaker 1: in there and being like over the top. And I'm
- 20:34Speaker 1: not saying Hannah and was that's a totally different situation.
- 20:36Speaker 1: But I applaud Maddie for like not going in there
- 20:39Speaker 1: and being like, oh my gosh, everything's perfect. This is
- 20:42Speaker 1: the moment that we're talking about. When she actually did
- 20:45Speaker 1: meet his family, and Barb did ask her, and she
- 20:48Speaker 1: brought up her faith in values right to that well,
- 20:52Speaker 1: which we talked about this morning, and she knew what
- 20:54Speaker 1: was going to happen. I didn't like the way that
- 20:57Speaker 1: she made it seem like she gave her son an
- 21:00Speaker 1: ultimatum and that it will be clarified this this morning.
- 21:04Speaker 1: But basically Maddie was like, I didn't. I just told
- 21:06Speaker 1: him how I would feel if he chose that path.
- 21:10Speaker 1: Barb doesn't see this apparently. Yeah, I think the problem
- 21:15Speaker 1: is like I don't even know if I want to
- 21:17Speaker 1: get into it. Come on, get into it. Did y'all
- 21:19Speaker 1: talk about this yesterday's episode? I'm sure, but I'm just saying,
- 21:24Speaker 1: it's just like, why would you send you know this
- 21:26Speaker 1: guy is sexually active. Okay, he had sex four times
- 21:30Speaker 1: in a wind mail. Why would you go on a
- 21:31Speaker 1: season if you're giving him an ultimatum such as that.
- 21:35Speaker 1: It's just like, you know he's going to get engaged
- 21:38Speaker 1: at the end of this. And I'm sorry, but that's
- 21:40Speaker 1: kind of what fantasy seas there for not saying you
- 21:42Speaker 1: have to have sex with everybody, not saying that at all,
- 21:44Speaker 1: but I'm just saying, like, you need to find your person.
- 21:46Speaker 1: Not saying you need sex to find your person, but
- 21:48Speaker 1: I'm just saying it is possibility. Okay. So the fact is, like,
- 21:52Speaker 1: why is that not for this thing? If the guy
- 21:54Speaker 1: was a virgin, that's one thing, but he's not. Okay,
- 21:57Speaker 1: so famously very not. So why go on a season
- 22:01Speaker 1: if that's a huge thing for you. I would have
- 22:03Speaker 1: said that since day one. I guess I would have
- 22:05Speaker 1: said team met her, right. She didn't want him to
- 22:10Speaker 1: sleep with anyone else, But that's kind of an ultimatum, dude.
- 22:13Speaker 1: Like it's like you can go to fantasy suits, but
- 22:15Speaker 1: if you see anyone, like if you value relationship enough
- 22:18Speaker 1: and then that's how I feel, then he wouldn't want
- 22:21Speaker 1: to risk it. I mean, like because he knew that
- 22:22Speaker 1: she was the one, and then he'd be like, okay, yeah,
- 22:24Speaker 1: then I don't I don't have any interest in sleeping
- 22:26Speaker 1: with the other girl exactly. But the thing is like
- 22:28Speaker 1: he didn't, so like so I would just walk away then,
- 22:31Speaker 1: well exactly, I think walked away at that point or
- 22:36Speaker 1: she should have you know, let him have a chance,
- 22:39Speaker 1: Like I don't know, I wouldn't have been able to
- 22:41Speaker 1: do what she did, And then how do you go
- 22:43Speaker 1: back at the end of this episode and be like,
- 22:45Speaker 1: let's work through it and nothing's going to change. He
- 22:48Speaker 1: already slept with those people, Like what are you doing?
- 22:51Speaker 1: I'm sorry, but like it doesn't make any sense to me,
- 22:54Speaker 1: Like it doesn't make sense. I appreciate you have you
- 22:57Speaker 1: having this view, so saying Barb's frustration is trying to
- 23:00Speaker 1: get at essentially. So then she says that when I
- 23:04Speaker 1: asked her if she loved my son, she said no
- 23:06Speaker 1: and would not accept a proposal within four days. I
- 23:10Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, that's because that they were in the
- 23:13Speaker 1: middle of the roadblock. Again. She didn't say I don't
- 23:15Speaker 1: think she said no, I don't love your son. She
- 23:18Speaker 1: she probably said have you told my son that you
- 23:21Speaker 1: love him? And she was like, no, not yet because
- 23:25Speaker 1: of this thing. And then um, she was like, in
- 23:28Speaker 1: because of this thing, I probably am not ready to
- 23:31Speaker 1: accept a proposal. But then we go and see that
- 23:33Speaker 1: Maddie leaves after this, So then you think that Barb
- 23:37Speaker 1: would be like, Okay, props, she knew she left, she
- 23:40Speaker 1: wasn't ready right then, Why would she still hate her?
- 23:45Speaker 1: Why she still hate HERR would have like a little
- 23:47Speaker 1: more respect for Matt Yeah, you'd think that. Now after
- 23:50Speaker 1: seeing that, she was like, oh, you know why because
- 23:53Speaker 1: she knows that Hannah Ann and Pete broke up, and
- 23:56Speaker 1: she knows that Maddie was the reason. And Maddie even
- 24:00Speaker 1: showed up to surprise Peter when he thought he was
- 24:03Speaker 1: meeting Chris. So Mom was filled in and here she
- 24:07Speaker 1: is thinking like, oh, snap, is my son about to
- 24:11Speaker 1: get engaged to Maddie tonight? Amanda even now, I love
- 24:20Speaker 1: all these conspiracies. Okay, Well, she would talk about Hannah
- 24:25Speaker 1: and now and the way that she did slay that breakup.
- 24:29Speaker 1: I mean, I've never felt more connected to Hannah and
- 24:32Speaker 1: than I did when she was breaking up with Peter.
- 24:34Speaker 1: I was like, I feel her now, I get her.
- 24:37Speaker 1: She's standing up. First off, She's like, showed so much
- 24:39Speaker 1: strength and she did it. She was so she had
- 24:43Speaker 1: a lot of heart when she was doing it too.
- 24:45Speaker 1: She was like, I was here completely for you. I
- 24:49Speaker 1: think I was going to go through the thickest shit.
- 24:53Speaker 1: I think she was like sassy, but in a good,
- 24:55Speaker 1: like healthy way, not like a bitchy way, you know
- 24:57Speaker 1: what I mean. And I think she came across very
- 25:00Speaker 1: well read and honestly I feel like she's like an
- 25:04Speaker 1: inspiration to probably women in America all over because guys
- 25:07Speaker 1: are constantly telling us like I want this, this, this
- 25:10Speaker 1: your perfect everything, and they just drag us along just
- 25:14Speaker 1: enough until it's like too late. And I'm glad that
- 25:18Speaker 1: she's stood up for herself because it's like it's got
- 25:21Speaker 1: to stop at some point. So I feel like America
- 25:23Speaker 1: is probably really relating to Hannah and right now I
- 25:26Speaker 1: know I am. I'm too. I was really happy to
- 25:31Speaker 1: see Hannah Ann really step up because I know throughout
- 25:34Speaker 1: the season she's felt very youthful, and I definitely even questioned,
- 25:40Speaker 1: you know, last night on part one of the finale,
- 25:43Speaker 1: like is she ready to like be engaged, Like she
- 25:47Speaker 1: just feels very young, And to see how she handled
- 25:50Speaker 1: the situation and really stood her ground made me really commender.
- 25:55Speaker 1: I agree with you at first. I feel like in
- 25:58Speaker 1: that situation, like there's so much going on, it's very
- 26:00Speaker 1: easy to not speak your mind entirely. And I think
- 26:05Speaker 1: she hit every you know, bass thought that she needed
- 26:09Speaker 1: to hit, and I would walk away from the situation
- 26:12Speaker 1: being like I got off of my chest everything that
- 26:13Speaker 1: I needed to say, and I feel really good about it.
- 26:16Speaker 1: I've honestly applaud her for that entire scene because it
- 26:21Speaker 1: was just well spoken and very articulated, very very much. Yeah,
- 26:25Speaker 1: I was really proud to see that from her, Savannah,
- 26:29Speaker 1: anything about your friend Hannah, And I mean I actually
- 26:32Speaker 1: have never seen that side of her. Um. You know,
- 26:34Speaker 1: she was always just like the bubbly girl. So to
- 26:36Speaker 1: see her stand up for herself was really great because
- 26:40Speaker 1: I mean she needed to in that moment, and um, yeah,
- 26:43Speaker 1: I just was really proud of her. I think she
- 26:45Speaker 1: feels probably and I don't know Hannah, but I feel
- 26:47Speaker 1: like she probably thinks like she took a lot throughout
- 26:50Speaker 1: the whole season, like she was always giving, giving, giving,
- 26:53Speaker 1: and not getting anything in return. I think that was
- 26:55Speaker 1: finally her moment to be like, you know what, like
- 26:57Speaker 1: I'm just gonna say my side now and i am
- 26:59Speaker 1: going to have a backphone and I'm sick of it.
- 27:01Speaker 1: And I think it was probably like the last straw
- 27:03Speaker 1: and she just was like, you know what I've done.
- 27:07Speaker 1: Let's go through some of Hannah Anne's best quotes of
- 27:09Speaker 1: the night. She says to him, torn and conflicted, Peter,
- 27:13Speaker 1: you took the most precious moment from me because you
- 27:16Speaker 1: selfishly did not want me to walk away, and then
- 27:23Speaker 1: she says that she can't look at him anymore. She
- 27:27Speaker 1: needs a man that is true to his word. She says,
- 27:29Speaker 1: I don't need anything more from you. You've done enough damage.
- 27:33Speaker 1: She hands her ring back and says, and I mean that,
- 27:37Speaker 1: and then she goes, you betrayed me. I need to
- 27:40Speaker 1: get my life back on track now the way it
- 27:42Speaker 1: was before. All this so good she came with it.
- 27:47Speaker 1: I know, man, it makes me wish I was better
- 27:52Speaker 1: at at moments like that breakup. I was like, I'm like,
- 27:57Speaker 1: obviously I've never gonna I'm not gonna go through right up.
- 28:00Speaker 1: But but but it's like the next fight I have with jaredman,
- 28:02Speaker 1: if I could just talk to him like that, that
- 28:04Speaker 1: would be fun a rebuttal. He was just like, I
- 28:09Speaker 1: think that's I think that's what bothered me actually about
- 28:13Speaker 1: this season is that I was so rooting for Peter.
- 28:16Speaker 1: I was so excited when he was announced the Bachelor.
- 28:18Speaker 1: But with every episode we've watched, he has said fewer
- 28:23Speaker 1: and fewer words, and he will just sit there and
- 28:26Speaker 1: let people talk to him without even like responding and
- 28:31Speaker 1: even letting it register. It's like he is so afraid
- 28:34Speaker 1: of his of what he's going to say and how
- 28:38Speaker 1: his words can be used against him, that he just
- 28:39Speaker 1: doesn't want to say anything. And you can just see
- 28:41Speaker 1: him so in his head. And I know that because
- 28:44Speaker 1: I think back to that like infamous moment I had
- 28:47Speaker 1: with Bebiana when she Mike dropped me and I sat
- 28:51Speaker 1: there because like what people don't know is that, you know,
- 28:53Speaker 1: they told me, They're like, hey, are he's done, He's
- 28:55Speaker 1: getting ready to he's finishing an interview. You want to
- 28:58Speaker 1: go in for the just seem real quick? Before the
- 29:01Speaker 1: roadstar many about the start. I was like, of course
- 29:03Speaker 1: I do, and um I went in. He was sitting
- 29:06Speaker 1: with Babyona talking and like I was lied to. And
- 29:10Speaker 1: so when Babiona came out, I went up to her
- 29:13Speaker 1: and I go, hey, are you okay, Like I just
- 29:14Speaker 1: want you to know, like I didn't know you were
- 29:16Speaker 1: with him, and she like freaked out on me, as
- 29:20Speaker 1: we all saw, and I just sat there for rozen
- 29:24Speaker 1: in fear, just like, oh my god, I know exactly
- 29:28Speaker 1: how this is going to play out, and as it
- 29:31Speaker 1: was happening, I was like trying to grasp the reality
- 29:35Speaker 1: of the situation. So anyways, I saw that in Peter,
- 29:38Speaker 1: and I just wanted to be like, part of my
- 29:41Speaker 1: heart really goes out to him, you know, because I
- 29:44Speaker 1: was in that situation. I want to be like, this
- 29:47Speaker 1: is your story, don't let anyone write it for you.
- 29:51Speaker 1: Stop being in your head, like feel with your heart
- 29:55Speaker 1: and be present and like and make these decisions from
- 29:58Speaker 1: a heartfelt place. So I think, looking back, I'm sure
- 30:02Speaker 1: he has. I'm sure he has, like he said, made
- 30:06Speaker 1: a million and one mistakes and has had an extremely
- 30:11Speaker 1: experienced situation for him to grow from. Um. But I
- 30:16Speaker 1: really feel for him. I really do it as a
- 30:18Speaker 1: soft spot in my heart. You can tell that his
- 30:19Speaker 1: family comes from a lot of love and a lot
- 30:22Speaker 1: of emotion, and as much as that's a good thing,
- 30:24Speaker 1: I think that in this situation, it was probably one
- 30:26Speaker 1: of his biggest flaws because he was trying to please everybody,
- 30:30Speaker 1: and honestly, that was exactly it. He was just trying
- 30:33Speaker 1: to He was honestly just trying to make everybody else happy,
- 30:36Speaker 1: all the girls, the family, the producers, not himself, every
- 30:39Speaker 1: single person but himself, and not even doing this story
- 30:43Speaker 1: for himself. This is not his journey. He was conflicted.
- 30:45Speaker 1: You were every way because no matter what. Girls in
- 30:48Speaker 1: front of him. He was like, I want to help you,
- 30:50Speaker 1: like I want you to be it, like you're my
- 30:51Speaker 1: person hero everyone exactly. So I feel like he kind
- 30:55Speaker 1: of shot himself in the foot. How do we feel
- 30:57Speaker 1: about bar but clapping for Hannah and and sort of
- 31:00Speaker 1: abandoning her son in that moment during the live show. Wow,
- 31:04Speaker 1: I feel bad for Peter. But at least she like,
- 31:09Speaker 1: I don't know even as I mean, she's she's more
- 31:12Speaker 1: team hand hand and she is her own son. I
- 31:14Speaker 1: think that perhaps maybe she felt like she needed to
- 31:17Speaker 1: choose a side and she'd already made a choice and
- 31:20Speaker 1: wanted tip. Maybe it was like a choice driven from
- 31:23Speaker 1: ego where she's like, hey, I could I stood by
- 31:26Speaker 1: Hannah Ann and I'm going to follow through with that,
- 31:28Speaker 1: And maybe part of her was like perhaps she should
- 31:30Speaker 1: waive her a butt. There was some like pride in there. Yeah,
- 31:34Speaker 1: but also Hannah Anne had great points, so like how
- 31:37Speaker 1: could you not comment her? What? I mean, like she
- 31:39Speaker 1: like shut that beep down, you know what I mean?
- 31:43Speaker 1: I think everyone was clapping. Yeah, all right, we're gonna
- 31:47Speaker 1: take a break, and when we get back, I want
- 31:48Speaker 1: to talk about how this season finale was different than
- 31:52Speaker 1: Ari or Jason Mesnis. Okay, so we have another bachelor
- 32:03Speaker 1: who has now flip flop between their final two. First
- 32:07Speaker 1: there was Jason Mesnick about eleven years ago, then there
- 32:10Speaker 1: was already two years ago, and now here we have Peter.
- 32:13Speaker 1: This season is a little bit different though, because in
- 32:15Speaker 1: the other seasons, the lead the bachelor went after his
- 32:21Speaker 1: runner up, and in this case, I guess Maddie wasn't
- 32:24Speaker 1: technically his runner up, right, this was a girl that
- 32:27Speaker 1: left him. It's also different because in this case the
- 32:31Speaker 1: bachelor didn't go back for her. Chris Harrison went on
- 32:35Speaker 1: on his behalf and then in the other cases they
- 32:39Speaker 1: both ended up in marriage with the runner up. And
- 32:43Speaker 1: in this case, it doesn't even seem like we can
- 32:45Speaker 1: commit to a relationship date yeah, and we're not even
- 32:48Speaker 1: committing to a date yeah, cofee, Like there is no
- 32:54Speaker 1: mentioned going well, kind of left wondering, like after finishing
- 33:03Speaker 1: the show tonight, I'm like, what even happened? What's going on?
- 33:06Speaker 1: Like I feel like there wasn't like a concrete ending.
- 33:09Speaker 1: I'm just kind of like any closure, that's it? Like,
- 33:13Speaker 1: I don't know, I feel a little bit disappointed in
- 33:15Speaker 1: the finale, just because I wanted more answers, and I
- 33:19Speaker 1: feel and I mean, it's totally fine they don't have
- 33:21Speaker 1: their stuff figured out. I would rather than you know,
- 33:23Speaker 1: trek lightly than jump into something. But I'm still like, oh, okay,
- 33:29Speaker 1: like what's not already that happened? Okay? Cool. I don't know,
- 33:35Speaker 1: I feel weird, I guess, but I feel like I
- 33:37Speaker 1: started getting a little like like she's personal, Like I
- 33:42Speaker 1: didn't want to watch it anymore, Like it was just
- 33:44Speaker 1: like y'all got to kill each other. Yeah, I don't
- 33:46Speaker 1: want to call my husband out, but like he's been
- 33:48Speaker 1: saying for the past couple of weeks, he's like, I
- 33:50Speaker 1: think Peter is just like kind of a playboy, didn't
- 33:53Speaker 1: really have the intention on settling down this early in life.
- 33:57Speaker 1: And I think the past couple of weeks have really
- 33:59Speaker 1: shown that that might be true, especially with his family
- 34:01Speaker 1: talking about his lifestyle yesterday, don't. I don't know, So
- 34:06Speaker 1: like part of me is feeling like maybe Peter just
- 34:09Speaker 1: is like ready to be single again and like be
- 34:11Speaker 1: done with this bachelor life. Who's with me? Peter is
- 34:18Speaker 1: really over Hannah Brown? No, apparently not, because that needs
- 34:22Speaker 1: to be addressed. Yeah, I don't. Hannah Ann infers that
- 34:28Speaker 1: he reached out to Hannah by for closure in the
- 34:31Speaker 1: midst of their engagement. Why is gonna be thinking he
- 34:35Speaker 1: asked her to reach out. I think that's what she
- 34:38Speaker 1: was saying. Why would he feel even asked reach out
- 34:43Speaker 1: to Hannah Bee? But why is that necessary? You're in age,
- 34:47Speaker 1: you don't need to be like you shouldn't need to
- 34:49Speaker 1: do that. You do that before, Amanda. Why do you
- 34:54Speaker 1: think that he's like maybe still wanting to be on
- 34:57Speaker 1: that single track? I just think so far it seems
- 34:59Speaker 1: like he kind of wants what he can't have, So
- 35:03Speaker 1: he like was chasing Maddie because she left, and then
- 35:05Speaker 1: when he found out Hannah might not show up to
- 35:07Speaker 1: the road ceremony, then he proposes, and then as soon
- 35:10Speaker 1: as he had Hannah, as soon as he has Maddie.
- 35:12Speaker 1: I don't know. I felt like him and Maddie's body
- 35:15Speaker 1: language and everything was just kind of off tonight. I
- 35:18Speaker 1: couldn't really tell if he was still as into it
- 35:21Speaker 1: as we thought he was. Interesting is the scene that
- 35:24Speaker 1: we saw that was taped about a month ago out
- 35:26Speaker 1: here in l A when Maddie surprises him by that pool.
- 35:29Speaker 1: It seems like they're both genuinely into each other, very
- 35:32Speaker 1: excited to see each other. We had that, we we
- 35:35Speaker 1: sensed that closeness again really to me. Yeah, but then
- 35:38Speaker 1: he saw that. Yeah, but he watched the same thing too.
- 35:44Speaker 1: I saw Bashville too. Did he like sweet like he
- 35:51Speaker 1: couldn't like he couldn't like their foreheads were touched and
- 35:54Speaker 1: while they were talking like and what they were saying
- 35:57Speaker 1: was intimate. I agree with you there, but he would
- 36:00Speaker 1: he could not look her in the eyes, Maddie, if
- 36:02Speaker 1: you would like watch it back. Maddie kept looking up
- 36:05Speaker 1: at Peter like while he was talking. While they were talking,
- 36:07Speaker 1: he never looked back. I started, I'm sure he's embarrassed.
- 36:15Speaker 1: I have Yeah, I have to go back to what
- 36:16Speaker 1: Nanda said, because amandamate an amazing point. She goes he
- 36:19Speaker 1: wants and he doesn't have. And I want to add
- 36:22Speaker 1: onemart point because we saw it tonight with a finale,
- 36:24Speaker 1: because Maddie came out and she goes, I love Peter,
- 36:26Speaker 1: I want to be with Peter. His response, probably not
- 36:30Speaker 1: gonna work out, and then his mom, you know what,
- 36:34Speaker 1: Chris Harrison, he goes, do you love Maddie? And then
- 36:36Speaker 1: he goes yeah, like pause, and then he say yeah,
- 36:45Speaker 1: and then mom barbed jumps in and tears Maddie down,
- 36:53Speaker 1: and then Peter defends Maddie and says he loves her.
- 36:56Speaker 1: I'm just like what Chris Can asked Peter to interfere?
- 37:02Speaker 1: Wasn't he like, Peter don't have something to say? Peter
- 37:04Speaker 1: didn't just go ahead and say it on his own, right, Yeah,
- 37:08Speaker 1: so it was like he had to be asked, which
- 37:10Speaker 1: would kind of bother me. But I mean maybe it
- 37:13Speaker 1: was like that tonight because his parents were there watching
- 37:15Speaker 1: and he was trying not to be into Maddie because
- 37:18Speaker 1: of his parents. But still, like Peter's in an awkward
- 37:21Speaker 1: spot no matter what. But I feel like everybody is
- 37:23Speaker 1: like I wouldn't want to be anybody I don't want to.
- 37:25Speaker 1: I mean, Peter and hero asked man. Despite his actions,
- 37:29Speaker 1: he is a grown ask man and he put himself
- 37:31Speaker 1: in this position. And you know what, overbearing mom or not,
- 37:35Speaker 1: it's up to him to say, Mom, here my boundaries
- 37:38Speaker 1: and I need you to respect them, and it's his
- 37:40Speaker 1: job to uphold those boundaries. But I do think he
- 37:43Speaker 1: kind of defended himself to his mom. He did, he did,
- 37:48Speaker 1: he said, I need you guys to listen to me.
- 37:50Speaker 1: He said that, And I think it's because he probably
- 37:53Speaker 1: watched he was there last night and she got you
- 37:56Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like it was just a
- 37:57Speaker 1: bad episode last night. I think he's just so torn
- 38:00Speaker 1: in between, like wanting to defend his mom because obviously
- 38:02Speaker 1: he loves his mom, but he's like, come on, she's
- 38:05Speaker 1: like kind of being unreasonable. So, speaking of the mom
- 38:08Speaker 1: being unreasonable, we talked earl. We yeah, we talked earlier
- 38:13Speaker 1: about the fact that, um, you know, Madison says, you know,
- 38:16Speaker 1: this is a relationship is a two way street. This
- 38:18Speaker 1: is my journey as well as his journey. I signed
- 38:20Speaker 1: up for this for love, and he signed up for
- 38:22Speaker 1: this for love. And then the mom responds, and this
- 38:26Speaker 1: is what we haven't discussed yet. She says, this crazy shit.
- 38:31Speaker 1: She goes, She goes, He's just going to have to
- 38:35Speaker 1: fail to succeed and all his family and friends and
- 38:39Speaker 1: know that this will not last. And you guys, how
- 38:44Speaker 1: embarrassed is Mr Peter right now? He had his head
- 38:48Speaker 1: down the whole time. This is going to cause marital problems.
- 38:51Speaker 1: He's gonna want to look at his wife for like
- 38:53Speaker 1: weeks because she's like embarrassing herself. I think there's like
- 38:57Speaker 1: a place opinion. I totally get that as as like
- 39:01Speaker 1: as parents voice your opinion and your concern, but after
- 39:04Speaker 1: your child is like, listen, I've got this, this is
- 39:06Speaker 1: how I'm feeling. Then back down. You don't have to
- 39:08Speaker 1: sit there and tear down Maddie that. When when she
- 39:12Speaker 1: said that, I was like my mouth dropped. I was like,
- 39:15Speaker 1: did she just really say that? No way is it
- 39:17Speaker 1: okay to rip people down? And for her to sit
- 39:21Speaker 1: there on stage at the finale online television and speak
- 39:28Speaker 1: to Maddie that way, you know, I'm just like, what
- 39:31Speaker 1: did Maddie do? Maddie has only come across as a
- 39:35Speaker 1: very kind, respectable woman, Savannah, you have anything else to
- 39:38Speaker 1: say about I think she's just threatened by her I
- 39:42Speaker 1: don't think. I don't know how the old tomatum like
- 39:46Speaker 1: like this is stemming around the whole ultimatum thing, right,
- 39:49Speaker 1: Like what else did Maddie do nothing? So like for
- 39:51Speaker 1: her to have like so much animosity towards her, it
- 39:54Speaker 1: just doesn't make sense. It's like there's That's why I
- 39:57Speaker 1: feel like there's something missing. It's that you know, Annie
- 40:00Speaker 1: doesn't party doesn't dream, doesn't have sex. Peter does all
- 40:03Speaker 1: those things, and his parents no obviously, And I think
- 40:09Speaker 1: her mom was just like, I don't want a woman
- 40:11Speaker 1: to come in and change my man, like right, I
- 40:13Speaker 1: think I'm sure I was talking. I was with Rachel
- 40:15Speaker 1: Lindsay yesterday and she was talking. She's like, Barb is
- 40:17Speaker 1: my mother in law. Like I get, it's like the
- 40:20Speaker 1: Latina mother in law. It's very overbearing, very strong, and
- 40:23Speaker 1: they feel very threatened by the women coming into technically
- 40:27Speaker 1: take over her role within Peter's life. I was going
- 40:32Speaker 1: to say, it seems very monster in law, where it
- 40:34Speaker 1: is like some weird thing of like almost jealousy, like
- 40:40Speaker 1: there's a very territory. And I think that she actually
- 40:43Speaker 1: saw that Maddie had that power because she goes, if
- 40:47Speaker 1: Peter will change, he'll leave me. Oh she did say that.
- 40:50Speaker 1: I mean she didn't say it pretty yeah, right, I
- 40:56Speaker 1: mean does that make sense? Yeah? Yeah, That's kind of
- 40:59Speaker 1: why I felt like Hannah and would just be like
- 41:02Speaker 1: go along with that addition easing. Yeah. I think like
- 41:06Speaker 1: Maddie wants to start her own thing outside of that,
- 41:09Speaker 1: and I think Hannah and well, maybe this is just
- 41:12Speaker 1: how his mom perceived it, but like maybe she just thought, okay,
- 41:15Speaker 1: like Hannah and she'll just like fall in and you know,
- 41:18Speaker 1: maybe we'll all live together in the house. And like
- 41:21Speaker 1: she really go by Hannah and or did she just
- 41:23Speaker 1: goes by Handah because she has handed from Alabama just
- 41:27Speaker 1: like the other handed from Alabama. She's Kinnese. But yeah,
- 41:30Speaker 1: I think she just didn't want to be another Hannah
- 41:33Speaker 1: that Hannah and is maybe an add on um. The
- 41:36Speaker 1: last thing that I wanted to add there is I
- 41:39Speaker 1: called my sister really quickly after the finale and I'm
- 41:43Speaker 1: just like, can you believe Barba? Like I can't believe this?
- 41:45Speaker 1: And then she goes. I think she might be the
- 41:47Speaker 1: most villainous villain we've ever seen on the show. There's
- 41:50Speaker 1: our villain villain has no idea like how it all works,
- 41:58Speaker 1: like they were showing her constantly to do some really
- 42:01Speaker 1: bad Apparently I'm crossing the line? Am I crossing the line?
- 42:05Speaker 1: I feel I just have no idea. Getting ready to
- 42:09Speaker 1: say I think Barb has no idea because like I
- 42:11Speaker 1: don't think she realizes like how like the producers work
- 42:14Speaker 1: and like that the cameras are on her at all times,
- 42:17Speaker 1: Like I don't agree. I think most people who aren't
- 42:20Speaker 1: on the show, which Barb technically wasn't realized, like you're
- 42:24Speaker 1: you're being watched like no matter where you are. So
- 42:27Speaker 1: I feel like she probably isn't realizing, like everyone's watching
- 42:32Speaker 1: her like a hawk now and she's just getting like
- 42:34Speaker 1: brutalized for it. But also like after last night, I
- 42:37Speaker 1: can't I can't speak for her tonight because after last night,
- 42:39Speaker 1: like I feel like she got a taste of it.
- 42:40Speaker 1: You should have a little bit. I don't say this.
- 42:44Speaker 1: Has there ever been a mom or a family member
- 42:48Speaker 1: that has been brought in that has been completely either
- 42:53Speaker 1: I feel like a family member hasn't had really that
- 42:59Speaker 1: has been we just don't know it, Like Barb doesn't
- 43:01Speaker 1: know that there's a little square of her face like
- 43:06Speaker 1: she didn't know. Like I feel like they did barbed dirty. Yeah,
- 43:11Speaker 1: but you know that she talked to a producer earlier
- 43:13Speaker 1: and they prepped her just the way they wouldn't normally.
- 43:16Speaker 1: There's no way I would react like that, So they
- 43:22Speaker 1: probably didn't. You think they did. I don't think that did.
- 43:24Speaker 1: And she went along. Isn't that the best game? That's
- 43:29Speaker 1: the best I know who said that? Yeah, her Rild
- 43:36Speaker 1: literally something was actually said tonight and I was like,
- 43:39Speaker 1: that sounds like some in someone. I know there's certain lines,
- 43:42Speaker 1: especially the corny ones. That person didn't come up with it,
- 43:46Speaker 1: And so all right, well, is there anything that you
- 43:50Speaker 1: guys can think that we didn't cover that was gigantic?
- 43:55Speaker 1: I just still feel like there's a puzzle piece missing.
- 43:58Speaker 1: I com completely agree. I feel like there's to be
- 44:00Speaker 1: a bonus episode. Yeah, there's so much missing. There was
- 44:05Speaker 1: just so many holes, so many holes. Is that because
- 44:10Speaker 1: we didn't get a three hour finale or is that
- 44:14Speaker 1: making us was that intentional to make us feel like
- 44:17Speaker 1: a sense of emptiness in the end of all that?
- 44:19Speaker 1: It just feels very unfulfilling. And it's surprising because I
- 44:25Speaker 1: know that The Bachelor really is about finding love and stories,
- 44:28Speaker 1: and I mean, this ending was just I mean, what's
- 44:32Speaker 1: sad is that this is kind of how a lot
- 44:35Speaker 1: of relationships go. Yeah, and they didn't fantasize it. They
- 44:41Speaker 1: just showed a very raw, real truth. And I think
- 44:47Speaker 1: a lot of us just have this expectation of what
- 44:50Speaker 1: we want a fairy tale to be, but the reality
- 44:52Speaker 1: is that fairy tales don't exist. And I think we
- 44:55Speaker 1: saw that tonight. This is the third season now the
- 45:00Speaker 1: we're not getting a traditional ending. Yeah, I just didn't
- 45:03Speaker 1: feel the fields this season. You know. I feel like
- 45:06Speaker 1: it was hard to connect with a lot of the girls,
- 45:09Speaker 1: and then with the finale, I wasn't. I was just like, Okay, Savannah,
- 45:14Speaker 1: how do you feel about the flag that your season
- 45:16Speaker 1: has been getting. I'm not gonna lie, it's kind of
- 45:20Speaker 1: embarrassing just because, like you know, I'm lumped into that
- 45:25Speaker 1: even though I wasn't that kind of person on the show,
- 45:28Speaker 1: so you know, and then I do get frustrated. Like
- 45:31Speaker 1: looking back, like I said earlier today, it's like it
- 45:33Speaker 1: is frustrating to know that like he did give in
- 45:36Speaker 1: to all of this. Um, I don't know. I just
- 45:39Speaker 1: didn't feel like he was easily swayed by other people,
- 45:43Speaker 1: and you know, he was manipulated and I don't know,
- 45:47Speaker 1: it just it all just is really frustrating to watch,
- 45:51Speaker 1: do you think. And I'm sad. I wanted, you know,
- 45:53Speaker 1: I really wanted him to end up with Maddie just because,
- 45:56Speaker 1: like I said, like that love was like undeniable, but
- 46:00Speaker 1: then we just saw it just doesn't it didn't feel
- 46:02Speaker 1: like that love was there anymore, And so it's just
- 46:04Speaker 1: kind of like you're just saw sad. You just want
- 46:06Speaker 1: the happy ending to the you know, maybe Peter was
- 46:10Speaker 1: just so defeated that he had no love to give.
- 46:15Speaker 1: Maybe yeah, but he was so hopeful in the beginning.
- 46:17Speaker 1: There's no way. I just feel like there's has a
- 46:20Speaker 1: lot to do with it. But that was the beginning.
- 46:22Speaker 1: With September, it's March been through a lot. I mean,
- 46:25Speaker 1: imagine Hannah be coming in the beginning months. I think
- 46:30Speaker 1: I said this is somebody yesterday. I honestly and I
- 46:33Speaker 1: have no idea, but this is just an inference. I'm wondering.
- 46:36Speaker 1: I feel like ever since Hannah By showed up in
- 46:39Speaker 1: the season, he has been different. Like I'm wondering if
- 46:43Speaker 1: she never showed up or they brought her on or
- 46:45Speaker 1: however that happened. Can I just say, I feel like
- 46:47Speaker 1: it maybe it would have gone a little differently there
- 46:50Speaker 1: on that So on night one even it was like
- 46:55Speaker 1: shifted and it was like so like right when I
- 46:58Speaker 1: got out of the limo, um, you know, I did
- 47:01Speaker 1: like the whole blindfold and made out with him, and
- 47:03Speaker 1: he was even like I kind of pulled back and
- 47:05Speaker 1: he just like went in even harder, and yes I was,
- 47:10Speaker 1: but yeah, anyways, um, yeah, so he was great like
- 47:14Speaker 1: in that moment and like you could just you know,
- 47:16Speaker 1: you could just see it in someone's eyes, like they're excited.
- 47:18Speaker 1: And and then the second time I talked to him,
- 47:21Speaker 1: it was right after he had talked to Hannaby, and
- 47:23Speaker 1: it was like the life was like sucked out of him,
- 47:25Speaker 1: like he just yeah, it was like he was smiling,
- 47:28Speaker 1: but like his eyes weren't smiling, like he just wasn't there.
- 47:31Speaker 1: Like it was just like his mind was with Hannaby,
- 47:33Speaker 1: Like he kind of got choked up when he came
- 47:35Speaker 1: to talk to us, and it was just I don't know,
- 47:37Speaker 1: I did feel like he wasn't over her. And then
- 47:41Speaker 1: when we saw her again on our second or on
- 47:43Speaker 1: our first group date, I was just like, this guy
- 47:46Speaker 1: is not over her. And I think he really tried,
- 47:49Speaker 1: but ultimately he just didn't find the person that was
- 47:52Speaker 1: better for him than Hannaby. I also have to say,
- 47:55Speaker 1: you guys have to realize how much the bachelor slash
- 47:59Speaker 1: Bachelor goes through every single day, like you really don't
- 48:02Speaker 1: have time to process things. And when he said at
- 48:05Speaker 1: the end of episode he's like I had two days
- 48:07Speaker 1: to process what just happened with Madison, And like, sure,
- 48:09Speaker 1: you have two days and you could have talked to her,
- 48:11Speaker 1: but like you just realize, like that person that you
- 48:14Speaker 1: were in love with just like left, and like you're
- 48:17Speaker 1: supposed to just jump into another one kind of thing.
- 48:19Speaker 1: You to get what I'm trying to say, It's just
- 48:21Speaker 1: it's just a lot for someone to go through, especially
- 48:23Speaker 1: in and the two days weren't Peter's situation because Hannah
- 48:27Speaker 1: didn't end up with anyone, so I think he still
- 48:29Speaker 1: had that lingering hope that could end up together. And
- 48:32Speaker 1: the two days were in black days, they were feel
- 48:35Speaker 1: still coming at interviews he had he had his final
- 48:40Speaker 1: day with Hannah, and two in those two days because
- 48:42Speaker 1: I think can Anne's date was after. So it's just constantly, Yes,
- 48:46Speaker 1: you sign up for that as a bachelor, and I
- 48:48Speaker 1: understand that, but it's like you have ten minutes to
- 48:51Speaker 1: make a decision and emotionally stick with it. So like
- 48:54Speaker 1: I feel bad for him, Like you know, so I
- 48:57Speaker 1: wouldn't want to be any It's just a lot. What's
- 49:01Speaker 1: crazy is that I Peter was the golden child. I
- 49:08Speaker 1: mean they wanted him to be Ben Higgins two points.
- 49:11Speaker 1: That's what I kept saying, and he became Yeah. I
- 49:16Speaker 1: just hope that Peter has a support unit to really
- 49:21Speaker 1: help him over the next couple of months, that he's
- 49:26Speaker 1: not going to fall into party or bad old habits
- 49:31Speaker 1: and really has like a healthy support unit to um,
- 49:34Speaker 1: you know, like rebuild himself and find himself. And I
- 49:36Speaker 1: think we all we've all been through this process. We've
- 49:39Speaker 1: all gone through the show. We've all had moments that
- 49:41Speaker 1: we wish we could take back or change or be better.
- 49:44Speaker 1: And I'm sure right now he's just running those all
- 49:46Speaker 1: through his head, like God, if only I could have
- 49:49Speaker 1: changed out one thing, the one thing that would have
- 49:52Speaker 1: been him not sleeping with together too, could you imagine
- 49:55Speaker 1: what the season could have ended like? So much further
- 49:58Speaker 1: than that, I think so absolute, reolutely. I think it
- 50:01Speaker 1: goes back with him feeling strong in his own two
- 50:05Speaker 1: feet and feeling completely confident in his own decision making abilities.
- 50:12Speaker 1: I think when people yeah, no, I think that I
- 50:15Speaker 1: think he doubted himself and maybe doubted his ability. He
- 50:18Speaker 1: was ripped from you know, Barb's breast to be the Bachelor,
- 50:28Speaker 1: and you're like, you know, he's like Mommy, No, I
- 50:33Speaker 1: didn't say that. I like joke, but but really I
- 50:37Speaker 1: think that he maybe didn't know, um really what he wanted,
- 50:41Speaker 1: and maybe he wasn't in a position to make that decision.
- 50:44Speaker 1: I think people forget that, Like we were saying, like
- 50:47Speaker 1: we've all been through the show, so we get this,
- 50:49Speaker 1: And that's why I think people forget viewing at home
- 50:51Speaker 1: that like, everybody makes mistakes. Ours are just filmed for
- 50:55Speaker 1: America to judge. So like when people I like, I
- 50:58Speaker 1: don't want people to be harsh on Barber, I mean ours,
- 51:03Speaker 1: but they're healthy, vis But like, I just think I
- 51:06Speaker 1: think it's it's people forget. You know, they were talking
- 51:08Speaker 1: about online bullying lass you know, during Women Tell All.
- 51:11Speaker 1: But like everyone makes mistakes and Peter has even said
- 51:14Speaker 1: he's made a hundred mistakes during the season, but like
- 51:16Speaker 1: a million in one. Yeah, but ours are just filmed. Yeah,
- 51:20Speaker 1: and we all have a lot of sympathy for going. Yeah,
- 51:23Speaker 1: I know. I can't even imagine what their social media
- 51:26Speaker 1: looks like. Oh no, I don't even wanting It's not fair.
- 51:29Speaker 1: I don't want to. I can't even imagine. I hope
- 51:31Speaker 1: they're not reading it. They really should, like go on
- 51:34Speaker 1: a foreign vacation the whole family for a while. Corona,
- 51:38Speaker 1: Well they're stuck here. Oh my gosh, away Hanada. Does
- 51:45Speaker 1: this mean that barbs going? Do we think it's weird
- 51:49Speaker 1: that they didn't give Peter and Maddie um a little
- 51:53Speaker 1: happy couple date after they reconnected. I thought that was
- 51:57Speaker 1: very strange. They may have way to sidency know that
- 52:00Speaker 1: it was the first time that they each other, if
- 52:03Speaker 1: you really wanted to. I just don't know. It wasn't.
- 52:07Speaker 1: I was just Amanda speaking, I said. I think that
- 52:12Speaker 1: that was kind of weird to me too, that they
- 52:13Speaker 1: hadn't seen each other since that day, because they probably couldn't.
- 52:17Speaker 1: I just don't know if Peter knows. My only thing
- 52:21Speaker 1: is that maybe they wanted it to be so awkward.
- 52:24Speaker 1: They wanted the after the final rose to feel like
- 52:27Speaker 1: it did, and they knew that if they were to
- 52:29Speaker 1: get a weekend together that they probably would be bonded
- 52:32Speaker 1: enough in order to be like, yeah, we're in a relationship.
- 52:36Speaker 1: Or were they really just afraid that they'd be exposed
- 52:41Speaker 1: because they tried so much to control the leaking, the
- 52:45Speaker 1: mole of the Bachelor and the spoilers coming out, So
- 52:50Speaker 1: maybe there was that element too. We gotta take one
- 52:53Speaker 1: last break. When we come back, I'm going to get
- 52:54Speaker 1: an update on these girls lives. Stay tuned. All right,
- 53:05Speaker 1: let's go down the row. Angela, what's the status with
- 53:09Speaker 1: your love life? Um? I am single, and you know,
- 53:15Speaker 1: I'm going on dates and talking to people and having fun.
- 53:18Speaker 1: Nothing nothing concrete. Still haven't found a guy I think
- 53:22Speaker 1: I wanna stick with for a minute. But I'm still
- 53:25Speaker 1: super hopeful and as always, you guys know, I'm the
- 53:27Speaker 1: hopeless romantic and uh yeah, but I'm still single and
- 53:31Speaker 1: just working on my YouTube and traveling and just doing
- 53:34Speaker 1: all the things. So I'm just having some like me
- 53:36Speaker 1: time right now, and honestly, and it's great, Amanda. Your
- 53:39Speaker 1: sister just moved to l A and you've been spending
- 53:42Speaker 1: more time out here, right. Yeah, So we got a
- 53:44Speaker 1: place together up here. It's so nice. So when you're
- 53:47Speaker 1: not with the girls, you hang up here. Yeah. And
- 53:50Speaker 1: then when I'm working up here, I have a place
- 53:52Speaker 1: up here, and then I still have my place in
- 53:53Speaker 1: Orange County too, so the girls will come up here
- 53:55Speaker 1: and stay with me sometimes too. Nice And yeah, it's
- 53:58Speaker 1: been good. Do you have another life up dates? Gross? Um?
- 54:02Speaker 1: Nothing really. So my clothing line just launched at Bloomingdales,
- 54:06Speaker 1: which is exciting. Not really, I have clothes up Bloomingdales.
- 54:13Speaker 1: That's amazing. Lonnie the label love from Me. I love
- 54:18Speaker 1: your stuff. It's so cute. Thank you. So that's exciting,
- 54:23Speaker 1: But nothing really other than that. That's really incredible. That's
- 54:26Speaker 1: pretty big news. Um. Okay, So Crystal, Um, what's the
- 54:31Speaker 1: status with you and Chris? Now? Are you guys like
- 54:34Speaker 1: speaking on a regular basis? Um? Anything you're open to sharing? Yeah? No,
- 54:39Speaker 1: thank you for asking. Chris and I are, you know,
- 54:44Speaker 1: still best friends that really love each other and we
- 54:46Speaker 1: talk every single day and the last I think it's
- 54:50Speaker 1: been about a month since we separated. It's interesting because
- 54:54Speaker 1: I was telling Angela, I just felt such a happiness
- 54:57Speaker 1: and sadness, and guy slept on his side of the
- 55:01Speaker 1: bed every night. And we had a really huge breakthrough
- 55:06Speaker 1: about a week ago where we realized there was just
- 55:09Speaker 1: so much um projection that was going on with each
- 55:14Speaker 1: other and where we really had to just take this
- 55:18Speaker 1: time to understand and work through things within ourselves before
- 55:24Speaker 1: we could really show up for one another in a relationship.
- 55:27Speaker 1: And so we've decided that we are going to be,
- 55:30Speaker 1: you know, living apart but kind of coming back together
- 55:37Speaker 1: in a way that's almost like dating again, conscious recoupling. Yeah,
- 55:43Speaker 1: something like that. And out of the media because I
- 55:46Speaker 1: think there was just so many, so much opinions about
- 55:48Speaker 1: our relationship, and I think that was really difficult to
- 55:51Speaker 1: have so much, so many people saying so many things
- 55:54Speaker 1: about opinion eating the relationship. So we just had to
- 55:59Speaker 1: peel it back and that we're in a really good place.
- 56:03Speaker 1: That's great. I'm really really happy to hear that. Thank you.
- 56:06Speaker 1: How how the dog has been, Oh my god, they
- 56:09Speaker 1: think they be Mommy's little voice. And Tasia, I feel
- 56:16Speaker 1: like the most recent rumored thing about your life is
- 56:21Speaker 1: that you were in the running to be the Bachelorette.
- 56:23Speaker 1: I feel like you were like one of the top
- 56:25Speaker 1: three girls in the running. Yeah, and um, anything you'd
- 56:28Speaker 1: like to share about that, UM, Aside from the fact
- 56:32Speaker 1: I'm actually really happy it's Claire, I feel like, um, honestly,
- 56:37Speaker 1: we both probably have like the same the same objective. UM.
- 56:42Speaker 1: In my interviews of talking about possibly being the Bachelor,
- 56:44Speaker 1: I've always said, like, I really want to bring it
- 56:46Speaker 1: back to what bachelor was originally to me and that
- 56:50Speaker 1: was what it was a couple of years ago, and
- 56:52Speaker 1: really just finding love and like getting away from this
- 56:54Speaker 1: stupid drama and social media crap. And um, I love
- 57:00Speaker 1: is such a beautiful thing and I feel like you
- 57:03Speaker 1: can really find your person if you really take it seriously.
- 57:05Speaker 1: And I'm actually really excited for Claire. I think she
- 57:08Speaker 1: is not gonna take any bullshit, which I'm excited for.
- 57:10Speaker 1: She's gonna have older men, which that's exciting because that
- 57:13Speaker 1: means they're going to be added to our pool people
- 57:16Speaker 1: like no offense. Like I tried the younger thing, but
- 57:20Speaker 1: like the older thing might be cool too. But UM,
- 57:24Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm just really really excited for her. Okay,
- 57:27Speaker 1: that's so nice. That's really nice. I genuinely feel like
- 57:30Speaker 1: you feel that. No, definitely, it's not. I'm not just
- 57:33Speaker 1: saying that just to say that. Were you a fan
- 57:35Speaker 1: back in the day. Um, to be honest, Claire is
- 57:38Speaker 1: new to me. Really. Yes, So I started ben season, Um,
- 57:42Speaker 1: but my girlfriends had watched it every single monay. Say
- 57:45Speaker 1: I've heard them for years talk about Bachelor and all
- 57:48Speaker 1: this stuff, and um, when I did kind of binge
- 57:51Speaker 1: watch it, I was like, this is actually really cool,
- 57:53Speaker 1: and I feel like Benez really in it. Jojo found
- 57:55Speaker 1: her true love in it, you know, I mean like
- 57:57Speaker 1: it was just like a really good, I don't know streak. Yeah,
- 58:01Speaker 1: and then all of a sudden, I mean also Rachel
- 58:04Speaker 1: found love back of found love, but it's just lately
- 58:07Speaker 1: it's gotten kind of out of hand. Yeah. Alright, well, guys,
- 58:11Speaker 1: I think that concludes our Bachelor finale podcast and that
- 58:15Speaker 1: makes me so sad. Lastly, Savannah, have you heard about
- 58:21Speaker 1: a possibility of you being in Paradise? I hope, I am. Okay,
- 58:25Speaker 1: so I know that you were a little shy this
- 58:27Speaker 1: time around, but you're still wanting to go and do
- 58:30Speaker 1: the process again. Yes, I think, Um, you've got some
- 58:34Speaker 1: time to think about it. Yeah, I know, I think.
- 58:36Speaker 1: I just like, really I need to talk to you all,
- 58:38Speaker 1: like I just need um some guidance, I think. And
- 58:42Speaker 1: but I mean I do believe it works and I
- 58:45Speaker 1: want to find my man. So yeah, give me a
- 58:49Speaker 1: good opportunity. It works better than going to a random bar.
- 58:53Speaker 1: I think your odds are higher because if you do
- 58:55Speaker 1: like the math on it, it's like, okay, so you
- 58:58Speaker 1: put that many people in a ball would like one
- 59:01Speaker 1: couple come out of that bar married at the end
- 59:03Speaker 1: of the day. Like, no, there's a lot of like
- 59:07Speaker 1: minded people. Yeah, is there anyone from a previous season
- 59:10Speaker 1: you would love to meet in Paradise? M honestly like,
- 59:16Speaker 1: I there's not, really, Yes, there is, Yes, there's There
- 59:23Speaker 1: was one guy that I thought was really really cute
- 59:26Speaker 1: and he actually is kind of talking to one of
- 59:30Speaker 1: my friends, so I'm like, okay, well he's aliding into
- 59:32Speaker 1: the d MS already. Yes, and he kind of lived
- 59:36Speaker 1: by me too. That was like perfect. But when you
- 59:38Speaker 1: live really close friends, where do you live? I live
- 59:41Speaker 1: in Houston? Houston, Mike, wasn't Mike Mike's Texas? Oh my god?
- 59:50Speaker 1: Is it Connor? Her eyes twitching? We're gonna end that
- 1:00:00Speaker 1: this podcast on that t all right, you guys. It's
- 1:00:04Speaker 1: been a blast doing this the past day, recapping the
- 1:00:10Speaker 1: most dramatic Bachelor finale of all time? Truly, truly? Right?
- 1:00:14Speaker 1: I mean, is that? Is there any doubt to that? No? Alright, Well,
- 1:00:18Speaker 1: we thank you guys for being here and joining me,
- 1:00:21Speaker 1: Angela for flying out, Savannah for you know, also flying out,
- 1:00:27Speaker 1: and um. We will be back next week with a
- 1:00:33Speaker 1: non season episode with an update apparently. Are you gonna
- 1:00:38Speaker 1: get some Harrison updates for us to him? You already
- 1:00:41Speaker 1: talked to Harrison today about about whatever just happened within
- 1:00:44Speaker 1: the three hours they wrapped the live show. So we'll
- 1:00:47Speaker 1: be coming will be coming to you with that news
- 1:00:50Speaker 1: next week. We love you guys so much, and we
- 1:00:53Speaker 1: miss Ben so much that he's been away and having
- 1:00:58Speaker 1: a bad WiFi connection on the road. We'll get it
- 1:01:01Speaker 1: together one day, um, but until then, I've been Ashley.
- 1:01:06Speaker 1: I'm Amanda. I've been Amanda. I've been Amanda, There we go.
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