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Agreeing to disagreeing and not having all the answers is the way for the functional adults, wisdom · Inspiring Human Potential

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when you begin to actually understand from a good trauma,
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sensorimotor or somatic expert, those are all different types of
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therapists, usually or like me, Consultants, mentors, those who
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have educational hours and certificates mindfulness,
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Holistic life coaching the hours are to support people and their
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personal development. And inner well-being is all
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about the restorative embodied, self and the integration of the
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mind. So that would equate people who
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are out of there that sieve, child, emotional responses.
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So that the children, there is a way that they work and I would
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say, some people would identified as ego, but the
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ego-self, If there's like a big debate, amongst our lovely human
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beings in the educational system and just overall, we all have
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opinions. Apparently, the joke is, they
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all smell because they all come from the same place.
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And on that note with my lovely Masters in international
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relations and diplomacy, I can tell you that, when I was going
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to college, I actually thought that all people love to be smart
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stable mature, adaptive rational, and Isabel.
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Now I'm also 5D Mystic. So you better imagine how I'm
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smart? I seem to be when I'm talking
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about channeled guidance and Ascension energies, and then
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when I bring together the physics components that, I'm
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learning, thanks to different theoretical physicist, but also,
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the Neuroscience components that I get to learn from the
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neuroscience. And so, in this entire world of
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Education, the actual smart people are the ones who are
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open-minded into, The fact that we don't know everything and
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thanks to technology. We're learning a lot more about
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ourselves. The past decade, I'm thinking,
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or even a little bit longer because there's one video.
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I watched that was informing me of how many years they had been
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studying the mind or the brain, the physical skull with the
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embodied. Obviously, your brain is not
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only a brain, it's embodied. So the body part counts in the
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nervous system counts but you know, People that think they
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know human beings, they think evil exists.
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So they're still talking about that, and they don't actually
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know the embodied brain or the embodied, anything for that
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matter or the adoptive child. But there's some Educators that
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also when they approach topics, they still have this adoptive
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child way. And that would be where they're
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trying to prove their right versus just allowing genuine
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information to be shared. This is why I love food for
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thought because I am nobody except for human being a.
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I am knowledgeable but I don't need to prove it.
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Because the Educators that are doing the research, they're
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going to Be able to prove it enough for some people to
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actually be smart enough to hear them others.
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They are not really looking to get informed.
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They're looking to be, right? So again, the depth of child
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isn't actually looking for information, it's for
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confirmation bias, following most likely, what is cognitive
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dissonance? What is their reactivity?
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That they're not even being aware of the biochemistry of
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your body? Actually affects you whether
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you're hyper sensitive to it or not, obviously High.
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Sensitive definitely makes us more aware than not of every
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little bit of change that happens and sometimes that leads
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us to grow more and more and more of our lovely window of
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welcome. And in fact, that's where we
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also learn how to hold more energy and more charge.
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And this is beautiful for any of my mental age group Mystics.
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You know what I'm talking about? Because this is that year, every
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one of us has a journey and some of us are getting to master the
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physical plane and that's really fun on that note.
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Notes. There are those who go through
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what is trauma. It's not the events as much as
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it is. Too much too soon too.
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Quick, and the body doesn't have enough time to process.
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This is another one of those areas that some people don't
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believe in. So epigenetics I have to still
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look into a lot more, but our charge from trauma can be
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released through urine through what was it?
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The other one tears sadness is. Primary, Emotion and sweat.
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And there is a name that they gave the charge, but I forgot it
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because I also went to look it up with a friend, family friend
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and obviously, in the Wikipedia. It doesn't describe how it's
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part of a trauma response and gets released because you need
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to get the books of the different epigenetic individuals
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who are applying what they're finding to the circumstance of
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human beings. And therefore, you know, you
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grab data, not going to find it in.
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The context of, here's how it works, that's where we have
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different opinions and different Educators, teaching different
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things. Some teach that emotions don't
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mean anything and that they just rule you others.
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Instead they teach a lot and it's very interesting.
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So here's the fun fact that I was trying to get to before I
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went on and on and that would be that some Neuroscience Educators
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actually. I have found the seat of the
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South or they are looking at the seat of the self being.
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And I was looking for my notes because I know I wrote it down
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but I just don't remember where but it's in our right.
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Temporal lobe executive functioning, it's an executive
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functioning area, so forgive me. But I don't have my notes and I
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don't know where I put them. So anyways this area and it Was
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Patrick McNamara who I saw talking about it in one of the
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videos from Big think, or the well, it's an inhibitory area,
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but it controls all of our functions.
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And so, both the Primal automatic ones which are where
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our flight fight Freeze that autonomous nervous system safety
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Behavior response. If you're not engaged in your
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eventual vagal nerve the social So I'm safe.
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I can talk and be myself and there's a very specific way this
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happens. It's when you're equanimous
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really and able to consistently maintain a level of equanimity
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as you engage in an exchange of complete different opposing
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views like opposing views so someone who would detest every
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single one of the opinions you have.
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I've done it not to the extreme because I haven't met a person
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that open-minded from the complete opposite but I do have
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loved ones who we Have opposing views and the owners of their
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own self. I get to have really great chats
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with them. They're also smart, which makes
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it even that much more enticing and beautiful.
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Because, you know, when you use stereotypes, cliches over
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generalizations and just a movie to make your case, kind of gets
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kind of boring kind of fast. At least if someone
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intellectually presents you material, then you get to go and
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read up on that material and you get to widen your perspective,
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and your knowledge which yes through the ears because even
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though we read through the eyes, the ears will take in so long
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story short when the same body of Educators and researchers and
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professionals, don't agree on something.
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There's a lot of different opinions so you don't have to
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pick a side and that's what an Grated my nose because he's left
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and right, and we're okay, with right in the infinite
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possibility. We're not afraid of dealing with
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the unknown uncertainty and unwanted from within us, and
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going with our own flow, which means we're not going to pick
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one group or another because the reality is.
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Why would I both have valid points?
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Both are still doing research and one wants to say no.
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The other says, no it does work. And obviously, if it's going to
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be a truth at some point or another, it'll get it proven and
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if not, it will get disproven and if gets proven and then
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disproving, that's because that's exactly what happens as
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we gain more knowledge. So somewhere along the lines.
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People are finally starting to get married to this Shiva.
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This unknown in a Educators weight and those are my favorite
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ones because there are functional adults, they're
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flexible adaptive coherent energizing stable because they
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have integration of the mind. So they're left and right brain
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hemisphere work together. All All hands on deck.
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There is a down-regulated default mode Network.
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Thank you. Daniel Siegel for explaining all
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of this to me and I'm still finishing up.
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My lovely interpersonal neurobiology class.
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So essentially there is a self. I know my own self and I love
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when I find people who want to try and Preface what their
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opinion is as the truth. And again, I'm probably guilty
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of being climbing to share, just how much the infinite higher
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human consciousness. Potential experience is
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available to all and how everyone can if they want either
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move out of human suffering or not have lived it because those
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of us who have a relationship with our right brain mode and
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our left brain mode. We've always Eyes felt the
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chemistry in our body. And we've always like to know
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why my body feels yucky. I'm gonna tend to my body
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weight, drinking too much, is really bad.
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This, this stuff over here, this really doesn't feel good.
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So sauce we actually completely stayed within inner well-being
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in our body and our minds and this is just one example.
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Also differentiated cells, meaning I have my own thoughts
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and feelings and if I don't match my mother's or my
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father's, or my sisters or my brothers, I'm not going to field
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effective imperfect, of course, especially when I'm being
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perfect and those little discussions.
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I'm Sorry. Miss Perfect like, well, no, I
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never said that I'm perfect. But hey, I'll take the
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compliment if you want. So, when you're actually in a
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state of imperfection, and flaws with unconditional love, you
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don't have any ego that gets bruised.
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You don't have a depth of children, that try to prove
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themselves right to others or wrong.
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So you don't get into self-aggrandizement or
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self-limitation. There isn't an inner critic or
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an outer critic or denying through drugs sex, alcohol,
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food, and then withdrawing and doing it all over again, which
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is a shame cycle, which is a a heartbreak gutwrench torn apart.
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Very serious, very serious defective unworthiness cycled up
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some have with dysregulated and modulated embodied cells
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experience. And that's sad because they need
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to get the environment around them to be safe first before
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maybe they get out of numbness. A lot more from their own body.
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If they have their well-being in mind, which means out, you know
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what, all these situations. They're not leading me to a
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great space now for those environments where they don't
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have these options, the ones of us who are compassionate Beyond
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a reason. And so, we don't label any group
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of our own countries or the world as pieces of whatever that
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some would say you don't deserve to live.
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No, no. See, the adults know, all people
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are here to live now that we need to re-establish certain
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balances because of a lot of things we already know.
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This does not mean, let's eliminate people.
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So some people are like, oh those people they don't have
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opportunities other people that everyone has opportunity so the
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smart people actually say, okay, you both have points.
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Now, let's work together and figure it out versus yelling at
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each other. That's what adults know how to
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do because Again, we don't get reactive since our two-year-old
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isn't actually ruling the world, because our right brain moan,
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and whatever comes up from that brainstem is handled by us.
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Not some people, their emotional triggers are not easily handable
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and I just made up that word. So the people that can help
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those people to work. With their triggers are the
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functional adults, which is by sharing compassion Beyond reason
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because if you're insulting me while I'm having a different
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opinion but I'm stoked. Confident that my body isn't
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going to be reactive. I'm going to be like How can I
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make the situation better so that I disengage from?
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What would be very unpleasant? So, again, when we were in
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certain environments, of course, we will notice that there's less
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availability to that opportunity because of the environment that
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does not mean. We must behave in a way that
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instigates more upset, those of us who can be, grown-ups can
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always create Harmony and bring ease, because we stay at ease
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within our nervous system as a species.
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We To self-regulating to self-regulate FICO regulating.
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So, when we're around each other, we are Co regulating.
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It's not about energy vampires, it's actually about nervous
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system. So not all of the mental health,
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Educators believe in mirror neurons?
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May I add, so, besides not all mental health, and I, call
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mental health out because Neuroscience.
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Neuropsychology cymatics, trauma, they all work to help
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people to live their most optimal life for those who care
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for those, who, You don't they talk about emotions as stupid
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and they don't actually Venture off into the brain or the mind,
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or implicit memory or how to work with the body and the
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brain. And so, you know, you got anyone
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who doesn't acknowledge energy in motion because they don't
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think of emotions as dis they think of it.
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Only in the words of happy sad, those are feelings and sad is a
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primary well emotion feelings, some use it interchangeably,
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again point is to call it emotional.
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You stupid means, you're not going to explore it, which means
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you're going to allow it to keep staying, and it's raw nature,
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which means you're not going to grow up the part about mirror
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neurons being there or not being there is a debate that they're
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going to continue the ones who believe in it, sure, educate,
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teach the ones, who don't they stay a little bit back because
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they recognize, it's not been disproven the smart ones, the
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ones who want to act, like, they know everything or basically,
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just forget that, there's also people who have proven that.
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They exist, they make statements so back to what I was getting
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to. This Neuroscience person wrote
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about their preference of Eastern philosophy versus
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Western philosophy and how the self doesn't exist.
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And the way they go about this though is very fascinating
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because see an adoptive child again will always try to prove
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their right then they will control the situation, so
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anybody who's controlling any conversation, they're going to
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be listing. You every single one of those
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items of why they will, that's how you make a case.
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By the way, I did again, international relations and
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diplomacy and my bachelor's in political science.
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So I know a thing or two about rhetoric and negotiation and
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they all basically point to the same thing.
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So we can make lists of any items we want and try to make a
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case, it's going to be qualitative with some
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quantitative. But here's where science is a
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methodology, not proof. So as long as they still have
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other people trying To disprove something.
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We're going to have two sides to story.
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Hmm, some people say you can't stay too, open-minded, others
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say can't be closed-minded, when there's all these different
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subject matter, experts talking about all these different things
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and they all have valid points and none of them actually are
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not smart. They're all very smart to say
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the least not to mention the Investments of investors and
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let's not go down that path of obviously we know that companies
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are going to promote Something versus others but that's the
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same thing. We got them all over the place.
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There's no one, no one item that wants to stay on board except
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for those of us who do the ones of us, who say, Humanities
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awesome. We're evolving.
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We expand Consciousness. And look at this, we were
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learning how to accept that, we don't know everything and then
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to talk about it, like grown-ups.
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Oh, it makes the hearts of those of us who are grownups, very
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happy because it's so boring to hear deductive children.
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So, this adoptive child was really great.
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They were very thought about it, but it was hilarious.
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The way that they were bringing out this whole the self because
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the title of the article that one, you know, online marketer
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clickbait, click whatever ctas. Yeah, I do not, I have created a
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Content marketing course for how to not be a sales pitch.
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So any time I see something like this, I'm like really, really
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then we want to talk about this information, huh?
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I wonder why you're making sentences that say bullshit,
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excuse me, that make a statement and then people are just going
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to read that. Because by the way, people don't
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always click on the Articles. So Eastern philosophy says there
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is no self period science agrees, okay?
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So immediately it's not true because not all science agrees
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with that and then the sentence that they like to use in this is
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of a person. I'll go get his name in a
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minute. Why are you unhappy?
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Because 99.9% of everything, you think and of everything you do
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is for yourself in there, isn't One, I would say Maria is here
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right now and I would say there's a lot of other people
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that are here. So that the Eastern philosophy
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talks about the self not being here, they're in Oneness
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Consciousness. One when you're living life,
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you're not living in Oneness Consciousness because right now
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I'm having an exchange. So the idea that there is no
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self leads, people to spiritual bypassing and our sisters, and
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we all have the narcissistic bubble.
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But the narcissistic people that I'm talking about, it's not that
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Know'st ones, it's the ones who have self-aggrandizement.
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I see a bunch of Educators in it, by the way, and for the 4D
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Mystics, they're all in spiritual bypassing.
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So here's where none of us are anointed, we were part of the
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same fabric, it's called Consciousness and any five
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domestic will know that. And that's why we're not
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anointed. We were just tapping into what
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is our human nature by the way and an integrated mind, FYI
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becomes a conduit because all hands are on deck in the brains
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working as one That's it's a really amazing thing.
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Also to have a restorative embodied self by the way.
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So here's this is Taoist philosopher Wei Wu Wei.
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So he's the one who writes this. I don't know when, but for the
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author of this article, the idea is captured brilliantly.
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Okay? So this article, I won't have
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time to read it here. I'll be reading it a little bit
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on our next episode. It'll be tomorrow or the future
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and all I'm going to say Is it made me laugh because he talks
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about the left and right, and he talks about how the left brain
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is the part of our brain that makes us worry and think, and a
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lot of other things. And see, the left brain is the
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linguistic component and it's the same part of the brain that
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wants to have proof for everything that the child rules
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with the left brain. In fact, this is exactly the
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point. They have no access to their
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right, brain mode as they get into just proving their point
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because the right implicit memory comes up all the
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unresolved trauma or attachment moons, everything that you're
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not conscious of, it comes up and it then dominates you.
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And the left is going to find a way to, of course, support the,
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right? It's one brain, and so this
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person when he is, I think it's a, he, yeah.
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And he's just writing about how the West believes in himself,
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and the East doesn't, and then he talks about these studies,
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that divided the brain into 20 and he also makes the statement.
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There is no Self Center in the brain.
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Well, as I told you in the video that I recently watched from
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Patrick McNamara, who is a neuroscientist?
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Who does a lot of studies? He says, no, the biological
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center of the South is in this right?
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Temporal area. So this was funny because I'm
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like this person doesn't know about this.
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And yet he writes this article about there being no self
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Center. So the article is written from
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what year? Let's see.
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This is it Have a year. Excuse me.
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Yes, it's June 9th. It's a new publication.
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So, there you go. And the same Foundation that
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because it is with a foundation, they also are supporting Patrick
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McNamara. So this Foundation has all of
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these different Educators. They're all great because
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they're all sharing information. Let me remind you.
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None of these are proof for it to be true or not.
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That's my point. And then my point is actually
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this individual though, the way they were about this is, as if
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they're stating facts, which they don't have to, they could
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easily present their perspective with their data, like an adult
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who includes other colleagues of mine, they believe otherwise,
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and this is a great debate for us to continue to discuss not,
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there is no self Center in the brain and then to try and make a
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case, where there is no stuff, we will continue the
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conversation As I said with our Enlightenment time so you could
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look for that one tomorrow. But in the meantime, if you're
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actually smart, you maintain open-mindedness since you would
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know that no one subject, matter group, or expert for that matter
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has a truth because they're still proving a lot of things.
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And the reality is, why would you try to prove that there is a
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self or non-self? Exactly.
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We are people who can Empower ourselves by educating ourselves
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Opening. Our Minds opening our hearts,
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that's the most Fun to be curious.
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Generally speaking about each others opinions versus have
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what, our adoptive children debates, which really aren't
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even debates. Just kids taken over by their
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emotions and having their group leader.
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Tell them, it's okay to behave that way.
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Because those grown-ups are group.
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Leaders are actually adaptive children that have shown here is
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what it's like to be a grown-up and those kids look up to those
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people, because it feels like it's strong.
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When it's not strength is with the openness of a heart with
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softness, and with really ears, that hear eyes that see and that
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we know, we don't know everything.
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Because hello, did anyone ever think we would have all the
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answers? Because, I don't know where that
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idea came from. Infinite higher human
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consciousness potential. It's an experience that is
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beautiful for my lovely 5D Mystics and Enlightenment still
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age group people or those who just choose to be an integrated
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mind and restorative embodied, self a functional adult,
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forgiving nuances to learn some new skills and loves waking up
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every day. Have a wonderful Monday and
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week. Infinite higher human
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consciousness potential. It's an experience that is
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beautiful for my lovely 5D Mystics and Enlightenment still
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age group people or those who just choose to be an integrated
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mind and restorative embodied, self a functional adult,
23:29
forgiving nuances to learn some new skills and loves waking up
23:33
every day. Have a wonderful Monday and
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week.