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Intro to Connecting with Loved Ones Who've Passed Away- A Tribute to a Dear Man · Common Mystics

• 0:00
  Speaker A: Hi, Jill.
• 0:01
  Speaker B: Hi, Jennifer. Hi, everyone listening.
• 0:04
  Speaker A: Hi. So I wanted to do a little bit of a prologue before jumping into our next mini meditation, which is going to be on connecting with family members on the other side. So thank you for joining me, Jill.
• 0:16
  Speaker B: I am so honored to be here on the mini meditations with you.
• 0:20
  Speaker A: You know, I have gotten some positive feedback so far on the mini meditations. I started off doing healing and then stress relief. And honestly, I think that was like more for myself. Just like what?
• 0:38
  Speaker B: You have it on repeat?
• 0:39
  Speaker A: Uh huh. Exactly. No, but honestly, doing these and I have, I'm editing them. So listening to myself, I'm like doing the meditation as I'm editing the meditation. So it really has helped me. And then from there, we veered towards more connecting with source. And I think now we're going to do more mediumship ish sort of topics, if you know what I mean.
• 1:09
  Speaker B: I love it. I am super excited for it.
• 1:12
  Speaker A: Awesome. One of our tier four patrons and now besties, Sarah, was like, yeah, no, I really want more of that. Like the shamanic stuff, like meeting with your guides and meeting with spirits. There's less of that. So we're here for it.
• 1:29
  Speaker B: Yeah, we love you, Sarah. Good suggestion.
• 1:31
  Speaker A: But you had mentioned, Jill on our last episode that one of our really, really close friends, Jenny Bee, lost her dad.
• 1:41
  Speaker B: Yeah.
• 1:42
  Speaker A: Yeah.
• 1:42
  Speaker B: That last episode was dedicated to Jenny Bee's father's memory because he was such a great man.
• 1:50
  Speaker A: He was a great mandeh.
• 1:51
  Speaker B: And that's why we sound kind of sad today, because it's a loss. It's a hit.
• 1:58
  Speaker A: It is a hit.
• 1:59
  Speaker B: It's a hit for the world, to be honest with you, because he was just such a good person. But let's, can we talk a little bit about him and share with you guys this wonderful, wonderful, uniquely superior individual that the world has lost.
• 2:16
  Speaker A: Let me just start by saying I went to high school with Jenny. And so I, I've known her family for a long time. She has a lot of siblings. And, you know, as a young woman in her teens and then early twenties, sometimes you can get like ick from dads. You know, like dad figures. Father figures.
• 2:43
  Speaker B: Oh, a hundred, hundred percent. Yeah, I got ick from our dad.
• 2:48
  Speaker A: Yeah. No, and that's what I was thinking too. That part of my foundational understanding, like little Jennifer of the world, is that you can't trust dads. Like dads leave. Dads make promises that they don't keep. Right. You never trust a dad. You just trust in yourself. And if they show up, it's a bonus. Right?
• 3:11
  Speaker B: Right.
• 3:12
  Speaker A: But this man, Jenny's dad, what he exuded was quiet support and strength and love. Just quiet love is what it was.
• 3:26
  Speaker B: Whenever I had the pleasure of being around Jenny's parents, it was always just so comforting. Just, it's. There's something so profound. I. Yeah. Solid and welcoming and unpretentious and just. They made me feel like family.
• 3:44
  Speaker A: Right. Like, and you're on the periphery of their circle, and yet you, as my sister, felt welcomed.
• 3:53
  Speaker B: And it's not only do I feel welcomed in their circle, but now I feel like they're an extension of my family.
• 4:00
  Speaker A: Yeah.
• 4:01
  Speaker B: Truly. I just. I. I find Jenny's father. Can I just. I love his sense of humor. I do. I just love his sense of humor.
• 4:11
  Speaker A: I love him. Are you kind of picking up on his energy right now?
• 4:16
  Speaker B: I'm actually really sad right now, and I can just start crying because.
• 4:19
  Speaker A: Yeah, well, don't cry.
• 4:21
  Speaker B: Well, you asked, but no, I just. I loved his sense of humor. He was like this, like, this quiet man that was just, like, when he speaks, he was really funny. Like, he would just do these little one 1 second, like whippets, and you're like, damn, that was funny. Like, he's just. He's quick, and he had no need to, like, over assert himself. It was just a calm, comforting presence that was just there.
• 4:46
  Speaker A: Right? Yeah, no, that's a really good point. He would never have to flex. Like, it wasn't in him to flex and exert his power. He would make his opinions known very quietly. And because of the man he was, people respected, you know, his opinions. And also, I just have to say that I had never, ever heard him say an unkind thing to anyone, including his wife. Like, he was so 100% devoted and doting on his wife. It was something I had never seen before.
• 5:22
  Speaker B: Yeah. Like I said, the world lost a really great example of a human being. And how lucky. How lucky for Jenny and her siblings to have such a wonderful, wonderful father. And just to be able to say, like, I knew a man like that, like, I know, like, just an example of just a wonderful human.
• 5:42
  Speaker A: Yeah.
• 5:43
  Speaker B: Is really. Is something that I'm grateful to have seen.
• 5:48
  Speaker A: I was at the wake last week, and I like to tell this because I think it's kind of funny. I show up, and there's a long line, and you know how those funeral parlors are set up. There's the rows of chairs in the middle, and then there's kind of a narrow aisle on both sides, and the casket's up at the front. And so I show up and there's a long line. Of course there is. There's a long line getting to the front where Jenny, jenny's standing and jenny's mom and some of Jenny's sisters. And so immediately I think, I don't want to stand in this line. Like, it's so beneath me to have to stand in this line. Oh, I forgot to say this first, though, in the car driving there, I remember saying in my head, out loud to spirit in my head. You know what I mean? Like, so I'm saying to spirit, is he gonna come through? Because I didn't think that he was kind of a woo woo person. And sometimes spirits that passed don't come through if they're not. Like, if they don't buy in, do you know what I'm saying? Right? And so I remember thinking that. And then I remembered a memory came into my consciousness. And when Jenny and I were in our early twenties, we were shopping somewhere. It must have been a grocery store, I don't know. But there was next to the cash register, like a little display of horoscopes. And they were scrolls, like they were long. And they went through the entire year as a horoscope for a year. And they were rolled up and, like, taped into like, this little scroll. And I remember Jenny picking one up and saying, oh, this is my dad's sign, and buying it for ninety nine cents. And then afterwards she had told me, you know, Jen, he opens that thing up and he consults it all the time. And I'm like, seriously?
• 7:35
  Speaker B: That's so surprising.
• 7:36
  Speaker A: And she's like, no, no, no, he does. So I had that memory driving to the wake. Okay, okay. So now I'm in the wake, I'm waiting in line, kind of feeling begrudging about it. Like, man, I really should be up there.
• 7:48
  Speaker B: And, yeah, you don't want to be an asshole.
• 7:50
  Speaker A: No. Everybody else is waiting. I don't look like I'm more important than anybody else who is there to support them, right? So I'm standing in line and Aaron comes up, Jenny's husband, and says to me, why are you standing in line? And I'm like, I know, right? I should be up there. He's like, get out of line and go up there. And I'm like, no, no, no. That would look bad. I'll just stand here and wait. So I was standing there and waiting, and he walked away from me. Is by myself. People in front of me, people behind me. And then I feel like someone's pushing past on my left, like, from behind. And I can't say that was a physical push, but I felt the energy of someone moving, like, moving past me. You know what I mean?
• 8:28
  Speaker B: Yeah, like someone tiny, like, so I.
• 8:30
  Speaker A: Feel the energy of someone moving past me, and I turn to say, oh, I'm sorry, you know, and, like, step to my right. But as I turn, there's nobody there. And so then I tell myself, Jennifer, you're imagining things. And just as I was telling myself, Jennifer, you're imagining things, it happened again. And I turned again, expecting to see someone pushing past me. And again, there was nobody there.
• 8:54
  Speaker B: And now my sister, my psychic sister, who has a psychic sister podcast, tells me this story. And I'm like, okay, you know what that means, right? Mister M was like, get out there. What are you doing? You don't have to stand in this line.
• 9:11
  Speaker A: It didn't even occur to me that I knew it was him, but it didn't occur to me that's what he was telling me until you told me that. And then I was recounting the same story to Jenny, and she's like, yeah, he was telling you to come to the front. And I'm like, damn it. Does everybody know now what spirit is trying to tell me? I guess I'm just a little dense sometimes. But then I do get to the front and I talk to Jenny, and I say to her, you know, I was wondering if he was into this, because I know he wasn't. Woo woo. And she's like, oh, he was a believer. And then she shows me that she had been just the day before to Kohl's, and they had horoscope necklaces, and she was going to get a Taurus horoscope necklace, which is seven stars, and get one for her. Mom and her sisters were texting her, I really want one, too. And so they all had one. All the girls had this charm. And I realized that he was validating that in the car when he showed me that memory of him and Jenny buying him his horoscope. Then I get there, and they're all wearing his astrological sign around their neck. He's validating. He knew. He knew that they had done that, and he's validating that he appreciates it.
• 10:27
  Speaker B: And he's here in spirit to communicate. So when you're thinking like, oh, is would he? He was like, not only would I, I am right, and I am accessible not just to you, but to my family.
• 10:40
  Speaker A: So we wanted to talk about Mister M and this family's situation. Because it really inspired this next mini meditation that I hope many of you will use to connect with family members that you have lost. So with that, we're going to go to mini meditation number four, connecting with family members on the other side. And I'm going to go through a meditation that actually came to me from spirit.
• 11:14
  Speaker B: I love it. That makes me super happy.
• 11:19
  Speaker A: Yeah.
• 11:20
  Speaker B: Okay.
• 11:22
  Speaker A: All right. Love you.
• 11:23
  Speaker B: I love you. Love you guys.
• 11:25
  Speaker A: Thank you for listening. Bye.