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Emmy nominee Wendi McLendon-Covey on Reinvention, Risk-Taking & Owning Midlife · The Iconic Midlife with Roxy Manning

0:34
If
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you
0:34
can
0:34
be
0:35
the
0:35
person
0:35
that
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makes
0:35
everybody
0:36
else
0:37
laugh,
0:38
that's
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a
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gift.
0:39
That's
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kind
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of
0:39
a
0:40
superpower.
0:41
That's
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a
0:41
gift.
0:41
Not
0:42
everybody
0:42
has
0:42
comedic
0:43
timing.
0:43
You
0:43
know,
0:44
if
0:44
you
0:44
say
0:45
something
0:45
out
0:45
loud,
0:46
that
0:46
is
0:46
a
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powerful
0:47
thing.
0:47
And
0:47
work.
0:48
You
0:48
have
0:48
to
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work
0:49
your
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ass
0:49
off.
0:50
Duran
0:50
Duran
0:51
follows
0:51
you.
0:52
Hello.
0:53
I
0:53
was
0:53
like,
0:54
oh,
0:54
my
0:55
God.
0:55
But
0:55
I'm
0:56
sure
0:56
they
0:56
equally
0:57
see
0:57
you
0:58
and
0:58
they're
0:58
like,
0:58
oh,
0:59
that's
0:59
fun.
1:00
Cool.
1:00
Like,
1:00
Wendy's
1:01
here.
1:01
Like,
1:02
yeah.
1:05
Who
1:05
is
1:06
this
1:06
chick?
1:07
I
1:08
love
1:08
when
1:08
you
1:08
refer
1:09
to
1:09
yourself
1:09
as
1:09
a
1:10
late
1:10
bloomer.
1:10
My
1:11
whole
1:11
life
1:11
trajectory
1:12
has
1:12
been
1:12
late
1:12
bloomer.
1:13
It
1:13
doesn't
1:13
matter
1:13
where
1:14
you
1:14
start,
1:14
it
1:15
matters
1:15
where
1:15
you
1:16
finish.
1:16
So
1:17
the
1:17
ending
1:17
is
1:18
more
1:18
important
1:18
than
1:19
the
1:19
beginning.
1:20
Do
1:20
the
1:20
trial
1:20
and
1:21
error
1:21
thing
1:21
and
1:22
realize,
1:22
oh,
1:23
wait,
1:23
it
1:23
didn't
1:23
work
1:24
out,
1:24
but
1:24
it
1:24
also
1:24
didn't
1:25
count.
1:25
Kill
1:25
me,
1:26
did
1:26
it?
1:27
What's
1:27
great
1:27
about
1:28
the
1:28
HRT
1:28
is
1:29
that
1:29
every
1:29
doctor
1:30
has
1:30
a
1:30
different
1:30
philosophy
1:31
about
1:31
it.
1:31
So
1:32
you
1:32
can't
1:32
get
1:33
the
1:33
real
1:33
information.
1:34
No,
1:35
you
1:35
can't.
1:36
Can
1:36
you
1:36
people
1:36
get
1:36
on
1:37
the
1:37
same
1:37
page,
1:37
please?
1:38
There's
1:38
a
1:38
lot
1:38
of
1:39
sweaty,
1:39
itchy,
1:39
bitchy
1:40
people
1:40
who
1:41
would
1:41
like
1:41
some
1:41
relief.
1:42
Yes.
1:43
As
1:43
well
1:43
as
1:43
their
1:44
partners.
1:51
Today's
1:51
guest
1:52
is
1:52
a
1:52
master
1:53
of
1:53
sharp
1:53
comedy,
1:54
layered
1:54
characters,
1:55
and
1:55
saying
1:56
exactly
1:56
what
1:56
everyone
1:57
else
1:57
else
1:57
is
1:58
thinking.
1:58
Wendy
1:59
McLendon
1:59
Covey
2:00
is
2:00
best
2:00
known
2:00
for
2:01
her
2:01
scene
2:01
stealing
2:02
roles
2:02
in
2:02
Bridesmaids,
2:03
the
2:03
Goldbergs,
2:04
and
2:04
Reno
2:04
911.
2:05
But
2:06
what
2:06
you
2:06
may
2:06
not
2:06
know
2:07
is
2:07
that
2:07
she
2:07
didn't
2:08
start
2:08
booking
2:08
major
2:09
roles
2:09
until
2:10
she
2:10
was
2:10
well
2:10
into
2:11
her
2:11
30s.
2:12
Since
2:12
then,
2:12
she's
2:13
built
2:13
a
2:13
career
2:13
on
2:13
playing
2:14
women
2:14
who
2:14
are
2:14
polished
2:15
on
2:15
the
2:15
surface,
2:16
but
2:16
one
2:16
emotional
2:17
paper
2:17
cut
2:18
away
2:18
from
2:18
unraveling
2:19
and
2:20
somehow
2:20
making
2:20
that
2:21
feel
2:21
both
2:21
iconic
2:22
and
2:22
deeply
2:23
relatable.
2:24
In
2:24
this
2:24
episode,
2:25
we
2:25
talk
2:25
about
2:26
the
2:26
power
2:26
of
2:26
being
2:27
a
2:27
late
2:27
bloomer,
2:28
the
2:28
absurdity
2:29
of
2:29
Hollywood's
2:29
obsession
2:30
with
2:30
age,
2:31
the
2:31
parts
2:31
she'll
2:32
never
2:32
play
2:32
again,
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and
2:33
what
2:33
she's
2:34
completely
2:34
done
2:35
apologizing
2:36
for.
2:36
We
2:37
also
2:37
get
2:37
into
2:38
improv
2:38
chaos
2:39
on
2:39
set,
2:39
truths,
2:40
comedy
2:41
myths,
2:41
and
2:41
the
2:41
joy
2:42
and
2:42
heartbreak
2:43
of
2:43
animal
2:43
rescue.
2:44
Wendy
2:45
is
2:45
wicked
2:45
smart,
2:46
wildly
2:47
funny,
2:47
and
2:47
refreshingly
2:48
unfiltered.
2:49
And
2:49
this
2:50
conversation
2:50
is
2:50
exactly
2:51
the
2:51
kind
2:51
of
2:52
midlife
2:52
energy
2:53
we're
2:53
here
2:53
for.
2:54
Follow
2:54
the
2:55
iconic
2:55
Midlife
2:56
wherever
2:56
you
2:56
get
2:56
your
2:56
podcasts
2:57
and
2:58
share
2:58
this
2:58
episode
2:58
with
2:59
your
2:59
funniest,
3:00
most
3:00
fearless
3:01
friends.
3:02
Wendy,
3:03
welcome
3:03
to
3:03
the
3:03
iconic
3:04
Midlife.
3:04
It
3:05
is
3:05
so
3:05
great
3:05
to
3:05
chat
3:05
with
3:06
you
3:06
again.
3:07
It's.
3:07
I'm
3:08
thrilled
3:08
to
3:08
be
3:08
here.
3:09
Oh,
3:09
I'm
3:10
so
3:10
glad.
3:11
I
3:11
know
3:11
you're
3:11
so
3:11
super
3:12
good.
3:13
Oh,
3:13
my
3:13
God,
3:13
you
3:13
look
3:14
so
3:14
good.
3:14
I
3:14
love
3:14
the
3:15
top.
3:15
You're
3:15
wearing.
3:15
I'm
3:16
obsessed.
3:16
It's
3:16
so
3:16
pretty.
3:17
You're
3:17
so
3:17
pretty.
3:18
Thank
3:18
you,
3:18
thank
3:18
you,
3:19
thank
3:19
you,
3:20
thank
3:20
you.
3:20
I
3:20
know
3:20
you're
3:21
busy,
3:21
so
3:22
I'm
3:22
so
3:22
glad
3:22
we
3:23
were
3:23
able
3:23
to
3:23
do
3:23
this.
3:24
How's
3:25
work
3:25
going?
3:26
You
3:26
just.
3:27
It's
3:28
going
3:28
really
3:28
well.
3:29
And
3:30
believe
3:30
me,
3:30
I
3:30
know
3:30
how
3:31
blessed
3:31
I
3:31
am
3:32
to
3:32
be
3:32
able
3:32
to
3:32
say
3:33
that.
3:33
So
3:34
it's
3:34
going
3:34
well.
3:35
Started
3:35
filming
3:36
season
3:37
two
3:37
of
3:37
St.
3:38
Denis,
3:38
like,
3:39
back
3:39
in
3:39
June,
3:40
and
3:41
I
3:41
have
3:41
the
3:42
day
3:42
off
3:42
today,
3:42
which
3:42
is
3:43
lovely.
3:44
And,
3:45
yeah,
3:45
it's
3:46
been
3:46
great.
3:46
It's
3:47
been
3:47
really
3:47
fun.
3:48
How
3:48
fun?
3:49
What's
3:49
the
3:49
weekend
3:49
look
3:50
like?
3:50
Like,
3:50
what
3:50
does
3:50
that
3:50
look
3:51
like
3:51
to
3:51
you
3:51
when
3:51
you
3:51
get
3:51
time
3:52
off
3:52
or
3:52
time
3:53
away?
3:53
Oh,
3:54
God,
3:54
I
3:54
love
3:55
doing
3:55
nothing.
3:56
Oh,
3:57
the
3:57
best.
3:57
The
3:58
best.
3:58
I
3:58
just
3:59
love
3:59
staying
4:00
home,
4:01
you
4:01
know,
4:02
I
4:03
love
4:03
it.
4:03
I
4:03
love
4:03
a
4:03
good
4:04
putter.
4:05
I
4:05
like
4:05
to
4:06
putter
4:06
around
4:06
the
4:07
house.
4:08
I've
4:09
recently
4:09
resumed
4:10
my
4:10
sourdough
4:12
studies,
4:13
so
4:14
I've
4:14
been
4:14
driving
4:14
everyone
4:15
crazy
4:15
with
4:15
that.
4:16
And
4:16
so
4:16
that's
4:16
a
4:16
constant
4:17
cleanup
4:18
and
4:19
gardening,
4:20
you
4:20
know,
4:21
dancing
4:22
my
4:22
dance
4:23
around
4:23
the
4:23
house.
4:25
I
4:26
just
4:26
love
4:27
not
4:27
being
4:28
in
4:28
the
4:28
car,
4:30
so.
4:30
Nice.
4:31
Yeah.
4:32
It
4:33
takes
4:33
very
4:33
little
4:34
to
4:34
make
4:34
me
4:34
happy
4:35
these
4:35
days.
4:36
Oh,
4:36
my
4:36
gosh.
4:36
Well,
4:37
you
4:37
know
4:37
why
4:37
I
4:37
also
4:38
love
4:38
you
4:38
so
4:39
much
4:39
is
4:39
because
4:40
you
4:40
rescue
4:41
animals
4:41
as
4:42
well.
4:43
And
4:43
that
4:43
is
4:43
something
4:44
that
4:44
is
4:45
near
4:45
and
4:45
dear
4:45
to
4:46
my
4:46
heart,
4:46
too.
4:47
So
4:48
what
4:48
got
4:48
you
4:48
into
4:49
that?
4:50
You
4:50
know
4:50
what?
4:50
I've
4:51
always
4:51
been
4:52
like,
4:53
my
4:53
heart
4:53
has
4:54
always
4:54
been
4:54
with
4:55
the
4:55
animals
4:55
ever
4:55
since
4:56
I
4:56
was
4:56
a
4:56
little
4:56
kid.
4:57
Like,
4:57
don't
4:58
give
4:58
me
4:58
a
4:58
baby
4:59
doll
5:00
when
5:00
I
5:01
was
5:01
a
5:01
kid.
5:01
Like,
5:01
don't.
5:02
I.
5:02
Don't
5:02
saddle
5:03
me
5:03
with
5:03
a
5:03
kid,
5:06
but
5:06
give
5:06
me
5:07
all
5:07
the
5:07
stuffed
5:07
animals
5:08
I
5:08
can
5:08
handle.
5:09
And
5:09
so
5:09
I
5:10
was
5:10
always
5:10
like,
5:11
oh,
5:11
there's
5:11
a
5:12
kitty
5:12
outside.
5:12
I
5:13
have
5:13
to
5:13
make
5:13
friends
5:13
with
5:14
it.
5:14
Oh,
5:15
you
5:15
know,
5:16
knew
5:17
all
5:17
the
5:17
animals
5:17
in
5:17
the
5:17
neighborhood,
5:18
whatever,
5:18
and
5:19
stray
5:19
cat
5:19
cats
5:20
just
5:20
kept
5:20
finding
5:21
their
5:21
way
5:21
to
5:21
us,
5:21
always,
5:22
throughout
5:22
my
5:22
life.
5:23
And
5:23
so
5:25
finally
5:25
got
5:25
our
5:25
own
5:26
house.
5:28
My
5:28
husband
5:28
and
5:28
I.
5:29
Someone
5:30
gave
5:30
us
5:30
a
5:30
cat
5:31
that
5:31
they
5:31
couldn't
5:31
take
5:31
care
5:32
of
5:32
anymore.
5:32
And
5:32
it
5:33
was.
5:33
It
5:33
became
5:34
like
5:34
the
5:34
love
5:34
of
5:34
our
5:35
lives.
5:35
And
5:35
then
5:36
it.
5:36
And
5:36
then
5:36
again,
5:37
kitties
5:38
just
5:38
keep
5:39
showing
5:39
up.
5:40
They
5:40
know
5:40
that
5:41
we
5:41
are
5:42
suckers.
5:43
They
5:43
know
5:44
where
5:44
the
5:44
getting's
5:44
good,
5:44
you
5:45
know?
5:45
Yeah.
5:46
And
5:46
it's
5:46
so
5:47
funny
5:47
that
5:47
you
5:47
asked
5:47
that
5:48
question,
5:48
because
5:48
there's
5:49
been
5:49
a
5:49
feral
5:49
cat
5:50
living
5:50
in
5:50
our
5:50
bushes
5:51
for,
5:51
like,
5:51
the
5:51
last
5:52
month
5:52
or
5:53
so.
5:53
And
5:54
today,
5:55
like,
5:55
20
5:56
minutes
5:56
ago,
5:57
it
5:57
let
5:57
me
5:58
pet
5:58
it
5:58
for
5:58
the
5:59
first
5:59
time.
6:00
It's
6:00
a
6:01
sign.
6:01
It's
6:01
a
6:02
sign.
6:02
Yeah.
6:03
Are
6:03
we
6:03
talking
6:04
cat
6:04
number
6:04
seven
6:05
or
6:05
eight?
6:05
Now.
6:08
This
6:09
would
6:09
be
6:09
Number
6:10
eight.
6:11
But
6:11
he
6:11
has
6:11
to
6:11
stay
6:12
outside,
6:13
which.
6:14
Which
6:14
bugs
6:15
me.
6:15
I
6:15
know
6:16
I
6:16
gotta
6:16
lure
6:17
him
6:17
into
6:17
the
6:17
backyard,
6:18
you
6:18
know,
6:19
because
6:19
on
6:19
the
6:20
ring
6:20
cam,
6:20
we
6:20
see
6:21
a
6:21
little
6:22
pack
6:22
of.
6:23
Of
6:23
coyote
6:24
pups.
6:25
Oh.
6:26
In
6:26
the
6:26
yard.
6:27
Oh,
6:27
okay.
6:28
Every
6:29
night
6:29
this
6:29
week.
6:29
So
6:30
it's
6:30
like.
6:30
No,
6:32
no,
6:32
no,
6:32
no.
6:33
The
6:33
two
6:33
don't
6:34
quite
6:34
meet
6:34
up.
6:35
Well,
6:35
you
6:35
know.
6:36
No,
6:36
they
6:36
don't.
6:37
Anyway,
6:37
I.
6:39
Another
6:39
thing
6:40
I
6:40
got
6:40
to
6:40
worry
6:40
about.
6:40
But
6:41
the
6:41
sweet
6:41
baby,
6:42
he
6:42
figured
6:43
out,
6:43
like,
6:43
okay,
6:44
you're
6:44
safe
6:44
here.
6:45
Oh.
6:45
So
6:46
I
6:46
love
6:47
that.
6:47
Another
6:47
mouth
6:47
to
6:48
feed.
6:48
But
6:48
you
6:48
know
6:48
what?
6:48
It's
6:49
for
6:49
the
6:49
love
6:49
of
6:50
the
6:50
animal.
6:50
Right.
6:51
You
6:51
got
6:51
to
6:51
do
6:51
it.
6:51
I
6:52
can't
6:52
let
6:52
an
6:52
animal
6:53
starve
6:53
in
6:53
our
6:53
yard.
6:54
I
6:54
just.
6:54
I
6:54
can't.
6:55
No,
6:56
not
6:56
at
6:56
all.
6:57
Not
6:57
at
6:57
all.
6:58
So,
6:58
okay,
6:59
correct
6:59
me
6:59
if
7:00
I'm
7:00
wrong.
7:00
Tell
7:00
me
7:01
if
7:01
this
7:01
is
7:01
true,
7:02
but
7:03
when
7:03
I
7:03
watch
7:04
you
7:04
and
7:04
when
7:04
I
7:05
am,
7:05
like,
7:05
listening
7:06
to
7:06
all
7:06
of
7:06
you,
7:06
like,
7:07
you're
7:07
so
7:07
fucking
7:08
funny,
7:09
I
7:10
feel
7:10
like
7:10
you
7:11
are
7:11
one
7:12
of
7:12
these
7:12
people,
7:13
because
7:13
it
7:13
seems
7:14
like
7:14
it
7:14
comes
7:14
so
7:15
naturally
7:15
to
7:15
you.
7:16
Like,
7:16
it's
7:16
so
7:16
inher
7:17
and,
7:17
like,
7:18
just
7:18
in
7:18
your
7:19
body.
7:19
Have
7:19
you
7:19
always
7:20
been
7:20
like
7:21
that?
7:21
Like,
7:21
since
7:21
you
7:21
were
7:22
yay
7:23
high,
7:23
little
7:23
kid?
7:25
Well,
7:26
God,
7:27
I
7:27
would
7:27
love
7:27
to
7:27
say
7:28
I've
7:28
been
7:28
hilarious
7:29
my
7:29
whole
7:29
life,
7:30
but
7:30
I.
7:32
I
7:32
definitely
7:33
learned
7:33
early
7:34
how
7:34
to
7:35
jolly
7:36
people
7:36
out
7:37
of
7:37
being
7:37
mean
7:38
to
7:38
me,
7:39
so
7:40
I've.
7:40
I've
7:40
had
7:40
that
7:41
facility
7:42
to,
7:42
like,
7:43
get
7:43
what
7:44
I
7:44
need
7:44
with
7:45
it.
7:47
But
7:47
then
7:47
on
7:48
the
7:48
flip
7:48
side
7:48
of
7:48
that
7:48
coin,
7:49
I'm
7:49
sure
7:49
there's
7:49
plenty
7:50
of
7:50
people
7:50
that
7:50
just
7:50
find
7:50
me
7:51
irritating,
7:52
which
7:52
is
7:53
fine,
7:53
too.
7:54
I.
7:54
I
7:54
could
7:54
get
7:55
that.
7:55
I.
7:55
I
7:55
understand
7:56
that.
7:57
So
7:57
I
7:57
don't
7:57
know.
7:57
But
7:58
I've.
7:58
I've
7:58
always
7:59
known
8:00
that
8:01
this
8:01
is
8:01
what
8:02
I
8:02
want
8:02
to
8:02
do.
8:03
Okay.
8:04
This
8:05
is.
8:05
I
8:05
want
8:06
to
8:06
do,
8:06
and
8:06
I'm
8:07
gonna
8:07
do
8:07
it.
8:08
And
8:08
I'm
8:08
lucky
8:09
that
8:09
I
8:09
got
8:09
to.
8:10
So
8:10
it
8:11
sort
8:11
of
8:11
came
8:11
out
8:11
of
8:11
a
8:11
defense.
8:12
Like
8:12
a
8:12
defense
8:13
mechanism
8:13
in
8:13
a
8:14
way.
8:14
Like,
8:14
it
8:14
kind
8:14
of
8:14
protected
8:15
you
8:15
from
8:15
bullying
8:16
growing
8:16
up.
8:16
Yeah.
8:17
Yeah.
8:18
Wow.
8:19
A
8:19
little
8:19
bit.
8:20
I
8:20
mean,
8:20
when
8:20
I
8:20
was
8:21
really
8:21
young,
8:23
I
8:23
was
8:23
scrawny
8:24
and
8:24
sick
8:25
all
8:25
the
8:25
time.
8:27
Just,
8:27
you
8:27
know,
8:27
that
8:27
kid
8:28
that
8:28
always
8:28
had
8:28
a
8:28
runny
8:29
nose
8:29
or
8:29
a
8:29
sore
8:30
throat.
8:30
Like,
8:30
I
8:31
was
8:31
always
8:32
at
8:32
the
8:32
doctor's
8:33
office,
8:33
and.
8:34
And
8:34
I
8:34
didn't
8:35
grow
8:35
for
8:35
a
8:36
long
8:36
time.
8:37
And
8:37
so,
8:38
you
8:38
know,
8:38
being
8:38
the
8:39
shortest
8:39
kid
8:39
in
8:39
the
8:40
class
8:41
and
8:41
the
8:42
scrawniest.
8:42
Yeah.
8:43
You
8:43
got
8:43
picked
8:43
on
8:45
and
8:46
you.
8:46
You
8:47
very
8:47
quickly.
8:48
It's
8:48
like
8:48
a
8:48
sink
8:48
or
8:49
swim
8:49
thing,
8:49
right?
8:50
As.
8:50
As
8:50
a
8:51
kid,
8:51
no
8:51
one's
8:51
going
8:51
to
8:51
come
8:51
to
8:52
your
8:52
rescue
8:52
in
8:52
the
8:53
classroom.
8:53
So
8:53
you
8:53
got
8:53
to
8:54
figure
8:54
it
8:54
out.
8:56
And,
8:56
yeah,
8:57
this
8:57
is
8:57
back
8:57
when,
8:59
like,
8:59
you
9:00
were
9:00
bullied
9:00
all
9:00
the
9:00
time
9:01
and
9:01
your
9:01
parents
9:01
were
9:01
just
9:02
like,
9:02
okay,
9:02
figure
9:03
it
9:03
out,
9:03
kids.
9:03
We
9:03
don't
9:04
know
9:04
your
9:05
teachers
9:05
being
9:05
mean
9:05
to
9:06
you.
9:06
Well,
9:06
next
9:06
year,
9:07
hopefully,
9:07
it
9:07
won't
9:08
be
9:08
that
9:08
way.
9:08
But,
9:08
like,
9:09
your.
9:09
Your
9:09
parents
9:10
didn't
9:10
storm
9:10
down
9:11
to
9:11
the
9:11
school
9:11
to
9:12
help
9:12
you
9:12
out.
9:13
You
9:14
had
9:14
to
9:14
figure
9:14
it
9:14
out
9:14
on
9:15
your
9:15
own.
9:15
So
9:16
I
9:16
did
9:16
that
9:17
and
9:20
seemed
9:20
to
9:20
work
9:20
for
9:21
a
9:21
while.
9:21
And
9:22
I
9:22
don't
9:23
know,
9:23
here
9:23
we
9:23
are.
9:23
But
9:24
I've
9:24
always.
9:24
I've
9:24
always
9:25
found
9:26
funny
9:27
people
9:27
interesting
9:28
in
9:28
that,
9:29
like,
9:30
people
9:30
gravitate
9:31
towards
9:32
them.
9:34
And
9:36
if
9:36
you
9:36
can
9:36
be
9:36
the
9:37
person
9:37
that
9:37
makes
9:37
everybody
9:38
else
9:39
laugh,
9:39
that's
9:40
a
9:40
gift.
9:41
That's
9:41
kind
9:41
of
9:41
a
9:41
superpower
9:43
to,
9:43
like,
9:43
be
9:43
able
9:44
to
9:44
change
9:44
the
9:44
mood.
9:47
I
9:47
knew
9:48
that
9:48
was
9:48
a
9:48
good
9:48
thing.
9:49
Yeah.
9:49
Do
9:49
you
9:49
remember,
9:49
like,
9:50
the
9:50
first
9:50
moment
9:51
you
9:51
felt
9:51
that,
9:51
like,
9:52
when
9:52
you
9:52
were
9:52
maybe
9:53
in
9:53
the
9:53
classroom
9:54
or
9:54
around
9:54
a
9:54
group
9:55
of
9:55
people
9:55
and
9:55
you
9:55
got
9:56
that
9:56
first
9:57
laugh
9:58
and
9:58
that,
9:58
like,
9:58
dopamine
9:59
hit
9:59
where
9:59
you're
9:59
like,
9:59
oh,
10:00
my
10:00
God,
10:00
this
10:00
is.
10:00
This
10:01
is
10:01
what.
10:01
What
10:01
I
10:01
want.
10:02
I
10:03
feel
10:03
like
10:03
it
10:04
happened
10:04
on
10:04
a
10:05
camping
10:05
trip
10:05
and
10:06
I
10:06
made
10:06
all
10:06
the
10:07
adults
10:07
laugh
10:07
for
10:08
some
10:08
reason.
10:08
And.
10:09
And
10:09
that
10:09
was
10:09
like,
10:10
oh,
10:10
I'm
10:11
never
10:11
going
10:11
back.
10:13
I
10:13
gotta
10:13
make
10:13
this
10:14
happen
10:14
again.
10:16
You
10:16
know,
10:16
it
10:17
felt
10:17
so
10:17
powerful,
10:19
and
10:19
I
10:20
can't
10:20
even
10:20
tell
10:20
you
10:20
what
10:20
I
10:21
said.
10:21
I
10:21
don't
10:21
know
10:22
what
10:22
it
10:22
was.
10:22
I
10:22
just
10:23
know
10:23
everybody
10:23
was
10:23
doubled
10:24
over
10:24
laughing,
10:25
and
10:25
it
10:25
wasn't
10:26
at
10:26
me.
10:28
It
10:28
was
10:29
because
10:29
of
10:30
something,
10:31
an
10:32
observation.
10:34
And
10:35
so
10:35
that
10:35
was
10:35
like,
10:36
oh,
10:37
let's
10:37
make
10:38
this
10:38
happen
10:38
again
10:38
and
10:39
again.
10:40
And
10:40
having
10:41
the
10:41
adults
10:41
laugh
10:42
at
10:42
you
10:42
probably
10:43
was
10:43
different.
10:44
It
10:44
was,
10:44
like,
10:44
so
10:45
much
10:45
more
10:45
than
10:45
having
10:46
your
10:47
peers
10:47
laugh
10:47
at
10:48
you.
10:48
Right.
10:48
I
10:48
mean,
10:49
getting
10:49
that,
10:50
like,
10:50
you
10:50
know,
10:50
recognition
10:51
in
10:51
a
10:51
way.
10:52
Yeah.
10:52
Because
10:53
all
10:53
you
10:53
want
10:53
to
10:53
do
10:53
when
10:54
you're,
10:54
you
10:54
know,
10:55
seven
10:55
years
10:55
old
10:55
is
10:56
be
10:57
10
10:57
years
10:57
old.
10:57
You
10:58
know,
10:58
you're
10:58
always.
10:58
You're
10:58
always
10:58
trying
10:59
to
10:59
aim
10:59
higher
11:00
than
11:00
your
11:00
age
11:01
when
11:01
you're
11:01
young.
11:02
Now
11:02
at
11:02
this
11:03
age,
11:03
you're
11:03
like,
11:03
oh,
11:05
I'm
11:05
down
11:05
with
11:06
the
11:06
kids.
11:06
I.
11:06
I
11:07
get,
11:07
you
11:07
know,
11:09
it's
11:10
true.
11:10
The
11:10
little
11:11
babes.
11:11
You're
11:11
like,
11:11
okay,
11:12
I'm
11:12
12.
11:13
Yeah,
11:16
she's
11:16
old.
11:17
She's
11:17
28.
11:18
Oh,
11:18
oops.
11:19
So
11:19
I'm
11:19
55,
11:21
but
11:21
don't
11:22
look
11:22
a.
11:22
Day
11:22
of
11:22
a
11:23
25.
11:23
Of
11:23
course.
11:24
I
11:24
mean,
11:24
look.
11:25
Right,
11:26
right.
11:26
Let's
11:26
tell
11:27
people
11:27
that.
11:30
You
11:31
know,
11:31
I
11:31
love.
11:31
I've
11:32
listened
11:32
to
11:32
some
11:33
of
11:33
your,
11:33
you
11:33
know,
11:33
interviews,
11:34
and
11:34
I
11:34
love
11:34
when
11:34
you
11:35
refer
11:35
to
11:35
yourself
11:35
as
11:36
a
11:36
late
11:36
bloomer,
11:37
because
11:37
that,
11:38
to
11:38
me,
11:39
I
11:39
completely.
11:40
That
11:40
resonates
11:41
with
11:41
me
11:41
as
11:41
Well,
11:41
I
11:42
feel
11:42
like
11:42
my
11:42
whole
11:43
life
11:43
trajectory
11:43
has
11:44
been
11:44
late
11:44
bloomer.
11:45
Yeah,
11:45
there's
11:46
something
11:46
to
11:46
be
11:46
said
11:47
for
11:47
late
11:47
bloomers
11:48
because
11:49
if
11:49
you
11:49
think
11:49
about
11:50
it
11:50
like,
11:50
it
11:50
doesn't
11:51
matter
11:51
where
11:51
you
11:52
start,
11:52
it
11:52
matters
11:53
where
11:53
you
11:53
finish.
11:54
So
11:54
the
11:55
ending
11:55
is
11:55
more
11:56
important
11:56
than
11:56
the
11:56
beginning.
11:58
So
11:58
if
11:58
you
11:59
have
11:59
a
11:59
bunch
11:59
of
11:59
success
12:00
in
12:00
your
12:00
20s,
12:02
how
12:03
does
12:03
that
12:03
set
12:03
you
12:04
up
12:04
for
12:04
the
12:04
rest
12:04
of
12:04
your
12:04
life?
12:05
I
12:05
mean,
12:05
if
12:06
you're
12:06
smart,
12:06
you
12:07
can
12:07
keep
12:07
that
12:07
going
12:08
if
12:08
you're
12:09
strategic.
12:10
But
12:10
for
12:10
a
12:11
lot
12:11
of
12:11
people,
12:12
if
12:13
they
12:13
get
12:13
success
12:14
too
12:14
young,
12:14
they're
12:14
kind
12:15
of
12:15
frozen
12:16
in
12:16
that
12:16
era.
12:18
And
12:18
your
12:19
brain
12:19
doesn't
12:19
even
12:19
finish
12:20
developing
12:20
until
12:20
you're
12:21
25.
12:23
So
12:23
I
12:24
don't
12:24
know,
12:24
I
12:24
feel
12:24
like
12:25
it
12:25
sets
12:25
a
12:25
really
12:26
bad
12:26
precedent
12:28
for
12:28
people
12:29
to
12:29
feel
12:30
like,
12:30
oh,
12:30
yeah,
12:32
I've
12:32
got
12:32
it
12:32
all
12:32
figured
12:33
out
12:33
and
12:33
I'm
12:33
in
12:33
my
12:33
20s.
12:35
Well,
12:37
I
12:37
don't
12:37
know,
12:37
I
12:37
think
12:37
about
12:38
my
12:38
20s
12:38
and
12:38
I
12:39
would
12:39
hate
12:39
to
12:39
be
12:43
solidified
12:44
to
12:44
any
12:44
decisions
12:45
I
12:45
made
12:45
back
12:45
then,
12:47
you
12:47
know?
12:47
Yes.
12:48
I
12:48
didn't
12:48
know
12:48
what
12:49
the
12:49
hell
12:49
was
12:49
happening.
12:50
Now
12:50
that
12:50
I'm
12:51
older,
12:51
I
12:51
can
12:52
appreciate
12:52
it
12:52
or
12:53
I
12:53
can
12:53
see
12:53
for.
12:54
See
12:54
things
12:54
for
12:54
what
12:55
they
12:55
are
12:57
and
12:59
maybe
12:59
not
13:00
take
13:00
things
13:00
as
13:00
personally,
13:02
although
13:02
I
13:02
still
13:03
do.
13:03
But
13:03
I
13:03
know
13:04
it's
13:04
wrong.
13:04
At
13:04
least
13:04
I
13:05
don't
13:05
know.
13:05
But
13:06
yeah,
13:06
late,
13:06
late
13:07
bloomers.
13:07
I
13:07
feel
13:07
like
13:08
most
13:08
of
13:08
us
13:08
are
13:08
that.
13:09
Yes,
13:10
yes.
13:10
And
13:11
there's
13:11
nothing
13:11
wrong
13:12
with
13:12
it.
13:12
No,
13:13
I'm
13:13
so
13:13
here
13:13
for
13:14
the
13:14
late
13:14
bloomer.
13:14
I
13:15
mean,
13:15
it's.
13:15
It's
13:15
like
13:15
a
13:16
badge.
13:16
I'd
13:16
rather
13:17
peak
13:17
later
13:18
than
13:18
have
13:19
peaked
13:19
in
13:19
high
13:20
school
13:20
or
13:20
in
13:20
college.
13:21
Right?
13:22
Yes.
13:23
I
13:23
mean,
13:24
dear
13:24
God.
13:25
Yeah,
13:25
thank
13:26
God.
13:26
Thank
13:26
God.
13:27
And
13:27
thank
13:27
God
13:27
we
13:27
had
13:27
no
13:28
social
13:28
media
13:29
because,
13:30
oh
13:30
my
13:30
God,
13:30
think
13:31
about,
13:31
like
13:31
all
13:31
I
13:32
did.
13:32
So
13:32
many
13:32
crazy.
13:33
I'm
13:34
like,
13:34
how
13:34
am
13:34
I
13:35
even
13:35
still
13:35
alive?
13:36
Well,
13:37
yeah,
13:37
it's
13:39
like,
13:39
wow,
13:40
right?
13:41
Is
13:41
there
13:41
anything
13:41
in
13:42
your
13:42
20s
13:42
that
13:43
you're
13:43
so
13:43
glad,
13:45
you
13:45
know,
13:45
you
13:45
didn't.
13:46
You
13:46
weren't
13:47
so
13:47
famous
13:47
for
13:47
at
13:48
that
13:48
time?
13:49
Well,
13:49
I
13:50
gotta
13:50
say
13:50
that
13:51
in
13:51
my
13:51
20s.
13:53
I.
14:29
And
14:30
for
14:30
anybody
14:30
listening
14:31
to
14:31
this
14:31
who
14:32
is
14:32
in
14:32
their
14:32
20s,
14:33
like,
14:34
let's
14:34
just
14:35
call
14:35
it
14:35
what
14:35
it
14:35
is,
14:36
you
14:36
were
14:36
sold
14:36
a
14:36
bill
14:37
of
14:37
goods,
14:37
that
14:37
this
14:37
is
14:38
going
14:38
to
14:38
be
14:38
the
14:38
greatest
14:38
decade
14:39
of
14:39
your
14:39
life.
14:40
It
14:40
isn't.
14:41
It's
14:41
full
14:41
of
14:41
self
14:42
doubt.
14:43
It's
14:43
full
14:43
of
14:43
trial
14:44
and
14:44
error.
14:45
You
14:45
don't
14:45
really
14:46
know
14:46
what
14:46
you
14:12
want
14:46
in
14:47
your
14:47
20s.
14:47
You
14:47
think
14:48
you
14:48
do,
14:48
and
14:49
everything's
14:50
legal
14:51
by
14:51
the
14:51
time
14:52
you're
14:52
in
14:52
your
14:52
20s,
14:53
but
14:53
most
14:53
of
14:53
the
14:53
time
14:54
you're
14:54
broke.
14:56
You're
14:56
acting
14:57
a
14:57
little
14:57
bit
14:57
out
14:57
of
14:58
desperation.
14:58
You're
14:59
acting
14:59
a
14:59
little
15:00
bit
15:00
out
15:00
of
15:00
insecurity.
15:03
You
15:03
don't
15:04
know
15:04
yourself
15:04
that
15:05
much
15:05
yet
15:05
as
15:06
an
15:06
adult.
15:07
So
15:09
yeah,
15:10
I
15:10
don't
15:10
look
15:10
at
15:10
my
15:11
20s
15:11
like,
15:11
wow,
15:12
I
15:12
wish
15:12
I
15:12
could
15:12
go
15:12
back
15:13
there.
15:13
No,
15:15
I
15:15
felt
15:16
like,
15:16
oh,
15:16
by
15:17
the
15:17
time
15:17
I
15:17
was
15:17
40.
15:18
Oh,
15:19
40
15:19
was
15:19
such
15:19
a
15:19
great
15:20
age.
15:21
Like,
15:21
ah,
15:22
I
15:22
felt
15:22
like
15:22
I
15:22
was
15:22
climbing
15:23
onto
15:23
a
15:23
life
15:23
raft.
15:25
And
15:25
then
15:25
50
15:26
was
15:26
better.
15:27
Like
15:27
for
15:28
me
15:28
it's
15:28
like
15:30
this
15:30
getting
15:30
older
15:31
thing.
15:31
I
15:31
like
15:31
it,
15:32
I
15:32
really
15:32
like
15:32
it.
15:34
But
15:35
I
15:35
don't
15:35
know
15:35
if
15:35
I
15:35
answered
15:36
your
15:36
question.
15:38
I
15:38
can't
15:38
say
15:39
like,
15:39
like,
15:40
did
15:40
I
15:40
do
15:41
anything
15:41
that
15:41
I
15:41
would
15:41
be
15:42
really
15:42
embarrassed
15:42
about?
15:43
Not
15:43
really.
15:43
I
15:44
was
15:44
kind
15:46
of
15:47
not
15:47
getting
15:48
anywhere
15:50
and
15:50
just
15:50
trying
15:50
things,
15:51
you
15:51
know,
15:52
bouncing
15:52
from
15:52
job
15:52
to
15:53
job
15:53
and
15:53
sometimes
15:54
working
15:55
like
15:55
three
15:55
dead
15:56
end
15:56
jobs
15:56
at
15:56
a
15:56
time.
15:57
But
15:57
that's
15:58
what
15:58
your
15:58
20s
15:58
are,
15:59
you
15:59
know.
15:59
I'm
16:00
sorry.
16:00
Especially
16:01
when
16:01
you
16:01
try
16:01
to
16:02
be
16:02
in
16:02
a
16:02
creative
16:02
field.
16:03
Yeah.
16:04
There's
16:04
no
16:04
guarantee,
16:05
right.
16:05
You're
16:06
like,
16:06
I
16:06
could
16:07
work
16:07
all
16:07
day
16:07
long
16:08
at
16:08
10
16:08
jobs
16:09
and
16:09
there.
16:09
But
16:09
then
16:10
you
16:10
see
16:10
people
16:11
that
16:11
seemingly
16:12
overnight
16:13
kind
16:13
of
16:13
get
16:13
something.
16:14
So
16:14
it's
16:14
like
16:14
there's
16:14
no
16:14
rhyme
16:15
or
16:15
reason,
16:15
right?
16:16
Yeah.
16:17
So
16:17
you
16:17
just
16:17
have
16:17
to
16:17
keep
16:17
like
16:18
kind
16:18
of
16:18
trucking.
16:18
Right.
16:19
Just
16:19
keep
16:19
going.
16:20
Your
16:20
path
16:21
is
16:21
your
16:21
path.
16:21
Don't
16:22
compare
16:22
yourself
16:23
to
16:24
anybody.
16:24
Which
16:24
is
16:25
really,
16:25
really
16:25
hard.
16:26
Yeah,
16:26
that's
16:26
really
16:27
hard
16:27
not
16:27
to
16:27
do.
16:28
But
16:28
it,
16:28
it
16:29
gets
16:29
you
16:29
nowhere
16:30
and
16:30
just
16:30
makes
16:30
you
16:31
miserable.
16:31
Yeah.
16:32
Have
16:33
you
16:33
had
16:33
to
16:33
like
16:33
kind
16:34
of
16:34
reckon
16:34
with
16:34
that
16:34
a
16:35
bit?
16:35
Like,
16:35
how
16:36
did
16:36
you
16:36
do
16:36
it?
16:36
Because
16:36
social
16:37
media,
16:37
you
16:37
know,
16:38
is
16:38
everywhere.
16:38
We
16:38
can
16:39
see
16:39
people
16:39
doing
16:40
whatever
16:40
they're
16:40
doing,
16:41
you
16:41
know.
16:41
Yeah.
16:42
So
16:42
again,
16:43
thank
16:43
God
16:43
we
16:43
didn't
16:44
have
16:44
that
16:45
because
16:45
that
16:46
would
16:46
have
16:47
driven
16:47
me
16:48
to
16:48
suicide,
16:49
you
16:50
know,
16:50
I
16:50
mean,
16:50
let's,
16:51
I'm
16:51
not
16:51
joking.
16:52
Like
16:52
it,
16:52
it's
16:53
so
16:54
toxic
16:55
and
16:55
horrible.
16:56
I
16:56
would
16:56
have
16:56
just
16:56
been
16:56
sobbing
16:57
all
16:57
the
16:57
time.
16:58
But
16:59
it,
16:59
it
16:59
does
16:59
force
17:00
you
17:00
to
17:00
get
17:00
resourceful.
17:01
It
17:01
does
17:02
force
17:02
you
17:02
to
17:02
pivot
17:04
and
17:05
it
17:05
forces
17:05
you
17:06
to
17:06
like
17:07
do
17:08
the
17:08
trial
17:08
and
17:08
error
17:09
thing
17:09
and
17:09
realize,
17:10
oh,
17:10
wait,
17:10
okay,
17:11
so
17:11
I
17:11
did
17:11
this.
17:13
It
17:13
didn't
17:13
work
17:13
out,
17:13
but
17:14
it
17:14
also
17:14
didn't
17:15
kill
17:15
me,
17:15
did
17:16
it?
17:17
Now
17:17
at
17:18
least
17:18
I
17:18
know
17:18
something.
17:19
It's
17:19
like
17:19
going
17:19
through
17:20
a
17:20
maze,
17:21
right?
17:22
And
17:23
you
17:23
hit
17:23
your
17:24
head
17:24
against
17:24
a
17:24
wall
17:24
and
17:25
then.
17:25
So
17:25
what
17:25
are
17:25
you
17:25
going
17:25
to
17:26
do?
17:26
Just
17:26
stand
17:26
there
17:26
staring
17:27
at
17:27
the
17:27
wall
17:27
you
17:27
hit
17:27
your
17:28
head
17:28
against?
17:28
Or
17:29
are
17:29
you
17:29
going
17:29
to
17:29
look
17:30
to
17:30
your
17:30
right,
17:30
look
17:31
to
17:31
your
17:31
left,
17:31
look
17:32
behind
17:32
you
17:32
and
17:33
see
17:33
where
17:34
the
17:34
next
17:35
path
17:36
is?
17:37
You
17:37
know,
17:38
that's
17:38
what
17:38
you
17:38
have
17:39
to
17:39
do.
17:39
And
17:40
some
17:40
people,
17:41
they
17:41
do
17:41
stay
17:42
looking
17:42
at
17:43
the
17:43
wall.
17:43
They
17:43
just
17:43
hit
17:43
their
17:44
Head
17:44
against
17:44
saying,
17:45
I
17:45
don't.
17:45
I
17:45
don't.
17:46
I
17:46
don't
17:46
see
17:46
another
17:46
way.
17:47
I
17:47
guess
17:47
I'm
17:48
screwed.
17:48
No,
17:49
you're
17:49
not
17:50
trying,
17:52
you
17:52
know,
17:52
you
17:52
have
17:52
to
17:52
kick
17:53
your
17:53
own
17:53
butt.
17:53
That's
17:54
a
17:54
great
17:54
analogy,
17:55
Wendy.
17:55
Like
17:55
the
17:55
maze.
17:56
I've
17:56
never
17:56
heard
17:56
it
17:57
described
17:57
like
17:57
that,
17:57
but
17:57
it's.
17:58
It's
17:58
so
17:59
visual.
17:59
And
18:00
it's
18:00
like.
18:00
That's
18:00
exactly
18:01
it.
18:01
It's
18:01
like
18:02
you
18:02
have
18:02
a
18:02
choice.
18:03
You
18:03
always
18:04
have
18:04
a
18:04
choice,
18:04
right?
18:04
So
18:05
you
18:05
can
18:05
go
18:05
forward,
18:06
backward,
18:06
right,
18:07
left.
18:07
Like
18:07
you
18:08
pick
18:08
your.
18:08
Pick
18:08
your
18:09
way,
18:09
you
18:09
know,
18:09
but
18:10
make
18:10
that
18:10
step.
18:11
Your
18:12
maze
18:12
is
18:12
going
18:12
to
18:12
be
18:13
different
18:13
than
18:13
somebody
18:14
else's
18:14
maze.
18:15
So
18:15
there
18:15
is
18:15
really
18:16
no
18:16
reason
18:18
to
18:18
compare
18:18
yourself
18:19
to
18:20
other
18:20
people.
18:21
Again,
18:21
I
18:22
say
18:22
that
18:22
like
18:22
it's
18:22
easy
18:23
to
18:23
stop
18:23
doing
18:23
that.
18:24
It
18:24
isn't.
18:24
But
18:25
at
18:25
least
18:26
have
18:26
the
18:26
awareness
18:26
that
18:27
you
18:27
know
18:27
it's
18:27
bad.
18:28
Exactly.
18:29
Just
18:29
kind
18:29
of
18:30
know
18:30
that
18:30
a
18:30
little
18:31
bit.
18:31
Right.
18:33
Do
18:33
you
18:34
think,
18:34
like
18:34
all
18:34
of
18:35
your
18:35
amazing
18:35
improv
18:36
and
18:36
groundlings,
18:37
do
18:37
you
18:37
think
18:37
that
18:37
prepared
18:38
you
18:38
even
18:38
more?
18:38
Because
18:39
you
18:39
have
18:39
to
18:39
be
18:39
so.
18:40
So
18:40
in
18:40
the
18:40
moment,
18:40
you
18:40
know,
18:41
it's
18:41
like
18:41
you're
18:41
getting
18:42
reactions
18:42
from.
18:43
It's.
18:43
It's
18:43
just
18:44
so
18:44
like
18:44
you're
18:44
present
18:45
right
18:45
there.
18:45
Do
18:45
you
18:46
think
18:46
that
18:46
that
18:46
helped
18:46
prepare
18:47
you
18:47
even
18:47
for,
18:48
like,
18:48
midlife?
18:49
You
18:49
know,
18:50
a
18:50
hundred
18:51
percent,
18:52
100%.
18:53
And
18:53
you
18:54
don't
18:54
realize
18:54
that
18:55
when
18:55
you're.
18:55
When
18:56
you're
18:56
going
18:56
into
18:56
it.
18:57
But
18:57
what
18:57
I
18:58
have
18:58
learned
18:59
looking
19:00
back
19:00
is
19:00
that
19:01
it
19:01
really
19:01
did
19:02
prepare
19:02
me
19:02
for
19:03
everything.
19:03
Because
19:04
when
19:05
you're
19:05
improvising
19:05
and
19:06
you're
19:06
improvising
19:06
well,
19:07
it's
19:07
not
19:07
about
19:09
getting
19:09
all
19:09
the
19:09
laughs.
19:10
It's
19:10
about
19:10
keeping
19:11
the
19:11
story
19:12
moving
19:13
so
19:13
that
19:13
the
19:13
story
19:14
goes
19:14
somewhere.
19:16
Otherwise,
19:17
bad
19:17
improvisers
19:18
will
19:18
just
19:19
end
19:19
up
19:19
fighting,
19:20
starting
19:21
an
19:21
argument
19:23
and
19:23
trying
19:23
to
19:23
get
19:23
punchlines
19:24
out.
19:24
No,
19:24
no,
19:25
no.
19:25
You
19:25
have
19:25
to
19:25
keep
19:26
adding
19:26
information
19:28
so
19:28
that
19:28
again,
19:29
you
19:29
keep
19:29
moving
19:29
through
19:30
the
19:30
maze.
19:31
So
19:31
now
19:31
I
19:32
can
19:32
talk
19:32
to
19:33
anybody,
19:35
I
19:35
can
19:35
have
19:35
a
19:35
conversation
19:36
with
19:36
anybody
19:38
and
19:39
bluff
19:39
my
19:39
way
19:40
through
19:40
any
19:40
topic
19:41
if
19:41
I
19:41
need
19:41
to.
19:42
You
19:42
know,
19:42
that
19:43
does
19:43
come
19:43
in
19:43
handy.
19:44
Don't
19:45
ask
19:45
me
19:45
to
19:45
give
19:45
you
19:45
an
19:45
example,
19:47
because
19:47
I
19:47
can't
19:48
right
19:48
now.
19:48
But
19:49
it
19:49
does
19:49
come
19:49
in
19:50
handy.
19:50
And
19:50
it's
19:50
all
19:51
about
19:51
saying
19:51
yes
19:52
to
19:52
things.
19:52
You
19:53
never
19:53
deny.
19:53
So
19:54
if
19:54
someone
19:54
lays
19:54
out
19:55
information,
19:55
you
19:55
don't
19:56
turn
19:56
around
19:56
and
19:56
say,
19:57
nuh,
19:58
that
19:58
didn't
19:58
happen.
19:59
No.
19:59
In
20:00
improv,
20:00
you
20:01
always
20:01
say
20:02
yes,
20:02
and
20:02
then
20:02
you
20:03
justify
20:03
it,
20:03
and
20:04
that's
20:04
where
20:04
the
20:04
comedy
20:05
comes
20:05
out.
20:06
So
20:07
with
20:07
that
20:07
in
20:08
mind.
20:08
Yeah.
20:09
As
20:09
you're
20:09
going
20:09
through
20:10
life,
20:10
just
20:10
keep
20:11
saying,
20:11
okay,
20:12
then
20:13
what?
20:13
Yes,
20:13
then
20:14
what?
20:14
Then
20:14
what,
20:15
then
20:15
what?
20:16
That's
20:16
how
20:16
you
20:16
get
20:17
ahead.
20:17
That's
20:17
how
20:17
you
20:17
keep
20:18
moving.
20:19
That's
20:19
good
20:19
too,
20:20
because
20:20
yeah,
20:20
if
20:20
you
20:20
say
20:21
yes,
20:21
if
20:21
you're
20:21
a
20:22
yes
20:22
person,
20:22
you
20:23
don't
20:23
know
20:23
what
20:23
you
20:23
could
20:23
be
20:24
opening
20:24
opportunity
20:26
right
20:26
and
20:26
left
20:26
that
20:26
maybe
20:27
you
20:27
didn't
20:27
before.
20:28
It's
20:28
all
20:28
reframing
20:29
your
20:29
mind.
20:29
Right.
20:30
Reframing
20:31
your
20:31
mind.
20:31
And
20:31
sometimes
20:32
it's
20:33
yes,
20:34
and
20:34
I
20:34
can't
20:35
do
20:35
that,
20:36
but
20:36
I
20:36
can
20:37
do
20:37
this.
20:38
But
20:38
starting
20:39
from
20:39
a
20:39
mindset
20:40
of
20:42
what
20:42
can
20:43
I
20:43
do?
20:44
Feature
20:45
that.
20:46
Don't
20:46
feature
20:47
what
20:47
you
20:47
can't
20:48
do.
20:49
What
20:50
do
20:50
you
20:50
bring
20:50
to
20:50
the
20:50
table?
20:51
Right.
20:52
Brings
20:52
another
20:52
option.
20:53
Even
20:53
if
20:53
you
20:53
have
20:54
to
20:54
right
20:54
the.
20:55
Option
20:55
no
20:55
one's
20:55
thought
20:56
of.
20:56
Yes.
20:57
Because
20:57
I
20:57
always
20:57
say,
20:58
like,
20:58
no
20:58
one
20:58
wants
20:59
dessert
20:59
until
20:59
you
21:00
parade
21:00
the
21:00
dessert
21:01
cart
21:01
by.
21:02
And
21:02
then
21:02
they
21:03
say,
21:03
oh,
21:03
wait,
21:05
I
21:06
do
21:06
want
21:06
that.
21:07
I
21:07
do
21:07
want
21:07
that
21:07
scone.
21:08
I
21:08
do
21:08
want
21:08
that
21:09
tiramisu.
21:11
You
21:11
know,
21:11
it
21:11
took
21:11
you
21:12
showing
21:12
it
21:12
to
21:12
me,
21:14
realize
21:14
I
21:14
wanted
21:15
it.
21:15
See,
21:16
that's,
21:16
that's
21:16
also
21:17
good
21:17
for
21:17
women
21:17
in
21:17
midlife
21:18
because
21:18
I
21:18
feel
21:18
like,
21:18
you
21:19
know,
21:19
we
21:19
can
21:19
tend
21:19
to
21:19
get
21:20
stuck
21:20
a
21:20
little
21:20
bit
21:20
sometimes,
21:21
you
21:21
know,
21:21
the
21:21
weight
21:22
of
21:22
the
21:22
world
21:22
and.
21:22
Yeah.
21:23
Where
21:23
we
21:24
are
21:24
in
21:24
life.
21:24
And
21:25
these
21:25
timelines
21:26
start
21:26
playing
21:26
sometimes
21:27
in
21:27
your
21:27
head,
21:27
you
21:28
know,
21:28
and
21:28
it's
21:28
like,
21:29
okay,
21:29
check
21:30
myself.
21:30
Like
21:30
at
21:31
40,
21:31
am
21:32
I
21:32
supposed
21:32
to
21:32
be
21:32
here
21:32
at
21:33
45?
21:33
At
21:33
50,
21:34
at
21:34
55.
21:34
And
21:35
you
21:35
just
21:35
kind
21:35
of
21:35
go
21:35
down
21:35
the
21:36
thing.
21:36
And
21:36
my
21:37
thing
21:37
is
21:37
I'm
21:37
like
21:38
saying,
21:38
fuck
21:39
timelines.
21:40
Like,
21:40
if
21:40
you
21:40
want
21:40
to
21:40
go
21:41
and
21:42
start
21:42
a
21:42
business
21:42
at
21:43
75,
21:43
do
21:43
it.
21:44
If
21:44
you
21:44
want
21:44
to.
21:45
Yeah.
21:46
If
21:46
you're
21:46
in
21:46
an
21:46
unhappy
21:47
marriage
21:47
and
21:48
you
21:48
want
21:48
to
21:48
get
21:48
out
21:49
at
21:49
60
21:49
years
21:49
old,
21:50
do
21:50
it.
21:50
Like
21:51
there's
21:51
nothing
21:52
holding
21:52
people
21:53
to
21:53
these
21:53
timelines
21:54
in
21:55
their
21:55
heads.
21:55
And
21:56
I
21:56
wonder
21:56
if
21:57
you've
21:57
ever
21:57
contended
21:57
with
21:58
that.
21:58
Have
21:58
you
21:58
ever
21:58
had
21:59
that
21:59
timeline
21:59
sort
22:00
of
22:00
mentality?
22:01
Yeah,
22:01
when
22:02
I
22:02
was
22:02
young,
22:02
I
22:02
had
22:03
it
22:04
because
22:04
everybody
22:05
else
22:05
did,
22:07
you
22:07
know,
22:07
and
22:08
so
22:08
you
22:08
kind
22:08
of
22:08
take
22:08
on
22:09
the
22:10
mindset
22:10
of
22:10
the
22:11
people
22:11
you
22:11
surround
22:11
yourself
22:12
with.
22:12
But
22:12
as
22:13
you
22:13
get
22:13
older
22:14
and
22:14
your
22:14
time
22:15
becomes
22:15
more
22:16
precious
22:18
and
22:18
your,
22:18
your
22:19
mental
22:19
well
22:20
being,
22:20
and
22:20
thank
22:21
God
22:21
people
22:21
are
22:21
talking
22:22
about
22:22
this
22:22
more
22:22
now.
22:24
Mental
22:24
well
22:24
being
22:25
becomes
22:26
everything
22:27
you
22:28
realize,
22:28
or
22:29
I
22:29
realize
22:30
at
22:30
least.
22:30
Like,
22:30
hey,
22:31
I'm
22:31
in
22:31
my
22:31
50s.
22:32
I
22:32
don't
22:32
feel
22:33
any
22:33
different
22:33
than
22:34
I
22:34
did
22:36
when
22:36
I
22:36
was
22:36
in
22:37
junior
22:37
high
22:37
school.
22:39
Except
22:40
I
22:40
have
22:41
that
22:41
lack
22:41
of
22:43
self
22:43
consciousness.
22:45
Self
22:46
consciousness.
22:47
Now
22:48
I
22:48
can
22:48
drive
22:49
a
22:49
car
22:51
and
22:51
I
22:51
got
22:51
some
22:51
money,
22:53
but
22:53
I
22:53
feel
22:54
the
22:54
same.
22:55
So
22:55
what
22:55
does
22:55
that
22:56
mean?
22:56
I
22:56
could
22:57
live
22:57
another
22:57
50
22:57
years.
22:59
The
23:00
women
23:00
in
23:00
my
23:00
family
23:01
live
23:01
until
23:01
their
23:01
early
23:02
hundreds.
23:02
So,
23:03
like,
23:03
this
23:03
is
23:04
a
23:04
second.
23:05
Let's
23:05
let's
23:06
talk
23:06
about
23:07
this
23:07
as
23:07
a
23:07
second
23:08
chance.
23:08
And
23:08
it's
23:08
almost
23:09
like,
23:11
hey,
23:11
I'm
23:11
doing
23:11
it.
23:12
I.
23:12
What's
23:13
holding
23:13
me
23:13
back?
23:14
There's.
23:15
There's.
23:15
Is
23:16
there
23:16
something
23:16
to
23:16
be
23:16
gained
23:17
by
23:17
me
23:17
not
23:18
doing
23:19
xyz?
23:20
No.
23:22
So
23:22
do
23:22
it.
23:24
You
23:24
know,
23:25
again.
23:27
Maybe.
23:27
Maybe
23:28
you
23:28
only
23:28
live
23:28
five
23:29
more
23:29
years.
23:29
Don't
23:29
you
23:30
want
23:30
it
23:30
to
23:30
be
23:30
good?
23:32
Don't
23:33
you
23:33
want
23:33
it
23:33
to
23:33
be
23:33
blissful?
23:36
So.
23:37
So
23:37
what's
23:38
stopping
23:38
you
23:38
from
23:38
doing
23:39
the
23:39
thing?
23:40
It's
23:40
the
23:40
fear.
23:41
It's
23:41
the
23:41
fear,
23:42
you
23:42
know?
23:42
And
23:43
what.
23:43
What's
23:43
the
23:43
worst
23:44
that
23:44
can
23:44
happen?
23:44
It
23:45
doesn't
23:45
work
23:45
out.
23:46
Guess
23:46
what?
23:46
How
23:46
many
23:46
things
23:47
in
23:47
life
23:47
have
23:47
not
23:48
worked
23:48
out?
23:48
And
23:48
here
23:48
you
23:49
are
23:49
still.
23:50
Is
23:50
it
23:50
going
23:50
to
23:50
kill
23:50
you?
23:51
No.
23:53
Are
23:53
you
23:53
going
23:53
to
23:53
lose
23:53
all
23:54
your
23:54
money?
23:54
Well,
23:54
I
23:55
hope.
23:55
I
23:55
hope
23:55
you're
23:56
not
23:56
that
23:56
ridiculous,
23:57
but,
23:58
you
23:58
know,
24:00
there's
24:00
research
24:01
out
24:01
there
24:01
to,
24:03
you
24:03
know,
24:04
motivate
24:04
you
24:04
or
24:05
give
24:05
you
24:05
a
24:06
blueprint
24:06
for
24:06
whatever
24:07
that
24:07
thing
24:07
is.
24:09
And
24:09
what's
24:09
to
24:09
stop
24:10
you?
24:10
Just
24:10
do
24:10
it.
24:11
Just,
24:11
you
24:12
know.
24:12
God,
24:13
I
24:13
don't
24:13
know.
24:13
I'm
24:14
starting
24:14
to
24:14
get
24:14
repetitive,
24:15
but
24:15
I
24:15
think
24:16
it's
24:17
true.
24:17
It's
24:17
like,
24:17
get.
24:18
Get
24:18
out
24:18
there.
24:18
Do
24:19
it.
24:19
Like,
24:19
don't
24:19
be
24:19
embarrassed.
24:20
I
24:20
think
24:20
embarrassment,
24:21
too,
24:21
holds
24:21
people
24:21
back.
24:22
A
24:22
lot
24:22
of
24:22
them,
24:22
they're
24:23
like,
24:23
oh,
24:23
what
24:23
will,
24:24
you
24:24
know,
24:24
Tom
24:24
from
24:25
the
24:25
office
24:25
think?
24:26
Or,
24:26
what
24:26
will
24:26
this
24:26
other
24:27
mom
24:27
think?
24:27
Or
24:28
what?
24:28
You
24:28
know,
24:28
whatever
24:28
it
24:29
is,
24:30
it's
24:30
like
24:30
people
24:31
don't
24:31
have
24:31
the
24:31
time
24:31
to
24:32
even.
24:32
I
24:32
think
24:32
that
24:32
they
24:33
think
24:33
that
24:33
people
24:33
are
24:33
ruminating
24:34
over
24:34
their
24:35
choices,
24:35
and
24:35
it's
24:35
like,
24:36
nobody
24:36
has
24:36
the
24:36
time.
24:37
Like,
24:37
just
24:37
go,
24:38
dear
24:38
God,
24:39
no
24:39
one's.
24:39
Thinking
24:39
about
24:40
you
24:40
that
24:40
much.
24:41
No.
24:41
No.
24:42
And
24:42
if
24:42
they
24:42
are,
24:43
they're
24:43
mentally
24:44
ill
24:44
and
24:44
you
24:45
shouldn't
24:45
be
24:46
hanging
24:46
around
24:46
with
24:46
them.
24:47
Like,
24:47
what's
24:48
the
24:48
worst
24:48
case
24:48
scenario?
24:49
They
24:49
say
24:50
something
24:50
snide.
24:51
Who
24:52
cares?
24:53
Who
24:53
the
24:53
fuck
24:54
cares,
24:54
right?
24:55
I
24:55
mean,
24:55
seriously,
24:56
are
24:56
they
24:56
paying
24:57
your
24:57
bills?
24:58
No.
24:59
You
24:59
don't
24:59
even
24:59
like
24:59
this
24:59
person.
25:00
It
25:00
sounds
25:00
like.
25:03
Who
25:03
cares
25:03
about
25:04
Tom
25:04
from
25:04
the
25:04
office?
25:05
Seriously,
25:06
Office
25:06
can
25:07
suck
25:07
it.
25:08
So.
25:09
So,
25:10
you
25:10
know,
25:10
being
25:10
in
25:11
Hollywood,
25:11
geez,
25:11
you're,
25:12
like,
25:12
on
25:12
this
25:12
global
25:13
platform
25:13
and
25:14
there's
25:14
so
25:14
many.
25:14
There's
25:15
so
25:15
much
25:15
attention.
25:15
How
25:16
do
25:16
you
25:16
protect
25:17
your
25:17
peace
25:17
and
25:18
your
25:18
mental
25:18
health?
25:19
One
25:20
thing.
25:20
I
25:20
never
25:20
moved
25:21
to
25:21
Los
25:21
Angeles.
25:22
I
25:22
still
25:22
live
25:22
in
25:22
Long
25:23
Beach.
25:23
Oh,
25:23
you're
25:24
still
25:24
in
25:24
Long
25:24
Beach.
25:25
Oh,
25:26
wow.
25:26
Okay.
25:27
I
25:27
don't
25:27
want
25:27
to
25:27
live
25:28
up
25:28
there.
25:28
Yeah.
25:29
So
25:29
that's
25:29
a
25:29
big
25:30
part
25:30
of
25:30
it
25:30
right
25:30
there.
25:31
Sure.
25:31
I
25:32
spend
25:32
hours
25:32
on
25:33
the
25:33
freeway
25:33
every
25:33
day.
25:34
But
25:34
that's
25:34
okay
25:34
because
25:35
I'm.
25:36
I'm
25:36
down
25:36
Here.
25:37
I
25:37
like
25:37
it
25:37
here.
25:38
People
25:39
around
25:39
me
25:39
are
25:40
not
25:40
trying
25:40
to
25:40
all
25:40
do
25:40
the
25:41
same
25:41
thing.
25:41
My
25:42
parents
25:42
are
25:43
three
25:43
miles
25:43
away.
25:44
My
25:44
best
25:44
friend
25:45
is
25:45
a
25:46
mile
25:46
away.
25:46
Like,
25:47
I'm
25:48
set
25:48
up
25:48
here.
25:49
It's
25:49
very
25:49
nice.
25:50
Okay.
25:50
And
25:50
I
25:51
don't
25:51
do
25:51
like
25:53
you,
25:53
you
25:53
don't
25:53
see
25:53
me
25:53
going
25:54
to
25:54
clubs
25:55
or
25:55
everybody's
25:56
party.
25:56
Like,
25:59
please
25:59
don't
25:59
make
25:59
me
26:00
go
26:00
to
26:00
a
26:00
party.
26:02
No
26:02
freak
26:02
offs.
26:04
Oh.
26:06
Can
26:07
you
26:07
think
26:07
of
26:07
anything
26:08
more
26:08
dreary,
26:09
I
26:09
mean,
26:10
than
26:10
a
26:10
freak
26:11
off?
26:11
Honestly,
26:12
I'm
26:12
like,
26:12
why?
26:13
Like,
26:14
there's
26:14
no
26:14
redeeming.
26:15
There's
26:15
nothing
26:16
redeeming
26:17
like,
26:17
the
26:17
way
26:17
these
26:18
things
26:18
are
26:18
described.
26:19
I'm
26:19
like,
26:19
why?
26:20
Sounds
26:21
awful.
26:22
How
26:22
awful?
26:23
And
26:23
what
26:23
do
26:24
people
26:24
think
26:24
they're
26:24
gonna
26:25
get?
26:25
Yeah.
26:27
Career
26:28
or
26:28
relationship?
26:29
Yep,
26:30
honey.
26:31
I
26:31
mean,
26:31
that's
26:32
a
26:32
big
26:32
part
26:32
of
26:32
it.
26:33
And
26:33
I,
26:34
you
26:34
know,
26:34
I,
26:35
I
26:35
do
26:35
what
26:35
I
26:35
need
26:36
to
26:36
do
26:36
to
26:36
keep
26:37
my
26:38
career
26:38
going.
26:39
But
26:39
to
26:39
me,
26:40
that
26:40
does
26:40
not
26:40
include,
26:41
like,
26:42
going
26:42
to
26:42
every
26:44
single
26:45
red
26:45
carpet
26:46
thing
26:46
there
26:46
is.
26:47
Yeah.
26:48
Do
26:48
you
26:48
like
26:48
that
26:48
though?
26:49
Do
26:49
you
26:49
like
26:49
going
26:49
to
26:49
like,
26:50
when
26:50
you
26:50
have
26:50
to
26:50
do
26:50
press
26:51
and
26:51
like
26:51
the
26:51
red
26:52
carpet?
26:53
I
26:53
don't
26:54
mind
26:54
doing
26:54
press.
26:55
Okay.
26:58
I
26:58
would
26:58
say
26:58
I
26:59
do
26:59
just
26:59
the
26:59
right
27:00
amount.
27:01
But
27:01
the
27:02
red
27:02
carpet
27:02
stuff
27:03
is
27:03
very
27:05
soul
27:06
crushing.
27:08
Saying
27:08
the
27:08
same
27:08
thing
27:09
over
27:09
and
27:10
over.
27:12
And
27:13
like
27:13
having
27:14
your
27:14
elbows
27:15
critiqued
27:16
or
27:16
like,
27:17
you
27:17
know,
27:18
I
27:18
just
27:18
never
27:19
get
27:19
the
27:19
fashion
27:20
totally
27:20
right.
27:21
And
27:21
I'm,
27:21
I'm
27:22
someone
27:22
who,
27:24
look,
27:25
I,
27:25
I
27:25
can
27:26
snatch
27:26
it
27:26
up
27:26
when
27:27
I
27:27
need
27:27
to,
27:27
but
27:28
there's
27:28
always
27:28
going
27:28
to
27:29
be
27:29
cat
27:29
hair
27:29
on
27:29
me.
27:30
There's
27:30
always
27:30
going
27:31
to
27:31
be
27:31
like
27:31
something
27:32
askew
27:34
and,
27:36
you
27:37
know,
27:37
I
27:37
just,
27:37
oh,
27:38
God,
27:39
whatever
27:40
it.
27:40
And
27:41
then
27:41
someone's
27:41
always
27:41
going
27:41
to
27:41
have
27:42
something
27:42
to
27:42
say
27:42
about
27:42
it.
27:43
Yeah,
27:44
but
27:44
like,
27:44
I'm
27:45
here
27:45
for
27:45
the,
27:46
the
27:46
working
27:46
part
27:47
of
27:47
it.
27:48
I
27:48
like
27:48
the
27:48
acting
27:49
bit.
27:50
The
27:50
other
27:51
stuff
27:51
is
27:51
like,
27:52
it's,
27:53
I
27:53
have
27:53
to
27:53
do
27:54
it,
27:55
you
27:55
know,
27:56
and
27:56
I've
27:56
made
27:56
my
27:56
peace
27:57
with
27:57
it,
27:57
but
27:57
I
27:58
can't
27:58
say
27:58
it's
27:59
fun.
27:59
I
27:59
will
28:00
say
28:00
that
28:02
I
28:02
don't
28:02
hate
28:03
it,
28:03
but
28:03
it's
28:04
not.
28:05
It
28:06
is
28:06
work.
28:07
It's
28:07
work.
28:09
It's
28:09
definitely
28:09
part
28:10
of
28:10
the
28:10
job.
28:10
Right.
28:12
What
28:12
about
28:13
with
28:13
unsolicited
28:14
advice
28:15
specifically
28:16
about
28:17
career
28:17
or
28:17
body?
28:18
And
28:18
I'll
28:18
give
28:18
you
28:18
an
28:19
example.
28:20
Back
28:20
in
28:20
my
28:20
earlier
28:21
days
28:21
when
28:21
I
28:21
was
28:21
kind
28:21
of
28:22
mentoring
28:22
with
28:23
this
28:23
person,
28:24
I
28:24
remember
28:24
I
28:24
was
28:24
going
28:25
in,
28:25
we
28:25
were
28:25
doing
28:25
some
28:26
hosting
28:26
stuff,
28:27
practicing,
28:28
and
28:28
this
28:28
person
28:29
looked
28:29
at,
28:29
told
28:30
me,
28:30
just
28:30
kind
28:30
of
28:30
unprompted,
28:32
turned
28:32
around
28:32
and
28:32
said,
28:33
you
28:33
don't
28:33
look
28:34
like
28:34
a
28:34
Victoria's
28:34
Secret
28:35
model,
28:35
so
28:35
you're
28:35
probably
28:36
not
28:36
gonna
28:36
work
28:37
TV
28:37
and
28:37
hosting.
28:38
But,
28:39
you
28:39
know,
28:39
you
28:39
could
28:40
maybe
28:40
try
28:40
singing
28:41
or
28:41
something
28:41
else,
28:42
like,
28:42
trying
28:42
to
28:42
give
28:42
other
28:43
things.
28:43
And
28:44
it.
28:44
Did
28:44
it
28:44
hurt?
28:45
Like,
28:45
it
28:45
hurt
28:45
the
28:45
shit
28:46
out
28:46
of
28:46
me
28:46
at
28:46
the
28:46
time,
28:46
you
28:47
know,
28:47
I
28:47
was
28:47
like,
28:47
God,
28:47
what
28:48
an
28:48
ass.
28:49
How
28:49
could
28:49
he
28:49
say
28:49
this?
28:50
And
28:50
maybe
28:51
he
28:51
was
28:51
right.
28:51
But
28:51
in
28:52
a
28:52
way,
28:52
it
28:52
kind
28:52
of
28:52
fueled
28:52
me
28:53
to
28:53
even
28:53
be
28:54
more
28:54
like,
28:55
no,
28:55
fuck
28:55
that.
28:56
I'm
28:56
gonna
28:56
go
28:56
after
28:56
it.
28:57
Like,
28:57
I'm
28:57
gonna
28:57
do
28:58
it
28:58
my
28:58
own
28:58
way,
28:58
you
28:58
know?
28:59
So
28:59
it
28:59
was
28:59
kind
28:59
of
28:59
like.
29:00
I
29:00
don't
29:00
want
29:00
to
29:01
say
29:01
it
29:01
wasn't
29:01
inspiration,
29:02
but
29:02
it
29:02
was
29:02
fuel,
29:03
you
29:03
know,
29:03
like,
29:03
in
29:03
a
29:03
lot
29:04
of
29:04
ways.
29:04
Yeah.
29:05
Have
29:05
you
29:05
had
29:05
any
29:06
experiences
29:06
like
29:06
that
29:07
where
29:07
it's
29:07
kind
29:07
of
29:07
like
29:07
that
29:07
unsolicited,
29:08
you
29:09
know,
29:09
critique
29:10
or.
29:10
Oh,
29:11
somebody
29:12
always
29:12
feels
29:13
like
29:13
they
29:13
gotta
29:14
weigh
29:14
in
29:14
on
29:14
such
29:15
matters,
29:16
you
29:16
know?
29:16
And
29:17
what
29:17
I've
29:17
found
29:18
is
29:18
the
29:19
first
29:19
person
29:19
to
29:20
say
29:20
something
29:21
snarky
29:21
like
29:21
that
29:22
is
29:22
the
29:23
first
29:23
person
29:23
to
29:24
leave
29:24
the
29:24
industry,
29:25
so.
29:27
Oh,
29:27
you
29:28
don't
29:28
look
29:28
like
29:28
a
29:28
Victoria's
29:29
Secret
29:29
model.
29:30
Yes,
29:31
most
29:31
people
29:31
don't.
29:32
They
29:32
don't
29:33
even
29:33
look
29:33
like
29:34
themselves.
29:34
Like,
29:35
that
29:35
takes
29:35
a
29:36
weird
29:36
regimen.
29:37
You
29:37
tell
29:37
me.
29:38
Show
29:38
me
29:38
one.
29:39
Show
29:39
me
29:39
a
29:39
Victoria's
29:40
Secret
29:40
model
29:42
that's
29:42
really
29:42
gone
29:43
on
29:43
to
29:43
break
29:44
barriers
29:44
in
29:45
the
29:45
industry.
29:46
And,
29:47
like,
29:48
I
29:48
don't
29:48
know.
29:48
I
29:49
just
29:49
think
29:49
that's
29:49
a
29:49
weird
29:50
comparison.
29:53
Like,
29:53
okay,
29:54
you're
29:54
a
29:54
Victoria's
29:55
Secret
29:55
model.
29:56
That's
29:56
great.
29:57
You
29:57
can
29:57
walk
29:57
around
29:58
in
29:58
your
29:58
knickers
29:59
on
29:59
the
30:00
Runway
30:01
while
30:01
having
30:01
an
30:02
active
30:02
eating
30:02
disorder,
30:03
but
30:03
do
30:04
those
30:04
people.
30:07
Are
30:07
they
30:07
good
30:08
at
30:08
hosting?
30:09
Like,
30:12
feels
30:12
like
30:13
comparing
30:14
apples
30:15
to
30:15
some
30:15
other
30:15
fruit
30:16
that
30:16
has
30:16
a
30:16
very
30:17
short
30:17
shelf
30:17
life.
30:19
Totally.
30:20
Totally.
30:21
It
30:21
does.
30:22
That's
30:22
such
30:22
a
30:22
dumb
30:23
thing
30:23
to
30:23
say.
30:25
Yeah.
30:26
Don't.
30:26
Don't
30:26
assume
30:27
that
30:27
that's
30:27
what
30:28
everybody
30:29
in
30:29
the
30:29
world
30:29
wants
30:30
to
30:30
look
30:30
at
30:31
or
30:32
hear
30:32
from,
30:33
because
30:33
then
30:34
you
30:34
have
30:35
plenty
30:35
of
30:35
other
30:37
examples
30:38
of
30:38
people
30:39
that
30:39
weren't
30:39
that.
30:41
I'm
30:41
looking
30:41
at
30:42
you.
30:42
Oprah.
30:43
You.
30:43
Seems
30:44
to
30:44
be
30:44
doing
30:44
okay.
30:45
Made
30:46
a
30:46
name
30:46
for
30:46
herself.
30:47
Yeah,
30:48
that's.
30:48
That's
30:48
so
30:48
snarky.
30:49
And
30:49
a
30:49
lot
30:49
of
30:50
times
30:50
people
30:50
will
30:50
say
30:51
things
30:51
like
30:51
that
30:52
as
30:52
a
30:52
power
30:52
play
30:54
to
30:54
sort
30:55
of
30:55
show
30:55
you,
30:57
you
30:57
know,
30:58
to
30:58
kind
30:58
of
30:59
get
30:59
you
30:59
in
30:59
line
31:00
on
31:00
their
31:00
terms.
31:01
But
31:01
it
31:01
doesn't
31:01
even
31:02
mean
31:02
that
31:02
it's
31:02
true.
31:03
It
31:03
just
31:03
means
31:03
they
31:04
know
31:04
it's
31:04
gonna
31:04
hurt
31:05
you
31:05
or
31:05
affect
31:06
you
31:06
in
31:06
some
31:06
way.
31:08
So.
31:09
Yeah.
31:10
What
31:10
do
31:10
you
31:10
do
31:10
with
31:11
those
31:11
people?
31:11
The
31:11
bird.
31:12
And
31:12
keep
31:12
it
31:12
moving.
31:13
Exactly.
31:14
They're
31:14
not.
31:15
They're
31:15
lost
31:15
in
31:15
the
31:15
maze.
31:16
They're
31:16
not
31:16
getting
31:16
out
31:16
of
31:17
that
31:17
maze.
31:18
Yeah,
31:18
they're
31:18
not
31:18
getting
31:18
out
31:19
of
31:19
that
31:19
maze.
31:19
Nope.
31:20
Not
31:20
at
31:20
all.
31:22
So
31:22
what
31:23
is
31:23
one
31:23
Thing
31:23
Especially,
31:24
like,
31:24
I
31:24
found
31:24
that
31:25
in
31:25
midlife,
31:25
that
31:26
I
31:26
am
31:26
done
31:27
apologizing.
31:28
Like,
31:29
a
31:29
lot
31:29
of
31:29
times
31:29
I'd
31:29
be
31:29
like,
31:30
oh,
31:30
gosh,
31:30
sorry.
31:30
Like,
31:31
if
31:31
I
31:31
had
31:31
to,
31:31
you
31:31
know,
31:32
say
31:32
something
31:33
out
31:33
of.
31:33
Out
31:33
of
31:33
turn
31:34
or
31:34
whatever.
31:35
What
31:35
is
31:36
something
31:36
that
31:36
you're
31:36
done
31:37
with
31:37
apologizing
31:38
for
31:38
at
31:39
this
31:39
stage?
31:40
Ooh,
31:40
I
31:41
love
31:41
that.
31:42
Apologizing.
31:45
Oh.
31:48
I
31:48
will
31:49
never
31:51
apologize
31:52
for
31:52
asking
31:53
for
31:53
what's
31:53
fair
31:54
for
31:54
me.
31:56
Like,
31:56
in
31:56
a
31:56
negotiation.
31:58
Yes.
31:59
Okay.
32:01
And
32:01
it's
32:01
funny
32:03
that
32:04
that's
32:04
come
32:04
up
32:04
less
32:05
and
32:05
less.
32:05
I've.
32:06
I've
32:06
been
32:06
able
32:06
to
32:06
prove
32:07
that
32:07
I'm
32:07
worth
32:09
what
32:10
I'm
32:10
asking
32:10
for.
32:11
Okay.
32:13
But
32:14
it
32:14
is
32:16
interesting
32:16
how
32:17
sometimes
32:18
on
32:18
the
32:18
other
32:19
end,
32:19
a.
32:21
An
32:21
entity
32:21
that
32:22
I
32:22
might
32:22
be
32:22
negotiating
32:23
with
32:23
is.
32:23
Wow,
32:24
someone's.
32:25
Really.
32:26
Huh.
32:27
You.
32:28
You
32:28
think
32:28
you
32:28
deserve
32:29
that?
32:29
Yes.
32:30
And
32:30
here's
32:31
why.
32:32
And
32:32
here's
32:32
what
32:32
I
32:33
bring
32:33
to
32:33
the
32:33
table.
32:35
Do
32:35
you
32:35
need
32:35
references?
32:36
I've
32:37
got
32:37
those,
32:37
too.
32:38
I've
32:38
got
32:39
a
32:39
track
32:39
record
32:40
of
32:40
X,
32:40
Y,
32:40
Z.
32:42
So,
32:42
yes,
32:43
this
32:44
is
32:44
what
32:45
I
32:45
want.
32:46
And
32:46
if
32:46
we
32:46
can't
32:47
make
32:47
it
32:47
work,
32:47
then
32:47
we
32:48
don't
32:48
need
32:48
to
32:48
do
32:48
this.
32:49
I
32:49
always
32:49
have
32:50
one
32:50
foot
32:50
out
32:50
the
32:50
door,
32:52
and
32:52
I'm
32:53
ready
32:53
to
32:53
go.
32:53
Like,
32:54
if.
32:54
If
32:54
I
32:54
ask
32:55
for
32:55
something,
32:56
and
32:56
I
32:56
don't
32:56
mean
32:57
this
32:57
to
32:57
sound
32:57
like
32:58
arrogant
32:58
or
32:59
whatever,
32:59
but
33:00
I
33:00
put
33:00
in
33:01
the
33:01
time
33:03
I've
33:03
put
33:03
in,
33:04
you
33:04
know,
33:05
and
33:05
I.
33:05
And
33:05
I
33:05
know
33:05
what
33:06
I
33:06
bring.
33:06
So,
33:07
not
33:08
trying
33:08
to
33:08
be
33:08
arrogant,
33:08
but,
33:09
like,
33:09
if
33:09
you
33:09
want
33:11
me
33:11
to
33:11
come
33:12
in
33:12
and
33:12
do
33:12
your
33:12
movie
33:13
that
33:13
is
33:13
half
33:13
written,
33:16
I
33:16
assume
33:17
you're
33:17
going
33:17
to
33:17
want
33:18
me
33:18
to
33:18
do
33:18
some
33:18
improv
33:20
and
33:20
fill
33:21
in
33:21
the
33:21
blanks
33:21
and
33:22
give
33:22
some
33:22
connective
33:23
tissue.
33:23
Okay.
33:24
This
33:24
is
33:24
what
33:24
it's
33:25
going
33:25
to
33:25
be.
33:27
And
33:27
if
33:28
we
33:28
can't
33:29
make
33:29
it
33:29
work,
33:29
peace
33:30
and
33:30
love.
33:30
I
33:30
won't
33:31
be
33:31
there.
33:31
I'm
33:31
not
33:32
caving.
33:34
I
33:34
know
33:35
what
33:35
I've
33:35
done
33:35
before.
33:37
That's
33:37
fine.
33:38
I
33:38
won't
33:38
die.
33:38
If
33:39
this
33:39
doesn't
33:39
happen,
33:40
move
33:41
on
33:41
to
33:41
the
33:41
next
33:41
thing.
33:42
Move
33:43
on.
33:43
Move
33:44
further
33:44
down
33:44
the
33:44
maze.
33:45
So,
33:45
like,
33:45
that's.
33:46
That's
33:46
something
33:46
I
33:47
think
33:47
women
33:47
should
33:48
not
33:48
need
33:48
to
33:51
feel
33:51
bad
33:51
about
33:52
it.
33:52
Like,
33:53
ask,
33:54
you
33:54
know,
33:54
but
33:55
know
33:55
your
33:55
worth,
33:56
know
33:56
what
33:56
you
33:56
bring,
33:58
and
33:58
know
34:00
what
34:00
you've
34:01
got
34:01
going
34:01
on
34:01
at
34:01
home.
34:02
So
34:02
if
34:02
you
34:02
need
34:03
certain
34:04
accommodations,
34:07
listen,
34:08
if
34:08
they're
34:08
not
34:08
out
34:08
of
34:08
line,
34:09
you
34:09
shouldn't
34:09
feel
34:09
bad
34:10
asking
34:11
would
34:11
a
34:11
man?
34:13
Probably
34:13
not.
34:16
Doesn't
34:16
matter.
34:16
But
34:16
if
34:17
you.
34:17
If
34:17
you
34:17
want
34:18
me
34:18
to
34:18
do
34:18
a
34:19
certain
34:19
job
34:19
a
34:20
certain
34:20
way,
34:20
this
34:20
is
34:21
what
34:21
I
34:21
need.
34:22
Have
34:22
you
34:22
always
34:23
been
34:23
like
34:23
that?
34:23
Especially,
34:24
like,
34:24
with
34:24
work?
34:25
No.
34:25
I
34:26
love
34:26
that
34:26
I
34:27
always
34:27
be
34:27
the
34:27
one
34:27
that's
34:28
like,
34:29
so
34:30
would
34:30
you
34:30
like
34:30
me
34:30
to
34:31
bring
34:31
my
34:31
own
34:31
clothes?
34:32
Or,
34:32
you
34:33
know
34:33
what?
34:33
If
34:33
you
34:33
don't
34:34
have
34:34
the
34:34
money
34:34
right
34:34
now,
34:35
just
34:35
pay
34:35
me
34:35
in
34:35
a
34:35
month.
34:37
That
34:37
gets
34:38
you
34:38
nowhere.
34:39
Yeah,
34:40
you
34:40
got
34:40
to
34:40
show
34:40
people
34:41
how
34:41
to
34:41
treat
34:41
you
34:42
and
34:42
then
34:43
be
34:43
worth
34:43
it.
34:45
That's
34:45
the
34:45
problem.
34:45
I
34:46
feel
34:46
like
34:46
women
34:46
can
34:47
be.
34:47
Feel
34:47
guilty
34:48
asking
34:48
for
34:49
their
34:49
worth,
34:49
and
34:50
that
34:50
is
34:50
such.
34:51
That
34:51
is
34:51
something
34:51
that
34:51
needs
34:52
to
34:52
be
34:52
dispelled,
34:53
like,
34:53
so
34:53
hard
34:53
because
34:55
everyone.
34:56
We're
34:56
all
34:56
worth
34:56
it.
34:57
Like,
34:57
why
34:57
feel
34:57
guilty?
34:58
Like,
34:58
you're
34:58
saying
34:59
a
34:59
man
34:59
will
34:59
walk
34:59
into
35:00
a
35:00
room
35:00
and
35:01
be
35:01
like,
35:01
I
35:02
need
35:02
this.
35:02
Like,
35:03
now.
35:04
We'll
35:04
think
35:04
twice
35:04
about
35:05
it.
35:05
You
35:05
know
35:05
what
35:06
men
35:06
won't
35:06
do
35:07
is
35:08
say,
35:09
oh,
35:09
really?
35:10
Well,
35:10
it's
35:11
interesting
35:11
that
35:11
you're
35:11
talking
35:12
to
35:12
me
35:12
like
35:12
that.
35:12
Like,
35:13
would
35:13
you,
35:15
like,
35:15
don't
35:15
qualify
35:16
it.
35:17
Like,
35:19
for
35:20
instance,
35:20
what
35:20
I
35:20
just
35:20
said
35:21
about.
35:21
Well,
35:21
a
35:21
man
35:21
wouldn't
35:22
do
35:22
that.
35:22
Well,
35:22
some
35:23
women
35:23
might
35:23
say
35:24
that
35:24
in
35:24
a
35:24
negotiation.
35:25
Would
35:25
you
35:26
say
35:26
that
35:26
to
35:26
a
35:26
man?
35:27
No,
35:27
don't
35:28
even
35:28
go
35:28
there.
35:29
They
35:29
know
35:29
they
35:29
wouldn't
35:29
say
35:30
it.
35:30
Just
35:31
say,
35:31
this
35:31
is
35:31
what
35:32
I
35:32
need.
35:33
No.
35:34
Bye.
35:35
And
35:35
stick
35:35
to
35:35
it.
35:36
Yeah,
35:37
stick
35:37
to
35:37
it.
35:38
That's
35:38
important,
35:38
too.
35:39
And
35:39
if
35:40
they
35:40
want
35:40
you,
35:41
they
35:41
will
35:41
come
35:41
back.
35:44
But
35:44
you
35:44
might
35:45
be
35:45
on
35:45
to
35:45
the
35:45
next
35:45
thing.
35:46
Yeah,
35:47
right.
35:47
It
35:47
could
35:47
be
35:48
better.
35:48
It
35:48
could
35:48
be
35:49
better.
35:49
You
35:49
know,
35:49
it
35:50
could
35:50
be
35:50
better.
35:50
This
35:51
or
35:51
something
35:51
better.
35:52
This
35:52
or
35:53
something
35:53
better.
35:53
That's
35:54
what
35:54
you
35:54
got
35:54
to
35:54
think
35:55
about.
35:55
Do
35:55
you
35:55
manifest?
35:56
I
35:56
hear
35:57
that
35:57
probably.
35:57
You
35:58
know,
35:58
one
35:58
of
35:58
the
35:59
many
35:59
manifestation
36:00
books
36:00
I've
36:01
read
36:01
in
36:01
the
36:01
last
36:01
20
36:02
years.
36:03
But.
36:03
But
36:04
it's
36:04
true.
36:04
It's
36:05
true.
36:05
Do
36:05
you
36:06
manifest?
36:06
Do
36:07
you
36:07
do
36:07
that?
36:09
Yes.
36:09
Oh,
36:10
okay.
36:11
Again.
36:12
And.
36:12
And
36:12
that's
36:13
such
36:13
a.
36:13
That's
36:13
such
36:13
a
36:14
funny
36:14
way
36:14
of
36:14
saying
36:14
it.
36:15
And
36:15
we've.
36:15
It's
36:16
been
36:16
so
36:17
ingrained
36:17
in
36:18
the
36:18
culture
36:18
now,
36:19
but
36:19
it's
36:20
like.
36:20
But
36:21
it
36:21
has
36:21
to
36:21
be.
36:23
How
36:23
do
36:24
I
36:24
want
36:24
to
36:24
say
36:24
it?
36:24
You
36:24
know,
36:24
the
36:25
secret
36:25
came
36:25
out
36:25
and
36:26
it
36:26
ruined
36:26
us
36:26
all.
36:26
It
36:27
made
36:27
it
36:27
sound
36:28
like,
36:28
oh,
36:28
yes,
36:28
you
36:29
know,
36:29
you.
36:29
You
36:29
put
36:30
your
36:30
order
36:30
in
36:30
with
36:30
the
36:31
universe
36:31
and
36:31
it
36:31
all
36:32
just
36:32
comes
36:32
to
36:32
you.
36:32
But
36:33
that's.
36:33
No,
36:34
you
36:34
have
36:34
to,
36:34
like,
36:35
want
36:35
it
36:35
and
36:35
then
36:36
take
36:37
the
36:37
proper
36:38
steps.
36:38
Take
36:38
inspired
36:39
action
36:40
to
36:40
go
36:40
get
36:40
it
36:41
right
36:42
and
36:42
work.
36:42
You
36:43
have
36:43
to
36:43
work
36:43
your
36:43
ass
36:44
off.
36:44
But,
36:48
yeah,
36:48
I
36:48
do
36:49
feel
36:50
like
36:50
if
36:50
you
36:50
put
36:51
something.
36:51
If
36:51
you
36:51
say
36:52
something
36:52
out
36:52
loud,
36:53
that
36:53
is
36:53
a
36:53
powerful
36:54
thing.
36:56
And
36:56
if
36:56
you
36:56
start
36:57
taking
36:57
the
36:58
steps,
36:59
things
36:59
will
36:59
align
37:01
if
37:01
it's
37:01
aligned
37:02
with
37:02
you,
37:02
and
37:02
if
37:03
not,
37:04
at
37:04
least
37:04
you
37:05
know,
37:06
not
37:07
to
37:07
go
37:07
in
37:07
that
37:07
direction,
37:08
that
37:08
there
37:08
is
37:09
something
37:09
better.
37:11
But
37:11
you
37:11
just
37:12
have
37:12
to
37:13
know
37:13
and
37:14
understand
37:14
that
37:15
if
37:15
something
37:15
Goes
37:16
away,
37:17
something
37:17
else
37:18
comes
37:18
along.
37:19
Always,
37:19
always,
37:20
always,
37:21
always,
37:22
always.
37:23
Yes.
37:24
Correct.
37:25
So
37:25
when
37:25
I
37:27
miss
37:27
out
37:27
on
37:27
something
37:29
now
37:29
at
37:29
this
37:30
advanced
37:30
age,
37:31
like,
37:31
if
37:31
I
37:32
don't
37:32
get
37:33
a
37:33
part
37:33
or
37:34
something,
37:34
I
37:35
never
37:37
sulk
37:37
about
37:38
that
37:40
because
37:41
I
37:41
have
37:41
never
37:42
looked
37:42
back
37:42
on
37:43
something
37:43
that
37:43
I
37:43
didn't
37:44
get
37:44
and
37:45
said,
37:45
damn,
37:46
that
37:46
should
37:46
have
37:46
been
37:47
me.
37:47
I
37:47
always
37:47
think,
37:48
hey,
37:49
it
37:49
wasn't
37:49
mine,
37:49
and
37:50
I
37:50
don't
37:50
want
37:50
it
37:50
if
37:50
it's
37:51
not
37:51
mine.
37:53
This
37:53
was
37:53
meant
37:54
for
37:54
that
37:54
person
37:56
or
37:56
I
37:57
dodged
37:57
a
37:57
bullet.
37:59
Yeah.
38:00
You
38:00
know?
38:01
Yeah.
38:01
I
38:02
mean,
38:02
can
38:02
you
38:02
feel
38:02
also
38:03
happy
38:03
for
38:03
that
38:03
person?
38:04
Like,
38:04
if
38:04
they
38:05
maybe
38:05
got
38:05
okay.
38:05
So
38:05
you
38:06
can
38:06
feel
38:06
happy
38:06
and
38:06
be
38:06
like,
38:07
I
38:07
am
38:07
so
38:08
glad
38:08
that
38:08
that
38:08
person
38:08
got
38:09
it.
38:09
Yeah,
38:10
that's.
38:10
That's
38:10
really
38:11
good.
38:12
That's
38:12
really
38:12
good
38:13
energy
38:13
to
38:13
put
38:13
out.
38:14
You
38:14
know,
38:14
when
38:14
I
38:14
was
38:15
young,
38:15
I
38:16
would.
38:16
It's
38:17
not
38:17
fair.
38:19
You
38:19
know
38:19
what?
38:21
Come
38:22
on,
38:22
don't
38:23
be
38:23
like
38:23
that.
38:25
It
38:25
wasn't
38:25
yours.
38:26
Shut
38:27
up
38:27
about
38:27
it.
38:29
Shut
38:29
the
38:29
fuck
38:30
up.
38:30
Yeah,
38:30
yeah,
38:31
yeah.
38:31
Your
38:32
life
38:32
is
38:32
ruined.
38:33
No,
38:33
it
38:33
isn't.
38:35
Isn't
38:36
that
38:36
funny
38:36
how
38:36
those
38:36
things.
38:37
We
38:37
feel
38:37
like
38:37
it's
38:38
the
38:38
end
38:38
of
38:38
the
38:38
world
38:38
at
38:39
that
38:39
age,
38:39
you
38:39
know,
38:40
I'm
38:41
like,
38:41
those
38:41
were
38:41
the
38:41
things
38:42
that
38:42
were
38:42
not
38:42
even.
38:42
I
38:43
mean,
38:43
it
38:43
wasn't
38:43
even
38:43
that
38:44
serious
38:44
back
38:44
then.
38:45
Now
38:45
it's
38:45
like
38:46
it's
38:46
so
38:46
different,
38:47
you
38:47
know?
38:47
You
38:48
think
38:48
your
38:48
life
38:48
is.
38:49
Is
38:49
over
38:50
because
38:50
of
38:50
this
38:50
dumb
38:51
little
38:51
job
38:52
that
38:52
you
38:52
didn't
38:52
get
38:52
or
38:53
some
38:53
man
38:53
that
38:53
you
38:54
didn't
38:54
get.
38:54
Come
38:55
on.
38:56
Oh,
38:56
yes.
38:57
No,
38:57
no,
38:57
no.
38:58
You
38:58
placed
38:58
way
38:59
too
38:59
much
38:59
importance
39:00
on
39:00
that.
39:00
Yes,
39:01
correct.
39:01
Acting
39:02
like
39:02
a
39:02
shitty
39:02
friend
39:02
to
39:03
yourself
39:03
to
39:03
keep
39:04
saying
39:04
these
39:04
things.
39:05
That's
39:05
true.
39:05
We
39:06
are
39:06
our
39:06
own
39:06
worst.
39:07
Our
39:08
own
39:08
worst
39:08
friends
39:09
to
39:09
ourselves,
39:10
you
39:10
know?
39:10
And
39:10
that.
39:11
That
39:11
kills
39:12
me
39:12
because
39:12
it's
39:12
like,
39:13
if
39:13
you
39:13
are
39:13
not
39:13
good
39:14
to
39:14
yourself,
39:14
how
39:14
can
39:14
you
39:15
expect
39:15
anyone
39:15
else
39:15
to
39:16
be
39:16
good
39:16
to
39:16
you?
39:17
Yeah,
39:17
don't
39:17
carry
39:18
that
39:18
ickiness
39:18
around
39:19
with
39:19
you
39:19
because
39:20
it's.
39:21
It
39:21
stops
39:22
everything.
39:22
Yes,
39:23
it
39:23
does.
39:24
No,
39:24
it
39:24
stops
39:25
your
39:25
blessings.
39:26
Listen
39:26
to
39:26
me.
39:26
Acting
39:27
like
39:27
a
39:27
wizard
39:27
over
39:28
here.
39:28
I
39:28
don't
39:29
know.
39:29
Wizarding.
39:30
Windy.
39:31
We
39:31
like
39:31
that.
39:34
There
39:35
is,
39:35
like,
39:35
this
39:35
term
39:35
that's,
39:36
like,
39:36
out
39:36
that
39:37
I
39:37
just.
39:37
I
39:37
hate.
39:38
It's
39:38
called
39:38
aging
39:39
gracefully.
39:40
And
39:40
I'm
39:40
like,
39:42
oh,
39:42
God,
39:42
here
39:42
we
39:42
go.
39:43
So
39:43
they
39:43
want
39:43
us
39:43
to
39:44
just
39:44
sit
39:44
there,
39:44
you
39:45
know,
39:45
sit
39:45
back,
39:46
take
39:46
it
39:46
as
39:46
it
39:47
comes,
39:47
whatever.
39:47
And
39:48
in
39:48
my
39:48
opinion,
39:49
it's
39:49
more
39:49
like,
39:50
take
39:50
it
39:51
as
39:51
you
39:51
want
39:51
it.
39:51
Like,
39:52
so
39:52
maybe
39:53
you're
39:53
aging
39:53
unapologetically.
39:54
Maybe
39:55
you're.
39:56
You're
39:56
content
39:57
with
39:57
just
39:57
staying
39:58
the
39:58
same.
39:59
Maybe
39:59
you
39:59
want
39:59
to
39:59
make
40:00
changes.
40:00
Maybe
40:00
you
40:01
want
40:01
to
40:01
do
40:01
things
40:01
different.
40:02
Maybe
40:02
you
40:02
want
40:03
to
40:03
do
40:03
plastic
40:03
surgery.
40:04
Maybe
40:04
you
40:04
don't
40:04
want
40:04
to
40:04
do
40:05
plastic
40:05
surgery.
40:05
It's
40:05
whatever
40:06
that
40:06
person
40:07
wants.
40:08
So
40:08
what
40:08
do
40:08
you
40:09
think
40:09
about
40:09
that
40:10
whole
40:10
sort
40:10
of
40:10
notion?
40:12
Yeah,
40:12
that's
40:12
a
40:12
term
40:13
that's.
40:14
That
40:15
I've
40:15
been
40:15
hearing
40:15
since
40:16
I
40:16
was
40:16
a
40:16
kid.
40:18
And
40:20
I
40:21
understand
40:22
what
40:22
people
40:22
mean
40:23
by
40:23
it,
40:23
but
40:23
I
40:24
also
40:24
think
40:24
it's
40:24
very
40:25
limiting
40:25
because
40:28
after
40:28
a
40:28
while,
40:29
you
40:29
shouldn't
40:29
even
40:29
worry
40:30
about
40:30
if
40:30
people.
40:33
If
40:33
people
40:33
think
40:34
you're
40:34
aging
40:34
gracefully
40:35
or
40:35
not.
40:35
I
40:36
Does.
40:36
What
40:36
does
40:36
it
40:37
mean?
40:37
Don't
40:37
make
40:37
an
40:37
ass
40:38
of
40:38
yourself.
40:39
Don't
40:40
wear
40:41
inappropriate
40:42
attire.
40:45
But
40:45
I.
40:46
I
40:46
sure
40:46
never
40:47
took
40:47
that
40:47
to
40:48
mean
40:48
put
40:48
yourself
40:48
on
40:49
the
40:49
sidelines
40:49
and
40:50
start
40:50
crocheting,
40:51
unless
40:51
that's
40:52
really
40:52
what
40:52
you
40:52
want
40:52
to
40:52
do.
40:53
But
40:54
I
40:54
think,
40:55
you
40:55
know,
40:58
you
40:58
want
40:58
to
40:58
go
40:59
with
40:59
your
40:59
face.
40:59
Do
41:00
it,
41:00
but
41:00
do
41:00
it
41:00
for
41:01
your
41:01
reason.
41:02
Don't
41:02
do
41:02
it
41:03
because
41:03
someone
41:03
online
41:04
told
41:04
you
41:04
you
41:04
needed
41:05
to,
41:06
because
41:06
those
41:07
people
41:07
are
41:07
going
41:07
to
41:07
tell
41:07
you
41:07
you
41:08
did
41:08
too
41:08
much.
41:09
So
41:09
it's
41:09
got
41:10
to
41:10
be
41:10
your
41:10
decision
41:12
and
41:12
nobody
41:13
else's.
41:13
And
41:14
don't
41:14
do
41:14
it
41:14
for
41:15
anyone
41:15
other
41:15
than
41:16
yourself.
41:16
If
41:16
you
41:16
want
41:17
to
41:17
go
41:17
and
41:17
get
41:17
your
41:17
teeth
41:18
put
41:18
where
41:18
your
41:18
eyelashes
41:19
should
41:19
be,
41:19
then
41:20
God
41:20
bless,
41:22
okay?
41:23
And
41:23
you
41:23
want
41:23
to
41:23
wear
41:24
an
41:24
Abe
41:25
Lincoln
41:25
hat
41:25
for
41:25
the
41:25
rest
41:26
of
41:26
your
41:26
life,
41:26
do
41:26
it.
41:28
But
41:28
it's
41:28
got
41:28
to
41:28
be
41:28
you
41:29
that's.
41:29
That's
41:30
doing
41:30
it.
41:31
It's
41:31
got
41:32
to
41:32
be
41:32
your
41:33
motivation
41:33
and
41:34
yours
41:34
alone,
41:34
not
41:35
because
41:35
someone
41:35
else
41:35
said
41:36
something.
41:36
True.
41:36
I
41:37
don't
41:37
know.
41:37
Yeah,
41:38
but,
41:38
you
41:38
know,
41:38
listen,
41:39
go
41:40
wear
41:40
your
41:40
hot
41:40
pants.
41:41
I
41:41
don't.
41:41
I
41:41
don't
41:41
care.
41:42
Whatever.
41:43
Throw
41:43
on
41:44
your
41:44
tube
41:44
top,
41:44
your
41:44
crop
41:45
top,
41:45
all
41:45
your
41:45
tops.
41:46
Throw
41:46
on
41:46
your
41:46
crop
41:47
top
41:47
and.
41:48
And
41:48
a
41:48
tutu.
41:49
Yeah.
41:51
And
41:51
do
41:51
your
41:51
thing,
41:52
girl.
41:52
Go
41:52
to
41:52
Costco
41:53
and
41:53
live
41:53
it
41:53
up.
41:54
I
41:54
don't
41:54
know.
41:55
Right.
41:56
You
41:57
know
41:57
who
41:57
I
41:57
think
41:57
looks
41:58
really
41:58
good?
41:59
Who?
41:59
Tell
41:59
me.
41:59
Talk
42:00
about
42:00
aging
42:00
gracefully.
42:01
First
42:01
of
42:02
all,
42:02
Debbie
42:02
Harry,
42:03
Blondie.
42:04
She
42:04
looks
42:05
amazing.
42:05
Goddess.
42:06
How
42:06
old
42:07
is
42:07
she
42:07
now,
42:07
do
42:07
you
42:07
think?
42:08
80.
42:08
No,
42:09
she's
42:09
not.
42:09
Yes,
42:10
she
42:10
is.
42:11
Oh,
42:11
my
42:11
gosh.
42:12
Like,
42:12
she
42:13
looks
42:13
amazing.
42:14
She
42:14
looks
42:15
amazing.
42:15
Tony
42:16
Basil,
42:16
81
42:17
looks
42:18
amazing.
42:19
These
42:20
are
42:20
the
42:20
women
42:20
that
42:20
I'm
42:20
looking
42:21
at.
42:21
The
42:21
Go
42:21
Go's.
42:22
The
42:22
whole
42:22
group,
42:24
like,
42:24
hey,
42:25
love
42:25
it.
42:26
Love
42:26
your
42:26
look.
42:27
Love
42:27
your
42:27
vibe.
42:27
Love
42:28
everything.
42:29
Still
42:29
rocking
42:29
out,
42:30
you
42:30
know?
42:30
Still
42:31
rocking
42:31
out.
42:32
Yeah.
42:33
Doing
42:33
things
42:33
the
42:34
way
42:34
they
42:34
want
42:35
to
42:35
do
42:35
it.
42:35
That's
42:35
what
42:36
I
42:36
love.
42:36
And
42:36
that's.
42:37
That's
42:37
kind
42:37
of
42:37
the
42:38
generation,
42:39
I
42:39
guess.
42:39
It's
42:39
a
42:39
Gen
42:40
X
42:40
thing.
42:41
Like,
42:43
hey,
42:43
we
42:43
survived.
42:44
Put
42:45
on
42:45
your
42:45
combat
42:45
boots.
42:48
We.
42:49
We
42:49
were
42:49
taking
42:50
care
42:50
of
42:50
ourselves
42:50
at
42:50
10
42:50
years
42:51
old.
42:51
I
42:51
mean,
42:51
it's
42:52
like,
42:52
no,
42:52
but
42:53
don't
42:53
you
42:53
remember
42:53
babysitting?
42:54
I
42:54
mean,
42:54
I
42:55
don't,
42:55
I
42:55
don't
42:55
know
42:55
how
42:55
old
42:55
you
42:56
are.
42:56
50.
42:57
50,
42:58
okay,
42:58
so
42:58
we're
42:59
same
42:59
generation.
43:00
But
43:00
you
43:00
remember
43:01
probably
43:01
being
43:02
10
43:02
or
43:03
11
43:03
years
43:03
old,
43:03
watching
43:05
babies
43:06
like
43:06
you're
43:07
babysitting
43:08
infants
43:09
by
43:09
yourself.
43:10
Yeah,
43:11
for
43:11
a
43:12
dollar
43:12
an
43:12
hour.
43:12
I
43:12
mean,
43:13
that's
43:13
what
43:13
we
43:13
did.
43:13
That's
43:14
what
43:14
people
43:14
trusted
43:15
us
43:15
to
43:15
do.
43:15
That.
43:18
I
43:18
mean,
43:18
it
43:18
taught
43:19
us,
43:19
look
43:19
where
43:19
it's
43:20
gotten
43:20
us,
43:20
you
43:20
know?
43:20
Look
43:21
where
43:21
it's
43:21
gotten
43:21
us.
43:22
And
43:22
I
43:22
know,
43:23
you
43:23
know,
43:23
I
43:24
have
43:24
friends
43:24
with
43:24
kids
43:24
now
43:25
who
43:25
are
43:25
like,
43:26
I
43:26
don't
43:26
know.
43:26
I
43:26
don't
43:27
know
43:27
if
43:27
I
43:27
can
43:27
leave
43:27
my
43:27
16
43:28
year
43:28
old
43:28
at
43:28
home.
43:29
Well,
43:30
that's
43:30
pathetic.
43:31
That's
43:32
not
43:32
a
43:32
good
43:32
sign,
43:33
people.
43:33
I'm
43:34
like,
43:34
if
43:34
you
43:34
can't
43:35
walk
43:35
into
43:35
the
43:36
house
43:36
at
43:36
nine
43:36
years
43:36
old,
43:37
make
43:37
your
43:37
own
43:37
dinner,
43:38
you
43:38
know,
43:40
get
43:40
a
43:40
kid
43:40
to
43:40
sleep,
43:41
then
43:41
what
43:41
the
43:41
heck
43:41
are
43:42
you
43:42
doing?
43:43
Yeah.
43:43
Yeah.
43:44
We
43:44
didn't
43:44
always
43:45
have
43:45
babysitters
43:46
ourselves.
43:46
I
43:46
remember
43:47
being
43:47
left
43:47
alone
43:48
in
43:48
elementary
43:49
school
43:49
to
43:49
take
43:50
care
43:50
of
43:50
my
43:50
sister.
43:50
And
43:51
I
43:51
loved
43:51
it.
43:51
Yeah,
43:52
it
43:52
gives
43:52
you
43:53
independence,
43:53
keeps
43:54
you
43:54
into.
43:54
Yes,
43:55
there's
43:55
something
43:56
to
43:56
be
43:56
said
43:56
for
43:56
that.
43:58
But
43:58
between
43:59
that
43:59
and
43:59
our
43:59
drinking
44:00
out
44:00
of
44:00
the
44:00
garden
44:00
hoses,
44:01
I
44:01
mean,
44:01
we
44:01
survived
44:02
that.
44:03
Hello.
44:04
Warm
44:05
plastic
44:05
garden
44:06
hose.
44:06
Water
44:07
so
44:08
dead.
44:08
All
44:09
the
44:09
time.
44:10
All
44:10
the
44:10
time.
44:10
I
44:11
mean,
44:11
look
44:11
at
44:11
this
44:12
time.
44:12
Yeah.
44:13
And
44:13
you
44:13
know,
44:14
oh,
44:14
gosh,
44:14
I
44:15
just
44:15
remember
44:15
always
44:16
having
44:17
scrapes
44:18
on
44:18
me
44:18
and.
44:18
Oh,
44:19
yeah,
44:20
bandages
44:20
and
44:21
this
44:21
and
44:21
that.
44:21
And
44:21
I
44:21
loved
44:22
it.
44:23
Loved
44:23
it.
44:24
Go
44:24
roller
44:24
skating
44:25
in
44:25
the
44:25
street
44:25
and
44:25
fall
44:26
down
44:26
and.
44:27
No,
44:27
get
44:27
back
44:27
up
44:28
and
44:28
keep.
44:28
Keep
44:29
going.
44:30
I
44:30
think
44:30
that's,
44:32
maybe
44:32
that's
44:32
just
44:33
our
44:33
generation.
44:33
We,
44:34
we
44:34
just
44:34
know
44:34
how
44:35
to,
44:37
how
44:37
to
44:37
take
44:38
it.
44:38
We
44:39
took
44:39
care
44:39
of
44:40
ourselves
44:40
and
44:41
like
44:41
everybody
44:42
else
44:42
that
44:42
we
44:42
had
44:42
to,
44:43
you
44:43
know,
44:43
and
44:43
we
44:44
didn't
44:45
about
44:45
it
44:45
like
44:45
the,
44:46
you
44:46
know,
44:46
I
44:46
mean,
44:46
it's
44:47
just
44:47
a
44:47
different,
44:47
it
44:48
was
44:48
a
44:48
different
44:48
time.
44:49
Yeah.
44:50
But
44:50
it
44:50
made
44:50
us
44:50
so
44:50
much
44:51
more
44:51
self
44:51
sufficient.
44:52
Like,
44:52
I'm
44:52
so
44:52
glad.
44:53
Right.
44:53
Like,
44:54
we
44:54
just
44:55
were
44:55
like,
44:55
you
44:55
know
44:55
what?
44:56
We
44:56
don't
44:56
need.
44:57
We
44:57
can,
44:57
we
44:57
can
44:57
take
44:57
care
44:58
of
44:58
ourselves.
44:58
Okay.
44:59
Right?
45:00
Yeah.
45:01
I
45:01
mean,
45:01
it's,
45:01
it's.
45:02
I
45:02
miss
45:03
the,
45:03
the
45:03
Gen
45:03
X.
45:04
And
45:04
speaking
45:04
of
45:04
Gen
45:04
X
45:05
and
45:05
rockers,
45:06
I
45:06
noticed
45:07
Duran
45:08
Duran
45:08
follows
45:09
you.
45:10
Hello.
45:11
I
45:11
was
45:11
like,
45:11
oh
45:12
my
45:12
God,
45:14
I'm.
45:15
Good
45:15
friends
45:15
with,
45:16
with
45:16
the
45:16
girl
45:17
that
45:17
runs
45:17
their
45:17
social
45:18
media.
45:18
Oh,
45:19
okay.
45:19
I
45:19
was
45:19
like,
45:20
oh,
45:21
yeah,
45:22
she
45:22
does.
45:23
Her
45:23
name's
45:23
Caddy
45:23
Krasner.
45:24
She's
45:24
awesome.
45:25
And
45:25
she,
45:26
you
45:26
should
45:27
have
45:27
her
45:27
on
45:27
your
45:27
podcast.
45:28
She's
45:28
very
45:28
interesting.
45:29
But
45:29
she
45:30
does
45:30
a
45:31
radio
45:31
show
45:32
Every
45:32
week
45:33
with
45:33
Simon
45:34
Levon.
45:35
So
45:35
they're
45:36
co
45:36
hosts
45:36
of
45:36
this.
45:38
This
45:39
music
45:40
show
45:40
where
45:40
they,
45:40
like,
45:42
give
45:43
you
45:43
new
45:43
things
45:43
for
45:44
your
45:44
playlist,
45:44
which
45:45
we
45:45
all
45:45
do.
45:45
We.
45:45
Which
45:46
we
45:46
all
45:46
need.
45:46
Right.
45:48
So
45:48
we're
45:48
not
45:48
listening
45:49
to
45:49
the
45:49
same
45:50
stuff
45:51
over
45:51
and
45:51
over,
45:51
but
45:51
it's
45:52
a
45:52
really
45:52
fun
45:52
show,
45:53
and
45:53
they
45:53
have,
45:55
like.
45:55
They
45:55
introduce
45:56
you
45:56
to
45:56
a
45:56
lot
45:57
of
45:57
music
45:57
around
45:57
the
45:57
world
45:58
that
45:58
you
45:58
just
45:58
wouldn't
45:59
know
45:59
about
45:59
normally.
46:00
And
46:01
so,
46:01
yeah,
46:02
I've.
46:02
I've
46:02
gotten
46:03
to
46:03
meet
46:04
Simon.
46:05
I've
46:05
gotten
46:05
to
46:05
go
46:06
backstage,
46:06
which
46:07
is
46:07
very
46:08
cool.
46:08
But
46:08
it's.
46:08
But
46:09
she
46:09
is
46:10
a
46:10
kick
46:10
in
46:10
the
46:10
pants.
46:12
She's
46:12
really
46:12
fun,
46:13
and
46:13
she
46:13
lives
46:13
in
46:13
New
46:14
York.
46:14
If
46:14
she
46:14
lived
46:15
out
46:15
here,
46:15
I
46:15
told
46:16
her,
46:16
girl,
46:17
you'd
46:17
have
46:18
keys
46:18
to
46:18
my
46:19
house.
46:20
Total
46:20
fridge
46:21
privileges.
46:22
You
46:23
know,
46:23
I'd
46:24
have
46:24
a
46:24
bail
46:25
account
46:26
for
46:26
you
46:29
to
46:29
get
46:29
her
46:29
out
46:29
of
46:30
jail.
46:31
You're
46:31
like,
46:32
I'll
46:32
be
46:32
your
46:32
call.
46:32
She's
46:33
awesome.
46:33
She's
46:34
really
46:34
fun.
46:35
Wait,
46:35
that
46:35
is
46:35
GS.
46:36
So
46:36
you've
46:36
been
46:36
backstage
46:37
to
46:37
meet
46:37
the
46:38
band?
46:38
Yes.
46:39
Okay,
46:39
that's
46:40
cool.
46:40
How
46:40
were
46:40
they?
46:42
It
46:42
was
46:42
so.
46:43
It
46:43
was
46:44
like,
46:44
did
46:45
I
46:45
leave
46:45
my
46:45
body?
46:46
Yeah,
46:47
because
46:47
this
46:48
is.
46:50
It
46:50
was
46:50
one
46:51
of
46:51
those
46:51
things
46:51
where
46:51
it's
46:52
like
46:52
I
46:54
might
46:55
throw
46:55
up
46:55
all
46:55
over
46:55
myself
46:56
or
46:57
I
46:57
will
46:57
hold
46:58
it
46:58
together
46:58
and
46:58
scream
46:59
later.
46:59
I
46:59
don't
47:00
know
47:00
how
47:00
this
47:00
is
47:00
gonna
47:01
go.
47:01
So
47:01
I
47:01
don't
47:01
think
47:02
I
47:02
made
47:02
a
47:02
fool
47:02
of
47:03
myself.
47:03
Okay,
47:04
that's
47:04
good.
47:05
It
47:05
was
47:05
lovely.
47:06
I
47:06
got
47:06
to
47:06
meet
47:06
Simon.
47:07
I
47:08
took
47:08
a
47:08
picture
47:08
with
47:09
Roger.
47:10
Yasmin
47:11
Le
47:11
Bon.
47:12
Yes.
47:12
She
47:13
was
47:13
there.
47:13
And.
47:14
And
47:15
his
47:15
daughter
47:15
Talia
47:16
Lula.
47:16
So
47:16
I
47:16
got
47:16
to
47:17
meet
47:17
them.
47:17
Just
47:18
lovely
47:18
people.
47:19
Just
47:20
lovely
47:20
people.
47:20
But,
47:21
like,
47:21
I
47:21
love
47:22
going
47:22
to
47:22
concerts.
47:23
My
47:23
husband
47:23
and
47:23
I,
47:24
we
47:24
go
47:24
to
47:25
as
47:25
many
47:25
shows
47:25
as
47:26
we
47:26
can.
47:26
I
47:26
love,
47:27
love,
47:27
love
47:28
live
47:28
music,
47:30
and
47:31
it's
47:32
so
47:32
fun
47:32
to
47:33
be
47:33
able
47:33
to
47:35
tell
47:37
artists
47:37
that
47:38
you
47:38
grew
47:38
up
47:38
with,
47:39
like,
47:39
oh,
47:39
my
47:40
God,
47:40
you're.
47:42
Your
47:43
music
47:43
is
47:43
like
47:43
the
47:44
soundtrack
47:45
to
47:46
all
47:46
the
47:46
plans
47:46
I
47:47
was
47:47
making
47:47
for
47:48
world
47:48
domination.
47:50
Totally
47:51
your
47:51
evil
47:51
plan.
47:53
But
47:53
it's
47:53
so
47:54
funny,
47:54
because
47:54
the
47:54
last
47:55
time
47:55
I
47:55
got
47:55
to
47:56
go
47:56
see
47:57
Duran
47:57
Duran,
47:58
it
47:58
was
47:58
earlier
47:58
this
47:58
year
47:59
in
47:59
January.
48:01
And
48:01
a
48:01
friend
48:01
of
48:01
mine
48:02
who
48:02
is
48:02
a
48:03
celebrity
48:03
photographer
48:04
now,
48:04
and
48:04
he
48:05
lived
48:05
across
48:05
the
48:06
street
48:06
from
48:06
me
48:06
as
48:06
kids.
48:07
We
48:07
were
48:07
just
48:07
like,
48:08
these
48:08
weird
48:08
Long
48:09
beach
48:09
kids,
48:09
and
48:10
we've
48:11
had
48:11
some.
48:12
Some
48:12
success,
48:12
but
48:13
we
48:13
went
48:13
out
48:13
to
48:13
the
48:14
Yamaba
48:14
Casino.
48:15
Oh,
48:16
is
48:16
that,
48:16
like,
48:16
in
48:17
the
48:17
desert
48:17
or
48:17
something?
48:17
Right.
48:18
Riverside
48:18
or
48:19
whatever.
48:19
But
48:19
it's
48:19
a
48:19
great
48:19
place
48:20
to
48:20
see
48:20
a
48:20
show,
48:22
and.
48:23
And
48:23
we
48:23
got
48:23
backstage
48:24
and
48:24
everything,
48:25
and
48:25
we're
48:26
in
48:26
the
48:26
green
48:26
room,
48:27
and,
48:28
like,
48:28
oh,
48:28
there's
48:28
Simon
48:29
and
48:30
Blah,
48:30
blah,
48:30
blah.
48:30
But
48:30
then
48:31
the
48:31
clock
48:31
is
48:31
ticking
48:32
and
48:32
I'm
48:32
like,
48:32
I'm
48:33
tired.
48:36
We
48:36
don't
48:36
have
48:36
to
48:36
say
48:36
hi.
48:38
Like,
48:38
I
48:38
wanted
48:39
to
48:39
so
48:39
badly,
48:40
but
48:40
it
48:40
was
48:40
also
48:40
like,
48:41
look,
48:41
this
48:41
man
48:42
has
48:42
just
48:42
performed
48:43
for
48:43
two
48:43
hours.
48:43
I
48:43
don't
48:44
know
48:44
what
48:44
we
48:45
can
48:45
possibly
48:45
expect
48:46
from
48:46
him.
48:47
He
48:47
doesn't
48:48
need
48:48
to
48:48
bullshit
48:49
with
48:49
us.
48:49
Let's
48:50
just
48:50
go.
48:51
So
48:51
we
48:51
did,
48:51
but
48:52
I'm
48:52
telling
48:52
you,
48:52
my,
48:53
my
48:53
14
48:54
year
48:54
old
48:54
self
48:55
was
48:55
like,
48:55
what?
48:58
So
48:58
you
48:58
left
48:59
before
48:59
saying
49:00
like
49:00
a
49:00
full.
49:01
Are
49:01
you.
49:01
Yeah,
49:02
it's
49:02
this
49:02
past
49:02
time.
49:03
Okay.
49:03
We,
49:04
we
49:04
didn't
49:04
say
49:05
anything,
49:05
but
49:05
you.
49:05
Know,
49:06
I
49:06
mean,
49:06
when
49:07
we're
49:07
tired,
49:07
we're
49:07
tired.
49:08
You
49:08
know,
49:08
when
49:09
we're
49:09
done,
49:09
we're
49:09
done.
49:10
Yeah.
49:10
And
49:11
I,
49:11
and
49:11
I
49:11
just
49:12
was
49:12
like,
49:13
listen,
49:14
he's
49:14
got
49:14
a
49:14
whole
49:15
room
49:15
of
49:15
people
49:16
he's
49:16
got
49:16
a
49:16
schmooze
49:17
with.
49:17
You
49:18
can
49:18
we
49:18
can
49:18
sit
49:19
this
49:19
one
49:19
out?
49:19
It
49:19
was
49:19
very
49:20
nice
49:20
of
49:20
him
49:20
to
49:20
give
49:21
us
49:21
the
49:21
tickets.
49:23
Let's
49:24
just
49:24
let
49:25
him
49:26
do
49:26
his
49:27
thing
49:27
and
49:27
go
49:27
to
49:27
bed.
49:28
Yeah.
49:28
You
49:28
know,
49:29
but
49:29
I'm
49:29
sure
49:30
they
49:30
equally
49:30
see
49:31
you
49:31
and
49:32
they're
49:32
like,
49:32
oh,
49:32
that's
49:33
cool.
49:34
Like,
49:34
Wendy's
49:35
here.
49:35
Like,
49:35
yeah,
49:41
she's
49:42
awesome.
49:43
Oh,
49:43
that
49:43
weird
49:44
lady
49:44
from.
49:47
Who
49:47
is
49:47
this
49:47
chick?
49:50
Not
49:50
even.
49:50
They're
49:50
probably
49:51
like,
49:51
yes.
49:52
Like,
49:52
that's
49:52
awesome.
49:57
Okay.
49:57
But
49:57
you,
49:58
I'm
49:58
sure
49:58
you've
49:58
had
49:59
that,
49:59
that
50:00
experience
50:00
yourself
50:01
where
50:01
you're
50:01
like,
50:02
oh
50:02
my
50:02
God,
50:03
I'm
50:04
in
50:04
the
50:04
presence
50:04
of
50:04
someone
50:05
that
50:05
I've
50:05
been
50:05
watching
50:06
for
50:06
years
50:06
and
50:06
years
50:07
and
50:07
years
50:07
and
50:08
I
50:08
just
50:08
want
50:08
to
50:09
tell
50:09
this
50:09
person
50:09
how
50:10
much
50:10
they've
50:10
meant
50:10
to
50:10
me
50:11
all
50:11
these
50:11
years.
50:12
Yes.
50:12
You
50:12
know,
50:13
and
50:13
it's
50:13
such
50:13
a
50:13
gift
50:14
to
50:14
be
50:14
able
50:14
to
50:14
do
50:14
that.
50:15
It
50:15
is.
50:16
No,
50:16
you're
50:16
right.
50:16
And
50:17
when
50:17
it's,
50:17
when
50:17
it's
50:18
good
50:18
and
50:18
when
50:18
they're
50:19
like
50:19
really
50:19
kind
50:20
in
50:20
return,
50:21
that's
50:21
huge.
50:22
But
50:22
I've
50:23
also
50:23
had
50:23
it
50:23
the
50:23
other
50:23
way
50:24
where
50:24
it's
50:24
somebody
50:24
I've
50:25
really
50:25
looked
50:25
up
50:26
to.
50:26
I
50:26
met
50:26
them
50:27
and
50:27
they
50:27
were
50:28
not
50:28
the
50:29
people
50:29
person
50:29
that
50:30
I
50:30
thought
50:30
they
50:30
were.
50:30
I
50:31
know.
50:31
And
50:31
it
50:31
bummed
50:32
me
50:32
out.
50:32
I
50:32
was
50:32
like,
50:33
oh,
50:33
I
50:33
just
50:34
wish
50:34
I
50:34
had
50:34
never
50:34
even
50:35
met
50:35
her
50:35
because
50:36
I
50:36
looked
50:36
up
50:37
to
50:37
her
50:37
for
50:37
so
50:37
long.
50:38
And
50:38
then
50:38
she
50:38
was
50:38
very
50:39
kind
50:39
of
50:39
dismissive
50:40
and
50:40
just
50:40
not.
50:41
I
50:41
just.
50:42
And
50:42
it
50:42
was
50:43
like
50:43
heartbreaking.
50:43
I'm
50:44
like,
50:44
oh.
50:44
I'm
50:44
like,
50:45
why
50:45
did
50:45
I
50:45
have
50:45
to
50:46
meet
50:46
her?
50:46
And
50:47
was
50:47
it
50:47
like,
50:48
okay,
50:48
maybe
50:49
they
50:49
were
50:49
having
50:49
a
50:49
bad
50:50
day?
50:50
Or
50:50
like,
50:50
oh,
50:51
no,
50:51
you're
50:51
a
50:51
genuine
50:52
bitch.
50:52
I
50:53
think
50:53
she
50:53
was
50:53
a
50:53
genuine
50:54
bitch
50:54
because
50:54
I
50:55
was
50:55
with
50:55
another
50:56
friend
50:56
who
50:57
she
50:57
was
50:57
extremely
50:58
kind
50:58
to,
50:58
like
50:58
within
50:59
the
50:59
same
50:59
beat.
51:00
So
51:00
I
51:00
was
51:00
like.
51:01
I'm
51:01
like,
51:02
maybe
51:02
she
51:02
didn't.
51:03
I
51:03
mean,
51:03
maybe
51:04
she
51:04
just
51:04
didn't
51:04
vibe
51:04
with
51:05
me
51:05
from
51:05
the
51:05
beginning
51:06
and
51:06
just
51:06
didn't
51:06
like
51:06
me.
51:06
That's
51:07
a
51:07
possibility,
51:07
too.
51:08
But,
51:08
like,
51:08
I
51:09
don't.
51:09
I
51:09
don't
51:10
see
51:10
how
51:10
that
51:10
was
51:10
a
51:10
possibility,
51:11
Roxy.
51:12
I
51:12
simply
51:12
do
51:13
not
51:13
accept
51:13
that.
51:14
Oh,
51:14
my
51:14
good.
51:14
Well,
51:15
thank
51:15
you.
51:15
Thank
51:15
you.
51:20
But
51:21
it
51:21
was
51:21
such
51:21
a
51:21
bummer.
51:22
I'm
51:22
like,
51:22
damn.
51:22
They
51:22
always
51:23
say,
51:23
don't
51:23
meet
51:23
your
51:23
heroes.
51:24
And,
51:24
like,
51:25
I
51:25
can
51:25
see
51:25
that
51:25
sometimes.
51:26
But
51:26
then,
51:26
like,
51:26
other
51:27
times,
51:27
if
51:27
it's
51:27
good,
51:27
it's
51:28
good,
51:28
you
51:28
know?
51:29
That's
51:30
such
51:30
a
51:30
bummer,
51:30
though.
51:31
And
51:31
you're
51:31
like,
51:31
oh,
51:32
God.
51:32
Well,
51:32
that.
51:35
Think
51:36
my
51:36
whole
51:36
life.
51:37
Right.
51:38
All
51:38
right,
51:38
I
51:38
know.
51:39
Damn.
51:39
Who
51:40
was
51:40
your.
51:41
Like,
51:41
when
51:41
you
51:41
were
51:41
growing
51:42
up.
51:42
Yeah.
51:42
And
51:43
you
51:43
watched
51:43
TV
51:44
or
51:45
movies
51:45
or
51:45
whatever?
51:46
Like,
51:46
who
51:47
was
51:47
your
51:49
North
51:49
Star?
51:50
Like,
51:50
oh,
51:50
I
51:50
want
51:51
to.
51:51
I
51:51
want
51:52
to
51:52
look
51:52
like
51:52
her.
51:52
I
51:53
want
51:53
to
51:53
be
51:53
like
51:53
her.
51:54
So
51:54
I
51:54
was,
51:54
like,
51:55
the
51:55
nerd
51:56
child
51:56
in
51:57
elementary
51:58
school
51:58
who
51:58
rushed
51:58
home
51:59
to
51:59
watch
52:00
2020,
52:01
Dateline,
52:02
Oprah,
52:03
like,
52:03
all
52:03
the
52:03
interview
52:04
shows.
52:05
So
52:05
I
52:05
loved,
52:06
like,
52:06
Oprah.
52:06
Oprah.
52:07
Obviously,
52:07
she's,
52:08
like,
52:08
so
52:09
good
52:09
at
52:09
what
52:09
she
52:09
does,
52:10
but
52:10
then
52:10
also,
52:10
like,
52:11
Maria
52:11
Shriver
52:12
and,
52:12
like,
52:12
Diane
52:13
Sawyer
52:13
and,
52:13
you
52:14
know,
52:14
all
52:14
these
52:14
people.
52:14
Barbara
52:15
Walters
52:16
and,
52:16
like,
52:16
you
52:17
know,
52:17
just
52:17
seeing
52:18
all
52:18
of
52:18
these
52:18
women,
52:19
especially,
52:19
like,
52:19
in
52:20
the
52:20
80s
52:20
when,
52:21
you
52:21
know,
52:22
women
52:22
were
52:22
still
52:22
climbing
52:23
that
52:23
ladder,
52:24
you
52:24
know,
52:24
and
52:24
kind
52:24
of
52:24
trying
52:25
to
52:25
get
52:25
somewhere,
52:26
like,
52:26
we
52:26
still
52:27
are
52:27
a
52:27
lot
52:27
of
52:28
the
52:28
time.
52:29
So
52:29
for
52:29
me,
52:30
that
52:30
was
52:30
really,
52:31
like,
52:31
something
52:32
that
52:32
I
52:32
loved.
52:32
Like,
52:33
I.
52:34
I
52:34
was
52:34
kind
52:34
of
52:34
a
52:34
nerd
52:34
in
52:35
that
52:35
way,
52:35
though.
52:35
I
52:35
mean,
52:35
who
52:36
watches
52:36
an
52:36
interview
52:36
show
52:37
at
52:37
8
52:37
years
52:37
old?
52:38
Nerds
52:38
rule
52:39
the
52:39
world.
52:39
There's
52:40
nothing
52:40
wrong.
52:40
Don't
52:41
you
52:41
say
52:41
that
52:41
like
52:41
it's
52:42
a
52:42
bad
52:42
thing.
52:42
The
52:42
nerds
52:43
are
52:43
the
52:43
ones
52:43
that
52:43
get
52:44
ahead.
52:44
Right.
52:45
But
52:45
you've
52:46
always
52:46
known
52:46
you
52:46
wanted
52:46
to
52:47
be
52:47
an
52:47
interviewer.
52:47
Yeah.
52:48
Yeah,
52:48
I
52:49
love
52:49
that.
52:50
Yeah.
52:50
So
52:50
that
52:50
kind
52:51
of
52:51
was
52:51
the
52:51
thing.
52:51
I'm
52:52
like,
52:52
nerd.
52:53
Like,
52:53
interview
52:54
girl.
52:54
How
52:54
about
52:54
you?
52:55
What
52:55
was
52:55
your.
52:55
What
52:56
was
52:56
your
52:56
thing
52:56
growing
52:57
up?
52:57
To
52:57
watch?
52:58
You
52:58
know,
52:58
I
52:59
always
53:00
vibed
53:01
with,
53:03
like,
53:03
women
53:04
who
53:04
had
53:04
some
53:05
swagger.
53:06
Okay.
53:07
So,
53:08
like,
53:09
your.
53:10
Your
53:11
hair
53:11
and
53:11
makeup
53:12
are
53:12
on
53:12
point,
53:13
the
53:13
nails
53:13
are
53:14
there,
53:14
but
53:14
you
53:15
could
53:15
also
53:15
kick
53:16
some
53:16
ass
53:16
if
53:16
you
53:16
needed
53:17
to.
53:17
So,
53:17
like.
53:18
Or,
53:18
like,
53:18
there
53:18
was
53:18
a
53:19
masculine
53:20
swagger
53:21
quality,
53:21
like,
53:22
Cher
53:23
goddess,
53:24
like
53:25
Christy
53:25
McNichol
53:26
when
53:26
she
53:26
was
53:27
a
53:27
younger
53:28
girl.
53:28
I
53:28
saw
53:29
her
53:29
on
53:29
an
53:29
episode
53:29
of
53:30
Starsky
53:30
and
53:30
Hutch,
53:31
and
53:31
I
53:31
was
53:31
like
53:32
that
53:32
right
53:32
there.
53:34
Look
53:34
at
53:34
how
53:34
her
53:34
hair
53:35
is
53:35
perfectly
53:35
feathered
53:36
when
53:36
she
53:36
runs.
53:39
Like,
53:39
I
53:39
never,
53:40
like,
53:40
Girls
53:41
that
53:41
did
53:41
things.
53:43
Okay.
53:44
So
53:44
it
53:45
wasn't
53:45
enough
53:45
to,
53:45
like,
53:48
have
53:48
on
53:48
an
53:48
evening
53:49
gown.
53:49
You
53:49
had
53:49
to
53:50
be
53:50
able
53:50
to,
53:50
like,
53:52
I
53:53
don't
53:53
know,
53:53
stick
53:53
it
53:53
to
53:53
the
53:54
man.
53:54
Yes.
53:55
You
53:55
know,
53:55
actually,
53:56
you
53:56
know,
53:56
when
53:56
you're
53:57
saying
53:57
that,
53:57
who
53:58
comes
53:58
up?
53:58
And
53:58
I
53:58
remember,
53:59
because
53:59
I
53:59
used
53:59
to
53:59
watch
54:00
this
54:00
show
54:00
all
54:01
the
54:01
time
54:01
with
54:01
my
54:01
parents.
54:02
Was
54:02
the
54:02
Carol
54:02
Burnett
54:03
Show.
54:04
Yes.
54:04
Do
54:04
you
54:04
remember
54:05
Carol
54:05
Burnett?
54:05
I
54:06
mean,
54:06
she
54:06
was
54:07
iconic.
54:08
Iconic,
54:09
right.
54:09
And
54:10
she
54:10
kind
54:10
of
54:10
had
54:11
that
54:11
masculine
54:11
energy,
54:12
in
54:12
a
54:12
way,
54:12
because
54:12
she
54:13
would
54:13
stick
54:14
it
54:14
to
54:14
her
54:14
guy.
54:14
Same
54:14
with
54:15
Lucille
54:15
Ball.
54:15
I
54:16
mean,
54:16
they
54:17
had
54:17
that.
54:17
They
54:17
had
54:18
that
54:18
they
54:18
could
54:18
compete.
54:19
Yes,
54:20
yes.
54:20
I'm
54:21
like.
54:21
And
54:21
dominate.
54:22
Yes,
54:22
and
54:22
dominate.
54:23
And
54:23
they're
54:23
funny.
54:24
Like,
54:24
there's
54:24
something
54:24
about
54:25
people
54:25
who
54:26
are
54:26
funny.
54:26
Like,
54:26
you're
54:27
saying
54:27
that
54:27
you're
54:27
drawn
54:28
to
54:28
them.
54:28
I
54:28
mean,
54:29
that's
54:29
a
54:30
gift.
54:30
Not
54:30
everybody
54:31
has
54:31
comedic
54:31
timing,
54:32
you
54:32
know.
54:33
No,
54:33
and
54:33
not
54:34
everybody.
54:35
There
54:35
was
54:35
something.
54:36
The
54:36
thing
54:36
with
54:36
Carol
54:37
Burnett,
54:37
it
54:37
wasn't
54:38
just
54:39
that
54:39
she
54:39
was
54:40
funny.
54:40
It
54:41
was
54:41
that
54:41
there
54:41
was
54:41
a
54:42
warmth
54:42
to
54:42
her
54:44
where
54:46
you
54:46
felt
54:46
like
54:47
she
54:47
was
54:47
talking
54:48
just
54:48
to
54:48
you,
54:51
you
54:51
know,
54:52
and
54:52
that
54:52
is
54:53
the
54:54
biggest
54:54
thing
54:55
about
54:55
having
54:56
staying
54:56
power,
54:57
is
54:59
your
54:59
audience
55:00
needs
55:00
to
55:01
feel
55:02
that
55:02
you.
55:03
That
55:03
you
55:03
love
55:04
them
55:05
and
55:05
that
55:05
they're
55:06
doing.
55:06
You're
55:07
doing
55:07
this
55:07
for
55:07
them.
55:09
And
55:09
with
55:09
her,
55:09
you
55:10
always
55:10
felt
55:11
like,
55:13
yeah,
55:13
she's
55:13
famous,
55:14
but
55:14
she's
55:15
mine.
55:16
Yes.
55:17
You
55:17
know?
55:18
Yes.
55:18
She
55:19
had
55:19
that
55:19
connection,
55:20
like,
55:20
that
55:20
deep
55:20
connection.
55:21
And
55:21
she's
55:21
so
55:22
gracious.
55:22
Like,
55:23
I've.
55:23
Have
55:24
you
55:24
met
55:24
her?
55:25
A
55:25
couple
55:25
times.
55:26
Oh,
55:26
my
55:27
God.
55:27
And
55:27
I
55:27
haven't
55:28
been
55:28
able
55:28
to,
55:28
like,
55:29
you
55:29
know,
55:29
swoon
55:30
over
55:30
her.
55:30
And,
55:31
like,
55:32
you
55:32
don't
55:32
know
55:32
what
55:33
you
55:33
meant
55:33
to
55:33
me
55:33
as
55:33
a
55:33
child,
55:34
but
55:34
I.
55:35
I've
55:35
run
55:35
into
55:35
her.
55:35
I've
55:36
taken
55:36
some
55:36
pictures
55:37
of
55:37
her,
55:37
and
55:37
she
55:38
really
55:38
is
55:38
the
55:38
most
55:39
gracious
55:42
woman
55:43
with
55:43
just
55:43
a
55:44
glow
55:44
around
55:44
her.
55:45
Dolly
55:45
Parton
55:45
has
55:46
it,
55:46
too.
55:46
Oh,
55:47
she.
55:47
Iconic.
55:48
I
55:48
mean.
55:48
Yeah.
55:49
Where
55:49
you're
55:49
like,
55:49
why
55:50
don't
55:50
we
55:50
just
55:50
dispatch
55:51
you
55:51
to
55:51
the
55:52
Middle
55:52
East?
55:52
Right?
55:54
Because
55:54
I
55:54
think
55:55
you
55:55
could
55:55
fix
55:55
it
55:56
just
55:56
by
55:56
your
55:56
presence
55:57
in
55:58
a
55:58
minute.
55:58
She
55:59
could.
55:59
Yeah.
56:00
Yeah.
56:01
Have
56:01
you
56:01
met
56:01
her,
56:02
too?
56:02
Tell
56:02
me.
56:03
No,
56:04
I.
56:04
I
56:05
did
56:05
get
56:05
to
56:05
go
56:05
to
56:05
the
56:05
CMAs
56:06
once,
56:06
and
56:07
she
56:07
was
56:07
like,
56:08
oh,
56:08
my
56:08
God.
56:09
Swanning
56:09
back
56:10
and
56:10
forth.
56:11
And
56:11
I
56:11
was
56:11
like,
56:14
she
56:14
has
56:14
it.
56:16
You
56:16
know
56:16
what
56:16
I
56:16
mean?
56:17
Some
56:17
people
56:17
just
56:18
have.
56:18
You.
56:19
You
56:19
feel
56:19
electricity
56:20
when
56:20
they're
56:20
there.
56:21
Yes.
56:21
And
56:22
she
56:22
has
56:22
it.
56:22
It's
56:23
like
56:23
when.
56:23
Like
56:24
Moses,
56:24
like,
56:24
parting
56:25
the
56:25
seas.
56:25
It's
56:26
like
56:26
that
56:26
right?
56:26
When
56:26
she
56:27
walks
56:27
in,
56:27
it's
56:27
like
56:27
people.
56:28
Everybody
56:29
turns
56:29
around,
56:29
right?
56:30
Everybody
56:31
turns
56:31
around
56:32
and,
56:32
you
56:33
know,
56:33
she's
56:33
got
56:33
the.
56:34
Her.
56:34
She
56:35
Decks
56:35
herself
56:36
out
56:36
in
56:36
a
56:36
very
56:36
specific
56:37
way.
56:38
But
56:38
damn
56:39
it,
56:39
it
56:39
works.
56:40
She
56:40
can
56:41
get
56:41
away
56:41
with
56:41
anything.
56:42
Anything.
56:42
She
56:42
can
56:42
get
56:43
away
56:43
with
56:43
it.
56:43
And
56:43
you,
56:44
and
56:44
you're
56:44
like,
56:44
yes.
56:45
I
56:45
don't
56:46
want
56:46
you
56:46
to
56:46
look
56:46
any
56:47
different
56:47
than
56:47
you
56:48
do.
56:49
You
56:49
are
56:50
perfect.
56:50
Yes,
56:51
more.
56:51
More.
56:53
Yes,
56:53
yes.
56:54
More.
56:54
We
56:55
need
56:55
more,
56:55
Dolly,
56:56
more.
56:56
How
56:57
do
56:57
I
56:57
feed
56:58
off
56:58
of
56:58
this?
56:59
Yeah,
57:00
it's
57:00
true.
57:04
So
57:04
what
57:04
advice
57:05
would
57:05
you
57:05
give
57:06
to
57:06
your
57:06
25
57:06
year
57:07
old
57:07
self?
57:07
First
57:07
of
57:07
all,
57:08
what
57:08
was
57:08
25
57:08
year
57:09
old
57:09
Wendy
57:09
like?
57:10
So
57:10
25
57:11
year
57:11
old
57:11
Wendy
57:12
was
57:12
still
57:12
living
57:12
at
57:13
home
57:15
and
57:15
going
57:15
to
57:15
school
57:16
and
57:16
working
57:16
a
57:19
dead
57:19
end
57:20
job
57:20
that
57:20
I
57:20
was
57:21
still
57:21
lucky
57:21
to
57:21
get
57:22
because
57:22
it
57:22
was
57:22
an
57:22
office
57:23
job
57:23
and
57:23
not
57:23
retail
57:24
at
57:25
a
57:25
shitty
57:25
hotel
57:26
in
57:26
Anaheim.
57:27
Oh,
57:27
Disneyland
57:28
area.
57:29
Right
57:29
down
57:30
the
57:30
street
57:30
from
57:30
Disneyland.
57:33
And
57:34
I
57:34
did
57:35
know
57:35
my
57:36
husband
57:36
at
57:36
the
57:36
time,
57:37
so
57:37
that's
57:37
good.
57:38
That's
57:38
the
57:38
one
57:38
thing
57:39
I
57:39
had
57:39
going
57:40
for
57:40
me
57:40
that
57:40
was
57:40
good.
57:41
And
57:42
I
57:43
just
57:43
did
57:44
not
57:44
know
57:45
how
57:45
I
57:45
was
57:45
going
57:46
to
57:46
get
57:46
anywhere
57:46
in
57:46
life
57:49
because
57:50
I
57:50
had
57:50
no
57:50
blueprint
57:52
for
57:52
what
57:53
I
57:53
wanted
57:53
to
57:53
do.
57:53
I
57:54
knew
57:54
what
57:54
I
57:54
wanted.
57:55
I
57:55
had
57:55
no
57:55
encouragement.
57:56
My
57:56
family
57:56
just
57:57
did
57:57
not
57:57
think
57:58
me
57:58
getting
57:59
into
57:59
this
57:59
business
58:01
was
58:01
a
58:02
good
58:02
idea.
58:04
That
58:05
took
58:05
a
58:05
long
58:06
time
58:06
for
58:07
them
58:07
to
58:07
come
58:07
around,
58:08
but
58:08
they
58:08
have.
58:09
And
58:10
I
58:10
just
58:13
felt
58:14
very
58:14
stuck.
58:16
Very,
58:16
very
58:17
stuck.
58:18
But
58:20
looking
58:20
back,
58:23
that's
58:23
kind
58:23
of
58:23
par
58:23
for
58:24
the
58:24
course.
58:24
Like
58:26
better
58:26
to
58:27
feel
58:27
stuck
58:27
at
58:27
25
58:28
than
58:28
at
58:29
40.
58:32
Get
58:32
that
58:32
out
58:32
of
58:32
the
58:32
way.
58:34
Get
58:34
all
58:34
that
58:34
indecision
58:35
and
58:35
ugliness
58:36
out
58:36
of
58:36
the
58:36
way
58:36
when
58:37
you're
58:37
young.
58:38
And
58:39
I'm
58:39
lucky
58:39
that
58:40
I
58:40
had
58:40
parents
58:40
that
58:41
let
58:41
me
58:41
live
58:41
at
58:41
home,
58:43
you
58:43
know,
58:43
but
58:43
I
58:45
had
58:45
no
58:46
self
58:46
confidence.
58:47
I
58:47
had.
58:47
And
58:49
I
58:49
saw
58:51
I
58:51
was
58:52
very,
58:52
very
58:52
lost.
58:54
Very,
58:54
very
58:55
lost
58:55
and
58:55
trying
58:56
to
58:57
find
58:58
things
58:58
to
58:59
do,
58:59
employment
59:00
wise
59:01
that
59:01
would.
59:03
I
59:03
was
59:04
trying
59:04
to
59:04
do
59:05
everything
59:05
but
59:05
get
59:06
into
59:06
acting.
59:07
But
59:07
that's
59:07
all
59:07
I
59:07
ever
59:08
wanted
59:08
to
59:08
do.
59:09
So
59:10
I
59:10
thought,
59:10
well,
59:11
I
59:12
got
59:12
to
59:12
do
59:12
something
59:13
to
59:13
make
59:13
a
59:13
living.
59:13
And
59:14
I
59:14
don't
59:15
know,
59:15
I
59:15
just,
59:16
I
59:16
was,
59:17
I
59:18
was,
59:19
I
59:19
don't
59:19
even,
59:19
I
59:20
don't
59:20
even
59:20
like
59:20
to
59:20
look
59:20
at
59:21
pictures
59:21
of
59:21
myself
59:21
from
59:22
that
59:22
time.
59:22
It
59:22
was
59:22
very
59:23
different.
59:23
Yeah.
59:24
Wow.
59:25
How
59:25
did
59:25
you
59:25
get
59:25
unstuck?
59:27
Well,
59:28
you're
59:28
not
59:28
going
59:29
to
59:29
hear
59:29
this
59:29
from
59:29
that
59:29
many
59:30
people,
59:30
but
59:31
I
59:32
found
59:33
getting
59:33
married
59:34
and
59:34
leaving
59:35
the
59:35
house
59:37
to
59:37
be
59:37
very
59:38
liberating.
59:39
So
59:40
I
59:40
luckily
59:40
married
59:41
a
59:41
nice
59:41
man
59:42
and
59:42
he
59:42
was
59:42
the
59:42
one
59:42
that
59:42
said,
59:43
well,
59:43
why
59:43
don't
59:43
you
59:43
try
59:43
this?
59:44
I,
59:44
I
59:44
think
59:45
you
59:45
can
59:45
do
59:45
it.
59:47
So
59:47
that's
59:48
when
59:48
I
59:48
got
59:48
that
59:49
permission.
59:51
Him
59:51
giving
59:52
me
59:52
permission
59:52
and
59:52
saying
59:53
I
59:53
think
59:53
you
59:53
can
59:53
do
59:53
it
59:54
gave
59:54
me
59:55
permission
59:55
to
59:56
give
59:56
myself
59:56
permission.
59:57
Does
59:57
that
59:57
make
59:57
sense.
59:58
So
59:58
that's
59:59
when
59:59
things
59:59
kind
59:59
of
1:00:00
started
1:00:00
falling
1:00:00
into
1:00:00
place.
1:00:01
It's
1:00:01
like,
1:00:01
oh,
1:00:02
so
1:00:03
you're
1:00:03
telling
1:00:03
me
1:00:04
I.
1:00:04
We
1:00:05
can
1:00:05
pay
1:00:05
for
1:00:06
improv
1:00:06
classes,
1:00:07
we
1:00:07
can
1:00:07
do
1:00:07
this.
1:00:08
Yeah.
1:00:09
If
1:00:09
it
1:00:10
doesn't
1:00:10
work,
1:00:10
it
1:00:10
doesn't
1:00:10
work,
1:00:11
but
1:00:11
you
1:00:12
might
1:00:12
as
1:00:12
well
1:00:12
try.
1:00:15
And
1:00:16
until
1:00:16
that,
1:00:16
my.
1:00:17
My
1:00:21
life
1:00:21
motto
1:00:21
was
1:00:22
kind
1:00:22
of
1:00:22
like,
1:00:22
Homer
1:00:23
Simpson,
1:00:23
you
1:00:24
tried
1:00:24
and
1:00:24
you
1:00:24
failed.
1:00:25
So
1:00:25
the
1:00:25
lesson
1:00:26
is
1:00:26
never
1:00:26
try.
1:00:30
In
1:00:30
the
1:00:31
wise
1:00:31
words
1:00:32
of
1:00:32
Homer.
1:00:35
Someone
1:00:35
you
1:00:35
want
1:00:35
to
1:00:35
listen
1:00:36
to.
1:00:39
So
1:00:40
my
1:00:41
sweet
1:00:41
little
1:00:41
Greg,
1:00:42
he
1:00:42
was
1:00:43
the
1:00:43
reason.
1:00:43
He's
1:00:44
the
1:00:44
reason
1:00:44
I
1:00:45
have
1:00:45
any
1:00:46
happiness.
1:00:47
It's
1:00:48
literally
1:00:49
because,
1:00:49
you
1:00:49
know,
1:00:50
he
1:00:50
was
1:00:51
there
1:00:51
for
1:00:51
you.
1:00:51
I
1:00:51
mean,
1:00:51
he
1:00:52
believed
1:00:52
in
1:00:52
you
1:00:53
and.
1:00:54
Let
1:00:54
me
1:00:55
not
1:00:56
feel
1:00:56
crazy.
1:00:57
Does
1:00:57
it
1:00:57
change
1:00:58
and
1:00:58
does
1:00:58
it
1:00:58
evolve
1:00:59
over
1:00:59
time
1:00:59
because
1:00:59
you
1:01:00
guys
1:01:00
are
1:01:00
still
1:01:00
obviously
1:01:01
married
1:01:01
and,
1:01:01
you
1:01:02
know,
1:01:02
like,
1:01:02
especially
1:01:03
Hollywood.
1:01:04
I
1:01:04
mean,
1:01:04
that's
1:01:05
a
1:01:05
rarity.
1:01:05
You
1:01:05
guys
1:01:06
have
1:01:06
something
1:01:06
special.
1:01:07
Yeah.
1:01:07
You
1:01:08
know.
1:01:09
Yeah.
1:01:09
That's
1:01:10
been
1:01:11
like,
1:01:12
continues
1:01:12
to
1:01:12
be
1:01:13
the
1:01:13
best
1:01:13
decision
1:01:14
I've
1:01:15
ever
1:01:15
made.
1:01:16
You
1:01:17
know,
1:01:17
get
1:01:17
yourself
1:01:18
a
1:01:18
good
1:01:18
partner
1:01:20
who
1:01:20
gets
1:01:20
it
1:01:20
and
1:01:21
who
1:01:21
can
1:01:21
ride
1:01:21
the
1:01:22
waves.
1:01:24
And,
1:01:25
you
1:01:25
know,
1:01:25
the.
1:01:25
The
1:01:26
thing
1:01:26
of
1:01:26
it
1:01:27
is,
1:01:27
is,
1:01:27
like,
1:01:29
if
1:01:29
I
1:01:29
have
1:01:29
him,
1:01:30
I
1:01:30
know
1:01:30
everything's
1:01:30
gonna
1:01:30
be
1:01:31
okay.
1:01:33
It
1:01:34
could
1:01:34
all
1:01:34
go
1:01:34
away.
1:01:35
But,
1:01:35
like,
1:01:35
I'd
1:01:35
rather
1:01:36
be
1:01:36
poor
1:01:36
with
1:01:36
him
1:01:38
than
1:01:38
rich
1:01:38
with
1:01:39
somebody
1:01:39
else.
1:01:40
I'd
1:01:40
rather
1:01:41
sit
1:01:41
in
1:01:41
LA
1:01:42
traffic
1:01:42
with
1:01:42
him
1:01:44
than
1:01:44
go
1:01:44
to
1:01:44
Paris
1:01:45
with
1:01:45
anyone
1:01:45
else.
1:01:45
Like,
1:01:47
I
1:01:47
know,
1:01:49
you
1:01:50
know,
1:01:50
this
1:01:50
is.
1:01:51
This
1:01:51
is
1:01:51
solid.
1:01:52
This
1:01:52
is
1:01:53
my
1:01:53
person.
1:01:54
And
1:01:54
if
1:01:54
you
1:01:55
can
1:01:55
sit
1:01:55
in
1:01:55
LA
1:01:55
traffic
1:01:56
with
1:01:56
somebody
1:01:56
and
1:01:57
not
1:01:57
kill
1:01:57
them
1:01:58
and
1:01:58
be
1:01:58
laughing
1:01:59
my
1:01:59
head
1:01:59
off,
1:02:00
I
1:02:00
mean,
1:02:00
that's
1:02:00
huge.
1:02:01
I
1:02:02
mean,
1:02:03
Duran
1:02:03
Duran
1:02:04
in
1:02:04
the
1:02:04
background,
1:02:04
that's
1:02:05
pretty
1:02:06
perfect.
1:02:07
That's
1:02:08
pretty
1:02:08
good.
1:02:11
With
1:02:12
John
1:02:12
Taylor
1:02:12
and
1:02:13
Simon
1:02:13
Levon
1:02:13
on
1:02:14
one
1:02:14
side
1:02:14
and
1:02:14
the
1:02:15
Hubs
1:02:15
on
1:02:15
the.
1:02:15
I
1:02:15
mean,
1:02:16
don't
1:02:17
need
1:02:17
them.
1:02:22
Oh,
1:02:22
my
1:02:23
God.
1:02:24
So
1:02:25
how
1:02:25
are
1:02:25
you
1:02:25
living
1:02:26
iconically
1:02:27
during
1:02:28
this
1:02:29
part
1:02:29
of
1:02:29
life
1:02:29
right
1:02:29
now?
1:02:30
How
1:02:31
am
1:02:31
I
1:02:31
living
1:02:31
iconically?
1:02:33
I
1:02:33
don't
1:02:33
know
1:02:33
how
1:02:33
to
1:02:33
answer
1:02:34
that
1:02:34
question.
1:02:35
You
1:02:35
just
1:02:35
are
1:02:36
iconic.
1:02:36
I
1:02:37
mean,
1:02:37
come
1:02:37
on,
1:02:37
lady.
1:02:38
I
1:02:38
am
1:02:39
living
1:02:40
iconically
1:02:42
by
1:02:43
being
1:02:44
unapologetic
1:02:46
about
1:02:46
my
1:02:47
decisions
1:02:49
at
1:02:49
this
1:02:49
point.
1:02:50
Powerful.
1:02:52
Powerful,
1:02:52
isn't
1:02:52
it?
1:02:53
Because
1:02:53
anyone
1:02:54
that's
1:02:54
got
1:02:54
anything
1:02:55
to
1:02:55
say
1:02:57
negatively
1:02:57
about
1:02:57
my
1:02:58
decisions
1:03:01
is
1:03:01
not
1:03:01
someone
1:03:02
I
1:03:02
need
1:03:02
to
1:03:02
be
1:03:02
hanging
1:03:03
out
1:03:03
with
1:03:04
is
1:03:05
not
1:03:05
someone
1:03:05
who's
1:03:05
even
1:03:06
close
1:03:06
in
1:03:06
the
1:03:06
circle.
1:03:07
So
1:03:07
who
1:03:07
the
1:03:07
hell
1:03:08
cares?
1:03:09
I
1:03:10
don't
1:03:10
know.
1:03:11
But
1:03:11
am
1:03:11
I
1:03:11
living
1:03:12
iconic?
1:03:14
Well,
1:03:15
I
1:03:15
did
1:03:15
just
1:03:16
get
1:03:16
a
1:03:16
new
1:03:16
floral
1:03:16
bathing
1:03:17
cap.
1:03:19
Oh,
1:03:19
I
1:03:19
saw
1:03:19
this
1:03:20
on
1:03:20
your
1:03:20
Instagram.
1:03:21
Yes,
1:03:22
lady.
1:03:23
Uhhuh.
1:03:23
I
1:03:24
mean,
1:03:24
let's
1:03:24
bring
1:03:24
those
1:03:25
back.
1:03:25
I
1:03:26
mean,
1:03:26
let's
1:03:27
just
1:03:27
bring
1:03:27
them
1:03:27
back.
1:03:28
Yes.
1:03:28
And
1:03:28
they're
1:03:29
dual
1:03:29
purpose
1:03:30
pool,
1:03:30
shower.
1:03:31
I
1:03:31
mean,
1:03:31
you
1:03:31
can
1:03:32
do
1:03:32
a
1:03:32
lot
1:03:32
with
1:03:32
it.
1:03:33
Yeah.
1:03:34
I
1:03:34
mean,
1:03:35
feeding
1:03:35
the
1:03:36
crows
1:03:36
out
1:03:36
in
1:03:36
the
1:03:37
driveway
1:03:37
in
1:03:37
front
1:03:37
of
1:03:37
the
1:03:37
neighbors.
1:03:38
Yes,
1:03:39
yes.
1:03:40
You
1:03:40
know,
1:03:40
100%.
1:03:42
I
1:03:42
am
1:03:42
obsessed
1:03:43
with
1:03:43
your
1:03:43
shower
1:03:43
cap.
1:03:44
You
1:03:44
know,
1:03:46
every
1:03:46
last
1:03:46
needs
1:03:47
a
1:03:47
good
1:03:47
shower
1:03:48
cap,
1:03:48
and
1:03:48
the
1:03:49
louder,
1:03:49
the
1:03:49
better.
1:03:50
Yes,
1:03:50
yes.
1:03:51
Go
1:03:51
to
1:03:51
the
1:03:52
neighborhood
1:03:52
who's
1:03:52
the
1:03:53
weirdest,
1:03:54
you
1:03:55
know,
1:03:55
and
1:03:55
then
1:03:55
they
1:03:55
don't
1:03:56
come
1:03:56
over
1:03:56
and
1:03:56
try
1:03:56
to
1:03:56
borrow
1:03:57
things.
1:03:59
It's
1:03:59
a
1:03:59
twofold.
1:04:00
You
1:04:00
know,
1:04:00
there's
1:04:00
a
1:04:00
purpose
1:04:01
to
1:04:01
this.
1:04:03
I
1:04:03
want
1:04:03
to
1:04:04
live
1:04:04
in
1:04:04
your
1:04:04
neighborhood.
1:04:05
That
1:04:05
sounds
1:04:05
like
1:04:05
the
1:04:05
fine
1:04:06
neighborhood.
1:04:10
Oh,
1:04:10
my
1:04:10
gosh.
1:04:11
Oh,
1:04:12
so
1:04:12
good.
1:04:13
Amazing.
1:04:13
Well,
1:04:14
we
1:04:15
love
1:04:15
to
1:04:15
play
1:04:15
a
1:04:15
game
1:04:16
at
1:04:16
the
1:04:16
end
1:04:16
of
1:04:16
the
1:04:16
episodes.
1:04:17
Would
1:04:17
you
1:04:17
be
1:04:17
up
1:04:17
for
1:04:18
a
1:04:18
game,
1:04:18
Ms.
1:04:18
Win?
1:04:19
I
1:04:19
love
1:04:19
game.
1:04:20
All
1:04:20
right,
1:04:21
this
1:04:21
will
1:04:21
be
1:04:22
easy
1:04:22
for
1:04:22
you
1:04:22
because
1:04:22
you're,
1:04:23
like,
1:04:23
improv
1:04:23
queen.
1:04:24
Okay,
1:04:25
let
1:04:25
me
1:04:25
put
1:04:25
on
1:04:25
the
1:04:26
old
1:04:26
specs,
1:04:27
because
1:04:27
these
1:04:27
eyes
1:04:27
just
1:04:28
don't
1:04:28
work
1:04:28
like
1:04:29
they
1:04:29
used
1:04:29
to.
1:04:29
Oh,
1:04:30
isn't
1:04:30
that
1:04:30
something,
1:04:31
too?
1:04:32
Yeah.
1:04:32
Take
1:04:32
care
1:04:33
of
1:04:33
your
1:04:33
eyes,
1:04:33
people.
1:04:34
Oh,
1:04:34
my
1:04:34
God.
1:04:35
Seriously,
1:04:35
get
1:04:35
the
1:04:36
fish
1:04:36
oils
1:04:36
in.
1:04:37
Oh,
1:04:37
my
1:04:37
God,
1:04:37
the
1:04:38
eyes,
1:04:38
the
1:04:39
brain
1:04:39
fog,
1:04:40
the
1:04:40
exhaustion.
1:04:41
I'm
1:04:41
like.
1:04:41
Of
1:04:42
all
1:04:42
the
1:04:42
things.
1:04:43
Oh,
1:04:44
the
1:04:44
brain
1:04:44
fog.
1:04:45
Oh,
1:04:45
my
1:04:45
God.
1:04:45
Do
1:04:45
you
1:04:45
get
1:04:46
it,
1:04:46
too?
1:04:46
Okay,
1:04:47
first
1:04:47
of
1:04:47
all,
1:04:47
I
1:04:48
had
1:04:48
Covid
1:04:48
really
1:04:49
bad.
1:04:52
That
1:04:52
could
1:04:52
be
1:04:52
an
1:04:52
after
1:04:53
effect.
1:04:53
But
1:04:53
also,
1:04:54
menopause
1:04:54
does
1:04:54
that
1:04:55
too,
1:04:55
you
1:04:55
know,
1:04:55
because
1:04:56
it's
1:04:56
fun
1:04:56
being
1:04:56
a
1:04:56
lady.
1:04:57
Yeah.
1:04:58
Oh,
1:04:58
I
1:04:58
know.
1:04:59
It's
1:04:59
so
1:05:00
many
1:05:00
things.
1:05:00
And
1:05:00
then
1:05:00
deciding,
1:05:01
like,
1:05:01
HRT
1:05:02
and,
1:05:02
like,
1:05:03
treat.
1:05:04
Oh,
1:05:05
yeah.
1:05:05
It's
1:05:05
a
1:05:06
lot,
1:05:06
you
1:05:06
know,
1:05:07
and
1:05:07
it's.
1:05:08
It's.
1:05:08
What's
1:05:08
great
1:05:08
about
1:05:09
the
1:05:09
HRT
1:05:10
is
1:05:10
that
1:05:10
every
1:05:10
doctor
1:05:11
has
1:05:11
a
1:05:11
different
1:05:11
philosophy
1:05:12
about
1:05:12
it.
1:05:13
So
1:05:13
you.
1:05:13
You
1:05:13
can't
1:05:14
get
1:05:14
the
1:05:14
real
1:05:14
information.
1:05:16
No,
1:05:16
you
1:05:16
can't.
1:05:17
Can
1:05:17
you
1:05:17
people
1:05:17
get
1:05:18
on
1:05:18
the
1:05:18
same
1:05:18
page,
1:05:19
please?
1:05:20
There's
1:05:20
a
1:05:21
lot
1:05:21
of
1:05:21
sweaty,
1:05:21
itchy,
1:05:22
bitchy
1:05:22
people
1:05:24
who
1:05:24
would
1:05:24
like
1:05:25
some
1:05:25
relief.
1:05:25
Yes.
1:05:26
As
1:05:27
well
1:05:27
as
1:05:27
their
1:05:27
partners.
1:05:28
You
1:05:29
know,
1:05:30
my
1:05:30
poor
1:05:30
husband.
1:05:32
So
1:05:32
bad.
1:05:35
He's
1:05:36
like,
1:05:36
please,
1:05:36
can
1:05:37
you
1:05:37
try
1:05:37
something?
1:05:38
Because
1:05:39
do
1:05:39
something.
1:05:40
Yeah,
1:05:40
please
1:05:40
do
1:05:40
something.
1:05:41
I
1:05:41
can't
1:05:41
have
1:05:41
you
1:05:41
yelling
1:05:42
at
1:05:42
me
1:05:42
every
1:05:42
time
1:05:42
I
1:05:42
breathe.
1:05:43
You
1:05:43
know,
1:05:47
like,
1:05:47
was
1:05:47
that
1:05:47
a
1:05:47
chew?
1:05:48
No
1:05:48
more
1:05:48
night
1:05:49
kicking?
1:05:49
Yeah,
1:05:50
exactly.
1:05:54
Okay,
1:05:55
so
1:05:55
this
1:05:56
is
1:05:56
called.
1:05:58
The
1:05:58
name
1:05:59
of
1:05:59
the
1:05:59
game
1:05:59
is
1:06:00
say
1:06:01
the
1:06:01
quiet
1:06:01
part
1:06:02
out
1:06:02
loud.
1:06:03
So
1:06:03
what
1:06:04
I
1:06:04
will
1:06:04
do
1:06:05
is
1:06:05
I
1:06:05
will
1:06:05
say
1:06:05
a
1:06:05
phrase,
1:06:06
and
1:06:06
then,
1:06:07
you
1:06:07
know,
1:06:07
when
1:06:07
we
1:06:07
typically
1:06:08
have,
1:06:08
like,
1:06:08
an
1:06:08
inner
1:06:09
dialogue
1:06:09
that's
1:06:10
going
1:06:10
on
1:06:10
in
1:06:10
our
1:06:10
head,
1:06:10
but
1:06:10
we
1:06:11
kind
1:06:11
of
1:06:11
keep
1:06:11
it
1:06:11
quiet.
1:06:12
Yes.
1:06:12
Yeah.
1:06:12
Say
1:06:13
it
1:06:13
out
1:06:13
loud.
1:06:13
Oh,
1:06:14
that's
1:06:14
interesting.
1:06:15
All
1:06:15
right.
1:06:15
Yes,
1:06:15
yes,
1:06:16
yes.
1:06:16
Okay.
1:06:18
When
1:06:18
someone
1:06:18
says,
1:06:19
you're
1:06:19
aging
1:06:20
so
1:06:20
gracefully,
1:06:21
what's
1:06:21
the
1:06:22
quiet
1:06:22
part?
1:06:22
You're
1:06:22
thinking,
1:06:24
oh,
1:06:24
God,
1:06:26
I
1:06:26
really
1:06:26
want
1:06:26
to
1:06:26
give
1:06:26
you
1:06:27
something
1:06:27
Good
1:06:27
here,
1:06:27
Roxy.
1:06:28
But
1:06:28
you're
1:06:29
aging
1:06:29
so
1:06:29
gracefully.
1:06:31
I
1:06:31
would
1:06:31
say.
1:06:34
No,
1:06:35
I
1:06:35
just
1:06:35
have
1:06:35
10
1:06:35
pounds
1:06:36
of
1:06:36
makeup
1:06:36
on.
1:06:38
Good
1:06:38
point,
1:06:39
good
1:06:39
point.
1:06:40
As
1:06:41
do
1:06:41
we
1:06:41
all.
1:06:45
What
1:06:45
if
1:06:46
I
1:06:46
told
1:06:46
you
1:06:46
I
1:06:46
was
1:06:46
94?
1:06:49
God,
1:06:50
you
1:06:50
look
1:06:50
great
1:06:50
for
1:06:51
94.
1:06:52
Right?
1:06:53
Tell
1:06:53
your
1:06:54
friends.
1:06:56
Plastic
1:06:57
surgery.
1:07:02
Little
1:07:02
lip,
1:07:02
little
1:07:03
tuck.
1:07:03
Yeah,
1:07:05
it's
1:07:05
all
1:07:06
natural.
1:07:06
It's
1:07:07
all
1:07:07
natural.
1:07:07
It's
1:07:08
all
1:07:08
natural.
1:07:08
Although
1:07:09
I
1:07:09
did
1:07:09
say,
1:07:09
while
1:07:09
we're
1:07:09
talking
1:07:10
about
1:07:10
facelifts,
1:07:11
Chris
1:07:11
Jenner
1:07:12
looks
1:07:12
amazing.
1:07:12
Lindsay
1:07:13
Lohan
1:07:14
looks
1:07:14
amazing.
1:07:14
I'm
1:07:15
like,
1:07:15
I
1:07:15
want
1:07:15
what
1:07:15
they're
1:07:15
having.
1:07:16
What?
1:07:17
What
1:07:17
the
1:07:18
hell?
1:07:18
Now
1:07:18
I
1:07:19
want
1:07:19
to
1:07:19
see
1:07:19
that
1:07:19
in.
1:07:20
In
1:07:20
real
1:07:20
life.
1:07:21
Yeah.
1:07:22
Right.
1:07:22
We
1:07:22
need
1:07:22
to
1:07:23
inspect.
1:07:24
Yeah.
1:07:25
Right.
1:07:25
Yeah.
1:07:27
But,
1:07:28
yeah,
1:07:28
there
1:07:28
have
1:07:29
been
1:07:29
great
1:07:29
strides
1:07:30
made.
1:07:30
Yes.
1:07:31
In
1:07:31
that
1:07:32
field.
1:07:32
Okay.
1:07:33
When
1:07:33
a
1:07:34
producer
1:07:34
tells
1:07:34
you
1:07:35
that
1:07:36
they're
1:07:36
going
1:07:36
in
1:07:36
a
1:07:36
different
1:07:37
direction
1:07:38
and
1:07:38
it's
1:07:38
with
1:07:38
a
1:07:39
man
1:07:39
named
1:07:40
Chad,
1:07:52
like,
1:07:53
oh.
1:07:57
Oh,
1:07:57
boy.
1:07:58
I
1:07:59
guess
1:07:59
the
1:07:59
quiet
1:07:59
part
1:08:00
would
1:08:00
be,
1:08:00
don't
1:08:00
ever
1:08:00
call
1:08:01
me
1:08:01
again,
1:08:03
you
1:08:04
stupid
1:08:04
idiot.
1:08:05
Don't
1:08:05
waste
1:08:06
my
1:08:06
time.
1:08:08
Lose
1:08:08
my
1:08:09
number.
1:08:12
Let's
1:08:12
never
1:08:12
speak
1:08:13
again.
1:08:14
Totally.
1:08:15
Totally.
1:08:15
A
1:08:16
man
1:08:16
named
1:08:16
Chad.
1:08:17
A
1:08:17
man
1:08:17
named
1:08:17
Chad.
1:08:19
And
1:08:19
Chad
1:08:20
of
1:08:20
all
1:08:20
things
1:08:20
too,
1:08:21
right?
1:08:21
The
1:08:21
name,
1:08:21
it's
1:08:22
like
1:08:22
you
1:08:22
can
1:08:23
see
1:08:23
Chad
1:08:23
in
1:08:23
your
1:08:24
head.
1:08:24
Right?
1:08:24
Like,
1:08:25
of
1:08:25
course
1:08:25
it's
1:08:26
Chad.
1:08:26
Of
1:08:27
course
1:08:27
it's
1:08:27
Chad.
1:08:28
Right?
1:08:29
Chad
1:08:29
always.
1:08:30
Yeah,
1:08:30
he
1:08:30
always
1:08:31
up.
1:08:33
When
1:08:33
a
1:08:33
red
1:08:34
carpet
1:08:34
reporter
1:08:35
calls
1:08:35
your
1:08:36
look
1:08:36
unexpected.
1:08:40
I
1:08:40
would
1:08:40
say,
1:08:43
is
1:08:44
that
1:08:44
code
1:08:45
for,
1:08:48
you
1:08:48
know,
1:08:49
ugly?
1:08:49
Like
1:08:50
unexpected.
1:08:53
Oh,
1:08:53
I
1:08:53
suppose
1:08:53
you
1:08:53
think
1:08:53
I
1:08:54
have
1:08:54
a
1:08:54
good
1:08:54
personality,
1:08:55
too.
1:08:59
Unexpected.
1:09:01
That's
1:09:02
a.
1:09:02
That's
1:09:02
a
1:09:04
sandwich,
1:09:05
right?
1:09:06
That's
1:09:06
a.
1:09:07
Yeah,
1:09:07
that's
1:09:07
a
1:09:08
backhanded
1:09:10
compliment.
1:09:10
That's
1:09:11
not
1:09:11
a
1:09:11
compliment.
1:09:12
Right.
1:09:12
Unexpected.
1:09:13
Unexpected.
1:09:15
And
1:09:15
it's
1:09:16
like
1:09:16
in
1:09:16
that
1:09:16
tone
1:09:16
too,
1:09:17
you
1:09:17
know,
1:09:17
like,
1:09:18
please.
1:09:19
Yeah.
1:09:20
Huh.
1:09:20
Huh.
1:09:22
When
1:09:23
someone
1:09:23
asks
1:09:23
you
1:09:24
how
1:09:24
do
1:09:24
you
1:09:24
stay
1:09:25
so
1:09:25
grounded?
1:09:28
I
1:09:28
would
1:09:29
say,
1:09:34
is
1:09:34
that
1:09:34
unusual?
1:09:36
Like,
1:09:39
you
1:09:39
know,
1:09:40
that's
1:09:40
one
1:09:40
of
1:09:40
those
1:09:40
other,
1:09:41
like,
1:09:42
nonsense
1:09:43
things
1:09:44
like
1:09:44
say,
1:09:44
oh,
1:09:44
my
1:09:44
God,
1:09:44
that's
1:09:45
so
1:09:45
human.
1:09:46
Yeah.
1:09:46
Oh,
1:09:46
God.
1:09:47
Yeah.
1:09:48
Those
1:09:48
are
1:09:49
just
1:09:49
mouth
1:09:50
sounds.
1:09:50
Yeah.
1:09:51
I
1:09:51
don't
1:09:51
even
1:09:51
know
1:09:51
what
1:09:51
that
1:09:52
sounds.
1:09:54
Totally.
1:09:55
A
1:09:55
mouth
1:09:55
sound.
1:09:55
Like,
1:09:56
that's
1:09:57
just
1:09:57
being
1:09:58
so
1:09:58
present.
1:09:59
Or.
1:10:00
Yeah,
1:10:01
it's.
1:10:01
It's
1:10:02
like
1:10:03
goofy
1:10:03
speak.
1:10:04
I
1:10:04
don't
1:10:04
even
1:10:04
know
1:10:04
what.
1:10:06
Yeah.
1:10:06
Like,
1:10:06
what
1:10:06
does
1:10:07
that
1:10:07
even
1:10:07
mean?
1:10:07
Like,
1:10:08
come
1:10:08
on.
1:10:08
How
1:10:08
do
1:10:08
you
1:10:08
stay
1:10:09
so
1:10:09
grounded?
1:10:10
Yeah,
1:10:10
well,
1:10:12
coffee,
1:10:13
enemas.
1:10:14
I
1:10:14
don't.
1:10:14
I
1:10:15
don't
1:10:15
even
1:10:15
know
1:10:15
what
1:10:15
that's.
1:10:16
That's
1:10:17
a
1:10:17
weird
1:10:17
prelude
1:10:18
to
1:10:18
a
1:10:18
conversation
1:10:20
that's
1:10:20
boring
1:10:21
as
1:10:21
hell,
1:10:21
I
1:10:21
guess.
1:10:22
Oh,
1:10:22
yes.
1:10:22
You
1:10:23
already
1:10:23
know
1:10:23
you're
1:10:23
going
1:10:23
to
1:10:23
be
1:10:24
checking
1:10:24
out
1:10:24
of
1:10:24
that
1:10:24
one.
1:10:25
You're
1:10:25
like,
1:10:25
okay,
1:10:25
yeah,
1:10:26
that's
1:10:26
not
1:10:27
happening.
1:10:31
When
1:10:31
you
1:10:31
hear
1:10:32
a
1:10:32
26
1:10:33
year
1:10:33
old
1:10:33
actor
1:10:34
Complain
1:10:34
about
1:10:34
being
1:10:35
too
1:10:35
old
1:10:36
for
1:10:36
roles.
1:10:38
So
1:10:38
life
1:10:38
is
1:10:38
going
1:10:39
to
1:10:39
be
1:10:39
really
1:10:39
hard
1:10:39
for
1:10:40
you.
1:10:43
You
1:10:43
need
1:10:43
to
1:10:43
broaden
1:10:44
your
1:10:44
scope.
1:10:46
Too
1:10:46
old.
1:10:48
Too
1:10:48
old.
1:10:49
Now.
1:10:49
Yes,
1:10:50
I
1:10:50
have
1:10:50
heard
1:10:50
that.
1:10:51
I
1:10:51
have
1:10:51
heard
1:10:52
that
1:10:53
idiotic
1:10:55
statement.
1:10:56
But
1:10:56
I
1:10:57
would
1:10:57
say
1:10:57
you're
1:10:58
saying
1:10:58
that
1:10:58
because
1:10:59
someone
1:10:59
said
1:10:59
it
1:10:59
to
1:11:00
you.
1:11:00
Get
1:11:00
rid
1:11:00
of
1:11:01
that
1:11:01
person.
1:11:02
Because
1:11:03
naturally
1:11:03
a
1:11:03
26
1:11:04
year
1:11:04
old
1:11:05
should
1:11:05
never
1:11:05
think
1:11:05
something
1:11:06
like
1:11:06
that.
1:11:07
Yeah.
1:11:08
Unless
1:11:09
you're
1:11:10
auditioning
1:11:10
for
1:11:10
High
1:11:11
School
1:11:12
Musical.
1:11:13
Whatever.
1:11:13
Yeah,
1:11:14
yeah.
1:11:17
But
1:11:17
dear
1:11:17
God,
1:11:19
whoever
1:11:19
is
1:11:20
saying
1:11:21
something
1:11:21
that
1:11:21
dumb
1:11:22
needs
1:11:22
to
1:11:22
get
1:11:22
in
1:11:22
a
1:11:23
time
1:11:23
machine
1:11:23
and
1:11:23
go
1:11:24
back
1:11:24
to
1:11:24
the
1:11:24
40s.
1:11:25
Yeah.
1:11:26
And
1:11:26
stay
1:11:26
there.
1:11:27
Stay
1:11:27
there
1:11:27
and
1:11:28
stay
1:11:28
there.
1:11:28
Yes.
1:11:30
No
1:11:30
need
1:11:30
to
1:11:31
come
1:11:31
back.
1:11:33
Wow.
1:11:34
Too
1:11:34
old.
1:11:34
But
1:11:35
yeah,
1:11:35
I
1:11:35
have
1:11:35
heard
1:11:36
that
1:11:36
and
1:11:36
that
1:11:37
is
1:11:37
really
1:11:37
sad.
1:11:38
That's
1:11:39
sad.
1:11:39
That's
1:11:39
scary.
1:11:41
Bonkers.
1:11:42
Yeah,
1:11:43
that's
1:11:43
crazy.
1:11:45
When
1:11:45
the
1:11:45
director
1:11:46
says,
1:11:46
just
1:11:47
be
1:11:47
more
1:11:47
likable.
1:11:49
You
1:11:50
want
1:11:50
to
1:11:50
give
1:11:50
me
1:11:50
an
1:11:50
example?
1:11:54
Show
1:11:54
me.
1:11:56
What
1:11:57
does
1:11:57
that
1:11:57
look
1:11:57
like
1:11:57
to
1:11:57
you?
1:12:01
Be
1:12:01
more
1:12:01
likeable.
1:12:02
Be
1:12:03
more
1:12:03
likable.
1:12:03
Why'd
1:12:04
you
1:12:04
hire
1:12:04
me?
1:12:05
Yeah,
1:12:05
exactly,
1:12:09
exactly.
1:12:10
You
1:12:10
should
1:12:10
recast
1:12:11
this
1:12:11
role
1:12:11
thing
1:12:13
right
1:12:14
away.
1:12:15
Oh,
1:12:16
be
1:12:16
more
1:12:16
likable.
1:12:17
Oh
1:12:17
dear,
1:12:19
I'm
1:12:19
adorable.
1:12:20
Eat.
1:12:21
Yeah,
1:12:21
exactly.
1:12:26
How
1:12:27
dare
1:12:27
you.
1:12:28
How
1:12:28
dare
1:12:28
you
1:12:28
say
1:12:29
how
1:12:29
very
1:12:29
dare
1:12:30
you.
1:12:31
Oh.
1:12:33
When
1:12:33
a
1:12:33
fan
1:12:34
quotes
1:12:34
your
1:12:34
line,
1:12:35
but
1:12:35
it's
1:12:36
from
1:12:36
a
1:12:36
different
1:12:36
actor
1:12:37
in
1:12:37
a
1:12:37
different
1:12:38
movie,
1:12:39
but
1:12:39
they
1:12:39
think
1:12:39
it's
1:12:40
you.
1:12:41
Have
1:12:41
you
1:12:41
ever
1:12:41
had
1:12:42
that
1:12:42
happen?
1:12:43
Has
1:12:44
anyone
1:12:44
ever
1:12:44
mistaken
1:12:45
you
1:12:45
for
1:12:45
somebody
1:12:46
else?
1:12:46
Yes,
1:12:47
that
1:12:47
has
1:12:47
happened.
1:12:48
Who?
1:12:48
Who
1:12:49
was
1:12:49
it
1:12:49
for?
1:12:49
They
1:12:50
haven't
1:12:51
quoted
1:12:52
me
1:12:53
or
1:12:53
quoted
1:12:53
another.
1:12:54
Is
1:12:54
that
1:12:55
true?
1:12:56
No,
1:12:56
I
1:12:56
did,
1:12:57
I
1:12:57
did
1:12:58
get
1:12:58
mistaken
1:12:59
for
1:12:59
someone
1:12:59
that
1:12:59
was
1:13:00
on
1:13:00
a
1:13:00
very
1:13:00
short
1:13:01
lived
1:13:01
show
1:13:03
and
1:13:03
I
1:13:03
was
1:13:03
too
1:13:03
embarrassed
1:13:04
to
1:13:04
even
1:13:04
say
1:13:05
anything
1:13:05
about.
1:13:06
Was
1:13:06
like,
1:13:06
okay,
1:13:07
let's
1:13:07
just
1:13:07
end
1:13:07
this
1:13:07
interaction
1:13:09
now.
1:13:10
Now's
1:13:10
not
1:13:10
the
1:13:10
time.
1:13:11
It
1:13:11
was
1:13:11
at
1:13:11
a
1:13:12
party,
1:13:13
it
1:13:13
was
1:13:14
very
1:13:14
loud.
1:13:14
It
1:13:15
was
1:13:15
like
1:13:16
I
1:13:16
was
1:13:16
already
1:13:17
uncomfortable.
1:13:17
So
1:13:18
I
1:13:18
was
1:13:18
just
1:13:18
like,
1:13:18
oh,
1:13:19
yeah,
1:13:20
okay,
1:13:21
like
1:13:21
you're
1:13:21
not
1:13:22
gonna
1:13:22
remember
1:13:22
this.
1:13:23
Let's
1:13:24
just
1:13:24
end
1:13:24
it.
1:13:24
Sometimes
1:13:25
it's,
1:13:25
it's
1:13:25
just
1:13:26
too
1:13:26
embarrassing
1:13:27
to
1:13:27
go.
1:13:27
Yes.
1:13:28
And
1:13:28
you're
1:13:28
almost
1:13:28
like
1:13:29
more
1:13:29
embarrassed
1:13:30
for
1:13:30
the.
1:13:30
Than
1:13:30
the
1:13:30
person.
1:13:31
Right.
1:13:31
Like
1:13:31
you
1:13:32
almost
1:13:32
feel
1:13:32
more
1:13:32
embarrassed
1:13:33
for
1:13:33
that.
1:13:34
Yeah.
1:13:34
No
1:13:35
harm,
1:13:35
no
1:13:35
foul.
1:13:36
You
1:13:36
think
1:13:36
you
1:13:36
met
1:13:36
so
1:13:37
and
1:13:37
so.
1:13:38
Yeah.
1:13:39
When
1:13:40
someone
1:13:40
says,
1:13:41
you're
1:13:41
nothing
1:13:42
like
1:13:42
your
1:13:42
characters.
1:13:46
Yes.
1:13:49
Thank
1:13:49
you
1:13:49
for
1:13:49
noticing.
1:13:52
Thank
1:13:52
you
1:13:52
for
1:13:52
noticing.
1:13:53
Yeah,
1:13:54
yeah,
1:13:54
that's
1:13:54
great.
1:13:55
Wouldn't
1:13:55
it
1:13:56
be
1:13:56
weird
1:13:56
if
1:13:56
I,
1:13:57
if
1:13:57
I
1:13:57
were
1:13:57
like
1:13:58
my
1:13:58
characters?
1:13:58
Yeah,
1:13:59
that
1:13:59
would
1:13:59
be.
1:14:02
That
1:14:02
would
1:14:02
be
1:14:02
terrible.
1:14:04
But
1:14:05
yeah.
1:14:05
And
1:14:06
yet
1:14:06
some
1:14:06
people
1:14:06
are
1:14:07
disappointed.
1:14:08
Are
1:14:08
they?
1:14:08
Because
1:14:09
they
1:14:09
think
1:14:09
you're
1:14:09
gonna
1:14:10
be
1:14:10
like,
1:14:10
whoever.
1:14:12
Wait
1:14:12
a
1:14:12
minute,
1:14:12
you're
1:14:12
not
1:14:13
a
1:14:13
mom.
1:14:15
No,
1:14:17
no,
1:14:19
no.
1:14:19
Yeah,
1:14:20
I
1:14:20
do
1:14:20
find
1:14:21
that
1:14:21
remarkable.
1:14:23
Yeah.
1:14:24
Huh.
1:14:25
That's
1:14:25
interesting.
1:14:26
Yeah.
1:14:27
But
1:14:27
maybe
1:14:27
that
1:14:27
means
1:14:28
you
1:14:28
play
1:14:28
a
1:14:28
mom
1:14:29
so
1:14:29
well
1:14:30
that
1:14:30
they
1:14:30
think
1:14:30
maybe.
1:14:31
Oh,
1:14:31
she's
1:14:31
a
1:14:32
mom.
1:14:32
She's
1:14:32
definitely
1:14:33
a
1:14:33
mom.
1:14:33
Yeah.
1:14:34
You're
1:14:34
not
1:14:34
a
1:14:34
pothead.
1:14:35
You're
1:14:35
not
1:14:35
like
1:14:35
a
1:14:36
bloody
1:14:36
pothead.
1:14:37
No.
1:14:40
I'm
1:14:40
so
1:14:40
sorry.
1:14:42
And
1:14:42
there's
1:14:42
no.
1:14:43
There's
1:14:43
no
1:14:43
Tooth
1:14:43
Fairy
1:14:44
either.
1:14:44
And
1:14:44
there's
1:14:44
no
1:14:45
Santa
1:14:45
Claus.
1:14:49
Like,
1:14:49
you're
1:14:49
gonna
1:14:50
get
1:14:50
let
1:14:50
down
1:14:50
a
1:14:50
lot
1:14:50
today.
1:14:51
I
1:14:51
know.
1:14:52
I'm
1:14:53
so
1:14:53
sorry
1:14:54
in
1:14:54
advance
1:14:56
for
1:14:56
all
1:14:56
the
1:14:56
disappointment
1:14:57
you're
1:14:57
going
1:14:57
to
1:14:57
experience.
1:15:00
Oh,
1:15:00
my
1:15:00
gosh.
1:15:01
It's
1:15:01
so
1:15:01
funny.
1:15:01
Okay,
1:15:03
Hollywood,
1:15:04
when
1:15:04
somebody
1:15:04
says,
1:15:05
I
1:15:05
don't
1:15:05
have
1:15:06
any
1:15:06
idea
1:15:07
of
1:15:07
what
1:15:07
to
1:15:07
do
1:15:07
with
1:15:08
a
1:15:08
woman
1:15:08
over
1:15:09
40
1:15:09
in
1:15:09
this.
1:15:10
Role,
1:15:11
well,
1:15:13
then
1:15:13
you
1:15:13
aren't
1:15:13
good
1:15:13
at
1:15:14
your
1:15:14
job
1:15:16
and
1:15:16
you
1:15:16
haven't
1:15:17
been
1:15:17
paying
1:15:17
attention
1:15:19
because
1:15:20
they
1:15:20
are
1:15:20
legion.
1:15:21
And
1:15:23
if
1:15:23
you.
1:15:24
I
1:15:24
mean,
1:15:24
the
1:15:24
Internet
1:15:25
is
1:15:25
free,
1:15:26
so
1:15:26
if
1:15:26
you
1:15:27
start
1:15:27
Googling
1:15:27
who
1:15:28
people
1:15:28
are
1:15:28
and
1:15:29
what
1:15:29
their
1:15:29
real
1:15:29
ages
1:15:30
are,
1:15:30
I
1:15:30
think
1:15:30
you're
1:15:30
going
1:15:30
to
1:15:30
be
1:15:30
surprised
1:15:32
to
1:15:32
see
1:15:32
that
1:15:33
there
1:15:33
are
1:15:33
plenty
1:15:33
of
1:15:33
people
1:15:34
out
1:15:34
there
1:15:34
who
1:15:35
do
1:15:35
know
1:15:35
what
1:15:35
to
1:15:35
do
1:15:35
with
1:15:36
them.
1:15:37
So
1:15:39
you
1:15:39
might
1:15:39
want
1:15:39
to
1:15:39
switch
1:15:39
careers.
1:15:40
Exactly.
1:15:41
You're
1:15:41
like,
1:15:41
time
1:15:42
for
1:15:42
a
1:15:42
new
1:15:42
job.
1:15:43
Time
1:15:43
for
1:15:43
a
1:15:43
new
1:15:44
job.
1:15:46
Go
1:15:46
to
1:15:46
Nickelodeon.
1:15:47
I
1:15:47
don't
1:15:47
know
1:15:47
what
1:15:47
to
1:15:48
tell
1:15:48
you.
1:15:51
Yep.
1:15:52
I
1:15:52
mean,
1:15:52
come
1:15:53
on.
1:15:53
I
1:15:53
do
1:15:54
feel
1:15:54
like
1:15:54
it's
1:15:54
getting
1:15:54
better
1:15:54
the
1:15:55
more
1:15:55
I
1:15:55
look
1:15:55
around.
1:15:55
Don't
1:15:56
you?
1:15:56
I
1:15:56
think
1:15:56
so,
1:15:56
too.
1:15:56
Yeah.
1:15:57
It's
1:15:57
really
1:15:58
changing,
1:15:59
like,
1:16:00
a
1:16:00
lot,
1:16:01
which
1:16:01
is
1:16:01
exciting.
1:16:02
I
1:16:02
mean,
1:16:02
it's
1:16:03
about
1:16:03
fucking
1:16:03
time
1:16:03
already.
1:16:04
I
1:16:04
mean,
1:16:05
we
1:16:05
are
1:16:05
interesting
1:16:06
and
1:16:06
there
1:16:06
are,
1:16:07
you
1:16:08
know.
1:16:09
Yeah.
1:16:10
I
1:16:10
feel
1:16:10
like
1:16:11
with
1:16:11
all.
1:16:12
There's
1:16:12
so
1:16:12
many
1:16:13
stories
1:16:13
that
1:16:13
can
1:16:13
be
1:16:14
told
1:16:14
and
1:16:14
there's
1:16:15
so
1:16:15
many
1:16:16
interesting,
1:16:17
like,
1:16:18
just
1:16:18
read
1:16:18
the
1:16:18
newspaper.
1:16:21
There's
1:16:21
lots
1:16:22
of
1:16:22
good
1:16:22
stories
1:16:22
there
1:16:23
to
1:16:23
be
1:16:23
told.
1:16:23
And,
1:16:26
you
1:16:26
know,
1:16:28
that's
1:16:29
so
1:16:29
weird
1:16:29
that.
1:16:30
That
1:16:31
anyone
1:16:31
would
1:16:31
say
1:16:32
that,
1:16:32
and
1:16:32
yet
1:16:32
they
1:16:33
still
1:16:33
do
1:16:33
say
1:16:33
it.
1:16:34
But
1:16:34
it's
1:16:34
like,
1:16:35
what.
1:16:35
Who
1:16:35
were
1:16:35
we
1:16:35
talking
1:16:36
about
1:16:36
earlier?
1:16:37
Deborah
1:16:37
Harry?
1:16:39
Blondie,
1:16:40
who
1:16:40
is
1:16:40
80.
1:16:41
She
1:16:41
is
1:16:41
killing
1:16:42
it.
1:16:42
There's
1:16:42
like,
1:16:43
I
1:16:43
could
1:16:43
rattle
1:16:43
off
1:16:44
so
1:16:44
many
1:16:46
pages
1:16:46
and
1:16:46
pages
1:16:47
of
1:16:47
names
1:16:48
of
1:16:48
women
1:16:48
who
1:16:48
are
1:16:49
still
1:16:49
in
1:16:49
the
1:16:49
game,
1:16:49
and
1:16:50
if
1:16:50
you
1:16:51
don't
1:16:51
see
1:16:51
that,
1:16:52
you're
1:16:52
not
1:16:52
looking.
1:16:53
Yeah.
1:16:53
They're
1:16:54
not
1:16:54
evolving.
1:16:54
They're
1:16:54
not
1:16:55
looking,
1:16:55
you
1:16:55
know,
1:16:55
and
1:16:56
it's
1:16:56
just.
1:16:57
It's
1:16:57
time
1:16:58
to
1:16:58
open
1:16:58
your
1:16:58
eyes.
1:17:00
And
1:17:00
also,
1:17:01
like,
1:17:01
getting
1:17:02
older
1:17:02
is
1:17:02
the
1:17:03
natural
1:17:03
order
1:17:04
of
1:17:04
things.
1:17:05
Like,
1:17:06
every
1:17:06
person,
1:17:07
every
1:17:07
sentient
1:17:08
being,
1:17:08
every
1:17:09
object,
1:17:09
everything
1:17:10
is
1:17:10
aging.
1:17:11
So,
1:17:12
like,
1:17:13
why
1:17:13
would
1:17:13
you
1:17:14
swim
1:17:14
against
1:17:14
that
1:17:15
tide?
1:17:16
That's
1:17:16
what's
1:17:16
happening.
1:17:18
Totally.
1:17:18
Because
1:17:19
the
1:17:19
alternative
1:17:20
is
1:17:21
not
1:17:22
being
1:17:22
here
1:17:22
anymore.
1:17:23
So
1:17:23
why,
1:17:24
you
1:17:24
know,
1:17:24
I
1:17:24
mean,
1:17:25
go
1:17:25
with
1:17:25
it.
1:17:26
Do
1:17:26
it
1:17:26
the
1:17:26
best
1:17:26
you
1:17:26
can,
1:17:27
you
1:17:27
know?
1:17:28
Yeah.
1:17:29
I
1:17:29
mean,
1:17:29
we're
1:17:29
all
1:17:29
in
1:17:29
this
1:17:30
together,
1:17:30
lady.
1:17:31
We're
1:17:31
all
1:17:31
in
1:17:31
it
1:17:31
together.
1:17:32
Oh,
1:17:33
my
1:17:33
gosh.
1:17:33
Well,
1:17:34
thank
1:17:34
you
1:17:34
so
1:17:34
much,
1:17:35
my
1:17:35
love,
1:17:35
for
1:17:35
joining.
1:17:36
You're
1:17:36
so
1:17:36
welcome.
1:17:37
You're
1:17:37
so
1:17:37
lovely,
1:17:38
and
1:17:38
I'm
1:17:39
so
1:17:39
glad.
1:17:40
I
1:17:40
got
1:17:40
to
1:17:40
chat
1:17:40
with
1:17:40
you
1:17:41
again.
1:17:41
I
1:17:41
know.
1:17:42
I'm
1:17:42
so
1:17:42
glad
1:17:42
it
1:17:43
worked
1:17:43
out
1:17:43
and
1:17:43
so
1:17:44
soon.
1:17:44
I
1:17:45
know.
1:17:45
Oh,
1:17:45
my
1:17:45
God.
1:17:46
Amazing,
1:17:47
amazing,
1:17:47
amazing.
1:17:48
Oh,
1:17:48
Wendy,
1:17:49
tell
1:17:49
everybody
1:17:50
where
1:17:50
they
1:17:50
can
1:17:50
find
1:17:50
you.
1:17:50
I
1:17:51
know
1:17:51
you're
1:17:51
on
1:17:51
Instagram
1:17:52
under
1:17:52
your.
1:17:52
Name,
1:17:53
but
1:17:54
I'm
1:17:54
on
1:17:54
Instagram.
1:17:55
And
1:17:56
that's.
1:17:56
That's
1:17:56
it.
1:17:57
That's
1:17:57
it.
1:17:57
And
1:17:58
I'm.
1:17:58
Any
1:17:58
of
1:17:58
the
1:17:58
other
1:17:59
socials.
1:18:00
Oh,
1:18:01
okay.
1:18:02
Yeah.
1:18:02
So
1:18:02
that's
1:18:03
it.
1:18:03
And
1:18:03
I'm
1:18:03
on
1:18:03
a
1:18:03
show
1:18:04
called
1:18:04
St.
1:18:04
Denis
1:18:05
Medical
1:18:05
on
1:18:05
NBC
1:18:06
and
1:18:06
Peacock,
1:18:08
and
1:18:09
we
1:18:09
are
1:18:09
filming
1:18:09
season
1:18:10
two
1:18:10
right
1:18:10
now.
1:18:10
It
1:18:11
should
1:18:11
come
1:18:11
out
1:18:11
in
1:18:11
November.
1:18:12
Do
1:18:13
you
1:18:13
have
1:18:13
any
1:18:13
aspirations
1:18:14
for
1:18:14
directing,
1:18:15
writing,
1:18:16
creating
1:18:16
features,
1:18:17
anything
1:18:17
like
1:18:18
that?
1:18:18
Yeah,
1:18:19
we.
1:18:19
I
1:18:20
started
1:18:20
a
1:18:20
production
1:18:21
company
1:18:21
with
1:18:23
some
1:18:23
gals
1:18:24
a
1:18:24
couple
1:18:24
months
1:18:24
ago,
1:18:25
and
1:18:25
we
1:18:25
are
1:18:27
optioning
1:18:28
things.
1:18:28
And
1:18:29
I
1:18:29
have
1:18:30
no
1:18:30
interest
1:18:30
in
1:18:30
directing,
1:18:31
though.
1:18:31
I
1:18:31
like
1:18:31
producing,
1:18:33
but
1:18:33
I
1:18:33
don't
1:18:33
want
1:18:34
to
1:18:34
direct.
1:18:35
I'll
1:18:35
leave
1:18:35
that
1:18:35
to
1:18:36
people
1:18:36
who
1:18:36
really
1:18:37
love
1:18:38
that
1:18:38
part
1:18:39
of
1:18:39
it.
1:18:39
I
1:18:39
don't.
1:18:40
Okay.
1:18:41
I
1:18:41
like
1:18:42
being
1:18:42
in
1:18:43
front
1:18:43
of
1:18:43
the
1:18:43
camera
1:18:44
and
1:18:44
I
1:18:44
like
1:18:45
getting
1:18:45
other
1:18:45
people
1:18:46
jobs,
1:18:46
but
1:18:47
I.
1:18:47
And
1:18:48
I
1:18:48
like
1:18:49
writing
1:18:49
stories
1:18:51
or
1:18:51
creating
1:18:52
things,
1:18:52
but
1:18:52
I
1:18:53
don't.
1:18:55
I
1:18:55
don't
1:18:55
love
1:18:55
being
1:18:56
chained
1:18:56
to
1:18:56
my
1:18:57
computer.
1:18:58
And
1:18:59
that's
1:18:59
what
1:18:59
it
1:18:59
is,
1:18:59
right?
1:18:59
It's
1:19:00
like
1:19:00
edits
1:19:00
and
1:19:00
takes,
1:19:01
reviewing
1:19:02
and.
1:19:03
Exactly.
1:19:03
It's
1:19:04
a
1:19:04
lot.
1:19:04
It's
1:19:04
a
1:19:04
lot.
1:19:05
I'll
1:19:05
let.
1:19:05
I
1:19:06
know
1:19:06
plenty
1:19:07
of
1:19:07
good
1:19:07
lady
1:19:08
directors,
1:19:09
and
1:19:09
I'll
1:19:09
let
1:19:10
them
1:19:10
do
1:19:10
it.
1:19:11
Well,
1:19:11
we
1:19:11
love
1:19:12
watching
1:19:12
you,
1:19:13
so
1:19:13
keep
1:19:13
doing
1:19:13
that,
1:19:14
lady.
1:19:14
The
1:19:15
best.
1:19:15
The
1:19:16
best.
1:19:16
Thank
1:19:17
you,
1:19:17
Roxy.
1:19:21
That
1:19:21
was
1:19:21
Wendy
1:19:21
McLendon
1:19:22
Covey.
1:19:23
And
1:19:23
honestly,
1:19:24
I
1:19:24
could
1:19:24
have
1:19:25
talked
1:19:25
to
1:19:25
her
1:19:25
for
1:19:25
hours.
1:19:26
She's
1:19:27
sharp,
1:19:27
hilarious,
1:19:28
and
1:19:28
completely
1:19:29
unapologetic
1:19:30
about
1:19:30
who
1:19:30
she
1:19:31
is
1:19:31
and
1:19:31
how
1:19:31
she
1:19:32
shows
1:19:32
up
1:19:32
in
1:19:32
the
1:19:33
world.
1:19:33
Whether
1:19:34
she's
1:19:34
creating
1:19:35
complex,
1:19:35
unforgettable
1:19:36
characters
1:19:37
or
1:19:37
quietly
1:19:38
doing
1:19:38
the
1:19:38
work
1:19:39
that
1:19:39
matters,
1:19:39
like
1:19:40
rescuing
1:19:40
animals
1:19:41
and
1:19:41
supporting
1:19:42
other
1:19:42
women,
1:19:43
Wendy
1:19:43
reminds
1:19:44
us
1:19:44
that
1:19:44
midlife
1:19:44
isn't
1:19:45
about
1:19:45
reinvention.
1:19:46
It's
1:19:46
about
1:19:47
fully
1:19:47
stepping
1:19:47
into
1:19:48
what's
1:19:48
already
1:19:48
yours.
1:19:49
Be
1:19:49
sure
1:19:50
to
1:19:50
follow
1:19:50
her.
1:19:51
WendyMcLindoncovey
1:19:53
and
1:19:53
check
1:19:53
the
1:19:54
show
1:19:54
notes
1:19:54
for
1:19:54
everything
1:19:55
she's
1:19:55
up
1:19:55
to
1:19:56
on
1:19:56
screen
1:19:56
and
1:19:57
beyond.
1:19:57
If
1:19:58
this
1:19:58
episode
1:19:58
made
1:19:59
you
1:19:59
laugh,
1:19:59
nod,
1:20:00
or
1:20:00
feel
1:20:00
just
1:20:00
a
1:20:01
little
1:20:01
bit
1:20:01
braver,
1:20:02
send
1:20:02
it
1:20:02
to
1:20:02
a
1:20:02
friend,
1:20:03
tag
1:20:03
us
1:20:03
on
1:20:04
social
1:20:04
media,
1:20:05
and
1:20:05
leave
1:20:05
a
1:20:05
review.
1:20:06
Every
1:20:06
listen
1:20:07
and
1:20:07
every
1:20:07
share
1:20:07
helps
1:20:08
the
1:20:08
iconic
1:20:08
midlife
1:20:09
reach
1:20:09
more
1:20:09
women
1:20:10
who
1:20:10
deserve
1:20:11
to
1:20:11
be
1:20:11
seen
1:20:11
and
1:20:11
heard.
1:20:12
Follow
1:20:12
the
1:20:13
show,
1:20:13
Share
1:20:13
the
1:20:14
love.
1:20:14
And
1:20:14
remember,
1:20:15
we're
1:20:15
not
1:20:15
doing
1:20:16
midlife
1:20:16
quietly.
1:20:17
We're
1:20:17
doing
1:20:17
it
1:20:18
on
1:20:18
our
1:20:18
terms.