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- 0:03Speaker 1: Reality with the King is hosted by me, Carlos King.
- 0:07Speaker 1: I'm an executive producer who have produced some of your
- 0:10Speaker 1: favorite shows from the Real Housewives in Atlanta, New Jersey
- 0:13Speaker 1: and my own creation, The Love and Marriage Franchise and
- 0:17Speaker 1: Bell Collective. Every episode, we recap reality television from the
- 0:23Speaker 1: Real Housewives Franchise to The Bachelor or Selling Sunset, in
- 0:27Speaker 1: addition to celebrity guests, whether in the unscripted space or
- 0:31Speaker 1: scripted as well. Hey, rain drops on today's episode Reality
- 0:38Speaker 1: with the King. Listen. I love every time I tape
- 0:41Speaker 1: an episode on my podcast, but I have to say
- 0:45Speaker 1: I want to call Friday's My fun Day or fri
- 0:48Speaker 1: yay because I get to be with Alexis Belino as
- 0:53Speaker 1: we recap another episode of the Real Housewives of orcomp No,
- 0:58Speaker 1: I feel like it's actual t G. I A b.
- 1:01Speaker 1: Thank god it's Alexis.
- 1:04Speaker 2: Oh wow, that was fast. Okay. I have a confession.
- 1:07Speaker 2: I have to own something right now. I just had
- 1:09Speaker 2: hyaluronic acid put in my micro needle in my face.
- 1:13Speaker 2: As we know, there's a wedding coming up, so I
- 1:16Speaker 2: do look different today. I have bruises I couldn't cover up.
- 1:18Speaker 2: I'm puffy or so just everybody please be kind. It's
- 1:21Speaker 2: it's it's what we must do, you know, self care.
- 1:25Speaker 1: You look amazing to be No.
- 1:29Speaker 2: I've tried to cover it. I did not have glam
- 1:31Speaker 2: squad today. This was a Lexus squad. And I tried
- 1:34Speaker 2: to just you know, I tried to deep puff. I
- 1:37Speaker 2: tried to heal the bruises fast enough enough Arctica. It
- 1:41Speaker 2: didn't work.
- 1:41Speaker 1: It's okay, no, listen, I love but you said I
- 1:44Speaker 1: have no glam is a Lexis glamb Alexis glamb is Bob.
- 1:47Speaker 1: You look amazed, so listen. If you just say anything,
- 1:51Speaker 1: I would not have known anything was going on with
- 1:53Speaker 1: your face. But look, I see it. So I need
- 1:56Speaker 1: to do something like that because I use you know, topicals.
- 2:02Speaker 2: Okay, are those the eye patches?
- 2:04Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I did that.
- 2:05Speaker 2: I did that at six o'clock getting ready to say
- 2:08Speaker 2: I'm getting ready for this. Okay, I love it eye
- 2:12Speaker 2: patch and at six am to see Carlos king at
- 2:14Speaker 2: eight am, it's our eight am day. We were like,
- 2:18Speaker 2: it's like and today I brought my diet coke Carlos
- 2:21Speaker 2: and we might have a little we have a little
- 2:24Speaker 2: more fun today. Carlos.
- 2:25Speaker 1: This is what I call a filler episode, because you
- 2:28Speaker 1: know they were on the trip. Nothing really fantastical happened,
- 2:34Speaker 1: but there was some amazing points being made.
- 2:36Speaker 2: Well, honey, you have to remember, they can't all be
- 2:40Speaker 2: up here like like I talk, not because then you
- 2:43Speaker 2: don't get any You gotta have a load to get
- 2:45Speaker 2: a high. So this was a little bit less, but
- 2:49Speaker 2: the two be continued. I happen to believe is gonna
- 2:52Speaker 2: be next week when you and I talk, We're gonna.
- 2:54Speaker 1: Be like whoa yes, yes, no, no. I could not
- 2:58Speaker 1: agree more. Listen as I feel the same way. Not
- 3:01Speaker 1: every episode should be a slam duck, although so far
- 3:04Speaker 1: this season has been. But let's get right into it.
- 3:07Speaker 1: So Tamra just decided to plan a trip. She invited
- 3:11Speaker 1: all the girls. She first started to inform. The girl
- 3:14Speaker 1: she invited, Shannon Shannon. Look, I watch every episode, I
- 3:21Speaker 1: see everything, and I see all the nuances. I was
- 3:26Speaker 1: shocked that Shannon all of a sudden decided that she
- 3:31Speaker 1: just doesn't want to go on a trip. She doesn't
- 3:33Speaker 1: trust Tamarra is too soon for her to be around her.
- 3:36Speaker 1: And I thought to myself, I'm confused because last year
- 3:41Speaker 1: when Tamra said all those things to her, and I
- 3:43Speaker 1: even told Tamar personally, look, you're being a little too
- 3:46Speaker 1: harsh on her. You know that's my opinion, Hey, Tamara,
- 3:50Speaker 1: and she listen Tamra. Obviously, I will say this rain drops.
- 3:55Speaker 1: Tamra knows more about the Shannon dynamic than we all
- 3:59Speaker 1: do because they were best friends who spoke on the
- 4:04Speaker 1: phone five times plus more a day for almost a decade,
- 4:08Speaker 1: if not longer than that. So she knows more than
- 4:10Speaker 1: we do. I'm not excusing her behavior, but what I'm
- 4:15Speaker 1: saying is she knows more than what we do. What
- 4:18Speaker 1: I was confused about, though, was Shannon's apprehension to not
- 4:24Speaker 1: wanted to go on the trip because there was nothing
- 4:26Speaker 1: this season that indicated that there was reservation there. And
- 4:30Speaker 1: I felt like, Shannon, this is my opinion, and you
- 4:33Speaker 1: guys can disagree with me. I think Shannon just wants
- 4:37Speaker 1: Tamra off the show and she feels like if I
- 4:39Speaker 1: don't film with her, and if I can ice her out,
- 4:42Speaker 1: maybe the other girls would join in on me. And
- 4:44Speaker 1: that's that. That's what I got from it because it
- 4:46Speaker 1: made no sense to me. But alexis, what do you
- 4:48Speaker 1: think about that entigre situation.
- 4:51Speaker 2: Here's the deal. Shannon now thinks she can ice people
- 4:53Speaker 2: out and they won't be hired back, because that's what
- 4:55Speaker 2: happened to me last season. So okay, to Shay, she
- 4:59Speaker 2: might think she can do it, but guess what. Guess what, Honey,
- 5:03Speaker 2: holding grudges equals getting fired. So watch your back, Shannon,
- 5:08Speaker 2: because if you're gonna be like that and keep holding grudges,
- 5:12Speaker 2: you might be the next one out the door, Shannon.
- 5:14Speaker 2: The door, and there's the door that way. Okay, just
- 5:16Speaker 2: like I said last year, and I did not practice it,
- 5:18Speaker 2: and I didn't even know you were gonna go here
- 5:20Speaker 2: right now, So there you go. Okay, that's the first
- 5:23Speaker 2: set of tea we're gonna get today. The second thing
- 5:26Speaker 2: is the one thing Tamara has told me. Okay, oh gosh,
- 5:30Speaker 2: I hope that tambraag does not if I lose my friendship.
- 5:33Speaker 2: She's one of my closest friends if I lose her
- 5:34Speaker 2: now after this. But I have to say this because
- 5:36Speaker 2: it's just what you just said. Just it's like right here,
- 5:39Speaker 2: so Tamar told me back before, and my jobs are
- 5:43Speaker 2: wrestling right now. So I'm sorry. You're getting reality with
- 5:46Speaker 2: Alexis Blino right now, boye. Okay, they don't understand that
- 5:52Speaker 2: mom's working right now. Okay. So anyway, Tamar told me
- 5:57Speaker 2: which really resonated with me and made me feel so
- 5:59Speaker 2: horrible last season or season eighteen, I should say, when
- 6:03Speaker 2: I was filming with Tamara, She's like, you know what
- 6:06Speaker 2: hurts me the most? Alexis and Tamra and I've cried
- 6:07Speaker 2: a lot together because last season was very eighteen was
- 6:10Speaker 2: hard for both Tamara and I. We both got the ringer,
- 6:12Speaker 2: we both got a lot of our story not shown.
- 6:15Speaker 2: We both you know it. Just it's stunk, Okay. Anyway,
- 6:19Speaker 2: so we had a lot of tears. So she said
- 6:21Speaker 2: what stunk the most about my relationship with Shannon is
- 6:24Speaker 2: I was there for her for ten years. Do you
- 6:27Speaker 2: know that Shannon never once called me, like when Tamra
- 6:30Speaker 2: said in seeing this episode, when she goes, you are
- 6:33Speaker 2: a lot to handle or you are whatever that one
- 6:35Speaker 2: line was when they were at the restaurant, I forget
- 6:37Speaker 2: it now. Anyways, I was like, wow, that is exactly
- 6:41Speaker 2: Shannon's a lot because guess what, Shannon never asked Tamara
- 6:45Speaker 2: one time about what was going on in Tamra's world.
- 6:47Speaker 2: How are you, Tamra? What can I do for you? Tamra?
- 6:50Speaker 2: What do you need? Tamara? It was always Shannon calling
- 6:53Speaker 2: and giving Tamora all of this headache, and Tamra tried
- 6:57Speaker 2: her best to be a good friend for ten years.
- 6:59Speaker 2: Then it got too much. So it's like, I don't
- 7:02Speaker 2: like it when once again Shannon's playing the victim role
- 7:06Speaker 2: and Okay, it works. I mean, it seems to work
- 7:09Speaker 2: for her.
- 7:09Speaker 1: So I'm over it. I'm over it. And the reason
- 7:12Speaker 1: why I'm over it is because, look, I don't know
- 7:15Speaker 1: Shannon personally. I for the for the longest time, I
- 7:20Speaker 1: love Shannon being on the show because she was going
- 7:23Speaker 1: through something so relatable, you know, when she was going
- 7:26Speaker 1: through her divorce with David and experiencing being you know,
- 7:30Speaker 1: cheating on and then having to like be a single
- 7:33Speaker 1: mom and raising the daughters, like all of that was relatable.
- 7:36Speaker 1: And I always thought she had these quirky moments, right,
- 7:39Speaker 1: I think Shannon has become predictable and say, I don't
- 7:45Speaker 1: believe in yelling at anybody in production when it comes
- 7:50Speaker 1: to the people working on the show. I'm not here
- 7:53Speaker 1: the name names, but you know, I know things too.
- 7:56Speaker 1: I listen. You can have a moment, but to berase
- 7:58Speaker 1: somebody is to me, I'm called for And I think
- 8:02Speaker 1: she's becoming a one trick pony.
- 8:05Speaker 2: I told Carlos, I call it a stick. I feel
- 8:08Speaker 2: like she's got a shtick. I don't even know if
- 8:10Speaker 2: that's a word, like schleppin. Shtick is what Alexis is
- 8:13Speaker 2: gonna say, because I feel like it's It's like, I, okay,
- 8:16Speaker 2: I have to lock my dogs out right now.
- 8:18Speaker 1: I'm so sorry this.
- 8:23Speaker 2: Is live, but I can't concentrate when my dogs are
- 8:27Speaker 2: sitting here rest like the I go back one out back.
- 8:30Speaker 2: I have a little playmate outside, Okay, go have some fun. Okay, good,
- 8:35Speaker 2: that's gracious. You think i'd have teenagers in the house
- 8:37Speaker 2: right now?
- 8:41Speaker 1: This is real, but I'll go ahead. You feel like
- 8:44Speaker 1: Shannon has a shtick?
- 8:46Speaker 2: Yeah, Like it's like, okay, we get that you are
- 8:48Speaker 2: always dishoveled, we get that you always are tripping and falling.
- 8:51Speaker 2: We get it. But but you know, it's like she
- 8:54Speaker 2: doesn't have a storyline. So I think that's her storyline.
- 8:56Speaker 2: I think she keeps doing these things thinking she's making
- 9:00Speaker 2: America laugh, and they did for ten years. But it's like,
- 9:03Speaker 2: where's she doesn't have? She has Archie and her daughters.
- 9:06Speaker 2: That's all she has going on right now. So it's
- 9:08Speaker 2: kind of like, Okay, we got to get her a hobby,
- 9:11Speaker 2: We've got to get her happy again. She's still bitter
- 9:14Speaker 2: and angry and like looks mad, and I just want
- 9:17Speaker 2: her to like give Tamara a chance? Like why why
- 9:20Speaker 2: is it okay for Shannon to get ten or twelve chances?
- 9:23Speaker 2: Jennifer gave Shannon after the you know, my kids are
- 9:26Speaker 2: going to be the CPA whatever that whole thing was.
- 9:29Speaker 2: The kids are getting it taken away. Jennifer gave and
- 9:33Speaker 2: moved on. Why can't Shannon just say, okay, let's just
- 9:37Speaker 2: move on everybody, like, let's go, let's be friends.
- 9:41Speaker 1: I'm going to tell you why I've always said, and
- 9:45Speaker 1: you corroborated this too, that when it comes to the
- 9:48Speaker 1: Housewives show, for some of them, not all of them,
- 9:50Speaker 1: but for some, there is this sense of the lions.
- 9:53Speaker 1: And for me, when Tamarack got fired, Shannon stopped talking
- 10:00Speaker 1: to her. Yes, Tamara said that on my podcast while
- 10:05Speaker 1: she was fired.
- 10:06Speaker 2: It's true. I've been here, so I.
- 10:09Speaker 1: Know if that's your real friend and you guys have
- 10:13Speaker 1: a real friendship, show or no show. We're going to
- 10:16Speaker 1: be friends. You're getting married soon. Your wedding guests include
- 10:21Speaker 1: Tamar and Heather, amongst a lot of people. They're not
- 10:25Speaker 1: on the show with you this season. However, you're still
- 10:28Speaker 1: friends with them. And you had a very tough season
- 10:31Speaker 1: last season, and you had moments between yourself having Tamra
- 10:36Speaker 1: that you three had to work through. And I'm happy
- 10:38Speaker 1: y'all work through it, right, That's what real friends do.
- 10:42Speaker 1: I've said this before. When a housewife gets removed from
- 10:45Speaker 1: the show, that's when you realize who is your real friend.
- 10:49Speaker 1: Shannon doesn't see a need for Tamara anymore. And look,
- 10:54Speaker 1: I understand that Tamar was very disrespectful to Shannon last
- 10:59Speaker 1: season with the costs drunk comment. I one thousand percent
- 11:03Speaker 1: thought that was not right, and I told Tama herself,
- 11:05Speaker 1: and Tamara apologized for it. Yeah. No, me and Tamara
- 11:07Speaker 1: are fine. I told Tama, said, Tamma, that's not nice.
- 11:10Speaker 1: She she gave her reasons, but my point is she
- 11:14Speaker 1: did apologize for it. What I find so fascinating is
- 11:19Speaker 1: the way Shannon yelled at Katie this season. We discover
- 11:25Speaker 1: a few days ago Alexis Bellino that Shannon still follows
- 11:29Speaker 1: Katie on Instagram? So should Katie forgive you? Because my
- 11:35Speaker 1: thing is, Shannon, are you still following Katie because you
- 11:39Speaker 1: don't want the backlash from social media who are coming
- 11:42Speaker 1: after you?
- 11:45Speaker 2: Didn't think about that? Wow?
- 11:47Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah? So so where where does the line drawn,
- 11:52Speaker 1: let mean draw? Do you know what I mean?
- 11:53Speaker 2: Like?
- 11:54Speaker 1: If you feel like Tamara was so bad to you, okay, fine,
- 11:57Speaker 1: However you weren't the best friend to her when she
- 11:59Speaker 1: was off the show. When she got back on the show,
- 12:02Speaker 1: you and the girls felt like, oh shit, we got
- 12:04Speaker 1: to like be nice because y'all talk shit about her
- 12:06Speaker 1: when she wasn't on the show, and you guys thought
- 12:08Speaker 1: this seas would be better and unfortunately it was the
- 12:10Speaker 1: worst season of the history of the show. Now that
- 12:13Speaker 1: Tamra's back, you don't like it, and that's what I
- 12:15Speaker 1: got from it. And let's just skip to the end
- 12:17Speaker 1: because we can go back to the other shit because
- 12:22Speaker 1: we're going someplace with this.
- 12:23Speaker 2: Hey, it's our show, Carlos. We don't have to follow
- 12:26Speaker 2: any order of anything, right, Like, we don't have a
- 12:28Speaker 2: script like some people get scripts when they do podcasts.
- 12:31Speaker 2: We don't have a script. We just we don't even
- 12:32Speaker 2: talk the week before. We just show up. So you
- 12:35Speaker 2: go go to the end and then we'll go back
- 12:37Speaker 2: to the Viginna.
- 12:38Speaker 1: And that's my love you so much, Praye. Okay, So look,
- 12:43Speaker 1: even at the dinner, you know, Tamra and Jen are
- 12:49Speaker 1: trying to find a resolution. And look, I was shocked
- 12:58Speaker 1: and I didn't know this, and I want to get
- 12:59Speaker 1: her us on this. When Jennifer and Tama were talking
- 13:05Speaker 1: about this fatty photo, and Talma never said the word fatty,
- 13:08Speaker 1: but she did say, look, it's not the best photo
- 13:10Speaker 1: of you. Jennifer's like, what's the issue? Why are you
- 13:13Speaker 1: so mad at me? And Tama reveals something that I
- 13:16Speaker 1: didn't know. She said that when she was at Jen's house.
- 13:21Speaker 1: I mean they were in Cabo that Ryan told Tamara
- 13:26Speaker 1: I'm in love with Jen. Tamra said, but she's still married,
- 13:33Speaker 1: and Ryan said she's leaving her husband. Tamra said she
- 13:38Speaker 1: and Eddie fell dirty because they were at their they
- 13:43Speaker 1: were at this woman's house presumably I don't know if
- 13:46Speaker 1: the husband was there or do you know what I mean?
- 13:48Speaker 1: So I thought that was shocking as a revelation. What
- 13:54Speaker 1: did you think about that?
- 13:56Speaker 2: Yeah, that's that's a lot because here's the thing. And
- 13:59Speaker 2: then and then Jen proceeded to say, oh, but Tammary
- 14:04Speaker 2: or somebody in an interview or something, you cheated on Eddie. Yes,
- 14:08Speaker 2: with Eddie. And and here's the thing. I know Tamara
- 14:11Speaker 2: very well, and it was not at cheating. Were they
- 14:14Speaker 2: fully divorced? I don't think so at that point, but
- 14:16Speaker 2: it was not cheating. Okay. I don't know what happened
- 14:19Speaker 2: with Jen and and you know Ryan, but it does
- 14:25Speaker 2: open your eyes to where if if if Tamara is like,
- 14:28Speaker 2: I don't feel good about the fact that I know
- 14:32Speaker 2: this information because you know, Will's a good guy and
- 14:35Speaker 2: you have a good marriage, and why are you doing
- 14:37Speaker 2: this with Ryan? I mean, if that's going on in
- 14:40Speaker 2: Tamar's mind, which is kind of where I feel. What
- 14:42Speaker 2: that scene, you know, when she said, well you were
- 14:45Speaker 2: you were cheating on your husband. However, do we really
- 14:48Speaker 2: know Carlos. Jen hasn't admitted it. Number one? Number two,
- 14:52Speaker 2: Ryan and have been together a lot of years now,
- 14:54Speaker 2: and Will and and and Jen obviously were not good
- 14:57Speaker 2: for each other. So uh, I don't No, It's like
- 15:00Speaker 2: I don't just listen to face value of everything I hear.
- 15:04Speaker 2: That's what I have learned in my forty eight years
- 15:07Speaker 2: of life. So I just don't know if do you
- 15:10Speaker 2: think the cheating's true?
- 15:13Speaker 1: I think this and I listen. I've never been married,
- 15:17Speaker 1: but I've also been around tons of people, whether it's
- 15:20Speaker 1: professional or personnel, who have been technically married, but they're
- 15:25Speaker 1: either separated or someone fiul for divorce or they're going
- 15:28Speaker 1: through a divorce.
- 15:29Speaker 2: Right me, right here?
- 15:30Speaker 1: Yeah, good.
- 15:32Speaker 2: I was separated and we both started dating before our
- 15:37Speaker 2: we signed the black ink on the on the contract
- 15:40Speaker 2: that we are officially divorced. So you know, when you're
- 15:43Speaker 2: in a loveless marriage, it's like I probably didn't sleep
- 15:47Speaker 2: with my ex for like three years, okay, Like we
- 15:50Speaker 2: were loveless. Okay, so by the time we finally got divorced,
- 15:54Speaker 2: it's like, okay, like it's like now or like separated.
- 15:58Speaker 2: You know, we both knew we were divorcing. We weren't nesting,
- 16:02Speaker 2: we weren't staying in the same home anymore together. I'm
- 16:05Speaker 2: not gonna sit there and talk tell me he's cheating
- 16:08Speaker 2: or I'm cheating if I go on a date, because
- 16:10Speaker 2: we know that the contract's coming at some point the
- 16:13Speaker 2: divorce decree that we're gonna sign, right, So I think
- 16:16Speaker 2: it's it's it's to each their own, and there are
- 16:19Speaker 2: very many people that do believe it's still cheating until
- 16:21Speaker 2: that black ink is on the paper. So I think
- 16:25Speaker 2: everybody has to handle divorce on the way that they would.
- 16:28Speaker 2: It's not easy. It stinks. No one goes into a
- 16:30Speaker 2: marriage thinking you're going to get divorced. Mine's around the
- 16:34Speaker 2: corner right now, and I'm scared because I'm like, I
- 16:36Speaker 2: don't ever want to get divorced again, but it's like
- 16:39Speaker 2: you can't live life and fear.
- 16:41Speaker 1: You know, I don't believe.
- 16:43Speaker 2: I don't know if jin I don't know if she cheated.
- 16:46Speaker 2: I don't. I don't know, and I don't really care.
- 16:48Speaker 2: They're Ryan's together now, so great guy took her kids in.
- 16:52Speaker 1: You know, this is reality with the King, and I'm
- 16:57Speaker 1: Carlos King. Let's get back into to the show. I
- 17:02Speaker 1: give jen the benefit of the doubt because of what
- 17:05Speaker 1: you just said. You don't have to even be separated officially,
- 17:10Speaker 1: but you can beat in a loveless marriage. So what
- 17:13Speaker 1: I will give Jennifer is the fact that look, yes,
- 17:17Speaker 1: maybe she not maybe yes, she was technically married. However,
- 17:21Speaker 1: what the world doesn't know is what their marriage was
- 17:24Speaker 1: like at the time where Ryan fell in love with
- 17:27Speaker 1: Jen And I think at the end of the day,
- 17:28Speaker 1: when it comes to Ryan and Jen, I love them
- 17:31Speaker 1: together based on what I'm seeing on the show, and
- 17:34Speaker 1: he took her kids in. Jennifer looks happy. She never
- 17:37Speaker 1: looked better, and I think that's fine. But when it
- 17:40Speaker 1: comes to the dig that Shannon may, I feel like this.
- 17:45Speaker 1: Don't do the dig in the confessionals. Do the digg
- 17:47Speaker 1: in person, because that's when, to me is a kopa
- 17:50Speaker 1: move right.
- 17:51Speaker 2: And that really bothers me when any housewife does that.
- 17:54Speaker 2: It's like you say so much on camera when you're
- 17:57Speaker 2: alone with the producer and just the ring light and
- 17:59Speaker 2: the produce and the green screen, But then when you're
- 18:02Speaker 2: in Because here's the thing, Carlos, anything I will even
- 18:05Speaker 2: tell you, and my friends all know this. Anything I say,
- 18:08Speaker 2: or if there's no gossiping with alexis if I say
- 18:10Speaker 2: something to you, I'm going to be able to say
- 18:12Speaker 2: it to that person's face. That's the way that I
- 18:13Speaker 2: run my life, and that's the way I feel the
- 18:16Speaker 2: housewives should. If you're going to get behind the face
- 18:18Speaker 2: the safe screen. You should be doing it to the
- 18:21Speaker 2: person's face. And I don't know why the other women
- 18:23Speaker 2: don't call each other out and say why you got
- 18:24Speaker 2: so many balls behind the screen, But when it comes
- 18:26Speaker 2: to me, you don't have. You won't talk to me
- 18:29Speaker 2: in person about it, because that's what I would do,
- 18:31Speaker 2: You know, I would. I would. I even did that
- 18:32Speaker 2: in season eighteen. I'd be like, that was gnarly. Why
- 18:35Speaker 2: didn't you tell me you felt that way to my face?
- 18:37Speaker 2: Like why are you can talk bad behind?
- 18:39Speaker 1: Yeah? No, we call those confessional gangsters. So that's exactly
- 18:43Speaker 1: what is when you when you hide behind the camera
- 18:47Speaker 1: and you don't stay it in this person's face, which
- 18:50Speaker 1: which also leads me to this, and I want to
- 18:51Speaker 1: get your thoughts on it. You are friends with have
- 18:53Speaker 1: their aunt Tamera. No one is better suited to answer
- 18:58Speaker 1: this question than you. While Heather was having dinner and
- 19:03Speaker 1: Emily was there, Emily said, look, Heather, Jan thinks you're
- 19:08Speaker 1: scared of Tamera. My favorite part is when Heather responded,
- 19:14Speaker 1: well what did you say? Which I was like, what
- 19:18Speaker 1: a fucking comeback?
- 19:20Speaker 2: Mike?
- 19:20Speaker 1: Drop Mike. Emily gagged and said, I don't remember which
- 19:25Speaker 1: to me, love you, Emily. That was a Coppob move
- 19:28Speaker 1: and Heather to me won that moment. Heather said, look,
- 19:31Speaker 1: during the low Detective test, when they asked me if
- 19:33Speaker 1: I'm scared of Tamera, Heather said, look, it was it
- 19:36Speaker 1: was around the moment where me or her, you know,
- 19:39Speaker 1: have that issue. But fundamentally I am not scared of Tamera.
- 19:43Speaker 1: You're friends with both of these ladies. Do you think
- 19:45Speaker 1: Heather is scared of Tamera A million person?
- 19:48Speaker 2: No, what, Heather's not scared of anyone, number one, number two.
- 19:52Speaker 2: But Heather is Switzerland, and I would tell Heather that's
- 19:55Speaker 2: to her face. Heather wants to play Switzerland. She wants
- 19:57Speaker 2: to keep everybody as her friend, except when you cross
- 20:01Speaker 2: a certain line, like I think if you cross the
- 20:03Speaker 2: line with her children, that girl's not gonna be Switzelan anymore.
- 20:06Speaker 2: But I do feel for the most part on the show, Heather,
- 20:09Speaker 2: you know, I love you and you can call me later.
- 20:12Speaker 2: I don't care. I mean, I mean I do care.
- 20:13Speaker 2: I mean I'll have a conversation with you, but I don't.
- 20:18Speaker 2: She is not scared of Tamra. She just wants everyone
- 20:22Speaker 2: to have a little bit more koumbaya and be friends,
- 20:25Speaker 2: you know, and find a way to move past the conflict.
- 20:27Speaker 2: Resolution is the basis of the show. That's what Heather wants,
- 20:30Speaker 2: that's what she strives for, and she wants everyone else
- 20:34Speaker 2: to try to find a way, Like even in the
- 20:35Speaker 2: restaurant when she's taken the picture and she's like, oh, okay,
- 20:38Speaker 2: you know, like that was the last EPI yeah, she
- 20:41Speaker 2: just wants everybody to be friends and find a way
- 20:43Speaker 2: to work through it.
- 20:45Speaker 1: And I don't think that's bad listen, But comic conflict
- 20:49Speaker 1: resolution is the basis of the show. And that's the
- 20:51Speaker 1: reason why I appreciate the fact that, look Tamra is
- 20:55Speaker 1: on this apology tour, she's saying I'm sorry, she is
- 20:58Speaker 1: saying it, and look, I also me being very honest.
- 21:02Speaker 1: I also understand why some of the women feel like, Okay,
- 21:06Speaker 1: I'm a little bit, you know, Larry, Arry, Larry apprehensive
- 21:13Speaker 1: about receiving it, because when you do this again, that
- 21:15Speaker 1: that to me is fundamental when it comes to Shannon. Though,
- 21:19Speaker 1: the reason why it doesn't make sense to me when
- 21:21Speaker 1: it comes to Shannon is because last year, after the reunion,
- 21:27Speaker 1: when they did that scene where it was sort of like,
- 21:31Speaker 1: you know, and just like that. You know, it was
- 21:34Speaker 1: like the girls got together, they have a lady's lunch
- 21:37Speaker 1: and you know, Sex and the City spin off where
- 21:39Speaker 1: they're all like, oh, we love each other, life is
- 21:41Speaker 1: so great. We forgive each other, which to me was
- 21:44Speaker 1: sort of like we have to show the audience that
- 21:47Speaker 1: we're real friends. I called bullshit on avent and based
- 21:51Speaker 1: on what oh girl, I I mean, do you want
- 21:54Speaker 1: to tell you the truth?
- 21:55Speaker 2: How I felt no light of me, Carlos, I mean,
- 22:00Speaker 2: tell me the truth.
- 22:01Speaker 1: This is reality with the king, for Heaven's sake. I
- 22:06Speaker 1: thought that scene was a little finger to you, and
- 22:11Speaker 1: I said that my podcast last year. I thought, do
- 22:14Speaker 1: you think.
- 22:15Speaker 2: Do you think for one moment the tamer did not
- 22:19Speaker 2: get a phone call right effing away? Okay and Heather
- 22:24Speaker 2: and both of them were then kissing my ass. I mean,
- 22:26Speaker 2: are sorry, I'm not cussing Anyways, they were both and like,
- 22:29Speaker 2: oh no, but this is what happened. That is how
- 22:31Speaker 2: it happened. I took it all with a grain of salt.
- 22:33Speaker 2: But here's the one thing I do know is that
- 22:37Speaker 2: my friendships with them are deep enough, and I know
- 22:41Speaker 2: that I love them both so much, and they do
- 22:43Speaker 2: love me deep down and they will defend me and
- 22:44Speaker 2: they will stick up for me when it really comes,
- 22:46Speaker 2: you know, push comes to shove. That I forgave and
- 22:51Speaker 2: moved on, and other people were like, how can you
- 22:53Speaker 2: forgive them? How are you moving on from this? And
- 22:56Speaker 2: I'm like, well, to be honest, it's like, okay, so
- 23:00Speaker 2: if your kid lies to you, are you just gonna
- 23:03Speaker 2: kick them out and say forget you, you lied and
- 23:06Speaker 2: you're a horrible human, or are you gonna know they
- 23:09Speaker 2: need a little correction. It's gonna be okay, let's coddle
- 23:12Speaker 2: them a little bit, you know. So it's like I
- 23:15Speaker 2: I moved on. We had deep, hard conversations with tears
- 23:20Speaker 2: and anger, and then we moved past it. And here
- 23:24Speaker 2: we are grown women who are forty eight and fifty
- 23:28Speaker 2: ish that moved on because that's what you do. You
- 23:31Speaker 2: forgive and you move on in life. Nobody's perfect.
- 23:34Speaker 1: Carlos m h, I love that. I love that.
- 23:37Speaker 2: A mid middle finger to me, it was you are
- 23:39Speaker 2: one million percent right, That's what That's what the show
- 23:42Speaker 2: was doing. Basically, the show was saying, Alexis, we can't
- 23:45Speaker 2: have a space for you. Anymore because you were so
- 23:47Speaker 2: hated due to lies and not a truth being shown
- 23:52Speaker 2: for poor America to have witnessed. So that, yeah, it
- 23:56Speaker 2: was an f you to me. And that's okay. I've
- 23:58Speaker 2: got thick skin, honey, after fifteen years on TV, I've
- 24:01Speaker 2: got thick skin. You can tell me anything and I'll
- 24:04Speaker 2: be like, Eh, you're.
- 24:05Speaker 1: Right, yeah, yeah, No, that's what I thought. It wasn't listen.
- 24:09Speaker 1: And I love the fact that you Tamera Heather were
- 24:12Speaker 1: able to have a conversation. And I also think too,
- 24:14Speaker 1: in their defense, the show had to do a reset,
- 24:19Speaker 1: and I think, look, there's one thing Tamra said recently
- 24:22Speaker 1: an interview is she's a different person on the show
- 24:25Speaker 1: than she is in real life. And what that means
- 24:28Speaker 1: based on her definition, and I understood what she meant
- 24:32Speaker 1: by that is when the cameras are on, you sort
- 24:36Speaker 1: of become this amplified version of yourself. Right. It's some
- 24:40Speaker 1: people do that, a lot of people don't. But she's
- 24:42Speaker 1: one of the ones who admitted that, Look, that's what
- 24:44Speaker 1: I do. So when I saw that saying, I, for one,
- 24:47Speaker 1: never never took that personally for you. When it came
- 24:50Speaker 1: to Tamera Heather, I just thought they had to do
- 24:52Speaker 1: something to bring the show back to a reset. But
- 24:55Speaker 1: I thought it was definitely.
- 24:59Speaker 2: Well. First of all, Heather told information that was not
- 25:03Speaker 2: hers to share. That is where I got the most
- 25:05Speaker 2: mad at Heather. She was not to share that with
- 25:07Speaker 2: Shannon or the production team or anyone else. That was
- 25:10Speaker 2: me telling her something in confidence. That was something that
- 25:13Speaker 2: was very hurtful and something that should never have been
- 25:15Speaker 2: talked about. As you noticed, I didn't do it. However,
- 25:19Speaker 2: when when I feel like it's not that you're a
- 25:22Speaker 2: different person on camera, because like for me, last season
- 25:25Speaker 2: didn't look like me, but that's because so much was
- 25:27Speaker 2: left out. It was it was snippets of things that
- 25:30Speaker 2: didn't show. If you would have played two minutes, that
- 25:32Speaker 2: snippet wouldn't looked like that. It would have been a
- 25:34Speaker 2: two minute you would have seen more to the you
- 25:36Speaker 2: know what I'm trying to say. Yeah, So if for
- 25:40Speaker 2: the I don't know, I I think camera is herself
- 25:46Speaker 2: on camera and off camera. I really do. And I
- 25:49Speaker 2: don't think. I think that the women have to do
- 25:51Speaker 2: a job. And that's where I sat back and I go, Okay,
- 25:54Speaker 2: hold on, alexis are these your TV friends or are
- 25:58Speaker 2: they your real friends? And did they have a TV
- 26:01Speaker 2: moment where they had to be a TV friend? Yes,
- 26:04Speaker 2: they had a TV moment where they had to be
- 26:05Speaker 2: a TV friend. But when I go back to my
- 26:08Speaker 2: you know, my playbook of my years and years with
- 26:11Speaker 2: them and times they have been here for me and
- 26:14Speaker 2: times that we have had true friendship, I go, they
- 26:16Speaker 2: had a TV moment, but they are my true friend.
- 26:19Speaker 2: Can't say that about others. There are others that are
- 26:21Speaker 2: just TV friends. And that's okay. You got to do
- 26:23Speaker 2: a job. Reality is not for everyone, and it is hard.
- 26:26Speaker 2: It's a hard job. So I just forgave and moved on,
- 26:31Speaker 2: and that's what Shannon needs to do right now. But
- 26:33Speaker 2: she's bitter and I think she's unhappy in her life
- 26:36Speaker 2: and she can't move past it to go okay, let's
- 26:40Speaker 2: put on a TV hat and move on so that
- 26:43Speaker 2: the show can move forward. But unfortunately grudge's equal getting fired.
- 26:48Speaker 1: So yeah, you gotta be careful you do. And I think, listen,
- 26:52Speaker 1: I'm going to say this. I think Shannon needs to
- 26:56Speaker 1: set out next season, whether that's a friend role. I
- 27:00Speaker 1: just she's not fun and she's not having fun. And
- 27:04Speaker 1: I do think a break can do the body good,
- 27:07Speaker 1: you know. And I think for me personally, I'm a
- 27:10Speaker 1: fan of the show. I think Shannon needs a break,
- 27:13Speaker 1: Like I think, take a season off, enjoy life, maybe
- 27:17Speaker 1: come back refreshed. Shannon hasn't been good on the show
- 27:21Speaker 1: in years. And I think the reason why last year
- 27:25Speaker 1: a lot of people felt sorry for Shannon was because
- 27:27Speaker 1: obviously Tamra was calling her those names. She had to
- 27:30Speaker 1: deal with you and John and all those things, and
- 27:32Speaker 1: it made people whatever. But I think I think this season, everybody,
- 27:36Speaker 1: even the Shannon stands, which is why you can never ever, ever, ever, ever,
- 27:40Speaker 1: ever ever ever ever believe believe the hype. Just don't
- 27:46Speaker 1: believe the hype. People love you today, hate you tomorrow.
- 27:48Speaker 1: I think Shannon needs to sit up next season. I
- 27:50Speaker 1: don't I don't care to see it. So one thing
- 27:53Speaker 1: I want to talk about too in that in that
- 27:55Speaker 1: episode was the fact that look, she's like, you called
- 28:00Speaker 1: me these names, Hamma, you called me a drunk. Tama said, Look,
- 28:03Speaker 1: I apologize, but what do you want from me? And look,
- 28:05Speaker 1: you want to feel that way, fine, And this is
- 28:07Speaker 1: why Tama's good for the show, y'all. Tamra said, Look,
- 28:11Speaker 1: Gina is even concerned about your drinking.
- 28:17Speaker 2: And then it goes to be continued. That's why I said,
- 28:19Speaker 2: next season is gonna next next I'm so sorry, not
- 28:21Speaker 2: next season. Next episode is gonna be good because I
- 28:24Speaker 2: love the to be continued.
- 28:26Speaker 1: I do too.
- 28:29Speaker 2: You're like no, you're done, no, and you want to
- 28:33Speaker 2: just press for fast forward to the next honey.
- 28:37Speaker 1: It was so good because I'm like, wait, what's going on?
- 28:42Speaker 1: And you could tell Gina was like fucking visch Tamera,
- 28:45Speaker 1: and you got like, oh.
- 28:46Speaker 2: Jena was so mad at that moment. But here's the thing.
- 28:51Speaker 2: Here's the thing. Don't put anything past Tammer, which is
- 28:54Speaker 2: why the show was so successful. She's the longest running housewife,
- 28:57Speaker 2: thank you very much, because she knows how to carry
- 28:59Speaker 2: the show forward and also to call things out. Tamra
- 29:02Speaker 2: knows so much about me. I mean, I'm talking how
- 29:06Speaker 2: many hemorrhoids I have? Okay, she not everything, and she
- 29:10Speaker 2: doesn't go to certain places on television. Okay, she does
- 29:14Speaker 2: do what she knows will take the show far enough,
- 29:16Speaker 2: but she keeps some things to herself. Okay. So so
- 29:20Speaker 2: that's what I want America to know, because yes, maybe
- 29:23Speaker 2: she can take the show forward. However, she doesn't throw
- 29:28Speaker 2: under the bus too too low like Shannon was like,
- 29:31Speaker 2: oh you, oh so low. I'm like, Shannon, you go
- 29:33Speaker 2: low all the time. Let's please. I was like, I
- 29:36Speaker 2: was wishing at that moment that Bravo would have gone
- 29:38Speaker 2: back and shown all of the time Shannon's gone low
- 29:41Speaker 2: below the belt that are horrible, And it's like these women,
- 29:44Speaker 2: I'm just I rulemize it. It's funny. Okay, no, it was.
- 29:48Speaker 1: It was. It was so good. It was so shocking
- 29:50Speaker 1: because I'm like, what is happening And the fact that
- 29:55Speaker 1: Gina was like, well, I am concerned about you and
- 30:00Speaker 1: and it's like no, no, no, no, no, no, no no no.
- 30:02Speaker 1: Tamra said, you're concerned about her drinking, not her as
- 30:05Speaker 1: a person. So I felt like, Okay, Gina, We're going
- 30:09Speaker 1: to get into some things because I'm curious as to
- 30:11Speaker 1: what is going on between that. But look, this is
- 30:15Speaker 1: why I strongly believe this, and I don't care who
- 30:18Speaker 1: disagrees with me. When Tamra was fired from the show,
- 30:23Speaker 1: I strongly believe all of those women felt like, who
- 30:28Speaker 1: we can breathe because there's not someone on this show
- 30:31Speaker 1: that's going to keep us honest and push us. And
- 30:35Speaker 1: that to me is what Tamar is good at and
- 30:37Speaker 1: that's why very much. Yeah, no, that's why she's good
- 30:42Speaker 1: at her job. What are your thoughts when it comes
- 30:46Speaker 1: to the state of this show, Alexis. What's been happening
- 30:50Speaker 1: right now is this Katie Janella was not in this
- 30:54Speaker 1: episode at all, and based on some internal knowledge that
- 30:59Speaker 1: I have, you may not see her ever again. They
- 31:03Speaker 1: haven't made That's what I'm not sure. That's the word
- 31:09Speaker 1: on the street that you may not see Katie Janella
- 31:11Speaker 1: again if you do maybe one episode or two. But
- 31:15Speaker 1: a lot of what people are saying is the fact
- 31:18Speaker 1: that the ladies did not want to film with Katie.
- 31:21Speaker 1: This episode was a non Katie episode. The state of
- 31:26Speaker 1: the show is going through this very interesting face because
- 31:30Speaker 1: on one end, Alexis is a huge hit. It constantly
- 31:34Speaker 1: rates number two of the top TV shows on Peacock.
- 31:38Speaker 1: I'm enjoying this season, but the audience feels like, what
- 31:43Speaker 1: is this show without Katie? And if there needs to
- 31:46Speaker 1: be a recast? So not to sort of ask about
- 31:49Speaker 1: a recast because it's too soon for that and we'll
- 31:52Speaker 1: you're not gonna do that. After the reunion but as
- 31:55Speaker 1: of right now, let me ask you this first. Do
- 32:01Speaker 1: you feel Gretchen's comeback has been great or a huge letdown?
- 32:10Speaker 2: This is the problem, Carlos, is that I don't have
- 32:14Speaker 2: I don't know how to sometimes hold my tongue. Okay,
- 32:17Speaker 2: it's not a good time to ask me about Gretchen
- 32:19Speaker 2: after what just came out. I'm not I don't think
- 32:22Speaker 2: I have one positive thing to say about her as
- 32:25Speaker 2: a human being at all at the moment, So let's
- 32:29Speaker 2: not talk. Oh well, just came across my phone? Is
- 32:32Speaker 2: it only on mine? Because I don't even get on Instagram?
- 32:34Speaker 2: How she compared? And I didn't even screen shot it?
- 32:37Speaker 2: And I should have screens shot it because I don't
- 32:39Speaker 2: even remember how to get back to it. It was on
- 32:40Speaker 2: some Bravo blog site that she agreed that LGBTQ and
- 32:46Speaker 2: trans are the same as pedophiles, or in some contacts
- 32:50Speaker 2: like that. No, I'm I was living. I couldn't even
- 32:52Speaker 2: help myself. I went back and texted to that I've
- 32:55Speaker 2: got to find it. I hormented to this site and
- 32:58Speaker 2: I go, oh my gosh, are you serious? Is this real?
- 33:02Speaker 2: I am fing living? I didn't say fing because my
- 33:04Speaker 2: children can read that. I'm trying not, I promise them,
- 33:06Speaker 2: I'm stopping cussing. I really have been good lately. Anyway,
- 33:10Speaker 2: I said, I am livid because you know, I have
- 33:12Speaker 2: an LGBTQ child and and so I I don't know.
- 33:17Speaker 2: I can't even you can't even bring her name up
- 33:19Speaker 2: to me right now without me just being really pissed off.
- 33:24Speaker 2: So yeah, it takes it to another level, Like my
- 33:26Speaker 2: heart right now is racing. You can hear my voice. Yeah, yeah,
- 33:30Speaker 2: I will die for my kid, So you will shut
- 33:33Speaker 2: the f up, period.
- 33:35Speaker 1: So no, no, no's okay. So I do want to say
- 33:40Speaker 1: this because I didn't see that. But the good thing
- 33:42Speaker 1: about us doing this live is the fact that we
- 33:45Speaker 1: are able to definitely fact check some things and corroborate
- 33:51Speaker 1: some stuff. So I'm gonna say alleged because I'm gonna
- 33:54Speaker 1: say something after that. So allegedly, allegedly, allegedly, allegedly, Gretchen
- 33:59Speaker 1: Rossy liked a post where the post said, when you
- 34:03Speaker 1: open the door to homosexuality, you open the door to pedophilia.
- 34:08Speaker 1: You never you'll never win, You'll never win by normalizing perversion, Alexis,
- 34:16Speaker 1: Gretchen Rossy alleged that those screenshots were fake and that
- 34:22Speaker 1: she is actually a supporter of the l g pt
- 34:25Speaker 1: Q plus community.
- 34:29Speaker 2: Of course she has to back pedal.
- 34:33Speaker 1: This is what she told the Sun. Okay, Alexis and
- 34:37Speaker 1: rain John's again, this is live and I'm reading to
- 34:39Speaker 1: you live. Gretchen told the Son allegedly, it's my understanding
- 34:45Speaker 1: that there is a small group of Housewife fan sites
- 34:48Speaker 1: and blogs passing a story around that I allegedly liked
- 34:52Speaker 1: highly offensive post. This is false. Those are manipulated screenshots
- 34:57Speaker 1: meant to cause harm to my reputation and bring attention
- 35:00Speaker 1: to themselves. I firmly stand against any form of hatred
- 35:04Speaker 1: and bigotry. Have always fully supported the lgpt Q plus community.
- 35:12Speaker 1: That's her statement.
- 35:14Speaker 2: Of course, that's a great statement. Good job.
- 35:17Speaker 1: You don't. You don't. You don't buy it one bit.
- 35:20Speaker 2: I don't buy it. Your name doesn't just show up
- 35:22Speaker 2: as a like under somebody's post if you don't do
- 35:25Speaker 2: it because I did, like, I did comment on that.
- 35:27Speaker 2: I don't think I liked the post because I was
- 35:28Speaker 2: so distraught by it, but I didn't make a comment.
- 35:31Speaker 2: How does that get there? It's how did it just happen?
- 35:34Speaker 1: Then?
- 35:34Speaker 2: How? How is it. How is it fake? How is
- 35:37Speaker 2: it fake? Carlos? But anyway, let's move on to the show,
- 35:40Speaker 2: because maybe we need to make another topic, another show
- 35:44Speaker 2: just for this. But yeah, yeah, it's my kid we're
- 35:48Speaker 2: talking about, so.
- 35:50Speaker 1: No, and it's me. I'm a I'm an obly gay man,
- 35:52Speaker 1: So I I get you for sure. And again, based
- 35:56Speaker 1: on what people are saying, allegedly, they're saying this happened
- 36:00Speaker 1: a few years ago, which is why people think it
- 36:02Speaker 1: is true. They're saying that this allegedly is not a
- 36:05Speaker 1: recent pose, that this happened years ago, which is why
- 36:08Speaker 1: people believe this is true. Gretchen has now.
- 36:12Speaker 2: She's in the limelight, and now she got caught for it.
- 36:14Speaker 2: So what she got to do? You got to try
- 36:16Speaker 2: to do damage control? This is all damage control. I
- 36:18Speaker 2: don't buy it for one second, and it's disgusting, disgusting,
- 36:25Speaker 2: So I can't really give you if I feel she's
- 36:27Speaker 2: good for the show or not. I don't know how
- 36:29Speaker 2: anyone is good for a show that has that kind
- 36:31Speaker 2: of hate in their heart or that kind of you know,
- 36:34Speaker 2: I know, I don't think anyone's good for the show
- 36:36Speaker 2: like that. I do think she brings, you know, I
- 36:44Speaker 2: love a lot of her fake chanel and I like
- 36:48Speaker 2: her some of her the way that she carries herself
- 36:52Speaker 2: with her costumeish thing. I think it's kind of fun.
- 36:54Speaker 2: I do turn on the show every time and go, Okay,
- 36:57Speaker 2: what's she going to be wearing today, you know, So
- 36:58Speaker 2: it's kind of fun. And I do think she could
- 37:03Speaker 2: bring a lot to the show as a full time
- 37:07Speaker 2: cast mate. I think that she could. It's just I
- 37:11Speaker 2: don't know how if if this even is true or not.
- 37:14Speaker 2: I don't know where it's going to go from here,
- 37:16Speaker 2: but it's I don't know how anyone could want someone
- 37:18Speaker 2: employed under them with that kind of you know. I mean,
- 37:21Speaker 2: look at Heather, She's got four LGBTQ children or three
- 37:25Speaker 2: of them, three of the four, like so, I don't know.
- 37:28Speaker 2: I don't know where it can go from here.
- 37:29Speaker 1: At Carlos, I have a filming. It's going to come
- 37:32Speaker 1: up at the reunion, and I cannot wait to see
- 37:35Speaker 1: how to your point, the ladies talk about this, this
- 37:37Speaker 1: would be very very interesting. This was a Katie less episode.
- 37:47Speaker 1: Katie has emerged as somebody of the fans want to
- 37:51Speaker 1: stay on the show, not you're not on on social
- 37:55Speaker 1: media as much and I love that for you, but
- 37:57Speaker 1: I want to read you one more me probably let
- 37:59Speaker 1: you go. The fans have done a poll of who
- 38:04Speaker 1: they want back for next season, which would be the
- 38:06Speaker 1: celebration of season twenty of The Real House, Basher Bors County,
- 38:11Speaker 1: Alexis Melino. They want Vicky gobbleson.
- 38:16Speaker 2: Okay, they want funny and good.
- 38:21Speaker 1: This who they want to make a comeback? Vicky, Joe
- 38:27Speaker 1: and Alexis Blino.
- 38:29Speaker 2: Oh stop, no, no, they listen. They don't want Katie because.
- 38:38Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, no no meeting, no no meeting, no no. Okay,
- 38:40Speaker 1: so let me let me tell. Let me say everybody
- 38:42Speaker 1: so to your okay, I'll say, I'll say who they
- 38:45Speaker 1: want back? Okay. This is a poll that was ran
- 38:48Speaker 1: on Twitter by a Bravo Bravo handle, not Bravo TV verified,
- 38:55Speaker 1: but another Bravo fan handle about who they would like
- 38:59Speaker 1: to see back Seaton twenty. The names included Tamar, Judge, Heather,
- 39:05Speaker 1: Debro what I'm just here, I'm just here to report
- 39:09Speaker 1: the dows. It was Tamra, Heather, Katie, Vicky, Joe, Alexis
- 39:19Speaker 1: and they also said they would like to see Gina,
- 39:24Speaker 1: who was omitted from that list was Shannon and Emily.
- 39:30Speaker 2: Wow. I mean, honestly, Carlos, I'm shocked because I don't.
- 39:33Speaker 2: I'm not on Twitter at all, even though I should
- 39:35Speaker 2: make but I i'm and I'm not on Instagram, not
- 39:39Speaker 2: much other than like I told you to do some
- 39:41Speaker 2: of my things and find out weird crap like I
- 39:43Speaker 2: did about Grutching. But anyway, which I didn't even it
- 39:46Speaker 2: popped up. I was not searching. I don't search for
- 39:48Speaker 2: things on my phone anyway. That is very shocking to me.
- 39:56Speaker 1: Why is it shocking to you?
- 39:58Speaker 2: Well, I mean, I know I'm not shocked about Vicky
- 40:00Speaker 2: because Vicky is a freakin' WoT. I mean, yeah, I've
- 40:02Speaker 2: been at it. I went at her in the media
- 40:05Speaker 2: because she attacked my husband in a few weeks or
- 40:09Speaker 2: I'm not okay, don't okay, don't in a couple of days,
- 40:12Speaker 2: a couple of months whatever, I'm getting married. Anyway, she
- 40:15Speaker 2: attacked him on the internet and like in interviews. So
- 40:20Speaker 2: I had some harsh words for her because you don't
- 40:22Speaker 2: come after my family. People, just do not. You can
- 40:25Speaker 2: do whatever else you want, don't come after my family
- 40:27Speaker 2: or my fur babies and anyway, but when you you know,
- 40:31Speaker 2: Like I said, I tried to be unbiased doing this podcast.
- 40:34Speaker 2: She's freaking funny Carlos, and she's good on TV.
- 40:38Speaker 1: Don't you think, Oh, Vicky is one of the greatest.
- 40:43Speaker 2: Some people are her and wanted her gone, but I
- 40:45Speaker 2: think she's hysterical.
- 40:47Speaker 1: I'll say this, and again, I don't care about the
- 40:49Speaker 1: popular opinion. I've never I've never been that guy. I
- 40:51Speaker 1: will say this. I have been a fanom O Sea
- 40:54Speaker 1: since season two. I don't watch season one, and and
- 40:57Speaker 1: I'm gonna be honest, I became a fan of the
- 40:59Speaker 1: showman Tammar when Tama joined because she brought this level
- 41:02Speaker 1: of like comedy and and honest and honestly yes show,
- 41:10Speaker 1: so I started watching season two. Vickie is definitely the
- 41:13Speaker 1: og of the OC. I am one of the rare
- 41:16Speaker 1: people possibly who enjoyed her last season when she stormed
- 41:20Speaker 1: out of like the reunion and this is I like
- 41:22Speaker 1: what a housewife said, this is my show because to me,
- 41:25Speaker 1: I like a healthy ego. So I wasn't mad about it.
- 41:29Speaker 1: I did think this. I did think, maybe give Vicky
- 41:32Speaker 1: a pause, you know, give her a season off so
- 41:36Speaker 1: she could come back and miss it. I Carlos King
- 41:39Speaker 1: one hundred percent support Vicky govleson coming back to the
- 41:42Speaker 1: show season twenty. I would love to see it. I
- 41:45Speaker 1: would love to see Joe making appearance. Joe has said
- 41:49Speaker 1: that her and Gretchen got into an argument that they
- 41:52Speaker 1: edited out allegedly. I would love it.
- 41:57Speaker 2: I know the tea behind that, Carlos, because I got
- 42:00Speaker 2: the phone call right after that from Jojo and she's like,
- 42:02Speaker 2: You're not gonna believe what just happened on this when
- 42:05Speaker 2: I was filming and then was all cut up. Well, okay,
- 42:09Speaker 2: I can't tell all. I'm not going to because I
- 42:11Speaker 2: did not get Joe's a permission and I try not to.
- 42:15Speaker 2: Like I might have already lost Hammer as a friend
- 42:16Speaker 2: from stuff I just disclosed. I cannot lose two friends
- 42:18Speaker 2: in one podcast. I can't even remember exactly what it was,
- 42:22Speaker 2: but they they like to the tea of exactly what
- 42:26Speaker 2: the argument was. But Gretchen and her were going at
- 42:29Speaker 2: it like literally like like at it, and then you know,
- 42:35Speaker 2: when you're done filming. It is kind of weird when
- 42:37Speaker 2: you're filming a show because it's like you do do that,
- 42:39Speaker 2: and then it's like, okay, but we're doing a job,
- 42:41Speaker 2: So okay, can we hug and go up? So what
- 42:43Speaker 2: made Joe so mad is that they edited out the
- 42:45Speaker 2: whole argument, because Joe's point would have been proven during
- 42:48Speaker 2: this argument that now I can't I'm a bad friend.
- 42:51Speaker 2: I can't remember exactly what it was. But then they
- 42:54Speaker 2: hug it out at the end, and Joe was just
- 42:56Speaker 2: she calls me and she was so ticked off. She's
- 42:58Speaker 2: like I hugged her and it's like she's not even nice,
- 43:01Speaker 2: and like we went at it and it's gonna air.
- 43:05Speaker 2: Now I'm going to look, you know, it looks we're
- 43:07Speaker 2: gonna be yelling at each other. And then it didn't
- 43:09Speaker 2: air and it only shows them hugging. So that's just
- 43:11Speaker 2: one example of editing on a national television show that's
- 43:16Speaker 2: a reality show, and you know, one twenty fifth of
- 43:21Speaker 2: what happened to me last season, we're only saw the
- 43:24Speaker 2: certain things and everything else is cut on the chopping
- 43:26Speaker 2: worm floor. So you know, I know Joe was ticked
- 43:31Speaker 2: about that she wanted that shown because it did. I
- 43:33Speaker 2: don't remember. I wish. I'm biting my tongue ring because
- 43:36Speaker 2: I'm mad at myself because I can't think of what
- 43:38Speaker 2: exactly the argument was about but she wanted. She almost
- 43:42Speaker 2: was more mad that it didn't air than when she
- 43:46Speaker 2: called me and she was mad that it had just happened.
- 43:48Speaker 2: She was mad that it didn't air because it would
- 43:51Speaker 2: have shown I guess more you know about their argument,
- 43:57Speaker 2: and some truth would have been shown about Joe.
- 44:00Speaker 1: So so rain drops, so catchy, All up to speed,
- 44:04Speaker 1: and we're going to move on. Joe was an original
- 44:07Speaker 1: cast member of the Real House watson Worth County who
- 44:10Speaker 1: dated Slave Okay season one, Season one, Baby season one. Okay.
- 44:16Speaker 1: The feud between Joe and Gretchen arose from their share
- 44:19Speaker 1: connection to Slay because, as I know, Gretchen is married
- 44:23Speaker 1: to Slay.
- 44:24Speaker 2: Okay, excuse me, back up. They are not married or did.
- 44:27Speaker 1: You're not married?
- 44:28Speaker 2: They are boyfriend and girlfriend and why do they have
- 44:30Speaker 2: heavy and wifey hanging in their house? You are not
- 44:32Speaker 2: married people. You did not go before God and say
- 44:34Speaker 2: you're vows. You are boyfriend or fiancee. But anyways, they
- 44:38Speaker 2: are not married. But now I'm kind of remembering it.
- 44:42Speaker 2: Joe was friends with Gretchen when they Gretchen started dating Slade.
- 44:49Speaker 2: That was part of the feud of why Gretchen and
- 44:52Speaker 2: Gretchen and Joe are not close anymore because and then
- 44:56Speaker 2: Joe was even because she's married now to a very
- 44:58Speaker 2: good guy, Karen Gray's she's Joe Gray now. But anyways,
- 45:02Speaker 2: she is married, and she was very hurt by the
- 45:08Speaker 2: fact that her friend would date a guy that she
- 45:11Speaker 2: was engaged to, because Slayden and Joe were engaged when
- 45:14Speaker 2: they first started the show, or maybe they got engaged
- 45:17Speaker 2: on the show. I don't remember the details on.
- 45:19Speaker 1: That, Lizzie. Yeah, yeah, that's part.
- 45:22Speaker 2: Of the beef. That's part of the beef. But Joe
- 45:24Speaker 2: was willing to move on, especially during this season when
- 45:27Speaker 2: she was coming on as like you know, cameo appearances.
- 45:29Speaker 2: She was ready to move on. She's like, look, we're
- 45:31Speaker 2: both older now, she's got a kid, I'm married. Who cares,
- 45:34Speaker 2: you know? But something happened with that. I'll get back
- 45:37Speaker 2: to you if you want to. I'll call Joe when
- 45:39Speaker 2: we get done and I'll find out for next Friday
- 45:41Speaker 2: and we can do another little recap on this.
- 45:43Speaker 1: I guess what we called that to be continued. Hey,
- 45:47Speaker 1: we've got the.
- 45:48Speaker 2: Clip figures now exactly what the fight was that was
- 45:53Speaker 2: cut out and not shown on this episode.
- 45:56Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, so I will say this rain jobs. Don't
- 45:59Speaker 1: forget that Slaid had sex with Laurie between Joe and Gretchen.
- 46:05Speaker 2: Huh, remember, because I went to Bravocon. This is funny, good,
- 46:08Speaker 2: This is good, guys. I went to Bravocon. And so
- 46:11Speaker 2: I'm on stage getting ready to present Vicky Gumbelson the
- 46:15Speaker 2: award for They flew us out for Bravocon. They flew Joe, Lorii,
- 46:19Speaker 2: Me and Gretchen out for Bravocon to present this award
- 46:23Speaker 2: to Vicky for the Original Housewife Award. And the room
- 46:28Speaker 2: is full, okay, and we're on stage, and guess what
- 46:31Speaker 2: I do. Because I'm such an idiot, I went off
- 46:34Speaker 2: script and I said, because they gave you know, they said,
- 46:37Speaker 2: what do you want to say? And then there's a
- 46:38Speaker 2: prompter and we're reading the prompt. Okay, but Alexis Bilino
- 46:42Speaker 2: just does some Alexis Billino stuff sometimes, okay.
- 46:46Speaker 1: And so.
- 46:48Speaker 2: It's now my cue and I go, well, as the
- 46:50Speaker 2: only housewife's standing up here that hasn't slept with Slade Smiley,
- 46:53Speaker 2: and everybody's gone because I was the only one standing
- 46:57Speaker 2: up on stage that hadn't even like you, you know,
- 47:01Speaker 2: but Anyways, Andy Cohen lost his marbles. He's like, he's like,
- 47:06Speaker 2: he gets on the mic and he goes and they
- 47:08Speaker 2: cut some of this out to show it when they're
- 47:10Speaker 2: airing everything. But he's like, uh, she did go off
- 47:12Speaker 2: script everyone, and she was off script. And then they're like, no,
- 47:14Speaker 2: Le's just get back on, like get back on. So
- 47:16Speaker 2: I got a risk slap, but then I also did
- 47:19Speaker 2: get a lot of calls from production being like that
- 47:21Speaker 2: was an epic good job, and I'm just like, no,
- 47:24Speaker 2: I could not say it. I couldn't. It's just funny.
- 47:26Speaker 2: It's like we can't laugh at ourselves. If we can't
- 47:29Speaker 2: laugh at ourselves, I'm getting married for the third time.
- 47:31Speaker 2: People come on, three charms a charm? If you can't
- 47:34Speaker 2: laugh at yourself, what do you have in life? Like just.
- 47:40Speaker 1: A my thing is? This? My thing is? This is
- 47:45Speaker 1: the reason why I just love you so much And
- 47:47Speaker 1: it makes me happy when I read the comments and
- 47:50Speaker 1: everybody's like, Carlos, it was not on my being a
- 47:53Speaker 1: car that I would be enjoying Alexis so much. And
- 47:55Speaker 1: they all said, Alexis, we want to see this alone
- 48:00Speaker 1: access on the show, and that's why you don't have
- 48:03Speaker 1: to say anything. It's my job. That's why I'm advocating
- 48:06Speaker 1: for that all star list, that the that the the
- 48:11Speaker 1: Bravo fans have polled, because look, you're funny. I know,
- 48:14Speaker 1: I know, I know, but look you're hilarious and I
- 48:17Speaker 1: think I think that's that's what should happen. But I
- 48:20Speaker 1: will say this to close out the Joie thing. Joe
- 48:25Speaker 1: Dela Rossa did respond to Gretchen and because Gretchen was
- 48:31Speaker 1: on a podcast and said something and I just want
- 48:33Speaker 1: to read to you all what she said. Okay, because
- 48:38Speaker 1: this is what happened while talking in a car as
- 48:42Speaker 1: she was on her way to celebrate Alexis getting married
- 48:45Speaker 1: to John.
- 48:47Speaker 2: Yes, so I watched this TikTok or whatever it was.
- 48:51Speaker 2: I forget which which which platform is on, but everyone
- 48:54Speaker 2: should tune in and watch it because Joe does not
- 48:57Speaker 2: hold back. So go Carlos, go. No.
- 48:59Speaker 1: It was good because Joe was responding to an after
- 49:01Speaker 1: show that word Gretchen and Jennifer was talking about her.
- 49:06Speaker 1: She says, I was, first of all a little bit
- 49:08Speaker 1: surprised because it starts with Jen asking who's Joe, And
- 49:14Speaker 1: that's wild to me. I literally met Jen at the
- 49:18Speaker 1: season finale last year. We thought she was the sweetest,
- 49:22Speaker 1: nicest person I used to work for Ryan. I got
- 49:26Speaker 1: her number, I said, it was so nice to meet you.
- 49:29Speaker 1: And then I was trying to get together with her
- 49:32Speaker 1: for lunch because I have some things I wanted to
- 49:35Speaker 1: tell her. So she said it was wild that she
- 49:40Speaker 1: said that despite texting with her, and then Gretchen of
- 49:43Speaker 1: it all, Joe said, insisting that they've had a long
- 49:48Speaker 1: and messy journey. We started out years ago as friends,
- 49:52Speaker 1: even though she claims we were not friends. She then
- 49:56Speaker 1: detailed how she apologized to Gretchen a Bravo Khanna a
- 49:59Speaker 1: few years back, and at that time she truly meant it.
- 50:02Speaker 1: And then fast forward to this season, Joe said, Tama
- 50:06Speaker 1: breaks me to have this party. Days before we go
- 50:09Speaker 1: to her birthday, I get a podcast sent to me
- 50:13Speaker 1: and it's Gretchen talking about how desperate I am trying
- 50:19Speaker 1: to get back on the show. To me, that does
- 50:22Speaker 1: not signify somebody who is wanting to start over. When
- 50:27Speaker 1: she talked about the unaired scene between them, she did
- 50:33Speaker 1: say that she and I are not good and there
- 50:36Speaker 1: was an entire argument that happened at have this party
- 50:39Speaker 1: that never got shown. The only thing you saw is
- 50:42Speaker 1: her having giving me a hug. There's actually more to
- 50:46Speaker 1: that story. I thought it was weird that she came
- 50:49Speaker 1: up to me after I just got a podcast sent
- 50:51Speaker 1: to me where she's literally Alexis trashing my name. A
- 50:55Speaker 1: couple of days before I shot the episode with Tamra,
- 50:58Speaker 1: an entire blowout happened. The argument got so heated, Joe
- 51:05Speaker 1: says she. The argument got so heated that, Joe says,
- 51:09Speaker 1: Slade jump in at one point, Yes, and Joe told
- 51:14Speaker 1: him that Gretchen doesn't need a mouthpiece and she did
- 51:19Speaker 1: not need him to speak for her. Joe said, it
- 51:22Speaker 1: got ugly and it got messy. Girlfriend.
- 51:25Speaker 2: So so boys and girls, everybody, I will get the goose,
- 51:28Speaker 2: the juice. I was gonna say, gossip and juice, and
- 51:31Speaker 2: a came goose. Okay, I'm gonna get the juice, and
- 51:37Speaker 2: I am going to bring it next week. I know
- 51:40Speaker 2: Joe will give me the okay because Joe wants her
- 51:42Speaker 2: boys heard too. But I forget the details because there
- 51:45Speaker 2: were a couple Just so you know, there were a
- 51:46Speaker 2: couple of times Joe filmed that things didn't get shown
- 51:50Speaker 2: that you know, got chopped out so I don't remember
- 51:53Speaker 2: the details of that one specific, but I will get
- 51:55Speaker 2: the dirt and I will bring it to you. Carlos King.
- 52:00Speaker 1: Rain Drops. We call that a to be continued. Alexi Delino,
- 52:05Speaker 1: thank you so much. Have a great weekend, my sister,
- 52:08Speaker 1: and you'll be back next week with all the tea
- 52:11Speaker 1: from John. See you next week, See you next week,
- 52:13Speaker 1: Thank you, rain Drops. Reality with the King is executive
- 52:20Speaker 1: produced by me Carlos King, produced by Lizzie Nimitz, and
- 52:25Speaker 1: a partnership with the Lack Effect Network. You can also
- 52:29Speaker 1: find us on my YouTube channel at the Carlos King
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