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The One About Lisa Rinna is GANGSTER! · Untraditionally Lala

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  Speaker 1: Hello, my loves, Welcome back to the Give Them a
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  Speaker 1: La Podcast. It is yours truly, I have t t here.
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  Speaker 1: Oh hey ever you would is that the good morning?
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  Speaker 2: Hi?
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  Speaker 1: How are you?
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  Speaker 2: How are you?
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  Speaker 1: Today's a struggle, but we're going to get through it.
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  Speaker 1: And it's Friday.
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  Speaker 2: It is Friday.
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  Speaker 1: You invited me to a movie and dinner tonight if I.
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  Speaker 2: Will not be attending.
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  Speaker 1: Well, I mean when you said the movie started at nine,
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  Speaker 1: I was like, you.
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  Speaker 2: Don't need to go to the movie. I just said,
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  Speaker 2: if you wanted to.
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  Speaker 1: Come to dinner, what movie are you guys going to?
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  Speaker 2: The Marvels Captain America? Is that what it is? Yes? Yes?
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  Speaker 1: Any good? Have we seen it?
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  Speaker 2: Have not seen it?
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  Speaker 3: John could have some takes, He says, no spoilers, But
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  Speaker 3: I think the movie is good.
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  Speaker 2: It's all right. It's nothing to go home about.
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  Speaker 3: But I think they're finally steering in a direction storyline wise,
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  Speaker 3: is set up the other movies coming up.
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  Speaker 2: They finally put the train on the track.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, just like how it was kind of back in
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  Speaker 3: the old days they had the multiverse where they were
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  Speaker 3: just kind of making movies to make movies and just
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  Speaker 3: kind of place characters where they wanted to because they can,
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  Speaker 3: and it seems like they're steering away from that.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, and now.
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  Speaker 3: It just seems like every movie is going to have
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  Speaker 3: meaning going forward.
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  Speaker 1: And who is starring in this Captain America. No, I'm
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  Speaker 1: not in the Marvel world, but the Marvel the Marvel
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  Speaker 1: world like Star Wars and things like that, very very
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  Speaker 1: passionate group of fans. And if there is an actor
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  Speaker 1: actress placed in a role and the audience does not
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  Speaker 1: like them for that role, it could be that, you know,
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  Speaker 1: they it's just a person. No scandals, they're like Swifties.
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  Speaker 1: They're like the Bravo universe. They will tear you down
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  Speaker 1: and you will not You'll be unhireable.
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  Speaker 4: Yes, wild Welcome to the Marvel.
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  Speaker 2: Welcome to the Marvels. Jesus Christ. It's a hard word.
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  Speaker 1: So I live a little bit under a rock, as
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  Speaker 1: you guys know. But I was on my podcast page,
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  Speaker 1: so my personal Instagram page Laala Kent is the Explore
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  Speaker 1: page is. There's very little Bravo on the Explore page there.
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  Speaker 1: And I don't know why. I don't know if it's
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  Speaker 1: the algorithm. I don't know how technology works. I don't
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  Speaker 1: know if it listens to me, but the podcast page
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  Speaker 1: that give them Lalla pod page is and I rarely
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  Speaker 1: get on to the Explore page, right, but I posted
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  Speaker 1: something and it just like right after took me to
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  Speaker 1: this Explore page and I was like, WHOA, A lot
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  Speaker 1: of Bravo stuff happened in here and before I start.
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  Speaker 1: I met with Chris Medina the other night. So you
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  Speaker 1: guys are like my group of people, right, And for
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  Speaker 1: some reason this past year it's been I haven't felt
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  Speaker 1: like myself and I've tried to shake a lot of
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  Speaker 1: things off. I was in a position that I've never
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  Speaker 1: really been in before. I was certainly hormonal, and whatever
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  Speaker 1: the reason, I think we all know the reason. But
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  Speaker 1: I started becoming very self like hyper aware. I would
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  Speaker 1: get nervous to say certain things, address certain things. I
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  Speaker 1: just kind of wanted. I wanted to disappear without disappearing.
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  Speaker 1: I wanted to crawl in a hole and just like
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  Speaker 1: have people forget about me, but not forget about me,
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  Speaker 1: if that makes any sense. I just haven't wanted to
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  Speaker 1: really be myself. And after meeting with Chris Medina, we
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  Speaker 1: had a lovely dinner. He's one of my most favorite people.
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  Speaker 1: I'm going to get him back on the podcast because
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  Speaker 1: I just think he's epic. And if you guys remember,
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  Speaker 1: Chris Medina is really the one who told me that
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  Speaker 1: my life was about to take a different direction and
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  Speaker 1: that I needed to abort mission on my ex and
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  Speaker 1: start getting my ducks in a row. That was in
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  Speaker 1: September of twenty twenty one. By October, everything he said
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  Speaker 1: came to fruition by November first, which is what he
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  Speaker 1: gave me that date. He said something significant is going
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  Speaker 1: to happen, and it absolutely did so to me, his
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  Speaker 1: word and what he says is Bible, and he doesn't bullshit.
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  Speaker 1: He's not here to paint a pretty picture. He's not
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  Speaker 1: here to tell you exactly what's going to happen in
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  Speaker 1: your life. He just kind of he feels very gifted
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  Speaker 1: in a way that is is not to it's not
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  Speaker 1: for show, it's not to gain a paycheck. This man
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  Speaker 1: is just gifted and he shares what he shares, right
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  Speaker 1: take it or leave it. I take him as Bible,
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  Speaker 1: and he really gave me a boost in in myself
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  Speaker 1: again and got me easton nose. I walked in the
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  Speaker 1: house and I was like, I'm fucking back I'm fucking
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  Speaker 1: La La Kent, Like we're here and I'm like done
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  Speaker 1: with that person that has existed the past year. Let's
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  Speaker 1: move on too, my baby this morning. So, first of all,
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  Speaker 1: being a mom is very intense, especially to someone like
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  Speaker 1: Ocean Kent, because she will call you on your shit. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: at four years old, I have been exhausted. Sosa is
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  Speaker 1: completely off of HER's Sosa is very very needy right now.
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  Speaker 2: Well she's sick.
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  Speaker 1: I think it's beyond no no no no no.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, we can't kind of get her. I was going
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  Speaker 2: to get her back, but we're going to have her back. Yeah. No.
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  Speaker 4: She loves her mom. And when you leave, I'm not
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  Speaker 4: going to say she's tough. Yeah, but she's tough just because.
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  Speaker 2: Like whiny, right, Yeah, she just wants her mom.
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  Speaker 4: So it's like I feed her, I'll burper, I'll change
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  Speaker 4: your diape, I'll put her in her playpins and like
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  Speaker 4: give her activity tummy time.
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  Speaker 2: I'll hold her and walk around.
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  Speaker 4: But there's just always some feeling of discomfort and her
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  Speaker 4: like looking like where's my mom?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah that, but I mean I feel like this is.
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  Speaker 4: My first time even seeing you know, maybe five six
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  Speaker 4: months I've been around them as much as I have,
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  Speaker 4: but I just see that that's her most comfort and
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  Speaker 4: her favorite place to be is in your arms. So
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  Speaker 4: when you're not there, it's a little bit of frustration.
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  Speaker 1: Well, yes, and it's amazing. She's a no, she's a
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  Speaker 1: great baby, but you guys, when everyone's snoozing and granted,
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  Speaker 1: this just comes with the territory of having a new baby,
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  Speaker 1: but I had her on a really great schedule, and
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  Speaker 1: her perfectly round head shows that she has been held
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  Speaker 1: a lot. She's rarely put down. That is, has now
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  Speaker 1: manifested itself into a spoiled little baby. And there are
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  Speaker 1: people who say, like, babies can't be spoiled. They don't
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  Speaker 1: know how to manipulate you. Yet they don't. They just
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  Speaker 1: know what feels good, and that's being in your arms
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  Speaker 1: or when you come in the room. And I get that.
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  Speaker 1: But in order for me to be a good mom,
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna need to like practice a little bit of girl.
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  Speaker 1: You gotta like self soothed, because what's happening now is
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  Speaker 1: I put her down because she's exhausted by six thirty.
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  Speaker 1: She will then wake up at midnight. She then will
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  Speaker 1: wake up at two she'll then wake up at four
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  Speaker 1: and we start our day by six thirty.
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  Speaker 2: Is she eating at those hours or is she just like.
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  Speaker 1: Up at midnight? So as moms, we know what cry
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  Speaker 1: to listen for. Right the midnight cry is definitely like
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  Speaker 1: I'm hungry. I think she's ready for food. I think
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  Speaker 1: we start, we need to start introducing food. She's a
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  Speaker 1: week and a half shy of being six months. I
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  Speaker 1: talk to the night nurse who's no longer working in
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  Speaker 1: the home, but I still communicate with her. She's actually
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  Speaker 1: watching so So right now, but she said, you can
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  Speaker 1: definitely start bringing in the food, and I think that
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  Speaker 1: that will hold her over. And she's also fixated when
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  Speaker 1: I'm eating anything on it and tries to bite it.
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  Speaker 2: It's the cutest thing in the world.
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  Speaker 1: It's very cute, and I feel bad. It's like pretending
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  Speaker 1: to give a dog a treat and then pulling it
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  Speaker 1: away from them and.
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  Speaker 2: Then they just look at you like, well, why'd you
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  Speaker 2: do it?
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  Speaker 1: So sad. So that's where I'm at with so So
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  Speaker 1: right now. Is trying to get her back because for
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  Speaker 1: a moment it was like six thirty, we may have
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  Speaker 1: one wake up of just like fussing, and we would
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  Speaker 1: then start the day at six thirty. I was getting
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  Speaker 1: I was getting an okay amount of sleep because I
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  Speaker 1: am fixated on the monitor at all times. You can't
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  Speaker 1: not be You're never you're never hitting rems likely when you.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, when you leave me and she's asleep, that monitor
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  Speaker 4: is on my hip at all times even and she'll
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  Speaker 4: just go down.
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  Speaker 2: She's dead asleep, and I'm just staring at it, like
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  Speaker 2: if she moves.
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  Speaker 1: But if she moves exactly.
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  Speaker 2: Like if she turns over, if she grabs, does she
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  Speaker 2: know what to do? Oh?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, because she can't. Well when I say that, so
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  Speaker 4: she can't pull him over her face? Well, you know,
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  Speaker 4: everything scares me because she's such a grabber.
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  Speaker 1: She's a grabber for sure. Yeah, and she's just very
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  Speaker 1: different from from ocean, like ocean. I could put her
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  Speaker 1: down in that, like she's in a transitional sleepsack right
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  Speaker 1: now now where it's going from swaddle where they're like
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  Speaker 1: in a straight jacket, can't do shit to being in
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  Speaker 1: this like puff suit. And I'm like, this is scary
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  Speaker 1: to me.
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  Speaker 2: It's frightening. Yes, I put her in that, and I
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  Speaker 2: was like, there's just no.
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  Speaker 1: Way there's just it just simply can't be done. Like,
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  Speaker 1: what if you get a footstuck in one of those bars.
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  Speaker 1: They're telling you not to put bumpers in there, but
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  Speaker 1: what if I have I walk in and she like
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  Speaker 1: broke her tiny little ankle because she got her foot
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  Speaker 1: stuck in there.
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  Speaker 2: She's spinning around. Now.
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  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, she's a mover and a groover and a bouncer.
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  Speaker 2: Baby lock her in, no for real?
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  Speaker 1: So this morning, Uh, Ocean woke up and she's so
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  Speaker 1: freaking cute. So she she comes in my bed at night,
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  Speaker 1: but she wakes me up and tells me Sosa's crying
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  Speaker 1: and I can hear her. I can hear Sosa, but
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, it's six twenty. I'm not coming in until
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  Speaker 1: six thirty. Yea, it just can't be done. I bring
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  Speaker 1: Sosa in whatever, I'm feeding her on the boob, and
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  Speaker 1: Ocean says, mom, you you're just the best mom ever.
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  Speaker 1: She goes. You take care of me, you take care
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  Speaker 1: of Sosa, you take care of this whole house, you
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  Speaker 1: take care of our toys. I just love you, mom,
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  Speaker 1: You're just really great.
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  Speaker 2: And I was like I so needed that this morning. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: Like I.
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  Speaker 1: Feel like I'm gonna cry.
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  Speaker 2: Oh you should cry because you really aren't a great mom.
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  Speaker 1: It wasn't even about that. I'm like this child who
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  Speaker 1: was like four years old, not even yet. I don't
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  Speaker 1: know if she was sensing that, like I needed just
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  Speaker 1: a little boost of like, hey, you're fucking doing great.
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  Speaker 2: No, she's she's an old soul. She's very bright.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, she can go off emotion very well. Even I've
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  Speaker 4: seen her do it to Gigi, Yeah, are you okay?
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  Speaker 4: And it's when like I'm in a tiff or we're
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  Speaker 4: all in a tiff together and she'll go up to Gigi.
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  Speaker 4: But no, she does have that that sense of if
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  Speaker 4: if you need help, I feel that yes, and she
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  Speaker 4: has that in her and she really does come at
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  Speaker 4: the perfect time.
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  Speaker 1: It's wild to me. She's like such a magical spirit.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, And to hear that from your child is a
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  Speaker 4: love that I have not been able to feel yet.
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  Speaker 4: So I guarantee it's just a different feeling for you
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  Speaker 4: as well, just to hear your little human that is
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  Speaker 4: getting a personality, that is getting friends and having playdates,
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  Speaker 4: coming to you and just saying I love you.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, Like it's a different it's a different feeling. I
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  Speaker 2: feel like, yeah, she's.
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  Speaker 1: Just very emotionally intelligent, and like yesterday, I'll give you
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  Speaker 1: guys a couple of stories then and then we'll move
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  Speaker 1: on to all of our our goodness that we want
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  Speaker 1: to talk about. But she said, so, I was taking
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  Speaker 1: a nap and she came up to me and started
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  Speaker 1: kissing me on the face, and I was kind of like,
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  Speaker 1: I think that's when I hit my rem sleep.
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  Speaker 2: Yesterday.
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  Speaker 1: I was during the nap because she says, mom I
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  Speaker 1: want to I want to cuddle you. But I was
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  Speaker 1: kind of disoriented and I was like, not right now.
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  Speaker 1: Well that upset her. And what I'm learning so I've
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  Speaker 1: been reading up on parenting and when a child comes
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  Speaker 1: to you, because she kept saying to me, you hurt
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  Speaker 1: my feelings, and I noticed myself going into excuses. But
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  Speaker 1: Mommy was tired, I told you because I did. I
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  Speaker 1: was like, you can cuddle me right here, and I
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  Speaker 1: like pad it on my knees or my legs, and
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, no, no, no, we can't come up with
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  Speaker 1: a plethora of excuses. You hurt your baby's feelings. This
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  Speaker 1: is the moment that you lead by example and you
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  Speaker 1: say to her I'm really sorry that was not kind.
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  Speaker 4: But also I do agree that, like you needed your
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  Speaker 4: space at that time maybe and you didn't want anyone
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  Speaker 4: in your area, and to tell your child that not
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  Speaker 4: right now, even if you hurt her feelings, I feel
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  Speaker 4: like that's giving her structure for the real world of
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  Speaker 4: you aren't going to get everything that you do want.
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  Speaker 1: That's actually interesting because in this episode we're going to
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  Speaker 1: talk about this new term I don't know if it's new.
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  Speaker 1: I just learned about it, called lawnmower parenting, and that
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  Speaker 1: kind of goes hand in hand. And I think I
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  Speaker 1: think you're right. But at the same time, it's.
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  Speaker 2: Like, because how I look at it is, if.
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  Speaker 1: You do, you can apologize, but then say like, but
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  Speaker 1: do you know why Mommy told you that?
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  Speaker 4: Be honest about why you and don't come up with
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  Speaker 4: excuses if I was tired or this, or that I
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  Speaker 4: just needed me time. Because how I look at it is,
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  Speaker 4: if you're telling her that, and she's always going to
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  Speaker 4: be able to cuddle you and this and that if
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  Speaker 4: she goes with her friends, she feels like, no matter
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  Speaker 4: what you have to do, what I'm doing, she's never
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  Speaker 4: being told no, oh, that's going to be a weird transition. Okay,
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  Speaker 4: so maybe I'm thinking way too in depth, but I
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  Speaker 4: feel now I think this is great accouring her to
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  Speaker 4: like when her friend says, no, don't touch me, Okay, my.
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  Speaker 2: Mom has done that. Okay, that's how I look at it.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, I love this Easton. Oh you got my wheels.
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  Speaker 1: I am excited to read you what lawnmower parents are.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, I'm excited. I saw it, but I didn't read
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  Speaker 2: into it.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, it's really there's no better topic than talking
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  Speaker 1: about parenting because we're all, like I said, survival. Last thing,
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  Speaker 1: I'm going to tell you about Ocean. Before I got
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  Speaker 1: here to the podcast, so I was getting her ready
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  Speaker 1: for school. We negotiated a bun. She wanted a ponytail.
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  Speaker 1: I said. Her outfit was so chic, you guys. It
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  Speaker 1: was like this oversized white T shirt and these like
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  Speaker 1: cargo pants, these like cargo jeans, so like super wide
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  Speaker 1: and baggy like boyfriend style.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: No, they were jeans with her fresh little new nikes,
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  Speaker 1: and I had to negotiate. I'm like, it looks better
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  Speaker 1: with a bun with the bang's ocean like, not the
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  Speaker 1: pony and so I said I will put fruit snacks
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  Speaker 1: in your lunch today if you let and she was like,
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  Speaker 1: let me think okay. I was like, perfect, let's put
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  Speaker 1: it in a bun. So I get her ready. I
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  Speaker 1: start getting ready, and I had told her after I
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  Speaker 1: did the bun, I was like, you look so freaking cool.
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  Speaker 1: So I'm getting ready. I put on this outfit. I
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  Speaker 1: don't need you guys to say that Ocean lied to me.
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  Speaker 1: Just keep your thoughts to yourself. But she walks into
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  Speaker 1: my closet and goes, oh, mom, you look so she
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  Speaker 1: hell yeah, no she.
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  Speaker 4: I don't know where she's getting it from or if
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  Speaker 4: we're just saying things that like we don't really know.
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  Speaker 4: But she comes up and she says somehowtlandish shit, and
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  Speaker 4: I'm like, that is our family.
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  Speaker 1: Though I wanted to correct her and tell her that
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  Speaker 1: she can't say hell yeah, but I felt so good
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  Speaker 1: after she said it. When she was like, che hell yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I was like, yes, hell yeah. Take on the day together.
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  Speaker 2: Girl.
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  Speaker 1: Oh I felt really poor and heard the same song
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  Speaker 1: yeah but dah, but do yeah, I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: What somebody yes, can somebody tell us sing it?
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  Speaker 1: That's what I don't that's she knows the whole song.
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  Speaker 1: I actually recorded her performing it all that of staff.
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  Speaker 4: And but fifteen minutes of the same verse and chorus.
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  Speaker 1: And when we wouldn't pay attention to her, she'd sing
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  Speaker 1: it louder.
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  Speaker 2: Oh God morning.
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  Speaker 1: Lisa Rinna and Harry Hamlin have a new podcast. It's
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  Speaker 1: called Let's Not Talk About the Husband. I don't know
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  Speaker 1: if you've seen this episode. Kim Richards, who's Kyle Richards's sister,
• 16:30
  Speaker 1: and I think they're in Amsterdam. They're all at dinner
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  Speaker 1: and yeah me, I think, yeah they are, and Kim
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  Speaker 1: says let's not talk about the husband. To Lisa Rennan,
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  Speaker 1: she goes, what did you just say? What did you
• 16:46
  Speaker 1: just fucking say? So don't you ever talk about my husband?
• 16:50
  Speaker 1: And she picks up a wine glass and hucks it
• 16:53
  Speaker 1: at the table towards Kim and it shatters everywhere it
• 16:57
  Speaker 1: was and she was like, don't you dare come for
• 16:59
  Speaker 1: my fucking husband, like losing it. So it's like a
• 17:03
  Speaker 1: little nod the podcast name to that moment. But the
• 17:09
  Speaker 1: first episode she talks about that story and what was
• 17:14
  Speaker 1: going through her mind. And I've been there right not
• 17:19
  Speaker 1: where it's lasted as long as like she and Hamlin
• 17:22
  Speaker 1: where they have like two kids together. They've been together
• 17:24
  Speaker 1: for decades. But like I remember back in the day,
• 17:28
  Speaker 1: like don't come for my man, like I will cut you.
• 17:31
  Speaker 1: Are you trying to get popped or are you trying
• 17:33
  Speaker 1: to get along? I said that in one of the episodes,
• 17:37
  Speaker 1: Oh boy, oh boys, right unhinged. I think I had
• 17:41
  Speaker 1: a cocktail next to me too. But she left the
• 17:45
  Speaker 1: show in January of twenty twenty two and immediately went
• 17:49
  Speaker 1: to Paris. And we've spoken about this that after that
• 17:52
  Speaker 1: her career, she's like a fashion icon now, like she's
• 17:56
  Speaker 1: very much in the world a fashion she's on covers
• 18:00
  Speaker 1: a fashion magazine, She's sitting front row at fashion shows.
• 18:05
  Speaker 1: And I'm not talking about like the little like La
• 18:09
  Speaker 1: Fashion Week. I'm talking about like we're going to Paris,
• 18:12
  Speaker 1: We're going to Milan, We're going to New York. Like
• 18:14
  Speaker 1: she's everywhere. But the moment you mentioned her name in
• 18:18
  Speaker 1: the Bravo Universe, people lose their minds on her. They
• 18:24
  Speaker 1: do not like her. And she said that one of
• 18:26
  Speaker 1: her cast members basically had their little army essentially start
• 18:32
  Speaker 1: to come for Renna online, and she basically was canceled
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: by the audience, which I thought was just absurd. Her
• 18:41
  Speaker 1: last season on Housewives, she had just lost her mom.
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: She was I'm not gonna call her unhinged, she was
• 18:50
  Speaker 1: so devastated.
• 18:51
  Speaker 4: Well yeah, and I was going to interrupt you and
• 18:53
  Speaker 4: just say as somebody and obviously you that lost a parent.
• 18:58
  Speaker 2: Mm hm, you can be on hire inged. Yeah, and
• 19:02
  Speaker 2: you have like that.
• 19:03
  Speaker 4: There's a length that you can be unhinged. You can't
• 19:05
  Speaker 4: just be unhinged forever. But the first two years of
• 19:09
  Speaker 4: dad's passing, I was fucking unhinged.
• 19:12
  Speaker 1: How could you not be?
• 19:13
  Speaker 2: Yeah? So I feel like the who the people.
• 19:16
  Speaker 1: Who were guiding you on this planet are now gone
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: and you never I don't feel like you ever stop
• 19:24
  Speaker 1: needing your parents, no matter how old you are, even
• 19:26
  Speaker 1: when you have kids like you look.
• 19:28
  Speaker 2: Because age, that's the thing.
• 19:31
  Speaker 4: I don't care if you were my age twenty five
• 19:33
  Speaker 4: when you lost your dad or mom, or if you
• 19:35
  Speaker 4: were sixty and you lost your mom. It's different because
• 19:39
  Speaker 4: as you grow older, you still have questions. You have
• 19:42
  Speaker 4: questions about your forties. In your forties, you don't know
• 19:46
  Speaker 4: fifty yet your.
• 19:47
  Speaker 2: Dad does, your mom does.
• 19:48
  Speaker 4: So when you hit that, you have those questions you're
• 19:50
  Speaker 4: still needing those answers. Yeah, so no matter when you
• 19:53
  Speaker 4: lose your parent, you're losing answers.
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: I love what you just saiged. Really that season of her,
• 20:01
  Speaker 1: it just resonated with me where you're like, I'm angry,
• 20:04
  Speaker 1: I'm sad, I'm lost.
• 20:06
  Speaker 2: I'm confused. Yes, I am.
• 20:08
  Speaker 1: You completely lose all side of that. So I thought.
• 20:12
  Speaker 1: I didn't think that her cast gave her a lot
• 20:14
  Speaker 1: of grace, and the audience for sure didn't give her
• 20:17
  Speaker 1: a lot of grace. And you know, she says that
• 20:21
  Speaker 1: she wishes she would have said I'm done at that reunion.
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: She waited a little bit to say like, I'm not
• 20:28
  Speaker 1: gonna come back, but she said that is her regret
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: is not at that reunion defending herself and then saying
• 20:36
  Speaker 1: like and I'm done with this show. And she has
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: said I will never go back what I do love
• 20:40
  Speaker 1: And why would you?
• 20:42
  Speaker 2: Yeah, why would you?
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: When you put yourself out there for this audience and
• 20:47
  Speaker 1: they love you one moment and then you lose that
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: most vulnerable yes, and then you lose your mom. You're
• 20:54
  Speaker 1: your most vulnerable and they turn on you and they're
• 20:57
  Speaker 1: sending you death threats. You want to know. The The
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: theme song of a moment like that is the song
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: by the Chicks called Not Ready to Make Nice. They
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: made that song after they had said something about the
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: president I think it was Bush, and the people didn't
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: like it. They started throwing their CDs in the street,
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: running them over with fucking bulldozers. Then time passes, people
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: start taking a liking to them again. They hit us
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: with this song, not Ready to Make Nice, and it's basically,
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: you guys treated us, You left us in a moment
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: that we needed you, and I'm not over it yet.
• 21:39
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm not.
• 21:40
  Speaker 1: Cool with y'all. You guys have you've You've sent me
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: death threat, You've done all of these things, and I'm
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: pissed off.
• 21:48
  Speaker 2: Stem choose when you like me and dislike me.
• 21:51
  Speaker 1: You don't get to rock with me when when I'm
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: up here, and then when I'm at a very low
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: low and I say something that you may not agree with,
• 22:00
  Speaker 1: then send me the most horrendous, venomous messages and then
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: it's it's all gonna be good because time passes.
• 22:09
  Speaker 2: No, I'm fucking talking with me anyway.
• 22:11
  Speaker 1: No rocks. Yeah that's how I feel. So she's never
• 22:15
  Speaker 1: going back. I do love to see that she's still
• 22:17
  Speaker 1: friends with She's still friends with Kyle, She's still friends
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: with Deret Erica Jane, like they have a really cute
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: friendship still going on. And that's what's sad. So for
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: her to be heavy fucking hitters.
• 22:30
  Speaker 4: Like for her to be in there and like they
• 22:33
  Speaker 4: want to be in her graces, that speaks loudly about her.
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: I love Renna, and no one can tell me otherwise.
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: I think she's fucking gangster. She doesn't care if you
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: don't want to hear it. She doesn't care if it's
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: an unpopular opinion. She she says it like it is
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: or how she sees it. And I'm sorry, you may.
• 22:52
  Speaker 2: Not like it, but I'm gonna say it.
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: What is that I think? Is it? Calici goes, You
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: don't have to love me, you don't even have to
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: like me, but you will respect me if you can
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: be you authentically you at all times, even when people go,
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: I don't fucking agree with you at all. You may
• 23:09
  Speaker 1: not like me, love me, but you got to respect it. Yeah,
• 23:13
  Speaker 1: that's how I feel. So I watched the new documentary
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: about Gabby Patito. What I gathered was the laundry parents
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: are pieces of shit. His parents, Brian Laundry, the one
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: who did it.
• 23:28
  Speaker 2: Didn't they try to cover it up.
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: So during this time, I remember it vividly. There were
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: so many people. There were like group text messages. Everyone
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: was trying to solve this, this missing person's case. And
• 23:40
  Speaker 1: then they obviously found the body and everyone knew that
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: it was it just I don't remember any documentary having
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: this level of interviews, this level of receipts brought where
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: like Brian Laundry's mom sent a letter to him and
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: it said after reading and in it it basically states
• 24:03
  Speaker 1: how much she loves and supports him, and it says,
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: if you kill someone, I will bring you the shovels
• 24:11
  Speaker 1: to bury the body. And they show police footage. Gabby's
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: mom calls in to her local authority saying, my daughter's
• 24:21
  Speaker 1: been gone for ten days. I haven't heard a word
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: from her. It's not like her. They call down to Florida.
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: Florida police go up to the Laundry home. The parents
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: come out. They say that he flew back, he's here,
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: but she's not. Okay, Well, can we talk to him? No,
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: you can contact our lawyer. How the fuck you're gonna
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: have a lawyer already, and how is he how has
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: he flown back? But Gabby's van is parked in the driveway,
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: and we got to from from what I saw, it
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: was the first time seeing the conversations that were happening
• 24:57
  Speaker 1: between New York and Florida to understand how to locate
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: this Brian laundry or get him to talk at all,
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: and people going, this is suspicious, like New York was saying,
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: you don't think it's suspicious that he claims to have
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: flown home, but her van is in the driveway. You
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: don't think it's suspicious that he's home and her family
• 25:19
  Speaker 1: hasn't heard from her in over ten days. It was
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: the most wild thing I had ever watched in my life,
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: to see real footage of police and actually what goes
• 25:34
  Speaker 1: into yes, and you know, her family then went to
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: Utah because the fight that kind of kicked everything off
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: was in Moab and Gabby's mom and dad. There's this
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: law that they want to pass. I forgive me. I
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: don't know if it passed, but there's eleven questions in
• 25:56
  Speaker 1: a domestic violence situation need to ask before letting the
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: two people go. They said, had these eleven questions been
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: asked and answered. We believe that Gabby would still be
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: here today.
• 26:11
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean that's the one thing with this, uh,
• 26:15
  Speaker 4: with the law. Yeah, you get them when it's too late.
• 26:18
  Speaker 4: People come and say that this has been going on,
• 26:21
  Speaker 4: that's been going on, and they're like, well, we don't
• 26:22
  Speaker 4: there's nothing we can do, we can't do anything, and
• 26:25
  Speaker 4: then they end up dying. Another one that happened was
• 26:27
  Speaker 4: in Utah. Remember the the girl who the guy was
• 26:31
  Speaker 4: stalking her. He said he was way younger than at.
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: The University of Utah.
• 26:35
  Speaker 2: And then when and they were saying like there wasn't
• 26:37
  Speaker 2: enough evidence, she kept calling.
• 26:38
  Speaker 1: She went to the police, she went to it.
• 26:41
  Speaker 4: Was like campus security, all of these things, and they
• 26:44
  Speaker 4: didn't do anything. And look what happened. And she came
• 26:47
  Speaker 4: with receipts that I think were enough evidence to at
• 26:51
  Speaker 4: least detain him, ask him, see what the hell is
• 26:55
  Speaker 4: going on on his end. But now we have a
• 26:57
  Speaker 4: death and another thing just too late, And how many
• 27:00
  Speaker 4: of them have we been too late.
• 27:03
  Speaker 1: And nothing has changed, And it's it's like, why don't
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: we try a new approach. How about we prevent death
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: instead of holding people accountable? After the person has been murdered.
• 27:14
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I a little off topic, but on topic. I
• 27:18
  Speaker 4: don't know the tennis player's name. But there was a
• 27:22
  Speaker 4: tennis match going and the girl stopped in the middle
• 27:27
  Speaker 4: of the game, okay, walked over to like the tennis
• 27:32
  Speaker 4: ref the ref okay, and was crying. She spotted her
• 27:35
  Speaker 4: stalker in the fucking crowd out of thousands of people,
• 27:40
  Speaker 4: and she broke down and started crying.
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: They did they do anything?
• 27:44
  Speaker 2: I mean, I saw like the video.
• 27:45
  Speaker 4: I didn't look more into it, but I'm a I
• 27:47
  Speaker 4: think they fucking probably escorted him. And they have questions,
• 27:50
  Speaker 4: but like, how what if she didn't cry? What if
• 27:53
  Speaker 4: she didn't make you know, it apparent that she was
• 27:57
  Speaker 4: in discomfort in front of all of these people.
• 27:58
  Speaker 2: What if she just kept playing?
• 27:59
  Speaker 4: Was like I'm all right, left and got killed again?
• 28:02
  Speaker 4: You know, like what if that was he was there
• 28:04
  Speaker 4: for that?
• 28:05
  Speaker 1: What do you mean killed again? Have you any talented.
• 28:07
  Speaker 4: If he were to kill Like I'm just saying again,
• 28:09
  Speaker 4: like we got it too late.
• 28:11
  Speaker 2: Oh say, yah're in.
• 28:13
  Speaker 4: Just another case that we got too late. If she
• 28:15
  Speaker 4: didn't make that, like if she didn't cry and everybody
• 28:19
  Speaker 4: was seeing it and she pointed the guy out right,
• 28:22
  Speaker 4: who knows if she left that match, if she would
• 28:24
  Speaker 4: have kept her mouth shut, if she would have been
• 28:26
  Speaker 4: murdered by him.
• 28:27
  Speaker 1: Her name's Emma Radu.
• 28:29
  Speaker 2: Kanu sounds about right.
• 28:31
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what though, that's another I'm just gonna
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: say it. In the eyes of the legal system, no
• 28:40
  Speaker 1: matter which one it is, whether it's justice, family court,
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: women are looked at as volatile, unhinged, emotional, and we
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: are looked at as as people who overreact.
• 28:56
  Speaker 4: But can I say, I feel like that's all true,
• 29:00
  Speaker 4: to be honest, But can I tell you why? It's
• 29:03
  Speaker 4: because you guys have been in that position for so
• 29:05
  Speaker 4: long and you're wanting somebody to fucking listen.
• 29:08
  Speaker 1: But they don't look at it that way. They look
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: at it as, oh, see, look, how there she's being
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: a woman. And I just want to point this out
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: out of all of the people, statistically, how many more
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: men than women When you see a woman saying, please
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: fucking do something when it comes to their children, when
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: it comes to their own safety, no one does anything. Why, well,
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: she's just emotional and then she ends up dead and
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: guess who it usually is? The fucking guy in that
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: moment with Gabby Patito. She took all the blame. He
• 29:41
  Speaker 1: went to some fucking hotel because he didn't have any money.
• 29:44
  Speaker 1: It was for it was a place where people who
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: have fallen victim to domestic violence. That's where he was
• 29:51
  Speaker 1: taken while this one hundred and they said, one hundred
• 29:56
  Speaker 1: and ten pound girl was left to stay by herself
• 29:59
  Speaker 1: in a van while he got to go. And this
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: is what the cops said. You can go get a
• 30:04
  Speaker 1: warm shower and watch some TV while Gabby is in
• 30:09
  Speaker 1: this van by herself and she can go get it.
• 30:13
  Speaker 1: You since she can go get a shower for like
• 30:15
  Speaker 1: four or five bucks, relax, how about this? How about
• 30:19
  Speaker 1: you put me up in the hotel and make this
• 30:22
  Speaker 1: fucking guy stay in the van. Keep in mind someone
• 30:25
  Speaker 1: called the cops and said, we just saw a guy
• 30:28
  Speaker 1: slapping a woman.
• 30:29
  Speaker 2: So the abuser gets taken care of in this world.
• 30:33
  Speaker 1: Because he's calm. Gabby's having a panic attack.
• 30:37
  Speaker 4: She's having her women. So you know, why do we
• 30:41
  Speaker 4: look at them as they're emotional? There this there that, No,
• 30:46
  Speaker 4: they want to be fucking heard, we listen.
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: Thank you, yes, I agree. Did you know that in
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: the family court system, if a mother has suspicions that
• 30:56
  Speaker 1: her child is running the risk of being harmed by
• 31:02
  Speaker 1: the father, which is usually how it goes. I'm not
• 31:05
  Speaker 1: saying all the time, but statistics show more times than.
• 31:08
  Speaker 2: Not more men.
• 31:09
  Speaker 1: It's the men who the woman fears, not all the time.
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: There are some women who are all so scary.
• 31:16
  Speaker 2: Show yes, is more of the men.
• 31:19
  Speaker 1: When a mother says, I am worried for the safety
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: of my child. The court system, if the man is
• 31:27
  Speaker 1: not convicted of something, they get a full custody of
• 31:32
  Speaker 1: the child, and the accuser ends up losing full custody,
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: and in many cases more than should happen, the child
• 31:41
  Speaker 1: ends up dying by murder suicide. And they go back
• 31:45
  Speaker 1: and show how many times the mother went to the police,
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: went to her lawyer, went to a judge, saying, someone
• 31:52
  Speaker 1: fucking listen to me, I'm very worried about my child.
• 31:56
  Speaker 1: The entire Gabby Petito Sitch situation could have been handled
• 32:01
  Speaker 1: very differently and she would still be here. I believe
• 32:05
  Speaker 1: had that situation in Moab been handled differently. Keep in mind,
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: for the first time I saw the boyfriend interviewed, his
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: name's Jackson, and there was a moment that Brian on
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: the road trip, went back to Florida to clean out
• 32:21
  Speaker 1: a storage unit. In this time, she calls her ex boyfriend.
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: She basically texts him and says, I want to talk
• 32:28
  Speaker 1: and catch up if you're around, I'm only going to
• 32:31
  Speaker 1: be alone until tomorrow. They end up connecting. They're talking
• 32:34
  Speaker 1: catching up, and he said I could tell that there
• 32:36
  Speaker 1: was something that she still wanted to talk about, so
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: he asked her. She said, I want to leave Brian,
• 32:43
  Speaker 1: and I'm going to implement my plan. On August twenty seventh,
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: she tries calling Jackson again. He doesn't answer because he's
• 32:52
  Speaker 1: at work. That was the last time that anybody heard
• 32:57
  Speaker 1: from her. Poor man and he they take a trip
• 33:03
  Speaker 1: to where her body was found in Wyoming and it's
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: a big group of them, mom, dad, best friends, Jack's
• 33:12
  Speaker 1: and the ex boyfriend and they take a group picture
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: and there's an ORB and NICKI, Gabby's mom was like,
• 33:19
  Speaker 1: I don't know if anyone believes in this, but I
• 33:21
  Speaker 1: believe that she was there that day, and I just
• 33:27
  Speaker 1: I cannot even imagine. I used to be able to
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: watch things like this, and yes I would cry, but
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: watching it now is someone who has a child and
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: I and just the thought of, like if my child
• 33:43
  Speaker 1: were in danger. She seemed to offer something like what
• 33:46
  Speaker 1: does one do with a child who's twenty two years old?
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: And she's telling you that she wants to go and
• 33:52
  Speaker 1: do all of these things, But there's little nuggets that
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: she drops where it's like, my child's unhappy, What do
• 33:58
  Speaker 1: you do?
• 34:00
  Speaker 2: What do you do? I mean, that's up for somebody
• 34:07
  Speaker 2: with a pH d.
• 34:08
  Speaker 1: I don't know. I really don't even for.
• 34:12
  Speaker 4: My mom and your mom she made it and dad,
• 34:16
  Speaker 4: they made it very easy to talk about hard things, right.
• 34:21
  Speaker 4: And so I feel like I as a parent, I
• 34:23
  Speaker 4: feel that the only thing you can do is honest
• 34:26
  Speaker 4: communication to where and you can't always you know, it's
• 34:29
  Speaker 4: up to the child to tell you if that's the case.
• 34:32
  Speaker 4: So really there's nothing you can do because it's it's
• 34:35
  Speaker 4: a personal choice for them to tell you or not.
• 34:38
  Speaker 2: I can do everything in the world.
• 34:39
  Speaker 4: I can lead the horse to water, I can't make
• 34:41
  Speaker 4: it drink, right, So really there is nothing.
• 34:45
  Speaker 2: And that's what I think parenting is.
• 34:46
  Speaker 4: It's a lot of unknown and it's a lot of
• 34:50
  Speaker 4: I want to say, mental anxiety on things that will
• 34:54
  Speaker 4: never happen.
• 34:56
  Speaker 1: But the fact that they could is like, is what?
• 35:00
  Speaker 4: And the percentage of what you think about happening is like.
• 35:03
  Speaker 2: Fucking point oh one percent? Right, But that's still enough
• 35:07
  Speaker 2: to make me fucking go nuts.
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: Right, I need it to be a solid one hundred percent.
• 35:10
  Speaker 1: It will never happen.
• 35:11
  Speaker 2: So I don't think there's anything you can do.
• 35:14
  Speaker 4: Be there for your child, open and honest conversations and
• 35:17
  Speaker 4: just hope to God that they feel comfortable telling you
• 35:22
  Speaker 4: everything and more.
• 35:24
  Speaker 1: Do you want to know how they found her body?
• 35:27
  Speaker 2: No? Please?
• 35:29
  Speaker 1: So it's actually pretty incredible. So Gabby's mom can't get
• 35:33
  Speaker 1: a hold of anybody. She texts Brian's parents. They don't respond.
• 35:39
  Speaker 1: She texts them again. It goes through his green which
• 35:41
  Speaker 1: means she was either blocked or they turned the phone off.
• 35:44
  Speaker 1: So she says, fuck it, I'm going on social media.
• 35:47
  Speaker 1: She starts posting Where's Gabby, sends it to all of
• 35:49
  Speaker 1: her friends. Her friends send it to everybody, so it
• 35:51
  Speaker 1: becomes this nationwide where is my daughter? They give a
• 35:57
  Speaker 1: timeline the police and post it and they say this
• 36:00
  Speaker 1: is where she was last seen. This is you know,
• 36:02
  Speaker 1: the park that they were in, and there was this
• 36:05
  Speaker 1: other Van Lifer couple. Van Life just means that they
• 36:09
  Speaker 1: live in a van and they travel and they have
• 36:10
  Speaker 1: the best time. Very cute couple. And they look at
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: the timeline. They're like, damn, we just missed them. Like
• 36:17
  Speaker 1: we were there, but we were only there from the
• 36:19
  Speaker 1: twenty seventh to whenever they were there, so we just
• 36:22
  Speaker 1: missed them. Something pops up that says, y'all, the timeline
• 36:25
  Speaker 1: this like van lifeer group chat. The timeline has changed.
• 36:31
  Speaker 1: This woman looks at it and goes, holy shit, the
• 36:35
  Speaker 1: timeline matches up with when we were there. She goes
• 36:38
  Speaker 1: back to review all of her footage and sure enough,
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: she passes the fucking van, sends it into police. They
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: match up how the trees are where the van was positioned,
• 36:50
  Speaker 1: and there was her body, uh and it looks staged
• 36:54
  Speaker 1: in the fetal position, boots next to her, her hood
• 36:59
  Speaker 1: was over her head. Autopsy came back that she had
• 37:01
  Speaker 1: blunt force trauma and strangulation by hands. And then Brian
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: goes missing. So his family calls the police saying, our
• 37:13
  Speaker 1: son is missing. They see his car at a well
• 37:17
  Speaker 1: known trail and campsite that he liked to go to.
• 37:21
  Speaker 1: Now that they found Gabby's body, instead of Brian being
• 37:23
  Speaker 1: a missings person. He's like a fugitive most wanted. They
• 37:27
  Speaker 1: go out to search for him. They find his remains
• 37:30
  Speaker 1: because he had been out there for over thirty days,
• 37:33
  Speaker 1: gunshot to the head. He leaves a fucking note that
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: says that Gabby was walking across the river. He heard
• 37:41
  Speaker 1: a splash. It was very dark. She hit her head.
• 37:44
  Speaker 1: She was screaming, so he gave he strangled her and
• 37:47
  Speaker 1: gave her a mercy kill. It just simply isn't true.
• 37:52
  Speaker 2: Well no, because there was no blunt force trauma to
• 37:54
  Speaker 2: her head. Right.
• 37:55
  Speaker 1: There was blunt force trauma, but it wasn't.
• 37:57
  Speaker 2: The way that a rock would leave it.
• 38:00
  Speaker 1: Right, Like, just the way the autopsy report came back,
• 38:02
  Speaker 1: it was.
• 38:02
  Speaker 2: Like this was like a bat or something from.
• 38:05
  Speaker 1: This was a homicide. This wasn't like someone slipped and fell.
• 38:09
  Speaker 1: And I just couldn't believe that at the very end
• 38:11
  Speaker 1: of it all, you're going to write a note.
• 38:13
  Speaker 2: You're gonna lie to everyone full of bullshit.
• 38:15
  Speaker 4: At least go out with the fucking at least be
• 38:17
  Speaker 4: a man and just say you did what you did
• 38:20
  Speaker 4: and you took your own life.
• 38:22
  Speaker 2: Because now you're just leaving questions for the family.
• 38:24
  Speaker 1: It's devastating, and there's this woman.
• 38:27
  Speaker 2: Uh did the parents get anything? What do you mean
• 38:30
  Speaker 2: the laundry his mom and dad should get I don't know.
• 38:34
  Speaker 1: They didn't catch up on they didn't.
• 38:37
  Speaker 2: Put that out. I think his parents should be getting time.
• 38:40
  Speaker 1: Well, who knows. We could google it right now and
• 38:42
  Speaker 1: they could be, you know, under some sort of investigation.
• 38:45
  Speaker 1: I mean, it was wild to see the text messages
• 38:49
  Speaker 1: that were not only.
• 38:50
  Speaker 4: That, but for her to write, if you kill somebody,
• 38:52
  Speaker 4: I'll bring you shovels.
• 38:53
  Speaker 2: That right there is.
• 38:54
  Speaker 1: Just like keep in mind, they look at the call log.
• 38:59
  Speaker 1: Brian a call multiple one of which was almost an hour.
• 39:03
  Speaker 1: Then they look at the parents call log, and after
• 39:06
  Speaker 1: that call, a call is made to Wyoming to a
• 39:14
  Speaker 1: criminal defense attorney, and he's retained for twenty five thousand dollars.
• 39:20
  Speaker 1: I'm like, but here's what's wild. Is yet they sit
• 39:23
  Speaker 1: there and it's like, yeah, suspicious. I'm sorry, but that's
• 39:26
  Speaker 1: more than suspicious.
• 39:27
  Speaker 2: This is hi.
• 39:28
  Speaker 1: This person murdered somebody and he's retaining counsel. This isn't
• 39:31
  Speaker 1: like but we don't know.
• 39:33
  Speaker 2: We know.
• 39:34
  Speaker 1: This is called common sense.
• 39:35
  Speaker 2: Your actions have told me that you're guilty.
• 39:39
  Speaker 1: Yes, it's just wild to me, just to see the
• 39:45
  Speaker 1: justice system and how slow it is. But one of
• 39:47
  Speaker 1: the FBI agents, she was fucking amazing on it. From Florida,
• 39:53
  Speaker 1: tattoos everywhere, short hair, she was actually very hot. I
• 39:57
  Speaker 1: was into her and she started crying at the end
• 40:00
  Speaker 1: of it, and she said, my job matters. These victims'
• 40:06
  Speaker 1: lives matter. And although Gabby's story is very unique, she said,
• 40:13
  Speaker 1: there are tens of thousands of missing women who are black, brown,
• 40:21
  Speaker 1: and indigenous who have never made it on the news,
• 40:25
  Speaker 1: who have never been found, never been talked about. And
• 40:29
  Speaker 1: at the beginning, Gabby's dad said, you know, at first,
• 40:33
  Speaker 1: I was a little put off when they said that
• 40:36
  Speaker 1: all of these women of color are missing and no
• 40:39
  Speaker 1: one cares. And suddenly this white woman goes missing and
• 40:41
  Speaker 1: rallies the whole country. He goes, I was taken aback.
• 40:45
  Speaker 1: I was offended, and he goes, and then I had
• 40:47
  Speaker 1: to remove myself from it and think, what if I
• 40:51
  Speaker 1: were on the other side of my child not being found,
• 40:55
  Speaker 1: but these people are rallying, and he goes, like I
• 40:57
  Speaker 1: did start understanding and thought I need to make it difference.
• 41:00
  Speaker 1: So that happened at the very end. Let's talk about
• 41:04
  Speaker 1: the Don't Lie documentary. Wow, I the Potito case is crazy, though.
• 41:08
  Speaker 2: No, the Potito case is crazy. The uh, the Brian.
• 41:12
  Speaker 1: Johnson thing, isn't it wild?
• 41:14
  Speaker 2: It's wild. I mean he's doing what rats are doing.
• 41:17
  Speaker 1: Okay, So if you guys don't know, there's a Netflix
• 41:19
  Speaker 1: documentary called Don't Die, and it's this guy, Brian Johnson.
• 41:23
  Speaker 1: He's super fucking rep like he's wealthy. He's not fucking rich.
• 41:27
  Speaker 4: He's like he sold his company, like he owned Venmo
• 41:31
  Speaker 4: and one other thing, and he's so pal yeah PayPal
• 41:33
  Speaker 4: for like four hundred millions.
• 41:34
  Speaker 2: Yeah, he's got money for sure.
• 41:37
  Speaker 1: So and he's spending it on blueprint. Yeah, he's basically
• 41:41
  Speaker 1: like reversing his body clock to be at eighteen again
• 41:45
  Speaker 1: and like defy defying aging.
• 41:48
  Speaker 4: Yeah, Benjamin Button defy agging. But I mean all it
• 41:56
  Speaker 4: is is like they're putting new chromosomes and things like that.
• 41:59
  Speaker 1: And you know, he injects plasma he gets from doing
• 42:03
  Speaker 1: plasma exchange with his son.
• 42:05
  Speaker 4: But I watched it. It isn't that weird. He his
• 42:09
  Speaker 4: son gave him some, he gave his dad some. So
• 42:12
  Speaker 4: it's like, uh, okay, it's just a thing like that.
• 42:15
  Speaker 4: So I didn't think it was that weird. It was
• 42:16
  Speaker 4: just like giving my dad plasma, my dad's giving his
• 42:18
  Speaker 4: dad plasma, or just giving plasma to each.
• 42:21
  Speaker 1: Other, just defying aging by giving Hella plasma. Can I
• 42:24
  Speaker 1: tell you something about Brian Johnson really quickly? So I'm
• 42:27
  Speaker 1: at Candyland. This is probably a year ago, and there's
• 42:32
  Speaker 1: this woman who knows me from the show, and she
• 42:38
  Speaker 1: tells me she works for somebody and says, you know,
• 42:43
  Speaker 1: he's very, very wealthy. She doesn't tell me his name.
• 42:47
  Speaker 1: She just tells me why he's wealthy. So of course
• 42:49
  Speaker 1: I google. She wanted to set me up with him.
• 42:53
  Speaker 2: No, no, shit, he's a freak. She's such a normal.
• 42:58
  Speaker 1: Guys like I think you would really like him. She
• 43:00
  Speaker 1: did not tell me. She goes, if you're interested, just
• 43:04
  Speaker 1: let me know and I can talk to him and
• 43:05
  Speaker 1: we can make happen. Did not give me a name.
• 43:07
  Speaker 1: I want to make that very clear. If this woman
• 43:09
  Speaker 1: still works for him, I don't want her to get
• 43:10
  Speaker 1: fired because I did the digging on my own. Yes,
• 43:14
  Speaker 1: she gave me very little. This was the only time
• 43:16
  Speaker 1: that I've ever dug Okay.
• 43:18
  Speaker 2: Well, yeah, how could you not? It's like, who is
• 43:20
  Speaker 2: this man.
• 43:20
  Speaker 1: Who is this guy?
• 43:21
  Speaker 4: Yeah, he's wealthy. He wants to go out. I won't
• 43:23
  Speaker 4: give you a name. It's like, all right, where's walday?
• 43:26
  Speaker 1: I think you guys would be really great for each other.
• 43:28
  Speaker 1: Google that shit thought. Nrks kirt.
• 43:30
  Speaker 4: His life is depressing. He doesn't even go out in sunlight. Yeah,
• 43:35
  Speaker 4: if it's to a certain uv. He sleeps with like
• 43:38
  Speaker 4: he does unreal shit. He takes like fifty six like
• 43:41
  Speaker 4: pills a day.
• 43:42
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but it's wild. If you're not going to enjoy
• 43:44
  Speaker 1: your life, why would you want to live longer?
• 43:46
  Speaker 2: Exactly? And that's the thing.
• 43:47
  Speaker 4: He's like, you know, I just want to be able
• 43:48
  Speaker 4: to have, you know, more time with my son and
• 43:52
  Speaker 4: generations and generations.
• 43:53
  Speaker 1: And it's like, wait, you're gonna bring him into your
• 43:55
  Speaker 1: dark room? There it is you're talking about.
• 43:58
  Speaker 4: I have a feeling your son doesn't care to play
• 44:00
  Speaker 4: ping pong all that much.
• 44:01
  Speaker 2: It's the only thing they did together and work out.
• 44:03
  Speaker 4: It's like, at some point, your son is gonna go
• 44:05
  Speaker 4: I need a goddamn life.
• 44:07
  Speaker 1: Yeah, for real.
• 44:07
  Speaker 2: It's what you don't understand. Guyoh, is you had one? Yeah?
• 44:11
  Speaker 1: Have you ever heard the term live fast die?
• 44:14
  Speaker 2: Young?
• 44:14
  Speaker 1: Bad girls do it. Well, we all just want to
• 44:19
  Speaker 1: enjoy our life. The thought of living forever exhausts me.
• 44:23
  Speaker 1: I'm thirty four and already lattired as fuck.
• 44:26
  Speaker 2: That's how I feel.
• 44:27
  Speaker 4: And what everything he's doing for every twelve months he's
• 44:31
  Speaker 4: in the aging.
• 44:31
  Speaker 1: Eight eight months not even worth it?
• 44:34
  Speaker 2: Well, I mean attack on the years. But here's what
• 44:37
  Speaker 2: I want to know. He's a guinea pig.
• 44:39
  Speaker 4: I want to know the brain side of things, because
• 44:43
  Speaker 4: he's doing a lot of things. Yes, your body may
• 44:46
  Speaker 4: be able to go forever, your mind now, so he's
• 44:51
  Speaker 4: just gonna be a walking idiot.
• 44:54
  Speaker 1: No, he's gonna look it's really really good, but he's gonna.
• 44:57
  Speaker 4: I like, no, he's not gonna be alive like that
• 45:00
  Speaker 4: mentally totally. Well, then your body shuts down because your
• 45:03
  Speaker 4: mind's telling your body. So if your mind just shuts
• 45:05
  Speaker 4: down everything you.
• 45:06
  Speaker 1: Know, it seems like he's bored. He could be bored.
• 45:10
  Speaker 2: Well, yeah, he'll live a.
• 45:11
  Speaker 4: Real life, buddy, and you won't be bed at eight
• 45:14
  Speaker 4: thirty up at four thirty.
• 45:16
  Speaker 2: He eats a pound of vegetables.
• 45:17
  Speaker 1: A pound.
• 45:18
  Speaker 2: It's the same thing every day. Him and his son
• 45:21
  Speaker 2: eat the same exact Oh.
• 45:23
  Speaker 1: No, don't project it. Onto your son. Don't project your
• 45:27
  Speaker 1: weirdness onto your son.
• 45:28
  Speaker 2: I mean, I mean, I'm glad that somebody is being
• 45:30
  Speaker 2: the guinea pig.
• 45:31
  Speaker 4: There's also somebody I don't remember his name, but he
• 45:34
  Speaker 4: spent thirty thousand dollars a year and he's at the
• 45:37
  Speaker 4: exact same levels as this guy spending two all right,
• 45:41
  Speaker 4: but I think the two million is like your hair
• 45:43
  Speaker 4: growth that has like the red light.
• 45:46
  Speaker 2: His he just does a lot of bullshit.
• 45:48
  Speaker 1: I feel like, I think he should just take neutrafilt
• 45:52
  Speaker 1: know about it? How could you not? Everyone knows about it.
• 45:55
  Speaker 1: Nobody lives in the dark.
• 45:57
  Speaker 2: Good there it is speaking.
• 45:59
  Speaker 1: Of children and rejecting onto them. Mel Robins, who I guess,
• 46:02
  Speaker 1: is like a super controversial person. She has the Mel
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: Robins podcast, and she was talking about silent treatment and
• 46:11
  Speaker 1: how it's super toxic and manipulative behavior. A lot of
• 46:15
  Speaker 1: people were saying, but sometimes you need to calm down
• 46:22
  Speaker 1: before you communicate, so you have to go silent.
• 46:24
  Speaker 2: But guess what you have to do before you calm
• 46:26
  Speaker 2: down communicate? That go Everything is communication.
• 46:30
  Speaker 4: A silent treatment only works if you go I can't
• 46:32
  Speaker 4: talk right now.
• 46:33
  Speaker 2: I'm giving you a silent treatment. I'll talk to you
• 46:35
  Speaker 2: when I'm ready. Yeah, boom, he knows, she knows, whatever
• 46:38
  Speaker 2: the case may be.
• 46:40
  Speaker 4: But you now know because you're not going to go
• 46:43
  Speaker 4: up and ask a stupid question and then get the
• 46:45
  Speaker 4: silent treatment.
• 46:46
  Speaker 1: No, the silent treatment actually really really bothers me. I
• 46:50
  Speaker 1: find it to be and for someone like me, I
• 46:54
  Speaker 1: tap into aggression.
• 46:56
  Speaker 2: Oh see, do you want to know when I get
• 46:58
  Speaker 2: the silent treatment? What cool? Need you?
• 47:01
  Speaker 4: What do you mean like, if somebody's giving me the
• 47:03
  Speaker 4: silent treatment, you don't get to give me a silent treatment?
• 47:06
  Speaker 2: You're gone to me now?
• 47:08
  Speaker 1: Oh okay, ye, lucky for you. I find it to
• 47:11
  Speaker 1: be a toxic trait.
• 47:13
  Speaker 4: Well, it's very and that's why I remove myself from toxicity.
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I think because I'm not even say, like, what
• 47:21
  Speaker 1: did I do?
• 47:21
  Speaker 4: I'm not gonna fucking go through mental gymnastics to think
• 47:25
  Speaker 4: what did I do for them to be upset?
• 47:28
  Speaker 2: I don't give a fuck.
• 47:31
  Speaker 1: You can acknowledge that it is. Well, I find it to
• 47:35
  Speaker 1: be super damaging when you do that with your children. Yeah,
• 47:40
  Speaker 1: I think that communication and I think maybe she what
• 47:44
  Speaker 1: she was trying to say is it's okay to not
• 47:49
  Speaker 1: want to talk but you have to communicate that before
• 47:53
  Speaker 1: you just stop answering. Yeah, I can't imagine being with
• 47:57
  Speaker 1: someone or parenting in the way where you say like
• 48:02
  Speaker 1: you're in an argument and then you just shut down
• 48:04
  Speaker 1: and no one can get through to you. When someone
• 48:07
  Speaker 1: does that to me, I immediately go into name calling, doing
• 48:12
  Speaker 1: anything to get a rise out of you. So now
• 48:14
  Speaker 1: your toxic trait has brought out my toxic trait when
• 48:18
  Speaker 1: this could have been squashed by saying I need a
• 48:22
  Speaker 1: minute to not talk to you. And I just feel
• 48:26
  Speaker 1: that to say for anyone to say like that silent
• 48:30
  Speaker 1: treatment is a good move. Anyone you talk to who
• 48:35
  Speaker 1: has half a brain cell. And also people like doctors
• 48:38
  Speaker 1: tell you communication is everything.
• 48:41
  Speaker 2: Communication is key, absolutely.
• 48:45
  Speaker 1: Lawnmower parenting Easton is basically so there's like there's hover parents,
• 48:51
  Speaker 1: who I know a few of those super fucking annoying.
• 48:54
  Speaker 1: By the way, like the kid falls and it's like,
• 48:56
  Speaker 1: oh my god, oh my god, they're choking. You know,
• 49:00
  Speaker 1: they like put a finger in their mouth and gag
• 49:02
  Speaker 1: and it's like, oh my god, we have to put
• 49:04
  Speaker 1: mittens on her at all times.
• 49:05
  Speaker 2: No, it's like, let her do it a couple more
• 49:07
  Speaker 2: times and she's quit doing it.
• 49:08
  Speaker 1: Well. By the way, they need to know how to gag.
• 49:10
  Speaker 1: That's how they don't choke.
• 49:11
  Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I think not.
• 49:13
  Speaker 1: A fan of putting giant like stick not sticks, but like.
• 49:17
  Speaker 2: There suckers that if fall can like jam back in.
• 49:20
  Speaker 1: No, no, no, there's there's this parenting book where you
• 49:24
  Speaker 1: basically give your child like an asparagus or like a
• 49:28
  Speaker 1: big carrot, and they can eat it and they learn
• 49:31
  Speaker 1: how to like use their gag reflexes. I'm not a
• 49:35
  Speaker 1: huge fan of that. That I'm a little scared of.
• 49:37
  Speaker 1: But so so she stays jamming her fingers in her
• 49:40
  Speaker 1: mouth like her thumb and gets it back there and
• 49:42
  Speaker 1: goes and I'm like, great, okay, I like the the
• 49:46
  Speaker 1: finger method of gagging yourself to.
• 49:49
  Speaker 2: Know like that you can gag.
• 49:51
  Speaker 1: Yeah, a little too far back. Need to get this out.
• 49:55
  Speaker 1: But the helicopter parents are basically prime example. If you
• 49:59
  Speaker 1: remember like Felicity Huffman, Nope, she was, she's an actress
• 50:07
  Speaker 1: and it was her and I think Lorie Laughlin who
• 50:10
  Speaker 1: played the wife of Jesse on Full House the Hot One. Okay,
• 50:16
  Speaker 1: they paid a significant amount of money to get their
• 50:19
  Speaker 1: children into USC so it's basically parents who try to
• 50:24
  Speaker 1: make their child's life a little bit easier to kind
• 50:27
  Speaker 1: of catapult them ahead further than they than they would
• 50:32
  Speaker 1: get without your help. If that makes sense. You forget
• 50:35
  Speaker 1: your violin at home and you have a performance that day,
• 50:39
  Speaker 1: your mom runs home to get it for you and
• 50:41
  Speaker 1: brings it back. You have now been a part of
• 50:46
  Speaker 1: a lawnmower parenting moment of you not understanding consequences because
• 50:52
  Speaker 1: your mom just made it easier.
• 50:53
  Speaker 2: For you to a certain degree.
• 50:56
  Speaker 4: I mean, like to the violin point, if my kid
• 50:58
  Speaker 4: forgot it, I'd be like, fuck, I would have forgot
• 50:59
  Speaker 4: it kid, I'll go.
• 51:00
  Speaker 2: Grab it for you.
• 51:01
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree, but like I mean, I need other
• 51:05
  Speaker 1: I here's how I feel about it, because I ain't
• 51:08
  Speaker 1: no parent. No, I am very good and proud of you,
• 51:16
  Speaker 1: and I think this is the way that I would
• 51:20
  Speaker 1: want to do it. For Ocean example, she's only three
• 51:27
  Speaker 1: almost four. Let's just say she didn't clean up her
• 51:32
  Speaker 1: room and she doesn't want to, so I then do it.
• 51:36
  Speaker 1: The conversation that I will have with her is my love,
• 51:42
  Speaker 1: I will pick it up for you this time. If
• 51:46
  Speaker 1: I have to do it again, there will be a consequence.
• 51:49
  Speaker 1: But then I talked to mom, and Mom said, when
• 51:51
  Speaker 1: you and Easton were that age, I did nothing except
• 51:55
  Speaker 1: pick up after you guys at all times. And then
• 51:57
  Speaker 1: you guys hit a certain age where I just wasn't
• 51:59
  Speaker 1: doing it. If you wanted to live in your own filth,
• 52:01
  Speaker 1: you were. You were more than capable of cleaning up
• 52:03
  Speaker 1: on your own, hanging your clothes up, putting shit away.
• 52:07
  Speaker 1: And if you chose not to, well the consequences you
• 52:11
  Speaker 1: have to live in it. Close the freaking door. And
• 52:13
  Speaker 1: I ended up cleaning up my own stuff. But to
• 52:16
  Speaker 1: tell a parent to have their children live the hard
• 52:18
  Speaker 1: way to prepare them for the real world. I will
• 52:20
  Speaker 1: prepare my child for the real world by having conversations
• 52:24
  Speaker 1: with them.
• 52:25
  Speaker 2: Yes, so they have to.
• 52:25
  Speaker 1: Know that when they're with Mama, that's comfort. I will
• 52:28
  Speaker 1: protect the fuck out of you because this is home.
• 52:30
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 52:31
  Speaker 1: I don't love the idea of saying like this is
• 52:35
  Speaker 1: not a good way of parenting. It does them a
• 52:38
  Speaker 1: disservice in the end, because I truly believe it's just
• 52:42
  Speaker 1: you can only do so much for your children before
• 52:45
  Speaker 1: you just accept this is who they are, and they
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  Speaker 1: came like this. Some kids just come with drives some
• 52:52
  Speaker 1: kids don't. Some kids come with you know, I need
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  Speaker 1: to turn in my papers. I knew every time I
• 52:58
  Speaker 1: went to school there were papers to turn in. You
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  Speaker 1: would literally have papers in your folder on the turn inside.
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  Speaker 1: Dad would have this conversation with you morning up. You
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  Speaker 1: would come back with a folder and the paper is
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  Speaker 1: still inside. You just didn't grasp it.
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  Speaker 2: No, I just didn't care.
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  Speaker 1: It didn't matter. No, you would get a bad grade
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  Speaker 1: and it did not matter. It didn't teach you anything.
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  Speaker 1: So I come from a place of parenting where I'm like,
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  Speaker 1: it's tough out there, and I need them to know
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  Speaker 1: it's tough out there. And I can prepare them with
• 53:29
  Speaker 1: my words and I can tell them with my experience.
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  Speaker 1: But I'm not going to sit here and have home
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  Speaker 1: be like it is out there.
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  Speaker 2: No fuck no, no.
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  Speaker 1: We will lawnmower the shit out of every situation at
• 53:45
  Speaker 1: this house because your boss isn't going to do it
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  Speaker 1: for you. There's only so much time that you're in
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  Speaker 1: this house before you're in the real world, and it'll
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  Speaker 1: buck you up for me. Yeah, I don't got to
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  Speaker 1: do that.
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  Speaker 2: We'll have those tough conversations to buck you up. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: after they're done, We're back to home.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree with you.
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  Speaker 4: It's a fair there's a happy medium on helicopter, lawnmower, whatever, mom, dad,
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  Speaker 4: they want to call it. But I think there's just
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  Speaker 4: a happy medium. And that's the other thing. It's all
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  Speaker 4: dependent on the kid. Yeah, you know, if everybody were
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  Speaker 4: to parent the same, it'd be a clusterfuck.
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  Speaker 1: I'm just glad Ocean's not a pussy.
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  Speaker 2: No, Ocean needs to pussy up a little bit.
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  Speaker 1: She's got She fell off of this massive like swing
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  Speaker 1: set yesterday. The school called me and they were like, hey,
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  Speaker 1: I just want to let you know that Ocean's going
• 54:34
  Speaker 1: to come home with kind of a cut up lip.
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  Speaker 1: It did bleed. She's fine. She didn't cry, but she
• 54:40
  Speaker 1: did come into the office with a bloody lip and
• 54:42
  Speaker 1: wanted to tell me all about how it happened. And
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  Speaker 1: then told me like, you definitely need to warn my mom.
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  Speaker 2: You should tell my mom.
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  Speaker 1: And I asked her, I was like, did you cry?
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  Speaker 1: She got this big old cut in her lip. I said,
• 54:54
  Speaker 1: what happened, dude, and she was like, yeah, I was
• 54:56
  Speaker 1: just playing. Fell didn't even cry. It's like, did it
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  Speaker 1: bleed a lot? Yeah, a lot of blood and it
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  Speaker 1: was actually true because when I went in to get
• 55:06
  Speaker 1: her from naptime, no, all the kids were like, she
• 55:10
  Speaker 1: was bleeding today, all of them. She was bleeding on
• 55:13
  Speaker 1: the playground and summer goes and she didn't even cry.
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  Speaker 4: She's a story right now, all these Yeah, there was
• 55:22
  Speaker 4: a girl who was bleeding in my class.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, there was a kid that There was a kid
• 55:28
  Speaker 1: that kicked her chair. So she kicked his back and
• 55:31
  Speaker 1: then he did it again, and she said, you keep
• 55:34
  Speaker 1: kicking my chair. Kickers get kicked. I was like, hell yeah,
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  Speaker 1: and the teacher was like, that's true. But if you're
• 55:39
  Speaker 1: going to keep doing it to her, she's going to
• 55:41
  Speaker 1: do it back. But I tell her, I'm like girl
• 55:44
  Speaker 1: from the very beginning, remember when she was a bier. Yes,
• 55:47
  Speaker 1: you bite, get bit girl. I forgot about that hard
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  Speaker 1: she was you. Anyway, we're going to jump into the
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  Speaker 1: bonus episode. You guys, I hope you enjoyed this episode
• 55:59
  Speaker 1: of the Give Them Lola podcast. I love you guys,
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  Speaker 1: Happy hump Day. We'll catch you next week.
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  Speaker 2: By