Latest / Hot Girl Energy Podcast / 129. SIP & SPILL: "HOT GIRL" therapy... the advice you needed to hear

Transcript

129. SIP & SPILL: "HOT GIRL" therapy... the advice you needed to hear · Hot Girl Energy Podcast

• 0:13
  Speaker 1: Hello you guys, Welcome back to another episode of the
• 0:16
  Speaker 1: Hawkerel Energy Podcast. I'm your host, Kaylee, and this is
• 0:19
  Speaker 1: your weekly reminder that it's a new day, a new week,
• 0:22
  Speaker 1: a new mindset, and another day if you become the
• 0:24
  Speaker 1: howtral energy you want to attract. Hello you guys, Happy Wednesday,
• 0:28
  Speaker 1: Welcome back to another episode. I hope you guys had
• 0:32
  Speaker 1: a great week last week. If you're from Canada or
• 0:35
  Speaker 1: if you're from the States, I hope you guys had
• 0:37
  Speaker 1: a great long weekend for your Fourth of July or
• 0:39
  Speaker 1: Canada Day. I ended up taking last week off because
• 0:43
  Speaker 1: of that, just with Canada Day and all that, I
• 0:45
  Speaker 1: decided to just kind of give myself a week off
• 0:48
  Speaker 1: from filming and just the podcast. And honestly, even if
• 0:51
  Speaker 1: I did decide to record an episode, it wouldn't have
• 0:53
  Speaker 1: been uploaded till the Friday, and I knew a lot
• 0:56
  Speaker 1: of you guys would be doing something for the Fourth
• 0:59
  Speaker 1: of July, so I decided to just honestly have the
• 1:02
  Speaker 1: week off. And now we're going into this week with
• 1:05
  Speaker 1: a new month. We have entered July, which is so exciting.
• 1:07
  Speaker 1: So we thought for the first week of July it
• 1:09
  Speaker 1: would be perfect to do another Sip and Spell episode
• 1:12
  Speaker 1: because we haven't done one in a while.
• 1:13
  Speaker 2: So I have my sister here. Hello, she's back.
• 1:16
  Speaker 1: We're ready to do some questions and advice here because
• 1:21
  Speaker 1: we recently shared on our Instagram story a question box
• 1:24
  Speaker 1: to do some questions and advice that just might be
• 1:27
  Speaker 1: things that you guys are going through currently, whether it's
• 1:30
  Speaker 1: career advice or dating advice, or you know, friendship advice,
• 1:34
  Speaker 1: anything like that. So we figured we'd just answer any
• 1:36
  Speaker 1: of your questions that you guys might have and just
• 1:39
  Speaker 1: give our honest advice of what we think you should
• 1:42
  Speaker 1: do to maybe get yourself out of that difficult spot
• 1:44
  Speaker 1: or whatever.
• 1:45
  Speaker 2: The case may be.
• 1:46
  Speaker 1: So we did a question box. We got I don't
• 1:48
  Speaker 1: know how many questions as we get. We got like
• 1:50
  Speaker 1: we've got a lot.
• 1:50
  Speaker 2: We got a lot. I think we got like fifty
• 1:52
  Speaker 2: to sixty questions.
• 1:53
  Speaker 3: Definitely, I won't be able to go through all of that.
• 1:56
  Speaker 1: Yeah, we're going to try and go through as much
• 1:58
  Speaker 1: as we can. But thank you guys so much first
• 2:01
  Speaker 1: off for submitting all your questions, and we'll definitely do
• 2:03
  Speaker 1: something like this again, I think in the future because
• 2:05
  Speaker 1: we had such a positive feedback with just the amount
• 2:09
  Speaker 1: of questions that you guys wanted to ask. So I
• 2:11
  Speaker 1: think we're going to kind of just like go through
• 2:14
  Speaker 1: each section of like, Okay, we had a few questions
• 2:17
  Speaker 1: about career advice, we had a few questions about friendship advice,
• 2:21
  Speaker 1: life in general all that. So we'll just kind of
• 2:24
  Speaker 1: answer as we go along. But first off, I just
• 2:27
  Speaker 1: kind of want to talk about last week with Canada Day.
• 2:29
  Speaker 1: I spent my long weekend at a cottage, which was
• 2:31
  Speaker 1: so nice. I feel like that long weekend. I always say,
• 2:34
  Speaker 1: whenever there's a long weekend, oh, it's the kickoff of summer.
• 2:37
  Speaker 2: It's a kickoff of summer.
• 2:38
  Speaker 1: But I feel like the first weekend in July. I
• 2:40
  Speaker 1: don't know if you can agreaet Madison, but I feel
• 2:42
  Speaker 1: like the first weekend in July is literally the case
• 2:44
  Speaker 1: this summer.
• 2:45
  Speaker 3: I feel like summer until Canada Day.
• 2:47
  Speaker 2: Yeah, fine, I feel like that too.
• 2:48
  Speaker 1: Like May sure gets too excited about warm weather and
• 2:51
  Speaker 1: all that, but the weather's always a hit and miss
• 2:53
  Speaker 1: on the May long weekend June obviously it's nicer, but
• 2:56
  Speaker 1: it's not really there's I don't think there's a long thing.
• 2:58
  Speaker 2: Again.
• 2:59
  Speaker 4: Well, we also had like a really weird June, Like
• 3:01
  Speaker 4: it was weird weather.
• 3:03
  Speaker 1: Cold, yeah, some days hot, other days yeah, I agree,
• 3:06
  Speaker 1: sat wave like yeah, lots of rain. Like, just a
• 3:10
  Speaker 1: really weird month in general.
• 3:11
  Speaker 2: Same with May too.
• 3:12
  Speaker 1: I think May and June wasn't really the best at
• 3:14
  Speaker 1: least for us here for weatherwise. But July has been
• 3:18
  Speaker 1: really good, and I just feel like, well, not today,
• 3:21
  Speaker 1: not today, but the first other few days have been
• 3:24
  Speaker 1: really good.
• 3:25
  Speaker 3: We've had some really good days.
• 3:27
  Speaker 1: Yeah, so far July has been good. End of June
• 3:29
  Speaker 1: was pretty good. Beginning of June wasn't that good. But
• 3:31
  Speaker 1: now that it's like the first long weekend of July,
• 3:34
  Speaker 1: last weekend, I feel like that was like the kickoff
• 3:36
  Speaker 1: to summer. Being by the water obviously was like such
• 3:39
  Speaker 1: a nice thing to do, being on a boat chilling
• 3:41
  Speaker 1: with friends. I also feel like I haven't seen my
• 3:43
  Speaker 1: friends in forever, which I've talked about in the past,
• 3:46
  Speaker 1: just because like I feel like we're all so busy
• 3:48
  Speaker 1: with life that we've been having a hard time making
• 3:50
  Speaker 1: time for each other. So the fact that we were
• 3:52
  Speaker 1: all able to be present and be together on that
• 3:54
  Speaker 1: weekend was something that I think was really memorable and
• 3:57
  Speaker 1: something that we got to cherish together. And I think
• 3:59
  Speaker 1: that's a weekend that we all look forward to because
• 4:01
  Speaker 1: we all know that we'll get together on that weekend
• 4:04
  Speaker 1: and spend time together. So all in all, it just
• 4:06
  Speaker 1: was a really great start to the month and we
• 4:08
  Speaker 1: had a really fun time just being by the cottage.
• 4:11
  Speaker 1: Freddy came and enjoyed the water. Freddy's a cottage dog,
• 4:15
  Speaker 1: and he's a completely different dog at the cottage. I
• 4:18
  Speaker 1: can't even describe what kind of dog he is because
• 4:20
  Speaker 1: he's so different. He's going in the water, he's rolling
• 4:23
  Speaker 1: around in the sand, whereas like when he's here, he's
• 4:26
  Speaker 1: terrified of the pool.
• 4:27
  Speaker 2: He just like he likes me outside. But it's just
• 4:29
  Speaker 2: such a different dog. I don't know how to explain it.
• 4:31
  Speaker 1: But it's really fun seeing him like on a different
• 4:34
  Speaker 1: side when he's at the cottage and such.
• 4:36
  Speaker 2: But anyways, that was my long weekend. Do you want
• 4:39
  Speaker 2: to give updates on your long weekend?
• 4:40
  Speaker 3: So yeah, for my long weekend.
• 4:42
  Speaker 4: So Kaylie actually went to a cottage the weekend of
• 4:46
  Speaker 4: Canada Day, where I kind of stayed home. We did
• 4:50
  Speaker 4: like a little pool party with all my friends at
• 4:52
  Speaker 4: one of my friend's house.
• 4:53
  Speaker 3: It was so fun.
• 4:56
  Speaker 4: Normally I'm the same where I like to be by
• 4:58
  Speaker 4: a cottage and on the lake, but for the times
• 5:01
  Speaker 4: that I can't, it was really really fun that, you know,
• 5:04
  Speaker 4: we got to just kind of get together and have
• 5:06
  Speaker 4: a pool party. We played corn hole, we played spike ball,
• 5:11
  Speaker 4: and we did fireworks at night.
• 5:13
  Speaker 3: It was just so fun. It was so so fun.
• 5:16
  Speaker 4: And then I ended up going to my boyfriend's cottage
• 5:20
  Speaker 4: this past weekend.
• 5:22
  Speaker 3: So I just got back yesterday.
• 5:23
  Speaker 2: Actually, so you got your cottage fix.
• 5:25
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I got my cottage fixed in the weekend after
• 5:28
  Speaker 4: and yeah, pretty much like Kaylee said, just being by
• 5:31
  Speaker 4: the water was so nice.
• 5:33
  Speaker 2: We went on the boat, we went on the sea duke.
• 5:36
  Speaker 1: There's something about a cottage, I have to be honest.
• 5:38
  Speaker 1: It just like that's when summer has just like fully
• 5:40
  Speaker 1: supped in. Like being by the water is just something nice.
• 5:43
  Speaker 2: Watching the sunsets also like the best. Yeah.
• 5:46
  Speaker 4: I literally spent the entire morning yesterday because it was
• 5:49
  Speaker 4: such a beautiful day. I spent the entire morning. I
• 5:52
  Speaker 4: picked up a chair, put it on the dock, and
• 5:54
  Speaker 4: I just sat and looked at the water. My boyfriend's like,
• 5:57
  Speaker 4: what are you doing? And I'm like I'm just bracing,
• 6:00
  Speaker 4: Like I just love being by the water by the lake,
• 6:05
  Speaker 4: like I was watching the boats go by.
• 6:07
  Speaker 3: I want kids too, Bang.
• 6:09
  Speaker 1: I wonder it was just because peaceful, Like I wonder
• 6:11
  Speaker 1: if we feel that way because we never grew up
• 6:13
  Speaker 1: by a cottage. So for us, we like really cherish
• 6:15
  Speaker 1: those moments, whereas if you grew up like with the
• 6:17
  Speaker 1: cottage or on the water, I feel like you're used
• 6:19
  Speaker 1: to that, so you might not just be like, oh,
• 6:21
  Speaker 1: it's just like another typical night by the cottage, right,
• 6:24
  Speaker 1: So for us, like my parents had the decision of
• 6:27
  Speaker 1: either getting a pool in the backyard or getting a
• 6:29
  Speaker 1: second property as a cottage, and they decided to get
• 6:31
  Speaker 1: the pool, which we obviously love going in the pool
• 6:33
  Speaker 1: and having that, but I think we kind of missed
• 6:35
  Speaker 1: out on the cottage face.
• 6:37
  Speaker 2: So for us, like whenever we do go to a cottage,
• 6:39
  Speaker 2: I think we.
• 6:39
  Speaker 1: Just like fully, I get so like, I don't know,
• 6:42
  Speaker 1: I love it too, Like I think it's just such
• 6:43
  Speaker 1: a fun thing to do. And now we want to
• 6:45
  Speaker 1: buy a cottage for our future kids, Like we're talking
• 6:48
  Speaker 1: about doing that with my parents, of just owning a
• 6:49
  Speaker 1: family cottage and being able to have our kids go
• 6:52
  Speaker 1: up and all that, just because we didn't get to
• 6:53
  Speaker 1: experience that, so we want our kids to be able
• 6:56
  Speaker 1: to experience it.
• 6:56
  Speaker 4: Yeah, And it's just like I feel like summer doesn't feel.
• 7:00
  Speaker 3: Like summer unless you're out of cottage.
• 7:02
  Speaker 1: That's just yeah, or like camping or just by and
• 7:05
  Speaker 1: by water. Yeah, I agree, being by the water in
• 7:08
  Speaker 1: the summer definitely.
• 7:09
  Speaker 3: Definitely.
• 7:10
  Speaker 4: It makes me excited for the future of like our kids, Yeah,
• 7:15
  Speaker 4: you know, us going all to the cottage together and
• 7:17
  Speaker 4: having that shared second.
• 7:19
  Speaker 1: I think also so many people talk about like mon
• 7:21
  Speaker 1: Talk and Nantucket and the Hampton's and just like seeing
• 7:24
  Speaker 1: that lifestyle everyone being by the water and like it's
• 7:27
  Speaker 1: in the summer.
• 7:28
  Speaker 2: It's just like very peak of summer. Yes, the peak
• 7:30
  Speaker 2: of summer exactly.
• 7:31
  Speaker 1: So one day I hope to visit those places and
• 7:34
  Speaker 1: have a little trip out to like mon Talk and yeah,
• 7:36
  Speaker 1: all that.
• 7:36
  Speaker 2: I think that's definitely on my buckets trip.
• 7:39
  Speaker 1: Yeah. Obviously Europe is super fun too, but like having
• 7:42
  Speaker 1: something like that is also like more like cottage core.
• 7:45
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, East coast.
• 7:47
  Speaker 4: Summer kind of yeah, coastal summer, but.
• 7:49
  Speaker 1: Nova Scotia could be fun too in the summer. Like
• 7:52
  Speaker 1: here in Canada. I feel like that could be like
• 7:54
  Speaker 1: the Canadian version or like New Brunswick or Vancouver that.
• 7:58
  Speaker 4: I've now found like a new like like want to
• 8:01
  Speaker 4: go to Nova Scotia.
• 8:02
  Speaker 3: I think since watching We Were Liars.
• 8:04
  Speaker 2: I know, I can't wait.
• 8:06
  Speaker 3: I don't have this in my own country.
• 8:08
  Speaker 1: I could not believe that that was filmed in Nova Scotia.
• 8:11
  Speaker 2: Crazy.
• 8:11
  Speaker 1: I'm sure you guys know that We Were Liars show
• 8:13
  Speaker 1: on Amazon Prime.
• 8:15
  Speaker 2: Literally, I'm obsessed with that show. The ending was so sad.
• 8:18
  Speaker 1: We're not gonna give it away because Madison in the
• 8:20
  Speaker 1: last episode, but we found out later on that it
• 8:23
  Speaker 1: was a film in Nova Scotia and I was like
• 8:25
  Speaker 1: wow it yeah, same, and it's so beautiful.
• 8:28
  Speaker 2: It was like Nantucket, like yeah, it just.
• 8:30
  Speaker 1: Makes you realize how much like we should be appreciating
• 8:33
  Speaker 1: our own country.
• 8:34
  Speaker 3: So not going like sidetracked.
• 8:36
  Speaker 2: I know, I know. So let's get into this episode.
• 8:38
  Speaker 2: Here's us like really just embracing summer.
• 8:41
  Speaker 3: But hey, why we can't.
• 8:41
  Speaker 1: Get through all Yeah, this is because we spend eleven
• 8:45
  Speaker 1: minutes recording the intro.
• 8:46
  Speaker 2: Anyways, let's get into the freaking point of this episode.
• 8:49
  Speaker 1: Okay, So first off, we're going to talk about some
• 8:51
  Speaker 1: questions that you guys gave for friendship advice. We had
• 8:55
  Speaker 1: a few just about like long distance friendships, maybe friends
• 8:59
  Speaker 1: keeping secret things like that. So we're going to answer
• 9:01
  Speaker 1: some of the questions that you guys had. Okay, So
• 9:03
  Speaker 1: the first question was knowing when and how to let
• 9:05
  Speaker 1: go of people and outgrown friendships and things that no
• 9:08
  Speaker 1: longer serve you. Okay, So I've been through a few
• 9:12
  Speaker 1: different outgrown friendships. That was very Yeah, that was very
• 9:16
  Speaker 1: difficult for me because one friendship that I had, it
• 9:20
  Speaker 1: was a girl that I grew up with since I
• 9:22
  Speaker 1: was six years old, and it was really hard because
• 9:27
  Speaker 1: we were really really close the entire time through high school.
• 9:31
  Speaker 1: We played sports together, like same soccer team, same ragnette team.
• 9:34
  Speaker 1: Like I'm talking, attached to the hip. And then you know,
• 9:39
  Speaker 1: once we started to go to university in college, you know,
• 9:42
  Speaker 1: I feel like we all kind of start to become
• 9:45
  Speaker 1: not like our true self, but we do become a
• 9:47
  Speaker 1: bit of a different person.
• 9:48
  Speaker 2: I think you kind of figure out who you are
• 9:49
  Speaker 2: around that age.
• 9:50
  Speaker 1: I was like twenty one, twenty two, you know, I
• 9:52
  Speaker 1: just wasn't really into to be fully transparent.
• 9:54
  Speaker 2: I wasn't really into drugs or anything like that.
• 9:56
  Speaker 1: Where this girl that I was hanging out with, she
• 9:59
  Speaker 1: was very much like in that environment, Like she loved
• 10:01
  Speaker 1: the party scene, she loved to do those kind of things,
• 10:05
  Speaker 1: and that just obviously we kind of became part we
• 10:09
  Speaker 1: grew apart because we weren't spending as much time together
• 10:11
  Speaker 1: because you know, she'd want to spend her weekends doing that,
• 10:13
  Speaker 1: where I would want to like do fun things like
• 10:16
  Speaker 1: go to the beach or like, you know, just spend
• 10:18
  Speaker 1: my time doing things that weren't about drugs and alcohol essentially, right,
• 10:23
  Speaker 1: So I think that's kind of how like we grew apart.
• 10:26
  Speaker 1: And in that moment, I'm trying to remember how it
• 10:28
  Speaker 1: felt to like lose a friend because obviously, like we
• 10:32
  Speaker 1: were so close for so many years.
• 10:33
  Speaker 2: But I think it kind of made me realize that you.
• 10:36
  Speaker 1: Don't want to like force yourself to be with someone
• 10:38
  Speaker 1: in that environment, or you know, be friends with someone
• 10:41
  Speaker 1: that you guys don't have the same passion or the
• 10:43
  Speaker 1: same you know, things that you can relate on.
• 10:46
  Speaker 2: Like, I think it just made me.
• 10:47
  Speaker 1: Realize that we were growing apart, and that we were
• 10:50
  Speaker 1: growing into two different people and we had different you know,
• 10:53
  Speaker 1: hobbies and things that.
• 10:55
  Speaker 2: We actually enjoyed.
• 10:56
  Speaker 4: I also think, like to answer kind of the question
• 10:58
  Speaker 4: of like knowing when to let go, I think you
• 11:02
  Speaker 4: know when to let go when it almost feels like
• 11:06
  Speaker 4: you don't necessarily want to hang out with them, but
• 11:09
  Speaker 4: you think it's forced to because you're trying to keep
• 11:12
  Speaker 4: that friendship like that glue stick that glue together or whatever.
• 11:16
  Speaker 4: The saying is like, yeah, I was going to get
• 11:18
  Speaker 4: trying to like hold that friendship together. I think that's
• 11:21
  Speaker 4: when you know when it's yeah, it's and you don't
• 11:24
  Speaker 4: have to be so hard on yourself to just like
• 11:27
  Speaker 4: stop trying. Yeah, you know, Like I feel like that's
• 11:31
  Speaker 4: kind of an.
• 11:31
  Speaker 1: Indication of like, and to be honest, I think about
• 11:34
  Speaker 1: my own situation. I'm very good at like answering questions
• 11:37
  Speaker 1: when I related to something that actually happened to me.
• 11:38
  Speaker 1: So that's kind of like how I'm answering it this way,
• 11:40
  Speaker 1: and Madison's better at like kind of essentially explaining what
• 11:44
  Speaker 1: my situation is in like the answer format. But that
• 11:48
  Speaker 1: was the exact situation where I felt forced to make
• 11:52
  Speaker 1: plans with her because I'm like, Okay, well, I don't
• 11:55
  Speaker 1: want to lose this connection with this girl that I've
• 11:56
  Speaker 1: had forever, like, I'll make it work, We'll figure out
• 11:59
  Speaker 1: something that we can get in common with and all that,
• 12:02
  Speaker 1: and then eventually you realize that it's like, okay, if
• 12:04
  Speaker 1: I have to put this much effort into making it
• 12:07
  Speaker 1: last or making it work, and it's just not working.
• 12:10
  Speaker 1: Because even when we did hang out, it wasn't it
• 12:13
  Speaker 1: wasn't the same, it was different, and then it felt
• 12:16
  Speaker 1: it felt wrong and forced exactly, like it felt like,
• 12:19
  Speaker 1: why am I doing this to myself? I'd rather be
• 12:22
  Speaker 1: friends with someone when it's easy and it feels good
• 12:25
  Speaker 1: and that you guys are both that's how you supposed
• 12:27
  Speaker 1: to be and that's how it's supposed to be exactly.
• 12:30
  Speaker 1: That's the same if you think about relationships. It's the
• 12:32
  Speaker 1: same kind of way, right exactly.
• 12:34
  Speaker 4: So I think that kind of you know, explain explains
• 12:38
  Speaker 4: knowing when I feel like that's a good indication.
• 12:42
  Speaker 1: I think it really needs to align your your hobbies
• 12:45
  Speaker 1: and align your passions. And if it doesn't align, then
• 12:48
  Speaker 1: and you guys are as you said.
• 12:50
  Speaker 2: Forcing is like the keyword.
• 12:51
  Speaker 1: If you're trying to force something and it just feels
• 12:53
  Speaker 1: like you're forcing it, then it's not it's not going
• 12:56
  Speaker 1: to work out. So you need to just make sure
• 12:58
  Speaker 1: that when you're hanging out with your friends, it's easy
• 12:59
  Speaker 1: to make.
• 13:00
  Speaker 2: Plans with them.
• 13:00
  Speaker 1: It's easy to know that you guys are both actually
• 13:03
  Speaker 1: enjoying your time together because you both wanted to do this.
• 13:05
  Speaker 1: You didn't want to, you know, have two different separate nights,
• 13:08
  Speaker 1: you know what I mean. Someone wants to have a
• 13:10
  Speaker 1: chill night, someone wants to go out. It's like, okay, well,
• 13:11
  Speaker 1: if the person's always wanting to go out and I'm
• 13:13
  Speaker 1: always wanting to chill, then it's eventually going to end
• 13:16
  Speaker 1: because you're realizing that you're not.
• 13:18
  Speaker 2: Both passionate about the same things.
• 13:20
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 13:20
  Speaker 1: So I think that kind of solves the answer of
• 13:22
  Speaker 1: knowing when you know when the friendship is unfortunately coming
• 13:26
  Speaker 1: to an end and that it's a little bit out grown.
• 13:28
  Speaker 1: I guess, and I guess in terms of like how
• 13:30
  Speaker 1: to let go of these people, but I think you
• 13:33
  Speaker 1: need to have that. I think it's all about the mindset. Yeah,
• 13:35
  Speaker 1: I think it's all about realizing that if you if
• 13:39
  Speaker 1: you are realizing how much effort you have to put
• 13:41
  Speaker 1: into the friendship, then you have realized that you've outgrown
• 13:45
  Speaker 1: it and that it's time for you to step aside
• 13:48
  Speaker 1: and put more energy towards the people that are actually,
• 13:51
  Speaker 1: you know, wanting to do the same things as you
• 13:53
  Speaker 1: and wanting to actually spend time with you.
• 13:55
  Speaker 4: Right.
• 13:55
  Speaker 1: I think there also is a sign of, like, you know,
• 13:57
  Speaker 1: if the person's not reaching out to you and you're
• 13:59
  Speaker 1: making effort, there's way like if.
• 14:02
  Speaker 4: If you feel, let's say that you're always the one
• 14:05
  Speaker 4: reaching out and trying to make these plans and even
• 14:08
  Speaker 4: though you feel forced to because it's kind of the
• 14:10
  Speaker 4: relationships outgrown, maybe you can kind of take a step back, yeah,
• 14:14
  Speaker 4: and put your energy either towards yourself or towards those
• 14:18
  Speaker 4: other friendships that actually serve you.
• 14:21
  Speaker 3: That's kind of a way.
• 14:22
  Speaker 2: It's all about the mindset, it's all about the.
• 14:25
  Speaker 4: Kind of taking a step back the best way to
• 14:27
  Speaker 4: go about it.
• 14:28
  Speaker 2: I agree.
• 14:29
  Speaker 1: The next question is how to survive long distance friendships
• 14:32
  Speaker 1: besties who live in different states and how so. I
• 14:36
  Speaker 1: have a girlfriend that does not live here, which you
• 14:38
  Speaker 1: guys know trend. She lives in Vancouver, which is literally
• 14:41
  Speaker 1: on the other side of Canada. When I say other side,
• 14:43
  Speaker 1: I'm talking the other side, like like five five hour flight,
• 14:47
  Speaker 1: like no way of driving there, and definitely find that
• 14:51
  Speaker 1: it's hard to obviously like not see her as much,
• 14:53
  Speaker 1: and like, of course, I think our dream would be
• 14:55
  Speaker 1: to live in the same city or the same even
• 14:58
  Speaker 1: the same province would have been nice because then at
• 15:00
  Speaker 1: least we'd be like somewhat driving distance from each other.
• 15:03
  Speaker 1: But I think how to survive a long distance friendship,
• 15:05
  Speaker 1: I think as long as you guys are both putting
• 15:07
  Speaker 1: in the effort to constantly create communication is so important,
• 15:11
  Speaker 1: Like FaceTime, facetiming, I say, time as much as we
• 15:14
  Speaker 1: probably FaceTime, I would say once every three weeks, we'll
• 15:17
  Speaker 1: reach out saying, hey, how are you?
• 15:19
  Speaker 2: How are they? Catch up?
• 15:20
  Speaker 1: Well, literally plan a date. We'll be like, okay, when
• 15:22
  Speaker 1: do you want to FaceTime this week? Or when do
• 15:24
  Speaker 1: you want to FaceTime next week? Like, let's set a date, okay, Thursday,
• 15:26
  Speaker 1: this day, okay, perfect. We will dedicate like an hour
• 15:29
  Speaker 1: or two of our time and we will just literally
• 15:31
  Speaker 1: sit there and talk for hours and just catch up.
• 15:34
  Speaker 1: And that right there makes me feel good with the
• 15:36
  Speaker 1: friendship because I'm like, okay, we both have dedicated time
• 15:39
  Speaker 1: out of our day to hear about what's going on
• 15:42
  Speaker 1: with our life, you know, just having that mini catchup,
• 15:44
  Speaker 1: it just kind of proves to each other that we're
• 15:46
  Speaker 1: both putting in the effort in this long distance friendship
• 15:49
  Speaker 1: and we both want to continue our friendship. And that's
• 15:51
  Speaker 1: how we're making the effort by setting up those little
• 15:54
  Speaker 1: calls and content communication.
• 15:57
  Speaker 4: You know, to follow up with that which you've done,
• 16:00
  Speaker 4: which is like setting up trips to.
• 16:02
  Speaker 2: Go see each other.
• 16:02
  Speaker 4: Yeah right, Yeah, that's really really important. I think in
• 16:07
  Speaker 4: a long distance friendship is making sure you are still
• 16:11
  Speaker 4: making the effort to see each other on both ends,
• 16:13
  Speaker 4: like it obviously can't be one sided, you know, like
• 16:16
  Speaker 4: both making the effort to be like, oh, hey, like
• 16:19
  Speaker 4: you come see me or I come see you like
• 16:22
  Speaker 4: you know, so I think that is another.
• 16:26
  Speaker 1: Big thing to face thing for sure. Yeah, I definitely
• 16:29
  Speaker 1: want to do that with Trent. We've definitely have been
• 16:32
  Speaker 1: wanting to like book a little time together. Do you
• 16:34
  Speaker 1: have I don't know if we have long distance friend
• 16:36
  Speaker 1: to you, I don't have any like very very close
• 16:39
  Speaker 1: like Montreal, Like, well, yeah, I have some friends that
• 16:41
  Speaker 1: live like two hours away.
• 16:43
  Speaker 4: I have some friends, like I have a few friends
• 16:45
  Speaker 4: in Toronto or in Montreal, that I've gone to visit.
• 16:48
  Speaker 4: I have one friend who I've gone to visit twice now.
• 16:51
  Speaker 4: I went for her birthday, did a little girl's trip
• 16:54
  Speaker 4: with my other friends to go see her in Montreal.
• 16:57
  Speaker 1: One of the guys both make the effort, which is good,
• 16:59
  Speaker 1: like she'll come here for things'll.
• 17:01
  Speaker 4: So she actually I went to Montreal for her birthday,
• 17:05
  Speaker 4: and then she came to Ottawa for my birthday and
• 17:08
  Speaker 4: specifically made the trip out to come for my birthday,
• 17:11
  Speaker 4: which was so sweet.
• 17:12
  Speaker 3: So yeah, like I said, it's always got to be like.
• 17:14
  Speaker 4: Two sided, where you know, I wanted to go see
• 17:17
  Speaker 4: her just as much as she wanted to come see me.
• 17:21
  Speaker 4: One of my actual like best childhood friends maybe moving
• 17:25
  Speaker 4: to Vancouver, which.
• 17:26
  Speaker 1: I'm like so depressed about it, yeah, which is so hard,
• 17:29
  Speaker 1: really hard.
• 17:30
  Speaker 4: But I know, because we're just such good friends, I
• 17:33
  Speaker 4: know we're gonna make it work. And she's already like
• 17:36
  Speaker 4: talking about me coming to see her, like you know,
• 17:38
  Speaker 4: so I think just the way to survive it is
• 17:42
  Speaker 4: making those plans to see each other, you know, knowing
• 17:45
  Speaker 4: that it's like you have a set time of when
• 17:48
  Speaker 4: you're gonna see each other, right, like it's not forever
• 17:51
  Speaker 4: like you're never gonna not see each other again, like
• 17:54
  Speaker 4: as long as you have that plan, like oh, three
• 17:56
  Speaker 4: more weeks or whatever the time is until I get
• 17:58
  Speaker 4: to see them. And so making the time to have
• 18:02
  Speaker 4: those spacetime calls or phone calls h and always kind
• 18:05
  Speaker 4: of like checking in with each other I think is
• 18:07
  Speaker 4: the best way to.
• 18:08
  Speaker 2: Kind of survive a long distance friendship.
• 18:11
  Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, the next question is friendship is a big
• 18:13
  Speaker 1: thing for me, and I find it's hard to find
• 18:15
  Speaker 1: people that like my vibe. Okay, hear me out. This
• 18:18
  Speaker 1: is something that I could relate to so hard right now,
• 18:21
  Speaker 1: because I think as I've aged, I've obviously become like
• 18:26
  Speaker 1: very much still in the health and wellness space, like
• 18:29
  Speaker 1: love to go to my workout classes all that, and
• 18:32
  Speaker 1: I'm telling you right now, none of my friends, I
• 18:34
  Speaker 1: want to say none, Okay, maybe not none. I want
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: to say, like twenty percent of my friends do workout
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: classes as well, but it's not the same kind of
• 18:40
  Speaker 1: workouts that I like. So yeah, you know, they go
• 18:42
  Speaker 1: to the gym or they do like a lot of
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: heavy lifting, whereas for me, like I'm not really into that.
• 18:47
  Speaker 1: I'm more into like pilates, cardio, more lightweight workouts kind
• 18:51
  Speaker 1: of thing. So you know, the odd time will like
• 18:53
  Speaker 1: invite friends like, oh you should come do this with me,
• 18:55
  Speaker 1: like come try it out, whatever, And sometimes my friends
• 18:57
  Speaker 1: will come, sometimes.
• 18:58
  Speaker 2: They don't whatever.
• 18:59
  Speaker 1: So I had a really hard time because I feel
• 19:01
  Speaker 1: like when you obviously work out with friends, it makes
• 19:04
  Speaker 1: it a little bit more fun or like with your
• 19:06
  Speaker 1: sister or whatever, right, so and like less intimidating, Yeah,
• 19:10
  Speaker 1: who doesn't really, especially when you want to try new workouts.
• 19:13
  Speaker 1: It's you know, less intimidating to go with a friend
• 19:16
  Speaker 1: versus by yourself, and like going into a class that
• 19:18
  Speaker 1: you don't really know what to expect.
• 19:19
  Speaker 4: Right.
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: So I have been going to plots now for almost
• 19:22
  Speaker 1: two years, and I've finally met friends through the class,
• 19:25
  Speaker 1: and now we literally arrange our workout classes to be
• 19:29
  Speaker 1: the same classes throughout the week, which is so fun.
• 19:31
  Speaker 1: So I was able to make friends within something that
• 19:35
  Speaker 1: I actually enjoy doing, which is Pilate's And now I've
• 19:38
  Speaker 1: found people who have the same but vibes me where
• 19:41
  Speaker 1: we can actually start arranging things around our schedules to
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: accommodate doing something fun together. So it makes you realize
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: that you can have friends for different things and different reasons,
• 19:51
  Speaker 1: like you.
• 19:51
  Speaker 4: Can still have friends who may not like the same things,
• 19:57
  Speaker 4: and you know, I think finding those things that you
• 20:01
  Speaker 4: like and doing those things, and you know, it's it's
• 20:04
  Speaker 4: always a little intimidating going to like a workout class
• 20:07
  Speaker 4: by yourself and then trying to talk to somebody. But
• 20:10
  Speaker 4: trust me, I'm sure whoever you may be, you may
• 20:15
  Speaker 4: see somebody you're like, oh, I really like her vibe.
• 20:17
  Speaker 3: I feel like I could be friends with you.
• 20:19
  Speaker 4: Nine times out of ten they probably are in the
• 20:22
  Speaker 4: exact same boats.
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: One hundred percent. So and let's be honest, like, you
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: can never have too many friends exactly. You need friends
• 20:29
  Speaker 1: for different reasons. Like think about you growing up. You
• 20:31
  Speaker 1: had friends with your sports, you had friends at high school,
• 20:34
  Speaker 1: you had friends maybe if you did dance, Like you
• 20:36
  Speaker 1: had friends for different reasons all the time. So as
• 20:39
  Speaker 1: you age and as you become an adult, you can
• 20:41
  Speaker 1: think of it in the same type of format where
• 20:42
  Speaker 1: it's like you have friends that you know, you've been
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: friends with forever, and you make the effort of doing hangouts,
• 20:47
  Speaker 1: you know, at nights and just chill time or walks
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: or workout classes, like it could all be for different things.
• 20:53
  Speaker 2: So I think the moral of the.
• 20:54
  Speaker 1: Story is that you can never have too many friends,
• 20:57
  Speaker 1: and that if you've been wanting to find friends that
• 20:59
  Speaker 1: match your vibe and you want to make the effort
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: of making friends, it's all about talking to people seeing
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: if they fit your vibe. And yeah, even reaching out
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: on social media is also a great way of meeting
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: new friends or just like seeing if they fit your vibe.
• 21:12
  Speaker 1: Another topic that we got asked a lot about was
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: career advice. So we're going to talk about some questions
• 21:17
  Speaker 1: here that we had about that. The first big question
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: that I think we got a lot of was how
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: did you decide your job after college. I'm a sophomore
• 21:25
  Speaker 1: and I'm a bit stressed about figuring out what you
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: want to do. First off, do not stress about being
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: finished school and trying to figure out your life right
• 21:32
  Speaker 1: after that, because I think everybody has this mindset where
• 21:36
  Speaker 1: they need to figure their shit out the first year
• 21:38
  Speaker 1: after college. Oh my goodness, guys, please do not stress
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: that out because usually I would say, you're done college
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: and university. You're on like twenty three, twenty four. You're
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: still so young to not realize what you want to do.
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: If you're you know, going down the doctor route or
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: if you're going down the teacher route or whatever, like
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: you kind of had that vision of what you want
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: to do, right, you know, like.
• 21:57
  Speaker 3: The set plan, the pathway.
• 21:59
  Speaker 2: Of getting there and all that.
• 22:00
  Speaker 1: Whereas if you went to business like me, you could
• 22:03
  Speaker 1: really do anything. You could get into sales, you can
• 22:05
  Speaker 1: get into marketing, you can go down the accounting.
• 22:07
  Speaker 2: Route, like, there's so many things that you can do.
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: So for me, when I think about myself, when I
• 22:12
  Speaker 1: just got out of college, I was so lost, like
• 22:15
  Speaker 1: I had.
• 22:15
  Speaker 2: No idea what the fuck I was doing.
• 22:16
  Speaker 1: I'm not even never exaggerating, like I didn't even know
• 22:19
  Speaker 1: where to apply.
• 22:20
  Speaker 2: I didn't even know what I.
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: Was going to Like, So I actually started working for
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: this health and wellness company, and I actually started to
• 22:26
  Speaker 1: work in all departments. Like I literally was thrown in
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: every type of situation, which I really liked and I
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: was very grateful for because it made me realize what.
• 22:36
  Speaker 2: You know, I actually liked in what I didn't like.
• 22:38
  Speaker 1: Right, So, in the beginning, I was kind of doing
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: like the buyer sense, where I was actually purchasing products
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: from vendors to sell at the store. So I was
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: doing that for about six months. You know, it's kind
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: of fun to like online shop, yeah, online shop essentially,
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: and it's kind of like you feel like you're a
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: stylus in a way, right because like you're picking things,
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: you know, for certain collections like fall, summer all that.
• 23:00
  Speaker 2: And it's not like I didn't like it.
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: I just think what I didn't love is like a
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: corporate job in general. To be fully transparent, like I
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: didn't love sitting at a computer. Everyone, it's not for everyone.
• 23:09
  Speaker 1: I didn't love sitting at a computer for nine to five, Like,
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: I just it wasn't my obsession, Like I just I
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: didn't love it. And so I've always had this passion
• 23:18
  Speaker 1: for marketing. I would say, like I really have always
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: loved creating videos, creating photos, editing, So you know, I
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: kind of had this mindset. I'm like, oh, hey, maybe
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: I'll be a graphic designer or maybe I'll own my
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: own business one day. I really had this vision of
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: owning my own business since I was like I don't know,
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: like twenty two.
• 23:33
  Speaker 2: Remember I wanted to start a bikini line one time.
• 23:36
  Speaker 2: Like I just have always had this motivation of starting
• 23:38
  Speaker 2: something on my on my own right.
• 23:40
  Speaker 1: And then when social media became such a big thing,
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: I didn't think it was honestly going to be my career,
• 23:45
  Speaker 1: but I was like, you know what, I'm just going
• 23:47
  Speaker 1: to start.
• 23:47
  Speaker 2: Doing this and see what comes out of it.
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: And then when I figured out that it could actually
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: be a career of mine, that's when I realized that,
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: oh crap, like this is what I want to do,
• 23:56
  Speaker 1: Like I want this to be my full time thing.
• 23:57
  Speaker 1: I love it. I feel like it's something that I'm
• 24:00
  Speaker 1: super passionate about.
• 24:01
  Speaker 2: And just being able.
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: To like film videos and do some marketing for brands
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: and being able to promote their products, like it just
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: felt like the right path. And I think that's also
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: a sign of when you start to realize what you're
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: good at and what feels you, then you become more
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: obsessed with your job and you actually like are motivated.
• 24:18
  Speaker 2: To because never become a job anymore, no, exactly passion.
• 24:23
  Speaker 2: It's your passion.
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: And then you just when you're when you love your
• 24:26
  Speaker 1: passion so much, you become very good at it and
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: then you just don't want to stop, like you like
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: you just become you become obsessed, and then you realize
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: that Okay, if you're obsessed with this, then you know
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: that this is what's going to bring you through the
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: right career path and such. So I think the moral
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: of the story is is that don't stress about not.
• 24:44
  Speaker 2: Knowing what you'd want to do. Just explore everything.
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: Try different things, you know, if you decided to go
• 24:49
  Speaker 1: down the business route in school, try to apply maybe
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: for different things, trying out different you know, sectors of
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: the business world, and then you kind of realize what
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: you enjoy and then that makes you realize what path
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: you need to go down. And again you might be
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: at two to three, maybe four different jobs within that timeframe, right, Like,
• 25:08
  Speaker 1: don't say please, do not stay in a spot if
• 25:10
  Speaker 1: you're not enjoying it. Like, I really can't stress that enough.
• 25:12
  Speaker 1: I do think loving your job is something that allows
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: or to realize how much how important it is because
• 25:19
  Speaker 1: it really does like play out on how it affects you,
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: how your mental health is, and how you feel in general.
• 25:24
  Speaker 4: So I feel like this is such a good question
• 25:28
  Speaker 4: for me to kind of touch on because this is
• 25:30
  Speaker 4: something I'm still figuring out, true because I just finished
• 25:35
  Speaker 4: my masters and I don't have my full time career
• 25:40
  Speaker 4: job yet. And I'm still figuring that out, and I've
• 25:43
  Speaker 4: had mental breakdowns.
• 25:44
  Speaker 3: Like you can ask Sally.
• 25:46
  Speaker 4: I've gone to her and I've had a mental breakdown,
• 25:48
  Speaker 4: and I'm being the big sister saying it's okay, you're
• 25:50
  Speaker 4: going to figure it out. And I think that's like
• 25:53
  Speaker 4: the best advice I can give is to almost just
• 25:58
  Speaker 4: accept the fact that you're going to figure it out,
• 26:02
  Speaker 4: like just really focus on that and also kind of
• 26:07
  Speaker 4: enjoy it. Like I feel like I've gotten a lot
• 26:10
  Speaker 4: of advice from my friends that I feel like has
• 26:14
  Speaker 4: really helped.
• 26:15
  Speaker 3: Where.
• 26:16
  Speaker 4: You know, I've been in school since like back to back,
• 26:20
  Speaker 4: Like I never really took a break in between. Like
• 26:23
  Speaker 4: I went from straight from high school to my undergrad
• 26:26
  Speaker 4: and then pretty much right for my undergrad into my master's.
• 26:30
  Speaker 4: So I never really took a break, And so a
• 26:33
  Speaker 4: lot of my friends are like, just enjoy it.
• 26:35
  Speaker 3: I feel really blessed and lucky that I get.
• 26:37
  Speaker 4: To kind of take this time to actually figure out, Okay,
• 26:42
  Speaker 4: what is it that.
• 26:43
  Speaker 2: I want to do.
• 26:44
  Speaker 4: And so I've been obviously job searching and applying to
• 26:48
  Speaker 4: all these jobs, and I think through that process it's
• 26:51
  Speaker 4: really helped me realize the career path I want to take.
• 26:56
  Speaker 4: Like I will say that through job searching, I have
• 27:00
  Speaker 4: looked at complete opposite of jobs and career paths, and
• 27:04
  Speaker 4: yet they all still apply to me in a way.
• 27:07
  Speaker 4: They're just so different because I'm still figuring it out,
• 27:10
  Speaker 4: like I still.
• 27:10
  Speaker 3: Don't know what I want to do. If anything.
• 27:13
  Speaker 4: It's funny, I recently actually had an interview for this one.
• 27:18
  Speaker 2: Job, and you thought it was going to go good.
• 27:20
  Speaker 3: I thought it was gonna go great.
• 27:22
  Speaker 4: I was like I was going into it thinking like, oh,
• 27:25
  Speaker 4: this is this is gonna be my job. Like I
• 27:27
  Speaker 4: really was very passionate about it. And I got to
• 27:31
  Speaker 4: the interview and it was so different from what I
• 27:35
  Speaker 4: had expected, and it made me realize, Okay, this is
• 27:39
  Speaker 4: a position now I'm avoiding, Like I don't.
• 27:41
  Speaker 3: I don't want that position.
• 27:42
  Speaker 2: You can avoid that exactly.
• 27:45
  Speaker 4: So Yeah, I think my best advice to give is
• 27:48
  Speaker 4: to just, you know, don't be so stressed all the
• 27:51
  Speaker 4: time about trying to find a job, and you know,
• 27:54
  Speaker 4: seeing that everyone has their shit figured out, just be
• 27:57
  Speaker 4: okay with and just be accepting of the fact that,
• 28:02
  Speaker 4: like you're figuring it out and that's okay, and enjoy it.
• 28:05
  Speaker 4: Enjoy figuring it out, Like, be happy that you get
• 28:09
  Speaker 4: to choose your path right now and you get to
• 28:12
  Speaker 4: figure it out. I think that would be the best
• 28:15
  Speaker 4: advice I can give.
• 28:16
  Speaker 1: I think another advice that I'd like to add on
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: to your point is also realizing what's meant to be
• 28:21
  Speaker 1: versus what's not, because I think what's another thing that
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: people are stressing about is they're going into these interviews thinking, oh,
• 28:27
  Speaker 1: this is the perfect job, like I know it's from me.
• 28:29
  Speaker 2: I know it's from me. And then you don't get
• 28:31
  Speaker 2: the job.
• 28:32
  Speaker 1: Just know that it's a sign to tell you that
• 28:34
  Speaker 1: this wasn't meant for you, like exactly, take it as
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: a sign, don't take it as a negative. And if
• 28:39
  Speaker 1: anything allowed that to be your motivation to keep going
• 28:42
  Speaker 1: and find that dream job, it just means that there's
• 28:45
  Speaker 1: something better that's coming for you and that you really
• 28:47
  Speaker 1: just need to have that mindset when you are looking
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: for the right career.
• 28:50
  Speaker 4: Have that mindset, the same mindset you would have when
• 28:53
  Speaker 4: it comes to relationships. You know, the saying like there's
• 28:56
  Speaker 4: there's so many fish in the sea, Well it applies
• 28:59
  Speaker 4: to too. Just because you don't get that one job
• 29:03
  Speaker 4: that you thought was your perfect career job, your perfect
• 29:07
  Speaker 4: dream job, Like that's okay, there's gonna be other jobs
• 29:11
  Speaker 4: out there that are probably more perfect for you.
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: That are kind of open up and exactly realized. I'm
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: so happy I didn't get that other job because it
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: allowed me to get to this point now actually getting there.
• 29:22
  Speaker 4: I feel like also as somebody who's kind of going
• 29:24
  Speaker 4: through the job search and interview process right now, it
• 29:27
  Speaker 4: honestly makes it way less nerve wracking when you're going
• 29:32
  Speaker 4: into an interview where you're like, Okay, this is it's
• 29:36
  Speaker 4: not the end of the world if I don't get
• 29:37
  Speaker 4: this job, And honestly, I feel like I do better
• 29:40
  Speaker 4: in the interview because I'm not overly anxious and I'm
• 29:43
  Speaker 4: not like desperate, like oh my god, I need this job,
• 29:46
  Speaker 4: where like everything's like nothing's going to work out. And
• 29:50
  Speaker 4: I honestly feel like it's helped doing that, Like I
• 29:52
  Speaker 4: feel way more chill in an interview and like way
• 29:55
  Speaker 4: less stress knowing like, Okay, it's not the end of
• 29:57
  Speaker 4: the world if I don't.
• 29:59
  Speaker 1: Get this job, and I think it just as you said,
• 30:01
  Speaker 1: it allows you to kind of like take your time
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: and search and it just makes you realize, like what
• 30:05
  Speaker 1: ones you can apply for that you're actually extremely interested
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: in and not feel the stress of like I need
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: to get something right now.
• 30:11
  Speaker 4: Yeah, instead of being stressed, honestly, just enjoy it because
• 30:14
  Speaker 4: it is a fun time in your.
• 30:16
  Speaker 2: Life figure out, Oh my god, and also just like
• 30:18
  Speaker 2: so exciting. Let's think about this.
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: You I see so many tiktoks about this, but you
• 30:22
  Speaker 1: were only able to live the one age once in
• 30:25
  Speaker 1: your life, essentially, right. So it's like people always talk
• 30:27
  Speaker 1: about how being in your twenties and thirties are the
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: best years of your life. So when you do have
• 30:33
  Speaker 1: that break and you don't have the stress of having
• 30:35
  Speaker 1: a kid's or a family or a mortgage to worry about, like, truly,
• 30:39
  Speaker 1: just enjoy that essentially stress free life because your life
• 30:43
  Speaker 1: doesn't get stressful until you have more responsibility like that, right,
• 30:46
  Speaker 1: So truly, just enjoy the best years of your life
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: and not stress and realize that the good things will
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: be coming and that the right job will come at
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: the right time and you'll realize when it does come.
• 30:58
  Speaker 2: Yeah, all right.
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: The next one is all about adulting, so advice just about.
• 31:02
  Speaker 2: Like living alone, just growing up, being in your mid
• 31:05
  Speaker 2: twenties all that.
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: So the first question we had was living alone for
• 31:09
  Speaker 1: the first time, How do you deal with it? How
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: did you kind of like overcome the fear? Essentially, And
• 31:16
  Speaker 1: I personally, I guess didn't have that experience because I
• 31:19
  Speaker 1: moved in with Zach, but essentially, like I am living
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: alone because when Zach does travel and all that, I
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: do have to be independent and essentially, let's be.
• 31:27
  Speaker 3: Honest, she asks me to come over, that's a solution.
• 31:31
  Speaker 2: No, don't even I'm an independent woman. I don't need
• 31:33
  Speaker 2: you guys always here.
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: But I do actually cherish my alone time now, like
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: when Zach is a way I do actually like, yeah,
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: you haven't actually asked me recently to come home? No,
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: because I think as you age you kind of realize
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: like how much you cherish the times alone, and then.
• 31:50
  Speaker 2: You get to a point where you want people. But
• 31:52
  Speaker 2: then there's like you need like a bit of a mixing,
• 31:55
  Speaker 2: but a social medi also need. And then when you die,
• 31:57
  Speaker 2: there's a serial killer in the closet. Then actually, know what,
• 32:00
  Speaker 2: I have been good?
• 32:01
  Speaker 1: Maybe it's because I watch less horror movies lately, but yeah,
• 32:04
  Speaker 1: I haven't had.
• 32:06
  Speaker 4: Honestly, like, living alone can be really, really scary. Especially
• 32:10
  Speaker 4: if you're somebody who has always like lived with their parents.
• 32:15
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I've been close to home.
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: But I think in general, leaving your house, like leaving
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: your family home and leaving your parents is freaking weird,
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: let's be honest, Like it's so. I remember the first
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: like month of me moving out, I felt like I
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: was constantly at my parents' house, Like on the weekends,
• 32:31
  Speaker 1: I'd be like, oh, yeah, like I'm just coming over
• 32:32
  Speaker 1: for a pool there, you know what I mean. Like
• 32:34
  Speaker 1: I didn't really like, yeah, sure, moving out with your
• 32:37
  Speaker 1: boyfriend or husban or friend whatever it is like roommates.
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: You know, it's it's fun.
• 32:42
  Speaker 2: The idea is exciting and it's exciting.
• 32:44
  Speaker 1: But then when you're doing it, sometimes you kind of realize,
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: oh wait, but I kind of like miss being with
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: my family because you realize there's so much responsibility when
• 32:53
  Speaker 1: you live alone, right, Like there's so many.
• 32:55
  Speaker 2: Things that you don't think about, like cleaning up a house.
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: You know, Oh, now you have a mortgage to figure out,
• 33:01
  Speaker 1: a rent that you have to pay, and it becomes
• 33:03
  Speaker 1: obviously something that could be stressful because now you're really
• 33:06
  Speaker 1: just doing everything yourself and you're not getting the help
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: essentially from your family to help support you. And of
• 33:12
  Speaker 1: course your parents are always going to find ways to
• 33:14
  Speaker 1: support you in different ways.
• 33:15
  Speaker 2: But at the end of the.
• 33:16
  Speaker 1: Day, like you do have to build confidence in yourself
• 33:19
  Speaker 1: to be able to do things alone. And that's why
• 33:21
  Speaker 1: parents push you to live alone and be out of
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: the house and realize your independence and like the responsibility
• 33:27
  Speaker 1: of just yeah, being alone.
• 33:29
  Speaker 4: And I think like the best advice I could give
• 33:34
  Speaker 4: for that is, like, I mean I've never like truly
• 33:39
  Speaker 4: lived alone, so I can't really say from like full
• 33:42
  Speaker 4: personal experience, like I've had roommates, but just like seeing
• 33:46
  Speaker 4: like Kaylee kind of navigating it. I think the best
• 33:50
  Speaker 4: advice like, if you are close to home, make those
• 33:53
  Speaker 4: trips home when you need and you're having a hard day,
• 33:56
  Speaker 4: it's okay to like go back home, Like that's totally okay.
• 34:00
  Speaker 4: So if you can do that, great, like take advantage
• 34:03
  Speaker 4: of that because I think, you know, kind of being
• 34:06
  Speaker 4: back with your family kind of like makes you feel
• 34:10
  Speaker 4: it makes you feel good, yeah, like, and I think
• 34:12
  Speaker 4: that kind of helps the process, and yeah, that's part
• 34:15
  Speaker 4: of the process.
• 34:15
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I think in the beginning, it's it's a massive adjustment,
• 34:19
  Speaker 1: like it's never gonna fully you're not gonna move out
• 34:21
  Speaker 1: and be like yep, I'm gonna have my ship figured
• 34:23
  Speaker 1: out like no one. And I mean if they think
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: that's the case, I mean, that's shocking to me. But yeah, regardless,
• 34:28
  Speaker 1: I think you're always gonna feel a little weird the
• 34:31
  Speaker 1: first few months when you do move out and kind
• 34:33
  Speaker 1: of have this sense of missing your family and your
• 34:35
  Speaker 1: home and all that sudden, but you do end up
• 34:39
  Speaker 1: like building confidence in a way. Once you start to
• 34:41
  Speaker 1: live alone for a bit, you you realize, okay, you
• 34:45
  Speaker 1: almost like there's like this switch in your mind where
• 34:47
  Speaker 1: it's like, Okay, I need.
• 34:48
  Speaker 2: To be independent, like I need to figure shit out myself.
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: And that's how you kind of create an adulthood of
• 34:53
  Speaker 1: yourself by and going through the adulting phase of like Okay,
• 34:57
  Speaker 1: I can do this shit myself, like.
• 34:59
  Speaker 2: You just putting yourself in that site.
• 35:00
  Speaker 4: I think there's gonna probably be days that are harder
• 35:03
  Speaker 4: than others, and there's gonna be days that are better
• 35:06
  Speaker 4: than others. You know, maybe creating like a schedule or
• 35:10
  Speaker 4: like making a plan, like Okay, let's say you're feeling
• 35:13
  Speaker 4: overwhelmed with like how much cleaning you need to do
• 35:16
  Speaker 4: or whatever the case may be. Like writing that down
• 35:19
  Speaker 4: to plan everything out, I think would be really beneficial.
• 35:22
  Speaker 4: And also keeping yourself busy, like I know for me,
• 35:26
  Speaker 4: like when I'm like feeling like anxious or like stressed
• 35:31
  Speaker 4: or whatever.
• 35:32
  Speaker 1: The case may be, there's always something to distract yourself. Now,
• 35:35
  Speaker 1: there's always something fully Like especially.
• 35:37
  Speaker 4: Living alone, you can find something clean the bathroom, like, figure's.
• 35:40
  Speaker 2: Something higher house.
• 35:41
  Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe do some meal prepping, do some baking, go
• 35:44
  Speaker 1: to the grocery store, Go to the grocery store.
• 35:46
  Speaker 2: You could do so many things. Like literally, I feel
• 35:49
  Speaker 2: like I actually like have a hard time.
• 35:51
  Speaker 4: And your body will like adjust, Like I'm somebody who
• 35:55
  Speaker 4: absolutely hates change, Like I absolutely hate it, but change
• 35:59
  Speaker 4: in life, life is inevitable. Like yeah, you can't like
• 36:02
  Speaker 4: avoid it, like that's gonna happen. It didn't happen, and
• 36:05
  Speaker 4: it's probably gonna be hard for the first few weeks.
• 36:08
  Speaker 4: Your body is just you know, not used to it.
• 36:10
  Speaker 4: But trust me, you will adjust and it will always
• 36:15
  Speaker 4: get better.
• 36:16
  Speaker 1: It's never I actually was gonna say, like there's so
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: much responsibility for a house in general and living alone
• 36:21
  Speaker 1: that sometimes I have a hard time actually like going
• 36:23
  Speaker 1: to see friends and all that because I realize how
• 36:25
  Speaker 1: much that has to get done in the house.
• 36:27
  Speaker 2: And things that I have to do.
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: So yeah, just know that living alone is amazing, Like
• 36:32
  Speaker 1: it truly is, and I think.
• 36:33
  Speaker 3: It probably figure out a lot about yourself.
• 36:36
  Speaker 1: I was just about to say that you figure out
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: so much, You learn so much about yourself and it
• 36:39
  Speaker 1: makes you realize, like how it's one of the best
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: things you could ever go through as.
• 36:43
  Speaker 3: I feel like you're more productive too.
• 36:45
  Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, because like me being somebody who lives at home, like, oh, well,
• 36:49
  Speaker 4: my mom can do my laundry, oh my.
• 36:51
  Speaker 2: Mom, yeah, cook me dinner, And when you're living alone,
• 36:53
  Speaker 2: it's like, oh, I.
• 36:54
  Speaker 3: Don't have to do that.
• 36:55
  Speaker 2: Well I don't have I don't have a butler. Yeah,
• 36:58
  Speaker 2: I don't have a nanny, hires myself.
• 37:02
  Speaker 1: No, it's and it's truly like like the most rewarding
• 37:05
  Speaker 1: thing too, just like knowing that you're able to do
• 37:07
  Speaker 1: these things yourself, like cooking for your good I bet.
• 37:10
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it does feel really good. Okay.
• 37:12
  Speaker 1: The next question we had about adulting is what to
• 37:15
  Speaker 1: prioritize in your mid twenties. Is it your career, is
• 37:17
  Speaker 1: it your relationship with maybe your boyfriend or is it traveling.
• 37:22
  Speaker 2: I mean, I think it's all the above.
• 37:25
  Speaker 4: Well, I think this is kind of a hard question
• 37:28
  Speaker 4: to talk about because I think it's very specific to
• 37:31
  Speaker 4: eat a person like somebody may be there may be
• 37:35
  Speaker 4: a person out there who's like very very adventurous and yeah,
• 37:39
  Speaker 4: they want to prioritize in their twenties, is visiting as
• 37:43
  Speaker 4: many countries as possible, whereas another person, like for example, me,
• 37:48
  Speaker 4: may have flight anxiety. Yeah it is perfectly okay with
• 37:51
  Speaker 4: stay put on the ground.
• 37:52
  Speaker 1: And then you realize that your prioritize is more my
• 37:55
  Speaker 1: career right Like.
• 37:57
  Speaker 4: I think my biggest priority right now would be my
• 38:01
  Speaker 4: career and finding my passion. And I think navigating, Like
• 38:06
  Speaker 4: if you are trying to navigate focusing on your career,
• 38:10
  Speaker 4: focusing on a relationship, but still also wanting to be
• 38:14
  Speaker 4: adventurous in travel, it is hard to prioritize all three
• 38:18
  Speaker 4: and trying to figure out like what to prioritize first,
• 38:22
  Speaker 4: I think is going to be different for everyone. And
• 38:24
  Speaker 4: I think you need to sit down with yourself and realize, Okay,
• 38:28
  Speaker 4: like where do I want, like what makes me the
• 38:32
  Speaker 4: most happy and where do I want to kind of
• 38:35
  Speaker 4: like put my time towards because it is possible to
• 38:39
  Speaker 4: do all. It's just about you know, figuring out and
• 38:44
  Speaker 4: trying it. Plan.
• 38:45
  Speaker 1: So this is what I want to touch here, because
• 38:47
  Speaker 1: this is why I talk about vision boards so much,
• 38:50
  Speaker 1: because your vision board really allows you to figure out
• 38:53
  Speaker 1: what your year has in store for you. Yeah, and
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: I like it's a mix of every Yeah, And let's
• 38:58
  Speaker 1: be honest, mid twent doesn't mean one age. Mid twenties
• 39:02
  Speaker 1: means like five to six ages, right, So you might
• 39:04
  Speaker 1: be thinking, Okay, when I'm twenty five and twenty six,
• 39:07
  Speaker 1: I really want to focus on traveling, right Like I
• 39:09
  Speaker 1: want to get my young years done of traveling to
• 39:12
  Speaker 1: as many different countries as I want. And then by
• 39:14
  Speaker 1: twenty six twenty seven, I really want to put the
• 39:16
  Speaker 1: career focus on me, focusing on.
• 39:18
  Speaker 2: My career, getting my shit and gear.
• 39:20
  Speaker 1: And maybe that's on top of also managing your relationship
• 39:23
  Speaker 1: or maybe you know you're not in a rush to
• 39:25
  Speaker 1: find a relationship. You're really just wanting to figure out
• 39:27
  Speaker 1: your career and traveling, and maybe you want a relationship.
• 39:30
  Speaker 4: I think also too, the best part about being in
• 39:34
  Speaker 4: a relationship, if you are in a relationship is essentially
• 39:38
  Speaker 4: doing life together.
• 39:40
  Speaker 1: So I was just about to say this, if you
• 39:41
  Speaker 1: want to travel, then travel with your partner.
• 39:44
  Speaker 2: Like, this is exactly what I had.
• 39:46
  Speaker 1: I did though, So when I was right after college,
• 39:49
  Speaker 1: I you know, worked for this company, was doing different
• 39:51
  Speaker 1: types of you know jobs in their business department. But
• 39:55
  Speaker 1: I wasn't really stressed about finding my career because I
• 39:58
  Speaker 1: was actually traveling alon with Zach at the time. We
• 40:02
  Speaker 1: would go to Europe, you know, visit all these different countries,
• 40:04
  Speaker 1: and I was banking all my vacation time to use
• 40:07
  Speaker 1: it towards trips with him, right, So we were making
• 40:10
  Speaker 1: our priority as a couple to do traveling together right exactly.
• 40:14
  Speaker 1: And then we both also kind of went through the
• 40:16
  Speaker 1: phase of you know, slowing down and realizing, Okay, now
• 40:20
  Speaker 1: we need to both kind of prioritize our careers. Let's
• 40:22
  Speaker 1: figure out out our ship. You figure out way and
• 40:24
  Speaker 1: figuring out what I'm doing.
• 40:25
  Speaker 4: Even with prioritizing your careers, if you're with the right person,
• 40:29
  Speaker 4: they're going to be your biggest cheer.
• 40:32
  Speaker 1: And that's when you know it's the right person because
• 40:34
  Speaker 1: you're doing it together and you want to you know,
• 40:37
  Speaker 1: there's things together right like.
• 40:40
  Speaker 4: You can still prioritize your career and still prioritize at
• 40:47
  Speaker 4: the same time your relationship because your partner should be
• 40:51
  Speaker 4: in full support of your career and it should also
• 40:55
  Speaker 4: be as much as it is your passion. They should
• 40:58
  Speaker 4: be passionate about how much you.
• 41:00
  Speaker 2: Love your job. If that makes any sense.
• 41:03
  Speaker 4: It does make with for example, Kayley and Zach, like
• 41:07
  Speaker 4: Zach is like you know, showing up and showing showing
• 41:11
  Speaker 4: in the videos, like making the time.
• 41:13
  Speaker 1: To nothing is for everything nothings like he wants to
• 41:17
  Speaker 1: be there. He knows your passion because he knows it's
• 41:20
  Speaker 1: my passion. And I mean I can't do the same
• 41:22
  Speaker 1: for his job unfortunately, because I'm actually goes and yeah,
• 41:26
  Speaker 1: I actually go to the construction site and you know,
• 41:29
  Speaker 1: I do my thing.
• 41:30
  Speaker 2: He actually has, you know, wanted me to show up
• 41:34
  Speaker 2: to the job. So you know what if there was
• 41:36
  Speaker 2: a time, yeah, she could show up, I was she would.
• 41:39
  Speaker 1: But you know what, you know what I would say
• 41:41
  Speaker 1: that I always do show up in terms of like
• 41:44
  Speaker 1: his career and like showing that I do care and
• 41:46
  Speaker 1: such is that when he's building stuff outside, for example,
• 41:49
  Speaker 1: you know, I'll ask questions about like oh, like you know,
• 41:52
  Speaker 1: if he's drilling something I don't. I don't know anything, right,
• 41:55
  Speaker 1: So I show I care by like asking questions and
• 41:58
  Speaker 1: kind of talk about his career because he's very passionate
• 42:01
  Speaker 1: about it obviously, And then you know what he does.
• 42:02
  Speaker 1: He sometimes here, yeah, I'll show you, like he kind
• 42:05
  Speaker 1: of shows me how to you know, I actually did
• 42:07
  Speaker 1: a few boards on the deck, not gonna lie, So
• 42:09
  Speaker 1: I did kind of participate in building the deck.
• 42:10
  Speaker 2: It was two boards, not.
• 42:11
  Speaker 1: Gonna, not gonna you know, well it's like times, but
• 42:15
  Speaker 1: I did do it. But he, you know, he tried
• 42:17
  Speaker 1: to get me involved, and I tried to show that
• 42:19
  Speaker 1: I cared by learning how to use a drill, how
• 42:22
  Speaker 1: to drill a board.
• 42:23
  Speaker 2: I mean, did I have to make that effort.
• 42:25
  Speaker 1: No, But because he puts so much effort in my career,
• 42:27
  Speaker 1: I wanted to like show up for.
• 42:28
  Speaker 2: Him and like exactly help him out.
• 42:30
  Speaker 4: It's the same too, like for example, with my relationship,
• 42:33
  Speaker 4: Like I don't fully understand what my boyfriend does as
• 42:36
  Speaker 4: a career, but I ask a lot of questions, and
• 42:38
  Speaker 4: like he appreciates when I ask these questions, and when
• 42:41
  Speaker 4: I want to be show, you know, more about it
• 42:45
  Speaker 4: and what he's doing because it shows that I care
• 42:48
  Speaker 4: and I love that it's his passion yea. And I
• 42:52
  Speaker 4: want to be there, right there with him to you know,
• 42:55
  Speaker 4: celebrate the little wins in his career when he gets
• 42:57
  Speaker 4: promoted or whatever you you.
• 43:00
  Speaker 3: Know, the case may be, I want for each other.
• 43:02
  Speaker 4: I'm getting excited because I feel like I'm right there
• 43:05
  Speaker 4: with him, and I know it's the same with me,
• 43:08
  Speaker 4: Like he's been really helping me with your job searching
• 43:11
  Speaker 4: and graduation.
• 43:12
  Speaker 3: I actually just I wrote.
• 43:14
  Speaker 4: A paper on my master's work and I just found
• 43:17
  Speaker 4: out this morning that my paper got accepted which is
• 43:20
  Speaker 4: going to be published, which is so exciting. And the
• 43:22
  Speaker 4: first thing he said to me was where can I
• 43:24
  Speaker 4: read it? Like he instantly wanted to read it. So yeah,
• 43:28
  Speaker 4: I feel like you know that question of like what
• 43:31
  Speaker 4: to prioritize in your mid twenties, knowing that like it
• 43:36
  Speaker 4: doesn't have to just be one thing, and it also,
• 43:40
  Speaker 4: like I said earlier, it may be different for everyone,
• 43:43
  Speaker 4: like everyone's going to have a difference.
• 43:45
  Speaker 1: But I think it's all about planning exactly.
• 43:47
  Speaker 4: Like if you are somebody who wants to prioritize everything,
• 43:50
  Speaker 4: plan it out, like Kaylee said, you know, maybe if
• 43:53
  Speaker 4: you want to travel to a bunch of countries, plan
• 43:56
  Speaker 4: out okay, at this age or in these months, like.
• 44:00
  Speaker 2: From January to March or whatever. Everyone's going to have
• 44:03
  Speaker 2: their own timeline.
• 44:04
  Speaker 1: Right in terms of like what stages they want certain
• 44:07
  Speaker 1: things to be a priority in different times in their life.
• 44:09
  Speaker 1: So this is why I stress the importance of vision
• 44:13
  Speaker 1: boards and like monthly goals and all that, because I
• 44:15
  Speaker 1: think you can't achieve all these things if you actually
• 44:19
  Speaker 1: like set yourself up for these small wins and like, and.
• 44:22
  Speaker 5: It shouldn't it shouldn't be stressful prioritize everything, like you
• 44:27
  Speaker 5: definitely can do it all and figure it out if
• 44:32
  Speaker 5: you know, you just kind of, like I guess, set
• 44:34
  Speaker 5: your mind to it.
• 44:35
  Speaker 1: Yeah, And financially, like you got to like think of
• 44:37
  Speaker 1: your finances, saving money and like all that.
• 44:41
  Speaker 2: You just it's all about creating a plan for yourself
• 44:43
  Speaker 2: and whatever works best for you.
• 44:44
  Speaker 4: Because what works best for you may not work best
• 44:47
  Speaker 4: for someone else, and that's okay. You figure out what
• 44:50
  Speaker 4: you need to prioritize. I feel like it's hard, especially
• 44:52
  Speaker 4: in your twenties, you compare yourself a lot to other people's,
• 44:56
  Speaker 4: Like you may see somebody who's traveling the whole world
• 44:58
  Speaker 4: and you're like, wait on, want to do that, but
• 45:00
  Speaker 4: that's not what's best for me, Yeah, in this right moment,
• 45:03
  Speaker 4: and that's okay. What somebody else may prioritize may not
• 45:06
  Speaker 4: be what you need to prioritize, and that's totally okay. So,
• 45:10
  Speaker 4: like Kiley said, making that vision board and figuring out
• 45:14
  Speaker 4: what you need to prioritize is the best way to go.
• 45:18
  Speaker 1: And I think it's okay to also understand that, Like
• 45:20
  Speaker 1: I think I'm sure you guys have heard from your
• 45:22
  Speaker 1: parents whether they'll be like, oh, if there was one
• 45:25
  Speaker 1: regret that I had from when I was living young,
• 45:27
  Speaker 1: was doing this and doing this, Like you also have
• 45:29
  Speaker 1: to understand that no one's life is perfect and then
• 45:31
  Speaker 1: everyone's always going to have something that they may have
• 45:34
  Speaker 1: regretted or whatever. And again never say never, right, these
• 45:38
  Speaker 1: things that your parents might regret, now, who knows, they
• 45:41
  Speaker 1: might be able to do it when they're in their
• 45:42
  Speaker 1: senior year in terms of like you know, when they've retired,
• 45:45
  Speaker 1: maybe they can travel more because they didn't travel enough
• 45:47
  Speaker 1: in their twenties. Now they can travel together as a
• 45:49
  Speaker 1: senior couple and doing cruises together or whatever the case be.
• 45:52
  Speaker 1: But so like never say never in terms of like
• 45:54
  Speaker 1: thinking that you have a timeframe of when you need
• 45:56
  Speaker 1: to complete things too, because like, not everyone's life is perfect.
• 46:00
  Speaker 2: That's not the reality.
• 46:01
  Speaker 1: Exact reality is is just like taking every year by
• 46:04
  Speaker 1: year a step by step process of just you know,
• 46:07
  Speaker 1: completing whatever you're prioritizing or whatever your goal is and
• 46:11
  Speaker 1: knowing that you can do all these things if you.
• 46:13
  Speaker 2: Plan it out in a timely manner.
• 46:16
  Speaker 1: Well, that concludes our episode for the day today. I
• 46:19
  Speaker 1: hope you guys enjoyed this episode. It definitely was very fun.
• 46:22
  Speaker 1: I think we both really enjoyed that and just answering some.
• 46:24
  Speaker 2: Of your questions.
• 46:25
  Speaker 1: If you guys loved this episode, definitely make sure to
• 46:28
  Speaker 1: post it on your Instagram story, tagging the Hawkgirl Energy
• 46:31
  Speaker 1: Instagram page. But I love you guys also much Thank
• 46:34
  Speaker 1: you guys for listening to another episode and we will
• 46:36
  Speaker 1: see you guys in next week's episode.