Latest / Why I Believe / Dr. Gabriel Warren: You're Never Too Far Gone
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- 0:01Hello and welcome back to Why I Believe.
- 0:03Today I have the honor of having Dr.
- 0:06Gabriel Warren join us.
- 0:07How are you today?
- 0:08Hey, I'm doing really good.
- 0:10Michelle, thanks for having me.
- 0:12Thanks for being here.
- 0:13Can you tell us a little bit about yourself?
- 0:16Yes, so a little bit about me.
- 0:18So I am from the great state of Sweet Home, Alabama.
- 0:23Born and raised.
- 0:25I lived there my entire life until 2017 when my family and I took the leap and we moved from Alabama up to Northern Minnesota for a career opportunity that I had.
- 0:43But along the way there, so I know I skipped a lot.
- 0:46I graduated from high school, I was able to be a scholarship athlete to attend the University of Alabama in high jump.
- 0:56So I competed four years at the University of Alabama and after that I got into working in corporate, did that for a number of years and then along the way I went back to school and
- 1:08was able to finally pivot to be able to get into higher education full time.
- 1:15in 2017.
- 1:16So when I left the state of Alabama, I made the shift from corporate into full-time higher ed.
- 1:24So um there's lots of stories in between there that I'm sure we'll probably get into.
- 1:29um The other thing that I'll say really quickly in my intro is that both my parents have been married for 53 years as of this podcast.
- 1:40uh I come from a pretty big family, I think, so there are seven kids as well.
- 1:45And uh both my parents are pastors, so I grew up uh in the environment of being uh a preacher's kid.
- 1:54So that was another part of my story.
- 1:58Yeah, that's awesome.
- 1:59So let's talk about being a preacher's kid is or PK as you've told me in the past.
- 2:03So what was it like growing up in that environment with six brothers and sisters, parents that are preachers?
- 2:11What did that look like for you?
- 2:13so probably about what you could imagine.
- 2:14So both my parents um are very active.
- 2:20growing up, I just remember we did a lot of um street evangelism, a lot of tent revivals.
- 2:30Sometimes I think back on it and I'm like, man, how did we go to school?
- 2:33we would do, I don't know, sometimes we would do seven day revivals, 14 day revivals.
- 2:39We were in church probably three to four days a week because there was Wednesday night service, there was Friday night service.
- 2:46You know, we would have two services on Sunday.
- 2:49We may be doing something on Saturday.
- 2:52So like that was definitely part of our upbringing.
- 2:57Also, my dad, a period of time when I was growing up, my dad had became the chaplain for a homeless shelter that was in the local city that we
- 3:09that was adjacent to where I grew up.
- 3:11So we would go there and we volunteer and like serve meals or help with giving out clothing and stuff.
- 3:17um So very, very, very involved.
- 3:21um So there wasn't much time for a lot of things outside of uh ministry type activities.
- 3:29But because of that, we were always together.
- 3:32we, our, you know, my siblings, you know, it's a wide range from the oldest to the youngest.
- 3:38But we found ways to kind of connect with one another.
- 3:42And we did the same things that most siblings do, which was get on each other's nerves.
- 3:46uh But we're very close.
- 3:50as we've grown older and everybody's kind of an adult now, we have grown very close to one another.
- 3:56oh And it's been neat to see that full circle come back together.
- 4:01that's awesome.
- 4:02Yeah, and he spends a lot of time together, ah mostly, sometimes by choice, sometimes not by choice.
- 4:07there was one thing that you mentioned.
- 4:09You said you guys did seven day and 14 day tent revivals for the people that don't know what that is.
- 4:14Can you explain that?
- 4:16Yeah, yeah.
- 4:16So essentially it would just be, you know, like my dad would basically go out and we would put flowers up.
- 4:24I remember putting flowers up around like a city and saying, hey, we're going to have a seven day revival, which basically would mean like every evening, it probably would start
- 4:34at about 7 PM.
- 4:35We would just have a church service and it would be seven days in a row.
- 4:39So we may start it up on a Sunday night.
- 4:42and it will go until the following Saturday night.
- 4:45But then every day you would go out in the community and let people know that you're going to be having like a church service.
- 4:52You would put up flyers.
- 4:53Sometimes we would kind of pass them out like at different places like Wal-Mart or wherever.
- 5:00This was in the 90s.
- 5:02So it was a little bit of a different time where it wasn't as how things are today.
- 5:09But I think.
- 5:10Yeah, we would do that and then every night.
- 5:12So our family was very involved in it.
- 5:16So my sisters would do some singing and my mom, me and my brothers would play the drums.
- 5:23My dad would deliver the message and we were all super involved in oh just trying to do whatever we could to make sure that we had a good revival.
- 5:33But yeah, we wouldn't know people there all the time.
- 5:36So sometimes you would just go to a community and you would just pass out the flyers and stuff and whoever shows up shows up.
- 5:45Yeah, so did you meet at a local church or did you guys literally put a tent up?
- 5:48No, so sometimes they were at churches, but then, yeah, sometimes they were actual tents.
- 5:52So it would be like a big white tent.
- 5:55Of course, I was a kid, so I don't really know exactly how big it was, but it seemed like it was super big, like a circus tent, kind of.
- 6:04ah But of course, not that big, because it wouldn't be that many people.
- 6:08But you would just have uh whoever came, and they would be there for that week or that two weeks of time.
- 6:15And then oftentimes, we would.
- 6:18you know, during the day still be doing some type of evangelism.
- 6:21My dad did a lot of street evangelism where he would, I remember pulling up some places and he would be on the street corner and just kind of, you know, sharing his faith.
- 6:33oh And, you know, we were just there, you know, so everybody was there together.
- 6:39That's awesome.
- 6:41So some of my guests have talked about they've inherited their faith and you very clearly inherited your faith.
- 6:45was there ever a time where you like made that actual choice to continue with your faith or has it always been a clear path for you?
- 6:55No, I think like all of us, it definitely was a time.
- 6:59So I remember getting baptized when I was like six years old.
- 7:02And I had that conversation with my parents before.
- 7:05And so that part of it, I think it was just kind of a thing that, you know, we grew up in it.
- 7:11We were always there.
- 7:12My dad would, um I remember when I was living in Alabama, when I was really young, my dad would do baptisms in the lake.
- 7:20And, you know, there was, grew, I was born.
- 7:24in an area called Ufala, Alabama, and they had a lake there.
- 7:28So Lake Ufala was where we would go.
- 7:30And I remember getting baptized when I was really young and, you know, declaring my faith at that point.
- 7:36However, when I went to college, you know, being on my own, having to kind of like figure things out, there was a period of time where, you know, I kind of started exploring, like
- 7:48not necessarily doing all kind of um strange things, but more of just like
- 7:53trying to figure out like where my faith and where church fit in my new adult life per se.
- 8:02So I did kind of stray away at that point, but that wasn't very long lived.
- 8:09I think after about my sophomore year, I rededicated my life back to the Lord and then I really got involved in a church and my community.
- 8:19And then I really got from that point on.
- 8:22really focused on growing my faith.
- 8:24oh One thing that I did do after I started my family, so I was married, I had kids, before we actually moved to Minnesota, the summer of 2016, I actually got baptized again as an
- 8:39adult.
- 8:41And my kids were able to be there, my wife was there.
- 8:44It was a pretty neat thing because at that point I kind of felt like...
- 8:48You know, I did it for, you know, as an adult and it wasn't something where I was just doing it as this six-year-old kid and I didn't really necessarily fully probably
- 8:56comprehend what was going on at that time.
- 8:58um So that was one moment that I really remember saying, hey, you know, I wanted to do it even though I know you don't have to get baptized again after you get baptized once.
- 9:10But for me, I felt like it was important as an adult and to be an example for my family and my friends and all of the things.
- 9:18to be able to do that as an adult and to be able to share that um with those people around me.
- 9:25that's beautiful.
- 9:27You said that when you were in college, you're kind of straight a little bit.
- 9:31I think that's normal and typical for most people.
- 9:33But your sophomore year, so was there a turning point or did something happen that kind of helped you flip that switch back on?
- 9:40Well, know, I just kind of, you know, so I did the things that most college kids do.
- 9:44I started partying a lot, started, you know, getting in bad relationships with people.
- 9:49um I just kind of noticed that I felt like there was that void, like I was looking for something.
- 9:57um And it just never really, I never felt like that sense of peace and calm and all of those things.
- 10:04So I just got to a point to where, you know,
- 10:09I had always promised myself, so I had this thing for a while I did kind of get involved in like drinking alcohol and things like that.
- 10:18And I had got to a point to where I made myself a promise.
- 10:20I was like, if I ever find myself sitting at home on a Monday night or a Tuesday night and just drinking a beer, then I would know that I've kind of gone too far.
- 10:30You know, because at first when I started, it was like, yeah, I would do it at the parties or I would, you know, I would do this wherever they're in a social environment.
- 10:39but I never wanted to be someone who would just be at home by myself, watching TV and drinking a beer, you know, per se.
- 10:48So when I got to that point, it was kind of like a little bit of a wake-up call.
- 10:52oh I was reminded of that promise I made to myself.
- 10:55I was like, you know, maybe I need to make some changes.
- 10:58And that's when I actually started seeking out, like going back to church, trying to find my community, because I was in college at the time.
- 11:05oh
- 11:07And I had tried a few different churches in my college community, but none of them stuck with me.
- 11:15And then I really got connected with a ministry that was a non-denominational ministry.
- 11:21it ended up, it was the first time in a long time that I had been able to see people that I wanted to model my life after, like other men, other couples and things like that.
- 11:34And I was like, you I want to be in a position like that when I got older.
- 11:39So I started coming back to that, to that church.
- 11:42And that's how I ended up kind of really getting involved.
- 11:44And then along the way, I met my, my, my wife, who was m my girlfriend at the time.
- 11:51um And she was very strong in her faith and her and I would have these really, really good conversations about just faith and the Bible.
- 12:01and we would pray together, we would do all these things, because she lived in another city, so she lived in Tennessee.
- 12:07We met at a track meet, uh but her and I, had a long distance relationship, so we would talk about our faith and all these things, and I think that was also something that really
- 12:18helped me along that time.
- 12:20So I think those were the things that really kind of helped to catch my attention and to try to help get me back focused on what I needed to be focused on.
- 12:30Yeah, that's awesome.
- 12:31I really think it's cool that your now wife was also a track student athlete because I gotta imagine the pressures of being a student athlete and the norms of that going into
- 12:44college are very different from even just the typical student, right?
- 12:48Yeah, they are very different.
- 12:50then so I'll clarify.
- 12:51So she wasn't a student athlete, but she worked in athletics.
- 12:55So she uh majored in sports management.
- 13:01we had a track meet.
- 13:02She went to the University of Tennessee.
- 13:04We had a track meet up there, oh our SEC conference meet.
- 13:09And she was working the event while I was there competing.
- 13:12So we met there in 2003.
- 13:15uh
- 13:16So that's how we met.
- 13:18But yes, to your question about the demands are very different.
- 13:22They are because not only do you have that adjustment period of just going to college and trying to be a good college student, but then you also have the demands of practice.
- 13:35And then when season starts, you're gone all the time.
- 13:39I was in the spring.
- 13:41you know, every weekend starting up in January from January until June, you're pretty much gone from Wednesday, sometimes Thursday all the way through Sunday.
- 13:52ah So there's a lot of dealing with professors trying to make sure you're not missing assignments and all that stuff that you have to manage along with uh competing because my
- 14:05first year at the University of Alabama, I struggled a lot.
- 14:10I struggled
- 14:11with the educational part of it because I went from being a really, really good high school student, not necessarily probably having the best study habits, to going to college
- 14:22and having to learn how to study and be a college student.
- 14:26And that transition didn't go well my first year.
- 14:29And then on the competing side, I went from being the top, I won my high school state championship twice.
- 14:38I won...
- 14:3910th grade in the high jump and then I won again my senior year.
- 14:43And, you know, I was always the top person where when I went to Alabama and I didn't, you at the time I wasn't as familiar with how good the SEC conference was for track and field.
- 14:56So I went from being the top to really struggling and being able to find my way.
- 15:02So I did kind of go through a period of time where I...
- 15:05just didn't really do well.
- 15:07I got injured my freshman year and there was a lot of those things that I had to wrestle through ah my first year.
- 15:14all of that was a part of me just kind of trying to, I guess, find myself during that time.
- 15:20Yeah, and you said your first year was 2001, right?
- 15:24So you also had 9-11, just like I did.
- 15:28was, yeah, freshman year.
- 15:30Yep, I remember being in class and yep, yep, they canceled class.
- 15:34We all went to the student center.
- 15:36We were looking at it on the big screen, not really fully grasping what was happening.
- 15:41But yes, that happened my freshman year.
- 15:44And then also during my freshman year, oh one of my teammates ended up passing away my freshman year in college that year in the spring.
- 15:54He had an aneurysm in the cafeteria.
- 15:57So it was a very tough year um for all of us, coaches, teammates, all of us.
- 16:05And it came out of nowhere because he was a very healthy guy, distance runner.
- 16:11He had just got married.
- 16:13So it was like all of these things that had happened during my freshman year.
- 16:17And I think it was definitely a wake up call, wake up year for us.
- 16:23Yeah, for sure.
- 16:26But through all the challenges and all the struggles, God has been there for you, whether you were actively seeking that relationship or not.
- 16:34And so what are some of the ways that he's worked miracles or wonders or God winks, whatever you want to call it in your life.
- 16:41Man, know, I would say there's so many because I'm, you know, and I think back over from high school all the way to the point where I am now, I can think of so many ways.
- 16:55I think one for sure is, you know, just paving the way for me to go to college on an athletic scholarship.
- 17:02We didn't, I didn't grow up in a family that had a lot of money and that...
- 17:11That was one of the ways I was able to go to college was by based off of getting a scholarship.
- 17:17So I think that was the big one.
- 17:19um And from that, I met a lot of people who invested in me that I, you know, I didn't even know they were invested in me at the time.
- 17:27So I think that was one.
- 17:30Another one was my, you know, meeting my wife.
- 17:32So we met at a track meet, but the way we met was I feel like very unique because
- 17:39Like I said, she worked in sports management um and she was in grad school and doing all the things at University of Tennessee and I was competing.
- 17:48But at the track meet, what happened was there was a tornado that touched down about 10 minutes away from where we were during the track meet and we ended up being in the same
- 17:59shelter.
- 17:59So they sent people in different shelters on campus and we ended up being in the same shelter and it just so happened.
- 18:07I was kind of walking around and doing whatever.
- 18:09And my wife told me that she made a bet with one of her friends that if I walked by again, she was going to stop me and just say, hello, whatever.
- 18:17So I think even that was like a little bit of a God wink because if it had not been for that, I probably never would have met her because she was working like the tickets and all
- 18:27of that.
- 18:27And I was competing.
- 18:28So we would not have been in the same place naturally.
- 18:32um And she has definitely...
- 18:35been instrumental in helping me grow in my faith and personally and all those things.
- 18:42So I know that that was a God wink um for me.
- 18:45And even I would say we've had a lot of health challenges in our family from just chronic illnesses and things like that.
- 18:57But being able to see God provide along the way just for all of us um and to see things um
- 19:05work out the way that they have.
- 19:07And everybody's still been in relatively great health and able to function.
- 19:12All of our families still intact um has been an amazing thing.
- 19:17And then I think the last thing that I would say would be just in my journey, um especially my career journey.
- 19:25So I told you, I mentioned I started out in corporate.
- 19:28I was able to transition to higher education.
- 19:31But when we moved to Minnesota, we didn't know anyone.
- 19:35So we had no family here.
- 19:36um We sold a lot of things, one of our cars and all the things.
- 19:43And we moved to a city that was um two hours away from the Canadian border.
- 19:49So very different cultural experience.
- 19:52um But um every since we've been in Minnesota, now we live in the Twin Cities, but every since we've been in Minnesota since 2017, every year,
- 20:03We have seen God move so many different ways and our lives have continued to progress and get better.
- 20:11And I think we can only attribute that to the Lord leading and guiding us um from me and my work to my wife and her work to even our kids and the things that they've been able to
- 20:23do.
- 20:23um So I know that he has carried us through.
- 20:27Yeah, that's great.
- 20:29So if there's a student athlete or even a college student that's listening to this that has gone through the same thing where they've walked away and hopefully they haven't had
- 20:36the same tragedies that we had our freshman year, ah what would you say to them if they're feeling lost and how did you get back and what would you recommend?
- 20:47um I would say the biggest thing that I would say is if someone may have find themselves in a place where they're feeling lost, it would be one to realize that that's not
- 20:59uncommon.
- 21:01I think that is part of growing up, part of being on this journey of faith.
- 21:07There's gonna be times where maybe we take a detour and you make a bad decision or you make a mistake or life happens.
- 21:15because sometimes it may not be of our own doing, but to realize that that is a part of living and to try your best not to allow yourself to get in the place of condemnation and
- 21:30shame and feeling like you're the only one who have ever faced this problem and you can't share it with anyone.
- 21:35So find someone that you trust, whether that's a parent or a guardian or a really close friend, or if you have a pastor, a pastor or a coach or
- 21:45whoever it is that you trust and that you feel safe around, that you can share the challenges and the struggles that you may be experiencing.
- 21:55I think doing that really kind of relieves a lot of pressure.
- 22:01It frees you up to know that you are not alone and you have someone who can walk alongside you to help you through that journey because sometimes we get in things that it is almost
- 22:13impossible to get out on our own.
- 22:15And it requires, of course, our relationship with the Lord, but it also requires someone that we can walk alongside with too to help us when we run into those challenges.
- 22:27So I would say just find your people or find your person, because you don't need a bunch.
- 22:33That's another thing I would say.
- 22:34You don't have to have five friends or 10 friends.
- 22:37You just need one or two people who can, who have your best interests at heart, who care for you.
- 22:44who will pray for you, who will check in on you at times when you need it, um and who really does want to see you succeed.
- 22:53think being able to just have those things in place is super important.
- 22:59Yeah, I think that's so true.
- 23:01And you what you're really talking about is building your community, right?
- 23:05And how, and when you moved from Alabama, from the South to the heat and diversity to a town two hours from the Canadian border, which is cold and very culturally different, how
- 23:17important was it for you and how quickly were you able to build that community for yourself and your family?
- 23:23It was extremely important.
- 23:24um It did take a while to build our community because again, you I grew up um in a very different culture.
- 23:35Like you described, my parents both were Pentecostal.
- 23:40So I grew up in a Pentecostal environment.
- 23:42My mom did um transition to the AME church.
- 23:46So the African Methodist Episcopal Church.
- 23:49When I was still growing up,
- 23:51So I had that Pentecostal background and the African Methodist Episcopal background and moving to Northern Minnesota, uh I didn't see much of that.
- 24:03There was lots of different denominations and we were trying to figure out like, okay, what is this denomination?
- 24:11What do they believe?
- 24:12What is this one?
- 24:13And we were going to churches where we were the only black people that were a part of those churches because there wasn't many.
- 24:21The town that we lived in, when we moved there, it was less than 1 % black.
- 24:27So, you know, even that was different for us because coming out of Alabama, there was, of course, a lot more diversity.
- 24:36So what we did was we tried to plug into the areas where we knew there was some common ground.
- 24:42So we did try to connect with a church.
- 24:45So we connected with churches, even though racially there were differences.
- 24:50we looked at it like, okay, what is our common thing, our faith?
- 24:54So we could come together on Wednesdays and Sundays around faith and try to find ways to uh engage in that way.
- 25:04So that led to some relationships.
- 25:06Also, our kids were younger.
- 25:08um They were nine and six when we moved.
- 25:11So they were still at the age where they were in youth sports.
- 25:15So my wife and I, we got involved in coaching and that allowed us to meet other parents, other kids.
- 25:22We were able to do that.
- 25:23um And then I eventually uh got involved.
- 25:28ran for the local school board in our community and I was able to get elected in the school board.
- 25:33And I think that also opened up some opportunities for us to connect to other families and the community.
- 25:40um So we try to do it that way.
- 25:42My work...
- 25:43was also a big environment because when we moved, my wife, ah she didn't work when we initially moved for the first uh year or so.
- 25:52ah So I think that also kind of allowed for us to have some flexibility and we only had to work around my schedule.
- 25:59So all of those things really did truly help.
- 26:01So we had to be intentional because if we didn't do those things, we could have very easily been in a community.
- 26:08I would have went to work and came home and then we did not met anyone.
- 26:13But I think people were also naturally uh inquisitive and they were very open to getting to know who we were, finding out a little bit about us.
- 26:23And we did have people invite us over, so that was really nice too.
- 26:28Awesome.
- 26:29Well, it sounds like things have worked out for you.
- 26:32I won't say always worked out because they never always work out, right?
- 26:34There's always trials and tribulations along the way, but through your faith and through your communities, you've managed to make everything very successful.
- 26:45Yeah.
- 26:46I've tried my best and you know, I feel like, you know, the Lord has led us in all those different ways.
- 26:54So it's definitely not been of my own.
- 26:57It's been the Lord helping me to like figure out like, okay, what are the next steps?
- 27:02And my wife has done the same thing.
- 27:04So.
- 27:06There's one line that you told me and you said that you are never too far gone for God to save your soul.
- 27:12And I just, I love that.
- 27:15And I wanted to share that too, cause I think that's so true, right?
- 27:18Like he knows we're broken.
- 27:20We're born with sin, right?
- 27:21So we're broken from the get-go and we're never going to be too far gone.
- 27:24So there's always a way to come back.
- 27:27Yeah, I think that is something that needs to get out more, especially in our culture today.
- 27:38I feel like, you know, sometimes people feel like they're too far gone or they're too far out there or they've done too many things.
- 27:45And I think that message has to go out more because we do have a lot of people who sometimes get in the place where they feel like they send too much.
- 27:56and God doesn't love them anymore, he doesn't care, but we know that to be different and we know that God does love us, he cares for us and when he sent Jesus to down the cross
- 28:07for us for all of our sins, that included everything past, present and future and I think those are the messages that have to get out so that as people are going through their dark
- 28:19times, they can be reminded of that.
- 28:23Absolutely.
- 28:24Yeah, and if you think you're too far gone, feel free to listen to more of these episodes and you'll find that maybe your story matches somebody else's or, you know, isn't quite
- 28:33as, you know, tragic.
- 28:34So you're not alone, that's for sure.
- 28:39So thank you for sharing that, I appreciate that.
- 28:41And I always ask all my guests, what is your favorite Bible verse or the Bible verse that you're walking through this year?
- 28:47What is that one for you?
- 28:49So there's one Bible verse in 2nd Peter and it talks about how we are living epistles read of all men.
- 28:56um And I think, and I'll have to get the exact scripture um note for you so that you can put it in the show notes, but to me it always has spoken to me because it reminds me that
- 29:14we are the examples to be able to show others Christ and the earth.
- 29:20And a lot of times we think that someone has to go to this church or to this event or to be a part of some group in order to meet Christ.
- 29:31And there are people who will do it that way.
- 29:34But I think the most powerful thing that God did when he sent Jesus to down the cross for us is he allowed for us to be able to become
- 29:45like that living epistle, people are looking at us and they're looking at our lives to be able to realize like, is this real?
- 29:54Because sometimes people have, they struggle with that.
- 29:56They don't know if this faith thing for real, is this just a hoax or are the people that saying that this is real, they living it out?
- 30:05And I think we are the examples and we have to live our lives in that way, not saying that we have to be perfect, not saying that we don't make mistakes.
- 30:14but saying that as we are journeying through life, we have to show people how to navigate as a believer so that they know that you can be a believer and you can still make mistakes
- 30:27or you can struggle with certain things and you can overcome through the work that Christ did for us.
- 30:35And I think as we show people that and we show people the humanity,
- 30:41of being able to wrestle between being a believer and trying to work out our own salvation, uh then people will be more open to the idea of, it is possible for me to also
- 30:54pursue a relationship with Christ.
- 30:56So that has been a message that I've always kept in the forefront of my mind, and that is something that I try to live out because I may be the only person somebody meets that says
- 31:09I'm a believer.
- 31:10And if I don't show them a good example, they may never try it again.
- 31:16And that is why I try to live my life in that way.
- 31:21That's beautiful.
- 31:23Well, thank you so much for sharing that and thank you for being here.
- 31:26I truly appreciate your time today and your story and just the example that you're setting for the people around you.
- 31:34Thank you very much.
- 31:34This has been awesome and I'm looking forward to hearing it more on the podcast and hopefully it will continue to minister for some other people.
- 31:44Thank you.
- 31:46You're welcome.