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Jennifer Lopez Argues a Breakup Is Actually a Glow-Up · On Air with Ryan Seacrest

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  Speaker 1: Tanya has a trending report. What is the question we
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  Speaker 1: should think about during this trending report.
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  Speaker 2: What if I told you getting your heartbroken actually means
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  Speaker 2: you one tell me more. That's kind of what Jennifer
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  Speaker 2: Lopez's breakup philosophy is these days, that breakups are not
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  Speaker 2: a failure. She says, I honestly feel like it's a
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  Speaker 2: launch pad into your next best self. She even said
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  Speaker 2: that we should be throwing parties when we break up,
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  Speaker 2: telling people congratulations instead of I'm so sorry. Her reasoning is,
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  Speaker 2: you made a decision and it was probably the best
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  Speaker 2: thing for everybody. And this is coming from a woman
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  Speaker 2: who knows heartbreak. She's been married four times, engaged to
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  Speaker 2: Alex Rodriguez, most recently went through her split from Ben Affleck.
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  Speaker 2: She says her biggest growth spurts emotionally, mentally, psychologically have
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  Speaker 2: always come from a heartbreak. And she said it's not
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  Speaker 2: just romantic ones. You can have work heartbreaks.
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  Speaker 1: Forced to grow. You're forced to get through that moment
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  Speaker 1: and that challenge, which at the end you learn something
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  Speaker 1: and you do grow. So I understand her point. I
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  Speaker 1: mean I have said to people when they break up
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  Speaker 1: with somebody, sometimes good job. That was not for you
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  Speaker 1: that we saw it. We don't want to say it,
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  Speaker 1: but you're in the long run, you're going to be happier.
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  Speaker 1: The thing is when you when you and this is
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  Speaker 1: separate from I don't you know Jennifer's story, but when
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  Speaker 1: you are in it with somebody, there are things that
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  Speaker 1: are going to happen. You're gonna get frustrated, you're going
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  Speaker 1: to be disappointed, you're going to get mad, Like all
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  Speaker 1: those things happen to me. The breakup needs to be
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  Speaker 1: about can you not align your values? Like, if you
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  Speaker 1: can't align values, that's just probably not going to ever
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