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Becoming The Woman In A League Of Her Own · Beyond Limits With Olivia Marie

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SPEAKER_01: Hello and welcome back to the Beyond Limits podcast.
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SPEAKER_01: I am excited because I have not sat down and done an audio solo episode like this in a very long time.
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SPEAKER_01: But there is a topic I want to talk about today, which is power in your nervous system and really how to utilize personal power in your nervous system that allows you to be the one, right?
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SPEAKER_01: The one that sits in a league of her own, the one who is untouchable by conditions around her, the one who refuses to play the game that everyone else is scrambling in.
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SPEAKER_01: The one who becomes the gravitational center that other people cannot help but orbit.
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SPEAKER_01: Because when you move like that, the game ends and you win because you are the one.
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SPEAKER_01: And this is really coming off of a lot of the scrambling I see online.
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SPEAKER_01: And I see this from like 10 feet away, the scrambling, the grasping, the reaching, the fighting, the pushing because you need to get somewhere because you feel less than, because wow.
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SPEAKER_01: And it's just if you learned to become the one to come back into your power, my God, do you know what would flood into your life if you stopped trying so hard?
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SPEAKER_01: Right.
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SPEAKER_01: And that doesn't mean we don't take action, but it's like this trying hard, this over-efforting from a place of lack, from overcompensating, right?
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SPEAKER_01: From trying to get somewhere instead of realizing you are already there, you are already the woman, you are already the one.
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SPEAKER_01: And so, of course, that would happen.
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SPEAKER_01: Of course, the money would come in, of course the clients would come in, of course, et cetera, et cetera, et cetera.
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SPEAKER_01: So that's what we're diving into today.
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SPEAKER_01: Because there is a huge difference between chasing the role of being the one and simply being her.
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SPEAKER_01: Right?
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SPEAKER_01: One is a performance, bending to fit into the room, waiting for proof, tweaking to be chosen.
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SPEAKER_01: Sometimes I have to like actually get off Instagram because there's too much like wounded energy of like people trying to be chosen and grasping.
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SPEAKER_01: I'm like, we just gotta like can't look at it.
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unknown: Right.
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SPEAKER_01: Versus the other.
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SPEAKER_01: You can see when a woman is the one, when she's in her power, you are the room.
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SPEAKER_01: Your presence becomes the filter.
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SPEAKER_01: And from that moment on, the world doesn't just see you differently, reality rearranges around you.
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SPEAKER_01: So we're gonna talk about first all the nervous system as the throne of power.
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SPEAKER_01: Because this is throne energy.
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SPEAKER_01: When we talk about the one, we talk about throne energy.
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SPEAKER_01: And if that word or even this analogy triggers you, welcome.
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SPEAKER_01: Welcome to the spot where you have to heal, right?
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SPEAKER_01: Because that points to where you are not free.
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SPEAKER_01: So this is why personal power, right, isn't about force, isn't about hype, it isn't about adrenaline.
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SPEAKER_01: It's about the regulated baseline you hold when nothing is quote unquote performing for you.
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SPEAKER_01: Because true power is in the unseen moments.
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SPEAKER_01: If you only have power when you have your highest cash month ever and everyone's like, you're amazing, you're the queen, you're the one, you know, tons of applause, feedback.
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SPEAKER_01: You don't actually have power, right?
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SPEAKER_01: That's conditional power, that's circumstantial power.
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SPEAKER_01: A regulated baseline, right, allows you to move without second guessing or overcalculating.
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SPEAKER_01: Without regulation, even your best moves carry static and instability.
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SPEAKER_01: Because without regulation, you're still moving from a dysregulated place.
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SPEAKER_01: You're moving from trying to be seen.
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SPEAKER_01: How do I become the authority?
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SPEAKER_01: How do I stay relevant?
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SPEAKER_01: How do I get the algorithm to see me or people to get hooked in by my content?
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SPEAKER_01: That's all dysregulation.
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SPEAKER_01: That's not a woman in her power.
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SPEAKER_01: But when your system is regulated, right, this is how you command the room without over-efforting or leaking.
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SPEAKER_01: And it was so interesting.
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SPEAKER_01: I was on a call with an incredible woman yesterday.
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SPEAKER_01: And she's like, When I watched your stories, I'm like, I don't know what the hell.
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SPEAKER_01: Like, where does this woman come from?
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SPEAKER_01: Like, how do you think of these lines?
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SPEAKER_01: Like, how do you say this stuff?
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SPEAKER_01: Like, when you just say it, I'm just like, the world moves.
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SPEAKER_01: And I'm like, because I'm moving from true power, I'm not moving from convincing or proving or needing you to see me.
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SPEAKER_01: So when I speak, you can feel it land in your body.
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SPEAKER_01: You can feel that I don't need you to validate me.
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SPEAKER_01: I don't need you to see me.
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SPEAKER_01: I see myself.
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SPEAKER_01: I choose myself.
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SPEAKER_01: I am rooted.
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SPEAKER_01: And so this is where your body becomes the amplifier and your presence speaks, with you saying very little or even before you even open your mouth.
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SPEAKER_01: Right?
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SPEAKER_01: Over efforting signals doubt.
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SPEAKER_01: Neutrality signals inevitability.
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SPEAKER_01: Right?
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SPEAKER_01: A calm system creates a magnetic field that draws attention without force.
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SPEAKER_01: And so you can keep forcing, right?
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SPEAKER_01: You can keep being in the loops of like forcing, trying to be seen, trying to like play the game of visibility, or you can anchor power into your nervous system, become the one, and suddenly everything starts overting you, right?
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SPEAKER_01: Because you're playing a very different game.
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SPEAKER_01: And let me tell you, the game at this level is very different.
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SPEAKER_01: You're not competing with everyone else, trying to be seen because you're in a league of your own.
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SPEAKER_01: It's just you.
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SPEAKER_01: So people see you.
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SPEAKER_01: This is so important.
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SPEAKER_01: Everyone wants to be magnetic, but yet you're trying to be magnetic in the sea of everyone else.
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SPEAKER_01: Trying to force their way through.
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SPEAKER_01: I keep getting visuals of crowds, right?
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SPEAKER_01: When you're trying to like pick me, pick me, like raising your hand, forcing your way through a crowd.
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SPEAKER_01: So many women do this in their business, and it keeps their income cap and it keeps them from making the amount of money that they know they are meant to make.
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SPEAKER_01: And chances are, like you can feel it in your body, you're like, live, I know I'm supposed to be making exponentially more money right now.
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SPEAKER_01: And I will tell you, step into your power and that will happen.
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SPEAKER_01: Right.
8:09
SPEAKER_01: And so this is where we really get that collapse of permission seeking.
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SPEAKER_01: Because so many women, so many high-level women unknowingly outsource their power to clients, to sales, to proof, to trends, to algorithms, to all of these things.
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SPEAKER_01: Right.
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SPEAKER_01: You check numbers before deciding if you feel powerful.
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SPEAKER_01: That's outsourcing authority.
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SPEAKER_01: You wait for engagement or you wait for your audience before showing up in a bigger way to tell you that it's time, to tell you that you're allowed.
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SPEAKER_01: Every time you need proof to trust yourself, you hand the steering wheel to the external.
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SPEAKER_01: Wonderful.
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SPEAKER_01: Money follows power, but money follows uncircumstantial power, not conditional power.
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SPEAKER_01: Right?
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SPEAKER_01: That internal moment where you decide you are an authority, you're not waiting to be appointed, you're not waiting to be chosen, you're not waiting for someone else to crown you.
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SPEAKER_01: You crown yourself.
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SPEAKER_01: That's a frequency shift.
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SPEAKER_01: Right?
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SPEAKER_01: The frequency shifts when you stop applying for a role that you already hold.
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SPEAKER_01: Authority is a decision, it's not a reward.
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SPEAKER_01: It's claimed, not given.
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SPEAKER_01: And when you decide, your moves carry the weight of already being the one, and that everything you do works like wildfire.
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SPEAKER_01: Everything you do hits that much harder.
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SPEAKER_01: Everything you do hits with precision and pierces reality.
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SPEAKER_01: Power is a frequency, not a performance.
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SPEAKER_01: When you're performing power, you're like, how do I seem powerful?
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SPEAKER_01: How do I behave in a way or say this in a way or look in a way or think in a way?
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SPEAKER_01: If you're thinking about how do I look powerful or how do I be the authority, you're not.
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SPEAKER_01: People stop.
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SPEAKER_01: There's a difference between showing power and holding power.
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SPEAKER_01: Showing power is curated, holding power is effortless.
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SPEAKER_01: Showing power needs an audience, but holding exists even in private.
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SPEAKER_01: Right?
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SPEAKER_01: This is why performance erodes magnetism.
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SPEAKER_01: Because performance has an expiry date.
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SPEAKER_01: Embodiment compounds over time.
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SPEAKER_01: People feel when I speak that I'm not performing.
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SPEAKER_01: And that's why the magnetism is clean, because my power isn't up for negotiation.
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SPEAKER_01: I'm not looking around checking to say, oh, if I say this, does anyone validate me or confirm it for me to believe it to be true?
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SPEAKER_01: Your frequency will always outsell your words.
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SPEAKER_01: And this is where I see so many women get distracted.
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SPEAKER_01: I was speaking about this in a in a mastermind this week that I was guest speaking, and it was incredible.
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SPEAKER_01: And I was speaking to how many women get distracted by like trending audios.
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SPEAKER_01: I need this hook.
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SPEAKER_01: Can you review my hook?
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SPEAKER_01: I need this funnel.
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SPEAKER_01: I need this different strategy.
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SPEAKER_01: No, you need power.
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SPEAKER_01: You don't need strategy, you need power.
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SPEAKER_01: You don't need a funnel, you need power.
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SPEAKER_01: You don't need another framework outside of you, you need power.
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SPEAKER_01: Because without power, none of that will work as it should.
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SPEAKER_01: It's not that those things are bad.
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SPEAKER_01: I'm not, I will never villainize strategy.
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SPEAKER_01: I'm not here to villainize strategy, but I am here to tell you that strategy without power is nothing.
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SPEAKER_01: It's like having a car without gas, without fuel in the tank.
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SPEAKER_01: Where are we going?
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SPEAKER_01: We're going nowhere.
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SPEAKER_01: You imagine you're a Ferrari.
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SPEAKER_01: Because you are a Ferrari, right?
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SPEAKER_01: You are elite.
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SPEAKER_01: You are the top of what you do.
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SPEAKER_01: You are exceptional.
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SPEAKER_01: You are a visionary.
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SPEAKER_01: You are a Ferrari.
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SPEAKER_01: But without power, there is no fuel to make the car go.
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SPEAKER_01: So you're just sitting here in this Ferrari with no fuel in your tank because you keep outsourcing your power.
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SPEAKER_01: You're just standing around your Ferrari, kind of waiting.
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SPEAKER_01: Waiting for someone to tell you that it's okay to drive and go, you know, pedal to the metal, full throttle.
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SPEAKER_01: You keep thinking, okay, no, maybe I just need to like wait here a little bit more.
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SPEAKER_01: Oh no, maybe I need to wait till it's this.
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SPEAKER_01: Oh no, maybe I need to wait here.
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SPEAKER_01: No.
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SPEAKER_01: Don't be the one sitting in the Ferrari instead of working on your personal power so that the fuel you put in the magnificent car that you have actually works.
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SPEAKER_01: And this is where you need to be unshakable in the gap.
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SPEAKER_01: Right?
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SPEAKER_01: Because what happens to your leadership when the external hasn't caught up yet is how you keep your power from collapsing.
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SPEAKER_01: Right?
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SPEAKER_01: The gap is where most leaders lose themselves.
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SPEAKER_01: Right?
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SPEAKER_01: When the proof hasn't proofed yet.
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SPEAKER_01: And most people will unconsciously dim here to avoid feeling exposed.
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SPEAKER_01: But the woman who stays fully on in the gap is the one who bends time.
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SPEAKER_01: Certainty without proof is the quantum accelerator.
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SPEAKER_01: It is like the the NOS turbo, you know, in your car.
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SPEAKER_01: Proof is the echo, not the origin.
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SPEAKER_01: So when you're waiting for proof, proof is just an echo of what has been.
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SPEAKER_01: It's not the origin point, it's not the starting point.
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SPEAKER_01: And when you become the one, right, you become the woman who operates in certainty without proof, not just for a minute, but all the time.
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SPEAKER_01: It's how you live, it's how you eat, it's how you sleep, it's how you breathe.
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SPEAKER_01: Certainty is what makes the result inevitable.
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SPEAKER_01: Proof just confirms it.
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SPEAKER_01: So when you remove that waiting energy, reality responds faster because you've come back to the truth of who you are.
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SPEAKER_01: You realize you are the one sitting on the throne, you're the queen, and reality responds to you.
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SPEAKER_01: And this is where you start commanding without convincing.
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SPEAKER_01: Because there are subtle energy leaks when you try to sell your power instead of being it.
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SPEAKER_01: Right?
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SPEAKER_01: Over-explaining why you're powerful shows you're not certain.
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unknown: Right?
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SPEAKER_01: Convincing shifts the energy from invitation to persuasion.
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SPEAKER_01: The more you explain, the more you imply that they could doubt you.
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SPEAKER_01: Right.
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SPEAKER_01: And this is how you calibrate your voice, your presence, your offers, your services, your product so that your audience feels the inevitability without you explaining.
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SPEAKER_01: Because you are speaking from inside the breakthrough, not toward it.
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SPEAKER_01: You let your offers carry it, not just in the logic of your mind, but from like your command.
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SPEAKER_01: Right?
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SPEAKER_01: Being the one isn't just about being magnetic or memorable.
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SPEAKER_01: It's about holding a field so clean and so coherent that nothing else can occupy the space.
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SPEAKER_01: And when I say so clean and so coherent, it's like anything could be happening outside of you and you would not entertain it for a living second.
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SPEAKER_01: But what I see so often is that people start responding to the echo of them outside and they start entertaining that reality like it is truth.
14:53
SPEAKER_01: And I'm like, where do we give our power away?
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SPEAKER_01: Where do we think that the algorithm or something outside of us has control?
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SPEAKER_01: It is you and you.
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SPEAKER_01: You are the only one dictating what you experience, which is beautiful, because then if you want to change what you are experiencing, you just come back to the fullness of your power.
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SPEAKER_01: Right?
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SPEAKER_01: When we talk about these nuances about being the one, the one doesn't burn energy trying to hold the spotlight.
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SPEAKER_01: She is the spotlight.
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SPEAKER_01: She doesn't optimize her expression for maximum approval.
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SPEAKER_01: She optimizes it for coherence for who she already is.
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SPEAKER_01: Her presence overrides the rules.
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SPEAKER_01: And this is what people are asking me, Liv, how are you shifting your content?
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SPEAKER_01: And how are you having, you know, all this happen?
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SPEAKER_01: How is the money coming in?
15:36
SPEAKER_01: How is it happening?
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SPEAKER_01: Unwavering personal power.
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SPEAKER_01: You want to know what allowed me to shift how I do content, trust my instincts, block out the noise, drop the formulas, funnels, the must-do strategies I was told I needed, and have multiple 30K, 40K cash days right now?
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SPEAKER_01: Unwavering personal power.
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SPEAKER_01: What allows me to confidently call out blind spots in celebrity seven, eight-figure entrepreneurs, you're right, eight-figure entrepreneurs making more money than me.
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SPEAKER_01: Have them hire me, have them thank me, saying, My God, where have you been all this time?
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SPEAKER_01: Thank God I found you.
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SPEAKER_01: Personal power, because I know I'm the one.
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SPEAKER_01: You know, what else allowed me to pivot my business multiple times from bloating and hormones to rich and regulated to, you know, now we're going into even higher levels of time collapse and reality creation without fear of it not working, and not just avoiding an income dip, right?
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SPEAKER_01: When I made that big transition in 2024, but making even more money despite people saying it would take time.
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SPEAKER_01: Personal power.
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SPEAKER_01: This is so important.
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SPEAKER_01: It's what allows me to keep anchored in my own lane.
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SPEAKER_01: So my work hits deeper, my clients rise faster, and those visionary humans find their way to me without chasing.
16:59
SPEAKER_01: This is so important because if you want to collapse time, if you want to leap without proof, and if you want to move without needing validation or permission from anyone, personal power.
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SPEAKER_01: And when you have personal power in your nervous system, you become the most unstoppable force on the planet.
17:21
SPEAKER_01: I just don't teach women to find their power.
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SPEAKER_01: I teach them to become the one who never loses it.
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SPEAKER_01: If you run with me, you'll never need a permission slip again.
17:29
SPEAKER_01: Because you hold the kind of personal power in your nervous system that makes it inevitable.
17:36
SPEAKER_01: The word inevitable is very potent in my world.
17:39
SPEAKER_01: I remember a few years ago, I did a free masterclass on inevitable.
17:43
SPEAKER_01: It's called inevitable.
17:44
SPEAKER_01: Your success is inevitable.
17:45
SPEAKER_01: And it's so interesting looking back now.
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SPEAKER_01: I'm like, I can see how this like theme has been compounding in my energy for years now.
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unknown: Right?
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SPEAKER_01: Inevitability is where you stop trying because you know it's inevitable.
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SPEAKER_01: You know it's a matter of fact.
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SPEAKER_01: Of course, you're gonna make millions with ease.
18:01
SPEAKER_01: Of course, it's gonna feel light as a feather.
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SPEAKER_01: Of course, people find you without you having to push in force.
18:05
SPEAKER_01: Of course, of course, of course.
18:07
SPEAKER_01: Right?
18:07
SPEAKER_01: Inevitability is that, of course, energy.
18:10
SPEAKER_01: So I want to really tie this together for you by really speaking about the difference when you're trying to be the one versus being the one.
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SPEAKER_01: And you're gonna audit for yourself if you are in trying or you are in being.
18:23
SPEAKER_01: And actually, before I dive into that, I will mention my private one-on-one container called the one, where I've built a private week-long intensive with me to do this, where you have me surgically refining your frequency to become the woman the world can't look away from.
18:39
SPEAKER_01: You have a call with me.
18:40
SPEAKER_01: We have a full week in Telegram, and you have access to my power program, which rewires your nervous system to welcome in sales without forcing, without chasing, without pushing, without pressure, without any of that.
18:51
SPEAKER_01: So you can reach out to Instagram on Instagram to me for either of those.
18:56
SPEAKER_01: If you message me the one, you can sign up for the one.
18:58
SPEAKER_01: Free message me power.
18:59
SPEAKER_01: We'll also link power down below.
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SPEAKER_01: That's instant access and you can rewire your system today to lock this in.
19:06
SPEAKER_01: So trying to be the one versus being the one.
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SPEAKER_01: When it comes to visibility, trying is strategically posting.
19:13
SPEAKER_01: Oh, let me strategically put this hook here and like use this thing to try to get a result, to try to get people to join.
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SPEAKER_01: No.
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SPEAKER_01: Trying also looks like tweaking captions, over tweaking.
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SPEAKER_01: How do I get them to buy?
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SPEAKER_01: Is not a power plot move.
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unknown: Right.
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SPEAKER_01: Checking analytics to see if it's on the right track.
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SPEAKER_01: That is not power.
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SPEAKER_01: You think a queen, you think a one is checking analytics to validate if she's on the right track?
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SPEAKER_01: No, she decides she is.
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SPEAKER_01: Right?
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SPEAKER_01: Being.
19:42
SPEAKER_01: Right, being a speak once and the room rearranges.
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SPEAKER_01: You don't need to check metrics.
19:47
SPEAKER_01: You know it's already done.
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SPEAKER_01: You're you're too busy being to even check a metric.
19:53
SPEAKER_01: All right, let's move into energy source.
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SPEAKER_01: Trying burns energy trying to hold attention.
19:58
SPEAKER_01: And this is why so many women get burnt out.
20:01
SPEAKER_01: Is not that they're actually doing too much, but they're doing it from a trying energy, not a being energy.
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SPEAKER_01: Right?
20:07
SPEAKER_01: When you're in being the one, you hold yourself.
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SPEAKER_01: Attention holds you.
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SPEAKER_01: You're not burning energy.
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SPEAKER_01: If you feel like you're bull burning energy, holding attention or trying to hold your business or hold your price point, that tells you you're in trying, not in being.
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SPEAKER_01: Okay, then let's talk about the third one: identity.
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SPEAKER_01: When you're in trying energy, you adapt your tone and presence based on what room you're in.
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SPEAKER_01: You shift, you contort, you change the way you speak.
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SPEAKER_01: If you're being the one, the room adapts to your frequency.
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SPEAKER_01: You don't change.
20:46
SPEAKER_01: And I was actually saying this to a client yesterday.
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SPEAKER_01: When I walk into a room, it doesn't change.
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SPEAKER_01: The way I am on this call with you doesn't change to an interaction that I'm having, you know, outside of my business, to different containers, different clients.
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SPEAKER_01: I am the same.
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SPEAKER_01: And it's so interesting.
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SPEAKER_01: I've gotten this feedback and it makes me giggle.
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SPEAKER_01: It's like a I had this post, I said the woman who doesn't need validation is the one that the world rushes to validate, and it was so funny.
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SPEAKER_01: Every time I've like gone out and been in a room with other women, or I'm recording a podcast, all I get is like, there's something about you.
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SPEAKER_01: Like the room shifted.
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SPEAKER_01: We when you came into the room, like the room is different.
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SPEAKER_01: Like when you speak, when you're like, and I giggle because I'm like, well, that's that's what happens.
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SPEAKER_01: You're the one, and it's funny.
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SPEAKER_01: So reality will confirm you, but it's not because I need the validation, so it's funny.
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SPEAKER_01: And I giggled because it's like, yeah, that's what happens when you're the one because I don't need it.
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SPEAKER_01: All right, let's talk about the fourth thing, right?
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SPEAKER_01: We talked about identity, we talked about energy, we talked about visibility.
21:52
SPEAKER_01: What about decision making?
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SPEAKER_01: Right?
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SPEAKER_01: Trying energy waits for proof before moving.
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SPEAKER_01: I need someone to pay me before I can invest in myself.
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SPEAKER_01: Oh, I need, you know, to be at this income level before I can do this.
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SPEAKER_01: Oh, I need this amount of followers.
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SPEAKER_01: I need this amount of engagement.
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SPEAKER_01: I need this before I can do that.
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SPEAKER_01: Like you're waiting for some permission outside of you.
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SPEAKER_01: That is not queen throne energy.
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SPEAKER_01: That is not the one.
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SPEAKER_01: The one claims it.
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SPEAKER_01: The one says, this is me now, and we're going.
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SPEAKER_01: Right?
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SPEAKER_01: You move from that and then it lets you let the proof catch up.
22:22
SPEAKER_01: It's catching up to you.
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SPEAKER_01: You are the leading energy.
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SPEAKER_01: You are the leading force.
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SPEAKER_01: MMS talk about like reality integrity, right?
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SPEAKER_01: Reality coherence.
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SPEAKER_01: Trying energy dilutes to be digestible.
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SPEAKER_01: Right?
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SPEAKER_01: Being energy is unshakable in what she says.
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SPEAKER_01: And those who can't meet it self-select out.
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SPEAKER_01: You can tell when I'm speaking that I am unshakable.
22:48
SPEAKER_01: I know I am not for everyone.
22:50
SPEAKER_01: That is perfect.
22:51
SPEAKER_01: I don't want to be for everyone.
22:53
SPEAKER_01: Right.
22:53
SPEAKER_01: I am only actually for the visionary leaders in this world.
22:56
SPEAKER_01: The people who are are know like that they're meant to do big things, not only to have massive impact, right?
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SPEAKER_01: But to have the bank accounts that match.
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SPEAKER_01: Like I know who I'm for.
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SPEAKER_01: And I'm perfectly okay with everyone I am not for, self-selecting out.
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SPEAKER_01: The people who are just looking for, like, oh, can I put my face in ice water?
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SPEAKER_01: Can I do all these like little nervous system hacks?
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SPEAKER_01: I'm not for that.
23:17
SPEAKER_01: I am not for service level.
23:18
SPEAKER_01: I'm for depth.
23:19
SPEAKER_01: I'm for intimacy.
23:20
SPEAKER_01: I'm for power.
23:21
SPEAKER_01: I'm for true regulation, true freedom, true impact from heart-led movement, mission-led movement.
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SPEAKER_01: Like you're in my world, you have a mission on your heart.
23:33
SPEAKER_01: But when if I were to dilute to be adjustable, right?
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SPEAKER_01: If I were to pallet myself down and not say things, I would not, A, have the incredible women I have right now in my space.
23:46
SPEAKER_01: And B, I would not make the amount of money I can make.
23:51
SPEAKER_01: When I get asked, like, oh, how do you drop one line and get a 20K painful from that or 40K painful or whatever it is?
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SPEAKER_01: It's because I'm not digesting, I'm not diluting any of that.
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SPEAKER_01: I speak in the power and it self-selects out, which means when it hits, it hits hard for the people I'm for.
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SPEAKER_01: Versus when you operate in the middle, right, and you dilute your power and you're operating in this vanilla version, you don't get people who are a full-body yes right away.
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SPEAKER_01: Right.
24:20
SPEAKER_01: And you're you're in that middle ground, you're in that mediocre.
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SPEAKER_01: It is so important to operate at the fullness of your power.
24:28
SPEAKER_01: And so that the people you are for, you are for, and you're not, you are not.
24:32
SPEAKER_01: But it's very quick and it's very easy.
24:35
SPEAKER_01: Versus that middle ground where it's like, oh, it's kind of like, I'm kind of feeling it, but not, but like it's something there, but not.
24:44
SPEAKER_01: This is how you become the one.
24:46
SPEAKER_01: And my God, if every single person listening to this applied this to your life, applied this to your business right now, I guarantee you, I'm not not even in a week, not even in a day, but within uh minutes, hours, like very short amount of time, if you locked into this frequency, everything else would change.
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SPEAKER_01: And this is when I say becoming the gravitational center, it's like you're the center of your field, and everything else orbits you because you do not base how you move on other things, on other people.
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SPEAKER_01: You don't get distracted by what Karen, Sally, or Susie are doing.
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SPEAKER_01: You are locked the hell in.
25:28
SPEAKER_01: All right, this was fire.
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SPEAKER_01: I'm gonna leave it potent and powerful versus filling this with more that you don't need right now.
25:35
SPEAKER_01: This is the only thing you need.
25:37
SPEAKER_01: So, like I said, reach out about the one, the one week intensive with me.
25:40
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