Latest / Reality with The King / The Future of Reality TV: Love & Hip Hop, Married to Medicine Reunion & EJ Johnson Dating Talk
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- 0:03Speaker 1: Reality with the King is hosted by me, Carlos King.
- 0:07Speaker 1: I'm an executive producer who have produced some of your
- 0:10Speaker 1: favorite shows from the Real Housewives in Atlanta, New Jersey
- 0:13Speaker 1: and my own creation, The Love and Marriage Franchise and
- 0:17Speaker 1: Bell Collective. Every episode we recap reality television from the
- 0:23Speaker 1: Real Housewives Franchise to The Bachelor or Selling Sunset, in
- 0:27Speaker 1: addition to celebrity guests, whether in the unscripted space or
- 0:31Speaker 1: scripted as well. Merriti Medicine Reunion Okay, that's coming this
- 0:40Speaker 1: upcoming Sunday.
- 0:43Speaker 2: The reunion trailer.
- 0:44Speaker 3: Has been released listed in my opinion as a Meriti
- 0:50Speaker 3: Medicine stand I am the biggest fan of Meriti Medicine
- 0:55Speaker 3: based on that trailer.
- 0:57Speaker 2: The star of.
- 0:58Speaker 3: The trailer, it's Steve. Steve is the husband of doctor
- 1:09Speaker 3: Mimi and Steve is activated and gave a lot of
- 1:17Speaker 3: great moments in that trailer that blew me away.
- 1:23Speaker 2: Started with you, Dustin.
- 1:24Speaker 3: What were your thoughts on the Maritime Medicine Reunion.
- 1:27Speaker 4: Trailer, master class and how to show up and show
- 1:32Speaker 4: out at the damn reunion. I believe this is a
- 1:35Speaker 4: two part reunion. I'm totally fine with that. That means
- 1:38Speaker 4: that they're going to be two packed episodes for a
- 1:41Speaker 4: lot of twists and turns, which is much more entertaining
- 1:44Speaker 4: than watching a bunch of boring bullshit. So I'm happy
- 1:47Speaker 4: that they're doing it that way. I think that everybody
- 1:51Speaker 4: showed up. The reunion trailer looks incredible. Quid Andoya our
- 1:55Speaker 4: first chair, which is new. Typically Doctor Jackie and Doctor
- 1:58Speaker 4: Simon are always first shared, So that alone lets me
- 2:01Speaker 4: know that this reunion is going to have a certain
- 2:03Speaker 4: type of energy. You got them two fire starters in
- 2:06Speaker 4: the motherfucking first seats.
- 2:07Speaker 5: You know what time is going to be.
- 2:10Speaker 4: Like I said, Brandy is showing up in the reunion
- 2:13Speaker 4: trailer talking to Kintessa, and I actually saw an extended
- 2:16Speaker 4: peak of the reunion online today where there was a
- 2:20Speaker 4: you saw that that exchanged between Brandy and Kintessa. Brandy
- 2:23Speaker 4: wasn't playing with Kntessa at all. And Contessa the veteran
- 2:27Speaker 4: that she is both literally and figuratively right in this case,
- 2:30Speaker 4: but she's a she's a reality TV vet, and so
- 2:33Speaker 4: she had a level of composure that you can only
- 2:37Speaker 4: only attain when you've done this more than once. You
- 2:39Speaker 4: know what I'm saying, and Your seasons. Kintesla appears seasoned
- 2:42Speaker 4: in their exchange, but Brandy won and that's good for
- 2:46Speaker 4: a new cast member, so I'm excited to see more
- 2:49Speaker 4: of that. Also, in the sneak peak, we saw Steve Sanders,
- 2:52Speaker 4: Steve motherfucking Sanders tearing up Eugene's Harris in that trailer,
- 2:58Speaker 4: and in the extended clip we really saw for the
- 3:01Speaker 4: fact that he absolutely stuck that Louis Vatanshu in the
- 3:03Speaker 4: crack of Eugene's ass, and it was well deserved because
- 3:07Speaker 4: Eugene was trying to check him and trying to like
- 3:10Speaker 4: stoke the flames with doing and saying things. I'm not
- 3:13Speaker 4: gonna spoil it for people that haven't seen that clip yet,
- 3:15Speaker 4: because if you don't, you'll see it in the episode
- 3:17Speaker 4: on Sunday. But Steve is here to stay. Him and
- 3:19Speaker 4: doctor Mimi are a great addition to the show. I
- 3:22Speaker 4: want to see what the new house looks like next year,
- 3:24Speaker 4: so I'm excited and I'm ready for this reunion.
- 3:27Speaker 6: Claudia Jordan, I did not see the trailer yet, but
- 3:30Speaker 6: now I will go watch the extended reunion. I mean
- 3:32Speaker 6: the trailer, but I will say this from the commentary
- 3:35Speaker 6: of the comments I've been seing online, people saying the
- 3:37Speaker 6: reunion looks even better than the season. Yes, that's how
- 3:41Speaker 6: exciting people are for so I'm super looking forward to it, though,
- 3:45Speaker 6: so don't said everything anyways.
- 3:49Speaker 4: Remind me to send you the links of that of
- 3:50Speaker 4: those preview clips, Claudia that's not in the trailer, because
- 3:54Speaker 4: I want you to see what's coming next week.
- 3:56Speaker 5: You're gonna be like, you'll see.
- 3:58Speaker 3: Yeah, it's definitely crazy and love. We all know that
- 4:05Speaker 3: that cast always delivers. But one thing that was so
- 4:09Speaker 3: fresh was the fact that you know, like Justin said,
- 4:15Speaker 3: that show has been off for twelve seasons, and doctor
- 4:19Speaker 3: Jackie and doctor Simon have office, have first chair because
- 4:22Speaker 3: the show is about doctors. This season is Toya and Quad,
- 4:28Speaker 3: which to me signals once again that we saw Potomac.
- 4:32Speaker 2: It signals a new wave of what that show could be.
- 4:38Speaker 3: And one thing that they also tease Claudia and this
- 4:41Speaker 3: trailer was whether or not this will be Doctor Heavenly's
- 4:45Speaker 3: last season if she does become a congresswoman, And.
- 4:49Speaker 6: You know, the primary, she's up against a really old
- 4:52Speaker 6: member of like someone that really is in his eighties
- 4:55Speaker 6: in a wheelchair doesn't really make many public appearances. No
- 4:59Speaker 6: disrespect to his life legacy, but there there are people
- 5:01Speaker 6: are really talking a lot about term limits, and you know,
- 5:05Speaker 6: if you're not able to be as effective, she has
- 5:07Speaker 6: a good chance of.
- 5:09Speaker 4: Yeah, because it sounds like he won't even hear it
- 5:11Speaker 4: if she say your mama. So so that's good. At
- 5:15Speaker 4: least her opponent won't even hear her if he if
- 5:18Speaker 4: she said your mama to him, she's gonna whisper it
- 5:21Speaker 4: at the debate on that podium.
- 5:22Speaker 5: She's gonna cover the MinC your mama.
- 5:26Speaker 2: I don't know. I didn't.
- 5:26Speaker 6: I didn't. I didn't pay at union of the primary.
- 5:28Speaker 6: I know, I don't. They had their I thought they
- 5:30Speaker 6: had their primary. I gotta look. Yeah, but damn.
- 5:35Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, mama may the fucking mama.
- 5:39Speaker 5: Yes, and my constitutes. You know she's gonna be right off.
- 5:42Speaker 6: Wouldn't it be dope if she won on the show.
- 5:47Speaker 5: Yeah, it would be great.
- 5:49Speaker 6: I mean, why not. Look if we got in the
- 5:50Speaker 6: White House now, but Pete Hexas, it's all reality started,
- 5:53Speaker 6: will not even really start.
- 5:54Speaker 5: This is reality people, What I mean?
- 5:56Speaker 4: We have a McMahon and what's the others. Yeah, what's
- 6:01Speaker 4: the other one that looked like a little bat that
- 6:03Speaker 4: was over the over the educate the Department of Education.
- 6:07Speaker 6: Uh yeah, yes, spells everything wrong.
- 6:12Speaker 4: Dumb, stupid. Yeah, so you're right, the bar's love. If
- 6:16Speaker 4: I was heavily though, my campaign slogan.
- 6:18Speaker 5: Would have been your mama.
- 6:20Speaker 4: Yeah running, she's a health care professionally, I'm here for
- 6:26Speaker 4: you and your mama. Okay, everybody saying that, let me
- 6:29Speaker 4: show you what I mean. My campaign slogan would be
- 6:32Speaker 4: your mama.
- 6:33Speaker 6: Okay, and never mind, never thank.
- 6:37Speaker 2: You Claudia for behaving.
- 6:49Speaker 6: I want you to meet it. You can say it.
- 6:52Speaker 2: Listen, y'all getting stupped in real time.
- 6:55Speaker 3: Let me see claud has to say.
- 7:04Speaker 5: Hold on, let me look.
- 7:06Speaker 6: No.
- 7:09Speaker 5: Yeah, but you can't say that friend, like leave.
- 7:25Speaker 6: Some blanks and make it feel in the blank.
- 7:30Speaker 5: Lead you. You got it out.
- 7:35Speaker 2: That's why.
- 7:36Speaker 3: That's why rain drops drops. That's why I have a
- 7:39Speaker 3: special announcement where Claudia may be able to really say
- 7:43Speaker 3: things and dustin to tonight. I gotta spare hert just
- 7:48Speaker 3: a lit so bit all right, hood journalist, I love you,
- 7:53Speaker 3: by the way, She's a Patreon rain drop hate hood journalist.
- 7:56Speaker 2: She watches everything on Patreon. Love you all right, say it?
- 8:00Speaker 6: Say it? CJ. I can't, y'all, y'all have to go.
- 8:04Speaker 4: I mean, Claudia, you we are listening.
- 8:10Speaker 3: The good thing is we are really your friends.
- 8:16Speaker 5: No after that a little bit, right, So if that's
- 8:21Speaker 5: the case.
- 8:24Speaker 2: Hey, bathta Okay.
- 8:26Speaker 3: So one thing that I want us to get into,
- 8:29Speaker 3: so listen, we're gonna talk about my e J.
- 8:33Speaker 2: Johnson interview, So Rain Johns.
- 8:37Speaker 3: We're gonna get into that a second. But before that,
- 8:39Speaker 3: I do want to talk about what could be another
- 8:45Speaker 3: end of an era. We just saw a few weeks
- 8:49Speaker 3: ago that Basketball Wives was officially canceled.
- 8:53Speaker 2: Claudia on Patreon, you can say anything on there. We
- 8:55Speaker 2: will wait say it.
- 8:56Speaker 3: Then, my fellow April b Mika Smith, you are, but
- 9:02Speaker 3: stay tuned, okay.
- 9:03Speaker 6: If my employer doesn't want me to say anything.
- 9:06Speaker 2: That, I won't stay tuned for a new announcement. Okay.
- 9:11Speaker 3: One thing that I want to get into rob before
- 9:13Speaker 3: we discussed e. J. Johnson interview is Mama Dee revealed
- 9:18Speaker 3: that Love and Hip Hop Atlanta may not be coming back.
- 9:24Speaker 3: It has been something that we've heard from Chaotic, who
- 9:28Speaker 3: was a cast member on the show, and.
- 9:30Speaker 2: It's been something that we've been hearing here and there.
- 9:33Speaker 3: Mama Dee went live on Saturday and mentioned it.
- 9:38Speaker 2: You know, it's what's happening in this industry. We talked
- 9:43Speaker 2: about this before.
- 9:45Speaker 3: Its this industry just ain't the same anymore. We just
- 9:49Speaker 3: learned that Access Hollywood, Steve Willco's show, our friend Caroama Brownmo.
- 9:57Speaker 2: Their talk shows got canceled.
- 9:59Speaker 3: We also just learned that Taler Perry sold the twenty
- 10:04Speaker 3: five percent ownership he had in BT Plus to Paramount
- 10:08Speaker 3: because Paramount owns all of by comp which includes BT
- 10:11Speaker 3: and they're not going to consolidate BT plus into Paramount Streaming.
- 10:16Speaker 2: So look, this industry is changing.
- 10:17Speaker 3: So Love and Hip Hop Atlanta is rumored to not
- 10:20Speaker 3: be coming back, based on Mama D's latest post two. Claudia,
- 10:25Speaker 3: what are your thoughts on that, especially as a current
- 10:28Speaker 3: cast member on Love and Hip Hop Miami.
- 10:31Speaker 6: I just do guess appearances.
- 10:34Speaker 2: You're not the opening act. This is the like, this
- 10:37Speaker 2: is the life.
- 10:40Speaker 6: I get a hero, but I am in the mix
- 10:45Speaker 6: the second part when it returns in April. I do
- 10:47Speaker 6: have scenes where I'm kind of you know, I'm stirring
- 10:50Speaker 6: a little sun so.
- 10:50Speaker 2: Anyways, I have an usive interview dropping in April.
- 10:54Speaker 3: When Carlos you know, it's somebody that you may know when.
- 11:01Speaker 6: Well a beginning, middle end, beginning, okay, good, okay, Yeah,
- 11:07Speaker 6: I mean I'm surprised that they would have like that
- 11:09Speaker 6: one will get the word that is canceled before the
- 11:11Speaker 6: other one, because I think that was the strong that's
- 11:13Speaker 6: always been the strongest one. I always thought that Atlanta
- 11:15Speaker 6: was the strongest one, you know, even for nostalgia purposes,
- 11:17Speaker 6: you know what I mean. Like, you know, I've been
- 11:20Speaker 6: working on love and hip hop Miami, and we've been
- 11:21Speaker 6: hearing that for a while and I keep asking and like, well,
- 11:23Speaker 6: not really, but then someone kind of said, look at
- 11:27Speaker 6: the writing on the wall and they are closing things down,
- 11:31Speaker 6: Like so I do know that, uh, people are starting
- 11:35Speaker 6: to look elsewhere for the next thing. And plus they
- 11:37Speaker 6: start back in March usually March, I'm sorry, May usually
- 11:41Speaker 6: and right now, yeah, I'm sorry. Miami usually starts back
- 11:45Speaker 6: in May. Last we did last year, so they wouldn't
- 11:49Speaker 6: like at this point in the game, they would at
- 11:51Speaker 6: least be sending offer letters out and be negotiating for
- 11:54Speaker 6: the next season. So I think that I think they're
- 11:56Speaker 6: getting rid of all of them. Uh yes, guy dances
- 11:58Speaker 6: taken over, right, they taking up everything. Everybody black is
- 12:03Speaker 6: becoming a casualty of this. Uh this anti woke, which
- 12:07Speaker 6: is the anti black work work. They don't care. They're
- 12:10Speaker 6: not prioritizing black shows. And I think it's discussing what's
- 12:13Speaker 6: happening to black media. Was that anything leaning to the left,
- 12:17Speaker 6: and that it's not like something like the seven hundred
- 12:19Speaker 6: Club or maga Ish like it's it's really going. It's hard, right,
- 12:23Speaker 6: and it's it's it's sad. So we have to lean
- 12:25Speaker 6: onto the YouTube, the Patreons stuff that you're doing, Carlos
- 12:29Speaker 6: kind only make your own products stuff. Now is the
- 12:31Speaker 6: time if you want to do a talk show, take
- 12:33Speaker 6: it over to YouTube, make all the money, take up
- 12:35Speaker 6: the middleman. There's still avenues so far. I mean hopefully
- 12:38Speaker 6: they don't do anything on YouTube. But yeah, it's it's yeah,
- 12:42Speaker 6: I think it's over with.
- 12:43Speaker 3: And before I get disgustin Claudia, I do want to
- 12:46Speaker 3: ask you this. You obviously happen again in the Hollywood
- 12:54Speaker 3: game for a very long time. A lot of people
- 12:58Speaker 3: really don't understand how serious this is and the reason
- 13:04Speaker 3: why I wanted to ask you this question first before
- 13:07Speaker 3: I get to Dustin, is you've seen the ebbs and
- 13:10Speaker 3: flows of this industry. We've all seen it collectively with
- 13:14Speaker 3: the music industry growing up in this business. But you,
- 13:18Speaker 3: being a television bet, what do you see happening? Because
- 13:22Speaker 3: I don't think people understand that the reality shows that
- 13:27Speaker 3: used to be a cheaper product is now being sacrificed
- 13:32Speaker 3: to have other content on these networks as well.
- 13:35Speaker 2: Like talk to them about what you think is really happening.
- 13:40Speaker 6: I have survived for three decades in this business through
- 13:44Speaker 6: writer strikes, actors strikes, all kinds of things where we
- 13:47Speaker 6: thought that, Okay, we're devastated right now, but we've always
- 13:51Speaker 6: come back. There has always been a consideration for black programming.
- 13:56Speaker 6: And this I'm telling you guys right now, this is
- 13:59Speaker 6: different than anything I've ever seen in my thirty years.
- 14:02Speaker 6: They are blatantly doing it. They've removed shame from banning
- 14:06Speaker 6: black people, from kicking black people out out of their
- 14:09Speaker 6: jobs executives all the way to TV shows and radio.
- 14:13Speaker 6: I mean it is big businesses are consolidating there. I mean,
- 14:17Speaker 6: look at radio shows like before they be like hundreds
- 14:21Speaker 6: of local radio shows where you know, like you'd be
- 14:25Speaker 6: a squad of four people hosting a morning show in
- 14:27Speaker 6: Dallas and Chattanooga and New York City. Now you got
- 14:31Speaker 6: like three or four syndicated shows, and they put them,
- 14:33Speaker 6: they wire them into all the different cities. Everyone's consolidating,
- 14:37Speaker 6: so five or six families or companies make all the
- 14:40Speaker 6: money and then everybody else just scrambles. This is different
- 14:43Speaker 6: than any I am nervous. I am scared. This is
- 14:45Speaker 6: nothing like that we've ever seen. So we have to
- 14:48Speaker 6: just I mean, black people will used to figuring it
- 14:51Speaker 6: out and trying to figure out new ways. But I'm scared.
- 14:54Speaker 6: Like when they the last few things we have left
- 14:56Speaker 6: is YouTube, and they already messed up TikTok, where people
- 15:00Speaker 6: aren't making the money they used to. They are really
- 15:01Speaker 6: doing a number on us right now. This is different.
- 15:05Speaker 6: I don't know how we get through this. First of all,
- 15:07Speaker 6: they're not funding movies that they used to even to
- 15:10Speaker 6: be like I hear that like the deals they would
- 15:12Speaker 6: give before, like they're getting less generous with the like
- 15:16Speaker 6: maybe it would be a fifty fifty split, now it's
- 15:17Speaker 6: seventy thirty and not faving the director or the artist
- 15:21Speaker 6: it's it's going to force a lot of people to
- 15:24Speaker 6: have to get out of this business unfortunately. Yeah, breakfast
- 15:27Speaker 6: club and podcasts moving to Netflix, that means taking the
- 15:29Speaker 6: stuff off of YouTube and like making you have to
- 15:32Speaker 6: have a Netflix account. Like they're just taking more and
- 15:35Speaker 6: more stuff away from us. So I now more than
- 15:38Speaker 6: every I know, I'm going along, but I just have
- 15:40Speaker 6: to just make a point of this. We've said this before.
- 15:44Speaker 6: You've got to support the black outlets, the black content creators,
- 15:48Speaker 6: the black companies, the people that are providing a voice,
- 15:51Speaker 6: and then social media, y'all better going our fan base
- 15:53Speaker 6: or one of these other black owned companies fan base.
- 15:57Speaker 6: The way they are targeting black creators and people that
- 16:00Speaker 6: speak out against this war, this government say, certain countries
- 16:04Speaker 6: that don't rock with they are silencing their voices. So
- 16:07Speaker 6: before we can't tell each other where to all go
- 16:10Speaker 6: tell you people. Now, go meet me on YouTube, go
- 16:13Speaker 6: meet me on fan base. You have to because listen,
- 16:15Speaker 6: these white people are not given it. Not all I'm
- 16:17Speaker 6: talking about the racist ones. They are not giving a
- 16:20Speaker 6: damn about all arts. I mean, Trump's renamed the Kennedy Center.
- 16:24Speaker 6: They do that. Other fellow wife folks like they are
- 16:27Speaker 6: coming for everybody, so take it seriously, y'all. It's gonna
- 16:30Speaker 6: be real bad for the next few years. It really is. Sorry,
- 16:35Speaker 6: I know that's how I went on a ramp, but I.
- 16:36Speaker 2: Said, I want to know.
- 16:38Speaker 3: I wanted you to really speak to it because it's serious,
- 16:41Speaker 3: and I'll share my two cents too, but I want
- 16:44Speaker 3: to hear from Dustin first. Dustin, you are the connoisseur
- 16:49Speaker 3: of all things media. What are your thoughts on this happening?
- 16:52Speaker 4: Well, we're living it's so much misinformation going around right now.
- 16:55Speaker 5: We're living in the age of.
- 16:56Speaker 4: Misinformation, some intention of some accident on something just stupid.
- 17:01Speaker 4: Clia just mentioned how Trump took over to Kennedy Center
- 17:04Speaker 4: after ruining it and making everybody that was scheduled to
- 17:07Speaker 4: perform there. That's worth a damn cancel only to ruin it,
- 17:11Speaker 4: tank it.
- 17:11Speaker 5: It's not making any money.
- 17:12Speaker 4: There is absolutely a number attached to all of this
- 17:15Speaker 4: madness because in his taking over of TikTok, he has
- 17:18Speaker 4: now just decided that he's owed a ten billion dollar
- 17:22Speaker 4: fee for saving TikTok, So that's coming his way to
- 17:25Speaker 4: ten billion dollars.
- 17:26Speaker 5: So I think it's pretty clear what that's all about.
- 17:28Speaker 4: But speaking of misinformation, I didn't even know if the
- 17:31Speaker 4: love and Hip Hop cancelation was real because it came
- 17:33Speaker 4: from Mama D.
- 17:35Speaker 5: And the last time I seen Mama D.
- 17:37Speaker 4: Which was like two days ago, she was participating in
- 17:39Speaker 4: a senior tork contest on the internet at somebody's concert.
- 17:43Speaker 4: And the way that she was rifthing and convulsing and
- 17:48Speaker 4: contorting her body, I was concerned about her. I didn't
- 17:50Speaker 4: know if she was seizing or if she was cramping
- 17:54Speaker 4: or what was going on, the way that she was
- 17:56Speaker 4: moving so sporadically at tight in a ninety degree angles
- 18:01Speaker 4: that her joints had been in, and shit, it was
- 18:03Speaker 4: obtuse angles. It was you know, yeah, it was a
- 18:07Speaker 4: lot of Isoceles triangles, and shit that her the shapes
- 18:10Speaker 4: that her limbs were making that I know had not
- 18:12Speaker 4: been created in quite some time. And so when she
- 18:15Speaker 4: finally stopped, I had to catch my breath for a minute,
- 18:18Speaker 4: because once she stopped moving, I had to make sure
- 18:20Speaker 4: she moved the next time. And so once she stood up,
- 18:23Speaker 4: I was like, okay, okay, So I didn't know the
- 18:27Speaker 4: way Mama did just be lying and talking shit. Sometimes
- 18:29Speaker 4: it's not unlike her to just spew something out that
- 18:33Speaker 4: isn't factual. But now that Claudia, my dear friend, has
- 18:37Speaker 4: shined this light on it, then there's something to be
- 18:39Speaker 4: concerned about, which is why I don't like it when
- 18:42Speaker 4: people there's this new thing where people.
- 18:44Speaker 5: Try to like shame Love and hip Hop.
- 18:47Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying, to act like the people
- 18:48Speaker 4: on Love and Hip Hop is something wrong with them,
- 18:50Speaker 4: And I don't understand why because love it or hated,
- 18:53Speaker 4: I think it doesn't have to be your cup of tea.
- 18:55Speaker 4: But there's a lot of black producers, black talent, black camera,
- 18:59Speaker 4: black crew, there's a lot of people that that franchise
- 19:03Speaker 4: because it's more than one show employs and has employed continually.
- 19:07Speaker 5: Say what you want.
- 19:07Speaker 4: But Kirk and Rashida been working since season one over there,
- 19:10Speaker 4: and they're making good money. Her other businesses have thrived
- 19:14Speaker 4: and been able to because of that capital that they
- 19:15Speaker 4: pulling in over there. Spice, I love Spice. I don't
- 19:19Speaker 4: care what nobody say. I love Spice and I've enjoyed
- 19:21Speaker 4: watching her on the show. This past season of Love
- 19:24Speaker 4: and Hip Hop Atlanta has actually been incredible, incredible, So
- 19:30Speaker 4: it's a damn shame, and just like Claudia just illustrated,
- 19:33Speaker 4: we do need to support these shows, the ones that
- 19:36Speaker 4: you like. You ain't got to watch something that you
- 19:38Speaker 4: don't fuck with, you know what I'm saying, But trashing
- 19:40Speaker 4: the show, saying that they're bad for us and all
- 19:42Speaker 4: this other shit, there is another sign to be looked at,
- 19:46Speaker 4: and hopefully if we kind of shift that Lenz, we
- 19:49Speaker 4: can save some other stuff from seeing the same fate.
- 19:52Speaker 1: Unfortunately, this is reality with the King, and I'm Carlos King.
- 19:58Speaker 2: Let's get back into the show.
- 20:01Speaker 6: I agree, and I think you know, people quick to
- 20:04Speaker 6: call it ghetto and stuff, and it very well may
- 20:08Speaker 6: be right, but that doesn't mean it's a negative. I
- 20:10Speaker 6: feel like when we just like black people, we say
- 20:13Speaker 6: this all the time. We're not a monolith. There's nothing
- 20:15Speaker 6: wrong with I've always said this, and I've said this
- 20:17Speaker 6: to the owner to let me at zeus. It's long
- 20:20Speaker 6: like balance, right, It's about balance. So we can have
- 20:23Speaker 6: our cos we show type shows, and we can have
- 20:25Speaker 6: our shows like Baddies, and we can have our shows
- 20:27Speaker 6: like love and hip hop. There's a place for all
- 20:29Speaker 6: these stories like just because that's not your story and
- 20:31Speaker 6: your your social circle doesn't look like that. There's nothing
- 20:34Speaker 6: wrong with like shining a light on those folks that
- 20:37Speaker 6: have that kind of lifestyle. Like this everyone kind of matters, like,
- 20:41Speaker 6: there's not kind of everyone's kind of demo matters, you know,
- 20:45Speaker 6: and you you don't have to like it, you can
- 20:47Speaker 6: hate it. But like, I think there should be different
- 20:50Speaker 6: kinds of shows where you show the different degrees of
- 20:53Speaker 6: blackness and our culture.
- 20:55Speaker 4: There's nothing wrong with that, I agree, and all further
- 20:57Speaker 4: to that, just to take it a step further, I
- 21:00Speaker 4: think inevitably there will always be shows that maybe don't
- 21:03Speaker 4: go along with our personal constitution, our personal you know,
- 21:07Speaker 4: the way we live our lives. Right, there will always
- 21:10Speaker 4: be shows that show case people that we share some
- 21:13Speaker 4: sort of identity with. They may not paint them in
- 21:16Speaker 4: the light we would prefer, but that's always going to happen.
- 21:19Speaker 4: So to me, it is a feudal effort to try
- 21:22Speaker 4: to combat that. There are positives to these shows existing. Right,
- 21:26Speaker 4: You say what you want about Zeus and I'm not
- 21:28Speaker 4: trying to be the Zeus Savior or none of that shit,
- 21:31Speaker 4: But it's a lot of people working that that may
- 21:36Speaker 4: have been doing other things that are not I hate
- 21:40Speaker 4: to even say this word, but are not as safe
- 21:42Speaker 4: for them as being employed over as zeus. There's just
- 21:45Speaker 4: other sides to this thing, and I don't know. That's
- 21:50Speaker 4: just where I'm at with it. So if Mama Dias
- 21:52Speaker 4: wasn't lying and drunk somewhere and she was actually telling the.
- 21:55Speaker 5: Truth, then I'm sad that that's happening. I'm sad.
- 21:59Speaker 3: Yeah, So look, this is what I can I can
- 22:03Speaker 3: share based on, of course being in the reality business,
- 22:09Speaker 3: dealing with networks, pitching shows, and understanding a lot more
- 22:12Speaker 3: of what's going on. It has been long rumored that
- 22:15Speaker 3: Love and Hip Hop is on his last days, and
- 22:19Speaker 3: a lot of that just has to do with the
- 22:21Speaker 3: industry change.
- 22:23Speaker 2: I've said this before, This industry is broke and and
- 22:26Speaker 2: that's and ask Claudia in Dustin.
- 22:28Speaker 3: It's it's not just reality stars, it's it's it's happening
- 22:32Speaker 3: all over. Is the reason why when it comes to
- 22:36Speaker 3: my podcast, for example, you two know this, I would
- 22:39Speaker 3: get dragged all the time, Carlos, focus on your own shows.
- 22:43Speaker 3: And the reason why I don't care what people say
- 22:47Speaker 3: is because I knew that when I got this podcast
- 22:50Speaker 3: that I wanted to make sure to talk about all
- 22:53Speaker 3: the reality shows, including the love and hip hops and
- 22:57Speaker 3: things that people always saw less than. Y'all saw Marit
- 23:01Speaker 3: to Medicine as less than and the moment I got
- 23:04Speaker 3: this podcast, and I'm dropping an interview next week with
- 23:07Speaker 3: some people who gave me prompts for this. I'm the
- 23:11Speaker 3: one who really told everybody, like, please watch marthon Medicine,
- 23:14Speaker 3: like it's a great show.
- 23:16Speaker 2: Because when it comes to reality television, let's keep it.
- 23:19Speaker 2: I'm keeping a buck with y'all.
- 23:22Speaker 3: Everybody wants to be a housewife, everybody, let's let's have
- 23:27Speaker 3: for a conversation.
- 23:30Speaker 2: There's girls on shows currently who want to be a housewife.
- 23:36Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, who don't even appreciate the show that they're
- 23:40Speaker 3: on because they're too busy trying to be a housewife.
- 23:44Speaker 3: And there's nothing wrong with wanting to be a housewife.
- 23:48Speaker 3: It's a it's an amazing opportunity. It's an international show. Okay,
- 23:52Speaker 3: it's fantastic. But some of the reasons why a lot
- 23:57Speaker 3: of the girls want to do that is because of
- 23:59Speaker 3: this of this sort of halo it has of being
- 24:04Speaker 3: you know, the.
- 24:06Speaker 2: Oscars of reality television, and.
- 24:11Speaker 3: You know this sort of like paint brush of well,
- 24:14Speaker 3: it's class here and all those things. And I always thought,
- 24:18Speaker 3: and this is coming from somebody who did Seasons one
- 24:20Speaker 3: of Atlanta Jersey, I never understood the classy part in
- 24:25Speaker 3: terms of the actions, because I saw Teresa you like
- 24:30Speaker 3: to flip a table.
- 24:31Speaker 2: I saw Teresa Judices run down the country club.
- 24:35Speaker 3: I saw Danielle stouth hair get pulled by Jack Ashley,
- 24:41Speaker 3: you know what I mean.
- 24:41Speaker 2: So I never understood that.
- 24:44Speaker 3: My point in saying all of that is it's one
- 24:47Speaker 3: of those things where you guys complain so much about
- 24:52Speaker 3: wanted more shows than when you have them.
- 24:54Speaker 2: You don't support it.
- 24:56Speaker 3: You don't support it when you're cast on the show.
- 24:58Speaker 3: You don't support it when it's on. Y'all are so
- 25:01Speaker 3: quick to say cancel this show. We're bored, it has
- 25:05Speaker 3: run its course, versus saying what we say every Monday night,
- 25:09Speaker 3: which is, you know, maybe this person should leave the show.
- 25:13Speaker 3: Bring in these type of people. We never say cancel
- 25:16Speaker 3: the show. Were the three of us plus Blue. We
- 25:18Speaker 3: always give advice in terms of what we would like
- 25:21Speaker 3: to see, but we never say cancel.
- 25:24Speaker 2: But you guys want to do that, then y'all could
- 25:26Speaker 2: plain there's no black shows. But y'all WoT support any
- 25:28Speaker 2: black shows, and we y'all do.
- 25:29Speaker 3: Y'all call them ghetto because y'all too think the only
- 25:32Speaker 3: show that should be around our housewives. Every other show,
- 25:36Speaker 3: y'all don't say cancel it. Y'all say this is how
- 25:39Speaker 3: we can help. But when it comes to other black
- 25:41Speaker 3: reality shows, y'all so quick to be like, get rid
- 25:44Speaker 3: of it, We're bored. Is run his course, it's ghetto,
- 25:47Speaker 3: it's ratchet. It's not showing us in the best light.
- 25:51Speaker 3: The eleven o'clock News does not show us in.
- 25:53Speaker 2: The best light. But you guys don't petition but that
- 25:55Speaker 2: to be canceled. You see what I'm saying.
- 25:58Speaker 3: So what's happening is what Claudia and Doesn't are saying,
- 26:03Speaker 3: which is there is this call to action to get
- 26:05Speaker 3: rid of it, okay, And that's why for me, I
- 26:10Speaker 3: am focusing more on doing other stuff because it's not
- 26:15Speaker 3: just affecting the reality stars.
- 26:17Speaker 2: It's affecting the reality creators.
- 26:19Speaker 3: It's affecting reality producers seeing all these talk shows get canceled.
- 26:23Speaker 3: Sherry Shephard, like I said, Access Hollywood, our friend Caroamo Brown,
- 26:29Speaker 3: these are signs of where the industry is hit it,
- 26:33Speaker 3: and I'm going to tell y'all right now, it's not
- 26:35Speaker 3: going to get better. It's going to get worse before
- 26:37Speaker 3: it gets better. Similar to the music industry. That's why
- 26:41Speaker 3: people who are in the music industry, they are doing
- 26:45Speaker 3: other stuff. They're not becoming influencers. They're not making songs
- 26:49Speaker 3: that survive on TikTok. Nobody wants to write songs anymore.
- 26:54Speaker 3: I was watching Beyonce footage yesterday and I just marvel, like,
- 27:00Speaker 3: we will never have another Beyonce. It's never going to happen.
- 27:06Speaker 3: Number one, You girls don't want to work like she does.
- 27:08Speaker 3: Number two, there's no Matthew knows arow but.
- 27:13Speaker 5: You know.
- 27:14Speaker 2: But my point is, the girls don't work anymore. The
- 27:18Speaker 2: girls don't want to don't want to put When I
- 27:20Speaker 2: say the girls, I don't mean just girls, thank you.
- 27:25Speaker 2: I mean the girl That's what I say.
- 27:27Speaker 5: But it's not it's.
- 27:34Speaker 3: Nobody wants to work anymore. Nobody wants to put in
- 27:36Speaker 3: the effort. All y'all want to do is complain. And
- 27:39Speaker 3: then when I hear songs on the radio, I'm like,
- 27:41Speaker 3: this is for TikTok, and that's one stream of income.
- 27:45Speaker 3: But I think globally we have to figure out how
- 27:49Speaker 3: to support each other and stop running.
- 27:52Speaker 2: Stop y'all gotta stop with this ship of.
- 27:58Speaker 3: Desiring one angled of something and not fully supporting other.
- 28:04Speaker 2: Avenues like the TV, you know, like a Zeus. You
- 28:08Speaker 2: know what I'm saying.
- 28:08Speaker 3: Zeus may not be your cup of tea, And trust me,
- 28:10Speaker 3: I get that right. I don't watch Zeus just like
- 28:14Speaker 3: Lemmy don't watch my shit.
- 28:16Speaker 2: But it doesn't mean he and I can't support each other.
- 28:20Speaker 5: Do you each other professionally?
- 28:23Speaker 2: Yes?
- 28:24Speaker 3: He said this publicly, and that's why I'm saying it.
- 28:26Speaker 3: I introduced him to Joscelyn because all the shows that
- 28:30Speaker 3: I pitched with Joscelyn's Cabaret, the networks turned it down.
- 28:34Speaker 3: And when I met Lemmy at the dog park, funny story,
- 28:38Speaker 3: and we were talking and I saw this black man
- 28:41Speaker 3: doing his thing, and he said, who do you Who
- 28:43Speaker 3: would be.
- 28:43Speaker 2: Good for Zeus? I said Joscelyn. Josce Len flew to
- 28:46Speaker 2: Los Angeles.
- 28:48Speaker 3: She and I met with him, and the rest is
- 28:52Speaker 3: history and she's doing wonderfully. You know, So again, support
- 28:59Speaker 3: what's out there, and trust when I say this, I'm
- 29:02Speaker 3: not saying you have to love it or like it,
- 29:05Speaker 3: but damn it, do you have to go on Twitter
- 29:09Speaker 3: and leave.
- 29:10Speaker 5: Comments advocating for his failure.
- 29:13Speaker 2: To be removed and canceled? And then when y'all get
- 29:16Speaker 2: me at that BT plus is gone, did.
- 29:19Speaker 3: Y'all subscribe to the motherfucker y'all to subscribe to it?
- 29:23Speaker 6: It's crazy, like they'll say, people say like, oh, Zeus
- 29:26Speaker 6: is ghettos, this, that, and third, but then you have
- 29:29Speaker 6: a whole bunch of non ghetto shows on BT plus
- 29:32Speaker 6: that wasn't getting the same support. But like, let me
- 29:34Speaker 6: tell you something with Zeus will do every month is
- 29:37Speaker 6: they're getting a million people or more to pay that
- 29:39Speaker 6: four ninety nine or whatever it is every single month.
- 29:41Speaker 6: So they have dedicated fan base. Dedicated fan base they
- 29:45Speaker 6: do so money were your mouth this, I mean I
- 29:48Speaker 6: would love I mean no, some people saying, are you
- 29:51Speaker 6: telling us to watch ghetto TV? We're not saying that.
- 29:53Speaker 6: Was saying like like if there's aying this should be
- 29:56Speaker 6: a yang. Okay, I have to stuff that's like the
- 29:58Speaker 6: untend stuff as but then also support some stuff over
- 30:01Speaker 6: here on BT plus or don't hate on it at
- 30:04Speaker 6: the very least.
- 30:10Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, so you know it's it's it's, it's, it's,
- 30:13Speaker 3: it's what's happening.
- 30:15Speaker 2: So I'm moving on with that. I do want to
- 30:18Speaker 2: get into EJ.
- 30:19Speaker 3: Johnson's interview that I did because boil Boy look and
- 30:25Speaker 3: this it doesn't quitly know my spirit.
- 30:27Speaker 2: When I do interviews, I literally do it.
- 30:29Speaker 3: I leave and I put it up and I'm and
- 30:32Speaker 3: I just whatever, you know I And I'm being very honest.
- 30:36Speaker 2: I did not expect the E. J.
- 30:39Speaker 3: Johnson interview to blow up as big as it did.
- 30:43Speaker 3: I literally, First of all, we taped that interview in December.
- 30:47Speaker 6: Wow.
- 30:48Speaker 2: Really yeah, we.
- 30:50Speaker 3: Taped it in December, and I hell it because obviously
- 30:53Speaker 3: I do a lot of interviews, and then depending on
- 30:55Speaker 3: the timing of stuff like like for example, Dakara, We're
- 30:59Speaker 3: Top Model, I have to do that and release it
- 31:01Speaker 3: immediately because.
- 31:02Speaker 2: It was a hot topic.
- 31:04Speaker 3: So that's why a lot of my interviews that you
- 31:06Speaker 3: guys will watch is not always I do it and
- 31:09Speaker 3: I'll release it the next week. It just depends on
- 31:11Speaker 3: the how relevant it is. I want to talk to
- 31:17Speaker 3: YouTube briefly about the E. J. Johnson interview to get
- 31:21Speaker 3: your perspective on it. I do want to play this
- 31:25Speaker 3: clip first, I'm not gonna play the whole thing.
- 31:28Speaker 2: I want to.
- 31:28Speaker 3: Play some of it so that Claudia and Dustin and
- 31:35Speaker 3: I can have a quick discussion about it, and then
- 31:41Speaker 3: I'll tell you guys what I'm doing this week in
- 31:43Speaker 3: regards to that particular interview. So here it is.
- 31:52Speaker 2: Let me share my screen. Can y'all see it? You
- 31:59Speaker 2: and your sister liking the same guy.
- 32:01Speaker 7: I honestly that is ultimately like what got the pick
- 32:04Speaker 7: the show picked up. But also you know, in terms
- 32:07Speaker 7: of the gender and sexualities and stuff like that, it
- 32:11Speaker 7: was very important because that happens. You know, you can
- 32:16Speaker 7: I don't attract gay men, and I'm not and I'm
- 32:20Speaker 7: not attracted to gay men. Like it's just not a thing.
- 32:24Speaker 5: Tell me more about that, you know.
- 32:26Speaker 7: Just I think like if you ask any of the
- 32:28Speaker 7: girls like they'll tell you, they'll tell you the same.
- 32:31Speaker 5: And I think they're just labels, you know.
- 32:33Speaker 7: That's what Like, I don't care what you know, Like
- 32:34Speaker 7: I'm dating someone, I'm like, I don't care what you
- 32:36Speaker 7: identify as or what you call yourself as long as you're.
- 32:38Speaker 5: Happy being who you are.
- 32:40Speaker 7: But no, but to be honest, it's like that's why
- 32:42Speaker 7: I don't really go to I don't go to gay clubs.
- 32:44Speaker 7: I don't go to you know, gay things because it's
- 32:45Speaker 7: like the men that I attract are not there. And
- 32:48Speaker 7: also like they're like, you know, they kind of.
- 32:50Speaker 2: Like wave you off. You're just like oh that you know, hey, girl.
- 32:53Speaker 7: Like you know, it's not you're not in in here,
- 32:56Speaker 7: in here like the rest.
- 32:57Speaker 5: Of us are. You know.
- 32:59Speaker 7: It's just it's always but it's I never really understood
- 33:02Speaker 7: it until now because before when I would go and
- 33:04Speaker 7: I would I just was like, there's something about this room.
- 33:07Speaker 5: It's like it's almost like.
- 33:08Speaker 7: They don't want me here, Like I'm not really in
- 33:11Speaker 7: it here because I'm not presenting as a man. I'm
- 33:15Speaker 7: not presenting in a in in that way.
- 33:19Speaker 3: And to be clear, the gay community room, yeah, your
- 33:22Speaker 3: own community yeah yeah yeah.
- 33:23Speaker 7: But it's not like a shameful thing or just like
- 33:26Speaker 7: oh they're mean to me, But it's like these are
- 33:28Speaker 7: not my men in terms of attraction. Now, I'm just
- 33:31Speaker 7: going to have a key, key sure, but like these
- 33:34Speaker 7: are not the men that are that are interested in
- 33:36Speaker 7: me in that capacity. I do that when I go
- 33:42Speaker 7: to the straight rooms.
- 33:47Speaker 3: So what I want to do first is get your
- 33:51Speaker 3: thoughts on that conversation, Dustin, Oh, thank.
- 33:57Speaker 6: God, man, I'm like, God, I was not making eye contact.
- 34:02Speaker 4: I'm like, so, I think that so fucking I'm just
- 34:14Speaker 4: about to speak freely.
- 34:15Speaker 6: So.
- 34:16Speaker 4: I think that Eja use some words to describe circumstances
- 34:21Speaker 4: and situations that he's been in that have unfortunately stoked
- 34:25Speaker 4: a lot of flames and reignited a bunch of meaningless,
- 34:29Speaker 4: baseless conversations that are deeply, deeply rooted in homophobia, transphobia, misogyny,
- 34:37Speaker 4: all of the things. And I think that he kind
- 34:39Speaker 4: of fan those flames by getting on his ass on
- 34:42Speaker 4: your interview and saying that he dates straight men. I
- 34:47Speaker 4: think that the point that he was trying to make
- 34:49Speaker 4: was that men that are attracted to him are attracted
- 34:52Speaker 4: to things that are feminine, and so the likelihood of
- 34:55Speaker 4: him finding interest from someone there in a room of
- 34:58Speaker 4: people who are attracted to the male form or the
- 35:01Speaker 4: male presenting identity are less likely than being in a
- 35:06Speaker 4: room with people who are attracted to femininity. But for
- 35:09Speaker 4: him to say that it was straight men that he
- 35:10Speaker 4: was attracted to, I think was kind of confusing for
- 35:13Speaker 4: a lot of people, and it caused conversations that vollied
- 35:16Speaker 4: over into one thing, into another thing, and into another
- 35:21Speaker 4: and so I just think that that was new information
- 35:23Speaker 4: for people and confusing because of the words used. And
- 35:27Speaker 4: so we just have to be careful and be responsible
- 35:30Speaker 4: when we are discussing things that are sensitive and things
- 35:34Speaker 4: that are related to issues that have been very divisive
- 35:37Speaker 4: within the black community that have created this imaginary rift
- 35:43Speaker 4: or conflict amongst women and female people versus the gay
- 35:49Speaker 4: community and the trans community that does not exist. Conversations
- 35:54Speaker 4: like that have aided in propelling those things forward, and
- 35:59Speaker 4: it's really harmful. So we just got to make sure
- 36:01Speaker 4: we speaking clearly and we're speaking to the audience. EJ
- 36:05Speaker 4: was speaking to an audience to us that was way
- 36:08Speaker 4: larger than gay people who would understand the dynamics of
- 36:11Speaker 4: those situations in spaces that he had been in, and
- 36:14Speaker 4: so the information was falling on ears of people who
- 36:17Speaker 4: had never heard anything like that before. And we're not
- 36:21Speaker 4: responsible for doing the work of figuring it out. It
- 36:24Speaker 4: wasn't their job to figure out what he meant. It
- 36:26Speaker 4: was EJ's job to say what he said, and that's
- 36:28Speaker 4: what he did. But there was another way to make
- 36:31Speaker 4: what I'm assuming EJ's point was in that setting without
- 36:36Speaker 4: adding confusion and stoking the flames of these pointless, divisive
- 36:41Speaker 4: conversations that are not going to get any of us
- 36:44Speaker 4: anywhere further, and that are dividing us at a time
- 36:47Speaker 4: and we really need to be unified.
- 36:49Speaker 5: So those are my feelings about it, Claudia.
- 36:55Speaker 6: If I would have said what EJ said, I would
- 36:57Speaker 6: be roasted all over social media ashore. And I don't
- 37:04Speaker 6: like I agree. I feel like it was a little divisive,
- 37:07Speaker 6: Like I don't think there was a need to say
- 37:08Speaker 6: that he wears some clothes better than women and all
- 37:11Speaker 6: that kind of stuff. And I know that's like a
- 37:13Speaker 6: small part of the interview, but in a time where
- 37:15Speaker 6: the division is just getting the wedge is being driven,
- 37:19Speaker 6: just made bigger and bigger and bigger, it's just like,
- 37:21Speaker 6: h I think EJ really comes from more of a
- 37:24Speaker 6: place of privilege, So maybe it comes off a little
- 37:27Speaker 6: bit like, wait what, but EJ's life will never be
- 37:29Speaker 6: like it's not like any of ours. Okay, I mean
- 37:31Speaker 6: the man, I'm sorry, I don't want to be disprestful.
- 37:34Speaker 6: EJ grew up just differently, just out the gate. You
- 37:38Speaker 6: know what, I mean, everything's a label, everything's like this,
- 37:40Speaker 6: and I think it comes off as an old, rich
- 37:42Speaker 6: white woman. And when he was saying some of these
- 37:45Speaker 6: things he was saying, it kind of felt like, you know,
- 37:47Speaker 6: when you have a maybe a black friend that maybe
- 37:50Speaker 6: black men didn't hit on them while they were in
- 37:52Speaker 6: high school or whatever, and they just only date white men,
- 37:54Speaker 6: so they say, don't I don't mess with the blacks,
- 37:56Speaker 6: you know, because they don't really like me. And it
- 38:00Speaker 6: maybe his reality, but it still can like be a
- 38:02Speaker 6: little bit like, you know, rub you the wrong way.
- 38:05Speaker 6: I get what I was saying about. You know, someone
- 38:09Speaker 6: that that would be attracted to EJ would be more
- 38:15Speaker 6: in tune with the feminine than the masculine. I think
- 38:18Speaker 6: maybe he could have been left there and all the
- 38:20Speaker 6: other stuff was not necessary because I kind of that's
- 38:24Speaker 6: when it went left. I think I think that's was
- 38:25Speaker 6: rubbing people like the wrong way. You know. Okay, I
- 38:30Speaker 6: try to be as careful as I could on that SEGM.
- 38:32Speaker 2: But you look good. No listen, listen, So I'll say this.
- 38:36Speaker 2: You know the thing with EJ that I want.
- 38:42Speaker 3: To start by saying this, EJ does not do interviews. Yeah, J,
- 38:49Speaker 3: albeit famous courtesy of the reality show he was on
- 38:55Speaker 3: rich Kiss and Beverly Hills. EJ in the City has
- 38:57Speaker 3: spent off. That happened more than a decade ago. He's
- 39:04Speaker 3: not out there doing interviews or even being seen. His
- 39:09Speaker 3: social media just got up a few months ago and
- 39:12Speaker 3: you follow EJ. He was gone out of the limelight
- 39:16Speaker 3: for years. And when I reached out to him, it's
- 39:21Speaker 3: because I saw that he had his Instagram back up
- 39:24Speaker 3: and started doing more content and fashion and he's amazing,
- 39:27Speaker 3: amazing when it comes to understanding fashion and labels and
- 39:30Speaker 3: all that stuff.
- 39:30Speaker 2: Back to his whelhouse.
- 39:31Speaker 3: So long story show, I reached out to him and
- 39:33Speaker 3: he could not have been more gracious and more sweet.
- 39:35Speaker 2: And I listen, I don't walk around like I'm probably
- 39:38Speaker 2: king darling everybody. I don't walk around like that.
- 39:41Speaker 3: So when he said yes, I was pleasantly surprised because
- 39:44Speaker 3: I know that he doesn't do interviews. And at the
- 39:48Speaker 3: end of the interview what he said to me, he
- 39:51Speaker 3: was like, I did not expect to even talk about
- 39:53Speaker 3: anything you asked me.
- 39:55Speaker 2: He said, you made me feel so comfortable to be myself.
- 39:58Speaker 3: That we you You really went there asking me questions that
- 40:03Speaker 3: I just don't talk about and I think for EJ,
- 40:06Speaker 3: like dustiness intimating, EJ felt like he was talking to
- 40:10Speaker 3: one of his duties. Do you know what I'm saying,
- 40:12Speaker 3: like one of his girlfriends and not and not the
- 40:15Speaker 3: world right? And the stuff that EJ said, I mean,
- 40:20Speaker 3: that's that's EJ's life and that's EJ's perspective.
- 40:24Speaker 2: What I gathered from it was e.
- 40:28Speaker 3: J, I will never know what it's like to walk
- 40:31Speaker 3: in EJ shoes, right, being born with a platinum spoon
- 40:34Speaker 3: in your mouth and having this access of immediacy of luxury,
- 40:42Speaker 3: you know, private schools and you know EJ is I
- 40:46Speaker 3: believe thirty three years old.
- 40:49Speaker 2: So EJ was born at a time where you know parents.
- 40:55Speaker 2: And we're seeing this on Mariti Medicine with doctor Simone.
- 40:57Speaker 3: And her kids, where it is this concept creation of
- 41:00Speaker 3: black parents who are first time millionaires saying I want
- 41:03Speaker 3: to give my child the best life, and sometimes giving
- 41:06Speaker 3: your child the best life means you're you're you're putting
- 41:10Speaker 3: them in schools and environments where they don't have a
- 41:12Speaker 3: lot of people who look like them, but they're not
- 41:15Speaker 3: exposed to that. So I definitely think he touched on
- 41:19Speaker 3: that and the one thing that he did say. And
- 41:22Speaker 3: by the way, EJ goes by EJ. However, EJ has
- 41:26Speaker 3: said that obviously if somebody says he he's not tripping
- 41:30Speaker 3: off a bibie.
- 41:30Speaker 6: I was just going to ask you that because.
- 41:32Speaker 2: People say, I know, I know, EJ said. It's all
- 41:36Speaker 2: about the intention of the word.
- 41:38Speaker 3: And if he asks you, if they ask you and
- 41:41Speaker 3: in the moment not to say, you still say it,
- 41:43Speaker 3: then it's disrespectful.
- 41:44Speaker 6: He's not is not trans right, So EJ is okay?
- 41:49Speaker 6: Like if you say he is not offensive.
- 41:51Speaker 3: EJ told and and the other thing and this and
- 41:54Speaker 3: this is not to Claudia, this is not to you, okay,
- 41:57Speaker 3: because don't make it seem like it is. That's why
- 41:59Speaker 3: I want people to watch the entire interview. I think
- 42:03Speaker 3: a lot of people watched the two minute clip and
- 42:06Speaker 3: read with it. I ain't tripping at all. But I
- 42:09Speaker 3: implore people to watch the entire interview because I think
- 42:13Speaker 3: if you watch the entire interview, like a lot of
- 42:15Speaker 3: people did, your perspective may be something.
- 42:19Speaker 2: That is not based on the two minute clip.
- 42:21Speaker 3: And I'll leave it at that because I like people
- 42:23Speaker 3: to have their own perspective.
- 42:24Speaker 2: The last thing I'll say is.
- 42:25Speaker 6: This, I'm gonna watch it, all of it. Sorry, I
- 42:28Speaker 6: was busy this weekend. I'm sorry.
- 42:31Speaker 3: Yeah, a lot of people saw the clip and and
- 42:33Speaker 3: and did a lot of content about it, which I
- 42:37Speaker 3: appreciate anybody who takes my content to talk about it
- 42:40Speaker 3: because there's so much out there. The last thing that
- 42:42Speaker 3: I'll say is, after you've watched the entire interview, one
- 42:47Speaker 3: thing that is true in the in the gay community.
- 42:51Speaker 3: And I'll speak to the black gay community because I'm
- 42:53Speaker 3: part of it, me too.
- 42:56Speaker 2: No no, no, no, no, no too wow. Well nothing like
- 43:06Speaker 2: you know they think about. That's the kay no.
- 43:15Speaker 3: One thing I'll say, and I have another announcement to
- 43:17Speaker 3: make after this is there is film.
- 43:20Speaker 2: Phobia in the community.
- 43:23Speaker 3: There is film phobia in the Black gay community. I'm
- 43:28Speaker 3: not going to spend time on this on this month
- 43:31Speaker 3: in my live going to detail about it.
- 43:33Speaker 2: I'll tell you what I'm doing later.
- 43:34Speaker 3: But what I will say is when it comes to
- 43:37Speaker 3: feminine gay men, I E ME I E an E J.
- 43:43Speaker 5: Right.
- 43:46Speaker 3: There, Unfortunately is this thing where there appears to be
- 43:55Speaker 3: this large demographic of people in the community who don't
- 44:03Speaker 3: find feminine gay men attractive.
- 44:05Speaker 2: Right that is something that is true.
- 44:09Speaker 3: And if you're a feminine gay person, you know exactly
- 44:14Speaker 3: what I'm talking about.
- 44:15Speaker 2: And that's why a lot of.
- 44:16Speaker 3: The comments defended EJ, saying, now y'all know what he's
- 44:20Speaker 3: trying to say, like stop it, and again it's a
- 44:24Speaker 3: conversation like Dustin's.
- 44:25Speaker 2: Dustin said that that's more global and has way more reach.
- 44:31Speaker 2: But there is film phobia is a real thing. Claudia,
- 44:36Speaker 2: You're you're not privy to this.
- 44:39Speaker 3: You know, me and Dustin's generation, there was this thing
- 44:42Speaker 3: called no facts and no films where when you used
- 44:47Speaker 3: to try to meet a guy online and there will
- 44:51Speaker 3: I will never get this. I was in my early twenties.
- 44:54Speaker 3: I'll never get this. When you're trying to figure out
- 44:56Speaker 3: your your situation and you go there was a site,
- 45:01Speaker 3: and Claudia, there were literally boxes that would be like.
- 45:04Speaker 2: You know, male or female, check here preference mhm.
- 45:10Speaker 3: They would have no fast, no films, and and that
- 45:14Speaker 3: meant no fat personal person. And so I do think
- 45:18Speaker 3: a lot of EJ's experience comes from him being a
- 45:22Speaker 3: larger size growing up, in addition to being effeminate.
- 45:28Speaker 4: And no, I'm sorry, I didn't want to cut you off,
- 45:33Speaker 4: please please finish.
- 45:34Speaker 2: So there's there's definitely.
- 45:38Speaker 3: That was definitely a thing when you first started to
- 45:41Speaker 3: come out back in the day. Not granted things have
- 45:44Speaker 3: gotten better, things, yeah, things have gotten better.
- 45:49Speaker 2: The world evolves.
- 45:50Speaker 4: Want him to go be in the gay spaces because
- 45:54Speaker 4: if you were to go, he would understand that things
- 45:57Speaker 4: are different. These new the younger people than us, don't
- 46:00Speaker 4: give a fuck about none of that shit. They coming
- 46:02Speaker 4: out and whatever their body type is, body positivity is
- 46:06Speaker 4: a real thing now that.
- 46:08Speaker 5: We thank God for.
- 46:10Speaker 4: And self expression is something that in the middle of
- 46:16Speaker 4: so much oppression, there are still spaces where you are
- 46:19Speaker 4: allowed to thrive with your expression, your freedom of expression.
- 46:22Speaker 4: So I think he would have a different environment if
- 46:25Speaker 4: he were to socialize in those spaces moving forward.
- 46:28Speaker 2: So I agree with you, and I think for EJ.
- 46:31Speaker 2: And that's my hat to say.
- 46:33Speaker 3: I want to give EJ all the props in the
- 46:35Speaker 3: world because when I, an overly gay black man, reached
- 46:39Speaker 3: out to EJ and said, I know you don't do interviews,
- 46:42Speaker 3: and he said yes to me, And I don't want
- 46:45Speaker 3: that to get lost in it because he could have
- 46:47Speaker 3: just said, girl, you know whatever. And Dustin's right too,
- 46:51Speaker 3: So The thing is this. The world has evolved, Everything
- 46:55Speaker 3: has evolved. However, I will say people's trauma that they
- 47:00Speaker 3: experience in the childhood still resurfaces. And that's why listen,
- 47:06Speaker 3: I'll talk about myself.
- 47:07Speaker 2: I'm gonna move on. I don't give two ships. I'm
- 47:11Speaker 2: a bush queen whatever. I don't do labels myself. But
- 47:16Speaker 2: but what, we're not gonna act like it doesn't exist.
- 47:20Speaker 3: We're not gonna act like when I post a picture
- 47:22Speaker 3: on Twitter, y'all, some of y'all say, he's keep until
- 47:25Speaker 3: he starts talking.
- 47:27Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. So we're not gonna act
- 47:29Speaker 2: like it's.
- 47:33Speaker 6: But I'm also a power bottom.
- 47:35Speaker 2: No, but I haven't hit podcasts, so clearly someone likes
- 47:38Speaker 2: my boys. But we're not gonna act like it doesn't exist.
- 47:41Speaker 3: In twenty twenty six, if I post a picture, the
- 47:45Speaker 3: repost would be hearing me out.
- 47:48Speaker 2: Is this is safe space? He's fine until he starts talking.
- 47:52Speaker 3: I mean, if he wasn't such a girl, you know
- 47:54Speaker 3: it's But but what I will say, because I understand engagement,
- 48:01Speaker 3: I understand when those things are said on Twitter is
- 48:05Speaker 3: to get engagement. I know that when I go out
- 48:09Speaker 3: and Dustin is a witness to it.
- 48:12Speaker 2: I don't have any.
- 48:14Speaker 4: Issues, not a problem, insight, where's the problem, the jackets problem,
- 48:19Speaker 4: the problem Carlos.
- 48:21Speaker 6: Banks, the jacket, the blaze.
- 48:24Speaker 3: But but my thing is this, My thing is this.
- 48:26Speaker 3: But but but that's why Dustin's right, Claudia and rain Drops,
- 48:30Speaker 3: you have to you have to put yourself in those
- 48:36Speaker 3: rooms still, because that's not the reality anymore. And and
- 48:40Speaker 3: by saying this too, it's just important to have these conversations,
- 48:44Speaker 3: which is why me and Dustin are gonna hold a
- 48:49Speaker 3: panel with other gay black folk and we're gonna call
- 48:57Speaker 3: it dating while gay and black. Because to Justin's point,
- 49:03Speaker 3: I think there's a larger conversation about this, and that
- 49:08Speaker 3: is something that you.
- 49:09Speaker 2: Guys will see pretty soon.
- 49:12Speaker 4: So let me say one thing before we get off
- 49:15Speaker 4: this subject. The most interesting thing about conversations and commentary
- 49:20Speaker 4: surrounding your conversation with EJ and the clips of it
- 49:24Speaker 4: that have gone viral, is the commentary that it generates, right,
- 49:29Speaker 4: And I just want people to know that people like myself,
- 49:32Speaker 4: people like Carlos, people like Claudia who has multiple gay
- 49:36Speaker 4: friends that are close to her, we can all see
- 49:38Speaker 4: straight through the intention of the comments that I left,
- 49:41Speaker 4: and each one of these people who are using this
- 49:45Speaker 4: and weaponizing this piece of this conversation into an opportunity
- 49:51Speaker 4: for them to perpetuate and purport homophobia, transphobia, all that shit.
- 49:57Speaker 4: Anybody that's using this and turning his conversation about who
- 50:01Speaker 4: he's attracted to and who's attracted to him into now
- 50:04Speaker 4: some sort of issue of straight women versus gay people.
- 50:07Speaker 4: We see you, We see exactly what you're doing. We
- 50:10Speaker 4: see you taking that journey and making that path to negativity,
- 50:14Speaker 4: and you can see straight through it every motherfucking time.
- 50:18Speaker 4: And this is a safe space for me. It's always
- 50:22Speaker 4: going to be a safe space for me. This is
- 50:23Speaker 4: a safe space for Claudia. And this is your show, Carlos.
- 50:27Speaker 4: So I just want to be clear that the homophobia shit,
- 50:30Speaker 4: we don't have any space for that or no tolerance
- 50:32Speaker 4: for that.
- 50:33Speaker 5: This is not a US versus them thing. That was
- 50:36Speaker 5: a clip of EJ.
- 50:38Speaker 4: Johnson talking about who he dates and who's been attracted
- 50:41Speaker 4: to him and who he's attracted to, where he used
- 50:43Speaker 4: some language that can be off putting for people. But
- 50:46Speaker 4: I just want to be clear on that because we
- 50:48Speaker 4: can have a healthy discussion a healthy conversation about anything.
- 50:51Speaker 4: But what we're not fin to do is open the
- 50:53Speaker 4: door to rap at homophobia attacks on the gay community,
- 50:57Speaker 4: turning this into a war between straight women and gay
- 50:59Speaker 4: pe people. It's not going to be that, so I
- 51:02Speaker 4: just wanted to be clear about that for our audience.
- 51:04Speaker 2: Yeah, thank you for thank you.
- 51:06Speaker 3: I agree and I agree with that, So listen, make
- 51:10Speaker 3: sure y'all check off the E. J. Johnson Carlos King
- 51:13Speaker 3: exclusive on my YouTube channel. Watch the whole interview. It's
- 51:17Speaker 3: only fifty seven minutes, and shout out to everybody who
- 51:21Speaker 3: did a video on it.
- 51:22Speaker 5: Listen.
- 51:23Speaker 3: I am I get paid clearly every Monday night to
- 51:29Speaker 3: talk about things in media. I'm never mad whether y'all
- 51:32Speaker 3: loved it hated it. I appreciate anybody who takes time
- 51:36Speaker 3: out of their day to even talk about it.
- 51:38Speaker 2: And I want to give a shout out to don't
- 51:40Speaker 2: call me.
- 51:41Speaker 4: Why Gramona and sit.
- 51:46Speaker 5: Talking about this.
- 51:50Speaker 6: But so someone that doesn't do interviews, I think that
- 51:52Speaker 6: was good for him to see it and even even
- 51:54Speaker 6: some of the feedback, whether the good, bad, and the ugly,
- 51:56Speaker 6: because it also lets people like I did this class
- 51:59Speaker 6: before where we had to like see how people view
- 52:01Speaker 6: us and how from how we speak right, And and
- 52:05Speaker 6: that's not to say he had a he was flawless
- 52:07Speaker 6: in his answers, and that doesn't make him a bad person,
- 52:10Speaker 6: but maybe he can see how how even clips made
- 52:13Speaker 6: some people think that he was maybe distancing himself from
- 52:16Speaker 6: the community, which we need all the allies that we have,
- 52:19Speaker 6: especially someone as visible, powerful, rich as an EJ. You
- 52:23Speaker 6: know what I mean, Like that he's not without criticism.
- 52:25Speaker 6: It's okay, right he You know what, maybe if I
- 52:29Speaker 6: do that again, because I don't have a lot of
- 52:30Speaker 6: experience in interviews, maybe I wouldn't seem like I'm kind
- 52:33Speaker 6: of distancing myself from gay men or men, because that's
- 52:36Speaker 6: hurtful too. And that's not saying he's homophobic, but it
- 52:39Speaker 6: can come off in a way that the person that
- 52:41Speaker 6: doesn't do the deep dive and is not as up
- 52:44Speaker 6: to uh, you know, on point with everything, doesn't watch everything,
- 52:46Speaker 6: or you know, a casual viewer won't get the wrong
- 52:50Speaker 6: impression that he's saying those feminine over there with that
- 52:54Speaker 6: with me, they can't sit with me. So yeah, I
- 52:56Speaker 6: think this would be good for him. He can go
- 52:58Speaker 6: back and watch it, and I don't think you coming from.
- 53:00Speaker 6: I don't think it's trying to be a dickhead.
- 53:01Speaker 5: I don't.
- 53:02Speaker 6: Yeah, I trust me. I'm the queen of being misunderstood.
- 53:05Speaker 6: I totally understand that how two hours gets, you know,
- 53:11Speaker 6: cut up and served up another way.
- 53:13Speaker 2: Yeah. So all right, so make sure I watched that.
- 53:16Speaker 3: Thank everybody who, like I said, watched it and made
- 53:19Speaker 3: comments and videos.
- 53:24Speaker 2: All right, So breaking news, Claudia and Dustin and rain drops,
- 53:33Speaker 2: ask and you shall receive.
- 53:36Speaker 3: So you know, one thing that I love about Claudia
- 53:39Speaker 3: and Dustin and everybody that is in my life.
- 53:42Speaker 2: Is the fact that you know, when.
- 53:45Speaker 3: You guys say things sometimes I listen, not all the time,
- 53:49Speaker 3: but if it makes sense, I got your back. Therefore,
- 53:54Speaker 3: I am launching a new series called Reality After Dark,
- 54:03Speaker 3: where we get to talk about being a little bit
- 54:07Speaker 3: more race the Earth, where we go we get to
- 54:14Speaker 3: oh got y'all, he's showing dangling about. We get to
- 54:20Speaker 3: talk about things a little bit more racier, a little
- 54:22Speaker 3: bit more explicitit. The panel will include Carlos King, Dustin Ross,
- 54:30Speaker 3: Claudia Jordan, and Mandy b Okay.
- 54:36Speaker 2: Mandy b y'all may know.
- 54:37Speaker 3: Her as Full Court Pumps Okay, so listen Reality after Dark.
- 54:44Speaker 2: I'm going to drop it this week.
- 54:47Speaker 3: It will be a Patreon exclusive because my Patreon we
- 54:50Speaker 3: get to like, you know, go there, go.
- 54:53Speaker 6: There, can I say the C word?
- 54:54Speaker 3: There?
- 54:56Speaker 2: Yeah?
- 54:57Speaker 6: There, I'm there.
- 55:02Speaker 3: So off drive, Claudia gets to be Claudia Job. All right,
- 55:08Speaker 3: so it's Claudia, Dustin, Mandy and Me. So listen, go
- 55:14Speaker 3: to patreon dot com slash Carlos King.
- 55:17Speaker 2: We are dropping it this week. It is going to
- 55:19Speaker 2: be a tree and Baby.
- 55:22Speaker 3: If y'all know Mandy b and if y'all ever listen
- 55:25Speaker 3: to Horrible Decisions, which is now called Decisions Decision, y'all
- 55:32Speaker 3: know that Mandy gives it up.
- 55:34Speaker 2: Y'all know that Mandy gives it up.
- 55:36Speaker 6: And they said, well y'all be naked me my, I
- 55:40Speaker 6: mean it depends on. Listen. If y'all run the numbers up,
- 55:43Speaker 6: ain't no telling what. So with that being said, you
- 55:50Speaker 6: decide the level of the show. You see, Carlos been dying,
- 55:54Speaker 6: get that shut off?
- 55:56Speaker 3: Yes, yes, yes, so listen, this will be this would
- 55:59Speaker 3: be so I'm so happy and listen. I got more announcements.
- 56:03Speaker 3: I got more announcements, so that one I wanted y'all
- 56:06Speaker 3: to know.
- 56:07Speaker 2: To night and that's gonna be something great.
- 56:09Speaker 3: And again I'm still doing the panel dating while gay
- 56:13Speaker 3: and black, and we're gonna have conversations about that because
- 56:16Speaker 3: again I think these topics are very important.
- 56:19Speaker 2: So Dustin and Claudia, I got ready to reality after dark.
- 56:25Speaker 6: You know I love an unhinged, uncensored, uncut I mean
- 56:32Speaker 6: it so depends, you know, depends. Well, you'll hear about
- 56:36Speaker 6: that on the Patreon. I'm a lady here, I'm a
- 56:42Speaker 6: us patreo, Kenny. I'm just I make an announcement too
- 56:50Speaker 6: for Wednesday. So this Wednesday on e I'm part of
- 56:55Speaker 6: a series as a two part series two hours uh
- 56:57Speaker 6: this Wednesday, the showing episode both episodes of Dirty Rotten Scandals.
- 57:02Speaker 6: It is the last of the three.
- 57:04Speaker 3: Uh.
- 57:04Speaker 6: They did Doctor Phil America's Next Top Model, and now
- 57:08Speaker 6: we are exposing the prisis wrong. I mean, the price
- 57:11Speaker 6: is right, okay, Kathleen Bradley Holly. I mean we really
- 57:17Speaker 6: are able to be free in this. And I saw
- 57:18Speaker 6: some clips they sent me some teasers, and I couldn't
- 57:21Speaker 6: post the other ones that I got, yo, Like I
- 57:25Speaker 6: couldn't believe some of the stuff that made the cut.
- 57:26Speaker 6: I'm like, I can't believe they did that, Like it
- 57:28Speaker 6: was crazy.
- 57:29Speaker 3: I can't wait watch Yeah, so that so Claudia tell
- 57:33Speaker 3: them when that comes on this Wednesday on E so
- 57:36Speaker 3: it'd be back to back.
- 57:37Speaker 6: So first hour, second hour. I'm more featured in the
- 57:40Speaker 6: second hour, but the first hour, like they are giving
- 57:42Speaker 6: it up now. Holly had a long lawsuit with the
- 57:45Speaker 6: Price Right Wig for unlawful termination, for retaliation and the
- 57:50Speaker 6: stuff they talk about with bar Parker. Let me tell
- 57:53Speaker 6: you some people was getting the d funcked in the
- 57:55Speaker 6: dressing room and making scenes in front of the audio.
- 57:59Speaker 6: All kinds of stuff was going on the Prices right,
- 58:01Speaker 6: I'm just saying.
- 58:04Speaker 3: All right now listen, okay, and rain Jobs next Monday,
- 58:09Speaker 3: we are going to recap that particular episode as well.
- 58:15Speaker 3: That's the beauty of having Claudia Jordan around. So make
- 58:17Speaker 3: sure y'all watch Dirty Rice Scandals.
- 58:20Speaker 6: And you're at the Truth Awards this weekend, aren't you.
- 58:23Speaker 2: Yes, I'm being honored at the Truth Awards.
- 58:25Speaker 3: Yeah, so thank you all so much for that being
- 58:27Speaker 3: honored at the Truth Awards.
- 58:29Speaker 2: Shout out better Brothers LA for that honor.
- 58:33Speaker 3: It's me Don Lemon Duran Bernard and Mecca.
- 58:39Speaker 5: I love Mecca the director. Yes, yes, he's talented.
- 58:46Speaker 2: Yes, yes, hosting.
- 58:51Speaker 3: You know, listen, I'm bringing my supporters of friends and everything.
- 58:55Speaker 6: Are you calling him a supporter now?
- 58:58Speaker 2: Reality After Dark will.
- 59:02Speaker 6: That's cute. I love my supporters too. That's not you
- 59:06Speaker 6: like your support?
- 59:07Speaker 2: You have back support this weekend, Claudia, the support I.
- 59:11Speaker 5: Can give right now.
- 59:11Speaker 3: Same.
- 59:12Speaker 6: Once you get a little support, you are here after that,
- 59:16Speaker 6: out here to support I can get definitely hard.
- 59:20Speaker 5: I love y'all.
- 59:23Speaker 2: I'll see y'all this week