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Speaker 1: Go to Morgan my little frown line. How are you
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Speaker 1: doing today? Let us good, Let us good. I'm so
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Speaker 1: glad you are here. I got you something. This is
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Speaker 1: a letter opener. I think it also could be a
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Speaker 1: medieval torture device, but pretty much anything could be if
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Speaker 1: you put your mind to it. And that is the
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Speaker 1: lesson for this intro. Hello everybody, and welcome back to
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Speaker 1: my YouTube channel. And welcome to my YouTube channel. I'm
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Speaker 1: comic Christian comic Ris. And it's cozy little It's in
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Speaker 1: between Christmas. It's not quite New Year? Is it New y?
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Speaker 1: Almost New Year's? Wait? Let's say, am I making this?
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Speaker 1: What day is it today?
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Speaker 2: We make sure this will be oh yeah, wait no,
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Speaker 2: oh yeah no wait yeah yeah no, wait yeah, because
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Speaker 2: it'll be right, It'll be the yeah right, Okay, what's
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Speaker 2: it saying.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's in between Chris and New Year's And I
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Speaker 1: just wanted to have a little gab sash, a little
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Speaker 1: cozy by the fire. Let's just talk about other people's problems, okay,
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Speaker 1: because we don't want to think about our own. We
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Speaker 1: want to judge other people on the internet and give
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Speaker 1: them unsolicited advice. And we're going to read stories with
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Speaker 1: context and conclusions. Because your girl only reads updated reddits
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Speaker 1: on this channel. Okay, because I like to feed you
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Speaker 1: context and compliments. You look fabulous today. Your lips in juicy, mate.
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Speaker 1: All right, let's get into it first. Up, little shorty one,
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Speaker 1: Little shorty, am I wrong for telling my boyfriend if
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Speaker 1: he doesn't shower, I'm leaving him? Okay, like ever or
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Speaker 1: like few days. We need context. Let's keep reading. My boyfriend,
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Speaker 1: male twenty one and me, female twenty have been dating
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Speaker 1: for three years. The relationship was going amazing until last month.
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Speaker 1: He was watching YouTube and came across a video of
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Speaker 1: a creator talking about how they don't shower for months
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Speaker 1: at a time because apparently it's healthier. God man, that's
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Speaker 1: that's rough. All right, all right, so months, got it?
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Speaker 1: You're valid already, but all right, got it. So he
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Speaker 1: stopped showering, and every time I mentioned to him that
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Speaker 1: he needs to shower because he's gross, he gets mad
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Speaker 1: and storms off. I've been mentioning that he needs to
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Speaker 1: shower for the past three weeks now. When he refuses,
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Speaker 1: Oh man, we got into a huge argument. We never fight,
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Speaker 1: and it got to the point where I screamed at
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Speaker 1: him and told him that he smells like bo and
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Speaker 1: if he doesn't shower, I'm leaving him. I eventually packed
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Speaker 1: a bag with essentials, grabbed my car keys, and rented
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Speaker 1: a hotel room for two nights. He blew up my
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Speaker 1: phone non stop, telling me he's sorry and to come home.
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Speaker 1: I eventually had to block his number due to him
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Speaker 1: sending me twenty messages at a time and having over
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Speaker 1: forty missed calls from him. Hey, dude, you're doing a
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Speaker 1: lot right now and calling her. Just get in a shower.
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Speaker 1: Just get in the shower and then everything will be
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Speaker 1: all right. Rinsaf. He used to take three showers a day,
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Speaker 1: wear expensive Colonne, and wear deodorant. Now he won't shower,
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Speaker 1: showers himself in cologne, and he won't wear deodorant. Every
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Speaker 1: time he hugs me or it gets close to me,
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Speaker 1: I gag. What do I do? Oh my goodness, there's
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Speaker 1: something about you know your body makes natural oils, and
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Speaker 1: as a hairdresser, you know your hair gets extra oily
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Speaker 1: if you wash it too much. But then if you're
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Speaker 1: working out every day and it's getting all greasy, like
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Speaker 1: I get that or whatever. I try to wash my
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Speaker 1: hair like once or twice a week, but my body
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Speaker 1: every day I've been sad. There's been a few days, okay,
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Speaker 1: there's been like over a week where I've been real
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Speaker 1: sad and I have a chower. Okay, don't judge me,
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Speaker 1: all right. I was gonna say we've all been there,
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Speaker 1: but that's not true. That's a me thing, I think.
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Speaker 1: But this is like months or I guess three weeks,
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Speaker 1: and you're just doing it because some dipshit YouTuber or
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Speaker 1: idiots on here. I mean, I guess there's some doctors
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Speaker 1: and stuff on here, but I don't know. But that's
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Speaker 1: not your problem. You can break up with him. I
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Speaker 1: feel like you've talked to him enough. You said how
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Speaker 1: you feel. He doesn't care, or he just doesn't he's
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Speaker 1: not willing to change and to shower again. That's not
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Speaker 1: on you, honey, break up with him. This is wild.
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Speaker 1: But maybe he'll come around and realizing he's like being ridiculous,
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Speaker 1: and he'll start showering again and it'll be fine. I
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Speaker 1: don't know. Maybe it's just a phase, like he's a
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Speaker 1: teenager or something, but I don't know. You don't really
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Speaker 1: need a reason to break up with someone, especially when
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Speaker 1: you're twenty years old. You're so you're literally a baby
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Speaker 1: right now? Just leave him, because what's the next thing,
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Speaker 1: you know, Like, what's the next thing that he can
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Speaker 1: only eat? Like like dog shit? I don't know, but
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Speaker 1: at least we have an update. So let's read that update.
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Speaker 1: I've been talking to friends about the situation. They all
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Speaker 1: tell me to leave him and that he's gross. Yeah.
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Speaker 1: After reading everyone's comments the best I could and thinking
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Speaker 1: about it, I decided to unblock him and try and
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Speaker 1: talk this out. I think that's very mature. I think
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Speaker 1: that is the right thing to do, is to talk about,
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Speaker 1: see where it goes, and then go from there. He
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Speaker 1: didn't want to talk it out and told me that
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Speaker 1: I'm not his mom and that he'll do what he wants,
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Speaker 1: and that he's a grown man and I can't control him. Whatever.
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Speaker 1: Pack it up, pack it up, get your soap, rabbyr raiser,
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Speaker 1: peckye it up. You know what I mean, Get out
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Speaker 1: of there. We got into an argument about the comment.
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Speaker 1: I told him, no, I'm not your mom, I am
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Speaker 1: your girlfriend, and I don't want to be with a
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Speaker 1: man that doesn't keep up his hygiene Because of a
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Speaker 1: YouTube video I took y'all's advice and looked up articles
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Speaker 1: on how this is not healthy for me or him,
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Speaker 1: and that he could give me an infection and send
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Speaker 1: them to him. He started saying meanasked stuff to me.
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Speaker 1: Red flag, and eventually I told him that I do
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Speaker 1: not want to be with him anymore and that I
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Speaker 1: won't take the disrespect he's giving me. And another red
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Speaker 1: flag is that after I told him I don't want
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Speaker 1: to be with him, he started blowing up my phone
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Speaker 1: with calls and messages, again apologizing for being a and
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Speaker 1: he didn't mean what he said. He's just angry. If
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Speaker 1: I could post screenshots of our conversation, I most certainly would.
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Speaker 1: He might have some sort of mental illness like most
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Speaker 1: of you said, but I'm not sure. I'll message his
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Speaker 1: mom about getting him help. I just want to say
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Speaker 1: thank you all for your support through this whole situation.
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Speaker 1: I appreciate you all. Thank you. Yeah. Being in like
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Speaker 1: I'm just thinking of like sleeping in the same bed
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Speaker 1: and stuff and just being I feel like I have
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Speaker 1: to wash the sheets like twice a day, and it's
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Speaker 1: oh my, and then just yeah, and then kissing and
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Speaker 1: oh gosh. I wonder if I guess he brushes his teeth.
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Speaker 1: At least there's that, I guess. But yeah, and like
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Speaker 1: all the you know, your intimate bits, you need to
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Speaker 1: wash those. God forbid. You want to be intimate with
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Speaker 1: your boyfriend and you can't. I mean you can't because yeah,
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Speaker 1: he could give you something very easily. That's that's we
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Speaker 1: don't want to U TI here, just leave. You did
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Speaker 1: the right thing, good job. Let me know what you
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Speaker 1: guys think at doublow. I also think it's sweet that
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Speaker 1: you know, you're like letting his mom know and you're
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Speaker 1: just like, hey, I'm just worried about him. I don't
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Speaker 1: want to deal with him. He's your son, but I'm
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Speaker 1: just worried about him. So I think that that was
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Speaker 1: very sweet. I think that's a good way to go
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Speaker 1: about it. But let's read the comments. I'm curious. It's nastiest.
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Speaker 1: Damas for listening to influencers. Straight up, we're idiots. Don't
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Speaker 1: listen to us, Okay, I don't. I hate the word
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Speaker 1: influencer as well. It's terrible. I'm a I'm just a
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Speaker 1: little guy, okay, I mean I'm a girl. I'm just
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Speaker 1: a little gal. I don't know nothing. I'm just here.
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Speaker 1: I'm you could be doing this too. I'm talking to
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Speaker 1: no one right now who's mentally ill this guy anyway,
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Speaker 1: at least the hotel's nice. That's funny, op said that.
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Speaker 1: Now that person said, yeah, that's nasty. Sounds like there's
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Speaker 1: no middle ground with him. Either he's a step below
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Speaker 1: a hypochondriac with a million showers, or he's cause playing
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Speaker 1: a bum. There's a lot of things you can compromise
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Speaker 1: on in a relationship, but hygiene isn't one of them. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: it's interesting to go from three showers a day to none.
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Speaker 1: And I imagine maybe he showered three times a day
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Speaker 1: because somebody else told him to. But even that behavior
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Speaker 1: of you know, like a hyperfixation. And I'd say, you know,
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Speaker 1: sometimes I hyperfixate on stuff. I think it's a very
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Speaker 1: human thing to do. But to that degree to put
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Speaker 1: your health at risk or other people's health at risk,
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Speaker 1: and that kind of thing, and not being able to
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Speaker 1: compromise in a relationship and not being able to see
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Speaker 1: how the other person might feel if you reek is
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Speaker 1: just all around not it's just not good in an
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Speaker 1: overall partner for you because clearly you don't appreciate him stinking.
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Speaker 1: But it's a bigger picture than that, and I think
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Speaker 1: to it. Okay, next up, am I the scully wag
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Speaker 1: for being disappointed with my engagement ring throwaway for obvious reasons.
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Speaker 1: My twenty five female boyfriend twenty six male and I
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Speaker 1: have been dating for eight years now. Okay, we thank
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Speaker 1: god he put a ring on it. You know what
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Speaker 1: I mean? All Right? And a little over a year
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Speaker 1: ago he started asking me to shop around for my
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Speaker 1: dream engagement ring. That's sweet. I don't consider myself a
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Speaker 1: very particular person, and it ultimately came down to only
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Speaker 1: two or three things that I really wanted for my
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Speaker 1: engagement ring. A solitaire oval stone on a gold band. Okay,
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Speaker 1: that's pretty specific and pretty easy. Seems like all right.
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Speaker 1: I left everything else up to him, the setting, the
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Speaker 1: shape of the band, even the kind of stone. All
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Speaker 1: I am asked for was an oval stone by itself
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Speaker 1: on a gold band. Got it, locked it in, let's
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Speaker 1: keep going. Over the last year, he repeatedly asked me
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Speaker 1: what I wanted and gave me multiple opportunities to describe
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Speaker 1: my ideal ring to him. Every time I said the
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Speaker 1: same thing, solitaire oval stone on a gold band. Everything
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Speaker 1: else was up to him. It could not have been
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Speaker 1: more clearly communicated my hopes for this ring. So last week,
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Speaker 1: my boyfriend comes up to me and he's so excited
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Speaker 1: to tell me that he bought my engagement ring and
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Speaker 1: asks if I want to see it. When he shows me,
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Speaker 1: my heart sinks. It's a gold band and an oval
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Speaker 1: central stone, but there's also a bunch of smaller emeralds
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Speaker 1: surrounding the center diamond. He's so excited and proud of himself,
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Speaker 1: and he asked me if I like it, but I
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Speaker 1: don't have the courage to say that. I don't. Okay,
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Speaker 1: I mean he okay, he's got an oval central stone
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Speaker 1: on a cold band. I mean yeah, I mean he
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Speaker 1: told the dude to do what he wanted, and I
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Speaker 1: mean he, I mean, he got it right, you know,
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Speaker 1: let's keep it. A few days ago, I asked him
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Speaker 1: why he chose to include extra stones, and he lovingly
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Speaker 1: told me that he thought I deserved extra all. He
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Speaker 1: thought I deserved extra stones, and that I fill his
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Speaker 1: world with color, so he wanted to add some color
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Speaker 1: to my ring. Bitch, you know who I'm gonna agree with.
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Speaker 1: Right now, I have a paradio center little gemstone thing,
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Speaker 1: and this was This was Caleb's grandma's ring and it's
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Speaker 1: his birthstone. And I think that is so sweet. And
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Speaker 1: I didn't I didn't give up. I thought I wasn't
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Speaker 1: even gonna have a ring. I figured I'd just wear
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Speaker 1: like ringpop or something. So when he gave me that,
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Speaker 1: I was like, oh, that's so sweet. So yeah, right now,
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Speaker 1: I think that's adorable anyway. Obviously this is very sweet, okay,
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Speaker 1: and well meaning, but I'm devastated. I'm devastated that he
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Speaker 1: didn't adhere to what I asked for. There's people dying, Kim.
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Speaker 1: You know, this morning, while I was brushing my teeth,
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Speaker 1: I pictured getting proposed to and how I would feel
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Speaker 1: when people asked me to show off the ring that
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Speaker 1: was so different from what I wanted, and I just
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Speaker 1: started bawling. I feel so shallow and guilty for not
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Speaker 1: liking it, but I also feel so disappointed and sad
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Speaker 1: that he didn't consult me or any of my friends
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Speaker 1: before buying a ring that's so different from what I wanted. Listen, Okay,
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Speaker 1: so Devil's Advocate, I get it. You know, it's a ring,
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Speaker 1: and for a lot of girls, it's like you know
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Speaker 1: the ring, like you make your Pinterest board, you tell
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Speaker 1: all your friends about it, you tell your sisters or brothers,
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Speaker 1: whoever will listen about it. You know, and you had
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Speaker 1: an idea in your mind, and I think it probably
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Speaker 1: could have been avoided if you just you probably just
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Speaker 1: picked out your own ring. But I get that you're
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Speaker 1: wanting him to like be able to choose it, and
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Speaker 1: I get the disappointment as well, because you probably pictured
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Speaker 1: something exactly in your head and then he took it.
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Speaker 1: But then he did it in his own little cute way.
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Speaker 1: I think you're valid for feeling disappointed. I don't think
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Speaker 1: that's invalid. I think that's okay. I think you just
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Speaker 1: need to talk and that's what you're gonna do for
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Speaker 1: the rest of your life in the marriage, which is
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Speaker 1: way more important than a ring. Is just you need
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Speaker 1: to learn how to communicate so you can't bottle this
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Speaker 1: up and then just be mad at him. Because I
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Speaker 1: don't think you've talked to him yet. Yeah, it doesn't
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Speaker 1: seem like just reading it back, it doesn't seem like
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Speaker 1: you've voiced it yet. Maybe he's seeing your disappointment. I'm
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Speaker 1: not sure. Are you the asshole? I don't know, maybe,
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Speaker 1: like yeah, not really kinda not really. I feel like
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Speaker 1: he maybe should have just taken what you said, went
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Speaker 1: to a jeweler and been like that, and they would
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Speaker 1: have probably known exactly what that is. But maybe he
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Speaker 1: just like went and looked at the store. I don't
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Speaker 1: know this one. It's difficult. Let me know how you
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Speaker 1: feel down below, but I do want to validate her feelings.
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Speaker 1: But then also I think what he did was really sweet,
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Speaker 1: really sweet. So I don't know. Let's see what the
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Speaker 1: comment said. Oh, it says, you're the asshole. He did
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Speaker 1: exactly what you told him to for real. Oh oh no,
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Speaker 1: that's kind of how I feel. But also I feel
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Speaker 1: I don't know, I'm trying to play devil's advocate. The
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Speaker 1: other comment said, you're the asshole. You were too vague. However,
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Speaker 1: if it's such a big deal to you that you're
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Speaker 1: going to resent it for the rest of your life,
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Speaker 1: then sit him down and tell him now what your
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Speaker 1: preference is before he actually proposes. Tell him why you
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Speaker 1: don't want the emeralds on it. Personally, I would not
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Speaker 1: want colored stones on my engagement ring either, And I
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Speaker 1: get that. I mean, it's it's really not many people's
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Speaker 1: thing or tea to have the colored thing on your
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Speaker 1: engagement So I understand that, because it's like it won't
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Speaker 1: match everything or whatever whatever, you know, So I get that.
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Speaker 1: They just she's just talk, She just hok. I love emeralds,
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Speaker 1: and I do wear them often, but I tend to
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Speaker 1: wear jewelry that color matches my outfit, and I wouldn't
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Speaker 1: want to wear emeralds when I wear colors like pink
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Speaker 1: or purple. Stupid reason maybe, but the green stones would
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Speaker 1: annoy me as well. Okay, thank you, I'm just kidding.
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Speaker 1: Mind's paradox and it's it's a little lighter, but I
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Speaker 1: think I think it makes like it's fun. As I'm
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Speaker 1: getting older, I like color more. I used to be like,
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Speaker 1: just we're black and just we're like gray, But now
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Speaker 1: that I'm older, I think I think it adds a
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Speaker 1: color to my outfit no matter what. So I really
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Speaker 1: loved my engagement ring. And then I had my band,
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Speaker 1: the band right there, custom made by this girl on Etsy,
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Speaker 1: and it was like really cheap, but it matches my
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Speaker 1: ring really nicely. So shout out to Etsy anyway. Oh
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Speaker 1: he said to that. Yeah, I'm just feeling like maybe
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Speaker 1: he didn't think about the fact that I will be
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Speaker 1: wearing this ring every day for hopefully the rest of
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Speaker 1: my life. Hopefully. Are you thinking of not being with
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Speaker 1: him because the ring girl, don't throw in hopefully with
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Speaker 1: brackets on me. I don't wear a lot of green,
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Speaker 1: And if he was going to do colored stones, I
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Speaker 1: just wish he would have talked to me about it
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Speaker 1: to decide which color to get. I don't know. That's fair.
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Speaker 1: That is completely fair, sweetheart, And you could voice that
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Speaker 1: now that you're you're an adult and you can tell him, Hey,
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Speaker 1: I wish you would have talked to me about that,
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Speaker 1: because I never said anything about colored rings. And I
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Speaker 1: know I said that you could choose it, but honestly,
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Speaker 1: I think I'd rather just have a whatever, a white
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Speaker 1: dear clear stone or something easy, peasy, lemon squeeze. All right,
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Speaker 1: let's take away that hopefully in BRACKETSA right, or let's
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Speaker 1: just take that hopefully and just maybe exit this relationship.
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Speaker 1: I don't know if it's for you. We'll see. And
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Speaker 1: then there's an edit update. So, since so many people
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Speaker 1: have asked, I feel it's important to clarify that I
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Speaker 1: made a Pinterest board for his reference, shared pictures of
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Speaker 1: different rings that I would like, and asked him to
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Speaker 1: consult my friends when picking out a ring, which my
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Speaker 1: friends tell me he did not do. Also, he asked
17:31
Speaker 1: me multiple times whether I wanted anything besides the primary
17:35
Speaker 1: central stone, and every single time I said the same thing,
17:38
Speaker 1: one single stone. Okay, that's that's a little more context now. Also,
17:44
Speaker 1: that's fair. That's It's just it's one of those classic
17:46
Speaker 1: like he's such a friend, dude, dude, It's like, no,
17:50
Speaker 1: I don't need to dust of friends. I got it.
17:51
Speaker 1: I know what my girl wants, you know, and he
17:54
Speaker 1: was really sweet about it. I don't think there was
17:56
Speaker 1: any malice in it. Should he have asked the friends, yes?
17:59
Speaker 1: Should he actually looked at the reference photos or maybe
18:01
Speaker 1: showed the reference photos to the jeweler person, yes, because
18:04
Speaker 1: I'm assuming he didn't. But this can all be very
18:07
Speaker 1: easily consolidated by just talking to one another. You'll be
18:11
Speaker 1: all right. And uh I hope that hope hopefully brackets
18:14
Speaker 1: it works out, you know what I mean. That is
18:16
Speaker 1: the only update we have those. Sorry, so that's what
18:19
Speaker 1: we got so far. Hopefully it all works out. Y'all
18:21
Speaker 1: are young, y'all are bringing twenty five, You'll be all right.
18:25
Speaker 1: Life is a lot more than an engagement ring. Okay,
18:27
Speaker 1: let me know what you guys think, dunblow. I'm basically
18:29
Speaker 1: at this point, nobody's the asshole. I think this is
18:32
Speaker 1: just a little miscommunication, and I think everybody meant well
18:36
Speaker 1: and it's okay. I think it's okay. Anyway, let's move
18:38
Speaker 1: on to the next one. Okay, for some weird reason,
18:40
Speaker 1: my internet stopped working on my computer, so I have
18:42
Speaker 1: to use my phone now, So if I'm looking down,
18:45
Speaker 1: that's why, all right? Next up? Am I the scllywig?
18:48
Speaker 1: If I tell the police slash my parents that my
18:51
Speaker 1: sister has been stalking someone for years and might kill her? Ah? Probably? Yeah,
19:03
Speaker 1: let's read it though. What the hell? So? I twenty
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Speaker 1: three female, have a sister twenty five female, and I'm
19:08
Speaker 1: really worried about her. Her ex cheated on her five
19:11
Speaker 1: years ago with this woman, and ever since, she's been
19:13
Speaker 1: obsessed and stalking her. At first, she said it was
19:17
Speaker 1: to see if she got karma for what she did,
19:19
Speaker 1: but now it's turned actually psychotic and maybe violent, and
19:23
Speaker 1: I don't know what to do or if I should
19:25
Speaker 1: tell my parents. There's a lot more to read, but
19:28
Speaker 1: yet do that. My sister started dating this guy when
19:31
Speaker 1: she was in high school. He came to our house
19:33
Speaker 1: a million times, and we all saw him as part
19:35
Speaker 1: of the family, especially when they stayed together after graduation.
19:38
Speaker 1: Five years ago. He cheated on my sister and she
19:41
Speaker 1: found out a few days after their fifth year anniversary,
19:44
Speaker 1: when they were like twenty The girl he cheated with
19:47
Speaker 1: knew he had a girlfriend, but that didn't stop her
19:49
Speaker 1: from hooking up with him. What that's a bitch right there.
19:52
Speaker 1: My sister was of course devastated, but she gave him
19:55
Speaker 1: another chance, and a few weeks later he ended up
19:58
Speaker 1: breaking up with her, and she found out he never
20:00
Speaker 1: stopped talking to the other girl, even though she forgave him.
20:03
Speaker 1: When she was exposing the side chick in the beginning
20:06
Speaker 1: on her snap stories, I of course understood and supported
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Speaker 1: her as her sister and found the other girl disgusting
20:12
Speaker 1: fair enough, I thought my sister would get over it
20:14
Speaker 1: with time and was there for her for the beginning.
20:17
Speaker 1: After two years, I was shocked she hadn't moved on.
20:20
Speaker 1: She forgave her ex and even slept with him after
20:23
Speaker 1: the break, but she always hated the girl. The girl
20:25
Speaker 1: blocked her everywhere, but my sister still watched all of
20:28
Speaker 1: her pages and knew everything she did. If the girl
20:31
Speaker 1: posted herself at a restaurant on her story, my sister
20:33
Speaker 1: would drive to it and eat there and purposely walk
20:36
Speaker 1: by the girl's table to make her ashamed of what
20:38
Speaker 1: she did. Okay, yeah, no, maybe once maybe once, But
20:42
Speaker 1: like two years later, oh gosh, okay. She always knew
20:46
Speaker 1: where she lived and her work schedule and followed her
20:49
Speaker 1: all the time and would constantly tell me how she
20:51
Speaker 1: hates her and how she's never wanted someone to be
20:54
Speaker 1: dead so bad. You gotta tell your parents. Oh my god.
20:57
Speaker 1: I found it very concerning, and when I told my
20:59
Speaker 1: sister she needs therapy and that our parents should know
21:01
Speaker 1: how badly and long this has been affecting her, she
21:04
Speaker 1: shut down completely and told me she was just joking
21:07
Speaker 1: and hasn't told me anything since that was three years ago.
21:12
Speaker 1: Good lord. My sister has dated casually briefly since I
21:16
Speaker 1: assumed she moved on. It has been three years since
21:19
Speaker 1: she told me anything about her stalking and hating the girl,
21:22
Speaker 1: and I had completely forgotten about the situation until this
21:25
Speaker 1: past weekend. My sister had a work trip last week
21:28
Speaker 1: and asked if I could feed, walk and basically babysit
21:31
Speaker 1: her new puppy, who needs a lot of attention. I
21:33
Speaker 1: said sure, since I'm doing all of my classes online
21:35
Speaker 1: this semester, and stayed the week at her apartment. It's
21:38
Speaker 1: a few cities away, so I've only gone to see
21:40
Speaker 1: her a few times since she's moved out there and duh.
21:43
Speaker 1: As a sister, I made myself welcomed in her apartment
21:46
Speaker 1: and slept on her bed or enough, I would expect
21:48
Speaker 1: nothing less from my sisters. I always slept on the
21:50
Speaker 1: left side, but on Saturday, I was cold and wanted
21:52
Speaker 1: to sleep on the right side, which is closer to
21:54
Speaker 1: the heater. And when I laid my head down, I
21:56
Speaker 1: felt something uncomfortable and realized there was something in side
22:00
Speaker 1: of her many pillows. I'm scared. I'm scared. There's no
22:05
Speaker 1: one here with me. I'm scared what he is Inside
22:08
Speaker 1: of it was a composite notebook labeled Anna, not her
22:12
Speaker 1: actual name, but the girl her ex cheated on her
22:15
Speaker 1: with oh No. When I saw that, I was shocked.
22:19
Speaker 1: I hadn't thought of that name in years. The journal
22:22
Speaker 1: was so scary. Basically, she never got over the situation
22:26
Speaker 1: and has been waiting on karma to get the girl
22:29
Speaker 1: back for being the other woman, but it hasn't. It
22:32
Speaker 1: didn't keep up with the girl's life, but she moved
22:34
Speaker 1: away years ago, got married, and makes lifestyle content for
22:38
Speaker 1: what looks like fun. Since she doesn't have many followers
22:41
Speaker 1: on any of her pages, her life seems perfect my
22:44
Speaker 1: sister goes on and on about how much she hates
22:46
Speaker 1: this woman. But what scared me is that my sister
22:50
Speaker 1: flew out to this girl's city to stalk her in
22:54
Speaker 1: person and figure out what house she lives in. Oh
22:58
Speaker 1: my gosh, cold police. Oh my god, I don't even know.
23:02
Speaker 1: Oh my god. She tried to figure out from what
23:05
Speaker 1: she posts of her house an area during a time
23:08
Speaker 1: she told us she was visiting her friend who was sick.
23:11
Speaker 1: I was so shocked she would go that far. And
23:14
Speaker 1: it wasn't just one time. She's done it twice from
23:17
Speaker 1: what I read. Also, the notebook I found is dated
23:19
Speaker 1: and only goes back to May of twenty twenty four,
23:22
Speaker 1: so I assume she has multiple other ones none I
23:24
Speaker 1: could find. She stated in it. The only way she
23:27
Speaker 1: will get over it is if the other woman suffers,
23:30
Speaker 1: and since Karma hasn't gotten her back, my sister will.
23:33
Speaker 1: There was also a lot of other weird, threatening things
23:35
Speaker 1: in there, like how she describes wanting to watch her.
23:39
Speaker 1: Oh my goodness. I was so weirded out. And when
23:43
Speaker 1: my sister got back Monday, I tried to act normal.
23:46
Speaker 1: I know I'm crazy, but a part of me thought
23:48
Speaker 1: she left the state to the girl. I went to
23:52
Speaker 1: view the girl's instapage on a burner I made, and
23:54
Speaker 1: she posted since so she's alive, Thank goodness. Oh my god.
23:58
Speaker 1: That's when I realized that the fact I could think
24:01
Speaker 1: my sister would seriously do that is insane, and that
24:03
Speaker 1: if five years later she still can't get over the situation,
24:06
Speaker 1: she needs a lot of help. I'm worried for her
24:08
Speaker 1: and also the other girl. I never thought I could
24:11
Speaker 1: feel bad for her, but if only I could describe
24:13
Speaker 1: better what my sister wrote, I truly feel like she
24:16
Speaker 1: may be in danger. The issue is I'm scared if
24:19
Speaker 1: I tell my parents, who don't know anything, and that
24:21
Speaker 1: my sister got over it way before I did. There's
24:23
Speaker 1: not much they can do based on my word alone.
24:26
Speaker 1: My sister has a job, apartment to her own life.
24:28
Speaker 1: I didn't take the notebook. I obviously don't want her
24:31
Speaker 1: to know I know, so I have no proof. I
24:33
Speaker 1: wish I took screenshots, but I was so in shock
24:36
Speaker 1: all I could do was read, and when I finished,
24:37
Speaker 1: I put it back and felt dirty. I don't know
24:39
Speaker 1: what to do. Would I be the asshole if I
24:42
Speaker 1: don't speak up? Should I try to go get more
24:45
Speaker 1: proof and then tell my parents so they can maybe
24:47
Speaker 1: stayed in an intervention. I'm so stressed. Yes, tell your parents.
24:52
Speaker 1: I'm afraid if you go right to your sister, she
24:54
Speaker 1: may go a wall. Like I have no idea at
24:57
Speaker 1: this point. Maybe she's just writing her feelings down and
25:00
Speaker 1: they're really scary feelings. But I mean, she went to
25:01
Speaker 1: the city, so we're going to safely assume that she's
25:04
Speaker 1: stalking this woman. I'm assuming this completely now innocent. I mean,
25:08
Speaker 1: albeit the cheating thing was rude, but she's married, she's
25:11
Speaker 1: moved on, she's living her influencer life or whatever, like
25:14
Speaker 1: this is so unhealthy. She needs to talk to a professional.
25:18
Speaker 1: But first you need backup, and that backup has to
25:22
Speaker 1: be someone you trust, and hopefully that's your parents. I
25:24
Speaker 1: don't see what. I don't see why you would need proof.
25:26
Speaker 1: I mean, if I went to my parents and I
25:27
Speaker 1: was like, yeah, she has a journal and she said
25:29
Speaker 1: this in her journal, Like, why would they not believe you?
25:31
Speaker 1: I don't know, and I don't know your dynamic, but
25:33
Speaker 1: I would absolutely, first and foremost definitely go to the parents,
25:36
Speaker 1: see what they think, and then just go from there.
25:39
Speaker 1: And then yeah, and then yeah, maybe stage and intervention
25:41
Speaker 1: with the parents and with you. I don't know what else,
25:43
Speaker 1: what else you'd do other than that? And other people said,
25:46
Speaker 1: you're the asshole if she ends up on the news
25:48
Speaker 1: and you didn't do everything you can to protect her. Okay,
25:51
Speaker 1: I mean, well yeah, I mean it's a scary situation
25:55
Speaker 1: and I just want to go. I want to go
25:56
Speaker 1: right to the to the update, because there's an update.
25:59
Speaker 1: Thank you to everyone who replied to this and gave
26:01
Speaker 1: me a lot of feedback on what to do. This
26:03
Speaker 1: was almost a year ago and a lot has happened.
26:05
Speaker 1: A lot of people recommended that I tell my parents,
26:07
Speaker 1: so I did, Thank goodness. They were so shocked, but
26:11
Speaker 1: said I must be overreacting, that maybe I misunderstood what
26:14
Speaker 1: I saw, that my sister isn't crazy, and that it
26:17
Speaker 1: was probably an old journal that I found. My mom
26:20
Speaker 1: even told me it was rude to snoop. Immediately regretted
26:23
Speaker 1: telling them and begged them not to tell her, and
26:25
Speaker 1: they promised they wouldn't. Okay, well, I see why you
26:28
Speaker 1: wanted proof to show your parents. My God, all right.
26:30
Speaker 1: A few weeks after that, I noticed my sister blocked
26:32
Speaker 1: me on instant and my texts weren't going through. I
26:34
Speaker 1: found out that my mom slipped up the night before
26:36
Speaker 1: and told my sister over the phone what I told her,
26:39
Speaker 1: and my sister told my mom that I'm crazy, that
26:42
Speaker 1: she doesn't even journal anymore, and that I was just
26:44
Speaker 1: trying to paint her out to be a bad person.
26:47
Speaker 1: My mom told us that we were being petty and
26:49
Speaker 1: just to drop it, but my sister completely cut me
26:51
Speaker 1: off and didn't speak to me for months. I just
26:53
Speaker 1: moved on with my life. What what? A few months ago,
26:57
Speaker 1: my sister was arrested what. She got extremely drunk and
27:02
Speaker 1: went to her ex boyfriend's house and tried to break in.
27:05
Speaker 1: There is ring camera footage of her confessing her love
27:07
Speaker 1: for him, saying that she will never leave him alone,
27:10
Speaker 1: and then he has to open the door and trying
27:12
Speaker 1: to kick it down. This man is married with kids.
27:15
Speaker 1: Oh my god, your sister is a menace. This was crazy.
27:18
Speaker 1: I never thought something like this would happen. My parents
27:21
Speaker 1: found out, they immediately believed me, sat me down and
27:23
Speaker 1: asked me to tell them everything that I read again.
27:25
Speaker 1: My mom told me that she just didn't want to
27:28
Speaker 1: think that it could ever be true that my sister
27:30
Speaker 1: was still crazy and stuck on this and that's why
27:32
Speaker 1: she told me that she didn't believe me at first,
27:34
Speaker 1: but now she does, and they both apologized. My sister
27:37
Speaker 1: got out of jail on bond, and when she did,
27:39
Speaker 1: my parents told her that if she wanted them to
27:41
Speaker 1: pay for a lawyer, they would have to see her journals.
27:44
Speaker 1: She refused, so my parents kept their word and my
27:47
Speaker 1: sister got a public defender. This is when she reached
27:50
Speaker 1: out to me and asked me to beg my parents
27:52
Speaker 1: to pay for a lawyer since her trial is coming up.
27:55
Speaker 1: I told her that we were scared for her and
27:57
Speaker 1: that we love her, but she needs help, and that
27:59
Speaker 1: she won't let me help her. There's nothing we can do. Oh,
28:03
Speaker 1: I mean yeh, sounds right to me. She ended up
28:08
Speaker 1: getting two years of probation for what she did. She
28:11
Speaker 1: stopped speaking to my parents as well after they didn't
28:13
Speaker 1: pay for her lawyer. We found out two weeks ago
28:16
Speaker 1: that she had been arrested for moving out of state
28:18
Speaker 1: while still on probation. She broke the probation rules. Where
28:21
Speaker 1: did she move to the same city as the woman
28:24
Speaker 1: she was stalking. I can't even dm the other woman
28:26
Speaker 1: because her page has been private now for a few months.
28:29
Speaker 1: When I told my parents this, they both started crying.
28:32
Speaker 1: She had a warrant out for her arrest and was
28:34
Speaker 1: recently just arrested last night and have no idea what's
28:37
Speaker 1: going to happen now. I hope that this is a
28:39
Speaker 1: wake up call for her and she gets the psychiatric
28:41
Speaker 1: help she needs. Oh my gosh, good on you and
28:49
Speaker 1: your parents. Yeah. I feel like it's like no consequences
28:52
Speaker 1: for your actions and they really followed through. I think
28:55
Speaker 1: that's definitely good. I think that's the only way to
28:57
Speaker 1: go about it. Yeah. I feel like she if she
28:59
Speaker 1: got out, she'd still do stuff. Hopefully she goes to
29:02
Speaker 1: like like a psychiatric center where she can get some help,
29:06
Speaker 1: not to jail. Oh man, Yeah, that's that's wild. Oh
29:10
Speaker 1: my gosh. Comments say this is way past normal drama.
29:14
Speaker 1: She needs real treatment and support before things get worse. Yeah. Absolutely, dude,
29:18
Speaker 1: share the info about what she's written about the other
29:21
Speaker 1: woman with the probation officer. Your sister has consequences for
29:24
Speaker 1: her ex, but the other woman may be oblivious and
29:27
Speaker 1: in danger or is the ap married to the X.
29:30
Speaker 1: Your sister already cut you off? Come clean op said, No,
29:33
Speaker 1: the other woman is married to another man for all
29:35
Speaker 1: I know. She has no current connection to my sister's
29:37
Speaker 1: ex still, and how can I contact her PO a
29:40
Speaker 1: probation officer. She doesn't speak to me. And it's not
29:43
Speaker 1: like they'll just tell a stranger her info, right, It's
29:46
Speaker 1: just confusing. Yeah. I would absolutely give more information about
29:50
Speaker 1: the sister and be like, I'm really worried about her.
29:53
Speaker 1: She's shown signs of serious stalking with this other woman.
29:56
Speaker 1: I feel like she needs more than just you know,
30:00
Speaker 1: regular imprisonment. She needs psychiatric help. I think she should
30:03
Speaker 1: have a psychiatric evaluation. I think you need to vouch
30:06
Speaker 1: for your sister or pretty much against her, I guess,
30:09
Speaker 1: because she probably doesn't think there's anything wrong. I think
30:12
Speaker 1: that would be the best way to go about it personally.
30:16
Speaker 1: I men know what you guys think down below. That's
30:17
Speaker 1: a wild one. Yeah, that's all be gone, So let's
30:20
Speaker 1: move on. Let's rewan more. And I have the scallywag
30:22
Speaker 1: for wearing a white T shirt and gray leggings when
30:24
Speaker 1: my husband's ex wife came over. You're this step mummy,
30:28
Speaker 1: the step wife got it. Okay, we're newlyweds and this
30:32
Speaker 1: is our first bite. My husband twenty seven male, and I,
30:35
Speaker 1: thirty one female. We're waiting for his ex wife twenty
30:38
Speaker 1: seven female, to drop off his daughter. Minutes before they reached,
30:41
Speaker 1: my husband asked me if I was waiting on last
30:44
Speaker 1: minute to change. I was wearing a white T shirt
30:46
Speaker 1: and gray leggings, no makeup, and my hair was in
30:48
Speaker 1: a messy bun. I told him I wasn't changing. He
30:51
Speaker 1: didn't say anything about it until his ex and his
30:54
Speaker 1: daughter arrived. The x came in a nice summer dress, heels,
30:57
Speaker 1: in makeup, and the daughter said bye to her mom
30:59
Speaker 1: and went upstairs. The ex left. My husband said I
31:03
Speaker 1: embarrassed him in front of his ex by looking like that.
31:06
Speaker 1: We got in a big argument about it. Am I
31:08
Speaker 1: the asshole? No, your husband is the asshole, and I
31:13
Speaker 1: understand the wife. The wife probably left because he's telling
31:16
Speaker 1: her what to wear, probably told her like she couldn't
31:19
Speaker 1: wear makeup or dresses because I don't know. I don't know.
31:21
Speaker 1: It just feels like I know I'm going like way
31:23
Speaker 1: off the rails right now, but it feels like very controlling,
31:25
Speaker 1: and it's like you're supposed to be hotter than my
31:27
Speaker 1: ex wife. She's supposed to be jealous of our relationship.
31:32
Speaker 1: You know, I don't like it. Comment one said, no,
31:35
Speaker 1: you're not the asshole, but your husband is the asshole.
31:37
Speaker 1: In no way should he be comparing you to his ex,
31:40
Speaker 1: and then op said it did feel like some kind
31:43
Speaker 1: of contest. My husband and I would definitely have to
31:46
Speaker 1: talk about this. We can't let it fester. He needs
31:48
Speaker 1: to be honest with me and himself if there's any
31:51
Speaker 1: hope of us getting past this, and then commentary two said, girl,
31:54
Speaker 1: you're better than that. With all due respect, if you
31:56
Speaker 1: continue to let yourself live like this, you will regret it.
31:59
Speaker 1: He is A yeah, that's like a true color moment.
32:01
Speaker 1: You're like, whoa, It's like, are you just with me?
32:04
Speaker 1: Because you know, maybe she is a super super hot,
32:08
Speaker 1: super cute and then you know she's just deciding to
32:11
Speaker 1: just be in her you know, regular states us girls
32:16
Speaker 1: are when we're just in our frickin' sweats or leggings
32:19
Speaker 1: and a little T shirt and no makeup and a
32:21
Speaker 1: messy But but I just think that it's just it's
32:24
Speaker 1: just blaring misogyny right now, and it's making me icky.
32:29
Speaker 1: It's making me feel icky right now Okay, but luckily
32:33
Speaker 1: we have an update, so let's read it next day.
32:35
Speaker 1: A small update. My husband twenty seven male, and I
32:38
Speaker 1: thirty one female, talked this morning. He repeated that to him,
32:41
Speaker 1: I'm more physically attractive than his ex wife twenty seven female.
32:45
Speaker 1: My husband repeated that he likes a woman who is
32:48
Speaker 1: curvier and who looks more mature. Okay, he admitted he
32:53
Speaker 1: doesn't like that a lot of people think his ex
32:55
Speaker 1: wife is way hotter than me. Okay, well, there, there
32:58
Speaker 1: we go. There's our answer. He just cares about how
33:01
Speaker 1: other people feel and how she thinks she looks, and
33:04
Speaker 1: like he just wants her to be jealous of his
33:07
Speaker 1: new wife. Whatever, dude, whatever dude. My husband said he
33:11
Speaker 1: wanted to show me off to his ex Yep, there
33:13
Speaker 1: you go. I told him that he just has to
33:15
Speaker 1: accept that, by the mainstream beauty standard, his ex wife
33:18
Speaker 1: is far hotter than me. Don't talk about yourself like that,
33:21
Speaker 1: you freaking beauty queen. Shut up. But what is most
33:25
Speaker 1: important is what I think of my looks. I said,
33:28
Speaker 1: what he thinks of my looks is second most important.
33:30
Speaker 1: I asked him. When it's just him his daughter and I,
33:34
Speaker 1: does he want me to be dressed up or look simple.
33:37
Speaker 1: He said, he prefers simple. I told him, then, don't
33:40
Speaker 1: let others' opinions confuse anything. So basically things are getting
33:43
Speaker 1: back to normal. Okay. I don't know if that's normal
33:47
Speaker 1: to me. I feel like there's still a little bit
33:49
Speaker 1: of stinky air there, ikey air there. He says, he
33:52
Speaker 1: prefers simple. See what I mean. I feel like with
33:55
Speaker 1: the other wife, he was just like, you need to
33:56
Speaker 1: look tona doom when you're out because you can't be hot.
34:00
Speaker 1: People can't look at you. I don't know, it's just giving,
34:02
Speaker 1: just you know, Strambolli master like he's just he wants
34:05
Speaker 1: you as a little puppet, his puppet. I mean, if
34:08
Speaker 1: you're okay with it, I guess. Commenter said, the whole
34:10
Speaker 1: situation is very weird. You were expecting company, You were
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Speaker 1: expecting your stepdaughter to come home and to hang at
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Speaker 1: home with family. My husband has never once compared my
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Speaker 1: looks to his ex wife, and never would. There's nothing
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Speaker 1: to compare because we're different people. That's a really unusual conversation.
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Speaker 1: I have a commenter. I agree, personally, I agree. Commentary
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Speaker 1: two said, yeah, this my husband's ex wife literally looks
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Speaker 1: like a model to me, at least some disagree apparently.
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Speaker 1: But she's also a not very nice person and she
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Speaker 1: cheated on him. He married her when they were pretty young,
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Speaker 1: and he fully admits the packaging was the response, but
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Speaker 1: says what was inside was truly disappointing. He never compares
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Speaker 1: us in terms of looks or otherwise because he was
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Speaker 1: never happy in his first marriage. Op said, something seems
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Speaker 1: wrong in my marriage. Comptor said, it's a one hundred
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Speaker 1: percent is. I wear sweats all the time and my
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Speaker 1: husband is constantly complimenting me. We also have never compared
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Speaker 1: each other to our exes. I share a child with
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Speaker 1: my ex and have never once tried to tell my
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Speaker 1: husband to dress up and impress him. That's honestly weird
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Speaker 1: and shouldn't even be a thought that crosses his mind.
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Speaker 1: Op said, something is beyond wrong with my marriage because
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Speaker 1: I've been accepting compliments in my DMS from strangers and
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Speaker 1: enjoying it way too much. I hate myself for that,
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Speaker 1: and I don't like that it smells messy. Uh. Comparison
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Speaker 1: is the thief of joy. You should not be doing
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Speaker 1: that with your ex. You don't look in the past
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Speaker 1: and compare it with your current, with your present and
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Speaker 1: your future, because I mean, your past is your past
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Speaker 1: for a reason. It's back there you look ahead. You know,
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Speaker 1: if you keep looking at your past, you can't move
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Speaker 1: forward into your future. And that goes with who you're with.
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Speaker 1: If you're just constantly thinking about this other person and
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Speaker 1: what they think and what they look like and how
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Speaker 1: they act, then you can't put your whole being into
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Speaker 1: the person you're with, and that's not fair to that person.
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Speaker 1: So I don't know any of that made sense. By
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Speaker 1: the way, not a therapist. I'm a Reddit therapist gay
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Speaker 1: much different, no degree required. But yeah, I just think
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Speaker 1: that you need to talk to your husband about that.
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Speaker 1: You need to say exactly how you're feeling. It's like, yeah,
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Speaker 1: I don't really understand why you're comparing me to her
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Speaker 1: and why you want me to look good for her,
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Speaker 1: so she's jealous and for this. It's like, I thought
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Speaker 1: you married me for me, for who I am and
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Speaker 1: for what I look like, because I'm assuming he's attracted
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Speaker 1: to you and everything, and you know, he's saying like, oh,
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Speaker 1: you're a curvier, you're more mature. I like you for
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Speaker 1: this it's like, Okay, it all seems weird and he
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Speaker 1: needs to maybe maybe talk to it. He needs to
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Speaker 1: talk to a therapist, maybe talk to a couple of
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Speaker 1: counsel as though maybe that would be a good idea.
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Speaker 1: But what am I know? You know, I'm just a
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Speaker 1: stupid YouTuber who's only been married for like what eight months?
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Speaker 1: I don't know. What do I know though? But let
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Speaker 1: me know what you guys think. I always read the comments.
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Speaker 1: I love your comments. I love that you're here, and
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Speaker 1: I hope this was interesting a little bit for you.
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Speaker 1: These were some crazy stories. But I hope you're having
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Speaker 1: a great break and if you're not on, I'm glad
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Speaker 1: you got to take a little bit of a break
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Speaker 1: with me. I appreciate you, I love you, and I'll
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Speaker 1: see in the next one, all right. Bye,