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Scotty is taking notes on someone else's s*x life! · Scotty and Abby UNFILTERED

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  Speaker 1: M Tampa Bay's best music is Magico nine.
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  Speaker 2: Well, welcome back to another episode of Scotti and Abby Unfiltered.
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  Speaker 2: And yesterday we were talking about how there has been
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  Speaker 2: some interesting connections in the sales department with you, Abby,
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  Speaker 2: and I'm very curious because I didn't get this scoop
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  Speaker 2: because before I even got to see you talking to
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  Speaker 2: one of our amazing saleswomen, I had to leave. And
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  Speaker 2: so I felt like that was gonna be the tea,
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  Speaker 2: like you guys were gonna catch up on the text
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  Speaker 2: that was sent. And so I'm very curious on that.
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  Speaker 2: But I also know there's some other things happening and.
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  Speaker 3: To get some tea. But I feel like we've been
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  Speaker 3: talking a lot about TV in the studio this morning.
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  Speaker 2: Uh huh.
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  Speaker 3: Scotty and I are going to have two very are
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  Speaker 3: having two very different viewing experiences this week. So Scott
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  Speaker 3: has decided to divulge to our listeners, who, by the way,
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  Speaker 3: majority families Unfiltered. It's more like adults, Like, if you're
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  Speaker 3: you're you're probably not twelve years old. I'm hoping you're
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  Speaker 3: not twelve years old.
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  Speaker 2: No, no, this is for the adult audiences.
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  Speaker 3: For the adult audiences. And so it's one thing to
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  Speaker 3: talk about your recent show binge on here, but Scotty,
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  Speaker 3: with his full chest on air, tells everybody that he
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  Speaker 3: decided to watch this show that you've already watched by
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  Speaker 3: the way I have. He's rewatching this show called sex
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  Speaker 3: life on a plane. In case it wasn't obvious, In
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  Speaker 3: case you needed some explanation, the show is about two
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  Speaker 3: couple's sex lives.
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  Speaker 2: Jesus on the show is so good. So like I'm
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  Speaker 2: going to explore like different parts of it and why
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  Speaker 2: I started watching it again, but let me go ahead
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  Speaker 2: and just put that on your radar. I recommend it.
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  Speaker 2: It is very graphic. It's I would assume for a
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  Speaker 2: well here, I mean, it's just the show. But yeah,
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  Speaker 2: I did talk about on air how I watched this
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  Speaker 2: show years ago, and at the time when I watched it,
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  Speaker 2: I was in a different mental space where I was
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  Speaker 2: watching it and it was kind of judging. I couldn't understand.
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  Speaker 2: I was trying to understand like her desires. So what
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  Speaker 2: the show is. It's this new mom who's in a
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  Speaker 2: beautiful like house quote unquote relationship, but it's her trying
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  Speaker 2: to understand and unravel why she has these desires for
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  Speaker 2: her past life where she's thinking about past boyfriends and
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  Speaker 2: hookups and all this sex and why she's craving it
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  Speaker 2: because on paper, it looks like she has everything. And
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  Speaker 2: so if you're just looking from the outside and you're like, girl,
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  Speaker 2: what are you complaining about? But I love that it
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  Speaker 2: hits on things that aren't spoken, where you have these
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  Speaker 2: desires that you can't talk about. Maybe you miss something
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  Speaker 2: in the past that you can't mention, or there's that
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  Speaker 2: rut in a relationship where her and her husband are
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  Speaker 2: just out of sync. And so when I watched it
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  Speaker 2: years ago, I thought to myself, like, what is she like? Girl?
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  Speaker 2: Get yourself together, Like, come on now, you need to
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  Speaker 2: figure out your stuff. Your husband seems amazing. And I
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  Speaker 2: watch it now and I'm like, I'm completely on her side.
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  Speaker 2: You always want to watch the bone No oh no, no, no, I'll.
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  Speaker 3: Get to tell them when you told me this morning,
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  Speaker 3: tell them a verbatim what came out of your mouth.
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  Speaker 2: The reason and it's ah, Jesus, if we go back
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  Speaker 2: a couple episodes, now, you guys are gonna think of
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  Speaker 2: just a freak. Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Watching it on a plane in front of small children.
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  Speaker 2: No, there's okay. So I started watching it because again,
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  Speaker 2: I've evolved as a man and I want to continue
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  Speaker 2: to evolve as a man. And I knew in this
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  Speaker 2: show there are gonna be things that the one like
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  Speaker 2: super attractive and sensual actor was doing that. I was like,
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  Speaker 2: I'm a student I could learn from you know, how
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  Speaker 2: does he talk to her? How does he touch her?
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  Speaker 3: Oh my god, you're watching fifty shades in sex life.
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  Speaker 3: Let's just get you to watch like Pride and Prejudice
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  Speaker 3: it Scott, just watch porn.
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  Speaker 2: Well, and this is I was actually explaining this to
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  Speaker 2: my lady about it because I thought, gosh, the the
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  Speaker 2: male brain, especially when you're growing up, the way it
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  Speaker 2: thinks of like sex is like, Okay, job must be done.
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  Speaker 2: Do job well, produce, go do bed. I as I've evolved,
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  Speaker 2: I don't want to be that guy that's just like
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  Speaker 2: all about me. No, no, no, no, I want it to
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  Speaker 2: be No.
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  Speaker 3: I know what you're trying to say. I just think
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  Speaker 3: it's interesting in the influences you're running towards. That's That's
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  Speaker 3: what I'm finding interesting. It's like fifty shade sex life,
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  Speaker 3: like these very specifically.
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  Speaker 2: Kinky well, now, well, kinky is one way to put it.
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  Speaker 3: But I don't say these are kinky shows.
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  Speaker 2: I say female leaning.
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  Speaker 3: No, these are kinky shows and they're absolutely female leaning,
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  Speaker 3: but you know what, it's also female leaning. We've talked
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  Speaker 3: about the other Bennett's Sister now available on brit.
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  Speaker 2: Box, and that might be valid. Like I might watch
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  Speaker 2: that and be like, oh, how does he speak to her?
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  Speaker 2: That's what's it like.
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  Speaker 3: I feel like you would learn more. I feel like
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  Speaker 3: you just want to watch him bang.
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  Speaker 2: No, I see that's where it went wrong. I forgot
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  Speaker 2: how how graphic the show was, and that's why I
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  Speaker 2: was I was like looking for a show to watch
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  Speaker 2: on the plane because I was coming back from my
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  Speaker 2: retreat and I was like, oh, hey, go let me
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  Speaker 2: rewatch this. And maybe I told what I was like,
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  Speaker 2: I can maybe just you know, study a little bit
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  Speaker 2: and see.
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  Speaker 3: I just can't imagine you're picking up any good lessons
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  Speaker 3: from them.
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  Speaker 2: No, because what I'm trying to discover, not trying to discover,
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  Speaker 2: what I'm continuing to condition to myself, is like the
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  Speaker 2: this is so weird, like the setting of where a
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  Speaker 2: moment could happen, Like it's not just that he's like attractive.
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  Speaker 2: It's honestly, I've watched this. I'm like, oh, it has
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  Speaker 2: nothing to do with that he's attractive. It's like everything
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  Speaker 2: of how he approaches her, how he looks at her,
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  Speaker 2: how he talks to her, how he like gently will
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  Speaker 2: like rub you know, her face with his hand and
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  Speaker 2: like caress her head. And I'm like, ah, like these
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  Speaker 2: are the things that are like building that tension, that
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  Speaker 2: are very sexy that if I just watch traditional male stuff,
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  Speaker 2: it's like you do all the work. I just go
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  Speaker 2: ahead and we have fun and then we're done and
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  Speaker 2: I take nap and I'm like no, no, no, no, no,
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  Speaker 2: I'm not that guy. So I'm like watching, like, ah, interesting,
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  Speaker 2: I see why a woman would see this and be like,
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  Speaker 2: I'm craving man because.
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  Speaker 3: He's a six foot five Australia.
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  Speaker 2: I don't have that that that is not in my
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  Speaker 2: wheelhouse plenty of other things.
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  Speaker 3: How many episodes did you have to watch to get
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  Speaker 3: that lesson?
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  Speaker 2: Okay?
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  Speaker 3: How do I how do I?
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  Speaker 2: How do I go?
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  Speaker 3: Well?
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  Speaker 2: As I was watching it on the plane, immediately I
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  Speaker 2: was like, oh my god, I can't watch this on
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  Speaker 2: the plane, but I have to watch it on the plane. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: because it's like you, you don't have.
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  Speaker 3: To watch watch nothing else down here, here's what you
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  Speaker 3: could do on a plane, and here's the advice, and
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  Speaker 3: I'll give you some new learning material. Is the day
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  Speaker 3: that this episode comes out. There's a new show coming
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  Speaker 3: out on Amazon Prime that I'm not getting paid to push.
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  Speaker 3: But it's called Off Campus and girls love to read
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  Speaker 3: and watch it specifically for the reason that you're talking about. Okay,
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  Speaker 3: like it's a sexy show for women in their twenties.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, then I'm in.
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  Speaker 3: But there's a book series. And what I'm trying to
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  Speaker 3: say is you don't always have to watch. Sometimes you
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  Speaker 3: can get straight into a lady's head just by reading
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  Speaker 3: one of these sexy novels. And I honestly feel like
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  Speaker 3: you will learn way more by reading than you will
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  Speaker 3: by watching fake schmacks go down.
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  Speaker 2: I'm visual, you know, learner, and the show is good,
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  Speaker 2: and I honestly I've liked one. I'm probably not going
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  Speaker 2: to finish the whole season or two seasons, yeah, because
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  Speaker 2: I already know how it kind of plays out.
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  Speaker 3: I just think the books are a little bit more
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  Speaker 3: in detail. I think it's more of an instruction manual
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  Speaker 3: than it is.
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  Speaker 2: As I would say, I don't know how many dudes
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  Speaker 2: listen to this, but I would say I highly recommend.
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  Speaker 2: Just It's like I look at it like I'm fine
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  Speaker 2: tuning my car. I'm like, okay, like, yeah, I know
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  Speaker 2: these things, but you could always, you know, go have
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  Speaker 2: a reset.
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  Speaker 3: But would you rather watch someone fix an engine or
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  Speaker 3: would you rather read how to fix the engine? That's
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  Speaker 3: a good question, and I think well might learn a
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  Speaker 3: little bit more by reading the instructions.
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  Speaker 2: I will go ahead, and because now I want to
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  Speaker 2: watch that show. Now I want to watch Off Campus
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  Speaker 2: to be in the no, but.
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  Speaker 3: You can read the book, and I'm telling you the
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  Speaker 3: book will be way more helpful for the reasons you
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  Speaker 3: say you're watching these shows.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, then I'm committed. I'm gonna go. Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: I think you absolutely need to need to watch Off
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  Speaker 3: Campus if that's truly why you're watching this touch line.
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  Speaker 2: I find it interesting and I think that's like the
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  Speaker 2: core of it is. I'm like, I need I love
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  Speaker 2: understanding like a mainly not mainly a lot of women
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  Speaker 2: and how they think. I love understanding that side.
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  Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying. You got to read.
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  Speaker 2: Because then it just helps me step up as a
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  Speaker 2: male partner, you know, and being able, like, hey, here's
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  Speaker 2: the guy that lied about getting reservations to get us in.
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  Speaker 2: You know that doesn't just happen everybody, nor lady.
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  Speaker 3: Is that where you learned it from? No?
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  Speaker 2: No, that was all me. I'm an original guy, all
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  Speaker 2: right now, you know there's it just helps me.
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  Speaker 3: Never mind, I just.
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  Speaker 2: It gets my thoughts going. It's fun. It's fun. I'm like, oh,
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  Speaker 2: that's an interesting take.
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  Speaker 3: I'm telling you this is a good experiment. I think
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  Speaker 3: you need to read at least one of.
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  Speaker 2: These books, the off books.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, And I'll say that purely because that's what
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  Speaker 3: all the girlies are going to be watching starting and
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  Speaker 3: if you're listening to this that it comes.
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  Speaker 2: Up today, I'm in. But it's a book series, it's okay.
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  Speaker 2: So that's where these are very easy reads.
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  Speaker 3: Like when I tell you these are easy, easy, trashy
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  Speaker 3: books to read.
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  Speaker 2: I'm in. I will commit to it. Yeah, because obviously
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  Speaker 2: it's studiente. I'm a student of this, and I want
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  Speaker 2: to cons best.
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  Speaker 3: Thing that you've learned from the show.
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  Speaker 2: I have learned how to take a moment and make
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  Speaker 2: it more intense and longer lasting. Okay, So that's all
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  Speaker 2: I can say here because I've already I gotta be
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  Speaker 2: careful with the podcast. Amazon, don't even look at it.
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  Speaker 3: That's the other thing, is Scott all Days, like, so
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  Speaker 3: what's in your Amazon card?
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  Speaker 2: Like?
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  Speaker 3: I don't know? Cat food?
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  Speaker 2: Okay, Well Mike, Okay, yeah, I can't. You know, there's
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  Speaker 2: certain things that do need to be private. But you
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  Speaker 2: know what, it's it's fun exploring. Okay, that's what's fun
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  Speaker 2: about this whole situation.
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  Speaker 3: I love that you are getting out your compass.
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  Speaker 2: I will say I recommend the show. It's very steamy.
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  Speaker 2: Don't watch it with kids around.
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  Speaker 3: I'll watch you with kids, same with all campus.
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  Speaker 2: That's well. Now, is it better to read it and
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  Speaker 2: then watch it? Or if everyone's going to watch it?
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  Speaker 2: Could I read it and watch it?
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  Speaker 3: I mean you can do both. I think I think
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  Speaker 3: you'll get different things from watching them versus reading.
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  Speaker 2: What do you think I think would be the difference
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  Speaker 2: then that I'm gaining from that versus what I'm getting.
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  Speaker 3: If you're truly trying to.
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  Speaker 2: Be I'm not a freak. I promise you're.
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  Speaker 3: So such a freak. If you truly are oonest. I
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  Speaker 3: don't know a studiante. I think you'll get more from
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  Speaker 3: reading it.
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  Speaker 2: Wow, is it like just what I'm telling you.
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  Speaker 3: It's like watching somebody change an engine versus reading the
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  Speaker 3: instruction manual on how to change the engine. Mmmm.
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  Speaker 2: All right, then I'm in because if there's things that
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  Speaker 2: I could learn, I'm always down. I don't like to
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  Speaker 2: just assume I know it all.
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  Speaker 3: You know, it's you can do an audiobook. It's like
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  Speaker 3: listening to a podcast.
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  Speaker 2: You can do it. You can be at the gym.
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  Speaker 3: I was on a walk yesterday and I was like,
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  Speaker 3: I really hope my headphones are plunding.
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  Speaker 2: Oh God, somebody's gonna see that. They're good.
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  Speaker 3: They're just trashy and fun.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, that's fun, And I think that's the thing. Like
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  Speaker 2: I sometimes I feel like you get older and you
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  Speaker 2: just stay in your own ways and like you're like,
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  Speaker 2: this is what I've done, this is what I've always done,
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  Speaker 2: this is I'll always be. And I'm like, atolutely not. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: I'm evolved, baby, That's what I'm trying to do.
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  Speaker 3: I'll give you some light reading material for your afternoon.
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  Speaker 2: Well, then I'm in. I will start reading off. I
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  Speaker 2: was literally start reading it today. You're I will I
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  Speaker 2: will commit? Okay, I'm in for it. I don't know.
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  Speaker 3: The first book is called The Deal by El Kennedy.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, if anybody else is reading, we have a little
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  Speaker 2: book club. It'll be fun and maybe we could take
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  Speaker 2: our notes and compare that.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, that's what I'll be doing all day today. We're
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  Speaker 3: posting this on Wednesday. It's been dream.
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  Speaker 2: Are there like scenes?
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  Speaker 3: Why don't what I mean if it goes by the book? Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: I think it is supposed to be like rded R.
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  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, it's spicy.
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  Speaker 2: What the streaming platform is going to be on for watching?
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  Speaker 3: Prime?
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  Speaker 2: Oh? Oh I do have Prime? Okay, then I'm in. Well,
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  Speaker 2: thanks for putting me on a You know what. I
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  Speaker 2: stay by my ways, keep learning, keep growing, keep evolving.
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  Speaker 2: So what the heck was this text? Oh?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, So when we were at the Raise game a
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  Speaker 3: couple of weeks ago for my birthday, Remember we were
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  Speaker 3: having a good time with everybody in the office. If
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  Speaker 3: you miss this, we went to a Raise game. It
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  Speaker 3: was the day of my birthday. We got super drunk at.
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  Speaker 2: Brunch, Yeah we did.
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  Speaker 3: We got brunch drunk and we went out to karaoke
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  Speaker 3: with a couple of the salespeople, and one of the
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  Speaker 3: sales ladies, her name is Scotti. She goes, you are
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  Speaker 3: just the cutest thing. Do you have a bullfriend? And
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  Speaker 3: I was like, no, no, I'm like, you see how
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  Speaker 3: drunk I am? Like, do I look like someone who's
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  Speaker 3: experiencing romance at this current moment? And she goes, I
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  Speaker 3: just want to set you up with my friend's son.
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  Speaker 3: And she shows me a photo and I don't really
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  Speaker 3: remember the photo. I just remember seeing his hair, and
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  Speaker 3: that's my thing. Like I feel like everybody has their thing.
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  Speaker 3: My thing is hair, Like if you have a lot
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  Speaker 3: of hair, that's like you're we're good.
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  Speaker 2: Tough as we're getting older.
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  Speaker 3: No, I know, but some people keep their hair.
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  Speaker 2: I'm impressed. It's one of those things. And this is
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  Speaker 2: a tie tangent. But now every time I see a
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  Speaker 2: dude with good hair, like I want to compliment it.
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  Speaker 2: It's a very weird thing. I would not have ever
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  Speaker 2: thought I would do this when I was twenty two.
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  Speaker 3: I love that men are starting to grow their hair out.
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  Speaker 3: They're getting the.
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  Speaker 2: Flow I want. I was just saying this to I
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  Speaker 2: want to try that, but I don't know how the
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  Speaker 2: heck's going to look. The last time I grew my
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  Speaker 2: hair out, I was in middle school and it was
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  Speaker 2: like a bowl or it's like I literally came down
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  Speaker 2: like justin Bievis.
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  Speaker 3: You like coconut head.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's like, I don't know. I want to get
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  Speaker 2: the cool flow, but my hair is not designed like that.
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  Speaker 3: You need to find a stylist who can cut your
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  Speaker 3: hair in a way that when it grows, it will
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  Speaker 3: make sense for the shape of your head.
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  Speaker 2: How do you find that?
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  Speaker 3: Well, you can go to a like and go to
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  Speaker 3: literally any stylist.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, that's because I did try. Like this is me
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  Speaker 2: with flow, This is me with flow on right now.
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  Speaker 3: It's not a flow. That's opposite a flow. You're not
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  Speaker 3: in a flow state.
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  Speaker 2: What do you mean?
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  Speaker 3: Your hair looks good like your you your hair, it
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  Speaker 3: fits your head shape. But if you want the flow,
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  Speaker 3: you need to find someone who can teach you how
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  Speaker 3: to grow the flow.
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  Speaker 2: I need to find the flow person.
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  Speaker 3: You you got to grow your flow.
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  Speaker 2: Because I don't know what. I don't know. That's why
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  Speaker 2: I'm watching these shows. I'm learning other things. Now. Somebody
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  Speaker 2: needs to help me with hair. Yeah, anyway, So she
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  Speaker 2: shows you this guy and.
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  Speaker 3: Right hair, I'm like yeah, because I mean, you know,
• 14:54
  Speaker 3: I'm for Margeritas deep. I'm like, I so cute.
• 14:56
  Speaker 2: Set me up.
• 14:57
  Speaker 3: And then she goes and he bought a house, and
• 14:58
  Speaker 3: I was like, any is a house a house? And
• 15:00
  Speaker 3: let you know, I'm pushing thirty because I'm like, oh
• 15:02
  Speaker 3: my god, he's a four one K two.
• 15:04
  Speaker 2: Oh my god, security, my god.
• 15:06
  Speaker 3: Hang on, I'm close. And so she's like, I'm going
• 15:08
  Speaker 3: to set you up with him, and so I was
• 15:09
  Speaker 3: like whatever. So she texts me about it last week
• 15:12
  Speaker 3: in the middle of a podcast that I do with
• 15:15
  Speaker 3: my other old coworkers or coled personality hires, and let
• 15:18
  Speaker 3: me see what she said.
• 15:19
  Speaker 2: This is amazing because one thing I love already. It's
• 15:22
  Speaker 2: like it was mentioned when you were drunk and we're
• 15:23
  Speaker 2: all having a good time, and it's one thing to
• 15:25
  Speaker 2: just mention something. But now she's doing the follow up
• 15:28
  Speaker 2: where it's like, oh, you actually meant business about this.
• 15:30
  Speaker 3: Oh she meant she meant been business. And I saw
• 15:32
  Speaker 3: her on the hallway and she's like, oh, we can
• 15:33
  Speaker 3: set up like a boat day. I'll invite him. And
• 15:36
  Speaker 3: I was like, what we just do coffee. Like I'm
• 15:39
  Speaker 3: not say no to a boat, but like, like, can
• 15:41
  Speaker 3: can you hit me up? It's been like three weeks
• 15:43
  Speaker 3: good on the boat. So she sent me a text
• 15:45
  Speaker 3: and said, Hey, my friend's son just got settled into
• 15:49
  Speaker 3: his new house that he bought. Oh and we can
• 15:54
  Speaker 3: maybe set up a time. And I was like, yeah,
• 15:55
  Speaker 3: I'm so down and some Then like a couple days later,
• 15:57
  Speaker 3: she texted me and she goes, I want to hear
• 15:59
  Speaker 3: the tea after you talk with Blank. And I was like, girl,
• 16:02
  Speaker 3: I'll give it to you, but like, I haven't heard
• 16:04
  Speaker 3: from him. So then I saw her yesterday. She's like
• 16:06
  Speaker 3: coming to my office. So I sat down and I
• 16:08
  Speaker 3: was like, hey, like what's going on? And so I
• 16:11
  Speaker 3: guess he was like in Cancun last.
• 16:12
  Speaker 2: Week or oh so I traveled too.
• 16:15
  Speaker 3: I wonder if it's just one of those situations where
• 16:19
  Speaker 3: you know, how last week or two weeks ago, we
• 16:21
  Speaker 3: were talking about how I always get asked out and
• 16:22
  Speaker 3: then like the guys just they do the hard part
• 16:24
  Speaker 3: and then they just go all right.
• 16:26
  Speaker 2: They're like all right, I'm proud of myself for making
• 16:28
  Speaker 2: the question.
• 16:29
  Speaker 3: They just disappeared to where when I was on my
• 16:31
  Speaker 3: last show in Atlanta. I started thinking, I'm like, do
• 16:33
  Speaker 3: the guys google me and then they like they just
• 16:36
  Speaker 3: get ACKed out. I don't know.
• 16:38
  Speaker 2: I don't think that's it.
• 16:38
  Speaker 3: But it happens to me so frequent. It's happened to
• 16:40
  Speaker 3: me enough to where I'm like, this is a curse
• 16:43
  Speaker 3: laid upon me.
• 16:44
  Speaker 2: Oh so you think that, like he has your number?
• 16:47
  Speaker 3: Yeah, well allegedly he has my number.
• 16:49
  Speaker 2: Allegedly because that could be the problem, or he just
• 16:51
  Speaker 2: hasn't gotten around to it, Like I remember when you know, like, well,
• 16:56
  Speaker 2: I'm trying to think how much time passed before you
• 16:58
  Speaker 2: were able to get my number or I was able
• 17:00
  Speaker 2: to get my lady's number from you? Uh huh, because
• 17:03
  Speaker 2: it was like, I mean those a couple weeks.
• 17:05
  Speaker 3: Well that's because you were kind of doing this waffling
• 17:07
  Speaker 3: thing where it's like who makes the first move? How
• 17:09
  Speaker 3: do I want to make the move?
• 17:10
  Speaker 2: Is she?
• 17:11
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm interested.
• 17:12
  Speaker 2: Yeah. I needed to make sure I had my ducks
• 17:15
  Speaker 2: in a row before I went and set the message.
• 17:17
  Speaker 3: So if you missed, did you need to get in
• 17:18
  Speaker 3: a row?
• 17:18
  Speaker 2: Well, we were, Let's see, I needed we needed to
• 17:21
  Speaker 2: have the time between her commenting on my post on
• 17:24
  Speaker 2: our post before you messaged her got the number, and
• 17:27
  Speaker 2: then I got the number, and then I think I
• 17:30
  Speaker 2: text her like a couple days after.
• 17:31
  Speaker 3: We didn't need any of that, She commented, I could
• 17:33
  Speaker 3: have given you the setup immediately.
• 17:36
  Speaker 2: I know, but I'm saying I still waited a couple
• 17:38
  Speaker 2: of days before I sent a message.
• 17:39
  Speaker 3: I feel like we waited a couple of weeks. Like
• 17:41
  Speaker 3: I feel like it was a while.
• 17:42
  Speaker 2: No, I don't think it was, because I literally looked back.
• 17:44
  Speaker 2: This is how weird I am and how I'm into this.
• 17:46
  Speaker 2: I went back and I found her exact like, what
• 17:49
  Speaker 2: was our first date? What date was it? So I
• 17:51
  Speaker 2: have it all tracked.
• 17:52
  Speaker 3: It was at least like two or three weeks because
• 17:54
  Speaker 3: I started February.
• 17:55
  Speaker 2: Second, and the video was for Valentine's Day, Like this
• 18:00
  Speaker 2: is for my situation, and so our first date was
• 18:03
  Speaker 2: February twenty eighth. Yeah, and so from Valentine's Day, so
• 18:07
  Speaker 2: like two weeks.
• 18:08
  Speaker 3: No, But she no, no, No, we posted. When did
• 18:12
  Speaker 3: I post that we were hang on?
• 18:14
  Speaker 2: I'm pretty sure we made that, Like her original comment
• 18:17
  Speaker 2: was on a Valentine's Day post, me find it.
• 18:20
  Speaker 3: No, I'm convinced it was February second that I got
• 18:24
  Speaker 3: to post, or maybe it was like February seven.
• 18:27
  Speaker 2: I saw the well me me, me.
• 18:32
  Speaker 3: Work at my Instagram posts.
• 18:33
  Speaker 2: Okay, I don't know, and if she messaged you separately,
• 18:36
  Speaker 2: let me see. This is all just to say that
• 18:38
  Speaker 2: maybe the guy's waiting.
• 18:39
  Speaker 3: So I posted that we were working together February fifth,
• 18:48
  Speaker 3: and that's she commented, like immediately on that post, she
• 18:51
  Speaker 3: was like your co host side.
• 18:53
  Speaker 2: I oh really, well, yeah, I didn't even know this comment.
• 18:57
  Speaker 3: Are you talking about the one where you were shirtless?
• 18:59
  Speaker 2: No, I had a post that The comment that I
• 19:01
  Speaker 2: saw was I think when I was giving out Valentine's
• 19:04
  Speaker 2: Day flowers.
• 19:04
  Speaker 3: Let me fine and her DM me because then.
• 19:06
  Speaker 2: She DMed me, oh this makes me so happy. Hang on,
• 19:09
  Speaker 2: let me fine, let me just have a gig game.
• 19:11
  Speaker 3: Yeah, oh oh wait, you're right, thank February fourteenth. But yeah,
• 19:16
  Speaker 3: that's still two weeks, but.
• 19:17
  Speaker 2: Two weeks before the date, and I think a couple
• 19:18
  Speaker 2: of days like once that comment went up, I needed
• 19:21
  Speaker 2: to get with you because then I think we saw
• 19:24
  Speaker 2: we went to the pool party after that, yes, And
• 19:26
  Speaker 2: I was like, Abby, you got to send a message,
• 19:28
  Speaker 2: like for the love of God, Yeah, and then I
• 19:30
  Speaker 2: waited a couple of days before I sent the message
• 19:32
  Speaker 2: gotcha because I was like, I'm shooting my shot. I
• 19:34
  Speaker 2: had no idea what late on the other side. I
• 19:35
  Speaker 2: don't want to miss because I was also planning for
• 19:37
  Speaker 2: Maybe he's like gating ready to take that shot, and
• 19:40
  Speaker 2: he's like, I have to do it right, the right opportunity,
• 19:43
  Speaker 2: the right time. You only get one shot. It's like
• 19:44
  Speaker 2: em said, he doesn't want to miss a chance to go.
• 19:48
  Speaker 2: But he does have your.
• 19:49
  Speaker 3: Number allegedly allegedly, but I'll never hear from him.
• 19:53
  Speaker 2: No, you will set up the boat day.
• 19:55
  Speaker 3: If history up. Yeah, I mean I want to go
• 19:57
  Speaker 3: on a boat. I'm going on.
• 19:58
  Speaker 2: Scott is a good time. She is good ass time
• 20:02
  Speaker 2: love Scott like that is a If it's not him,
• 20:04
  Speaker 2: it will be somebody else that she's connected to because
• 20:07
  Speaker 2: she's like team.
• 20:08
  Speaker 3: The story is gonna get so confusing because you all
• 20:10
  Speaker 3: have the same name.
• 20:12
  Speaker 2: Not me, not not me. I'm not that cool. I
• 20:15
  Speaker 2: don't have any friends that are super hot and single
• 20:17
  Speaker 2: ready to go.
• 20:18
  Speaker 3: I know, what the hell I set you up with
• 20:19
  Speaker 3: a hot friend, you open with the love of your life.
• 20:22
  Speaker 3: Where's mine?
• 20:23
  Speaker 2: Well, just in time, maybe it's the pool party this Sunday.
• 20:25
  Speaker 2: I do have some friends that are coming out to
• 20:26
  Speaker 2: the pool party. Some are single, be open.
• 20:30
  Speaker 3: Do they want to come on beas on Bee?
• 20:32
  Speaker 2: Yes?
• 20:33
  Speaker 3: I really need some literies this week.
• 20:34
  Speaker 2: I mean, that's you're in every time. It's nice.
• 20:36
  Speaker 3: Can you just ask them if they want to go
• 20:38
  Speaker 3: on baseil on basho this week.
• 20:39
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna let you do that on Sunday.
• 20:40
  Speaker 3: No, can you just give me their numbers?
• 20:42
  Speaker 2: I don't have their numbers.
• 20:44
  Speaker 3: Are your friends are not?
• 20:45
  Speaker 2: Well? I just met it.
• 20:46
  Speaker 3: Give me their instagrams.
• 20:47
  Speaker 2: I just okay, give me the answer. I will give
• 20:49
  Speaker 2: you the instagrams for this Sunday. I hope that works
• 20:51
  Speaker 2: out though. That'd be fun to be able to have
• 20:54
  Speaker 2: a common connect that makes it super easy.
• 20:56
  Speaker 3: And it's from my tiny mic on Sunday and just
• 20:58
  Speaker 3: be like it'll be Bayse off base.
• 20:59
  Speaker 2: Wore base off face. Sure, I'm very curious on the
• 21:04
  Speaker 2: crowd that's gonna be out there, and I hope, like
• 21:07
  Speaker 2: I I was thinking about this earlier in the studios,
• 21:08
  Speaker 2: We're like talking about it. I stress so heavily on
• 21:11
  Speaker 2: the lead up to events, and this is I've talked
• 21:13
  Speaker 2: to our team about this before where I'm like, I
• 21:15
  Speaker 2: have no idea how many people are gonna be there.
• 21:17
  Speaker 2: I have no idea if we're looking like it's gonna
• 21:19
  Speaker 2: be like a success. And so every bit of me
• 21:21
  Speaker 2: is stressed right now. I'm stressed because I just in
• 21:24
  Speaker 2: my head, I'm like, I'm gonna get there. Nobody's gonna be.
• 21:26
  Speaker 3: There, literally, the people. The people will be there.
• 21:28
  Speaker 2: That's what.
• 21:29
  Speaker 3: If you build it, they will come.
• 21:30
  Speaker 2: I we build.
• 21:32
  Speaker 3: That's good lessons for you from Sex Life.
• 21:36
  Speaker 2: You watched the show though, too.
• 21:38
  Speaker 3: I've seen the show, but I mean, like I think
• 21:40
  Speaker 3: it came out during the pandemic.
• 21:41
  Speaker 2: It did.
• 21:42
  Speaker 3: I mean, we're all freaky as hell during the pandemic.
• 21:44
  Speaker 3: Did you ever watch Did you ever watch three hundred
• 21:46
  Speaker 3: and sixty five Days? That movie?
• 21:47
  Speaker 2: No, that's freaky.
• 21:48
  Speaker 3: If you liked sex Life, you need to watch three
• 21:50
  Speaker 3: hundred and sixty five Days.
• 21:51
  Speaker 2: Okay, it's much freaky. It gonna because so far on
• 21:53
  Speaker 2: this podcast, I've talked about my watching. I've watched all
• 21:56
  Speaker 2: movies of fifty shades of Great. Yeah, it's Italian life.
• 21:58
  Speaker 3: It's Italian fifty shades.
• 21:59
  Speaker 2: Of Oh, good lord, that's too much. So it's like
• 22:02
  Speaker 2: all that fun spice, but with an Italian bands.
• 22:04
  Speaker 3: It's spicier than fifty shad.
• 22:06
  Speaker 2: It's it's freaky okay. See, I feel like it's like
• 22:10
  Speaker 2: I need to reintroduce myself. If they've like you've never
• 22:12
  Speaker 2: heard of me before and you're like, who's Scott, You're
• 22:14
  Speaker 2: just like, wow, he's so crazy. No, I'm a learner.
• 22:18
  Speaker 2: I'm a student. I'm killing me.
• 22:22
  Speaker 3: I'm like, just to tell me your role playing without
• 22:24
  Speaker 3: telling me your play I.
• 22:26
  Speaker 2: Am learning everything I can, but I mean, I'll take
• 22:28
  Speaker 2: the recommendations. I'm very curious on the off campus one
• 22:31
  Speaker 2: of like what it does differently, or like when we
• 22:33
  Speaker 2: talked about that show that what's the British weird show
• 22:35
  Speaker 2: that you watch the other Bennett sister rat one.
• 22:38
  Speaker 3: I showed you that scene and you were so bored
• 22:41
  Speaker 3: by it.
• 22:41
  Speaker 2: I was so bored. Like that's the part like that
• 22:43
  Speaker 2: maybe needs to be the newest studiente moment because I'm like.
• 22:46
  Speaker 3: But that's what I showed you. I'm like, do you
• 22:48
  Speaker 3: see how he's just like so enamored with her.
• 22:51
  Speaker 2: I didn't. I didn't understand it. It felt very boring
• 22:54
  Speaker 2: instead of like looking into her eye like that's the difference.
• 22:56
  Speaker 2: Like in that show that Abby's talking about, it's like
• 22:59
  Speaker 2: he's reading a poem door Oh my god, it's so sexy.
• 23:02
  Speaker 2: But in sex life he's like looking into her soul
• 23:05
  Speaker 2: through her eyes and he has his hand on the
• 23:07
  Speaker 2: side of her head and she's just melting into his arms.
• 23:11
  Speaker 2: That's the side that I need, Like as a man,
• 23:14
  Speaker 2: I want to step up in that area. Oh, I
• 23:16
  Speaker 2: can't read a freaking poem whatever. Trying to learn, okay,
• 23:21
  Speaker 2: trying to learn just it's just it's layered.
• 23:23
  Speaker 3: It's layered. Women can be more than one thing, women
• 23:26
  Speaker 3: can want more than one.
• 23:27
  Speaker 2: Thing correct, correct, And I think those are the elements
• 23:31
  Speaker 2: that I want to learn because I'm like, oh, I
• 23:32
  Speaker 2: didn't think that was a sexy thing, but I guess
• 23:34
  Speaker 2: it was.
• 23:34
  Speaker 3: Yeah, So there you go. There was your less You're
• 23:36
  Speaker 3: a studiante Lesson with the other Bennett's sister. And I'm
• 23:39
  Speaker 3: also giving me a straight woman being like, hey, I
• 23:42
  Speaker 3: think you should read a sexy novel and nah, I
• 23:45
  Speaker 3: just want to watch aug On.
• 23:46
  Speaker 2: Looks sounds not the boid, like that's the literally on
• 23:49
  Speaker 2: the plane. I would like have to dim it down,
• 23:51
  Speaker 2: like like thing.
• 23:53
  Speaker 3: About a book you don't have to dim it down.
• 23:55
  Speaker 2: I mean people are going to see the title of
• 23:57
  Speaker 2: it and they're going to like, oh that boy freaky.
• 23:58
  Speaker 3: No, they're not gonna be like, what's the deal? The
• 24:01
  Speaker 3: people don't won't know what you're reading. Okay, I'm start
• 24:03
  Speaker 3: reading over your shoulder, which I always get paranoid about.
• 24:06
  Speaker 2: Like can they see nobody? People don't like to read
• 24:08
  Speaker 2: in general. There's no way they're reading over your shoes.
• 24:10
  Speaker 3: I'm telling you, I think you would have a good
• 24:12
  Speaker 3: time reading The Deal. Mm or maybe you wouldn't. I
• 24:15
  Speaker 3: don't know.
• 24:15
  Speaker 2: I'm going I'm literally going to commit to it.
• 24:17
  Speaker 3: No, you're not.
• 24:18
  Speaker 2: I aware my name. I will commit have zero. Is
• 24:22
  Speaker 2: it on Kindle whatever?
• 24:23
  Speaker 3: I think you can get it. I think it's on
• 24:24
  Speaker 3: Kendle or iBooks.
• 24:26
  Speaker 2: Okay, Well, this is like I kept talking about, like
• 24:28
  Speaker 2: things we're committing to. If I'm committing to a book,
• 24:30
  Speaker 2: what are you committing to?
• 24:31
  Speaker 3: I'm committing to you getting up with you. I'm committing
• 24:35
  Speaker 3: to helping you get laid.
• 24:37
  Speaker 2: I you know what you let. Yes, I'm happy. I'm
• 24:43
  Speaker 2: very happy. It's very interesting. Like right now, I'm very
• 24:45
  Speaker 2: happy in what I have with my relationship and I
• 24:48
  Speaker 2: have a great thing going on here with the show,
• 24:50
  Speaker 2: and now I'm just like the other things. I'm like,
• 24:53
  Speaker 2: I'm about that was telling Abby, I'm like, I'm about
• 24:54
  Speaker 2: to move, which moving is not fun. I got to
• 24:57
  Speaker 2: figure out that situation. So it's all patterns of like
• 25:00
  Speaker 2: a lot of things in my life are really good.
• 25:02
  Speaker 2: There's a lot of things that are really stressful, and
• 25:03
  Speaker 2: now I'm gonna have to move on top of it.
• 25:05
  Speaker 2: Eating sucks, moving does suck, but lucky, I think I've
• 25:07
  Speaker 2: become a minimalist, so it's moving's not that sucky. But
• 25:10
  Speaker 2: I was looking and I'm very curious on what everyone
• 25:13
  Speaker 2: My question is. As I was looking at moving, I
• 25:17
  Speaker 2: was looking downtown and I was telling Abby about this.
• 25:19
  Speaker 2: I was like, how do people survive?
• 25:21
  Speaker 3: No, it's so expensive to live on your own in
• 25:23
  Speaker 3: Tampa specifically, And I say that as someone who just
• 25:26
  Speaker 3: moved from Atlanta, Like the rent is double here.
• 25:30
  Speaker 2: That's insane.
• 25:31
  Speaker 3: It's insane.
• 25:32
  Speaker 2: Like my whole thought is I just had no idea
• 25:34
  Speaker 2: because there's a lot of people that live downtown or
• 25:36
  Speaker 2: just in general, just around I'm like, is all your
• 25:39
  Speaker 2: money just going to rent? Yeah, like every single dollar.
• 25:41
  Speaker 3: Or they have a bunch of roommates, or they have
• 25:43
  Speaker 3: a partner that they live with.
• 25:45
  Speaker 2: Mmm, I guess that would be it, like the partner
• 25:46
  Speaker 2: would be it, because I think that's what I was telling.
• 25:48
  Speaker 2: Apples was like, I'm in that chapter right now where
• 25:50
  Speaker 2: I'm like, I am ready to live alone. I am
• 25:52
  Speaker 2: done with any friends's roommates. I've done that in my
• 25:56
  Speaker 2: entire twenties and in college, and I'm done with it.
• 26:00
  Speaker 2: I want my own space to walk in and it's calm.
• 26:02
  Speaker 2: I have my little candle, I light a little couch
• 26:05
  Speaker 2: I could sit on, and I clean the dishes. I
• 26:08
  Speaker 2: don't want to be cleaning up other people's dishes. Done
• 26:11
  Speaker 2: with that. But I was looking and I kind of
• 26:13
  Speaker 2: got this idea. I was like, oh, that'd be so fun.
• 26:15
  Speaker 2: I could live downtown. I could walk to events, I
• 26:18
  Speaker 2: could go down to bars and restaurants.
• 26:21
  Speaker 3: And I was like, god, lord, it's so expensive.
• 26:23
  Speaker 2: Like for a studio, which I used to think maybe
• 26:26
  Speaker 2: I could do a studio, and I was like, looking
• 26:27
  Speaker 2: at pictures of it and you walk in and I
• 26:30
  Speaker 2: know what a studio is, but to see it in person,
• 26:32
  Speaker 2: I'm like, Oh, that's nutty.
• 26:34
  Speaker 3: It's depressing.
• 26:34
  Speaker 2: It's like kitchen, living room, literally behind the living room
• 26:38
  Speaker 2: like they had like the pictures, like two chairs, there's
• 26:40
  Speaker 2: the bed. I was like, what does that look like
• 26:42
  Speaker 2: when people come over? And I think that's what stirred
• 26:45
  Speaker 2: me away from that idea. I was like, do people
• 26:46
  Speaker 2: just sit on my bed? Do they just hang out
• 26:49
  Speaker 2: like in the kitchen?
• 26:50
  Speaker 3: I know?
• 26:50
  Speaker 2: And squished oily invite two people over at a time.
• 26:53
  Speaker 3: It's ridiculous. And that's why I'm like, I'm being so
• 26:56
  Speaker 3: nice to my parents because I'm like, I can never
• 26:57
  Speaker 3: move out of their house.
• 26:58
  Speaker 2: I saw your sense I was like laughing, yes, jay
• 27:01
  Speaker 2: As I was looking at your Instagram and it's there
• 27:03
  Speaker 2: is a price to pay with everything.
• 27:04
  Speaker 3: There's a price to pay with everything.
• 27:05
  Speaker 2: And is your price that you have security cameras watching?
• 27:08
  Speaker 3: Yeah, And to be fair, it's a very low price
• 27:10
  Speaker 3: to pay, Like I will say, like I know, I'm
• 27:13
  Speaker 3: complaining about it just because it is a little bit like,
• 27:15
  Speaker 3: oh my god, I'm twenty nine years old. Here I
• 27:17
  Speaker 3: am moving to my parents' house and they are just
• 27:20
  Speaker 3: watching my avery move and I mean like they but
• 27:23
  Speaker 3: it's a comparatively I will pay that any day over
• 27:27
  Speaker 3: having to pay thirty one hundred dollars just for a
• 27:29
  Speaker 3: shittier living situation.
• 27:31
  Speaker 2: I was laughing, like when I was looking at all
• 27:33
  Speaker 2: these prices and I thought, I literally thought about your situation.
• 27:35
  Speaker 2: Was like this make a micro Oh it's so nice.
• 27:40
  Speaker 2: I was like, that is so nice to not in
• 27:42
  Speaker 2: this chapter.
• 27:43
  Speaker 3: Hell no, I mean, my parents have me so whipped.
• 27:45
  Speaker 3: I'm like, whatever you need, Like, I'm hiring cleaners once
• 27:47
  Speaker 3: a week so the place is Spotless'm watering your plants,
• 27:49
  Speaker 3: whatever you need for me, absolutely, and it's working out
• 27:52
  Speaker 3: great because I mean, my my mom was like, yeah,
• 27:53
  Speaker 3: I don't know when I'm gonna be able to come
• 27:55
  Speaker 3: down to the townhouse next. And I was like, I
• 27:57
  Speaker 3: love that.
• 27:58
  Speaker 2: I mean, if if you have to just with like
• 28:00
  Speaker 2: roommates quote unquote, you know, family coming in every now
• 28:04
  Speaker 2: and then, oh my god.
• 28:05
  Speaker 3: Well, to be fair, it was a lot in the beginning.
• 28:07
  Speaker 2: That's true.
• 28:08
  Speaker 3: Like my mom, It is funny that when I first
• 28:10
  Speaker 3: moved here, my mom was like, I'm gonna be here
• 28:12
  Speaker 3: for a week. I'm like, why, No, neither of us
• 28:13
  Speaker 3: want that. I don't want you here. I don't know
• 28:16
  Speaker 3: why you want to be here.
• 28:17
  Speaker 2: Do you think your mom gets annoyed with you living
• 28:19
  Speaker 2: in the space, Like when she's.
• 28:20
  Speaker 3: There, she likes to my mom likes to make specific
• 28:25
  Speaker 3: comments about how messy I am and ah, but like
• 28:28
  Speaker 3: I've taken really good care of the townhouse. I mean, granted,
• 28:31
  Speaker 3: like I've hired someone to professionally clean, but that's because
• 28:33
  Speaker 3: my mom has one of those like neurotic cleaning tendencies
• 28:37
  Speaker 3: that I just don't have. Like for me, as long
• 28:39
  Speaker 3: as it doesn't look like a homeless a person experiencing
• 28:42
  Speaker 3: homelessness lives, I don't know. I really try not to
• 28:45
  Speaker 3: get canceled. Yeah, as long as it doesn't look like
• 28:48
  Speaker 3: Oscar the Grouch lives there, there you go, and there's
• 28:50
  Speaker 3: not like cat throw up on the floor, Like for me,
• 28:53
  Speaker 3: I'm fine, and there's not like flies. As long as
• 28:55
  Speaker 3: it's not dirty, I'm fine with it. My mom is
• 28:59
  Speaker 3: one of those people and my dad too, Like if
• 29:00
  Speaker 3: there's cat hair on the floor, it sends them into
• 29:03
  Speaker 3: like a spiral. So for me, I'm like, Okay, if
• 29:06
  Speaker 3: the cost of rent is just having someone clean my place,
• 29:08
  Speaker 3: like that's fine, and.
• 29:09
  Speaker 2: It's kind of nice for you, Like I get such
• 29:11
  Speaker 2: clarity when someone cleans it's great. Oh it smells better.
• 29:15
  Speaker 2: It looks better, it's the best. But I always have
• 29:17
  Speaker 2: a problem, like because I would have somebody like every
• 29:19
  Speaker 2: now and then come by and like clean up the
• 29:21
  Speaker 2: place because I can't do all that, and they're like
• 29:24
  Speaker 2: a day later, it's back to messy, and I'm like,
• 29:25
  Speaker 2: what the hell did I do? No.
• 29:26
  Speaker 3: I know that's how I feel too, where I'm like,
• 29:28
  Speaker 3: that's why I get annoyed cleaning. It's not that I
• 29:30
  Speaker 3: don't like a clean place, and it's not that I
• 29:32
  Speaker 3: don't enjoy cleaning. It's just one of those things where
• 29:35
  Speaker 3: I'm like, oh my god, I gotta do this every day.
• 29:37
  Speaker 3: It's oh my god, like it just I literally just
• 29:39
  Speaker 3: got it cleaned yesterday, and now I'm like it looks
• 29:41
  Speaker 3: like nobody did anything.
• 29:43
  Speaker 2: Did anybody even come over?
• 29:44
  Speaker 3: Like I professionally got it cleaned right before my parents
• 29:47
  Speaker 3: came a couple of weeks ago, and there was like
• 29:49
  Speaker 3: a couple of tufts of cat hair. My dad was like,
• 29:51
  Speaker 3: oh my god, I gotta get to get to the
• 29:52
  Speaker 3: vacuum over here. I'm like, just the cost. It's like
• 29:55
  Speaker 3: I'm living here, I have two cats here, Like of
• 29:57
  Speaker 3: course you're gonna see some some cat hair.
• 30:00
  Speaker 2: It's like everyone has that like limit. Like for me,
• 30:02
  Speaker 2: it's like dishes. If there's my neurotic is if there's
• 30:05
  Speaker 2: a dish in the sink and the dishwashers like not clean,
• 30:08
  Speaker 2: I go a little crazy because I'm like, what the
• 30:10
  Speaker 2: it's an extra second? That's the all you gotta do? Oh,
• 30:14
  Speaker 2: that drives me up a wall. So I guess everyone
• 30:16
  Speaker 2: has that line.
• 30:17
  Speaker 3: For me, it's like like if I if my cats
• 30:22
  Speaker 3: are up, that's instantly cleaned up.
• 30:23
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I would hope. So that one sounds.
• 30:26
  Speaker 3: Gross in Florida. If I start to notice like a
• 30:29
  Speaker 3: fruit flyer here and there, that that drives me insane.
• 30:32
  Speaker 2: Mmmm. See that's really tough. That's when you know like
• 30:34
  Speaker 2: something's wrong, or if you have that and you don't
• 30:36
  Speaker 2: know what's wrong.
• 30:37
  Speaker 3: Well, it's that's the hard part. Sometimes you don't know
• 30:39
  Speaker 3: like where where are they coming from?
• 30:41
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and you gotta find the food, you gotta find
• 30:43
  Speaker 2: what's out in the counter. Yeah. We have a window
• 30:45
  Speaker 2: that's broken in my house right now. So it's like,
• 30:47
  Speaker 2: oh god, my little like crazy brain is like, oh
• 30:49
  Speaker 2: my god, there's a bug. And not that I hate bugs,
• 30:52
  Speaker 2: but I don't want bugs in the house. I completely
• 30:54
  Speaker 2: agree and I see like a fly going around, but
• 30:55
  Speaker 2: there's nothing like This would be.
• 30:57
  Speaker 3: A great time for me to tell you to call
• 30:58
  Speaker 3: a Hughes exterminator who I endorse. Now there you go.
• 31:03
  Speaker 2: You know what, I will give them.
• 31:04
  Speaker 3: A ring shout out Hughes exterminators. Wow.
• 31:07
  Speaker 2: I will make sure to make sure. Uh I tell
• 31:09
  Speaker 2: him Abby sent me he was exterminators.
• 31:11
  Speaker 3: Oh wait, wait, we also have something we forgot to
• 31:15
  Speaker 3: talk about.
• 31:16
  Speaker 2: Yes, Oh, actually, that's actually a good time.
• 31:18
  Speaker 3: We need to like put it more in the beginning.
• 31:19
  Speaker 2: Oh, we could mention it right now?
• 31:21
  Speaker 3: Can we mention it? Is it to have we done?
• 31:23
  Speaker 3: Do we need to cut something separate and put in
• 31:25
  Speaker 3: the beginning?
• 31:26
  Speaker 2: No, I would say right now, we could also talk
• 31:28
  Speaker 2: about it because it's also like the cool thing about
• 31:29
  Speaker 2: this is it's an opportunity for you to win big
• 31:33
  Speaker 2: and it's also an opportunity to celebrate one you being
• 31:37
  Speaker 2: a part of this podcast and getting to see how
• 31:39
  Speaker 2: it grows. Because we just got some cool, excited news.
• 31:41
  Speaker 3: So this is huge and we really have you to
• 31:43
  Speaker 3: think for it. So just give yourself a little pad
• 31:46
  Speaker 3: on the back, a big squeeze and a hug, and
• 31:48
  Speaker 3: just know that's for me and Scotty going, oh my
• 31:49
  Speaker 3: love's so much. Thank you for supporting us. But because
• 31:52
  Speaker 3: because you guys are supporting the podcast and listening, which
• 31:55
  Speaker 3: I'm so glad you guys are enjoying it and like
• 31:57
  Speaker 3: going fair all because we couldn't pose last week. I
• 32:00
  Speaker 3: didn't really like I know, like I see the numbers
• 32:02
  Speaker 3: and I go oh xyz amount of people listen, but
• 32:04
  Speaker 3: like to see your passion behind it, be like where's
• 32:06
  Speaker 3: the next episode?
• 32:07
  Speaker 2: Yeah? I love that.
• 32:08
  Speaker 3: That's why we do what we do. So anyway, because
• 32:10
  Speaker 3: you tune in every single day and you listen in.
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  Speaker 3: We have our first podcast sponsor.
• 32:16
  Speaker 2: Let's go. I feel like we need balloons, and.
• 32:22
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• 32:26
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 32:26
  Speaker 3: We we have a really exciting thing opportunity for you
• 32:29
  Speaker 3: to win big and go to bonner Roof pretty much
• 32:32
  Speaker 3: for free.
• 32:33
  Speaker 2: Yeah. I mean it's gonna be you and three friends
• 32:35
  Speaker 2: that And like I was talking to my brother and
• 32:37
  Speaker 2: my brother loves the music festival, yes, and Bonnerous like
• 32:40
  Speaker 2: one of the biggest ones.
• 32:41
  Speaker 3: And it's right outside of Nashville, which is such a
• 32:43
  Speaker 3: fun music city.
• 32:44
  Speaker 2: And so you actually get to an opportunity to go
• 32:47
  Speaker 2: for free thanks to Beatbox, who is now a sponsor
• 32:49
  Speaker 2: of this podcast. And so not only are you getting
• 32:52
  Speaker 2: hooked up, you're gonna get hooked up a beatbox. You
• 32:54
  Speaker 2: get hooked up with one thousand dollars, which is crazy,
• 32:56
  Speaker 2: and then they're also wanting to hook you up with
• 32:58
  Speaker 2: a five hundred dollars gas gift card to fuel the
• 33:01
  Speaker 2: entire adventure. And that's honestly, it's because of you supporting
• 33:04
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• 33:15
  Speaker 2: of Beatbox on the podcast, like I just want everybody
• 33:17
  Speaker 2: to snap, like the moment, like come on, now they
• 33:20
  Speaker 2: got themselves some beatbox and every now and then maybe
• 33:22
  Speaker 2: we'll have something like maybe they'll be like a Friday
• 33:24
  Speaker 2: podcast thing. We'll crack open.
• 33:27
  Speaker 3: Yeah, and then we just crack it back clothes because
• 33:30
  Speaker 3: it's reusable.
• 33:31
  Speaker 2: It's reusable, and just have like.
• 33:32
  Speaker 3: We need like a little fridge where we can keep
• 33:34
  Speaker 3: our beat boxes, a beatboxdge. So we want to have
• 33:36
  Speaker 3: like a little nine am happy hour.
• 33:38
  Speaker 2: I mean on a Friday it wouldn't be the first time,
• 33:41
  Speaker 2: so huge, thank you for supporting this podcast and all
• 33:43
  Speaker 2: we get to celebrate all summer with Beatbox, who were
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  Speaker 2: extremely excited to bring in to the podcast world. And
• 33:50
  Speaker 2: hopefully we get to send you to Bonnaroo.
• 33:52
  Speaker 3: Dude, I can't let I'm like so excited we get
• 33:55
  Speaker 3: to send somebody to Bonnaroo back in.
• 33:57
  Speaker 2: The day, like that used to be a thing here where.
• 33:59
  Speaker 2: I don't know if you do that when you first
• 34:00
  Speaker 2: got started, but like sending you to like big shows,
• 34:04
  Speaker 2: big festivals, big concerts. Yeah, did you ever just get
• 34:07
  Speaker 2: to did you ever have to travel for a show
• 34:09
  Speaker 2: when you first got started in radio?
• 34:11
  Speaker 3: Yeah, they were gonna send me to Bonnaroo actually a
• 34:14
  Speaker 3: couple of years back, and I remember being so excited
• 34:16
  Speaker 3: because I was going through a Nashville phase.
• 34:20
  Speaker 2: But you never got to go on that trip. Why
• 34:21
  Speaker 2: did that fall through?
• 34:23
  Speaker 3: I don't know. I just don't think I got to
• 34:25
  Speaker 3: go to Disney a bunch.
• 34:26
  Speaker 2: Okay, Disney's cool.
• 34:27
  Speaker 3: I will say they did send me to Disney a ton,
• 34:29
  Speaker 3: which was great because my friends back in Jack's were
• 34:31
  Speaker 3: like huge Disney fans, So I got to be the
• 34:34
  Speaker 3: cool friend and treat them to some fun weekends.
• 34:36
  Speaker 2: Honestly, that is my favorite flex. Like when friends come
• 34:39
  Speaker 2: to town or they're like, oh, what are we gonna do?
• 34:41
  Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, don't worry, I got the hook up here.
• 34:43
  Speaker 2: I'll get you tickets to this. The problem is then
• 34:46
  Speaker 2: it starts to get people get a little too excited. Yes,
• 34:49
  Speaker 2: and you do it once and they're like, oh, I
• 34:51
  Speaker 2: see this person's coming.
• 34:52
  Speaker 3: Well, I was so excited because post Malone was coming
• 34:54
  Speaker 3: and I was going to take my mom to post
• 34:56
  Speaker 3: Malone because she loves country music and I just thought
• 34:58
  Speaker 3: she would have a really good time. And then he postponed.
• 35:01
  Speaker 3: Oh he put the post in postponement?
• 35:03
  Speaker 2: Is that because I saw all the rumors like it
• 35:05
  Speaker 2: wasn't selling.
• 35:07
  Speaker 3: He said it was a music issue, like he needs
• 35:11
  Speaker 3: more time to work on music. I don't know.
• 35:13
  Speaker 2: I don't know if that's it.
• 35:14
  Speaker 3: I just don't know that people can afford to go
• 35:15
  Speaker 3: to concerts anymore.
• 35:16
  Speaker 2: That's the biggest thing. We've mentioned that a couple times
• 35:18
  Speaker 2: on the show. But like looking at tickets to go
• 35:21
  Speaker 2: to a show's like you have to, honestly, like weigh
• 35:24
  Speaker 2: out what is your favorite artist and what is worthy
• 35:26
  Speaker 2: of going because That's what I'm saying. That goes back
• 35:28
  Speaker 2: to the rent conversation, like if you're spending all your money,
• 35:31
  Speaker 2: Like if I was to go ahead and say I'm
• 35:33
  Speaker 2: moving downtown, yeah, I would have to cut out so
• 35:36
  Speaker 2: many things of my life just for the luxury of
• 35:38
  Speaker 2: saying I live downtown and it's a nice spot. Yeah,
• 35:41
  Speaker 2: But like is the pool worth it? I don't know.
• 35:44
  Speaker 2: I don't even go to downtown that much anyway. You'll
• 35:46
  Speaker 2: never use that pool, That's what I'm saying, like the
• 35:48
  Speaker 2: amenities that I think were coming with it, and then
• 35:49
  Speaker 2: on top of it, I mean to be honest, I've
• 35:52
  Speaker 2: been very jaded, very grateful for this job, but jaded
• 35:56
  Speaker 2: because a lot of the concerts are like Okay, here's
• 35:58
  Speaker 2: a couple extra set of tickets, go enjoy.
• 36:00
  Speaker 3: Oh, like getting to go to all the Lightning games.
• 36:02
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I never would pay for those things, not because
• 36:05
  Speaker 2: I don't want to go, because it's that are groceries
• 36:09
  Speaker 2: like I'm gonna go pay to see an artist that
• 36:11
  Speaker 2: I kind of like pay for. What was it the
• 36:14
  Speaker 2: last Lightning game that we went to, we went and
• 36:16
  Speaker 2: sat outside.
• 36:17
  Speaker 3: Oh no, I forgot about that. This is so funny,
• 36:22
  Speaker 3: so Scott and I. The last couple of times we've
• 36:24
  Speaker 3: been to the Lightning games, we've gotten to go sit
• 36:25
  Speaker 3: in the club seeds, and we could have gotten club seats,
• 36:28
  Speaker 3: but we didn't ask in time because I didn't know.
• 36:30
  Speaker 3: I don't know that we knew that we were going
• 36:31
  Speaker 3: to go to that game.
• 36:32
  Speaker 2: No, we did not. Well, nobody like okay and this
• 36:35
  Speaker 2: yeah side tangent. No, But like I always, when friends
• 36:39
  Speaker 2: ask me for tickets, it's not annoying, but if you
• 36:42
  Speaker 2: ask too many times, I'm like, all right, I don't
• 36:44
  Speaker 2: have that much access. Yes, I feel bad always asking.
• 36:46
  Speaker 3: We try to pick and choose when we asked because
• 36:48
  Speaker 3: we don't want to be.
• 36:49
  Speaker 2: Those people correct. But what we got told last time
• 36:52
  Speaker 2: was we didn't ask quick enough, and I was like,
• 36:54
  Speaker 2: really we would have. If we would have asked the
• 36:56
  Speaker 2: day before, we would have been in I know. But
• 36:58
  Speaker 2: when we paid for the goat outside of the stadium,
• 37:01
  Speaker 2: I mean, it's five bucks again, and that's no biggie.
• 37:03
  Speaker 3: And it's a cool environment. I will say, if you're
• 37:05
  Speaker 3: a fan, it is cool. It does suck that they
• 37:08
  Speaker 3: can't turn on the big screen until it gets super dark,
• 37:11
  Speaker 3: I know, so you're like watching a little tiny screen
• 37:14
  Speaker 3: and we got kicked out of our little spots.
• 37:16
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and I wanted to do that, but I paid
• 37:17
  Speaker 2: fifty dollars just to park. I was like, at that point,
• 37:21
  Speaker 2: I might as well have found a way to get
• 37:22
  Speaker 2: into the state.
• 37:23
  Speaker 3: See, if you live downtown, you wouldn't have to pay a.
• 37:26
  Speaker 2: Bar or I live downtown, I'd be eating peanut butter
• 37:29
  Speaker 2: jelly sandwiches every single day. Yeah, I would have one.
• 37:32
  Speaker 2: And that's why I was trying to like, and I
• 37:33
  Speaker 2: still haven't made a definite decision of what I'm going
• 37:35
  Speaker 2: to do, but I was like, I was so close
• 37:38
  Speaker 2: to just pulling the trigger and saying I'm just gonna
• 37:40
  Speaker 2: go for a year downtown, spend all this money, and
• 37:43
  Speaker 2: just have that life for just a year, because well,
• 37:45
  Speaker 2: what else do you get it?
• 37:45
  Speaker 3: We did talk about you maybe readjusting your.
• 37:49
  Speaker 2: Budget correct Yeah, like cutting certain things out.
• 37:52
  Speaker 3: So if you readjusted your budget, it maybe would be feasible.
• 37:56
  Speaker 2: It would be, but it still would be silly because
• 38:00
  Speaker 2: of other options, like I could save money moving in
• 38:03
  Speaker 2: to different parts of town and just not living downtown.
• 38:06
  Speaker 2: I could literally I would save one place. I'd save
• 38:09
  Speaker 2: a thousand.
• 38:09
  Speaker 3: Dollars what if your lady just moved in with you?
• 38:11
  Speaker 2: You know, it's not a horrible thought, it's a great thought.
• 38:14
  Speaker 2: Well here's the thing that might be a little soon.
• 38:17
  Speaker 2: It is.
• 38:17
  Speaker 3: Well, I mean my brother and his girlfriend moved in, well,
• 38:20
  Speaker 3: his fiance moved in three months into dating really, and
• 38:23
  Speaker 3: that was due to the hurricane. But I mean, yeah,
• 38:26
  Speaker 3: they were, I mean they were on the fast track.
• 38:28
  Speaker 2: See. I think what I'm gonna do is I'm gonna
• 38:30
  Speaker 2: live solo for a little bit and then I'll evaluate.
• 38:32
  Speaker 2: I think I'll be able to live solo till December, yeah,
• 38:35
  Speaker 2: and then evaluate.
• 38:36
  Speaker 3: Well, I mean think about it. Can you splurge for
• 38:38
  Speaker 3: six months?
• 38:39
  Speaker 2: I don't think you could do an apartment for six months?
• 38:41
  Speaker 2: And if you did, if you do a smaller lease,
• 38:43
  Speaker 2: because they have a seven month lease in one of
• 38:44
  Speaker 2: these nice downtown apartments, the rent went up like a
• 38:47
  Speaker 2: thousand bucks, So it's like, what the fuck.
• 38:49
  Speaker 3: But that's what I mean is maybe she just moves
• 38:50
  Speaker 3: in in December and then you're splitting rent.
• 38:53
  Speaker 2: That's a wild idea.
• 38:55
  Speaker 3: It is a wild but not far off.
• 38:58
  Speaker 2: I would say it would be probably better to just
• 39:04
  Speaker 2: not get to that chapter just yet. Okay, I mean
• 39:06
  Speaker 2: not for me. I got excited thinking about that. To
• 39:09
  Speaker 2: be honest, I'm scarm everything works out for me.
• 39:12
  Speaker 3: I've never been alone in my life.
• 39:13
  Speaker 2: I can't wait for this moment to happen. I look
• 39:17
  Speaker 2: forward to it, and like I said, I think it's
• 39:18
  Speaker 2: happening sooner than later. But I would say I'm a
• 39:21
  Speaker 2: fan of when I need a chapter alone. Yeah, love
• 39:25
  Speaker 2: my space, curate my space, and then I look very
• 39:30
  Speaker 2: much forward to that chapter two. Okay, but there's no rush,
• 39:32
  Speaker 2: you know, toboutly just get her to town.
• 39:35
  Speaker 3: I'm not rushing you. I just think you would love
• 39:37
  Speaker 3: living downtown.
• 39:39
  Speaker 2: I do too. But maybe that's something I do in December.
• 39:41
  Speaker 2: Maybe that's the move I make.
• 39:43
  Speaker 3: Do you want to move again?
• 39:45
  Speaker 2: I'm so like, I literally made a list of my
• 39:47
  Speaker 2: phone of all the things I have, and it's like
• 39:49
  Speaker 2: fifteen things. It's nothing. I have a bed, I have tables,
• 39:52
  Speaker 2: I have a couch and have a peloton. Okay, that's
• 39:55
  Speaker 2: it pretty easy, so it'll be fine. It wouldn't be hard.
• 40:00
  Speaker 2: I would probably need a friend to help me, like
• 40:01
  Speaker 2: this week, if I wanted to move. Yeah, but if
• 40:04
  Speaker 2: I moved in December, hopefully i'd be able to just
• 40:06
  Speaker 2: plan it out where I could actually have movers just
• 40:09
  Speaker 2: get all my stuff one trip done, boom boom, because
• 40:12
  Speaker 2: we do partner with movers here, so that would help.
• 40:14
  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, so that would be a huge I wish
• 40:16
  Speaker 3: I had known that before I moved all the way
• 40:18
  Speaker 3: down here. Well, now that you're here, do you know
• 40:21
  Speaker 3: how expensive it was?
• 40:22
  Speaker 2: I'm sure it was multiple thousands.
• 40:24
  Speaker 3: And they don't they don't tell you until your stuff
• 40:25
  Speaker 3: is packed.
• 40:26
  Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. They don't tell you. Well, that sucks.
• 40:28
  Speaker 2: Then they have your stuff. At least it came down here.
• 40:31
  Speaker 2: Do you think you're just gonna ride the wave of
• 40:33
  Speaker 2: being able to live at your parents for as long
• 40:35
  Speaker 2: as possible?
• 40:35
  Speaker 3: If they start coming like all the time, then I'm
• 40:37
  Speaker 3: gonna have to figure out something else. But I just
• 40:40
  Speaker 3: keep hoping I'm going to meet somebody so I can
• 40:41
  Speaker 3: just move in with them.
• 40:42
  Speaker 2: That be nice. I know.
• 40:43
  Speaker 3: That's like the dream scenario is getting to live in
• 40:46
  Speaker 3: the townhouse for at least a year and then I know.
• 40:49
  Speaker 2: What do you This is such a personal question, but
• 40:52
  Speaker 2: I'm just curious, Okay, with all that extra income, what
• 40:56
  Speaker 2: do you put? Like you just saving it? Like, what
• 40:58
  Speaker 2: do you do with it.
• 40:58
  Speaker 3: Well, let's I'll be candid. I took a pay cut
• 41:01
  Speaker 3: when I lost my job, so you know, I'm not
• 41:04
  Speaker 3: like swimming and all this extra cash because I have
• 41:06
  Speaker 3: other expensive for like subscriptions that I have or other things.
• 41:10
  Speaker 3: So I'm not like swimming and all this extra income
• 41:12
  Speaker 3: if that makes sense, Like, yeah it does. So I'm saving,
• 41:16
  Speaker 3: but like it's not like I'm like rolling in it,
• 41:19
  Speaker 3: you know what I mean.
• 41:21
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I'm not. Just like.
• 41:23
  Speaker 3: I will say, every time I see something online that
• 41:25
  Speaker 3: I want to buy, I go, I'm not paying, which
• 41:29
  Speaker 3: is out of character for me. Like I'm not like
• 41:31
  Speaker 3: I rent my clothes specifically because I'm not someone who
• 41:34
  Speaker 3: online shops a lot. And I'm kind of getting sick
• 41:37
  Speaker 3: of some of my clothing subscriptions. So I have found
• 41:39
  Speaker 3: myself going, well, it is really hot here, and I've
• 41:44
  Speaker 3: gotten to the point where I do need to have
• 41:46
  Speaker 3: some staples that I'm used to renting, like jeans, Like
• 41:49
  Speaker 3: I typically rent my jeans, and now I'm like, no,
• 41:50
  Speaker 3: I'm like sick of waiting for my next Like I
• 41:53
  Speaker 3: never know what jeans I'm gonna get to wear, Like
• 41:54
  Speaker 3: I need a couple of pairs that just makes sense
• 41:56
  Speaker 3: for me, and that's.
• 41:57
  Speaker 2: Not that expensive. Go out and like get like three
• 42:00
  Speaker 2: as a.
• 42:00
  Speaker 3: Gene and get like a good because I want like
• 42:02
  Speaker 3: quality jeans, like I want I want jeans that I'm
• 42:04
  Speaker 3: not gonna need to like Rebi next year. I want
• 42:06
  Speaker 3: to have them for a couple of years. So I
• 42:08
  Speaker 3: would want to get like a pair of like not
• 42:11
  Speaker 3: designer jeans, but I would want to splurge a little bit.
• 42:14
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm trying to think of how much that I've
• 42:15
  Speaker 2: never well, I'm trying to think like if I've gotten clothing,
• 42:18
  Speaker 2: like the most expensive shirts, Like I just got one
• 42:20
  Speaker 2: at for the Derby that freaking got canceled. Went to
• 42:25
  Speaker 2: the store and I think that shirt that I bought,
• 42:27
  Speaker 2: like a just a linen white dress shirt, it was
• 42:30
  Speaker 2: like one hundred bucks.
• 42:31
  Speaker 3: I know existing is so expensive, which is wat it's
• 42:35
  Speaker 3: so expensive.
• 42:36
  Speaker 2: But I could understand if I always kind of wanted
• 42:38
  Speaker 2: to have like this one day where like little extra income,
• 42:42
  Speaker 2: go get the nice clothes that I want and then
• 42:44
  Speaker 2: it lasts. Yeah, instead of what I do now is
• 42:46
  Speaker 2: I go to like Target and I get a couple
• 42:48
  Speaker 2: of the T shirts, Like that's my thing, is I
• 42:50
  Speaker 2: wear T shirts every day pretty much a black T shirt,
• 42:53
  Speaker 2: and those are like ten bucks. But I do wear
• 42:55
  Speaker 2: through those things quick, and so I'm buying multiple instead
• 42:59
  Speaker 2: of going to a nicer store and being like, all right,
• 43:01
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna spend a little extra for one that's gonna
• 43:03
  Speaker 2: last me. I don't know. And then maybe this is
• 43:06
  Speaker 2: the time if you're not paying rent.
• 43:09
  Speaker 3: So I'm saying, he who buys cheap buys twice.
• 43:11
  Speaker 2: Ooh, what'd you read?
• 43:12
  Speaker 3: It's a bar I don't know. I think Confucius or
• 43:14
  Speaker 3: something sided. Actually I don't know. I think I saw
• 43:17
  Speaker 3: it on Pinterest. But no, I will say I have
• 43:20
  Speaker 3: been I probably have not been saving as much as
• 43:24
  Speaker 3: I should be saving, just because for a couple of reasons.
• 43:28
  Speaker 3: I think because I don't handle change well, I do
• 43:31
  Speaker 3: find myself reaching for quick dopamine hits. Oh yes, Like
• 43:34
  Speaker 3: my nutrition has been a little bit off. I've found
• 43:36
  Speaker 3: myself wanting to buy things online because it makes me
• 43:38
  Speaker 3: feel good, and I've never done that before. It's never
• 43:41
  Speaker 3: been a coping mechanism for me. I normally just numb myself.
• 43:45
  Speaker 3: I'm scrolling on TikTok, but I think as I have
• 43:47
  Speaker 3: the extra income, I go you know, I would really
• 43:50
  Speaker 3: like a new athletic horset, damn, especially just because my
• 43:53
  Speaker 3: lifestyle has changed a lot.
• 43:54
  Speaker 2: That is true, and at least you're using it. It's
• 43:56
  Speaker 2: not like, yeah, you're getting a cheap hit. And then
• 43:58
  Speaker 2: it's like, well it doesn't even mean anything, like no,
• 44:00
  Speaker 2: you can still wear that like every week.
• 44:02
  Speaker 3: That's it's like it's it's all useful, Like it's all
• 44:04
  Speaker 3: stuff that I'm wearing for sure. But I mean, yeah, god,
• 44:09
  Speaker 3: the athletic wears are It's so expensive.
• 44:11
  Speaker 2: I was on a subscription and you make fun of
• 44:12
  Speaker 2: me for this for like and this is not paid
• 44:14
  Speaker 2: but like Fabletics, I love my Fabletics. First off, these
• 44:17
  Speaker 2: pants look at how good these pants like, they're like khaki.
• 44:21
  Speaker 2: I love it. But I was paying a subscription every
• 44:23
  Speaker 2: month because I would get credits. Yeah, and I would
• 44:26
  Speaker 2: have all this athletic wear. I'm like, all right, there
• 44:27
  Speaker 2: is a certain point, like how many pairs of workout shorts
• 44:29
  Speaker 2: do you need?
• 44:30
  Speaker 3: It's like having a timeshare, but for your clothes.
• 44:32
  Speaker 2: I'd already gotten into that. That's a whole other situation.
• 44:34
  Speaker 2: I have to pay for every month. I'm not in
• 44:36
  Speaker 2: a time share, but I am in like a vacation club.
• 44:38
  Speaker 3: You did tell me that, and I was like, dude,
• 44:39
  Speaker 3: what deck it?
• 44:42
  Speaker 2: It's a stupid thing I did. But if I use it,
• 44:44
  Speaker 2: it won't be stupid. The problem is I haven't used it.
• 44:46
  Speaker 3: So where are you gonna travel next?
• 44:48
  Speaker 2: I want to go to, like Hawaii?
• 44:50
  Speaker 3: When are you going to go? You just took two
• 44:52
  Speaker 3: weeks off when you're going to Hawaii?
• 44:54
  Speaker 2: First off, it was like four days. Second off, it
• 44:57
  Speaker 2: was five days.
• 44:58
  Speaker 3: It was five days, and then you would just been
• 45:00
  Speaker 3: gone five days before that in March.
• 45:02
  Speaker 2: When was it? Oh yeah, and then you were gone.
• 45:04
  Speaker 2: You were gonna go to Alaska, I know, And that
• 45:07
  Speaker 2: one's getting canceled.
• 45:08
  Speaker 3: When are you gonna tell the Alaska story?
• 45:11
  Speaker 2: Oh? I don't know. I need to talk to people
• 45:16
  Speaker 2: off them like before.
• 45:17
  Speaker 3: I know you're not ready to talk about it.
• 45:19
  Speaker 2: It is funny, but you know it's and then where
• 45:21
  Speaker 2: are you.
• 45:21
  Speaker 3: Going next after Alaska? Or was Alaska the last one?
• 45:24
  Speaker 2: That was the last one?
• 45:24
  Speaker 3: Okay?
• 45:25
  Speaker 2: So that's why I'm thinking, like maybe I just don't
• 45:26
  Speaker 2: take a trip because I was gonna take a trip
• 45:28
  Speaker 2: in July to Alaska with a big old group. Right now,
• 45:30
  Speaker 2: currently in my like life, it's just not the best decision,
• 45:34
  Speaker 2: even financially, Like especially with this move, I'm about to
• 45:36
  Speaker 2: pay double for rent no matter what I do. So
• 45:38
  Speaker 2: I'm like, all right, let's not do that trip. But
• 45:41
  Speaker 2: because your boy made a dumb decision, got into a
• 45:44
  Speaker 2: vacation club pays monthly, hasn't used it, so it's just
• 45:48
  Speaker 2: been burning money. I want to set up a trip
• 45:51
  Speaker 2: this winter and like when we're already gonna be off
• 45:53
  Speaker 2: for like the holidays. Yeah, I treat myself a little Aloha,
• 45:58
  Speaker 2: get a little way volcano. That's what I'm thinking. I
• 46:02
  Speaker 2: haven't set it up yet, Yeah, but I was looking
• 46:04
  Speaker 2: like maybe this is going to be the trip in
• 46:06
  Speaker 2: the winter, go to Hawaii. I don't know, I had
• 46:08
  Speaker 2: this craving to go to Hawaii. I've never been.
• 46:10
  Speaker 3: Hawaii even good in the winter.
• 46:12
  Speaker 2: Of course it's good. It's Hawaii.
• 46:14
  Speaker 3: I don't think it's good in December.
• 46:15
  Speaker 2: I think it's always good. It's one of those places
• 46:17
  Speaker 2: that's like white probably equator. I could be so wrong.
• 46:20
  Speaker 2: I want to know.
• 46:20
  Speaker 3: You want to know why. Well, here's the thing. Well,
• 46:24
  Speaker 3: December is the rainiest month in Hawaii, right, Well, I
• 46:27
  Speaker 3: won't be going to December what about like Saint Lucia
• 46:29
  Speaker 3: or something.
• 46:30
  Speaker 2: I don't even know where Saint Lucia is.
• 46:31
  Speaker 3: It's in the BBI.
• 46:33
  Speaker 2: What is that Caribbean?
• 46:35
  Speaker 3: Ah, cheap, cheaper flight maybe, I mean, oh, breeze, just
• 46:41
  Speaker 3: got a flight to Saint Lucia from Tampa. What do
• 46:43
  Speaker 3: you do in Saint Lucia, same thing you do in Hawaii?
• 46:46
  Speaker 2: Oh do they have volcanoes?
• 46:47
  Speaker 3: Look up Saint Lucia. It's so beautiful. Then google it
• 46:50
  Speaker 3: right now, right now, it's so pretty. This is where
• 46:53
  Speaker 3: I want to go. That's where my brother's going for
• 46:55
  Speaker 3: his honeymoon.
• 46:56
  Speaker 2: It can't be that.
• 46:56
  Speaker 3: Oh it's beautiful.
• 46:58
  Speaker 2: Oh wow, it is beautiful. Literally have a mountain.
• 47:01
  Speaker 3: Oh I know. And there's a flight direct from Tampa. Okay,
• 47:05
  Speaker 3: So my parents are big Hawaii haters because we went
• 47:08
  Speaker 3: once for spring break and they just didn't like it. It
• 47:11
  Speaker 3: was rainy the whole time.
• 47:12
  Speaker 2: We were there in December.
• 47:13
  Speaker 3: We went in April, it was rainy the whole time
• 47:16
  Speaker 3: we were there. And what else happened? Alexia And it's
• 47:22
  Speaker 3: like a fifteen hour flight to get there. It's crazy.
• 47:24
  Speaker 2: Oh that's okay, okay, And we'll end with this. But
• 47:28
  Speaker 2: if I'm going to cancel these trips. I also got
• 47:30
  Speaker 2: this credit card that got like all these points my plan.
• 47:34
  Speaker 2: You are a marketer's I know that. And it's like
• 47:38
  Speaker 2: I think before I would have been like, no, I'm not,
• 47:40
  Speaker 2: I am, but that's ending. That's done. I'm not paying
• 47:43
  Speaker 2: for crapping.
• 47:43
  Speaker 3: Maybe you could afford to live downtown if you didn't have.
• 47:46
  Speaker 2: All this crap. You're not wrong. You're literally not wrong.
• 47:50
  Speaker 3: I know.
• 47:50
  Speaker 2: But I was gonna try, like, you know, my one
• 47:53
  Speaker 2: splurge trip. I was gonna use my credit card points
• 47:55
  Speaker 2: get like a first class ticket to Hawaii since it's
• 47:58
  Speaker 2: gonna be a long ass trip, comfortable, have a nice
• 48:00
  Speaker 2: day that's already covered because of the vacation club. I
• 48:03
  Speaker 2: pay for everyone. Yeah, and I'm in oh white. See
• 48:07
  Speaker 2: that's what I'm thinking.
• 48:08
  Speaker 3: Okay, well, you know it's your life, Scott.
• 48:09
  Speaker 2: Thank you Downtown or I could just find a way.
• 48:13
  Speaker 2: How do I want to get rich quick? How do
• 48:15
  Speaker 2: you do that? Well? No longer anyway, all right, that's it, Abby.
• 48:21
  Speaker 2: What's your social media? Mine is at Scott Tavlin and
• 48:25
  Speaker 2: thank you again. I was just looking at I saw
• 48:28
  Speaker 2: Apple Music and I was like our Apple podcast, huge
• 48:30
  Speaker 2: shout out to all the reviews. There's one hundreds. We
• 48:34
  Speaker 2: have five stars on Spotify, like thank you so much,
• 48:37
  Speaker 2: like and if you are here and this, you're like,
• 48:38
  Speaker 2: you know what? I want to leave a review? Please? Do?
• 48:41
  Speaker 2: I mean make it fun. I think we'll start doing
• 48:43
  Speaker 2: a thing where it's like we just read reviews and
• 48:44
  Speaker 2: we'll take a sip of Beatbox when we do it
• 48:46
  Speaker 2: as like a celebratory kind of moment.
• 48:48
  Speaker 3: Do you have a fun one pulled up right now?
• 48:50
  Speaker 3: Like a good one?
• 48:50
  Speaker 2: I didn't have any pulled up, but I can.
• 48:52
  Speaker 3: Pull up a nice one just so I can end
• 48:55
  Speaker 3: on it, like my sinuses feel better.
• 48:58
  Speaker 2: Abby all show has been blowing her No was into
• 49:00
  Speaker 2: the mic.
• 49:01
  Speaker 3: It's been better today. I think it's on the colmdown.
• 49:04
  Speaker 2: Let me see this sounds good because.
• 49:05
  Speaker 3: I want to have a fun weekend, I hope.
• 49:08
  Speaker 2: So what are you going to do before the pool party?
• 49:10
  Speaker 3: So Cold Tub is doing something at Fergs, which I
• 49:13
  Speaker 3: thought would be kind of fun to go to. Oh
• 49:15
  Speaker 3: do you want to go to the Cold Tub Club
• 49:17
  Speaker 3: on Sunday?
• 49:18
  Speaker 2: On Sunday for the pool party, I think I'm going
• 49:20
  Speaker 2: to do a slow morning. How do you look at
• 49:26
  Speaker 2: the reviews?
• 49:27
  Speaker 3: You just said that you saw a bunch.
• 49:29
  Speaker 2: I know. I was looking at the number. We have
• 49:30
  Speaker 2: one hundred and like sixty six reviews on the Apple podcast.
• 49:33
  Speaker 3: You can click on them and read a nice one.
• 49:35
  Speaker 2: It's not I don't know how to do that. I'm
• 49:42
  Speaker 2: going to give you my phone.
• 49:43
  Speaker 3: No, I don't want to look at them.
• 49:44
  Speaker 2: Well, you just open it for me.
• 49:46
  Speaker 3: No, No, you do it, Alexi, You do it for him.
• 49:48
  Speaker 2: How do you open the reviews? Alexis in the studio
• 49:49
  Speaker 2: and then we'll get out of here, Alexia, because he
• 49:51
  Speaker 2: has to do you have to do our show.
• 49:53
  Speaker 3: You just have to click on them, scroll all the
• 49:54
  Speaker 3: way down there at the bottom.
• 49:55
  Speaker 2: Oh there they are. Oh, here we go, Here we go.
• 49:58
  Speaker 3: Are they nice?
• 50:00
  Speaker 2: Yes? This is nice?
• 50:01
  Speaker 3: Read the nice one.
• 50:01
  Speaker 2: This is two weeks ago. Pe one here if you know,
• 50:04
  Speaker 2: you know, we do know. Not sure why I was
• 50:06
  Speaker 2: worried for Abby moving to Tampa because she is one
• 50:09
  Speaker 2: of the smartest businesswomen. Current Scottie are the perfect match.
• 50:13
  Speaker 3: That's so nice.
• 50:14
  Speaker 2: Shout out, that is so nice. Here, let's do another
• 50:16
  Speaker 2: one great show. I listened to the show in the
• 50:18
  Speaker 2: mornings through Google speakers since I'm in job. But it's
• 50:21
  Speaker 2: a great show. Love the unfiltered show. Their chemistry is
• 50:24
  Speaker 2: great and keeps me entertained.
• 50:26
  Speaker 3: Thanks to that.
• 50:27
  Speaker 2: That's what I'm talking about.
• 50:29
  Speaker 3: I will drink a beatbox, shout out beatbox and again. Wait,
• 50:32
  Speaker 3: let's remind them how they can win Bonnaroo tickets.
• 50:34
  Speaker 2: So just on the website. Everything should be.
• 50:36
  Speaker 3: There, mymagic ninety four nine dot com.
• 50:39
  Speaker 2: Look at you nailed it all right. We'll be back tomorrow.