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Local Influencer Blows Up On Social After A Potential Guy Rejected The Date · The Erica Show

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  Now backs to the Erica show on G one oh five. We have local
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  influencer at Mena and studio and she was putting her dating life out there for
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  the world to see on social and now she's getting hated on feel scary.
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  Yeah, I did not expect all that to happen. But Hello, here
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  we are. Hello. Hi. So you posted on TikTok conversation this text
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  conversation with the guy that you matched with on was it hinge or it was
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  hinge? Yes? Okay, you matched with him. You were trying to
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  figure out where to go for a first date. Yeah, and what happened,
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  I mean the conversation really was a twenty minute, a long conversation.
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  He asked for my number, gave him my number and then he sent me
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  that text message that I posted on social media and it kind of just went
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  from there and he wanted it. So you when you start looking at the
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  text for anybody that hasn't seen it yet, which you can go to G
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  one I five radio check it out. But it's like, Hey, which
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  do you live in, Raleig or Durham. You're like, Rally, He'll
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  come meet you. Yeah, He's like, I'll come see you and I'm
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  like perfect, and he's like, all right, i'll send you an address
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  soon. Amazing sent me to dress a little further away than where I wanted
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  to go because I just didn't want to drink and drive, and whether it's
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  a drink or three drinks, I didn't want to do that. So I
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  was like, okay, cool, let's go to No Mad which is right
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  on the street I live in, which was perfect, and I was like
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  awesome, love that, and then I got called too expensive. He immediately
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  said, you know what, this isn't going to work out. I don't
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  have tie. He said, I don't have money like that. And your
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  reply was, it's a bar, it's just a it's just a bar.
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  And he said the drinks are too expensive there, and he said, I
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  was just going to get a beer. Yeah, and he still said,
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  now it's too much money. Granted he didn't know I was just going to
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  get a beer until I told him I was just going to get a beer.
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  But if you're comparing both drinks and menus, the difference is maybe one
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  of two dollars. Because he suggested one location, right, and then you
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  said suggest at another, which I've tracked both menus and I'm like, okay,
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  whatever you know soon. But typically when you go on a first date,
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  you're not going to get drunk anyway. You're going to have like conversation,
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  maybe one or two drinks, so it maybe cost him thirty dollars at
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  most max. So you're getting a lot of hate from all this, and
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  we want to hear more about it, and it's coming up next on G
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  one five You I I it's the air because show we have local influencer Mena
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  Inn who was putting her dating life out there talking about the dating scene and
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  Raleigh, and it blew up when a guy basically called her bougie. Yeah,
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  she suggested that they go to Nomad for a drink, and he immediately
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  was like, nah, that's too I don't have money like that. It's
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  too expensive. So people are dogging her now because they're like, well,
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  she was being too bougie. So you're getting a lot of hate. I
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  am why it's fifty fifty. It's kind of fifty to fifty. A lot
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  of people are looking at me like, oh, who do you think you
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  are? Thinking that a man should come and spend money on you when he
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  doesn't really know you. The other hand is like, yes, girl,
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  get treated, get treated right. But here's the thing. You never asked
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  him for anything. I did not. He assumed that you were making me
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  saying him to pay, yeah, which he should on first say I'm sorry,
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  I'm just gonna say that he should on a first date, he asked
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  her. You know, if you're asking me out, then yes, I
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  would expect you to pay. Just that's again how it's always been. I
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  don't really go on dates. So the one time or the this past like
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  month, I've been trying to open myself up to dating, and I mean
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  it hasn't been very successful. You don't want him anyway, No, that's
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  if that's the reaction to taking you out because a drink is too expensive,
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  like a drink. I can't believe people are calling you cheap though, Like
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  it's not like you asked to go to a high end steakhouse. You just
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  asked for a drink and fifteen dollars. Unfortunately, that is the going rate
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  for a drink these days almost everywhere. You didn't even ask for a drink.
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  You didn't even ask him for anything. I didn't ask for anything.
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  He could have told me, hey, let's go on a walk and I
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  would be like, Okay, so why don't you vote. We're gonna put
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  a poll up on our Instagram at G one o five radio, are you
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  team Mena or team this dude who didn't want to buy her a drink Team Minna