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- 0:00Speaker 1: Hello, beautiful, how are you doing today. I'm so happy
- 0:04Speaker 1: you're here. Your skin is absolutely glowing today. So even
- 0:08Speaker 1: if you're having not a great day, you got that
- 0:10Speaker 1: going for you. So that's good. I swear Pete just moved.
- 0:18Speaker 1: What the heck? Hitty? Quick, guys, because I'm a little
- 0:25Speaker 1: bit scared. I don't understand, Like, how can he just
- 0:28Speaker 1: disappear like that?
- 0:29Speaker 2: I don't.
- 0:35Speaker 1: He's right behind us. All right, Hello everybody, and welcome
- 0:49Speaker 1: back into my YouTube channel. I welcome to my YouTube channel.
- 0:51Speaker 1: I'm comic Gris. You can coll me Griss. And today
- 0:53Speaker 1: we're just reading some more Reddit. Still out of breath
- 0:56Speaker 1: from going down with Pete my one as. Yeah, we're
- 1:01Speaker 1: reading Reddit. So let's do it. Hey you you? Oh
- 1:11Speaker 1: what a good boy? Yeah you. I've got some pretty
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- 1:37Speaker 1: figured why not make an energy drink for y'all. It's
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- 1:42Speaker 1: of coffee. I don't like the energy drinks that have
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- 1:59Speaker 1: artificial dye or flavors. And like Sour Boys, it's made
- 2:02Speaker 1: right here in the USA. And not to mention, it
- 2:05Speaker 1: tastes exactly like our candy. It tastes so good. It
- 2:09Speaker 1: was actually mind blown the first time I tried it.
- 2:11Speaker 1: So don't buy the corporate slap and go to Sarada
- 2:15Speaker 1: Gg to grab a Sour Boys Energy drink. We're only
- 2:18Speaker 1: doing this once as of right now. It's just like
- 2:21Speaker 1: a little special thing we're doing for you guys, So
- 2:23Speaker 1: go grab on at Sarada gg if you want. In
- 2:26Speaker 1: the meantime, I'm gonna correct da O get myself a
- 2:31Speaker 1: little Oh my goodness, I don't understand how we did this.
- 2:36Speaker 1: It tastes so freaking good, Rupert, you want some skin
- 2:40Speaker 1: dogs shouldn't drink this, but you can go to Sara Dogg. Anyway,
- 2:44Speaker 1: Before we get started, we need to put on my
- 2:46Speaker 1: glasses a jay get around because that is Chris read screams.
- 2:51Speaker 1: All right, So first up, we have am I overreacting
- 2:56Speaker 1: new friends texts to husband while at work my respect. Okay,
- 3:00Speaker 1: so we have texts, but first let's read the post.
- 3:04Speaker 1: I apologize for the length of this. Never apologize for length. Okay,
- 3:09Speaker 1: shut up. Anyway, I'm really trying to see if I'm
- 3:12Speaker 1: tripping slash overreacting or if my read on this is correct.
- 3:17Speaker 1: I'll tell you. I'll let you know because I know everything. Context.
- 3:20Speaker 1: Woman thirty's single mom of five, works as an assistant
- 3:23Speaker 1: at the school my forty male husband teaches at. We've
- 3:26Speaker 1: been together eleven years. He's been at the school for three.
- 3:29Speaker 1: He showed me, thirty two female, this text from her
- 3:32Speaker 1: labeled first slide. We'll read that after saying that it
- 3:36Speaker 1: seemed really definitely flirty and forward and it made him
- 3:39Speaker 1: uncomfortable and what did I think? Okay, Lisy's showing you.
- 3:42Speaker 1: That's good. We love that green flag. There have been
- 3:46Speaker 1: other comments. We've danced this dance before together referencing their
- 3:50Speaker 1: souls we don't know and actions, walking too close to him,
- 3:54Speaker 1: often trying to time her departure with his so they
- 3:57Speaker 1: can talk, Suddenly volunteering for a camping field trip with
- 4:00Speaker 1: him even though it was inconvenient as for her, etc.
- 4:03Speaker 1: This sounds like shit that I would do in high school,
- 4:05Speaker 1: Like maybe run into the crush that I had when
- 4:08Speaker 1: I was like fifteen, like timing it right. This is odd,
- 4:11Speaker 1: especially given he's married. For the record, I have had
- 4:14Speaker 1: no negative interactions with her. I really like question mark her,
- 4:19Speaker 1: admired her way of speaking, love how she is with
- 4:22Speaker 1: the children, including mine. We have a lot of similar
- 4:24Speaker 1: interests and ways of parenting, etc. I have no reason
- 4:27Speaker 1: to not like her or be inherently suspicious of her.
- 4:30Speaker 1: He is the teacher of one of her children, and
- 4:32Speaker 1: she is the leader of the parent group for his class.
- 4:34Speaker 1: They also work together in other capacities, but for most
- 4:37Speaker 1: of most days they're not around each other except in passing.
- 4:41Speaker 1: I need to read the texts, but I can't really
- 4:43Speaker 1: make an opinion just yet. Okay, to me and to
- 4:46Speaker 1: a few friends, her text to him reads very flirty.
- 4:50Speaker 1: It came out of nowhere. Their other chat history is
- 4:53Speaker 1: all school slash kid related stuff. Oh it is a
- 4:57Speaker 1: deleted text. No, he's showing you. I feel like there's not.
- 5:00Speaker 1: I feel like there's not, especially if he's bringing it up.
- 5:01Speaker 1: I really don't like his response because I feel like
- 5:04Speaker 1: he threw my feelings out for her to munch on
- 5:07Speaker 1: and didn't really make a clear boundary to stop. Okay
- 5:09Speaker 1: and retracting my previous statement. We don't like that. It's
- 5:14Speaker 1: like a well, uh, sorry I have a wife or sorry,
- 5:20Speaker 1: you know, the old hag back at home wouldn't like
- 5:23Speaker 1: it type thing. We'll see what the decks say, but
- 5:25Speaker 1: I don't know you can see what I thought in
- 5:27Speaker 1: the remaining pictures. Am I overreacting to him or to her?
- 5:30Speaker 1: How do these messages read to you? Let's read the texts.
- 5:34Speaker 1: It says her that look you keep giving me in
- 5:38Speaker 1: passing is trouble evil, smiley faced ellipses we ride at dawn.
- 5:44Speaker 2: What I mean?
- 5:45Speaker 1: That's extremely extremely flirty. I'd be suspicious of that husband
- 5:49Speaker 1: his answer. To be honest, I don't quite know the look.
- 5:53Speaker 1: I had a headache all day and was drained beyond
- 5:55Speaker 1: human reason on doing the basement and scrubbing the floor
- 5:58Speaker 1: and walls to kill a mold problem ellipses. Also, I
- 6:03Speaker 1: can't engage with or reciprocate that energy, just can't. My
- 6:08Speaker 1: wife wildly upset about it, which bleeds into every aspect
- 6:12Speaker 1: of family life and ultimately affects the health of the kids.
- 6:15Speaker 1: You're saying you can't engage. Why are you saying I
- 6:19Speaker 1: won't engage? Words matter, Todd. You are a radiant, beautiful,
- 6:24Speaker 1: regal human being. Stop it, Todd, You're being a f
- 6:28Speaker 1: right now. I need to focus on my mental and
- 6:31Speaker 1: physical health. But when I'm done, we can talk later
- 6:34Speaker 1: my family's health, preparing mind, body and soul for the
- 6:37Speaker 1: next year, and growing my art and music. Oh brother,
- 6:40Speaker 1: this guy sticks. Even if I was solo Doll, that
- 6:45Speaker 1: would be the case. The fact that you said solo Dell,
- 6:48Speaker 1: you deserve a throat punch right now. I hope this
- 6:50Speaker 1: doesn't make things weird at all. I just need clarity
- 6:53Speaker 1: and focus at this intense, energetic junction. What is this speaking?
- 6:57Speaker 1: What this like chatt answer or something. Don't worry, guys,
- 7:02Speaker 1: there's more so now I believe we're reading the wife's
- 7:08Speaker 1: texts to her husband. Okay, he sent a screenshot to
- 7:11Speaker 1: her of the thing which is good of their conversation.
- 7:14Speaker 1: That it's weird wife says can't is not the same
- 7:17Speaker 1: thing as I'm not interested. Clockett, okay, clockett. Also we
- 7:21Speaker 1: do this here because that's yes and sign language. You
- 7:24Speaker 1: basically outed me and put all the blame on me
- 7:26Speaker 1: for not being able to reciprocate. Gross mm hmm. You
- 7:30Speaker 1: tell him him what dude? What the no? What are
- 7:34Speaker 1: you calling your wife? Dude? Dude, dude. That's another throat punch,
- 7:38Speaker 1: all right, right to the trachia. I said, even I
- 7:40Speaker 1: was solo, it would be the same you said, solo.
- 7:43Speaker 1: Do lo you piece of shit? Oh, now we have
- 7:46Speaker 1: a There was a voice note that starts with I
- 7:49Speaker 1: guess I would just like to know woman to woman
- 7:51Speaker 1: and friend to friend something we don't We don't see
- 7:54Speaker 1: what it says, oh me to her? Oh oh okay, okay,
- 7:58Speaker 1: So we're getting we're switching alls of text right now.
- 8:00Speaker 1: So this is wife to clearly flirtatious assistant, Like, for real,
- 8:05Speaker 1: did something give you the impression he was open to you?
- 8:08Speaker 1: Or are you being snaky? Really calls your whole character
- 8:11Speaker 1: into question For me, goofy isn't the word that comes
- 8:14Speaker 1: to mind for me. I look forward to hearing from
- 8:17Speaker 1: you directly. Oh so she must have said something like
- 8:19Speaker 1: she's goofy or something for thinking this. At some point,
- 8:22Speaker 1: I wish we had more we do, but I didn't
- 8:25Speaker 1: see the above texts. All right, here we go. Her
- 8:27Speaker 1: conflict usually needs a moment to breathe ellipses. I can
- 8:31Speaker 1: see the way this form of communication affected you. I'm
- 8:34Speaker 1: sorry for that. It was super lighthearted and making fun
- 8:37Speaker 1: of the way his eyes were super small as he
- 8:39Speaker 1: was walking past. It was not my intention to do
- 8:42Speaker 1: anything to hurt you or upset you. I'm going to
- 8:44Speaker 1: be mindful not to joke with blank like that in
- 8:47Speaker 1: the future. I can assure you I was never aiming
- 8:50Speaker 1: to take anything from you or to inflame relationship tension.
- 8:53Speaker 1: I respect that you have your feelings about it. That's
- 8:55Speaker 1: pretty much all there is to it. I don't even
- 8:58Speaker 1: think you're reading it. That text is mean. His eyes
- 9:00Speaker 1: were small. What are you talking about? You had the
- 9:02Speaker 1: evil smiley face. There is nothing innocent about that, and
- 9:05Speaker 1: an ellipses, you bitch me or wife. You weren't flirting
- 9:09Speaker 1: with him or you were, as I understand it, this
- 9:13Speaker 1: isn't the first time woo oh my god, she says,
- 9:19Speaker 1: did somebody tell you they interpreted something as flirting? Or
- 9:22Speaker 1: is it something that you saw? She's just saying, how
- 9:26Speaker 1: stupid the wife is. Basically as I told him, Sometimes
- 9:28Speaker 1: my jokes get me in trouble, whether it's for lack
- 9:31Speaker 1: of understanding or what's behind them slash lack of clarification afterwards,
- 9:35Speaker 1: if someone needed clarity, that's what asking is for. Maybe
- 9:39Speaker 1: just learn how to talk to people appropriately. You can
- 9:42Speaker 1: take time to sit with the message. The level of
- 9:45Speaker 1: audacities through the roof. What else that is coming up
- 9:48Speaker 1: for you is not between you and I wife, yes, blank,
- 9:52Speaker 1: it is between you and I. What does that look
- 9:55Speaker 1: you keep giving me in passing his trouble, this evil
- 9:58Speaker 1: smiley face have to do with someone's eyes being small?
- 10:02Speaker 1: Thank you for asking this because it makes no sense.
- 10:05Speaker 1: What is the meaning of the devil face? What is
- 10:07Speaker 1: the trouble in the look? His perspective is he was
- 10:11Speaker 1: stressed from our workload right now and your message reads
- 10:14Speaker 1: thirty af keep going queen, keep going on on your side.
- 10:18Speaker 1: He clearly stated earlier he had a headache all day
- 10:21Speaker 1: because it's a joke, and she does the evil spoty face. Listen,
- 10:26Speaker 1: I think she needs a punch to the throat as well,
- 10:28Speaker 1: to be honest. Huh, what's the joke, what's the look?
- 10:31Speaker 1: What's the trouble? She's just spitting it out like it's
- 10:34Speaker 1: a damn wrap. Huh, what's the joke, what's the look?
- 10:36Speaker 1: What's the trouble? Where you went? What you do in
- 10:38Speaker 1: stop talking to my husband? You look, it's obvious that
- 10:42Speaker 1: you have your opinion on it. I'm sure what else
- 10:45Speaker 1: you want me to say to you? If you go
- 10:47Speaker 1: back to the messages, everything is there. I said, I
- 10:49Speaker 1: won't joke like that anymore. I said, I'm sorry that
- 10:52Speaker 1: it affected you like that. Nothing is going on between
- 10:54Speaker 1: me and but nothing has ever gone on between us.
- 10:58Speaker 1: Everybody knows that's your man. I'm asking you what your
- 11:02Speaker 1: joke was supposed to mean. I'm asking you what the
- 11:04Speaker 1: joke is. I'm asking you what your text meant because
- 11:08Speaker 1: it just sounds flirty. Keep on pressing. I don't think
- 11:11Speaker 1: anything has gone on between you because he isn't interested
- 11:14Speaker 1: in you. I don't think you're being honest right now
- 11:19Speaker 1: about the text message that you sent. Hmm, I don't
- 11:22Speaker 1: think so either. You said it was a joke about
- 11:24Speaker 1: his small eyes. But what does that have to do
- 11:26Speaker 1: with a devil face or a look being trouble? Question
- 11:29Speaker 1: mark wife? As I said before, it was a harmless
- 11:32Speaker 1: joke that was super goofy and impulsive. It looked like
- 11:34Speaker 1: he was walking around trying to rise everybody up. As
- 11:37Speaker 1: the fifth graders would say, of course you'd use fifth
- 11:40Speaker 1: grader language, you child take it for a face value
- 11:43Speaker 1: or don't. But as I stated, there's nothing else to it.
- 11:45Speaker 1: This whole thing got blew up out of a bunch
- 11:48Speaker 1: of nothing. She doesn't even know how to talk. I
- 11:50Speaker 1: don't get the joke, though. What is it referencing? How
- 11:53Speaker 1: is the look he's giving you going to get you
- 11:55Speaker 1: in trouble? No? I honestly, I know it sounds redundant,
- 11:58Speaker 1: But I like how she keeps on pressing because she's
- 12:01Speaker 1: the other Woman's not answering the question at She's just
- 12:05Speaker 1: like avoiding it. She's swerving, she's serpentining, you know what
- 12:08Speaker 1: I mean? And what is the devil face about? I
- 12:10Speaker 1: don't know what riz everybody up means to me. The
- 12:13Speaker 1: text sounds like you interpreted him looking at you in
- 12:15Speaker 1: a sexual way, and you felt excited from it. That's
- 12:18Speaker 1: exactly what it is. That's how it reads. You're not
- 12:20Speaker 1: explaining it at all, so I don't really have a
- 12:22Speaker 1: reason to believe something different. I'm explaining it's literally face value,
- 12:28Speaker 1: goofy impulsive joke. There isn't anything deeper in it. That's
- 12:31Speaker 1: what I'm telling you. That's why there is no deeper explanation.
- 12:34Speaker 1: And as we all know, when our fight or flight
- 12:36Speaker 1: systems are triggered, we are going to place things where
- 12:39Speaker 1: sometimes they are not. Why are you talking about the
- 12:42Speaker 1: face value? Explanation is that it's a flirty text. That's
- 12:45Speaker 1: how he read the text too, which is why he
- 12:47Speaker 1: told me about it, because it's weird as the only
- 12:50Speaker 1: way it reads is flirty, and you haven't given any
- 12:52Speaker 1: actual explanation otherwise, but you won't directly say it. Maybe
- 12:56Speaker 1: because it's embarrassing. I don't know, but it's obviously flirty
- 12:59Speaker 1: unless there's some joke here. But wife's name. This is
- 13:02Speaker 1: exhausting and like literally, there's nothing else to it. And
- 13:06Speaker 1: as I said, you must have a specific thing you
- 13:08Speaker 1: want me to say. You can try to shit talk
- 13:11Speaker 1: all you want. Where's the shit talk? She just wants
- 13:14Speaker 1: an explanation but that's not where this is going to go.
- 13:17Speaker 1: And if you're confident that your relationship is good with him,
- 13:19Speaker 1: then you can trust that there's no other joke that
- 13:22Speaker 1: he's not telling you about a Lipses. Like I already
- 13:25Speaker 1: apologize to you, I'm giving you the explanation that exists.
- 13:28Speaker 1: So aside from me pulling out of the clouds a
- 13:30Speaker 1: false explanation, there is seriously nothing else to say, and
- 13:32Speaker 1: I would appreciate you just sitting with that for a moment. Dude,
- 13:35Speaker 1: talk about baiting a dead whore hotly shit. I think
- 13:39Speaker 1: you ride into it properly. I think she's just getting
- 13:43Speaker 1: very defensive and weird and you know, not the sharpest
- 13:48Speaker 1: tool in the shed. I don't think I'm glad she's
- 13:50Speaker 1: not teaching the kids at least. Yeah, I'm glad your
- 13:53Speaker 1: husband said something about it. Don't love how he said it,
- 13:57Speaker 1: but maybe he's just a dumb man. This does happen sometimes.
- 14:02Speaker 1: Hopefully he learns from it. But I don't like how
- 14:05Speaker 1: he answered it either. But at least he told you so.
- 14:08Speaker 1: But I don't think you're over reacting. I think this
- 14:09Speaker 1: is extremely odd. Makes me uncomfortable a lot. I think
- 14:13Speaker 1: there might be a little update update. I expressed myself
- 14:16Speaker 1: fully and plainly. He said he would talk with her
- 14:19Speaker 1: in person and fully draw the line. He refused to
- 14:21Speaker 1: tell me what was said in the conversation, though he
- 14:23Speaker 1: doesn't agree that his response left a door open. He
- 14:26Speaker 1: thinks me calling her a snake is too quickly judgmental,
- 14:30Speaker 1: and refuse to block her even on social media accounts okay,
- 14:32Speaker 1: double throat punch. We don't like toalk. You know, he
- 14:35Speaker 1: was moving up and then he fell down. He fell
- 14:37Speaker 1: down the stairs. I think you need you need some
- 14:41Speaker 1: couples counseling probably, and he needs to make more of
- 14:44Speaker 1: an effort to cut to draw that line, like though
- 14:47Speaker 1: I don't know why following her on social media would
- 14:50Speaker 1: be a thing like blocking entirely. I mean, yeah, I
- 14:54Speaker 1: mean I feel like it makes sense in this case.
- 14:56Speaker 1: I don't know. This all makes me very uncomfortable. I
- 14:58Speaker 1: don't like it. Let's see what the comments. First come
- 15:00Speaker 1: and says stop trying to have a rational conversation with
- 15:03Speaker 1: this lady blocker and have your husband blocker too. Yeah,
- 15:06Speaker 1: but he didn't. Another comment says this right here, cut
- 15:08Speaker 1: all communication with her, both of you. Yep, that's another
- 15:12Speaker 1: note she might be enjoying pissing off the wife because
- 15:15Speaker 1: it's her incredible validation. Like if she's a threat to
- 15:18Speaker 1: another woman, then she's hot and she has a shot
- 15:20Speaker 1: at stealing the husband. That's a hundred percent what I think.
- 15:24Speaker 1: You know what you can You just can read. You
- 15:27Speaker 1: can read women pretty easy, like other women can read women,
- 15:30Speaker 1: and in these types of situations pretty plainly. I feel like,
- 15:33Speaker 1: and this is pretty obvious, you know. Another comment says,
- 15:36Speaker 1: why do they speak like their only socialization for the
- 15:39Speaker 1: past nine years has been with a therapist. Yeah, that's true.
- 15:44Speaker 1: It's so annoying with like therapy talk, when somebody's talking
- 15:47Speaker 1: down to you with therapy talk. My god, this was
- 15:49Speaker 1: exhausting to read. It was so Another comment says, I
- 15:52Speaker 1: don't know why he's calling her radiant, beautiful, regal human being.
- 15:54Speaker 1: In response to a weird ass tech, she said, yeah,
- 15:57Speaker 1: you know what, let's come back to that. What the
- 16:00Speaker 1: absolute shit? Like? What is what was that? If I
- 16:02Speaker 1: read that? If I read my significant other saying that
- 16:07Speaker 1: to somebody else like that? Who just said to text
- 16:10Speaker 1: like that? Bye? Do you never? And I mean all
- 16:14Speaker 1: the comments agree, it's just super weird. I feel like
- 16:17Speaker 1: the minimum would be to block her and everything to not.
- 16:21Speaker 1: I mean, you don't know if he's not going to
- 16:22Speaker 1: talk to her or anything. I don't know. Uh. Everybody
- 16:25Speaker 1: said nor not overreacting, and I agree. I agree. What
- 16:30Speaker 1: do you guys think? Let's move on all right? Next up,
- 16:32Speaker 1: we have am I the scully wig for questioning my
- 16:35Speaker 1: engagement after my fiance got mad at me for drinking
- 16:39Speaker 1: well pregnant quotations. So you weren't pregnant, I hope, or
- 16:44Speaker 1: if you didn't know, that's a whole other thing. Let's
- 16:46Speaker 1: just get into it though. Sorry if this is long,
- 16:48Speaker 1: I just need opinions. I can't tell if I'm being
- 16:50Speaker 1: traumatic about this. Okay. So, I, twenty two female, recently
- 16:53Speaker 1: got engaged to my fiance, twenty three male. We are
- 16:55Speaker 1: both still living at home to save money to eventually
- 16:57Speaker 1: get our own place. I still live with my parents,
- 17:00Speaker 1: but I stay at his place most nights because it's
- 17:02Speaker 1: closer to work and just easier responsible. Love that, Okay.
- 17:06Speaker 1: So this New Year's Eve, we were at his parents'
- 17:07Speaker 1: house with family and a few friends. Nothing crazy, just
- 17:10Speaker 1: a normal family get together. His aunt was passing out
- 17:13Speaker 1: champagne to everyone and asked me if I wanted some,
- 17:15Speaker 1: but before I could even respond, my fiance reached out
- 17:18Speaker 1: and took the glass. I kind of thought it was weird,
- 17:21Speaker 1: but I just ignored it because he can be oblivious sometimes,
- 17:24Speaker 1: little red flag. Okay. I ended up just going to
- 17:26Speaker 1: the kitchen and pouring myself a drink. When I got
- 17:29Speaker 1: back to the living room, he immediately noticed my drink
- 17:31Speaker 1: and asked, pretty loudly, is that alcohol? I said yes.
- 17:34Speaker 1: He started getting really upset. He said he couldn't believe
- 17:37Speaker 1: I would do that, that he thought I was more
- 17:40Speaker 1: responsible and I was being reckless. I was obviously confused
- 17:44Speaker 1: and ask him what he's talking about. He said something like,
- 17:46Speaker 1: you're really going to mess things up before they even start.
- 17:50Speaker 1: You're going to hurt the baby. Hey, are you pregnant?
- 17:55Speaker 1: The room went quiet, and I was so embarrassed. I
- 17:57Speaker 1: was thinking he must be drunk or something. He asked him,
- 18:00Speaker 1: what baby? Okay? All right? He said he knew I
- 18:05Speaker 1: was pregnant and that he'd been trying to do the
- 18:07Speaker 1: right thing. He said he found a pregnancy test in
- 18:10Speaker 1: the bathroom weeks ago. Oh this is messy, and that's
- 18:13Speaker 1: why he's been watching what I eat and drink and
- 18:15Speaker 1: why he proposed we need to communicate. Okay, I know
- 18:20Speaker 1: you think you're being the responsible person by just assuming
- 18:23Speaker 1: something and then thinking you have to get married to
- 18:25Speaker 1: somebody because but like, what are we doing? Let's talk
- 18:28Speaker 1: to each other. He said he was stepping up. Then
- 18:32Speaker 1: he said he didn't know if he had made a mistake,
- 18:35Speaker 1: if this was the kind of mother I was going
- 18:37Speaker 1: to be. Okay, so he really thinks you're pregnant right now.
- 18:40Speaker 1: I was literally so shocked and humiliated. I told him
- 18:42Speaker 1: I'm not pregnant, but he just told me I don't
- 18:45Speaker 1: need to lie, I'm not pregnant in brackets. I ended
- 18:48Speaker 1: up leaving and coming to my parents' house that night.
- 18:50Speaker 1: I haven't been to his place since. He keeps trying
- 18:52Speaker 1: to reach out to talk to me about it, but
- 18:54Speaker 1: I'm not ready. Where is this pregnancy test from? Is
- 18:58Speaker 1: this another woman? I'm scared that brings us to Last night,
- 19:02Speaker 1: my fiance's mom messaged me and asked me to come
- 19:04Speaker 1: over and talk. She says relationships take effort and I
- 19:07Speaker 1: shouldn't ruin my relationship over a little misunderstanding. I don't
- 19:11Speaker 1: know what to do. I love my fiance, but I
- 19:13Speaker 1: can't stop thinking if he never thought I was pregnant,
- 19:15Speaker 1: would he have even proposed to me. I'm really rethinking
- 19:18Speaker 1: the whole relationship. Am I the scallywag? Oh? My goodness,
- 19:22Speaker 1: that's crazy. I'm just so curious about the test. Okay,
- 19:26Speaker 1: there is an update. So a bunch of comments are
- 19:28Speaker 1: asking about the pregnancy test my fiance found. Thank you comment.
- 19:31Speaker 1: I don't know why I didn't even question that when
- 19:33Speaker 1: he said it. I think it was just shock fair enough.
- 19:36Speaker 1: I've never taken a pregnancy test at his house, so
- 19:39Speaker 1: I don't know if he saw something and thought it
- 19:41Speaker 1: was a test, or if he's being crazy and making
- 19:44Speaker 1: it up what. I just messaged his mom back, and
- 19:46Speaker 1: I'm going to go over there to talk and figure
- 19:49Speaker 1: out what I want to do. I do really like
- 19:51Speaker 1: his family and still love my fiance or boyfriend. I
- 19:53Speaker 1: don't know what to call him now. He's never really
- 19:55Speaker 1: done things to make me worry before, so I want
- 19:57Speaker 1: to at least listen before I throw everything away. I
- 20:01Speaker 1: posted the recent update to redditor updates. Oh there's another update. Okay,
- 20:04Speaker 1: everybody shop, I'm gonna read it. Yesterday I went over
- 20:06Speaker 1: to my boyfriend's house. It's a boyfriend now, not a France,
- 20:08Speaker 1: and it did not go as expected, And I honestly
- 20:12Speaker 1: don't even know what I was expecting. But after reading
- 20:14Speaker 1: some of your comments about whose test it was or
- 20:17Speaker 1: if it was even a pregnancy test, I had to
- 20:19Speaker 1: find out. My boyfriend was really happy to see me
- 20:22Speaker 1: when I got there. I don't think his mom told
- 20:25Speaker 1: him I was coming. He seemed really genuine and kept apologizing.
- 20:28Speaker 1: His mom asked us to sit down, and she started crying,
- 20:31Speaker 1: saying she doesn't want to ruin our relationship and she
- 20:34Speaker 1: loves both of us and wants the best for us.
- 20:36Speaker 1: Then she shows this a sonogram, so the mom is pregnant.
- 20:40Speaker 1: I was writing my spicklersion it was his mom's test,
- 20:46Speaker 1: literally all of the stupid drama because my boyfriend is
- 20:50Speaker 1: an idiot. He said he didn't think his mom could
- 20:52Speaker 1: get pregnant anymore because she's in her forties. Dude, just
- 20:56Speaker 1: just dip out. This guy's so dumb. So the only
- 21:00Speaker 1: other possibility was for it to be mine, But he
- 21:03Speaker 1: didn't want to ask me, so I could tell him myself.
- 21:06Speaker 1: I love surprising people, so honestly, that does make sense.
- 21:09Speaker 1: But like it had been weeks. He could have said
- 21:11Speaker 1: something after all that time. For sure. His mom said
- 21:14Speaker 1: she didn't say anything at the party because she didn't
- 21:16Speaker 1: know what she was going to do yet and didn't
- 21:19Speaker 1: want everyone at the party finding out. But it still
- 21:21Speaker 1: bothers me that she let me take the embarrassment instead.
- 21:25Speaker 1: Yeah again, mother in law, future mother in law. Maybe not,
- 21:27Speaker 1: I don't know. Sucks or at least tell us after
- 21:30Speaker 1: in private, instead of letting us not talk for over
- 21:33Speaker 1: a week. Who are these people? I do kind of
- 21:35Speaker 1: feel bad now that my boyfriend really thought I was
- 21:37Speaker 1: pregnant and thought I wasn't taking it seriously. I talked
- 21:40Speaker 1: to him about the engagement and if he meant what
- 21:42Speaker 1: he said about stepping up. He said he already had
- 21:45Speaker 1: the ring for a while but was waiting for the
- 21:47Speaker 1: right time, and when he saw the test, he thought
- 21:49Speaker 1: of it as a sign and got excited thinking of
- 21:51Speaker 1: us as a little family. Hopefully you know they're young.
- 21:54Speaker 1: This was a really good learning experience. Don't like how
- 21:57Speaker 1: controlling and non communicative he was personally, but he could grow.
- 22:03Speaker 1: He says. He only said what he said at the
- 22:06Speaker 1: party in the heat of the moment, thinking I was
- 22:07Speaker 1: someone who would risk our baby like that, and he
- 22:10Speaker 1: didn't actually mean it. I think I believe him. As
- 22:13Speaker 1: of now, we aren't engaged anymore, but we are still together.
- 22:16Speaker 1: I told him we really need to work harder on
- 22:18Speaker 1: communication if we want to make our relationship last. A
- 22:21Speaker 1: lot of comments were saying he's a red flag and stuff,
- 22:23Speaker 1: and I can see where you're coming from, but this
- 22:26Speaker 1: was really the only time he's been like that. I
- 22:28Speaker 1: think his intentions were sweet but came off wrong. Also
- 22:31Speaker 1: a lot of people saying we are too young to
- 22:33Speaker 1: get married, but my parents got married young and are
- 22:35Speaker 1: still together, so I think it depends if we do
- 22:37Speaker 1: not get engaged again. I told him to actually wait
- 22:40Speaker 1: until he's ready and not when he thinks he needs to.
- 22:43Speaker 1: That's okay, that's fine. I don't think you're doomed. I
- 22:46Speaker 1: think he needs again a little more seasoning. The mom.
- 22:50Speaker 1: You know, she feels bad. She shouldn't have waited so long.
- 22:53Speaker 1: I feel like this can be remedied and everybody can
- 22:56Speaker 1: grow from this. I don't think it's like a complete
- 22:58Speaker 1: leave him type situation. You know, you can be young
- 23:02Speaker 1: and dumb and stuff, but he's got to learn. He's
- 23:06Speaker 1: got to learn to not be controlling like that, because
- 23:09Speaker 1: that was weird. I didn't like that at all. I
- 23:11Speaker 1: still don't really like him, but whatever, you know, it's
- 23:14Speaker 1: not my life. Let's see what the comments say. First
- 23:16Speaker 1: comment says, y'all need to experience living without your parents
- 23:19Speaker 1: before you move in together. You don't want to be
- 23:21Speaker 1: his substitute. Mom agreed, yep. In this day and age,
- 23:24Speaker 1: housing is so expensive, but if possible, everyone should live
- 23:27Speaker 1: alone or with roommates before they get married. I you know,
- 23:30Speaker 1: and everybody's different or whatever. I always think that's a
- 23:34Speaker 1: really good idea. You really don't know somebody until you
- 23:36Speaker 1: live with them for like at least over six months,
- 23:39Speaker 1: I think, personally. But sometimes it can work out, you know.
- 23:43Speaker 1: Another comments said, good luck. You're both really young and
- 23:45Speaker 1: your boyfriend is impulsive propose because he thought you were pregnant.
- 23:48Speaker 1: He's got a lot of growing up to do. Yeah,
- 23:50Speaker 1: that's what I think, And that's okay. They can stay
- 23:52Speaker 1: together and they can grow together and everything. That's that's fine.
- 23:55Speaker 1: That's fine, and hope I hope they do. I think
- 23:57Speaker 1: we have time for the one more little she read it.
- 24:00Speaker 1: Let's move on. Let me know what you guys think
- 24:02Speaker 1: all right, last but not least and sounds scary a
- 24:06Speaker 1: little bit. Am I the scalleywig for running away to
- 24:10Speaker 1: give birth? Another quotations, so troll away because my husband
- 24:14Speaker 1: follows my main Sorry, I no, that's probably just a
- 24:17Speaker 1: spelling error. But now I'm assuming you're Irish. I twenty
- 24:20Speaker 1: three and she's kidding out? Won do that? I twenty
- 24:24Speaker 1: three female and my husband twenty five male, had been
- 24:26Speaker 1: together for four years, married for two, and we were
- 24:28Speaker 1: expecting our first child. Congratulations. My relationship with my mother
- 24:32Speaker 1: in law was never amazing, but before this, she always
- 24:35Speaker 1: kept to herself and so did I. And for the record,
- 24:38Speaker 1: my relationship with my husband's father and brother was always
- 24:41Speaker 1: really good. When I got pregnant, I told my husband
- 24:43Speaker 1: that I wanted to keep it a secret for at
- 24:45Speaker 1: least the three month mark because my own mother miscarried
- 24:48Speaker 1: five times in between my and my younger siblings, so
- 24:51Speaker 1: I thought that this fact could affect my and my pregnancy,
- 24:55Speaker 1: and because I remember the heartbreak of my mom losing
- 24:58Speaker 1: all those babies, I didn't want our famili to feel it.
- 25:00Speaker 1: He totally agreed and even said it would be our
- 25:02Speaker 1: cool little secret I respect that, okay. Cool. Two days
- 25:06Speaker 1: after I told him, I got a text from my
- 25:09Speaker 1: mother in law saying that she knew it was a
- 25:12Speaker 1: girl and that it was selfish of me to keep
- 25:14Speaker 1: the news of our baby girl away from her and
- 25:17Speaker 1: her family. So we're dealing with the monster in law
- 25:19Speaker 1: got it. Just for the record, I was around four
- 25:22Speaker 1: weeks pregnant at this point, so I had no idea
- 25:24Speaker 1: about the sex myself, so I don't know where that
- 25:27Speaker 1: came from. Just her being crazy mostly. I confronted my
- 25:32Speaker 1: husband to what he replied, you were not expecting me
- 25:35Speaker 1: to hide this from my mom, right, she deserves to
- 25:38Speaker 1: know it's my child too. I was furious and didn't
- 25:41Speaker 1: talk with him for around a week after this. Needless
- 25:44Speaker 1: to say that in the week after this incident, everyone
- 25:47Speaker 1: already knew I was pregnant, and people were even mad
- 25:50Speaker 1: at me for wanting privacy on this. Why does everybody
- 25:53Speaker 1: suddenly get so entitled to other people's children When somebody
- 25:57Speaker 1: gets pregnant, you best believe if I am ever with child,
- 26:00Speaker 1: nobody is going to know. Okay, nobody's good. It's just
- 26:03Speaker 1: gonna slowly start cropping into my face closer and closer
- 26:08Speaker 1: as the weeks go by. But no, seriously, I want
- 26:12Speaker 1: no part in that. Like I hate all the online
- 26:16Speaker 1: just criticism of women. I mean, they can post whatever
- 26:19Speaker 1: they want with their pregnancy journeys and all that kind
- 26:21Speaker 1: of stuff, but people are brutal and just, and family
- 26:26Speaker 1: in general is just so entitled and it's like, well
- 26:29Speaker 1: I think this, and you shouldn't name them because of that.
- 26:31Speaker 1: You should be doing this, and you should be shop.
- 26:33Speaker 1: Shut up? Are you growing life? No? Shut up? It
- 26:36Speaker 1: makes me so mad that I haven't even experienced. So
- 26:39Speaker 1: for all your mama's out there, I get your back. Okay.
- 26:42Speaker 1: Then the harassment from the mother in law started at
- 26:44Speaker 1: around four months, me and my husband went to visit
- 26:47Speaker 1: my family and left my mother in law responsible for
- 26:49Speaker 1: watering the plants. When we came back, a whole nursery
- 26:52Speaker 1: was made all pink with the name Olga Bertha. Oh brother, dude,
- 26:57Speaker 1: Olga Bertha. Sorry, Eddie, Olga's out there. But come on,
- 27:01Speaker 1: this woman's like evil. I know she thinks she's good,
- 27:04Speaker 1: but she's evil. She's like that. She's like a leech.
- 27:07Speaker 1: She just wants to take every experience and just have
- 27:10Speaker 1: it for herself. I'm scared to where this is going.
- 27:12Speaker 1: Keep in mind that I had no idea about the
- 27:15Speaker 1: gender still, and of course this was an extreme privacy violation.
- 27:19Speaker 1: I had a harsh conversation with her. She cried, and
- 27:21Speaker 1: my husband then has mad because I was mean to
- 27:24Speaker 1: his mom. So you're married to a little beta bitch boy.
- 27:28Speaker 1: Hate that for you? Just leave? What are we doing?
- 27:31Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I know that's easy to say, but this
- 27:33Speaker 1: was just the beginning of the harassment. She was setting
- 27:35Speaker 1: me articles every day about the bad effects of working
- 27:37Speaker 1: out during pregnancy, criticizing what I had for each meal.
- 27:40Speaker 1: Started crying because I want to exclusively breastfeed. She literally said,
- 27:44Speaker 1: feeding my baby is a critical bonding moment. You're stealing
- 27:48Speaker 1: that from me.
- 27:49Speaker 2: The rage inside me right now, I don't even have
- 27:51Speaker 2: a child that I'm so mad right now for not
- 27:54Speaker 2: wanting visitors for one month and then in the delivery
- 27:56Speaker 2: room the way I would cut this person off.
- 28:00Speaker 1: I just leave, and you're running away, and I hope
- 28:03Speaker 1: you actually run away, because that was in the title.
- 28:05Speaker 1: To sum it up. She wanted to be there, I said, no,
- 28:07Speaker 1: I only wanted my husband there. She seemed a little hurt,
- 28:10Speaker 1: but never talked about that again until my husband was
- 28:12Speaker 1: showering and a message from her popped up. We had
- 28:14Speaker 1: a lunch date on that day, so I assumed it
- 28:16Speaker 1: was for the location, and Oma ditt just to find
- 28:19Speaker 1: hundreds of messages of their plan on how she would
- 28:23Speaker 1: get in the delivery room. When I was too tired
- 28:25Speaker 1: to argue to see her baby being born. I am
- 28:30Speaker 1: going to throat punch this woman and this man. I'm
- 28:35Speaker 1: so many throat punch. It's just I cried a lot
- 28:38Speaker 1: when I was alone, not going to lie to you guys.
- 28:41Speaker 1: But then I made peace with it. On that Monday,
- 28:43Speaker 1: I told him I was going to spend some days
- 28:45Speaker 1: with my parents and if something happened, I would tell him.
- 28:48Speaker 1: I drove from North Carolina to Florida, where my family is,
- 28:51Speaker 1: got into labor, gave birth with my mom and my
- 28:55Speaker 1: two sisters in the room, to a healthy baby boy
- 28:57Speaker 1: without my husband's knowledge, And that's how it was meant
- 29:00Speaker 1: to be. Now to the present, my son is now
- 29:04Speaker 1: two weeks old, and I finally told my husband what
- 29:06Speaker 1: I did. Wait, what you didn't tell your husband immediately?
- 29:10Speaker 1: That's that's a bit weird. I mean, I get it,
- 29:13Speaker 1: like I mean, he just being a total you know what. No,
- 29:16Speaker 1: he deserves it, but oh that's his kid, dude, he
- 29:18Speaker 1: didn't know. I don't know. I don't know what's right here.
- 29:21Speaker 1: He's driving down here and yelled at me forgiving birth
- 29:23Speaker 1: without telling him and for not including him on the
- 29:25Speaker 1: birth certificate or named choice. Honestly good for you, and
- 29:29Speaker 1: keep saying that he and his mom will sue me.
- 29:31Speaker 1: Am I the asshole for running away to give birth?
- 29:33Speaker 1: Mm hmmm hmm. Listen the amount of balls it took
- 29:37Speaker 1: to do that. Holy shit. Put you put your foot
- 29:39Speaker 1: down and then you gave both and you were just like,
- 29:41Speaker 1: I'm not gonna tell them. I don't just for like
- 29:44Speaker 1: legal reasons. That's what makes me scared. I'm just like, oh,
- 29:47Speaker 1: I think he I don't know how that works, but
- 29:49Speaker 1: I kind of love you for it. He's just lying
- 29:53Speaker 1: to you constantly and making plans behind your back and
- 29:56Speaker 1: telling his mom things like he's enmeshed with his mother,
- 29:59Speaker 1: like go breastfeed off your mom, you douche.
- 30:02Speaker 2: You know you know what.
- 30:04Speaker 1: I'm on your side. We have an edit or a
- 30:06Speaker 1: couple edits. It looks like it says it seems to
- 30:08Speaker 1: be a lot of comments about the name and the nursery.
- 30:10Speaker 1: Olga Bertha No was written, but close enough. Olga is
- 30:17Speaker 1: the fake version of my mother in law name, and
- 30:19Speaker 1: Bertha of my mother in law's mother. Oh, I see, Okay,
- 30:22Speaker 1: so she used her name and the mother in law's
- 30:24Speaker 1: mother's name. Narcissistic psychopath. She is okay about the two
- 30:28Speaker 1: weeks of not telling him. We were not on good terms,
- 30:31Speaker 1: just texting, so it was not hard to hide, honestly. Honestly,
- 30:34Speaker 1: he was ready to just blindside you after you gave birth,
- 30:38Speaker 1: after you went through the most horrific slash beautiful thing
- 30:43Speaker 1: that you could ever go through. He was going to
- 30:45Speaker 1: blindside you with a woman you hate like that's an
- 30:47Speaker 1: evil man, evil man, and evil woman. But guys, hold
- 30:52Speaker 1: on to your panties. We have another update, So let's
- 30:54Speaker 1: buckle up, all right. Some people ask me for an update,
- 30:57Speaker 1: and I'm here for it. The last forty eight hours
- 31:00Speaker 1: were the most insane I've ever had, honestly, So to
- 31:03Speaker 1: go back, where are we left off? My husband arrived
- 31:06Speaker 1: yesterday afternoon. Can you guess who also came? Yeah? His mom. Nothing.
- 31:11Speaker 1: I was already expecting, but it's always surprising. I guess.
- 31:15Speaker 1: When her car pulled up, my mother in law was
- 31:17Speaker 1: the first to come out. They both got in. My
- 31:19Speaker 1: child was in my bedroom in my parents' house with
- 31:23Speaker 1: my sister and mother, and in the living room my
- 31:25Speaker 1: brother's dad me and then the first thing that came
- 31:28Speaker 1: out of her mouth was quit the bullshit. My baby
- 31:30Speaker 1: is a girl, right, I said that my baby is
- 31:33Speaker 1: the mail my family confirmed. My mother in law's face
- 31:36Speaker 1: completely changed. She started crying, saying that this one was
- 31:40Speaker 1: meant to be a girl. What the act? This woman
- 31:43Speaker 1: is insane and if she knew I would give her
- 31:45Speaker 1: another boy, she wouldn't have been so nice to me.
- 31:48Speaker 1: This woman is the devil, and so is your husband.
- 31:50Speaker 1: For contact, My husband has one brother only, and he
- 31:53Speaker 1: has already done having kids. He has three boys. I
- 31:56Speaker 1: told her, as you go herself, this child is mine,
- 31:59Speaker 1: not hers, and surely didn't have a baby so she
- 32:02Speaker 1: could fulfill her wired desires. She was about to raise
- 32:06Speaker 1: her voice, but my brother stopped her and told her
- 32:08Speaker 1: that it wouldn't be accepted in this house and asked
- 32:10Speaker 1: her to leave and wait for my husband in the car. Yes,
- 32:16Speaker 1: after she found out the gender, she didn't even ask
- 32:19Speaker 1: to see him what a piece of shit. She left,
- 32:22Speaker 1: giving me dirty looks, but left. My husband looked at
- 32:25Speaker 1: me and asked me how I could rob this moment
- 32:27Speaker 1: from him. As you can imagine, I replied with the
- 32:29Speaker 1: plan they had. He turned pale, and then I think
- 32:33Speaker 1: it all clicked together in his little brain. He started
- 32:36Speaker 1: apologizing and saying that it was just to Shush's mom
- 32:39Speaker 1: and that he would never actually do it. But after
- 32:41Speaker 1: being pressured, his speech changed to but I'm also going
- 32:45Speaker 1: through a lot in the delivery room. I need support,
- 32:47Speaker 1: Oh brother, dude, my whole family started laughing in his face.
- 32:51Speaker 1: He got angry and demanded to know my son's name
- 32:53Speaker 1: and see him. I told him the name and allowed
- 32:55Speaker 1: him to see him from afar. He asked to hold him,
- 32:58Speaker 1: and I declined. I talked alone with him and told
- 33:02Speaker 1: him that I wanted a divorce. He cried, pleaded, and
- 33:05Speaker 1: asked for another chance. I told him my decision was
- 33:07Speaker 1: final and that he didn't have to financially support my child,
- 33:11Speaker 1: but that our marriage was over. I asked him to
- 33:13Speaker 1: come around the next day so we can discuss this better.
- 33:16Speaker 1: Then he came. His eyes were puffy, I'm guessing from
- 33:18Speaker 1: crying and he and his mom came here, looked at
- 33:20Speaker 1: my husband and said out loud that he should give
- 33:23Speaker 1: me the divorce and forget about the kid. Since it
- 33:25Speaker 1: was a boy, he should find a woman that could
- 33:27Speaker 1: give him a girl. Finally, I saw that dude get
- 33:29Speaker 1: a little bit of a backbone, and he told her
- 33:32Speaker 1: to get out, that she already ruined this enough. She
- 33:34Speaker 1: yelled as expected and left. He cried and told me
- 33:37Speaker 1: finally understood the kind of harm his mom was making
- 33:39Speaker 1: to our family and told me that if I needed
- 33:42Speaker 1: him to go and see with her to save our marriage,
- 33:45Speaker 1: he would arn no contact. Now you're saying that it
- 33:49Speaker 1: too little, too late, sonny boy. I told him that
- 33:52Speaker 1: I needed time to think and told him to give
- 33:54Speaker 1: me some days. He is returning to no contact, and
- 33:57Speaker 1: in about a week he will come down against so
- 33:59Speaker 1: we can talk now. I know what he did was horrible,
- 34:02Speaker 1: but being a single mom at twenty three is not ideal,
- 34:04Speaker 1: and whether I like it or not, I still feel
- 34:07Speaker 1: something for this man. Any opinions and recommendations are welcome.
- 34:10Speaker 1: You stood on business. I mean, I guess if he's
- 34:14Speaker 1: going to go no contact with her and he's actually
- 34:16Speaker 1: going to make that step. I mean, I guess you
- 34:18Speaker 1: could give it a go, get some therapy while you're
- 34:21Speaker 1: at it. There's ways to work on it, I'm sure,
- 34:24Speaker 1: But I feel like I just want you to I
- 34:26Speaker 1: just want you to stay with your family. But I
- 34:28Speaker 1: understand at the same time, you know, I understand, but
- 34:33Speaker 1: just like, keep that in the back of your head,
- 34:35Speaker 1: keep all of this in the back of your head,
- 34:36Speaker 1: and if he waivers at all, get cut that off.
- 34:39Speaker 1: Let's see what comment said first, sham It says, if
- 34:41Speaker 1: you decide to give him another chance, please do not
- 34:43Speaker 1: move back to where he lives. If you went back
- 34:45Speaker 1: and establish residency there, he can keep you from going
- 34:48Speaker 1: back to your parents' house with the baby later on.
- 34:51Speaker 1: Right now, since you gave birth in Florida, that's your
- 34:53Speaker 1: baby's home state, stay there. You did a good job
- 34:55Speaker 1: of protecting yourself and your baby. Mother in law is
- 34:57Speaker 1: a horrible person, not the asshole. He gave you no choice.
- 35:00Speaker 1: I'm sorry this is how your post partum period has
- 35:03Speaker 1: turned out to be. You and your baby deserve better.
- 35:06Speaker 1: Absolutely agree. Yeah, that's such a good point not to
- 35:08Speaker 1: go back there, because then you're just isolated again and
- 35:11Speaker 1: anything can happen and then you're stuck. You just need
- 35:13Speaker 1: to be with your with your family. Another comment says,
- 35:16Speaker 1: by the way, do these people not realize that it's
- 35:19Speaker 1: the sperm that determines the sex. No woman is going
- 35:22Speaker 1: to give him a girl. He's the one that determines gender. Yeah. True.
- 35:25Speaker 1: Comment under that says, yeah, my mother in law doesn't know.
- 35:27Speaker 1: I told her that months ago, before I even knew
- 35:29Speaker 1: the gender of my own baby. Her husband only gave
- 35:32Speaker 1: her boys, and so far both her kids only had
- 35:35Speaker 1: boys themselves. But she doesn't get it. What just a mean, evil,
- 35:38Speaker 1: witchy bitch. I don't like that woman at all. I
- 35:41Speaker 1: hope I hope her pillow is forever steaming hot, and
- 35:46Speaker 1: I hope her coffee is always lukewarm. I hope her
- 35:50Speaker 1: water always tastes like metal. I hope all her clothes
- 35:53Speaker 1: are always a bit itchy, and I hope her TV
- 35:56Speaker 1: never works. Let me know you guys, think anybody else
- 35:59Speaker 1: have monster in life out there? Do you have any
- 36:00Speaker 1: stories you can tell me in the comments. I always
- 36:02Speaker 1: read the comments. Please let me know. But yeah, that's
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- 36:08Speaker 1: like the video. It always helps out the channel and
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