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106. I Published a Book (And it Almost Made Me Throw Up) · Burning Brightly

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  Hello
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  my
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  friends.
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  I
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  want
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  to
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  tell
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  you
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  something
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  that
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  I
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  find
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  super
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  fascinating
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  and
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  honestly
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  a
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  little
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  bit
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  embarrassing,
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  but
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  I
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  think
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  it's
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  gonna
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  give
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  you
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  some
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  insight
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  into
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  how
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  your
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  brain
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  works
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  in
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  your
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  business.
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  So
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  a
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  few
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  weeks
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  ago
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  I
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  sat
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  down
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  to
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  send
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  an
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  email.
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  I
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  wasn't
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  pitching
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  anything.
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  I
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  wasn't
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  selling
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  anything.
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  It
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  was
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  an
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  email
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  to
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  a
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  handful
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  of
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  close
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  friends
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  and
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  a
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  few
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  strangers
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  who
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  had
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  expressed
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  interest,
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  and
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  I
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  asked
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  them
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  if
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  they
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  would
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  be
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  willing
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  to
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  read
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  something
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  I
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  had
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  written.
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  That's
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  it.
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  That
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  was
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  the
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  whole
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  email.
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  Will
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  you
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  read
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  this
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  thing?
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  And
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  my
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  nervous
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  system
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  absolutely
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  lost
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  its
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  mind.
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  I
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  had
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  sweaty
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  palms.
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  My
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  heart
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  was
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  pounding.
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  I
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  read
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  some
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  of
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  the
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  email
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  like
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  17
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  times
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  because
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  my
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  brain
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  would
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  not
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  click
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  send.
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  I
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  felt
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  like
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  I
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  was
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  about
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  to
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  do
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  something
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  genuinely
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  dangerous,
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  like
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  step
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  off
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  a
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  cliff.
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  And
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  the
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  rational
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  part
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  of
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  my
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  brain
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  was
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  like,
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  Bonnie,
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  it's
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  an
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  email.
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  Just
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  click
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  send
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  You
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  know,
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  most
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  of
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  these
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  people,
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  what's
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  the
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  big
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  deal?
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  And
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  yet
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  my
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  body
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  did
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  not
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  feel
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  that
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  way.
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  So
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  we're
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  gonna
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  talk
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  a
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  little
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  bit
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  more
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  about
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  this
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  today
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  'cause
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  this
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  moment
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  taught
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  me
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  something
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  very
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  important
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  about
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  what
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  it
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  feels
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  like
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  to
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  be
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  called
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  to
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  do
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  something
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  scary,
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  but
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  know
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  that
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  it's
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  the
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  right
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  decision
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  for,
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  you
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  know,
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  that
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  it
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  is
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  a
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  higher
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  call,
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  I
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  think.
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  A
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  lot
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  of
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  you
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  have
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  experienced
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  this
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  before,
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  or
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  maybe
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  you're
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  in
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  it
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  right
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  now
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  standing
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  at
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  the
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  edge
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  of
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  something
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  that
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  feels
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  so
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  much
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  bigger
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  than
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  you
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  and
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  so
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  scary.
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  Wondering
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  if
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  that
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  nausea
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  in
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  your
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  stomach
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  means
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  that
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  you
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  should
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  stop
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  or
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  you
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  should
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  keep
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  going.
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  This
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  is
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  Burning
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  Brightly,
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  a
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  podcast
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  for
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  Christian
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  moms
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  who
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  are
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  feeling
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  called
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  to
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  build
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  a
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  business
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  and
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  share
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  their
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  light
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  with
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  the
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  world.
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  I'm
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  Bonnie
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  Wescomb,
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  a
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  life
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  coach,
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  mom
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  and
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  entrepreneur,
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  and
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  I'm
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  honored
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  to
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  be
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  your
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  guide
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  as
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  you
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  face
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  this
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  business
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  building
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  adventure
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  full
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  of
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  highs,
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  lows.
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  And
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  everything
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  in
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  between.
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  This
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  is
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  where
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  we
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  help
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  each
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  other
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  find
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  the
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  courage
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  to
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  shine.
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  Guess
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  what?
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  My
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  friends,
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  my
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  book
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  is
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  live.
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  Oh
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  my
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  gosh,
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  I
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  can't
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  even
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  believe
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  I
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  can
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  say
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  that
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  out
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  loud.
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  I
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  kind
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  of
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  wanna
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  squeal.
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  I
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  kind
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  of
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  wanna
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  vomit.
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  It
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  feels
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  awkward
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  and
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  wonderful.
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  And
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  all
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  the
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  emotions.
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  Seriously.
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  All
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  the
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  emotions.
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  I
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  told
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  you
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  about
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  it
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  a
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  little
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  bit
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  a
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  few
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  weeks
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  ago.
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  It's
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  called
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  Burning
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  Brightly.
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  Same
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  as
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  this
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  podcast,
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  and
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  it
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  is
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  for
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  LDS
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  women,
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  really
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  any
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  woman
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  of
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  faith
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  who
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  feels
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  that
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  quiet,
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  persistent.
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  Call
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  to
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  build
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  something,
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  not
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  to
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  take
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  away
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  from
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  their
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  family
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  or
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  their
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  faith,
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  but
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  something
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  that
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  is
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  going
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  to
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  make
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  them
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  a
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  better
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  person
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  and
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  going
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  to
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  put
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  good
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  out
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  into
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  the
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  world.
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  I
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  wrote
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  this
• 2:20
  book
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  because
• 2:21
  I
• 2:21
  believe
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  with
• 2:22
  everything
• 2:23
  in
• 2:23
  me.
• 2:24
  That
• 2:24
  God
• 2:24
  is
• 2:25
  specifically
• 2:25
  calling
• 2:26
  Covenant,
• 2:26
  keeping
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  women
• 2:27
  into
• 2:28
  business
• 2:28
  right
• 2:28
  now
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  it
• 2:29
  is
• 2:29
  a
• 2:29
  movement
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  and
• 2:30
  I
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  see
• 2:31
  it.
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  I'm
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  really
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  lucky
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  because
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  I
• 2:33
  get
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  to
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  talk
• 2:33
  to
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  a
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  lot
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  of
• 2:34
  women
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  like
• 2:34
  this
• 2:34
  over
• 2:34
  and
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  over
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  and
• 2:35
  over.
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  So
• 2:35
  I
• 2:35
  see
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  it
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  probably
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  easier
• 2:38
  and
• 2:38
  maybe
• 2:38
  better
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  than
• 2:39
  those
• 2:40
  of
• 2:40
  you
• 2:40
  who
• 2:40
  might
• 2:40
  feel
• 2:40
  a
• 2:40
  little
• 2:40
  isolated
• 2:41
  in
• 2:41
  your
• 2:41
  business
• 2:41
  building.
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  But
• 2:44
  it's
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  happening.
• 2:45
  It
• 2:45
  is
• 2:45
  totally
• 2:45
  happening,
• 2:46
  and
• 2:46
  it
• 2:46
  is.
• 2:46
  Phenomenal
• 2:47
  to
• 2:47
  watch,
• 2:48
  but
• 2:48
  a
• 2:49
  lot
• 2:49
  of
• 2:49
  these
• 2:49
  women
• 2:49
  are
• 2:50
  kind
• 2:50
  of
• 2:50
  sitting
• 2:50
  stuck
• 2:51
  in
• 2:51
  this
• 2:51
  place
• 2:52
  wondering
• 2:53
  if
• 2:53
  this
• 2:53
  call
• 2:53
  is
• 2:54
  okay
• 2:54
  to
• 2:54
  move
• 2:54
  forward
• 2:55
  with.
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  Or
• 2:56
  maybe
• 2:56
  they've
• 2:56
  already
• 2:56
  moved
• 2:57
  forward,
• 2:57
  but
• 2:57
  they're
• 2:57
  like,
• 2:58
  ah,
• 2:58
  does
• 2:58
  this
• 2:58
  really
• 2:58
  fit
• 2:59
  in
• 2:59
  with
• 2:59
  the
• 2:59
  life
• 2:59
  that
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  I
• 3:00
  really
• 3:00
  wanna
• 3:00
  build?
• 3:00
  Is
• 3:01
  it
• 3:01
  really
• 3:01
  in
• 3:01
  keeping
• 3:01
  with
• 3:02
  my
• 3:02
  deeper
• 3:02
  values?
• 3:03
  They're
• 3:03
  not
• 3:03
  sure
• 3:03
  if
• 3:04
  it
• 3:04
  fits,
• 3:05
  they're
• 3:05
  not
• 3:05
  sure,
• 3:06
  even
• 3:06
  if
• 3:06
  they're
• 3:06
  allowed
• 3:07
  to
• 3:07
  want
• 3:07
  it
• 3:08
  with
• 3:08
  the
• 3:08
  money
• 3:09
  and
• 3:09
  the
• 3:10
  visibility
• 3:11
  and.
• 3:12
  The
• 3:12
  ambition.
• 3:13
  All
• 3:13
  of
• 3:13
  that
• 3:14
  feels
• 3:14
  a
• 3:14
  little
• 3:14
  bit
• 3:15
  unfamiliar
• 3:16
  and
• 3:16
  a
• 3:16
  little
• 3:16
  uncomfortable,
• 3:17
  and
• 3:17
  so
• 3:17
  that
• 3:17
  is
• 3:18
  why
• 3:18
  I
• 3:18
  wrote
• 3:18
  this
• 3:18
  book.
• 3:19
  This
• 3:19
  book
• 3:19
  says,
• 3:20
  yes,
• 3:21
  you
• 3:21
  are
• 3:22
  allowed
• 3:22
  and
• 3:23
  this
• 3:23
  is
• 3:23
  why.
• 3:24
  So
• 3:24
  it
• 3:25
  is
• 3:25
  available
• 3:25
  right
• 3:26
  now
• 3:26
  on
• 3:26
  Kindle.
• 3:26
  I'm
• 3:27
  kind
• 3:27
  of
• 3:27
  freaking
• 3:27
  out.
• 3:28
  I'll
• 3:28
  put
• 3:28
  the
• 3:28
  link
• 3:29
  in
• 3:29
  the
• 3:29
  show
• 3:29
  notes
• 3:29
  and
• 3:29
  it's
• 3:30
  only
• 3:30
  99
• 3:30
  cents
• 3:31
  for
• 3:31
  just
• 3:31
  a
• 3:31
  few
• 3:31
  days.
• 3:32
  So
• 3:32
  if
• 3:32
  it
• 3:33
  sounds
• 3:33
  interesting
• 3:33
  to
• 3:33
  you
• 3:33
  at
• 3:34
  all,
• 3:34
  or
• 3:34
  you
• 3:34
  know
• 3:35
  anyone
• 3:35
  who
• 3:35
  might
• 3:35
  be
• 3:35
  interested
• 3:36
  in
• 3:36
  it,
• 3:36
  please
• 3:36
  send
• 3:36
  them
• 3:36
  a
• 3:36
  link.
• 3:37
  Go
• 3:38
  buy
• 3:38
  it
• 3:38
  for.
• 3:38
  Less
• 3:39
  than
• 3:39
  a
• 3:39
  soda.
• 3:40
  Now
• 3:40
  is
• 3:40
  the
• 3:40
  time,
• 3:41
  'cause
• 3:41
  it's
• 3:41
  gonna
• 3:41
  go
• 3:41
  up
• 3:41
  in
• 3:41
  just
• 3:41
  a
• 3:41
  few
• 3:41
  days.
• 3:42
  But
• 3:43
  I
• 3:43
  don't
• 3:43
  wanna
• 3:43
  sell
• 3:43
  you
• 3:44
  a
• 3:44
  book
• 3:44
  today.
• 3:44
  I
• 3:44
  actually
• 3:45
  wanna
• 3:45
  talk
• 3:45
  to
• 3:45
  you
• 3:45
  about
• 3:46
  some
• 3:46
  of
• 3:46
  the
• 3:46
  behind
• 3:46
  the
• 3:46
  scenes
• 3:47
  of
• 3:47
  writing
• 3:47
  it
• 3:47
  because
• 3:48
  understanding
• 3:48
  this
• 3:48
  is
• 3:48
  going
• 3:49
  to
• 3:49
  matter
• 3:49
  to
• 3:49
  whatever.
• 3:50
  That
• 3:51
  scary
• 3:51
  thing
• 3:51
  is
• 3:51
  that
• 3:51
  is
• 3:52
  sitting
• 3:52
  in
• 3:52
  front
• 3:52
  of
• 3:52
  you.
• 3:52
  Maybe
• 3:53
  it's
• 3:53
  also
• 3:53
  writing
• 3:53
  a
• 3:53
  book.
• 3:54
  Maybe
• 3:54
  it's
• 3:54
  launching
• 3:54
  a
• 3:54
  podcast.
• 3:55
  Maybe
• 3:55
  it's
• 3:55
  just
• 3:55
  telling
• 3:55
  people
• 3:56
  you're
• 3:56
  thinking
• 3:56
  about
• 3:56
  a
• 3:56
  business.
• 3:58
  Maybe
• 3:58
  it's
• 3:58
  starting
• 3:58
  a
• 3:58
  nonprofit,
• 3:59
  whatever
• 3:59
  that
• 4:00
  thing
• 4:00
  is.
• 4:01
  We
• 4:01
  all
• 4:01
  go
• 4:01
  through
• 4:02
  some
• 4:02
  of
• 4:02
  the
• 4:02
  same
• 4:03
  emotions.
• 4:04
  All
• 4:04
  right,
• 4:04
  so
• 4:04
  let's
• 4:04
  go
• 4:04
  back
• 4:05
  to
• 4:05
  the
• 4:05
  email
• 4:05
  that
• 4:05
  I
• 4:05
  started
• 4:05
  this
• 4:06
  podcast
• 4:06
  with.
• 4:07
  I
• 4:07
  have
• 4:07
  been
• 4:07
  a
• 4:07
  coach
• 4:07
  for
• 4:07
  years.
• 4:08
  I
• 4:08
  understand
• 4:09
  the
• 4:09
  motivational
• 4:09
  triad.
• 4:10
  I've
• 4:10
  taught
• 4:10
  it
• 4:10
  to
• 4:10
  you
• 4:10
  guys
• 4:10
  before.
• 4:11
  I
• 4:12
  know
• 4:12
  intellectually
• 4:13
  that
• 4:14
  our
• 4:14
  primitive
• 4:14
  brain
• 4:15
  is
• 4:15
  wired
• 4:15
  to
• 4:15
  keep
• 4:15
  us
• 4:16
  safe.
• 4:16
  It
• 4:16
  wants
• 4:17
  to
• 4:17
  avoid
• 4:17
  danger,
• 4:18
  to
• 4:18
  seek
• 4:18
  pleasure
• 4:19
  to
• 4:19
  conserve
• 4:19
  energy.
• 4:20
  I
• 4:20
  have
• 4:20
  taught
• 4:21
  this
• 4:21
  concept
• 4:21
  tons
• 4:22
  of
• 4:22
  times.
• 4:23
  I
• 4:23
  know
• 4:24
  that
• 4:24
  when
• 4:24
  we
• 4:24
  try
• 4:24
  to
• 4:25
  do
• 4:25
  something
• 4:25
  new
• 4:25
  or
• 4:25
  vulnerable,
• 4:26
  our
• 4:26
  brain
• 4:27
  lights
• 4:27
  up
• 4:27
  with
• 4:28
  all
• 4:28
  these
• 4:28
  threat
• 4:29
  signals,
• 4:30
  even
• 4:31
  when
• 4:31
  the
• 4:31
  thing
• 4:31
  we're
• 4:31
  doing
• 4:31
  is
• 4:32
  perfectly
• 4:32
  safe.
• 4:33
  I
• 4:33
  know
• 4:33
  all
• 4:33
  of
• 4:34
  this
• 4:34
  cognitively,
• 4:36
  and
• 4:36
  yet
• 4:37
  my
• 4:37
  brain
• 4:38
  went
• 4:38
  into
• 4:38
  full
• 4:39
  blown
• 4:39
  panic
• 4:40
  mode
• 4:40
  over
• 4:40
  an
• 4:40
  email
• 4:41
  to
• 4:41
  some
• 4:41
  friends.
• 4:42
  So
• 4:43
  what
• 4:43
  was
• 4:43
  so
• 4:43
  fascinating
• 4:44
  to
• 4:44
  me,
• 4:44
  once
• 4:44
  I.
• 4:45
  Calmed
• 4:45
  down
• 4:45
  a
• 4:45
  little
• 4:45
  bit
• 4:46
  was
• 4:46
  how
• 4:47
  perfectly
• 4:47
  my
• 4:48
  own
• 4:48
  primitive
• 4:48
  brain
• 4:48
  was
• 4:49
  running
• 4:49
  the
• 4:49
  programming
• 4:50
  it
• 4:50
  had,
• 4:50
  I
• 4:50
  could
• 4:51
  not
• 4:51
  outthink
• 4:51
  it.
• 4:52
  The
• 4:52
  important
• 4:53
  thing
• 4:53
  to
• 4:53
  remember
• 4:53
  about
• 4:53
  that
• 4:54
  primitive
• 4:54
  brain
• 4:54
  is
• 4:54
  it
• 4:55
  does
• 4:55
  not
• 4:55
  care
• 4:56
  whether
• 4:56
  something
• 4:56
  is
• 4:56
  actually
• 4:57
  dangerous.
• 4:58
  It
• 4:58
  only
• 4:58
  cares
• 4:59
  whether
• 4:59
  it
• 4:59
  feels
• 5:00
  dangerous.
• 5:01
  And
• 5:01
  putting
• 5:01
  my
• 5:01
  writing,
• 5:02
  including
• 5:02
  some
• 5:02
  personal
• 5:03
  stories
• 5:03
  and
• 5:03
  some
• 5:03
  vulnerable
• 5:04
  things
• 5:05
  in
• 5:05
  front
• 5:05
  of
• 5:05
  people
• 5:05
  I
• 5:05
  respect
• 5:06
  and
• 5:06
  love
• 5:06
  people
• 5:07
  whose
• 5:07
  opinions
• 5:07
  I
• 5:07
  care
• 5:08
  about.
• 5:09
  People
• 5:09
  that
• 5:09
  I
• 5:09
  know
• 5:10
  in
• 5:10
  real
• 5:11
  life
• 5:11
  I
• 5:11
  might
• 5:11
  see
• 5:12
  at
• 5:12
  the
• 5:12
  store
• 5:12
  at
• 5:12
  church
• 5:13
  felt
• 5:13
  dangerous
• 5:14
  to
• 5:14
  my
• 5:14
  brain.
• 5:15
  It
• 5:15
  felt
• 5:15
  deeply,
• 5:16
  physically
• 5:17
  dangerous
• 5:18
  because
• 5:18
  if
• 5:18
  these
• 5:19
  people
• 5:19
  didn't
• 5:19
  like
• 5:19
  it,
• 5:20
  that
• 5:20
  would
• 5:20
  mean
• 5:20
  something.
• 5:21
  Right?
• 5:21
  What
• 5:21
  would
• 5:21
  it
• 5:21
  mean?
• 5:22
  Well,
• 5:22
  I
• 5:22
  don't
• 5:22
  know.
• 5:23
  Maybe
• 5:24
  that
• 5:24
  my.
• 5:25
  Stories
• 5:25
  were
• 5:25
  foolish.
• 5:26
  I,
• 5:26
  I
• 5:26
  tell
• 5:27
  a
• 5:27
  lot
• 5:27
  of
• 5:27
  stories
• 5:27
  of
• 5:27
  failure
• 5:28
  in
• 5:28
  this
• 5:28
  book.
• 5:28
  Maybe
• 5:29
  they
• 5:29
  would
• 5:29
  make
• 5:29
  fun
• 5:29
  of
• 5:29
  those.
• 5:30
  Maybe
• 5:31
  they
• 5:31
  wouldn't
• 5:31
  like
• 5:31
  my
• 5:31
  writing
• 5:32
  and
• 5:32
  writing
• 5:32
  is
• 5:33
  a
• 5:33
  pretty
• 5:33
  vulnerable
• 5:34
  thing,
• 5:34
  I
• 5:34
  think
• 5:35
  even
• 5:35
  more
• 5:35
  so
• 5:35
  than
• 5:36
  the
• 5:36
  spoken
• 5:36
  word,
• 5:36
  because
• 5:37
  we
• 5:37
  all
• 5:37
  make
• 5:37
  mistakes
• 5:38
  as
• 5:38
  we
• 5:38
  talk.
• 5:38
  But
• 5:38
  writing
• 5:38
  should
• 5:39
  be
• 5:39
  polished,
• 5:39
  right?
• 5:39
  It
• 5:39
  should
• 5:39
  be
• 5:40
  professional.
• 5:41
  It
• 5:41
  should
• 5:41
  sound
• 5:42
  like
• 5:42
  I
• 5:42
  have
• 5:42
  a
• 5:42
  college
• 5:42
  degree.
• 5:44
  My
• 5:44
  brain
• 5:44
  might
• 5:44
  tell
• 5:45
  me
• 5:45
  that
• 5:45
  they're
• 5:45
  gonna
• 5:45
  start
• 5:46
  looking
• 5:46
  down
• 5:46
  on
• 5:46
  me
• 5:46
  because
• 5:47
  I've
• 5:47
  done
• 5:47
  this
• 5:47
  thing
• 5:47
  and
• 5:48
  maybe
• 5:48
  I
• 5:48
  didn't
• 5:48
  do
• 5:48
  it
• 5:48
  well
• 5:49
  enough
• 5:49
  for
• 5:49
  them
• 5:50
  to
• 5:50
  value
• 5:50
  it.
• 5:50
  Right?
• 5:51
  So
• 5:51
  many
• 5:51
  things.
• 5:53
  But
• 5:53
  here's
• 5:53
  the
• 5:53
  thing.
• 5:53
  That
• 5:53
  is
• 5:54
  the
• 5:54
  trap
• 5:54
  of
• 5:54
  the
• 5:54
  permitted
• 5:55
  brain.
• 5:55
  By
• 5:55
  the
• 5:55
  way.
• 5:55
  It's
• 5:56
  not
• 5:56
  the
• 5:56
  vulnerability
• 5:56
  itself,
• 5:57
  it
• 5:58
  is
• 5:58
  the
• 5:58
  meaning
• 5:59
  that
• 5:59
  we
• 5:59
  assign
• 5:59
  to
• 6:00
  this
• 6:00
  made
• 6:00
  up
• 6:00
  response.
• 6:01
  So
• 6:02
  let
• 6:02
  me
• 6:02
  explain
• 6:02
  what
• 6:02
  I
• 6:02
  mean
• 6:02
  by
• 6:03
  that.
• 6:03
  It's
• 6:04
  not
• 6:04
  putting
• 6:04
  ourselves
• 6:05
  out
• 6:05
  there,
• 6:05
  that
• 6:05
  is
• 6:05
  the
• 6:05
  scary
• 6:06
  thing.
• 6:06
  It
• 6:06
  is
• 6:06
  what
• 6:07
  our
• 6:07
  brain
• 6:07
  anticipates
• 6:08
  people
• 6:08
  are
• 6:08
  gonna
• 6:08
  say
• 6:08
  about
• 6:09
  it
• 6:09
  or
• 6:09
  what
• 6:09
  it's
• 6:10
  going
• 6:10
  to
• 6:10
  mean
• 6:10
  if
• 6:11
  people
• 6:11
  don't
• 6:11
  like
• 6:12
  it.
• 6:12
  That
• 6:13
  is
• 6:13
  where
• 6:13
  we
• 6:13
  panic.
• 6:14
  So
• 6:15
  I
• 6:15
  was
• 6:16
  actually
• 6:16
  cognizant
• 6:17
  enough
• 6:17
  of
• 6:17
  my
• 6:17
  body's
• 6:17
  reaction
• 6:18
  that
• 6:18
  I
• 6:18
  wanted
• 6:18
  to
• 6:18
  sit
• 6:19
  with
• 6:19
  it
• 6:19
  for
• 6:19
  a
• 6:19
  minute
• 6:19
  and
• 6:19
  just
• 6:20
  kind
• 6:20
  of
• 6:20
  pay
• 6:20
  attention
• 6:20
  to
• 6:20
  what
• 6:21
  was
• 6:21
  happening.
• 6:22
  Remember,
• 6:22
  the
• 6:22
  nervous
• 6:23
  system
• 6:24
  gets
• 6:24
  triggered
• 6:24
  before
• 6:25
  cognitive
• 6:25
  thought
• 6:26
  comes
• 6:26
  online,
• 6:26
  right?
• 6:26
  So
• 6:27
  we
• 6:27
  can't
• 6:27
  outthink
• 6:28
  a
• 6:28
  nervous
• 6:28
  system,
• 6:28
  panic.
• 6:30
  We
• 6:30
  can
• 6:30
  try
• 6:30
  to
• 6:30
  calm
• 6:30
  ourselves
• 6:31
  down
• 6:31
  after
• 6:31
  it
• 6:31
  happens,
• 6:32
  but
• 6:32
  I
• 6:32
  had
• 6:33
  to
• 6:33
  walk
• 6:33
  myself
• 6:34
  through
• 6:34
  this
• 6:34
  like,
• 6:34
  okay.
• 6:35
  I
• 6:35
  am
• 6:35
  feeling
• 6:36
  a
• 6:36
  very,
• 6:37
  very
• 6:37
  activated
• 6:37
  nervous
• 6:38
  system
• 6:38
  right
• 6:38
  now.
• 6:39
  Why,
• 6:39
  what
• 6:39
  is
• 6:40
  my
• 6:40
  brain
• 6:40
  actually
• 6:40
  afraid
• 6:41
  of?
• 6:41
  And
• 6:42
  of
• 6:42
  course
• 6:43
  the
• 6:43
  answer
• 6:43
  was
• 6:44
  that
• 6:44
  I
• 6:44
  was
• 6:44
  afraid
• 6:44
  that
• 6:44
  if
• 6:45
  people
• 6:45
  I
• 6:45
  loved
• 6:46
  or
• 6:46
  respected
• 6:46
  read
• 6:46
  this
• 6:47
  and
• 6:47
  didn't
• 6:47
  love
• 6:47
  it
• 6:47
  back,
• 6:47
  it
• 6:48
  means
• 6:48
  maybe
• 6:48
  I
• 6:48
  shouldn't
• 6:49
  have
• 6:49
  written
• 6:49
  it.
• 6:49
  Maybe
• 6:50
  I'm
• 6:50
  a
• 6:50
  failure.
• 6:51
  Maybe
• 6:51
  I
• 6:51
  was
• 6:51
  wrong
• 6:52
  about
• 6:53
  what
• 6:53
  I
• 6:53
  felt
• 6:53
  inspired
• 6:53
  to
• 6:53
  do.
• 6:54
  It
• 6:54
  means
• 6:54
  maybe
• 6:54
  I
• 6:55
  put
• 6:55
  myself
• 6:55
  out
• 6:55
  there
• 6:55
  and
• 6:55
  embarrassed
• 6:56
  myself
• 6:56
  for
• 6:56
  nothing.
• 6:57
  All
• 6:58
  of
• 6:58
  those
• 6:58
  would've.
• 6:59
  Justif,
• 6:59
  all
• 7:00
  of
• 7:00
  those
• 7:00
  thoughts
• 7:01
  would've
• 7:01
  justified
• 7:01
  some
• 7:02
  serious
• 7:02
  suffering,
• 7:03
  right?
• 7:03
  And
• 7:04
  that
• 7:04
  is
• 7:04
  what
• 7:04
  our
• 7:05
  primitive
• 7:05
  brain
• 7:05
  does.
• 7:05
  It
• 7:06
  takes
• 7:06
  the
• 7:06
  risk
• 7:07
  of
• 7:07
  someone
• 7:07
  truly
• 7:08
  knowing
• 7:08
  who
• 7:08
  you
• 7:08
  are
• 7:09
  at
• 7:09
  your
• 7:09
  core,
• 7:09
  which
• 7:10
  by
• 7:10
  the
• 7:10
  way,
• 7:11
  is
• 7:11
  one
• 7:11
  of
• 7:11
  the
• 7:12
  most
• 7:12
  connecting
• 7:13
  human,
• 7:14
  sacred
• 7:15
  things
• 7:15
  we
• 7:15
  can
• 7:15
  do,
• 7:16
  and
• 7:16
  it
• 7:16
  frames
• 7:17
  it
• 7:17
  as
• 7:17
  a
• 7:17
  threat.
• 7:18
  This
• 7:19
  is
• 7:19
  why
• 7:19
  relationships
• 7:19
  are
• 7:20
  so
• 7:20
  tricky,
• 7:20
  right?
• 7:20
  Especially
• 7:21
  the
• 7:21
  very,
• 7:21
  very
• 7:21
  intimate
• 7:22
  relationships
• 7:23
  because
• 7:23
  you
• 7:23
  are
• 7:23
  stepping
• 7:24
  into
• 7:24
  a
• 7:24
  place
• 7:24
  where
• 7:24
  you
• 7:26
  want
• 7:26
  to
• 7:26
  be
• 7:26
  fully
• 7:27
  known
• 7:27
  by
• 7:27
  this
• 7:27
  other
• 7:27
  person,
• 7:28
  and
• 7:28
  you
• 7:28
  want
• 7:28
  to
• 7:28
  fully
• 7:28
  know
• 7:28
  that
• 7:29
  other
• 7:29
  person.
• 7:29
  And
• 7:30
  when
• 7:30
  you
• 7:30
  are
• 7:31
  rejected,
• 7:32
  that
• 7:32
  is
• 7:32
  one
• 7:32
  of
• 7:32
  the
• 7:32
  most
• 7:33
  hurtful,
• 7:34
  devastating,
• 7:34
  traumatic
• 7:35
  events
• 7:35
  that
• 7:35
  can
• 7:35
  happen
• 7:36
  to
• 7:36
  you.
• 7:37
  The
• 7:37
  loss
• 7:37
  of
• 7:37
  a
• 7:38
  parent,
• 7:38
  the
• 7:38
  loss
• 7:38
  of
• 7:38
  a
• 7:38
  spouse,
• 7:39
  or
• 7:39
  someone
• 7:39
  very
• 7:39
  close
• 7:40
  to
• 7:40
  you,
• 7:40
  right?
• 7:40
  Because
• 7:41
  you
• 7:41
  have
• 7:41
  opened
• 7:41
  yourself
• 7:42
  up
• 7:42
  to
• 7:42
  being
• 7:42
  known
• 7:43
  in
• 7:43
  a
• 7:43
  way
• 7:43
  that
• 7:43
  maybe
• 7:44
  very
• 7:45
  few
• 7:45
  people
• 7:45
  have
• 7:45
  ever
• 7:45
  done.
• 7:47
  So
• 7:47
  let's
• 7:47
  talk
• 7:47
  about
• 7:47
  this
• 7:48
  for
• 7:48
  a
• 7:48
  second.
• 7:48
  From
• 7:48
  a
• 7:49
  spiritual
• 7:49
  perspective.
• 7:51
  I
• 7:51
  personally
• 7:51
  did
• 7:52
  not
• 7:52
  decide
• 7:52
  to
• 7:52
  write
• 7:52
  this
• 7:53
  book.
• 7:53
  I
• 7:53
  mean,
• 7:53
  not
• 7:53
  really.
• 7:54
  I
• 7:54
  did
• 7:54
  sit
• 7:54
  down
• 7:55
  and
• 7:55
  do
• 7:55
  the
• 7:55
  work.
• 7:56
  I
• 7:56
  sat
• 7:56
  at
• 7:56
  my
• 7:56
  computer
• 7:57
  and.
• 7:57
  Churned
• 7:58
  out
• 7:58
  the
• 7:58
  word
• 7:58
  count,
• 7:59
  but
• 7:59
  the
• 7:59
  idea
• 8:00
  of
• 8:00
  it,
• 8:00
  the
• 8:00
  timing
• 8:01
  of
• 8:01
  it,
• 8:01
  the
• 8:01
  specific
• 8:01
  message,
• 8:02
  all
• 8:03
  of
• 8:03
  that
• 8:03
  I
• 8:03
  felt
• 8:03
  were
• 8:03
  given
• 8:04
  to
• 8:04
  me.
• 8:05
  But
• 8:05
  like
• 8:05
  a
• 8:05
  lot
• 8:05
  of
• 8:06
  the
• 8:06
  things
• 8:06
  that
• 8:06
  we're
• 8:06
  asked
• 8:07
  to
• 8:07
  do
• 8:08
  divinely
• 8:08
  inspired
• 8:08
  to
• 8:08
  do,
• 8:09
  it
• 8:09
  didn't
• 8:09
  come
• 8:10
  like
• 8:10
  a
• 8:10
  lightning
• 8:10
  bolt.
• 8:10
  It
• 8:11
  wasn't
• 8:11
  like,
• 8:11
  I'm
• 8:11
  gonna
• 8:11
  write
• 8:12
  this
• 8:12
  book,
• 8:12
  it's
• 8:12
  gonna
• 8:12
  be
• 8:12
  so
• 8:12
  amazing.
• 8:13
  It
• 8:13
  was
• 8:13
  just
• 8:14
  a
• 8:14
  thought,
• 8:14
  oh,
• 8:15
  writing
• 8:15
  a
• 8:15
  book
• 8:15
  could
• 8:15
  be
• 8:15
  cool.
• 8:16
  And
• 8:16
  then
• 8:16
  another
• 8:17
  thought,
• 8:17
  what
• 8:17
  would
• 8:17
  I
• 8:17
  even
• 8:17
  write
• 8:18
  about?
• 8:18
  Oh,
• 8:19
  well,
• 8:19
  I
• 8:19
  would
• 8:19
  talk
• 8:19
  about
• 8:20
  this
• 8:20
  movement
• 8:21
  that
• 8:21
  I'm
• 8:21
  seeing.
• 8:21
  I
• 8:21
  would
• 8:22
  talk
• 8:22
  about
• 8:22
  how
• 8:22
  these
• 8:22
  women
• 8:23
  are
• 8:23
  feeling
• 8:23
  called
• 8:24
  to
• 8:24
  do
• 8:24
  this
• 8:24
  thing
• 8:25
  and
• 8:25
  they're
• 8:25
  scared
• 8:26
  and,
• 8:26
  lonely
• 8:27
  and
• 8:27
  frustrated
• 8:28
  and
• 8:28
  overwhelmed,
• 8:29
  and
• 8:29
  how
• 8:30
  much
• 8:30
  I
• 8:30
  love
• 8:30
  to
• 8:30
  help
• 8:30
  them
• 8:31
  and
• 8:31
  how
• 8:31
  I
• 8:31
  feel
• 8:31
  that
• 8:31
  as
• 8:31
  well.
• 8:32
  Right?
• 8:32
  So
• 8:32
  just
• 8:33
  trickle
• 8:33
  by,
• 8:33
  trickle
• 8:33
  by
• 8:34
  small
• 8:34
  and
• 8:34
  simple
• 8:34
  things,
• 8:35
  just
• 8:35
  quiet
• 8:35
  little
• 8:36
  nudges
• 8:36
  and
• 8:36
  thoughts
• 8:37
  that
• 8:37
  kept
• 8:37
  coming.
• 8:38
  In
• 8:38
  fact,
• 8:38
  one
• 8:38
  of
• 8:38
  the
• 8:38
  coolest
• 8:39
  parts
• 8:40
  about
• 8:40
  writing
• 8:40
  this
• 8:40
  book,
• 8:40
  in
• 8:40
  fact,
• 8:41
  it
• 8:41
  was
• 8:41
  so
• 8:41
  cool.
• 8:42
  I
• 8:42
  mean,
• 8:42
  it
• 8:42
  makes
• 8:42
  me
• 8:42
  kind
• 8:43
  of
• 8:43
  wanna
• 8:43
  write
• 8:43
  a
• 8:43
  book
• 8:43
  again,
• 8:43
  but
• 8:44
  not,
• 8:44
  but
• 8:44
  not
• 8:44
  really.
• 8:46
  Was
• 8:46
  that
• 8:48
  thoughts
• 8:48
  would
• 8:48
  just
• 8:48
  come
• 8:49
  to
• 8:49
  me.
• 8:49
  The
• 8:50
  most
• 8:50
  annoying
• 8:50
  part
• 8:50
  is
• 8:51
  when
• 8:51
  you're
• 8:51
  laying
• 8:51
  in
• 8:51
  bed
• 8:51
  trying
• 8:51
  to
• 8:51
  go
• 8:52
  to
• 8:52
  sleep
• 8:52
  and
• 8:52
  just
• 8:53
  a
• 8:53
  scripture
• 8:53
  would
• 8:53
  pop
• 8:54
  into
• 8:54
  my
• 8:54
  head,
• 8:54
  or
• 8:55
  a
• 8:55
  thought
• 8:56
  would
• 8:56
  come
• 8:57
  to
• 8:57
  me
• 8:57
  from
• 8:57
  a
• 8:57
  conversation
• 8:57
  I
• 8:57
  had
• 8:58
  with
• 8:58
  a
• 8:58
  client
• 8:58
  or
• 8:58
  someone
• 8:59
  who
• 8:59
  was
• 8:59
  interested
• 8:59
  in
• 8:59
  building
• 8:59
  a
• 8:59
  business.
• 9:00
  And
• 9:00
  even
• 9:00
  if
• 9:00
  they
• 9:00
  were
• 9:00
  thoughts
• 9:01
  or
• 9:01
  scriptures
• 9:01
  that
• 9:01
  weren't
• 9:02
  directly
• 9:02
  tied
• 9:02
  to
• 9:02
  business.
• 9:04
  I
• 9:04
  believe
• 9:04
  the
• 9:04
  spirit
• 9:05
  showed
• 9:05
  me
• 9:05
  a
• 9:06
  way
• 9:06
  where
• 9:06
  they
• 9:06
  would
• 9:06
  apply
• 9:07
  and
• 9:07
  so
• 9:07
  I
• 9:07
  just
• 9:07
  jotted
• 9:08
  them
• 9:08
  down
• 9:08
  on
• 9:08
  my
• 9:08
  little
• 9:08
  note
• 9:08
  in
• 9:09
  my
• 9:09
  phone
• 9:09
  and
• 9:09
  plugged
• 9:10
  them
• 9:10
  into
• 9:10
  the
• 9:10
  book
• 9:10
  somewhere
• 9:10
  that
• 9:11
  made
• 9:11
  sense.
• 9:11
  So
• 9:11
  that
• 9:11
  was
• 9:12
  just
• 9:12
  so
• 9:12
  fun
• 9:12
  to
• 9:12
  just
• 9:13
  feel
• 9:13
  like
• 9:13
  this
• 9:13
  conduit
• 9:14
  open
• 9:14
  up
• 9:14
  and
• 9:15
  a
• 9:15
  lot
• 9:15
  of
• 9:15
  thoughts
• 9:15
  come
• 9:15
  to
• 9:16
  me.
• 9:16
  So
• 9:17
  that
• 9:17
  is
• 9:17
  one
• 9:17
  of
• 9:17
  the
• 9:17
  pros
• 9:18
  to
• 9:18
  saying
• 9:18
  yes
• 9:19
  to
• 9:19
  something
• 9:19
  that
• 9:19
  is
• 9:19
  scary
• 9:19
  because
• 9:20
  you
• 9:20
  get
• 9:21
  to
• 9:21
  be
• 9:21
  a
• 9:21
  co-creator
• 9:22
  with
• 9:22
  God,
• 9:22
  and
• 9:22
  that
• 9:23
  is
• 9:23
  a
• 9:23
  really,
• 9:24
  really,
• 9:24
  really
• 9:24
  cool
• 9:24
  experience.
• 9:25
  But
• 9:26
  it
• 9:26
  is
• 9:26
  not
• 9:27
  usually
• 9:28
  a
• 9:28
  comfortable
• 9:28
  experience.
• 9:30
  It
• 9:30
  is
• 9:30
  not
• 9:31
  often
• 9:32
  that
• 9:32
  God
• 9:33
  calls
• 9:33
  us
• 9:33
  to
• 9:33
  comfortable
• 9:34
  things.
• 9:34
  He
• 9:35
  is
• 9:35
  calling
• 9:35
  us
• 9:36
  to
• 9:36
  growth.
• 9:36
  He
• 9:36
  is
• 9:37
  calling
• 9:37
  us
• 9:37
  to.
• 9:38
  Improvement
• 9:39
  to
• 9:40
  leaning
• 9:40
  towards
• 9:40
  perfection,
• 9:41
  towards
• 9:41
  becoming
• 9:42
  more
• 9:42
  like
• 9:42
  him,
• 9:42
  right?
• 9:43
  Remember
• 9:43
  in
• 9:43
  the
• 9:43
  Book
• 9:43
  of
• 9:43
  Mormon,
• 9:44
  he
• 9:44
  called
• 9:44
  Nephi
• 9:44
  to
• 9:45
  build
• 9:45
  a
• 9:45
  boat,
• 9:47
  a
• 9:47
  boat.
• 9:49
  There
• 9:49
  was
• 9:49
  no
• 9:49
  Home
• 9:49
  Depot.
• 9:50
  There
• 9:50
  was
• 9:50
  no
• 9:50
  boat
• 9:51
  building
• 9:51
  YouTube
• 9:51
  videos.
• 9:52
  He
• 9:52
  called
• 9:53
  Esther
• 9:53
  to
• 9:53
  approach
• 9:54
  the
• 9:54
  scary
• 9:54
  king,
• 9:55
  and
• 9:55
  he
• 9:55
  called
• 9:56
  Joseph
• 9:56
  to
• 9:57
  become
• 9:57
  a
• 9:57
  slave
• 9:57
  and
• 9:57
  ended
• 9:58
  up
• 9:58
  in
• 9:58
  prison
• 9:58
  before
• 9:59
  he
• 9:59
  ever
• 9:59
  went
• 9:59
  to
• 9:59
  a
• 9:59
  palace.
• 10:01
  So
• 10:01
  these
• 10:01
  callings
• 10:02
  that
• 10:02
  we
• 10:02
  feel
• 10:04
  almost
• 10:04
  always
• 10:04
  come
• 10:05
  with
• 10:05
  some
• 10:05
  element
• 10:05
  of
• 10:06
  this
• 10:06
  is
• 10:06
  gonna
• 10:06
  feel
• 10:07
  pretty
• 10:07
  unsafe
• 10:07
  to
• 10:07
  you.
• 10:07
  You're
• 10:08
  gonna
• 10:08
  feel
• 10:08
  abandoned,
• 10:09
  you're
• 10:09
  gonna
• 10:09
  feel
• 10:10
  scared
• 10:10
  out
• 10:10
  of
• 10:10
  your
• 10:11
  mind,
• 10:11
  and
• 10:11
  you're
• 10:11
  gonna
• 10:12
  have
• 10:12
  to
• 10:12
  do
• 10:12
  it
• 10:12
  anyway.
• 10:12
  But
• 10:12
  I've
• 10:12
  got
• 10:13
  you.
• 10:13
  I
• 10:14
  think
• 10:14
  that's
• 10:14
  on
• 10:14
  purpose.
• 10:16
  Because
• 10:16
  the
• 10:16
  part
• 10:17
  of
• 10:17
  us
• 10:17
  that
• 10:17
  just
• 10:17
  wants
• 10:17
  to
• 10:17
  play
• 10:18
  it
• 10:18
  safe,
• 10:19
  the
• 10:19
  one
• 10:19
  that
• 10:19
  just
• 10:19
  wants
• 10:19
  to
• 10:20
  maybe
• 10:20
  like
• 10:21
  coach
• 10:21
  just
• 10:21
  the
• 10:21
  people
• 10:21
  we
• 10:22
  know
• 10:22
  or
• 10:23
  just
• 10:23
  through
• 10:23
  a
• 10:23
  referral
• 10:24
  and
• 10:24
  never
• 10:24
  really
• 10:24
  put
• 10:24
  anything
• 10:24
  out
• 10:25
  there
• 10:25
  publicly,
• 10:26
  never
• 10:27
  writes
• 10:27
  her
• 10:27
  thoughts
• 10:28
  or
• 10:28
  emotions
• 10:29
  down
• 10:29
  or
• 10:29
  records
• 10:30
  them
• 10:30
  and
• 10:30
  certainly
• 10:31
  never
• 10:31
  puts
• 10:31
  them
• 10:31
  out
• 10:31
  into
• 10:31
  the
• 10:31
  world.
• 10:32
  That
• 10:33
  person,
• 10:34
  that
• 10:34
  version
• 10:34
  of
• 10:34
  me
• 10:35
  is
• 10:35
  so
• 10:35
  calm,
• 10:36
  perfectly
• 10:37
  calm
• 10:37
  and
• 10:37
  steady
• 10:38
  nervous
• 10:38
  system,
• 10:39
  but
• 10:40
  also
• 10:40
  a
• 10:40
  much
• 10:41
  smaller
• 10:41
  sphere
• 10:42
  of
• 10:42
  influence.
• 10:43
  That
• 10:43
  version
• 10:43
  of
• 10:43
  me
• 10:44
  cannot
• 10:44
  change
• 10:44
  lives.
• 10:45
  She
• 10:46
  cannot
• 10:46
  grow
• 10:47
  to
• 10:47
  the
• 10:47
  extent
• 10:47
  that
• 10:48
  one
• 10:48
  who's
• 10:48
  willing
• 10:48
  to
• 10:49
  be
• 10:49
  vulnerable
• 10:49
  can
• 10:50
  so
• 10:51
  as
• 10:51
  much
• 10:51
  as
• 10:51
  we
• 10:52
  wish
• 10:52
  it
• 10:52
  were
• 10:52
  otherwise.
• 10:53
  Our
• 10:53
  father
• 10:53
  in
• 10:53
  heaven
• 10:54
  does
• 10:54
  not
• 10:54
  call
• 10:54
  us
• 10:54
  to
• 10:55
  calm
• 10:55
  things.
• 10:55
  He
• 10:55
  calls
• 10:56
  us
• 10:56
  to
• 10:56
  growth
• 10:57
  and
• 10:57
  growth.
• 10:58
  Requires
• 10:59
  going
• 10:59
  places
• 10:59
  we
• 11:00
  have
• 11:00
  never
• 11:00
  been
• 11:00
  before,
• 11:01
  which
• 11:01
  can
• 11:01
  be
• 11:01
  so
• 11:01
  exciting
• 11:02
  and
• 11:02
  so
• 11:02
  terrifying,
• 11:03
  and
• 11:03
  I
• 11:03
  think
• 11:03
  that's
• 11:03
  the
• 11:03
  way
• 11:04
  it's
• 11:04
  supposed
• 11:04
  to
• 11:04
  be.
• 11:05
  So
• 11:05
  here's
• 11:05
  what
• 11:05
  I
• 11:05
  want
• 11:05
  you
• 11:05
  to
• 11:05
  take
• 11:05
  away
• 11:06
  from
• 11:06
  this
• 11:06
  episode.
• 11:07
  Feeling
• 11:07
  sick
• 11:07
  to
• 11:07
  your
• 11:08
  stomach,
• 11:08
  and
• 11:08
  I'm,
• 11:08
  I
• 11:08
  mean,
• 11:09
  literally
• 11:09
  sick
• 11:09
  to
• 11:09
  my
• 11:09
  stomach.
• 11:10
  You
• 11:10
  guys,
• 11:10
  the
• 11:10
  last
• 11:11
  couple
• 11:11
  of
• 11:11
  times
• 11:11
  I've
• 11:11
  talked
• 11:12
  to
• 11:12
  a
• 11:12
  friend
• 11:12
  of
• 11:12
  mine
• 11:12
  about
• 11:12
  this
• 11:13
  book,
• 11:13
  I,
• 11:14
  I
• 11:14
  feel
• 11:14
  like
• 11:14
  a
• 11:15
  gag
• 11:15
  reflex.
• 11:16
  It
• 11:16
  sounds
• 11:17
  funny,
• 11:17
  but
• 11:17
  it's,
• 11:18
  it's
• 11:18
  not
• 11:18
  so
• 11:18
  funny
• 11:19
  because
• 11:20
  I
• 11:20
  don't
• 11:20
  like
• 11:20
  feeling
• 11:21
  that
• 11:21
  way.
• 11:21
  I
• 11:21
  want
• 11:22
  to
• 11:22
  feel
• 11:22
  calm
• 11:22
  and
• 11:22
  collected
• 11:23
  and
• 11:23
  so
• 11:23
  confident,
• 11:24
  but
• 11:24
  that.
• 11:25
  Isn't
• 11:25
  the
• 11:25
  case
• 11:26
  when
• 11:26
  you
• 11:26
  do
• 11:26
  scary
• 11:26
  things?
• 11:27
  It's
• 11:27
  been
• 11:27
  a
• 11:27
  long
• 11:27
  time
• 11:28
  actually,
• 11:28
  that
• 11:28
  I
• 11:28
  felt
• 11:29
  this
• 11:29
  viscerally
• 11:30
  uncomfortable
• 11:31
  doing
• 11:31
  something
• 11:31
  in
• 11:31
  my
• 11:32
  business
• 11:32
  and
• 11:32
  I'm
• 11:33
  here
• 11:33
  for
• 11:33
  it.
• 11:33
  Honestly.
• 11:34
  That's
• 11:34
  kind
• 11:34
  of
• 11:34
  one
• 11:34
  of
• 11:34
  my
• 11:34
  mantras
• 11:35
  I
• 11:35
  tell
• 11:35
  clients
• 11:36
  and
• 11:36
  people
• 11:36
  I
• 11:36
  work
• 11:36
  with
• 11:36
  all
• 11:36
  the
• 11:36
  time,
• 11:37
  like
• 11:37
  when's
• 11:37
  the
• 11:37
  last
• 11:37
  time
• 11:37
  you
• 11:38
  felt
• 11:38
  like
• 11:38
  you
• 11:38
  wanna
• 11:38
  vomit?
• 11:38
  Well,
• 11:39
  maybe
• 11:39
  it's
• 11:39
  time
• 11:39
  to
• 11:39
  do
• 11:39
  something
• 11:40
  scary
• 11:40
  again,
• 11:40
  right?
• 11:41
  So
• 11:41
  the
• 11:41
  sick
• 11:42
  feeling
• 11:43
  that
• 11:43
  nervous
• 11:43
  system
• 11:44
  activation
• 11:44
  does
• 11:45
  not
• 11:45
  necessarily
• 11:46
  mean
• 11:46
  to
• 11:46
  stop.
• 11:47
  Let
• 11:48
  me
• 11:48
  repeat
• 11:48
  that
• 11:48
  because
• 11:48
  sometimes
• 11:49
  really
• 11:49
  faithful,
• 11:50
  wonderful
• 11:50
  women
• 11:51
  misread
• 11:52
  this
• 11:52
  feeling
• 11:52
  because
• 11:52
  they,
• 11:53
  they
• 11:53
  wanna
• 11:53
  trust
• 11:53
  their
• 11:53
  gut,
• 11:54
  right?
• 11:54
  That's
• 11:54
  literally
• 11:55
  the
• 11:55
  words
• 11:55
  we
• 11:55
  use.
• 11:55
  Trust
• 11:56
  your
• 11:56
  gut,
• 11:56
  and
• 11:56
  if
• 11:56
  your
• 11:56
  gut
• 11:56
  is
• 11:57
  like
• 11:57
  sick
• 11:57
  or
• 11:57
  nauseous,
• 11:58
  you're
• 11:58
  thinking,
• 11:58
  oh,
• 11:59
  maybe
• 11:59
  this
• 11:59
  isn't
• 11:59
  the
• 11:59
  right
• 12:00
  choice,
• 12:01
  but
• 12:01
  it's
• 12:01
  just
• 12:01
  your
• 12:02
  primitive
• 12:02
  brain
• 12:02
  doing
• 12:03
  its
• 12:03
  job.
• 12:04
  It
• 12:04
  is
• 12:04
  not
• 12:04
  the
• 12:04
  spirit
• 12:05
  saying,
• 12:05
  stop.
• 12:05
  It
• 12:06
  is
• 12:06
  just
• 12:06
  your
• 12:06
  body
• 12:07
  activating
• 12:07
  and
• 12:07
  going,
• 12:08
  this
• 12:08
  feels
• 12:08
  scary.
• 12:08
  This
• 12:09
  feels
• 12:09
  scary.
• 12:10
  Am
• 12:10
  I
• 12:10
  gonna
• 12:10
  be
• 12:10
  in
• 12:10
  trouble?
• 12:11
  And
• 12:11
  your
• 12:11
  cognitive
• 12:11
  brain
• 12:12
  has
• 12:12
  to
• 12:12
  say,
• 12:12
  Nope.
• 12:13
  We
• 12:13
  are
• 12:13
  doing
• 12:14
  exactly
• 12:14
  what
• 12:14
  we're
• 12:14
  supposed
• 12:14
  to
• 12:14
  be
• 12:15
  doing.
• 12:15
  Now,
• 12:15
  sometimes
• 12:17
  we
• 12:17
  do
• 12:17
  get
• 12:17
  a
• 12:17
  spiritual
• 12:18
  confirmation
• 12:18
  that
• 12:18
  says,
• 12:18
  wait,
• 12:19
  hold
• 12:19
  up.
• 12:19
  Maybe
• 12:20
  this
• 12:20
  isn't
• 12:20
  the
• 12:20
  direction
• 12:20
  we
• 12:20
  want
• 12:21
  to
• 12:21
  go.
• 12:21
  Sometimes
• 12:21
  that
• 12:22
  happens.
• 12:23
  Sometimes
• 12:23
  we
• 12:24
  feel
• 12:24
  a
• 12:24
  prompting
• 12:24
  to
• 12:24
  wait
• 12:25
  or
• 12:25
  to
• 12:25
  change
• 12:26
  directions.
• 12:27
  Course
• 12:27
  correct
• 12:27
  or
• 12:27
  something.
• 12:28
  But
• 12:28
  God
• 12:29
  never
• 12:29
  operates
• 12:29
  outta
• 12:30
  fear.
• 12:31
  The
• 12:31
  vulnerability,
• 12:32
  the
• 12:32
  feeling
• 12:32
  of,
• 12:32
  oh,
• 12:32
  what
• 12:33
  if
• 12:33
  people
• 12:33
  don't
• 12:33
  like
• 12:33
  it?
• 12:34
  That's
• 12:35
  not
• 12:35
  inspired.
• 12:36
  That
• 12:36
  is
• 12:36
  just
• 12:37
  the
• 12:37
  natural
• 12:37
  man
• 12:37
  that
• 12:38
  is
• 12:38
  afraid
• 12:39
  very
• 12:39
  often,
• 12:39
  just
• 12:40
  your
• 12:40
  human
• 12:40
  brain
• 12:40
  saying,
• 12:41
  I
• 12:42
  am
• 12:42
  going
• 12:42
  to
• 12:42
  try
• 12:42
  to
• 12:42
  keep
• 12:42
  you
• 12:42
  safe
• 12:43
  from
• 12:43
  a
• 12:43
  lion
• 12:43
  that
• 12:43
  actually
• 12:43
  doesn't
• 12:44
  exist.
• 12:45
  So
• 12:45
  when
• 12:45
  you
• 12:45
  feel
• 12:46
  this
• 12:46
  scary
• 12:46
  feeling,
• 12:47
  instead
• 12:48
  of
• 12:48
  asking
• 12:48
  yourself,
• 12:49
  does
• 12:49
  this
• 12:49
  feel
• 12:50
  scary?
• 12:50
  Do
• 12:50
  I
• 12:50
  wanna
• 12:50
  keep
• 12:51
  going?
• 12:51
  If
• 12:51
  it
• 12:51
  feels
• 12:51
  scary,
• 12:51
  ask
• 12:52
  yourself,
• 12:52
  does
• 12:52
  this
• 12:53
  feel
• 12:53
  inspired?
• 12:54
  Because
• 12:54
  if
• 12:54
  you've
• 12:54
  ever
• 12:54
  given
• 12:55
  a
• 12:55
  talk
• 12:55
  in
• 12:55
  church,
• 12:56
  you
• 12:56
  probably
• 12:56
  know
• 12:57
  that
• 12:57
  you
• 12:57
  can
• 12:57
  feel
• 12:57
  inspired
• 12:57
  and
• 12:58
  scared
• 12:58
  at
• 12:58
  the
• 12:58
  same
• 12:58
  time.
• 12:59
  Okay?
• 13:00
  So
• 13:00
  we're
• 13:00
  not
• 13:01
  gonna
• 13:01
  let
• 13:01
  the
• 13:01
  primitive
• 13:01
  brain,
• 13:02
  we're
• 13:02
  not
• 13:02
  gonna
• 13:02
  let
• 13:02
  the
• 13:02
  nervous
• 13:03
  system
• 13:03
  drive
• 13:03
  our
• 13:03
  actions.
• 13:04
  We're
• 13:04
  gonna
• 13:04
  sit.
• 13:05
  In
• 13:05
  those
• 13:06
  emotions,
• 13:06
  we're
• 13:06
  gonna
• 13:06
  sit
• 13:06
  in
• 13:06
  those
• 13:07
  feelings,
• 13:07
  we're
• 13:07
  gonna
• 13:07
  acknowledge
• 13:08
  them,
• 13:08
  and
• 13:08
  we're
• 13:08
  gonna
• 13:08
  say,
• 13:08
  I
• 13:09
  might
• 13:09
  not
• 13:09
  feel
• 13:09
  safe
• 13:09
  right
• 13:09
  now,
• 13:10
  but
• 13:10
  I
• 13:10
  know
• 13:10
  I
• 13:10
  am
• 13:11
  and
• 13:11
  I
• 13:11
  know
• 13:11
  I'm
• 13:11
  doing
• 13:11
  what
• 13:12
  I've
• 13:12
  been
• 13:12
  inspired
• 13:12
  to
• 13:12
  do.
• 13:13
  So
• 13:13
  what
• 13:14
  is
• 13:14
  the
• 13:14
  thing
• 13:14
  in
• 13:14
  your
• 13:15
  business
• 13:15
  right
• 13:15
  now
• 13:16
  that
• 13:16
  makes
• 13:16
  you
• 13:16
  want
• 13:16
  to
• 13:16
  throw
• 13:17
  up
• 13:17
  a
• 13:17
  little?
• 13:18
  Maybe
• 13:18
  it
• 13:18
  is
• 13:19
  hitting
• 13:19
  publish
• 13:20
  on
• 13:20
  a
• 13:20
  substack
• 13:21
  or
• 13:21
  a
• 13:21
  podcast.
• 13:22
  Maybe
• 13:23
  it
• 13:23
  is
• 13:23
  sending
• 13:23
  a
• 13:23
  pitch
• 13:24
  email
• 13:24
  to
• 13:24
  someone
• 13:25
  who
• 13:25
  you've
• 13:25
  always
• 13:26
  admired
• 13:27
  or
• 13:27
  making
• 13:28
  an
• 13:28
  offer
• 13:28
  to
• 13:28
  someone
• 13:29
  you
• 13:29
  know
• 13:29
  you
• 13:29
  can
• 13:29
  help.
• 13:30
  Or
• 13:30
  going
• 13:30
  live
• 13:31
  on
• 13:31
  video
• 13:31
  for
• 13:31
  the
• 13:31
  first
• 13:32
  time.
• 13:32
  Or
• 13:32
  talk
• 13:32
  about
• 13:32
  sweaty,
• 13:34
  maybe
• 13:35
  it
• 13:35
  is
• 13:35
  launching
• 13:35
  a
• 13:35
  program
• 13:36
  you
• 13:36
  are
• 13:36
  not
• 13:36
  sure
• 13:36
  if
• 13:37
  anyone's
• 13:37
  gonna
• 13:37
  sign
• 13:37
  up
• 13:37
  for,
• 13:38
  or
• 13:38
  maybe
• 13:38
  it's
• 13:38
  writing
• 13:39
  a
• 13:39
  book
• 13:39
  that
• 13:39
  you
• 13:39
  have
• 13:39
  been
• 13:40
  carrying
• 13:40
  around
• 13:40
  in
• 13:41
  your
• 13:41
  Google
• 13:41
  Keep
• 13:42
  notes
• 13:42
  for
• 13:43
  two
• 13:43
  years.
• 13:44
  Maybe
• 13:44
  you've
• 13:44
  got
• 13:45
  a
• 13:45
  bunch
• 13:45
  of
• 13:45
  content
• 13:45
  stored
• 13:45
  in
• 13:46
  your
• 13:46
  phone
• 13:46
  somewhere
• 13:47
  that
• 13:47
  needs
• 13:47
  to
• 13:47
  get
• 13:47
  out
• 13:47
  into
• 13:47
  the
• 13:47
  world.
• 13:48
  But
• 13:49
  the
• 13:49
  sick
• 13:49
  feeling,
• 13:50
  the
• 13:50
  nervous
• 13:50
  system
• 13:51
  activation
• 13:51
  is
• 13:51
  not
• 13:52
  a
• 13:52
  sign
• 13:52
  to
• 13:53
  stop.
• 13:54
  It
• 13:54
  is
• 13:54
  evidence
• 13:55
  that
• 13:55
  something
• 13:56
  real
• 13:57
  is
• 13:57
  on
• 13:57
  the
• 13:57
  line,
• 13:58
  something
• 13:58
  is
• 13:58
  at
• 13:59
  stake
• 13:59
  that
• 13:59
  matters,
• 14:01
  and
• 14:01
  the
• 14:01
  things
• 14:01
  with
• 14:01
  the
• 14:01
  real
• 14:01
  stakes
• 14:02
  are
• 14:02
  the
• 14:02
  things
• 14:03
  that
• 14:03
  are
• 14:03
  worth
• 14:03
  doing.
• 14:04
  Your
• 14:04
  primitive
• 14:05
  brain
• 14:05
  is
• 14:05
  gonna
• 14:05
  give
• 14:05
  you
• 14:05
  a
• 14:05
  very,
• 14:06
  very
• 14:06
  convincing
• 14:07
  argument
• 14:08
  to
• 14:08
  not
• 14:08
  do
• 14:08
  it.
• 14:08
  Stay
• 14:09
  safe.
• 14:09
  Sit
• 14:09
  here,
• 14:10
  close
• 14:10
  your
• 14:10
  mouth.
• 14:11
  Don't
• 14:11
  do
• 14:11
  any
• 14:11
  of
• 14:11
  these
• 14:11
  things.
• 14:11
  It
• 14:12
  will
• 14:12
  tell
• 14:12
  you
• 14:12
  you're
• 14:12
  not
• 14:12
  ready.
• 14:13
  The
• 14:13
  timing
• 14:13
  is
• 14:13
  wrong.
• 14:14
  Someone's
• 14:14
  doing
• 14:14
  it
• 14:15
  better.
• 14:15
  They've
• 14:15
  already
• 14:15
  done
• 14:16
  it
• 14:16
  better.
• 14:16
  You
• 14:16
  should
• 14:17
  wait
• 14:17
  until
• 14:17
  you
• 14:17
  have
• 14:17
  more
• 14:17
  followers,
• 14:18
  more
• 14:18
  money,
• 14:18
  more
• 14:18
  confidence.
• 14:19
  Don't
• 14:20
  believe
• 14:20
  any
• 14:20
  of
• 14:20
  it.
• 14:21
  Just
• 14:21
  do
• 14:21
  the
• 14:21
  scary
• 14:21
  thing.
• 14:22
  Send
• 14:23
  the
• 14:23
  email
• 14:23
  to
• 14:23
  your
• 14:23
  friends.
• 14:23
  Hit
• 14:24
  publish.
• 14:24
  Make
• 14:25
  the
• 14:25
  offer.
• 14:26
  And
• 14:26
  when
• 14:26
  your
• 14:27
  nervous
• 14:27
  system
• 14:27
  goes
• 14:27
  crazy,
• 14:28
  just
• 14:28
  go,
• 14:28
  oh,
• 14:29
  yep,
• 14:29
  here
• 14:29
  it
• 14:30
  is.
• 14:30
  I
• 14:30
  expected
• 14:31
  this.
• 14:32
  Sit
• 14:32
  in
• 14:32
  the
• 14:32
  emotions,
• 14:33
  notice
• 14:33
  the
• 14:34
  sweaty
• 14:34
  palms,
• 14:35
  acknowledge
• 14:35
  the
• 14:36
  nausea,
• 14:36
  and
• 14:37
  then
• 14:37
  say,
• 14:37
  good
• 14:37
  job,
• 14:38
  brain.
• 14:38
  You
• 14:38
  are
• 14:38
  doing
• 14:39
  what
• 14:39
  you're
• 14:39
  supposed
• 14:39
  to
• 14:39
  be
• 14:39
  doing,
• 14:40
  and
• 14:40
  I'm
• 14:40
  gonna
• 14:40
  do
• 14:40
  this
• 14:40
  thing
• 14:41
  anyway.
• 14:42
  My
• 14:42
  friends,
• 14:42
  thank
• 14:42
  you
• 14:42
  so
• 14:42
  much
• 14:43
  for
• 14:43
  being
• 14:43
  here.
• 14:43
  The
• 14:43
  book
• 14:44
  link
• 14:44
  is
• 14:44
  in
• 14:44
  the
• 14:44
  show
• 14:45
  notes.
• 14:45
  It's
• 14:45
  called
• 14:45
  Burning
• 14:46
  Brightly,
• 14:46
  answering
• 14:47
  God's
• 14:47
  call
• 14:47
  to
• 14:47
  build
• 14:47
  a
• 14:47
  business
• 14:48
  as
• 14:48
  a
• 14:48
  Lattery
• 14:48
  Saint
• 14:48
  Woman,
• 14:49
  and
• 14:49
  it
• 14:49
  is
• 14:49
  99
• 14:49
  cents
• 14:50
  on
• 14:50
  Kindle
• 14:50
  for
• 14:50
  just
• 14:50
  a
• 14:50
  few
• 14:50
  days.
• 14:51
  If
• 14:51
  you
• 14:52
  have
• 14:52
  been
• 14:52
  feeling
• 14:52
  that
• 14:53
  pull
• 14:53
  towards
• 14:53
  entrepreneurship
• 14:54
  or
• 14:54
  towards
• 14:54
  the
• 14:54
  next
• 14:55
  level
• 14:55
  of
• 14:55
  your
• 14:55
  entrepreneurship,
• 14:56
  or
• 14:56
  you
• 14:57
  just
• 14:57
  want
• 14:57
  to
• 14:57
  figure
• 14:58
  out
• 14:58
  how
• 14:59
  your
• 14:59
  faith
• 14:59
  and
• 14:59
  your
• 14:59
  business
• 15:00
  intersect,
• 15:01
  I
• 15:01
  wrote
• 15:01
  it
• 15:01
  just
• 15:01
  for
• 15:01
  you.
• 15:02
  And
• 15:02
  if
• 15:02
  even
• 15:03
  one
• 15:03
  of
• 15:03
  you
• 15:03
  out
• 15:03
  there
• 15:03
  feels
• 15:04
  less
• 15:04
  alone
• 15:04
  in
• 15:05
  your
• 15:05
  call
• 15:05
  to
• 15:05
  build
• 15:05
  a
• 15:05
  business,
• 15:06
  then
• 15:06
  it
• 15:06
  was
• 15:06
  worth
• 15:07
  all
• 15:07
  those
• 15:07
  panicked
• 15:08
  feelings
• 15:08
  I
• 15:08
  had
• 15:08
  before
• 15:09
  I
• 15:09
  sent
• 15:09
  that
• 15:09
  email
• 15:10
  to
• 15:10
  my
• 15:10
  advanced
• 15:10
  readers.
• 15:11
  I
• 15:11
  love
• 15:11
  you,
• 15:11
  my
• 15:11
  friends.
• 15:12
  Go
• 15:12
  do
• 15:12
  the
• 15:12
  scary
• 15:13
  thing
• 15:13
  and
• 15:13
  then
• 15:13
  come
• 15:13
  tell
• 15:13
  me
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