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Finding Courage to Be Yourself - Giving Yourself Grace When You Fall Short · Spunky Spirit with Cari Mugz

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  Speaker 1: Welcome to the Spunky Spirit podcast. I'm your host, psychic
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  Speaker 1: medium Carrie Mugs. This is where we learn all things spirit,
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  Speaker 1: everything from spiritual gifts, awakenings, ghosts, aliens, and star seeds.
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  Speaker 1: Nothing is untouchable but always fun and spunky. I am
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  Speaker 1: honored to be on this virtual journey with you, so
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  Speaker 1: make sure you get the subscribe button so you never
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  Speaker 1: missed an episode. Hello and welcome to this episode of
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  Speaker 1: Spunky Spirit. I am psychic medium Carry Mugs and this
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  Speaker 1: is the first podcast of twenty twenty five. And honestly,
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  Speaker 1: I don't really know and I kind of have a
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  Speaker 1: little bit of an idea of what I'm going to
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  Speaker 1: talk about. Obviously we're going to talk about manifesting and creating,
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  Speaker 1: but mostly just making sure that this year you're kind
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  Speaker 1: to yourself and that you're authentic and you you love
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  Speaker 1: who you are, because that's really the most spiritual thing
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  Speaker 1: that you can do is is be in love with
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  Speaker 1: who you are. And so if you're having you know,
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  Speaker 1: if you're having things like depression or sadness, it's because
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  Speaker 1: there's something in your life that you're not happy about.
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  Speaker 1: And my goal this year, well my word this year
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  Speaker 1: is create because I'm going to create a life that
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  Speaker 1: I love. I'm going to create big things. This is
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  Speaker 1: a big year. I've got lots of things. In fact,
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  Speaker 1: I'm going to tell you what they are because I
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  Speaker 1: want to be accountable. I want to be accountable to you,
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  Speaker 1: and I want you to know because then you guys
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  Speaker 1: hold me accountable because you text me or you email
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  Speaker 1: me or you message me, and you say when are
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  Speaker 1: you to do this? When you to do this? And
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  Speaker 1: then it pushes me. And I really dropped the ball
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  Speaker 1: in January because I really thought, you know, I was
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  Speaker 1: going to hit the ground running and where we're going
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  Speaker 1: to go, and things happened, and sometimes you can't always
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  Speaker 1: hit the ground running. So I just wanted to know
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  Speaker 1: that every day you can start new right every day.
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  Speaker 1: You don't have to wait till January first. You don't
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  Speaker 1: have to wait till October, when when sometimes that's when
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  Speaker 1: some people start over or feel like they start over.
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  Speaker 1: You can start over any time, and so I feel like,
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  Speaker 1: to me, this week is the first, the first week
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  Speaker 1: of the year. But I have lots to do. I
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  Speaker 1: have lots I have gallery events planned that I want
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  Speaker 1: to do, but I want to make them bigger because
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  Speaker 1: I'm having such a huge response of people wanting to
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  Speaker 1: come that my space that I hold in my office
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  Speaker 1: isn't big enough for them anymore. So I have to
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  Speaker 1: find a bigger place. So I'm kind of not sure
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  Speaker 1: how I'm going to do that. I'm trying to navigate that,
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  Speaker 1: but I do know I'm going to have a gallery
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  Speaker 1: in February, and I do know I can't have them
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  Speaker 1: on weeknights anymore. I used to have them on Thursdays,
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  Speaker 1: and I can't do that anymore because because I would
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  Speaker 1: have a day full of readings and then I would
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  Speaker 1: have the gallery. And I want to do the galleries
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  Speaker 1: on days that I don't have readings. So I'll probably
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  Speaker 1: start doing galleries on the weekends instead of on the
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  Speaker 1: week nights. And then I'm also adding a Kashak record
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  Speaker 1: readings to my schedule, and I got to figure out
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  Speaker 1: how to navigate that, because I got to figure out
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  Speaker 1: what nights I'm to do that, because I have to
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  Speaker 1: add them on top of my other readings. So just
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  Speaker 1: so much stuff going on. And then I'm a book
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  Speaker 1: this year, so and I have new lots of new
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  Speaker 1: stuff coming up this year, lots of big things, and
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  Speaker 1: so I'm focusing on mostly my medium ship readings and
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  Speaker 1: my medium ship abilities, and so it's just been and
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  Speaker 1: I had so much, you know, all this that I
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  Speaker 1: wanted to do, and I was going to hit the ground,
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  Speaker 1: you know, in January with all these events, and I
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  Speaker 1: was going to have a class on remote viewing in January,
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  Speaker 1: and honestly, that's going to be pushed back till probably February,
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  Speaker 1: just because I was going to use my vacation time
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  Speaker 1: during the holidays to like do all that. But then
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  Speaker 1: I ended up just wanting to spend time with my family.
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  Speaker 1: I wanted to rest for a minute. But and I
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  Speaker 1: also did with the help find you know, just different
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  Speaker 1: places that I can have these galleries. I think, sorry
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  Speaker 1: if you're not if you're watching, I have something stuck
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  Speaker 1: in my tooth that's bothering me. Book. There we go.
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  Speaker 1: That was nice, wasn't it. So I just want you
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  Speaker 1: to know that give yourself some grace. This year is
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  Speaker 1: about being kind to you. This year is about loving
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  Speaker 1: you and loving who you are and doing what you
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  Speaker 1: want and creating a life you want. And I always
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  Speaker 1: used to struggle with creating a life you want because
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  Speaker 1: in a past job or past MLM that I was in,
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  Speaker 1: and I'm not bagging on MLMs. They can be great
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  Speaker 1: if you if you know how to work them. They'd
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  Speaker 1: always say, create the life you want. And even when
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  Speaker 1: I was creating it, it wasn't the life I wanted.
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  Speaker 1: And but I you know, through this journey of entrepreneurship
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  Speaker 1: and spiritual growth, I have been just kind of responding
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  Speaker 1: to what's coming, or I've been kind of reacting, or
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  Speaker 1: I've been kind of just like letting it flow. And
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  Speaker 1: now I'm going to like create it. I'm going to
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  Speaker 1: create what I want. I'm going to create this. I'm
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  Speaker 1: gonna go get it. I'm gonna go get it and
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  Speaker 1: create what I want. That's what manifesting is all about.
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  Speaker 1: You figure out what you want. That's the biggest thing, right,
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  Speaker 1: Not how everybody else does it, not how it goes
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  Speaker 1: or how everyone else thinks you should do it. It's
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  Speaker 1: what you want and what you want to do. Do
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  Speaker 1: I want to do events? Do I want to write
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  Speaker 1: a book? Or is that just something that people expect
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  Speaker 1: me to do? So this year is about figuring out
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  Speaker 1: who you are and what you want to create and
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  Speaker 1: how that works with you and how that fits into
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  Speaker 1: your life and what you're willing to give up to
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  Speaker 1: create that, and what you're willing to not give up
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  Speaker 1: and what you you know, all the things, all the
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  Speaker 1: things that create who you are, because we are here
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  Speaker 1: to create our lives, co create with with the creator,
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  Speaker 1: right with God. And I just know that you if
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  Speaker 1: you just kind of let let things happen or sometimes
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  Speaker 1: it's not. I mean, life isn't always going to be
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  Speaker 1: one hundred percent perfect or always always great, and we're
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  Speaker 1: going to have ups and downs. But when you create
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  Speaker 1: and you figure out what it is that you want
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  Speaker 1: and creating a year that you want and you put
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  Speaker 1: it out there, I'm a firm believer that you always,
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  Speaker 1: you know, you get what you put out there. And
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  Speaker 1: so I'm putting out there that this is going to
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  Speaker 1: be a great year for me as spiritually and for
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  Speaker 1: my followers, my spongsters, my you you guys, it's going
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  Speaker 1: to be great for you because we're going to create magic,
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  Speaker 1: magical moments in our lives. We're going to create magic
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  Speaker 1: and good and uplifting things and and I always, you
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  Speaker 1: know the reason why I'm sharing this is because I
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  Speaker 1: just I want to be accountable and so what you
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  Speaker 1: have to ask yourself for this year what is it
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  Speaker 1: that you want and what is it that you would
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  Speaker 1: change or what is it that you could do differently?
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  Speaker 1: Do you like the way your day to day life is?
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  Speaker 1: What would if you don't? What could you change about that?
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  Speaker 1: And I remember I used to tell my kids all
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  Speaker 1: the time, if you complain about it, you can change it.
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  Speaker 1: And my son was like, that is not true. If
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  Speaker 1: you if you complain about He's like, that's not always true, Mom,
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  Speaker 1: You can, you know, And I'm like, anything you complain
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  Speaker 1: about you can somehow change. It might not be one
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  Speaker 1: hundred percent fixable or one hundred percent fixed, but it's
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  Speaker 1: always figure outable to a way that you can, you know,
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  Speaker 1: deal with it, or you can handle it, or it
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  Speaker 1: can become what you can create. You can create it.
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  Speaker 1: And if you hate your job, you can look for
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  Speaker 1: an exit plan. You can kind of start and you think, oh,
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  Speaker 1: I'm stuck here, I make too much money here, the
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  Speaker 1: insurance is great, there's no way I can leave. Then
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  Speaker 1: that's what you're creating. But if you hate your job
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  Speaker 1: and you were like, okay, I'm going to put out feelers,
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  Speaker 1: I'm just going to put it out there that I'm
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  Speaker 1: going to find something different, and then you actively start
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  Speaker 1: kind of looking for something. I promise you things will
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  Speaker 1: fall into your lap. Things will fall into place. And
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  Speaker 1: if you're in a relationship that's hard and you put
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  Speaker 1: out there that you're going to you know, you can
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  Speaker 1: put out lots of different things. If you feel like
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  Speaker 1: you're stuck in it and you can't leave it, then
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  Speaker 1: you need to, you know, try and create ways that
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  Speaker 1: you can be happy in it, be happy in it,
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  Speaker 1: and and figure figure Everything is figure outable. Everything is
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  Speaker 1: figure outable. Don't ever, for a minute ever think that
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  Speaker 1: you're stuck, because you have the power to change it.
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  Speaker 1: It might take a long time, and it might change.
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  Speaker 1: It might take a lot of rethinking things or changing
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  Speaker 1: the way you think about things, but you have the
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  Speaker 1: power to change it, and it might take a while,
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  Speaker 1: but you really have all that power inside of you.
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  Speaker 1: And we just don't give ourselves enough credit. We don't
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  Speaker 1: give ourselves. We don't think we have the power. We
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  Speaker 1: think that we are we're controlled by outside sources, or
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  Speaker 1: that we're somebody else is like we. And I get
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  Speaker 1: it because when I was a mom, a single mom
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  Speaker 1: with four kids, there was very little that I could
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  Speaker 1: maybe do to change my circumstances, and but I did.
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  Speaker 1: I put it out there that and it took a while.
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  Speaker 1: It took a long, it took a couple of years,
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  Speaker 1: right like, and it wasn't always easy, but it it.
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  Speaker 1: If I just thought this is hopeless, I can't make it,
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  Speaker 1: I can't do it, then that's what I would create.
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  Speaker 1: But if I just put out there at least that, Okay,
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  Speaker 1: I want to at least try this, or I want
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  Speaker 1: to at least try this. I've always been the type
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  Speaker 1: of person who's just like, we can do it. We
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  Speaker 1: just got to figure it out. I just gotta figure
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  Speaker 1: it out. Like I've always been that, I've never really
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  Speaker 1: felt like everything was lost or everything was done. I
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  Speaker 1: mean I've had when I lost my dad, I thought that,
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  Speaker 1: you know, death is really hard and that's a hard
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  Speaker 1: thing to get through. But I've never once ever thought
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  Speaker 1: I can't do this anymore. I mean there, you know,
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  Speaker 1: when you go through depression, sometimes you have those thoughts
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  Speaker 1: when you're going through really, if you've ever been into deep,
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  Speaker 1: deep dark depression, you can have thoughts of like can
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  Speaker 1: I do this anymore? And that's different like, that's that's
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  Speaker 1: something that you need. You might need outside help with,
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  Speaker 1: you might need to get help with. But I'm talking
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  Speaker 1: about just life in general. If life in general that
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  Speaker 1: you are in a job you don't like, a relationship
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  Speaker 1: you don't like, the situation of your day to day
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  Speaker 1: life is just something you don't like. Everything is figure
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  Speaker 1: out a well. Marie Folio says that all the time,
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  Speaker 1: and you can figure out a way to love your
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  Speaker 1: life or to create a life you love. Like. So
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  Speaker 1: even though I created my you know, spiritual business, my
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  Speaker 1: spiritual my spiritual practice, there were things in it that
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  Speaker 1: I was like, Okay, I love this, but I don't
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  Speaker 1: like the fact that I'm stuck in this I created.
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  Speaker 1: I did not in a million years think that I
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  Speaker 1: would be booked out a year, and so I didn't
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  Speaker 1: like put things in my calendar to stop from getting
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  Speaker 1: booked out. I should have handled that differently. And now
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  Speaker 1: I've got to figure out how to fix that. I
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  Speaker 1: got to figure out how to go in and fix
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  Speaker 1: that because I because I am a slave to my
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  Speaker 1: job now, because I don't mean that rude, because I
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  Speaker 1: love doing readings, and I have changed it. So it's
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  Speaker 1: only like two or three day instead of I used
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  Speaker 1: to do four or five a day, and so I
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  Speaker 1: don't want to. But I also too am to the
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  Speaker 1: point where if I have to plan a vacation, I
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  Speaker 1: have to plan it out. I have to take off
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  Speaker 1: like years in advance, not years, but you know, months
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  Speaker 1: in advance. Because if my family would come to me
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  Speaker 1: tomorrow and be like, hey, let's go to a trip
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  Speaker 1: here next two months from now, I can't because I'm
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  Speaker 1: booked and so so I have to figure out how
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  Speaker 1: to make it so I can control that I can
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  Speaker 1: so I don't have to, and I kind of have.
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  Speaker 1: I've kind of made it so I only do it
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  Speaker 1: like Tuesdays through Thursdays and Fridays are my express readings,
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  Speaker 1: so I and Fridays aren't booked out a year in advance,
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  Speaker 1: so I can always have Fridays too, like to Fridays
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  Speaker 1: off to Mondays. So I figured it out right. Everything
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  Speaker 1: is figured out about But I remember two years ago
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  Speaker 1: when my daughter was in our burn accident, I was
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  Speaker 1: pretty stuck, and I was stuck at every day at
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  Speaker 1: five readings, and it was miserable because I couldn't even
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  Speaker 1: like I felt like I couldn't be therefore, because I
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  Speaker 1: was stuck in every day doing four or five readings.
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  Speaker 1: And so that was the turning point where I was like,
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  Speaker 1: I can't do this anymore. I can't because she needed
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  Speaker 1: me and I needed to be there, but I was.
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  Speaker 1: I was. I was in this thing where people had
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  Speaker 1: been waiting forever for a reading, and I felt bad
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  Speaker 1: because when you are waiting for a mediumship reading, you're
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  Speaker 1: waiting to talk to your loved ones. And people have
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  Speaker 1: been waiting for a really long time. And I don't
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  Speaker 1: want to be the one to be like, can't do it.
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  Speaker 1: So I rarely rarely reschedule or change or reschedule my
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  Speaker 1: readings because I just know that a lot of times
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  Speaker 1: people have been waiting for so long and it's so
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  Speaker 1: heartbreaking and I just can't do it. I didn't have
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  Speaker 1: it anything to do it. Unless I'm super sick and
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  Speaker 1: I can't, I can and I can't connect, then that's
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  Speaker 1: when I'll reschedule. But I at that time, I didn't
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  Speaker 1: even have time places to reschedule people because I was
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  Speaker 1: so like booked. So the moral of the story is
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  Speaker 1: and I felt stuck. I felt stuck, and I didn't
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  Speaker 1: know how to change it. And it didn't change overnight
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  Speaker 1: because I had to be responsible for the readings that
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  Speaker 1: had already been booked, right, But it did change. I
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  Speaker 1: went in, figured out some tweaks, and it did change
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  Speaker 1: within a year's time. So but at the time, I
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  Speaker 1: felt stuck. I felt like I wanted to quit. I
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  Speaker 1: felt like I was overwhelmed. And so just know that
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  Speaker 1: these points in your life can come, but they're just
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  Speaker 1: triggers for you to realize what is going on or
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  Speaker 1: what's working, what is not working, what's going If you're
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  Speaker 1: feeling those emotions and you're feeling that stuckness and you're
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  Speaker 1: feeling like there's no way out, that's not working, and
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  Speaker 1: so you got to figure out a way to make
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  Speaker 1: it work that is okay with you, And even if
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  Speaker 1: it doesn't happen overnight, but it will change in the future.
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  Speaker 1: And this is what I call being nice to yourself.
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  Speaker 1: Don't just show up because everybody expects you to show up.
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  Speaker 1: Show up because you want to, because you feel that passion,
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  Speaker 1: because show up for the day because you want to
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  Speaker 1: be the best mom you can be. And show up
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  Speaker 1: that day because you feel good about what you're doing
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  Speaker 1: and you feel like you're contributing, and a lot of
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  Speaker 1: times we don't. And so if you're in that this year,
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  Speaker 1: I challenge you to figure out how to make it
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  Speaker 1: so it's like that. It make it so you're not
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  Speaker 1: dreading every day, you're not dreading every single like, you're
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  Speaker 1: not just hoping for the best, the next best thing
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  Speaker 1: to come along with the next vacation. So and it
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  Speaker 1: takes a lot of work, it does, and so don't
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  Speaker 1: just think that this is But if nothing changes, nothing changes.
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  Speaker 1: And so if you don't do anything to try and
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  Speaker 1: change it, then it's never going to change. But if
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  Speaker 1: you do at least put little implements or put little
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  Speaker 1: things in to try and change it, your future self
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  Speaker 1: is going to thank you. So me today thinks that
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  Speaker 1: Carrie two years ago that she switched that around. Else
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  Speaker 1: I'd still be stuck doing four to five readings a
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  Speaker 1: day Monday through Friday. And now I have enough room
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  Speaker 1: that I can start doing events, and I can start
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  Speaker 1: teaching classes, and I can start doing but I still
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  Speaker 1: feel like I don't have enough time to do that stuff.
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  Speaker 1: And the events are starting to get pretty the galleries
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  Speaker 1: and the group readings are starting to get pretty big.
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  Speaker 1: And so now I've got to tweak something else, and
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  Speaker 1: I've got to tweak and figure out if I'm going
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  Speaker 1: to start touring, if I'm going to start you know,
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  Speaker 1: doing different reading different galleries all over everywhere. And so
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  Speaker 1: that's just kind of because I do have a big,
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  Speaker 1: you know, a big a following in North Carolina, and
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  Speaker 1: I do have some people, you know, and I have
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  Speaker 1: people everywhere that call and get readings and so, and
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  Speaker 1: I don't want to give up the I don't want
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  Speaker 1: to give up the personal readings because I do know
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  Speaker 1: a lot of mediums will shift out of doing individual
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  Speaker 1: readings and they'll go into events, and I don't really
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  Speaker 1: want to do that. I always want to do individual readings,
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  Speaker 1: but I also want to add more so I can
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  Speaker 1: reach more people, because I want to help more people.
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  Speaker 1: And so that's what twenty twenty five is going to
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  Speaker 1: be about, is having to reach out and help more people,
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  Speaker 1: but also be kind to myself. So I want you
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  Speaker 1: to figure out how to do that too, How you
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  Speaker 1: can do the things you want to do, but be
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  Speaker 1: kind to yourself, give yourself grace. We are so hard.
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  Speaker 1: I know my kids, they can be so hard on
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  Speaker 1: themselves a lot, and it breaks my heart because if
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  Speaker 1: they could see them the way I see them or
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  Speaker 1: the way God sees them, they wouldn't be sitting hard
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  Speaker 1: on themselves. And I do the same, and I know
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  Speaker 1: you do too. I know you're super hard on yourself.
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  Speaker 1: So give you know, if you don't have a word,
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  Speaker 1: if you're not give yourself some grace, Maybe have grace
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  Speaker 1: be your word. This year, me, I am going to create.
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  Speaker 1: I got a lot of big things coming. And this
• 16:40
  Speaker 1: is basically pretty much you know what this podcast was about.
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  Speaker 1: I haven't been on for a long time. This is
• 16:45
  Speaker 1: the first one of twenty twenty five, and I wanted
• 16:47
  Speaker 1: to ramp you up and get you excited about what's
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  Speaker 1: coming up for the year because it's been kind of
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  Speaker 1: hard ever. You know, the last couple of years have
• 16:54
  Speaker 1: been a little bit about growth, a little bit about
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  Speaker 1: figuring out who you are, being authentic, and wow, it's
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  Speaker 1: like this year is just putting that stuff into play,
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  Speaker 1: all of that cool stuff you learned and all of
• 17:05
  Speaker 1: this stuff that's coming up. It's like, here we go,
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  Speaker 1: let's let's use it. Let's use it to do better,
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  Speaker 1: to be better, and to love who we are. And
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  Speaker 1: so yeah, it's just and I have to be honest too,
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  Speaker 1: I'm going to be one hundred percent vulnerable with you.
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  Speaker 1: Last year was a little bit hard because I ended
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  Speaker 1: up having to take some medication that I don't And
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  Speaker 1: I have nothing against medication. I one hundred percent believe
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  Speaker 1: that doctors and holistic and stuff, all of that combined,
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  Speaker 1: it's it's all of it's good. You have to do
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  Speaker 1: what's good for you. I just know because of my ADHD,
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  Speaker 1: sometimes medicines can be different for me. They can act weird.
• 17:42
  Speaker 1: So catheine actually makes me drowsy. Steroid shots that are
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  Speaker 1: supposed to make give you energy sometimes they can make
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  Speaker 1: me tired. So sometimes different medications have a different effect
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  Speaker 1: on me, and so I don't really like to take
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  Speaker 1: them because I don't really know what kind of effect.
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  Speaker 1: But sometimes you need them. Sometimes you do need them.
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  Speaker 1: And I was going I was having some issues with
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  Speaker 1: some body stuff ways, and so I kind of started
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  Speaker 1: to like blood sugar stuff, and I the medicine that
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  Speaker 1: I was on gave me severe anxiety, like severe anxiety
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  Speaker 1: and intrusive thoughts, and it was it was such a
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  Speaker 1: such a thing that I like constantly had to like
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  Speaker 1: every day walk myself through it, talk myself through. It's
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  Speaker 1: so crazy because it didn't affect my readings like it was.
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  Speaker 1: Luckily I was confident enough in my mediumship skills and
• 18:34
  Speaker 1: my connection to spirit that it didn't affect that. But
• 18:37
  Speaker 1: what it did affect is like different things with my
• 18:42
  Speaker 1: you know, different things with securities or into intrusive thoughts
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: with my family. And that was hard. And so now
• 18:51
  Speaker 1: that the medicine is completely out of my system and
• 18:55
  Speaker 1: now it's just like a new me is emerging and
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  Speaker 1: I'm just like gonna go get it. I'm to go
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  Speaker 1: after it and go get it. And I just wish
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  Speaker 1: that all of us could feel that every you know,
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  Speaker 1: every beginning of the year or every day or every month,
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  Speaker 1: the beginning of each month, and just feel that new
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  Speaker 1: person coming out and being like this is this is it?
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  Speaker 1: This is when you know? This is it? So this year,
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  Speaker 1: if you don't already have your word, I would suggest courage,
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  Speaker 1: Courage to move forward, Courage to be you, Courage to
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  Speaker 1: be authentic, Courage to figure out who you are. And grace, grace,
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  Speaker 1: give yourself, grace, give yourself love. Try to see your
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  Speaker 1: eyes the way God would see you or the Creator
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  Speaker 1: would see you, because if you knew how much your
• 19:37
  Speaker 1: spiritual team loved you, or how how beautiful and how
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  Speaker 1: awesome you were and how much power you had, you
• 19:43
  Speaker 1: would you would know that you are so unconditionally loved.
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  Speaker 1: You are so unconditionally loved that that your spiritual team
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  Speaker 1: lets you think whatever you want, which is sometimes that
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  Speaker 1: you're not good enough. And I just want you to
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  Speaker 1: remember this year who you are and that it's gonna
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: be good and you are going to step into your
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  Speaker 1: power and it's gonna be the year that all of
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: this stuff that we've grown and grow to get grew
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: together and learned and all the spiritual things this year
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  Speaker 1: they're gonna be awesome. And this year I'm gonna totally
• 20:17
  Speaker 1: try and revamp my podcast. I'm gonna have lots of
• 20:20
  Speaker 1: different interviews on. I'm gonna have lots of different people
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: that do different things because as much as I love
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: to sit and talk and tell you things, I know
• 20:29
  Speaker 1: that it's awesome. You know, my husband, when he was
• 20:31
  Speaker 1: on with me, that was like my biggest podcast episode
• 20:34
  Speaker 1: because I think it was the interview thing and I
• 20:36
  Speaker 1: think just my husband's cute. So so this year we
• 20:39
  Speaker 1: are going to I have lined up some other mediums
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  Speaker 1: that we're gonna talk to and some Akashak record readers
• 20:45
  Speaker 1: that we're gonna talk to. Speaking of Akashak record readers,
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: I am doing a Kashak record readings and they will
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: be up and ready probably sometime this week. I'm only
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  Speaker 1: gonna do two a week, so and I think they're
• 20:57
  Speaker 1: gonna be available on Tuesdays and Thursday night, but they
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: could go pretty fast. I'm gonna actually kind of block
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  Speaker 1: it so you can only they can only be scheduled
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  Speaker 1: three months up to three months in advance because I
• 21:10
  Speaker 1: don't want to get stuck year out again, and so
• 21:12
  Speaker 1: then every month they'll open up. So when January ends,
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: I'll open up another month, so then I'll open up
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: the third monch with which would be April. So just
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: know that there's only gonna be three months and there's
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: only two a week with those. And if I get
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  Speaker 1: to start doing them and I don't love them, then
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna stop doing them, because that's because it's about
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: what you love, right It's about what you and I
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  Speaker 1: know right now. I love mediumship. I love you know,
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: connecting to the other side. But I have had lots
• 21:43
  Speaker 1: of people that want a kashak record readings, and so
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna try it and we're gonna see how it works.
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: And it's okay to change your mind. It's okay to say, like,
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: you know what, that isn't working for me, so I'm
• 21:51
  Speaker 1: gonna stop doing that. And that might happen this year.
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: I have lots of changes coming, I have lots of
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: things going on, and I might get into it and
• 21:58
  Speaker 1: be like, you know what, that doesn't work for me.
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  Speaker 1: And I have every right to change my mind. I
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: have every right because I'm creating what I love. And
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: you do too, you have every right to change your mind.
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: So so when you make commitments, make sure that you're
• 22:10
  Speaker 1: not committing yourself for too long, because if you end
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  Speaker 1: up not liking it, you can stop it. You can.
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  Speaker 1: Everything is figure o edible. So this is the year.
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  Speaker 1: This is the year we're going to grow together. This
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  Speaker 1: is the year that my podcasts are going to rock.
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  Speaker 1: Give me some time, though, I tell you, I'm going
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: to do all this, and then I still have, you know,
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: seven kids, I still have a husband, I still have
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: a family. I still you know, do other things too.
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  Speaker 1: So give me some time, because I want to I'm
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: not a perfectionist, but I wanted to be good. I
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: think you deserve the best, and so I want, like
• 22:38
  Speaker 1: with my galleries and my events, I need more room.
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: So I want to find a space that accommodates all
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: those things. The parking and you know, all of the
• 22:47
  Speaker 1: stuff I have to take into consideration, and the book.
• 22:51
  Speaker 1: I have to spend, you know, so much time a
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: day working on a book. And then so just you know,
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: I'm telling you this because I'm being a cannible because
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: twenty twenty five is gonna rock, but I'll so too.
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: Give give yourself some grace, and give others grace, give
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: them some time. I had a recent video come out
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: on one of my galleries and it got a lot
• 23:09
  Speaker 1: of response, and now people are like, what's the schedule,
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: what's the schedule? I don't know yet. I'm trying and
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: I'm doing the best I can. But as soon as
• 23:15
  Speaker 1: I get that schedule, I will get it out to you.
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: But here's an rth too. My people that are on
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: my newsletter, they get first DIBs, So I will send
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: the newsletter out. They get first DIBs on tickets for
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: those events. And then I posted to social media, and
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: it's been to the point where my newsletters sell out
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: the events and I've never had to post them on
• 23:37
  Speaker 1: social media. And that's why people when they saw this
• 23:40
  Speaker 1: event on social media, this video of this event, they're like,
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: what the heck? I didn't know these were even happening.
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: It's because my newsletter people got it first. So if
• 23:47
  Speaker 1: you need to be on my newsletter, go to ww
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: dot dot Carrie Mugs dot com, c a ri I
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  Speaker 1: m utz dot com and sign up for my newsletter
• 23:56
  Speaker 1: and also too. You can also follow me on Instagram
• 23:59
  Speaker 1: or or my Facebook page. It's Spunky Spirit. Instagram is
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: Spirit dot medium dot carry Mugs or my TikTok at
• 24:05
  Speaker 1: carry Mugs. That's where you'll find out all of this information.
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: You can even follow me on my event bright page.
• 24:11
  Speaker 1: They usually email as soon as I post something, and
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: when it's available, they'll email all of the people who
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: are following me on event right. So those are the
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: way you can find out about events. But the reason
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: why I haven't been putting them on social media is
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: because all my newsletter people get to them first. But
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: I am starting to, you know, make those events bigger.
• 24:31
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna have more people come, which means, you know,
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: kind of more work for me because more spirits are
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: gonna come and it's gonna be more so I have
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: to like, it's gonna be an ease into it. It's
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: not gonna be like one hundred percent, let's go, let's go.
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: It's gonna be an ease. And also too, I have
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: lots of other you know, things that are reaching out
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: and trying to collaborate, and so I just got to
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: get that in order. So thank you for being patient
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: with me, and thank you for understanding it is going
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: to be a big year and everything is figure outable.
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  Speaker 1: And I'm just so honored that you're with me during
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: this because I still have clients that come to me
• 25:08
  Speaker 1: that came to me when I was doing readings in
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  Speaker 1: my home in the back bedroom with it. So it's
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  Speaker 1: just an honor to me to be part of your
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  Speaker 1: journey too. And I don't know what I would do
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  Speaker 1: without you, and so I try try my hardest to
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: honor me and you at the same time. But I
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: love you guys so much, and I know that you
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: know if you're in a spot right now that you
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: don't love and you're in a spot that it's monotone,
• 25:38
  Speaker 1: or it's the same thing, or you're not loving it.
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  Speaker 1: Twenty twenty five is your year. It's your year to
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  Speaker 1: break through, to love who you are, to love your life,
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  Speaker 1: to have fun, to do, to be brave, and to
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: have courage, and to give yourself grace while you're doing it,
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: because you're worth it. You're so worth it. We're all
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: worth it. And I hope that any part of these
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: podcasts this year that I have planned help you do that.
• 26:01
  Speaker 1: That's kind of the theme, is to just help you
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: move forward, to give you courage and grace at the
• 26:06
  Speaker 1: same time, courage and grace. So I love you, guys
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  Speaker 1: so much, so so much, and I'm so excited that
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  Speaker 1: you're part of this journey with me because I just
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  Speaker 1: don't know. I couldn't do it without you one hundred percent.
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  Speaker 1: I could not do it without you. So I love you, guys,
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  Speaker 1: and I will see you next week.