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Cancel on the first date or should ya go? · Scott & Ally on Demand

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  SPEAKER_01: Possibly thunderstorms later today.
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  SPEAKER_01: This is the one day this week that it could possibly happen and they could be a little bit strong.
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  SPEAKER_02: And are we just at like 73?
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  SPEAKER_01: Uh yeah, it well today we'll go into the 80s.
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  SPEAKER_01: Uh tomorrow is it tomorrow that's 73?
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  SPEAKER_01: 75.
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  SPEAKER_01: Yeah, that's like a front going through.
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  SPEAKER_01: 75, 77.
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  SPEAKER_01: Then by Friday we're back to 82.
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  SPEAKER_01: So an 85 on Saturday.
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  SPEAKER_01: It's gonna be really, really uh just great after today.
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  SPEAKER_01: I mean, and and no guarantee today's gonna wash you out.
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  SPEAKER_02: Okay, back to the miracle whip thing.
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  SPEAKER_02: This is what 3386 says.
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  SPEAKER_02: Basically, a few weeks past its expiration date, but unopened.
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  SPEAKER_02: I said, absolutely not.
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  SPEAKER_02: I'm really concerned about what 4441 puts in their mouth.
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  SPEAKER_02: Still okay to use if it's not watery or green.
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  SPEAKER_02: No, no, there's a smell that comes before watery and green.
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  SPEAKER_02: There's a turning point before watery and green.
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  SPEAKER_02: I'm really concerned for you.
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  SPEAKER_01: There's a big turning point before watery and green.
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  SPEAKER_01: And you know what?
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  SPEAKER_02: This is exactly why, not to get on you, but this is exactly why we don't eat listener food.
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  SPEAKER_01: Because your standards are not necessarily, uh, shall we say, FDA approved.
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  SPEAKER_01: That's right.
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  SPEAKER_02: How about that?
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  SPEAKER_02: That's a great way to put it.
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  SPEAKER_01: Now I come back over to Mike.
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  SPEAKER_01: He says, eat the miracle whip.
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  SPEAKER_01: It'll get rid of someone who thinks miracle whip is food.
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  SPEAKER_01: There's there's a common thread here against miracle whip.
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  SPEAKER_01: So 3386, prepare for the hate.
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  SPEAKER_01: I just want to say that.
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  SPEAKER_02: I also like the who the hell buys miracle whip.
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  SPEAKER_02: That's what I'm getting at.
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  SPEAKER_02: Yes.
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  SPEAKER_01: Sorry, I'm not a miracle whip person either.
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  SPEAKER_01: I want I want mayonnaise.
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  SPEAKER_01: Uh let's see.
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  SPEAKER_01: Oh, this is a great one from Kathy.
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  SPEAKER_01: It said, uh, haven't you ever watched American Housewives?
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  SPEAKER_01: It's in the buffer zone.
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  SPEAKER_02: The buffer zone.
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  SPEAKER_02: No, it's not a buffer zone I'm messing with.
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  SPEAKER_02: Oh, God.
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  SPEAKER_02: Like, I'll mess with like certain things in the buffer zone.
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  SPEAKER_02: Like it might even be a burger that you got at a restaurant and it's still like, I don't know, five days in the fridge.
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  SPEAKER_01: Oh, that's well past the the the buffer zone.
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  SPEAKER_02: 48 hours.
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  SPEAKER_02: Oh no, no, no.
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  SPEAKER_02: Oh no, no.
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  SPEAKER_02: There's the buffer zone.
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  SPEAKER_01: Day five, um, you know, you said the words best yourself moments ago.
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  SPEAKER_01: What?
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  SPEAKER_01: I question your eating habits, like when you were saying why we don't eat listeners' foods.
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  SPEAKER_01: Now, listen, I am so sorry.
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  SPEAKER_01: Yesterday we were gonna talk to you.
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  SPEAKER_01: We didn't get a chance to.
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  SPEAKER_01: As they say on the big program, you got bumped, but you said you'd come back early.
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  SPEAKER_01: Explain to Allie what you are going through and why you're feeling the way you are.
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  SPEAKER_00: Hey, so I want to get your thoughts on this.
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  SPEAKER_00: So I've been chatting with this guy for a little bit, and he asked me out on a first date, and he said he wanted to do what he called an urban picnic.
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  SPEAKER_00: So I thought, okay, that's actually kind of different.
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  SPEAKER_00: But then he picked a park that's like 45 minutes from my house and only like two minutes from his.
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  SPEAKER_00: So I suggested a couple places that were more halfway, and then he comes back with another spot that's basically still in his neighborhood.
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  SPEAKER_00: Like it was a little closer, but not by much.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so then he tells me, he'll bring the alcohol if I bring the food.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I don't even really know why that bothered me so much, but it did.
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  SPEAKER_00: Um, it's not about the money, because I don't mind paying for things, but to make me bring food to our own date just seems completely lame.
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  SPEAKER_00: I mean, we could go walk around a free museum or grab coffee, like I really don't care if we spend money or not.
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  SPEAKER_00: And yeah, he's bringing alcohol, but I don't even drink, and I definitely wouldn't on a first date.
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  SPEAKER_00: Not that he knows that, but the main issue is I'm 40 years old, I have two kids, my free time's pretty limited, and I guess I just appreciate when somebody's thoughtful about that, and it just feels like he's asking me to do all this driving and bring half the date with me.
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  SPEAKER_00: So now I don't even want to go anymore.
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  SPEAKER_00: Like maybe I'm reading too much into it because yeah, it's only a first date, but it's like first impressions matter, and this one just feels kind of low effort to me, you know.
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  SPEAKER_00: So yeah, I just wanted to see what the ladies think about driving like 40 something minutes and bringing food.
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  SPEAKER_00: Like, should I just go and see what happens, or should I just cancel the whole thing?
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  SPEAKER_02: I've got a perfect answer for this.
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  SPEAKER_02: Cancel it.
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  SPEAKER_01: Oh, because I was gonna say 45 minutes in this area, not the most uncommon thing.
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  SPEAKER_01: We we live in a spread out air or area.
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  SPEAKER_02: Oh no, you're gonna cancel it because two things.
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  SPEAKER_02: I assume that there's been some conversation beforehand, which means he's really not that interested to make any efforts towards you.
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  SPEAKER_02: Also, it was two different locations close to his house.
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  SPEAKER_01: Oh, I thought he was trying to get you back to his house after.
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  SPEAKER_02: Oh no, I was thinking he was just a lazy ass.
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  SPEAKER_02: And so he d he's not gonna take a lot of effort.
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  SPEAKER_02: Even on the first date, he can't m meet you halfway.
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  SPEAKER_02: Cancel the whole thing.
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  SPEAKER_01: Really?
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  SPEAKER_02: Mm-hmm.
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  SPEAKER_02: I don't waste your time.
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  SPEAKER_01: Let's let's So you you're not so much on the drive part, are you?
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  SPEAKER_01: Because this is like saying I'm gonna drive from Corning to Hornell.
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  SPEAKER_02: It's it's not necessarily the drive, it's that both times were places that were close to his house, it's what's convenient for him.
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  SPEAKER_02: Also makes him selfish.
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  SPEAKER_02: So now I got some of the things.
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  SPEAKER_01: Makes me think he's gonna try to get her, slip her a couple of drinks and be like, well, come back to my place.
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  SPEAKER_01: You know, you're 40 and have two kids.
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  SPEAKER_01: I'm sure the options aren't knocking real hard at the at the old front door.
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  SPEAKER_02: So selfish, lazy, and also horny?
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  SPEAKER_02: Okay, yes.
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  SPEAKER_02: That too.
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  SPEAKER_02: That too.
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  SPEAKER_02: But because of those reasons, I say cancel.
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  SPEAKER_01: Okay, you go cancel.
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  SPEAKER_01: Anybody want to add to this?
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  SPEAKER_01: Because uh the only the only thing that uh I could see where he could uh maybe I'm reading too far in and giving him credit.
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  SPEAKER_01: I could see where he suggests she brings the food because perhaps there's certain things that she can eat that he might not, you know.
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  SPEAKER_01: I don't know, right?
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  SPEAKER_01: He goes gets a bucket of fried chicken and she's just had her gallbladder out and she's vegan.
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  SPEAKER_01: That's better.
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  SPEAKER_01: The gallbladder, but you know, fatty foods.
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  SPEAKER_01: So I don't know.
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  SPEAKER_01: I mean, I could have seen that.
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  SPEAKER_01: And and to me, 45 minutes is like I'm not gonna lie to you, that is not uncommon.
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  SPEAKER_01: That's driving from Corning to the to Sarah.
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  SPEAKER_02: It's not, but she just said she has some kids.
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  SPEAKER_02: So you're right.
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  SPEAKER_02: What kind of time does she have probably not probably not a ton?
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  SPEAKER_02: So now that's a third reason.
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  SPEAKER_02: Cancel it.
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  SPEAKER_02: Okay.
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  SPEAKER_02: That was easy.