Latest / The MysticWithin Podcast / Ep. 14: How to Get Anything You Desire In This World (& Keep It)
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- Vanessa: It's been a few weeks since we talked about your dream life, but I surely have not forgotten. Today we are talking about how to get you from point A, which is you right now not living your dream life, to point B, which is you fully living in your desired reality. You having everything you want, you becoming the woman, the being, the person who is living their dreams. That is important to me and I want it to be equally as important to you. Today I am giving you three very clear steps on exactly what you need to do to manifest and step into your dream reality. We're going to be talking about finding your northern star or finding your why. Why do we even want these things? We're going to be talking about how decisions are portals and how every decision we make is actually choosing. the version of ourselves we are existing within. Not only that, we're talking about how consistency is actually going to bring you everything you want, even if it's a little bit boring. We are doing a little bit of a deep dive today into manifestation and why we need to be showing up authentically and aligned each day and how that's the only way that we're gonna get what we actually want out of this world. Stay tuned for this conversation. This is going to be a good one. So grab your pens and papers. This is certainly an episode where you're gonna want some of that. Or if you have a really good memory, then power to you. Regardless, however way you're gonna get this information, stay tuned. We are diving into it today. My name is Vanessa, and this is the Mystic Within Podcast, a podcast designed for women reconnecting with their power, their purpose, and their intuition. One honest conversation at a time. You know, I'm feeling good today. I'm feeling good because I feel like I'm back, baby. I'm back. I am settled enough. There was a lot of craziness. There was a lot happening for me. But now I'm like, you know what? Balls to the Wall, Mystic Within podcast. Let's go. I'm so excited to be talking to you guys today. I'm so excited to be speaking about manifesting because this has been a topic for me where I felt like I struggled with manifesting so much because there was so much information out there, and there is so many ways that you could manifest things in. And honestly, a big part of Mystic Within is I need to streamline this information for everybody. This is coming from. spirit to being grounded info that everyone can take, whether you're spiritual, whether you're not, whether you believe in manifesting, whether you don't, we can all see the patterns. Whether you are a spiritual person or not, these are patterns that have shown up in ancient text, novels, different types of studies. This is real. Manifestation is real. Whatever way you want to call it, whatever way you want to investigate it, there is something to be said about your thoughts changing and aligning with your actions and getting an outcome from it. For me, it's called manifesting. For someone else, it might be inspired action, but we don't, we don't need to be judging the terms. All I need you to know is that if you listen to today and you take these three steps and really study it and really put it into practice, you will get everything you want in this world. There's no doubt about it. I have zero doubts. Okay, so let's dive into it today because I'm teaching you three very precise, very strong and powerful tips on how to get you into your dream life. The dream life that you dream about going to sleep at night, the one that you, you know, thumb through on Pinterest, and you're just wishing and hoping that one day you're gonna wake up and have that lifestyle Your dream life is something to be taken seriously because, in my world, in my reality, I feel that you are having those visions, having those calls, having those pulls towards a certain lifestyle or a certain thing in this world, or a certain career, or a certain path, because you are meant to experience it. I don't know how anyone could ever think of it in any other way, but. There is something to be said that if you feel called to do something, there's usually something on the other end of that. It's something you have to see through in this world. And you also owe it to yourself, to your spirit to do so. So this actually brings me into step one on how to get your dream life. Step one is all about clarity. I call this step finding your northern star. Now, the northern star is going to guide you home. Everything about this is such a beautiful practice to fall into. As we're preparing for our dream life, we need to get super clear on what we are even trying to work towards. We need to describe it in detail. It needs to be something that you can physically feel almost. Your northern star needs to be so bright in the sky that there is no denying what it is. There's no question about what you're working towards. You're going to be able to look at something and be like, yes, that aligns. You're going to be able to be in a decision and be like, nope, this doesn't align. It's almost like a living body in its own. It needs to be something that you can identify no matter what goes on. It's actually your fallback. Because when we start getting into the other steps, when you start making decisions on the daily, things are not going to be easy all the time. Things are not going to be like motivational. Motivation is one of those things that are kind of in my head made up. It's either like forward movement or not. Motivation is going to come and go. Okay, you need your why that you're gonna fall back on. You're you need your northern star that when times are tough, you're gonna look in the sky and be like, that's why I am doing it. In the question of why I talk about this a lot in my podcast, but keep asking the question, why? Why do you want it? why is that so important? Why is that this something that you desire? Keep going deeper and deeper and deeper. I relate so heavily to the symbol of the spiral because sometimes we don't even know when we're rounding back to something, and it usually comes down to an exact point. We keep revisiting something and revisiting something because it's usually one pillar foundation that's motivating us to do so many things. Mystic Within's why is I want to empower people. Why is that important? Because I felt like I was not empowered many times in my life until I started listening to myself. Why was that important? You know, you go deeper and deeper and deeper. I'm here to inspire people to live out their why, to step fully into that their northern star and continuously, no matter what is happening on the outside, be guided by that. Because that is true. That is an energy that is completely ingrained in your soul. Again, you're not called to do things that are not meant for you. And I talk about this as well. You're either going to learn a lesson or you're going to move on to the next step. Both of them are getting you to the next step. It's just maybe you need the lesson for later. Maybe you need to go through that to develop and shape yourself into someone who can hold your desires. You know, everything is kind of a step forward no matter how you look at it, no matter how you spin it. That's just how I feel. and honestly, what I intuitively know. We need the clarity in our lives. And again, nothing is going to happen without some form of a plan. What is a plan? It's finding clarity on the road ahead. That's exactly what a plan is. It's planning out the steps, finding the clarity in what you actually need to be doing. You can do this in so many ways. You can do this pen to paper. You can type it out. I always like a pen to paper vibe, but I also love a visual. Go on Pinterest, start pinning some, make a board, North Star, anything that feels like this new identity and new version of yourself. This version of yourself that has everything that you desire and dream of and lives the life that you dream. 1111 on the clock. Thank you, Spirit. Put it in that folder. Put it in there. So then anytime you are negotiating with a different version of yourself, you can go to that folder. You can read the letter of describing your dream life and the dream version of yourself. Finding the clarity is sometimes actually the harder part because there's so many things you want to do, but who said you can't do them? Don't limit yourself. Your North Star can also expand and become more niche to a specific goal. There's not two northern stars. Okay, there's one. There's one. And that's getting you to exactly where you want to go. Sometimes when we have too much going on, we get confused. And it's it's not like this strong why. We need something, one singular dream, one singular life dream that's going to get you there. This is the intentional part. Take your time with this. Again, this is your fallback when it becomes to decision making on the daily. Which brings me to step two. This section in this phase, this step, I call decisions are portals. Decisions are portals. Every day we make choices. I Didn't understand all of this. If you would have asked me this two years ago, I would not have been able to give you three steps on why this is the method. It's because I was super stuck and I was making choices that continuously kept me exactly where I was. It's not until I realized, like, I can actually make different choices that that actually serve me. my gosh, that's insane. Yay! It got dark and deep. It's when I genuinely felt like I could not live like this, I started making different choices. And obviously, it does not have to be that dark and deep for you. Please, I hope it's not. But decisions are vital to this world. Choices. The choices you make are shaping everything you're experiencing. You know, you know you're lactose intolerant, but you choose to eat an ice cream cone. That's a choice. And then twelve hours later you wish you didn't do that. That's a choice. Even though you knew better you did it, right? You knew you're lactose intolerant. That was not about to be cool. But that's an example of a simple choice that actually has major consequences to you physically. So, how does this relate to manifesting? Decisions are portals. So, if we actually break that down, now I need you to stick with me, okay? Because I'm gonna get into some spiritual quantum reality stuff. And I'm gonna break it down for you. Every single decision that we make is choosing another version of ourselves, right? Even if it's a small one, like eating the ice cream. I'm going to use this example continuously throughout this. You are at the ice cream parlor and you are lactose intolerant. There's a version of you who gets the ice cream cone. There's a version of you who does not. The version of you who eats the ice cream then proceeds to well not feel great in 12 hours. The version of you who did not eat the ice cream cone feels fine 12 hours later. and then there are hundreds of thousands of million realities that fall from those choices. It's almost like a tree diagram where one choice leads to two things, and then the two things lead to four. Options and then the four things lead to eight options because that's how realities and choices intertwine. Every single choice we make is choosing a different reality of us for us. We're becoming someone completely new as we're making new decisions. And that's why I say decisions are portals. a portal is an area of space that you literally walk in and you end up somewhere else. So, what does this mean in relationship to manifesting? We have our clarity. Now I want you to read the list of things or read the letter that you wrote of your dream self or your perfect day in like five years However, you broke down your northern star, your dream life, I want you to pick the main points out of that. Does that person? run their own business? Does that person have a family? Does that person have a dream body? Whatever that is. And then we're starting to make decisions in alignment to those things because we need something that's tangible, right? What can we actually do? What is the action associated with getting what we want? And it really comes down to the decisions that we make on the daily basis. That is how We are going to make up and step into the version of us that actually has all of those things. We're not going to make opposite decisions and get the life we want, right? And that is why I say clarity is genuinely one of the most important things you need when you're manifesting. Say, for example, you want a toned body. And I use this example a lot because getting that is kind of hard too. Getting that, it takes a lot of work. But it's worthy work. It's good work. And you say, okay, the version of myself who has the toned body gets up at 6 a.m. And they go to the gym or they get up early, whatever. The next morning, you're like, I'm gonna start doing that. You plan out your outfit for the day, you set it up on your dresser, you are prepared, you have the clarity, you have the plan, you're doing it. what happens is you open your eyes, 6 a.m. to the alarm. And all of a sudden, you're like, Hell no. Well, that's a choice. You just chose in direct opposition to your dream life. What you're saying is you don't believe in yourself. You certainly don't trust yourself in the universe does not take you serious. Because if you truly want that dream life in which that person gets up at 6 a.m. to work out, then guess what you're doing? Getting up at 6 a.m. That's when your alarm goes off and you say, my God, I don't want to do it. But there's a version of me who gets up and goes right now. And that's me. whoa, that's different. That's powerful. That's powerful to me. And do you know how many times I've had to say that to myself? There's a version of myself who gets up right now, goes to the gym, comes back, feels amazing, eats a beautiful breakfast, and it sets off a chain reaction of good decisions for the rest of the day. Or there's gonna be a version of myself who lays my ass into bed and just regrets not going all day, starts eating wrong all day, wrong as in not aligned with the eating patterns that I want to have in my life. There's that version of myself. So who am I gonna be today? Am I gonna actively choose a dream version of myself or am I gonna actively choose a version of myself that I don't want to be? Decisions become much easier and very hard to negotiate with when you pose it and position it like that. Decisions and making aligned decisions is going to get you exactly where you need to go. And that is what I will promise you 100%. You walk by faith, not by sight. Even if things around you don't feel right or you're not in the mood, guess what? That northern star is going to motivate you. We need to be so devoted to that northern star that the decisions actually are easy. Where it's not even a question like I'm gonna do this or not. It's like I have to do this for that version of myself. Because I want that so bad for me. I want that. That's my that's what's guiding me. I'm falling back on that right now. No, I don't, I'm not in the mood. I'm tired today. You know? Ooh, I've used that excuse many times. And it kept me exactly where I was, It becomes very hard to negotiate when you start posing it as your old version of yourself betraying this new version of yourself. And that's not to say this old version of yourself, some bad, evil person keeping you stuck, but it's a version of yourself that doesn't serve you anymore. And it doesn't serve your dream life. It got you up until this point. And for that, we can honor her. Thank you so much for getting me to this point. We're gonna start making different decisions right now. And mind you, I need this to be heard right now. This highest version of yourself, the version of yourself that has the dream life. Babe, that's not a different version of you. That's not some different person. That is you right now, the person making good decisions, aligned decisions. it's literally you. It's you making good decisions, being consistent. And having a northern star and clarity on what they want. That's exactly what it is. Which gets me to number three. Consistency. Consistency. Consistency. Consistency. I'm gonna call this consistency looks like nothing until everything happens. Thank you, Pinterest, for that one. That is so true. If you go to the gym day one, you're not gonna see anything. Day two, you're not gonna see anything. Day seventy-five, you are going to feel something. This is like a trust me moment. I need you to see yourself through it. I need you to see yourself through the hard days, the times when you don't feel like you want to show up for yourself, the days where it feels really, really hard. You're not in the mood. You're feeling exhausted. You want to go binge seven bags of chips on your bed and tune the world out. These are the times I need you to pull through for the version of you that you want to be. Pull the strength up. You have that power. I know it. If you're listening up until this point, you can do it. And the reason I know that is because you're determined. You're listening to this for a reason, right? This is literally how you are going to get everything you want. You don't make one decision in dream life. You make 300 decisions. Dream life. That's it. That's really what it comes down to. Repetition, consistency, devotion to that. I want it so bad, and I desire that, and I deserve that so much, and I love that version of myself so much that I'm going to keep making decisions until I see it possible, until I see it as my reality, until I have everything I want around me. And no one's going to stop me. No one's going to tell me no. And I'm getting everything. That includes yourself. That includes an old version of yourself trying to keep you small and safe. Again, safety doesn't always mean good. Comfortable will never mean that you're gonna get what you want. It just means that you are staying exactly where you are. just got a notification and I'm taking that as a sign. Thank you. Confirmation. Consistency looks like nothing until everything happens. All of a sudden, you're gonna wake up one day and be like, holy crap. I have a toned body? Incredible. my gosh, I have a hundred grand in the bank. Thank God. Because I decided I'm not gonna go out to eat five days a week. Cool. Consistency is going to do wonders for you. I promise you. It's like you're not going to see things the first day, but you will see things the first 50 days. Be consistent. We give up too quickly. And if your northern star is strong and you are a dreamer and you are someone who sees your life bigger, then guess what? That's what you fall back on. Again, feelings are gonna come and go. Today you might feel like you're yay, I'm doing it. Tomorrow you might feel like, my God, I want to live in my bed right now. Feelings are like coming and going. So, like this is why you need to have clarity, really good decision making, and consistency. And that's the plan, you know? What decisions do you need to be making every day that are in support of your Northern Star and just keep doing them? I promise you, if you follow those three steps, find your northern star. Understand decisions are portals. And three, consistency means that you're not going to see anything until everything happens. Clarity, decisions, consistency. Clarity, decisions, consistency. Whenever you are doubtful, whenever you feel like nothing's working out. Whenever you don't feel like it, go back to your Northern Star. Get realigned with the decisions you're making and why you are making them and why are you devoted to them. And keep doing it even if you're not feeling like it. If you're not in the mood for it. I say that with attitude because I have never been in the mood for it. it's very easy to negotiate. With a version of yourself that's trying to keep you small. We need to stop negotiating with the version of ourselves who doesn't have the life we want, who is not the person we want to be right now in life. We need to stop making that person more reputable than the version of yourself that has everything you desire. It's that simple. And it might not sound simple, but I promise you, break it down into those three steps because it is the most transformative thing that you will do for yourself. And here's some motivation. You know, I dogged on that word earlier, but here's some inspiration. I don't care who says things are not possible for you. I don't care. Everything you're imagining is meant for you. Everything you desire will come into fruition, will become a part of your reality if you find your clarity, make good decisions, and stay consistent. That's it. I believe in you enough for the both of us. I'd love if you believed in yourself more. Believe that you can do it. Believe that everything you desire, everything you want. Is coming straight into your life. It's already yours. And I never understood what that meant. It's already yours. What does that mean? It's already yours because there's a version of you who already has it. The only difference is that person's keeps making decisions that are in alignment with it. That person is you. And then there will be one day where you open your eyes and you're like, holy crap, I did it. I kept making decisions. I knew what I wanted and I was consistent and I got everything I wanted. The only difference is the decision making aspect. That's it. You're a few decisions away from having everything you want. And that is so hard to negotiate with. I believe you can do it. I believe you can get everything you want. And I am so excited to hear about it. I can't wait to see it. I'm so pumped. It's just a few decisions. Find the clarity. It is your soul speaking to you. And just keep. Doing it until you look around and it's here for you, right? That also includes facing the fears around it. Just keep going. Face the fears. Face the limiting beliefs on why you feel like you maybe can't do it. None of that matters in the grand scheme. That's an illusion. That's an illusion. The only real thing you have is your ability to get everything you want. Is your power, is your intuition, is your purpose? That's everything we talk about here. Today's conversation was so great. I needed this, I needed this boost of energy, really. I needed to be able to chat with you guys. I'm so happy to be full-fledged. in my my dream zone, you know. Links to work one-on-one with me are always in my bio for tarot readings, for one-on-one spirit coaching, mentorship, Reiki, all of that lovely stuff is always linked in my bio. share this episode with anyone who might need the reminder on how we are stepping directly into our dream lives. Okay. I want to say I love you guys so much. I hope all is well. I'm sending every single person who listens to this beautiful loving energy. Thank you, spirit. Thank you, universe, for allowing me to convey this message as always. Have an amazing week, everyone. I love you until next Wednesday. Remember, I believe in your ability to create your dream life. Okay. I believe enough for the both of us, but I'd love if you believed more. Okay, I love you. Okay, bye.