Latest / Rabbi Benjy's Shiur / Garden of Knowledge 59
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- 0:01Garden of knowledge. Shared number 59, After so many
- 0:05positive statements here, comes the very first - in the Toronto
- 0:09Jam said, it's not good for a person to be alone.
- 0:13I'll make him a helper as a counterpart.
- 0:18So, the deck, this is the idea in the deeper ideas of Terror
- 0:21person who is on his own, with no soul mate.
- 0:25So when it's not be married, there's no indication of who he
- 0:28really is. Just as a person's oblivious to
- 0:31the beating of his heart. His often unaware of the
- 0:34thoughts that fly through his head because it's ongoing
- 0:37process and it really pay much attention to it.
- 0:42So, being on his own is not a good thing for a person to truly
- 0:46a tone and correct himself, he must know who he is, and his
- 0:49current spiritual level. And without a wife because the
- 0:53focus is not good for man to be alone and therefore Eve was
- 0:57brought into existence, that's a wife, he can't possibly know
- 1:01this knocking he attained full humility and Emina.
- 1:05No one to reflect his his ego or self-centeredness, no one to
- 1:10test a person's ability to be charitable considerate, patient,
- 1:14and giving you we can fool ourselves into thinking we're
- 1:17great. Wonderful people.
- 1:19Cuz we can create a reality that makes us feel very good.
- 1:23A person who thinks that he is nothing.
- 1:24He has nothing to correct is far away from teshuva The moment
- 1:30that have our Eve was created other encountered, a whole new
- 1:34reality, he was no longer alone. His mate will now mirror his
- 1:39character and innermost thoughts.
- 1:41She'll show him if he is really has a moan and compassion.
- 1:46My way of having somebody else in your life, you get to know
- 1:50who you are. So look properly at the world's
- 1:54Ezra Shalimar, has a person must connect everything that happens
- 1:58in life to Hashem. Nothing is random and nothing is
- 2:01just freaking experience. Everything in a person's life is
- 2:06the product of precision and the individually.
- 2:09Tailored RushCard protest divine intervention designed to help a
- 2:13person to refine themselves, and bring us to our purpose and our
- 2:16tick on fixing what it is about ourselves that we were brought
- 2:20into the world to do. We have fantasies when we're
- 2:24alone. We have fantasies about how
- 2:27wonderful we are, how great we are is people to see faults in
- 2:31others but we think the nothing to do with ourselves but with a
- 2:35wife you have nowhere to escape the faults.
- 2:39He sees in her are really his own mirrored back in or he
- 2:43thinks she thinks Strengths and weaknesses of meerut showing you
- 2:48exactly who you are. This is the meaning of the Eve
- 2:52was created from Adam's Rib. She is a part of him.
- 2:56They are literally one soon as the person understands, as he
- 2:59stops trying to correct where you season in his wife and
- 3:02begins to work to correct himself once he does.
- 3:05So she will automatically be corrected for once again, she'll
- 3:08reflect him. But if a person sees his wife as
- 3:12a separate entity, not only will he failed to correct her, but he
- 3:15went correct himself either. A wife is a mirror which to
- 3:19create a user to show, men, our levels of divine service.
- 3:24So Shalimar Irish She is the way Hashem text messages asked to
- 3:30tell us how to improve. Someone who is concerned with
- 3:35correcting his wife, misses all of the messages which are really
- 3:40designed for him. So what's this word?
- 3:45Connect do a solo. A second egg, do make someone a
- 3:49cancer pot. It also can mean an adversary.
- 3:53It's not just some woman one follows the path of a Mana,
- 3:55seeing his own futility, while living his life, with Hashem.
- 3:59His wife becomes the helper to him when he realizes, what a
- 4:02gift she is, she becomes more than a helper.
- 4:05She becomes the a chef Kyle. For people who are married, sort
- 4:10of hours with him, you know, we can see how everything a wife
- 4:13does is for the husband's ultimate benefit.
- 4:15She is hashem's mouthpiece. When I shimmers pleased with a
- 4:17person so is his wife, the opposite is also true, but why
- 4:21its opposition to our displeasure with a husband as a
- 4:25sign that he should assess himself and strengthen himself
- 4:28in EM enough? Sorry.
- 4:31Chaps if that's going to put a spanner in the works for you all
- 4:34day today, he's got your have a lovely day.
- 4:37Though, with Emina and talk Tasha.
- 4:41Take care.