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Dirty Rush: Boys will be Boys · The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast

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  Speaker 1: Welcome to Dirty Rush The Truth about Sorority Life with
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  Speaker 1: your hosts me Gia Judice.
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  Speaker 2: Daisy Kent, and Jennifer Kessler.
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  Speaker 3: Hello everyone, and welcome back to another episode of Dirty Rush. Today,
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  Speaker 3: we have some of our Dirty Rush producers on to
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  Speaker 3: answer questions from a fraternity member currently in college himself.
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  Speaker 3: We have collected all the questions that fraternity men are
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  Speaker 3: dying to know about girls and sorority life, and we're
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  Speaker 3: going to be unpacking it all today. Our fraternity host
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  Speaker 3: is Dylan. Welcome Dylan.
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  Speaker 4: Hi, Thank you.
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  Speaker 3: Dylan. Do you want to tell everyone a little bit
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  Speaker 3: about yourself?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, I am from California. I went to San die
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  Speaker 4: Yo State my first year and I transwered to Santa Clara.
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  Speaker 4: I'm going to be a senior next year and I
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  Speaker 4: am in a fraternity at Santa Clara. What I love
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  Speaker 4: about my fraternity is we're very focused around mental health
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  Speaker 4: and we have a lot of good philanthropy around it. Yeah,
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  Speaker 4: it's probably my favorite part about it.
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  Speaker 3: Awesome. And then Dylan is going to ask us some
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  Speaker 3: questions that all the fraternity men are dying to know.
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  Speaker 3: We're going to go around and all of our producers
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  Speaker 3: that are on today are going to say their name
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  Speaker 3: and what swarty they were in, and let's do what
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  Speaker 3: state our school was in as well. So my name
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  Speaker 3: is Shelby and I was a Zeta and I went
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  Speaker 3: to school in Texas.
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  Speaker 5: My name's Kendall. I was a gammified Beta and I
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  Speaker 5: went to University of Arizona.
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  Speaker 1: My name's Ebbie and I was a Theta and I
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  Speaker 1: went to a school in LA.
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  Speaker 6: My name's Reese, and I was in California.
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  Speaker 7: My dad's Fantastasia, and I'm a kappa at UC Berkeley.
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  Speaker 8: My name is Sabina and I was a d G
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  Speaker 8: also at UC Berkeley.
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  Speaker 2: We are we all at different houses?
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  Speaker 1: Woo, yeah, got some representation.
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  Speaker 5: Okay, I have a question before we get into Dylan
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  Speaker 5: asking questions. Can all of us say, Dylan, your favorite
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  Speaker 5: so at your school and for us girls, our favorite
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  Speaker 5: fraternity at our schools O.
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  Speaker 1: Mine was stay Makay, mine was SIGAP.
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  Speaker 7: I think ours is either ZA or SA.
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  Speaker 8: I'd have to disagree, not like SA.
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  Speaker 7: I'd probably say kay, okay, yeah that makes sense.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, mine was sick up.
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  Speaker 2: Woo.
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  Speaker 4: Mine is probably ALP with FI classic.
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  Speaker 5: All right, Dylan, what do you have for us what questions.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, starting off, do sorority girls actually like doing the
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  Speaker 4: chance at the door during recruitment or do they think
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  Speaker 4: it's annoying.
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  Speaker 3: I would say, we don't do the full door chance.
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  Speaker 3: Ours was like once you walk in, so I never
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  Speaker 3: got to do like the ones. I know, like at
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  Speaker 3: other schools they like stack up and do chance like
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  Speaker 3: right at the door. We never did that. I liked it.
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  Speaker 3: I was like in charge of like the choreography and
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  Speaker 3: like teaching everyone for a couple of years, which is
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  Speaker 3: like very fitting for me if you knew me. But
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  Speaker 3: so I would say I liked it, but most people
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  Speaker 3: hated it. So I would say the answer is no,
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  Speaker 3: even though I liked.
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  Speaker 6: It, I kind of agree with Shelby I had. I
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  Speaker 6: thought it was funny because we only did one and
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  Speaker 6: we would like run to the front door, and I
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  Speaker 6: was put in the front because I have like really
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  Speaker 6: long hair and you had to like whip our necks
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  Speaker 6: back and forth, and so I got like whiplash kind of.
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  Speaker 6: But I thought we only did it like one time
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  Speaker 6: at the end as sort of like a joke to
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  Speaker 6: ease tensions or whatever. So I kind of thought it was.
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  Speaker 5: Funny Dylan as a guy, Like when you see videos
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  Speaker 5: on TikTok or Instagram, what are your thoughts when you
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  Speaker 5: see girls chanting at the door.
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  Speaker 4: I think they're cool. I think they're funny, like some
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  Speaker 4: of the ones I would always look for, like my friends,
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  Speaker 4: like at my school for the if like my school
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  Speaker 4: sorties came up on the for you page, but don't
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  Speaker 4: find it weird, I mean, for turnings have weird stuff
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  Speaker 4: too that you guys probably wouldn't understand. So I guess
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  Speaker 4: it goes both ways.
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  Speaker 2: Well, now you have to tell us one.
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  Speaker 4: Hm, we can get into that later.
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  Speaker 9: I don't know.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, Well we'll get into it, okay.
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  Speaker 4: Another question, how do surdy girls decide who do you
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  Speaker 4: want to bring to formals? Other like certain aspects of
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  Speaker 4: a guy or what they look like that you guys
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  Speaker 4: look for.
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  Speaker 7: I think when it comes to like who you're bringing,
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  Speaker 7: I think, at least for my group, if all of
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  Speaker 7: my friends are bringing guys, and it's kind of like
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  Speaker 7: a group thing of like, oh, I'm bringing a date,
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  Speaker 7: like it makes you feel better to bring one, I
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  Speaker 7: would say, unless you're like actually like feel steady and
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  Speaker 7: like like you guys have been talking for a while
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  Speaker 7: and like it's maybe an exclusive thing or like you
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  Speaker 7: guys have like our dating Like then it's like, yes,
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  Speaker 7: I'll bring a guy. But if like you're the only
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  Speaker 7: girl in your group bringing a guy, that's just that's
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  Speaker 7: not fun for anyone. And so if it's like collectively
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  Speaker 7: like hey, like let's all bring dates, then it's like, Okay,
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  Speaker 7: I'll find a date. And they maybe you can ask
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  Speaker 7: in like a friendly way, or you can ask in
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  Speaker 7: like hey, like me and all my friends are bringing dates,
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  Speaker 7: like come it'll be fun because then like you get it,
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  Speaker 7: come along. But like it's so awkward when you guys
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  Speaker 7: are all on that party bus and like you're the
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  Speaker 7: only guy and like you're kind of an outsider, and
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  Speaker 7: it's just like all these girls like torking on the
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  Speaker 7: stripper poles and like you guys are going to the
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  Speaker 7: venue and everything. It's like you're trying to entertain your date.
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  Speaker 7: But then at the same time, like you want to
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  Speaker 7: be with your friends. So like collectively, like if a
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  Speaker 7: lot of guys are coming, then bring a guy.
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  Speaker 8: My sorty love to do my ties. I don't know
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  Speaker 8: if that's a thing at everyone's school, but it would
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  Speaker 8: be like your friends would pair you up with this
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  Speaker 8: like a basically blind date. So it usually happens like
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  Speaker 8: we had two invites or date parties a semester, and
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  Speaker 8: for one of them, it seemed like different friend groups
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  Speaker 8: would always do my ties. And if that were the case,
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  Speaker 8: then people would usually try and find like a group
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  Speaker 8: of guys to go with a group of girls and
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  Speaker 8: kind of just like pair everyone up or yeah, I
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  Speaker 8: would agree, like a lot of the times it kind
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  Speaker 8: of was just a little bit awkward if you were
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  Speaker 8: going with like your group of girls and there was
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  Speaker 8: like one guy, especially if you guys weren't like talking
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  Speaker 8: or like seeing each other, and it was kind of
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  Speaker 8: just like a random pairing. So it's usually planned, like
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  Speaker 8: everybody would bring a date, or like kind of nobody
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  Speaker 8: would bring a date.
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  Speaker 9: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Also, Dylan asked, like, what do you look for in
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  Speaker 1: a guy when you're deciding, Like, I think one thing
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  Speaker 1: that goes unnoticed is a lot of times, or at
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  Speaker 1: least in my storty, there would be just a few
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  Speaker 1: date parties in a row where like someone's date would
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  Speaker 1: get too unhinged and maybe throw up on the party
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  Speaker 1: bus or like say something out of pocket. And I
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  Speaker 1: feel like girls started to go with like safer calls
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  Speaker 1: when it came to guys like who were more well
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  Speaker 1: behaved and who just weren't going to just be like
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  Speaker 1: a wild card.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know if you guys had that, No, I
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  Speaker 2: had that.
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  Speaker 5: I had a date freshman year gets so drunk that
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  Speaker 5: he headbutted another guy at my Oh, Dylan, Why do
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  Speaker 5: guys feel they need to get drunk? Is it that
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  Speaker 5: boring or something when they come on these sorority parties.
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  Speaker 4: I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: I like, do you have fun on them? Or are
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  Speaker 2: they boring?
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  Speaker 4: I love them, They're great. I think it's a different
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  Speaker 4: kind of It's a different like social thing because usually
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  Speaker 4: guys are used to being like at a fratorney where
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  Speaker 4: it's only like their guys friends. I think it's fun
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  Speaker 4: sometimes to hang out like other dudes that you don't
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  Speaker 4: get to talk to as much because girls are bringing
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  Speaker 4: like guys from random for frattorneys And do you.
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  Speaker 2: Guys you have weekenders?
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  Speaker 8: Uh?
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  Speaker 4: Like we call it like a way formal. It's like
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  Speaker 4: once a year or twice a year.
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  Speaker 6: I have a theory about sometimes why they get too drunk.
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  Speaker 6: I brought a date that he kind of like invited himself.
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  Speaker 6: My friend was bringing his friend, and then the friend
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  Speaker 6: was like, can you bring my friend? And I was
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  Speaker 6: like sure, and he said he got too excited, so.
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  Speaker 2: I'm like nervous.
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  Speaker 6: So he was pregaming like way too much so that
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  Speaker 6: he could like build up the courage to like be there,
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  Speaker 6: and then he just got carried away and it wasn't
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  Speaker 6: for anyone.
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  Speaker 3: Dylan, I have a question for you. Do you have
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  Speaker 3: like more fun at a formal like that you got
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  Speaker 3: invited to by a girl if like you have a
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  Speaker 3: guy friend there, because I feel like a lot of
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  Speaker 3: the times, like my friends try to bring like guys
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  Speaker 3: that know each other because then they like are less
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  Speaker 3: like they seem like they're having more fun when they
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  Speaker 3: have like a buddy there instead of just like by themselves.
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  Speaker 4: Like yeah, one hundred, I think girls sometimes like to
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  Speaker 4: be like whispering in the corner or like doing like
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  Speaker 4: the and like we're just gonna be like sitting there
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  Speaker 4: awkwardly if we don't know each other. So yeah, definitely,
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  Speaker 4: like bringing a guy that already knows someone theres is
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  Speaker 4: definitely a good play.
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  Speaker 2: We don't have fun asking you questions? Is it true?
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  Speaker 5: That guys hate when girls like go to the bathroom
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  Speaker 5: together in like a group, like they find that annoying.
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  Speaker 4: No, I mean, we don't really care. I think it's
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  Speaker 4: more like like I was out to dinner with some
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  Speaker 4: girls two weeks ago and they were just whispering the
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  Speaker 4: whole time because they were super drunk. Like at the
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  Speaker 4: end of the table, We're like, guys, come on, you
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  Speaker 4: gotta like like I save it for after or something,
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  Speaker 4: you know, or or go to the bathroom so you
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  Speaker 4: don't look like you're just like talking about everyone else.
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  Speaker 2: You're probably talking about you.
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  Speaker 4: If you're meeting a guy for the first time out
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  Speaker 4: of attorney, what makes him more memorable is if he's
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  Speaker 4: like funny, nice, good looking. What do you guys look for?
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  Speaker 4: Or like what what leaves you remembering him?
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  Speaker 3: I feel like this is so woring what kind of
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  Speaker 3: manners Like I don't know if you like it's like
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  Speaker 3: what Kenda was saying, like if you bring a guy
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  Speaker 3: to a formal like you or maybe Ebby was just
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  Speaker 3: saying it, but you want to like have them be
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  Speaker 3: like behaved and like I don't know when they're like
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  Speaker 3: going around, like if they're like a new date and
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  Speaker 3: they're introducing themselves to your friends and you're swarty big
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  Speaker 3: like and like you leave and then the next day
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  Speaker 3: everyone's like, oh my god, your date was so awesome,
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  Speaker 3: like blah blah blah blah, He's so nice, she was
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  Speaker 3: so fun Like that just like feels good because like
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  Speaker 3: especially like now everyone knew him then, like that's just
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  Speaker 3: a better feeling. So like for me, it'd probably be
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  Speaker 3: like yeah, manners and like funniness, like when they're having
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  Speaker 3: a good time because like I feel like, looks you
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  Speaker 3: already knew it beforehand.
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  Speaker 6: So and like having your friends well when other people
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  Speaker 6: have good things to say about them kind of like
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  Speaker 6: all of that. If you're talking to other people and
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  Speaker 6: you're like what do you think about this guy? And
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  Speaker 6: it's all great reviews and that's definitely something good. But
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  Speaker 6: if it's sort of like oh, why are you asking,
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  Speaker 6: and then they'll have to like say or like save
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  Speaker 6: what their actual opinion is, then you know like probably
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  Speaker 6: shouldn't go any further.
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  Speaker 1: Also, a lot of times there's alcohol involved in these events,
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  Speaker 1: so you might not have the best memory, so you
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  Speaker 1: need like the good pr all around. Yes, like you're like, oh,
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  Speaker 1: how was he actually like, oh he was really nice.
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  Speaker 1: You remember, like, oh, oh good, I'm glad.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I thought it was nice too.
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  Speaker 5: I have a question for all of us to shake
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  Speaker 5: things up before Dylan's next question. Everyone answer like an
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  Speaker 5: ick they have from like you know, talking to a
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  Speaker 5: fraternity guy or sporty girl at school. Like for me,
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  Speaker 5: mine would be like, I know guys can't help it,
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  Speaker 5: but sometimes out of fraternity when they're like so sweaty,
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  Speaker 5: and that gives me the eck, Especially when they try
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  Speaker 5: to like hey, like hug you and stuff, I'm like,
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  Speaker 5: oh God, like I'm that sweaty courtyard Like that gives.
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  Speaker 2: Me the eck. What about you?
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  Speaker 9: Guys?
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  Speaker 7: Mine might be super random, but I absolutely hate guys
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  Speaker 7: that have like an obscene like zen addiction. Like for me,
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  Speaker 7: just like when they always have it up and I
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  Speaker 7: just know that they're either like spitting into a cup
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  Speaker 7: or like it's just so gross to me and like
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  Speaker 7: ninety nine percent of the time, like you can only
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  Speaker 7: have it in for like forty five minutes before they
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  Speaker 7: have to switch it out and put a new one.
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  Speaker 7: It's like, dude, like just drink or like I don't know,
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  Speaker 7: like zen addictions to me are just like, oh, that's
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  Speaker 7: so like cool within guys and it's just the worst.
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  Speaker 8: Yeah.
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  Speaker 9: Also kind of like going off that if they're like
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  Speaker 9: spitting at a party, because they people like spit when
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  Speaker 9: they're sitting and it's just like you'll be talking to
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  Speaker 9: them and then they'll just randomly spit and you're like,
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  Speaker 9: oh wait, like what you ew?
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  Speaker 3: Gross? I would say this is so bad. But like
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  Speaker 3: if I bring a guy to my formal, like I
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  Speaker 3: want him to buy me a drink, like and like
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  Speaker 3: sometimes they're like oh like whatever, Like if I'm taking
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  Speaker 3: you to my formal, like I feel like you need
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  Speaker 3: to buy me a drink. So I guess when they
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  Speaker 3: don't do that.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I would also say like if you're just if
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  Speaker 1: you're a guy and you're hanging out too much with
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  Speaker 1: your friends, like you're just there to be with the voice,
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  Speaker 1: like why are you even there? If a girl brought
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  Speaker 1: you to their formal, they probably they like you and
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  Speaker 1: they want to spend time with you. So yeah, I
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  Speaker 1: would just think like there's sometimes when guys would act
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  Speaker 1: like especially freshen Ye would act like way too cool
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  Speaker 1: for school, and it's like okay, if somebody brought you
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  Speaker 1: spend time with them, diama, drink like, dance with them
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  Speaker 1: a little. It's not that hard.
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  Speaker 6: Mine's like the same as pals, like if they have
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  Speaker 6: bad body odor. Like sometimes I'll have like a guy's
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  Speaker 6: side hug me and then it'll linger on my warm
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  Speaker 6: and then I'm just like like having to lean away
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  Speaker 6: from myself or figure out. It's just figure it out, please,
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  Speaker 6: Like I don't want your bodyoder like lingering on me
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  Speaker 6: the most.
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  Speaker 8: Mine's not specific to like a formal but I feel
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  Speaker 8: like I've had a couple of situations where I've like
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  Speaker 8: watched the way guys interact with Like for example, this
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  Speaker 8: was on like a game day and this guy was
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  Speaker 8: the door at his frat, and I like watched the
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  Speaker 8: way he interacted with like strangers or people trying to
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  Speaker 8: come into the frat, and he just gave like a
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  Speaker 8: really like negative kind of like cocky douchebag energy and
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  Speaker 8: like was just rude to people who were trying to
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  Speaker 8: come in for like a game day. And I feel
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  Speaker 8: like the way that these frat guys carry themselves in
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  Speaker 8: situations with people that aren't their brothers is like a
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  Speaker 8: huge indicator of like the type of guy that they
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  Speaker 8: all and if you can tell that they like don't
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  Speaker 8: care about anybody other than like the people within their
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  Speaker 8: frat or like the swordy girls that are like pretty
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  Speaker 8: or whatever. Like, it just really rubs me the wrong way.
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  Speaker 2: It's a good one, Dylan. Besides the whispering, what dick
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  Speaker 2: do you have?
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  Speaker 4: I guess just the girl that kind of knows every
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  Speaker 4: guy at the frag It kind of is like the
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  Speaker 4: social like a little too social. I don't know. It
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  Speaker 4: just rubs me the wrong way.
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  Speaker 2: I feel like, especially if you like her.
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  Speaker 4: Uh well, well that makes it way worse. Yeah, I'd
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  Speaker 4: probably try to stay away.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah I get that, all right, Let's go to the
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  Speaker 2: next one.
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  Speaker 4: Oh again, what makes the shack shirt cool? Like, do
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  Speaker 4: girls when they go over to guy's place want to
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  Speaker 4: get one to like show like go back to their
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  Speaker 4: friend's house and like be asked about it or like
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  Speaker 4: why is it cool?
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  Speaker 5: I wouldn't necessarily say like summer cool over the other,
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  Speaker 5: but obviously people in school would be like, yeah, I
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  Speaker 5: got this shackture, I got that secture. You didn't get that,
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  Speaker 5: Like people were really immature like that. But as a girl,
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  Speaker 5: it was like I personally loved a shack shirt because
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  Speaker 5: you don't want to go home the next day in
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  Speaker 5: your body suit, like you want to at least have
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  Speaker 5: a shirt.
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  Speaker 2: On, don't you guys all agree?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, over you're going out outfit because then it's a
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  Speaker 5: little less like.
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  Speaker 3: Hunter bonus points for like a cool sweatshirt bonus points.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. And I think it also a little bit like
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  Speaker 1: collecting different t shirts that are like oversized and like
• 15:35
  Speaker 1: too big for you just shows oh, like you get
• 15:37
  Speaker 1: questions about it going back to the swarthy house like
• 15:40
  Speaker 1: where were you last night? Like where'd you get that?
• 15:42
  Speaker 1: Then you can kind of have to You can either
• 15:44
  Speaker 1: play it cool and be like, oh, you don't get
• 15:47
  Speaker 1: to know.
• 15:48
  Speaker 5: Well, do guys keep tabs if they don't get their
• 15:50
  Speaker 5: stuff back, like if they think girls will return it.
• 15:54
  Speaker 4: Guys definitely keep tabs, But it's sometimes it's not important
• 15:57
  Speaker 4: enough to like text them if they don't talk to
• 15:59
  Speaker 4: them anymore.
• 16:00
  Speaker 5: I feel like that'd be weird if a guy's like, hey,
• 16:01
  Speaker 5: I need my like Sigma Kuye volleyball shirt.
• 16:04
  Speaker 2: Back, can you come over?
• 16:06
  Speaker 9: Yeah?
• 16:06
  Speaker 4: No, they definitely do keep tubs. How are fraterneys ranked?
• 16:25
  Speaker 4: How do you guys create the rankings. Do you talk
• 16:27
  Speaker 4: about it?
• 16:29
  Speaker 3: I feel like at my school it was like every
• 16:31
  Speaker 3: soorty had a different ranking, and like even every person
• 16:34
  Speaker 3: in Authorty like my sworty, Like every like PC had
• 16:37
  Speaker 3: a different top frat, which was interesting. I feel like
• 16:39
  Speaker 3: at some other schools I hear there's like kind of
• 16:41
  Speaker 3: like sister fraternities and sworties or maybe there's another word
• 16:45
  Speaker 3: for it. But at my school was like my PC
• 16:50
  Speaker 3: like loved certain fraternities and like the one below us
• 16:53
  Speaker 3: like because their guy PC was like better in the
• 16:56
  Speaker 3: year below, like different ones. I feel like it's in
• 16:58
  Speaker 3: terms of like party are big, like if they have
• 17:02
  Speaker 3: the best parties. I mean when you're like looking for
• 17:05
  Speaker 3: like where to go, there's usually a lot of options,
• 17:07
  Speaker 3: so like your favorite fraternity, it's like where you're going
• 17:10
  Speaker 3: to go to the party or the tailgate, And then
• 17:13
  Speaker 3: I feel like just like yeah, I mean the guys
• 17:14
  Speaker 3: like being like fun and like cool people, and like
• 17:17
  Speaker 3: for me, like a lot of the guys in the
• 17:19
  Speaker 3: fraternity I went the most were like from my area,
• 17:21
  Speaker 3: so I like knew a lot of them and then
• 17:22
  Speaker 3: got to know their friends, so it was like very
• 17:24
  Speaker 3: comfortable for me and like I just got very close
• 17:26
  Speaker 3: with them all, so I feel like that would be
• 17:28
  Speaker 3: for me.
• 17:30
  Speaker 2: I also feel like the reputations are already like there
• 17:32
  Speaker 2: when you go into school, so it's like it's hard,
• 17:35
  Speaker 2: don't you guys feel that way, Like you don't even
• 17:36
  Speaker 2: make it up yourself.
• 17:38
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I would say like the top tier and the
• 17:41
  Speaker 1: mid tier. I mean, it's like feel so annoying to
• 17:44
  Speaker 1: even talk about tiers right now, but like I feel
• 17:48
  Speaker 1: like those are established, but you can certainly move between
• 17:52
  Speaker 1: depending on like what's the new PC and who's driving
• 17:55
  Speaker 1: with who. I remember my freshman year essaying you was
• 17:58
  Speaker 1: definitely like on top at the beginning because they threw
• 18:02
  Speaker 1: this huge party it called Splash and it was like
• 18:04
  Speaker 1: the first week of school and they'd run out this
• 18:06
  Speaker 1: place in Malibu and and bite all these girls and
• 18:09
  Speaker 1: like they were so up. But then Sigma Kai was
• 18:14
  Speaker 1: like on so pro or not even like they had
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: to be like the PC. It's like a tradition that
• 18:18
  Speaker 1: like for the first quarter, you're on sopro if you're
• 18:20
  Speaker 1: in Si Kai. And then they started throwing parties like
• 18:26
  Speaker 1: Winter Quarter that I remember that everyone was like, wait,
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: sig Kai's best, Like they're up and then like SIGEP
• 18:31
  Speaker 1: got in there, and so I think it just like
• 18:34
  Speaker 1: could definitely move around the ranks. Yeah, but you have
• 18:39
  Speaker 1: to like be fun and have good stuff to go to.
• 18:42
  Speaker 5: Right.
• 18:43
  Speaker 2: I hate the rankings so dumb. Yeah, it's really stupid.
• 18:47
  Speaker 1: Yeah, just like be friends with who you want to
• 18:48
  Speaker 1: be friends with, right, you could pick yourself.
• 18:51
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 18:53
  Speaker 4: I remember freshman year, my guys older would make us
• 18:56
  Speaker 4: paint for hours because like with these neon all this stuff,
• 19:00
  Speaker 4: because he was like, the girls are gonna want to
• 19:03
  Speaker 4: take photos. That's why they come here is to take
• 19:05
  Speaker 4: cool photos.
• 19:05
  Speaker 3: Oh that's cute, that's interesting.
• 19:08
  Speaker 2: Yeah, we were pledged painting.
• 19:11
  Speaker 4: Yes, we all had to paint for for hours. Yeah.
• 19:14
  Speaker 2: And did girls end up taking photos? Was it worth it?
• 19:16
  Speaker 4: I think so? Yes they were we we we that
• 19:19
  Speaker 4: was like our thing was like big murals.
• 19:23
  Speaker 2: Wow.
• 19:24
  Speaker 3: Did you feel like you competed with other fraternities to
• 19:26
  Speaker 3: have like a better setup for the party.
• 19:28
  Speaker 4: Oh for sure.
• 19:29
  Speaker 9: Yeah.
• 19:29
  Speaker 3: Yeah that's so interesting.
• 19:33
  Speaker 6: I like water attraction. You like what but water attraction
• 19:39
  Speaker 6: like a slip inside.
• 19:40
  Speaker 3: Or yeah, darty's Oh so fun.
• 19:43
  Speaker 6: If one party has a water attraction and another one
• 19:46
  Speaker 6: does it, I'm not going I am dying or foam.
• 19:52
  Speaker 3: Yeah, we had a pham.
• 19:54
  Speaker 2: The foam is so gross.
• 19:55
  Speaker 8: Like we had one frat who threw a party with
• 19:58
  Speaker 8: packing peanuts and it became like a safety hazard because
• 20:02
  Speaker 8: it's like their number one party of the year is
• 20:04
  Speaker 8: called frost, and they layered their entire floor with packing
• 20:08
  Speaker 8: peanuts and it became so sticky that like no one
• 20:11
  Speaker 8: could walk around and everyone's shoes were ruined. And I'm
• 20:13
  Speaker 8: pretty sure for that party alone, they spent like I
• 20:17
  Speaker 8: think it was like over ten grand just on like
• 20:19
  Speaker 8: decorations and like painting. They got like an ice sculpture
• 20:21
  Speaker 8: and there's this whole thing. But even though that fraternity
• 20:24
  Speaker 8: wasn't like ranked very high, that party was like the
• 20:27
  Speaker 8: number one party of the year, like everyone talks about it.
• 20:30
  Speaker 1: Saina brings up like a really good point because the
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: budgets that I would hear about for these parties were
• 20:35
  Speaker 1: like insane. Like I live next to a frat that
• 20:39
  Speaker 1: would throw like a sailor's ball and they would literally
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: flood their basement and put like sand in the basement.
• 20:46
  Speaker 3: Of the frat. Yes, that's crazy.
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: Like the damage to these places there was like foam topia.
• 20:52
  Speaker 1: There were all these different parties for each frat, and
• 20:54
  Speaker 1: I think it's like, yeah, I.
• 20:55
  Speaker 8: Think the budget was more to do with how much
• 20:57
  Speaker 8: they'd get fined and setting aside a certain amount that
• 21:00
  Speaker 8: they'd be willing to pay a fine, rather than actually
• 21:02
  Speaker 8: buying anything. So it'd be like a twenty thousand dollars
• 21:05
  Speaker 8: budget that had nothing to do with what they purchased
• 21:08
  Speaker 8: or when.
• 21:08
  Speaker 2: They break like art it.
• 21:10
  Speaker 5: Did you guys have your fraternities like we always had,
• 21:12
  Speaker 5: like Gorgan City or like not Rufous, but you know,
• 21:15
  Speaker 5: like people come and perform at them.
• 21:17
  Speaker 2: Yeah, Dylan, did you have that ever your fraternity?
• 21:20
  Speaker 4: I had like one when I was at San Diego State. Yeah.
• 21:23
  Speaker 2: I don't know if everyone does that.
• 21:24
  Speaker 4: And the budgets, the budgets are crazy for those Where
• 21:26
  Speaker 4: does that come from? Is that like your dol alumni?
• 21:29
  Speaker 4: I mean a little bit of dude. Oh, it's the
• 21:32
  Speaker 4: definitely matters how long the fraternity's been around, because I'm
• 21:34
  Speaker 4: in a fratney now that's only been around for like
• 21:37
  Speaker 4: fifteen years, so we don't have all those older rich guys.
• 21:40
  Speaker 1: Oh wow, I think sig Kai has like the best alumni.
• 21:43
  Speaker 3: Oh interesting.
• 21:44
  Speaker 4: Nationally, it's pretty I think Essay is one of the
• 21:47
  Speaker 4: richest ones now.
• 21:48
  Speaker 1: Probably Essay too, honestly, and Dylan as a guy, how
• 21:53
  Speaker 1: do you get invited?
• 21:54
  Speaker 5: Because like sometimes like other fraternity guys are at another
• 21:57
  Speaker 5: one's fraternity party, Like is it just if you're cool
• 22:00
  Speaker 5: with someone?
• 22:00
  Speaker 2: Like how does that work? I've always wondered.
• 22:02
  Speaker 4: I guess, yeah, you just have to be friends with someone,
• 22:05
  Speaker 4: and like you can't be like a problematic guy, Like
• 22:07
  Speaker 4: if you're going over there and they invite you, you
• 22:09
  Speaker 4: can't act like it's your own place because you're not
• 22:11
  Speaker 4: paying too. You're not paying it for anything.
• 22:13
  Speaker 2: So right, that makes sense?
• 22:16
  Speaker 4: Yeah, Okay, what are the biggest red flags sorority girls
• 22:20
  Speaker 4: seen fraternity guys? I guess if a fraternity guy's president
• 22:23
  Speaker 4: or high up on the exec board, is that attractive,
• 22:26
  Speaker 4: does that make him cooler? What do you guys think?
• 22:29
  Speaker 3: I think it could in a way of like they're
• 22:32
  Speaker 3: a little bit driven maybe, but like not like oh,
• 22:35
  Speaker 3: you're president, so you're cool, but like, oh, like you're
• 22:38
  Speaker 3: not just caring about partying and like this, like you
• 22:41
  Speaker 3: actually have a little bit of drive. I don't know.
• 22:42
  Speaker 3: I feel like I would be like, Okay, that's.
• 22:45
  Speaker 6: Nice if they had like a position in a school
• 22:49
  Speaker 6: club or something like that.
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: Yeah, well, I'm like biased because I was sorority president,
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: So I'm like if it's a if you're in a sorority,
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: I feel like it's different.
• 22:58
  Speaker 2: But I do think it.
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: Means that you're really like well liked and well respected
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: within within your fraternity. I just would more be like,
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: why aren't you taking that? As someone who's done it.
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: It's so much time and dedication with like depending I
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: don't know what the payoffice for frats, I don't know.
• 23:18
  Speaker 1: I feel like it's really really well respected when you're
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: an underclassman because you're like, oh my gosh, he's the
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: president of SAE, Like right, body's so hot, or you're like,
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: who's the president of this sorority? But then when you're
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: actually that age or like oh wow, I can't believe
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: you actually did that.
• 23:36
  Speaker 3: About if they're the social chair, because I feel like
• 23:40
  Speaker 3: some of the guys at my school, the social chairs
• 23:41
  Speaker 3: thought they were like the shit and because like they
• 23:44
  Speaker 3: just said it on the parties and like who got
• 23:46
  Speaker 3: to go in? So like is that an eck to anyone?
• 23:48
  Speaker 3: Because like I think in high school they.
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: Were like really big energy, like I'm in charge of.
• 23:53
  Speaker 2: The risk yeah school, and.
• 23:56
  Speaker 3: They are selective about like who can go.
• 23:58
  Speaker 4: And they always sent out the text the horny yes,
• 24:02
  Speaker 4: the text.
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: Well, okay, if you're a social chair. Usually for us,
• 24:05
  Speaker 1: it was like if you were a sophomore, So that
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: meant that means like the juniors respected you enough to
• 24:11
  Speaker 1: like make or like the sophomores at the time respected
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: a freshman enough to make them the social chair when
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: they were sophomore. So I feel like it means you're well,
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: like but yeah, like is it kind of a dumb
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: gig and you're you really like, thank you're hot for like, yeah,
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: being the one that sends out the text and plans
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: how many pineapples are coming to Pineapple Tuesday?
• 24:32
  Speaker 3: Like what is that elaborate?
• 24:35
  Speaker 6: Please?
• 24:35
  Speaker 1: This is another specific party. But they would there was
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: one singap would do Pineapple Tuesday. We're like one Tuesday quarter.
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: They'd get all the pledges to core like hundreds of pineapples.
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: Like I think guys would be like, I've got so
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: many cuts from the pineapples and like, and it.
• 24:54
  Speaker 10: Would stay for the pineapple juice because they'd be like
• 24:58
  Speaker 10: poring them and then you carry one or on the
• 25:00
  Speaker 10: whole party, each girl, for each party person company to
• 25:03
  Speaker 10: the party, we'll be holding a pineapple full of whatever
• 25:06
  Speaker 10: drink you had.
• 25:07
  Speaker 2: My god, you guys, I miss fraternity party so much.
• 25:11
  Speaker 2: This stuff. It's so funny.
• 25:12
  Speaker 1: Afterwards you're like, oh my god, I gotta get ready
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: in my dorm for Pineapple Tuesday.
• 25:17
  Speaker 2: It's like, what am I gonna wear?
• 25:19
  Speaker 1: Who is a Hawaiian shirt? Do I wear a bikini
• 25:21
  Speaker 1: top or Hawaiian shirt to Pineapple Tuesday?
• 25:24
  Speaker 5: So you guys seriously have to live up go to
• 25:26
  Speaker 5: every fraternity party because the bars post college are Google.
• 25:31
  Speaker 2: Sorry, Reese, I know you just graduated.
• 25:33
  Speaker 6: But it's I don't even know what to say right now.
• 25:36
  Speaker 2: It's sad. It's sad.
• 25:39
  Speaker 3: That's it for this episode of Dirty Rush. Makes you
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• 25:45
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• 25:48
  Speaker 7: Bye.