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STICK TO YOUR GUNS – Unwavering Motivation for Life and Workout Success · Motivational Podcast

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  Speaker 1: I just try and be a good human and to
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  Speaker 1: give a great message of self belief and hope, and
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  Speaker 1: to tell people you can do all this and still
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  Speaker 1: be a good human.
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  Speaker 2: To help other people up.
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  Speaker 1: Face some hard facts, and you could have an incredible life.
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  Speaker 1: Every time you want to do something, people will say
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  Speaker 1: it's not going to work. Stop waiting for life to
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  Speaker 1: be easy. Stop hoping for somebody to save you. GM
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  Speaker 1: and sport and exercise in general's great for people because
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  Speaker 1: it teaches a discipline. It gives you a purpose and
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  Speaker 1: a passion, and teaches you're disciplined and that if you
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  Speaker 1: keep at it and you don't quit, and you work
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  Speaker 1: your ass off every day, you can get somewhere. This
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  Speaker 1: idea you are that there's a way to be safe,
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  Speaker 1: it's childish and cowardly. It stops you from experiencing anything,
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  Speaker 1: including anything good. And every time we have a great idea,
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  Speaker 1: and I think everybody thinks big and everybody dreams. Every
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  Speaker 1: little kid out there thinks I want to be something,
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  Speaker 1: and then they get shut down.
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  Speaker 2: Everybody says, oh that's not for you. Just be normal.
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  Speaker 1: Get a normal job, go work in a bank, go
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  Speaker 1: to university, just have a safe and people think they're hateful,
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  Speaker 1: they're not. They just don't want to see you fail.
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  Speaker 1: The people close do you think I don't do that?
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  Speaker 1: Don't risk it because you might fail.
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  Speaker 2: It's over nothing. You just don't run it off.
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  Speaker 1: You've got to take advice, but at the same time,
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  Speaker 1: particut your guns and do what you know in your
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  Speaker 1: heart and what your passion is, and follow it and
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  Speaker 1: make it work.
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  Speaker 2: Who protects me? Who there and left? They bid met that,
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  Speaker 2: they know what the hell they got on about. What
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  Speaker 2: I learned was not to quit. That carries over into
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  Speaker 2: into real life. Hard brook makes you successful. Now listening
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  Speaker 2: to the knee sayers makes you successful. No, brooking your
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  Speaker 2: butt off makes you successful.
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  Speaker 3: There's no shortcut. You go to brook your ass off,
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  Speaker 3: you go to work, work, work.
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  Speaker 1: We kind of want to do things to prove people wrong.
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  Speaker 1: And I had this revelation only the last few years.
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  Speaker 1: Whether the essence of it lies, you're almost there. It's
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  Speaker 1: not that it's doing it to prove yourself right. So
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  Speaker 1: always have these advisers and people say you can't do it,
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  Speaker 1: and I wanted to prove them wrong at first.
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  Speaker 2: Now no, I know where the truth is.
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  Speaker 1: Just do it to prove yourself right, because if they
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  Speaker 1: really do hate you and you win and you get
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  Speaker 1: it right, they're still hate youre age more, and if
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  Speaker 1: you fail, they're going to be the first one's going out.
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  Speaker 1: I told you so, right, So why would you want
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  Speaker 1: to prove someone like that wrong when they don't give
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  Speaker 1: a shit about you? Why would you care what they think?
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  Speaker 1: And this controls so many things that we do worrying
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  Speaker 1: about approval of others.
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  Speaker 2: So learned to ignore that.
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  Speaker 1: It's nice to get advice from well meaning people. You're
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  Speaker 1: going to be really careful who you're getting advice from.
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  Speaker 1: Make sure their failues in their life is kind of
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  Speaker 1: a line, otherwise they might be talking shit. You're going
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  Speaker 1: to be careful to surround yourself with good people they've
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  Speaker 1: got their shit together, because if you're listening to people
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  Speaker 1: that are always complaining, it's going to weigh you down.
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  Speaker 1: Very very careful not to let people in beyond a
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  Speaker 1: certain point. So choose your circle wisely. Listen to the
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  Speaker 1: counsel of people that you admire and aspire to be like.
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  Speaker 2: Always make the right choice to who you let in.
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  Speaker 1: You'll find that everybody's got an opinion, but not everybody's qualified,
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  Speaker 1: especially when it comes to you and your life and
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  Speaker 1: your goals and who you want to be. Just be careful,
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  Speaker 1: keep your circle really small. So I see a lot
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  Speaker 1: of people waiting for the perfect time you get their
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  Speaker 1: life started. They think they're gonna be happy when they've
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  Speaker 1: got the qualification or the money in the bank, or
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  Speaker 1: the relationship or the job they dreamed of. Guess what,
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  Speaker 1: it doesn't work out. Then when you've got nothing or
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  Speaker 1: you think it's not coming, that's when you get good
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  Speaker 1: at you. It's as simple as that.
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  Speaker 2: No matter what you're going through, don't complain.
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  Speaker 1: It's boring, it's offensive, it'll hold your back and nobody cares.
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  Speaker 2: To get over yourself.
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  Speaker 4: Get busy and find the thing you can do.
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  Speaker 1: So let me tell you something. The fear of regret
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  Speaker 1: is way worse than the fear of failure. Because you fail,
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  Speaker 1: you learn to get up, you do it again. If
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  Speaker 1: you don't do anything because of that and you live
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  Speaker 1: with regret, you can't fixate. The fear of failure is
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  Speaker 1: one of the greatest retardant of people's success because they're
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  Speaker 1: worries so much about what if I fail? What if
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  Speaker 1: it doesn't work out? What you have to read, something
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  Speaker 1: that matters, or it doesn't count. I've failed so many
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  Speaker 1: times I lost count, you know, whether it's with business
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  Speaker 1: or life or personal stuff. Sometimes you screw it up,
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  Speaker 1: but you learn and you get better at it, and
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  Speaker 1: you master your craft. You become a better human, You
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  Speaker 1: help others.
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  Speaker 4: Not every day is going to be fucking sunshine and
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  Speaker 4: green bottles.
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  Speaker 2: You ever feel like quitting?
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  Speaker 1: You know, I always say don't quit, but everybody faces
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  Speaker 1: that sometimes daily where you've just had enough and you
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  Speaker 1: feel like giving up on yourself and your dreams and
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  Speaker 1: your passion.
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  Speaker 2: Hey, and I'm just like you. I don't have all
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  Speaker 2: the answers, but what I do.
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  Speaker 1: Know is that quitting is not an option because if
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  Speaker 1: you give up, you're never going to find out how
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  Speaker 1: close you were to breaking through. Right, whatever it means,
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  Speaker 1: whatever it is, And let me tell you something, nobody
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  Speaker 1: else has to understand or approve.
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  Speaker 2: What it is is in your heart.
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  Speaker 1: Right, So be obsessed, be unreasonable with yourself, really aim high,
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  Speaker 1: dream big, big, big big, because if you.
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  Speaker 2: Dream small, you're going to get small results.
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  Speaker 1: If you dream big and unreasonable, if if you don't
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  Speaker 1: get there, you're going to have one hell of a ride.
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  Speaker 1: You're going to find out a whole lot along the way,
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  Speaker 1: meet some great people, and live your life.
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  Speaker 4: There's so many things you're not going to want to
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  Speaker 4: do every day, but if you want to, if you
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  Speaker 4: want to succeed in life, you need sometimes you need
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  Speaker 4: to do the things you don't.
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  Speaker 2: Want to do.
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  Speaker 1: So if you're sort of going through life and you're
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  Speaker 1: not happy with your existence and you don't like your
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  Speaker 1: job or who you're with, or where you live or
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  Speaker 1: what you get to do each day, and maybe it's
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  Speaker 1: time to shake things up a bit because you might
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  Speaker 1: just get one chance at this and imagine living with
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  Speaker 1: regret when it's too late and you wish that you
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  Speaker 1: could have taken a risk or been brave, or roll
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  Speaker 1: the dice a little bit. Because this morning I'm walking
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  Speaker 1: through a cemetery. I'm wondering everybody here died, how many
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  Speaker 1: really lived? How do you want to live your life?
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  Speaker 1: There's some really old graves here. I'm sure that some
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  Speaker 1: of these people didn't get the opportunity for We've got
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  Speaker 1: We're live in the greatest time in history right now.
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  Speaker 1: You can read all the books in the world, you
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  Speaker 1: can follow all the inspirational people in the world.
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  Speaker 2: You can get up and.
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  Speaker 1: Saying how I'm going to do it, but it takes action,
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  Speaker 1: real action.
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  Speaker 2: You've got to take risks.
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  Speaker 1: You've got to believe in yourself, You've got to risk
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  Speaker 1: something that mattered.
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  Speaker 2: It's a wonderful world.
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  Speaker 1: Just remember your worst day is better than somebody's best day,
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  Speaker 1: so celebrate that.
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  Speaker 2: Be the best you can be. You're all in it all.
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  Speaker 2: Everyone can imagine losing the lovely thing that you would
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  Speaker 2: gladly damn real chery. That's what it's all about. One
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  Speaker 2: step at a time, keep going, do something every day
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  Speaker 2: and never give up.
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  Speaker 1: Attitude is everything, no matter what you're facing in life,
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  Speaker 1: it's your.
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  Speaker 2: Attitude that will determine your outcome.
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  Speaker 1: And you can feel sorry for yourself or you can
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  Speaker 1: get up and get fucking moving.
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  Speaker 2: It's up to you. But being a victim never pays off.
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  Speaker 2: So I'm going to do this and attack it like
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  Speaker 2: a job. I'm going to be obsessed about it.
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  Speaker 1: And if you're going to be good at something, you
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  Speaker 1: have to be fucking obsessed. Don't hold back, don't let
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  Speaker 1: other people talk you down, be your very best. And
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  Speaker 1: if somebody there's just about to give up hanging there
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  Speaker 1: just never quit because you don't know how close you
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  Speaker 1: are to turning things around and getting your life on track.
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