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Mediumship Myths · Spunky Spirit with Cari Mugz

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Welcome to the Spunky Spirit podcast. I'm your host, psychic medium, Carry
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you, so make sure you get the subscribe button so you never missed an
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episode. Hello and welcome to this week's Spunky Spirit episode. I am your
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host, psychic medium carry mugs, and this week we are going to talk
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about mediumship myths or yeah, myths of medium ships, like things that people
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are told or things that people might think about mediums that aren't entirely true or
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could be true for some. So you have to excuse my voice because I'm
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just getting over cold. I had to rearrange some readings last week, and
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so I'm in that part where the phlem gets stuck, and so please be
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patient with me if I sound off or if it sounds weird. So okay,
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So today I noticed that they're the last couple of months that there's some
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myths about mediumship. There are lots of mediums on the internet, and each
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of them we're all different right. We all have our different things, and
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I am so good at that because it's cool because I don't want us to
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be all the same. We don't need to be all the same. But
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in the past there's been like a certain set of rules for that in general
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every medium follows, but I think some of those are starting to change,
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and I kind of wanted to touch on some of the mediumship myths that have
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been going around. The one thing that's really hard for me is when other
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mediums tell mediums how they should do it, or how they should do readings,
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or how it should be because there's a lot of things that play here.
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When you're a medium first starting out and you don't know some of this
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stuff, you can make some of those mistakes. So when mediums get on
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and call out other mediums and say you shouldn't be doing this and you shouldn't
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be doing that, I think that's hard because that can make the new medium
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feel inadequate when reality they don't know. So just give give medium this is
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I guess also to you know, give mediums some grace. And I am
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trying to give some mediums some grace because there are some mediums that I it's
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so hard because I want to, they just are so some of them are
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very very confident, which I love. I wish I had some of that
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confident, but some of them are so cocky, and so I it's just
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hard for me to. You know, if there's a medium that you're following
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that just doesn't resonate with you, just just I mean, block it or
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unfollow. You don't have to block, because nobody is perfect for everybody,
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right, So if there's that, if there's something that doesn't resonate with you,
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unfollow, that's all you have to do. I said, I get
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all angry and all upset, but and sometimes I don't get angry and upset.
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I just think, you know, give some people some grace here,
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Give some people some especially new mediums who don't know some of this stuff,
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because I am here to tell you. And you know, and here's another
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thing too, another meeting out there could disagree with this, and that is
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fine. The thing that I'm going to do is stand in what I believe
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and stand in my truth. And I've been doing this for over I think,
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gosh, I'm coming up on twenty years and twenty years of readings and
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doing medium ship work and I've been to lots of courses, lots of continue
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education to help me with my readings, lots of retreats. I've held lots
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of courses and had retreats, so I kind of know a little bit about
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what's going on. So I'm just gonna give you my opinion, though I'm
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also gonna tell you that this can change because spirit ten years around. My
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opinion could change because spirit is not like a doctor doing heart procedures or a
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doctor doing leg stuff with your feet. You have, you know, a
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pediatric doctor, and now the pediatrics is kids. This stuff changes. We
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never know the truth one hundred percent all the time, and so this is
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something that it's not in a box, doesn't fit neatly in the box it
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fits. There's so much of a big scope, and there's so much to
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it that there can be many many answers to it because we don't know all
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the answers on earth. So I'm going to tell you this, No reading,
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ever is one hundred percent accurate, So give your medium some grace because
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they're just trying to get information right. It's like sitting at a table at
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a restaurant with all your of your family and the medium has to determine who's
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who, and if all your family's talking at once, we have to figure
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out what they're saying. We have to put puzzle pieces together. So give
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your medium some grace. Gone are the days where it's like yes, no,
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yes, no, yes, no answers, because honestly, if you
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want to get the best out of your reading, you shouldn't have to give
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the medium any kind of information. But when information does come through, if
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you were to be okay, if I were to say, your grandfather's here
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and he's showing me a train, and you'd be like, yep, okay.
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So but and I could still be like, okay, what were the
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trains for? Did you work with trains? Did you have toy trains?
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He says they were model trains? Yep, okay. But if you go
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into a medium ship reading and you said, I said, he's showing you
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trains. He loved them, he loved trains, then I could be like,
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okay, why did you love trains? Did you play with did you
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have toy model trains? Did you? Did you? And then I would
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see the toy model trains and maybe I would see them around the room and
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I would be like, he had model trains around the room, and you
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would say yes, and I'd be like, why did he love trains?
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And then I would go deeper into that. But if you just sit there
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and say yes, no, yes, no, the medium still can go
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deeper. But if you want to enjoy the reading and get the best feeling
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out of it too, explain a little bit. You don't have to give
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a bunch of details. You don't have to be like, yes, he
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was an engineer, he drew, he drove, he worked at the train
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tracks from nineteen fifty to nineteen fifty two, and he was this and this.
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You don't have to give all the details, and you don't have to
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be like, yes, he loved toy toy trains. He had tons of
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models. They were all over his room. You don't have to do that
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stuff. But honestly, the yes or no things, that's kind of it.
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It's just going to intimidate. It's just going to make the medium feel
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like more, like hold the frequency more if you're more open or you're more
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open to receiving, because you have to remember, the medium is just getting
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bits and tiny pieces of a big puzzle out there trying to put together.
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They can mess up. They can. I've had lots of I think Tony
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stock Will has always said, you're only as good as your last reading,
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right, So there's good readings and there's bad, bad readings, and some
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of the ones that I consider bad for me may not be bad for the
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sitter because I know I'm supposed to be a certain frequency and I get frustrated
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that I didn't get more information in, But to the sitter, they got
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exactly what they needed, right, So, never doubt spirit. Never doubt
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spirit. And honestly, if you're in a reading and you're in it to
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ten or fifteen minutes and it's nothing's resonating with you, be honest, just
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be like, you know, this really isn't working. And you can either
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you know, decide with the medium what they say, but you can most
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mediums if you get into it ten or fifteen minutes and they're like, they
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can kind of tell on their own that it's not working, and they might
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be like, hey, you know what, you might want to reschedule for
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a time that maybe I can kind of commit better, or I can kind
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of have a higher frequency. Yeah, just kind of read your reading if
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it's not but don't expect the medium to come through with like specific specific stuff
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like your son comes through he was two years old, he had blue hair,
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blinde. I mean, that stuff's okay, but you have to be
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open because some mediums will come through with that stuff, and some mediums will
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come through with like I'm seeing blue eyes, I'm seeing blonde hair. It's
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not gonna be deada dup to dada da da dad. It's gonna be little
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bits and pieces of a puzzle that you're both trying to put together. So
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it's your job to try and put together the pieces right, or the medium
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put together the pieces. But if you know, like one time, if
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there's some readings that are just like there's somebody with the name I think Johanna
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or John, They're like nope, And then two or three minutes down the
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road were like, I'm like, there's Johanna names coming up. No,
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I have a daughter whose names Johannah, but not Johanna. That is too
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that's too hard. Be kind, Give some medium, give the grace,
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Give the mediums some grace. That's how it comes through for them, that's
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how they hear it. So don't be so straight and narrow or rigid that
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you can't be flexible right now. One of the myths is that you have
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to wait six months. Two after a loved one's passed, you have to
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wait six months before you can book a reading. It depends on the medium.
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That's not true for everybody. That's not true for me. Now.
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My schedule is booked out six to eight months, so that's how it would
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work unless you get one of my express readings, which you can get in
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within the month, or if you get a group reading, you can get
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in within the month. But if you are getting your own reading and somebody
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passes, some mediums want you to wait six to eight months, not because
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they can't. Used to be thought that they couldn't communicate with your loved one.
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That's not true. Lots of mediums are finding out that they can connect
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to their loved ones. You can connect to their loved ones immediately. I'll
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have somebody who will schedule an appointment eight months out and two weeks before they
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come, or one week before they come, one of their loved ones pass
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and I still can connect that person that loved one. So that's not entirely
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true. I think what happens is sometimes the medium's so when you go to
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your reading. It takes the medium, the spirit, and the sitter to
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hold a certain frequency. So you're all holding a frequency to connect to your
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loved one. Right if you're in a huge amount of grief and you're mad
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and you're holding in you're in the anger stage, or you're in the depression
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stage, it can be a little harder for you to hold up that end
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of the frequency, but a lot of times the spirit and the medium can
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hold up that frequency for you. So if you feel like you want to
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see a medium beforehand, I would just check with the medium and see if
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you can schedule before the six months thing. With me, you can schedule
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at any times. It doesn't if you want to schedule, I'm any time.
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I don't have to do. You don't have to wait six months because
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there I've been in readings where the people have passed within a week or even
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a day or two, and that grief I can hold that grief, and
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the spirit can hold that grief, and or I've just been really blessed with
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the sitters who can hold their frequency that high. So for me, it's
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not a problem. But you might want to check. And that doesn't mean
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I'm better than other mediums. It just means that they run different They just
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run differently and they connect differently. So so just check with that medium and
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see if that's something that is something that they do. The next one is
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do I always am I always connected? Because sometimes people are scared to me
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when I go to different places around town, or they don't want to talk
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to me because they think I can see there are people right there. I
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used to when I was younger, and I didn't know how to control my
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gifts. Now it's I know how to work it. I know how to
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control. So their frequencies here, ours is here. During your reading,
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they lower, there's an I raise mine. I am not in that high
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of a frequency twenty four to seven. Once the reading is over, we
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change, we go back, I disconnect and we go back. So I
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am not in that higher frequency all the time. I go home immediately in
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my ground I go eat something, or I use my grounding mat, or
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I watch a stupid tickcom most of the time, like Big Bang Theory or
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Modern Family. So I'm not walking around the store being constantly in that in
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that frequency. Right, But sometimes if sometimes if your spirits don't know boundaries,
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if I'm just walking around in my normal frequency. They can lower their
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frequency enough to get to me or enough to talk to me, and some
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spirits can be aggressive enough to do that. But I kind of hold some
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boundaries that don't let them. But sometimes they will still get through, and
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that's okay. So but sometimes I'll just kind of ignore them because it's my
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I'm not in a reading. I'm getting to the point now where the spirits
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that come to me know that the time is during the reading. When when
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I did readings in my house, they would be my office in my house
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was across the hall from my bedroom, and they would be in my bedroom
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a lot. If my bedroom was like freezing all the time, my husband
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would be like, we got to get you in office because they would be
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there waiting. Now that I have my own office, I can feel the
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spirits when I walk in in that morning and I'm just like, hi,
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everybody, it's going to be a great day. They're going to set that
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intention. So because sometimes the spirits come a little couple come a little early
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because their time is off, like their time frequency that they or they're just
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so excited, right, So I just know that that my energy is not
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always on. I can't always tap into something twenty four ten. But I
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will tell you this. In some of my courses and some of my readings.
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In some of my courses that I've taken in the past, they have
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said you shouldn't do readings for friends or family, So for a long time
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I didn't, and I had a family locally, and I've talked about them
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before, so I'm sure that they won't care. The Olsons they lost their
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son, came and got a reading for me, and then two weeks later
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he passed an automobile accident, and they came and got readings for me.
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And at first it was great, but I kept getting nervous that if they
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kept getting more readings from me, I wouldn't have any new evidence to come
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through, or I wouldn't be able to do the readings because they started to
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become my good friends. And because of this, I would not really be
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friends with my clients, because I wouldn't want to be like I wouldn't want
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to take the readings or have I want to always want new information, right,
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And if I was friends with my clients, then I would new information
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wouldn't come through. This was not true. Ryan showed me that he can
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bring new information in all the time. He can bring me in information of
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what they've done that day. He can bring me information of what's going on
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in their lives, how he's playing a part in it, what he's doing
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now, who they've talked to, what's going on. He can bring in
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all of those specifics. So now I don't worry about giving readings to friends
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and family because because I know that the spirits that come through sent them to
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me, and they will give me the specific specifics I need and the messages
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that their family needs to hear. And I did readings. If you haven't,
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you know, if you follow me, you've alread her this story.
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But I did readings for my family. I did little yearly readings for my
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family, and it came through in one of one of my daughter's readings that
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she was going to get engaged, and the fiance was like, nope,
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no way, no way. Then he came back two days later and said,
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I've had this planned forever and you almost ruined it. And I also
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had that night did a reading for my daughter in law and it came through
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that she was pregnant and she's like, nope, not pregnant. She went
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home, took fancy says she was pregnant. So I can give readings to
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my family and my friends some now, can I It taints it because I'm
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their mom. Sometimes yes, so you have to be really careful. But
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some mediums are like, you can't do that, and I'm like, yes,
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you can. So just depends on the medium. Just depends on the
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medium. Right, So now I am do and I do create relationships with
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my clients because I used to like really be offish about making friendships with my
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clients, and now I totally love my clients and have very many clients that
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are my friends because I know that when they come new information will come through
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and new stuff that they need will come through. So it's actually really kind
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of cool. See So even as medium, you learn things. You can
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go to classes and learn these things, but honestly, it's it's a trial
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and error thing and it's a lot of stuff that you just learn along the
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way. So we already talked about the yes or no answers. Be open
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if it's okay to be a skepticism, but if you do not believe in
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it and you're a cynic and you are going to prove the medium wrong.
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Just don't go. Just don't go, because more than likely the medium is
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just going to be like, you're out. If I had somebody sitting across
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from me and they were like this and everything I said, they were like
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no, no, no, nope no, I'd be like we're done.
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We're done here because I have those boundaries right And if you're just trying to
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come prove me wrong, I don't need you here and so you're out.
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And that's I mean, I know that sounds terrible, but it's true.
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Skeptics are different because skeptics can be moved. Set skeptics something it comes through
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and they can be like huh, this is different. But cynics or yeah,
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they're out done. You can't the ones, the one where you can't
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change their mind. I'm not here to try and change your mind. I'm
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here to help people connect to their loved ones to have closure and to have
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healing. And if that's not what's happening, I'm done. Okay. Now
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the next one too, is I read somewhere a medium had said that she
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asks for I think she asks for names during readings because she doesn't want bad
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spirits to come through, which is totally fine. But I want you to
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know that if you go to a medium and they don't ask for names,
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it doesn't mean bad spirits are coming through. It does not mean that.
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It means that that medium can connect without asking it for a name. That
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medium can connect and connect to your loved ones without asking for a name.
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Some mediums go in and they like to ask for a name, and some
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mediums, like I like to ask what your intentions are at the beginning,
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what your intentions are for the reading? I say, without telling me any
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information or who's on the other side. What do you want to get out
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of this reading? Do you want to talk to communicate to you at the
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other side, or do you want to get something for Do you want to
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know about something in your life, your career, your family, your love
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life. And if they say both, I say great. Hybrids are my
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favorite because most of the time your loved ones come in and they give me
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information about you and tell you how they're watching over you, and they give
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you guidance, and that's interesting to you. Guidance. Your ancestors and guides
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can come through and guide you, but they cannot make decisions for you.
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So if there's somebody. If there's somebody coming through telling you you need to
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do certain things, you have your free agency, you have your free will,
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you get to decide. Okay, So now that specific medium I kind
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of think led to. I can't remember, but I think it led to
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she asks for their names because if she doesn't, she thinks they're bad.
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That is not true either. That could be what she was taught, that
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could be what she is experiencing that. That's not my experience. My experience
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is you shouldn't have to ask a medium. You don't have to give any
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information to a medium at all. But I do know that some mediums like
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to have a little bit of like the name of your ancestor. And I
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will so because of time constraints, not because I can't connect. But if
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a whole bunch of people come through the raining and we're at ten minutes before,
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and I say, okay, if there's somebody that hasn't come through that
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you want to talk to, you you can say their name ten and most
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of the time I can connect. Sometimes I can't. I don't do that
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because I can't connect. I do that because there's somebody specific that they want
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to talk to. And other people keep coming through and I'm picking up the
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other because I have no I have no control over who's coming through. So
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if they have a great grandfather that they want to talk to, but their
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little childhood friend is coming through first, then I talk to the childhood friend
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who is ever the loudest. So if they say their name, I can
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connect to that name and to that frequency, saying with like if you listen
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to your loved one's voice or your music, or you connect into their frequency.
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And so that's what that's probably what that medium is doing is just trying
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to connect to their frequency. And it doesn't make it bad because if all
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you give, or if all you give that medium is a name and they
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can come up with other details, it's good. It's good, right,
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Like it's great. But I know some mediums are just like no, you
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tell them absolutely nothing, And that's fine too. That's it's just how you
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choose to work with your medium, Okay. It's all about you and what
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you want to do and what you how you want to experience it. I
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did have a friend of mine when we went to Sedona and she went and
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got a reading, and the lady was the reader was like who do you
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want to connect to today? And she was kind of frustrated that she had
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to say that, say, I want to connect my grandpa. But that's
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just how some mediums work, right, they just have to have that connection.
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Because one of the hardest things to do as a medium when a spirit
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comes through is to figure out how they're related or how they are. So
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sometimes I'll be like mother type figure, mother like close. So it's just
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it just is and it just kind of defeats that that medium is just kind
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of getting past that bar so she can go straight into details. So don't
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give up. If your medium does ask you for a name of the person
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or a relationship, just continue see if more specifics come through. Now,
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if they do that and other specifics start coming through as well, consider the
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personality of the person. If the person was a super shy person on earth
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and talk much, that's how they're going to be with your medium, So
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be aware of that your people are gonna have the same personalities. Okay,
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the next one is just remember there is no set way. There is no
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set way for any reading to go down. And I was taught you know
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when I took because I had the gift and I wanted to like figure out
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what the signs and zimbles meant, and I was wanting to like organize what
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was coming through. So I did take some classes and some of them are
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great, and some of them are like, this is how you do it.
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You do this first, then this vers and then this comes through.
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And I was like, that is not how I do it. That's not
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how I do it. I don't do mediumship first and then I do psychic.
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I my people come through and then they tell me all about you and
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tell me what's going on in your life. It's combined. It's like a
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hybrid for me. So I didn't change the way I did it because that's
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what my teacher said. I just decided, I'm going to do it my
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way. Every medium's going to be different, they're going to do it their
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way. In the olden days, when you would go to a medium ship
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demonstration, the spirits would come through and they would move tables, they would
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move, they would knock on the walls. And with the Fox Sisters,
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that's the very first thing that came through is they would the spirits would knock
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on the walls and they would like test these girls all the time. And
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see if there's any knocking or any noises with their knees, their knees or
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their body parts and all of that stuff too, and then table raising.
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The mediums would table raise and then they would have saying ounces and there would
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be ectoplasm. That was a long time ago, and now then it kind
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of got to where that the evidence was the day they died, or what
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they looked like, or how many kids or you know, evidence was like
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that. But nowadays, with the Internet, you can find that information out
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pretty easily, and so now the information's kind of changed to like their personality
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because you don't know that, you can't research that their details about what's going
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on in your life, details about what's going what went on in their life,
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like details nobody would know. Those are the things that come through now.
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And birthdays and stuff are great, especially like Cauz, Like if it's
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like the sitter's birthday, there's no way that the medium is going to know
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that. The medium might know if they researched it and looked at some sort
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of paper or article or whatever, they could find that stuff out. So
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nowadays, what some older mediums would consider psychic is actually evidence. So like
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if what I mean by psychic is when people read people, and mediumship is
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when you connect to the other side. So a lot of times people will
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spirit will come through and say she's having a baby and it's going to be
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a girl. Well, a lot of mediums are like, well, that's
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psychic. You're tuning into that psychically. Well, no, you're not.
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Not. If the spirit is telling you that, the spirit's telling me that
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a baby's coming, sending down a baby and it's going to be a girl,
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that's different. And those are the type of things that people want to
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hear because that lets them know that they're loved one in spirit is still with
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them without any doubt. So just that's I just kind of wanted to dispel
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some of the medium is because there are mediums out there and I try not
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to because everybody's different, but there are mediums out there telling other mediums how
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it works. And I get that, I do, because there are some
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mediums out there that are not that don't have integrity and that are trying to
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just make money and not try and heal people, or just trying to show
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how great they are, how good they are at it, and I don't
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love that, and so I get it when other mediums try and call them
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out and say things like mediums shouldn't do this, and mediums shouldn't do that
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to like warn you know, the sitters or the audience. But at the
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same time, sometimes they just don't know. Sometimes these mediums are just starting
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out and they don't know that they're not supposed to do that or that's not
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the ethical way to do it. I remember when I first started going through
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all of my stuff and I did a drive by reading. I went up
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to a lady and said, this is so and so, so and so's
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here, and it was all accurate and it worked out at the end,
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okay, but it was it was hard because she wasn't ready for it.
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I just went up to here and was like, I think there's something,
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there's someone around you, blah blah blah, because that's how I saw what
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on Teresa Caputo. And so that's what I did. And it's not really
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ethical, it's not it's not really ethical, and so because that person might
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not be ready for a reading. And I remember losing so much sleep over
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that and learning my lesson the hard way. And you know, if back
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then, if I would have been on the Internet and another medium would be
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like, you're not supposed to do this. It would have devastated me and
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I probably would have stopped. So just be kind and be careful, and
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when you do get information from other mediums, just takes what resonates with you,
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and just know there are no rules. There's no rules on how this
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work. None, because it is spirit you're dealing with, and it's spirit
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and it's not setting stone. In ten years from now, I could be
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doing another podcast and I could be on there going Okay, we found out
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a lot more information and this is how it works. But right now we're
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just kind of like putting our feet in the water and we're all trying to
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do our best. And so just if you are going to a reading,
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or you are becoming a medium, or you are watching other mediums, take
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what resonates with you and leave what doesn't because it's some of it's true and
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some of it's not. And some of it may be true for you,
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and some of them maybe not true for you, and some of it may
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be true for you, and something may work for you and not work for
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me. So everybody's different. And this is why when you pick out a
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medium, go to somebody who has who people word of mouth, people have
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been to, people are experienced, they know, and then if that wasn't
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so great, try another one. There's always just they're like doctors. You
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can get second opinions. You don't have to go you know what I mean.
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So, and if you find one that you like and you want to
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stay ill, stay loyal to them because they like you too, I'm pretty
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sure. So I hope that helps you, guys. Just it doesn't infuriate
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me. It just makes me sad when I see other people, you know,
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on the internet telling people how it should work or how it shouldn't work,
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or how this. And if you've had a bad experience with a medium
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too, just know it might have been a bad day for that medium.
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The one thing I don't love, though, this is the one thing I
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don't love, is I did have a client that went to another medium and
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her son didn't come through for that medium, and that medium did say that
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her son was mad at her, And I don't love that because spirits don't
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come through because they're mad at you. It's honestly, one hundred percent,
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if a spirit doesn't come through for me, it's because I messed up somewhere.
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Even yesterday I was doing not yesterday, I think Friday, I was
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doing a reading and she said, what about my baby sister? And I
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said, I did see a miscarriage, but I knew you didn't have any
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children, so I bypassed it. That is my fault, my fault,
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and I messed that up, and it wasn't because that sister didn't want to
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come through, and I didn't want to blame the child. If you tell
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a mother that their child doesn't want to come through because they're mad at them,
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that is going to devastate her, devastate her. And I'm hoping that
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this person is okay that I'm sharing this. I'm pretty sure it's okay because
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she doesn't nobody knows any names. But if your medium tells you that your
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person is mad at you, I would definitely then find a different medium because
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spirits, they don't really carry the anger. The only time I've ever seen
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spirits carry the anger is if they've been murdered, and they really don't carry
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They just want justice, is all right, They want justice and and so.
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But if you've had a fight or if something, they don't carry that
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with them. They watch their life review, and they look at that and
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they know why you said the things you said, why you did the things
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they did, and they see why they did because they see the bigger picture.
30:15
They know that maybe you had a really hard day, or they see
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why clear back to when they were three, clear back why you did that
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when you were three years old, why it triggered you. Then they see
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all that and they pretty much can just let it go. It's like water
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under the bridge, and if it's something that they haven't let go, they'll
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tell me, we'll figure it out on the other side. But they don't
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come through mad. They don't come through and say, no child is going
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to come through mad at the mom, especially a good mom, like a
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mom that wants to see your child. If the mom maybe murdered the child.
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Maybe I don't know. See that's the thing. I've never experienced it,
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so I don't know. So that's a hard one. Just don't that's
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hard for me to know that that those are the things. Just don't ever
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think that spirit doesn't come through because I'm mad at you, because I never
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ever run across that. Now, in five years, I might change my
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mind. I might be like, huh, yeah, I guess they can
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get mad. But right now, I've done twenty years worth of readings and
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I've never seen it. And I do three readings every day, so I
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don't know. We'll see, but don't if somebody tells you, if a
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medium tells you that that person's mad at you, go to another medium and
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get his second opinion, really do it, because it's not it's not all
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entirely true. So I hope that helps you, guys. I hope that
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helps with your readings. I hope that that helps if you're a medium,
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I hope that it just helps you. I just want you to know that
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you are amazing and you're good. And so people are just doing the best
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they can every day, right in everything, in every situation. So and
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there are there are just like there are bad doctors and there are bad dentists,
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there's going to be some bad mediums and so. And I don't mean
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and like bad because they're not trying. I mean, their intentions are because
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they want to prove how great they are. They want money or it's a
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it's a it's not to heal. So just watch that. I love you
32:12
guys so much, and I will come up with some more groups. We
32:17
have a lot going on this summer. I have a baby that's due.
32:21
Like I told you about Anna wedding, I told you about those and so,
32:24
and we're redoing our kitchen. Our house is twenty years old and we're
32:29
redoing our kitchen. It's kind of a mess. So I am going to
32:31
I have an event that's in July, I think July eighteenth, but it
32:35
got so without super fast, so I'm going to probably create another one right
32:39
after it, probably the first of August. And also too, I have
32:43
a manifesting course class coming up June twenty seventh, and it is in house.
32:49
It is so if you're in the Idofalls area, you can come.
32:51
I'm going to teach you all about manifesting and yeah, manifesting and creating things
32:57
that you love and that you desire and what you want and how it works
33:00
for you. So I love you guys so much, and I want you
33:02
to remember that you have everything that you need inside of you. Okay.
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I want you to always remember that because you arethebomb dot com. So I
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love you, guys, and I will see you next week.