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Cruz Control (The Valley Recap) · Two Ts In A Pod with Teddi Mellencamp and Tamra Judge

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  Speaker 1: Two Teas in a Pod.
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  Speaker 2: It's Teddy Mellencamp and camera judge.
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  Speaker 3: Hi, guys, welcome to another episode of Two Teas and
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  Speaker 3: a Pod with myself, Teddy Mellencamp and Dolores Catanya.
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  Speaker 2: How are you everyone today?
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  Speaker 3: I wasn't feeling well this morning and right now and
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  Speaker 3: I are boasting in the same house. And so this
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  Speaker 3: morning he saw me and he's like, you don't look good.
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  Speaker 3: I'm like, I know, I don't feel good. And I'm like,
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  Speaker 3: can you give me a blanket? He's like, A what
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  Speaker 3: I'm like a blanket? Bank And he's like, hold on,
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  Speaker 3: like a what I'm like like a blanket?
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  Speaker 2: The maternal instinct is uncanny. I mean, I just don't
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  Speaker 2: know where it comes from. A dead possum maybe I
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  Speaker 2: don't know.
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  Speaker 3: I cannot believe we've gone through three rounds of a blanket.
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  Speaker 1: He's like, where do I get it?
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  Speaker 3: I'm like, you've never used a blanket in all the
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  Speaker 3: years we've lived at this house.
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  Speaker 1: When they're in the blanket for hmmm, I go to
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  Speaker 1: the place.
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  Speaker 3: Well, let's start there talking about Okay, so it starts
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  Speaker 3: off this episode of the Valley. We're already at episode
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  Speaker 3: fourteen you we're pretty fast.
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  Speaker 2: It really is. Like, honestly, in the beginning, I was like,
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  Speaker 2: oh God, how do I get through it? And then
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  Speaker 2: like it picked up and now the real adults having
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  Speaker 2: real problems, and I feel for them.
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  Speaker 1: I feel for them too.
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  Speaker 3: I also have moments where like, the good thing about
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  Speaker 3: it is, even though sometimes some people are driving me
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  Speaker 3: absolutely nuts, then they come back around and then you
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  Speaker 3: see like a little bit of a deeming side in them,
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  Speaker 3: and I'm like, Okay, I can deal with this. I
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  Speaker 3: can see where this person's coming from.
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  Speaker 2: I'm a little bit like, huh. Like, to be honest,
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  Speaker 2: if I miss it, I'm not like, oh my god,
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  Speaker 2: I can't believe I missed it. I'm not feeling that
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  Speaker 2: way about it. But when I'm watching it, I'm invested
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  Speaker 2: at this point.
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  Speaker 3: And especially because this was a little bit of a
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  Speaker 3: filler episode, but it was still pretty good. It starts
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  Speaker 3: out where Jasmine meets Danny and na to give them
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  Speaker 3: a tour of a house that's up for sale.
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  Speaker 2: Nia, please having kids, because you're growing out of the
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  Speaker 2: house that you can afford, right, Like, she wants to just.
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  Speaker 1: Move to the town that's twenty more minutes you.
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  Speaker 2: Could do that. Do they want the name? Is that
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  Speaker 2: so important? And I used to be a realtor, I
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  Speaker 2: know this very well. They want the name or it's
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  Speaker 2: the school system is very important.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, Well they're going to get a better school system
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  Speaker 3: if they move somewhere like Castaic or Valencia, any of
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  Speaker 3: those places. They're going to get a great school system.
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  Speaker 3: They're going to live in a mansion. But Nia's stuck
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  Speaker 3: on this. I wish I think she's stuck on it
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  Speaker 3: because I think there's part of her reasoning why if
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  Speaker 3: they don't live in the valley, are they going to
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  Speaker 3: be on the valley? But I want to be like,
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  Speaker 3: no one from Beverly Hills actually lives in Beverly Hills.
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  Speaker 2: We could say that for a few shows, by the way,
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  Speaker 2: So just put a little adj adjacent and then we're fine. Yeah, Nia,
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  Speaker 2: I mean, you could give up on the No one's
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  Speaker 2: getting rid of you.
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  Speaker 3: No one's getting rid You're a fan favorite right now,
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  Speaker 3: even though I want to get into this hole. Either
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  Speaker 3: we're having another baby or we're having surgery type thing
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  Speaker 3: that we're going through with Neia. I think we're starting
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  Speaker 3: to see a different side of Nia. But before that,
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  Speaker 3: I want to know, did Danny tell Jasmine please go
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  Speaker 3: find the tiniest one million dollar home you possibly can.
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  Speaker 3: It's just not an appropriate house for when you have
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  Speaker 3: six four hundred and twenty two children. Like if I
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  Speaker 3: was going to go live in that house with one
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  Speaker 3: other person, great, Yes, I would probably if I was.
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  Speaker 2: Yonder and one other person and I didn't have my
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  Speaker 2: wardrobe yet, Like at eighteen, when I had one pair
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  Speaker 2: of sneakers and I borrowed shoes to go out with,
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  Speaker 2: that would have been so per and it actually had lights,
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  Speaker 2: like in my house we didn't have lights and sit
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  Speaker 2: like that. Yeah, so yeah, that would I think it's
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  Speaker 2: so nice for a starter couple, but not a family.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, so we look at this house.
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  Speaker 3: At this point, Nia is starting to see like she's
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  Speaker 3: going to come around. But I do think it means
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  Speaker 3: that there's going to be another baby coming.
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  Speaker 2: Well, then you better hold off on your booble lift
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  Speaker 2: because that'll be a big waste.
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  Speaker 1: Well, I have a question. She's very tough on her body.
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  Speaker 2: Who isn't.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, I'm tough.
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  Speaker 3: On my body too, but like, I don't know that
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  Speaker 3: I would be so tough if I was popping out
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  Speaker 3: four to seven children, right, But yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Because why because you would expect to lose.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I would expect it to be a little bit hard.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. So that's but she's still listen, she looks great
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  Speaker 2: for having kids back to back. You know, she looks amazing.
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  Speaker 2: But we're all our own worst critics. However, or plastic
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  Speaker 2: surgery should not be at the tip of your tongue
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  Speaker 2: or anywhere is near coming out of your mouth when
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  Speaker 2: you're considering having another child. Still, it's one or the other.
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  Speaker 3: Then we get to Kristin and Luke talking about their
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  Speaker 3: doctor's appointment, Kristin blaming their inability to conceive on her
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  Speaker 3: age and her body. I can only imagine what she's
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  Speaker 3: kind of going through because now they've just gotten the
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  Speaker 3: you know, we see the doctor saying, oh, Luke, you've
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  Speaker 3: got plenty of your numbers are looking good, and then they're.
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  Speaker 2: Like and then she feels like it's her right.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I remember when I could get pregnant naturally and
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  Speaker 3: the amount of stress that I put on myself, and
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  Speaker 3: I even remember the last time around the doctor said
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  Speaker 3: to me, this is the last time we're letting you
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  Speaker 3: do this, really, because you are beating yourself up and
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  Speaker 3: you're putting yourself like you're gonna have to wait a bit.
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  Speaker 3: And so then that was the only time that I
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  Speaker 3: didn't fully like obsess like.
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  Speaker 1: Getting the test.
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  Speaker 3: The day that they said I could get the test, like,
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  Speaker 3: I was just more casual about everything. I went home
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  Speaker 3: for Christmas, I went whatever, They're like, then you're gonna
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  Speaker 3: miss your test. I'm like, but is the test going
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  Speaker 3: to do anything other than tell me I'm pregnant or
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  Speaker 3: not pregnant, And they're like no, I'm like, okay, so
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  Speaker 3: when I get home from Christmas, I'll come in and check.
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  Speaker 1: And that was the time I was pregnant.
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  Speaker 2: I feel like stress is such a component of that
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  Speaker 2: making it harder. I just do I because when I
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  Speaker 2: hear so many stories people saying, I mean, it's been
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  Speaker 2: five hundred years since I was pregnant, so I can't, like,
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  Speaker 2: you know whatever, I can't relate, but I feel for
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  Speaker 2: you when you're going through that. It's hard. But I
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  Speaker 2: say to myself, like so many people are like, well,
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  Speaker 2: when I stop caring, that's when it happened.
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  Speaker 3: But then when you're in the place where you are caring,
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  Speaker 3: it really pisses you off.
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  Speaker 1: That people say that, so it's hard.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, it's a lose lose, I mean, And I also
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  Speaker 3: remember if you don't feel stressed, if you feel casual,
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  Speaker 3: you're going to do better. And that's the same thing
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  Speaker 3: people have said to me about cancer stuff.
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  Speaker 1: And I'm like, I know when.
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  Speaker 3: Other people say it to you, it's very different than
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  Speaker 3: when it's sinking in for yourself.
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  Speaker 2: Sometimes it's better to say nothing, right teddy, But people
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  Speaker 2: want to say something to you because they feel they
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  Speaker 2: want to make you feel better. They truly are broke,
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  Speaker 2: heartbroken over you. And there's so many wrong things to
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  Speaker 2: say and so little right things to say.
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  Speaker 1: Is the problem.
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  Speaker 3: And no matter what, nothing anybody else says to you,
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  Speaker 3: when you're going through a hardship like either one of
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  Speaker 3: these things like you really really want a baby and
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  Speaker 3: you're trying to get pregnant, or if you have cancer,
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  Speaker 3: or if one of your family members is sick or
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  Speaker 3: whatever it may be, there's really nothing anybody can say
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  Speaker 3: that's going to take away your personal pain or what
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  Speaker 3: you're upset about.
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  Speaker 2: No, so what would you since you've been through both
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  Speaker 2: of these things that we're talking about, what would be
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  Speaker 2: the suggestion to somebody on the other side, talking to
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  Speaker 2: the person who's going through it, what would you suggest
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  Speaker 2: to them?
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  Speaker 3: I personally don't like when people would suggest to me,
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  Speaker 3: like their doctors or different ways that they were able
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  Speaker 3: to make it.
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  Speaker 1: Work, like unless it's like, oh, my gosh, I had
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  Speaker 1: the same issue.
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  Speaker 3: My acupuncturist is amazing. Do you want to see them?
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  Speaker 3: You know, those types of things. Light messaging I was
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  Speaker 3: fine with. But anytime somebody was like, oh, you know
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  Speaker 3: what you need to do. You need to relax, you
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  Speaker 3: need to make sure you're getting your rest, you know,
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  Speaker 3: I'd be like, you know what you need to do?
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  Speaker 3: Imagine how hard it is for me to feel relaxed.
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  Speaker 3: So I would say the biggest thing that I would
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  Speaker 3: say is just have somebody say, hey, I'm here for you,
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  Speaker 3: I love you, and anything that you need.
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  Speaker 2: Let me know makes sense.
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  Speaker 3: And then it's like you're not even forced to respond
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  Speaker 3: if you don't want to. And your real friends know
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  Speaker 3: that if you don't respond, it has nothing to do
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  Speaker 3: with them.
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  Speaker 1: It's just what you're going through exactly. Real friends, that's
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  Speaker 1: the big that's the thing that.
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  Speaker 2: Really care about you, because it's not about them at
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  Speaker 2: the time. It's not about them getting their answer from you.
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  Speaker 2: It's not about how they made you feel that they
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  Speaker 2: need to know. It's about you.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's about you.
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  Speaker 3: And then when you come around, you're going to feel
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  Speaker 3: better and they're going to feel better because nobody applied
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  Speaker 3: pressure on each other.
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  Speaker 1: But I think that Luke.
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  Speaker 3: Does a really excellent job of making Kristen feel good
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  Speaker 3: and also saying.
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  Speaker 1: A lovely guy, yeah, and also saying like would you dabbed?
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  Speaker 1: Would you do? How would you feel if I did? Surrogacy?
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  Speaker 3: And I mean you could tell that hurt her to
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  Speaker 3: have that conversation, but I think those are real conversations
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  Speaker 3: that need to be happy we had.
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  Speaker 2: And but you know what, Teddy, he he did it
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  Speaker 2: in a way that was very empathetic to her. I
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  Speaker 2: feel like the way he worded it in a situation
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  Speaker 2: like that, especially for a woman, it's all in presentation.
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  Speaker 2: Like I'll say, Paul, when he tries to tell me something,
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  Speaker 2: I go, well, I shut down after the last sentence
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  Speaker 2: because you didn't approach me with it. Well, yeah, like
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  Speaker 2: you came at me with it, You didn't suggest it more.
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  Speaker 2: I think he came to her more of a suggestion
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  Speaker 2: than anything. Yeah, however it was that he did it.
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  Speaker 2: I did at the time feel he was a very
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  Speaker 2: gentle man about it, which.
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  Speaker 1: I did too.
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  Speaker 3: I thought that he was very gentle about it, and
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  Speaker 3: also he took away.
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  Speaker 1: I think a lot of.
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  Speaker 3: Men, whether they mean to or not, but when you're
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  Speaker 3: significant others trying to get pregnant, they want to put
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  Speaker 3: blame on something like, but did you have that special
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  Speaker 3: drink that they told you to have at ten am
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  Speaker 3: when they told you to have it, Or didn't you
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  Speaker 3: have a champagne three weeks ago?
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  Speaker 1: Are you not supposed to drink?
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  Speaker 3: You know, like they start like pinning, like trying to
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  Speaker 3: pick reasons. Meanwhile, where like most people that get pregnant
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  Speaker 3: are like sixteen and like aren't trying or probably drinking
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  Speaker 3: as a total disaster.
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  Speaker 1: So like, you know, if you're gonna.
• 11:03
  Speaker 3: Exactly what about the James May photo shoot with your
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  Speaker 3: hair today?
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  Speaker 1: You could really just zip right into it. Oh shirt on.
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  Speaker 2: She's such a pretty girl, Yeah, Brandy, she really is pretty.
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  Speaker 1: She's pretty.
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  Speaker 3: I think I think the entire you see the house
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  Speaker 3: that you know they're going through it while they're taking
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  Speaker 3: their pictures. Of course, Jax calls and asks for his
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  Speaker 3: ring verification code.
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  Speaker 2: Does he ever leave her alone? You know what I
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  Speaker 2: think they really I think he's I think he loves her,
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  Speaker 2: but he's just a disaster. Do you think there are.
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  Speaker 3: Some people that are capable of ever not cheating or
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  Speaker 3: do you think, like if once I think this massive
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  Speaker 3: of a cheater, you're a cheater for the rest of
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  Speaker 3: your life. No.
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  Speaker 2: I was told once from my cousin. He was my
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  Speaker 2: mentor growing up. He owned, bought a bank, he owned
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  Speaker 2: strip clubs. You owned a lot of things. And he
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  Speaker 2: said that when men, you can never change a man,
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  Speaker 2: but they change in like they start to change in
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  Speaker 2: their late fifties and early sixties because when they're and
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  Speaker 2: I've said this before, when that stops working, they start
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  Speaker 2: to think about who they're going to die with, right,
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  Speaker 2: Like it becomes all of a sudden they aren't like immortal,
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  Speaker 2: like they find this human side to them, like, oh
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  Speaker 2: my god, like this this isn't everything anymore. But that
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  Speaker 2: doesn't that I don't.
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  Speaker 1: Think that means that's what Brittany should do.
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  Speaker 3: I don't think that means Brittany has to wait until
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  Speaker 3: she can no longer have sex to being a good.
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  Speaker 2: By the way, I think Brittany, I think Jacks has
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  Speaker 2: so much more trouble than cheating. There's just so much.
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  Speaker 2: It's endless, And I think that Jacks should become a
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  Speaker 2: monk for a while and stay away from everyone and
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  Speaker 2: go find himself with a bunch of monks in a
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  Speaker 2: mountain and not come back down until he cannot hurt it.
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  Speaker 3: Anyone monks in a mountain, that's gonna go on a
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  Speaker 3: T shirt instead of it saying jackx's he just wear
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  Speaker 3: monks in a mountain.
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  Speaker 2: No, that's it, That's where he needs to be. But
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  Speaker 2: I mean, this is an extensive, extensive therapy.
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  Speaker 1: And yeah, like this isn't going anywhere anytime soon.
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  Speaker 2: Some cornball thing that he was at where they gave
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  Speaker 2: him his phone to abuse his wife every day.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, then Jesse visits Jacks's apartment for the first time.
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  Speaker 3: You can tell Jacks is uncomfortable even showing his apartment,
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  Speaker 3: which I'm like, listen, this is a thousand square feet
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  Speaker 3: bigger than the one we just sol for me, and
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  Speaker 3: he was really worked up about having to do. This
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  Speaker 3: is a stairs, Yeah, so you have to walk up
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  Speaker 3: some stairs, Jacks.
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  Speaker 1: You've got a lot of pent up energy.
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  Speaker 2: Go go wear yourself out after you go food chopping
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  Speaker 2: and have to bring up all the bags.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, you know what, but he kind of made
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  Speaker 3: me like there were moments of things that he would
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  Speaker 3: like just he was he's such a hypocrite, like he'd
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  Speaker 3: be like, oh, you know, I'm totally and Jesse. I
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  Speaker 3: really liked this episode because Jesse's realized that he now
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  Speaker 3: needs Michelle to like him, and he's coming around.
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  Speaker 2: This was a really pivotal moment for a lot of
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  Speaker 2: people in this episode.
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  Speaker 3: By the way, Yeah, well Jack, Jack's is still worked
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  Speaker 3: up because he found out that Brittany is dating someone else.
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  Speaker 3: I'm sorry, we're on episode fourteen. Hasn't she been dating
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  Speaker 3: somebody else since the beginning of it?
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  Speaker 2: Because as I checked, he threw a table at her
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  Speaker 2: because she was showing she had like beIN shots on
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  Speaker 2: her kids. I passed, Yeah, I'm not sure this is
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  Speaker 2: news to him.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, And like, who aren't you seeing somebody else?
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  Speaker 2: Why?
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  Speaker 3: Why are we still talking about let's talk about the
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  Speaker 3: fact that you two can't have one decent conversation together.
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  Speaker 3: Why figure out a decent schedule for your child?
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  Speaker 2: Well, they better figure it out real soon, because it's
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  Speaker 2: not about them anymore. I you know, I want to say,
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  Speaker 2: I say I want to find something wrong with her
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  Speaker 2: in all this, because it always you can always say
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  Speaker 2: it takes two. I don't want to be biased because
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  Speaker 2: she's a woman. I'm not looking at it like that.
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  Speaker 2: But this girl did nothing wrong. She did absolutely nothing wrong.
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  Speaker 3: Did she Well, I don't think she did anything wrong.
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  Speaker 3: But I think the problem is that there was so
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  Speaker 3: many times that they would have these massive fights and
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  Speaker 3: break up, get back together. You know, this is throughout
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  Speaker 3: before they were even engaged or married, and then she
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  Speaker 3: still got engaged to him. I don't think going into
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  Speaker 3: it she thought this is going to work out well.
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  Speaker 1: And I think they're addicted to fighting with each other.
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  Speaker 2: I think she did. I think that she thought, I
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  Speaker 2: think should change him. I think I think he loves her,
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  Speaker 2: believe it or not. I think right now he loves
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  Speaker 2: her more than she.
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  Speaker 1: Loves only because she's pushing him away.
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  Speaker 2: You can't. How can you not love someone who has
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  Speaker 2: stuck by you through your abuse, through your this. And
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  Speaker 2: I mean not that he knows how to love or
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  Speaker 2: not that he shows it, but he has to feel
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  Speaker 2: something for her. We know he has deep rooted issues
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  Speaker 2: with family and all these unresolved issues that he has.
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  Speaker 2: And how could he She's all he has in this world.
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  Speaker 3: I know, and I think he knows that Andy away,
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  Speaker 3: but he's been pushing her away for over ten years.
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  Speaker 2: Well, everybody has a breaking point, some closer than others.
• 16:42
  Speaker 3: That's true. That's true. Well, then we'll get back to them.
• 16:46
  Speaker 3: But Nea goes to the doctor for her consultation for
• 16:48
  Speaker 3: her mommy makeover. She gets emotional when the doctor says
• 16:52
  Speaker 3: parts of her body are almost at an extreme level?
• 16:55
  Speaker 2: What does that mean?
• 16:57
  Speaker 3: So like to me, I be wrong, but I this
• 17:01
  Speaker 3: is like the one area I I went in and
• 17:04
  Speaker 3: got everything.
• 17:04
  Speaker 1: Checked too after I had my kids.
• 17:07
  Speaker 3: But he said that like the way that her boobs
• 17:11
  Speaker 3: are falling is an extreme level, which means that she
• 17:15
  Speaker 3: would have to get a lift, And then I think
• 17:18
  Speaker 3: one of those like nets where they pull it up.
• 17:20
  Speaker 3: And then also, you know, it's like essentially a big surgery.
• 17:25
  Speaker 3: It's not like you're just going in to get your
• 17:26
  Speaker 3: tits done.
• 17:27
  Speaker 2: I've had it five times, just like that. I've had
• 17:30
  Speaker 2: five lifts. I've had five I don't know, you got.
• 17:33
  Speaker 1: A lift every time?
• 17:35
  Speaker 3: Yeah, See, I've.
• 17:38
  Speaker 2: Had my nipples taken off more times than I can't
• 17:40
  Speaker 2: count and put back on.
• 17:43
  Speaker 3: How many nipples are They always the same ones that
• 17:46
  Speaker 3: come back on.
• 17:47
  Speaker 2: Yes, they put the same ones back on. Thank god
• 17:49
  Speaker 2: they don't lose them or anything. But yeah, so yes,
• 17:53
  Speaker 2: I've had I've had it done so many times, and
• 17:57
  Speaker 2: you really make sure you have the right doctor because
• 18:00
  Speaker 2: it's not easy. They kelloyd and things like that, and listen,
• 18:06
  Speaker 2: and I'll be having them done it again, by the way.
• 18:08
  Speaker 1: A minor do. But because of my cancer stuff, I
• 18:12
  Speaker 1: have to.
• 18:13
  Speaker 3: Gosh, dang it, I have to take a break from
• 18:15
  Speaker 3: getting my boobs done.
• 18:17
  Speaker 2: I'm so sorry.
• 18:19
  Speaker 1: Can now believe it?
• 18:21
  Speaker 2: Now I feel bad for you.
• 18:22
  Speaker 1: Listen, I have to go my botox and tits.
• 18:25
  Speaker 2: Now I feel for you.
• 18:26
  Speaker 1: You should feel for me.
• 18:27
  Speaker 2: Sucks.
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: Well, you know what, you want to feel bad for
• 18:30
  Speaker 1: me again? Get my Tit's done, okay, you listen, listen.
• 18:35
  Speaker 1: This was a really bad day.
• 18:38
  Speaker 3: So you know about ten years ago when I went
• 18:41
  Speaker 3: to get my boobs done right after cruise because I
• 18:43
  Speaker 3: didn't know that Dove was coming.
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: The woman the doctor who did my boob.
• 18:48
  Speaker 3: Said, listen, if there's a spot that needs a little
• 18:52
  Speaker 3: bit more volume, would you like us to take fat
• 18:55
  Speaker 3: from any of your areas? And I was like, yes,
• 18:57
  Speaker 3: please take it from my inner thighs and she's like, great,
• 19:00
  Speaker 3: we'll do that. I thought that meant that was a
• 19:02
  Speaker 3: confirmation of what they'll do. And then I woke up
• 19:06
  Speaker 3: and the first thing I did was check in my thighs,
• 19:09
  Speaker 3: like it's nobody's business. I'm like, hold on, I don't
• 19:11
  Speaker 3: feel anything. And they're like, we didn't need any extra volume.
• 19:15
  Speaker 2: Oh no, I couldn't let you borrow seven if you
• 19:18
  Speaker 2: need it.
• 19:19
  Speaker 3: I know. I was like, no, I wanted to so fat.
• 19:23
  Speaker 2: I'm like, well, you're around her. Get it all done.
• 19:26
  Speaker 2: I'm getting fat taken out of They can have their choice.
• 19:29
  Speaker 2: I just don't need it. On the inside. I need it,
• 19:31
  Speaker 2: and they're gonna put it in my hands for wrinkles.
• 19:35
  Speaker 2: For wrinkles, I'm putting it and I'm doing a skin
• 19:38
  Speaker 2: tightening with renovale on at the end of this month.
• 19:41
  Speaker 1: My gosh, can I come? Am I allowed to get
• 19:43
  Speaker 1: these things yet?
• 19:44
  Speaker 3: You know?
• 19:44
  Speaker 2: I mean, I'm not your doctor, but I'm gonna tell
• 19:46
  Speaker 2: you you're my friend. Yeah, you come with me wherever
• 19:48
  Speaker 2: I go. I get it for you too. We'll get
• 19:50
  Speaker 2: it two.
• 19:51
  Speaker 1: First, we'll do it. We'll do a little paid post.
• 19:53
  Speaker 1: I'll wear my brown wigs so.
• 19:56
  Speaker 2: We can match. It'll be like we'll have a little
• 19:59
  Speaker 2: girl's day.
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: You love it.
• 20:03
  Speaker 3: But the doctor goes on and on about the insecurities
• 20:08
  Speaker 3: that she's having. I have to say this, that doctor
• 20:11
  Speaker 3: would have had some problems if he would have used
• 20:14
  Speaker 3: some of that language about my body to me on camera.
• 20:18
  Speaker 1: Who was a little.
• 20:21
  Speaker 2: Well what did he not? All doctors have the best
• 20:23
  Speaker 2: bedside manner, by the way, Yeah, And I don't mind them.
• 20:27
  Speaker 2: I'm not like want to date them. I just want
• 20:29
  Speaker 2: a good doctor.
• 20:30
  Speaker 3: I at the end of the day, as long as
• 20:32
  Speaker 3: it's a good time. I mean, I'm watching Toxic right now,
• 20:34
  Speaker 3: which you need to watch. You're gonna be so obsessed.
• 20:37
  Speaker 2: Get out.
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: Really it's so good.
• 20:40
  Speaker 3: So Armie Hammer's wife or I don't know if it's
• 20:43
  Speaker 3: his ex wife at this point, is on a show
• 20:45
  Speaker 3: called Toxic Okay, and it it's based on people who
• 20:51
  Speaker 3: go in and they have these like toxic relationships and
• 20:54
  Speaker 3: how they get out of them and how they Oh my.
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: God, I'm hooked.
• 20:58
  Speaker 2: Why So is it like a or is a seriousity?
• 21:02
  Speaker 3: It's serious, but it's based on the truth and you're
• 21:04
  Speaker 3: seeing the actual people it's happened to.
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: It's so good.
• 21:08
  Speaker 3: Write it down toxic. I think it's on Netflix, But
• 21:13
  Speaker 3: if it's not on Netflix, you can do your own googling.
• 21:15
  Speaker 3: I'm sure, Paul can.
• 21:17
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna watch I haven't had a minute, but I'm
• 21:20
  Speaker 2: gonna watch it.
• 21:20
  Speaker 3: You're gonna need to do it, and then we're gonna
• 21:22
  Speaker 3: have to touch base. Did you think it was necessary
• 21:25
  Speaker 3: to prove a point?
• 21:26
  Speaker 2: What point was proved?
• 21:28
  Speaker 3: I guess the point that they're trying to prove is
• 21:31
  Speaker 3: like he al together for as Janet.
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 21:34
  Speaker 2: Yeah, because anybody who ever got a tattoo with a
• 21:36
  Speaker 2: woman's face or somebody's name on them never, I mean,
• 21:40
  Speaker 2: that's that's like a for sure. Oh last, that's hitting
• 21:45
  Speaker 2: at home because that lasts forever.
• 21:48
  Speaker 3: And if I was a woman and I saw a
• 21:50
  Speaker 3: hot guy and he had a baby, tiny little line
• 21:52
  Speaker 3: on his finger, I'd be like, he's married, that's get
• 21:55
  Speaker 3: stay away from that one.
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: Paul had one when I met him, tiny little line.
• 22:00
  Speaker 2: No, he had his writing bands. He got it removed,
• 22:03
  Speaker 2: Oh he did.
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: Now does he have a white spot there?
• 22:07
  Speaker 2: No, it's totally on. There's nothing there.
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: I hope when it's you, it's just your face smiling
• 22:12
  Speaker 1: like that, when.
• 22:14
  Speaker 2: You know what it is when you're gonna get those tattoos.
• 22:17
  Speaker 2: A little word to the wise, guys, don't make it
• 22:21
  Speaker 2: so dark. Make it so that if you ever want
• 22:24
  Speaker 2: to have it removed, that it's very light. There's a way.
• 22:28
  Speaker 2: There's it, like.
• 22:29
  Speaker 3: Yeah, you could, you could do multiple ways. But as
• 22:32
  Speaker 3: I was watching it, all I could think about was
• 22:34
  Speaker 3: my dad. So, my dad, when he was younger, him
• 22:37
  Speaker 3: and my mom both got matching tattoos with themselves. My
• 22:40
  Speaker 3: mom's tattoo was like probably this big, like very very tiny.
• 22:45
  Speaker 3: My dad got a tattoo of my mom's face the
• 22:48
  Speaker 3: entire size of his shoulder.
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: So when they broke up.
• 22:52
  Speaker 3: You want to know what he did. It was this
• 22:53
  Speaker 3: beautiful woman's face. He turned it into Jesus.
• 22:57
  Speaker 2: Oh well, let me tell you if somebody who's gonna
• 23:02
  Speaker 2: change my face into someone else is why not who's
• 23:05
  Speaker 2: better than Jesus? That's actually like you're almost okay with that.
• 23:09
  Speaker 2: You're like, well, at least it wasn't another woman.
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean Jesus, I mean Jesus or gosh, like that,
• 23:18
  Speaker 1: but hey.
• 23:19
  Speaker 2: Turn my face into Jesus all day long.
• 23:22
  Speaker 3: Not offended, not offended, But either way, I'm watching Janet
• 23:26
  Speaker 3: and Jason. I'm thinking these two protest too much. I'm
• 23:29
  Speaker 3: over it, trying to give them a little credit. Then
• 23:31
  Speaker 3: Nia heads over to Kristen's house. They chat about Kristen's
• 23:35
  Speaker 3: struggles with conceiving. Nia opens up about wanting a mommy makeover.
• 23:39
  Speaker 3: All this, I'm over it. I'm over it. I don't
• 23:42
  Speaker 3: care about the mommy makeover anymore until you get it,
• 23:44
  Speaker 3: and then I'll say it looks amazing. But I'm gonna
• 23:47
  Speaker 3: tell you.
• 23:49
  Speaker 2: Mommy makeover is of all of us who don't know,
• 23:52
  Speaker 2: which we all know is what is it? It's boobs
• 23:55
  Speaker 2: light up and tummy tuck. That's a rough one. That's
• 24:00
  Speaker 2: it's like the trifecta that you know.
• 24:03
  Speaker 1: That's like rough with four little kids.
• 24:06
  Speaker 2: Yeah, she better have some more help than just him.
• 24:10
  Speaker 3: She better because even when I had my necklift done,
• 24:13
  Speaker 3: I love we could do a full podcast twist on
• 24:15
  Speaker 3: our surgeries. But when I had my necklift on, my
• 24:17
  Speaker 3: kids were older and I'm still it was rough. Like
• 24:22
  Speaker 3: still to this day.
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: I'm like, am I swallowing I'm not sure.
• 24:28
  Speaker 2: When I got my Brazilian butt lift. I couldn't feel
• 24:31
  Speaker 2: my butt for a long time. My pants were down
• 24:33
  Speaker 2: in the back, like literally all the way down. My
• 24:37
  Speaker 2: whole ass was hanging out. I was walking down the street.
• 24:39
  Speaker 2: I had bags, and I didn't know that my ass
• 24:41
  Speaker 2: was out because I couldn't feel anything.
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: Oh God, who wants to give a surgery? Ready for
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: the next.
• 24:56
  Speaker 3: So Jax goes over to Britney's house to discuss their
• 24:58
  Speaker 3: co parenting arrangement.
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: But the first thing Brittany.
• 25:01
  Speaker 3: Asks him is how many xanax have you taken? Because
• 25:05
  Speaker 3: I'm not even like yourself.
• 25:07
  Speaker 2: No, I saw that, and I mean I don't know, like,
• 25:13
  Speaker 2: is he taken? That's a problem because you know, that's
• 25:15
  Speaker 2: the lot of times the precursor to Heroine.
• 25:19
  Speaker 1: But also she'd already called him out for doing cocaine
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: on camera. Now she's got to bring up the xanax?
• 25:28
  Speaker 2: Is he? But I don't really vehemently just deny it.
• 25:34
  Speaker 3: He just he didn't say how many. Oh, I mean,
• 25:39
  Speaker 3: I don't know how many is too many and how
• 25:41
  Speaker 3: many is regular? But I would assume, well, I don't
• 25:45
  Speaker 3: think he he didn't get that mad about it like
• 25:48
  Speaker 3: he's like, listen, you already accused me of cocaine.
• 25:50
  Speaker 2: Maybe he's just sick of hearing her. But I'm starting
• 25:54
  Speaker 2: to wonder. I'm like whatever, He's like, that's the least
• 25:58
  Speaker 2: of what you've accused me of these days. But here's
• 26:02
  Speaker 2: I mean, this fight got to me, to be honest,
• 26:05
  Speaker 2: it really hurt me. For them, I kind of felt it.
• 26:09
  Speaker 2: We've all been there. We've all been in that place
• 26:12
  Speaker 2: where you can't even look at each other. It's just
• 26:15
  Speaker 2: to that point there, and then I want to know
• 26:19
  Speaker 2: why she couldn't look at him. Could she not look
• 26:21
  Speaker 2: at him because she hates him or because she loves him?
• 26:24
  Speaker 2: And that's what confused me at the end, Like not confused,
• 26:28
  Speaker 2: but I was curious.
• 26:29
  Speaker 3: My guess is that she is so shocked when he
• 26:34
  Speaker 3: openly admits that he's not going to help support their child.
• 26:39
  Speaker 3: She can't look at him. But she seemed fine about everything,
• 26:43
  Speaker 3: like she kind of was just going through it. But like,
• 26:44
  Speaker 3: you're not seeing my son, you're not getting my ring camera,
• 26:47
  Speaker 3: you're not doing this.
• 26:49
  Speaker 2: She's setting boundaries. He goes, I came here to set boundaries, bitch.
• 26:53
  Speaker 2: She already set the boundaries and she and also.
• 26:55
  Speaker 3: If you want to set boundaries, and like this comes
• 26:58
  Speaker 3: from and like I am, I don't know if you
• 27:01
  Speaker 3: called if I'm in the middle of a divorce anymore.
• 27:03
  Speaker 3: I was getting divorced and then I almost died, so
• 27:06
  Speaker 3: then everything got put on hold.
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: But like it's just because like.
• 27:09
  Speaker 2: I don't think you call it in the middle of
• 27:10
  Speaker 2: the divorce anymore.
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: Do you just call it? But we're not back together?
• 27:14
  Speaker 1: So what do you call?
• 27:15
  Speaker 2: You just it's hold.
• 27:18
  Speaker 3: It's on hold because the one of the people divorcing
• 27:22
  Speaker 3: is not in a place where she can deal with lawyers.
• 27:26
  Speaker 2: No, but listen, it can Yeah, it's just right now,
• 27:31
  Speaker 2: it's on hold.
• 27:32
  Speaker 3: Yeah, So whatever it is that we call it, not
• 27:35
  Speaker 3: back together with my ex, not divorced, that's.
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: What we are. But I think that.
• 27:45
  Speaker 3: You have to set up some sort of a schedule
• 27:49
  Speaker 3: unless she is never gonna let Jack see that her
• 27:52
  Speaker 3: son again. But like, I don't think there's anything wrong
• 27:55
  Speaker 3: with Jack's trying to say, Okay, what days can I
• 27:57
  Speaker 3: see my son?
• 27:58
  Speaker 2: There's not. And here's the thing, she cannot fight with
• 28:03
  Speaker 2: him if they're gonna co parent. I do feel it
• 28:07
  Speaker 2: should be a supervised visits. She should at least be
• 28:10
  Speaker 2: around for a while until he does prove himself, which
• 28:14
  Speaker 2: he hasn't yet, not to me anyway. I feel that
• 28:17
  Speaker 2: you cannot fight in front of the kids. You cannot.
• 28:21
  Speaker 2: And when I was getting divorced, I went to see
• 28:24
  Speaker 2: a therapist. It was the school therapist, because I had
• 28:27
  Speaker 2: never heard of a therapist before where I grew up.
• 28:29
  Speaker 2: I had to go to school one time because I
• 28:31
  Speaker 2: got up fist fight, and everybody got up fist fight anyway,
• 28:33
  Speaker 2: so there was the school therapist. So the only one
• 28:35
  Speaker 2: I knew to cole was doctor Platt. I go to
• 28:38
  Speaker 2: doctor Platt. I have an infant in one hand and
• 28:40
  Speaker 2: a three year old hanging off my leg, and I'm
• 28:43
  Speaker 2: sitting with all high school kids in the waiting area
• 28:46
  Speaker 2: and this kid walks out and he's punching and he's
• 28:49
  Speaker 2: kicking the walls and his mom is behind him, broken hearted,
• 28:53
  Speaker 2: and I like, go around them. I sit down. I'm broken.
• 28:56
  Speaker 2: I'm almost half dead. And I said to her, what
• 28:59
  Speaker 2: do I do to make them not grow up to
• 29:02
  Speaker 2: be so angry? And she said, don't fight in front
• 29:05
  Speaker 2: of them. And then and from there, Teddy, everything halted.
• 29:11
  Speaker 2: I stopped. I let things go that I didn't care
• 29:15
  Speaker 2: about money was there. It was there if it was,
• 29:18
  Speaker 2: and it wasn't. For a long time it was. And
• 29:20
  Speaker 2: then when it wasn't, I just picked up my big
• 29:22
  Speaker 2: girl pants and I went and found it myself, like
• 29:24
  Speaker 2: you know, seeing that child and so much pain and
• 29:29
  Speaker 2: her saying that to me was enough for me to
• 29:32
  Speaker 2: do what I had to do. And it was at
• 29:33
  Speaker 2: a very good time that I needed and I took.
• 29:36
  Speaker 2: There was frustration through it, because you know, when you
• 29:38
  Speaker 2: hold things in, you take them out in the wrong ways.
• 29:41
  Speaker 2: I wasn't always the best mom, but I'm sure you
• 29:45
  Speaker 2: were a great mom. One thing I knew to do
• 29:48
  Speaker 2: was not fight in front of them. And Brittany has
• 29:50
  Speaker 2: to understand that she cannot show her hate towards him.
• 29:53
  Speaker 2: It's an anchor for her. It's detrimental to the baby.
• 29:56
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I think. I mean, I've been told that, you know.
• 29:59
  Speaker 3: And then if you are to get into some sort
• 30:02
  Speaker 3: of disagreement in front of your kids, the most important
• 30:05
  Speaker 3: thing for your kids is to see that you've had resolution.
• 30:10
  Speaker 2: Correct.
• 30:11
  Speaker 1: Yes, so there's conflict and then resolution.
• 30:14
  Speaker 3: Things don't just end human yeah right, yeah, and I'm human,
• 30:18
  Speaker 3: but I think that's the problem. They have so much
• 30:20
  Speaker 3: hate and love towards each other, but that they're not
• 30:24
  Speaker 3: making any of the right decisions, Like I felt like
• 30:27
  Speaker 3: Jack's probably left this and went and screamed into a
• 30:30
  Speaker 3: pillow for twenty five minutes, Like I don't think anything
• 30:32
  Speaker 3: was accomplished.
• 30:33
  Speaker 2: Yeah, so emotions does not travel in rational channels. So
• 30:38
  Speaker 2: until they can calm their emotionals down, emotion down, there
• 30:42
  Speaker 2: should be a schedule. There should be a family member
• 30:45
  Speaker 2: or a close friend for the supervised visit of the
• 30:47
  Speaker 2: baby with Jack so that she can go but on
• 30:51
  Speaker 2: a Saturday, on a set day. But until they can
• 30:54
  Speaker 2: get to that point, they cannot be together. If they're fighting,
• 30:58
  Speaker 2: it's no good. Like look at look at Kim Zolesiak
• 31:02
  Speaker 2: and what's his name? The way they would fight. On Instagram,
• 31:04
  Speaker 2: I wrote in one time, I said.
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: Listen, wrote in like I did.
• 31:08
  Speaker 2: I wrote a comment, I said, they're gonna this is scary.
• 31:12
  Speaker 1: But how does this work for the show?
• 31:14
  Speaker 2: Then?
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: How are they on a show together?
• 31:17
  Speaker 2: I don't care about the show. How about that I
• 31:20
  Speaker 2: care about that kid and the mental health of the
• 31:24
  Speaker 2: two of them. They don't have They shouldn't listen. People
• 31:27
  Speaker 2: on our show hated each other and phone for fourteen years?
• 31:30
  Speaker 2: What do you do you then? You know, just don't
• 31:33
  Speaker 2: film together. Everybody goes to the party. Stay away from
• 31:36
  Speaker 2: each other.
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you don't. Don't talk to each other.
• 31:38
  Speaker 2: Fighting, you know, killing each other. It's not going to
• 31:41
  Speaker 2: go it's not getting anywhere.
• 31:43
  Speaker 3: The only thing it's going to do is it's going
• 31:44
  Speaker 3: to potentially have both of you lose custody.
• 31:48
  Speaker 2: And that that's the least of it. How about what
• 31:51
  Speaker 2: he's going.
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: To go through?
• 31:53
  Speaker 3: What?
• 31:53
  Speaker 2: Yeah, go what he's going through? You know, where is
• 31:56
  Speaker 2: he when this fighting's going on? Is he in the
• 31:58
  Speaker 2: next room? Kids?
• 31:59
  Speaker 1: No more than we She was there when she threw
• 32:01
  Speaker 1: when he threw the That's what.
• 32:03
  Speaker 2: I'm saying, yew No, there's still time. He's young enough
• 32:08
  Speaker 2: where they can redeem themselves and get on with their
• 32:12
  Speaker 2: family in a nice way. There's love there, however you
• 32:16
  Speaker 2: want to see it. I do feel like there's love,
• 32:19
  Speaker 2: but the hate has to be buried and gone. Listen,
• 32:24
  Speaker 2: Brittany Jacks is not going to change. He's not going
• 32:26
  Speaker 2: to get any better. Do not expect anything from him.
• 32:30
  Speaker 2: Figure out how to make this work altogether.
• 32:32
  Speaker 3: Figure out how to make yourself happy, and figure out
• 32:35
  Speaker 3: a way that your son can see his father in
• 32:38
  Speaker 3: a healthy way.
• 32:39
  Speaker 2: Correct, And there are a lot of ways it is
• 32:43
  Speaker 2: it can be done. I hope for them if they
• 32:46
  Speaker 2: need help finding that somebody steps in and helps them.
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: I do too.
• 32:50
  Speaker 3: I hope that's how we start to like end the season,
• 32:53
  Speaker 3: because I mean, there's one episode left.
• 32:55
  Speaker 2: Let's end the season with some resolution to this, because
• 32:58
  Speaker 2: what I just saw is riveting. It is the price
• 33:03
  Speaker 2: you pay at the end of the day for this
• 33:05
  Speaker 2: that your health, your mental stability, the time you've lost
• 33:10
  Speaker 2: hating somebody, and the toll it takes on your child. Please,
• 33:14
  Speaker 2: I'm begging them. If you hear me, please you can
• 33:16
  Speaker 2: even call me and talk to me. I've been through it.
• 33:19
  Speaker 3: She will.
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: I will give you good advice.
• 33:22
  Speaker 2: I will. I'm here for you.
• 33:24
  Speaker 1: Yeah. Well, I love you, Dolores, and I will be
• 33:27
  Speaker 1: talking to you next week