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- 0:00Speaker 1: We are opening a file today that starts, well, ironically,
- 0:02Speaker 1: it starts with silence. It's a true crime deep dive.
- 0:05Speaker 1: But it's about more than just a single act of violence.
- 0:08Speaker 1: It's about a twenty year psychological spiral that ended brutally
- 0:15Speaker 1: in the farmland of Ossne, Giza, Egypt. Try to picture this.
- 0:20Speaker 1: It's twenty thirteen, the morning sun is just starting to
- 0:23Speaker 1: cut through the cool air over these fields just outside
- 0:26Speaker 1: the residential part of Osim. Locals are out, you know,
- 0:29Speaker 1: walking the dirt tracks, starting their day. And then someone
- 0:31Speaker 1: spots it, something really out of place, right.
- 0:33Speaker 2: A rough burlap sack just discarded near a grainage dish.
- 0:36Speaker 1: Exactly, and it's bulky, clearly heavy, and the fabric has
- 0:40Speaker 1: these dark stains dried blood unmistakably.
- 0:43Speaker 2: And that site, that grim discovery is what kicks off
- 0:46Speaker 2: the entire investigation into well two decades of betrayal.
- 0:49Speaker 1: So investigators get there, they process the scene. What do
- 0:52Speaker 1: they actually find? Inside?
- 0:54Speaker 2: They find the victim, a man looked to be in
- 0:56Speaker 2: his forties, and the forensic evidence immediately paints a pretty
- 0:59Speaker 2: terrifying pick. He'd been shot twice, yes, one round hit
- 1:03Speaker 2: his shoulder probably, you know, meant to incapacitate him. But
- 1:07Speaker 2: the second shot, the fatal one, was directly to the head.
- 1:10Speaker 1: Okay, so cause of death is clear, But there were
- 1:13Speaker 1: immediate puzzles, weren't.
- 1:14Speaker 2: There, oh, profound ones. First, despite two gunshots being fired,
- 1:19Speaker 2: nobody nearby, and this is a residential area. Remember, nobody
- 1:23Speaker 2: reported hearing anything overnight, which is strange.
- 1:26Speaker 1: It suggests either what really good sound dampening, or maybe
- 1:29Speaker 1: it happened in the dead of night, very precisely in
- 1:32Speaker 1: zach End.
- 1:32Speaker 2: The victim had zero identification on him, even stranger. Nobody
- 1:36Speaker 2: in the local area recognized his face.
- 1:38Speaker 1: So a complete mystery man, violently killed, silently dumped precisely.
- 1:43Speaker 2: And the initial question was just who could do something
- 1:46Speaker 2: like this, so efficient yet seemingly quite intimate.
- 1:49Speaker 1: And the answers they eventually found they uncovered this history
- 1:52Speaker 1: so corrosive, so defined by transaction instead of any kind
- 1:57Speaker 1: of partnership that had actually earned a chilling local midnight.
- 2:00Speaker 2: Which translates literally as give and take right.
- 2:03Speaker 1: But in this context, give and take wasn't about compromise
- 2:06Speaker 1: or meeting halfway. It was about currency control and just
- 2:11Speaker 1: butter moral collapse. So our mission today is to trace
- 2:14Speaker 1: that descent. How did financial ambition warp into this lethal dependency.
- 2:19Speaker 1: To really understand the murder in twenty thirteen, we actually
- 2:22Speaker 1: need to go way back.
- 2:23Speaker 2: Yeah, we need to rewind two full decades. We're still
- 2:26Speaker 2: in ocene. But now it's nineteen ninety three and we
- 2:28Speaker 2: meet Mona. She's just seventeen years old, working these long,
- 2:31Speaker 2: hard hours in a local factory.
- 2:32Speaker 1: And what was she like back then?
- 2:34Speaker 2: Mona was well, she was defined by ambition. She wasn't
- 2:37Speaker 2: going to settle for factory life. She was focused on
- 2:40Speaker 2: self improvement, seemed physically mature for her age, and she
- 2:42Speaker 2: already saw herself miles away from that factory floor. You
- 2:45Speaker 2: had a goal, a very specific one, save enough money
- 2:49Speaker 2: to fund her real dream, which was opening her own business.
- 2:52Speaker 1: Okay, and then there's Ahmed. He enters the picture here.
- 2:55Speaker 2: Yes, working right alongside her in the same factory. Ahmed
- 2:58Speaker 2: was twenty two, and he shared that same simmering dissatisfaction
- 3:02Speaker 2: with their situation. They were both young, both felt they
- 3:05Speaker 2: deserved better.
- 3:05Speaker 1: So they connected over that shared feeling.
- 3:08Speaker 2: They did. They spent long hours together bonding over this
- 3:11Speaker 2: idea that they were meant for more than the assembly
- 3:14Speaker 2: line Ahmed was apparently quite taken with Mona's maturity and
- 3:18Speaker 2: her fear stride.
- 3:20Speaker 1: But the relationship, the foundation they built, it wasn't exactly typical,
- 3:24Speaker 1: was it.
- 3:25Speaker 2: No, not at all structurally unsound, you could say, right
- 3:27Speaker 2: from the start. After about a year of courtship, when
- 3:30Speaker 2: marriage came up, Mona's view of Ahmed was brutally practical.
- 3:35Speaker 2: Oh so she didn't see a life partner in the
- 3:38Speaker 2: romantic sense. She saw a financial platform. Her strategy was
- 3:42Speaker 2: crystal clear. She needed a husband, someone reliable enough to
- 3:46Speaker 2: cover the basic living costs, rent, food utilities. So there
- 3:50Speaker 2: are money exactly so that her earnings and savings could
- 3:52Speaker 2: be completely protected, strictly set aside to fund her actual
- 3:56Speaker 2: ambition opening her own hair salon.
- 3:58Speaker 1: Wow. Okay, so it's a partnership, but a very transactional.
- 4:00Speaker 2: One, extremely and they formalized it. The plan was joint immediate,
- 4:05Speaker 2: get married, pool their savings, quit the factory jobs, and
- 4:08Speaker 2: then launched their own independent ventures.
- 4:09Speaker 1: And did they do it?
- 4:10Speaker 2: They did. They got married, found a modest apartment there
- 4:13Speaker 2: in Osim, and they executed that first phase perfectly.
- 4:17Speaker 1: And how did those early years go? Did it work out? Initially?
- 4:20Speaker 2: Surprisingly? Yes, those first few years were quite stable, very disciplined. Actually,
- 4:25Speaker 2: Mona was laser focused. She even put off having children
- 4:29Speaker 2: to make sure financial stability came first.
- 4:31Speaker 1: Right prioritize the plan.
- 4:33Speaker 2: Ahmed opened a small communication hub, what they call a
- 4:37Speaker 2: central locally like a small shop, handeling prepaid phone services,
- 4:41Speaker 2: maybe minimal internet.
- 4:42Speaker 1: Access okay, and mana.
- 4:45Speaker 2: Mona started working in an existing salon, smart move, really
- 4:48Speaker 2: gaining experience, learning the ropes before opening her own place.
- 4:52Speaker 1: So things are stable for a while.
- 4:53Speaker 2: Five years actually, then their first son was born. Ahmed
- 4:57Speaker 2: Central was doing okay, it was profitable, and eventually, when
- 5:00Speaker 2: I realized her dream, she opened her own salon.
- 5:02Speaker 1: Success then, but something must have shifted.
- 5:05Speaker 2: It did. A couple more years pass. Mona, being ambitious,
- 5:09Speaker 2: decides she wants to expand her salon, but she hits
- 5:12Speaker 2: a wall. Ahmed starts refusing to chip in for the
- 5:15Speaker 2: expansion again and again.
- 5:16Speaker 1: Even though his business was making money.
- 5:18Speaker 2: That's the thing. His business was doing well, but the
- 5:21Speaker 2: profits they were vanishing.
- 5:23Speaker 1: Where was the money going?
- 5:24Speaker 2: And this is where that foundation they built just starts
- 5:27Speaker 2: to crumble. The dark truth was Ahmed had developed a
- 5:30Speaker 2: serious drug habit. He was basically funneling most of his
- 5:33Speaker 2: earnings directly into feeding this aediction.
- 5:36Speaker 1: Oh wow, okay, and how did Mona react when she
- 5:39Speaker 1: found out? Was she concerned about him about their marriage? Well?
- 5:41Speaker 2: This is the really profound psychological pivot point for Mona.
- 5:45Speaker 2: Her concern wasn't his health or their future together. Not really.
- 5:50Speaker 2: Her fear was purely practical financial, even competitive.
- 5:54Speaker 1: What do you mean competitive?
- 5:55Speaker 2: She feared instability, yes, but also the terrifying possibility which
- 6:00Speaker 2: is legally permissible there that Ahmed might use whatever money
- 6:03Speaker 2: he had left to take second wife. That was the
- 6:06Speaker 2: ultimate betrayal in her eyes, financially speaking.
- 6:09Speaker 1: So her reaction wasn't to help him get clean or leave.
- 6:12Speaker 2: No, her decision was shocking. Really. Instead of fighting his vice,
- 6:16Speaker 2: she decided the only way to control the financial outflow,
- 6:19Speaker 2: to control him was to bring the vice and therefore
- 6:22Speaker 2: the supplier, right into their home.
- 6:23Speaker 1: Bring the supplier into the home.
- 6:25Speaker 2: Yes, which brings us to the third person in this tragedy,
- 6:29Speaker 2: ahm mahre Oh mayor who is he? Ahmer was Ahmed's
- 6:33Speaker 2: main drug dealer and bizarrely also described as his closest friend,
- 6:37Speaker 2: even though Ahmer was about twelve years younger than Ahmed.
- 6:40Speaker 1: A dealer and a best friend, strange combination.
- 6:42Speaker 2: Very officially, Ahmer was a painter by trade, but practically
- 6:46Speaker 2: speaking he was a small time drug supplier. And Ahmed
- 6:50Speaker 2: treated Ahmer like well, like a treasure, because Ahmer was
- 6:53Speaker 2: his lifeline, his continuous supply.
- 6:56Speaker 1: So Mana invice Ahmir into their home. What did that
- 6:59Speaker 1: look like?
- 7:00Speaker 2: The family home changed overnight? It basically became a nightly
- 7:03Speaker 2: drugg den Omar started visiting every single day. He'd arrive
- 7:06Speaker 2: around ten pm and stay until three am every night.
- 7:09Speaker 2: Every night, they'd spend those hours just in continuous drug
- 7:12Speaker 2: use sessions, and Mona and the children they were locked
- 7:15Speaker 2: away in another room while this happened.
- 7:16Speaker 1: Back to wait, how long did this go on for?
- 7:19Speaker 2: This routine, this silent agreement to just degrade their home environment.
- 7:23Speaker 2: It continued for six solid months?
- 7:25Speaker 1: Six months? Okay, and then the give and take dynamic.
- 7:27Speaker 1: Yeah it shifted.
- 7:28Speaker 2: Again, Yeah, it shifted into high gear. This next phase
- 7:32Speaker 2: lasted a full year. Mona, having just become completely accustomed
- 7:37Speaker 2: to the smell, the presence of the drugs everything, she
- 7:40Speaker 2: decided to try them herself.
- 7:41Speaker 1: She wanted to try the drugs Emmor was bringing for Ahmed.
- 7:44Speaker 2: Yes, but she couldn't really ask Ahmed, could she? So
- 7:48Speaker 2: she went straight to the source. She contacted Amer secretly
- 7:51Speaker 2: without Ahmed knowing, and demanded he supply her too. Demanded yes,
- 7:57Speaker 2: and she offered him a significantly highigher price than Ahmed
- 8:01Speaker 2: was patting. Made it purely about business for Ahmed.
- 8:04Speaker 1: And how do they manage this? The transactions?
- 8:06Speaker 2: It was chillingly mechanical. Mona would hide cash somewhere in
- 8:10Speaker 2: the kitchen during the nightly session. Amor would make some
- 8:13Speaker 2: excuse to step out, go to the kitchen, swap the
- 8:15Speaker 2: drugs for the money, and then Mona would just retrieve
- 8:17Speaker 2: her stash later.
- 8:19Speaker 1: Wow. So the home wasn't just a safe space for
- 8:21Speaker 1: using anyone.
- 8:22Speaker 2: No, it proved to Ammer it was a perfect profitable
- 8:24Speaker 2: marketplace as well.
- 8:25Speaker 1: And I'm er he saw opportunity beyond just the money.
- 8:28Speaker 2: I'm guessing Ahmer, despite being younger, he understood power dynamics.
- 8:32Speaker 2: He was about five years younger than Mona. Remember, After
- 8:35Speaker 2: a year of the secret dealing with her, he clearly
- 8:38Speaker 2: wanted more control, more than just cash.
- 8:41Speaker 1: So what did he do?
- 8:42Speaker 2: He played on his supposed trade. He offered to renovate
- 8:45Speaker 2: their apartment on the cheap, you know, using his painting skills.
- 8:48Speaker 1: Okay, how does that connect?
- 8:49Speaker 2: Well, he'd work during the day and Ahmed conveniently was
- 8:53Speaker 2: out at his central shop during the day, so Amor
- 8:56Speaker 2: had access to Mona alone. Right, and while he was there,
- 8:59Speaker 2: supposedly work king, he made his proposition. He offered Mona
- 9:03Speaker 2: drugs in exchange for.
- 9:05Speaker 1: Sex, just like that, from cash to that, just like that.
- 9:10Speaker 2: He laid it out her body for his supply.
- 9:13Speaker 1: And Mona what did she do?
- 9:15Speaker 2: According to the information we have, she agreed almost instantly,
- 9:18Speaker 2: within minutes.
- 9:19Speaker 1: Within minutes. Why, I mean, why so fast?
- 9:22Speaker 2: It's shocking, But you have to look at Mona's core
- 9:24Speaker 2: driver control and securing her resources. By agreeing, she guaranteed
- 9:29Speaker 2: two things for herself. First, guaranteed access to the drugs
- 9:32Speaker 2: she was now addicted to.
- 9:33Speaker 1: Right the addiction component.
- 9:35Speaker 2: And second, maybe more importantly for her, she gained absolute
- 9:38Speaker 2: leverage over Amoor, the supplier. The transaction ensured her needs.
- 9:43Speaker 2: Her drug needs would always be met no matter what
- 9:45Speaker 2: happened with Ahmed's finances.
- 9:47Speaker 1: So she fulfilled her original ambition resource control, but through
- 9:52Speaker 1: utter degradation precisely.
- 9:54Speaker 2: It was the ultimate twisted realization of her initial goal.
- 9:58Speaker 1: And what happened next is almost unbelievable in his duration.
- 10:01Speaker 2: It is that illicit relationship, sex for drugs. It continued
- 10:06Speaker 2: almost daily for three full years, three years, daily daily.
- 10:12Speaker 2: During that entire period, Amer completely stopped asking Mona for money.
- 10:16Speaker 2: Her body became the sole currency. It was the purest,
- 10:19Speaker 2: most toxic form of that give and take.
- 10:21Speaker 1: A situation like that couldn't stay hidden forever. Surely, no,
- 10:24Speaker 1: it was.
- 10:25Speaker 2: Bound to blow up, and it finally did. Three years
- 10:27Speaker 2: into this arrangement, Ahmed came home unexpectedly early one day
- 10:30Speaker 2: and he cut them. He opened the door and found
- 10:32Speaker 2: Mona and Omer together intimate. Mona said later she fully
- 10:36Speaker 2: expected him to explode, violence, maybe even murder, the typical reaction.
- 10:40Speaker 1: Right, absolutely, But that's not what happened.
- 10:42Speaker 2: Is it not even close? Ohmer, the younger dealer, was
- 10:45Speaker 2: apparently completely unfhazed. He just turned to Ahmed and issued
- 10:48Speaker 2: a threat.
- 10:49Speaker 1: What kind of threat?
- 10:50Speaker 2: He warned Ahmed that if he reacted badly, if he
- 10:53Speaker 2: made a scene or caused any trouble, Amer would immediately
- 10:56Speaker 2: cut off his entire drug supply.
- 10:58Speaker 1: He threatened his drug supply at that.
- 10:59Speaker 2: Moment, Yes, and Ahmed's response just shows the absolute depth
- 11:03Speaker 2: of his addiction. He was subdued, paralyzed by the fear
- 11:06Speaker 2: of withdrawal, of losing his supply. He calmed down instantly, instantly,
- 11:11Speaker 2: no anger. His immediate reaction wasn't rage or violence. It
- 11:14Speaker 2: was asking Omor for drugs right then and there, to
- 11:19Speaker 2: forget what he just walked in on.
- 11:20Speaker 1: That's just the ultimate degradation, isn't it.
- 11:23Speaker 2: It truly is. And the discovery unbelievably didn't stop the affair.
- 11:27Speaker 2: It actually mutated it into something even more horrifying.
- 11:30Speaker 1: How could it get worse?
- 11:31Speaker 2: The relationship escalated into a coerce threesome that lasted for
- 11:34Speaker 2: another whole year.
- 11:35Speaker 1: A coerce threesome for a year.
- 11:38Speaker 2: Yes. Omer's control was absolute by this point. He was
- 11:41Speaker 2: the puppet master. Reports suggests he would sometimes explicitly demand
- 11:45Speaker 2: to start the intimate act with Mona before Ahmed was
- 11:48Speaker 2: even allowed to join them.
- 11:50Speaker 1: Just complete domination total.
- 11:52Speaker 2: But even in that incredibly low place, the power dynamics
- 11:55Speaker 2: were still somehow shifting underneath. Mona eventually just retired of Ahmed.
- 12:01Speaker 2: He was providing nothing anymore. Financially or otherwise. He was
- 12:04Speaker 2: just there a grain, and she felt empowered.
- 12:07Speaker 1: Now empowered by what she was craped too, wasn't.
- 12:10Speaker 2: She She was addicted, yes, but she had leverage over
- 12:13Speaker 2: Amor through sex, and she controlled access in a way.
- 12:16Speaker 2: And she used that perceived leverage to make the final
- 12:19Speaker 2: fatal demand, which was she ordered Ahmar to kill.
- 12:21Speaker 1: Her husband, just like that, get rid of.
- 12:23Speaker 2: Him, hm, get rid of the problem.
- 12:25Speaker 1: And Amar did he just agree?
- 12:27Speaker 2: Well? His initial reaction was surprisingly rational, almost pragmatic. He
- 12:32Speaker 2: pointed out that killing Ahmed seemed pointless. Ahmed already knew everything,
- 12:35Speaker 2: he even participated. Why take the massive risk of murder?
- 12:40Speaker 1: That actually makes sense in a twisted way, it does.
- 12:43Speaker 2: But Mona wasn't having it. Her response was a chilling ultimatum.
- 12:47Speaker 1: What did she threaten him with?
- 12:48Speaker 2: She threatened to cut off the sex completely, and she
- 12:50Speaker 2: promised she would find a new drug supplier immediately if
- 12:53Speaker 2: he didn't comply.
- 12:54Speaker 1: So she used the two things she knew he valued
- 12:56Speaker 1: from her sex and the safe haven for.
- 12:59Speaker 2: Dealing exactly and emaher knowing, her determination, her ruthlessness. When
- 13:04Speaker 2: she wanted something he broke, he agreed to do it.
- 13:07Speaker 1: He agreed to kill his friend, his customer.
- 13:09Speaker 2: Yes, and we should note here the firearm he used
- 13:13Speaker 2: was unlicensed. This was twenty thirteen in Egypt, a period
- 13:17Speaker 2: with some security vacuum issues, which meant illegal weapons were
- 13:20Speaker 2: unfortunately easier to come by.
- 13:22Speaker 1: Okay, so they have a plan. How did the actual
- 13:25Speaker 1: murder happen?
- 13:26Speaker 2: On the night itself? During their usual late night session,
- 13:29Speaker 2: Ahmayer gave Ahmed an unusually heavy dose of drugs, enough
- 13:32Speaker 2: to make him lose consciousness.
- 13:34Speaker 1: He drugged him into unconsciousness.
- 13:35Speaker 2: First, yes, Then while Ahmed was out, Ahmer bound his
- 13:39Speaker 2: hands and feet. He then took out the gun and
- 13:42Speaker 2: fired the first shot into Ahmed's shoulder.
- 13:44Speaker 1: The shoulder shot again just like the initial finding.
- 13:47Speaker 2: Right, but Ahmed was still alive. He was struggling against
- 13:50Speaker 2: the ropes apparently, and Mona saw this, and what did
- 13:53Speaker 2: she do? She wasn't satisfied. She stood over him and
- 13:57Speaker 2: demanded that am fire again, the second fatal shot directly
- 14:02Speaker 2: to the head.
- 14:03Speaker 1: She ordered the kill shot she did, And then the disposal.
- 14:06Speaker 2: The cleanup was swift cold. They put the body into
- 14:10Speaker 2: that burlap sack, the same one the villagers found later.
- 14:14Speaker 2: They waited until the dead of night when everything was quiet,
- 14:16Speaker 2: and then they carried it out and dumped it in
- 14:18Speaker 2: those remote farmlands.
- 14:20Speaker 1: Just left him there, just left him there. So how
- 14:22Speaker 1: did the police connect it all back to them? It
- 14:24Speaker 1: seems like they might have gotten away with it initially.
- 14:26Speaker 2: Well, the situation itself was just too unstable to contain. Really.
- 14:29Speaker 2: The police noticed pretty quickly that Ahmed's central shop was
- 14:33Speaker 2: suddenly closed, but Mona salon bizarrely it stayed open.
- 14:37Speaker 1: What was her explanation?
- 14:39Speaker 2: Her cover story was that Ahmed was away traveling for
- 14:41Speaker 2: business supplies. Plausible, maybe for a short.
- 14:45Speaker 1: Time, not enough.
- 14:46Speaker 2: No, The crucial break, the damning evidence came from the neighbors.
- 14:51Speaker 2: People talk, you know. They confirmed the couple already had
- 14:54Speaker 2: this infamous local reputation. But critically, they revealed that Ammer
- 14:59Speaker 2: had been publicly bragging, bragging about what about his nightly
- 15:03Speaker 2: activities inside Ahmed's house, about his control. It was apparently quite.
- 15:08Speaker 1: Open, So his own ego did him in.
- 15:09Speaker 2: It certainly helped investigators connect the dots very quickly with
- 15:14Speaker 2: that testimony. Both Mona and Amor were brought in for questioning.
- 15:17Speaker 1: And did they hold out, not at all faced.
- 15:20Speaker 2: With the witness statements. The evidence they confessed almost immediately
- 15:25Speaker 2: laid out the entire horrific sequence of events, right from
- 15:28Speaker 2: the drug starting, the affair, the control, the murder plot,
- 15:31Speaker 2: the disposal, everything, and the outcome. Both were subsequently sentenced
- 15:35Speaker 2: to death for the murder.
- 15:37Speaker 1: What a truly terrifying trajectory. We started back in nineteen
- 15:40Speaker 1: ninety three with this young woman, Mona, whose financial ambition
- 15:43Speaker 1: was so absolute it seemed to outweigh everything else, loyalty, love,
- 15:48Speaker 1: just looking for a foundation.
- 15:50Speaker 2: And that foundation just corroded, didn't it. It eroded into
- 15:53Speaker 2: drug dependency first.
- 15:54Speaker 1: Which then metastasized into this web of absolute sexual and
- 15:58Speaker 1: psychological control, betrayal, and ultimately homicide, all driven by this
- 16:03Speaker 1: relentless corrosive transactional cycle they called give and take.
- 16:08Speaker 2: Yeah, this case is such a horrifying illustration. It's more
- 16:11Speaker 2: than just a crime story. It really shows the complete collapse,
- 16:15Speaker 2: the disintegration of moral boundaries.
- 16:17Speaker 1: You see that initial shared ambition wanting a better life,
- 16:20Speaker 1: and you.
- 16:20Speaker 2: See how it got warped into the cynical, purely transactional dependency,
- 16:25Speaker 2: where basic values like partnership, family, trust, they just vanished entirely,
- 16:31Speaker 2: replaced only by vice and well utility using each other.
- 16:36Speaker 1: The original accounts of this case apparently included a stark
- 16:38Speaker 1: reflection on the sanctity of the home, And this story
- 16:41Speaker 1: really forces you to ask, doesn't it when that shared
- 16:44Speaker 1: ambition turns into transactional dependency, when the home itself becomes
- 16:48Speaker 1: nothing more than a marketplace for vice?
- 16:49Speaker 2: Yeah?
- 16:50Speaker 1: What boundaries are even left? What's left to protect us
- 16:52Speaker 1: from ourselves?
- 16:53Speaker 2: It's a deeply disturbing thought
- 16:54Speaker 1: Definitely something dark to mullover until our next deep dive.