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Amy Landecker Disobeys Bridger · I Said No Gifts! A comedy interview podcast with Bridger Winegar

• 0:08
  Speaker 1: And I invited you here. I thought, I made myself
• 0:14
  Speaker 1: perfectly clear. When you're a guest to my home, you
• 0:21
  Speaker 1: gotta come to me empty. And I said, no, guests,
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  Speaker 1: your presences presents enough. I already had too much stuff,
• 0:35
  Speaker 1: So how do you dare to surbey me?
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  Speaker 2: Welcome to I said, no gifts. I'm richer winegar Ellis
• 0:55
  Speaker 2: is moving around in the studio, and I thought, oh,
• 0:57
  Speaker 2: it's something going on. Everything's fine. Everything's fine, and that's fine.
• 1:02
  Speaker 2: That's how podcasting works. I observe things and then I
• 1:05
  Speaker 2: comment on them, and everybody benefits from me making mistakes.
• 1:11
  Speaker 2: So we're here, we're in the studio. What's going on?
• 1:16
  Speaker 3: Trying to find something to clean my glass?
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  Speaker 2: Our guest has very dirty glasses. Apparently, do you know
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  Speaker 2: what I have a I have a lens wipe. I
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  Speaker 2: would love you one of those.
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  Speaker 3: Ye I am a little OCD about dirty glasses. And
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  Speaker 3: I probably left my lens wipe in the car. Oh
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  Speaker 3: you have a fresh one. Yeah, Oh yeah.
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  Speaker 2: I'm so prepared.
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  Speaker 3: Nice you don't even have glasses on you.
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  Speaker 2: No, but you have to be prepared for everything.
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  Speaker 3: Your Lord, you should have been my mother.
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  Speaker 2: There's still time the guest. I'm you know, I'm kind
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  Speaker 2: of proving myself to just be very useful today already.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, very useful.
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  Speaker 2: So now we've got the guests, we'll have clean glasses.
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  Speaker 2: That's to be very exciting for everybody. What's going on
• 2:03
  Speaker 2: in my life? Ah, you know, I'm just kind of
• 2:06
  Speaker 2: finally admitting to myself that it's time to change the
• 2:09
  Speaker 2: battery on the garage door opener. The rumors have been
• 2:13
  Speaker 2: kind of circulating, will he change the battery on the
• 2:15
  Speaker 2: garage door opener? And I'm going to do it after
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  Speaker 2: about ten to eleven months of it barely working, it
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  Speaker 2: might be time. So there's that saw a car on
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  Speaker 2: fire on the freeway. That was last night. But if
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  Speaker 2: somebody wants to get that out to the proper authorities,
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  Speaker 2: just in case they haven't taken care of it yet.
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  Speaker 2: That car is on fire, it could explode at any moment. Again,
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  Speaker 2: this was about fourteen hours ago, so who knows. And
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  Speaker 2: so I think we've i mean, think of all the
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  Speaker 2: territory we've already covered. I've thought Ellis was doing something.
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  Speaker 2: I've offered a lens wipe to the guest and garage
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  Speaker 2: door opener. Cars exploding what could happen next? I think
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  Speaker 2: we should get into the podcast. I love today's guest.
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  Speaker 2: She's absolutely fantastic. It's Amy Landeck Or. Amy. Hi, welcome
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  Speaker 2: to the podcast. Your glasses look great now.
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  Speaker 3: I also have a cop Do you have a lozenge?
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  Speaker 2: You're pushing it? We have parts and a cigarette.
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  Speaker 3: Interesting. I wanted to tell you our car blew up?
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  Speaker 3: What I had a Chevy Volts in the driveway. This
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  Speaker 3: is crazy. So I we are going to a Dodgers game. Okay,
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  Speaker 3: Bradley Whitford with Bradley Whitford is my husband, right, you know,
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  Speaker 3: look him up.
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  Speaker 2: Don't look up Bradley. But Bradley reach out.
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  Speaker 3: So he was at Ralph's getting some last minute something
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  Speaker 3: milk or something. I'm at home and I am getting ready.
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  Speaker 3: He's just gonna swing by pick me up and we're
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  Speaker 3: going to go to the game.
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  Speaker 2: Sure.
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  Speaker 3: So I let the dog out to take a pee
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  Speaker 3: before we leave, and I noticed that flames are coming
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  Speaker 3: out of the child ball and I like, we did
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  Speaker 3: not park in the garage. We never do. The garage
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  Speaker 3: is just where we put a bunch of junk, and
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  Speaker 3: so it's outside and we have all these trees very
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  Speaker 3: close that would link right to our house if this
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  Speaker 3: keeps going. And I stupidly just first call him like
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  Speaker 3: and he's like, well, no, no, that's not true. The
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  Speaker 3: stupidest thing I did first was I went and I
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  Speaker 3: took I was trying to find water, and I took
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  Speaker 3: like a picture of water, and I threw it at
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  Speaker 3: the flames, which of course made it worse. You're not
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  Speaker 3: supposed to do that. And then I facetimed him and
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  Speaker 3: he's in line at the Ralphs and I'm like, the
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  Speaker 3: car's on fire, and he sort of froze it, and
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  Speaker 3: the people behind him are like, call nine one one,
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  Speaker 3: call nine one one. I'm like right, So I called
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  Speaker 3: nine one one and they're like, just don't throw water, right,
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  Speaker 3: I've already I've already done that, and it's in the
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  Speaker 3: engine now and the whole thing's going, and the fire
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  Speaker 3: truck came like within less than five minutes. That's it
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  Speaker 3: was very efficient. I don't think they're that busy in Pasadena,
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  Speaker 3: that's where I lived, right, And it was funny because
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  Speaker 3: they said they were wherever they came from. They were
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  Speaker 3: sort of laxadaisical as they pulled up and then they
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  Speaker 3: saw what was happening, and they jumped out of the
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  Speaker 3: car and ran down the driveway. They're like, it's weird.
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  Speaker 3: We couldn't see the smoke from when we were driving in,
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  Speaker 3: so we didn't think it would be this bad. And
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  Speaker 3: then they spent an hour putting it out. But anyway,
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  Speaker 3: if I had not taken the dog out back, if
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  Speaker 3: I had taken the dog out front, I would not
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  Speaker 3: have seen that. We would have gone to the game,
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  Speaker 3: and our house would have burned down with our pits inside.
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  Speaker 3: It could have been like, really bad.
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  Speaker 2: You have so many people to think the dog, yes,
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  Speaker 2: those nosy shoppers yes. And then lastly the fire always,
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  Speaker 2: lastly the fire. Lastly, how do they put it out?
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  Speaker 3: They literally just well they use water, but they have
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  Speaker 3: a power host that is so strong, and they sit
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  Speaker 3: there for you know, half an hour till it's out
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  Speaker 3: out right right.
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  Speaker 2: So and then what was there like a giant scorch
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  Speaker 2: spot on the driveway.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, oh, in a car in the car was completely like,
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  Speaker 3: you know, not the car, It didn't. The great thing
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  Speaker 3: was there was a good firewall in the car, so
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  Speaker 3: the front burned, but it never caused the back to burn.
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  Speaker 3: The back did not, but the front of the car
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  Speaker 3: was like ash on the Oh it was insane.
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  Speaker 2: What caused the fire?
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  Speaker 3: These were early early Vaults. Sometimes the battery would catch
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  Speaker 3: fire when you were charging.
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  Speaker 2: That is not great to hear. No, I don't love
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  Speaker 2: now I know electric car owner.
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  Speaker 3: No, I know. Well we were like, we're big electric
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  Speaker 3: car owners and Bradley's like, you know, huge on the environment.
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  Speaker 3: We still kept the second Vault. We have another VOWS
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  Speaker 3: because it's a later, later model.
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  Speaker 2: Oh okay, and then so you just called uh or
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  Speaker 2: I assume the fire department kind of took care of
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  Speaker 2: getting rid of the car.
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  Speaker 3: No, I don't. I don't. You know. It's funny. No,
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  Speaker 3: you have to call it toet service. Still you have
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  Speaker 3: to make another Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, you got to
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  Speaker 3: get towed out. No, they're not going to do anything
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  Speaker 3: like that for you.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: I guess I've never seen a fire trucks towing a car.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, they don't got to toe you. They just got
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  Speaker 3: to put out the fire. They don't like move, they
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  Speaker 3: don't like take down the building after they fire out.
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  Speaker 2: That's something they should consider. That could be a new
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  Speaker 2: element of the business.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, it could be something they charged.
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  Speaker 2: For right, h yeah, this could be a new fund,
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  Speaker 2: you know, a new source of funds.
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  Speaker 3: For the fire we contract your new building.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's great. I feel like a lot of firefighters
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  Speaker 2: kind of like could cross over into that.
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  Speaker 3: Why are firefighters always cute?
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  Speaker 2: They're always no, I mean, like unbelievably attract like.
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  Speaker 3: Legit, Like my husband doesn't even mind when I'm just like, honey, like,
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  Speaker 3: what is going on?
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  Speaker 2: I don't understand. Are they like scouting malls like model agencies?
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  Speaker 3: You know, maybe they're going to Abercrombie and Fall and
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  Speaker 3: they're just getting them people work there, the people and
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  Speaker 3: they're a little bit older. Have you ever thought about
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  Speaker 3: being a firefighter?
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  Speaker 2: Right, it's like the military going into high schools to
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  Speaker 2: recruit people. The fire department goes to Abercrombie. That kind
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  Speaker 2: of makes sense. And then they always had like the
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  Speaker 2: uniform is always good looking, even like the blue shirt
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  Speaker 2: they wear.
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  Speaker 3: Oh it's I don't know, it's very strange.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, And then of course they're like kind of doing
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  Speaker 2: just this wonderful service.
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  Speaker 3: I know. So then it's like a romanticized hole irresistible
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  Speaker 3: worship thing. Yeah, are they.
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  Speaker 2: Still going down the pole? Do we know if they
• 8:29
  Speaker 2: still have the poles.
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  Speaker 3: I'm sorry this took a turn. Oh dear, are they
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  Speaker 3: going down the poles? I'm just going to leave that.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I think we should. The other thing about the
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  Speaker 2: fire department that I find interesting, a little darker or
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  Speaker 2: a little uh more dramatic, is that being able to
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  Speaker 2: leave a baby there.
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  Speaker 3: What do you mean?
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  Speaker 2: Are you familiar with this?
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  Speaker 3: Leave babies?
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  Speaker 2: Apparently you can surrender a baby at the fire department.
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  Speaker 3: You're like that, the fire leaves baby fire like this,
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  Speaker 3: you can't trust they save the baby and then they
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  Speaker 3: just put the baby on the ground and go. Somebody's
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  Speaker 3: got to take care like my car, the car and
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  Speaker 3: the baby. The baby surrendered to a fire department.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, how did that all come into being?
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  Speaker 3: Well, when I put that law into place, I have
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  Speaker 3: no idea.
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  Speaker 2: It's a very interesting.
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  Speaker 3: No idea, but it's a really well maybe also because
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  Speaker 3: you know the other thing fire departments always do is
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  Speaker 3: they go grocery shopping and they cook.
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  Speaker 2: Did you Oh, that's a big.
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  Speaker 3: Part of it, because they stay for a couple of
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  Speaker 3: days and they make their own meals. So there's always
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  Speaker 3: like really cute fire guys in the grocery store too,
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  Speaker 3: so they they're nurturing, they can cook and take care
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  Speaker 3: of the baby.
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  Speaker 2: I guess, how is this not like a dating app?
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  Speaker 2: This would be like the rye like ry about they're
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  Speaker 2: exclusively just people at the fire department.
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  Speaker 3: I agree, you could call it like you know, hot
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  Speaker 3: stuff poles.
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  Speaker 2: Every every person on this would be a catch, yes,
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  Speaker 2: or at least like as a like a matchmaker that
• 10:02
  Speaker 2: could charge a lot of money and then just kind
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  Speaker 2: of go over the.
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  Speaker 3: Plus, he sleeps at the place a couple of nights weeks,
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  Speaker 3: so you'd always get a little downtime, right, you know,
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  Speaker 3: this is like an ideal man, it is an ideal situation.
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  Speaker 2: Wow, every fire person should uh, I think that there.
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  Speaker 2: That should be the first thing on you were dating
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  Speaker 2: app profile. At least it's like I work for the
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  Speaker 2: fire department. Absolutely, I can cook.
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  Speaker 3: I can cook, and people give me their babies. They
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  Speaker 3: trust me with their babies.
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  Speaker 2: Ready to be a parent?
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  Speaker 3: Yes? Ready, ready, Wow, that's really I'm left handed. So
• 10:35
  Speaker 3: I'm kind of like debating. He goes, and this mic
• 10:38
  Speaker 3: is sort of like a little bit in my.
• 10:40
  Speaker 2: We kind of set these traps for the guests, just
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  Speaker 2: keep them on.
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  Speaker 3: Their fisting so I'm like, spend drift on the right,
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  Speaker 3: coffee on.
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  Speaker 2: The Have you struggled as a left handed person your
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  Speaker 2: whole life?
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  Speaker 3: I mean, have I struggled? Are a real pain? Seemed
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  Speaker 3: like the biggest people swear on this Oh yeah, okay.
• 10:59
  Speaker 2: This is the the crasses podcast in the Oh.
• 11:02
  Speaker 3: Scissors are a real pain in the ass. That's my
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  Speaker 3: big swing.
• 11:06
  Speaker 2: Curse word X rating.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, that's why X rated. They always were like, that's
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  Speaker 3: the one place where I really knew the world was
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  Speaker 3: not like that. I And then when, of course, when
• 11:16
  Speaker 3: I found out at some point in my life that
• 11:18
  Speaker 3: like they used to like, you know, think we were
• 11:21
  Speaker 3: crazy people. Right, it was kind of like burn us
• 11:23
  Speaker 3: at the stake or something, right, and then they would
• 11:25
  Speaker 3: like tie your hand so you couldn't use it, so
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  Speaker 3: you would be forced to learn how to use your
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  Speaker 3: right hand.
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  Speaker 2: Creasy.
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  Speaker 3: But then I kind of felt like it was something
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  Speaker 3: kind of cool and I don't know, like I'm different,
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  Speaker 3: of course, It's like it's different than all you regular
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  Speaker 3: right handed people. I have special qualities.
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  Speaker 2: I wonder how many, uh like a percentage of people
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  Speaker 2: in the world is who are that's not.
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  Speaker 3: That much Like it's actually like a pretty rare variant.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, it must be very small. I mean, my mom's
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  Speaker 2: left handed. I don't think anyone else in our family
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  Speaker 2: or her family is left handed, and your mother, yes, Just.
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  Speaker 3: So that's why I feel so maternal towards it. Left handed.
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  Speaker 2: You've been nurturing this entire episode. So it's really scissors.
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  Speaker 2: But why because they they make left handed scissors.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, but you have to go by Yeah, it's almost
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  Speaker 3: like a gag no, right.
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  Speaker 2: Like a break.
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  Speaker 3: You have to go get that. But in school, there
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  Speaker 3: weren't left handed scissors.
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  Speaker 2: And so do you just have to ask?
• 12:18
  Speaker 3: You're literally like no, it hurts your You're literally like
• 12:21
  Speaker 3: shoving your hand and it hurts to cut.
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  Speaker 2: And how is it that differently shaped?
• 12:26
  Speaker 3: I don't even because there's like the little the little oh.
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  Speaker 2: You're kind of almost have to flip it over exactly.
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  Speaker 3: And you know what, I don't know if I ever
• 12:32
  Speaker 3: tried that. Oh.
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  Speaker 2: Interesting, So this is kind of your fault.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, if i'd only given it a little bit more
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  Speaker 3: mcguiver effort, I could have figured it out all those
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  Speaker 3: years ago. Other than that, it's like, although it's still
• 12:46
  Speaker 3: a thing when people go are you left handed? Like
• 12:49
  Speaker 3: my husband. Every time I say it, it's like, are
• 12:52
  Speaker 3: you left handed? I'm like, honey, you know I'm left handed,
• 12:55
  Speaker 3: but he's like wow, like and my uncle's left hand.
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  Speaker 3: Like left handed people know left handed people right, But
• 13:01
  Speaker 3: it's like yeah, and what does it mean?
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  Speaker 2: And I'm trying to there aren't that many other I guess,
• 13:05
  Speaker 2: like if you were shifting a.
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  Speaker 3: Car, there's ambidextress, right, So I do there is some
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  Speaker 3: What often happens with left handed people is they adapt
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  Speaker 3: and some things they do well with their right hand right. So,
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  Speaker 3: like I can't remember because I haven't really been very
• 13:23
  Speaker 3: athletic lately, but I do like yoga, you can use
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  Speaker 3: both hands. But like I remember, like baseball softball, I
• 13:31
  Speaker 3: could kind of hit on either side right. So there's
• 13:34
  Speaker 3: some people too that are like hardcore left And I
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  Speaker 3: think I have a little bit of ambidextress commit well,
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  Speaker 3: or I just naturally have more flexibility.
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  Speaker 2: Now I'm trying to like imagine things I do all
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  Speaker 2: the time only with my right hand hold the.
• 13:50
  Speaker 3: Whole world's made. Well, that's not true because if you're
• 13:53
  Speaker 3: in Europe, you're going to have the stick on the
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  Speaker 3: other side.
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  Speaker 2: Oh right, that is a nightmare.
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  Speaker 3: I have a funny story about this. Okay, So I
• 14:00
  Speaker 3: was I was asked to do this movie called Hunter's
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  Speaker 3: Prayer that shot in England many I don't know, maybe
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  Speaker 3: ten years ago. And I they always ask you, you know,
• 14:13
  Speaker 3: like on your special skills, like do you drive a car?
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  Speaker 2: Right?
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  Speaker 3: Of course I do drive a car. And I was
• 14:17
  Speaker 3: playing this like very badass corrupt police FBI. I think
• 14:23
  Speaker 3: I was FBI. And I'm supposed to be, you know,
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  Speaker 3: very fascile with a stick.
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  Speaker 2: Theme today.
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  Speaker 3: So I don't even know how to drive stick, let
• 14:42
  Speaker 3: alone being fascial with it, right, And they so they
• 14:46
  Speaker 3: shoot a scene before I get there with my stunt
• 14:51
  Speaker 3: double and it establishes this particular type of car that
• 14:55
  Speaker 3: only comes in a stick. So they're like, I'm like,
• 15:00
  Speaker 3: I won't be you know, I can't. I can't. I
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  Speaker 3: can't drive it on camera. And they want this character
• 15:05
  Speaker 3: to be able to get in the car, slam the
• 15:06
  Speaker 3: door and pull away, right, So like we're going to
• 15:09
  Speaker 3: get you driving lessons.
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  Speaker 2: Oh wow.
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  Speaker 3: So and I had to drive on the wrong other
• 15:15
  Speaker 3: side of the streets. I'm trying to learn stick and
• 15:19
  Speaker 3: be on the other side, and I was. It was
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  Speaker 3: so really cute though it was really fun. I was
• 15:22
  Speaker 3: staying in Harrogate, which is very like very northern in
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  Speaker 3: this cute sweet you know older like you know, driving
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  Speaker 3: teacher came. Then we would you know, toodle around the
• 15:35
  Speaker 3: town and I felt somewhat able. But anyone who drives
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  Speaker 3: a stick knows that like the actual like the smoothness
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  Speaker 3: takes a lot of it.
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  Speaker 2: It takes a lot.
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  Speaker 3: You can't like, you can't like fake that.
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  Speaker 2: No shift, and it takes a long time just to
• 15:50
  Speaker 2: like get into like a even being bumpy at.
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  Speaker 3: Driving exactly like you know I mean, And so we
• 15:56
  Speaker 3: wasted all this money and time and then you know,
• 15:59
  Speaker 3: we get on camera and every time I shift, the
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  Speaker 3: car jerks, which does not look like a badass FBI
• 16:07
  Speaker 3: woman in you know, in front of a big castle.
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  Speaker 3: And so they had to like use the I'm like,
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  Speaker 3: they had to redo the thing and use the stunt double.
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  Speaker 3: I'm like, oh, we should have just done it, We
• 16:17
  Speaker 3: should have just done that anyway, Yeah, that.
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  Speaker 2: Feels like something that's just change the shot. Right. You
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  Speaker 2: can't count on somebody to be able to drive stick,
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  Speaker 2: like most movies don't count on the actor to drive
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  Speaker 2: the car at all.
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  Speaker 3: Exactly.
• 16:27
  Speaker 2: So what are we doing?
• 16:28
  Speaker 3: I don't know. And I was like very happy that
• 16:31
  Speaker 3: this is also making me think of another stunt double
• 16:34
  Speaker 3: story that will blow your mind. But I was on
• 16:35
  Speaker 3: a show that shall remain unnamed, and they did not
• 16:39
  Speaker 3: tell me until I got there on the day that
• 16:41
  Speaker 3: they wanted me to ride a horse in the scene
• 16:44
  Speaker 3: to a mark holding a antique rifle that costs like
• 16:48
  Speaker 3: fifty pounds. And I was like, I got into kind
• 16:51
  Speaker 3: of an argument with the director, and when the show
• 16:55
  Speaker 3: runner found out, he was like horrified and it was
• 16:57
  Speaker 3: apologizing to me, but I'm like, this is after I mean,
• 17:00
  Speaker 3: this is oh my god, this is like are you kidding?
• 17:03
  Speaker 2: And these are two things that separately are dangerous horse
• 17:06
  Speaker 2: and holding a gun exactly.
• 17:08
  Speaker 3: And I hadn't been shown properly how to shoot the gun,
• 17:10
  Speaker 3: and I hadn't been asked if I knew how to
• 17:11
  Speaker 3: ride a horse, and she goes, well, it was in
• 17:13
  Speaker 3: the scene. And it wasn't in the scene. By the way,
• 17:17
  Speaker 3: is that it didn't say anything about me shooting the
• 17:19
  Speaker 3: shotgun that was twenty you know, really old and heavy.
• 17:23
  Speaker 3: You really also want to look like you know what
• 17:25
  Speaker 3: you're doing, yes, And then The other was that we
• 17:28
  Speaker 3: were by raging river and in the scene it says
• 17:31
  Speaker 3: you just get on the horse, Like at the end
• 17:33
  Speaker 3: of the scene, I can get on a horse. Yeah,
• 17:37
  Speaker 3: I love horses, But that is not the same as
• 17:40
  Speaker 3: asking me. And they should have even checked if I
• 17:42
  Speaker 3: knew how to do that.
• 17:42
  Speaker 2: Of course, I think that that helps everybody.
• 17:45
  Speaker 3: Ultimately, Yes, it's like, do you feel comfortable mounting a horse? Plus, God,
• 17:49
  Speaker 3: we're just really getting into some Plus they did not
• 17:52
  Speaker 3: tell me that when I'm mounting the horse, there's gonna
• 17:55
  Speaker 3: be a girl in front of me holding a baby.
• 18:00
  Speaker 2: This is the crazy Machine where just several people are killed.
• 18:05
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I was like, what are we doing?
• 18:07
  Speaker 3: And anyway, it turns out and I knew we had
• 18:11
  Speaker 3: stunt doubles. No one told the director that we had
• 18:13
  Speaker 3: stunt doubles there to do.
• 18:15
  Speaker 2: All are they doing on a smoke break?
• 18:18
  Speaker 1: Oh?
• 18:19
  Speaker 3: Here's what it was. There was like a group of us.
• 18:22
  Speaker 3: We were all like nuns with guns.
• 18:24
  Speaker 2: Okay, well, I love whatever this is. I wish you
• 18:26
  Speaker 2: would know.
• 18:27
  Speaker 3: I know, I know it all got cut anyway, so
• 18:30
  Speaker 3: you'll never see it. But the background and the stunt
• 18:33
  Speaker 3: doubles looked exactly the same, so unless someone told her
• 18:36
  Speaker 3: we have these people available for you. But it was
• 18:38
  Speaker 3: a very like chaotic environment and in a chaotic set,
• 18:43
  Speaker 3: and so she never knew, and I think that was
• 18:47
  Speaker 3: and the whole day she never knew. And we ended
• 18:50
  Speaker 3: up just changing the blocking of the thing because I said,
• 18:52
  Speaker 3: there's no way that I'm doing this on a horse,
• 18:54
  Speaker 3: and then the horse person and the gun person thanked
• 18:57
  Speaker 3: me because you know, there were all these young actors
• 18:59
  Speaker 3: on this show that would never say no, right.
• 19:03
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just like, well, I have to do this.
• 19:05
  Speaker 2: I don't want to.
• 19:05
  Speaker 3: Get exactly And I was in a scene with a
• 19:07
  Speaker 3: bunch of like local hires and people who are so
• 19:10
  Speaker 3: like afraid to say they didn't know how to ride
• 19:12
  Speaker 3: a horse either, and so I'm like the old lady
• 19:14
  Speaker 3: who's like, no, good for him, I don't care. I
• 19:17
  Speaker 3: don't want to die today.
• 19:18
  Speaker 2: Well for that to be happening post rust, it's especially crazy.
• 19:22
  Speaker 3: It was even weird because there was like an article
• 19:24
  Speaker 3: that day about how he Alec Baldwin had like fought
• 19:28
  Speaker 3: to ride the horse on camera and the horse trainers
• 19:31
  Speaker 3: were like, you're not a good enough rider to do that.
• 19:33
  Speaker 3: That's unsafe. So it was actually in the trial that
• 19:35
  Speaker 3: he was pushing.
• 19:36
  Speaker 2: That a little bit, right.
• 19:38
  Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, it was a very strange experience. I've
• 19:41
  Speaker 3: had more than a few. But but yeah, anyway.
• 19:44
  Speaker 2: And nuns with guns, nouns with guns, that feels like
• 19:47
  Speaker 2: it should very at least be a calendar series TV.
• 19:51
  Speaker 3: There's something that it would be fun if it was drag. Oh,
• 19:53
  Speaker 3: that's great, I could get like really sexual totally.
• 19:58
  Speaker 2: I also, wow, I I just have so many questions
• 20:01
  Speaker 2: about that. That's fascinating. It feels like you're just attracting
• 20:04
  Speaker 2: danger wherever you go. I'd be true, it's just a catastrophe,
• 20:07
  Speaker 2: that's true.
• 20:08
  Speaker 3: The cars are blowing up. Yeah, I'm falling off horses.
• 20:11
  Speaker 2: I tried to. I actually could drive a stick pretty
• 20:14
  Speaker 2: well about in England. Rented a car and nearly didn't
• 20:17
  Speaker 2: make it out of the parking garage. It was humiliating
• 20:20
  Speaker 2: because why because I was used to driving with my
• 20:22
  Speaker 2: right hand circle right and then.
• 20:25
  Speaker 3: You'll be left right, nightmare. There you have it.
• 20:27
  Speaker 2: And then I did run into a curb going about
• 20:29
  Speaker 2: fifty miles an hour, So that's not fun.
• 20:32
  Speaker 3: No, and right, that was the other problem. It's like
• 20:34
  Speaker 3: it's not just that I'm doing the stick. I'm doing
• 20:36
  Speaker 3: it on the wrong side of the car.
• 20:37
  Speaker 2: I can't believe you're alive to be here on the podcast.
• 20:40
  Speaker 2: It's America. It is America so many different ways.
• 20:42
  Speaker 3: It's a miracle.
• 20:44
  Speaker 2: Well, I feel like there's something else that's not a miracle,
• 20:47
  Speaker 2: something that's a little bit more troublesome. I was excited
• 20:50
  Speaker 2: to have you here on the podcast today, Amy. I
• 20:53
  Speaker 2: thought Amy is going to come by. I'm sure she'll
• 20:55
  Speaker 2: have some story about a car being on fire. We'll
• 20:58
  Speaker 2: get into that and then I'll I'll move on.
• 21:01
  Speaker 3: We'll have your absurd request.
• 21:04
  Speaker 2: Well, I was a little upset when you showed up
• 21:06
  Speaker 2: to my podcast. I said, no gifts, holding.
• 21:08
  Speaker 3: No one means it when they say that. I literally like,
• 21:11
  Speaker 3: you're saying, bring me a gift, let's be honest, how annoyed?
• 21:16
  Speaker 3: No gifts? Please, no gifts. And then they're like, can
• 21:19
  Speaker 3: you believe she showed up and she didn't bring a gift? Well,
• 21:22
  Speaker 3: I didn't bring you anything, so it's fine.
• 21:25
  Speaker 2: Okay, good, Well, then we'll just keep talking about cars.
• 21:28
  Speaker 2: I did.
• 21:29
  Speaker 3: First of all, it came in a very cute pink Yes,
• 21:31
  Speaker 3: it's very nice hotels and resorts.
• 21:34
  Speaker 2: Gorgeous bank.
• 21:35
  Speaker 3: My mother stays there during Christmas.
• 21:38
  Speaker 2: And the one in Pasadena. Yes, it's a very nice.
• 21:41
  Speaker 3: Resort, stunning, and it smells really good. Oh, everything's like pink,
• 21:44
  Speaker 3: which I like. Yeah, and it's like a nice pink.
• 21:46
  Speaker 2: A very faint pink, like bright.
• 21:49
  Speaker 3: Pink and black is cheap. Faint pink and black is elegant.
• 21:54
  Speaker 2: Yeah, like bright pink and black is very victorious.
• 21:56
  Speaker 3: Secret or yes, or the the girls in green in
• 22:00
  Speaker 3: those jackets.
• 22:01
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, totally girls, something apples or something that ladies. Yes, wow,
• 22:11
  Speaker 2: good for me.
• 22:11
  Speaker 3: For interesting that we couldn't come up with pink.
• 22:15
  Speaker 2: Or ladies. Okay, let's let's get in here. Okay, there
• 22:22
  Speaker 2: are two options.
• 22:24
  Speaker 3: I've got two guests. Not only did I bring guests,
• 22:26
  Speaker 3: and they're not related to each.
• 22:27
  Speaker 2: Okay, it doesn't matter. Uh, would you open first?
• 22:30
  Speaker 3: Yeah, let's open the little one first.
• 22:32
  Speaker 2: They're pretty dense.
• 22:33
  Speaker 3: This is in. I also wanted to point out my
• 22:36
  Speaker 3: special paper, Gorge's Critical Role, which some of your listeners,
• 22:39
  Speaker 3: of course, might be into. We are really into them
• 22:42
  Speaker 3: in our house, and so I bought Critical Role wrapping
• 22:47
  Speaker 3: paper probably four years ago, and I still have it.
• 22:51
  Speaker 2: I think that's kind of the rule with wrapping papers.
• 22:53
  Speaker 2: You buy it and then it just goes.
• 22:54
  Speaker 3: In a I wrapped what I needed that year, and
• 22:56
  Speaker 3: then I think it's I think it's very cute though.
• 22:58
  Speaker 2: So I thought it a great rap.
• 22:59
  Speaker 3: It would be good for you.
• 23:00
  Speaker 2: All right, let's that's thick wrapping paper.
• 23:04
  Speaker 3: I like it.
• 23:05
  Speaker 2: Okay, open. I debated bringing you out, but oh what, Okay,
• 23:10
  Speaker 2: this is it says Santa's pipe smoke, big ass brick
• 23:13
  Speaker 2: of soap.
• 23:16
  Speaker 3: Yeah, take it out. It is a very nice bar
• 23:19
  Speaker 3: of smells so good. This is a regift from the Uh. Yes,
• 23:25
  Speaker 3: it's a beautiful thing of soap.
• 23:26
  Speaker 2: Look at that thing. You could's quality.
• 23:29
  Speaker 3: That's quality soap. I know someone gave you. I heard
• 23:32
  Speaker 3: one of your podcasts where oh, Wendy, she brought you
• 23:35
  Speaker 3: like smelly toilet paper.
• 23:37
  Speaker 2: Oh yes, the strawberry strawberry yes.
• 23:40
  Speaker 3: And I was like, oh, that's so fun. And then
• 23:42
  Speaker 3: I forgot that. You know, Basically, I have like a
• 23:44
  Speaker 3: little cabinet at home where I put little things that
• 23:48
  Speaker 3: we maybe got gifted that we're not going to use,
• 23:50
  Speaker 3: and I try to figure out if someone might want them.
• 23:53
  Speaker 3: And this was a recycled stocking stuffer.
• 23:57
  Speaker 2: This is a great stocking.
• 23:59
  Speaker 3: I think it says Santa his pipe.
• 24:00
  Speaker 2: Yes, this is very Christmas oriented. Duke Canon, I don't
• 24:04
  Speaker 2: know what that is.
• 24:05
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm not sure, but you can regift it or
• 24:08
  Speaker 3: use it.
• 24:08
  Speaker 2: I will probably use it.
• 24:10
  Speaker 3: I mean I thought, honestly, when I took the soap out,
• 24:13
  Speaker 3: I was like, oh, nice soap.
• 24:17
  Speaker 2: And I say that's a smell like smoke.
• 24:20
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yes, actually you can get go real close. It
• 24:23
  Speaker 3: does have a smoky quality like a smoke. No, but
• 24:28
  Speaker 3: just in a nice I know you really want to
• 24:30
  Speaker 3: wear like a super masculine scent, right, that's right for you.
• 24:34
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I've never heard of this brand, the Duke Cannon soap.
• 24:37
  Speaker 2: Any are you a bar soap person or a shower jail.
• 24:40
  Speaker 3: Person shower gel?
• 24:42
  Speaker 2: Yeah?
• 24:43
  Speaker 3: Yeah. Bar soap kind of freaks me out because it
• 24:45
  Speaker 3: always gets down to that like bottom part and you
• 24:49
  Speaker 3: know at that point it's just like disgusting.
• 24:51
  Speaker 2: What does this film feel like?
• 24:53
  Speaker 3: Is it small enough that I should throw it away
• 24:54
  Speaker 3: like I'm wasting right, and then it just gets caught
• 24:57
  Speaker 3: in your drain and everything gets backed up. Yeah, so
• 25:00
  Speaker 3: I like a good pump.
• 25:01
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like, uh, you're off the podcast, leave
• 25:06
  Speaker 2: the ship.
• 25:07
  Speaker 3: I'm not even trying, you guys, not even try.
• 25:11
  Speaker 2: Wow, this is a very I guess I don't mind
• 25:14
  Speaker 2: a bar soap for hands, because frequently it smells pretty good.
• 25:18
  Speaker 3: Yeah, but also like as a house thing, you know, Oprah,
• 25:22
  Speaker 3: If you go stay at Oprah's house, of which I've
• 25:24
  Speaker 3: never done, she replaces the guest soap for every guest
• 25:27
  Speaker 3: because you don't want like the stuff that was on
• 25:29
  Speaker 3: the other guests.
• 25:30
  Speaker 2: So she's just throwing the rest in the ocean.
• 25:32
  Speaker 3: Yeah, she's destroying the earth. I don't even want to
• 25:35
  Speaker 3: talk about Oprah. Get a little disappointed lately, to say
• 25:40
  Speaker 3: the least. But and I'm fifty six, so she was
• 25:44
  Speaker 3: a big part of my sure life. Right, I'm very disappointed,
• 25:48
  Speaker 3: but whatever, not because of soap, but she got me
• 25:52
  Speaker 3: into this thing about like dried up old soap.
• 25:56
  Speaker 2: So I guess that was the one that got you
• 25:57
  Speaker 2: into the soap thing.
• 25:58
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I guess that's why I'm giving you that soap.
• 26:01
  Speaker 3: Get it out of my house.
• 26:02
  Speaker 2: I don't like a bar soap in a public place.
• 26:04
  Speaker 3: Well private, sure, if it's just us privately, sure, just
• 26:08
  Speaker 3: us in our But if you have.
• 26:09
  Speaker 2: A bar soap in your place of business? What are
• 26:11
  Speaker 2: you doing? Oh?
• 26:12
  Speaker 3: Or yeah, I don't yeah, or a guest bathroom. I
• 26:16
  Speaker 3: think now that's.
• 26:17
  Speaker 2: Just it's uh, I think we've all moved on in
• 26:20
  Speaker 2: a way. Yeah, I think it's more just therefore the smell.
• 26:23
  Speaker 3: It can be very decorative. Yeah, my mom is really
• 26:26
  Speaker 3: into decorative soaps. Okay, so I actually one of my
• 26:29
  Speaker 3: fun things is to like really go find wherever I am,
• 26:32
  Speaker 3: like the most extraordinarily beautiful soap.
• 26:34
  Speaker 2: Where's the best soap you've gotten?
• 26:36
  Speaker 3: Oh, that's a good question. Probably like Santa.
• 26:40
  Speaker 2: Barbara Barb feels like probably the good soap capital of.
• 26:43
  Speaker 3: The like one of those like high end gift stories. Right,
• 26:47
  Speaker 3: it's like super decorated and floral.
• 26:50
  Speaker 2: And bar soap is like seventy dollars exactly.
• 26:54
  Speaker 3: No, I think that's about right.
• 26:55
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I believe that.
• 26:56
  Speaker 3: Yes, Yeah, I think I did buy like a very
• 26:59
  Speaker 3: expensive bar soap there. It probably was like maybe fifty
• 27:02
  Speaker 3: maybe seventy. But that's a that's a lot tough so
• 27:06
  Speaker 3: but you don't use that soap. That sop's just there
• 27:08
  Speaker 3: to say, it's like potpourri or something exactly, it's like poopury.
• 27:11
  Speaker 2: What is soap made out of? Do we know what
• 27:13
  Speaker 2: soap is made out of? Is it wax?
• 27:15
  Speaker 3: Well? When I invented soap again, I brought you I'm
• 27:19
  Speaker 3: just realizing. Yeah, no, that's a good question.
• 27:21
  Speaker 2: Yeah, what are we Is it like like large glcerin
• 27:28
  Speaker 2: glacer Now you just say glittering, like you know what glycerin?
• 27:31
  Speaker 3: Well, exactly, I don't really know what glcerin is either,
• 27:34
  Speaker 3: but I feel like that's a big ingredient.
• 27:36
  Speaker 2: Yeah, Glcerin's got to be at the top of them.
• 27:38
  Speaker 3: It's like a liquid thing that can be hard.
• 27:41
  Speaker 2: It gets gelatine gelatin maybe, but gelatin feels like it
• 27:45
  Speaker 2: would really fall apart pretty quickly in water. But people
• 27:48
  Speaker 2: are making soap all the time.
• 27:49
  Speaker 3: Yeah, and they're all making their gets wet and falls
• 27:52
  Speaker 3: and then a hole. It doesn't make any sense.
• 27:54
  Speaker 2: No, I don't. I will only let soap be purchased
• 27:57
  Speaker 2: for me. I'm never going out for a bar of
• 27:59
  Speaker 2: soap for cage.
• 28:00
  Speaker 3: Now. You don't have to. At least that giant break,
• 28:03
  Speaker 3: big ass break of soap is how it's described.
• 28:06
  Speaker 2: Do you do a big thing for Christmas?
• 28:09
  Speaker 3: Yes? Christmas is huge in my house, which is sort
• 28:13
  Speaker 3: of funny. Because my grandfather was a German Jew who
• 28:16
  Speaker 3: escaped during the war, but we always my mom's side
• 28:21
  Speaker 3: was not, but also my grandmother. So incredible story is
• 28:25
  Speaker 3: that my grandmother on my dad's side is you know,
• 28:31
  Speaker 3: a descendant of farmers in Indiana, and her father was
• 28:36
  Speaker 3: in the Ku Klux Klan marching band, but not because marching,
• 28:42
  Speaker 3: not because he was like into the ku Klux Klan,
• 28:45
  Speaker 3: but because it was the only marching band that you
• 28:47
  Speaker 3: could be a part of a Indiana back in the day.
• 28:50
  Speaker 3: So I think this might have been like pre I
• 28:52
  Speaker 3: don't know if there was ever pre hoods, but I
• 28:54
  Speaker 3: can't imagine my great grandfather in a hood. I don't
• 28:57
  Speaker 3: think that was it. But she fell in love with
• 29:01
  Speaker 3: my grandfather, who University of Michigan saved him. There was
• 29:07
  Speaker 3: a time in the early Nazi regime where if you
• 29:09
  Speaker 3: could get sponsored by a like an education institution that
• 29:13
  Speaker 3: would take you away, they would let you because they
• 29:15
  Speaker 3: didn't want any of the smart Jews there. They wanted
• 29:18
  Speaker 3: you taken away. So University of Michigan paid for his
• 29:21
  Speaker 3: passage and he became a professor there. But we never
• 29:26
  Speaker 3: really talked about he became very he was he was
• 29:29
  Speaker 3: a religious you know, I think they went to like
• 29:31
  Speaker 3: a Unitarian church. But like so I always knew I
• 29:34
  Speaker 3: had these like Jewish and I had Jewish aunts and uncles,
• 29:38
  Speaker 3: so there was always a combo going on. We were
• 29:40
  Speaker 3: always kind of doing a little bit of Hanukkah. But
• 29:43
  Speaker 3: Christmas was like the greatest day of my life every year,
• 29:48
  Speaker 3: and both of my parents were extremely over done in
• 29:53
  Speaker 3: their gift giving. It just became hence two gifts, not one, right,
• 29:56
  Speaker 3: of course, gone too far. I may I always brought
• 29:58
  Speaker 3: you three and was brought you something from Japan. But
• 30:01
  Speaker 3: I was like, Okay, it's like a little too much
• 30:03
  Speaker 3: and I might want to give that to somebody.
• 30:04
  Speaker 2: But that I know another gift based podcast.
• 30:08
  Speaker 3: Yes there might be someone else, but but yeah it
• 30:12
  Speaker 3: was wait, I.
• 30:13
  Speaker 2: Totally lost usually talking about Christmas being going all crazy.
• 30:16
  Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, so it was like we got like a
• 30:19
  Speaker 3: thousand gifts. So I am I continue that tradition we have,
• 30:24
  Speaker 3: you know, you have the stocking. If there were kids,
• 30:27
  Speaker 3: you would put the cookies out and we would write
• 30:28
  Speaker 3: a letter that goes on until you're about fifteen, and
• 30:30
  Speaker 3: then everyone.
• 30:31
  Speaker 2: Just like it's just a dirty dish.
• 30:33
  Speaker 3: Yeah, now it's just annoying, right, but you you know,
• 30:36
  Speaker 3: you have the fireplace open with the footprints and oh
• 30:40
  Speaker 3: the whole nine.
• 30:41
  Speaker 2: Wow, they're like props.
• 30:43
  Speaker 3: And huge stockings and then tons of gifts. It's really fun.
• 30:48
  Speaker 2: That's right.
• 30:49
  Speaker 3: I love Christmas.
• 30:49
  Speaker 2: That sounds lovely.
• 30:50
  Speaker 3: Yeah, but it's fun.
• 30:52
  Speaker 2: And I'm just still thinking about the KKK marching.
• 30:57
  Speaker 3: My dad's been trying to write a movie script about
• 30:59
  Speaker 3: that for the like is really fascinating.
• 31:03
  Speaker 2: A tricky line to walk, yes, yeah, I know.
• 31:05
  Speaker 3: Although he was perfectly like welcoming and loved my grandfather
• 31:09
  Speaker 3: and had no problem, he wasn't his belief system.
• 31:13
  Speaker 2: It literally was.
• 31:18
  Speaker 3: Yeah, it was pretty pretty interesting going to their farm.
• 31:22
  Speaker 3: It was very different than you know, my the my
• 31:27
  Speaker 3: grandfather's side of the family. Now, because of the state
• 31:30
  Speaker 3: of the United States, my father is actively seeking his
• 31:33
  Speaker 3: dual citizenship because if you were a descendant of a Jew,
• 31:37
  Speaker 3: you can, and then your descendants can, and so we
• 31:40
  Speaker 3: have looked into getting an attorney to expedite it just
• 31:43
  Speaker 3: in case any of us need to get the hell
• 31:44
  Speaker 3: out of here.
• 31:45
  Speaker 2: Oh my god. Yeah, a lot of people in.
• 31:47
  Speaker 3: Germany would be the safe place.
• 31:50
  Speaker 2: Life surprises life as a way, let's open this next
• 31:58
  Speaker 2: thing here say nice rapping.
• 32:03
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I guess I'm not really that good at rapping
• 32:06
  Speaker 3: better than me, but I did wrap.
• 32:07
  Speaker 2: It better than me. Oh, it's a book, do you
• 32:10
  Speaker 2: know I'm familiar through TikTok. To be honest, they let them.
• 32:16
  Speaker 3: When this came out, I bought six of them for
• 32:20
  Speaker 3: these girlfriends of mine for Christmas. And then I kind
• 32:23
  Speaker 3: of just like, I don't know, A couple have already
• 32:25
  Speaker 3: had it, so I've had like three on my bookshelf.
• 32:29
  Speaker 3: I did inscribe it to you, though you don't want
• 32:31
  Speaker 3: to read the inscription.
• 32:33
  Speaker 2: Says Bridger. You need to just let them bring in.
• 32:39
  Speaker 3: So let them? Is this I never got to the
• 32:42
  Speaker 3: second part of the book.
• 32:43
  Speaker 2: What's that there?
• 32:45
  Speaker 3: Let them? And then there's also like not being a
• 32:47
  Speaker 3: total asshole.
• 32:49
  Speaker 2: Oh okay.
• 32:50
  Speaker 3: Suggestion is not that you just like don't caretake anyone ever.
• 32:54
  Speaker 2: Right, But I think that people have only taken the
• 32:56
  Speaker 2: first half.
• 32:58
  Speaker 3: They only want the first half. But I am one
• 33:00
  Speaker 3: of those people where when someone's upset, I get extremely
• 33:04
  Speaker 3: uncomfortable and I try to manage the situation right. And
• 33:10
  Speaker 3: that sort of simple phrase was something that I felt
• 33:14
  Speaker 3: around Christmas time could be really helpful, you know, like
• 33:17
  Speaker 3: if someone's upset because this, that or the other thing,
• 33:19
  Speaker 3: you let them. And it was really funny because I
• 33:20
  Speaker 3: probably did the like actively was doing it for a
• 33:24
  Speaker 3: few weeks and it was like some point where Fraley
• 33:26
  Speaker 3: was irritated about something and I didn't respond. He's like, oh,
• 33:29
  Speaker 3: are you just letting me? Is that what we're doing?
• 33:32
  Speaker 3: And I was like, and I was like, he's right,
• 33:33
  Speaker 3: that's what I was doing. I was like, oh, well,
• 33:34
  Speaker 3: let him be upset and.
• 33:36
  Speaker 2: Then you have to let him be upset about being
• 33:37
  Speaker 2: let them.
• 33:38
  Speaker 3: Yeah, book, Yeah, exactly, but it might I don't know
• 33:42
  Speaker 3: a lot about you. I don't know if you need this.
• 33:44
  Speaker 2: This is it? Yeah, I remember this like blew up
• 33:46
  Speaker 2: on various social media for all.
• 33:48
  Speaker 3: It's like the one now are you mad at me?
• 33:50
  Speaker 3: It's like, I think, if you have a title, you know,
• 33:52
  Speaker 3: this is like such a great all you don't need
• 33:55
  Speaker 3: to read it. You just have to go, you know,
• 33:57
  Speaker 3: and just let them. It's like a mantra, don't need
• 34:00
  Speaker 3: to read the inside and you're done.
• 34:02
  Speaker 2: Do you think mel Robbins is out there freaking out saying,
• 34:05
  Speaker 2: there's the other half of the book. I've now created
• 34:06
  Speaker 2: an army of people who don't care about it.
• 34:08
  Speaker 3: By the way, she does bring that up a lot
• 34:10
  Speaker 3: because she gets a lot of shit for this because
• 34:12
  Speaker 3: everyone's like, this is like a theory where it's like,
• 34:14
  Speaker 3: you're mad, I don't give a ship.
• 34:16
  Speaker 2: Yeah, like I don't have no responsibility for anybody ever care.
• 34:18
  Speaker 3: I don't care. And she's like, that is not but
• 34:21
  Speaker 3: that's not because they've read the first half, not the
• 34:23
  Speaker 3: second half. They just haven't read it at all.
• 34:24
  Speaker 2: Right, I'm sure.
• 34:25
  Speaker 3: She's happy that people are still buying it just and
• 34:29
  Speaker 3: then they're like, you know what, I got it. I
• 34:31
  Speaker 3: got it.
• 34:31
  Speaker 2: I'm sure she's happy people are buying it.
• 34:33
  Speaker 3: Let them theory.
• 34:35
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's it's such an interesting one because it's so
• 34:39
  Speaker 2: appealing to be like, oh, I don't ever have to
• 34:41
  Speaker 2: be responsible again.
• 34:42
  Speaker 3: I feel like it should go like right up there, right.
• 34:45
  Speaker 2: This is how everybody is. They buy the book, they
• 34:47
  Speaker 2: put on their bookshelf, and they stop caring about other people.
• 34:49
  Speaker 3: Yeah, there you have it.
• 34:51
  Speaker 2: Let them.
• 34:51
  Speaker 3: It'll remind you every time that you're at.
• 34:54
  Speaker 2: Work when you started taking this advice, How did it
• 34:58
  Speaker 2: change anything for you? Yeah?
• 35:00
  Speaker 3: I kind of actually, I mean, look, you know, I
• 35:03
  Speaker 3: have my father wrote a memoir. He's a very very
• 35:08
  Speaker 3: well known radio disc jockey in the Midwest. Yes, he's
• 35:13
  Speaker 3: in like the Rock And'll Hall of Fame Museum. Yep, Yep.
• 35:16
  Speaker 3: His name's John And this is really his middle name,
• 35:19
  Speaker 3: Records Landecker. So the racist Grandpa. His last name was Records. Oh,
• 35:25
  Speaker 3: so it became my dad's middle name. He was not racist,
• 35:28
  Speaker 3: the great grandpa. He was just in the Kukooks network.
• 35:31
  Speaker 3: But my dad, Yeah, he he became a disc jockey.
• 35:38
  Speaker 3: So I'm only saying that he wrote a memoir that
• 35:42
  Speaker 3: that is public, so I can say, like he was
• 35:44
  Speaker 3: an alcoholic and a drug addict when I was younger,
• 35:47
  Speaker 3: and children of alcoholics and drug addicts tend to really
• 35:51
  Speaker 3: get freaked out when people are like upset or the disorder.
• 35:55
  Speaker 3: So I was always like an alan On type adjacent
• 35:58
  Speaker 3: person my whole life, Like I knew the whole you know,
• 36:01
  Speaker 3: like I didn't cause it, I can't cure it. There's
• 36:05
  Speaker 3: another c there's like I don't know what the other
• 36:07
  Speaker 3: off the one is, but there's three of them.
• 36:11
  Speaker 2: Let them, yeah, let them.
• 36:14
  Speaker 3: And so that idea of like you know, not feeling
• 36:18
  Speaker 3: like you're gonna die if someone's mad, like not having
• 36:22
  Speaker 3: a panic inside. That was always something that I aspired to.
• 36:26
  Speaker 3: What I really liked about this title was literally it
• 36:32
  Speaker 3: was like an easy thing to remember.
• 36:35
  Speaker 2: Oh do you know what I mean?
• 36:36
  Speaker 3: It was just like it's like let them like. It
• 36:39
  Speaker 3: doesn't mean don't care about the bop you love and
• 36:41
  Speaker 3: you know, don't take responsibility for this stuff that you do,
• 36:43
  Speaker 3: but for the stuff that you can't control, and you're
• 36:46
  Speaker 3: just overmanaging.
• 36:48
  Speaker 2: You know.
• 36:49
  Speaker 3: I had a when I was pregnant with my child.
• 36:52
  Speaker 3: My my mom was a Hathai yngar teacher doula. Oh wow,
• 36:58
  Speaker 3: and she was going to be my doula. Now, if
• 37:01
  Speaker 3: you know me, I am not a natural childbirth person.
• 37:05
  Speaker 3: I give me all the drugs, right, give me the drugs.
• 37:08
  Speaker 3: But I was trying to please my mother. Oh boy,
• 37:11
  Speaker 3: so I agreed to have her be my doula. I
• 37:13
  Speaker 3: agreed to do natural childbirth. We get into the hospital
• 37:17
  Speaker 3: and my mom's with me, and I am like vomiting,
• 37:20
  Speaker 3: but I haven't even like opened up enough, so they
• 37:22
  Speaker 3: physically opened me and they go and my doctor's not
• 37:24
  Speaker 3: there yet who has the natural childbirth plan? And they're like,
• 37:28
  Speaker 3: what you know, we're going to admit you to the
• 37:31
  Speaker 3: regular floor, which I knew was the floor where you
• 37:33
  Speaker 3: could get drugs if you wanted to get drugs. And
• 37:35
  Speaker 3: the reason I knew this is I did a tour
• 37:37
  Speaker 3: of the Birthing Center floor. And when I went on
• 37:40
  Speaker 3: the tour, first of all, there's a woman like screaming
• 37:41
  Speaker 3: bloody murder as we're walking by, and I was like,
• 37:45
  Speaker 3: and then the woman looks at all of us, this group,
• 37:47
  Speaker 3: this tour group, and she was like, know who you are?
• 37:54
  Speaker 3: And she said it in this like very she repeated it.
• 37:58
  Speaker 2: No who you.
• 38:02
  Speaker 3: Up from the shadows, and yeah, if you are a
• 38:05
  Speaker 3: person who might want an epidural, do not come to
• 38:10
  Speaker 3: this floor.
• 38:11
  Speaker 2: Oh interesting, and I knew.
• 38:13
  Speaker 3: I was like, I'm an epidurl. And I was like
• 38:15
  Speaker 3: ashamed of friends who've like done documentaries around natural childbirth,
• 38:19
  Speaker 3: Like this is a shame issue, right, Like I'm ashamed.
• 38:22
  Speaker 3: You know, Gabby Hoffins, one of my closest friends, Like,
• 38:24
  Speaker 3: she'll have a baby right here on the floor in
• 38:25
  Speaker 3: front of us, if you know, like no problem, although
• 38:29
  Speaker 3: she is not judgmental, but I would think she would
• 38:31
  Speaker 3: judge me. Right, So we get put into this room
• 38:34
  Speaker 3: and my mom puts me in a bathtub and I
• 38:38
  Speaker 3: spend about an hour in the bathtub trying to regulate everything.
• 38:43
  Speaker 3: And I just looked up at her and I was like, mom,
• 38:46
  Speaker 3: I want the epidural and she I thought she was
• 38:48
  Speaker 3: gonna like be really mad, and she was just like okay.
• 38:53
  Speaker 3: And I know it was a huge moment for us
• 38:58
  Speaker 3: with each other, so I didn't even need to at her.
• 39:00
  Speaker 3: But that comes back. What that has to do with
• 39:02
  Speaker 3: it is like that's that simplicity, like know who you are.
• 39:06
  Speaker 3: I've used that like a thousand times in my life,
• 39:08
  Speaker 3: like who am I? What do I want?
• 39:10
  Speaker 2: Rather than being defined by everybody else's what your opinion
• 39:14
  Speaker 2: is of me. I feel like you're doing a lot
• 39:15
  Speaker 2: of good work for mel Robbins right now explaining what the.
• 39:18
  Speaker 3: Black glasses on. I'm basically doing a mail rob. It's
• 39:22
  Speaker 3: a personage.
• 39:23
  Speaker 2: You're like, you're the second half of the book. For now.
• 39:27
  Speaker 2: You're going to be all over TikTok. People be like, oh,
• 39:29
  Speaker 2: that's what was supposed to.
• 39:30
  Speaker 3: Say, that's what it was. I got it. I don't
• 39:33
  Speaker 3: just put it on your shelf, read the side.
• 39:36
  Speaker 2: I wouldn't be surprised if that book is just blank
• 39:38
  Speaker 2: and they just put that title on the cover and
• 39:40
  Speaker 2: they're like, this is going to sell, it's going to
• 39:41
  Speaker 2: look into this.
• 39:42
  Speaker 3: I have like a book someone gave me that was
• 39:44
  Speaker 3: like a pretty hefty book and the cover is like
• 39:47
  Speaker 3: everything that has made me proud of Donald Trump or
• 39:51
  Speaker 3: something and you and it's just an empty.
• 39:52
  Speaker 2: That's a great gag.
• 39:54
  Speaker 3: It's a great gag. And it's just empty pages that.
• 39:56
  Speaker 2: Could be used as a journal. Yes, like a that's
• 39:59
  Speaker 2: a good hidden Yeah. No, one's going to look into it. Yeah,
• 40:03
  Speaker 2: private thoughts, that's true. Interest, that's true. Wow, let them. Yeah.
• 40:07
  Speaker 2: I I feel like that's kind of like part of
• 40:10
  Speaker 2: human behaviors, like just being the reason it blew up
• 40:13
  Speaker 2: in situations like you're just looking for an excuse to
• 40:15
  Speaker 2: do the bare minimum and so.
• 40:17
  Speaker 3: Well, I think if you're like you know, yes, if
• 40:19
  Speaker 3: you're a toxic narcissist, that could be used inappropriately. But
• 40:23
  Speaker 3: also I think there's a lot of people who are
• 40:26
  Speaker 3: really trapped in people pleasing. Oh yeah, I mean about
• 40:30
  Speaker 3: depends on which direction you're coming from. But you're right
• 40:33
  Speaker 3: for the for the for the real assholes of the world.
• 40:36
  Speaker 3: It's real like co sign right totally.
• 40:39
  Speaker 2: Yeah, But it may, but it also makes perfect sense.
• 40:41
  Speaker 2: I should be letting more people do a lot of things,
• 40:43
  Speaker 2: and I simply can't. Yes, I'm just constantly paranoid about
• 40:47
  Speaker 2: everyone's behavior.
• 40:47
  Speaker 3: Clearly. I mean the name of your podcast is like
• 40:50
  Speaker 3: telling people what to do.
• 40:51
  Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, yeah, maybe I should give let them a
• 40:57
  Speaker 2: little bit more of a shot. Yeah, it's hard. It's
• 41:00
  Speaker 2: hard to just let didn't.
• 41:01
  Speaker 3: You come up with I said, no gifts.
• 41:03
  Speaker 2: Deep greed, and just because you knew control issue, it
• 41:08
  Speaker 2: was going to be the opposite. No, it was. It
• 41:10
  Speaker 2: was just a thing that kind of I kind of
• 41:13
  Speaker 2: wanted to do a podcast, but obviously it's hard to
• 41:16
  Speaker 2: come up with an actual idea that I had. I
• 41:18
  Speaker 2: was driving home from a writing job I had, and
• 41:20
  Speaker 2: I just came into my mind. It's like, oh, that
• 41:22
  Speaker 2: is kind.
• 41:23
  Speaker 3: Of a podcast already, a great idea.
• 41:25
  Speaker 2: And then thank god the network was there to set
• 41:28
  Speaker 2: it up. And because I'm very lazy, I wouldn't have
• 41:31
  Speaker 2: done it on my own.
• 41:32
  Speaker 3: Me too, And it's exactly right.
• 41:35
  Speaker 2: Exactly right, that's the network. And so now I'm just
• 41:38
  Speaker 2: surrounded by objects that have for I think we have
• 41:41
  Speaker 2: almost three hundred episodes and probably fun I probably have
• 41:44
  Speaker 2: like five hundred objects.
• 41:45
  Speaker 3: I brought you the best gift.
• 41:47
  Speaker 2: Of course, we finally got to one that I could use.
• 41:50
  Speaker 2: The rest of this will be sent to the dump.
• 41:52
  Speaker 3: I really actually want to know, knowing it's not mine,
• 41:55
  Speaker 3: are you allowed to say, like, what has been one
• 41:57
  Speaker 3: of your favorite gifts?
• 41:57
  Speaker 2: Oh? Yeah, okay, And I feel like I answered this
• 42:00
  Speaker 2: same thing all the time. So I'm going to try
• 42:02
  Speaker 2: to be a little I'm going to try to branch
• 42:04
  Speaker 2: out here because I usually say a car garbage can
• 42:08
  Speaker 2: was given to me, which is a great time, a
• 42:10
  Speaker 2: beautiful waff liaron. But more recently, a friend painted a
• 42:15
  Speaker 2: picture of my new dog, which was just really lovely,
• 42:18
  Speaker 2: which is like a good gift regardless of pocast, you know,
• 42:23
  Speaker 2: like Paul Rubins was on and so like this cactus
• 42:25
  Speaker 2: candy right here is just like a very that's fun,
• 42:29
  Speaker 2: memorable thing. Yeah. I feel like most of the gifts
• 42:33
  Speaker 2: murder thing. Let's see, Oh this is murder seed wrote
• 42:37
  Speaker 2: Maria Thayer made this for the Iowa State Fair, I
• 42:41
  Speaker 2: want to say, And she kind of does the seed
• 42:43
  Speaker 2: art every year. That's cool, and so she brought this,
• 42:47
  Speaker 2: but I was the photograph of right here. Yeah, that's
• 42:50
  Speaker 2: a picture of Iowa Deborris.
• 42:52
  Speaker 3: Oh god, I even recognize her.
• 42:53
  Speaker 2: She looks years old. Yes, that is her at that age.
• 42:57
  Speaker 3: Oh, I see.
• 42:58
  Speaker 2: And she sent a photo of her self dressed as
• 43:00
  Speaker 2: a president to an Etsy person to paint of her.
• 43:03
  Speaker 3: Oh that's really cute.
• 43:05
  Speaker 2: But I've gotten a lot of This is smelling salts,
• 43:07
  Speaker 2: which is essentially drugs, and most of the things are fun.
• 43:12
  Speaker 2: I feel like like that's weird. Ally gave me his
• 43:15
  Speaker 2: high school trophy. Oh wow, I mean I've kind of
• 43:18
  Speaker 2: gotten a little bit of everything. Yeah, it's a wild one, right.
• 43:21
  Speaker 3: What's it for?
• 43:22
  Speaker 2: It's for debate, I believe, expository. I believe that's kind
• 43:28
  Speaker 2: of the amy is now just destroying the That's a
• 43:40
  Speaker 2: beautiful masquerade mask is that's what we call those? Yeah,
• 43:44
  Speaker 2: that's from Chris Fleming. Yeah. I've just gotten a lot
• 43:46
  Speaker 2: of wonderful things, and now I've got let them and
• 43:47
  Speaker 2: so I've finally made it to the end of the
• 43:49
  Speaker 2: rainbow gotten.
• 43:52
  Speaker 3: Now wait here shows my my brain fog. Who what
• 43:57
  Speaker 3: was the second gift? You say, let's see, Oh, there
• 44:02
  Speaker 3: was some o the picture. What kind of dog do
• 44:04
  Speaker 3: you have?
• 44:04
  Speaker 2: Oh, she's a rotweiler.
• 44:06
  Speaker 3: Can I see. Yes, I took I'm obsessed with dogs.
• 44:08
  Speaker 2: I last night took a photo of her that I
• 44:11
  Speaker 2: just said. I've had her. We've had her for eight
• 44:15
  Speaker 2: months now. She just turned a year, and she's just
• 44:18
  Speaker 2: the most beautiful creature.
• 44:19
  Speaker 3: My god, I have a funny story. Speaking of gifts,
• 44:22
  Speaker 3: let's hear. So I'm friends with Samantha Ronson, who's like
• 44:25
  Speaker 3: this DJ Mark sister and an artist in her very
• 44:29
  Speaker 3: own right. Oh wow, Oh, she's very cute and beautiful.
• 44:36
  Speaker 2: She's a beautiful guy.
• 44:37
  Speaker 3: She's beautiful. So we lost, you know, our dear pet Izzy.
• 44:44
  Speaker 3: I think it was two summers ago.
• 44:45
  Speaker 1: She was a.
• 44:47
  Speaker 3: Chihuahua mix. We'd also lost our boxer Otis shortly before.
• 44:52
  Speaker 2: It was devastating, the worst feeling.
• 44:54
  Speaker 3: I actually had to put my cat down and Izzy
• 44:57
  Speaker 3: down within a week of each other. It was just
• 44:59
  Speaker 3: a terrible time, terrible time. By the way, while I'm
• 45:02
  Speaker 3: shooting that horse. It was horrible. It was horrible. But
• 45:08
  Speaker 3: she wanted to get us a present. And there's this
• 45:12
  Speaker 3: artist who makes these like pretty expensive, like felt renderings
• 45:18
  Speaker 3: of your animal that are three D in a little frame,
• 45:21
  Speaker 3: oh lovely, And she sent me the she sent me
• 45:25
  Speaker 3: some of his work and was like, do you do
• 45:27
  Speaker 3: you have a good picture of Izzy? Do you you know?
• 45:29
  Speaker 3: I want to get this for you and Bradley and
• 45:31
  Speaker 3: I was like, oh my god, that's just so sweet.
• 45:32
  Speaker 3: And I sent her pictures and and the thing showed
• 45:36
  Speaker 3: up and it is literally like the creepiest thing you've
• 45:39
  Speaker 3: ever had in your home, and like we had a
• 45:42
  Speaker 3: text exchange about it and she knows, like she's like,
• 45:44
  Speaker 3: what do you And I like, I couldn't. She was
• 45:46
  Speaker 3: like she thought it was hysterical. Thank god, she was
• 45:48
  Speaker 3: not offended. Thought it was absolutely sterical. But it looks
• 45:51
  Speaker 3: like you killed your dog and you have mounted.
• 45:55
  Speaker 2: You know what I mean?
• 45:56
  Speaker 3: Yes, it looks like taxa.
• 45:57
  Speaker 2: Do you have a picture of it?
• 45:58
  Speaker 3: I was just thinking I probably do somewhere on my phone,
• 46:01
  Speaker 3: but it would take me way too long.
• 46:02
  Speaker 2: Oh that sounds really unsettling.
• 46:04
  Speaker 3: I mean we literally hide it on a bookshelf upstairs
• 46:06
  Speaker 3: where no one can see it, and we sort of
• 46:07
  Speaker 3: pull it out as a gag the fold it's her head.
• 46:11
  Speaker 2: Oh no, it really.
• 46:13
  Speaker 3: Looks like you mounted your dog. After It's very You could.
• 46:17
  Speaker 2: Have possibly thought that was a good idea for a game,
• 46:19
  Speaker 2: but when you look at.
• 46:20
  Speaker 3: It, like on the page, it looks kind of cool.
• 46:22
  Speaker 3: You don't realize that the three D quality will then
• 46:24
  Speaker 3: make it look like you killed a deer.
• 46:26
  Speaker 2: Right, you know what I mean? Oh no, that's a
• 46:28
  Speaker 2: bad option.
• 46:29
  Speaker 3: It's not I mean, it was not good. It's not good.
• 46:32
  Speaker 3: You made me think of that, Yeah, it was, it was.
• 46:35
  Speaker 2: That is a nice gift you can give somebody after
• 46:37
  Speaker 2: their pet passes away. Is something a piece of art
• 46:41
  Speaker 2: about the pet. Maybe not a three days.
• 46:43
  Speaker 3: And then I got like a rock with this cat
• 46:47
  Speaker 3: she had for twenty seven years, Diamond.
• 46:50
  Speaker 2: Oldest cat I've ever heard me too.
• 46:53
  Speaker 3: And it was just weird because I ordered this rock
• 46:57
  Speaker 3: with Diamond's name for her garden and it just sort
• 46:59
  Speaker 3: of up like this, like this soap like. It was
• 47:02
  Speaker 3: just this big gray block of nothing. I just said
• 47:06
  Speaker 3: like Diamond and she was like, you know, she's a
• 47:09
  Speaker 3: virile as thete and I was like, sorry, mom, she's
• 47:12
  Speaker 3: not the rock I was. I didn't mean like some
• 47:14
  Speaker 3: rock that looks like a big turn.
• 47:16
  Speaker 2: You could have made that up.
• 47:17
  Speaker 3: Yeah, it could have been better. It could have been better.
• 47:21
  Speaker 2: Oh wow, Uh well, I feel like we should play
• 47:24
  Speaker 2: a game. Oh yeah, we're going to play a game
• 47:26
  Speaker 2: called Gift a Curse. But I need a number between
• 47:28
  Speaker 2: one and ten from you.
• 47:29
  Speaker 3: Seven.
• 47:30
  Speaker 2: Okay. I have to do some light calculating right now
• 47:32
  Speaker 2: to get our game pieces so you can promote, recommend,
• 47:35
  Speaker 2: do whatever you want. I'll be right back.
• 47:37
  Speaker 3: Well, I happened to be here in the week that
• 47:41
  Speaker 3: a feature film that I made, that I wrote and
• 47:44
  Speaker 3: directed and act in that opened at south By Southwest
• 47:48
  Speaker 3: last year is having a theatrical release, which is a
• 47:50
  Speaker 3: very big deal for these little low budget movies. So
• 47:53
  Speaker 3: it'll be at the Lemley Royale in Los Angeles starting
• 47:58
  Speaker 3: the twenty seventh, and it will be at the Quad Cinema,
• 48:01
  Speaker 3: New York starting in the twenty six and then it
• 48:02
  Speaker 3: will reach out nationwide the next week. And the better
• 48:08
  Speaker 3: it does, the better the more screens we get. I
• 48:10
  Speaker 3: think we are on about forty so far and hoping
• 48:13
  Speaker 3: to go to like one hundred or two hundred across
• 48:15
  Speaker 3: the country.
• 48:16
  Speaker 2: Did you name the movie?
• 48:17
  Speaker 3: It's called for Worse. It's inspired by It's a rom com.
• 48:23
  Speaker 3: It's my attempt at a very traditional rom com. Oh fun, Yeah,
• 48:26
  Speaker 3: it's very trophy, very traditional. I have an insane cast.
• 48:30
  Speaker 3: I have Gabby Hoffman and Ken Marino.
• 48:33
  Speaker 2: Oh, and wonderful.
• 48:34
  Speaker 3: I mean just Kelsey, Ryan Hart, you know, Bradley Whitford.
• 48:38
  Speaker 3: I don't know if you've heard of him. Nika Haraga,
• 48:40
  Speaker 3: who's a really great young he's a skateboarder and a model,
• 48:45
  Speaker 3: but he also is a wonderful actor and all. If
• 48:47
  Speaker 3: you bring up his name around any young girl under
• 48:49
  Speaker 3: the nage of twenty five, she's like, oh my god,
• 48:51
  Speaker 3: Ni Goo and god. Just so many people I can't
• 48:55
  Speaker 3: even you know, Claudia Saluski. Just an insane group of
• 49:00
  Speaker 3: talented people joined me to make this little funny Oh,
• 49:04
  Speaker 3: Missy Pile, Missy Pile, I'm the lead.
• 49:08
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, amazing. Yeah.
• 49:10
  Speaker 3: So I wrote myself a lead part in the movie
• 49:13
  Speaker 3: because no one else is going to give it to me,
• 49:15
  Speaker 3: and I directed it and I thought that was going
• 49:18
  Speaker 3: to be really scary, but it really was, and it
• 49:20
  Speaker 3: was kind of fun. And it's inspired by my absurd
• 49:24
  Speaker 3: behavior after my divorce.
• 49:27
  Speaker 2: So fo worse right, Oh, I really like that idea.
• 49:30
  Speaker 3: That's fun.
• 49:30
  Speaker 2: Everyone go see the movie.
• 49:32
  Speaker 3: Four worse four worstmovie dot Com has a great place
• 49:35
  Speaker 3: to It has all the places it's playing and ticket links.
• 49:38
  Speaker 2: Beautiful, beautiful, Okay, This is how we play gift or
• 49:41
  Speaker 2: a Curse. I'm going to name three things. You'll tell
• 49:44
  Speaker 2: me if they are a gift or a curse and why,
• 49:47
  Speaker 2: and then I'll tell you if you're right or wrong,
• 49:48
  Speaker 2: Because there are.
• 49:49
  Speaker 3: Right or wrong? Is just your opinion, Amy, No, right
• 49:53
  Speaker 3: or wrong.
• 49:55
  Speaker 2: It's a universally truth.
• 49:57
  Speaker 3: That somehow I disagree with. Yes, all right, I'll just
• 50:00
  Speaker 3: let you have your opinion.
• 50:01
  Speaker 2: Getting ahead of the story, Amy Lambdecker. Okay, this first
• 50:05
  Speaker 2: one is from my listener named Denise. Gift to a curse.
• 50:07
  Speaker 2: When you were walking and someone stops in front of you,
• 50:10
  Speaker 2: but the second you catch up to them, they start
• 50:12
  Speaker 2: walking at your exact pace.
• 50:14
  Speaker 3: Oh, curse. Why it's so creepy. No one wants to
• 50:18
  Speaker 3: walk side by side with someone they don't know, Like
• 50:20
  Speaker 3: you either want to get ahead or you want to
• 50:21
  Speaker 3: get behind.
• 50:22
  Speaker 2: Mmmm.
• 50:23
  Speaker 3: That is a very uneasy situation. It's like, am I
• 50:27
  Speaker 3: supposed to talk to you? It's like it's like a
• 50:31
  Speaker 3: car that just wants to drive alongside of you. You're like,
• 50:33
  Speaker 3: are you going to kill me? Oh?
• 50:35
  Speaker 2: A car alongside you is a very eerie feeling.
• 50:37
  Speaker 3: Yeah. Well, it's even worse when it's just a person
• 50:40
  Speaker 3: standing there. I mean, I don't know what they're going
• 50:42
  Speaker 3: to do to me. Why are they doing that? They're
• 50:45
  Speaker 3: taunting me, They're going to kill me, or they have
• 50:48
  Speaker 3: no spatial relation awareness. No, that is definitely not good.
• 50:54
  Speaker 2: Wrong.
• 50:54
  Speaker 3: Oh, come on, wrong, Come on, that's a new friend.
• 50:59
  Speaker 3: Oh my god, you have.
• 51:00
  Speaker 2: It seems like you're just not open to letting new
• 51:03
  Speaker 2: people into your life.
• 51:05
  Speaker 3: Not strangers on the street, which is a satistic stranger.
• 51:08
  Speaker 2: As a friend. You haven't walked to the same pace
• 51:10
  Speaker 2: as yet.
• 51:11
  Speaker 3: Anyone who would do that is so creepy. I don't
• 51:14
  Speaker 3: want them to be my friend.
• 51:16
  Speaker 2: Well, it seems like you're wrong, and I need you
• 51:19
  Speaker 2: to just kind of let you.
• 51:20
  Speaker 3: I'll let you be right, and I'm.
• 51:22
  Speaker 2: Letting you be wrong. That's very generous.
• 51:27
  Speaker 3: Thank you, all right.
• 51:28
  Speaker 2: This next one is from a listener named Sarah Jane.
• 51:31
  Speaker 2: Gift you a curse people who put their bare feet
• 51:33
  Speaker 2: up on the dashboard.
• 51:34
  Speaker 3: Oh I do that. It is disgusting, but I do it.
• 51:40
  Speaker 3: I Mean, here's the thing. No one's eating off the dashboard,
• 51:43
  Speaker 3: no one's putting their face on the dashboard. No one's
• 51:45
  Speaker 3: really even touching the dashboard with their hands. So like
• 51:48
  Speaker 3: why is it so bad? I mean, it's kind of
• 51:51
  Speaker 3: bad because you get like your little toeprints on the glass.
• 51:54
  Speaker 3: That's not a great look. But there's something really great
• 51:57
  Speaker 3: about the sun when it like hits your feet, you know,
• 52:00
  Speaker 3: and you got your like toes up there. So I
• 52:03
  Speaker 3: have to say, what's it? What's the opposite of the gift?
• 52:05
  Speaker 3: The gift?
• 52:06
  Speaker 2: Correct gift? I don't see any people who have a
• 52:10
  Speaker 2: problem with this. I just don't. What's the problem? Who cares?
• 52:14
  Speaker 3: Why does that feel so good? To be right, it's
• 52:17
  Speaker 3: got to be my codependancy.
• 52:18
  Speaker 2: It is.
• 52:18
  Speaker 3: It's entirely you've got to work on that, work on
• 52:21
  Speaker 3: that off podcast.
• 52:23
  Speaker 1: No.
• 52:23
  Speaker 2: I think this is people who have an issue with this,
• 52:26
  Speaker 2: they've they've created the problem in their mind. The dashboard
• 52:29
  Speaker 2: is for nothing else.
• 52:30
  Speaker 3: Now, I will say Bradley likes to put his shoes
• 52:33
  Speaker 3: on a table at home, and I do think that's
• 52:35
  Speaker 3: not good.
• 52:35
  Speaker 2: That's right, that's dirty.
• 52:38
  Speaker 3: Yes, I mean it's a very strange habit, Like we'll
• 52:41
  Speaker 3: just come down and they'll be like shoes on the time.
• 52:44
  Speaker 2: No, no, no, no no. That's the only place you
• 52:46
  Speaker 2: can put your feet on the table is in the
• 52:48
  Speaker 2: waiting room. Like an oil change place, yes, right.
• 52:50
  Speaker 3: Where it's already like fill right dirty.
• 52:52
  Speaker 2: But at home, the shoe should be off before you
• 52:54
  Speaker 2: get to a table. You can put your feet on.
• 52:56
  Speaker 3: I agree.
• 52:57
  Speaker 2: But on the dashboard, go for it. If you're living
• 52:59
  Speaker 2: your life, relaxed, live your life. Yeah, you're hanging loose.
• 53:03
  Speaker 3: I got my toes done yesterday. They're silver.
• 53:06
  Speaker 2: Oh that's a great color. That's a real aluminum.
• 53:08
  Speaker 3: So this this would look kind of kind of good
• 53:10
  Speaker 3: on my desk. Very I couldn't put them here, But
• 53:13
  Speaker 3: I'm not a bad guess.
• 53:14
  Speaker 2: Thank you. All right, you've gotten one right so far,
• 53:17
  Speaker 2: so okay, okay, And this is the final one. This
• 53:20
  Speaker 2: is from a listener named Cameron Gift. You're a curse
• 53:22
  Speaker 2: Google search AI Summer Vie Woo. No.
• 53:26
  Speaker 3: First of all, do you know that the guy who
• 53:28
  Speaker 3: made Chatchy GBT. I'm sorry, I know it's not a
• 53:30
  Speaker 3: political podcast, but he's the biggest donor to the Trump administration.
• 53:34
  Speaker 3: AI is going to take all of our jobs away.
• 53:36
  Speaker 3: Like no, And I know I've really progressive. Friends were
• 53:38
  Speaker 3: like it's coming and it's a great tool, and I'm like,
• 53:42
  Speaker 3: I mean, okay, I did use it for one thing.
• 53:45
  Speaker 2: To write your book.
• 53:46
  Speaker 3: Yeah. I was trying to write a card around something difficult,
• 53:50
  Speaker 3: which was that someone had lost someone dear and a
• 53:53
  Speaker 3: baby had been born. A little bit like how do
• 53:56
  Speaker 3: I write that card?
• 53:57
  Speaker 1: Right?
• 53:57
  Speaker 3: And I actually did ask oh, and it did help.
• 54:00
  Speaker 3: I mean, this is what sucks, is it? It's helpful,
• 54:04
  Speaker 3: but we're all going to die like soon.
• 54:08
  Speaker 2: It's a kind of helpful.
• 54:10
  Speaker 3: Yeah, it's a good launching pad. I mean it's interesting
• 54:13
  Speaker 3: because I was actually like, I'm working on a script
• 54:17
  Speaker 3: with some people and we were having a little note
• 54:20
  Speaker 3: session Saturday. It was so fun and we're just like
• 54:22
  Speaker 3: going through this thing and coming up with jokes and
• 54:25
  Speaker 3: it was just such a blast. And I thought, is
• 54:27
  Speaker 3: this the kind of thing that like, no one's going
• 54:30
  Speaker 3: to need us soon? It's horrifying, absolutely horrible, And it is.
• 54:34
  Speaker 3: It was a sort of it's a sort of bigger idea.
• 54:36
  Speaker 3: It's not like Indie small. It's like and I feel
• 54:38
  Speaker 3: like those are the most susceptible, right, Oh, absolutely, because
• 54:41
  Speaker 3: some of those are written really bad and people still
• 54:43
  Speaker 3: love them, so studios don't care, like it's a piece
• 54:46
  Speaker 3: of shit, but everybody watches it. But how many Netflix
• 54:49
  Speaker 3: rom coms need to be made that are mediocre, but
• 54:52
  Speaker 3: they make a lot of money and no one cares.
• 54:55
  Speaker 3: So A A I is going to be able to
• 54:58
  Speaker 3: whip out like procedural scream.
• 55:00
  Speaker 2: I hate to hear that.
• 55:01
  Speaker 3: I don't know what's going to happen kids, But yeah,
• 55:05
  Speaker 3: I guess there's always been these points in history where
• 55:06
  Speaker 3: everyone thinks everything's going to fall apart and it all
• 55:09
  Speaker 3: sort of figures.
• 55:09
  Speaker 2: It's this one feels actually keeps saying that.
• 55:13
  Speaker 3: It's like, yeah, but if you read like nineteen eighty four,
• 55:16
  Speaker 3: it feels, particularly when you don't have reality anymore and
• 55:20
  Speaker 3: there's no truth, it's a little it's a little challenging.
• 55:24
  Speaker 2: Yeah, is it worth all of these things so you
• 55:26
  Speaker 2: can have a card written for you? Yes?
• 55:28
  Speaker 3: No, I really deleted it. I'm not. Although it doesn't
• 55:32
  Speaker 3: really matter because if you use Google, it's using AI anyway.
• 55:34
  Speaker 3: So what are we going to adapt? Have you stopped
• 55:38
  Speaker 3: using Amazon?
• 55:40
  Speaker 2: No, it's horrible, I know, it's absolutely horrible. I feel
• 55:44
  Speaker 2: like we have to do something where it's almost like
• 55:46
  Speaker 2: you everyone should commit one friend in their life to
• 55:49
  Speaker 2: stop using these things so.
• 55:50
  Speaker 3: That we can all just ride on their back of
• 55:52
  Speaker 3: doing it right.
• 55:53
  Speaker 2: Well, I feel like almost like a chain letter where
• 55:55
  Speaker 2: it's like I would get you to stop, you would get.
• 55:57
  Speaker 3: Another pay it forward.
• 56:00
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know how we get out.
• 56:02
  Speaker 3: I did order it. So I was staying with my
• 56:04
  Speaker 3: friend in New York and she was away at her
• 56:07
  Speaker 3: she has like an upstate home, and she got a
• 56:09
  Speaker 3: notification that Amazon had been dropped off and she was like,
• 56:13
  Speaker 3: I didn't did you order Amazon? And I was like,
• 56:15
  Speaker 3: oh yeah, and she's like Amy, and I was like,
• 56:18
  Speaker 3: oh god, yeah, like I'm not supposed to do that.
• 56:21
  Speaker 3: Good for her, I know, so she really did stop?
• 56:24
  Speaker 2: Wow? Yeah, I mean, yeah, it stops.
• 56:28
  Speaker 3: And then you know, you come down also to the
• 56:29
  Speaker 3: fact that all those people who work you know, not
• 56:32
  Speaker 3: the company. He needs to pay them more. That's the
• 56:34
  Speaker 3: biggest problem, right, he needs to treat his employees better.
• 56:36
  Speaker 3: But all the like subcontractors that also use Amazon, you're
• 56:41
  Speaker 3: also sort of punishing them. It's like a very tricky thing.
• 56:44
  Speaker 2: Oh, I mean we are all truly trapped.
• 56:47
  Speaker 3: Yes, we're trap We're very trapped. They got power, Yeah,
• 56:52
  Speaker 3: they got us. There's like five people who own everything
• 56:55
  Speaker 3: and we are I mean, even to speak out right,
• 56:58
  Speaker 3: it's like, oh, well, then you know, you're never going
• 57:01
  Speaker 3: to work again.
• 57:04
  Speaker 2: Yeah, there has to be some sort of regulation all
• 57:06
  Speaker 2: this sort of thing. I don't. I just don't. It's
• 57:08
  Speaker 2: both easy to stop using it and almost impossible.
• 57:11
  Speaker 3: Almost impossible. So it's like when you get a remote
• 57:14
  Speaker 3: control on your TV and then someone says that remote
• 57:17
  Speaker 3: control is evil. You need to get up and turn
• 57:19
  Speaker 3: the TV dial.
• 57:20
  Speaker 2: I'm not going to No one's going to do that.
• 57:22
  Speaker 3: And I was born before remote controls, Like it was
• 57:24
  Speaker 3: not a big deal, right, say, it really wasn't a
• 57:27
  Speaker 3: big deal to stand up and change the channel. But
• 57:30
  Speaker 3: God knows, once you get that convenience, you're like, what
• 57:32
  Speaker 3: are you talking about?
• 57:33
  Speaker 2: Right? So I guess, uh, it's just this thing where
• 57:36
  Speaker 2: you don't quite entirely give up.
• 57:39
  Speaker 3: I think you try to minimize, try.
• 57:40
  Speaker 2: To minimize, and maybe make small.
• 57:43
  Speaker 3: And then like find small businesses for the things you can't. Yeah,
• 57:46
  Speaker 3: I do do do that.
• 57:47
  Speaker 2: I do do that, and then just feel an immense
• 57:49
  Speaker 2: amount of guilt every waking.
• 57:51
  Speaker 3: Yeah, well sure always, But.
• 57:54
  Speaker 2: You're saying, cursed the Google search AI summer.
• 57:57
  Speaker 3: Yes, cursed. Now what's the right answer?
• 58:00
  Speaker 2: Of course?
• 58:00
  Speaker 3: Oh God, to get up and leave and protest. I'm
• 58:07
  Speaker 3: done with this interview.
• 58:09
  Speaker 2: I'm a Google employee. Oh, absolute course. These are those
• 58:13
  Speaker 2: AI summaries are particularly infuriating because they're just forced on you.
• 58:18
  Speaker 3: By the way, they're also like wrong, they're wrong.
• 58:21
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and they're very confident, so like I've seen, I
• 58:26
  Speaker 2: unfortunately am somewhat aware of how technology works, so I
• 58:30
  Speaker 2: kind of was ahead of the game, knowing that they
• 58:32
  Speaker 2: just send you the wrong things. But I know plenty
• 58:34
  Speaker 2: of people who will just read that and then that's
• 58:36
  Speaker 2: what they're believing, and frequently it's just totally wrong.
• 58:40
  Speaker 3: We had a big discussion around whether the Kidd and
• 58:44
  Speaker 3: Bad Bunnies super Bowl halftime was the kid who had
• 58:47
  Speaker 3: been arrested by Ice, because I went on the internet
• 58:50
  Speaker 3: immediately and my stepdaughter is like, that is not that
• 58:53
  Speaker 3: kid and his name was Liam, I believe, and you know,
• 58:58
  Speaker 3: and we were like, is it an you know, we're
• 59:00
  Speaker 3: trying to rewind and look up. And then I go, well,
• 59:03
  Speaker 3: let me ask you know, Google and googlegles, yes, Bad
• 59:07
  Speaker 3: Bunny brought And then we realized how absurd that was
• 59:09
  Speaker 3: of an idea that this poor kid who just got
• 59:12
  Speaker 3: out of deportation, which just show up at the Super
• 59:14
  Speaker 3: Bowl halftime show. Because you know the first thing that
• 59:17
  Speaker 3: him and his family want is a ton of attention.
• 59:19
  Speaker 3: You know, that's exactly what you want when you barely
• 59:22
  Speaker 3: like escape the clause of fascism. I gotta go on
• 59:26
  Speaker 3: the Super Bowl show. And so no, this little boy
• 59:29
  Speaker 3: was him as a younger kid getting his you know,
• 59:32
  Speaker 3: he's an actor. Sure, but Google said it was limp.
• 59:35
  Speaker 2: Any piece of information now that you think is true,
• 59:37
  Speaker 2: you should find four different But there.
• 59:40
  Speaker 3: Was this whole thing that like Trump called c SPAN
• 59:42
  Speaker 3: yesterday that was going around was this well, you know
• 59:45
  Speaker 3: he used to call he used to call in and.
• 59:47
  Speaker 2: Be this other guy. He just think everything has happening.
• 59:49
  Speaker 3: So someone called into c SPAN and was used the
• 59:52
  Speaker 3: name that he used to use when he would call
• 59:54
  Speaker 3: into a place. But I was like, why would Trump
• 59:56
  Speaker 3: care about c SPAN plus with AI anyone can do that,
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 3: you know, and I want to get four confirmations.
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 2: Yes.
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 3: And you know what else people do, know is they
• 1:00:05
  Speaker 3: like to throw something out there before it happens, Like
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 3: the Dodgers refuse to go to the White No, it
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 3: wasn't the Dodgers. The Seattle Seahawks refuse to go to
• 1:00:12
  Speaker 3: the White House. And I'm like, yes, some some guts
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 3: and that just wasn't true. That's just not true. And
• 1:00:18
  Speaker 3: then you know it's like somebody threw it out there
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 3: so that they might feel the pressure or something.
• 1:00:22
  Speaker 2: Right, and everyone's so ready for something, to a piece
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 2: of good news or whatever. They don't look at the show.
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 2: Oh that was a tough one. Those they should be
• 1:00:30
  Speaker 2: a shave. Come on, that's shameful.
• 1:00:33
  Speaker 3: Behave I just want the like lesbians on the other side.
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 2: And this is all post heated rivalry. Hot hockey was
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 2: riding a real high and now these guys have I
• 1:00:42
  Speaker 2: had a great time watching.
• 1:00:43
  Speaker 3: I have my husband on episode we just finished episode
• 1:00:46
  Speaker 3: three less okay, he's like, they're very good actor, they're
• 1:00:50
  Speaker 3: excellent actors.
• 1:00:50
  Speaker 2: Yes, only six episodes long too.
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 3: Yeah, no, it's five. Five, it's not even six. The
• 1:00:59
  Speaker 3: cottage is.
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 2: Five Oh wow. Yeah. So next season will probably be
• 1:01:04
  Speaker 2: four hundred episodes because of that success, and now they
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 2: have a lot to clean up after this other behavior
• 1:01:10
  Speaker 2: from the hockey players.
• 1:01:11
  Speaker 3: Yeah, no kidding, Good grief, good grief. What a disappointment.
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 2: Well you got two out of three? Okay, Well that's bad.
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 2: That's the worst. I think we should answer a listener
• 1:01:22
  Speaker 2: question Okay. People are writing into I said no gifts
• 1:01:25
  Speaker 2: at gmail dot com, begging for answers. Will you help
• 1:01:27
  Speaker 2: me answer something here? Let's see this. One says, oh,
• 1:01:31
  Speaker 2: they didn't even address me or you. Usually they say
• 1:01:33
  Speaker 2: dear Bridger or something, but this just gets into it.
• 1:01:35
  Speaker 2: It says, I hate my sister in law's husband's sister's
• 1:01:39
  Speaker 2: boyfriend in parentheses husband's sister's boyfriend. Does that make any sense?
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 3: I hate my sister in law's boyfriend.
• 1:01:48
  Speaker 2: Let's just leave it at that, because the relative math
• 1:01:52
  Speaker 2: I'm not working with right now. I hate my sister
• 1:01:54
  Speaker 2: in law's boyfriend. My husband thinks I should have a
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 2: conversation with him about keeping the peace, but I hate
• 1:01:59
  Speaker 2: him and I don't want him around my baby, who's
• 1:02:01
  Speaker 2: eighteen months old. He also hates dog's red flag and
• 1:02:04
  Speaker 2: she has.
• 1:02:05
  Speaker 3: Done I don't even need to read me.
• 1:02:07
  Speaker 2: They almost broke up the day I had my baby,
• 1:02:09
  Speaker 2: but made up while I was pushing my child into
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 2: this world.
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 3: I just found all this stuff that not off.
• 1:02:17
  Speaker 2: Leave it alone. You're ruining they did.
• 1:02:19
  Speaker 3: I'm sorry, I keep reading.
• 1:02:20
  Speaker 2: I apologize you were sent by a rival podcast.
• 1:02:23
  Speaker 3: Jesus Christ, I'm so sorry.
• 1:02:26
  Speaker 2: Okay, let's see. Let's see, they almost broke up the
• 1:02:29
  Speaker 2: day I had my baby, but made up while I
• 1:02:31
  Speaker 2: was pushing my child into the world. They now have
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 2: been living together for about a year. How do I
• 1:02:35
  Speaker 2: coexist with this terrible human in our lives? He also
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  Speaker 2: implied one time that my husband was going to kill
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  Speaker 2: him after they had a disagreement and never apologize for it.
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  Speaker 2: And my husband is acting chummy with him now for
• 1:02:46
  Speaker 2: the sake of the family. The terrible boyfriend also just
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  Speaker 2: bought my husband a two hundred and fifty dollars watch.
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  Speaker 2: What is with this guy? Is?
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  Speaker 3: He is?
• 1:02:54
  Speaker 2: He left bombing my husband? And that's from Mary Anne.
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  Speaker 2: I mean the layers of whatever is going on in
• 1:02:59
  Speaker 2: Mayor ends life.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, look, once you say he doesn't like dogs,
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  Speaker 3: I'm right, We're done. Finished, We're absolutely done. What could
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  Speaker 3: And you know you tell your sister in law, I
• 1:03:12
  Speaker 3: would love to be the husband's sister who's dating this dick?
• 1:03:15
  Speaker 3: I guess is what?
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  Speaker 2: Yes?
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  Speaker 3: And so basically you just go to holiday events. You
• 1:03:21
  Speaker 3: don't do any special side gatherings. If you want to
• 1:03:24
  Speaker 3: see you know, if he wants to see his sister, fine,
• 1:03:28
  Speaker 3: you say, I don't trust people who don't like dogs,
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  Speaker 3: and we're done.
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  Speaker 2: Right, and then the two hundred and fifty dollars.
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  Speaker 3: You know what you do? You let them, You let them,
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 3: You let them robins about it. That's what you do.
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  Speaker 3: You let them.
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  Speaker 2: She wanted to be able to demonstrate the philosophy and action.
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  Speaker 3: That's a good question.
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  Speaker 2: And let the Let this guy buy your husband as
• 1:03:51
  Speaker 2: many watches as he.
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  Speaker 3: Will them have their romance, but you do not get involved.
• 1:03:55
  Speaker 2: The moment an affair happens with love.
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  Speaker 3: As they say, light and polite. Those are some allan
• 1:04:01
  Speaker 3: on keywords. Yeah, light and polite. This guy's work gone
• 1:04:05
  Speaker 3: and light and polite and hardly ever.
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  Speaker 2: Oh and hardly ever.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah. Interesting, that's my ad.
• 1:04:11
  Speaker 2: It's a good ad. Yeah, so do you need to
• 1:04:12
  Speaker 2: write a book? Yes, this guy is going to be
• 1:04:16
  Speaker 2: gone in no time. Nobody likes him. Yeah, and now
• 1:04:19
  Speaker 2: he's been exposed on this podcast.
• 1:04:21
  Speaker 3: So like, is that no contact trend? Yeah, it goes
• 1:04:24
  Speaker 3: on the no contexts. The whole family goes no contact
• 1:04:27
  Speaker 3: contact guy. Yeah, get rid of him, let him buy
• 1:04:29
  Speaker 3: a few more watches, take him to a pond shop,
• 1:04:31
  Speaker 3: et cetera. Take advantage. That's well, I don't think a
• 1:04:35
  Speaker 3: two hundred fifty dollars watch is that expensive? But is
• 1:04:37
  Speaker 3: that just me giving away like mine?
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  Speaker 2: I think I think that's like probably I'm a person
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  Speaker 2: who buys a twenty dollars watch.
• 1:04:42
  Speaker 3: I don't buy watches, but I would imagine.
• 1:04:44
  Speaker 2: Like, yeah, I think people buy thousands of.
• 1:04:46
  Speaker 3: Yeah, like a watch is like a thousand dollars.
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  Speaker 2: Right, two hundred and fifty is like a good watch?
• 1:04:52
  Speaker 3: Yeah, why you get this is a.
• 1:04:53
  Speaker 2: Twenty dollars watch and I love it? Yeah? Because I
• 1:04:56
  Speaker 2: lose them all the time.
• 1:04:57
  Speaker 3: Why do you wear a watch?
• 1:04:59
  Speaker 2: Because in movies, I don't want to be able to
• 1:05:01
  Speaker 2: look at my phone. If I'm in a movie theater,
• 1:05:03
  Speaker 2: I want to be able to look at the time.
• 1:05:04
  Speaker 3: I thought, like when you were acting in movies, I'm like, well,
• 1:05:06
  Speaker 3: don't they have an opinion about your watch?
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  Speaker 2: I make one, Demanda. Anytime I book a role, I
• 1:05:11
  Speaker 2: get to wear the watch.
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 3: I wear this twenty dollars, this seventeenth century No matter
• 1:05:16
  Speaker 3: what I'm wearing this watch.
• 1:05:18
  Speaker 2: Uh, this guy's gone, Yeah, good luck, Maryanne. Don't write back.
• 1:05:22
  Speaker 3: In Yeah, that's not nice to her.
• 1:05:26
  Speaker 2: Let me, okay, let me do whatever I want whenever
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 2: I want. Absolutely Amy, I've had a wonderful time with you.
• 1:05:34
  Speaker 3: Me too.
• 1:05:35
  Speaker 2: I felt my new soap, I've got my book.
• 1:05:37
  Speaker 3: You're the best time you've ever had.
• 1:05:39
  Speaker 2: I've had the best time I've ever had. Unfortunately, we're
• 1:05:43
  Speaker 2: wrapping up the podcast for good, and I mean, how
• 1:05:46
  Speaker 2: can I have a better time than this? You've ruled
• 1:05:48
  Speaker 2: this episode, the entire series is over.
• 1:05:52
  Speaker 3: You're for a second.
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 2: What if you just that would be such a fun
• 1:05:55
  Speaker 2: surprise for a guest to find out that it's the last.
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 3: No, right, No, but I didn't know if like, I
• 1:06:01
  Speaker 3: don't know you were in some sort of transition period. No,
• 1:06:04
  Speaker 3: I'm glad that's not true. I know I'm episode three
• 1:06:07
  Speaker 3: hundred and God knows what we.
• 1:06:10
  Speaker 2: Can care about two probably to eighty eight or something.
• 1:06:13
  Speaker 3: I want to know what my numbers is else, do
• 1:06:16
  Speaker 3: we know what the number?
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  Speaker 2: One know?
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  Speaker 3: My number is.
• 1:06:18
  Speaker 2: Ninety ninety Wow number, start the countdown. That's a good number,
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  Speaker 2: solid number.
• 1:06:24
  Speaker 3: That's a good I like it's round.
• 1:06:26
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's not like ninety two two.
• 1:06:30
  Speaker 3: I will always go down. It's the greatest episode of
• 1:06:32
  Speaker 3: this podcast ever.
• 1:06:34
  Speaker 2: Mark it down, write it down. Well, thank you for
• 1:06:36
  Speaker 2: being here, thank you for having me. Listener the podcast
• 1:06:39
  Speaker 2: is over. I don't know what else to tell you.
• 1:06:41
  Speaker 3: I can go to the bathroom.
• 1:06:42
  Speaker 2: Amy. That's the one thing that's not going to be
• 1:06:44
  Speaker 2: allowed for the rest of the day is for Amy
• 1:06:45
  Speaker 2: to use the restroom. But listener, you can use the
• 1:06:48
  Speaker 2: restroom because the podcast is over. I love you, goodbye.
• 1:06:55
  Speaker 2: I said, No Gifts is an exactly right production. Our
• 1:07:00
  Speaker 2: Your producer is Ellis Nelson, and our episodes are beautifully
• 1:07:03
  Speaker 2: mixed by Ben Holliday. The theme song is by miracle
• 1:07:07
  Speaker 2: worker Amy Mann, and we couldn't do it without our booker,
• 1:07:10
  Speaker 2: Patrick Cottner. You must follow the show on Instagram at
• 1:07:14
  Speaker 2: I said No Gifts, that's where you're going to see
• 1:07:16
  Speaker 2: pictures of all these wonderful gifts I'm getting. And don't
• 1:07:19
  Speaker 2: you want to see the gifts?
• 1:07:22
  Speaker 1: He lie in?
• 1:07:23
  Speaker 3: Why did you hear?
• 1:07:26
  Speaker 1: Gonta man? Myself perfectly clear, But you're a guest to me.
• 1:07:34
  Speaker 1: You gotta come to me empty, And I said, no guests.
• 1:07:41
  Speaker 1: Your presences presence enough. I'm already had too much stuff,
• 1:07:48
  Speaker 1: So how do your dance survey me