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Ay Por Favor: Great Minds (Sometimes) Think Alike · Two Ts In A Pod with Teddi Mellencamp and Tamra Judge

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Speaker 1: I with Alexia Napola and Marisa Patton an iHeartRadio podcast.
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Speaker 1: Alla Mega Dalina.
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Speaker 2: I missed you too.
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Speaker 3: You know that my face lights up when I see you,
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Speaker 3: and I love.
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Speaker 2: I see.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, you always look so good. I tried to make
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Speaker 1: a little effort to I know.
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Speaker 3: No, So, anyways, did you get did you get your info?
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Speaker 3: Are you excited about Bravo Khan?
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Speaker 1: Are you kidding me? Of course I'm excited about Bravo Khan.
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Speaker 1: I love it.
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Speaker 2: We see all our friends. Yeah, Las Vegas. It's going
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Speaker 2: to be a blast.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's going to be a lot of fun. And
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Speaker 3: I can't wait because you know you're my travel partner.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, well, my husband's coming to Oh.
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Speaker 3: That means I can't sleep with you in the same
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Speaker 3: I actually share the room.
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Speaker 1: Oh no, I know. He has got his plane ticket
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Speaker 1: right next to me. Up and back. We're going and
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Speaker 1: coming next to you, Boo Bear. Well, actually Boo Bear's
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Speaker 1: seat is like next to me in an aisle. So
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Speaker 1: maybe your seats next to me. I don't know, because
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Speaker 1: he couldn't get the one right next to me.
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Speaker 2: Let's pretend that.
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Speaker 3: Let's pretend that it's me next to you, and well,
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Speaker 3: so we're forgetting on the on the plane with where
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Speaker 3: we're sitting there.
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Speaker 2: He'll let us stay however we want. He doesn't care.
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Speaker 2: Mm hmmm. What are you looking forward to Bravo Con?
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Speaker 3: You know, well, we're going to be on panels together
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Speaker 3: this year because we did the Ultimate Gast trip and
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Speaker 3: we did our seasons together.
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Speaker 2: Yeah.
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Speaker 1: Oh, thank goodness, because we didn't have too many last year.
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Speaker 1: We had one Ultimate Girls Trip and then we did
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Speaker 1: the Andy's the Ball the first watch it was like
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Speaker 1: night Ball, and we did the Best Friends panel.
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Speaker 2: That was fun. Yeah, yeah, that was fun.
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Speaker 1: I'm actually like, for me, the most overwhelming, flattering part
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Speaker 1: of the whole thing is just.
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Speaker 2: The love of the fans.
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Speaker 1: You know what, I'm much. I have to go to
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Speaker 1: the bathroom all the time. So every time I have
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Speaker 1: to leave a room to go to the bathroom, there's
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Speaker 1: people in the hallways screaming at me, and I'm like,
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Speaker 1: I can't believe all these people watch our show and
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Speaker 1: they even know who I am. It's so overwhelming.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, honestly, last year was our first year that we
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Speaker 3: were there. Remember that Miami had representation or actually our
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Speaker 3: show had just come back. This is Bravocn's third year
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Speaker 3: and the fact that you know, we've been able to
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Speaker 3: participate is is really like an amazing thing because you
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Speaker 3: have to be there to feel like that overwhelming love
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Speaker 3: and joy people. I remember when we did was it
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Speaker 3: the best friends thing that we did that, But it
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Speaker 3: was like a lot of Latino people remember that it
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Speaker 3: was a photo op. I think it was a photo
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Speaker 3: the photo op just want you and me. There was
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Speaker 3: like a thousand or more people there. I wanted to cry,
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Speaker 3: and the people and our and our guests, the fans
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Speaker 3: that were there were crying as well, and they were
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Speaker 3: speaking to us in Spanish. I was like, I people,
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Speaker 3: it was so incredible from all over the world and
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Speaker 3: speaking Spanish to us, and they just wanted a picture
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Speaker 3: and they waited in line for such a long time.
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Speaker 2: Honestly, that was that was the most special part for me.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, and I remember looking going and You're like, of
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Speaker 1: course they do.
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Speaker 3: It.
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Speaker 2: I felt like we're the only ones watching.
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Speaker 3: Like the fact that you know, we've never really talked
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Speaker 3: about that and discussed that that you and I were
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Speaker 3: the first like latinas you know, in this case being
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Speaker 3: Cuban American that we're part of this franchise. So we've
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Speaker 3: been you know, we're represented, and we did back in
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Speaker 3: the day when you know that wasn't so popular, and.
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Speaker 1: We're still here. They get rid of us, are they
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Speaker 1: the soon?
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Speaker 2: We're going to be here until we want to be here?
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Speaker 1: Yeah, So bro, what are you thinking about this Bad
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Speaker 1: Bunny Kendall Jenner stuff? This little relationship still moving along.
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Speaker 3: I love to talk about Bad Bunny And I love
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Speaker 3: that my Latinos living in LA and he's being surrounded
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Speaker 3: by the paparazzi there, Yes, and you know it's a
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Speaker 3: different I guess, like a different ambiance and Los Angeles
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Speaker 3: a little different from Miami. And I know that his
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Speaker 3: experience with Kendo, I'm sure it's a little different than
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Speaker 3: what he was used to with the Latino girls. Latino
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Speaker 3: Ye kind of like it's the same saying as the
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Speaker 3: other stuff.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, he's pretty Realkanda.
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Speaker 2: Soong, you know, but you know what she likes.
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Speaker 3: She likes to fight for her relationships, kind of like
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Speaker 3: like me. You know, I feel like I don't take
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Speaker 3: no for an answer, but like in a good way,
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Speaker 3: not in a toxic way. It's kind of like when
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Speaker 3: you love someone, you you fight for that person, and
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Speaker 3: you fight for relationship and you fight for what you
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Speaker 3: want in a good way.
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Speaker 2: Obviously, you know. I love that she gave.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel like we don't get tough a Hanoi
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Speaker 3: and but for everything in.
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Speaker 2: My life is like you know, I always you take
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Speaker 2: an easy way out.
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Speaker 3: You're like, okay, I'm out, you know, kier So when
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Speaker 3: I love, I really love strong. So I love that
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Speaker 3: she gave that quote to the Harper's magazine. So I
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Speaker 3: liked her before, I like her even now more because
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Speaker 3: I see that I have so many similarities.
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Speaker 2: This is how I bond, you know, with certain people.
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Speaker 3: I didn't know too much about her because I feel
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Speaker 3: that she's always been the more quiet one of the
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Speaker 3: Kardashian family.
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Speaker 2: And I actually love that about her me too.
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Speaker 3: So for her to open up, you know, for once
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Speaker 3: and actually talk about her relationship, and in this case
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Speaker 3: with bad money, I thought it was, you know something,
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Speaker 3: you know, really beautiful.
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Speaker 2: I thought it was nice.
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Speaker 3: And I thought it was about time too, because she
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Speaker 3: can't help to be very like Gioso, very affectionate with him.
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Speaker 3: They were at the Drake concert, they were all over
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Speaker 3: each other, and apparently she's really never have done that
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Speaker 3: in the past. So the fact that she's doing that publicly,
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Speaker 3: I think that she feels really calmed do with him.
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Speaker 3: But again, her, you know, her personal life, She's kept
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Speaker 3: us so private. You know, even though she's been a
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Speaker 3: reality show and her life has been so public, she's
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Speaker 3: managed to keep her personal life very private.
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Speaker 2: And I applaud that. Mm hmmm, yeah, unlike myself. Unlike myself.
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Speaker 2: Maybe that's why I love it in her.
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Speaker 1: How do I do it exactly?
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Speaker 2: I don't even know. I don't know how to keep quiet, bro,
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Speaker 2: that's the problem. I have a big mouth mouth. We
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Speaker 2: have a lot of things to to cheat me out about.
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Speaker 1: Oh my god, we have so much today.
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Speaker 3: Wait, so tell me what's in our hot topic because
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Speaker 3: today's talk about marasonal Alexa. We're not going to talk
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Speaker 3: about us today because we had a lot of things
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Speaker 3: to talk about other people.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, So first hot topic today is Britney Spears
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Speaker 1: headed for divorce. It looks like so to say, Sam
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Speaker 1: has moved out of their house and is now living
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Speaker 1: in a place of his own that she's probably paying
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Speaker 1: for her well. Of course, reports are that trouble has
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Speaker 1: been brewing for a while Sam wasn't sleeping at the
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Speaker 1: house much, and Brittany has allegedly gotten physical with him
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Speaker 1: in blowout fights.
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Speaker 2: Can you blame her? What do you do?
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Speaker 1: You blame your blame her? Can you blame her? He
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Speaker 1: wasn't coming home. He hasn't been coming home. Okay, No,
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Speaker 1: they're not fighting because he left. He was left with
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Speaker 1: no resort but to leave. So my question to you is, like,
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Speaker 1: are you shocked? I mean, did you expect this? Like,
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Speaker 1: how did you feel when you heard the news? I
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Speaker 1: was surprised that she would marry him the minute she,
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Speaker 1: you know, got out of her conservatorship.
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Speaker 2: Oh my god, you know what I mean.
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Speaker 3: I mean, I don't know how you and I are
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Speaker 3: friends because we're like to the opposites. You surprised that
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Speaker 3: she married him. That was the reasons why she wanted
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Speaker 3: out of her conservatory ship.
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Speaker 1: MONI Okay, Well, it was a bad idea. It was
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Speaker 1: a bad idea, and I could see him as like
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Speaker 1: a money grubber and a gold digger, and I knew
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Speaker 1: this was not going to work out.
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Speaker 2: Okay.
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Speaker 3: Well, I, on the other hand, because I'm compassionate and
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Speaker 3: empathetic and I liked and I like to give people
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Speaker 3: a chance. I really thought that he got to love her.
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Speaker 3: Maybe the first intentions were not you know, like, oh
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Speaker 3: I love this girl off the bat right, but it
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Speaker 3: was kind of like he loved the idea of who
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Speaker 3: she was, and obviously the fame it gave him as well,
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Speaker 3: and the livelihood and all of that. But put that aside.
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Speaker 3: I mean, I think seven years are significant. If he
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Speaker 3: wanted out, you know, he could have done that a
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Speaker 3: long time ago.
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Speaker 1: I mean, I was waiting to marry her so he
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Speaker 1: could get an alimony.
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Speaker 2: Well no, I mean they have a prenup. But if
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Speaker 2: you if you.
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Speaker 1: Have this now he's arguing that he wants to change,
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Speaker 1: he's contesting.
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Speaker 3: Well, so you know what he's he's the chick, he's
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Speaker 3: the girl in the relationship.
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Speaker 2: Because she's the one with the money. Women contest prenups
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Speaker 2: all the time too. Why can't the.
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Speaker 3: Guy contest it? They've been together seven years? I'm sorry, married, married,
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Speaker 3: married Mary. Marriage is a piece of paper. Marriage is
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Speaker 3: a piece of paper.
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Speaker 1: To give him money?
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Speaker 3: Why does she have to give him money because she's
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Speaker 3: the one that came into the relationship the same reason
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Speaker 3: why Lenny has to give Lie some money?
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Speaker 2: I mean, that's there.
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Speaker 1: Fifteen years and have kids. They don't have kids, no.
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Speaker 3: Matter whether you have kids or not, Marisol. I mean,
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Speaker 3: at least in my book. You know, this guy has
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Speaker 3: been with Brittany for seven years. They've been married for
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Speaker 3: fourteen months.
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Speaker 2: I want to.
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Speaker 3: Believe I was very surprised to be for two years. Yeah,
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Speaker 3: fourteen months. Of course, it's going to be two opinions.
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Speaker 3: It's going to be oh, yeah. He was fighting for
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Speaker 3: her to be free from the conservatory ship because he
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Speaker 3: wanted to marry her so he can have money and
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Speaker 3: how I say, but there's also the other side, like,
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Speaker 3: you know, he really wanted her to be free because
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Speaker 3: as a human being, and him going through that and
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Speaker 3: seeing the effect that was having on her and the
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Speaker 3: fact that she was taken away from like basic rights
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Speaker 3: of getting married, of having children. You know, anybody that's
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Speaker 3: not even your boyfriend is going to support you with that,
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Speaker 3: which I'm sure a lot of friends and as we
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Speaker 3: know in America and around the world that were supporting her.
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Speaker 3: But what I'm trying to say is that it really
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Speaker 3: it surprised me that at the end they he has
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Speaker 3: finally made that decision, you know, to leave their house
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Speaker 3: and to divorce her because he probably can't take it anymore.
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Speaker 1: I just find it extremely odd that he could take
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Speaker 1: it and handle it for five years, but in the
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Speaker 1: last fourteen months after they get married, all of a sudden,
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Speaker 1: she's attacking him. She's doing all those things.
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Speaker 3: Truthfully, what I'm really concerned about is her well being,
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Speaker 3: in her mental health, and she's all alone. This is
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Speaker 3: all This is the only person that she had in
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Speaker 3: her life.
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Speaker 2: Sam.
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Speaker 3: She's really isolated herself and isolated all her family and
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Speaker 3: people that really loved and cared for her. So this
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Speaker 3: was the last person she had on her side.
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Speaker 1: Maybe this is like a relief for her to get
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Speaker 1: away from him. Maybe she was. She hasn't been talking.
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Speaker 1: We don't know her side. She can say is the
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Speaker 1: last guy is still living off of her and never
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Speaker 1: has never had a job, and she's still paying.
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Speaker 2: For The last guy has been a full time dad.
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Speaker 2: I'm sorry.
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Speaker 3: The last guy has been a full time dad to
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Speaker 3: those kids and has raised those kids.
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Speaker 2: So there's no it doesn't matter how much money she
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Speaker 2: had to give him.
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Speaker 3: He deserves it because that man has taken full responsibility
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Speaker 3: and sacrificed his life and has brought up those kids
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Speaker 3: and has done a very good job.
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Speaker 2: So if that's what it took, having a little bit.
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Speaker 3: Of Brittany's money to raise those children and put them
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Speaker 3: in good schools and give them a good education, a
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Speaker 3: good life.
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Speaker 1: He needs to be on body for money money, Well,
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Speaker 1: it's paying for his other kids that are not her kids,
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Speaker 1: and he's not marketing.
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Speaker 2: Sorry, Brittany, No, he doesn't.
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Speaker 3: Brittany's money has always been very guarded, especially when it
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Speaker 3: was under his father, So I'm sure they gave him
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Speaker 3: the correct amount of money. They didn't overdo it. He's
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Speaker 3: not supporting his other kids. But you know, raising children
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Speaker 3: is a full time job. So you know, while she
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Speaker 3: was up performing and making you have millions of money,
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Speaker 3: this man gave up you know, his not his life,
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Speaker 3: for his career, because as a father and as a mother,
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Speaker 3: it's our obligation and our duty because we bring our
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Speaker 3: children into the world.
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Speaker 2: But what I'm trying to say is.
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Speaker 3: Like Brittany's selling bill a mono that she cleaned her hands, Okay, whatever, Yes,
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Speaker 3: of course the dad was a better fit.
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Speaker 1: I feel like a lot of people have been hovering
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Speaker 1: over for years and I think she just needs to
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Speaker 1: live a little.
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Speaker 2: She needs to fix herself.
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Speaker 3: You cannot be in a relationship with any man until
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Speaker 3: you have healed and you're well, you know. And I
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Speaker 3: just think it's not fair that you just blame the
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Speaker 3: other person. I mean, there's been signs all along that
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Speaker 3: she's a troubled person. So it's very easy to say,
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Speaker 3: oh no, it's like the guy's phone. The guy was
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Speaker 3: using her. Everybody's using her, everybody wants her money. That's
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Speaker 3: not fair.
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Speaker 1: You know what if he was that concern, I don't
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Speaker 1: trust her and not ask her for any money, right
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Speaker 1: I'm worried about her.
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Speaker 2: I don't want any money. You're worried about her sixty
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Speaker 2: million dollar fortune that she can.
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Speaker 1: I'm saying this is what if he cared, he would
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Speaker 1: be like, I don't want your money.
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Speaker 2: I just want out. So what I'm trying to say
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Speaker 2: is she needs to take care of herself. She needs her.
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Speaker 3: Family right now, which no matter what you know, your
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Speaker 3: mother and father are not like a husband. I want
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Speaker 3: to say, no matter what you do to them, they're
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Speaker 3: always going to be by your side.
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Speaker 2: She doesn't she needs she doesn't trust them.
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Speaker 1: I don't she doesn't have so.
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Speaker 3: That you don't, So then my next question is you
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Speaker 3: don't believe that she should have been in her conservatory ship.
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Speaker 1: I don't think they were doing right by her and
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Speaker 1: she needed to be freed, and I don't think she
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Speaker 1: should have gotten married again and this guy, that's what
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Speaker 1: I think.
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Speaker 3: Okay, Well, I disagree with you, per usual, but we're
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Speaker 3: still best friends.
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Speaker 1: Sometimes not all I.
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Speaker 3: Think we really see now the more that now it's
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Speaker 3: funny because you know, we're such good friends and I
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Speaker 3: we disagree about a lot of things, but then it's
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Speaker 3: really with topics like this, you know, like real life
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Speaker 3: you know, issues that we we see I see, at
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Speaker 3: least I do that we're so different that we think
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Speaker 3: so different.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, scandabal update be Raquel from vander pump Rods.
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Speaker 3: The fact that she's you know, with Raquel surprised me
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Speaker 3: a little bit. That's says a lot about the times,
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Speaker 3: how social media and presidents and podcasts like these or
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Speaker 3: like Bethany's are you know, are very like.
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Speaker 2: Legit outlet where you want to talk.
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Speaker 3: And I felt like maybe Brakel wanted to do it
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Speaker 3: because she can like relate with Bethany, you know, kind
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Speaker 3: of like oh, you know they were both on you know,
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Speaker 3: once upon a time. You know, Bethany was on on
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Speaker 3: Bravo and and.
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Speaker 2: You know, part of the network.
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Speaker 3: So it's kind of like, you know, Bethany's done reality TV,
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Speaker 3: so she can relate.
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Speaker 2: To her I'm going to read some info, Okay, yeah,
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Speaker 2: but give me some info. Okay, I'm gonna give me
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Speaker 2: some info. Bro, Yeah, I made the middle.
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Speaker 1: Former vander pump Brules star opens up to Bethany on
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Speaker 1: the Just B podcast about the affair heard around the world.
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Speaker 1: She says Bravo has made a ton of money off
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Speaker 1: the scandal, but she has not. The network is running
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Speaker 1: to the bank, like laughing, running to the bank with
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Speaker 1: this scandal, and I haven't seen a single penny.
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Speaker 2: Hye, p'one.
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Speaker 1: It's not fair. And I feel like a toddler saying
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Speaker 1: it's not fair, but it really isn't. And I feel
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Speaker 1: like I've been portrayed the ultimate villain. It's my mistakes
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Speaker 1: that I've made on camera will live forever.
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Speaker 2: That's true.
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Speaker 1: She just spend months in a mental health facility working
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Speaker 1: on her mental health and decline being back on the show.
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Speaker 2: Oh oh, that's interesting. I don't know she had declined
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Speaker 2: being back up. She did the right thing.
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Speaker 4: I agree with that she needs to Yeah, this is
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Speaker 4: she to take some time for herself and you know what,
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Speaker 4: you need some time, and you know, I don't feel
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Speaker 4: like she should put herself in that environment again where
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Speaker 4: she's going to be attacked, because who's gonna want to
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Speaker 4: be her friends on that show?
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Speaker 2: Mm hmm. She's the villain. She's the villain.
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Speaker 1: She's she's under a microscope now and it's too soon.
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Speaker 1: I think she needs another like year of therapy, don't you,
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Speaker 1: or just like step away from the situation, let it
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Speaker 1: become something else and maybe come back in a year.
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Speaker 2: I bring people back, yeah, especially their thing now.
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Speaker 3: But yeah, right, But what I'm trying to say is,
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Speaker 3: like I just find it commic goal that she thinks
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Speaker 3: that she should be compensated for her behavior, for her
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Speaker 3: poor and her bad behavior. Like the one that usually
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Speaker 3: gets compensated is the victim.
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Speaker 2: Right.
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Speaker 3: We try to help the people that are being victimized
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Speaker 3: or have been victims of situations, but you don't try
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Speaker 3: to make the villain a rich person or like give
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Speaker 3: them monetary gates.
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Speaker 2: I mean, it doesn't make any sense.
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Speaker 1: Right now, she's a pariah and she's not marketable.
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Speaker 3: I do agree with her in the sense that, you know,
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Speaker 3: a lot of girls on the show, and guys for
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Speaker 3: that matter, you know, have hooked up and have cheated
16:34
Speaker 3: on each other. And she's questioning why me, Like, why
16:39
Speaker 3: did they turn this into such a big deal and
16:41
Speaker 3: a big thing when this has happened throughout so many
16:45
Speaker 3: seasons and throughout the show forever, and as a matter
16:48
Speaker 3: of fact, the producers you know, want us to engage
16:51
Speaker 3: in that and kind of like put you out there
16:53
Speaker 3: to do it, and everybody has been doing this for
16:56
Speaker 3: so many years, you know, so.
16:57
Speaker 2: Why now am I getting all the heat?
17:00
Speaker 3: I would question Raquel if she would actually want to
17:03
Speaker 3: go back this season and film with these people and
17:05
Speaker 3: putting herself in that environment again, because I think.
17:09
Speaker 2: That that's toxic doing the right thing. Yeah, yeah, I
17:12
Speaker 2: think it's a toxic thing.
17:13
Speaker 3: I think it's bad for her, especially that there's nothing
17:16
Speaker 3: good to say about her, and you know, unfortunately it's
17:19
Speaker 3: going to take time. I mean, do you do you
17:21
Speaker 3: think that she has a chance of people thinking differently
17:24
Speaker 3: of her? Do you think she have that opportunity?
17:27
Speaker 1: I mean, people are always going to remember that stain
17:30
Speaker 1: because she has a stain now. But I mean, let's
17:33
Speaker 1: remember Monica Lewinsky and Jennifer Flowers and Tighty Flies and
17:38
Speaker 1: the Mayflair Madam, Like all those people were embroiled in
17:43
Speaker 1: the biggest scandals, much bigger than this.
17:45
Speaker 2: This is.
17:46
Speaker 3: That's why she's shocked, Like why did they when this
17:50
Speaker 3: happens all the time?
17:52
Speaker 1: You know what, they all came back and did books
17:54
Speaker 1: and we're best sellers. People forgot and everybody moved on.
17:58
Speaker 1: This too shall pass. But you know, she needs to
18:00
Speaker 1: let me know that there's a light at the end
18:02
Speaker 1: of the tunnel and she can write a book.
18:04
Speaker 2: I think so right.
18:05
Speaker 3: But what I'm saying is that before that was like
18:08
Speaker 3: what you would do, you would kind of like step
18:09
Speaker 3: out of the limelight because there was no social media.
18:12
Speaker 3: I think what this has made this so big and
18:14
Speaker 3: you know, such a monster and she was like put
18:16
Speaker 3: in this position is the fact that not only are
18:20
Speaker 3: we going to see it or we saw that on
18:21
Speaker 3: the show, but we're seeing it on social media every
18:24
Speaker 3: single day, and there's out this writing about it and
18:26
Speaker 3: all the Bravo sits writing about it. So it's not
18:28
Speaker 3: only the show or at the moment that it happens,
18:31
Speaker 3: is that we're reminded by it every single day on
18:33
Speaker 3: social media, and that's really hard.
18:36
Speaker 2: That is really hard to be reading about yourself. Like
18:38
Speaker 2: you already know what you did. You're already like, Okay, I'm.
18:40
Speaker 3: Sorry, this is bad. Okay, I messed up. It was
18:43
Speaker 3: you know, she messed up bad because the truth is
18:45
Speaker 3: she did. I mean, how do you think sleeping around
18:47
Speaker 3: with your best friend's you know, boyfriend is okay? Like
18:51
Speaker 3: if you think that's okay, then you know that when
18:55
Speaker 3: everybody finds out on a national level, it's not going
18:58
Speaker 3: to be good for you, you know because obviously, like
19:00
Speaker 3: she says, this happens every day and our friend groups,
19:02
Speaker 3: that happens in real life, it happens, but when it
19:05
Speaker 3: happens on national TV, it's it's a problem even even
19:09
Speaker 3: more so.
19:10
Speaker 1: Mm hmmmm hmm. Would you would you, if you were
19:13
Speaker 1: single go for him?
19:15
Speaker 3: Because no, no, I found como, Like I get it,
19:20
Speaker 3: Like he might be like a good little guy as
19:22
Speaker 3: far as his you know, he looks like a model,
19:25
Speaker 3: he's tall, his features and whatever, but he looks so
19:28
Speaker 3: he looks dirty, like take a shower, like come to
19:31
Speaker 3: the beauty bar.
19:32
Speaker 2: So I can do your nails, bro, I mean, what's happened?
19:38
Speaker 3: And he's a good manicure and petticure at Alexia and
19:40
Speaker 3: Frankie's Beauty Bar. A pornographical yeah, because you're not a
19:48
Speaker 3: no porn movie or anything like that.
19:51
Speaker 2: But you know, I don't know. You know, we're gonna
19:53
Speaker 2: see him Bravo contest. You know.
19:56
Speaker 1: I actually was a judge for and Tom's cocktail mixing
20:02
Speaker 1: class they did at Bravo Con last year. And you
20:06
Speaker 1: know what was the most entertaining thing about that?
20:08
Speaker 2: The characters?
20:09
Speaker 1: No, me, they were so boring.
20:12
Speaker 2: Oh okay, No, I thought you were having fun with them.
20:14
Speaker 1: No, they were so boring. I was the only one
20:16
Speaker 1: that made it fun. They were so serious, like they
20:19
Speaker 1: were doing rocket science.
20:21
Speaker 3: You drank it and you got the effects, so you
20:23
Speaker 3: were the funny one.
20:24
Speaker 1: Oh this is so bad, so bad.
20:28
Speaker 2: But do you agree that she was exploited? No?
20:30
Speaker 3: I mean like in this scandal while everyone else made money,
20:33
Speaker 3: do you think she should have made money?
20:35
Speaker 1: I think she made her salary and she wasn't given
20:39
Speaker 1: other branding opportunities, you know what I.
20:42
Speaker 2: Mean, because she was Yeah, she's not more. Who's gonna
20:46
Speaker 2: who's gonna, she joins.
20:48
Speaker 1: So she's got to sit it out and wait and
20:51
Speaker 1: then she can come back and do a book.
20:54
Speaker 3: You see, this is the world that we live in
20:56
Speaker 3: that she actually thinks that she's upset about, not the
21:00
Speaker 3: reputation and the whole world. So all she's upset because
21:03
Speaker 3: she didn't make money, right, Like that says a lot
21:05
Speaker 3: about her. So you know what, you need to stay
21:07
Speaker 3: home or like, you know, get a little bit more
21:09
Speaker 3: therapy and a little bit more help, because this isn't
21:11
Speaker 3: about making money.
21:12
Speaker 1: Do you feel like this whole thing was blown out
21:14
Speaker 1: of proportion? Because every time I'd see it all over Instagram,
21:17
Speaker 1: like why is it what making such a big deal?
21:19
Speaker 1: I think, yeah, so I think so. So there I'm
21:22
Speaker 1: with her and with everybody else that thinks it. I
21:25
Speaker 1: think it was blown out of proportion. Nobody even knew
21:27
Speaker 1: her or him.
21:28
Speaker 3: Or anyone else, and all of a sudden, everybody all America,
21:31
Speaker 3: all of America's talking about them. I'm like, are you
21:33
Speaker 3: kidding me? I mean, like, no, it was, yes, it
21:36
Speaker 3: was a bad thing to do, but I think it
21:38
Speaker 3: was blown out of proportion, And I just find it
21:41
Speaker 3: calm that she's upset not about what they did to
21:44
Speaker 3: her and her reputation and everything else.
21:46
Speaker 2: But she's upset because she couldn't cash in, Like, are
21:49
Speaker 2: you kidding me?
21:50
Speaker 1: Well, I think at this point she's probably like, well,
21:52
Speaker 1: I already lost my reputation that I've at least walked
21:55
Speaker 1: away with some cash exactly.
21:59
Speaker 3: But you know, you know, we live in a world
22:01
Speaker 3: that's really effed up, right, that would sometimes, you know,
22:04
Speaker 3: sometimes the villain does get compensated.
22:07
Speaker 1: She wanted to be soothed with cash. You know, cash
22:11
Speaker 1: soothes me all the time. Okay, so dojah cat, this
22:26
Speaker 1: young lady has just lost one hundred and eighty thousand followers.
22:31
Speaker 1: What the hell happened?
22:32
Speaker 2: Good for you, dojah? She lost followers? You know what?
22:35
Speaker 2: Good the followers weren't supposed to be there.
22:37
Speaker 3: If you're going to be there as a follower to
22:39
Speaker 3: say negative things and hate, you should follow the person.
22:42
Speaker 1: Trim the fat. Apparently she had a dispute with some
22:46
Speaker 1: of her fans in July, and she says, seeing all
22:49
Speaker 1: of these people unfollow me makes me feel like I've
22:51
Speaker 1: defeated a large beast that has been holding me down
22:55
Speaker 1: for so long, and it feels like I can reconnect
22:58
Speaker 1: with the people who really at her and love me
23:00
Speaker 1: for who I am and not who I was. The
23:03
Speaker 1: backlash came after the singer told her fans in July
23:06
Speaker 1: to get off your phone, get a job, and help
23:09
Speaker 1: your parents with the house. When social media users were
23:13
Speaker 1: debating if their fan base name should be Kitten or
23:15
Speaker 1: Kittens with a Z. One fan asked her to reassure
23:19
Speaker 1: them that she loved them, and her response was, I
23:22
Speaker 1: don't though, because I don't even know y'all. Is doja
23:26
Speaker 1: cat biting the hand that Peter? Or do you.
23:28
Speaker 2: Applaud it standing applause too? I couldn't be waiting so
23:34
Speaker 2: much to that.
23:35
Speaker 3: So you're agreeing with me? Al, yes, two out of three?
23:42
Speaker 2: Thank you lord.
23:43
Speaker 3: Yes, So you know what, good for her, Good for
23:46
Speaker 3: her for standing up right and so talking back to
23:48
Speaker 3: their fans, because yes, you know, we owe a lot
23:50
Speaker 3: to our fans, because this is why we're here, even
23:53
Speaker 3: our show. I always said, the best part about doing
23:55
Speaker 3: our show is a connection of how with my fans,
23:58
Speaker 3: the fans that come up to me that are so
24:00
Speaker 3: engage me in my family. They asked me about Frankie,
24:02
Speaker 3: about Peter, about Todd, about my family, you know, and
24:05
Speaker 3: they share, you know, your happy moments with you, your
24:07
Speaker 3: sad moments when I lost my mom. So yes, the
24:10
Speaker 3: fans are amazing and wonderful and beautiful and there's such
24:14
Speaker 3: a big part of our life and of our success.
24:17
Speaker 3: But they also have to remember that we're human and
24:21
Speaker 3: that we have, you know, our own lives and our
24:23
Speaker 3: own things. And like Joja said, some people forget that
24:26
Speaker 3: and they talk to you on social media like if
24:29
Speaker 3: they owned you, like she says, like they feel like
24:32
Speaker 3: they know you. It's funny because I read other people's comments, right,
24:36
Speaker 3: Like let's say, like Jlo that I follow her, and
24:38
Speaker 3: then I'll see that one of my friends, it doesn't
24:40
Speaker 3: even know Jlo writes comments to Jay Locoms.
24:44
Speaker 2: She's no, you say, like, oh.
24:47
Speaker 3: You know, like if you know, I can't even tell
24:49
Speaker 3: you specifically right now, but they'll be like.
24:53
Speaker 2: Uh huh, like no, no, oh see you know, like
24:56
Speaker 2: well I just said Jaelo.
24:57
Speaker 3: But I could be more specific for example, okay, because
24:59
Speaker 3: I just made of Jah because I read jael Tho's comments.
25:01
Speaker 3: But like, let's say one of my friends, let me say,
25:04
Speaker 3: you are we one of the comments that they leave you.
25:07
Speaker 3: So some of my friends that have nothing to do
25:10
Speaker 3: with the show or with our circle of friends.
25:12
Speaker 2: They have home comment I Gellen, Oh your dogs, Oh
25:17
Speaker 2: your dogs are so cute. Oh my god.
25:19
Speaker 3: Yeah, like they did they just talk to you, like
25:21
Speaker 3: if they know you. I don't even know how to
25:22
Speaker 3: explain the perfect example right now. You know, what I'm
25:25
Speaker 3: trying to say is that they're not your friends.
25:26
Speaker 1: Because we're putting ourselves out there. We're putting a photo
25:30
Speaker 1: album of our lives and inviting people in to look
25:33
Speaker 1: at us. So we are inviting that. But it's getting
25:37
Speaker 1: a little out of control. You can't even change the
25:40
Speaker 1: way you look because everyone starts screaming and attacking you.
25:42
Speaker 1: Or if you're not smiling in every photo and you're
25:46
Speaker 1: not smiling, they think, oh, she's having a problem. She
25:48
Speaker 1: ran out of money, she's sparting with a boyfriend, she's
25:50
Speaker 1: getting divorced. The speculation by criticism, it's out of control.
25:55
Speaker 1: And besides that, before people would speculate but quietly in
25:58
Speaker 1: their homes or whatever. But now they have this outlet,
26:00
Speaker 1: you know, they have this phone here, and they're all
26:02
Speaker 1: on social media, and then they just feel like they.
26:05
Speaker 2: Just can't go out there. You know, I'm like you
26:08
Speaker 2: don't want to hear me exactly. It's like that's like
26:13
Speaker 2: we will, let me put somebody on the three way.
26:16
Speaker 2: And it was like we were three way through and we'll
26:18
Speaker 2: talk a three way.
26:20
Speaker 3: Yeah, And it's not the three way that you guys
26:23
Speaker 3: are thinking about.
26:24
Speaker 2: Right, we waar phone calls, right, three way phone calls.
26:26
Speaker 2: We have to specify.
26:28
Speaker 3: So what I'm trying to say is that good for
26:30
Speaker 3: her for standing up, because you know, sometimes you have
26:32
Speaker 3: to stand up. And she also I think she wasn't
26:37
Speaker 3: insulting anybody by telling them, you know what, instead of
26:39
Speaker 3: being so much on your phone, you should go out
26:41
Speaker 3: there and work and and help your parents. Why can't
26:45
Speaker 3: she say that? Why you have to cancel her and everybody?
26:48
Speaker 3: There's nothing she's actually giving good advice.
26:52
Speaker 1: Stay at home and be on their phones and be
26:55
Speaker 1: rich and famous and not do anything for it and
26:57
Speaker 1: look like an avatar and criticize everybody, and and you know,
27:02
Speaker 1: it's just it's a weird world. It's a weird world
27:06
Speaker 1: world life I see, and everyone's walking around on eggshells.
27:09
Speaker 1: You know what, Alexai. There's a lot of angry, unpappy
27:12
Speaker 1: people out there, and they take up their frustrations on
27:17
Speaker 1: other people that they, you know, probably admire or want
27:21
Speaker 1: to be like like people always says, and I love this.
27:26
Speaker 1: If they hate you, it's because they want to be you.
27:28
Speaker 1: And if you don't have anyone hating you, you're doing
27:30
Speaker 1: something wrong.
27:31
Speaker 2: That's true.
27:32
Speaker 3: Absolutely, Yeah, it's patifle its v We love you. Yeah,
27:38
Speaker 3: he's motivational. He's very very inspiring and motivational.
27:43
Speaker 1: He really is.
27:44
Speaker 2: He really is, you know, and that's what he says.
27:46
Speaker 3: Also like, if you don't have nothing good to say,
27:48
Speaker 3: then don't say it. And I feel like social media,
27:50
Speaker 3: like Instagram for example, because it's the only thing I
27:52
Speaker 3: have there should be like something that you can regulate
27:56
Speaker 3: it that you can only say something nice or turn
27:58
Speaker 3: off the comments. You either like it or you don't,
28:01
Speaker 3: but it should not allow you to leave something negative.
28:03
Speaker 3: That's why people are shutting down their comments, just like
28:05
Speaker 3: Brittany did, because can you imagine Brittany if she starts
28:09
Speaker 3: reading all those comments, like, you know, what is she
28:11
Speaker 3: going to do with herself?
28:12
Speaker 2: So she was able to turn them off herself.
28:14
Speaker 3: But I feel like once you turn them off yourself,
28:17
Speaker 3: you're also giving the people, you know, the satisfaction of like, yeah,
28:21
Speaker 3: you're turning them off because you know what we're going
28:22
Speaker 3: to be telling you. But what I'm trying to say
28:24
Speaker 3: is like I wanted to be something positive, Like I
28:27
Speaker 3: know it has a lot of positive things that I
28:29
Speaker 3: know all the project has in so many ways, so
28:32
Speaker 3: I wanted to just be that.
28:34
Speaker 2: You know.
28:34
Speaker 3: Unfortunately it's also turned into a really negative thing. And
28:37
Speaker 3: that's why I don't like it, because you know, I
28:40
Speaker 3: don't like to do anything and use anything for the negative.
28:43
Speaker 3: So I follow the people that I like. And that's
28:45
Speaker 3: why good for those Joja, you lost the one hundred
28:48
Speaker 3: and eighty thousand followers because they didn't even like you,
28:50
Speaker 3: because if they would have liked you, they would have
28:52
Speaker 3: liked what you had said and they would have liked you.
28:54
Speaker 2: You know what you didn't deserve. You know, they didn't
28:56
Speaker 2: deserve to follow you.
28:57
Speaker 1: Then that's what deserved her.
28:59
Speaker 2: Yeah, absolutely went Okay, we at least agreed on that
29:04
Speaker 2: you can wait on two out of three.
29:07
Speaker 3: But away I say, either way, I like, get on,
29:09
Speaker 3: I'm gonna keep on and keep on.
29:11
Speaker 2: You may wear me down. I'm gonna wear you down,
29:15
Speaker 2: baby game. I'm gonna call you and I'm gonna tell
29:18
Speaker 2: you all the reasons.
29:18
Speaker 1: Don't no, don't not today, Please don't. I'm still bitter
29:25
Speaker 1: for poor Madonnad. I had to pay guy Richie seventy
29:27
Speaker 1: five million dollars when they got divorced. She's never gotten
29:29
Speaker 1: married again. Boyfriends and she's living her life and that's
29:35
Speaker 1: a ton of hot boys.
29:36
Speaker 3: But she's had that before, she's had that. But that's
29:39
Speaker 3: not the fact. But you know what, there's men that
29:41
Speaker 3: have the same situation. I mean, so you think that
29:43
Speaker 3: men should have a ton of hot girlfriends and never
29:45
Speaker 3: get married again, because there's a lot of men that
29:46
Speaker 3: have divorces.
29:48
Speaker 1: Yeah, if they if they've been screwed a few times
29:51
Speaker 1: and they're not feeling it.
29:52
Speaker 3: But for you, but for you, this is where you
29:54
Speaker 3: and I are different. For you being screwed you've only
29:56
Speaker 3: mentioned financially. For me, being screwed has been in emotionally.
30:01
Speaker 3: So I feel that you know, all these rich men
30:03
Speaker 3: that how about this money can get married as many
30:05
Speaker 3: times as they want, because you know what's good financial
30:07
Speaker 3: because money is money.
30:08
Speaker 2: They have money and emotional attachment to it.
30:11
Speaker 3: You said, they're no, what hold that way that they're
30:14
Speaker 3: emotionally attached to their money.
30:16
Speaker 2: I'm talking about emotionally.
30:17
Speaker 1: Attached to the no to the person exactly, you get
30:22
Speaker 1: hit twice emotionally and in your bank account.
30:25
Speaker 3: Well, usually it depends right on the relationship and on
30:29
Speaker 3: the couple that you're talking about. Usually men what they
30:31
Speaker 3: care about is their money. You want to hit them hard,
30:33
Speaker 3: you get them in the money. And that we know
30:34
Speaker 3: because we're experiencing that in our friend group, so we
30:38
Speaker 3: know that. But what I'm trying to say is that's
30:41
Speaker 3: not a reason not to get married because you think
30:43
Speaker 3: the person wants to take your money away. Because that's
30:45
Speaker 3: why there's a prenuptial and that's why I.
30:47
Speaker 1: Think a few times and you you will you if
30:52
Speaker 1: you're going from it, No, because if there's different ways, No,
30:56
Speaker 1: because there's different ways of handling that.
31:00
Speaker 3: And that's why there's you know contract Listen, you know
31:04
Speaker 3: I love getting.
31:08
Speaker 2: Predicted yourself. So have you been burned?
31:10
Speaker 1: I mean, I want to contradicting myself. I'm talking about
31:13
Speaker 1: women that have an amount of money that Marisol does
31:17
Speaker 1: not have, and.
31:18
Speaker 2: People are attacking themselves to.
31:21
Speaker 1: Them to take their money. I think that's what's happened
31:24
Speaker 1: with Okay.
31:25
Speaker 2: Well, what about men?
31:26
Speaker 3: Have the same situation my friends, where there women want
31:30
Speaker 3: their money to take control.
31:33
Speaker 2: But the solution is not not getting married better.
31:36
Speaker 3: I'm gonna say that because.
31:39
Speaker 2: We need to agree. What are we going to agree
31:41
Speaker 2: on three for three?
31:43
Speaker 1: We always do? We always do. The only time we
31:47
Speaker 1: have it was last time and this time. You know what,
31:50
Speaker 1: It's good to disagree.
31:51
Speaker 2: Yeah, I like it times.
31:53
Speaker 1: I like it because there's different perspectives.
31:55
Speaker 2: I agree on that one.
31:56
Speaker 1: Thank you for agreeing with me, Sell my friend.
32:03
Speaker 3: Mihintelinda, my beautiful people. Thank you for listening to us.
32:07
Speaker 3: It's always so much fun. We love you guys, and
32:12
Speaker 3: if you have any questions you can you can send
32:14
Speaker 3: them to Marisol.
32:16
Speaker 1: I read my DM.
32:17
Speaker 2: She reads them.
32:17
Speaker 3: I don't mande Masol. We'll make sure to go to
32:21
Speaker 3: them and answer them.
32:22
Speaker 1: But don't you crazy, because I can only handle so
32:25
Speaker 1: much and.
32:25
Speaker 2: A nice questions. Okay, we don't want anything mean.
32:28
Speaker 3: We're we're done with the meanness and the hatred and
32:31
Speaker 3: all that. Ask us nice fun things fun. We love
32:34
Speaker 3: you guys. Please be safe, be happy, Besitosima.
32:40
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