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DLHS Hour 2 | Thirteen-hour work shift and no food after · The D.L. Hughley Show

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  Speaker 1: We were looking at a video that's going viral of
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  Speaker 1: a man comes home after thirteen hours a woman sitting
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  Speaker 1: there eating and he has affected anything and he is angry.
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  Speaker 2: Let's let's hear a little bit.
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  Speaker 3: So you need to tell me I just pulled a
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  Speaker 3: thirteen hour shift and I ain't got no food to
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  Speaker 3: come home too.
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  Speaker 4: Huh, why do you mean get somebody your way home?
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  Speaker 3: Whit for your ragby cousin, Dude, I just pulled a
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  Speaker 3: thirteen hour shift. You being my wife, I pay all
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  Speaker 3: the bills in your right, You don't fish me, no
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  Speaker 3: love for my job, you eating, you work from home.
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  Speaker 1: Now, everything you do you don't do for you, you
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  Speaker 1: do for the people you love or you profess to love.
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  Speaker 2: And it has to be a reciprocal arrangement.
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  Speaker 5: Well, I mean, at the very basic level, considering she
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  Speaker 5: doesn't work right and he's paying all the bills. That
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  Speaker 5: means the very pizza that she's putting in her mouth,
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  Speaker 5: he paid for it. That means the house that she
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  Speaker 5: is standing again in this kitchen, he paid for that too.
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  Speaker 5: So if you don't have it, didn't it didn't look
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  Speaker 5: that's no disrespect you say, you know so in my
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  Speaker 5: mind you got. You ain't got nothing to do what
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  Speaker 5: you've been doing all day. You could have cleaned the house,
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  Speaker 5: you could have gotten you don't have to get dressed up,
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  Speaker 5: but look nice when he comes home because he's he's
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  Speaker 5: doing something for you, because he loves you.
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  Speaker 6: Right thirteen hours.
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  Speaker 2: What you got, A job you got?
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  Speaker 5: I can't for you times too, If you know what.
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  Speaker 1: I I can't say my mama really liked my daddy.
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  Speaker 1: I can't say they were. They were like a loving couple.
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  Speaker 1: But I know what happened. His food was ready.
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  Speaker 2: When he got home.
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  Speaker 1: He ate his feel She made sure, she made his plate,
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  Speaker 1: She made sure that he would taking care of the clothes.
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  Speaker 2: Was like all of that type of stuff. It was perfunctuary.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not saying it was done with love, but duty
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  Speaker 1: works as good as love. If somebody's doing that part,
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  Speaker 1: do yours aren't.
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  Speaker 7: Aren't there in every relationship, whether it's a working relationship,
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  Speaker 7: whether it's a sports team, for it to be successful,
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  Speaker 7: you have roles. We have roles on our show.
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  Speaker 2: We have it.
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  Speaker 7: Okay, you're expected.
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  Speaker 2: She's up to them. I still live up to them,
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  Speaker 2: as would live up.
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  Speaker 7: To But you know, a team, you can't if somebody
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  Speaker 7: throw the ball as your job to catch it, you
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  Speaker 7: know it's jojo everybody your job to block yo job.
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  Speaker 7: And you know if he's financially taking care of everything.
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  Speaker 2: Hey man, that man is hungry.
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  Speaker 7: Man come home, man.
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  Speaker 1: Man, I just can't stand a trifling human being, just uh,
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  Speaker 1: traving human being.
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  Speaker 2: So who do you think was wrong?
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  Speaker 1: Coming thirteen hours work, came home, spected a home cooked meal? Uh,
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  Speaker 1: and she expected she didn't provide her who you think
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  Speaker 1: was wrong?
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  Speaker 2: Him or her?
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  Speaker 1: You were saying something. It's very interesting because I do
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  Speaker 1: think every relationship has a dynamic that's specific to that relationship.
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  Speaker 1: And if the gig is I'm going off to work,
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  Speaker 1: you don't have to There are certain small print that's
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  Speaker 1: associated with that right there.
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  Speaker 2: You ain't just gonna do.
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  Speaker 7: Nothing, Yeah, for real, I mean i'ma speak now, Jasmine.
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  Speaker 7: You're the woman here, obviously, I said, but I'm sure
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  Speaker 7: there's probably a lot of women if you said, look here,
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  Speaker 7: this man is gonna work hard, he's gonna pay all
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  Speaker 7: the bills, he's gonna take care of the house. All
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  Speaker 7: you got to do is take care of the house,
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  Speaker 7: make sure he's fair when he come on. I'm sure,
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  Speaker 7: there's a lot of women will line up for that. Well, yeah,
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  Speaker 7: I'm one of them.
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  Speaker 5: About I'll be in line so fast, pushing people out
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  Speaker 5: the way.
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  Speaker 2: Excuse me, excuse me, excuse me. Way too much for
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  Speaker 2: that job to you, and you're officion.
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  Speaker 7: I'm saying, ten years we've been waiting to see this
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  Speaker 7: great cook that we've been ten years in.
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  Speaker 5: I ain't but you know what, let me tell you
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  Speaker 5: how crazy she is. I don't want to call her stupid,
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  Speaker 5: but let me tell you how crazy she is. If
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  Speaker 5: she were thinking correctly, she'd be thinking. You know what,
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  Speaker 5: if I want to keep this happening, I got to
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  Speaker 5: keep him strong and healthy. He needs to eat because
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  Speaker 5: I need him to go back to work tomorrow and
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  Speaker 5: work another thirteen hour shift so we can't go on vacation.
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  Speaker 5: But if you're not feeding him and taking care of him,
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  Speaker 5: you know, you don't know that he's going to be
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  Speaker 5: able to continue to do that and keep you, you know,
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  Speaker 5: in a nice house. Well you know, and you ain't working.
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  Speaker 5: Come on, now, send him my safe What are we doing.
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  Speaker 2: That you're treatling ass?
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  Speaker 1: Was or eating pizza and it was down to two
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  Speaker 1: pieces from what we saw down to two pieces.
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  Speaker 2: She's like, I just won one up. You can't even
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  Speaker 2: have a hot pizza ready for him.
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  Speaker 5: That you didn't pay for.
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  Speaker 2: How about you. You can't have a you can't have
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  Speaker 2: a you know, can't you call a grub hub. You
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  Speaker 2: can't do none of that.
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  Speaker 7: Come on, give me this, Papa Johns and let's go.
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  Speaker 2: Come on, man, There's too many ways you could have
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  Speaker 2: made sure he had something when he came home. Too
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  Speaker 2: many ways, selfish.
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  Speaker 5: I'm curious to know if that was the first time
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  Speaker 5: that that had happened, or if it had happened before.
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  Speaker 5: And that's why he recorded it, because I just can't
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  Speaker 5: believe that's the first time that that's ever happened. It's
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  Speaker 5: no way she was talking to him. It sounds like
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  Speaker 5: it was something that happens all the time.
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  Speaker 2: You get the treatment you allowed, you get the treatment
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  Speaker 2: you allowed.
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  Speaker 1: So he's on the best died in the world, an
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  Speaker 1: uncarried woman, you got the best diet in the world.
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  Speaker 2: Every bore. So the question we're asking, let's hear a
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  Speaker 2: little bit of a video.
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  Speaker 3: So you need to tell me I just pulled a
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  Speaker 3: thirteen hour shift and I ain't got no food to
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  Speaker 3: come home too.
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  Speaker 2: Huh, why don't get something out your way home, cousin.
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  Speaker 3: Dude, I just pulled a thirteen hour shift. You being
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  Speaker 3: my wife, I play all the bills in here.
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  Speaker 7: Your right?
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  Speaker 2: You don't. You don't fish me, no love for my jaw?
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  Speaker 3: You eating?
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  Speaker 2: You work from home?
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  Speaker 8: Now?
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  Speaker 1: Was he wrong for expecting a home cook mail after
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  Speaker 1: working thirteen hours? She's wrong for not providing them. We're
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  Speaker 1: going to write to the phones.
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  Speaker 9: A woman is the heart of the home. The man
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  Speaker 9: is say hey, it's not about who does what it's
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  Speaker 9: supposed to be done by, who's supposed to do what
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  Speaker 9: is right. He's home, and it's right that she catered
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  Speaker 9: to his ego by fixing his food, making sure everything
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  Speaker 9: is well when he walk up the door, he already
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  Speaker 9: facing the hard world out the door, to make sure
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  Speaker 9: it's easier.
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  Speaker 8: Do your part. Oh, I completely believe that she is wrong.
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  Speaker 8: I've been married thirty one years. I worked myself. My
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  Speaker 8: husband did work more than me, and he did pay
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  Speaker 8: all the bills. I made sure his food was cooked.
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  Speaker 8: I made sure I made his lunch, blue work, The
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  Speaker 8: house was cleaned. My kids, I have five of them,
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  Speaker 8: they were cared for because I was part time. He
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  Speaker 8: told me to keep my money so I could go
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  Speaker 8: to bingo, and I made sure that I had everything
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  Speaker 8: that he needed done. I even tried to iron his clothes.
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  Speaker 8: I'm not afraid at ironing, but I did try. They
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  Speaker 8: were clean. I tried to iron. I hung them up.
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  Speaker 8: I did everything. She's completely wrong. Okay, you're my husband
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  Speaker 8: in the background. Even when he needed sex, he got it.
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  Speaker 10: I guess because I'm old school, women could definitely cook.
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  Speaker 8: I cooked with my husband and have cooked since we've.
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  Speaker 10: Been together, and we've been together over forty years. And
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  Speaker 10: I know a lot of the younger women don't cook.
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  Speaker 10: But I don't agree with that because I have children,
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  Speaker 10: have a husband's working. You should do your part. And
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  Speaker 10: I think a woman that's cooked and takes care of
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  Speaker 10: her family and her husband rather is a good thing.
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  Speaker 11: I'm sure there may be some more info that we
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  Speaker 11: don't know, but I would say in in aeral, if
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  Speaker 11: he's working, especially the long hours, then she should cook
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  Speaker 11: for him. And from what she said, you know, maybe
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  Speaker 11: she is doing some household thing, but I would imagine that,
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  Speaker 11: you know, as her husband or man, or whichever it was,
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  Speaker 11: I would think she would.
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  Speaker 9: Want him fit.
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  Speaker 11: So I think that that's not unreasonable for him.
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  Speaker 10: To want that.
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  Speaker 12: I feel like she is wrong if that man is
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  Speaker 12: taken care of home and he's working thirteen hours, had
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  Speaker 12: a man some to eat, and even if she don't
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  Speaker 12: feel like cooking, at least get the man from Texas
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  Speaker 12: row house or some long horn or something so he
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  Speaker 12: can have something.
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  Speaker 9: To eat when you get home.
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  Speaker 11: I wish someone was.
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  Speaker 9: Paying on my bills.
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  Speaker 10: I cook Monday due Sunday. I even put on that
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  Speaker 10: apron in a him hand.
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  Speaker 13: You hear it.
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  Speaker 12: I'm calling from Baltimore.
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  Speaker 11: That's so crazy.
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  Speaker 1: Stop the question we're asking, Lady Jim. A man comes
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  Speaker 1: home after working a thirteen hour shift. So thirteen hours
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  Speaker 1: or eight hours, that had to be some overtime. When
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  Speaker 1: you're working overtime, you're trying to pay for something. You're
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  Speaker 1: trying to get some bread, right, trying to get ahead
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  Speaker 1: or something, trying to do something. Either thirteen hours regular
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  Speaker 1: shift is eight, you know, eight and a half or nine,
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  Speaker 1: depending on whether you get an hour break or a
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  Speaker 1: thirty minute break.
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  Speaker 2: So, and he clearly did hard labor. Yeah, he did something.
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  Speaker 7: He had them dickies on with your with your with
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  Speaker 7: your name on your patch on your on your with
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  Speaker 7: them still.
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  Speaker 2: You hit a whistleblow.
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  Speaker 5: That's hard work, yes, indeed, but you can hear how
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  Speaker 5: hurt he was too, like he just could not believe,
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  Speaker 5: you know, and he was almost not begging, but he
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  Speaker 5: just couldn't understand or comprehend that, you know, any who,
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  Speaker 5: I was coming home and you couldn't know where.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, you might have hoped that wasn't But I'm here,
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  Speaker 2: I will go to the phones.
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  Speaker 9: I don't know what's wrong with these women these days.
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  Speaker 9: They feel like that they don't have to do anything.
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  Speaker 8: I'm forty seven, I'm from back in the day.
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  Speaker 9: My husband ain't never.
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  Speaker 12: Got to worry about a hot meal, a clean house
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  Speaker 12: or anything else because he is a bread winner, even
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  Speaker 12: though I get up money through friden and go to work,
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  Speaker 12: always have.
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  Speaker 9: But one I ain't gonna never have to worry about.
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  Speaker 8: It's from hot fool.
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  Speaker 9: That man worked.
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  Speaker 8: Thirteen hours at list A.
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  Speaker 9: Sounds has some chess.
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  Speaker 4: She's more than trixling. Sound like to me, she don't
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  Speaker 4: love him no more. I think she didn't fell out love.
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  Speaker 4: I think he just convenience for her. There's no love there,
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  Speaker 4: no more. And I think she's trying to tell him
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  Speaker 4: in around about way, because there's an expectation that he
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  Speaker 4: should have for her, and that expectation she should have
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  Speaker 4: for him, and he's paying on the bills. So my
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  Speaker 4: expectation to you you should have me a cook me
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  Speaker 4: when I get home after thirteen hours. But at the
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  Speaker 4: end of the day, again she doesn't love him anymore.
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  Speaker 4: She don't want the people with him, and I think
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  Speaker 4: he's the side piece. So the writer is on the wall,
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  Speaker 4: so in only she's tripened. But I don't think she
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  Speaker 4: didn't love him anymore.
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  Speaker 9: She was completely wrong, completely wrong.
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  Speaker 8: Gone on the days where the man's supposed to just
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  Speaker 8: give you whatever you want and you don't have to
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  Speaker 8: do anything. You got to show you appreciation.
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  Speaker 9: She was totally wrong.
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  Speaker 14: I feel like she's wrong because, like you said, if
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  Speaker 14: I could break my bank and I pay all the
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  Speaker 14: bills for I mean, that's the least you can do
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  Speaker 14: is cook for me and not saying like go over
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  Speaker 14: and beyond, but I mean, like just I mean, just
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  Speaker 14: to show your epident appreciation. I mean, if you don't
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  Speaker 14: have to pay a bill at all, I mean, it's
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  Speaker 14: the least that you can do is make sure these
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  Speaker 14: lady is ready for we ain't got home.
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  Speaker 12: I think she needs to get up off of height
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  Speaker 12: and kater to her man cooin blank period.
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  Speaker 8: If she don't, I will. She's got a street. She
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  Speaker 8: needs to divorce her and put her ass there on
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  Speaker 8: the streets because if she cares that man or meal where.
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  Speaker 9: You get home from a two twelve riber shift.
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  Speaker 11: He needed to give her the papers and letters get married.
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  Speaker 6: She didn't know that before she got married. And he
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  Speaker 6: didn't know that he was not getting a real wife.
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  Speaker 6: He was getting a roommate. And when you are a roommate,
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  Speaker 6: those are the type of things that you do. But
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  Speaker 6: if you are a real wife, you make sure your
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  Speaker 6: husband is taken care of. Somebody needs to read Proverbs
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  Speaker 6: the thirty first chapter and find out what their job is,
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  Speaker 6: because if he's willing to put up with it, the
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  Speaker 6: body say, if a man don't work, he don't eat,
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  Speaker 6: but he works, and why an't he eating? Girl, you
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  Speaker 6: better get your life together because somebody else would do
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  Speaker 6: what you want.
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  Speaker 13: You gotta know what you're getting yourself into for all
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  Speaker 13: these fellows out there listening, and you know, when you
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  Speaker 13: get involved in relationship, you got to know who you're
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  Speaker 13: dealing with. It's just like playing spades or you're playing poker.
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  Speaker 13: You got to know what's in your partner's hands. You
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  Speaker 13: got to know what's in your partner's and if you don't,
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  Speaker 13: you want to come up short.
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  Speaker 12: I feel like that lady is dad ass wrong. That's
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  Speaker 12: why a lot of these husbands go out and getting
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  Speaker 12: mistresses because the wife's I'm doing what they're supposed to
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  Speaker 12: do with that own dead man is out sacrificing every
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  Speaker 12: day to take care of house at home, and the
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  Speaker 12: least she can do the short appreciation for that blessing.
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  Speaker 6: If they have a hot wheel waiting for that man
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  Speaker 6: when he comes home, she's wrong.