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- 0:09Howdy and welcome to the show. Cooper's code examines a legal
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- 0:17today's guest, Kimberly Wong, Head of Litigation.
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- 0:52Welcome to the show. Well, thank you for having me.
- 0:56So today we're going to be talking a little bit about how
- 0:58we go about selecting mediators. And in that regard, as far as
- 1:04you were beliefs about mediation, do you think that
- 1:07selecting the right mediator is important?
- 1:10Of course we always try to prepare every case as if it's
- 1:14going for trial, but reality is, is that most cases settle and so
- 1:21mediation tends to be. Often the first opportunity to
- 1:25really talk about potential resolution of the case.
- 1:28So having a good solid mediator is going to set you up for
- 1:32success in that regard. Are there certain things as far
- 1:36as past experience that you initially consider when trying
- 1:39to make decisions about a mediator?
- 1:43Of course, there are a lot of different mediator backgrounds.
- 1:46Some are former plaintiff lawyers, some are former defense
- 1:50lawyers, and then we also have retired judges.
- 1:53And each brings their own unique experience and perspective that
- 1:56could benefit your mediation. So I'm going to speak in broad
- 2:00generalities. And I'm saying that because some
- 2:02of our listeners are going to be former defense lawyers, former
- 2:04plaintiffs lawyers and former judges.
- 2:06And I don't mean to offend any one of them by gripping them
- 2:09into this collective stereotype. But in your experience, I think
- 2:14we should break them down when you deal with a past defense
- 2:17lawyer, where the pros and cons in terms of a past defense
- 2:21lawyer and their background as what they bring to the table for
- 2:24a mediator. Actually, some of my favorite
- 2:27mediators are former defense lawyers.
- 2:29They get to see things that we don't get to see and how the
- 2:32sausage is made on the other side.
- 2:34And so they know what the pressure points are for the
- 2:38defense lawyers as well as the adjusters.
- 2:41There's so many things I don't know about how to talk to the
- 2:43insurance adjusters, what information they need.
- 2:47And so they provide that perspective with the plaintiff's
- 2:49lawyers us as to what we need to be able to provide them to be
- 2:53more persuasive to get to the reasonable settlement value.
- 2:57They also may have more St. credibility with the defense
- 3:01lawyers and the adjusters because they know that they did
- 3:04the same thing that they did and couldn't appreciate their
- 3:07background and how they're looking at the case.
- 3:10So I think those are the two biggest pros for using a defense
- 3:13lawyer because the other side will really respect and trust
- 3:15them. Never had experiences with
- 3:18defense lawyer mediators doing things like writing white paper
- 3:21or an opinion or something to go back to the adjuster to work
- 3:24with a committee to get the number put on the table that's
- 3:27necessary to resolve the case. Surprisingly, I haven't.
- 3:31I asked that only because also a trend to lean towards defense
- 3:36lawyers as my favorite mediators.
- 3:38There are reasons for plaintiff's lawyers or judges,
- 3:40and we'll talk about that. But I've had experiences like
- 3:43that where the defense lawyer on the other side agrees with the
- 3:48mediator but is having some trouble, and the mediator has
- 3:50volunteered to make a presentation to the committee or
- 3:53to write a paper to help them understand the exposure.
- 3:56That sounds like a great idea, yeah.
- 3:58And I think you're absolutely right, because that idea comes
- 4:01from the defense experience of having to do reporting and
- 4:04having to help our words paper the file to properly put the
- 4:08right amount of money on the table.
- 4:10Also, and I'm adding on to some of your thoughts about defense
- 4:14lawyers, I've had more than one defense lawyer mediator come
- 4:18into the room and tell me how much they hate insurance
- 4:20companies. And I think no one gets the
- 4:24experience of being mistreated by an insurance company quite
- 4:27the same way as defense firms who work for them and then have
- 4:32their bills audited. Have you had similar comments
- 4:35from defense lawyer meteors? I can't recall, but I'm not
- 4:38surprised. I sometimes find that they have.
- 4:41I'm not a vested interest, but the notion that they might be
- 4:44biased towards the defense is actually the opposite.
- 4:48Let's switch into to plaintiffs lawyers as meteors.
- 4:51What of your experiences, pros, cons in that regard then?
- 4:55Well, plaintiffs lawyers have sat in our shoes and so they
- 4:59know what we're facing in communicating with our clients
- 5:03and sometimes as best as we do to.
- 5:07Explain to our clients what to expect with the outlook on their
- 5:10case, what a reasonable settlement range is, How did the
- 5:15liability might look in front of a jury?
- 5:18How would their damages look? They thought the client
- 5:21sometimes needs to hear from a neutral person to basically back
- 5:26you up. And so I think that's probably
- 5:28one of the biggest pros of use, a plaintiff meat eater if you
- 5:30find yourself in that situation with the client who needs to
- 5:33hear that also sometimes. Former plaintiff lawyers, They
- 5:38really know how to communicate with your clients and get
- 5:42through to them in ways that maybe other people don't because
- 5:45they have that experience That makes a lot of sense.
- 5:48Are there any cons, downsides that you worry about in
- 5:53selecting A plaintiff's lawyer, potentially as a mediator?
- 5:55Sometimes the insurance adjuster or the defense lawyer may think
- 6:00maybe this mediator is slightly more biased towards the
- 6:03plaintiff side just because of their background.
- 6:06I think that's probably the biggest one I might come across.
- 6:10I have, and it is very rare, but on occasion I have seen a
- 6:16situation where a plaintiff's lawyer I feel, might be leaning
- 6:20a little bit defense ish in order to make sure that they
- 6:24don't lose credibility because of their plaintiff's background.
- 6:27Have you ever had an experience like that?
- 6:29Not that I overtly saw. Now leaning in to judges your
- 6:33views on pros and cons for selecting a judge as a mediator.
- 6:37Judges have all kinds of backgrounds.
- 6:39Some have served as settlement conference officers, which can
- 6:43be invaluable because they spend every day mediating trying to
- 6:49resolve cases. And then there are other judges
- 6:52who have extensive trial experience in overseeing trials,
- 6:57so they really know what the outcomes are of these cases if
- 7:01they don't settle at mediation. And they can communicate it to
- 7:04either side, whichever is more useful to communicate to
- 7:07depending on the situation. So those are the insights that a
- 7:12judge would offer that are unique to them.
- 7:16Do you have certain types of cases that you lean more toward
- 7:21a judge for than others? I don't know if you've ran into
- 7:24the situation, but I've had some insurance adjusters or defense
- 7:29counsel will say we will only mediate with a retired judge.
- 7:33In general or for this case, and in those situations, I don't
- 7:37have a choice but to pick a retired judge.
- 7:40I have had situations like that. I find that more frequently
- 7:45comes up usually in an individual case, And it may be
- 7:48an individual case where there are liability issues or some
- 7:52piece where they feel the imprimatur of a judge saying,
- 7:55well, you know, if this case were before me, I might rule on
- 7:58this particular significant evidentiary issue this way or
- 8:01that way. I would also consider using a
- 8:04retired judge for complex cases or cases involving a lot of
- 8:09parties, a variety of legal issues, because there are
- 8:13certain mediators I can think of who are retired judges and they
- 8:16just have an excellent reputation on both sides for
- 8:20their history in resolving cases at settlement conferences.
- 8:23And so they bring that to the mediation realm.
- 8:27I agree with that. I think that there are a lot of
- 8:30great judges who are mediators. There are a few experiences I've
- 8:35had, and it's very few where. And I use the analogy of how
- 8:39most generals don't make great presidents.
- 8:42They've relied too much on the power of the robe as opposed to
- 8:45the power of persuasion. Those sometimes are not as
- 8:49effective mediators, and I also find that those are the same
- 8:52ones who don't do all the follow up the same way that I like to
- 8:55see from a a judge. Right.
- 8:57I think just because they were a judge doesn't mean they're gonna
- 9:00be a good mediator. You have to look at what their
- 9:02experience was as a lawyer, but also as a judge.
- 9:06Anything else that we should be considering in terms of past
- 9:09experience? In terms of talking through how
- 9:11to how to select the right mediator for a case?
- 9:14For everything that we do in practice, trust your gut.
- 9:17So if something feels a little lost, then consider someone else
- 9:22that makes sense switching into personal style.
- 9:26Have you had experiences with different mediators having
- 9:28different styles? Absolutely.
- 9:30What types of styles have you seen, and what types of styles
- 9:34do you consider when trying to pick the right mediator for a
- 9:38case? So one would be their
- 9:41methodology. I pretty much would only select
- 9:45a mediator who I'd say is committed to doing whatever they
- 9:52can to bridge the gap between the parties.
- 9:55I like to use mediators who will either haul you before the
- 10:00mediation to see what's going on or welcome that call.
- 10:04I also love the mediators who will read the whole brief and
- 10:10the exhibits and be very familiar with what's going on.
- 10:14And the ones who are committed to continuing on after mediation
- 10:18is over to do whatever they can to help the mediator who
- 10:23mediates for the case as opposed to the mediator who mediates for
- 10:27the day. Correct.
- 10:29As we talk about style, I also think style can sometimes
- 10:32include personality. What personality considerations
- 10:35do you have when selecting A mediator for a case?
- 10:38I'm not. That's like a judge temperament
- 10:40and their personality. Unfortunately, I've had
- 10:44experiences where the mediator doesn't realize how they're
- 10:49coming off to our clients. A little aggressive,
- 10:53condescending, not listening. And so if I have one of those
- 10:57experiences, I would not use them.
- 10:59You raise a good point. There are lots of people who
- 11:04seem to be getting into mediation, and some of them are
- 11:08great, but not all of them bring the same set of skills.
- 11:11And given that there are so many mediators out there, it gives us
- 11:15an opportunity to really pick the right one for a case.
- 11:18Sometimes you do have to take into consideration who your
- 11:22client is and how they might respond to that neutral.
- 11:25And likewise, you know, if I had an opportunity to pick amongst a
- 11:29few mediators and one of them I know had a similar background to
- 11:35my client, and the client might relate to that person or want to
- 11:38hear from them, that mediator may get an edge over the others.
- 11:42Also, within the category of style, style also includes
- 11:47mediation method. Are there different mediation
- 11:49methods that you've seen, some of which are better, some of
- 11:52which are worse, some of which are right for one case but not
- 11:55another? I'm curious to hear your
- 11:57experience on joint sessions, because when I started out in
- 12:01practice they weren't very common, but they happened on
- 12:04occasion and now I think it seems that the common consensus
- 12:09is no one likes them. They tend not to be effective.
- 12:12It's interesting because when I first practiced, it seemed like
- 12:17there was always a big to do about a joint session, have a
- 12:20presentation, get up, bring everyone in, show the show,
- 12:24demonstrate to the other side why you're going to be able to
- 12:27prevail on the case. And over time, it seemed like
- 12:30everyone moved away from that and the collective learning.
- 12:34And I don't know if you've had this experience in in kind of
- 12:36those big pomp and circumstance joint sessions is there's a big
- 12:40joint session and then the media has to spend the next hour and a
- 12:44half calming down the other side who just feels like they got
- 12:47dumped on. Yes, I think the joint sessions
- 12:50tend to be polarizing, which is why people aren't doing them
- 12:53anymore, unless both sides actually ask for it.
- 12:57I think you're right. I've seen effective ways of
- 13:00approaching a joint session, which is letting the other side
- 13:02know. Look, we'd like to do a joint
- 13:05session. We'd like to show you our view
- 13:07of the case. We don't want to polarize the
- 13:09discussion. We don't expect you to rebut any
- 13:11of the things we're doing. We don't want to embarrass you
- 13:13in front of your client, but we want to show you why we think
- 13:16we're going to be able to prevail in the case.
- 13:18Would you be open to that? And we would encourage you to
- 13:20ask us questions during that joint session.
- 13:23I've seen those translate into taking an entire morning where
- 13:26it's been a very robust back and forth and the case might not
- 13:30resolve that day, but it certainly helps the other side
- 13:33see things as opposed to the ambush style joint session.
- 13:37And I think so many of the joint sessions were seen as ambush
- 13:40style media will bring people in, you know, Do you plaintiff's
- 13:44lawyer have anything to say? And the plans lawyer would get
- 13:46up and for 10 minutes would dump on the other side.
- 13:49The other side would feel they need to get up for 10 minutes,
- 13:51dump on the plaintiff side and then things would go to hell.
- 13:53You know, it's all about the messaging on the joint session,
- 13:56and both sides will have to see the benefit of it before you do
- 13:59it. Otherwise it's just gonna be
- 14:00polarizing. But you know another thing that
- 14:03you could do instead of a joint session sometimes if you've had
- 14:06the benefit of a focus group. I share parts of what I learned
- 14:10from the focus group because. That is the most valuable
- 14:14information is what would a jury say if we took this to trial and
- 14:18they don't have that insights that you've gathered from a
- 14:21focus group agree, and I like sharing that when we have that
- 14:25information, I've found most of the time we share that room
- 14:30mediator in single session as opposed to joint.
- 14:33Yes, and I was saying that as an alternative to a joint session
- 14:36where you can communicate a similar message of this is how
- 14:39the case will look. And then I would also say.
- 14:42It's not quite a joint session, but something that I'd be open
- 14:44to is if the adjuster says, hey, I would like to meet your client
- 14:50just to see a face because sometimes there's no video
- 14:54deposition of the plaintiff or they haven't for some reason
- 14:58taken the deposition yet, which is unusual at that stage.
- 15:01I would be open to that if that's something that they felt
- 15:03that they needed, just especially if our client makes a
- 15:06good presentation. It's not a conversation, it's
- 15:08just a greeting of hi, nice to meet you, I agree with you.
- 15:12I think that that's for me an important tool that we will
- 15:18often times offer to the mediator.
- 15:19Not that we want to have a big drawn out joint session, but I'm
- 15:22sure this is your experience. These days everyone starts in
- 15:24separate session, but at some point if the mediator feels it
- 15:28is useful for us to bring in exhibit 1, the client that we
- 15:33can have that joint session. And I usually will have the
- 15:36mediator guide the conversation. You know, have the mediator
- 15:40throw softballs at the client and we'll talk about this in
- 15:43another podcast. This goes a little bit into the
- 15:45client prep though, in terms of making sure the client is aware
- 15:48that this might happen so that they're not caught off guard.
- 15:51Other style things that come up are how the mediator approaches
- 15:57the process in terms of learning about the case and learning
- 16:01about positions. I like a mediator that's
- 16:04confident but flexible. I tend to lean a little bit on
- 16:09the mediator as to. How to make the next move?
- 16:14You know whether are we going to continue to exchange numbers?
- 16:18Should we switch to brackets? Are we at the point where you'll
- 16:22be worthy to do a meat eaters proposal or are we done for the
- 16:26day? Because the meat eaters the only
- 16:28one who has the pulse from both rooms.
- 16:31So I want someone who is confident to know what they're
- 16:34feeling from both rooms and also have flexibility.
- 16:38To adjust depending on what's going on and make
- 16:41recommendations, of course. That style, that being willing
- 16:45to provide some guidance and be flexible, I think is critical.
- 16:49It makes the difference between somebody who's going to be able
- 16:51to close the gap that day or later versus one who just, you
- 16:56know, throws up their hands and says well, can't get it done.
- 16:59Since the pandemic we've seen how almost everything has rolled
- 17:03into a video or zoom world. Depositions and mediations
- 17:06specifically, Have you had many in person mediations since this
- 17:11whole COVID mess started? Zero.
- 17:14How about you? We've had two.
- 17:17It seems that people like not having to travel and I've found
- 17:26that we've been very successful in resolving cases and doing the
- 17:29one video. I found that the two that we
- 17:31chose to do for very specific reasons, it was very beneficial
- 17:34to do those in person. So on the location side, do you
- 17:38have any consideration that you raise with, say, the other side
- 17:42in terms of whether we should do something in person?
- 17:45I personally have not come across a case that I felt would
- 17:49benefit from an in person mediation since the pandemic
- 17:53began, but I am sensitive to that.
- 17:56There are some cases where it would absolutely make sense,
- 18:00agreed. And in our case, the one that
- 18:04I'm thinking of primarily, it was a fatality case and we had a
- 18:08mediator who had just the right warmth for working with people
- 18:14where it was an awful, awful situation.
- 18:17And so I think that it was the mediator's suggestion request
- 18:20that we meet in person. And for that, I think that was
- 18:24the right choice, giving this topic a little bit short shrift
- 18:27because I would say 95% of cases are now remote.
- 18:32If we're going to do a physical mediation, are there certain
- 18:34things that you would look for? But knowing their layout in the
- 18:37office space, where people being put, what kind of privacy is
- 18:41there? Some places have glass walls.
- 18:45You want to prepare the client for that.
- 18:47There is one mediation facility that for years is beautiful.
- 18:52They had all glass offices with no blinds to bring down.
- 18:56And I would never have a client at one of those mediation
- 19:01facilities if the client didn't have a poker face.
- 19:04I feel like I can't pick that mediation facility because with
- 19:07this particular client, I'm worried about people walking
- 19:09down the hall. Also, how thin are the walls?
- 19:12Good mediation facilities will put you on the far side of the
- 19:16building from the other side, yeah, pivoting into talking
- 19:20about the selection method itself.
- 19:23Are there ways that you work with the other side to try to
- 19:28get to that point of the delicate dance of selecting the
- 19:31right mediator? What methods do you use?
- 19:34They usually ask the other side to propose 5 mediators that
- 19:38their client and they would feel comfortable with.
- 19:41Inevitably, I get the same request in a lot of cases.
- 19:45In that Venn diagram of overlap, do you find that you see names
- 19:50that you and the other side can routinely agree on?
- 19:54Sometimes yes. And then there's sometimes when
- 19:56I initiate the request for five names and they don't give me any
- 20:00names and they insist only on my 5 names.
- 20:03Interesting. When you are doing that, what
- 20:06considerations do you have when you put those names forward?
- 20:10I like to use known commodities because they're the tried and
- 20:15true. I know what I'm getting when it
- 20:18comes to their experience, their methodology, their style, their
- 20:23personality, their success rate. At the same time, I will also be
- 20:29open to new names that they might propose.
- 20:32Research and vet them. It's not a hard no, but some
- 20:36names are familiar that you've heard from colleagues that are
- 20:40good quality medias that you just personally haven't
- 20:42experienced yet. I think of some names recently
- 20:46where I've had people say, my gosh, you haven't mediated with
- 20:49so and so yet you've got to get her on your list.
- 20:52She is fantastic. And you're right about the known
- 20:55commodity piece, and I think the known for me, the known
- 20:58commodity piece is you're talking about a lot of time and
- 21:02a lot of money and it's hard to break free of that concern that
- 21:07you're going to work with somebody who you haven't worked
- 21:09with before. At the same time, I've found
- 21:13that when I've broken free, I've discovered some my new
- 21:16favorites. Yeah, we use the same mediator
- 21:19too many times and you get a reputation for that.
- 21:22Maybe I'd see that there's otential bias there, so that's
- 21:26another consideration. So it's nice to have a larger
- 21:29group of mediators to select from, as we're talking about
- 21:33selecting meteors. Have you had any experiences
- 21:35where somebody who normally might not have been picked as a
- 21:37mediator is now on the list? Because we're all remote now.
- 21:43Yes. And that's one of the greatest
- 21:46benefits of remote mediations is you don't need to pick a local
- 21:51mediator if we're not going to be there in person.
- 21:54So I've actually used a Southern California-based mediator.
- 21:59Last year for mediation and we actually only stumbled upon him
- 22:04because we were running out of options from local mediators
- 22:09that we knew. And frankly, I have never used a
- 22:12Southern California mediator before.
- 22:14And you know what, the other side hadn't either.
- 22:16And we were going based off of availability.
- 22:21Nowadays, mediators are booking many months in advance, and so
- 22:25defense counsel had said. I recently went to this
- 22:29mediation where the plaintiff had proposed this media and said
- 22:33they were excellent. I've done some vetting on my end
- 22:37and I would be agreeable to that mediator.
- 22:40And then I went ahead and called a bunch of Southern California
- 22:45consumer attorneys and asked if they had any Intel on this
- 22:49person. And they were raving about this
- 22:52mediator who was actually a former defense lawyer.
- 22:55And I thought, you know, this is probably a good case to try it
- 22:59out. It wasn't a complicated
- 23:01liability case. So it was more straightforward.
- 23:04So I didn't feel like I was taking as much of A risk.
- 23:07And we got a great result. And I asked the mediator about,
- 23:12you know, how often do you mediate with people in Northern
- 23:15California? Is this a rarity?
- 23:17And he said, no, I do mediations all across the state.
- 23:21I even do some outside of the state now that there's so many.
- 23:25Remote mediations. I actually chatted with him
- 23:28before I agreed to the mediation to get some of his background.
- 23:33And I just got a good sense from him cuz I asked, do you have a
- 23:38pulse on what's going on in these different counties you
- 23:41know that you're not practicing in?
- 23:43And he did. And that's where I could see
- 23:46that coming up as a concern. Sometimes it has been a
- 23:50challenge to find a mediator in say the Central Valley.
- 23:53There just aren't as many from that region as there are from
- 23:56Northern Southern California. And when pre pandemic, when we
- 24:00have proposed people from the Bay Area, you'll get pushback
- 24:04like so and so is going to have two high numbers.
- 24:07They don't understand the geography, they don't understand
- 24:10the area. It sounds like this person had
- 24:13done his homework. Yes.
- 24:15And rightfully I needed to as well.
- 24:17I kind of felt like I was doing a little deposition and I asked
- 24:20him, so how do you know about what?
- 24:23The San Francisco jury would do versus a jury in Fresno.
- 24:27And he gave me some answers about he has mediations all
- 24:31across the state, so he with cases that are venue everywhere.
- 24:35He also has a good network of mediators that he would reach
- 24:39out to, to bounce ideas off of. And he had decades of experience
- 24:46as a defense trial lawyer himself that he could build
- 24:48upon. And I don't want to ignore the
- 24:51nugget that you dropped in there in selecting the mediator.
- 24:56You called the mediator before you decided on the mediator to
- 24:59have a conversation now. Well, it makes sense that anyone
- 25:03can do that. I can say, well, I've done a lot
- 25:07of vetting of calling other lawyers, looking at people's
- 25:10backgrounds. I can't think of a time where I
- 25:12actually was creative enough to say, you know, I want to give
- 25:15this person a shot, but I want to have a conversation first.
- 25:17Have you done that before? No, this was a unique situation
- 25:21because. I wanted to feel comfortable
- 25:23using a mediator that neither side had used before, and it was
- 25:28great because I loved his personality and temperament.
- 25:32I asked him about his style, like, do you do joint sessions?
- 25:35Like what is your approach? Do you are you involved after
- 25:39you know? That was really important to me
- 25:41in selecting a good mediator. And I also want to point out I
- 25:45don't know how other people vet mediators with colleagues, but I
- 25:50don't really just get. Oh yeah, they're great.
- 25:53They should be on your list. No, I want to know details.
- 25:55Give me an example. Like, what made them stand out?
- 25:59They went the extra mile because they kept calling even when I
- 26:03never thought we would get a result.
- 26:06Like they followed up three months later when some meetings
- 26:08they give up after a couple days.
- 26:10So knowing the specifics really tells a lot.
- 26:14Very helpful. The other thing that is a
- 26:17concern for me is making sure that the list that one provides
- 26:23includes some diversity, both in terms of ethnic background but
- 26:29also sex. Because I find often times when
- 26:32I ask for a list of five from the other side, I will get 5 old
- 26:36white dudes. And with that bias towards you
- 26:39working with people that you've worked with before, it furthers
- 26:43the bias towards the same privileged group always in that
- 26:48same role. When you're pulling your list
- 26:51together, do you do anything purposeful as far as that's
- 26:53concerned? I actually do the same thing,
- 26:56and you're right. Unfortunately, though, when I do
- 26:59propose that list, usually the female mediators or the diverse
- 27:05mediators are rejected solely because the other side doesn't
- 27:10have experience with them. And so it's about giving them
- 27:14the opportunity because these are experienced mediators and so
- 27:18I just keep. Offering because sometimes the
- 27:22other side agrees. One of the tactics we've used as
- 27:26far as that's concerned is have our five list female.
- 27:29Then you don't have the one male problem, meaning that they pick
- 27:32the one male. On the list makes sense as you
- 27:36are getting down to the brass tacks of making a selection and
- 27:40going forward with a mediator. Have you ever had an experience
- 27:43where something about going down the track with that particular
- 27:46mediator tells you that it's not going to work?
- 27:49Honestly, I haven't, but I always believe in trusting your
- 27:53gut. So if something feels off then
- 27:56it's probably a good time to look at other options and very
- 28:01rare for me, but I can think of 1 occasion we're in the
- 28:05premediation phone call. The person was frustrated that
- 28:10they had to have a premediation phone call and you could just
- 28:13pick up on the energy in the communication.
- 28:17And against my better judgment, I went forward with that
- 28:20mediation. It was in when I hadn't worked
- 28:22with before and not surprisingly, it didn't go
- 28:25anywhere significant and the mediator didn't have much in the
- 28:28way to follow up, which was different than what the person's
- 28:30profile, the reputation that that person had.
- 28:33But if I had gone with my gut instinct in that first phone
- 28:36call of no, not right, I would have saved a lot of time and a
- 28:40lot of effort and the effort of having to convince the other
- 28:43side that we should do a second session, but not with the same
- 28:45person. You know, some heartache on the
- 28:47clients part too. And yeah, thank you for being
- 28:51willing to come and talk about this today.
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