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Ep 25. Flip the Script: Unlocking Happiness Before Manifestation · The Manifestation Station

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You're listening to the Manifestation Station podcast.
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I'm your host Holly Edwards and together we can help create your magic.
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Hello my gorgeous manifestors. We are back. We are back with another episode
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of The Manifestation Station.
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I promised you last week that I was going to bring you weekly episodes and here
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we are. I'm hoping it's going to stick.
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Life is busy. I'm also filming. I work in film and TV as well.
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But the podcast is growing.
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The podcast is booming. you are
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all manifesting your mindsets
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are thriving and so that makes
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it very much worth the time and effort of doing the podcast because I'm hearing
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all of your amazing stories about things that you're manifesting or most importantly
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even is feeling better feeling happier feeling lighter feeling like you're re-energized.
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And that's what it's all about. Last week, we talked about a June reset.
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If you haven't listened to that, pop back and have a little listen.
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And I cannot tell you, it actually might be the episode where I've had the most
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DMs and messages post-episode of how that episode impacted people and how people
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felt that they were having this little kind of LOL.
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Mid-year or just kind of feel like feeling as
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though they haven't done enough or that I don't
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know life is getting away from them and they've
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been really hard on themselves and actually a lot of you
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messaged and your dms were amazing they
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were like do you know what I really needed this I kind of
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felt like I lost my way I needed that rebirth
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of energy a resetting of my goals they
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said actually I didn't realize how far I'd
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come until they listened to the episode where we
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kind of did a little look back on celebrating yourself
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and what you have done this year even if that
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doesn't mean you've ticked every single thing off your
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list so please do go back and take a listen if you haven't uh it's the last
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one june reset something like that can't remember what it's called but today
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it doesn't matter because today we are talking about something else and i haven't
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told you that actually my name is holly edwards and i'm hosting the podcast
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the manifestation station.
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If you are a new listener,
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then welcome because I'm Holly and this is your guide to manifestation,
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mindset and creating a life that genuinely lights you up from the inside out.
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And if you're a returning listener, hello.
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And you know already, I love having you here. So let's make some magic.
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Today, we are talking about flipping the script and why you don't need the thing to be happy.
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You need the happy to get the thing.
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Is your brain going, what does she mean? Well, what I'm talking about here is
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that so often the clients that I work with myself on my manifesting journey,
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and actually so many people that I know who are trying to manifest things.
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They're saying, you know, when I get that new job, I'll be happy when I've got
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that new job. I'll be happy when I've got some money in the bank.
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I'll be happy when I've met the man in my dreams.
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And actually, this is a big misconception in manifesting because it's about
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being happy first, getting to the happiness first.
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It's like that old saying, I've mentioned it a few times, happiness is not the
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destination, it's the journey.
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Sort of along those lines, but it's about being happy now.
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And the more happy you can get now, the more you are going to attract.
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And then you can get onto your manifesting work. This is why I mentioned it.
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I mentioned this in a few episodes, actually, about how important it is to raise
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your vibrations and get happy now.
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And that is what we are talking about today.
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And actually, it's one of the sneakiest lines that we've been sold.
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Do you know what I mean? It's like, you know, when I get the thing,
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I'll be happy. And do you feel like this sounds familiar? Because...
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When I was kind of researching for today's episode, I was going,
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yes, I feel like we all do this. When I get the job, I'll feel like I'm successful.
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When I find the relationship, then I will feel loved.
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You know, guys, I'm just telling you, if you haven't met your soulmate yet,
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I'm just telling you, I don't know if you know this, but there is a way that you can feel loved now.
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You don't need the love from your soulmate or your partner.
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Now, don't get me wrong. Oh my God, how wonderful is
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love how wonderful is meeting your soulmate but
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you don't need to find your partner to
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feel loved there are ways that you can love yourself and
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surround yourself with loving people and love around
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you in other ways you might
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be thinking when I'm earning 10k a month
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then I feel secure then I'll feel financially free
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or when I buy my dream home then I'll feel
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grounded then I'll feel like I've made it and
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I'm here to tell you guys spoiler alert
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this is a trap in this episode
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we are flipping that belief upside
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down and showing you why the real
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secret to manifesting what you want is being happy
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now I'm going to keep shouting about it
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in this episode I am giving you I
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am giving you permission to be happy do you fancy
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being happy today do you have do you fancy being
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happy this month this week this year guys let's
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be happy I'm going to help you and I'm going
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to show you how so let's get into it so we're going to talk about the myth let's
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break down the myth that getting the thing will make me happy this idea I think
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is it's so baked and cemented into our culture that most of us,
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we don't even question it.
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We're taught that you've got to hustle and that you've got to achieve and strive
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because happiness is supposedly on the other side of effort.
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And we see it in movies, we see it in adverts and childhood stories.
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If you think about Prince Charming shows up, now the princess can finally be
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happy because she's met her Prince Charming.
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Or the character lands their dream job and that cues the montage with the beautiful
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music of the success and smiles.
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We all love a rom-com, don't get me wrong, we all love a rom-com.
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But they always have that, don't they?
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Life is going good, we have a montage. We're like, you know,
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they land their dream job so now everything's happy.
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But I'm really here to break it down and tell you the truth
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that no one tells you and you can be
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all of those things now and still be empty and this is why it's so important
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to work on other factors in bringing happiness into your life so that those
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things you desire when you attract those in it's like the icing on the cake
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but it is not the be-all and end-all of the happiness it's not the thing that is making you happy.
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It just adds to your happiness, which is already going to be beaming from you.
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I've had clients before that have hit income goals or moved into their dream
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homes quite recently, actually, a couple of my clients.
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And somehow, sometimes they're still disconnected or they can't figure.
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I actually had a client recently who really wanted to get engaged and they just
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got engaged and they were really happy.
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And then they kind of had this come down and they kind of thought
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yeah do you know what I'm actually feeling a bit lost and it's
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because they wanted this dream home and their their job was
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a little bit stale and there were other factors there
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were other factors it's not like she was she wasn't disappointed with
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her engagement absolutely not but there were
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other factors weighing her down which
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were kind of I guess putting a shadow on
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that happiness the newly engaged happiness so while
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she thought that was her total answer to happiness yes she
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was pleased she was engaged but it wasn't the happiness
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she expected to feel straight after and that's
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because happiness was never the thing it's the feeling happiness is a feeling
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and it's the energy and its alignment so manifestation responds to energy and
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not your checklist that's really important to remember it is responding to your energy.
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So therefore, what can you do to boost your energy? This is why I always bang
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on and bang on about raising your vibrations.
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These could be little moments in your day, adding new routines,
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habits, things that bring you joy.
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I speak about gratitude and living and moving and bouncing to music,
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whatever makes you happy. It's about adding a little bit more of that.
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It doesn't have to be huge huge changes and huge shifts so there is a science
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behind it of course there's always a science and a bit of a spiritual blend as well but.
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If you're wondering like, okay, Holly, okay, why?
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Like why doesn't getting a thing work? Let me give you a bit of the woo-woo
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and a bit of the science-y explanation here.
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So you guys, most of you guys know, unless you're completely new to manifestation,
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which hello, if you are, I just cannot wait for you to get started.
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But anyway, most of us know by now what the law of attraction is.
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The law of attraction says that like attracts like.
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So you attract what you are, not what you want. You attract what you are, not what you want.
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If you're in a state of lack thinking, I don't have enough money,
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you're emitting the frequency of scarcity and the frequency of lack.
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I don't have enough money.
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Where your focus goes, your energy flows.
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So what you focus on is where your energy flows.
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So if you're thinking about that, you don't have enough money.
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Ultimately, you are attracting back the fact that you have a lot of money.
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So even if you want abundance, you're not a match for it because your energy
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is thinking lack and scarcity.
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Same with attracting love, a house or a baby.
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But when you're in joy, when you're in gratitude and peace,
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you align with more things that match that frequency because that frequency
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is already existing on a happy, vibrant.
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High vibrational frequency.
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So that is where your magic will happen.
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And I work with clients and yes, we work on strategies and setting goals and
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aligning our behaviors, but it's also about...
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Letting go of the negative energy, any negative loud noise around you.
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It's kind of about droning that out and bringing in your own peace,
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your own positive mental health. Let's do the brainy bit. Let's do the science bit.
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Now, I actually love the science behind this. I love the science of manifesting.
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I love the science of gratitude.
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Did you know this? I can't remember
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if I've told you this on another episode or not, but it is proven.
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They did some studies in America and they proved that just by increasing your
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daily gratitude that people improved their immune system dramatically.
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How bonkers is that? Now that's the sciencey bit but back to what we're talking about today.
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From a neuroscience perspective your brain has a filter called the reticular
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activating system or the RAS. I've spoken about this before.
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It filters what you notice based on what you focus on.
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So if you are constantly thinking, I can't relax until I move out of my flat,
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your brain will filter out all the cozy, lovely and amazing things about the
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flat that you live in now.
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But when you focus on the joy now, the love for your flat, noticing all the
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love and the coziness of your flat, the fact that it gives you a safe space
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to sleep, a comfy place to sleep?
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What has it provided for you? A roof over your head.
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If you can start focusing on those things and loving those things now and the
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gratitude now, your RAS, the reticular activating system, literally starts to
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show you more reasons to feel that way.
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Does that make sense to you? What you're constantly thinking about,
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your brain, the RAS, I almost think of it as the RAS looks for ways to prove
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your existing thoughts.
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So if you're thinking, I have a lack of money, but I really,
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really need some more, and you're thinking you're attracting it,
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by saying you need more shows that you have a lack of.
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So your RAS, your reticular activating system, will look for things in your
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life, even subconsciously, look for things to show you that you don't have enough money.
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So yes, happiness is not a result. It is merely the portal.
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So let me tell you a quick story because I can feel like I can really relate to this.
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A few years ago, I've been working in film TV for a number of years,
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almost 20 years actually.
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And there was a very big production, a very big TV show that was being filmed promptly.
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When did I start on it? I can't remember.
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Maybe over 10 years ago over 10 years ago and
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I really wanted to manifest this job and it
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was I was like when I've got that when I've got that
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job when I've got that on my CV and if you don't know this
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about me already you're thinking sorry I thought she's a manifesting
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coach well I also design the hair and
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makeup for film and tv so I travel around the world I design
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the makeups I work with the actors and the directors and I've worked on
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some amazing productions so that's my back history
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and there was this job in particular and I would say it's
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one of the if not the biggest TV
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series of all times I really wanted to
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manifest this job and you know what I did
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and I had some great time on it and I had some really good money but actually
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the hours were insane I was away from home during a really weird period of my
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life the the workplace was a little bit of a strange maybe I don't want say
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toxic but just a strange working environment and actually.
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That wasn't the happiness that I thought was at the end of the tunnel.
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And actually it made me guide me onto where I wanted to take my career a little bit more.
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So all I'm trying to say is that I can think of this moment and this job and
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this story as a way of, I completely thought getting that job would be the answer to all my prayers.
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And it was to some degree, I don't want to discredit it and say it wasn't amazing.
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It was, and I'm very thankful for it. And I enjoyed it immensely.
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However, it wasn't the end of my happiness. It wasn't that I've reached the happiness goal.
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It actually made me go, okay, so let's get happy now. And it's not just about
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the job that I manifested.
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So there's my little story that I can think of, but actually there's probably quite a few.
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Even now I probably have to give myself a talking to where I'm trying to manifest
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things that actually I have to go, hold on a minute, hold on a minute.
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Remember it's the journey.
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Let's do the happy now. And that will all follow. And I've said this before,
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but in hindsight, you know sometimes you're
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desperate for things to happen quite quickly and you want them now and
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when they're not showing up straight away you can get a little bit frustrated but
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actually when you're doing the happiness now you don't notice it too much and
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actually in hindsight when I look back I've said this many a time that a lot
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of my manifestations have come at the exact right time even if I thought I needed
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them beforehand and that I needed them earlier when I look back now I'm like,
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oh, they came at the right time,
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even though some of them came later than I'd hoped for at the time.
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So I hope that makes sense to you.
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So let's look at five steps, five easy peasy steps that you can do today to
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create happiness before the thing arrives.
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Happiness now, happiness by the time you've finished this podcast,
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guys. How amazing is that?
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So step one is to ask yourself.
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What do I think this thing will give me? So this desire that you want to attract,
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you're asking yourself, what do you think this will give you? So let's break it down.
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Let's give some examples of some desires.
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If you want to attract in more money, you are probably with that money wanting
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freedom, security, peace of mind.
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When I say freedom, it's you know freedom that
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you have more time maybe you have to we can
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work less you can go to the shops and buy anything your
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heart desires what about if you are
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trying to manifest your dream home maybe the reason you think it will give you
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is it's about stability or beauty or comfort or feeling like you've made it
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what about if you are trying to manifest baby maybe it's about wanting love, nurturing.
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Purpose, wholeness.
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The thing is symbolic. The feeling is what we're really after.
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So try and disconnect it and break it down. What is your thing? That's symbolic.
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And what is the feeling that you are really after that that thing will give you?
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If you can separate the two, you're already halfway there.
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So step two, this is about finding ways to feel that now in small ways,
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the small little ways that we can start feeling those things that are attached to our desire now.
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So for example, if you are trying to manifest money, practice feeling financially
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supported by noticing where you are already supported.
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There will be ways, even if you feel like you're really having to scrimp or
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that you are, if you're really feeling a lack of money at the moment of finances.
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There will be ways where you feel financially supported and noticing where you are already.
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So maybe that's as simple as your bills have been paid.
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Great. You have already paid your bills. Maybe it's that you have a cozy bed
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and a roof over your head.
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That is financially thriving in itself.
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If you drive a car, you are already wealthy.
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That car gets you from A to B. That car already gives you the freedom to drive
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wherever you want to drive.
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The freedom. Some people don't have a car. Some people can't afford a car.
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If you are listening to this podcast on
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a phone a phone a phone
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is worth money a phone is a
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way where you are financially supported so look
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at the ways in which you are already supported financially focus and hone in
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on those things the more you notice again remember what I was speaking about
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before is that if you're only if you want to move home and you're only noticing
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a lack of or that you hate where you live at the moment and you want to get out,
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you're now ignoring all of the amazing things that your current living space does give you.
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Even if you're renting out a back room in someone's house, still look around.
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Make it cozy, make it warm, make it lovely whilst you are planning your dream
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home and your move to your dream home. Back to manifesting money.
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So take luxurious actions on a small scale.
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This kind of ties back to romanticizing your life,
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which as you may know I'm a big believer on take
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luxurious steps that kind of make you feel rich
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that make you feel abundant and that's things like getting indoors and lighting
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a candle or using your fancy body moisturizer even if it's actually even if
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it's a five pound moisturizer from Boots make it a ritual put your headband
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on put some music on have a candle on make it a rituals.
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So it's about ways that make you feel rich, that make you feel groomed,
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little things in your home that you can do to elevate your home,
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that make you feel rich, that don't necessarily cost you money.
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Maybe you are trying to manifest a baby. So what can we do there?
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How about feel the nurturing, loving energy now?
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Maybe that's through self-care, maybe that's through visualization or connecting
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with your future child in meditation.
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Maybe it's live as if you trust it's coming.
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Embody calm and grounding motherhood now. Maybe it's unleashing your inner child.
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Maybe it's taking yourself to places on trips that ignite the child in you,
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that way you will eventually bring your child.
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Maybe you're going to go to the zoo or you're going to go to Disney or you're
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going to go to the cinema and get yourself some popcorn and a pick and mix.
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Whatever you can do to ignite your inner child, maybe that's a way for manifesting
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the baby and finding ways to feel that now, but in small, easy, achievable ways.
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Step three is to make joy a non-negotiable.
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Oh, is this not the biggest, most important step?
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I mean, it's kind of making joy, creating joy, and then I guess it's then having
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gratitude for it, isn't it?
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But put joy on your to-do list. And actually, even if you are actually writing
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a genuine to-do list, put at the top to find joy, to make joy.
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That should be a part of your everyday mantra, to find or make joy.
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Joy is the most magnetic frequency in the universe.
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So it attracts what you want because it tells the universe, I'm already in alignment.
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I'm already in a place of joy.
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Match my frequency and bring me all the things that are on my frequency.
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So play the music. What's your favorite film? take a nap, schedule a girl's night, go out and dance.
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Whatever it is, make joy a priority.
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Make joy a non-negotiable in your life.
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Step four is to shift your inner dialogue.
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Shift your inner dialogue. This is about catching the thoughts like,
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I'll feel better when I finally have more money
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or this flat is too small I can't relax
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here I need to get pregnant so you know I'll go crazy and
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it's about replacing those thoughts and
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sometimes I talk about this a lot a lot of these
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thoughts are happening on a subconscious level so gently replace these thoughts
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with I'm allowed to feel good while I wait I'm going to enjoy and appreciate
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every step of the journey my current space is safe and my dream home is on the way.
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My baby is coming to me in perfect timing. I choose joy now.
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Act as if the universe is already behind the scenes. This is step five.
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Act as if the universe is already working behind the scenes.
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Because guys, I'm here to tell you, it actually is.
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The universe is always listening. The universe is working behind the scenes.
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So whatever you're trying to manifest now.
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If you are feeling stuck, if you're feeling it's not happening quick enough,
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you have to imagine the universe.
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As I've said this before in another episode, imagine the universe as a little
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puppy dog that is waiting for your command and then it goes off to find,
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it goes off into the garden and it needs to find what it is that it needs to
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fetch and bring back to you.
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So let it go off and find the perfect ball, the perfect desire.
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Whatever it is, you have to remember the universe is already working behind
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the scenes now so have a think about that and let that sit for a minute what do you want to manifest,
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Are you trying to manifest it? The universe is working in your favor and already
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working hard behind the scenes.
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That little puppy dog universe is looking for your perfect ball to bring you back now.
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So when you remember that, sometimes you think, oh, it hasn't happened yet.
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Oh, I need to change my vision board.
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Oh, why am I stuck? Maybe I'm not doing it properly.
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Actually, just relax and go. The universe, you may not be able to see it in
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its human physical form or the energy.
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You it's working behind the scenes. It's happening. Life and your desires are
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unraveling now, guys. So just keep that in your mind.
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Your job is to stay in the energy of what you want and not force it.
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It is just your job to stay in that state of joy because I guarantee you,
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your desire lives on that frequency of joy.
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And when you trust and stay playful and stay open, that is when opportunities arrive.
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That is when people reach out to you. That is when your ideas,
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your mind-blowing million-dollar ideas drop in and things shift without the stress.
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So that's where you need to stay, guys.
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Stay open, stay playful, stay trusting.
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Now, a good way to think about this, I want you to imagine, imagine ordering food at a restaurant.
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So you look at the menu. So this is you thinking about what you
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want to desire so this is our metaphor for manifesting guys
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you're in the restaurant you're having a look at the menu which
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things do I desire what would I like to order from the universe you then make
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your order you've ordered your pasta and you've ordered your drink right and
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that goes off to the kitchen you don't then sit there angrily watching the kitchen
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and yelling, where is my pasta?
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I will not be happy until I get my pasta.
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Why is my pasta not here yet? Where is it? What am I doing wrong?
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Why is this pasta not arrived on my table yet?
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You wouldn't do that, guys. You put your order in.
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You pick what you want to manifest. You put your order in and you trust that
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that order is coming to you.
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You relax. You sip your drink. You chat with a friend. You laugh and you joke.
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And you are in the joy now.
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You're in the joyful energy now because you are enjoying the moment.
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You are taking your time enjoying the other experiences, the mood in the restaurant,
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the decor, your friends, the conversation, your drink.
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You are enjoying everything around you now and you know it's coming.
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So even if you're really, really hungry, because maybe some of you do go, where is my pasta?
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Let's face it, if you're hungry, I get it guys.
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But in all seriousness, like manifestation works the same way.
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Be the person sipping the cocktails, smiling at the universe like, do you know what?
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Hey universe, hey puppy dog universe, I know you're working behind the scenes.
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I know the chef is creating my perfect pasta immediately.
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I know it's on the way and until then I'm vibing.
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I am vibing and I am smiling and I am enjoying.
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Maybe let's give ourselves a little manifesting challenge of the week.
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Challenge of the week. I feel like that should be a little jingle in there somewhere, shouldn't it?
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So every day for the next seven days, I just want you to do one thing that makes
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you feel good. Just because.
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For no reason. Just to feel joy. One little thing.
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Make it your priority every day for the next seven days.
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One thing that can bring you joy that might be making drink
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in your favorite cup that might be watching something on the
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tv with no distractions that could be whatever
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brings you joy something for you
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and only you not because it helps you achieve not
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because it's productive for the sheer fact that it brings
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you joy so this could be dressing
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up dress yourself up put an
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outfit on where you go yes go a little
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bit extra dress like your future wealthy self maybe
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buy a candle that smells like your dream home go
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for a walk and imagine your current life already the dream
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make a money playlist and dance in abundance
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maybe if it's raining go outside and
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jump in the puddles maybe put yourself under
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a blanket light a candle and watch a rom-com because
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when you start to prioritize feeling good now you
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shift timelines so stop chasing
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and start attracting this is about
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bringing joy every day one little thing every
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single day for seven days do you think you can manage it
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what can you do what can you do have
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a think about that that is your challenge for a week but
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for now what I want to do for a second is just to just take
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a second let's take a deep breath together so I want you to inhale and exhale.
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Because you just heard the truth that so many people miss you don't manifest
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your dream life by obsessing over it,
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You manifest it by becoming a vibrational match for it now.
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Joy, peace, alignment, gratitude, love.
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This stuff costs nothing, but it absolutely changes everything.
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So let's pause and reflect for a moment.
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Where in your life right now are you telling yourself,
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I'll feel better when I'll feel
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more confident once I'll finally relax
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after dot dot dot where in
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your life are you telling yourself these things have a think about that note
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them down maybe it's with money maybe it's your body maybe it's with love maybe
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it's feeling like you're behind in life just gently notice it with compassion
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no shame we all do this and we're
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flip it and actually it's really good if you notice it because
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you kind of go aha I see you I
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see you here this little thingy of I'll feel better
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once I've got that thing I see you and you're just going
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to flip it and instead instead ask
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yourself what feeling am I actually chasing
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underneath this desire and then how
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can I bring that feeling into my day right now that's all
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it is because those feelings are going to
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be on the same frequency as where your
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desire lives and that's where you will attract your desire
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so that's the reframe that's the shift it's
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actually quite simple isn't it when you think about it guys let's make it super
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easy here's how the universe responds so if you walk around feeling free and
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feeling light then opportunities for freedom will appear to you. Remember your RAS.
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If you embody gratitude for what you already have, life sends more to be grateful for.
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If you just trust life and your desires deeply, life says, here's something
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you can trust and it delivers for you.
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So just think of your energy and your thoughts and your feelings like a signal tower.
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And the clearer your signal is, the faster your desires will manifest.
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So let's together, just for a moment, just do a tiny little mini visualization.
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So close your eyes if you're not driving or walking or running.
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If not, just kind of deeply breathe a few inhales and exhales just to kind of
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get yourself in the zone.
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And just imagine in six months from now, you're living the life you dreamed of.
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What do you see around you? What does your morning feel like?
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What are you grateful for in this version of you?
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Now ask yourself, what version of me chose to believe before she saw the proof?
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Think about that person What version of me chose to believe before she saw the proof?
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That version exists now You are becoming that version now You are just uncovering
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layer by layer and that is going to help you jump onto that vibrational match.
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Now, if you're into journaling, I love a journal.
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I think it's really healthy for a manifesting mindset. Maybe a good journal
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prompt is to write down how can I start giving myself those feelings daily?
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We've spoken about it earlier in the episode.
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To write this down, how can I start giving myself those feelings daily without waiting for the thing?
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Just write that down and see what kind of comes out. And, you know,
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you can come back to it, make a few more notes.
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Because sometimes when you're thinking off the top of your head,
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like, well, how can I, how can I match those feelings daily?
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And it can take a little bit of thought. But actually, if you note those things
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down in your journal, you can relate back to that and start giving that energy
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into your day-to-day life.
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So for the perfectionists and the overthinkers, you don't have to manifest perfectly
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to manifest powerfully.
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You know, like I've said, there are layers and there are steps and a process
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to follow, to manifest and to manifest well.
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However, like I said, if you can nail this one, which is about finding happiness
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now, not just after receding the thing, then this isn't about manifesting perfectly.
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This isn't about pretending to be happy all the time.
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It's about choosing moment by moment to come back to the vibration of joy and the vibration of trust,
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to find joy in the ordinary and to trust that the universe responds to energy and not just effort.
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One aligned minute is more powerful than a
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week of forced hustle and desperation
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one minute how amazing
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is that give yourself one minute now guys one minute
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now to kind of just tune in with
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those feelings look at the things around you now that are bringing you joy just
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tune in for a moment and think I'm going to start bringing these feelings in
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now bring the feelings in that match your desire think about what you can do
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now one aligned minute is more powerful than a week of forced hustle.
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So here's some gentle truths that you can keep with you today.
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Whenever you're listening to this podcast, wherever you are,
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maybe it's your morning and it's setting you up for the day.
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Maybe it's before you go to bed and you're going to close your eyes and go to
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sleep with me whining on.
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I'm not whining, I promise. But whatever it is, just think about these things for a moment.
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These are some lovely gentle truths to keep with you for the day.
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You're not behind. You're being prepared. You haven't missed it.
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It's aligning behind the scenes.
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You're not crazy for wanting more. You don't need to earn joy.
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You are allowed to feel good now.
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Your main job is not to chase the dream.
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Your job is to become the version of you who welcomes it.
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So let the ease in, let the joy lead let
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the thing come to you when
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you're already feeling absolutely amazing you're
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not just sitting around waiting for the thing you
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are meant to create the feelings now you are
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meant to build the vibration now and to
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live inside the vision now before the evidence arrives and that is what makes
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you magnetic there is no force no timelines no perfection just you your presence
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experience playing and trusting with the universe that's all it is guys that is all it is.
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So we've almost come to the end of the episode, and I hope this has resonated with you.
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If it has, drop me a DM, slide into my DMs.
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I'm at thehollyedwards or at the.manifestationstation. I love your DMs.
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I say it every week, but I mean it. I love your DMs so much,
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and I've had so many this week, and I've had so many from clients this week.
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You're just making magic, guys, and you are spreading magic to other people as well, which I love.
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So if there is someone that you feel might benefit from
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just enjoying the joy in everyday life
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now please share the episode with someone and spread
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a little love because that's what it's all about and I'm
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going to spread a little love because I want to give a lovely little shout
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out to lovely Jessica Green who
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has a radio show it's on
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Bedfordshire Health Radio previously called
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Hospital Radio Bedford and the show is called Rise
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and Shine and it's on every Thursday morning
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and her aim is to make people feel
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good and to make people feel happy and just to
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kind of give a bit of energy to so I promised I'd
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give her a shout out and her radio show so that's
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Rise and Shine every Thursday morning because she's
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doing a lovely thing and making people feel good and
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what is not to love about that so a
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big hi to Jessica and Judy who put me
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in touch with her and carry on doing amazing things
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that's lovely and if you can just spread a bit of joy to other people's lives
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as well that is also a little secret that will help bring added joy to your
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life so let's be a little bit more Jessica and spread some love and light and
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a bit of rise and shine So we love that.
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And if there's one thing that you take away from this episode today, let it be this.
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When I'm happy, peaceful and present, I attract things that match that energy.
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So don't wait to be happy after you get what you want. You are choosing to feel
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that way now. I know I'm repeating myself, but I just want that.
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I just want that energy from you today where you go, I'm feeling good now.
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So I hope this lit you are. I hope you're feeling alive. I hope you're feeling
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energetic. I hope you are feeling magnetic.
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What feeling are you choosing to prioritize today? I'm hoping you're replying by saying joy.
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And what desire are you no longer putting your happiness on hold for?
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Don't put happiness on hold. That's all we need to remember.
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So thanks for tuning in guys. I love having you here.
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Tune in next week as well where there'll be another episode.
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I want you to remember that your life is happening now.
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Go and make it beautiful now. And when you treat it like it's already yours.
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The things you want can't help but find you. You are powerful.
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You are magnetic. You are ready.
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I love you. I see you. I believe in your magic.
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So until next time, guys, stay in your joy, trust your timing,
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and remember your manifestation is on the way.
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It always has been. Goodbye.
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Music.