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- 0:00Speaker 1: Wake up with a bang.
- 0:04Speaker 2: And the clap on nine four seven. We've all been.
- 0:07Speaker 3: There, we've all experienced this, but we've never really known
- 0:12Speaker 3: how you handle a situation like this because also now
- 0:16Speaker 3: these days, you can't just be telling people what what
- 0:20Speaker 3: they should or shouldn't be doing at work.
- 0:22Speaker 2: Right, thirty years.
- 0:27Speaker 3: Ago, your boss could literally make a call and that's
- 0:29Speaker 3: the call.
- 0:29Speaker 2: But now we have rights.
- 0:31Speaker 3: Right, So imagine Jonathan, our lovely CEO, doesn't like the
- 0:36Speaker 3: colonial way, Frankie.
- 0:39Speaker 1: God, and then if he's now he's going to tell.
- 0:41Speaker 3: Me, Yeah, imagine it is Jonathan allowed to say, Frankie.
- 0:46Speaker 1: I'm a little scared of him, so anything that he
- 0:48Speaker 1: says I'd listened to I'd probably change immediately. You say
- 0:51Speaker 1: no more, no more, as I say.
- 0:53Speaker 3: Fine, Rex, Soona, like, it's both ways, right.
- 1:00Speaker 4: Does your boss have the right to tell you that
- 1:02Speaker 4: you smell bad? Like even if it's too much perfume?
- 1:05Speaker 4: And I think your boss should tell you for the
- 1:07Speaker 4: betterment of everybody in the office, just be like, look,
- 1:11Speaker 4: what is that colone you're you're wearing? Okay, cool, we
- 1:15Speaker 4: can all smile.
- 1:16Speaker 3: I say one of both. I don't know if that
- 1:19Speaker 3: makes sense. Your boss is allowed to tell you that
- 1:21Speaker 3: you smell right, Yeah, it's definitely a bo Why must
- 1:25Speaker 3: be sitting with the odor?
- 1:27Speaker 5: You can't Actually, these days you'll go to HR. Well
- 1:29Speaker 5: this is what that's why you sensitivity training.
- 1:32Speaker 4: But then, can you tell somebody that their perfume is
- 1:34Speaker 4: too strong on the same on the same size you see.
- 1:36Speaker 2: I don't think you're allowed to do that.
- 1:37Speaker 3: I think you're allowed to tell them that there's an odor,
- 1:40Speaker 3: like there's a stench.
- 1:42Speaker 2: Well, we'll find a way through HR.
- 1:44Speaker 3: But I don't think your boss is allowed to say
- 1:46Speaker 3: they don't.
- 1:46Speaker 2: Like your perfume.
- 1:47Speaker 1: No, no, I know.
- 1:51Speaker 4: Well I don't think they can say that they don't
- 1:53Speaker 4: like your perfume. But can they tell you that you're
- 1:55Speaker 4: wearing too much of it? Like? What if somebody's perfume
- 1:58Speaker 4: genuinely gives you a head?
- 2:00Speaker 2: We used to work with the guy. I'm not naming names.
- 2:03Speaker 3: I have to no, no, no, no, Now you're not
- 2:08Speaker 3: allowed to.
- 2:09Speaker 4: But you know we've moved buildings. Some say the old
- 2:12Speaker 4: buildings store like him.
- 2:16Speaker 2: Fine, I won't say anything.
- 2:18Speaker 1: Too much cologne is like a really big problem.
- 2:20Speaker 2: Okay, that's what we're going to talk about. Oh one
- 2:23Speaker 2: one eight thirty eight nine four seven.
- 2:26Speaker 3: Is your boss or even your colleagues allowed to tell
- 2:28Speaker 3: you that you wear too much cologne?
- 2:30Speaker 2: And how do you go about it?
- 2:32Speaker 1: Have you got a colleague who weighs too much? Sprites?
- 2:35Speaker 2: So now you're there every day Tube that's your guys lives.
- 2:39Speaker 1: And you've now basically your little desk looks like a
- 2:42Speaker 1: nasal supply store with all the sprays that you have
- 2:45Speaker 1: to cope with the day.
- 2:46Speaker 2: There are subtle ways to let them know.
- 2:48Speaker 5: Just open all the doors and windows as they arrive
- 2:50Speaker 5: every day so we can't breathe.
- 2:53Speaker 1: But now I have to be called.
- 2:55Speaker 5: Are you not willing to take the chance? Maybe if
- 2:57Speaker 5: you just for a week, you might emerge Victoria's Guys.
- 3:00Speaker 3: Zero eighty four double zero double zero nine four seven.
- 3:06Speaker 3: Is your boss allowed to tell you that you wear
- 3:08Speaker 3: too much cologne? That just like ease up you're saying, Yeah,
- 3:11Speaker 3: We're not saying don't wear We're just saying ease up
- 3:14Speaker 3: on it. Just off the accelerator just a little bit.
- 3:17Speaker 3: Call us oh one one eight thirty eight nine four seven.
- 3:20Speaker 3: Has this happened to you? Is there somebody you're dying
- 3:23Speaker 3: to tell this?
- 3:24Speaker 1: You working at Elizabeth Arden office apparently.
- 3:27Speaker 3: Not allowed to say their name, So we're just going
- 3:29Speaker 3: to hear you complain about them, but you're.
- 3:30Speaker 2: Not allowed to name them.
- 3:32Speaker 6: I wear a lot of cologne, and I don't think
- 3:35Speaker 6: that should be a problem because I don't tell the
- 3:38Speaker 6: people who smell bait that they smell bad.
- 3:40Speaker 5: Find us that lay of saying that hi berdeoo cologne
- 3:46Speaker 5: is something else or it's too much.
- 3:49Speaker 3: I think we should bend by perfumes in general.
- 3:52Speaker 2: But yeah, you're not allowed to tell. I don't think
- 3:55Speaker 2: a CEO is allowed. I isn't. Alex Cage wasn't told
- 3:58Speaker 2: that in the old buildings.
- 4:01Speaker 1: No no, that's not the colleague we're talking about.
- 4:03Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, And Alex. Alex was very particular
- 4:07Speaker 2: about how we want Alex, particularly about how we breathe.
- 4:09Speaker 3: Everything, like if in fact Alex is the one wanting
- 4:12Speaker 3: to tell other people that their coloni is too much.
- 4:15Speaker 5: But to one of the points made, guys, let's have
- 4:18Speaker 5: a conversation about the ood fragrances that from the golf.
- 4:22Speaker 5: My DearS, they're only for winter. Oh, in the summer,
- 4:25Speaker 5: we suffer in the summer, and strong stuff in the summer.
- 4:28Speaker 2: You suffer.
- 4:30Speaker 5: We suffer byby We are suffering, not a bb.
- 4:35Speaker 7: Hannah, Good morning, morning and Elia and the team.
- 4:39Speaker 2: Morning Hanna.
- 4:40Speaker 3: How are you good?
- 4:42Speaker 6: Things?
- 4:42Speaker 1: Weird?
- 4:43Speaker 2: Great?
- 4:44Speaker 7: I work in the food industry, and in the food
- 4:47Speaker 7: industry we are not allowed to be perfume, so male, female,
- 4:52Speaker 7: no perfume is allowed, only the odorant because of a
- 4:56Speaker 7: cross contamination that could take place.
- 4:59Speaker 2: That's interesting.
- 5:00Speaker 1: I didn't know that the smell goes into the food.
- 5:03Speaker 2: Because your but that you can can't be smelling of
- 5:06Speaker 2: Jean Paul.
- 5:10Speaker 7: It's my job to address this issue with the employees.
- 5:14Speaker 7: I have to tell them, like, guys, your perfume is
- 5:18Speaker 7: a little bit too strong. It's not allowed in the
- 5:21Speaker 7: factory because of our policies. Please only stick to the
- 5:25Speaker 7: oldren and they abide by it, They understand and it's
- 5:31Speaker 7: all good.
- 5:32Speaker 1: Do you have a culprit is breaking the rules every
- 5:34Speaker 1: now and again?
- 5:36Speaker 7: Yeah, we do. Unfortunately we have to go to the
- 5:39Speaker 7: HR procedure, which is not very pleasant.
- 5:45Speaker 2: Wild as well.
- 5:46Speaker 3: Now you get fired and then your your wife finds
- 5:49Speaker 3: you at home during the.
- 5:50Speaker 2: Day and she's like, what happened?
- 5:52Speaker 3: I got fired for for doing what?
- 5:55Speaker 1: Johnny Depp got you fired?
- 5:59Speaker 2: Divide. This is the reason I'm here.
- 6:02Speaker 8: I work in a laboratory, right, which comes with its
- 6:04Speaker 8: own smells and all of that. But there is this one, lady,
- 6:08Speaker 8: my word, it literally knocks the inside of my brain.
- 6:12Speaker 3: So uppendle today I cannot stand a red door perfume.
- 6:17Speaker 2: Yo, the tennis used to abuse that thing. Back in
- 6:20Speaker 2: the day. There was a guy at my work. He
- 6:23Speaker 2: smells so bad, and sometimes I just want to say, hey,
- 6:27Speaker 2: let's play a game. Let's all put an under dreads.
- 6:33Speaker 3: Tell you what I'm gonna spend the office chair, and
- 6:36Speaker 3: whoever it lands next to you, you must put on
- 6:39Speaker 3: perfume or you must put on row and.
- 6:41Speaker 2: You just take the changes. Singing at him, I had
- 6:44Speaker 2: a unip lance, good morning, good morning, guys, are you
- 6:48Speaker 2: how are you.
- 6:50Speaker 6: Good?
- 6:50Speaker 9: Thank you?
- 6:52Speaker 2: So you used to look at the.
- 6:53Speaker 9: Guy I used to work at a There was a
- 6:57Speaker 9: guy who used to switch like shake easy, and he
- 7:01Speaker 9: had canisters of ex bodies spray at his desk and
- 7:06Speaker 9: he would use those and the smells would like combine
- 7:10Speaker 9: and make this over day. And yeah, we started complaining.
- 7:16Speaker 9: We spoke to about but said, no, guys, you can't
- 7:19Speaker 9: tell him that. So we took it upon ourselves to
- 7:22Speaker 9: start a rumor the office. Eventually it got to him
- 7:26Speaker 9: and he was very embarrassed and he made a change.
- 7:29Speaker 1: Yeah, you see, but this is the problem. This is
- 7:31Speaker 1: why I say you can tell him, but take him,
- 7:34Speaker 1: take the person aside, and then directly tell him don't
- 7:37Speaker 1: be around the busher.
- 7:39Speaker 2: Hey, buddy, buddy, this is the case.
- 7:41Speaker 9: Like love, you love everything about it. So we also
- 7:44Speaker 9: don't want to get in trouble.
- 7:46Speaker 1: But now rumors even worse. That's why he gets embarrassed.
- 7:48Speaker 3: Here's an idea, and maybe Johanna's boog you can wait
- 7:52Speaker 3: in quickly on the voice not zero.
- 7:53Speaker 2: Eight four double zero double zero nine four seven.
- 7:56Speaker 3: Why do you guys have friends at work or your
- 7:58Speaker 3: work husband or your work wife, That person that you're
- 8:00Speaker 3: close to at work, that person should be allowed to
- 8:03Speaker 3: tell you things like that.
- 8:05Speaker 2: So what I would do in the in the policy at.
- 8:06Speaker 3: The bringing of their black guys, if ever we have
- 8:09Speaker 3: a sensitive issue that to discuss with you, we are
- 8:12Speaker 3: going to deploy your friend to do it in their
- 8:14Speaker 3: own time, in your own manner. Maybe when you guys
- 8:17Speaker 3: are having prints on a Friday. I really think we
- 8:21Speaker 3: a hundred people can't stuffer because of being polite.
- 8:24Speaker 2: Guys.
- 8:25Speaker 9: No, yeah, that's true. That's a very good idea.
- 8:28Speaker 1: Man. You know what the thing is for me? And
- 8:29Speaker 1: this is the question, Ayanda, Like you guys started this
- 8:32Speaker 1: rumor because you didn't want to tell him directly because
- 8:34Speaker 1: the boss said you weren't allowed to. But if there
- 8:35Speaker 1: was something in his teeth, would you say something?
- 8:40Speaker 9: I would say something, you see, because well, we had
- 8:44Speaker 9: a law for them, So you're going to be talking
- 8:45Speaker 9: to client.
- 8:49Speaker 1: Yeah. Usually if I had half a spinach hanging out
- 8:52Speaker 1: my mouth, I'd like someone to tell me that.
- 8:54Speaker 3: I'd be like, hey, spinach and fetter, you're missing the
- 8:57Speaker 3: fettereth nicer.
- 9:00Speaker 9: You finish on your teat is not as personal as
- 9:04Speaker 9: your body. Odor.
- 9:06Speaker 2: I don't know, I don't, don't tell me and mature.
- 9:10Speaker 1: Okay this lawyer, don't tell.
- 9:13Speaker 2: Me, and be wise. This is not the wise part
- 9:15Speaker 2: of the show that happens after seven o'clock. Thanks, and
- 9:18Speaker 2: my time. I wrap it up for us quickly. What
- 9:20Speaker 2: do you say.
- 9:23Speaker 6: If a person would tell me that, Hi, guys, sorry,
- 9:26Speaker 6: if a person would tell me that I smell, I
- 9:30Speaker 6: would take them to HR. But I can tell you
- 9:32Speaker 6: now I'm the person that if there's any person that
- 9:36Speaker 6: either uses too much perfume or they've got too much
- 9:39Speaker 6: older that is unpleasant. I would stand up and address
- 9:44Speaker 6: everyone and say, yo, guys, stop doing one, two, three,
- 9:47Speaker 6: and four and five. In that way, I did not
- 9:50Speaker 6: address a person, so no one can.
- 9:51Speaker 1: Take me to HR.
- 9:53Speaker 6: I've made it no, but I've made it.
- 9:56Speaker 2: Known that Okay, this is the situation. Please add dressed.
- 10:00Speaker 6: And people normally do address issues.
- 10:03Speaker 1: That I raise. Someone in here is wearing too much perfuse.
- 10:06Speaker 2: He's wearing too much perfume.
- 10:08Speaker 1: Everyone turns left to one person.
- 10:11Speaker 3: It's back to making your morning in La and the
- 10:15Speaker 3: Club on nine four seven