skinny.

Latest / Raising Boys & Girls

Episode 323: Understanding the Investigator and Enneagram 5's with David and Sissy

Enneagram Fives—the Investigators—bring curiosity, insight, independence, and a calming, steady presence to both life and parenting. Sissy and David highlight how Fives notice patterns others miss, think objectively, set healthy boundaries, and dive deep into learning. Their measured energy and calm in crisis can be a superpower at home, helping kids regulate and feel safe.

They also explore common stretches: retreating into the mind, mistaking self-protection for not needing relationships, cynicism/sarcasm when fear rises, and feeling drained by the constant demands of family life. The…

The skinny

The skinny isn't ready yet — notes appear once the transcript is processed.