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Romeo In The Morning 7-21-26 · Romeo In The Morning

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  Speaker 1: It was going on.
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  Speaker 2: It's Romeo and a guy was telling me that he
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  Speaker 2: wants to have more sex with his wife, but she
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  Speaker 2: has some pro condition that makes it uncomfortable for her.
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  Speaker 2: So we'll talk a little bit about that, and of
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  Speaker 2: course things that you'll never do again, or maybe things
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  Speaker 2: that you'll never stop doing. Let's go, all right, I
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  Speaker 2: got this, and I want to tell I thought this
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  Speaker 2: was funny. Hey, rome Yesterday at my job, we were
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  Speaker 2: talking about how I grew to love my now husband
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  Speaker 2: and how a lot of my coworkers did as well.
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  Speaker 1: But we had this one coworker.
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  Speaker 2: They said it was love at first sight with their husband,
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  Speaker 2: like she knew he was the one from day one.
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  Speaker 2: We ended up looking up how many Americans believe in
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  Speaker 2: love it first sight, and it was like fifty six percent.
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  Speaker 2: That's a lot of dumbass people, right, do you believe
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  Speaker 2: in love it first sight? First of all, I'm gonna
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  Speaker 2: tell you this. Your co worker is a jackass. Your
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  Speaker 2: co worker is trying to make herself better than you. Guys, like, oh,
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  Speaker 2: she's better than you because she knew the love of
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  Speaker 2: her life. It was love at first sight. You guys,
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  Speaker 2: actually maybe put in a little work. Maybe he you know,
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  Speaker 2: whatever the case. Maybe it's just like high school sweethearts.
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  Speaker 2: High school sweethearts think they're better than any other relationship.
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  Speaker 1: Oh we met when we.
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  Speaker 2: Were sixteen and we've been together. Yeah, you're not better.
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  Speaker 2: You're actually dumber because of all the things that you
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  Speaker 2: missed out on that you have to justify to yourself
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  Speaker 2: that it was some sort of love it first sight,
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  Speaker 2: fate that brought you together, and you disregard the fact
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  Speaker 2: of all the things you missed out on because you've
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  Speaker 2: only had sex with one person your entire life. Okay, Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: you didn't grow together. You missed out on everything together. Okay,
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  Speaker 2: that's really what it is. So your co worker over
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  Speaker 2: here is trying to make herself better, feel better, or
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  Speaker 2: you know, she trying to make herself feel.
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  Speaker 1: Better at your expense.
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  Speaker 2: Oh I knew it was love at first sight. Love
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  Speaker 2: it first sight does not excit. Okay, And I'm gonna
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  Speaker 2: tell you lust at first sight exists. The first thing
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  Speaker 2: you see when you're looking for somebody is their outward
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  Speaker 2: physical appearance. Okay, that's not love. Those butterflies in your
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  Speaker 2: heart is not love, it's lust. Okay, Love at first
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  Speaker 2: sight does not exist, and anybody that says it does
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  Speaker 2: is insecure and trying to make themselves feel better at
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  Speaker 2: your expense, or trying to justify their relationship. It's okay
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  Speaker 2: for you, like you said, it's okay for you to say,
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  Speaker 2: you know what, I grew to love my husband, because
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  Speaker 2: that's what dating is, growing, getting to know, falling in love.
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  Speaker 1: Okay.
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  Speaker 2: Anybody that says love at first sight, no, you're lying,
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  Speaker 2: trying to make yourself feel better. You want to make
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  Speaker 2: everybody else think that you're better than them, and you're not.
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  Speaker 2: ALRIGHTY four two, five four or seven to seven got
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  Speaker 2: this yesterday and I thought it was kind of an
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  Speaker 2: interesting topic about love.
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  Speaker 1: At first sight. They asked me if I believe in
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  Speaker 1: love it first sight. I don't.
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  Speaker 2: Hey, Romeo, yesterday my job, we were talking about how
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  Speaker 2: I grew to love my husband and how a lot
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  Speaker 2: of my coworkers did as well. But this one lady
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  Speaker 2: or one coworker said they had love at first sight
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  Speaker 2: with their husband, like she knew he was the one
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  Speaker 2: from day.
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  Speaker 1: One, and that is not.
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  Speaker 3: No.
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  Speaker 2: And first of all, knowing someone's the one from day
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  Speaker 2: one isn't love. You know, you just might like who
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  Speaker 2: they are as a person. It's not love. You don't
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  Speaker 2: just love somebody the first second you meet them. It's
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  Speaker 2: that this is so stupid. It's just people trying to
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  Speaker 2: make themselves be better than you. Like this whole we
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  Speaker 2: we have this relationship game, right, and the hierarchy of
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  Speaker 2: relationships is people who got married in college are people
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  Speaker 2: who got married, you know, out of high school. Supposedly
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  Speaker 2: they're the big winners because they didn't have to go
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  Speaker 2: through a lot of dating, they didn't have to meet
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  Speaker 2: different people. It's just like the person who got married
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  Speaker 2: in high school. They'll make fun of the person who
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  Speaker 2: maybe is on their second marriage, and their second marriage
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  Speaker 2: may be better than your marriage that you got in
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  Speaker 2: high school. But because you didn't have to go through one,
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  Speaker 2: yeah you've won, all right. And so we ended up
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  Speaker 2: looking up how many Americans believe in love at first sight?
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  Speaker 2: It was fifty six percent. With what a lot of
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  Speaker 2: dumbass people out there? Do you believe in love and
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  Speaker 2: first sight? Is what they ask me?
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  Speaker 1: And I don't.
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  Speaker 2: I don't already four two, five, four, seven to seven.
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  Speaker 2: Hey Romeo, I believe in love at first sight. My
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  Speaker 2: wife and I met in high school. We've been together
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  Speaker 2: for twenty five years, so I think you're wrong. Being
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  Speaker 2: together for twenty five years has nothing to do with
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  Speaker 2: love at first sight. And if you think you're in
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  Speaker 2: love this, if you think you meeting in high school.
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  Speaker 1: In high school, you're a dumb ass kid. You don't
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  Speaker 1: know what love is. You're an idiot. So to sit
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  Speaker 1: there and have the audacity.
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  Speaker 2: To go, you know what, I met my wife in
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  Speaker 2: high school and it was love at first sight.
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  Speaker 1: No, it wasn't. You don't even know what love.
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  Speaker 2: Is at that age, all righty four two five four
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  Speaker 2: seven seventh. So do you believe in love at first sight?
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  Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell you right now if you do, Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: we need to have a conversation. This text message from
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  Speaker 2: a woman who says at my job, they were talking
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  Speaker 2: about how we how I grew to love my husband,
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  Speaker 2: and how a lot of my coworkers did as well.
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  Speaker 2: But this one woman or one coworker said they had
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  Speaker 2: love at first sight. Roome, do you believe in love
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  Speaker 2: it first sight?
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  Speaker 4: No?
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  Speaker 2: I believe she was doing that to try to make
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  Speaker 2: herself and her relationship look better than yours. That's all
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  Speaker 2: of us already. Four two five four is seven to seven,
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  Speaker 2: good morning to how what's going on?
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  Speaker 5: By?
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  Speaker 1: What's up?
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  Speaker 5: Talking about love at first guy?
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  Speaker 1: Yes, she ain't.
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  Speaker 2: Alrighty fourteen five, four seven seven, all right, So love
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  Speaker 2: it first sight? Is it real? No, it's not real.
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  Speaker 2: It is lust at first sight. Okay, then you learned,
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  Speaker 2: then you get to know somebody, then you fall in
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  Speaker 2: love with them. That all started because this woman had
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  Speaker 2: sent me a text me and says, hey rom Yesterday
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  Speaker 2: at my job we were talking about how I grew
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  Speaker 2: to love my husband now, and a lot of my
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  Speaker 2: coworkers did as well. But there was one coworker who said, no,
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  Speaker 2: she was love at first sight, and she's wrong.
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  Speaker 1: It wasn't love at first sight. You said that.
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  Speaker 2: Your coworker said that because she wants to floss on
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  Speaker 2: you guys.
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  Speaker 1: She wants to.
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  Speaker 2: Make her relationship better than your relationship, and that's not true.
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  Speaker 2: Love it first sight don't exist unless you're an insecure
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  Speaker 2: psychopath who has.
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  Speaker 1: You know, daddy issues. What is that?
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  Speaker 2: What is it?
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  Speaker 1: What is that? Cleaner?
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  Speaker 2: A stage five clinger? Yeah, remember when that was a thing.
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  Speaker 2: You got into a relationship too fast? Right already four
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  Speaker 2: two five, four, seven to seven. But no, there's nothing
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  Speaker 2: wrong with learning to love somebody. I mean, there are
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  Speaker 2: people that have been in relationships for years now that
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  Speaker 2: will tell you, Hey, I love my partner more today
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  Speaker 2: than I did when I met them.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, of course you do, because you have more.
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  Speaker 2: Life together, you've bond. Your bond has got closer and
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  Speaker 2: closer over the years. How can you sit there and say,
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  Speaker 2: the first time you see somebody you're in love with them.
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  Speaker 2: Doesn't that seem a little psychotic already? Four two, five,
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  Speaker 2: four or seven at seven? Rome I don't believe in
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  Speaker 2: love it first sight, but I do believe in sex
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  Speaker 2: the first night. A Hey Romeo, you're just bitter because
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  Speaker 2: you don't know what love is.
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  Speaker 1: That's why you say that.
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  Speaker 2: Or maybe I'm smarter than you and I understand how
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  Speaker 2: humans act with each other and how you justify your
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  Speaker 2: lives to make yourselves feel better. I got this text message,
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  Speaker 2: but I thought was kind of funny. It says, hey, Romeo.
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  Speaker 2: Yesterday at my job, we were talking about how I
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  Speaker 2: grew to love my husband and how a lot of
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  Speaker 2: my coworkers did as well. But we had one coworker
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  Speaker 2: say they had love it first sight with their husband.
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  Speaker 2: She knew he was the one from day one. We
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  Speaker 2: ended up looking up how many Americans believe in love
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  Speaker 2: it first sight, and it's about fifty six percent. It's
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  Speaker 2: a lot of dumbass people. Do you believe in love
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  Speaker 2: it first sight?
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  Speaker 1: No, I don't.
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  Speaker 2: I believe in lust at first sight. I believe you
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  Speaker 2: see somebody and you're attracted to them, and if you
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  Speaker 2: mistake it for love, then you probably should go to therapy.
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  Speaker 1: But no, you know who came up with love at
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  Speaker 1: first sight?
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  Speaker 2: Women who are trying to justify the fact that they
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  Speaker 2: jumped into bed with the dude on the first date.
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  Speaker 2: Those are the love at first sight girls. Alrighty four, two, five, four,
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  Speaker 2: seven to seven. Hey, roam, I believe love at first
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  Speaker 2: sight is just a myth. You can see someone for
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  Speaker 2: the first time and feel a connection when you guys interact,
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  Speaker 2: but that's not love.
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  Speaker 1: It isn't love. That's the point. Yeah, you're absolutely right.
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  Speaker 1: It's not love.
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  Speaker 2: It's something and but you know, it may be it
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  Speaker 2: may be something, but it's not love. It may be lust,
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  Speaker 2: it may be I don't know. It just two people
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  Speaker 2: meet and you get along, you know, think of it.
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  Speaker 2: Think of it also in this way, like you have
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  Speaker 2: you've ever met a person, uh maybe it's your best
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  Speaker 2: friend now and you.
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  Speaker 1: Have a you just you get along with each other.
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  Speaker 1: It's not love, you know.
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  Speaker 2: Have you guys ever gone out of town, go to bars,
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  Speaker 2: you meet somebody, maybe you meet whoever, guy, girl, whatever, couple, whatever,
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  Speaker 2: and you guys just kind of have a rapport.
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  Speaker 1: It's not love.
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  Speaker 2: Already four two, five, four or seven to seven? What
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  Speaker 2: else do you send me here? Hey? Rome, not love
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  Speaker 2: it for love at first night don't exist.
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  Speaker 1: You fall in love with time of knowing your soulmate.
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  Speaker 2: I was thirty years old when I fell in love,
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  Speaker 2: real love. I'm thirty seven years now and I'm still
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  Speaker 2: in love with him, even though he went his own
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  Speaker 2: way and me mine. Okay, okay, might want to let
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  Speaker 2: that go, but okay, but that's what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 1: Love is a learned behavior.
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  Speaker 2: That two people build together based on life, based on experiences,
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  Speaker 2: based on communication, based on respect, based on all these factors,
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  Speaker 2: and you learn to trust somebody you learned. Love it
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  Speaker 2: first sight is so ridiculous, Like I said, your coworker
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  Speaker 2: only said that because she is she for some reason,
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  Speaker 2: she wants to make you, guys believe that her relationship
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  Speaker 2: is better than yours because oh, it happened immediately, and
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  Speaker 2: it didn't.
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  Speaker 1: She's lying. Lady texted me. Instead, her and coworkers were
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  Speaker 1: talking about love at first sight.
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  Speaker 2: She was talking about how she grew to love her husband,
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  Speaker 2: and a lot of her coworkers said the same thing.
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  Speaker 2: But one, there's always one right, came out and said, No,
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  Speaker 2: me and my husband we were love at first sight.
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  Speaker 1: No, you weren't.
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  Speaker 2: Stop trying to make yourself out to be something that
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  Speaker 2: you're not. Like you're you know, like you won the
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  Speaker 2: relationship game, and your coworkers the rest of them didn't
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  Speaker 2: because it took time to fall in love with their husband,
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  Speaker 2: which is what really happens your partner. You don't love
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  Speaker 2: them at first, you learn to love them and by
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  Speaker 2: your life's experiences as a relationship as a couple already
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  Speaker 2: four two five four or seven seven eight?
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  Speaker 5: Room.
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  Speaker 1: I wonder if that man thinks it was love at
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  Speaker 1: first sight or is she just psycho? GOODR you not?
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  Speaker 1: What's up? Gians?
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  Speaker 2: Going on?
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  Speaker 5: Ain't no love at first sight?
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  Speaker 1: I know?
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  Speaker 5: Okay?
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  Speaker 6: So when I the first time I ever saw my
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  Speaker 6: ex husband, I knew he was the one The one
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  Speaker 6: I was gonna marry, but there was no love. There
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  Speaker 6: there was I'm sorry there was less.
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  Speaker 5: There is less big time.
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  Speaker 6: It's didn't a while to get that love. So obviously
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  Speaker 6: it wasn't loved because we were divorced.
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  Speaker 5: Now we were married twenty years old.
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  Speaker 1: You could still be in love. I mean you could
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  Speaker 1: still learn to love somebody. Divorce somebody.
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  Speaker 6: I have to learn and love somebody, because once you
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  Speaker 6: move in together, it's a whole new faull.
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  Speaker 1: Let me ask you this question, are you still in
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  Speaker 1: love with him?
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  Speaker 5: I love him, I have feelings, but with him, I'm
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  Speaker 5: not in love with him.
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  Speaker 2: I would do anything for that man.
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  Speaker 4: But he's not my husband, he's not my boy. He's
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  Speaker 4: nothing to me right now.
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  Speaker 2: He's just my kidding's father.
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  Speaker 6: But yes, I still love him.
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  Speaker 5: I will do for.
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  Speaker 1: Him and the only ones.
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  Speaker 2: The only reason I said that is because to say
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  Speaker 2: you're in love with somebody, which means you can fall
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  Speaker 2: out of love with somebody and in it. Yeah, so
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  Speaker 2: anybody said there, oh it was love at first sight.
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  Speaker 1: No it wasn't because it didn't.
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  Speaker 4: You have to know a person to really love them.
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  Speaker 6: Oh, yeah, there's no love efforts, So you saw something
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  Speaker 6: did that's what it.
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  Speaker 5: Is, that's all it is.
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  Speaker 1: Or she gave it up on the first night and
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  Speaker 1: had to justify it. I got pregnant, We're not what's
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  Speaker 1: going on, and morning brow me out.
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  Speaker 6: So a few weeks back, I'm not sure if you recalled,
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  Speaker 6: but we were talking about how like some relationships that
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  Speaker 6: start by like the man just moving in and like
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  Speaker 6: never leaving. I'm not sure if you're.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah I thought that. Yeah, I remember that.
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  Speaker 1: I remember that.
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  Speaker 6: Okay, yeah, this lady is giving me that vibe. Maybe
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  Speaker 6: the guy just moved in and ever left, because there's
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  Speaker 6: no way, there's no such thing.
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  Speaker 3: As love at first sight.
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  Speaker 6: Like you have to grow to the to find the
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  Speaker 6: person that you like, Like you have to kind of
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  Speaker 6: like grow to know who they are. Like I'm sure
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  Speaker 6: she didn't look at this guy was like, oh my god,
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  Speaker 6: I love everything about you when you don't know anything
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  Speaker 6: about them, you know what I mean?
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  Speaker 1: Absolutely absolutely think it's just crazy.
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  Speaker 2: Though that Yeah, but I'll see this.
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  Speaker 1: It's crazy that somebody.
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  Speaker 6: Moves in, one of them moved in and never left.
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  Speaker 1: That's what it is.
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  Speaker 2: That is the most insane thing, all right, That is
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  Speaker 2: the most that is the dumbest thing ever. Although I
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  Speaker 2: do know a couple. I do know one couple that
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  Speaker 2: got married. My friend's parents got married. They went out
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  Speaker 2: for two days, got married, They were together two days met,
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  Speaker 2: went out first date, and were married. I think they
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  Speaker 2: were married within a couple of days of meeting each other,
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  Speaker 2: which I thought was kind of weird.
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  Speaker 1: But yeah, what's wrong?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah?
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  Speaker 2: What up?
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  Speaker 5: I always thought the man.
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  Speaker 3: Always our right.
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  Speaker 4: I fall in love, take my money.
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  Speaker 1: I don't you feel the same, but I love You're
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  Speaker 1: an idiot.
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  Speaker 5: Oh.
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  Speaker 2: I got this text message. It was a rough one. Boys,
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  Speaker 2: I don't know how we're going to handle this. It says, okay,
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  Speaker 2: so I'm trying to find out how much of a
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  Speaker 2: bad guy I am.
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  Speaker 1: Romeo.
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  Speaker 2: My wife and I are in our forties now. Sex
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  Speaker 2: has slowed down to once a month if I'm lucky.
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  Speaker 2: She has an enlarged bladder, so she gets ut. I
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  Speaker 2: s a lot, and she says sex hurts. The messed
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  Speaker 2: up part is I have to give her massages every night,
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  Speaker 2: and it drives me crazy because she's really sexy to me.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know how to fix the urge to find
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  Speaker 2: I don't know how to fix the urge to find
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  Speaker 2: sex somewhere else, so you don't want to cheat on
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  Speaker 2: your wife. You still love her, you still like her,
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  Speaker 2: she's still sexy to you. She just has a medical
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  Speaker 2: condition that doesn't allow her to have sex with you
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  Speaker 2: as much as you like. Wow, that's a tough one.
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  Speaker 2: She's maybe a lot of self love, bro.
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  Speaker 1: I mean I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: Wow, that's just tough. Already four two five, four or
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  Speaker 2: seven to seven.
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  Speaker 1: Maybe maybe she can do some other thing.
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  Speaker 2: Maybe she can massage you instead of actually having sex,
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  Speaker 2: you can do that more.
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  Speaker 1: I just wow. Yeah, that's a that's a tough one.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, you never want to have it's a tough
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  Speaker 2: Maybe she should let you go have sex with other people,
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  Speaker 2: you know.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a tough one.
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  Speaker 2: Man. Already four two five, four or seven to seven. Oh,
• 16:55
  Speaker 2: man is in a real predicament when it comes to
• 16:57
  Speaker 2: his wife. There's nothing worse than still finding your wife
• 17:00
  Speaker 2: sexy and loving and wanting to have sex with her
• 17:03
  Speaker 2: and she can't.
• 17:04
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's tough.
• 17:05
  Speaker 2: Already four two five, four or seven to seven. Guys
• 17:08
  Speaker 2: sent me a text mentione. Man, this is a rough situation,
• 17:11
  Speaker 2: and I know what you guys are gonna say. I
• 17:12
  Speaker 2: already know what you guys are gonna say when you
• 17:14
  Speaker 2: text me or call me A four two, five, four,
• 17:16
  Speaker 2: seven to seven.
• 17:18
  Speaker 1: Okay, So I'm trying to find out how much of
• 17:20
  Speaker 1: a bad guy I am.
• 17:22
  Speaker 2: My wife and I are in our forties now. Sex
• 17:24
  Speaker 2: has slowed down through to to around once a month
• 17:27
  Speaker 2: if I'm lucky. She has an enlarge bladder, so she
• 17:30
  Speaker 2: gets UTIs a lot, and she says sex hurt. The
• 17:33
  Speaker 2: messed up part is I have to give her massages
• 17:35
  Speaker 2: every night and drives me crazy because she's sexy to me,
• 17:38
  Speaker 2: and I don't know how to fix the urge to
• 17:40
  Speaker 2: go have sex with other people. It's a that's a
• 17:42
  Speaker 2: tough situation, right, I mean, the other the worst than
• 17:46
  Speaker 2: your wife being you know, still sexy to you and
• 17:48
  Speaker 2: you want her and for some reason you can't have sex,
• 17:51
  Speaker 2: especially a medical thing. I mean, I don't know anything
• 17:53
  Speaker 2: about uh in large. Is there something she can do
• 17:57
  Speaker 2: for that? Is there is there a medical Is there a.
• 18:00
  Speaker 1: Well she can take? I don't know. I don't know
• 18:01
  Speaker 1: anything about that.
• 18:02
  Speaker 2: I'm not a doctor. So is there anything that could
• 18:05
  Speaker 2: be done to alleviate that situation for her? Medically? I mean,
• 18:09
  Speaker 2: that would be my first question. Have you guys looked
• 18:11
  Speaker 2: into that?
• 18:12
  Speaker 1: Alrighty? Four two, five, four or seven seven?
• 18:16
  Speaker 2: Yo?
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: Rome, this is what I thought.
• 18:19
  Speaker 2: This is exactly what I thought you were guys were
• 18:21
  Speaker 2: gonna say. Her mouth doesn't have a uti. Oh maybe what.
• 18:31
  Speaker 1: Somebody else text today? Watch Rome.
• 18:32
  Speaker 2: The first call is gonna be she's cheating exactly. That's
• 18:36
  Speaker 2: where I actually thought you guys were gonna go with it.
• 18:38
  Speaker 2: I thought you were gonna say, oh, she's cheating, Romeo.
• 18:41
  Speaker 2: She's cheating, Romeo. That's why she's just lying about having
• 18:44
  Speaker 2: a enlarge bladder. I don't know that that's true. You
• 18:48
  Speaker 2: guys went the other way with it, but I mean,
• 18:51
  Speaker 2: it's just I don't even know what to say. First
• 18:53
  Speaker 2: of all, have you seen a doctor. She's seen a
• 18:54
  Speaker 2: doctor's there's something that can be done about it to hopefully,
• 18:57
  Speaker 2: you know, first get her healthy and then maybe that'll
• 19:00
  Speaker 2: change already four two five, four or seven to seven.
• 19:04
  Speaker 1: I don't know, man, that's a that's a tough deal.
• 19:09
  Speaker 2: Well, this is a rough dude. Man, This dude's going
• 19:10
  Speaker 2: through a rough time right now, which I actually don't know.
• 19:15
  Speaker 2: He says, Okay, Rom, So I'm trying to find out
• 19:17
  Speaker 2: how much of a bad guy am. My wife and
• 19:18
  Speaker 2: I are in our forties now, sex has slowed down
• 19:21
  Speaker 2: to once a month if I'm lucky. She has an
• 19:23
  Speaker 2: enlarge bladder, so she gets UTIs a lot and she
• 19:26
  Speaker 2: and she says sex hurts. The messed up part is
• 19:29
  Speaker 2: I have to give her massages every night and drives
• 19:31
  Speaker 2: me crazy because she's sexy to me. I don't know
• 19:34
  Speaker 2: how to fix it. Oh, I don't know how to
• 19:36
  Speaker 2: fix the urge to find sex somewhere else, which I mean,
• 19:42
  Speaker 2: first of all, is there and I don't know? I mean,
• 19:45
  Speaker 2: you ladies will know how UTI works. Is there a
• 19:51
  Speaker 2: a medical procedure or something that could help with that
• 19:55
  Speaker 2: so that she doesn't have so she doesn't get these
• 19:58
  Speaker 2: UTI's a lot and or something that she could do
• 20:02
  Speaker 2: to feel better.
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: First, from a.
• 20:04
  Speaker 2: Medical standpoint, then maybe sex won't hurt. The other thing is,
• 20:10
  Speaker 2: I mean, what do you do when what does he do?
• 20:14
  Speaker 2: He still loves her, still finds her sexy, wants to
• 20:17
  Speaker 2: have said. They're in their forties. Okay, so sex is
• 20:21
  Speaker 2: not off the table anymore. I mean, I'm gonna be
• 20:25
  Speaker 2: honest with you. Would you let your husband if you
• 20:28
  Speaker 2: couldn't have sex with him, would you let him have
• 20:31
  Speaker 2: sex with somebody else and let me put it to
• 20:33
  Speaker 2: you like this, and not somebody else but an actual
• 20:38
  Speaker 2: pro a prostitute, because then it's just a transactual sexual.
• 20:43
  Speaker 2: You know, Then it's just transactual Unlike if he had
• 20:47
  Speaker 2: sex with somebody else, might fall in love might you
• 20:50
  Speaker 2: know whatever, you can't fall in love with with the prostitute.
• 20:52
  Speaker 2: I don't think at least that you don't go in
• 20:54
  Speaker 2: with that mindset. But if he starts having sex with
• 20:57
  Speaker 2: somebody else just for the sexual part of it, because
• 20:59
  Speaker 2: it's I can't have it and he still has the
• 21:01
  Speaker 2: love and relationship with.
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: His wife, does uh? Is that wrong? Maybe she did?
• 21:08
  Speaker 2: Maybe she lets you see a prostitute once in a while.
• 21:11
  Speaker 2: Already four four or seven to seven, Good morning Romeo.
• 21:15
  Speaker 2: He better start asking his wife about her mouth.
• 21:17
  Speaker 3: See.
• 21:18
  Speaker 2: But seriously, if she can't have regular sex with her husband,
• 21:22
  Speaker 2: she should figure out ways to satisfy him differently.
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: I mean, maybe that's what it is. Maybe that's enough.
• 21:31
  Speaker 2: I don't know. That is a very good question, though,
• 21:35
  Speaker 2: But my first question would be, can you do something?
• 21:39
  Speaker 2: Can you go see a doctor? Can she do something?
• 21:42
  Speaker 2: Medically that will make her feel better?
• 21:45
  Speaker 3: Is that?
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: Am I wrong?
• 21:47
  Speaker 2: Is that not an option already? Four two four or
• 21:51
  Speaker 2: seven to seven? That sounds like the best plan, if
• 21:54
  Speaker 2: that's possible. All Right, So this guy texted me and
• 21:57
  Speaker 2: he doesn't know what to do, right, he says, Okay,
• 21:59
  Speaker 2: Rome trying to find out how much of a bad
• 22:01
  Speaker 2: guy am My wife and I are in our forties now,
• 22:04
  Speaker 2: sex has slowed down to once a month if I'm lucky.
• 22:06
  Speaker 2: She has an in large bladder, so she gets UTI's
• 22:09
  Speaker 2: a lot. She says, sex hurts. The messed up part
• 22:11
  Speaker 2: is I have to give her massages every night, and
• 22:13
  Speaker 2: it drives me crazy because she's still sexy to me.
• 22:16
  Speaker 2: I don't know how to figure out how to fix
• 22:18
  Speaker 2: the urge to find sex somewhere else. Well, I don't
• 22:20
  Speaker 2: know that you're ever gonna fix that urge, right, I mean,
• 22:24
  Speaker 2: if you're not having sex.
• 22:26
  Speaker 1: Whether you you know you can or can't, whether you love.
• 22:30
  Speaker 2: Your wife or not, or find your sexy or not,
• 22:33
  Speaker 2: I don't know that you're ever gonna fix that urge.
• 22:36
  Speaker 2: I guess the real question is if you actually do it,
• 22:42
  Speaker 2: what do you do? Arentie four two five, four seven
• 22:46
  Speaker 2: to seven morning, Rome, ask her how her hands are?
• 22:49
  Speaker 2: Her hands feel good? Guys, I mean there are other
• 22:56
  Speaker 2: ways to pleasure each other.
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: Absolutely. I don't disagree with what you guys are saying.
• 23:04
  Speaker 2: But she has some sort of medical condition, right, so
• 23:09
  Speaker 2: maybe we figure out how to fix the medical condition
• 23:13
  Speaker 2: and then see where we go from there. I'm not
• 23:16
  Speaker 2: really sure, Rome, did he forget there are other places too? Well?
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: I mean it just it sounds so.
• 23:35
  Speaker 2: It sounds so juvenile when you guys text me this stuff.
• 23:38
  Speaker 2: But in all fairness, you're not wrong. There are other
• 23:44
  Speaker 2: ways to do things. There are other ways to do
• 23:47
  Speaker 2: sexual things for pleasure.
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: Okay, So.
• 23:51
  Speaker 2: Have you had that conversation with her yet? Are you
• 23:54
  Speaker 2: nervous to have that conversation with her? I mean, you
• 23:58
  Speaker 2: guys are still really young and you're four. I mean
• 24:03
  Speaker 2: you're gonna end up cheating on her, and not out
• 24:06
  Speaker 2: of any malice, but I yeah, I mean I don't.
• 24:11
  Speaker 1: You're in a bad spot.
• 24:13
  Speaker 2: You're gonna have to figure out other ways to get
• 24:16
  Speaker 2: your needs met. Let me put it in Michael Bean terms.
• 24:18
  Speaker 2: You're gonna have to find other ways to get your
• 24:21
  Speaker 2: needs met from your wife, and you're gonna have to
• 24:23
  Speaker 2: have that conversation about it, and is she I mean,
• 24:28
  Speaker 2: does she not wanna? I guess the next question would
• 24:32
  Speaker 2: be how does she feel about the fact that you
• 24:35
  Speaker 2: you guys are not having sex?
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: Is she upset about it?
• 24:39
  Speaker 2: Does it bother her? Or is she just well, I'm
• 24:43
  Speaker 2: sick and I can't have sex. Is she nonchalant about it?
• 24:46
  Speaker 2: I mean, that's that's another question. Is she feels a
• 24:50
  Speaker 2: certain way about it? And maybe you need to have
• 24:54
  Speaker 2: a conversation about other ways to get your needs? Bet
• 24:57
  Speaker 2: already four two, five, four or seven to seven, And
• 25:00
  Speaker 2: I got this text message, Hey roam, So I'm trying
• 25:03
  Speaker 2: to find out how much a bad guy I am.
• 25:04
  Speaker 2: My wife and I are in our forties. Now sex
• 25:06
  Speaker 2: will slowed down to once a month if I am lucky.
• 25:08
  Speaker 2: She has a large bladder, so she gets UTI's a
• 25:11
  Speaker 2: lot and sex hurts for her. The messed up part
• 25:14
  Speaker 2: is I have to give her massages every night. Drives
• 25:16
  Speaker 2: me crazy because she's still sexy to me. I don't
• 25:19
  Speaker 2: know how to fix the urge to find sex somewhere else.
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that is a problem. Eight four, two five, four
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: seven seven Would you send me hey Romeo? It's like
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: warm apple pie. I don't what is that from? I
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: don't I don't know what that's. Oh, is that from
• 25:41
  Speaker 1: that old movie, that old whatever that movie was. I
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: don't even know the name.
• 25:46
  Speaker 2: Of it already, four two, five, four, seven to seven.
• 25:50
  Speaker 2: My question, though, is have you had a conversation about it?
• 25:53
  Speaker 2: Have you talked about it? Have you went to see
• 25:55
  Speaker 2: a doctor? Have you tried that first? And then after that?
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: If there's no.
• 26:04
  Speaker 2: Medical you know, there's nothing medically that can be done
• 26:09
  Speaker 2: to help her get better, then if you tried other
• 26:12
  Speaker 2: ways to get your needs met, and then if that
• 26:15
  Speaker 2: doesn't work or she doesn't want to do that, then
• 26:19
  Speaker 2: maybe you gotta start looking at, you know, prostitutes. Maybe
• 26:24
  Speaker 2: she'll let you do that.
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: That's just Yeah, Hey, Rome.
• 26:29
  Speaker 2: Tell him to wear a uh, tell him to wear
• 26:33
  Speaker 2: a condom so he's not throwing her pH balance off?
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: Is that real?
• 26:40
  Speaker 2: Yeah? I don't know anything about UTIs. I don't know
• 26:42
  Speaker 2: anything about him. There's got Is there something medically that
• 26:45
  Speaker 2: can be done?
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: I don't know.
• 26:47
  Speaker 2: Is that true what you just said about the condom?
• 26:50
  Speaker 2: I don't know already four two, five, four or seven seven.
• 26:53
  Speaker 2: But there's got to be a solution somewhere, right, You
• 26:56
  Speaker 2: can't just expect him to not have sex with his
• 26:59
  Speaker 2: wife anymore, right in their forties?
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: Is that that's too much to ask? Right?
• 27:04
  Speaker 2: Hey, I got the hall pown.
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: Yeah, coach, now you got perfect.
• 27:10
  Speaker 5: My daughter needs a lot of backpacks.
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: Such all right, well you got that Hall pass Rodriguez
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: and Associates. So you're gonna get a backpack full school supplies.
• 27:22
  Speaker 2: And then some of them have grand prizes in them,
• 27:24
  Speaker 2: like laptops and gift cards and things like that.
• 27:26
  Speaker 1: Okay, oh heck yeah, man, all right, brother, what's your name?
• 27:31
  Speaker 1: All right, hold on a second, we'll get you all
• 27:33
  Speaker 1: the details. Okay, all right, all right, everybody, So we only.
• 27:37
  Speaker 2: Got ninety four backpacks, so we're giving them away. You
• 27:40
  Speaker 2: gotta win one of those Hall passes to.
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: Get a backpack.
• 27:44
  Speaker 2: Daniel Regus Rodriguez and Associates is helping us out like
• 27:48
  Speaker 2: he does every single year.
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: I don't want you guys to forget though.
• 27:53
  Speaker 2: On August fifth, we're also gonna be getting your kids haircuts,
• 27:57
  Speaker 2: you know, get Faded barber and beauty school. They are
• 28:01
  Speaker 2: they do it every year with us. They're amazing. It's
• 28:04
  Speaker 2: absolutely free. The first ninety four kids get at an
• 28:07
  Speaker 2: absolute free haircut for school, and then after that, I
• 28:10
  Speaker 2: think they're six bucks. But yeah, we'll get your kids
• 28:13
  Speaker 2: ready for school. There's nothing better than getting a fresh
• 28:15
  Speaker 2: haircut for school, right. So a guy was having some
• 28:19
  Speaker 2: problems with his wife because she's got a medical issue,
• 28:23
  Speaker 2: and I guess she just, you know, she can't be
• 28:26
  Speaker 2: as sexually active as he wants.
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: What did you send me here? Hey, come going to Rome.
• 28:32
  Speaker 2: Tell that guy to go to a hustler Hollywood. They
• 28:35
  Speaker 2: have options that he needs. My man works in Texas
• 28:39
  Speaker 2: and your girl has. My man works in Texas, your
• 28:42
  Speaker 2: girl has needs. I did some shopping there and I'm
• 28:45
  Speaker 2: able to satisfy myself until he comes home. No need
• 28:50
  Speaker 2: to cheat, I mean, it's a little bit of a
• 28:54
  Speaker 2: different scenario. I get what you're saying. I mean, it
• 28:57
  Speaker 2: makes a lot of sense. There is no reason to cheat.
• 28:59
  Speaker 2: But the guys, I mean, obviously, the guy said he
• 29:02
  Speaker 2: still loves hers. Why his wife is hot to him?
• 29:04
  Speaker 1: He's still into her.
• 29:06
  Speaker 2: She just has a medical issue that you know, makes
• 29:08
  Speaker 2: it difficult for her to, you know, to have sex
• 29:12
  Speaker 2: or want to have sex. So he's not getting into
• 29:15
  Speaker 2: It's just a tough situation to deal with. I mean
• 29:18
  Speaker 2: your situation. I get your man's out of town. You
• 29:20
  Speaker 2: need to handle business by yourself till.
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: He gets back.
• 29:25
  Speaker 2: So I well, I guess he was saying what they
• 29:28
  Speaker 2: had sex like once a month or something. I mean, okay, yeah,
• 29:33
  Speaker 2: I mean you're right. I don't know what other options
• 29:36
  Speaker 2: there are, but yeah, you're right to your text messages
• 29:39
  Speaker 2: and what you've sent me about the situation.
• 29:41
  Speaker 1: You know, Rome, Yeah, the wife can have sex with Uh. Oh,
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: you guys are so stupid. Sometimes you guys say dumb.
• 29:49
  Speaker 2: Thing is a serious situation. We've had conversations like this
• 29:52
  Speaker 2: before in the past. You know, people in relationships having
• 29:56
  Speaker 2: problems and how they're trying to help them Egg one
• 29:59
  Speaker 2: to Rome, Yeah, that's really a tough topic today. One,
• 30:02
  Speaker 2: she's willing to be intimate with him, but it's uncomfortable
• 30:05
  Speaker 2: for her. Two, there are more ways that she can
• 30:09
  Speaker 2: take care of him. Three, if she's not willing to
• 30:12
  Speaker 2: take care of him, then she needs to give him
• 30:14
  Speaker 2: a hall pass because as men, we have needs too,
• 30:19
  Speaker 2: and if those needs don't get taken care of, that's
• 30:22
  Speaker 2: when temptation starts to creep in. Well, I mean, he
• 30:25
  Speaker 2: made it very clear that he's still very much in
• 30:28
  Speaker 2: love with his wife even though she has a medical condition.
• 30:31
  Speaker 2: I mean, he did make it very clear though that he, yeah,
• 30:37
  Speaker 2: that he still wants his wife. He doesn't want to
• 30:41
  Speaker 2: be intimate with somebody else. But I get what you're saying.
• 30:46
  Speaker 2: It's just a hard situation, right agobarn and Romeo. As
• 30:49
  Speaker 2: for allowing him to have sex with someone else would
• 30:53
  Speaker 2: be a would be he too well, would be held
• 30:59
  Speaker 2: in the No for me, she can do other things
• 31:02
  Speaker 2: if she really wanted to take care of her man,
• 31:05
  Speaker 2: just my opinion.
• 31:07
  Speaker 1: You know, you guys keep saying that other things, but
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: other things are not sex.
• 31:19
  Speaker 2: In a in kind of a traditional way of speaking,
• 31:22
  Speaker 2: other thing. I mean, I don't know, Like I said, Man,
• 31:26
  Speaker 2: it's a tough it's a tough scenario. It's a tough situation,
• 31:30
  Speaker 2: you know. I mean, obviously the conversation is they still
• 31:34
  Speaker 2: love each other. She just has a medical issue that
• 31:37
  Speaker 2: kind of prevents her or prevents her from, you know,
• 31:42
  Speaker 2: from sex with her husband. Already four two five, four
• 31:46
  Speaker 2: seven to seven. Let's see here, good morning, Romeo. Let's
• 31:51
  Speaker 2: see a sex doll replica of his wife. Rome That's
• 31:54
  Speaker 2: what he needs to get. The way they're making robots
• 31:59
  Speaker 2: nowadays artificial intelligence, you might be able to do that.
• 32:02
  Speaker 1: To be honest with you anyway, poor guy, he loves
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: his wife.
• 32:07
  Speaker 2: There are issues in the bedroom because well, she has
• 32:10
  Speaker 2: a medical issue and a medical issue where she just
• 32:12
  Speaker 2: doesn't feel comfortable having sex as much as he'd like it.
• 32:17
  Speaker 1: He doesn't want sex with anybody else. He wants his wife.
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: He doesn't know what to do. Is in a tough position.
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: They're both in a tough position, right, all.
• 32:27
  Speaker 2: Righty four for seven to seven egg morning, Romeo. There
• 32:31
  Speaker 2: is a medication, and there is more than one way. Well, see,
• 32:37
  Speaker 2: you guys keep trying to say that there's well there's
• 32:39
  Speaker 2: more than one way, but that's.
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: Not what he wants, you know. That's I mean, I
• 32:44
  Speaker 1: guess I don't know. I really don't know what the
• 32:47
  Speaker 1: option is, to be honest with you, because.
• 32:52
  Speaker 2: It's a tough position to be in from both parts.
• 32:55
  Speaker 2: You know, it's probably it's not like she doesn't want
• 32:57
  Speaker 2: to have sex with her husband. She just saw a
• 32:59
  Speaker 2: medical issue that makes it uncomfortable for you can't blame
• 33:04
  Speaker 2: her for that, you know, So what do you do? Hey,
• 33:08
  Speaker 2: Rome and my girl gets going about her pain. I
• 33:12
  Speaker 2: know the girls at the the vou won't that's very uh,
• 33:19
  Speaker 2: that's very respectful of you, yo, Rome, Hey, Romeo, she
• 33:24
  Speaker 2: does have another you know what she has to come from.
• 33:28
  Speaker 1: Well that's not what if that's not what they want?
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: That's you guys all just think that there is one
• 33:35
  Speaker 1: solution and I don't know. I don't know, I don't know.
• 33:43
  Speaker 1: I don't have an answer.
• 33:44
  Speaker 2: All right, Ay, four two by four, seven to seven.
• 33:48
  Speaker 2: Let's see what you sent me here, yo, Rome Oh,
• 33:52
  Speaker 2: rad day of corporate barbecue today, and guys pick me
• 33:56
  Speaker 2: to grill.
• 33:57
  Speaker 1: We'll shoot Rader day.
• 33:58
  Speaker 2: How come I didn't get invited to the court. Really,
• 34:01
  Speaker 2: that just messed up, man, sub Rome. So what did
• 34:05
  Speaker 2: her dentist say? Oh my god, do you guys understand?
• 34:11
  Speaker 1: Oh you guys, Oh, you guys are terrible.
• 34:15
  Speaker 2: You guys are the worst. Aermuh she I mean you
• 34:18
  Speaker 2: guys keep saying that. Okay, yeah, a room. It's happy recovery.
• 34:25
  Speaker 2: Will we'll be seeing you at the backpack giveaway this year? Absolutely,
• 34:29
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, happy recovery. Those guys are great guys. Well, yeah,
• 34:33
  Speaker 2: we'll see you there. We'll see there. You guys gonna
• 34:35
  Speaker 2: come down to you're talking about get faded the haircutting also,
• 34:40
  Speaker 2: or just the just the backpack giveaway a room he
• 34:46
  Speaker 2: needs to get a sex toy.
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: She needs to buy. Uh, Oh is that how you
• 34:56
  Speaker 1: do that?
• 34:57
  Speaker 2: Oh?
• 34:57
  Speaker 1: I guess that's some I never heard of what you're
• 34:59
  Speaker 1: talking about. Yeah, it's a tough spot to be in
• 35:02
  Speaker 1: for both of them. It really is what do you do?
• 35:04
  Speaker 2: What do you do?
• 35:04
  Speaker 3: What do you do?
• 35:05
  Speaker 2: What do you do? Obviously, not ask you for the answers,
• 35:08
  Speaker 2: because you idiots just think, oh, she.
• 35:10
  Speaker 1: Can just do that, or oh can she just do that?
• 35:12
  Speaker 1: Sometimes people just you know.
• 35:16
  Speaker 2: What, if he wants to just have regular old intimacy
• 35:18
  Speaker 2: with his wife because he loves her and wants you know,
• 35:21
  Speaker 2: thinks she's hot and everything he said.
• 35:22
  Speaker 1: About her, you know what, if they don't want to
• 35:27
  Speaker 1: do it other way. I don't know. I don't. I don't.
• 35:30
  Speaker 2: Sometimes you guys say some of the most idiotic, idiotic ideas.
• 35:34
  Speaker 2: You have the most idiotic ideas about things. This is
• 35:36
  Speaker 2: a serious issue for some people have in the relationship,
• 35:39
  Speaker 2: and that's why it was asking me. That's why I
• 35:41
  Speaker 2: didn't make jokes about it. I was very serious about
• 35:45
  Speaker 2: the conversation. Obviously, you can't be all right A four two, five,
• 35:49
  Speaker 2: four or seven seven when you sent me here. Hey, Rome,
• 35:52
  Speaker 2: all these guys, make sure we got you, Okay, all
• 35:54
  Speaker 2: these guys that keep saying the same thing that her
• 35:58
  Speaker 2: dentist didn't tell her couldn't stuff or idiots.
• 36:01
  Speaker 1: Let's get real. It gets boring to have the same
• 36:04
  Speaker 1: thing over and over again.
• 36:06
  Speaker 2: And I understand if you can't do it, but there's
• 36:08
  Speaker 2: got to be some decision made in the relationship or it's.
• 36:12
  Speaker 1: Time to move on.
• 36:13
  Speaker 2: I mean, I agree with what you're saying, but here
• 36:16
  Speaker 2: is the problem, he said. The guy said he loves
• 36:23
  Speaker 2: his wife, he does, and she has some sort of
• 36:26
  Speaker 2: medical condition that sex is uncomfortable for her.
• 36:30
  Speaker 1: So it's not that she doesn't want to so he
• 36:32
  Speaker 1: said they only have sex once a month.
• 36:34
  Speaker 2: That, well, hey, they have a problem. You know, moving
• 36:39
  Speaker 2: on is obviously not what either one of them wants.
• 36:43
  Speaker 2: She doesn't want the problem. She doesn't want the condition
• 36:46
  Speaker 2: that prevents her from being with her husband, you know.
• 36:50
  Speaker 1: So, yeah, good morning.
• 36:52
  Speaker 5: How what's going on your room?
• 36:54
  Speaker 6: Did you give away the backpack already?
• 36:56
  Speaker 2: Yeah?
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: I got a few more to give away. Just keep listening, man.
• 37:00
  Speaker 2: Nope, you gotta win them, No, you gotta win them
• 37:03
  Speaker 2: already once you bought four or seven to seven, listen
• 37:06
  Speaker 2: for the hall pass, and we'll get to the backpacks.
• 37:09
  Speaker 2: I think I got Universal Studio Studio tickets that I
• 37:12
  Speaker 2: gotta give a bunch of stuff away.
• 37:13
  Speaker 1: I got to get to that too as well. I
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: won't forget, I promise, But I mean back to the situation.
• 37:18
  Speaker 2: They both want each other, but there is a problem,
• 37:22
  Speaker 2: and it is not a problem that either one of
• 37:26
  Speaker 2: them caused, So it's just a bad situation in their marriage.
• 37:31
  Speaker 3: Yo.
• 37:32
  Speaker 1: Rom Hey, you've said a hundred times love is to
• 37:34
  Speaker 1: learn trait.
• 37:35
  Speaker 2: He'll figure it out. And I'm not saying they have
• 37:37
  Speaker 2: to move on. I'm just saying that she may need
• 37:40
  Speaker 2: to go into a give into other ideas for him.
• 37:46
  Speaker 1: Well, yeah, was going on, all right?
• 37:53
  Speaker 6: I was just calling about the backside.
• 37:56
  Speaker 1: Yeah, what's up?
• 37:58
  Speaker 6: I just I wasn't sure how to like enter.
• 38:01
  Speaker 1: Oh, you just got to listen. When when you hear
• 38:03
  Speaker 1: the hall pass, that's when you call in.
• 38:07
  Speaker 6: Oh okay, all right, thank you much good.
• 38:09
  Speaker 2: Yeah. For those of you who don't know, we're giving
• 38:10
  Speaker 2: a way backpacks. Rodriguez and Associates ninety four backpacks. When
• 38:15
  Speaker 2: a backpack full school supplies got some grand prizes.
• 38:17
  Speaker 1: Things like that. So listen for the hall past. You'll
• 38:19
  Speaker 1: uh when you hear that bee called twenty nine.
• 38:22
  Speaker 5: Uh.
• 38:23
  Speaker 1: The thing is this, though, how how do you state I.
• 38:29
  Speaker 2: Wish I wish I had somebody I knew, somebody who
• 38:33
  Speaker 2: was like a sex therapist or somebody who dealt with
• 38:36
  Speaker 2: this stuff for couples in their relationship. Because everybody keeps
• 38:39
  Speaker 2: saying the same thing, you need to give into other
• 38:41
  Speaker 2: ideas for him. But those other ideas aren't the same.
• 38:46
  Speaker 2: I know you guys keep saying it, Oh, we'll do it, this,
• 38:49
  Speaker 2: do it that. They're not the same.
• 38:53
  Speaker 1: They're just not.
• 38:54
  Speaker 2: There is a there is, believe it or not between him.
• 39:00
  Speaker 2: Uman beings an intimate way one that is the most intimate.
• 39:07
  Speaker 2: All the other things are different versions of having sex.
• 39:11
  Speaker 1: Okay, so it's not that simple.
• 39:15
  Speaker 2: Oh, let me check these text messages and see exactly
• 39:19
  Speaker 2: what you sent me. Hey, Rome, good morning. Unfortunately it's
• 39:26
  Speaker 2: that easy. All he's trying to do is get okay
• 39:30
  Speaker 2: other uh with his wife A man.
• 39:35
  Speaker 1: Will Okay, Yeah, you guys are morons. A good morn
• 39:39
  Speaker 1: and Rome?
• 39:39
  Speaker 2: Uh man, all these dudes saying the same thing. Don't
• 39:42
  Speaker 2: understand this dude loves his wife and wants that intimacy
• 39:47
  Speaker 2: with her, not just the same exactly, And I don't
• 39:50
  Speaker 2: think that. Sometimes the curious part about it is that,
• 39:59
  Speaker 2: you know, I guess all these text messages from these guys,
• 40:02
  Speaker 2: and I don't understand or if you're really that stupid,
• 40:05
  Speaker 2: or if you actually believe it. You know, sometimes I
• 40:10
  Speaker 2: wonder how you know, because I don't know everybody that
• 40:13
  Speaker 2: texts or calls or whatever. I don't know them personally,
• 40:15
  Speaker 2: so I don't know if they actually believe the dumb
• 40:18
  Speaker 2: stuff they're saying and they're that stupid, or if they're
• 40:22
  Speaker 2: just trying to get a rise, if they're trying to
• 40:24
  Speaker 2: make a joke, if they're trying to But a lot
• 40:27
  Speaker 2: of you guys come off like morons when you say
• 40:30
  Speaker 2: stud it's a good thing. It's text messaging. There's no
• 40:32
  Speaker 2: real accountability for the stupid stuff you say. So it's
• 40:36
  Speaker 2: all good already, four two, five fours. Uh, let's get
• 40:41
  Speaker 2: some tickets out. I gotta give away some stuff before
• 40:43
  Speaker 2: I get out of here. I got some other stuff
• 40:45
  Speaker 2: I want to talk about.
• 40:45
  Speaker 1: So what do I got? Tickets for Universal.
• 40:50
  Speaker 2: Studio Studios, Hollywood, the New Fast and the Furious Ride
• 40:54
  Speaker 2: Hollywood Drift. I got a pair of tickets for you
• 40:57
  Speaker 2: right now, calling number twenty nine and four two five, four,
• 41:00
  Speaker 2: seven to seven.
• 41:01
  Speaker 1: What's going on? Hey going betweent nine? Congratulations, dang man, Jimmy,
• 41:10
  Speaker 1: all right, Jimmy got you take us Universal Studios? What
• 41:13
  Speaker 1: is the Hollywood Drift? And whom I'm pasting the fears?
• 41:16
  Speaker 4: Right?
• 41:16
  Speaker 1: Okay, all right, thanks.
• 41:18
  Speaker 2: I want to talk about something that was funny to me.
• 41:22
  Speaker 2: And I don't know if you ever really think about this,
• 41:25
  Speaker 2: never doing something again.
• 41:27
  Speaker 3: And I.
• 41:30
  Speaker 2: I was a friend of mine she got this has
• 41:32
  Speaker 2: happened a few years ago. She was going through divorce,
• 41:35
  Speaker 2: got divorced. Now she's single again, and at one point
• 41:38
  Speaker 2: during a conversation, she was telling me, hey, you know,
• 41:42
  Speaker 2: I thought I would never have to do this again.
• 41:44
  Speaker 2: In the bedroom, she and you guys all know what
• 41:47
  Speaker 2: she was referring to. You know what most wives don't
• 41:49
  Speaker 2: stop doing after they get married. But she had made
• 41:53
  Speaker 2: that comment, and it was amongst a group of friends,
• 41:56
  Speaker 2: close friends, we all grew up together, and everybody just.
• 41:58
  Speaker 1: Kind of laughed. And she's because she really said that,
• 42:01
  Speaker 1: I thought I would never have to do that again.
• 42:04
  Speaker 2: But that's got me to thinking about Well, we all
• 42:08
  Speaker 2: started talking about things we thought or think will never
• 42:12
  Speaker 2: do again or know that we'll never do again.
• 42:14
  Speaker 1: Right, do you have something that you know you'll never
• 42:18
  Speaker 1: do again. I know, I had sushi for the first
• 42:22
  Speaker 1: time about.
• 42:24
  Speaker 2: Probably about fifteen years ago, and I got so sick
• 42:29
  Speaker 2: the night I had it that I will never touch
• 42:31
  Speaker 2: it again.
• 42:32
  Speaker 1: I'll never try it.
• 42:33
  Speaker 2: I won't I'll never have it again. I can adamantly
• 42:36
  Speaker 2: say that one percent. I will never eat sushi again
• 42:41
  Speaker 2: in my life. And then I started to think about
• 42:45
  Speaker 2: other things that I will never like there's a good shot.
• 42:48
  Speaker 1: And you know, we've been.
• 42:49
  Speaker 2: Giving away Magic Mountain tickets. I've been to Magic Mountain.
• 42:55
  Speaker 2: I have actually been to Magic Mountain in high school.
• 42:59
  Speaker 2: Since I've lived in Bakersfield, I have never I have
• 43:02
  Speaker 2: never gone, not for any reason. I just have. I
• 43:05
  Speaker 2: guess I have no reason to go. I'll probably never
• 43:08
  Speaker 2: go to Magic mount again. I'll probably never go to
• 43:10
  Speaker 2: Disneyland again. And we used to go to Disneyland a
• 43:12
  Speaker 2: couple of times a year for years, you guys know.
• 43:16
  Speaker 2: So I was just thinking about some of the things
• 43:20
  Speaker 2: that I will never do again. And do you guys
• 43:25
  Speaker 2: have something that you just know you'll never do again
• 43:29
  Speaker 2: already four two five, four seven seven. Gosh, I'm just
• 43:35
  Speaker 2: trying to think in my head.
• 43:38
  Speaker 1: What I will what I've.
• 43:40
  Speaker 2: Done in the past and will never do again. Or
• 43:43
  Speaker 2: I've done it once and we'll never do it again.
• 43:48
  Speaker 2: You guys got anything, What do you think you'll never
• 43:51
  Speaker 2: do again? Something you've tried, or maybe it was something
• 43:53
  Speaker 2: you've done regularly and now all of a sudden you
• 43:55
  Speaker 2: just know you'll never do it again.
• 43:58
  Speaker 1: You'll never do it again already four two seven to seven. Hey, Romeo,
• 44:04
  Speaker 1: So I got to tell you this.
• 44:05
  Speaker 2: When my wife turned fifty, she wanted to go skydiving,
• 44:10
  Speaker 2: and she convinced me that that is what we should
• 44:13
  Speaker 2: do for her birthday.
• 44:16
  Speaker 1: So we went and did it.
• 44:17
  Speaker 2: It was the most scariest thing I've ever done. We'll
• 44:23
  Speaker 2: never do it again. My wife wants to try it
• 44:25
  Speaker 2: all over again, but I told her I'll never do it.
• 44:27
  Speaker 2: She'll have to do it on her own.
• 44:29
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 44:29
  Speaker 1: I would never do that to begin with. I would
• 44:32
  Speaker 1: never even skydive to begin with. But yeah, what do
• 44:35
  Speaker 1: you think you'll never do again? You know if you
• 44:38
  Speaker 1: had if.
• 44:42
  Speaker 2: Yeah, what do you think you'll never do again, lady
• 44:43
  Speaker 2: four two, five, four, seven to seven. Let's see Rome
• 44:48
  Speaker 2: the Legends of the Deep. Last time I went to
• 44:51
  Speaker 2: Six Flags, I got a nosebleed on one of the rides.
• 44:55
  Speaker 1: I don't think I'll ever go back again.
• 45:03
  Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, I just wonder that there are there
• 45:08
  Speaker 2: things you'll never do again. You know, you gotta have something, right,
• 45:12
  Speaker 2: everybody's gotta have something.
• 45:13
  Speaker 1: Good morning, Rome. Uh.
• 45:15
  Speaker 2: Sometimes it makes me happy and sometimes it makes me
• 45:18
  Speaker 2: sad that I will never have kids again or get
• 45:21
  Speaker 2: married again.
• 45:23
  Speaker 1: You know, there was an old.
• 45:26
  Speaker 2: It's funny that you bring that up, because you guys
• 45:30
  Speaker 2: remember the show Friends, right, there was some Friends episode
• 45:33
  Speaker 2: where Monica is that her name, the one the one
• 45:38
  Speaker 2: that the brother Ross's brother, Ross's sister. Well, she said,
• 45:43
  Speaker 2: I'm never gonna have a first kiss again. I'm never gonna,
• 45:45
  Speaker 2: you know, have that feeling again.
• 45:48
  Speaker 1: And what was the what was the old school kind
• 45:55
  Speaker 1: of the same thing, all right, like you're never gonna
• 45:57
  Speaker 1: sleep like for some of you, or you know, you're
• 46:01
  Speaker 1: never gonna have sex with ever again, with somebody else
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: than the person you're with right now.
• 46:08
  Speaker 2: Maybe that's kind of I mean, maybe you don't want to,
• 46:13
  Speaker 2: but just the idea. You're never gonna kiss another girl
• 46:15
  Speaker 2: again or another guy again. You're never I mean, these
• 46:17
  Speaker 2: things are it's kind of interesting when you think about it.
• 46:20
  Speaker 2: Already four two, five, four, seven to seven. Uh, Hey,
• 46:25
  Speaker 2: good morning, Rome. I will never trust a family anymore,
• 46:28
  Speaker 2: from my own parents to both sides of the family
• 46:31
  Speaker 2: as well, if that makes any sense.
• 46:34
  Speaker 1: Sure, sure, I mean I have family members that I'll
• 46:37
  Speaker 1: never see again. And I know that for a fact.
• 46:41
  Speaker 1: You know, and I grew up with them. You know,
• 46:45
  Speaker 1: our friends I'll never see again. Things like that.
• 46:47
  Speaker 2: What do you think you know already? Four two, five, four,
• 46:50
  Speaker 2: seven to seven? What will you never do again? What
• 46:54
  Speaker 2: will you never do again?
• 46:55
  Speaker 1: Something?
• 46:56
  Speaker 2: You know, there's something that you've done or regularly and
• 47:00
  Speaker 2: in your life and you'll ever do it again?
• 47:04
  Speaker 1: What is it already? Four two, four or seven?
• 47:06
  Speaker 2: Seven? Hey?
• 47:08
  Speaker 1: Rome?
• 47:08
  Speaker 2: Have you ever gone to the super Bowl? A few
• 47:11
  Speaker 2: years back when the Super Bowl was in New Orleans?
• 47:13
  Speaker 2: I went to the Super Bowl, me and some buddies.
• 47:16
  Speaker 2: I can promise you I will never do that again.
• 47:19
  Speaker 2: It was so busy, it was so crowded, it was
• 47:22
  Speaker 2: so hard to do anything. It just wasn't fun. On
• 47:27
  Speaker 2: top of that, we didn't have great seats, so we
• 47:30
  Speaker 2: didn't even really get to to see the game. I
• 47:33
  Speaker 2: will never watch a super Bowl again live. I'll just
• 47:36
  Speaker 2: sit on my couch with my buddies. I've heard that,
• 47:41
  Speaker 2: by the way before. Somebody else told me that. Oh
• 47:45
  Speaker 2: it was Mark Mark Carroll of Carpent Outlet Plus he told.
• 47:48
  Speaker 1: Me that once. He said always he goes you want
• 47:51
  Speaker 1: to go to a super Bowl? I think it was him.
• 47:53
  Speaker 2: You want to go to a super Bowl once just
• 47:55
  Speaker 2: to see that, You'll never want to go again because
• 47:57
  Speaker 2: it's just not as fun.
• 47:59
  Speaker 1: Fair enough already fourteen pot four, Seve, would you send
• 48:03
  Speaker 1: me here?
• 48:04
  Speaker 2: Yo? Rome Going to a live football game is like
• 48:07
  Speaker 2: getting married. You do it once, so you know you never.
• 48:10
  Speaker 1: Want to do it a second time.
• 48:12
  Speaker 2: Actually going to a live football game is amazing, depending
• 48:17
  Speaker 2: on where you sit in the game. So I don't
• 48:20
  Speaker 2: know what you're talking about. Already four two five, four
• 48:23
  Speaker 2: or seven to seven? Okay, Hey, Romeo, I will never
• 48:28
  Speaker 2: get married again. And my first wife was so crazy
• 48:32
  Speaker 2: and things got so out of hand. I don't think
• 48:35
  Speaker 2: I can ever do it again. I mean, that's a
• 48:39
  Speaker 2: fair statement if you can't handle it once. Already four
• 48:41
  Speaker 2: two five, four seven to seven. You think there's anything
• 48:44
  Speaker 2: that you've done that you'll never do again. We're talking
• 48:46
  Speaker 2: about some things that you think you'll never do again,
• 48:49
  Speaker 2: all right, A poort two five four seven to seven.
• 48:51
  Speaker 2: This is funny what we're talking about. Hey, Romeo, let
• 48:55
  Speaker 2: me ask you a question. To talk about things you'll
• 48:57
  Speaker 2: never do again? How about things you'll never stop doing?
• 49:01
  Speaker 2: My husband is forty four years old, He has a
• 49:05
  Speaker 2: good job, we have a family, but he will not
• 49:09
  Speaker 2: stop playing video games. Rome Don't you think at some point,
• 49:14
  Speaker 2: once you become an adult, a father, a husband, that
• 49:18
  Speaker 2: you gotta let it go. I don't think he'll ever
• 49:21
  Speaker 2: stop playing video games. Romeo, maybe you should ask that question.
• 49:26
  Speaker 2: What will these men never stop doing that their wives
• 49:29
  Speaker 2: want them to? I mean, I yeah, it's funny that
• 49:38
  Speaker 2: you say that, because I stopped playing video games years
• 49:40
  Speaker 2: ago and I used to really enjoy him.
• 49:43
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean a great question, things that you'll never
• 49:48
  Speaker 1: stop doing.
• 49:48
  Speaker 2: I mean, I'm sure a lot of guys are out
• 49:50
  Speaker 2: there saying my wife will never stop shopping, you know,
• 49:53
  Speaker 2: for nonsense.
• 49:54
  Speaker 1: So maybe it's a great question. You got a great question.
• 49:59
  Speaker 2: Maybe after you want maybe is he playing video games
• 50:01
  Speaker 2: with the kids or just by himself. I'm assuming he's
• 50:03
  Speaker 2: playing one of those uh idiotic third person games or
• 50:07
  Speaker 2: first person or second whatever they.
• 50:09
  Speaker 1: Are games, right, I'm guessing.
• 50:11
  Speaker 2: All right, it's a good question though, before two, five,
• 50:13
  Speaker 2: four or seven to seven, throw me on, brother.
• 50:18
  Speaker 5: It ain't then, don't need to stop playing video games.
• 50:24
  Speaker 1: Yeah, there is.
• 50:26
  Speaker 5: Sitting at home. You know what I mean.
• 50:28
  Speaker 1: You ain't doing nothing wrong.
• 50:29
  Speaker 5: You on the screens, you ain't. You ain't after wilding out,
• 50:33
  Speaker 5: you know what I mean?
• 50:33
  Speaker 1: It's all good home.
• 50:35
  Speaker 3: No, no, no, no.
• 50:37
  Speaker 4: Playing video games as an adult is embarrassing unless you're
• 50:42
  Speaker 4: making money off it or you want whatever whatever those
• 50:44
  Speaker 4: damn gaming twitch or whatever it is.
• 50:47
  Speaker 5: Now, hey on now, noah, you know what you must
• 50:50
  Speaker 5: not still be good at him no more because I
• 50:52
  Speaker 5: remember when my phones be me get met and I
• 50:54
  Speaker 5: stopped playing for a little pig for me.
• 50:58
  Speaker 3: Up.
• 50:58
  Speaker 5: And now I'm beIN.
• 51:03
  Speaker 1: No video games. If you're over if you're over forty playing.
• 51:07
  Speaker 4: Video games and you got a wife and kids, you
• 51:09
  Speaker 4: are you're pretty pathetic.
• 51:11
  Speaker 1: I mean, unless you're playing with your kids. I can't.
• 51:15
  Speaker 1: I can't go with you on that one. I mean
• 51:16
  Speaker 1: unless unless well yeah, that's see, that's different.
• 51:22
  Speaker 4: There are a lot of guys right now that are
• 51:25
  Speaker 4: so pathetic that they're sitting around playing video games while
• 51:28
  Speaker 4: their wife's over there looking for something to do, and
• 51:31
  Speaker 4: then they wonder why they get cheated on because he
• 51:33
  Speaker 4: was too bad. Those video games are very time consuming,
• 51:37
  Speaker 4: but if you're playing with their kids, that's a different.
• 51:39
  Speaker 1: That's different.
• 51:40
  Speaker 6: I mean, that's the only way I really get it,
• 51:42
  Speaker 6: get it in.
• 51:43
  Speaker 5: You know that we should have had the time, but
• 51:45
  Speaker 5: I like to play.
• 51:45
  Speaker 4: That's but you could literally say, let me, what's the
• 51:49
  Speaker 4: longest you've ever played a video game in one day
• 51:53
  Speaker 4: in one city?
• 51:55
  Speaker 2: Wow? Well, no more than probably an hour?
• 51:59
  Speaker 4: Okay, See that's the I know clowns that play video
• 52:02
  Speaker 4: games ten twelve hours a day. I mean adults who
• 52:05
  Speaker 4: got jobs and families, And how do you fit in
• 52:08
  Speaker 4: a twelve hour video game day?
• 52:10
  Speaker 1: And you got a family, a wife, and a job.
• 52:13
  Speaker 6: Okay that's a little bit.
• 52:15
  Speaker 1: Okay, okay, all right, just.
• 52:20
  Speaker 5: Got you though. Did you ever put the mustard on
• 52:22
  Speaker 5: your your ribs?
• 52:23
  Speaker 3: No?
• 52:23
  Speaker 1: No, no, I haven't made ribs in a while.
• 52:26
  Speaker 4: I haven't done it again, I haven't, just I just
• 52:28
  Speaker 4: I haven't made ribs recently since the last time we
• 52:31
  Speaker 4: talked about.
• 52:32
  Speaker 5: It all right, Well, you know we waiting for you.
• 52:37
  Speaker 1: Okay, later I will try with mustard on the ribs.
• 52:41
  Speaker 1: Don't worry, don't worry. So we're talking about things that
• 52:43
  Speaker 1: you'll never do again.
• 52:44
  Speaker 2: And then somebody, a woman brought this to our attention,
• 52:48
  Speaker 2: some things that you'll never stop doing. She was referring
• 52:51
  Speaker 2: to her husband. Apparently he plays video games all the time,
• 52:55
  Speaker 2: and she doesn't understand. You know, he's forty four years old.
• 52:59
  Speaker 2: I guess, right, so at a certain age you should stop, right,
• 53:03
  Speaker 2: I mean, once you got kids and everything, right, would
• 53:07
  Speaker 2: you say, here, Romeo, I don't mind that my husband
• 53:13
  Speaker 2: plays his video games.
• 53:14
  Speaker 1: He works so hard.
• 53:16
  Speaker 2: The least he could do is enjoy playing his video
• 53:19
  Speaker 2: games being at home while I while I cook dinner
• 53:22
  Speaker 2: for my husband, and once everybody is already settled down,
• 53:25
  Speaker 2: I like to also play my video games.
• 53:28
  Speaker 1: I have the home monitor screen and I'm thirty three,
• 53:31
  Speaker 1: he's thirty four.
• 53:31
  Speaker 2: Well, I guess if you guys, if that's the thing
• 53:34
  Speaker 2: you guys do together, that's different. I mean, I think
• 53:37
  Speaker 2: there's there's adult men out there who would rather play
• 53:41
  Speaker 2: video games than spend time with their wife and kids.
• 53:44
  Speaker 1: You know.
• 53:45
  Speaker 2: So yeah, all right, already fourteen five four or seven
• 53:48
  Speaker 2: to seven more than not?
• 53:49
  Speaker 1: What's going on?
• 53:52
  Speaker 3: I got one thing that I'll never do again.
• 53:55
  Speaker 1: Man, what's up?
• 53:56
  Speaker 3: And this happened to me this year. I will never
• 53:59
  Speaker 3: buy another off of Facebook Marketplace.
• 54:03
  Speaker 5: As soon as I drove away.
• 54:05
  Speaker 3: From some guy in Lost Hills the hood king flying
• 54:08
  Speaker 3: off on forty six, I was yeah, it was oh
• 54:16
  Speaker 3: five ultima wow, And I was like a good deal man,
• 54:20
  Speaker 3: and I'll never buy a car off of Facebook.
• 54:23
  Speaker 1: Market That is hilarious, That's what it was.
• 54:28
  Speaker 3: It's not hilarious now, I mean it is hilarious now,
• 54:31
  Speaker 3: it wasn't at the time.
• 54:33
  Speaker 1: All Right, all right, you could never buy.
• 54:35
  Speaker 3: A car from Facebook marketplace.
• 54:39
  Speaker 5: Wow.
• 54:40
  Speaker 1: Already board seven seven year ron.
• 54:43
  Speaker 2: What if we flip that woman's question, what do guys
• 54:47
  Speaker 2: want their wives to start doing? Maybe if she starts,
• 54:51
  Speaker 2: the husband would put that controller down. Entertain your man
• 54:56
  Speaker 2: more than the game home girl. Okay, so it's her
• 55:04
  Speaker 2: job to entertain her man.
• 55:05
  Speaker 1: Is that what you're trying to say?
• 55:06
  Speaker 2: If if the guy has a if the guy has
• 55:11
  Speaker 2: a choice between playing video games for entertainment or his girls,
• 55:17
  Speaker 2: she's the one that has to entertain him.
• 55:19
  Speaker 5: Right, Okay, hey, ro she complain about him, about him
• 55:24
  Speaker 5: playing the game. Man, what she want him to do?
• 55:26
  Speaker 5: Go play with another six?
• 55:29
  Speaker 1: Well? Why why is that an option?
• 55:32
  Speaker 5: Wait? What do you mean he trying to obligate his
• 55:35
  Speaker 5: mind there playing the game? He focused, you know what
• 55:38
  Speaker 5: I mean? What she want? She want him throlling on
• 55:41
  Speaker 5: his phone and ain't nothing but women and you know
• 55:43
  Speaker 5: what I mean on the phone.
• 55:46
  Speaker 1: You really, really, you really didn't go from one extreme
• 55:50
  Speaker 1: to another.
• 55:51
  Speaker 4: You went from just innocently playing video games and nor
• 55:55
  Speaker 4: and his wife to cheating on her.
• 55:57
  Speaker 1: That there's a big gap between that doesn't.
• 56:02
  Speaker 5: Get there, that would come with it nowadays. The game.
• 56:09
  Speaker 1: Okay, later, that's hilarious. I mean that's a big jump.
• 56:16
  Speaker 1: That's a big jump. Alrighty four two four seven seven?
• 56:21
  Speaker 1: Oh what do you got here?
• 56:22
  Speaker 2: Yo?
• 56:23
  Speaker 4: Roam.
• 56:24
  Speaker 1: I used to tell my my ex wife, don't trip,
• 56:27
  Speaker 1: I'll take care of the baby. Go do what you
• 56:30
  Speaker 1: gotta do.
• 56:30
  Speaker 2: My baby was about one. Put a controller on his
• 56:35
  Speaker 2: on his lap and I played. We were bonding, playing together.
• 56:39
  Speaker 2: But as a father of two at thirty five years old,
• 56:43
  Speaker 2: it's hard to find time for video game. Well, you
• 56:46
  Speaker 2: shouldn't be playing video games at thirty five years old,
• 56:50
  Speaker 2: once you're a father.
• 56:51
  Speaker 1: And a husband, I mean video games.
• 56:54
  Speaker 2: And I don't think you guys are understanding why I'm
• 56:58
  Speaker 2: saying this, because just as much as I'm not really
• 57:01
  Speaker 2: saying it because it's a childish game, I'm saying it
• 57:05
  Speaker 2: more so because it's an addictive game. You know, you
• 57:09
  Speaker 2: just like a phone's addictive. I mean, it's an addictive thing.
• 57:13
  Speaker 2: That's why I'm saying it. I mean, you can sit
• 57:17
  Speaker 2: and play a video I know guys that'll play video
• 57:19
  Speaker 2: game ten twelve hours. I mean that's a long time
• 57:26
  Speaker 2: to be addicted to something, you know what I'm saying,
• 57:28
  Speaker 2: especially as an adult.
• 57:30
  Speaker 1: So that's why I say that video games. What do
• 57:33
  Speaker 1: you got going on here? Hey, rom I don't know.
• 57:37
  Speaker 2: Maybe some wives are different, but I'll for sure sit
• 57:40
  Speaker 2: with my husband playing the games with him too.
• 57:44
  Speaker 1: As long as these pills. I don't mind the video games.
• 57:47
  Speaker 1: I mean, he could be out doing worse. Why is it?
• 57:50
  Speaker 4: You're just like the last person who called in, Why
• 57:54
  Speaker 4: is it out?
• 57:55
  Speaker 5: Why is.
• 57:58
  Speaker 2: That's a stupid justification, by the way, he could be
• 58:01
  Speaker 2: doing worse or he could be doing better.
• 58:05
  Speaker 1: Oh well, at least he's not doing this. Well, okay,
• 58:08
  Speaker 1: that you could say that about anything.
• 58:11
  Speaker 2: Well, my husband's he'd be drinking all the time in
• 58:14
  Speaker 2: the garage with his buddies. Well at least he ain't
• 58:16
  Speaker 2: doing cocaine off strippers. I mean, to make justifications like
• 58:21
  Speaker 2: that makes you look ridiculous.
• 58:25
  Speaker 1: Aerome, is only an addiction. If you make it an addiction.
• 58:28
  Speaker 1: You gotta know when it's time to put the game
• 58:31
  Speaker 1: down to handle business.
• 58:32
  Speaker 2: Well okay, okay, you make your justifications to make you
• 58:37
  Speaker 2: feel better about your husband not paying attention to you
• 58:40
  Speaker 2: and that a video game is more important. Man room,
• 58:43
  Speaker 2: You blaming Lou, blaming marketplace when he probably forgot to
• 58:46
  Speaker 2: close the hood, fully stupid Seahawk fan, well losing idiot.
• 58:50
  Speaker 1: Anyways, Hey, Aerom, I'm married and fifty one. I play
• 58:55
  Speaker 1: video games as stress relief. Well, I mean, do you
• 58:59
  Speaker 1: play it for ten hours? Hours? That's my point. You
• 59:02
  Speaker 1: guys are kind of missing the point in what I'm
• 59:04
  Speaker 1: talking about. It could be anything.
• 59:07
  Speaker 2: She just brought up video games. I know, you know,
• 59:10
  Speaker 2: I play a lot of golf. Golf can take anywhere
• 59:13
  Speaker 2: from three hours to six hours depending on what's going on.
• 59:20
  Speaker 2: And I know guys that do it three or four
• 59:22
  Speaker 2: times a week, five times a week. You think their
• 59:25
  Speaker 2: wife likes.
• 59:26
  Speaker 3: It, you know.
• 59:27
  Speaker 1: That's that's my point. Things that are.
• 59:29
  Speaker 2: Time consuming that take you away from your relationship and
• 59:35
  Speaker 2: your uh you know what.
• 59:36
  Speaker 1: I think we'll talk about that tomorrow.
• 59:39
  Speaker 2: Things that give between you and your spouse, things that
• 59:41
  Speaker 2: give between you and your partner that are time consuming,
• 59:45
  Speaker 2: you know, like video games, they're time consuming, your phone,
• 59:49
  Speaker 2: things like that. Yeah, that's what I'm talking to, Golf.
• 59:52
  Speaker 2: I'm talking about things that you do. You already spend.
• 59:58
  Speaker 2: You already spend the least out of time with your partner.
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 2: Uh you only spend like four or four hours a
• 1:00:05
  Speaker 2: day something. It's statistically, it's something so weird, so uh unbelievable,
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 2: how much time you actually spend with the person you
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 2: supposedly love and want to spend the rest of your
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 2: life with, or the person you care about. Because you
• 1:00:18
  Speaker 2: got work, you got friends, you got family, you got golf,
• 1:00:21
  Speaker 2: you got video games, all you got television, you got
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 2: all these idiotic things that take your attention away from
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 2: your relationship.
• 1:00:30
  Speaker 1: And we're gonna, yeah, we'll talk about that tomorrow morning.
• 1:00:34
  Speaker 2: Every morning morning four one