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Messy DrewVORCE: Sidora vs Pittman Legal Breakdown · Reality with The King

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  Speaker 1: Hey, rain Drops on today's episode Reality Crime Stories. Look,
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  Speaker 1: I'm not gonna say this is a crime, but a
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  Speaker 1: lot of people.
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  Speaker 2: Are saying it's a crime against humanity.
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  Speaker 1: Because we are going to discuss the latest of day
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  Speaker 1: in the messy divorce proceedings of Real Housewives of Atlanta
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  Speaker 1: star Juice So Dora and her strange husband Ralph Pittman.
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  Speaker 1: So to update, rain Draws, Courtney Parker, Judge, Tyranny and
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  Speaker 1: I are going.
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  Speaker 2: To discuss this particular situation.
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  Speaker 1: As you know, Trany, Tyranny is gonna give us the law.
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  Speaker 1: Courtney is gonna give us the mess, and I'm.
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  Speaker 2: Going to give.
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  Speaker 3: Are giving the mess.
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  Speaker 2: Courtiny's here to give a mess.
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  Speaker 1: Child, Tyranny's here to give the law and a hobby here,
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  Speaker 1: Justice state the facts. Okay, So let me start with
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  Speaker 1: my job, Courtney. Okay, facts and nothing but all.
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  Speaker 3: Right, change how our roles have changed.
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  Speaker 1: Right, right, right in this particular case. Right So, as
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  Speaker 1: I was saying, dreus a. Dora was ordered to vacate
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  Speaker 1: the Georgia home she shares with her estrange husband Raph Pittman.
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  Speaker 2: Drew has to be out of the house by May thirty.
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  Speaker 1: First, the judge said that due to the current financial
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  Speaker 1: circumstances of the parties, until Drew leaves the home, they
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  Speaker 1: will continue splitting the expenses. But this is where things
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  Speaker 1: go a little dicey, and I want to start here
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  Speaker 1: as there's more development, because we're going to talk about
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  Speaker 1: the how much money Drew is saying she makes against Ralph,
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  Speaker 1: in addition to how Drew wants rap thrown in jail
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  Speaker 1: due to leak text messages, So stay tuned for that.
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  Speaker 1: But first thing first, the bomb drop, which is why
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  Speaker 1: people are calling this a crime against humanity, is the
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  Speaker 1: fact that Drew and Ralph will share joint legal custody
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  Speaker 1: of their kids, but Ralph was awarded primary physical custody
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  Speaker 1: of the kids during the school year, and Drew will
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  Speaker 1: have parenting time on alternating weekends starting in August.
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  Speaker 2: Now, Courtney, you and mama and a mama bear.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, I was telling tyranny before we started that. As
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  Speaker 1: a viewer, right, it's rare for us to keep reading
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  Speaker 1: these stories of mothers losing primary physical custody of the kids,
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  Speaker 1: not just custody, but.
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  Speaker 2: Primary physical custody.
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  Speaker 1: So before we get down to the law and nothing
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  Speaker 1: but the law of Courtney, Are you shocked by this?
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  Speaker 3: I am in the sense of and Tyranny and I
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  Speaker 3: have talked about this off camera before because she was like,
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  Speaker 3: when I was going through my legal battles with my daughter,
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  Speaker 3: I made sure to get both legal and physical I
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  Speaker 3: full legal and physical custody. But again, I live in
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  Speaker 3: LA I live in California, and it is what we're
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  Speaker 3: seeing more of, and what we're seeing in this case
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  Speaker 3: is more fathers are now stepping up and getting rid
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  Speaker 3: of the stigmas of it's mama's baby. Do you know
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  Speaker 3: what I'm saying, Well, I shocked, No, because this is
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  Speaker 3: kind of the repercussions and I don't know. This is
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  Speaker 3: us situation where I don't know either party. I am
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  Speaker 3: just a fan like you watching it happen, not in
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  Speaker 3: real time in TV time, in TV real time like
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  Speaker 3: everybody else. But when you have someone that is a
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  Speaker 3: personality on a reality show such as Drew and all
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  Speaker 3: your tea is spilled moment by moment by moment, frame
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  Speaker 3: by frame by frame. No, I'm not surprised because the
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  Speaker 3: men who are not cast members on this show, or
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  Speaker 3: most of them who want to be out of the
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  Speaker 3: public SYE have to me a strong defense in saying,
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  Speaker 3: I don't want my kids subject to your lifestyle. I
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  Speaker 3: don't want them in you know, the public as well
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  Speaker 3: as I don't want our dirty laundry being aired out
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  Speaker 3: week per week, per week because you want to be
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  Speaker 3: this personality. So in Drew's case, I would say no,
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  Speaker 3: I'm I'm not surprised, and I gotta be honest, I'm
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  Speaker 3: glad that more men. It could never be me, but
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  Speaker 3: I'm glad that more men are getting their moments and
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  Speaker 3: showing up and being equal parents, and the law is
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  Speaker 3: respecting that.
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  Speaker 1: So let's let that's a perfect segue for you, tyranny.
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  Speaker 1: They are resigning in the state of Georgia.
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  Speaker 2: Based on this judgment.
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  Speaker 1: The judge said that, look, Drew is able to be
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  Speaker 1: with the kids and starting in August.
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  Speaker 2: But during the school year it needs to be raped.
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  Speaker 1: And the reason why it needs to be rapped is
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  Speaker 1: the fact that they were saying that when the kids
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  Speaker 1: were in the hands of dreu soidorra that they missed
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  Speaker 1: substantial yeah, a substantial amount of time out of school,
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  Speaker 1: which is why he has them physically doing the school year.
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  Speaker 1: And I want to say that the number that was
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  Speaker 1: mentioned was something along the lines of twenty days of
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  Speaker 1: school so teary like all of that. In terms of
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  Speaker 1: Georgia law family law, is this something that happens where
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  Speaker 1: a judge says, based on school year, yeah, buddy, he
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  Speaker 1: gets primary physical custody during the school year.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, because well here right, No, hey, Bran drives. Y'all know,
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  Speaker 4: if I say anything, I have to give y'all my
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  Speaker 4: infamous disclaimer. I do not speak on open cases, I
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  Speaker 4: do not give legal advice, and I honestly do not
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  Speaker 4: know the facts of anything that is going on. I
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  Speaker 4: can explain Georgia law, and the first thing that I
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  Speaker 4: will say, and I have said on this show several times,
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  Speaker 4: I think that the way you opened up was really
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  Speaker 4: interesting because you said from the viewers standpoint, so from
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  Speaker 4: the court standpoint, the standard is always the same.
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  Speaker 5: What is in the best interest of the child.
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  Speaker 4: It is never about a gender, a man, a woman,
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  Speaker 4: who and what situation is in the best interests of
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  Speaker 4: the child. That is always what is going to be
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  Speaker 4: the standard that the court follows and leans on. And
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  Speaker 4: so again, I guess maybe because you're seeing people get
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  Speaker 4: more attention in the media or on social media.
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  Speaker 5: And people are becoming aware of it.
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  Speaker 4: But fathers have been awarded custody for as long as
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  Speaker 4: we've been having children. Again, the public may be be
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  Speaker 4: coming more aware of it, but it always has been
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  Speaker 4: the standard.
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  Speaker 5: Is what is in the best interest of the children.
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  Speaker 3: Here's what I find really interesting though, because we talked
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  Speaker 3: about stigmas, and every time we hear a father are
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  Speaker 3: getting you know, full getting granted full custody, getting awarded
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  Speaker 3: child support, it always the stigma of you know, men
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  Speaker 3: and particularly black men not taking care of their kids
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  Speaker 3: or are being present in their kids' lives.
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  Speaker 5: That is a bad stigma.
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  Speaker 4: Spatistically, black men show up for their children more than
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  Speaker 4: any other race, even statistically.
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  Speaker 3: Right, But like I said, we're dealing in terms of stigmas.
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  Speaker 3: Is it also could it also be a negative stigma
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  Speaker 3: when we hear that fathers are awarded their children, they're
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  Speaker 3: awarded custody of their children and even care for their kids,
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  Speaker 3: that the mom has to subsequently be a bad mom
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  Speaker 3: to lose custody of her kids. I feel like that's
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  Speaker 3: something else that we need to address because everybody is
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  Speaker 3: like in the comments, how could you what kind of
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  Speaker 3: mother are you to lose custody of your kids. So
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  Speaker 3: you know, as the same way we look at and
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  Speaker 3: we're up in arms about the negative stigmas for fathers
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  Speaker 3: who gain custody of their children. Let's at least think
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  Speaker 3: about it from the perspective of and I like how
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  Speaker 3: you're saying, just legally, what's in the best interest of
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  Speaker 3: the child. How moms sometimes get painted as bad moms
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  Speaker 3: when they lose custody.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, I think that we also, again we talk about this.
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  Speaker 5: I say this.
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  Speaker 4: I feel like I'm always repeating myself, but I think
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  Speaker 4: that I have to because people truly do.
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  Speaker 5: Not understand how the legal systems works.
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  Speaker 4: They go on the headlines, so they hear something solationous,
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  Speaker 4: They pick up on one fact, and they are now
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  Speaker 4: using that coming up with presumptions that just generally would
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  Speaker 4: never fly in court. And the court is going to
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  Speaker 4: evaluate all of the facts and circumstances of the case.
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  Speaker 5: So they're not going to look at one just fact.
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  Speaker 4: It's not just going to be okay, so who should
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  Speaker 4: have the child in the summer, or who signs up
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  Speaker 4: for more summer activities. They're going to look across the board.
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  Speaker 4: That's going to be physical custody. That is going to
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  Speaker 4: be emotional welfare, that is going to be financial welfare.
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  Speaker 4: So again, we are looking to put the children in
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  Speaker 4: an environment is that it's most stable for them. We
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  Speaker 4: are not thinking about the mother or father. We are
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  Speaker 4: thinking about the parents. And again, a lot of times
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  Speaker 4: in the public you simply do not have enough facts
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  Speaker 4: to know what has been going on because the courts
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  Speaker 4: also are very very hesitant about changing something that is
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  Speaker 4: already in place. So this may not be anything new
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  Speaker 4: to the family or to the children, but if it
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  Speaker 4: comes publicly, now your shop. But this is what the
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  Speaker 4: children are accustomed to, and the courts generally try not
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  Speaker 4: to disrupt their lives as much as possible.
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  Speaker 3: So is that could that be because you're not You're
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  Speaker 3: not Carlos. Let me ask you this.
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  Speaker 4: Question why, Because Carlos is not the messy one today,
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  Speaker 4: He's the factual one today.
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  Speaker 3: So since I'm the messy one, could that be the
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  Speaker 3: reason why she has to leave the marital home and
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  Speaker 3: he gets to stay and she's getting kicked out of
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  Speaker 3: these because that she's getting kicked out of the house, Yes,
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  Speaker 3: she wants him thrown in jail. I still I've got
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  Speaker 3: to find out why.
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  Speaker 2: No, I can tell you why.
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  Speaker 1: She So Rath is known for living in the basement, right,
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  Speaker 1: so they are married couple. There were allegations of fidelity
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  Speaker 1: because Rath went to Tampa, which, by the way, Ninnie
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  Speaker 1: Leeks and I would be in Tampa or May fourteenth.
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  Speaker 1: Get out of your basement and come see me and
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  Speaker 1: Nini Leagues on tour May fourteenth in Tampa. Ralph, you
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  Speaker 1: are more than welcome to join if Drew has the
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  Speaker 1: kids on that day.
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  Speaker 2: Now, with that being said, see Corney, I took a
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  Speaker 2: little only they're out of.
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  Speaker 3: School because she'll have them for the summer.
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  Speaker 1: He'll be well, they said, August child. But hey, arrangements
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  Speaker 1: in advance, all these words. So with that being said,
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  Speaker 1: he gets to leave the basement, go upstairs and have
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  Speaker 1: all of the house and she has to vacate the home,
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  Speaker 1: which to me was interesting because even during all of
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  Speaker 1: all of that, they also had to show how much
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  Speaker 1: they make. And she is a five season housewife, and
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  Speaker 1: in my years producing housewives, if you're on the show
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  Speaker 1: for five seasons, you're making at least and when I
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  Speaker 1: say the least, the very least, the absolute very least,
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  Speaker 1: you're making okay, is twenty thousand an episode, right, and
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  Speaker 1: that's being extremely conservative.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, it gets real, right the court documents that they submitted,
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  Speaker 2: she says she's making twelve.
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  Speaker 1: Thousand a month, which as a producer, for me, unless
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  Speaker 1: you have a bad lawyer who can negotiate, I've never
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  Speaker 1: known a five season housewife on a hit show make
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  Speaker 1: less than twenty thousand an episode. That's my experience, so
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  Speaker 1: that we always shocked by that. They're also saying that
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  Speaker 1: Ralph conversely makes seventy thousand a month, which shocked us
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  Speaker 1: because we all been said, well, damn rap, what do
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  Speaker 1: you do for a living and are you single?
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  Speaker 2: So the thing for a lot of people.
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  Speaker 3: Didn't go through my head real quick.
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  Speaker 1: I was like, oh, hang rout, hey, Ralph, that basement
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  Speaker 1: must be a good batchelor path. But with that being said,
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  Speaker 1: Ralph does stuff in tech and the money's in tech girls, right.
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  Speaker 1: So the thing that was interesting is she did say
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  Speaker 1: that due to the oldest son, so she has an
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  Speaker 1: older son that she had in a previous relationship. She
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  Speaker 1: told the judge that she is fearing that her and
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  Speaker 1: her son is going to be homeless, and she is
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  Speaker 1: begging him to reverse the mandate where she has to
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  Speaker 1: be let out, I mean out by May thirty first,
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  Speaker 1: and that's where she outlined that Rap's income is three
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  Speaker 1: times more than hers and she's afraid that her oldest
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  Speaker 1: son and she will be homeless. So the removal of
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  Speaker 1: her leaving the house to me still isn't clear. And Judge,
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  Speaker 1: obviously I know you can touch on all the.
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  Speaker 4: I cannot touch on this, but I have been sitting
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  Speaker 4: here because there is one thing that I want to.
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  Speaker 2: Clarify, and just yes, please.
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  Speaker 5: That the audience understands.
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  Speaker 4: Anytime there is a separation of a marriage, you have
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  Speaker 4: to separate the essence. It's hard, it's a terrible time,
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  Speaker 4: but that is what the culmination of an end of
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  Speaker 4: a marriage results in. Again, the assets have to be split,
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  Speaker 4: and it's not that the judge or anyone is kicking
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  Speaker 4: anyone out. The judge is determining who is going to
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  Speaker 4: have possession. Those are two different things, right. The judge
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  Speaker 4: has to give possession of certain assets in the most
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  Speaker 4: echable way possible, based again on the facts that may
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  Speaker 4: or may not be public. And so I just want
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  Speaker 4: to continue to remind people that this is a legal proceeding.
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  Speaker 5: It's not a headline.
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  Speaker 4: And a judge has a really tough job when you're
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  Speaker 4: talking about how are we going to split up? I
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  Speaker 4: mean I had a friend she was presiding over a
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  Speaker 4: marriage or divorce, and she kept telling the couple, you
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  Speaker 4: all have to figure out what you want to do
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  Speaker 4: with your dog.
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  Speaker 5: They could not. They refused to come up with an agreement.
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  Speaker 4: She was forced to give them a week to say
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  Speaker 4: goodbye and they had to rehne the dog.
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  Speaker 5: But these are the things.
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  Speaker 4: Tough things happen when you don't come to the agreement
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  Speaker 4: yourself or keiki ki ki with us just here.
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  Speaker 5: And you always say.
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  Speaker 4: Get a prenum so that you know the rules in advance,
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  Speaker 4: so that you can avoid these things where you are
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  Speaker 4: putting your faith in someone else. Judges can only do
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  Speaker 4: what they can do based on the facts of the case.
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  Speaker 3: So it's it's Carlos, do we know if Drew had aprinam?
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  Speaker 2: No they did not.
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  Speaker 1: They they met, they got married a few months after meeting.
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  Speaker 2: And although she.
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  Speaker 1: Was an actress, listen as Tyranny knows. Being a judge,
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  Speaker 1: it's the same old story, right, we met, we fell
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  Speaker 1: in love, we got married A few months later we
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  Speaker 1: were in bliss and.
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  Speaker 5: In a few months it's more than enough time to
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  Speaker 5: get a prenup.
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  Speaker 1: People, you know, so that happens, you know that happened
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  Speaker 1: between them, and you know she is she is here.
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  Speaker 2: But let me ask you this, based on the fact that.
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  Speaker 1: Because they're in a situation where the judge has information
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  Speaker 1: where he or she is, I don't they didn't mention the.
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  Speaker 2: Judge where the judge he or she.
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  Speaker 1: Feels like judicial leave the home based on whatever circumstance
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  Speaker 1: of the judge felt during the proceedings that we may
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  Speaker 1: not be privy to publicly. If DRUSI do or can
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  Speaker 1: prove that her income isn't supplemented enough to where she
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  Speaker 1: and her son can find a home, does she have
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  Speaker 1: a case to stay in the house at least and.
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  Speaker 4: A divorce proceeding, there is going to be a separation
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  Speaker 4: of assets, a division of assets. The only thing anyone
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  Speaker 4: in a courtroom is going to do is separate those
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  Speaker 4: so possession is decided.
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  Speaker 3: And that just because it's been decided doesn't mean that
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  Speaker 3: once the once the divorce is final, that they can't
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  Speaker 3: split the proceeds like they have to figure out what
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  Speaker 3: they're going to do with the marital assets. But it's
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  Speaker 3: just like housing right now. She has two kids. I
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  Speaker 3: believe their ages are what like ten?
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  Speaker 5: I have no idea what their age.
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  Speaker 3: I'm waiting for Carlos to come back on screen.
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  Speaker 2: Oh their ages, Yeah, if.
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  Speaker 3: You're gonna use this, so I'm just waiting to finish.
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  Speaker 2: No, no, go ahead.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, their ages are ten and eight, so they are
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  Speaker 3: minor children. From what I'm gathering on. What I'm hearing
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  Speaker 3: is they're out of the she's out of the house temporarily,
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  Speaker 3: or she's out of the house until the divorce is final,
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  Speaker 3: and then will there be another separation of assets or
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  Speaker 3: in the settlement will she get something else or what.
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  Speaker 4: Again, I'm not aware of anything related to this case.
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  Speaker 4: I can't speak on that case, but I can tell
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  Speaker 4: you that there can be a temperate order and they
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  Speaker 4: can be a permanent order.
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  Speaker 5: And so on a temperate order.
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  Speaker 4: It is basically going to be put in place until
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  Speaker 4: the final order. It may change in the final order,
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  Speaker 4: or it may actually just stay the same and continue.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, that's good to know. So this is not necessarily
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  Speaker 3: just sett in stone. This is right now. And let's
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  Speaker 3: also not twelve thousand dollars a month in Georgia. She
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  Speaker 3: can find a place to live. She shouldn't be homeless
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  Speaker 3: at twelve thousand dollars a month. It's not like she
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  Speaker 3: can't find other accommodations. She might just not be used
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  Speaker 3: to the accommodations. But you gotta do what you gotta
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  Speaker 3: do to also take care of and provide for your son,
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  Speaker 3: your other son, your other child. So if she's homeless, that's,
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  Speaker 3: you know, she's that's a that's a personal choice. Not
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  Speaker 3: necessarily she doesn't have any money.
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  Speaker 2: She might not have one thousand. You can have a
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  Speaker 2: cute situation, cute little situation. Yeah, I agree with that.
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  Speaker 1: And you know, the thing is what is happening now,
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  Speaker 1: And this is the most recent information that came out today,
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  Speaker 1: literally eighteen minutes ago. Courtney and tyranny. That's why we're
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  Speaker 1: always here for breaking news. So Drew wants Rap thrown
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  Speaker 1: in jail. It just keeps getting worse. She asks a
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  Speaker 1: judge to put him behind bars for leaking private text messages.
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  Speaker 1: In the filing, Drew told the course she's been famous
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  Speaker 1: since age eight.
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  Speaker 2: Why is that funny?
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  Speaker 6: That was an involuntary laugh, just been famous since she
• 23:03
  Speaker 6: was eight Courtney, do you not know this?
• 23:10
  Speaker 3: I literally just found out about her from Housewives, But
• 23:15
  Speaker 3: I have seen several of her.
• 23:16
  Speaker 2: You know, watch the game.
• 23:20
  Speaker 3: Oh that's right, she was on there.
• 23:22
  Speaker 2: She was girl Melody. I'm not she wasn't Girl Melody, the.
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: Girl that was Ti No, but she played like she was.
• 23:30
  Speaker 2: Yeah anyway, and she was t boss.
• 23:33
  Speaker 3: Would you consider that famous though, Corny, Hey, that wasn't
• 23:41
  Speaker 3: my energy coming on. I was, I'm like.
• 23:44
  Speaker 2: Trany s trying so hard.
• 23:47
  Speaker 3: Would you consider that famous?
• 23:49
  Speaker 2: Yes, I'm not in it.
• 23:53
  Speaker 3: I think that's popular or known.
• 23:59
  Speaker 4: It's just because you told her to be messy today.
• 24:03
  Speaker 2: I did not tell to me, Bessie.
• 24:05
  Speaker 1: I said she will be the bestie working about No,
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: my friend, Courtney, that's a that's.
• 24:12
  Speaker 3: A very uh you're you're being very generous with the
• 24:17
  Speaker 3: words famous.
• 24:18
  Speaker 2: But okay, okay.
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: Well, she told the course she's been famous since eight
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: years old and said that her career had yes, and
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: said that her career had been on the rise with
• 24:35
  Speaker 1: the new song and several big projects. She claimed that
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: on June tenth, twenty twenty five, Ralph gave private text
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: messages he stole from her cell phone.
• 24:49
  Speaker 2: I'm putting the air coaster. That's what it says.
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: Okay stole from her cell phone to a media outlet
• 24:56
  Speaker 1: before the divorce was filed. She said they were posted
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: with false narratives purposely meant to place her in a
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: negative light. Drew said Rap also posted her text on
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: social media. She said he was trying to embarrass and
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: disparage her. The paperwork alleged while it is clear and
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: apparent that Rap has disdain for his estranged wife, such
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: disdain does not give Rap the right to publicly humiliate Drew.
• 25:29
  Speaker 1: Drew demanded that Ralph be fined one thousand dollars for
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: every violation of the mutual restraining order in place when
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: the divorce was filed, and asked for him to be
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: thrown in jail for up to twenty days.
• 25:49
  Speaker 3: Well, here's what I will say. Here's what we're not
• 25:55
  Speaker 3: saying out loud. Sounds like Drew as a What I've
• 26:01
  Speaker 3: been starting to do is look at people's representation, and
• 26:08
  Speaker 3: I've read up on the husband's lawyer. She is a
• 26:15
  Speaker 3: you know, bad mamma drama lawyer. Is Rolph's lawyer, Miss
• 26:22
  Speaker 3: Anderson attorney. Anderson is like top notch, top tier and
• 26:30
  Speaker 3: FULLUS closure.
• 26:31
  Speaker 4: Precious Anderson is also my lawyer.
• 26:33
  Speaker 5: Oh, but thats not.
• 26:37
  Speaker 3: Gonna double me that.
• 26:40
  Speaker 2: She represents you.
• 26:43
  Speaker 5: She doesn't my estate planning. Oh how much he charges
• 26:52
  Speaker 5: unbeknownst to me?
• 26:54
  Speaker 2: Is she expensive?
• 26:55
  Speaker 1: She's worth every dime five or six worths.
• 27:04
  Speaker 2: Protection one of the day. That's just tyranny your honor. Yes,
• 27:16
  Speaker 2: but that's what.
• 27:16
  Speaker 3: I'm saying, Like I'm like, listen, if she's managed to
• 27:21
  Speaker 3: protect Ralph using your your words, Uh, then you got
• 27:27
  Speaker 3: to see how this thing has played out, and it's
• 27:29
  Speaker 3: played out in his favor. And a lot of times
• 27:32
  Speaker 3: the attorneys who are representing these people, uh don't get
• 27:36
  Speaker 3: enough credit for being exceptional at what they do. So
• 27:41
  Speaker 3: she's she's she seems what I've read about her, what
• 27:46
  Speaker 3: little I know about her, And now it makes total
• 27:49
  Speaker 3: sense if that's your attorney, Tyranny, she seems exceptional, so
• 27:55
  Speaker 3: you know, and not giving any taking away anything from
• 27:59
  Speaker 3: Drew attorney, but it doesn't feel like miss Precious Anderson
• 28:04
  Speaker 3: is one to play with. She is winning in my
• 28:10
  Speaker 3: DJ Khaled's.
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: Voice, Yeah, So can you shed any legal light on
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: this notion that is it illegal in the state of
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: Georgia to lead text messages for the sake of embarrassment.
• 28:28
  Speaker 4: So remember we talked about this before when we're talking
• 28:33
  Speaker 4: about slander and libel. Yes, one of the key components
• 28:38
  Speaker 4: is going to be that the statements have to be false.
• 28:45
  Speaker 4: So you have to start with their two. They actually
• 28:50
  Speaker 4: have to cause damage that you can quantify, and you
• 28:56
  Speaker 4: have to prove that they were put in probably.
• 29:01
  Speaker 5: Marketplace or the third party.
• 29:05
  Speaker 4: So there's going to be tenants of the law that
• 29:09
  Speaker 4: has to be proved.
• 29:11
  Speaker 5: You have to be able.
• 29:13
  Speaker 4: To show the harm and quantify it. And if I
• 29:20
  Speaker 4: think that, you know, it's worth noting that if you're
• 29:27
  Speaker 4: currently going through a divorce proceeding, the divorce judge could
• 29:32
  Speaker 4: possibly address it if it's already a part of the proceedings,
• 29:38
  Speaker 4: because remember family law, divorces go through civil law. If
• 29:44
  Speaker 4: a crime has happened or a law has been broken,
• 29:47
  Speaker 4: that now brings it into the criminal hemisphere. That's going
• 29:51
  Speaker 4: to put it on two different tracks. Not to say
• 29:54
  Speaker 4: that if you have a pending criminal charge it may
• 29:57
  Speaker 4: or may not affect your divorce proceeding or vice varsa.
• 30:02
  Speaker 4: But if it is a criminal charge per se, it
• 30:05
  Speaker 4: is going to be in a different jurisdiction.
• 30:07
  Speaker 3: Got it. And I know you can't answer this, but
• 30:12
  Speaker 3: it feels like these are just tactics to prolong to
• 30:19
  Speaker 3: get things in your favor.
• 30:22
  Speaker 2: You know.
• 30:22
  Speaker 3: I don't know, and I don't know that it has
• 30:25
  Speaker 3: any real bearing on the judgment that was just rendered
• 30:30
  Speaker 3: for her to still vacate the house and him still
• 30:34
  Speaker 3: have custody.
• 30:35
  Speaker 2: Of these kids.
• 30:37
  Speaker 4: Yeah, so I think that again, we have to always
• 30:39
  Speaker 4: remember that, like I just said, civil criminal, two different tracks.
• 30:45
  Speaker 4: Even if you're in a civil manner and you're talking
• 30:48
  Speaker 4: about splitting up economics versus accusations of abuse, the judge
• 30:54
  Speaker 4: is still going to deal with those tactics separately because
• 30:58
  Speaker 4: the division of assets is very separate their conduct. So
• 31:04
  Speaker 4: the judge may deal with them one at a time
• 31:07
  Speaker 4: or together, but there's always going to be a resolve
• 31:11
  Speaker 4: for both issues.
• 31:13
  Speaker 3: Separately and in two separate courts.
• 31:16
  Speaker 4: Correct now, it can It could possantly be with the
• 31:20
  Speaker 4: same judge if it falls within the parameters of the
• 31:24
  Speaker 4: divorce proceeding. But a judge can address conduct without addressing
• 31:31
  Speaker 4: the finances, and vice versa. The judge can address the
• 31:36
  Speaker 4: finances without addressing the conduct.
• 31:39
  Speaker 5: The judge can just say I'm going to address this.
• 31:42
  Speaker 4: First and then we will come back and address this
• 31:45
  Speaker 4: going to be the perfect is interesting.
• 31:49
  Speaker 2: You better cook tyranny.
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: So but that's why I love having on this because
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: a lot of people are questioning.
• 31:56
  Speaker 2: Like the why, the why, the why, the why the why.
• 31:58
  Speaker 2: And the main thing that I'm learning.
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: From the University of Tyranny is the fact that there
• 32:05
  Speaker 1: is so much information a that we aren't privy to
• 32:09
  Speaker 1: just based on the proceedings that is happening number one,
• 32:13
  Speaker 1: number two, not everything is done in one big and
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: one big finalization order beings on the process. So that's
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: why it is interesting in what you just outline, which
• 32:25
  Speaker 1: is the judge could be saying I'm gonna deal with
• 32:28
  Speaker 1: this first and then deal with that later and then
• 32:30
  Speaker 1: and so on and so forth. Because I need to
• 32:33
  Speaker 1: remind them rain drops Jordan rap are still legally married,
• 32:38
  Speaker 1: they're not divorced, and there is a restraining order that
• 32:43
  Speaker 1: is in place, which is why more than likely he's
• 32:46
  Speaker 1: in the basement, she's upstairs, and why now that he
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: has primary physical custody.
• 32:51
  Speaker 2: And again, I could have this.
• 32:52
  Speaker 1: All wrong and stop by do judge if you if
• 32:55
  Speaker 1: you're able to, because there is a restraining order that
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: is mutual.
• 32:59
  Speaker 2: That also could mean while she has to lead.
• 33:01
  Speaker 1: The premises due to him not having primary physical cussin.
• 33:06
  Speaker 3: To be able to roam.
• 33:06
  Speaker 2: Could that be the case, judge.
• 33:09
  Speaker 4: So again I can't speak on their case, but I
• 33:11
  Speaker 4: could just tell you that again, a judge is going
• 33:14
  Speaker 4: to take all of those things into consideration, right, because
• 33:18
  Speaker 4: you have to deal with each issue as you moved
• 33:21
  Speaker 4: through the divorce proceedings.
• 33:24
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 33:25
  Speaker 3: I love about everything that you've said and everything that
• 33:29
  Speaker 3: you've taught both Carlos and I and the rain drops
• 33:32
  Speaker 3: is it really allows us to understand the position of
• 33:37
  Speaker 3: a judge and it not being emotional like it really
• 33:41
  Speaker 3: so you've always said, it's just based on the facts.
• 33:44
  Speaker 3: It's just based on the facts. We as the audience
• 33:47
  Speaker 3: and people who are getting this little slithers of information,
• 33:51
  Speaker 3: we are react, and nine times out of ten we're
• 33:56
  Speaker 3: reacting to the emotions that we're seeing, to the tears
• 33:59
  Speaker 3: that were being shed on the screens, to the comments.
• 34:04
  Speaker 3: You know, I'm very trigger happy when it comes to
• 34:07
  Speaker 3: the comments on what I agree. But it really does
• 34:11
  Speaker 3: put into perspective the law and order of things and
• 34:17
  Speaker 3: the order of things is Hey, there, there's this couple.
• 34:23
  Speaker 3: They're on the you know, they're going through a divorce.
• 34:27
  Speaker 3: There are restraining orders in place, and there are children involved,
• 34:31
  Speaker 3: and so we have if we're solely looking at it
• 34:34
  Speaker 3: from family law perspective, we've got to do what's going
• 34:37
  Speaker 3: to be in the best interests of the children. The
• 34:39
  Speaker 3: only emotions that are being taken into consideration are that
• 34:44
  Speaker 3: of the stability and well being an emotional state of
• 34:48
  Speaker 3: the kids. The parents are expected to be parents, The
• 34:52
  Speaker 3: adults are expected to be adults, and then handle the
• 34:56
  Speaker 3: other affairs unemotional if at all possible. Uh, and just
• 35:04
  Speaker 3: get to the facts of the matter that are you know,
• 35:09
  Speaker 3: that are still be in the best interests of separating
• 35:13
  Speaker 3: as cleanly as possible. I like that you keep reminding us,
• 35:17
  Speaker 3: and it just clicked for me that this is not
• 35:21
  Speaker 3: about how we feel about a thing, It's about the
• 35:24
  Speaker 3: facts stuff.
• 35:25
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and listen, a lot of people are basing their
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: bias on the show. Listen, Rap isn't painted as a
• 35:32
  Speaker 1: good person on the show based on the power of
• 35:36
  Speaker 1: just him and Drew. You know, it has nothing to
• 35:38
  Speaker 1: do with production. The producers is based on the fact
• 35:41
  Speaker 1: that the moment they got on the show, we were
• 35:44
  Speaker 1: told that he was in Tampa doing who knows what.
• 35:46
  Speaker 2: He has denied that he was cheating.
• 35:48
  Speaker 1: She says he did, and we have seen them having
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: this very tumultuous marriage. And Andrew so Door has a
• 35:56
  Speaker 1: lot of fans. I love Juice Door. She's a friend
• 35:59
  Speaker 1: of mine. She's been on my podcast. I've been very
• 36:02
  Speaker 1: encouraging to her, saying how she needs to walk away
• 36:06
  Speaker 1: from the situation to better her life.
• 36:09
  Speaker 2: I'm not against Ralph because of that. I have met Ralph.
• 36:12
  Speaker 2: He was nice to me, and I only judge people
• 36:15
  Speaker 2: based on how they interact with me. I'm not married,
• 36:18
  Speaker 2: I'm not in god bedroom.
• 36:19
  Speaker 1: I don't know all the details, and so I can
• 36:22
  Speaker 1: only base things on what I am aware of, what
• 36:25
  Speaker 1: I see with my own eyes. The thing with Ralph is, unfortunately, Yeah,
• 36:31
  Speaker 1: people are like, he you're a nasty man for taking
• 36:38
  Speaker 1: the kids away from her, and I get that base
• 36:41
  Speaker 1: on just the society we live in where mothers are
• 36:45
  Speaker 1: harolded as being the best parent out of the bunch. However,
• 36:51
  Speaker 1: the judge made a decision based on facts that he
• 36:54
  Speaker 1: or she saw. That we are privy to some, but
• 36:57
  Speaker 1: we're not privy to all. And I think in that
• 37:00
  Speaker 1: we have to.
• 37:00
  Speaker 2: Respect the judge's decision.
• 37:03
  Speaker 4: And I think that you want to always remember like
• 37:06
  Speaker 4: the father can speak for himself, the mother can't speak
• 37:09
  Speaker 4: for herself, right the court. When children are involved, it
• 37:12
  Speaker 4: is our job to speak for the children. The children
• 37:18
  Speaker 4: has to have a champion.
• 37:21
  Speaker 5: What is best for the children.
• 37:23
  Speaker 4: So I understand that headlines emotions will charge people and
• 37:28
  Speaker 4: drive them to want to defend certain adults or certain parties.
• 37:34
  Speaker 5: But again we cannot lose sight of that.
• 37:37
  Speaker 4: We have to take into consideration the well being of children,
• 37:43
  Speaker 4: right yeah, yeah, And.
• 37:46
  Speaker 3: In this respect, the truancy in keeping kids out of
• 37:50
  Speaker 3: school for twenty plus days, that's concerning. That's concerning.
• 37:57
  Speaker 5: And in Georgia, you know, truancy charges can be brought
• 38:01
  Speaker 5: against the parents.
• 38:06
  Speaker 2: Explain that to us, please, So if.
• 38:10
  Speaker 4: Your child is a minor child and does not go
• 38:12
  Speaker 4: to school, you can be charged with truancy. The social
• 38:16
  Speaker 4: worker is going to reach out to you, the school
• 38:19
  Speaker 4: will file charges against the parent, and that is a
• 38:25
  Speaker 4: real crime.
• 38:27
  Speaker 2: Is does that crime sometimes include jail time?
• 38:31
  Speaker 4: It depends on the jurisdiction, Okay, because like do you
• 38:37
  Speaker 4: know again, it can include a fine and or jail
• 38:41
  Speaker 4: time depending on the jurisdiction.
• 38:45
  Speaker 3: Because I only know about this, and Carlos you may
• 38:50
  Speaker 3: have experienced some of this when you have when you're
• 38:53
  Speaker 3: running large productions, especially in scripted, you have to kids
• 39:01
  Speaker 3: can only be out of school for x a number
• 39:05
  Speaker 3: of days, and if they are out of school, then
• 39:09
  Speaker 3: you have to legally, at least here in California, you
• 39:13
  Speaker 3: have to have a tutor, a certified tutor, home school
• 39:19
  Speaker 3: and homeschool you have to go through so many hoops
• 39:23
  Speaker 3: to make sure that the child is learning. And it's
• 39:29
  Speaker 3: the same with rules and unions, and there's a lot
• 39:33
  Speaker 3: of this is my corporate executive studio executive hat on,
• 39:38
  Speaker 3: but there are a lot of variables that have to
• 39:44
  Speaker 3: be in play in order for minors to be able
• 39:49
  Speaker 3: to even be with their parents.
• 39:53
  Speaker 4: So the goal is not to prosecute parents. The goal
• 39:56
  Speaker 4: is to have children in school right. And that doesn't
• 40:02
  Speaker 4: mean that, oh my gosh, you lose your kid misses
• 40:05
  Speaker 4: twenty days and now all of a sudden you know
• 40:08
  Speaker 4: you're going to jail.
• 40:09
  Speaker 5: It's an alarm like sometimes children are sick. You know,
• 40:12
  Speaker 5: there's a thing of.
• 40:13
  Speaker 4: Excused and unexcused absences, So that may exceed it, but
• 40:18
  Speaker 4: that means that the school is getting involved to address
• 40:21
  Speaker 4: it because as long as the children are minor, they
• 40:24
  Speaker 4: are required to attend school.
• 40:29
  Speaker 1: Yeah, so this is unfortunately going to be ongoing. It
• 40:36
  Speaker 1: literally is getting messier by the moment. And look, my
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: heart goes out to the families, of course, Drew and
• 40:44
  Speaker 1: rap and I say that the kids, but most importantly
• 40:47
  Speaker 1: because you know, the kids are minors in this situation,
• 40:50
  Speaker 1: and this is something to where in a perfect world,
• 40:55
  Speaker 1: he as, you will want your parents get along for
• 40:58
  Speaker 1: the sake of your welfare. Unfortunately that doesn't seem that
• 41:02
  Speaker 1: does not seem to be the case. Right now, Before
• 41:07
  Speaker 1: we end, I do want to read what Drew Sodora
• 41:12
  Speaker 1: posted about what she's going through so that people, you know,
• 41:17
  Speaker 1: my audience are the Reality fans, so they can understand
• 41:19
  Speaker 1: exactly how she feels about it, because she did release
• 41:25
  Speaker 1: a statement and I want to be able to read
• 41:29
  Speaker 1: that because listen, I feel like at the end of
• 41:32
  Speaker 1: the day, when you are a mother, despite mistakes you
• 41:37
  Speaker 1: may have made intentionally or unintentionally, this this.
• 41:46
  Speaker 3: It's tricky too because as a child outside of that marriage,
• 41:51
  Speaker 3: so you're separating siblings. So yeah, it's this is not great.
• 41:59
  Speaker 3: It's not She's not a bad mother from everything that
• 42:03
  Speaker 3: we could see. So separations are hard, you know, Divorces
• 42:09
  Speaker 3: are hard, especially when you have humans, you know, like
• 42:15
  Speaker 3: children involved, because nobody wins. He doesn't win by not
• 42:21
  Speaker 3: having their mother in the house. She doesn't win by
• 42:26
  Speaker 3: not having the father in their lives there. It's gonna
• 42:28
  Speaker 3: show up in one way or the other. I don't
• 42:32
  Speaker 3: view it as a win that I had full legal
• 42:36
  Speaker 3: and physical custody of my daughter because there's still things
• 42:40
  Speaker 3: like donuts and dads that he wasn't there for. So
• 42:43
  Speaker 3: it's there are things in variables, And like Tyranny says,
• 42:49
  Speaker 3: if there is a way when things are good to
• 42:52
  Speaker 3: better prepare for when they get tricky, then that's what
• 42:56
  Speaker 3: you should do. Ask those important questions. It's like, what
• 43:00
  Speaker 3: kind of parent are you? How is disciplined? Like everything
• 43:05
  Speaker 3: needs to be discussed. You just brought up a good point.
• 43:08
  Speaker 3: And Carlo, since we are both for baby lovers, what
• 43:13
  Speaker 3: happens to the animals?
• 43:15
  Speaker 5: Like all of those things.
• 43:17
  Speaker 3: When you're falling in love and getting involved, you just
• 43:21
  Speaker 3: have to have the real grown up conversations past the
• 43:25
  Speaker 3: infatuation to just handle the business. But what did miss
• 43:30
  Speaker 3: Drews say?
• 43:31
  Speaker 5: And I just want to say, raindrops.
• 43:33
  Speaker 4: You really have to also be patient with the court
• 43:36
  Speaker 4: system because just think about an onion.
• 43:38
  Speaker 5: It's just like an onion.
• 43:39
  Speaker 4: You know, the court proceedings are layered and the court
• 43:45
  Speaker 4: is going to peel it back layer by layer by layer.
• 43:49
  Speaker 4: So you're not going to get all of it at
• 43:51
  Speaker 4: one time. That's not going to be how court handles
• 43:54
  Speaker 4: a case responsibly.
• 43:56
  Speaker 5: They're gonna deal with one layer at a time.
• 44:00
  Speaker 1: Yeah, very good. Note she just said. Some details regarding
• 44:06
  Speaker 1: my divorce have recently become public, although the process is
• 44:11
  Speaker 1: not yet finalized. During this time, Ralph and I are
• 44:14
  Speaker 1: committed to co parenting and doing what's best for our children,
• 44:19
  Speaker 1: whiles certain things are beyond my control. My focus remains
• 44:23
  Speaker 1: on showing up every day as the best mother I
• 44:26
  Speaker 1: can be. Living the public eye comes with challenges, but
• 44:30
  Speaker 1: I'm choosing to move forward with grace, growth and intention.
• 44:33
  Speaker 1: My children on my priority, and I'm committed to leading
• 44:37
  Speaker 1: with love, peace and positivity. There is no ill intent
• 44:41
  Speaker 1: towards anyone, just a continued focus on healing, evolving, and
• 44:46
  Speaker 1: becoming the best version of myself.
• 44:50
  Speaker 2: I thought that was mature.
• 44:51
  Speaker 1: So rain Drops, we will update you as more information
• 44:55
  Speaker 1: comes according any words.
• 45:02
  Speaker 3: Now you know this, this part is hard. Tyranny and
• 45:06
  Speaker 3: I are working on a new podcast called The Empty
• 45:09
  Speaker 3: Nester and these are going to be parent things that
• 45:15
  Speaker 3: come up when your children go away. And we were
• 45:20
  Speaker 3: just talking about this on on what terms do you
• 45:25
  Speaker 3: find yourself an empty nester? And so this is where
• 45:30
  Speaker 3: my heart does break for Drew because she unfortunately the
• 45:35
  Speaker 3: challenge of being a celebrity and famous, as she would
• 45:40
  Speaker 3: call herself, is that you live a lot of your
• 45:44
  Speaker 3: life out loud and in the public's eye. So I
• 45:49
  Speaker 3: hope it resolves and resolves.
• 45:51
  Speaker 5: Well, that was really sweet and shady at the same time.
• 45:55
  Speaker 2: She can't help herself.
• 45:58
  Speaker 1: Carney could not help herself. She literally cannot help herself.
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: But that's why we love Courtney and that's why we
• 46:07
  Speaker 1: love Tyranny Drops. We will start doing specials when it
• 46:12
  Speaker 1: comes to some of these crime stories. So when there's
• 46:15
  Speaker 1: our breaking news like what we just did today with
• 46:18
  Speaker 1: Juice of Door rap Piment, because this has been crazy
• 46:21
  Speaker 1: since last week and there's more information that came out,
• 46:24
  Speaker 1: like I said today, which is why we want to
• 46:26
  Speaker 1: hop on so you know where to find us to
• 46:29
  Speaker 1: get all of the facts and just Tyranny's expertise drops, yes,
• 46:37
  Speaker 1: and where can so when does the podcast The Empty
• 46:40
  Speaker 1: Nesters launch, Courtney that you and Tyranny are just.
• 46:42
  Speaker 3: Launch on Mother's Day, that is our new day, and
• 46:49
  Speaker 3: tell them I can find it.
• 46:50
  Speaker 4: And I am going to have plenty opinions about that
• 46:54
  Speaker 4: because that is my first role, my most important role
• 46:58
  Speaker 4: is a mother.
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  Speaker 5: And the transition has been really, really, really difficult for me.
• 47:05
  Speaker 5: I had a hard time.
• 47:06
  Speaker 4: I'm really just coming out of a little mini depression
• 47:10
  Speaker 4: over it, and I felt like I went from being
• 47:13
  Speaker 4: depressed to angry because I felt like people don't talk
• 47:16
  Speaker 4: about this enough, Like I didn't feel really warned, right.
• 47:20
  Speaker 3: Not.
• 47:22
  Speaker 2: What happens when the children leave the nest?
• 47:25
  Speaker 4: Yes, you just you hear about people just constantly talking
• 47:29
  Speaker 4: about how they're going to get their lives back, They're
• 47:31
  Speaker 4: going to do this, They're going to travel, they.
• 47:33
  Speaker 5: You know, people have these positive outputs that I didn't experience.
• 47:37
  Speaker 4: I've lived a full life with my children, and it
• 47:40
  Speaker 4: was like one of the most unnatural things that's happened
• 47:43
  Speaker 4: to me in life.
• 47:44
  Speaker 5: Right. I didn't like it.
• 47:46
  Speaker 4: I still don't like it, but I've adjusted better, and
• 47:50
  Speaker 4: you know.
• 47:51
  Speaker 5: Literally not to drag this all.
• 47:53
  Speaker 4: When Courtney called me one day and wanted to talk
• 47:55
  Speaker 4: about something, She's like, what are you doing?
• 47:57
  Speaker 5: Are you busy?
• 47:58
  Speaker 4: I'm like, no, I'm laying on the sofa depressed, like
• 48:02
  Speaker 4: not doing anything because I don't know how to deal
• 48:05
  Speaker 4: with being in this house alone without my children.
• 48:09
  Speaker 5: She was so shocked that I was so honest.
• 48:12
  Speaker 4: I was just really angry about it, like why didn't
• 48:15
  Speaker 4: anybody tell me it was gonna be this hard?
• 48:18
  Speaker 3: And that turned into a whole waiting Textell moment because
• 48:21
  Speaker 3: I was like, wait, finally I can say this out loud,
• 48:26
  Speaker 3: because they don't. They don't teach you how to be
• 48:28
  Speaker 3: a parent, and they don't teach you how to let go.
• 48:33
  Speaker 5: They don't, and how are you supposed to let go?
• 48:39
  Speaker 4: Like, we come from a culture of people, you know,
• 48:41
  Speaker 4: at the beginning of the time, all families basically stayed
• 48:45
  Speaker 4: in a try together. There were babies, there were mothers, fathers.
• 48:50
  Speaker 5: And elders. Those are your roads.
• 48:52
  Speaker 4: Now there's the statistic that say you see your kid,
• 48:55
  Speaker 4: let's than thirty times in life after they turned eighteen.
• 49:00
  Speaker 5: That kisses me off.
• 49:03
  Speaker 4: Like, I really I don't want to get on the
• 49:07
  Speaker 4: soapbox today, but I am really.
• 49:11
  Speaker 2: Your podcast so that.
• 49:16
  Speaker 4: You will see a very opinionated Tyranny about this because
• 49:20
  Speaker 4: I have a lot of opinions about empty nesting.
• 49:24
  Speaker 1: Yeah well, Courtney, where can they find you and this
• 49:27
  Speaker 1: podcast and support it.
• 49:29
  Speaker 3: It's gonna be It's gonna launch on YouTube and then audible.
• 49:34
  Speaker 3: We're in still talks right now of who's gonna have
• 49:38
  Speaker 3: the audio versions of it. But wherever people uh find
• 49:45
  Speaker 3: their podcast, Tyranny and I will be on talking shop
• 49:49
  Speaker 3: about empty nesting and the tools that help you navigate
• 49:55
  Speaker 3: being on your own and remembering you.
• 49:59
  Speaker 5: And this is not just a gender thing. There no
• 50:02
  Speaker 5: men who are equally struggling.
• 50:07
  Speaker 3: Married couples who are going through it. My sister and
• 50:11
  Speaker 3: brother in law going through it as their first their
• 50:14
  Speaker 3: firstborn leaves the nest.
• 50:17
  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, well listen, this is why I'm glad you
• 50:19
  Speaker 1: guys are Ben doing this because the beauty of this
• 50:22
  Speaker 1: is is one of his kind. So congratulations on this
• 50:26
  Speaker 1: and I really can't wait to listen to it.
• 50:28
  Speaker 2: So rain Drops.
• 50:30
  Speaker 1: Once it's official, please follow my Instagram page two for
• 50:33
  Speaker 1: updates because I'll be making sure the links in my
• 50:36
  Speaker 1: bio for the girls.
• 50:38
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, thank you Carlos for giving us a year.
• 50:43
  Speaker 3: People don't realize. And I said this at the first
• 50:45
  Speaker 3: one and I'm going to say it at this one,
• 50:48
  Speaker 3: and I know we'll be doing some pop ups here
• 50:50
  Speaker 3: and now. But so rain Drops, please support anything this
• 50:56
  Speaker 3: man does because Carlos King has allowed his platform has
• 51:03
  Speaker 3: given opportunities, jobs, just advice and friendship to countless people,
• 51:12
  Speaker 3: including myself, including Tyranny. You're a champion for not only
• 51:16
  Speaker 3: women but for people in this very very very very
• 51:21
  Speaker 3: very difficult industry. And so just kudos to you for
• 51:25
  Speaker 3: always being honest, always being transparent, always leveraging your celebrity
• 51:32
  Speaker 3: and your brand and your brain.
• 51:36
  Speaker 4: You're brilliant man telling our stories no matter what the
• 51:40
  Speaker 4: story is.
• 51:42
  Speaker 5: That is a rarity.
• 51:44
  Speaker 4: You know.
• 51:44
  Speaker 5: We are colorful people who are not given the opportunity
• 51:48
  Speaker 5: as often for our stories to be told.
• 51:51
  Speaker 4: And so yes, definitely kudos to you. I think we
• 51:54
  Speaker 4: should have a rain Drop party in Tampa.
• 51:56
  Speaker 1: Yeah listen, and obviously you're more than well to come
• 52:02
  Speaker 1: to any day that we have. But no, Courtney and Tierney,
• 52:05
  Speaker 1: thank you guys so much. This has been a great great,
• 52:08
  Speaker 1: great time for her for me as well. I've learned
• 52:11
  Speaker 1: a lot according to law school, and she's two years
• 52:14
  Speaker 1: of hitting me because I'm definitely looking into that myself,
• 52:18
  Speaker 1: because I am in love of all of the legalities
• 52:21
  Speaker 1: of the stuff we talk about.
• 52:22
  Speaker 2: So I love you too, thank you so much.
• 52:25
  Speaker 1: And listen, Cortney Parker called me a celebrity, so like,
• 52:29
  Speaker 1: that makes me happy.
• 52:34
  Speaker 3: You're a celebrity, yes, but.
• 52:39
  Speaker 4: Housewives, I think you are.
• 52:44
  Speaker 3: I would have been on a high note. I wouldn't
• 52:47
  Speaker 3: have reacted the way that I reacted. Carlo said, well,
• 52:51
  Speaker 3: you know I'm famous, and Drew, if you're watching, I was, Shay,
• 53:01
  Speaker 3: that was surprise.
• 53:03
  Speaker 2: But I am duh, I'm done. I love you guys
• 53:08
  Speaker 2: so much. Have a good weekend, lady,