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Daughters of the Game, Women of Their Own with Victoria Green & Chonell Springs · Born To The Game Podcast

• 0:29
  Speaker 1: Let's see. Hey, we're back, we were back episode.
• 0:35
  Speaker 2: We've had a time, have we not?
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  Speaker 3: It's been a fun time.
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  Speaker 4: Wait a minute, this is our season finale. It is
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  Speaker 4: season one finale.
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  Speaker 3: You guys have seen you guys are the season one
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  Speaker 3: finale of our season opener.
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  Speaker 5: Isn't that fun?
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  Speaker 4: This is a special show. Yes, okay, I'm really super excited.
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  Speaker 6: I am too.
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  Speaker 2: So let's introduce our beautiful guests.
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  Speaker 1: I know the audience is like, well, who are they?
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  Speaker 6: Right?
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  Speaker 3: Like, who are these gorgeous with girls on the couch? Couch?
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  Speaker 4: Okay, So with us today, we have the daughter of
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  Speaker 4: Thorough Bailey and Be, a legend singer, author, motivational speaker,
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  Speaker 4: and current broadcast analysts for the Utah Jazz Chanel Springs. Hello,
• 1:18
  Speaker 4: these long legs, so long and beautiful. We have we
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  Speaker 4: have the daughter of Victor Green, NFL legend and New
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  Speaker 4: York Jets' best strong Safety. Wow, Victoria Green, welcome best
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  Speaker 4: strong Safety.
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  Speaker 3: And apparently no one else has that.
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  Speaker 7: Amount of tackles.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, like wow, the.
• 1:49
  Speaker 7: Amount of tackles in thirty years. Yeah, if you look
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  Speaker 7: at the list, he's the only safety.
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  Speaker 1: Incredible. We're gonna get into it.
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  Speaker 8: We're gonna get into that, into it, but first let's
• 1:58
  Speaker 8: do a little you know curio.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, everyone understanding, my name is not Mariah for no reason.
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  Speaker 8: Okay, I can really saying for all of you out
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  Speaker 8: there that don't know, Mariah is actually named after Mariah Carey. Yeah,
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  Speaker 8: so I am there you go, But Mariah, do you
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  Speaker 8: know you.
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  Speaker 3: Want to know a funny story?
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  Speaker 9: Okay, I tried out from my choir elementary school and
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  Speaker 9: I did not make it.
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  Speaker 2: But wait, did your mom tell you to tell you
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  Speaker 2: that she like got put.
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  Speaker 1: Out of the church choir.
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  Speaker 3: No, she didn't.
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  Speaker 6: She did it.
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  Speaker 3: Embarrassing, so embarrassing.
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  Speaker 2: How you put out a church choir like everybody?
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  Speaker 8: Everybody she said that she got put out of church choir.
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  Speaker 7: That is crazy.
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  Speaker 8: Well, okay, so we're gonna sing because we love nineties.
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  Speaker 3: We love nineties R and B here music.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, so we just.
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  Speaker 9: We love slow jams. When I was pregnant, that's all
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  Speaker 9: my husband and I.
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  Speaker 5: Related, just slow jams.
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  Speaker 7: I'm a slow before.
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  Speaker 10: Okay, it'll get ever, That's how I got him right.
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  Speaker 7: We love music.
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  Speaker 1: We get ready to music, you know, So let's break
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  Speaker 1: the ice.
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  Speaker 7: You guys down already to sing? Can terrible don't.
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  Speaker 3: But that's that's cool.
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  Speaker 5: I feel like you.
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  Speaker 7: I feel like yourself.
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  Speaker 8: I was about to say, yeah, you're dassing, so I'm
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  Speaker 8: saying like it's in the moment. You know people who
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  Speaker 8: are like I can't you know, I can't sing with them?
• 3:23
  Speaker 1: They break out my girl?
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  Speaker 6: All right?
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  Speaker 3: Ever, okay, so who we got first on our list?
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  Speaker 6: Okay?
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  Speaker 5: Who we are?
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  Speaker 6: D J.
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  Speaker 7: Hit Oh shoot, we know this one.
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  Speaker 8: Y'all know this one right that time you come, she
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  Speaker 8: has a beautiful time.
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  Speaker 3: No let's to say?
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  Speaker 5: Can well?
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  Speaker 9: Okay, I hear the ripples and the boys?
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  Speaker 5: Right right?
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  Speaker 11: So what's he did your You need a hair brush?
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  Speaker 5: But it is to me.
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  Speaker 8: Such a crazy way whatever.
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  Speaker 5: It is that you do, when you do what you do?
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  Speaker 5: When a yeah, so weak is it me? I can
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  Speaker 5: hardly speak. I lose contruth. So it takes gold and
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  Speaker 5: me in the days is so amazing.
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  Speaker 8: Yes, I want used to stay with me by my
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  Speaker 8: black fellow, my pride.
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  Speaker 5: Oh love it so sweet? Text me right off from
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  Speaker 5: my feet.
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  Speaker 3: Go ahead out, y'all, go hay.
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  Speaker 9: Can explain why you love andsh it out.
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  Speaker 3: I've got one more here we go. All right, Now,
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  Speaker 3: that was a good one now that song.
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  Speaker 2: Oh oh shoot, okay, can turn it out there we go.
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  Speaker 1: What's gonna brow it?
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  Speaker 3: It's the course that's gonna get all of us need.
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  Speaker 5: To see you go gon grow it.
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  Speaker 8: Oh don't give me that green.
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  Speaker 7: You can.
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  Speaker 5: Give me like green.
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  Speaker 6: I was like, I.
• 5:39
  Speaker 8: Need some titles, meadows, I need some titles.
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  Speaker 6: Definitely need some title.
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  Speaker 3: So that this is his song. My god, we had
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  Speaker 3: to have you here.
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  Speaker 5: Thank you so much.
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  Speaker 3: We're gonna play some games with you here. So for
• 6:01
  Speaker 3: the audience, Roe and I.
• 6:02
  Speaker 9: Are cousins, so we are related. We were like, so,
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  Speaker 9: why did he just randomly pop up the game podcast.
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  Speaker 12: She's like, oh, we are We're family. Family, family, family.
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  Speaker 8: You went to the game love love you uncle. We
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  Speaker 8: went to high school together, did Yeah we were to
• 6:23
  Speaker 8: high school together. Okay, yeah yeah uncle Mike, yes, guy, yeah, yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, that's that's that's my guy.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah.
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  Speaker 8: Yeah, has a tour coming up, so we gotta talk
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  Speaker 8: about that before he goes. You know, yeah, we got
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  Speaker 8: he's gotta yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, go to Baltimore.
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  Speaker 12: You're coming to the show. You hit me.
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  Speaker 13: It's me October London and.
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  Speaker 12: Yeah it's gonna be great.
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  Speaker 13: How long man a whole month and a half April
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  Speaker 13: seventeenth to May thirty.
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  Speaker 7: First running in the city.
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  Speaker 8: There.
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  Speaker 12: You I love touring.
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  Speaker 13: It's very tiring, you know, and it's strenuous and it's
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  Speaker 13: it's a lot of kooties out there, you know.
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  Speaker 12: It's a lot of touching people. Thinking about think about that.
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  Speaker 13: When you do a meet and greet, hundreds of people
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  Speaker 13: want to hug you, shake your head, put their breath
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  Speaker 13: in it. They want to talk, they want to tell
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  Speaker 13: you their story, and they like.
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  Speaker 7: Potato.
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  Speaker 13: But it's great, you know, because I'm a military bread
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  Speaker 13: so I grew up just traveling and meeting new people.
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  Speaker 12: So I'm able to adapt and move and just talk
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  Speaker 12: to anybody.
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  Speaker 13: So I like going out and just meeting people because
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  Speaker 13: there's a.
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  Speaker 12: Lot of people in this world and there's a.
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  Speaker 13: Lot of like just all the different types of people,
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  Speaker 13: you know what I'm saying. So I like that part
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  Speaker 13: about it, you know what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 12: And getting to go to new cities and I like,
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  Speaker 12: you know, I like shopping.
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  Speaker 8: I like how many cities are y'all going to?
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  Speaker 12: It's like twenty something.
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  Speaker 8: Twenty one month, wow, So like every few days every month, twenty.
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  Speaker 1: Cities and one month.
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  Speaker 7: Wait, so you guys like.
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  Speaker 3: Tour buses and stuff like it, or.
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  Speaker 10: I'm flying not me.
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  Speaker 12: Well, I'm a special guest.
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  Speaker 13: So it's really it's really October's tour and I'm just
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  Speaker 13: like they was.
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  Speaker 12: Like some I'm coming and be like remember me, all right,
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  Speaker 12: I'm about to put some new ship.
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  Speaker 13: Oh yeah, I'm putting music out. I just became independent.
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  Speaker 13: I just left my label.
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  Speaker 12: It's been it's been a long time coming.
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  Speaker 13: And I've been the creative of all my music and
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  Speaker 13: my visuals and my homies I put together. So it's like,
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  Speaker 13: you know, if I could do it by myself anyway, you.
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  Speaker 12: Know, but I had.
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  Speaker 13: I had a great experience with the label, and they
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  Speaker 13: put me into a space where a lot of people
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  Speaker 13: know me now, and so now I can be like,
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  Speaker 13: so there's so much more that's.
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  Speaker 7: Foundation.
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  Speaker 13: Take a minute to like decompressed and re learn and
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  Speaker 13: unlearned industry standards and just tap back into just being
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  Speaker 13: a free creative and not really necessarily trying to create
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  Speaker 13: to fit radio or like, Okay, this is what it's showing.
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  Speaker 13: Your demographic is liking, so you have to create that.
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  Speaker 13: I'm over here, hurting, bro, you want me to make
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  Speaker 13: a party song, or I'm not hurting you want me,
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  Speaker 13: or I don't want to talk about I want to
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  Speaker 13: talk about the condition of the world.
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  Speaker 12: You want to talk about you know. So it's like
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  Speaker 12: it's interesting.
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  Speaker 7: These people forget that you're an artist. You're not this
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  Speaker 7: robot that just artist.
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  Speaker 12: But I mean that's the thing. When you go to
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  Speaker 12: a machine, you are part of you. You have to
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  Speaker 12: remember that that's what you signed up for. What you wanted.
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  Speaker 13: Yeah, you wanted to be put into the space where
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  Speaker 13: people see you more. So it's like it is market
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  Speaker 13: and studying statistics and what people are liking. But then
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  Speaker 13: sometimes it's manipulated. Sometimes it's not necessarily correct. This is
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  Speaker 13: based on this and people want to feel. Again, it's
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  Speaker 13: like we can get the feelings that you use that machine.
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  Speaker 7: That's exactly.
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  Speaker 5: So when are we expecting music?
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  Speaker 13: The first joint is dropping on the eighteenth.
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  Speaker 7: Exclusive and Behaved.
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  Speaker 13: Exclusive and then my official first single is dropping first.
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  Speaker 12: We came back.
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  Speaker 4: And we get you before you get Yeah, they just
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  Speaker 4: we sold out the first night, so they added the
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  Speaker 4: second night.
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  Speaker 13: Oh wow, I think it's the fourteenth of May.
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  Speaker 8: We have to come to.
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  Speaker 12: That backstage and do an interview.
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  Speaker 3: Because we'll be here, I mean I'll be here by
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  Speaker 3: May that.
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  Speaker 14: Okay, yeah, do y'all want to do like a quick
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  Speaker 14: grad Let's just we've been doing games, bro, so you
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  Speaker 14: gotta you gotta play a lot.
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  Speaker 12: All right.
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  Speaker 8: So this isn't the category of grits.
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  Speaker 2: So with sugar or with butter, or however you take them.
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  Speaker 7: I hate I don't like sugar butter.
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  Speaker 8: But if I were, if you were to have some grits,
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  Speaker 8: how would you want to prepare with sugar or.
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  Speaker 13: Butter or salt or I was about to write a
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  Speaker 13: whole paragraph and I prefer not, but okay.
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  Speaker 7: I prefer how you don't.
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  Speaker 3: I prefer not.
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  Speaker 8: But if I had to and like sugar, and all right,
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  Speaker 8: here we got next. It's the texture I loves every
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  Speaker 8: Saturday morning for breakfast.
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  Speaker 7: Okay, here we go.
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  Speaker 1: Yacht or private jets.
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  Speaker 2: Everybody's like jan and that's an.
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  Speaker 3: Easy one for me. I hate flying catch on.
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  Speaker 1: You will you will?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: Mostly because and I legroom. That was like, I like this.
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  Speaker 5: On a.
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  Speaker 7: Everybody's getting the jets.
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  Speaker 8: Exactly me know, I'm a yacht girl on the boom
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  Speaker 8: anywhere on the jets.
• 12:47
  Speaker 5: I hate airplane I hate drive.
• 12:50
  Speaker 6: Everybody drives.
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  Speaker 14: Catch me on the tochoo there I can't find on
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  Speaker 14: the blank New Orleans.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah I did.
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  Speaker 12: I don't like that.
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  Speaker 7: Okay, okay, live band or d J.
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  Speaker 3: I feel like I know this for real. No, I'm like,
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  Speaker 3: I don't know. I kind of like, Okay, I knew
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  Speaker 3: you would choose live d J.
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  Speaker 12: Why.
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  Speaker 1: I don't really why.
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  Speaker 10: I think, yeah, amazing, no shade to DJs, but it's
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  Speaker 10: just something about.
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  Speaker 8: You can can't feel it for sure, but feel for
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  Speaker 8: a variety.
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  Speaker 2: I enjoyed J.
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  Speaker 1: I love about DJ, but live band definitely.
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  Speaker 7: Takes every time.
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  Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, okay, okay, we're going into We're going into
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  Speaker 8: summers and they can't time ll not real.
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  Speaker 1: Sorry your vacation moving into summer vacation?
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  Speaker 6: I was like, but not.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, So would you take your vacation at the beach
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  Speaker 4: or the mountains?
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  Speaker 1: Mhm beach or the mountains beach me anytime?
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  Speaker 6: Beach time.
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  Speaker 12: I don't want to a nice house on the beach.
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  Speaker 1: Wait, wait, so.
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  Speaker 3: Which island would you'll move to? I love the Bahamas,
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  Speaker 3: I love Jamaica, Jamaica.
• 14:37
  Speaker 2: I have been to Jamaica to Mega, but you will
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  Speaker 2: be going on you have to go.
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  Speaker 12: Yep, so definitely right by Costa Rica.
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  Speaker 13: Yeah, Columbia right there?
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  Speaker 8: Yes, Okay, last but a least we are in Atlanta.
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  Speaker 8: Coke or PEPSI neither, but I want to do.
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  Speaker 3: One more after that? Okay, because I thought of it.
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  Speaker 11: It makes me think of definitely coke for head to
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  Speaker 11: grow soda misconceptions talking about.
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  Speaker 12: Neither, but I'll take the ca.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, one more tattoos are oh yeah, we'd about that one.
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  Speaker 5: Tattoos are piercing.
• 15:26
  Speaker 15: Like wow, this or that tat tat chat piercing.
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  Speaker 7: I love thirteen tattoos.
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  Speaker 3: You have thirty yours a beautiful.
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  Speaker 6: Cheeks peas.
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  Speaker 8: Yes.
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  Speaker 10: I think I like about piercings though, is that they're
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  Speaker 10: not forever.
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  Speaker 6: You can a period of like being completely pierced.
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  Speaker 8: But then the tattoos definitely definitely getting more tax Where
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  Speaker 8: do you want yours?
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  Speaker 7: I mean I'm probably gonna finish my hand, my arm.
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  Speaker 12: Okay, and good tattoos?
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  Speaker 8: Yeah, I mean, I mean I have so many on
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  Speaker 8: my back and you know I have them everywhere.
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  Speaker 3: Now do y'all have like one tattoo artist that does
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  Speaker 3: all of it?
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  Speaker 8: Or do you kind of like, well, I have a
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  Speaker 8: couple a couple of them that I've gotten just like
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  Speaker 8: at tattoo shops, Like the first one I got with
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  Speaker 8: my mom, the second one I was in Bermuda for
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  Speaker 8: Christmas and I got the one on my back, and
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  Speaker 8: then all the other ones have been like this one,
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  Speaker 8: the one like here here, here has all been the
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  Speaker 8: same person. And then I have like the same person
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  Speaker 8: that did my hand, and then a couple of other ones.
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  Speaker 7: Do you have any that you regret? I don't regret
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  Speaker 7: any of my tattoos.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, she said, I like, she goes, I don't do not.
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  Speaker 7: I never will.
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  Speaker 2: I pay my tattoo said is it attached to someone?
• 16:50
  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, oh you got someone's name my ex husband.
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  Speaker 10: We have like infinity And of course it was not
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  Speaker 10: forever it's at but at least you can, Okay, Have
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  Speaker 10: you regretted any bro?
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  Speaker 13: Definitely, I got some some stupid placements and just you know,
• 17:09
  Speaker 13: being young.
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  Speaker 12: But at the same time, I also had.
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  Speaker 13: A different perspective about about and my perspective was like,
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  Speaker 13: get a tattoo in every place that I travel, so
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  Speaker 13: I would find places. But then as I, of course
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  Speaker 13: started to mature, I started to see like technique and
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  Speaker 13: lines and you know, different just different intricacies about you
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  Speaker 13: know what I'm saying, But I got right here it
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  Speaker 13: says music lover.
• 17:36
  Speaker 12: Why would I Why did I need to do that?
• 17:38
  Speaker 12: Why did I need to tell myself that I'm in cursive?
• 17:43
  Speaker 12: In cursive backed by red?
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  Speaker 7: Like, Nah, that's hilarious.
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  Speaker 3: So brow, thank you for.
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  Speaker 12: Thank you guys for having me. This is James.
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  Speaker 13: Make sure you guys loop to cop Energy Center to
• 18:01
  Speaker 13: check out myself October, London and Tamar Braxton on tour
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  Speaker 13: in Atlanta.
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  Speaker 12: Pull up on me.
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  Speaker 15: Yeah, hi, okay.
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  Speaker 8: So if you could describe your experience being born to
• 18:18
  Speaker 8: the game in three words, what would that be?
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  Speaker 3: And Victoria will start with you first.
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  Speaker 8: My three words would be exciting because it's opened up
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  Speaker 8: a lot of like opportunities and avenues to like experience
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  Speaker 8: like All Star games, being court side and you know,
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  Speaker 8: just a lot of things that other people didn't have
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  Speaker 8: really the opportunity to do, but like never took it
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  Speaker 8: for granted, So that I mean, it was just really fun.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah.
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  Speaker 7: I would say commitment as well, because we.
• 18:44
  Speaker 8: Had to show up and be one hundred percent and
• 18:46
  Speaker 8: everything regardless if it was like school, family sports, it
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  Speaker 8: was like you're all in or like you're not there
• 18:52
  Speaker 8: at all. And I would say grounded, okay, because you know,
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  Speaker 8: I never took anything for granted and I wasn't like
• 19:01
  Speaker 8: handed everything, Like I was taught the value of work,
• 19:03
  Speaker 8: and which is great because I never you know, made
• 19:07
  Speaker 8: like you know, materialistic things like you know, a.
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  Speaker 7: Big part of my life.
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  Speaker 8: Yeah, so it definitely kept me grounded just the way
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  Speaker 8: that like, you know, I was brought up and my
• 19:15
  Speaker 8: parents instilled like different values into me.
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  Speaker 3: Did you travel with with your dad?
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  Speaker 8: I did anywhere, So that part of it, I would
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  Speaker 8: assume is is a commitment to just even staying.
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  Speaker 3: Together as a family.
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  Speaker 8: It was always just the four of us. And then
• 19:29
  Speaker 8: of course we would like you know, do vacations or
• 19:31
  Speaker 8: like we would go visit people, but it was like
• 19:33
  Speaker 8: always me, my mom, my dad, and my brother.
• 19:36
  Speaker 3: Okay, And how was that experience for it?
• 19:37
  Speaker 6: It was great.
• 19:38
  Speaker 8: I mean we were really close because we really only
• 19:40
  Speaker 8: had each other yea, like at the end of the
• 19:42
  Speaker 8: day or our day to day lives, it was just us.
• 19:45
  Speaker 8: So I mean it made us really close. We still
• 19:47
  Speaker 8: you know, we're all still close. We all when we're
• 19:49
  Speaker 8: all in the same town. We always get dinner and so,
• 19:52
  Speaker 8: I mean it just fostered a really great, you know relationship,
• 19:54
  Speaker 8: just being you know, together.
• 19:56
  Speaker 9: Together all the time. What was the most exciting part
• 20:00
  Speaker 9: about you said? You mentioned All Star.
• 20:02
  Speaker 8: Well, as a kid, I loved like I was such
• 20:05
  Speaker 8: a daddy's girl, Like I was working out with him
• 20:10
  Speaker 8: as like a toddler.
• 20:11
  Speaker 7: I was doing sit ups and crunches.
• 20:13
  Speaker 8: I was learning how to do the acupuncture with the
• 20:15
  Speaker 8: acupuncturess who came over and just like the masseuse, and
• 20:20
  Speaker 8: I was like trying to learn and I was, you know, like, oh,
• 20:22
  Speaker 8: I want to do it too, like this is so
• 20:25
  Speaker 8: it was. I just had the best time, like I
• 20:26
  Speaker 8: loved like I thought I was one of the boys.
• 20:29
  Speaker 8: I thought I was one of the boys. And it
• 20:31
  Speaker 8: was just so much fun. Like I loved, like I
• 20:33
  Speaker 8: had a great time.
• 20:34
  Speaker 1: Did you Were you a.
• 20:35
  Speaker 3: Kid who went to practice with your dad.
• 20:38
  Speaker 8: I did, but I didn't want I didn't want to
• 20:40
  Speaker 8: touch him or look at him after. But Curtis Martin,
• 20:43
  Speaker 8: that was the love of my life. Was the love
• 20:45
  Speaker 8: of my life.
• 20:46
  Speaker 7: As if you had any crushes, it was, yes, I
• 20:50
  Speaker 7: was like I think two years old.
• 20:51
  Speaker 8: And I said, I was going to marry Curtis Martin,
• 20:54
  Speaker 8: and it was just what it was. And I said, like,
• 20:57
  Speaker 8: I would not hugger kiss my dad, and he's like,
• 20:59
  Speaker 8: oh know why.
• 21:00
  Speaker 7: But as soon as Curtis.
• 21:03
  Speaker 8: Told me, I would kiss his picture every morning on
• 21:08
  Speaker 8: the calendar.
• 21:09
  Speaker 7: So what was it? You can't you don't remember, I
• 21:11
  Speaker 7: don't remember. He's like, I do not know. Every morning
• 21:16
  Speaker 7: I kissed him.
• 21:17
  Speaker 8: And then one day my dad was like, you know,
• 21:20
  Speaker 8: you don't love Curtis. You love me, You just like Curtis.
• 21:22
  Speaker 8: So of course he like said that, and then I
• 21:24
  Speaker 8: told my mom.
• 21:25
  Speaker 7: I was like, you know, mom, I guess I really
• 21:27
  Speaker 7: don't love Curtis. I really loved daddy.
• 21:29
  Speaker 8: And she's like, who told you that, Daddy?
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: He had a reverse.
• 21:37
  Speaker 8: Reversed because I thought that was gonna be my husband.
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: My stories, Yeah, I can see.
• 21:45
  Speaker 8: I thought I was gonna make I think we all
• 21:47
  Speaker 8: thought we were all married. Yeah, because it's the bad
• 21:51
  Speaker 8: boy Corn.
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: We all loved him.
• 21:55
  Speaker 7: It's everybody loved him.
• 21:58
  Speaker 3: What about you know, how would you what three words.
• 22:00
  Speaker 6: Would you choose?
• 22:02
  Speaker 10: Let's see, my first word would probably be bittersweet because
• 22:06
  Speaker 10: I wasn't one of the kids that would like travel Okay,
• 22:09
  Speaker 10: my dad. Okay, So I only was able to see
• 22:13
  Speaker 10: my father when he wasn't on the court, you know,
• 22:17
  Speaker 10: like so, but I mean the times that I did
• 22:20
  Speaker 10: get to see him, like when you would come to
• 22:22
  Speaker 10: d C and play. At the time they were the Bullets,
• 22:24
  Speaker 10: now they're the Wizards. You know, we would get tickets
• 22:27
  Speaker 10: from him and we would go and have like a
• 22:30
  Speaker 10: whole little you know, a little family moment or whatever.
• 22:34
  Speaker 10: But you know, just him like missing certain things, you know,
• 22:37
  Speaker 10: because of him playing.
• 22:39
  Speaker 6: It was it was difficult.
• 22:40
  Speaker 8: I feel like it's more difficult for basketball because basketball
• 22:43
  Speaker 8: is year round. Like I don't think you guys ever
• 22:45
  Speaker 8: have a break and which always.
• 22:48
  Speaker 9: Because even for football, let's say they have an away game,
• 22:52
  Speaker 9: they leave just the day before and then they come
• 22:53
  Speaker 9: right back. For basketball, they could be gone for eight
• 22:57
  Speaker 9: days at a time.
• 22:58
  Speaker 7: They literally come right back after that game pretty much.
• 23:00
  Speaker 3: Yeah, but basketball it's not like that. So for you,
• 23:03
  Speaker 3: you know, even if you were to have traveled with
• 23:06
  Speaker 3: him or moved with him, he was still see him, Like, yeah,
• 23:09
  Speaker 3: he would still be gone.
• 23:10
  Speaker 6: Yeah.
• 23:11
  Speaker 10: And then my father was playing for Utah, yeah, and
• 23:14
  Speaker 10: I'm in d C.
• 23:15
  Speaker 6: So you know, it's like it's next door across. Well,
• 23:22
  Speaker 6: he did drive there a few times.
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: Three days.
• 23:26
  Speaker 10: Took him like three days to drive from Utah to
• 23:29
  Speaker 10: DC and Maryland.
• 23:30
  Speaker 3: Wow, okay, but you know, I mean it's.
• 23:33
  Speaker 6: Part of it.
• 23:34
  Speaker 3: Yeah, that's part of the part of it. Yeah.
• 23:37
  Speaker 10: My second word would be, I guess inspiring. Like you know,
• 23:42
  Speaker 10: you as a kid, you see like celebrities and athletes
• 23:47
  Speaker 10: on TV and stuff.
• 23:49
  Speaker 6: Yeah, and you're.
• 23:49
  Speaker 10: Kind of like, it seems like it's unattainable. But when
• 23:53
  Speaker 10: it's your father that's doing it, it's like, oh, well,
• 23:56
  Speaker 10: if he can do things.
• 23:59
  Speaker 8: But then super rare, like you know, just professional athletes
• 24:03
  Speaker 8: in general.
• 24:04
  Speaker 10: Very with basketball, Like compared to football, a football team.
• 24:09
  Speaker 6: Will have like seventy US you have so many.
• 24:11
  Speaker 10: You know, but basketball teams are much much smaller, like,
• 24:15
  Speaker 10: so to make it on that team and then like
• 24:17
  Speaker 10: have a there's not a long career because your.
• 24:20
  Speaker 6: Dad played for it's like fourteen years.
• 24:22
  Speaker 10: Yeah, so from the time that I was three to
• 24:26
  Speaker 10: the time that I was eighteen, he was playing either
• 24:30
  Speaker 10: in the NBA or overseas. So yeah, but he played
• 24:35
  Speaker 10: in Italy and Greece.
• 24:37
  Speaker 3: Were to visit.
• 24:41
  Speaker 6: I did not get to go. I did not get
• 24:43
  Speaker 6: to go.
• 24:44
  Speaker 10: But yeah, I mean, I mean it's it's it's inspiring.
• 24:49
  Speaker 10: You know, it didn't necessarily inspire me to do something
• 24:52
  Speaker 10: with sports, but it definitely like let me know that
• 24:56
  Speaker 10: I can pretty much do.
• 24:57
  Speaker 6: Anything I want to do whatever. Yeah, in the work exactly.
• 25:00
  Speaker 8: My dad was you know, not drafted, he was a
• 25:03
  Speaker 8: free agent, okay, and then he's you know, the best
• 25:05
  Speaker 8: safety and history. So I mean it's really you know
• 25:08
  Speaker 8: about putting in, like you don't have to be born
• 25:10
  Speaker 8: the best, and you know it's I love that hold
• 25:14
  Speaker 8: on paper every everything where that wherein we love that
• 25:20
  Speaker 8: we're gonna flag.
• 25:21
  Speaker 1: Yes, you don't have to be born the best.
• 25:23
  Speaker 8: You don't have to be born the best, but you
• 25:25
  Speaker 8: can you know, become the best. Hard work and I
• 25:29
  Speaker 8: mean like putting the work in and you know, eat, sleep, breathing,
• 25:34
  Speaker 8: And that's another thing about the commitment, like if you
• 25:36
  Speaker 8: really want something, you have to go all in.
• 25:38
  Speaker 9: Okay, So he's better sweet, inspiring. What is your your
• 25:42
  Speaker 9: third word?
• 25:43
  Speaker 12: Word?
• 25:44
  Speaker 8: Word?
• 25:47
  Speaker 7: It took me a minute to think about.
• 25:50
  Speaker 10: Because we don't really think about it your life exactly.
• 25:56
  Speaker 6: I don't know.
• 25:57
  Speaker 10: I would say unbelievable because when I was a kid
• 26:00
  Speaker 10: Nobody believed that Thorough Bailey was my father.
• 26:03
  Speaker 6: It was like I was making it up, like it's
• 26:05
  Speaker 6: your dad, and.
• 26:06
  Speaker 3: I don't know why because the hype girl.
• 26:09
  Speaker 6: And I had his whole face.
• 26:14
  Speaker 10: Yes, out of all sticks, of all sticks, of the
• 26:19
  Speaker 10: kids that he has, I look like him the most,
• 26:22
  Speaker 10: even more than the boys do. But yeah, nobody believed
• 26:26
  Speaker 10: me until I had a field trip when I was
• 26:29
  Speaker 10: in the fifth grade. We went to this place called
• 26:30
  Speaker 10: Camp Schmidt and you like spend the night and all that,
• 26:33
  Speaker 10: and it just so happened that it was outside of
• 26:35
  Speaker 10: the season and my father was able to come. And
• 26:38
  Speaker 10: when he walked into that elementary school and we walked
• 26:42
  Speaker 10: down the hall, everybody's mouth was just dropped. And I'm
• 26:46
  Speaker 10: just like I told a moment because I'm like walking
• 26:51
  Speaker 10: in down the hall like I told you.
• 26:56
  Speaker 8: This man, Like, where'd you'll think I got?
• 27:00
  Speaker 5: For no reason, no reason.
• 27:02
  Speaker 10: It was nobody believed me. Like I came to school
• 27:04
  Speaker 10: one day with a new pair rebox on. Everybody was
• 27:09
  Speaker 10: clown to me, Oh, you got some fake rebox Yeah fake,
• 27:12
  Speaker 10: And I'm like, no, I don't, like these are not
• 27:14
  Speaker 10: on the market.
• 27:15
  Speaker 6: Yet nobody believed me.
• 27:18
  Speaker 7: Nobody believe me.
• 27:20
  Speaker 10: And then like a month later the pumps came out
• 27:23
  Speaker 10: and everybody was like, you had those.
• 27:25
  Speaker 6: I was like, no, I don't want.
• 27:27
  Speaker 5: To hear it. They were fake.
• 27:28
  Speaker 7: I don't hear it.
• 27:31
  Speaker 6: You know.
• 27:32
  Speaker 4: It was so crazy though, So we talked about the
• 27:36
  Speaker 4: exciting parts and the challenging parts. I mean, I think
• 27:39
  Speaker 4: the through line of everyone has been the traveling and
• 27:43
  Speaker 4: the parents being away. So let's talk about how it
• 27:48
  Speaker 4: shaped your relationships with your dad's, your friendships, your romantic relationships.
• 27:53
  Speaker 4: So you had the challenges of them being gone, you
• 27:56
  Speaker 4: guys picking up, moving into other places. What kind of
• 28:00
  Speaker 4: impact did that make on you guys's your lives?
• 28:04
  Speaker 10: I mean, unfortunately, I would say because of my father's profession,
• 28:09
  Speaker 10: we're not as close as I you know, as he
• 28:12
  Speaker 10: was like to yeah, and then too like you know,
• 28:15
  Speaker 10: life starts to happen, and he got married, and you know,
• 28:19
  Speaker 10: they kind of he has like like two different families
• 28:22
  Speaker 10: so to speak, because my mom and dad were never married.
• 28:26
  Speaker 10: So I think the absence of him like shaped me
• 28:31
  Speaker 10: to be such a hardcore parent, like.
• 28:34
  Speaker 6: I'm at everything. It killed me.
• 28:37
  Speaker 10: Yesterday my son actually had a basketball game, but I
• 28:40
  Speaker 10: was here, so my oldest daughter like face timed me
• 28:44
  Speaker 10: and I literally like watched his game on the phone,
• 28:47
  Speaker 10: Like I'm just it's I just want to be like
• 28:50
  Speaker 10: the exact opposite, like no shade to my father, you know,
• 28:53
  Speaker 10: because that was his career, but you know, it just
• 28:57
  Speaker 10: I think it just shaped me to always like really
• 28:59
  Speaker 10: want to be there, you know what I mean for
• 29:01
  Speaker 10: my friends, and I'm like the go to person anytime
• 29:04
  Speaker 10: somebody needs something and they you know, ask me. I
• 29:07
  Speaker 10: will like change everything in my schedule to make sure
• 29:10
  Speaker 10: it happens or whatever. It's just because you know, I
• 29:11
  Speaker 10: don't like to not be there.
• 29:13
  Speaker 3: So so family is important to you.
• 29:16
  Speaker 8: Relationships are important because your dad wasn't able to be
• 29:20
  Speaker 8: as present.
• 29:21
  Speaker 7: As you would like.
• 29:23
  Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, which is a good thing because your children
• 29:27
  Speaker 4: don't know that their mother is going to.
• 29:30
  Speaker 6: Be there always.
• 29:33
  Speaker 9: So in a way, it's it's a blessing in disguise.
• 29:35
  Speaker 9: This was your journey because you're able to pour back
• 29:38
  Speaker 9: into your child.
• 29:41
  Speaker 7: And it's supposed to better than our parents.
• 29:42
  Speaker 9: And absolutely absolutely so you say that you don't have
• 29:47
  Speaker 9: the strongest relationship that you that you would want with
• 29:50
  Speaker 9: your father, is that something that you would want to
• 29:52
  Speaker 9: try and pursue maybe.
• 29:55
  Speaker 3: Or because it's never really to.
• 30:00
  Speaker 5: I don't know.
• 30:00
  Speaker 10: He's just so busy, like now commentating with the Jazz.
• 30:03
  Speaker 10: It's literally like the same thing, but just a different career,
• 30:07
  Speaker 10: you know what I mean, because he also travels with
• 30:08
  Speaker 10: the team too.
• 30:09
  Speaker 3: So yeah, I mean, you know, I just kind of
• 30:12
  Speaker 3: catch them when I can.
• 30:14
  Speaker 9: I mean, because they The one thing about our dads,
• 30:17
  Speaker 9: they started this career when they were how old three
• 30:22
  Speaker 9: and they really don't know how to let it go.
• 30:26
  Speaker 9: So even when they're done playing, they either go into commentating, coaching,
• 30:31
  Speaker 9: and then after that it's you know, it doesn't ever
• 30:34
  Speaker 9: really end.
• 30:34
  Speaker 3: So they're always doing something.
• 30:37
  Speaker 8: So it is hard to just catch them when they're
• 30:40
  Speaker 8: they're free, because when are they ever really free?
• 30:43
  Speaker 1: You know?
• 30:44
  Speaker 8: So that's that's understandable because it's hard for them to.
• 30:47
  Speaker 7: Really let it go because what else do you do?
• 30:50
  Speaker 3: What else do you do with your life?
• 30:51
  Speaker 8: They don't even know themselves outside of what they've been
• 30:55
  Speaker 8: doing their entire lives, so.
• 30:57
  Speaker 7: They focused on that for.
• 30:58
  Speaker 8: The whole first, and then yeah, and then it's like
• 31:01
  Speaker 8: yeah and only whatever sport it is, Yeah, you've done
• 31:04
  Speaker 8: and get out. It's like wait a minute, Yeah, Yeah,
• 31:10
  Speaker 8: the families do take a hit because even when you know,
• 31:14
  Speaker 8: and whether or not you're in the home with him
• 31:16
  Speaker 8: or not, you're still going to take a hit because
• 31:19
  Speaker 8: their careers never stopped really, yeah, you know, and it's
• 31:23
  Speaker 8: almost ever the same as it was before.
• 31:25
  Speaker 7: Yeah, so it's like there's a transition from there to here.
• 31:30
  Speaker 7: It's like it's different. It's very different.
• 31:32
  Speaker 9: And I remember Dwayne Wade talked about when he was retiring,
• 31:35
  Speaker 9: he had to go into therapy because he was still
• 31:38
  Speaker 9: trying to figure out who he was even as a husband,
• 31:41
  Speaker 9: as a father, outside of.
• 31:43
  Speaker 7: Being the game.
• 31:44
  Speaker 3: Yeah, he didn't even know who he was.
• 31:46
  Speaker 8: And so you know, I try to give grace, you know,
• 31:49
  Speaker 8: to our dads because they honestly are just doing the
• 31:52
  Speaker 8: best they.
• 31:52
  Speaker 3: Can because they they really don't know any other life.
• 31:58
  Speaker 10: Becaus not like anybody gave them a blueprint.
• 32:02
  Speaker 7: And they all they were kids themselves, yeah, I mean
• 32:04
  Speaker 7: at the time.
• 32:05
  Speaker 8: Yeah, and they worked so hard to get there, get
• 32:07
  Speaker 8: to the odds, which is so so you.
• 32:09
  Speaker 1: It would be hard.
• 32:10
  Speaker 16: Yeah, So what about you, Victoria, I would definitely say
• 32:14
  Speaker 16: like as far as you know, relationship wise, like my dad,
• 32:17
  Speaker 16: you know, he was here sometimes he would you know, travel,
• 32:21
  Speaker 16: Like we wouldn't always travel, especially when my brother was born.
• 32:23
  Speaker 8: And he was a lot younger, but like we would
• 32:26
  Speaker 8: always be watching the games and of course, like you said,
• 32:28
  Speaker 8: like he'd be right back.
• 32:29
  Speaker 7: You know Monday.
• 32:30
  Speaker 8: Yeah, you know, so like it would just really be
• 32:32
  Speaker 8: he would be gone like Saturday and then but he'd
• 32:35
  Speaker 8: be back Monday or like late night Sunday. So our
• 32:38
  Speaker 8: relationship has always been like super close as far as
• 32:41
  Speaker 8: like friendships and stuff like, there was definitely people who
• 32:44
  Speaker 8: like wanted to be my friend, to like see my
• 32:47
  Speaker 8: house or to like, you know, this one girl, her
• 32:50
  Speaker 8: dad was an athlete too, but she was just so
• 32:53
  Speaker 8: curious about you know, coming to my house sleeping over.
• 32:56
  Speaker 8: And then I remember like the next day or like
• 32:58
  Speaker 8: the week coming back to school, like she didn't we didn't, like,
• 33:00
  Speaker 8: she didn't speak to me, like yeah she came.
• 33:05
  Speaker 7: I don't know. I was in fourth.
• 33:06
  Speaker 8: Grade and my mom actually came to the school to
• 33:09
  Speaker 8: like pick you know me up or whatever, and she
• 33:11
  Speaker 8: saw the girl and she was like, hey, like what's
• 33:14
  Speaker 8: going on, Like you just spent all weekend like with us,
• 33:17
  Speaker 8: like Victoria saying, right, Exa, and you know, we did
• 33:21
  Speaker 8: all these activities and you know, you're not talking to her,
• 33:23
  Speaker 8: and of course, like you know, she played like the
• 33:25
  Speaker 8: victim card and she cried and it was about what
• 33:28
  Speaker 8: was she crying for that my mom was like trying
• 33:35
  Speaker 8: to like attack her something. My mom was very calm
• 33:37
  Speaker 8: about and she's like not like that at all, but
• 33:39
  Speaker 8: she was like you literally were just at her house
• 33:41
  Speaker 8: all weekend, like.
• 33:41
  Speaker 6: What's going on wrong?
• 33:43
  Speaker 8: Yeah, because of course I was upset. I was like,
• 33:45
  Speaker 8: oh my god, like she just like hung out with
• 33:47
  Speaker 8: me and then she.
• 33:48
  Speaker 7: Again just to see what was going on. I mean,
• 33:51
  Speaker 7: her dad played I don't.
• 33:52
  Speaker 8: Know, I don't remember if it was hockey or baseball
• 33:54
  Speaker 8: or something like that, because before all of my friends
• 33:57
  Speaker 8: were like athletes.
• 33:58
  Speaker 7: Kids, okay, the people that I'm knew in.
• 34:01
  Speaker 8: School and like I really didn't disclose, like I still,
• 34:03
  Speaker 8: I mean, I really don't say anything unless.
• 34:04
  Speaker 7: People already know or they ask.
• 34:07
  Speaker 8: Yeah, So I mean it was just like weird for me,
• 34:10
  Speaker 8: like you know, and like as I got older, people would.
• 34:12
  Speaker 7: Steal my clothes or steal some stuff because it'd be like, oh, well,
• 34:15
  Speaker 7: your parents can just like look that's my person exactly.
• 34:18
  Speaker 5: That's probably like.
• 34:19
  Speaker 6: What it was.
• 34:19
  Speaker 7: They can just buy a new one.
• 34:21
  Speaker 8: So and that's probably what like the biggest thing, but well.
• 34:25
  Speaker 7: Clothes or like other things that I've had.
• 34:27
  Speaker 3: It's just this expectation that oh, you got it.
• 34:30
  Speaker 7: Oh yeah, so you don't even have to it, like
• 34:32
  Speaker 7: you don't miss it.
• 34:33
  Speaker 3: You won't miss it if things are.
• 34:34
  Speaker 8: Gone or if you are missing it, like there you
• 34:36
  Speaker 8: can get it. But there's some things that hey, like
• 34:39
  Speaker 8: I said, like I was never the spoil like I
• 34:41
  Speaker 8: never had was dripped out and designer like they like
• 34:44
  Speaker 8: I had a little like chur list, like we had
• 34:47
  Speaker 8: a check book, like it was like a whole like
• 34:49
  Speaker 8: yeah we yes. So like anytime like if I like,
• 34:51
  Speaker 8: did you know sweep launch or whatever, my mom would
• 34:53
  Speaker 8: like write in a little check book and you know
• 34:55
  Speaker 8: I could either save it or say that I want to,
• 34:57
  Speaker 8: you know, spend it, right because I wasn't very materialistic
• 35:05
  Speaker 8: at all, Like I don't care like I always did
• 35:07
  Speaker 8: like the sales stuff. So you know, it just was
• 35:10
  Speaker 8: you know, a lot of fun and it was just
• 35:12
  Speaker 8: good being grounded and not having to worry about that.
• 35:16
  Speaker 8: So I've just been very selective with friends and that's
• 35:18
  Speaker 8: what I haven't so being born to the game would
• 35:21
  Speaker 8: you say that you've had to learn how to create
• 35:25
  Speaker 8: boundaries with people or you've you've had to I guess.
• 35:30
  Speaker 9: Question people's intentions around you. I'm gonna ask you the
• 35:34
  Speaker 9: same things to know because I know for me as well,
• 35:38
  Speaker 9: like I've I've had I've gotten burned.
• 35:41
  Speaker 7: A couple of times with that, so I definitely do.
• 35:45
  Speaker 8: And then that's like i'd never disclose, like unless people
• 35:48
  Speaker 8: like at work, people will know, and then like they'll like,
• 35:50
  Speaker 8: you know, of course tell you don't want people to
• 35:53
  Speaker 8: look at you, treat you differently exactly who they know
• 35:57
  Speaker 8: that your dad is exactly okay, So just I'm like,
• 35:59
  Speaker 8: you know, and then if they know they know, like
• 36:01
  Speaker 8: sometimes I might have like my Victor Green Foundation cup
• 36:04
  Speaker 8: and then they're like, oh my god, your dad's Victor
• 36:05
  Speaker 8: Green or like oh like is that a Jets you know,
• 36:08
  Speaker 8: got a Jets jersey's wearing or whatever? So then like
• 36:11
  Speaker 8: you know, then I can you know, disclose or whatever?
• 36:14
  Speaker 8: But yeah, like I never, that's never like my leading thing.
• 36:17
  Speaker 7: If nobody asked, I never, I don't say anything.
• 36:20
  Speaker 9: Okay, So I just like, oh, yeah, like you know, okay,
• 36:23
  Speaker 9: what about you?
• 36:24
  Speaker 6: You know?
• 36:26
  Speaker 10: Everybody else always discloses.
• 36:30
  Speaker 3: They like, they're like, you see the one got it
• 36:33
  Speaker 3: walking down?
• 36:34
  Speaker 1: You must be.
• 36:36
  Speaker 10: I'll go somewhere with somebody like my family or a
• 36:40
  Speaker 10: friend or something. And if it's something like basketball related, yeah,
• 36:44
  Speaker 10: anytime we go, I'm like, hi, how are you? And
• 36:47
  Speaker 10: then whoever I'm with, it's like, yo, that's their Bailey's daughter.
• 36:50
  Speaker 7: I'm like, like, I didn't say.
• 36:54
  Speaker 2: Anything about that, or let me tell my own story play.
• 36:58
  Speaker 3: So do you feel like you have to keep up?
• 37:00
  Speaker 6: I'm just that way anyway. I just I don't know.
• 37:03
  Speaker 10: I've always kept a very small circle, you know, because
• 37:08
  Speaker 10: I don't want.
• 37:09
  Speaker 7: Any opportunity friends.
• 37:10
  Speaker 10: Over Like, yeah, the quality is definitely everything for me.
• 37:14
  Speaker 10: I don't I don't want any opportunists I've had, Like
• 37:18
  Speaker 10: you know, people try to befriend me, like on social
• 37:20
  Speaker 10: media or me because.
• 37:25
  Speaker 3: Yeah, we're going to get into the dating. Are you
• 37:28
  Speaker 3: single in a relationship?
• 37:29
  Speaker 5: Ladies?
• 37:30
  Speaker 3: What's the relationship.
• 37:33
  Speaker 6: And relationship.
• 37:35
  Speaker 3: To shoot this episode?
• 37:38
  Speaker 8: Because both of you are taken, so how long have
• 37:42
  Speaker 8: you been together?
• 37:42
  Speaker 3: What were the green flags?
• 37:45
  Speaker 6: And partner? Okay, transparent?
• 37:50
  Speaker 7: What will you apply transparent?
• 37:54
  Speaker 4: So let's talk about the difference between transparency and honesty.
• 37:58
  Speaker 1: Yes, please do.
• 38:00
  Speaker 10: People don't understand what is Honesty is I'm going to
• 38:06
  Speaker 10: a dinner after work. Transparency is I'm going to a
• 38:10
  Speaker 10: dinner after work with this person is going to be there.
• 38:14
  Speaker 7: That person is.
• 38:15
  Speaker 6: Going to be there, you know what I mean?
• 38:17
  Speaker 10: Yeah, like I'll give you a call when we leave.
• 38:20
  Speaker 10: It's from the time of that time and allowing you
• 38:23
  Speaker 10: to ask questions and not feel like they're being attacked
• 38:27
  Speaker 10: or you.
• 38:27
  Speaker 7: Know what I'm saying or something like that.
• 38:30
  Speaker 8: And do both of your partners make you feel safe
• 38:32
  Speaker 8: in that regard?
• 38:34
  Speaker 10: Yeah, I would honestly say that the man that I'm
• 38:38
  Speaker 10: with is like the first grown man.
• 38:42
  Speaker 6: You know what I mean?
• 38:43
  Speaker 7: Like grown, grown, grown?
• 38:47
  Speaker 3: What do they say?
• 38:48
  Speaker 7: She don't want to puppy?
• 38:54
  Speaker 1: Big guy? Big guy?
• 38:57
  Speaker 3: Do you see yourself marrying him? Is that the real?
• 39:00
  Speaker 12: Okay?
• 39:00
  Speaker 6: I mean, but I'm not I'm not pushing you know.
• 39:03
  Speaker 6: When it's right, it's right. Hopefully it's right soon because
• 39:06
  Speaker 6: I'm not a spring chicken. But okay, yeah.
• 39:10
  Speaker 3: All day.
• 39:10
  Speaker 2: What do you think about you coming here and sharing
• 39:13
  Speaker 2: our story?
• 39:13
  Speaker 6: He loved it. He loved it. He praises me like
• 39:16
  Speaker 6: anything that I want to do.
• 39:18
  Speaker 8: He's all for, all for it good.
• 39:21
  Speaker 1: We love that.
• 39:21
  Speaker 3: How long have you guys been together.
• 39:23
  Speaker 6: We've been together a little over two years.
• 39:24
  Speaker 8: Okay, okay, okay, so maybe we might be we might
• 39:28
  Speaker 8: we might be in on the knee, you know, ring
• 39:32
  Speaker 8: shopping maybe. Okay, we're going to manifest, trying to ask
• 39:37
  Speaker 8: you if if the children have met him and they
• 39:39
  Speaker 8: love him, it's a good step for potential step dad.
• 39:43
  Speaker 6: My kids already call him dad.
• 39:47
  Speaker 4: Yeah, we're going to manifest, yes, because we're advocates of
• 39:51
  Speaker 4: saying what we want here. So if you that's what
• 39:53
  Speaker 4: you want, if you want to start a family with.
• 39:54
  Speaker 8: This person, and we're saying it out loud, and you're
• 39:57
  Speaker 8: glowing when you when you yes.
• 40:01
  Speaker 6: Before I came here, I was like, maybe I'm so nervous.
• 40:04
  Speaker 6: It's like, you don't have a reason to be nervous.
• 40:06
  Speaker 6: Just do you? You got this? Yeah? Okay, it's amazing.
• 40:14
  Speaker 3: Okay, I'm excited for you.
• 40:17
  Speaker 6: Thank you.
• 40:19
  Speaker 3: A happy ending. Yes, yes, yes, what about you?
• 40:22
  Speaker 8: We were best friends in high school? Okay, yeah, so
• 40:26
  Speaker 8: we got together a little bit. I think it might
• 40:29
  Speaker 8: have been my sophomore year of college.
• 40:32
  Speaker 7: So we've been you know, dating since then.
• 40:34
  Speaker 3: So how long has that been?
• 40:39
  Speaker 1: You don't have to tell your age.
• 40:42
  Speaker 7: I'm trying to think like five years.
• 40:45
  Speaker 5: Husband.
• 40:46
  Speaker 1: Maybe do your dad's like that? That's my question, but
• 40:50
  Speaker 1: to both of you.
• 40:51
  Speaker 10: So, the funny thing about my man is we had
• 40:54
  Speaker 10: to do research when we first started dating each other
• 40:57
  Speaker 10: because his last name is Bailey.
• 40:59
  Speaker 1: Stop but we are not related.
• 41:04
  Speaker 8: Wait, so what did you do? Okay, I'm mad, nos
• 41:07
  Speaker 8: I'm too nosy, just say we just.
• 41:09
  Speaker 10: Had to ask, like you know, older people like I
• 41:13
  Speaker 10: need you to let me know, Auntie, this person is
• 41:16
  Speaker 10: any relation.
• 41:21
  Speaker 5: There's a movie about so you.
• 41:22
  Speaker 1: Won't have to change your name.
• 41:24
  Speaker 6: Well I do because I was married.
• 41:26
  Speaker 2: But okay, So but you're going to go back to Bailey.
• 41:29
  Speaker 1: Oh well, how do you feel about that?
• 41:31
  Speaker 7: Going back?
• 41:32
  Speaker 10: I mean I really didn't even think about it until
• 41:35
  Speaker 10: my aunt said something about it.
• 41:36
  Speaker 6: But I mean, I don't know. I'll just be excited
• 41:39
  Speaker 6: to be his wife.
• 41:40
  Speaker 3: Oh I don't even care about I love that.
• 41:42
  Speaker 6: I mean I'm already a Bailey.
• 41:44
  Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, you know, yeah, I love that man.
• 41:50
  Speaker 8: Bailey. Okay, So, Victoria, you said that you see yourself marrying.
• 41:56
  Speaker 3: Does your dad like him?
• 41:57
  Speaker 6: Yeah?
• 41:58
  Speaker 3: Okay, that's a soda approved.
• 42:00
  Speaker 8: Okay, Okay, perfect mom approofs, brother approoves, everybody approves. Okay, yeah,
• 42:06
  Speaker 8: because that family piece is really the families don't get a.
• 42:10
  Speaker 7: Lot, especially my brother really got.
• 42:14
  Speaker 8: To get friend him on next.
• 42:19
  Speaker 9: Okay, so I want to get into what you girls
• 42:22
  Speaker 9: are doing now.
• 42:23
  Speaker 7: Yes, so totally.
• 42:25
  Speaker 8: Did your dad's careers inspire your current line of work,
• 42:29
  Speaker 8: your passions?
• 42:31
  Speaker 10: I would say my dad definitely inspired me to be
• 42:35
  Speaker 10: an entrepreneur, even though he you know, worked with the
• 42:38
  Speaker 10: team and everything. He has multiple businesses, so I'm actually
• 42:43
  Speaker 10: working on multiple businesses as well.
• 42:46
  Speaker 6: I have a South Caroline right now.
• 42:49
  Speaker 3: And look, we're gonna we're gonna shout out we have
• 42:53
  Speaker 3: it here with us.
• 42:55
  Speaker 7: We have not opened. We're going to open it.
• 42:58
  Speaker 1: Yes, open away from the mic.
• 43:01
  Speaker 6: So it doesn't it's all natural.
• 43:03
  Speaker 10: I just say, looking at the ingredients of a problem,
• 43:07
  Speaker 10: and you can't pronounce the name, you have no idea.
• 43:12
  Speaker 7: We have a body spread everything that's good.
• 43:15
  Speaker 6: So everything is flood.
• 43:18
  Speaker 3: I mean it may not and I got some lip gloss.
• 43:21
  Speaker 6: It may not taste good, but it's non toxic.
• 43:26
  Speaker 1: Right this, Yeah, it's called selfish. Tell us about selfish?
• 43:31
  Speaker 10: Like why my whole life I've just been so selfless
• 43:36
  Speaker 10: I've always been doing stuff for everybody else, and it's
• 43:40
  Speaker 10: nothing wrong with doing a little something for yourself, you know,
• 43:43
  Speaker 10: So I embrace the selfish part, you know, take.
• 43:47
  Speaker 8: Care of you, sorry, and begetically selfish, don't apologize. Clear
• 43:52
  Speaker 8: lot black girls and are clear gloss and a brown little.
• 43:59
  Speaker 10: Everything.
• 44:00
  Speaker 1: I love this one.
• 44:01
  Speaker 3: This is you.
• 44:05
  Speaker 1: I mean, she hooked us up.
• 44:07
  Speaker 7: Oh my goodness came.
• 44:12
  Speaker 8: We got body butter glasses, body butters, body scrubs, body salts.
• 44:20
  Speaker 3: Is there an Instagram handle that we can.
• 44:22
  Speaker 6: Show I do?
• 44:23
  Speaker 10: It's we are Selfish Brand and my website is Selfish Brand.
• 44:28
  Speaker 9: LLC dot com dot com. Selfish Selfish Brand l llc
• 44:33
  Speaker 9: dot com.
• 44:34
  Speaker 1: This is gonna be good.
• 44:34
  Speaker 2: You know when your armpits get dark?
• 44:36
  Speaker 10: Yep, I use that bar on my face everything because
• 44:42
  Speaker 10: it's like very mild.
• 44:44
  Speaker 6: There are no chemicals in it. Helpfully, you know, just
• 44:47
  Speaker 6: getting your stame right.
• 44:48
  Speaker 8: Well, guess what all this will be used to?
• 44:54
  Speaker 5: Thank you so much?
• 44:55
  Speaker 3: Yes, thank you for that. So you are a girl boss, a.
• 45:00
  Speaker 1: Mom amy, a mom boss.
• 45:03
  Speaker 3: Yes you're doing your thing.
• 45:05
  Speaker 4: Yeah, but then also you being you know, in your
• 45:09
  Speaker 4: own lane, and you said that you had to adjust,
• 45:12
  Speaker 4: you had to which which is what it takes to
• 45:14
  Speaker 4: be an entrepreneur because it literally.
• 45:16
  Speaker 7: Will your body back.
• 45:18
  Speaker 2: Is the craziest thing anybody could ever try to do.
• 45:22
  Speaker 10: And I don't want to work in nine to five
• 45:24
  Speaker 10: and then I ended up working twenty four seven.
• 45:26
  Speaker 3: Exactly right, your products being in yeah.
• 45:33
  Speaker 7: Yeah, where would you want everywhere? Everywherewhere?
• 45:37
  Speaker 8: It was at one place though, that's just like if
• 45:39
  Speaker 8: you could just go anywhere.
• 45:41
  Speaker 10: I don't know, maybe I honestly, I'd like to have
• 45:44
  Speaker 10: a selfish store.
• 45:45
  Speaker 6: Yeah.
• 45:46
  Speaker 10: I don't want to shut any brand or any company
• 45:50
  Speaker 10: with the current political climate, people being on one side
• 45:54
  Speaker 10: or the other.
• 45:55
  Speaker 3: Like, I want my own store from products. I love
• 45:58
  Speaker 3: that you can create my own lass.
• 46:00
  Speaker 6: That's right.
• 46:03
  Speaker 7: I like that.
• 46:03
  Speaker 1: I love it. I love that.
• 46:06
  Speaker 3: Good for you.
• 46:09
  Speaker 4: Congratulations seriously, seriously, it's it's no joke, Like it's not.
• 46:14
  Speaker 1: It's hard, yes, yeah, but it'll.
• 46:16
  Speaker 8: Be rewarding, absolutely absolutely, and we're gonna be you know,
• 46:19
  Speaker 8: our skin is gonna look, we're gonna be moist exactly right,
• 46:27
  Speaker 8: all right, Victorian, My.
• 46:29
  Speaker 7: Dad did not shape any well, it's like he.
• 46:35
  Speaker 1: Did nothing.
• 46:36
  Speaker 7: He actually does nothing.
• 46:37
  Speaker 8: But like I want to make an impact on the world.
• 46:40
  Speaker 8: Start like foundations and everything. But I'm a behavior analyst,
• 46:44
  Speaker 8: so I'm in a totally different field than sports. I
• 46:48
  Speaker 8: can work with sports, I can do sports behavior analysis,
• 46:53
  Speaker 8: but right now I'm working with individuals with autism and
• 46:56
  Speaker 8: different NEU diversion disabilities and using like principles of behavior
• 47:01
  Speaker 8: to like shape and teach and learn and you know,
• 47:04
  Speaker 8: figure out why you know behaviors happen, and then translating them,
• 47:08
  Speaker 8: the bad behaviors into good ones, Okay that are like
• 47:11
  Speaker 8: you know, functionally acceptable and like promoting independence. And you know,
• 47:14
  Speaker 8: when I was sixteen months old, is acting out when
• 47:17
  Speaker 8: he's taking his taking and putting poop in people's hands.
• 47:24
  Speaker 7: Well, it depends on why he's doing it.
• 47:25
  Speaker 8: Is he doing is he doing it to get something?
• 47:29
  Speaker 8: Is he doing it for like a sensory reason, like
• 47:31
  Speaker 8: it's self soothing, or is he doing.
• 47:33
  Speaker 7: It because he wants to escape? Putting on a new diaper.
• 47:37
  Speaker 8: Girl something it wants a new diaper because he like
• 47:41
  Speaker 8: he takes it off, the steps out of it. But
• 47:43
  Speaker 8: the thing is, sometimes he'll take it off right when
• 47:46
  Speaker 8: I put it on.
• 47:47
  Speaker 3: So there's nothing wrong with his diaper.
• 47:49
  Speaker 8: Maybe you don't like it, Maybe it could be he
• 47:55
  Speaker 8: doesn't like escape, Okay, that's a good would be like that,
• 47:59
  Speaker 8: or if he doesn't want to put a die, it
• 48:00
  Speaker 8: could be escape, which means like he's not trying to
• 48:02
  Speaker 8: put it on, He's gonna run away. And if you
• 48:03
  Speaker 8: try to put it on, he doesn't want to put
• 48:05
  Speaker 8: a diaper on, maybe because he wants the lollipop first.
• 48:08
  Speaker 7: Maybe you know what's the topic?
• 48:11
  Speaker 3: Why does my man doa?
• 48:19
  Speaker 8: Like?
• 48:19
  Speaker 7: How did you get into this?
• 48:20
  Speaker 8: It literally just happened. I was criminal behavior on analysis,
• 48:24
  Speaker 8: so I was a criminal sing like criminal mind. Yes,
• 48:27
  Speaker 8: so that was like my whole trajectory since I was
• 48:29
  Speaker 8: like seven years old. But the criminal justice and psych
• 48:32
  Speaker 8: field really had their internships. While I was in college
• 48:36
  Speaker 8: was like either sitting behind a desk billion insurance or
• 48:38
  Speaker 8: like filing paperwork. And I'm not a very behind the
• 48:41
  Speaker 8: test behind the desk kind of girls. So Marcus Autism Center,
• 48:44
  Speaker 8: like it's attached to Emory and Children's they had an
• 48:48
  Speaker 8: internship for me there. So it was ten months in
• 48:51
  Speaker 8: the severe behavior unit working with individuals.
• 48:54
  Speaker 3: Say severe behavior.
• 48:55
  Speaker 8: I got like three concussions of bruised rib and like
• 49:00
  Speaker 8: while I was there, she.
• 49:02
  Speaker 4: Was putting her her dad's I had I'd like to wait,
• 49:08
  Speaker 4: let's let's rewind.
• 49:09
  Speaker 8: So you are getting a concussion from your clients, your clients.
• 49:14
  Speaker 3: Your patients.
• 49:15
  Speaker 8: I'm not gonna I'm just gonna say, like it was
• 49:18
  Speaker 8: a very different experience.
• 49:21
  Speaker 7: I mean they didn't provide much training.
• 49:22
  Speaker 8: Granted, like I had two days of like de escalation,
• 49:25
  Speaker 8: but like when you're in that environment, like you're not used,
• 49:28
  Speaker 8: like you're not doing any of the forms or any
• 49:30
  Speaker 8: of the things, like you just literally have to like
• 49:32
  Speaker 8: kind of duck and move and not turn your back. Wait,
• 49:35
  Speaker 8: so I'm so, what kind of patients is it? What
• 49:38
  Speaker 8: age range there was? Age ranges from I think like
• 49:41
  Speaker 8: four to twenty two, I mean tights from like six
• 49:45
  Speaker 8: one two hundred and thirty pounds.
• 49:47
  Speaker 5: I mean.
• 49:48
  Speaker 8: So yeah, like I'll show you some videos once we
• 49:50
  Speaker 8: get off camera of like you know, the gear and
• 49:52
  Speaker 8: like the session rooms behind.
• 49:53
  Speaker 7: But like I took the internship because they were saying
• 49:56
  Speaker 7: like I was.
• 49:56
  Speaker 8: Just gonna be like helping with data, floating around with
• 49:59
  Speaker 8: different you know, clients or whatever, and just helping out
• 50:01
  Speaker 8: the teams. They didn't say I was going to be
• 50:03
  Speaker 8: like in the room doing his stuff.
• 50:05
  Speaker 3: Yeah, and so say what you had again? You had
• 50:07
  Speaker 3: a concussion.
• 50:08
  Speaker 7: So I got a concussion. I had a couple of
• 50:09
  Speaker 7: broove strips.
• 50:10
  Speaker 8: Like my first day, like I had a helmet on,
• 50:12
  Speaker 8: and they had like because some of the kids are aggressive,
• 50:15
  Speaker 8: so like when you're in close quarters, like you need
• 50:17
  Speaker 8: protective gear. So like my first day, they were like, Okay,
• 50:21
  Speaker 8: well you're your turn to come in now. And I
• 50:22
  Speaker 8: was like, so, like I saw them do it a
• 50:25
  Speaker 8: couple of times, and I'm like, I don't even understand
• 50:27
  Speaker 8: why they were doing that. So like I was just
• 50:29
  Speaker 8: kind of like looking and repeating, and you know, I
• 50:32
  Speaker 8: got in.
• 50:33
  Speaker 7: He knocked my helmet off and he whacked me on
• 50:34
  Speaker 7: top of the head.
• 50:35
  Speaker 8: Like lammed my head with them with the iPad.
• 50:40
  Speaker 3: So what's so, what's the long term goal with.
• 50:43
  Speaker 8: So with me, like my thing is just promoting like
• 50:47
  Speaker 8: starting from diagnosis being kids because there's so many people,
• 50:51
  Speaker 8: like especially girls who are missed and diagnosed because they
• 50:54
  Speaker 8: don't present the same as like the typical white male,
• 50:57
  Speaker 8: you know, look of autism of what they've studied since
• 51:01
  Speaker 8: you know, autism was a thing, So there's a lot
• 51:03
  Speaker 8: of girls who are diagnosed. So was my thesis is
• 51:05
  Speaker 8: about It's about misdiagnosed girls because they're usually diagnosed with bipolar, depression, anxiety,
• 51:11
  Speaker 8: you know, all these other things before they get you know,
• 51:14
  Speaker 8: like an autism diagnosis, because they're so good at masking.
• 51:16
  Speaker 8: Because like women of course, are supposed to be like
• 51:18
  Speaker 8: a certain way, and you're in you know, since a
• 51:20
  Speaker 8: little kid, you're told, you know, you're supposed to be like,
• 51:22
  Speaker 8: you know, be sweet and be you know whatever. So
• 51:24
  Speaker 8: like we learned how to like mask and figure out like,
• 51:27
  Speaker 8: you know, how we need to act in this specific
• 51:30
  Speaker 8: environment and how like a shape us about how it's
• 51:35
  Speaker 8: all meant.
• 51:35
  Speaker 2: So your dad actually did, he did, because.
• 51:42
  Speaker 5: I did have the.
• 51:43
  Speaker 8: Helmet and I did have to you know, he did
• 51:45
  Speaker 8: teach me how to spar and yes, and he did
• 51:50
  Speaker 8: having a big heart.
• 51:51
  Speaker 7: And just wanting to help people absolutely because they thought
• 51:53
  Speaker 7: I was gonna quit.
• 51:53
  Speaker 8: After my first day, I literally sent after that session,
• 51:56
  Speaker 8: I sent a picture of my head. I told him
• 51:57
  Speaker 8: what happened, and I like, I got home that day
• 51:59
  Speaker 8: and there were like.
• 52:01
  Speaker 7: Don't like, is she gonna quit? Is she gonna quit?
• 52:03
  Speaker 7: And they're like, are you going back tomorrow?
• 52:04
  Speaker 6: And I went back.
• 52:05
  Speaker 7: I finished out my bid. It was a ten month bid.
• 52:07
  Speaker 8: It was pretty tough, but I like, I mean, I
• 52:09
  Speaker 8: ended up falling in love with it, and you know
• 52:12
  Speaker 8: it's that.
• 52:12
  Speaker 7: I mean, I didn't know anything about it. It did change.
• 52:15
  Speaker 8: Yeah, So like once I like went on my own
• 52:17
  Speaker 8: and figured out, like I started working with clients and
• 52:19
  Speaker 8: I was like, and I figured out why people do
• 52:21
  Speaker 8: the things they do and like what to do to
• 52:23
  Speaker 8: try to help. Like, I was like, I love this
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  Speaker 8: and I've been doing it ever since I think twenty nineteen.
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  Speaker 13: Love.
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  Speaker 8: I've been a behavior analyst for about a year now,
• 52:31
  Speaker 8: but I like was a behavior therapist for like years
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  Speaker 8: before that.
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  Speaker 3: For you, that's depressed something you love, ye, I love.
• 52:37
  Speaker 8: Yeah, and I didn't think I would, but you know,
• 52:40
  Speaker 8: I love it. I get so much fulfillment about it.
• 52:41
  Speaker 8: I love all my kids. I love their families, and
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  Speaker 8: like I loved like seeing the difference that I make
• 52:46
  Speaker 8: every day, like just between like the relationships. Yeah, like
• 52:49
  Speaker 8: they can finally go eat at a restaurant now because.
• 52:52
  Speaker 7: You know they're able to hire the worse exactly. That's
• 52:55
  Speaker 7: incredible for you. Yeah, I love both of.
• 52:57
  Speaker 3: You girls are doing it out here, doing it inspiring.
• 53:01
  Speaker 9: Both of your dads have left their marks in their
• 53:04
  Speaker 9: respective industry. How do you plan on legendizing and we
• 53:08
  Speaker 9: made that word up.
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  Speaker 3: Tamara, I love it.
• 53:11
  Speaker 9: How do you both plan on legendizing your world? And
• 53:15
  Speaker 9: we'll start with you.
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  Speaker 6: So I'm a mom of five.
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  Speaker 9: Yeah, I feel like super mom that out there, supermom.
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  Speaker 10: I feel like the best way to legendize my beliefs
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  Speaker 10: and my work ethic and everything is just instill that
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  Speaker 10: in my kids.
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  Speaker 8: I've heard a lot of that from moms there, and
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  Speaker 8: that's amazing.
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  Speaker 10: Like I'm raising five amazing individuals and.
• 53:43
  Speaker 8: Thought, that's a huge accomplishment, because I fee an accomplishment.
• 53:45
  Speaker 8: Like when I work with my kids and I see
• 53:47
  Speaker 8: like the differences, but having them yours, I can't even imagine.
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  Speaker 6: I actually have two narrow divergent sons.
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  Speaker 7: Oh wow, okay as well.
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  Speaker 10: Yeah, so you guys, can I mean, if you have
• 54:00
  Speaker 10: any about.
• 54:01
  Speaker 8: You guys, realize how ADHD I was and how much
• 54:05
  Speaker 8: it actually impacted like not just like the concentration and
• 54:08
  Speaker 8: the hyperactivity, but like all other aspects of my life
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  Speaker 8: until I started working like in a b a behavior analysis.
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  Speaker 1: I'm mighty to ask you some questions.
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  Speaker 10: Together raising definitely making keep making my children good people
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  Speaker 10: for them, and you know, I mean, I feel like
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  Speaker 10: that's the best thing, because whether you have money or not,
• 54:33
  Speaker 10: it's not like what what matters most is you are
• 54:38
  Speaker 10: and what you leave behind.
• 54:40
  Speaker 9: Absolutely, because the world needs more good people.
• 54:44
  Speaker 7: The world does.
• 54:45
  Speaker 10: I always say that the world right now is so
• 54:48
  Speaker 10: full of people and not humans.
• 54:52
  Speaker 8: Lost humanity and so for you to say that speaks
• 54:56
  Speaker 8: volumes because the times we are living now, we for
• 55:00
  Speaker 8: leading that just kind of humanity exactly.
• 55:06
  Speaker 9: It has been lost and I'm hoping we we find
• 55:09
  Speaker 9: our way back to it. But the fact that that
• 55:12
  Speaker 9: is a priority for.
• 55:13
  Speaker 3: You when you are teaching your children.
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  Speaker 9: And like you said, it's not about the money, it's
• 55:18
  Speaker 9: not about fame, it's not about the material things. It's
• 55:22
  Speaker 9: about just being a kind, decent person to everybody, to strangers.
• 55:28
  Speaker 8: The janitor, regardless religion, sexual preferences. Just be a kind
• 55:37
  Speaker 8: person because we're all human. We're all human, we all
• 55:40
  Speaker 8: have feelings, we all yeah, just be you know, have
• 55:43
  Speaker 8: our own experiences.
• 55:44
  Speaker 7: Yeah, like you never I mean you never know? All right,
• 55:47
  Speaker 7: what about your victoria.
• 55:48
  Speaker 8: I definitely want to leave my mark on the world.
• 55:51
  Speaker 8: I'm working on a couple of projects that I will
• 55:53
  Speaker 8: you know will be in the works and I will
• 55:56
  Speaker 8: talk about in the up coming days. But I do
• 55:59
  Speaker 8: have Instagram that I'm getting started up. It's called behavior Baddies.
• 56:04
  Speaker 8: So it's not a little fun, relatable, you know, so
• 56:07
  Speaker 8: teaching educational, so and it makes it fun easy for
• 56:11
  Speaker 8: people to understand because like a lot of people don't
• 56:13
  Speaker 8: realize it's like we use behavior analysts and ABA like
• 56:15
  Speaker 8: every day in our lives. So like you're working and
• 56:19
  Speaker 8: reinforcement is your check in two weeks. So it's like
• 56:21
  Speaker 8: everything has to do with like the way you interact
• 56:23
  Speaker 8: with the world environment, different stimuli. So I'm that's basically
• 56:28
  Speaker 8: what I tell in a relatable, fun, easy manner. And
• 56:31
  Speaker 8: then I also do like current events, talking about like
• 56:33
  Speaker 8: different current events as far as like any people who
• 56:39
  Speaker 8: have autism or you know, just unheard or on and
• 56:42
  Speaker 8: like not being treated right. That was a guy who
• 56:43
  Speaker 8: was you know killed in jail, and like just certain
• 56:46
  Speaker 8: things because like we don't have the supports and the
• 56:48
  Speaker 8: people that are knowledgeable to handle and de escalate these things.
• 56:52
  Speaker 8: So like a lot of people are being you know
• 56:54
  Speaker 8: turned away, or just a lot of unnecessary violence or
• 56:57
  Speaker 8: death is you know coming about that? So just bringing
• 56:59
  Speaker 8: away and because like I mean, you never.
• 57:01
  Speaker 7: Know you know what you need to do.
• 57:04
  Speaker 8: I'm going you need to figure out why fans oh no, behave.
• 57:12
  Speaker 7: We can a whole episode should give me an expert.
• 57:18
  Speaker 3: Are experts?
• 57:19
  Speaker 7: We have to get them? I definitely.
• 57:21
  Speaker 8: I mean it's we deal with sports too, Like I
• 57:23
  Speaker 8: could go into sports behavior analysis, whether like sports management
• 57:28
  Speaker 8: or you know, having fans, management girls, girls, girls, just
• 57:35
  Speaker 8: just having to deal with a fame or like coming
• 57:37
  Speaker 8: off of an injury, because coming off of an injury
• 57:39
  Speaker 8: for an athlete, that that's like their whole everything. It's
• 57:41
  Speaker 8: kind of hard sometimes getting them back or just getting
• 57:44
  Speaker 8: them you know, exactly, just getting the mind to be
• 57:46
  Speaker 8: like okay, that was an injury and then taking down
• 57:48
  Speaker 8: the mental aspect of it.
• 57:56
  Speaker 6: A game.
• 57:58
  Speaker 3: I love games.
• 58:00
  Speaker 1: Oh, these are good ones.
• 58:01
  Speaker 4: Okay, So the first one is what are people usually
• 58:05
  Speaker 4: surprised to.
• 58:06
  Speaker 3: Find out about you?
• 58:13
  Speaker 7: Oh?
• 58:14
  Speaker 3: I actually don't know. I'm gonna end with this one.
• 58:21
  Speaker 3: Oh I don't know about this one?
• 58:27
  Speaker 7: Mm hmm.
• 58:28
  Speaker 3: Were you ready for Victoria?
• 58:31
  Speaker 6: Okay?
• 58:33
  Speaker 8: What mine says that I'm not spoiled or I'm not
• 58:36
  Speaker 8: a professional athlete really look like a gymnast. I was
• 58:41
  Speaker 8: so good at sports, and I should have kept it up,
• 58:44
  Speaker 8: but I didn't.
• 58:45
  Speaker 7: And but I do love it. I did, but I
• 58:48
  Speaker 7: just wasn't.
• 58:48
  Speaker 8: I didn't want to be a college athlete. But I
• 58:52
  Speaker 8: loved it ever until I got older. And I do
• 58:54
  Speaker 8: wish I did play in college. But you know, it
• 58:59
  Speaker 8: took you elsewhere that.
• 59:02
  Speaker 5: I love that.
• 59:03
  Speaker 1: I love that, Thank you.
• 59:05
  Speaker 9: I love country music. Actually would have never have guessed
• 59:09
  Speaker 9: that one many Oh my gosh, Okay, what's your favorite song?
• 59:14
  Speaker 6: Then I like Chadohoochie.
• 59:19
  Speaker 3: And give us, you know, drop us a couple of.
• 59:24
  Speaker 6: Jackson Okay, give us a little.
• 59:26
  Speaker 3: Way down in Yonder on the Chatoo.
• 59:28
  Speaker 6: She never knew how much the money water meant to me.
• 59:31
  Speaker 10: Well learned how to swim, man, I learned who I.
• 59:34
  Speaker 6: Was, a lot about living in a little about love.
• 59:43
  Speaker 3: So any concerts you've gone to, you know you would
• 59:47
  Speaker 3: want to go to.
• 59:48
  Speaker 10: Country music is one of those things where like the
• 59:52
  Speaker 10: best concerts are like the out on the Grass.
• 59:58
  Speaker 7: Cowboy boots.
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 2: So where did the your love for country muses that
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 2: come from?
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 6: It actually came from my father. Really, Yes, I have
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 6: a love for music just like in general. Yeah, like
• 1:00:08
  Speaker 6: it's so cool.
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I would have never guessed.
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 8: That's a pleasant surprise.
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 9: Yeah, I mind should not be a surprise because everyone
• 1:00:16
  Speaker 9: knows I hate flying.
• 1:00:19
  Speaker 6: Put me on a train.
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 3: I will get I will get on a train in
• 1:00:22
  Speaker 3: a minute.
• 1:00:23
  Speaker 9: I went from New Orleans to Los Angeles on the
• 1:00:26
  Speaker 9: train with my month old him and I got a
• 1:00:30
  Speaker 9: little room and it was the best.
• 1:00:32
  Speaker 3: Time of my life.
• 1:00:33
  Speaker 7: You went straight and straight.
• 1:00:34
  Speaker 3: Yes, ma'am. I love the train ride.
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 6: How long did that?
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 7: Two days?
• 1:00:40
  Speaker 3: It's relaxing. I get my own space.
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 7: That's the only thing I've seen, like movies and stuff.
• 1:00:46
  Speaker 8: And you get a little bit, you get a little room,
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 8: get a little room, you get three meals.
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 6: Is crazy. Yeah, you may.
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 7: You may not feel like like a chucker chuckers. You
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 7: feel like a Marta.
• 1:00:58
  Speaker 3: No, it's not like a Marta.
• 1:00:59
  Speaker 9: It's not move like you'll you'll feel yeah, you you'll
• 1:01:02
  Speaker 9: feel the but it's it's fun and it's relaxing. And
• 1:01:05
  Speaker 9: I encourage everyone to try to get on one at
• 1:01:07
  Speaker 9: some point.
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 6: Okay, we're gonna hold that.
• 1:01:09
  Speaker 2: Hold that right there, you can put on the couch.
• 1:01:10
  Speaker 3: Did you guys have a good time. Yeah, yeah, that's
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 3: a good one.
• 1:01:14
  Speaker 8: Okay, so we chanel you can have the basketball and
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 8: get Victoria.
• 1:01:20
  Speaker 9: So instead of asking your dads for autographs, we're gonna
• 1:01:23
  Speaker 9: ask you because you guys, nobody has exactly, So thank
• 1:01:33
  Speaker 9: you saying well, did you girls have a good song,
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 9: have good time?
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 7: Good?
• 1:01:39
  Speaker 4: Yeah, this is exciting, this is our finale, our so
• 1:01:45
  Speaker 4: we'll definitely take everybody up on their offers to come
• 1:01:49
  Speaker 4: for Rose concerts.
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 3: Yes and they yeah.
• 1:01:54
  Speaker 8: And then also we're gonna definitely have Victoria back to
• 1:01:57
  Speaker 8: be our.
• 1:01:58
  Speaker 3: Expert because I have a few questions to ask her.
• 1:02:02
  Speaker 7: Yeah, you people.
• 1:02:07
  Speaker 8: Do some of the things that I have so many answers.
• 1:02:10
  Speaker 8: Everything is behavior, so.
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 1: Let me know that's cool.
• 1:02:14
  Speaker 9: All right, alrighty, thank you for tuning in to our
• 1:02:18
  Speaker 9: season finale, Born to the Game podcast. I'm Mariah, I'm Tom,
• 1:02:23
  Speaker 9: and we'll see you for season two.
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 8: Don't forget to like share, subscribe to everybody that is everybody.
• 1:02:31
  Speaker 3: Ah, your friends make sure they got it. Thank you Victoria,
• 1:02:34
  Speaker 3: and shut up.
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 1: We got a lot of guests today.
• 1:02:40
  Speaker 7: Thanks you girls for coming, and we'll see.
• 1:02:43
  Speaker 3: You next time.
• 1:02:43
  Speaker 5: Bye bye bye.