Latest / Beyond Sovereignty / #033 - The Real Reason Your Salon Isn’t Thriving (And How to Fix It) 💡🚀
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- 0:00Every single organ in your body has its own imprints
- 0:04of memories that it stores. These unconscious patterns
- 0:08and programs and storage things in our body are taking up
- 0:11valuable real estate of success. Everything that is
- 0:14happening in your business is a direct reflection of everything that
- 0:18is happening within you. Do you understand where I'm going with this? Are you reading between the
- 0:21lines? It's not always about the marketing. It's
- 0:24your energy. All of these things that you are feeling are
- 0:28an invitation to grow or to stay suffering. Welcome
- 0:32to a revolution in the hair industry. A space where being
- 0:36banked and beautiful and creating massive global impact
- 0:40is the new standard. I'm Blythe Lankford, and in
- 0:43this podcast, I'm going to share with you the exact strategies and
- 0:47insights that helped me transform my three salons into
- 0:50seven-figure businesses in under 12 months. If you're ready
- 0:53to step into your power and grow your
- 0:57wealth and be part of a movement that's changing the game
- 1:00globally, then, babe, you're in the right place. So let's get started. This
- 1:04is why your salon isn't succeeding. I know you don't want to hear this, but
- 1:09you're welcome anyway. So my approach is completely different,
- 1:13right, to everybody else's, I personally believe, because of
- 1:17being in the hairdressing industry for 25 years and actually going through all
- 1:20the shit that doesn't work, that really doesn't work
- 1:24and seeing what really prevents success. Now,
- 1:27all of us as salon owners always want to expand our business, grow
- 1:32our wealth, grow our profits, our turnover,
- 1:36grow our teams, grow our reach, grow our clients, just
- 1:40wanting to grow in every single area. And a lot of the time
- 1:43when our figures don't match the amount of effort
- 1:50Like, what the fuck, oh my god, I'm trying everything, I'm
- 1:54doing all the things, the marketing, the this, the that, oh my god, my
- 1:57pictures are amazing, my Instagram's amazing, my staff are great, everything's amazing.
- 2:01Why hasn't my success changed? I'm doing all the
- 2:04mindset work stuff that my mentor and my coach told
- 2:08me to do. I got those, you know, trainers into the salon and we did like this
- 2:11mindset stuff with all this team, with all my team, but nothing's really
- 2:15changed long term. Now, why do you reckon that would be?
- 2:21I'm giving you a clue here. You're stuck up here. You're stuck
- 2:25up here. Where is your skills, baby? Your
- 2:31You are probably really kinesthetic and empathic. Your
- 2:36mind and your intellect are
- 2:40not the forefront of your guiding force. And
- 2:44you'd be like, bitch, I'm intellectual as fuck. Okay, great.
- 2:48If you are. And you're kinesthetic, baby.
- 2:52You work with your hands. You work with your intuition. When
- 2:56you are working with a client, you are gathering information, not
- 2:59just from what they say, but how they move their hands and
- 3:03what they're like, you know, a client's like, yeah, I only want my hair like
- 3:06up to my bum. And they're pointing at their jaw length and
- 3:10you're like, got to read between the lines and figure out what the fuck
- 3:13they're actually talking about. Yeah, I want my hair blonde and they're showing you a picture of
- 3:16like a level six ash, you know, and you're like, bitch.
- 3:21Okay. You know, like we're psychic intuitives. We
- 3:25are not people of the mind. The mind is the
- 3:29end of our nervous system. Okay. It's
- 3:33the end of our nervous system. What is in
- 3:36front of our nervous system is our body. Our
- 3:40nervous system starts off, first of all, with our nose. When we smell something,
- 3:43then that creates a response and it sets off
- 3:47the other systems in the body. Then the brain is the final
- 3:50part of our nervous system that provides the information of
- 3:53how we're going to respond. When we're just doing mindset
- 3:57work, we're working at the end of the nervous system. Hairdressers
- 4:01are, I believe, smarter than everybody
- 4:04else on the planet because we don't work at the end of our nervous system. We work through
- 4:08our bodies. The work that I do is
- 4:11helping people to grow within their bodies. No,
- 4:14I don't mean getting you fatter. Unless you want to, I'm really good at that too. What
- 4:19I mean is we work at releasing the unconscious programming
- 4:23that is stored in your cellular memory of your body. Every
- 4:27single organ in your body has its own imprints
- 4:31of memories that it stores. These memories
- 4:34that are stored are literally our
- 4:39unconscious programming, They're the behaviors that we hate. They're
- 4:43the parts of ourselves that we don't like. It's the parts of
- 4:46our past that we've shut down and just hid somewhere and hope
- 4:49that nobody looks at that. But these
- 4:55unconscious patterns and programs and storage things
- 4:59in our body are taking up valuable real estate of
- 5:02success. What I mean is your body's got
- 5:05a certain amount of real estate available for all the things that you want. And
- 5:10if your body is filled up with all of the shit that you don't want, you
- 5:13ain't got no space. There is no rental
- 5:17property available within your body. There is no rental property
- 5:21available within your body. So you can do all the
- 5:24mindset work that you want, but it ain't
- 5:27going to land in your body. That's why you don't get sustainable results. So
- 5:32the work that I do is helping people tap into
- 5:36their body, release out the things that they don't even
- 5:40like, that they're holding so deeply onto, so
- 5:43that you can have valuable real estate that is taken up
- 5:46by the success that you want. Because you
- 5:51want success in all the areas, whether it's getting
- 5:54that banging body, whether it's getting banked, whether
- 5:58it is having a team that is happy and thriving, whether
- 6:01it is like more loving from your relationship. Whatever
- 6:04it is, you actually desire to have
- 6:08more space in your body so that you can receive all
- 6:12of the things that you actually desire. But when you
- 6:15are not in the place that you want, the real estate of
- 6:19your body is taken up by the things that you fucking
- 6:24And the more you try and control and force
- 6:27and change, you're actually storing and trapping
- 6:32So the work I do helps people to release these. Things
- 6:37that they don't really want out of their body with ease and grace
- 6:40and flow so it doesn't have to be gross and icky and
- 6:44stuckness and hard. It's
- 6:47hard holding on to them, babe. Haven't you realized that? Your
- 6:51suffering is caused by you holding
- 6:54on to all these things you don't even actually want. That's
- 6:58a little bit about what I do differently to other mentors
- 7:02in the industry. Not only do I work with you on your business,
- 7:06but also on your business within your body, because your
- 7:10body is your business. Everything that is happening in your business is
- 7:13a direct reflection of everything that is happening within you. What
- 7:17do you mean, Blythe? I've got a staff member that's doing, like, killing it. I've got a
- 7:20staff member that's doing shit. I've got an apprentice that's doing this. I've got this. I've
- 7:23got this. My marketing did it. Like, yeah. That's
- 7:27a reflection of you in your past. That's a reflection of you as a
- 7:30child. That's a reflection of your child. That's a reflection of
- 7:33a, you know, come on. I know I ain't telling you
- 7:36nothing new. I'm just highlighting the things that you are avoiding because
- 7:41you don't want to work on you. It's so much easier
- 7:45to do all this external work and never actually work
- 7:49on ourselves. But everything
- 7:53that you wish externally that you had that is not changing will
- 7:57not be changed or transformed for good if
- 8:01you don't work on yourself. So as
- 8:04a salon owner that is having
- 8:08all of these things going on within them, what your day-to-day can look
- 8:11like is, you don't even want to get out of
- 8:15Like it's a fucking, fuck, gotta go to fucking, fuck, work,
- 8:18fuck. It can start off like that. Or
- 8:22it could feel like, oh my god, I don't even have the energy for this, where's the fucking coffee, don't
- 8:25even talk to me, I haven't had a coffee. Don't even have a, I need a, fucking shut
- 8:33It could look like, oh my god, it's like six o'clock, I
- 8:36haven't had breakfast yet. How the fuck did that happen? Oh
- 8:40my god, I'm so fucking hungry, oh my god, I've got like mud mouth because I haven't even drunk enough
- 8:46It could look like... I cannot even look at the figures. Oh my God,
- 8:49I don't know how I'm going to pay all my bills. Holy fuck. Holy fuck. What
- 8:52am I going to do? What am I going to do? Just smile and pretend it's okay. Nobody will know. It's
- 8:56okay. Oh my gosh, I just won't pay super for this quarter again. I'll just
- 8:59be behind in my super so that I can pay all the debts off. It could look like that. Have
- 9:04we all been there before? It could look like... Shit.
- 9:10If you're a female salon owner or a gay
- 9:13salon owner, it could look like this. Baby, why
- 9:17can't you just be more like blah, blah, blah, blah? Babe, why can't
- 9:20you just be more like blah, blah, blah, blah? And you try and change your partner so
- 9:23much to the point where you don't
- 9:27even want to go out with this person, that you are actually in a relationship. And
- 9:31actually, you don't even know this person. You're just trying to create a being that
- 9:34is like the delusion in your mind rather than actually acknowledging the partner
- 9:38that you have, that is lovingly holding and supporting you
- 9:44Or it could look like drama.
- 9:50Drama. And you might have outgrown the drama that's within you
- 9:54because you're a salon owner. But you notice that there's drama going
- 9:57on everywhere in the salon. Like, why are the fucking staff so
- 10:01dramatic? Why did that chick just punch a hole in the wall? Is she
- 10:04on ice? Or she just have an anger issue? Been there, have
- 10:07you? What about, like, when, you
- 10:10know, people just forget to show up to work on a Monday and
- 10:14they've got a full column of clients? Has that ever happened to you? I
- 10:17mean, these are things I'm remembering specifically from my past, so
- 10:21I'm sure that it's probably happened to other people out there. And if you say
- 10:24that it hasn't happened to you, you're just really lucky. I don't know, are you like Buddha's
- 10:28baby or something? I don't know. But, you
- 10:32know, they're the kind of things that show up. Or it could be trying
- 10:37to do everything yourself because you just can't
- 10:41be bothered to give another task to another staff member to
- 10:44fuck up. So rather than having anybody fuck up, you just do
- 10:47it all yourself because then at least you can be in control and you know
- 10:51that the shit's going to get done. And you hate being responsible for
- 10:54people. And you hate being a control freak. Yet, if you don't control
- 10:58it, shit hits the fan and everything fucks up all the
- 11:01time. So, I don't know, it might look like
- 11:04any of those one things. Or it might also look like you
- 11:09in the morning going to put your makeup on or
- 11:12going to do your hair and looking at
- 11:15that person in the mirror and
- 11:20wondering Who the fuck
- 11:23you are? You don't even know yourself. And
- 11:28so rather than even getting to know yourself, you
- 11:32just put heaps more makeup on so that you don't actually have to look like your real
- 11:35self. So that you can be somebody else. Because actually, you
- 11:40feel so unworthy. Unworthy for
- 11:43success. Or another one, you've gotten so
- 11:47much Botox so you don't even actually have to look like yourself anymore. because
- 11:52you actually hate who you are underneath all
- 11:57But you feel so confident with all the fucking surgeries. I know, babe. I've
- 12:02Fuck. I hated myself, too. I
- 12:09But I know the journey to get back to natural. I
- 12:13understand what it feels like when you actually hate
- 12:17how you look. And you'll do any
- 12:21amount of poison to make yourself feel better. These
- 12:24are just some of the pain points that we as hairdressing salon owners face,
- 12:28right? And then that overwhelming pressure. I remember turning
- 12:32to my mum one day, I've said this before in a previous episode, but I
- 12:35remember turning to my mum one day and just saying like, I think
- 12:38I'm having a heart attack. We were walking around the Bay Run
- 12:41in Sydney and she just looked at me with blank eyes and
- 12:45I could tell, because we're hairdressers, we're psychics, that in that moment she was like, That's
- 12:49how I feel every day, Blythe. And then I said to her, I'm like, actually,
- 12:53this is how I feel most days. And she was like, yep.
- 12:57And then changed the subject. How often do we do that?
- 13:01Where we actually most days feel
- 13:05so fucked, but we just got to keep on
- 13:08going because we don't know any other way. Well, these things
- 13:12that we are feeling are
- 13:17all signs that we've got some inner work to do. They
- 13:20are also all signs of the
- 13:24real estate that has been taken up in our body by all of these emotions,
- 13:27all of these experiences. So your body doesn't
- 13:31have the ability to receive success, wealth,
- 13:36maybe it's the fame and the fortune that you want. You
- 13:39don't have the capacity yet to
- 13:43be able to hold all of that. and
- 13:46it's you that is actually preventing your
- 13:50salon from growing. Don't
- 13:54worry, there's a cure, but just think about it for a
- 13:57little bit longer. All of these
- 14:00things that you are feeling are an invitation to
- 14:04grow or to stay suffering. What
- 14:08do you want to choose? It's totally up to you. Now
- 14:11I don't want you to get to the place where I was at 27 having my
- 14:15second salon that I just hit seven figures with, went
- 14:18through extreme sexual abuse, treason
- 14:22and blackmail. My boyfriend had
- 14:26just fell pregnant with another woman and
- 14:30then I've developed cancer. I
- 14:33was not listening to what was already happening within my body. And
- 14:37so my internal world was
- 14:41giving me the anxiety, was giving me the pressure, was giving me the
- 14:44feeling like I was having a heart attack most days. Yet I
- 14:47kept on showing up and doing my external work
- 14:51so fucking well. I looked amazing. Go
- 14:54back through my old feed. Oh my God, blonde hair, all the Botox,
- 14:58the big lips. You wouldn't even recognize me, I was so fucking hot. Not
- 15:02that I'm not hot now, just different, you know. But I
- 15:06was very similar to a lot of people that are probably listening
- 15:09to this. And like
- 15:12I said, I don't want you to get to the place that I went to because
- 15:16it's harder to turn it all around afterwards. It's
- 15:20so much easier to prevent it all. So
- 15:24I had obviously this big catastrophic year.
- 15:28Like all of these things happened within six months. That's so fucking
- 15:32insane. Of course, we're dramatic. We do everything
- 15:3610x, right? High achievers. Yay. If I'm going to fail, I'm
- 15:39going to fucking fail while I'm fucking succeeding and fucking what
- 15:43the fuck. You know, just all the what the fuckness. That
- 15:49is what led me into the path of doing deep inner work. I'd
- 15:52already been a coach. I'd already been doing lots of things like
- 15:56a head trainer. I'd already trained, I think, a
- 15:59thousand staff by this point, but I
- 16:03needed to start training myself at a whole new level. So
- 16:07I started the expedition of
- 16:10the noob life of figuring out who the fuck I was underneath
- 16:14all of my fucked upness and doing the
- 16:17deep inner work. So for me, I went through so many different protocols
- 16:22and processes and trainings and healers and psychics and
- 16:25sages and all the different yogic philosophies and
- 16:28spiritual teachings and Flew with Tony Robbins for
- 16:31a full year doing his leadership and relationship
- 16:35and all of these different academies and university trainings with
- 16:39Tony Robbins. Went and met the Dalai Lama over in India. Went
- 16:43and got like hugs and stuff. Stayed in the same hotel as him. It was pretty sweet. And
- 16:47then like learnt how to do blessings and deekshas and all of these amazing
- 16:51tools. Became a naturopathic nutritionist. Learned all of, you
- 16:54know, we don't do anything half. So I did like 10 trainings on that.
- 16:57I did like five trainings on how to be a raw vegan chef. I
- 17:01did all these programs in detoxing. I learned all of these
- 17:04things, mostly to heal myself because I was pretty fucked up. My state was
- 17:07fucked, but I was so lucky
- 17:11and I don't think I was lucky I was so blessed to have
- 17:14built my salons to places where they were like financially sustainable
- 17:19and they were able to give me the freedom to go and heal
- 17:22myself and that's what I did and then from there I
- 17:25when I came back my clients were literally like oh my god what have you done you're
- 17:29so different please teach me and then I started to like that's
- 17:32when I'd already started business coaching like I'd already trained in business coaching
- 17:36and then I started to train in health coaching and started to support my
- 17:39hairdressing clients in health as well. So they were coming into
- 17:42my salons, getting like the best service because they've got a
- 17:45health coach, a fucking naturopath, a fucking this, that and the other, you know, everything there
- 17:50and supporting them in that way. I also had my own detox product brand, which
- 17:53was pretty sweet too. So once I'd started to do this work, then
- 17:56it completely shifted and changed. I fell
- 18:00in love with myself. like not
- 18:04my external looks, okay, not my external looks
- 18:08with Botox. I was able to stop getting all
- 18:11of the injectables and I'm not saying you should get, stop getting injectables. I'm not saying you
- 18:15should change at all. I'm just saying what changed for me internally
- 18:19and then within my business. So I started
- 18:23to accept myself. I started to be nurturing and loving
- 18:26and kind to myself and start looking after
- 18:30my health. And everything shifted
- 18:33within my business. Everything shifted within my teams, my
- 18:43Like everything shifted. It went from being
- 18:47a boss to having like family,
- 18:51you know, where I cared so
- 18:55much deeper about them and their wellbeing. And they felt
- 18:58that. They had the most
- 19:02amazing lives and I
- 19:05wanted to be a huge part of that. I wanted to make sure that they had the lives that they really fucking
- 19:09deserved. And so my responsibility went from
- 19:12pressure and hustle and me being there all
- 19:16the time and doing all of the things to like so
- 19:19much more ease and grace and peace internally.
- 19:23Because when you love yourself, it's peaceful on
- 19:27the inside. It's beautiful. You don't have that pressure. You
- 19:31don't have that lack of worth, the too muchness, the not enoughness. I'm
- 19:35unlovable. I'm ugly. I'm broken. I'm fucked like
- 19:41You can come back to completeness and when you have that within
- 19:45yourself It's felt by everybody around you because
- 19:48then they get to experience that within themselves as well And
- 19:52that's when you become a magnetic salon owner. That's
- 19:56when the energy in your business completely changes and
- 20:01Your clients are attracted to you organically It's
- 20:05like the time, okay, so this started to happen when this happened in my
- 20:08life. We would have clients, like this was in the Tony and Guy at
- 20:11Chatswood, I own the Tony and Guy at Chatswood. I own Tony and Guy Chatswood, Parramatta,
- 20:15and Sydney Central flagship salons that just, I never mentioned that.
- 20:18But with the Chatswood salon, when
- 20:22I was working in there, we'd have clients that would come in, they're like, oh my gosh, this is
- 20:25a new salon. This is so beautiful. I've never seen it before. This
- 20:28is amazing. When did you guys open? It's like, we've been here for 15 years.
- 20:34They're like, I've lived in this area my whole life, I've never even seen you before now. It's
- 20:37like, well, hi, glad that you're picking up on the
- 20:40vibes that we've got here. Do you understand where I'm going with this?
- 20:43Are you reading between the lines? It's not always about
- 20:47the marketing. Yes, it helps. However,
- 20:52it's your energy. And once you can open
- 20:56up to receiving more and cleansing out
- 20:59all the things that you don't need and require, the things that you
- 21:03hate, you are magnetic and
- 21:06it filters through your staff and it filters through the work that they
- 21:10do and it filters to the external environment beyond
- 21:13your salon and people are drawn in just by
- 21:22It's effortless marketing because all you have to do is the inner work
- 21:26on yourself. And so that's why I love, love
- 21:31helping salon owners do the inner work. Because all
- 21:35the things that you hate about yourself, you can fall in love with. You end up
- 21:41I don't want to look different. You don't have to, babe. You can fall
- 21:44in love with yourself and still look however you want on the outside. It's totally fine.
- 21:48My experience is going to be different to your experience. It's going to be different to the next person's experience,
- 21:52right? But when you do this inner work, you can create
- 21:56space to receive. You
- 22:00can melt into that. What else would you like to receive more in
- 22:03your life? I don't know. You tell me. Pop it in the notes below. I'm really excited
- 22:06to find out, actually. And once you've got this magnetic energy,
- 22:11that is the time that you want to start creating rituals.
- 22:16What, you witchy bitch? Yes, rituals. Because
- 22:20rituals is just a fancy word for what every
- 22:23single culture has already done. What every single religion, what
- 22:27every single indigenous culture, every, what
- 22:30I'm trying to say is all of your ancestors had rituals. Yes, you.
- 22:34Yes, you baby. All of your ancestors had rituals. And it's
- 22:38up to us to tune into these ancient
- 22:41rituals. Bitch, you're a whack job. Okay. So what I'm trying to
- 22:45say here is you're a natural born healer. Another
- 22:50thing I learned from 25 years of hairdressing is 99.9% of
- 22:54hairdressers are psychics. You know that though, don't you? But you just don't
- 22:57want to tell anybody. But guess what? I know. And I'm
- 23:00here to help you with that. And you still don't need to tell anybody that you're a fucking psychic.
- 23:04It's OK. Just be Harry Potter undercover, OK? Like I
- 23:07was. It's the best fun. It's the best fun. So
- 23:11once you can tune into your magnetic energy and
- 23:15really harness all of you, Yes, you
- 23:18fucking sexy psychic. Then your salon
- 23:22becomes magnetic and then you create these amazing rituals
- 23:26that you... literally create. You just like, intuit
- 23:30them from your ancestral wisdom. Because once you've done this internal
- 23:34work and removed all the blocks, then you can create amazing
- 23:38rituals. And you're like, Blythe, I don't know how to
- 23:41create ancient rituals. I know because we haven't worked together yet.
- 23:44It's part of the process, okay? And also,
- 23:48you could also just get my rituals. I've got
- 23:51a course on that. Like, if you, yeah, just reach out.
- 23:56so we can create these beautiful sacred rituals. Like I said in
- 23:59the previous episode, once you create a
- 24:02hub, like make your salon a hub, a
- 24:06beautiful hub, whatever you want to call it, a healing hub, a love temple,
- 24:10a fashion forecasting warehouse, whatever
- 24:14it is that you want to create that's this beautiful space of
- 24:17yumminess and the energy is like cultivated in there. Oh,
- 24:20you don't like that word, cult, but you're creating a cult, mate. Just get you over it. Once
- 24:24you create this beautiful energy in there and all of your staff
- 24:28understand who the fuck they are and what they're actually here for
- 24:31and how to do these amazing rituals on your clients.
- 24:35And I'm not talking about doing woo-woo whack shit,
- 24:39I'm actually talking about doing ancient massage
- 24:45and beautiful smells, you know like things that the Egyptians
- 24:48would use to help people go into like calm states
- 24:52or what the ancient Greeks would use to help people like
- 24:56come into like great philosophic moments
- 25:00or what the ancient Indians, yogis and philosophers
- 25:04and saints and sages, Jesus, Yeshua, all of them,
- 25:07they all use these sacred smells and resins
- 25:11and beautiful things to enhance the experience. They
- 25:14were working with nature, okay? They were working with different elements of nature
- 25:18and bringing that into their salon and creating these amazing rituals. And then
- 25:21they would provide healing to other people. And as a
- 25:24salon owner, you get to create that. And you're
- 25:28like, I don't want to do that shit. Babe, you're already doing it. You just unconsciously haven't just put a
- 25:31name to it, you know? Now we're just going to put a name to what it is that you guys
- 25:35already do and look at the process, the rituals that
- 25:38you're creating and just expand on that so that you can draw in
- 25:43all of these clients who are dying to
- 25:46be your clients, who aren't yet your clients, right? Or
- 25:50the clients that you do have, we're going to take their
- 25:54experience to whole other realms that they've been waiting
- 25:57to experience in your salon. So, once
- 26:01you create more space within your body, then you can break
- 26:04through these ceilings of wealth
- 26:08of your ego that's keeping you stuck and not getting to
- 26:11the success that you want. Help your teams get to the level of success
- 26:14that they want so everybody's earning over six figures, so
- 26:18that everybody is producing work that they fucking love, so
- 26:22that your clients become raving fans and they talk to all of their friends and
- 26:25family. And every time that they go anywhere, people are
- 26:28like, oh my God, I fucking love your hair. Where did you get that done? And they are
- 26:36Babe, Babe, you're already doing the
- 26:39What if the clients were promoting you for free and
- 26:43you didn't even have to ask them? That's what it means to be a magnetic salon
- 26:47owner. And that's what you get to be. So once
- 26:50you do the inner work, it allows your staff to organically
- 26:54and naturally, because they're extensions of you. No, I'm not a narcissist. It's
- 26:57actually a fact. They are extensions of you. Then the
- 27:01work that you've done on yourself can allow them to
- 27:04grow to the extra ceiling, the extra level and layer that you
- 27:08want them to grow to. Because it is
- 27:11your internal real estate all the work
- 27:15that you're not doing, all the things that you're holding on to so
- 27:18tightly that you're trying to control and don't want to yet change, that
- 27:22are preventing your salon and your team from being
- 27:25the epic leaders and having all the success that
- 27:30you and all of them desire so
- 27:33deeply, so fucking deeply. So
- 27:37please, Be brave. Be
- 27:40bold. Step into understanding yourself
- 27:44at the greater depths so that you can take your salon, smash
- 27:49your salon through the ceiling that you're currently at, and grow
- 27:52to the level and the layer that you fucking desire.
- 27:56Because, babe, you're worth it. You're
- 27:59fucking worth it. Thank you for following me all the way to the end of
- 28:02this episode, and I also want to invite you
- 28:05to think about what behaviours,
- 28:10what emotions constantly come
- 28:14up for you that you try and avoid, that
- 28:17you think are fucked, wrong, yuck, ick, oh
- 28:21my gosh, I've just got to work through it, not even deal with that, push it
- 28:24out of my mind. What are those things that you're
- 28:28trying to push away, that you're trying to suppress? Because those are
- 28:31actually the things that are keeping you stuck. And
- 28:35the way that we first start to resolve them is
- 28:38by bringing awareness to them. So once you can voice it, then
- 28:42you're actually starting to transmute it, you're alchemizing it,
- 28:45you're changing it, you're shifting it forever. I
- 28:49invite you and I encourage you, my love, to
- 28:53be vulnerable and let us know what these
- 28:57things are that you are really finding uncomfortable because
- 29:01they are taking up the real estate for your success. Drop
- 29:04it in the notes below. Let us know or DM me. I'd love to know. And
- 29:08if you want a mentor or the best coach in the industry, hello,
- 29:13you can reach out, you can join my mastermind or even just let's get on
- 29:17a call and tell me about your business, tell me about your staff, tell me what's going
- 29:20on with you. Allow yourself to be seen by somebody that
- 29:23can see you in your entirety. and can actually point
- 29:27out some blind spots for you to grow. Whether you
- 29:30work with me or not, it's irrelevant, but allow me to just share
- 29:34with you what I see in you that could potentially 10x
- 29:37your business, or 10x your health, or 10x
- 29:41your self-worth. Because they're all one in the same, P.S. Much
- 29:45love, beautiful people. Thank you so much for joining me on Soul Temple.
- 29:49If this episode spoke to your soul, I would love your support with
- 29:52a five-star review on Apple Podcasts and Spotify. And
- 29:55don't forget, please subscribe on your favorite platform too. Don't let your
- 29:59journey end here. Connect with me and my like-minded community of
- 30:02beautiful souls at Blythe Blankford on all social platforms.
- 30:06I look forward to diving with you deeper on your journey.