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- 0:00Speaker 1: D Angeli and Charlotte. Ain't the guy congratulate you, Hall
- 0:05Speaker 1: of famers. So I had to be in the presence
- 0:07Speaker 1: of Radio Royalty to the world's most day this morning show,
- 0:11Speaker 1: The Breakfast Club. It's a big deal. I think that
- 0:14Speaker 1: y'all have a certain amount of respect for you know
- 0:16Speaker 1: what everybody else does, and y'all are just the best
- 0:19Speaker 1: of what y'all do. We love y'all, man, thank you
- 0:22Speaker 1: for being the people's champs, probably the greatest all thrill y'all,
- 0:28Speaker 1: Wake up, wake up, wake y'all. As if you're trying
- 0:32Speaker 1: to get it off your chap, your man or blass,
- 0:36Speaker 1: we want to hear from you on the Breakfast Club. Hello,
- 0:39Speaker 1: this what I doubt? It's Drake Saga mission. All right,
- 0:46Speaker 1: what's going on? Brother? I was t me wish my
- 0:48Speaker 1: wife first thirty first Firthday, hath Day, Happy birthday. I
- 0:54Speaker 1: love you, you quate you because I shout out her
- 0:57Speaker 1: old Instagram. Yeah god brother her. It just pays man.
- 1:01Speaker 1: Shake to your queen King zero three on one, All right, brother,
- 1:07Speaker 1: salute to your queen. Brother. Hello, who's this man's curly
- 1:13Speaker 1: Kim bro Tony? What I'll get off your chest? Brother?
- 1:16Speaker 1: How are you doing? How are you doing? Solid man?
- 1:18Speaker 1: Peace King? How are you? Brother? I'm doing good. I'm
- 1:21Speaker 1: doing good, man. I I just want to tell my
- 1:23Speaker 1: wife Brittany Blue La man, she's doing real good. She
- 1:27Speaker 1: didn't got a master man, she's trying to take her license.
- 1:31Speaker 1: And Nancy she started a real hard So I just
- 1:35Speaker 1: want to ab salute and oh she's a black woman, queen.
- 1:40Speaker 1: That's a black queen. Hey, salute. Tell her. We need
- 1:42Speaker 1: more black women in the mental health space. Man, we
- 1:45Speaker 1: need more black women therapists, psychiatrist. So salute thor appreciate it,
- 1:49Speaker 1: appreciate love Alright, brother, Hello, who's this? What's going on?
- 1:53Speaker 1: Breakfast club? It's just for a fan show I got
- 1:56Speaker 1: doing this morning. What's going on? I just wanted to
- 2:01Speaker 1: command y'all on that interview with dound san Jay Um,
- 2:04Speaker 1: not for san Jay, but to do guys, because y'all
- 2:07Speaker 1: killed it with questions that was dope and then be
- 2:10Speaker 1: chounded more concerned most I've ever heard you quiet. You
- 2:14Speaker 1: get your your dad, you know what I'm saying, and
- 2:17Speaker 1: great questions doing that. And my thing is Jay he's
- 2:20Speaker 1: just a meta doctor, man. I mean as far as
- 2:23Speaker 1: a neurosearch and he's really not abouted chemist and he
- 2:25Speaker 1: really can't Chelsea and what's going on the back game
- 2:28Speaker 1: as far as that, like y' all studies and Charlotte Magne.
- 2:31Speaker 1: You based some great questions, obvious questions, and he didn't
- 2:35Speaker 1: demand just answer, And it was like I just wanted
- 2:37Speaker 1: to concede us out there like this is this is
- 2:41Speaker 1: Honds the atenders, Like I'm way too far. He's selling
- 2:44Speaker 1: books right now. This isn't about the people. Damn. I
- 2:46Speaker 1: just got questions, you know, I got concerned for my kids,
- 2:48Speaker 1: that's all some when it comes to my kids. I
- 2:50Speaker 1: asked a zillion and one questions. I try to make
- 2:53Speaker 1: sure I'm as knowledgeable as as as I can be
- 2:55Speaker 1: when it comes to my kids, you know, absolutely, And
- 2:58Speaker 1: I heard that. And get where do we go from
- 3:01Speaker 1: there now? Because the man names are out there and uh,
- 3:04Speaker 1: like you said, medical doctors. If you don't have them,
- 3:07Speaker 1: you're firing right now, it's just retalding, like, so who
- 3:12Speaker 1: do you listen to? Listen to you guys from the
- 3:16Speaker 1: beginning inbite about now it's all confused. I get. I
- 3:21Speaker 1: think I think the smartest thing to do is listen
- 3:23Speaker 1: to the so called experts. Listen to the experts and
- 3:26Speaker 1: just make your own decisions. Brother, that's what I do.
- 3:28Speaker 1: You know, absolutely all right? Brother? Thank you man, you
- 3:31Speaker 1: got it? Hello? Who's this, Mike? Mike? What's up? Brother? Brother?
- 3:37Speaker 1: What's good? Blessed Black and Holly favor? What's happening now,
- 3:41Speaker 1: marsh I know you're not supposed to pat yourself on
- 3:43Speaker 1: the back too much in this life. You gotta be humble,
- 3:46Speaker 1: but I just want to see something about myself. During
- 3:49Speaker 1: about the holidays, I was thinking, like, I just think
- 3:52Speaker 1: good because I came from like a single mother. I
- 3:55Speaker 1: can't two other brothers man and raised them doing what's up?
- 4:00Speaker 1: And at this thing? And I want to look at it.
- 4:02Speaker 1: I got a CM man, I got I got beautiful kids,
- 4:06Speaker 1: I got a beautiful place, and I'm doing really good
- 4:09Speaker 1: when kid groom and I thought I was gonna be nothing,
- 4:13Speaker 1: But I can't try to be like why real good dude,
- 4:17Speaker 1: And you got a good job and I got a
- 4:19Speaker 1: good crib and I'm my family and I thank God
- 4:22Speaker 1: for that. There you go. That's all that's every brother,
- 4:24Speaker 1: and that you should definitely tell yourself that every day.
- 4:27Speaker 1: That's not patting yourself on the back end. So and
- 4:29Speaker 1: if you are so what, thank God, bro, thank God
- 4:33Speaker 1: for it all. I know. I know, man, and I
- 4:35Speaker 1: can't believe it. And and and my family like, oh,
- 4:38Speaker 1: they're kind of man that I turned out that way.
- 4:40Speaker 1: I just thought I was that way, called up because
- 4:43Speaker 1: I had my home path. But I'm on a suit
- 4:45Speaker 1: to love it and I am doing greed, y'all. I'm
- 4:47Speaker 1: telling you, I'm proud of you, kid. I'm proud of you. Crazy,
- 4:51Speaker 1: but I'm doing it so good. And I swear to God,
- 4:54Speaker 1: I'm proud of you, king. I am proud of you.
- 4:57Speaker 1: Keep you keep going and growing, don't stop. Get off
- 5:00Speaker 1: your chests. Eight hundred five eight five one to five one.
- 5:03Speaker 1: If you need to vent, hit this up now. It's
- 5:04Speaker 1: the breakfast club. Good morning. It's your time to get
- 5:09Speaker 1: it off your chests, whether you're mad or blessed. So
- 5:12Speaker 1: we better have the same anything we want to hear
- 5:14Speaker 1: from you on the breakfast club Collorow, who's this? Yeah,
- 5:18Speaker 1: good morning, Good morning, breakfast clubs, good morning. Get you
- 5:21Speaker 1: off your chess brothers. Yeah, well, I don't really got
- 5:23Speaker 1: nothing to get off my chest. I just want to
- 5:25Speaker 1: say that, you know, me and my wife. We just
- 5:28Speaker 1: close on the house last week. Congratulated. Congratulations King, I appreciated.
- 5:34Speaker 1: I appreciate it. I want to give my flowers for
- 5:36Speaker 1: all three of y'all. I listened to y'all every morning.
- 5:39Speaker 1: I'm a truck driver. A mile hit one of my things.
- 5:42Speaker 1: You know, I moved from New York and I lived
- 5:44Speaker 1: down in Georgia, now you know, and I listen to
- 5:46Speaker 1: you guys have done a lot for the community, for everybody. Charlemagne,
- 5:52Speaker 1: you are the man. Thank you, King and angelau Ye
- 5:56Speaker 1: you're a beautiful queen. Congratulations like everything you got going on,
- 6:00Speaker 1: Thank you, dj Amy. How can a brother get a
- 6:04Speaker 1: big truck in the car show? Let's do this? Um,
- 6:08Speaker 1: I mean I have a problem putting a big truck
- 6:09Speaker 1: in the car show. Is it just is it customized
- 6:12Speaker 1: or is it just a regular eighteen wheelow? Yeah, no,
- 6:14Speaker 1: it's it's customer. You know. I did my injury, I
- 6:17Speaker 1: did my life, you know, running life, all of that.
- 6:20Speaker 1: All right, Well we can trying to get it on. Well,
- 6:22Speaker 1: I'm glad that I got for Wow, I'm on the radio.
- 6:24Speaker 1: Let's do this, all right. Congrass brother piece King. All right, bro, y'all,
- 6:28Speaker 1: y'all be going, man, have a great day, got black career,
- 6:30Speaker 1: y'all YouTube? Brother? Hello, who's this? Rod? Hey? Rod? What
- 6:34Speaker 1: I'm getting off your chest? Um? It's been in much
- 6:37Speaker 1: chest for about two months now. I don't want to
- 6:39Speaker 1: ask Charlotte made that? Um? Why can't you except listen
- 6:43Speaker 1: to right call everything that's better than Michael Jackson? Man,
- 6:45Speaker 1: shut your shut up? Have have I'm sending you healing energy,
- 6:49Speaker 1: my brother, have a great day. Okay, all right, you're
- 6:52Speaker 1: just calling up here to raid my blood case. Why
- 6:55Speaker 1: do you think Drake is better than Michael Jackson's not
- 6:56Speaker 1: having this conversation? Why how old are you so? You
- 6:59Speaker 1: got twenty three? Exactly? Mister Riker everything drink himself as
- 7:05Speaker 1: I was the greatest rapper walk? Could you? Could you?
- 7:08Speaker 1: Could you like, just you know, go do something with
- 7:09Speaker 1: your life, sir, that you don't got nothing you could
- 7:11Speaker 1: be doing this morning? You ain't got a job. You
- 7:12Speaker 1: can go to something, go help you mama cleaner basement, Like,
- 7:15Speaker 1: is there anything you could do? I don't want you.
- 7:17Speaker 1: I don't, I don't, I don't. I hate that as
- 7:21Speaker 1: I'm not I'm not I'm not I'm not I'm not
- 7:23Speaker 1: having this conversation with you on while Michael Jackson is
- 7:25Speaker 1: better than Drake? You know about to raid my blood
- 7:27Speaker 1: pressure earlier this morning? Okay, And you ever seen the
- 7:30Speaker 1: Michael Jackson You ever seen that meme with that old
- 7:33Speaker 1: man eating breakfast and the young man asked him a
- 7:35Speaker 1: dumb question. He's a man. Just shut the fuck up.
- 7:38Speaker 1: I don't even think that Drake would say that he's
- 7:40Speaker 1: better than Michael Jackson. You don't think. Now, will you
- 7:43Speaker 1: have a good morning? Were you on your way to work?
- 7:44Speaker 1: To wre you work? Bro um working Uber? Right now? Always?
- 7:48Speaker 1: Let's take you out to the radio every day. I
- 7:50Speaker 1: appreciate everybody, love all y'all. Man. I pray to God
- 7:52Speaker 1: that I never get into Uber with you. Man. Can
- 7:54Speaker 1: you imagine being in the back of the uber and
- 7:55Speaker 1: then the Uber driver would be like, hey, man, why
- 7:57Speaker 1: do you think Drake better than Michael Jackson? Let me
- 7:59Speaker 1: out right and take the long way to his credit
- 8:02Speaker 1: one star. Just keep asking and just start playing one
- 8:05Speaker 1: star one star over. I man, have a going by
- 8:09Speaker 1: the way. Yeah, saluted Drake, But come on, man, stop
- 8:12Speaker 1: asking stupid questions. Drinking Michael Jackson. There's only one Michael Jackson. One,
- 8:16Speaker 1: one on one, get it off your chest eight hundred
- 8:18Speaker 1: five eight five one though five one. It's only one
- 8:20Speaker 1: drink too. The Breakfast Club Morning. Everybody is DJ Envy,
- 8:29Speaker 1: Angela Yee, Charlemagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club.
- 8:33Speaker 1: We got a special guest in the building. I thought
- 8:35Speaker 1: she was up here, so I thought you up here before. No,
- 8:38Speaker 1: my first time. I'm like, I'm a breakfast nup version.
- 8:42Speaker 1: I just know your face, like I grew up on you,
- 8:45Speaker 1: so I just know we just I just thought you
- 8:46Speaker 1: were here. You're part of the family. I love it. Well.
- 8:49Speaker 1: Now just Johnson, good morning, what's what's up? Good morning? Now.
- 8:52Speaker 1: If you don't know who A. J. Johnson is and
- 8:54Speaker 1: you don't know her from Life Therapy and all the
- 8:56Speaker 1: shows that she did, she was on one of my
- 8:58Speaker 1: favorite movies of all time, House Party. You know, I'm
- 9:01Speaker 1: surprised you said that. I too. Were gonna say baby
- 9:04Speaker 1: boy yeah, that too, well, I was gonna say. Usually
- 9:06Speaker 1: usually guys say baby boy yeah, and girls say house
- 9:10Speaker 1: party yeah. House Party, you know from New York. So
- 9:12Speaker 1: it was like I grew up on it. So I
- 9:15Speaker 1: want to start from the beginning. If you don't mind,
- 9:17Speaker 1: like how did you get into acting? How did you
- 9:19Speaker 1: get the part in the house Party Party, Let's talk
- 9:21Speaker 1: about it. Oh my goodness, you don't have enough time Jersey. Yeah, yeah,
- 9:26Speaker 1: well yeah, I went just about when I went to
- 9:27Speaker 1: school in Atlanta, and the beginning was Spike Lee shooting
- 9:31Speaker 1: school days on campus and so um as a premim major,
- 9:35Speaker 1: I still put my foot in the arts. Let's go
- 9:37Speaker 1: back to the real beginning. So, growing up in Jersey,
- 9:39Speaker 1: my parents used to bring me up to the city.
- 9:41Speaker 1: So every time I come to New York is real
- 9:43Speaker 1: nostalgic for me, because you know, I grew up on
- 9:45Speaker 1: alvin Alee Dan's classes and going to see Broadway shows
- 9:48Speaker 1: and so that's where I feel like the performance bug
- 9:51Speaker 1: got me. But I came from an academic family, so
- 9:54Speaker 1: it was like, yeah, you know, that's fun, but you're
- 9:56Speaker 1: gonna be a doctor, you're gonna be a lawyer, or
- 9:58Speaker 1: you're gonna be an accountant. So I always saw it
- 10:00Speaker 1: that's fun until Spike showed up his But he shows
- 10:03Speaker 1: up on campus and he's like, you know, I think
- 10:05Speaker 1: I want you to be in my movie. I was
- 10:06Speaker 1: Miss Moorehouse at the time, you know, yeah, so I
- 10:09Speaker 1: was you know, I was kind of doing it at
- 10:10Speaker 1: school and he was like, you know, I think I
- 10:12Speaker 1: kind of want your presence in the movie. And I
- 10:14Speaker 1: was like, yeah, you think I need you to be sure.
- 10:15Speaker 1: He was like, see, that's what I'm talking about, that energy.
- 10:18Speaker 1: And so God bless him because he put me in
- 10:21Speaker 1: school days and that started everything because it gave me
- 10:23Speaker 1: my Screen Actors Guild membership, which is what you need.
- 10:26Speaker 1: Of course, no, and it's not. And so I loved
- 10:30Speaker 1: Spike forever for that because he believed in me enough
- 10:32Speaker 1: to finance that, And and the rest took off after
- 10:35Speaker 1: about your parents because they everybody wanted you, you know,
- 10:37Speaker 1: you were premed. Oh yeah, well I lost my mom
- 10:40Speaker 1: my first year at school. But but my dad and
- 10:42Speaker 1: the rest of my family was like, no, no, no, no,
- 10:44Speaker 1: this is supposed to be fun. And my dad actually
- 10:47Speaker 1: didn't speak to me until the house Party premiere because
- 10:49Speaker 1: then he wanted tickets for a second line. Did you
- 10:53Speaker 1: for a second, say, I don't know, you haven't been
- 10:55Speaker 1: talking to me. No, because I knew, I knew, you know,
- 10:58Speaker 1: and he knew we were closed. So he said, listen,
- 10:59Speaker 1: I'm just scared for you. Like that, life's you know,
- 11:02Speaker 1: He's like, you know, I'm from Jersey, I'm an engineer.
- 11:04Speaker 1: I don't know nothing about Holloywood and auditions and red carpets.
- 11:08Speaker 1: He's like, but now I'm gonna find out because my
- 11:10Speaker 1: girl doing it. You know, So breakdown house party. So
- 11:12Speaker 1: how did the house party come to you? And what
- 11:14Speaker 1: was the vision when you first seen it? Okay, well
- 11:17Speaker 1: did you know that I was in Living Color fly
- 11:19Speaker 1: girl choreographer? Yes, okay, so actually house party conflicted with
- 11:24Speaker 1: in Living Color. So keenan Ivory Wayans was like, you
- 11:27Speaker 1: gotta do either. So I was like, okay, so I'm
- 11:29Speaker 1: out love, You're just gonna leave it. Living Color one
- 11:32Speaker 1: of the biggest shows on TV. But at the time,
- 11:34Speaker 1: it was the beginning, it was growing. I was pioneering, correct, right.
- 11:38Speaker 1: So I called him Rosie, my girl Rosie Perez. I said, listen,
- 11:41Speaker 1: I gotta I gotta take a step back for a second.
- 11:43Speaker 1: Go try to do this movie thing. I need you
- 11:44Speaker 1: to handle it for me. That's hope that you hooked
- 11:46Speaker 1: a friend up, because some people might have been like, oh,
- 11:49Speaker 1: I gotta make a choice. I'm out good luck. Oh no,
- 11:51Speaker 1: no no, Because Rosie was the you know, at the time,
- 11:54Speaker 1: you know, as dancers, it was like Rosie was holding
- 11:56Speaker 1: down the East coast. I was holding down the West coast.
- 11:58Speaker 1: So we shot and Living Color on the West coast. So,
- 12:00Speaker 1: I mean, and Keenan was a friend, so I was like,
- 12:02Speaker 1: you know, I'm gonna take this opportunity, but I'm not
- 12:04Speaker 1: gonna leave my boy hanging. So I was like, let me,
- 12:06Speaker 1: let me go get you the baddest dancer I know,
- 12:08Speaker 1: which was Rosie and so cars Rosy and then and
- 12:11Speaker 1: you know, Tasha and I were friends because we met
- 12:14Speaker 1: doing school days and I so listen, I'm trying to
- 12:17Speaker 1: do this movie. I think you know, they came to
- 12:18Speaker 1: the location to check me out on Living Color there
- 12:21Speaker 1: looking for a brown skin ship who can dance and who?
- 12:23Speaker 1: And she's like, oh no, they're looking for a light
- 12:25Speaker 1: skin go for another role. I wonder if it's me
- 12:27Speaker 1: and you? Well, now you know we don't have to wonder.
- 12:31Speaker 1: You know, what do you think that right? Deep? Right?
- 12:33Speaker 1: Do you think that you're a training and what you
- 12:35Speaker 1: do like for people as a life coach that helps
- 12:38Speaker 1: even when you're on set just being there with people,
- 12:41Speaker 1: because I can imagine how pleasant it must be to
- 12:44Speaker 1: be around you, because you have a lot of the
- 12:45Speaker 1: skills and tools to make sure that you know how
- 12:48Speaker 1: to treat other people. Some people don't know how to
- 12:49Speaker 1: do that. I love you saying that, and because I
- 12:52Speaker 1: think that part of my life and personality is what
- 12:55Speaker 1: got me to the life coaching. It was like as
- 12:57Speaker 1: people as I'm you know, I mean I've been doing
- 12:59Speaker 1: it for thirty years, So as as I work with
- 13:02Speaker 1: different people, as them around different people, they're the ones saying,
- 13:05Speaker 1: can I talk to you? You know, can I get
- 13:07Speaker 1: your take on this? You know, I heard you went
- 13:09Speaker 1: through a hard time, but you know I can't even
- 13:11Speaker 1: you know, you're not wearing your You're you know, you're
- 13:13Speaker 1: not wearing your story, Like how how are you so up?
- 13:16Speaker 1: And so that's where the life coaching came from. The
- 13:18Speaker 1: psychology degree in background, I just started helping people. And
- 13:21Speaker 1: before my dad passed, he was like, well, are they
- 13:24Speaker 1: paying you for it? And I say no, no, no,
- 13:26Speaker 1: I'm helping my friends. He was like, oh, can they
- 13:27Speaker 1: pay me? Because I pay for Spellman, so can they
- 13:29Speaker 1: pay me that? Right? You know? And so in his
- 13:32Speaker 1: passing he said, you know, promise me you'll just try it,
- 13:35Speaker 1: because that's part of your gift and your talent, and
- 13:39Speaker 1: you know you help people and you're in service as
- 13:41Speaker 1: a person, but at the same time that's a job, right,
- 13:44Speaker 1: So here we are and TV one. TV one said
- 13:47Speaker 1: whoop and said we want you an executive produce. It's
- 13:50Speaker 1: your show, eighteen episodes. Show us how you do it,
- 13:53Speaker 1: How we got more? With A. J. Johnson, We're getting
- 13:55Speaker 1: this free life therapeut this morning, so don't move as
- 13:58Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club, Good morning, the Breakfast Club Morning. Everybody
- 14:05Speaker 1: is DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlemagne, the guy we are
- 14:08Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club was still kicking in with AJ Johnson's
- 14:11Speaker 1: actress wellness coach. She has a show on TV one
- 14:14Speaker 1: Life Therapy. Now ye question, Envy, why did you cheat?
- 14:19Speaker 1: A lot of different reasons? Insecurity is the main one.
- 14:22Speaker 1: I think one because when I was home, I was
- 14:25Speaker 1: a shoe. I was with Shawn Casey. But when I
- 14:27Speaker 1: was in the street, I was DJ Envy, So I
- 14:28Speaker 1: almost felt like I was a superhero, like I put
- 14:31Speaker 1: my k for and I'm a different person. And what
- 14:33Speaker 1: part of your life, though, what part of your life
- 14:35Speaker 1: did this happen? Because y'all been together a long time.
- 14:38Speaker 1: When I started popping. And when was that? I would say,
- 14:42Speaker 1: maybe my late was feeling yourself. Yea adeling myself, because
- 14:45Speaker 1: you gotta think I was. I hate to say. I
- 14:47Speaker 1: was a kid with the glasses, the breast, he had
- 14:51Speaker 1: a little tight shorts on, with his sicks up to
- 14:53Speaker 1: his the nerd. Yea was DJ shrimp. I was only
- 14:57Speaker 1: five foot four. At first I thought it was because
- 14:59Speaker 1: it's something else, shut up. But I grew from five
- 15:01Speaker 1: to six foot so it was like, you know, as
- 15:04Speaker 1: a kid, I was, I was the nerd. I was.
- 15:06Speaker 1: Nobody was going me, Nobody's hollered at me. But now
- 15:09Speaker 1: I'm six foot. I got lay sick, my braces off,
- 15:11Speaker 1: I got lay sicks number two, I got Lai. There
- 15:17Speaker 1: was no more metal mouth, it was no more four eyes,
- 15:20Speaker 1: it was no more none of that. Listen, now they
- 15:23Speaker 1: say it again, that dusted you off right and fixed
- 15:25Speaker 1: you up. She dusted me off and fixed me up.
- 15:27Speaker 1: And now I'm how you out there? Great? But you
- 15:30Speaker 1: know how many how many stories are the same, male
- 15:33Speaker 1: and female. You know, the chubby girl in high school
- 15:37Speaker 1: who who couldn't make the cheerleading team all of a
- 15:39Speaker 1: sudden becomes the beauty queen and she high school, you
- 15:44Speaker 1: know what I mean. So I think what's great with
- 15:47Speaker 1: you guys is that you have such a history, that's
- 15:49Speaker 1: your foundation. You had to know you were going to
- 15:51Speaker 1: grow up together, so that that growing years. I mean,
- 15:54Speaker 1: most people don't really find their their person, told a
- 15:56Speaker 1: good reason person until like thirty. So you have all
- 15:59Speaker 1: that rowing and maturing to do before you lock down.
- 16:02Speaker 1: If you lock down sooner, you're gonna have those growing pains,
- 16:05Speaker 1: as they say, correct, so you have to go through
- 16:07Speaker 1: them together. Me and my wife wrote a book during
- 16:08Speaker 1: the pandemic, which is which just comes out next year.
- 16:10Speaker 1: Next year, show um. But we talked about all that
- 16:13Speaker 1: because I was insecure, she was beautiful. I didn't want
- 16:16Speaker 1: her to go outside, you know, I didn't want her
- 16:19Speaker 1: to wear a form fitting clothes like I was that
- 16:22Speaker 1: type of guy, like the guy that if my daughter
- 16:25Speaker 1: dated a guy like me, I'd be like, we gotta
- 16:27Speaker 1: give it this. I got a question, yes, man, So
- 16:29Speaker 1: is there anything from that guy? Because that's a soul.
- 16:33Speaker 1: Is there anything from that soul? Although we fixed a
- 16:36Speaker 1: lot of the outside, is there anything on the inside
- 16:38Speaker 1: that still needs healing? When it comes to that, No,
- 16:42Speaker 1: you're absolutely sure. So why do you think you don't
- 16:45Speaker 1: want to know her truth if there is something to tell, Well,
- 16:50Speaker 1: I don't think about the past. I don't think about anything.
- 16:54Speaker 1: He don't want to think about his past. I don't
- 16:55Speaker 1: think about anybody's past. But I think I did retain
- 16:57Speaker 1: place where I don't want to think about it. Like
- 16:59Speaker 1: some people, you know, they drink to forget about things,
- 17:02Speaker 1: so they use drugs. For myself, I focused on the future,
- 17:05Speaker 1: like I focus on my kids and the future and
- 17:07Speaker 1: what's coming on next. I never want to go back
- 17:09Speaker 1: to that person. I never want to think you're just
- 17:12Speaker 1: because I know who that person is and I don't
- 17:14Speaker 1: like talking about that person. I don't like like even
- 17:16Speaker 1: with my wife, she got cut in her face, right,
- 17:17Speaker 1: she had like sixty stitches. Girls beat her up when
- 17:20Speaker 1: she was fifteen, jumped to a cut of face. I
- 17:22Speaker 1: never want to think about that again. So every time
- 17:24Speaker 1: she she brings that story up, I have to walk
- 17:26Speaker 1: out the room. You don't even want to hear abody
- 17:28Speaker 1: talking about it more because I dealt with that. I
- 17:30Speaker 1: didn't we didn't cry, but he from that, so you're
- 17:32Speaker 1: already healed from it. No residual, not that exactly. I would.
- 17:36Speaker 1: I would find a person and blow the house up.
- 17:37Speaker 1: But I'm healed from it. Well, see that means that
- 17:39Speaker 1: you're still not healed because you're telling that you if that,
- 17:43Speaker 1: that you have thoughts of if you don't have thoughts
- 17:45Speaker 1: about that. If I did, I would, I would, I
- 17:46Speaker 1: would have done it. Complicated, I know, But you know
- 17:50Speaker 1: this is therapy. This is a great example of what
- 17:54Speaker 1: right right. I know it is, it is, and this
- 17:56Speaker 1: is what this is what therapy is. I mean, the
- 17:58Speaker 1: reason why we're doing the show is to fully show
- 18:01Speaker 1: the black and brown community that doesn't necessarily know or
- 18:04Speaker 1: go to therapy. We're trying to show and hopefully succeeding
- 18:08Speaker 1: that therapy is. This is exactly what we're doing. We're
- 18:10Speaker 1: talking things out, looking for solutions in a safe place,
- 18:13Speaker 1: you know, where you can feel like like you have
- 18:16Speaker 1: no reason to hide your truth and open and honesty
- 18:18Speaker 1: because the next step is moving forward in your life.
- 18:21Speaker 1: You know, where you are now may not be the
- 18:23Speaker 1: relationship you want in two months, three months, right, you
- 18:26Speaker 1: know that. That's the one thing too that I love
- 18:28Speaker 1: about the timing of life therapy is that we're dealing
- 18:31Speaker 1: in a time when the world keeps turning and flipping.
- 18:34Speaker 1: You know, we didn't know that we'd be here. You know,
- 18:37Speaker 1: this long and a pandemic and it's not going anywhere
- 18:39Speaker 1: anytime soon, and we're getting ready to go into another
- 18:42Speaker 1: slump in it, right, So our lives, our work, our relationships,
- 18:46Speaker 1: our families, everything, everything is affected. Is it draining sometimes
- 18:51Speaker 1: when you leave from doing the therapy, because it is
- 18:54Speaker 1: it really deep things. Yeah, Like there's one picture I
- 18:58Speaker 1: post it on Instagram in the middle of shooting where
- 19:00Speaker 1: I was getting like a vitamin ivy because I was
- 19:02Speaker 1: so drained. But but the difference for me is this
- 19:05Speaker 1: is not a job. For me, I really believe it's
- 19:07Speaker 1: a calling. You know, all of it, all of my life,
- 19:09Speaker 1: all of my career has led to this. I mean,
- 19:11Speaker 1: think about it. When you talk about clients and you
- 19:14Speaker 1: talk about Stevie Wondershaka Khan, you know, Beyonce Celo, I
- 19:17Speaker 1: mean the list, you know, I've been so blessed to
- 19:20Speaker 1: work with so many people and gain their trust, to
- 19:22Speaker 1: work with so many people, Tisha, I mean, the list
- 19:24Speaker 1: goes on. What I love is that part of the
- 19:26Speaker 1: trust comes from I've lived the life I'm in the industry.
- 19:29Speaker 1: I have struggles, but they're seeing where I'm managing my life.
- 19:34Speaker 1: I'm managing my happy, I'm managing my mental and my stress.
- 19:37Speaker 1: So basically the business came because they said, you're doing
- 19:40Speaker 1: a better job at the management than I am. Please
- 19:42Speaker 1: show me and teach me how you do it. Okay,
- 19:47Speaker 1: they he said. He just said, no, this is this
- 19:52Speaker 1: is this is my Christmas game. This is my Christmas again.
- 19:55Speaker 1: And when I come back and see y'all January, now
- 19:57Speaker 1: we're gonna start sharing this. This is the first. This
- 20:00Speaker 1: is a J. Johnson is the Breakfast Club. Good Morning,
- 20:03Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club. Your morning's will never be the same.
- 20:07Speaker 1: And here the most star studded black western ever made
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- 20:20Speaker 1: the soundtrack now on all platforms. It's topic time called
- 20:30Speaker 1: eight hundred five eight five one oh five. Want to
- 20:32Speaker 1: join it to the discussion with the Breakfast Club, talk
- 20:35Speaker 1: about it? Wanting everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlemagne
- 20:40Speaker 1: the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. Good Morning. If
- 20:43Speaker 1: you just join us. We're just asking. I'm asking a
- 20:44Speaker 1: serious question, right, No, I'm asking a serious question. Charlemagne.
- 20:47Speaker 1: If you listen to the Breakfast Club for the last
- 20:49Speaker 1: ten years, that is a lie. You notice that. I
- 20:52Speaker 1: really think he's a little funny and funny as how
- 20:55Speaker 1: what you mean like ha ha funnier? I don't know
- 20:57Speaker 1: if it's what you mean. I don't know if it's
- 21:00Speaker 1: how how funny? Are you serious? When he flirtshed me
- 21:02Speaker 1: all the time? I'm not flirting with you. The problem
- 21:04Speaker 1: is all week and being in Angelie been off all week,
- 21:09Speaker 1: You've been really, really, really flirting in the Finalscraft Music
- 21:12Speaker 1: when you played trade songs about ten fifteen minutes ago
- 21:14Speaker 1: and kept looking at me as you were playing the trade.
- 21:16Speaker 1: I think that's disrespectful to my wife. Let's let's go
- 21:19Speaker 1: to the phone lines. A lot of people are what
- 21:20Speaker 1: is the question? What is the question we're asking? The
- 21:22Speaker 1: way you flirt with me is a disrespect No, if
- 21:24Speaker 1: the way you flirt with me disrespect without the question
- 21:26Speaker 1: to me, Hello, who's this? Hello? Hey? This is Brandy.
- 21:30Speaker 1: Hey Brandy? Is the way that he answer? No, If
- 21:33Speaker 1: the way that you flirts with me disrespectful? Yes, this
- 21:36Speaker 1: disrespectful to your wives and to y'allself, because if y'all
- 21:39Speaker 1: not bisexual, y'all should be flirting with each other. WHOA wow?
- 21:43Speaker 1: How so we disrespected both our wives? Is what you say? Yes,
- 21:47Speaker 1: that's not right. You know I was in a relationship
- 21:50Speaker 1: what the dude was day and was hiding so that
- 21:54Speaker 1: they don't feel good on the woman's behalf. So you think,
- 21:56Speaker 1: hold on, so you think that we actually flirt with
- 21:58Speaker 1: each other? Yeah, I'll be saying what each other everyone
- 22:02Speaker 1: I don't really so this is like a thing like
- 22:05Speaker 1: this is really like they don't really think we'll be flirting? Hello?
- 22:11Speaker 1: Who's this? That's all one wrong for? Manville turns into
- 22:16Speaker 1: the same face tom So, I need you to answer
- 22:18Speaker 1: a question for me. Is it disrespectful to my wife?
- 22:20Speaker 1: The way Nby flirts with me? The way he flirts
- 22:22Speaker 1: with me? Is it disrespects with It? Is so disrespectful
- 22:25Speaker 1: NV that you don't accept the love that this man
- 22:28Speaker 1: is given to you. Wow, No, Rain is showing you
- 22:32Speaker 1: to love n Take that love. Brope that love. Man.
- 22:36Speaker 1: I think maybe you understand you know what I mean?
- 22:42Speaker 1: Let her know that. Let's friend say yo, they'll get
- 22:48Speaker 1: over it. Boys. They know they poop me boys. Is
- 22:52Speaker 1: just not on the radio, my goodness combined. Hello, who's this?
- 22:57Speaker 1: This is Hey Ray from Brook right now Brooklyn now
- 23:02Speaker 1: Brookno royall royal boy Ya. Can I need to ask
- 23:07Speaker 1: you a question? Is it disrespect for the way Envy
- 23:10Speaker 1: flirts with me? The disrespect for to my wife? Is
- 23:11Speaker 1: it disrespect for the way he flirts with me? To
- 23:13Speaker 1: my wife? Okay? First of all, uncle Cha, just know
- 23:17Speaker 1: you talk about Envy but all the time. See, do
- 23:22Speaker 1: you also want to bring up the butt dough the
- 23:24Speaker 1: gay dooke to everything when it comes to pause? Djoy me?
- 23:30Speaker 1: You know what you, uncle Charlock. Every time Envy even
- 23:34Speaker 1: say anything that may refer to something that's not even
- 23:38Speaker 1: on topic, you make it that way. That is impossible.
- 23:42Speaker 1: I did not invent a remix, Thank you so much.
- 23:46Speaker 1: See it's the truth. He didn't respect for right. So
- 23:48Speaker 1: you're trying to say, Nvy never flirts with me? No,
- 23:51Speaker 1: I don't you always flirt with me? Hello? Who's this?
- 23:54Speaker 1: This is Kim Kim Kim my wife. The way this
- 23:57Speaker 1: guy Kim is a disrespectful to my wife the way
- 23:59Speaker 1: Vy with me? Charlomagne, come one, now, I have to
- 24:02Speaker 1: tell the truth. You are always messing with dj m V.
- 24:08Speaker 1: I'm poopy fingers. You know, Charlomagne is always messing with you.
- 24:13Speaker 1: So it's Charlomagne who starting this, doesn't it? Yeah? He does,
- 24:17Speaker 1: Thank you so much. Ken, This is unfair. Who are
- 24:21Speaker 1: taking these calls? I'm just I'm just going through random. Wow. Hello,
- 24:25Speaker 1: who's this? How are you doing? It's grilling Hardis Missouri.
- 24:29Speaker 1: You see you're talking a little too fast. Slow down?
- 24:31Speaker 1: What's your name now? Grilling Hardened straight out of Saint Louis, Missouri.
- 24:35Speaker 1: You see these finding Okay? Do you think it's disrespectful
- 24:38Speaker 1: the way Envy's wife? I mean? And the way the
- 24:40Speaker 1: way do you think it's disrespectful to my wife? The
- 24:42Speaker 1: way Ny flirts with me? Well, my wife the way
- 24:44Speaker 1: first with me? Hold on even one of yours to
- 24:47Speaker 1: be flirting with each other? That always gets the rule?
- 24:49Speaker 1: What rules? No flagment? You know what? That was a
- 24:56Speaker 1: rule in the fifties and sixty two. I remember basally
- 25:00Speaker 1: down south all right right now and a lot of
- 25:07Speaker 1: different neighborhoods. Now that's still in that room, all right?
- 25:12Speaker 1: I understand you. Hello, who's this? What's going on? Yeah?
- 25:16Speaker 1: What's up bro with with top? Is it disrespect I
- 25:19Speaker 1: already know how you feel about this. See he was
- 25:25Speaker 1: flirting with you? Is it disrespectful the way he flirts
- 25:27Speaker 1: with me? To my wife? I'm gonna man, both of y'all,
- 25:32Speaker 1: but you're what do you mean? Heavier? Heavier? Like like
- 25:38Speaker 1: every morning you noticing something about envy? All I would
- 25:43Speaker 1: talk about is his beard? How do you not notice
- 25:45Speaker 1: about paint all time? Him and all that? I ain't say, Poppy,
- 25:50Speaker 1: that's what he said. I ain't. And you want like
- 25:54Speaker 1: you want like you look after all of me more
- 25:56Speaker 1: than finally somebody notices it. I don't look at that. Man.
- 26:01Speaker 1: It's not my type. Hello, who's this? Hey? What's up?
- 26:05Speaker 1: My ray? Is it disrespectful to my wife the way
- 26:07Speaker 1: this man flirts with me? No, the disrepectful to my
- 26:09Speaker 1: wife the way and be flirts with me. Both of
- 26:11Speaker 1: you guys are being disrespectful to your wives. Man, you
- 26:14Speaker 1: guys need to stop. That's here listening to you guys.
- 26:17Speaker 1: You guys have been a little too suspect with each other. Guys,
- 26:23Speaker 1: for real, why do you want all that? Who wants that? Well?
- 26:26Speaker 1: I don't want that, but you guys want that? What's
- 26:30Speaker 1: up with you man? Y'all gonna use the brothers not
- 26:33Speaker 1: showing love to each other that you want us to date? Goodness, gracious, hello,
- 26:37Speaker 1: who's this? Hey, Josha, I'm just asking the question. Is
- 26:41Speaker 1: it disrespectful to my wife the way this guy flirts?
- 26:43Speaker 1: The disrespectful to my wife away and be flirts from me?
- 26:45Speaker 1: Come on now, Honestly, if I would either one of
- 26:48Speaker 1: your guy's wife, I would finally totally disrespectful the way
- 26:52Speaker 1: that you guys flirt with each other. What I don't
- 26:58Speaker 1: you do? Both of you flirt and I'm I'm curious
- 27:00Speaker 1: to know who started it he did? I mean, it's
- 27:07Speaker 1: one thing to be cool with your your man's your friend,
- 27:10Speaker 1: have a bro romance and all that, But the stuff
- 27:14Speaker 1: y'all say is crazy. I would be like if I
- 27:16Speaker 1: was married, like what first of all the little booty
- 27:19Speaker 1: jokes and stuff, Oh, that is like over overboard to
- 27:24Speaker 1: me the wife And I heard another man comment about
- 27:29Speaker 1: my other man's but I ain't never commented on him.
- 27:31Speaker 1: I ain't never comment on his body. Yes, both of
- 27:35Speaker 1: you have, both of you have, and if I was
- 27:38Speaker 1: the wife, I know that you guys are just playing.
- 27:41Speaker 1: But it's like a man. It's so comming, y'all always
- 27:44Speaker 1: do it. I'm all right, there's no moral of the story.
- 27:46Speaker 1: Stop starting with me more. The story is, let's get
- 27:49Speaker 1: a room, guys, crazy. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning,
- 27:57Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club. Morning. Everybody's DJ Envy Angela Yee, Charlemagne
- 28:06Speaker 1: the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. We got a
- 28:07Speaker 1: special guest in the Mother Legend and his smelling like
- 28:10Speaker 1: fresh weed and fresh leathers. What what's happening? Yeah, we
- 28:15Speaker 1: showed we we've been giving the people that we feel
- 28:18Speaker 1: deserved that flowers, their flowers. So we're giving you your
- 28:20Speaker 1: flowers today. That there's not enough flowers for you. It's
- 28:24Speaker 1: really not. We got some liquor for Snoop today to
- 28:26Speaker 1: get on his side. On my side. They already drunk.
- 28:28Speaker 1: He's been drinking all night. Some as spades for you. Bottle.
- 28:34Speaker 1: Y'all gave me an old bottle again, finger prison. I
- 28:40Speaker 1: really know what it is. We got food over there
- 28:42Speaker 1: for you, weed for you. I don't think, no, I
- 28:48Speaker 1: really don't ye what you smoking down to days. Bubba gum.
- 28:52Speaker 1: We got some bubba gum cush from the Bay Area
- 28:54Speaker 1: is in the goods. I love my man. Okay, stuff
- 29:00Speaker 1: that you do, all the businesses, all acting, everything, the music,
- 29:03Speaker 1: the tours. What made you say you know what you
- 29:06Speaker 1: want to help death Jam out? Well, first of all,
- 29:08Speaker 1: I'm a fan of Deaf Jam records, and I just
- 29:10Speaker 1: feel like I still have a lot in me. I
- 29:12Speaker 1: feel like I have a lot of information, wisdom, guidance
- 29:16Speaker 1: and toolg for a lot of these artists. It's not
- 29:18Speaker 1: so much about me because I'm not signing the Deaf
- 29:20Speaker 1: Jam as an artist. I'm only creative, consultant, executive, So
- 29:23Speaker 1: it's not about me as an artist. It's more about
- 29:25Speaker 1: me helping to develop artists and put the spirit back
- 29:28Speaker 1: in deaf Jam the way it's supposed to be. Now,
- 29:29Speaker 1: there was a period when the West Coast saved Death
- 29:32Speaker 1: Jam before Yeah, warn you yep, And my pian has
- 29:35Speaker 1: something to do with that as well. Like I said,
- 29:39Speaker 1: my pian has something to do with that. That's a
- 29:41Speaker 1: hip hop tidbit we never knew. I mean, because we
- 29:44Speaker 1: were trying to protect the homie from Sugar. Now at
- 29:46Speaker 1: the time, Sugar was taking everything, so we wanted to
- 29:48Speaker 1: make sure Warny had a dope record without him being
- 29:50Speaker 1: able to get it. So we silently me and corrupting
- 29:53Speaker 1: a few others went to work for Warngy to make
- 29:55Speaker 1: sure that his record would be what it was. Wow.
- 29:58Speaker 1: So y'all didn't mind him signing the def Jam. I
- 30:01Speaker 1: didn't want wanting him to sign with def Jam. We
- 30:03Speaker 1: all wanted to be on def Jam. Def Jam was
- 30:05Speaker 1: a dream label. You gotta understand public Enemy, Slick, Greg
- 30:09Speaker 1: ll Cool, j epm D. You understand what I'm saying,
- 30:12Speaker 1: like this is foundation to hip hop for us, and
- 30:15Speaker 1: def Jam was just the ultimate label. They had the
- 30:17Speaker 1: best street teams and had units of people that would
- 30:20Speaker 1: come there. They had Rockefeller murdering rough riders. They just
- 30:24Speaker 1: everything was attractive to def Jam And I want that
- 30:27Speaker 1: spirit back. How do you get that back? With so
- 30:28Speaker 1: many artists wanting to go independent and go to independent
- 30:30Speaker 1: route and saying they don't need the labels, how do
- 30:32Speaker 1: you get there? How do you restore the feeling? Well,
- 30:34Speaker 1: independence is good. I respect that, but there's something called
- 30:37Speaker 1: global and independence don't give you that global approach that
- 30:41Speaker 1: you know some of these magics can give you. You
- 30:43Speaker 1: saw Meek mill Is saying he's never seen a check
- 30:45Speaker 1: from his record label ever, is that a common thing
- 30:48Speaker 1: for artists to sign to a label and get your
- 30:50Speaker 1: advance but then not see any money later. Well, it's
- 30:53Speaker 1: about that word recoup. See a lot of people don't
- 30:56Speaker 1: mention that world. When they put the money upfront, that
- 30:58Speaker 1: means they want money back. And if you had made
- 31:01Speaker 1: the money based off of your record sales or whatever
- 31:03Speaker 1: your deal consist of, then you unrecouped and that times
- 31:06Speaker 1: leads you not to get any more money. That's why
- 31:09Speaker 1: they like giving you money up front so you can
- 31:11Speaker 1: owe them. But in the independence world, there's really no
- 31:13Speaker 1: money up front. It's you taking the risk and you're
- 31:15Speaker 1: receiving everything. What about you with your first album? Is
- 31:18Speaker 1: your first album was one of the biggest albums ever
- 31:21Speaker 1: in the history of life. I was fighting the murder case,
- 31:23Speaker 1: so I couldn't really financially, you know, game like I
- 31:26Speaker 1: needed to because my finances were spent on the case
- 31:29Speaker 1: to make sure that I was gonna have my freedom.
- 31:31Speaker 1: Do you remember how millions like in the in the
- 31:35Speaker 1: tens before you know what, we can say happy birthdays
- 31:38Speaker 1: just turned happy birthdays. How does fifty feel? Man? When
- 31:42Speaker 1: I see you fifty, I'm like, you know what I
- 31:44Speaker 1: can do? It. Uh Like I was telling one of
- 31:46Speaker 1: my homies when I was young, fifty was old. You know,
- 31:49Speaker 1: when you've seen somebody fifth, they'd be walking with their
- 31:51Speaker 1: back length over. And now we looked at it like
- 31:54Speaker 1: fifty is cool. I got six grandkids, I got a
- 31:56Speaker 1: beautiful wife, some kids at home that love me, and
- 32:00Speaker 1: still doing what I do. I don't feel like I'm
- 32:01Speaker 1: getting old. I feel like I'm getting better. I feel
- 32:03Speaker 1: like the information and the knowledge that I have now
- 32:06Speaker 1: could be used to spread around to the people who
- 32:09Speaker 1: call me Uncle Snope. So now I can give them
- 32:11Speaker 1: real information and treat my nephews and nieces the right
- 32:14Speaker 1: way by giving them game that they need and edges
- 32:16Speaker 1: laid like a mother to hair healthy. Come on, charlote,
- 32:20Speaker 1: you know I come from that side of the family
- 32:21Speaker 1: where you know, because there's a lot of brothers angle
- 32:24Speaker 1: saying no name. I'm looking at dredges hanging on. I'm
- 32:29Speaker 1: looking at it right now. It ain't got no hair
- 32:30Speaker 1: at another day? What the dependent to teach you? Actually,
- 32:41Speaker 1: it's what I love because I love being to myself.
- 32:43Speaker 1: I love being self centered and being able to breathe
- 32:46Speaker 1: and to thinking to be creative. It taught me that
- 32:50Speaker 1: people need to understand what life is about and really,
- 32:54Speaker 1: you know, treasure it and spend time what they loved
- 32:57Speaker 1: once because you never know when they're gonna leaves. Lost
- 33:00Speaker 1: my mom a couple of days ago and sorry to
- 33:03Speaker 1: thank you. It's like it's heavy on my heart, but
- 33:05Speaker 1: at the same time, I know that these are things
- 33:07Speaker 1: that she loved for me to do, to make people smile,
- 33:10Speaker 1: to make people laugh, to spread joy. So the pandemic
- 33:13Speaker 1: taught me to love people more, to be more close
- 33:16Speaker 1: and personal, and to be more understanding because it's a
- 33:19Speaker 1: lot of mental health going on and we all have it,
- 33:22Speaker 1: but we're just ashamed to say it. So I'm just
- 33:24Speaker 1: wanting to be up front about it, to say, yeah,
- 33:26Speaker 1: we all deal with mental health issues, and the pandemic
- 33:29Speaker 1: showed me how to be a better person when dealing
- 33:32Speaker 1: with other people and myself. Is that what the song
- 33:34Speaker 1: I Love Anxiety with Hate Malia Man that anxiety reconsule
- 33:40Speaker 1: so hard by because we go through that, right, Yeah,
- 33:42Speaker 1: it feels like we all go through that. But it's
- 33:45Speaker 1: starting to become cool to talk about. You know, if
- 33:47Speaker 1: you said it maybe five years ago, people look at
- 33:49Speaker 1: you like you crazy. No, I just want some help.
- 33:52Speaker 1: I just want to know what's going on in my head.
- 33:54Speaker 1: Maybe I'm traumatized from my family from the fifties or
- 33:57Speaker 1: the forties, from the slavery and the segregation, and it's
- 34:00Speaker 1: spelling off into my DNA. You never know. Yeah, I've
- 34:03Speaker 1: been going to therapy once a week for like five years. Man,
- 34:06Speaker 1: do it work? Yeah? I mean, but you know, it's
- 34:09Speaker 1: not just therapy. Therapy gives you the language and the
- 34:12Speaker 1: understanding of what it is you're going through, but then
- 34:14Speaker 1: you got to actually start doing real processes the heal
- 34:17Speaker 1: for real, for real, And so it seems like when
- 34:19Speaker 1: you're getting therapy, the most drama comes your way because
- 34:23Speaker 1: it's going to test you to see if the therapy
- 34:24Speaker 1: is actually working. Absolutely, you go up. Me and my
- 34:27Speaker 1: wife went to therapy about like maybe twelve years ago
- 34:30Speaker 1: because we was having some rough times and I spoke
- 34:34Speaker 1: to a couple of friends of mine and it was like, man,
- 34:36Speaker 1: and ain't gonna get no better of you and her
- 34:38Speaker 1: just keep arguing and trying to figure it out. You
- 34:39Speaker 1: need to put somebody in the middle who're gonna play
- 34:42Speaker 1: no sides. And when we went to go through the therapist,
- 34:45Speaker 1: it was the best thing that could happen to us
- 34:47Speaker 1: because we had somebody that wasn't on my side or
- 34:50Speaker 1: her side. It was just on the truth and it
- 34:51Speaker 1: helped us become a better, you know, a better family
- 34:54Speaker 1: to understand how to deal with each other. And then
- 34:55Speaker 1: condolences too on your queen man, thank you. I heard
- 34:59Speaker 1: that it was the song, the song with D smoking
- 35:01Speaker 1: and was Khalifa uh steady trying to deal with this pain. Man.
- 35:05Speaker 1: When I heard that, I'm like, and that's it doing?
- 35:09Speaker 1: You know what's crazy? The artist comine of from Mississippi
- 35:12Speaker 1: shout out to Camino. He was calling me like, don't
- 35:14Speaker 1: put this album out without me being on it. Let
- 35:16Speaker 1: me get on it please, And he sent me that
- 35:18Speaker 1: song and I heard it and I was like, this
- 35:21Speaker 1: is dope, but I wasn't listening to it for that reason.
- 35:23Speaker 1: I was just like it. And he was like, I
- 35:24Speaker 1: want wears on that put Wars and D smoke. Then
- 35:27Speaker 1: I'm dealing with life. And then my mother passed and
- 35:29Speaker 1: I'm like, why is this the last song on the album.
- 35:32Speaker 1: This is God, this is this is what she wanted
- 35:35Speaker 1: me to see that You're gonna deal with this pain,
- 35:37Speaker 1: but you gotta push forward, all right, we got more
- 35:39Speaker 1: Snoop when we come back, don't move. It's the Breakfast Club.
- 35:41Speaker 1: Good morning morning. Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomine
- 35:48Speaker 1: the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. We're still kicking
- 35:50Speaker 1: it with Snoop. Now, let's talk about this album. Who
- 35:53Speaker 1: is your mind frame on this album? Because it's some
- 35:55Speaker 1: songs you're rapping on it, some songs you're just letting
- 35:57Speaker 1: people go, some songs you're talking. So what was the
- 35:59Speaker 1: mind frame of doing this album? Algorithm? The algorithm is
- 36:03Speaker 1: st up right now. It's based off of computers and
- 36:06Speaker 1: some machine telling you what's hot, what's not more to
- 36:09Speaker 1: play When it used to be DJ's with field records
- 36:11Speaker 1: on the streets, come bring them ups in here, break
- 36:14Speaker 1: that and let it be, with it be. So that's
- 36:16Speaker 1: what I'm doing with this Algorithm project. I'm just making
- 36:19Speaker 1: great music with artists myself, established artists, new artists, producers
- 36:24Speaker 1: that I love, and just trying to put feeling back
- 36:26Speaker 1: in music. Because music is sound good, it don't feel
- 36:28Speaker 1: good no more. Noma tell you something. I'm slaps I
- 36:31Speaker 1: told I came here this morning and said that. But
- 36:32Speaker 1: it's not a Snoop album. No it's not. Yeah, it's
- 36:34Speaker 1: a compilation. That's okay. It's just using me as the
- 36:38Speaker 1: front guy to get the attention to the awareness on
- 36:40Speaker 1: death Jam and what I plan on doing at Death Jam.
- 36:43Speaker 1: You put my name out there and say this is
- 36:45Speaker 1: a Snoop Dogg project, then you start listening like, damn,
- 36:47Speaker 1: it's it's got to Mary J. Blige songa Usher song,
- 36:50Speaker 1: new artists here, and man, come on, red Man became.
- 36:54Speaker 1: I came out here first. That's what people don't know.
- 36:57Speaker 1: When I first got the Deaf Jam situation, I wasn't
- 36:59Speaker 1: even signed yet. I flew out here and rented the
- 37:01Speaker 1: studio and who kid helped me get it together? And
- 37:04Speaker 1: I wouldn't got Benny the Butcher and a bunch of
- 37:07Speaker 1: rappers that I knew that was high and pulled them
- 37:09Speaker 1: all in and was like, I'm gonna save New York first.
- 37:13Speaker 1: And what I mean by that is it ain't hip
- 37:15Speaker 1: hop like it used to be out here, and I'm
- 37:17Speaker 1: from the West Coast saying that, and I won't hip
- 37:19Speaker 1: hop back in New York. I want the felling back.
- 37:21Speaker 1: So what I did was grab some artists that I
- 37:23Speaker 1: knew who represent the Airpop, JD Kiss, rand Man, Method Man,
- 37:27Speaker 1: Benny the Butcher, Buster runs Fab Daves to put them
- 37:31Speaker 1: on the project to let New York know that I
- 37:33Speaker 1: feel the same way y'all feel. Yeah, Buster bustered. Everybody asks,
- 37:37Speaker 1: I know it's hard to An said that Benny got
- 37:38Speaker 1: Bissy too and kids, but Buster was really in his
- 37:41Speaker 1: bag and that on that way. Yeah, but he was last,
- 37:44Speaker 1: you know when you're the last. And he requested that record.
- 37:48Speaker 1: I had played a snippet on Instagram and Buster runs
- 37:51Speaker 1: called me Yo general Yo, sent me that what is that?
- 37:56Speaker 1: So I had to send him the track? Who would
- 37:58Speaker 1: you want to see me? Talking? Bust Who would you
- 38:00Speaker 1: want to see Buster? To go against? All the verses
- 38:02Speaker 1: Buster rhymes on the verses Damn Me and him was
- 38:05Speaker 1: just talking the other day. He said, find me a
- 38:07Speaker 1: worthy opponent, like sounds like a maximums on glad. I
- 38:14Speaker 1: think that would l would be the thing I wouldn't see.
- 38:18Speaker 1: I can't see Missy because there's too much respect between
- 38:21Speaker 1: them two, and there's no disrespect between Llllen and Buster.
- 38:24Speaker 1: But me and tend to it's a better duel as
- 38:27Speaker 1: opposed to he's gonna be nice to Missy. He ain't
- 38:31Speaker 1: gonna be nice to Ll, and LL ain't gonna be
- 38:33Speaker 1: nice to him. But performance wise, I can see because
- 38:36Speaker 1: if he brings Splift Stars, a rap brings I'm gonna
- 38:40Speaker 1: tell you all this. I said this for the past
- 38:43Speaker 1: twenty years. It's only two mothers. I'm not getting on
- 38:47Speaker 1: stage after Buster rhymes a splif Star. You thought I
- 38:52Speaker 1: was gonna say to them too, I will not. I
- 38:56Speaker 1: refuse to. They are the pitome of showmanship, just energy
- 39:01Speaker 1: and what a show's supposed to be. I used to
- 39:03Speaker 1: go on tour with him, right and I used to
- 39:05Speaker 1: get on after them, and I used to be so
- 39:07Speaker 1: mad because sometimes the crowd be like, we already out
- 39:09Speaker 1: of energy, we ain't got nothing left. So as far
- 39:13Speaker 1: as getting into versus battle with bus garags, if he
- 39:15Speaker 1: brings splift Star, on the performance side, it's curtains. Tim
- 39:19Speaker 1: could come out with Missy, they could do the little
- 39:20Speaker 1: shoulder stuff they used to do in the video accointance.
- 39:24Speaker 1: The last time, I think two times it's gonna need
- 39:27Speaker 1: to talk about in top five and you didn't mention him,
- 39:30Speaker 1: and then we talked about that and he got a
- 39:31Speaker 1: little upset. But we see you squashed out how was
- 39:33Speaker 1: that conversation? I know you had that. Man. I love
- 39:35Speaker 1: him and them, and the thing is that we love
- 39:38Speaker 1: hip hop so much. Were competitive, we battle rappers, so
- 39:41Speaker 1: that was supposed to trigger that in him. But we
- 39:43Speaker 1: brothers and we families, so we learned to appreciate each
- 39:46Speaker 1: other for what we do when how we get down
- 39:48Speaker 1: and we had a loan conversation about the respect that
- 39:51Speaker 1: we have for each other and the way we need
- 39:53Speaker 1: to talk in public about each other. And I felt
- 39:56Speaker 1: like I was out of pocket, you know what I'm saying.
- 39:58Speaker 1: And I apologize to him and I let him and
- 40:00Speaker 1: I'm just better than myself, you know what I'm saying.
- 40:02Speaker 1: I make mistakes. I ain't perfect. I'm snooped up to
- 40:04Speaker 1: the super Bowl halftime show about that. Mary J. Blinde,
- 40:11Speaker 1: how did you feel when you got that call in
- 40:13Speaker 1: La Doctor Dre. It's one of my closest associates. So
- 40:17Speaker 1: when I when I know he got the call, I
- 40:19Speaker 1: was figuring that I was gonna get a call soon.
- 40:22Speaker 1: But to add Eminem Kendrick and Mary J. Blige is
- 40:25Speaker 1: like special? So what kind of dream Snoop, We're gonna
- 40:27Speaker 1: see now? Because you know it gets it's a lot
- 40:29Speaker 1: of dream snoops, it is PG thirteen, but remember we
- 40:34Speaker 1: made clean versions. Okay, okay, okay. I would want to
- 40:38Speaker 1: hear some death Row, yes, if slide of G thing
- 40:41Speaker 1: or something there. I mean that just that record, just
- 40:43Speaker 1: gotta have G thing right. I definitely would want to
- 40:46Speaker 1: hear still representing for them gangsters all across the world
- 40:49Speaker 1: and California Love to California love too. Well. Remember it's
- 40:54Speaker 1: not just me and him. You gotta let Eminem slide
- 40:57Speaker 1: out and do his uh nowadays, everybody, you know what
- 41:00Speaker 1: I'm saying. They gotta bop that. Then you gotta let
- 41:02Speaker 1: Kendrick come out and bop one with him. And then
- 41:04Speaker 1: I'm sure Mary J. Blige, yeah, gonna pop that thing.
- 41:07Speaker 1: She got one him. So I'm anxious to see exactly
- 41:10Speaker 1: what the formatten how it's going to roll out. I'm
- 41:12Speaker 1: just here to show up and show up and be
- 41:13Speaker 1: there for my god. You think it was political that
- 41:15Speaker 1: they had to have five hip hop icons and you know,
- 41:19Speaker 1: Mary's the queen of hip hop soul on the halftime show,
- 41:22Speaker 1: just to get it done, because I feel like it
- 41:23Speaker 1: could have just been you and Dre and y'all could
- 41:25Speaker 1: have bought everybody out. It could have. But shout out
- 41:27Speaker 1: to Jay Z for going the war and making that
- 41:31Speaker 1: thing happen, putting the first hip hop act on the stage.
- 41:34Speaker 1: And you know, people don't give him credit for a
- 41:36Speaker 1: lot of things that he do. He moves his hand
- 41:38Speaker 1: mysteriously behind the scenes, and he does a lot of
- 41:40Speaker 1: great things for people. And I want to give him
- 41:43Speaker 1: a shout out for fighting for Doctor Dre because I
- 41:45Speaker 1: know that that's a part of my legacy that he
- 41:47Speaker 1: fought for. So I appreciate you. I heard it was
- 41:49Speaker 1: a fight between you and somebody one other act. They
- 41:52Speaker 1: didn't want us something there I ain't I don't know
- 41:54Speaker 1: if they didn't want y'all by this door. It was
- 41:55Speaker 1: a low they was gonna say either yeah, but come
- 41:59Speaker 1: on man, It's like, come on man, this ain't made
- 42:02Speaker 1: no sense. Long Eagle was tell us woun I heeart Awards,
- 42:12Speaker 1: what's going on and begging Kanye to come out Dan
- 42:14Speaker 1: Russia on the Kanye, I gotta take it for you
- 42:17Speaker 1: back open for you, let you no, I'm just playing now.
- 42:19Speaker 1: You got some really dope women artists on this album.
- 42:23Speaker 1: Was that intentional, very very intentional, and a lot of
- 42:27Speaker 1: it just came to me. It just came my way. Um,
- 42:29Speaker 1: some of the artists just were brought to me. And
- 42:32Speaker 1: I didn't even have a deal at the time. I
- 42:33Speaker 1: just was making great music and people was coming to
- 42:35Speaker 1: the studio and I was like, damn, these females sound
- 42:38Speaker 1: good and they don't sound like the girls aside right now,
- 42:41Speaker 1: and they're saying something a little different. So I was like,
- 42:44Speaker 1: let me go in and make some records for him.
- 42:45Speaker 1: And we just made records, and like, that's what I'm
- 42:48Speaker 1: about right now. I'm about just the feeling. If it
- 42:50Speaker 1: feel good, feel good to you, must be good for you.
- 42:53Speaker 1: It reminds you to still make music because you know
- 42:56Speaker 1: you do so much, but you're always in the studio.
- 42:58Speaker 1: You're always listening. What it spies, you still listening. And
- 43:01Speaker 1: when I go out, because I'm a DJ too, I
- 43:03Speaker 1: get that DJ Bread too. Absolutely when I go out,
- 43:06Speaker 1: no DJ Bread went up after the pandemic, Well you
- 43:08Speaker 1: better know it, boyci you wrap some of your own songs,
- 43:15Speaker 1: can you do that? I mean, if I had to choose,
- 43:21Speaker 1: I mean, dam snoop J Come on, man, you know
- 43:25Speaker 1: I get both vas open up. You know how I
- 43:28Speaker 1: represented DJ Snooper delic verse. Snoop though, I feel like
- 43:31Speaker 1: that wow. So I'm giving you a little bit of everything.
- 43:33Speaker 1: And then when I'm out there at DJ and I'm
- 43:35Speaker 1: listening to music right and I'm like, it don't feel
- 43:37Speaker 1: good when you ain't got no new music and you're
- 43:39Speaker 1: in the club. You gotta play thirty years ago or
- 43:41Speaker 1: twenty five years ago. So it makes you want to say,
- 43:44Speaker 1: I need to get me a hot record right now.
- 43:46Speaker 1: So when the young rappers call me, if it's NBA
- 43:48Speaker 1: young Boy or this rapper, I'm quick to get with him.
- 43:51Speaker 1: Sometimes I don't even charge him because it's about knowing
- 43:54Speaker 1: what they're about to do for me, but thinking what
- 43:56Speaker 1: I'm about to do for them. I no movie got
- 43:59Speaker 1: more with Snoop, But we come back. It's the breakfast
- 44:00Speaker 1: club wanting everybody's d Charlomagne the gay We are the
- 44:06Speaker 1: breakfast club. We're still kicking it with Snoop. Charlomagne. You
- 44:10Speaker 1: know what you ever thought about doing a documentary on
- 44:12Speaker 1: you and your evolution. I'm talking about from the beginning
- 44:14Speaker 1: when you first came out wild Snoop. Biggies ain't holding
- 44:18Speaker 1: tricks to fifty year old grandfather Snoop who has seen
- 44:21Speaker 1: so much life is evolved as a man, a father,
- 44:24Speaker 1: a husband. Have you ever thought about that, just showing
- 44:26Speaker 1: people that growth is possible? Not really, But if I
- 44:29Speaker 1: do it, I think you should probably interview me. I
- 44:30Speaker 1: think you gotta be Dope because you would get some
- 44:32Speaker 1: good insight on your perspective. You're looking in from the outside.
- 44:35Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. You've seen the wild Snoop.
- 44:37Speaker 1: You've seen the one that was on death row and
- 44:39Speaker 1: one that grew up on no limit, the one that
- 44:41Speaker 1: came out with for real, that became a father, became
- 44:44Speaker 1: a football coach to where I'm at now. So you
- 44:47Speaker 1: would be able to have a different perspective and I
- 44:48Speaker 1: would like that because it's a different ain'tle absolutely while
- 44:51Speaker 1: watching you and Fat Joe changing evolved right? And you
- 44:54Speaker 1: know when most of our evolution came from a Minister
- 44:57Speaker 1: ferry Cars house. After Biggie got killed, I called mister
- 45:01Speaker 1: Ferry cutting I wanted to get with all the rappers
- 45:03Speaker 1: and he helped me put together a day at his
- 45:05Speaker 1: house and Fat Joe drove on a bus and he
- 45:09Speaker 1: had some words for Ice Cube about you know, the
- 45:11Speaker 1: West Side connect as far as like how the East
- 45:14Speaker 1: Coast loved Ice Cuban protecting him and had his back
- 45:18Speaker 1: when in Wa went bad on him, and how could
- 45:20Speaker 1: he do this? But it was just a minor conversation
- 45:22Speaker 1: that was needed, and it made me respect Fat Joe
- 45:25Speaker 1: because I've seen he was a real man and he
- 45:27Speaker 1: really loved Ice Cuban. For him to say that that
- 45:29Speaker 1: took a lot of love to say that, I'm hurt
- 45:32Speaker 1: behind you doing that. We love you and spoke for
- 45:34Speaker 1: New York and me and him got real cool and
- 45:37Speaker 1: close after that to where I watched him grow, he
- 45:40Speaker 1: watching me grown, just to be on his podcast, to
- 45:42Speaker 1: be able to see us both hold that conversation and
- 45:45Speaker 1: be grown man evolution. How do you and your wife
- 45:48Speaker 1: managed to separate business from Obviously that's a super personal relationship.
- 45:53Speaker 1: You're married, but she's your manager. So are there times
- 45:55Speaker 1: that she can talk you like do things that you
- 45:57Speaker 1: don't want to do, or your bump heads. Supply she
- 46:02Speaker 1: had the final say, She got the only say you
- 46:06Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. But that's what I needed because
- 46:08Speaker 1: can't nobody else challenge me or you know, put me
- 46:10Speaker 1: in a level of understanding and respect now, especially in
- 46:13Speaker 1: the business. I mastered. This is called show business. When
- 46:16Speaker 1: I was on Death Row Records, I mastered the show
- 46:19Speaker 1: and I got with master P. I mastered the business.
- 46:21Speaker 1: And now I'm trying to extend that by bringing my
- 46:24Speaker 1: family in so I can teach my family to show
- 46:26Speaker 1: business in case something has to ever happen to me.
- 46:29Speaker 1: My wife is in control of everything, not some other
- 46:32Speaker 1: over here that don't know me and my family and
- 46:34Speaker 1: controlling my whole estate like some of my homies as
- 46:37Speaker 1: rest in peace, like it's people, it's not even their color,
- 46:41Speaker 1: running and running it up. I don't want that. I
- 46:45Speaker 1: want my wife and my grandkids and my family to
- 46:47Speaker 1: have the rights to Snoop Dog everything. Do you still smoke? Crazy?
- 46:51Speaker 1: What's the last times? How long can Snoop go without smoking?
- 46:54Speaker 1: I know you get waiting for you as a hair
- 46:56Speaker 1: up so I can get back in my man, you're
- 46:58Speaker 1: on the clock everywhere. You're going to live up in here? Yeah,
- 47:01Speaker 1: I know, but I would I would never do that again.
- 47:03Speaker 1: If he said you won't put the way down for
- 47:05Speaker 1: shooting it, that's that's what he did say. I couldn't
- 47:07Speaker 1: help it. But when I was Pastor Swift, I did
- 47:10Speaker 1: you know, give myself a moment to you know, find
- 47:13Speaker 1: my character. But Pastor Swift is a He's a sinner
- 47:17Speaker 1: that's changed his life. Okay. You know most preachers are
- 47:20Speaker 1: like that. They got to come from the world in
- 47:22Speaker 1: order to express the world to you. He can't be
- 47:25Speaker 1: flawless and clean. He's got to come from that side
- 47:27Speaker 1: in order to be able to relate to you, to
- 47:29Speaker 1: know that he changed his life to help you try
- 47:31Speaker 1: to change your life. That's every human on this planet.
- 47:33Speaker 1: That's why I hate this whole cancel cultures because they
- 47:40Speaker 1: sometimes the least. But what does it mean nothing, that's
- 47:45Speaker 1: the algorithm. That's the algorithm. That's some computer telling people
- 47:49Speaker 1: that you don't like this and don't like this. But
- 47:52Speaker 1: people are people to have their own emotions, they own
- 47:54Speaker 1: feeling and you should be able to speak for yourself
- 47:56Speaker 1: and not some majority of people speak for you. And
- 47:59Speaker 1: we love commentating Olympics and all the fights too many.
- 48:04Speaker 1: It seems like you enjoy it, that you have so
- 48:07Speaker 1: much fun. What what can't you do? He can cook
- 48:10Speaker 1: with Martha Stewart. I want to know what you told
- 48:14Speaker 1: what you said no to uh bungee jumping? Uh? They
- 48:20Speaker 1: wanted me to play a woman in uh some kind
- 48:22Speaker 1: of TV show and they wanted me to wear a dress,
- 48:25Speaker 1: so I was like, next rapper. You always seem so cool,
- 48:32Speaker 1: calm and collected. Have you dealt with anxiety your whole life?
- 48:34Speaker 1: Is this something you're just noticing? I think I dealt
- 48:37Speaker 1: with in my whole life because I grew up in
- 48:38Speaker 1: a great neighborhood, but it was so much going on
- 48:41Speaker 1: and I was able to be out in the mix.
- 48:43Speaker 1: My mother allowed me to go outside and to be
- 48:46Speaker 1: a kid, you know what I'm saying, to learn and
- 48:48Speaker 1: to grow when I feel like it taught me how
- 48:50Speaker 1: to deal with life, because when you see life up
- 48:52Speaker 1: close and personal, when you deal with death at an
- 48:54Speaker 1: early age, when you deal with life, when you're dealing
- 48:56Speaker 1: with mental health, it just prepares you to practice to
- 48:59Speaker 1: get for it as an adult. So I feel like
- 49:01Speaker 1: all of my things that I learned as a kid
- 49:03Speaker 1: prepared me as a man for what I'm dealing with them. Yeah,
- 49:06Speaker 1: I don't know how you doing it. This week, my brother,
- 49:08Speaker 1: I would have canceled everything, man, I wanted to. I
- 49:11Speaker 1: was like, when I got the news, I had like
- 49:13Speaker 1: a show that night. I went to my room, I
- 49:15Speaker 1: cried a little bit, and I was like, damn, what
- 49:19Speaker 1: my mama wanted me to do. She wouldn't want me
- 49:21Speaker 1: to get in front of these people and give him
- 49:23Speaker 1: a show. And I went out there and I gave
- 49:24Speaker 1: it to him. And the last song I played was
- 49:26Speaker 1: stand by Me, and it's a particular part of the
- 49:29Speaker 1: song where it's saying, I won't cry, I won't cry.
- 49:33Speaker 1: I took my glasses off and I didn't cry. In
- 49:35Speaker 1: my heart. I wanted to, but I just was like
- 49:37Speaker 1: I can't. And they was giving it back to him,
- 49:39Speaker 1: and I was like, I gotta keep doing this. My
- 49:41Speaker 1: mama talking to me telling me you better not stop.
- 49:44Speaker 1: You better keep going, and I'm gonna be with you
- 49:46Speaker 1: the whole step of the way. Have you and got
- 49:48Speaker 1: a chance to love on each other. Just lost one
- 49:50Speaker 1: of his anchors in his life. And that's crazy because
- 49:52Speaker 1: I had called him and send him a positive message
- 49:55Speaker 1: the day before my mother passed away, just being his friend,
- 49:59Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, and got the message and
- 50:01Speaker 1: he hit me back, It's like can I posted. I'm like, yeah,
- 50:03Speaker 1: go ahead, cause, like you know, people need to know
- 50:05Speaker 1: that how we get down behind closed doors, that we
- 50:08Speaker 1: really love each other and he posted in the next day,
- 50:10Speaker 1: I get the news about my mama and he hit
- 50:12Speaker 1: me on FaceTime. He's like, man, my mom because him
- 50:15Speaker 1: and my mom was school, just checking on me, making
- 50:17Speaker 1: sure I'm straight. That's what we do as brothers. I
- 50:20Speaker 1: got a lot of a lot of positive calls, so
- 50:22Speaker 1: that's why my spirit is right. Minister Farry Cohn gave
- 50:25Speaker 1: me probably the greatest prayer ever heard in my life
- 50:28Speaker 1: to let me know that my mother being out of body,
- 50:32Speaker 1: that's her being present what I lied and that's that's
- 50:36Speaker 1: the thrill of life to get to that point. We're
- 50:39Speaker 1: sending you positive vinergy, loving light always snoop Man, because
- 50:42Speaker 1: you're such a light to the world. So we got
- 50:44Speaker 1: to make sure that you always are where you need
- 50:47Speaker 1: to be. You know, man, I'm just a reflection of
- 50:49Speaker 1: my mother. Man. She she taught me everything I know.
- 50:51Speaker 1: You know. Shout out to my daddy for being there
- 50:53Speaker 1: and teaching me how to be a man. My mother
- 50:55Speaker 1: taught me all of the love, the qualities that you
- 50:57Speaker 1: see in me, the storytelling that the happiness, to fun
- 51:01Speaker 1: and joy that was my mother. She was the life
- 51:03Speaker 1: of the party. You know what I'm saying. She was
- 51:05Speaker 1: all of that to me. She was my best friend
- 51:08Speaker 1: for my first ten years in this world. So my
- 51:11Speaker 1: little brother was born, and then you know what I'm saying,
- 51:12Speaker 1: You know that go absolutely with the little brother. Little
- 51:15Speaker 1: it had to be I got kids. I understand. You
- 51:18Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, That's why you're so loving, because
- 51:20Speaker 1: you definitely to take to be like man, oh, y'all
- 51:21Speaker 1: come eat, man, come in your food over HEADSI weekend
- 51:24Speaker 1: out man. My mother, my mother is so special. When
- 51:26Speaker 1: my uncle, you know, he was on drugs and he
- 51:29Speaker 1: had a son, which was my cousin, and he was
- 51:32Speaker 1: in one of those homes. I was like thirteen years old,
- 51:34Speaker 1: and my mother talked to me and my brother and
- 51:36Speaker 1: she was like, I'm going to adopt Marvin. And she
- 51:39Speaker 1: went adopting my little brother and gave him my last name,
- 51:42Speaker 1: and his birthday was on the same day as mother.
- 51:44Speaker 1: And then it didn't even I didn't even have no
- 51:46Speaker 1: envy tours him. I actually loved him, and I loved
- 51:48Speaker 1: my mother more. And now as I'm thinking about it,
- 51:50Speaker 1: for her looking out for family and adopting him and
- 51:53Speaker 1: giving him our last name and just showing that kind
- 51:55Speaker 1: of love and that's who I am to this day.
- 51:57Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm an exact replication of who she is.
- 52:00Speaker 1: It's a beautiful thing that you were able to do
- 52:02Speaker 1: great things for her too. For her to see you
- 52:04Speaker 1: blossom into who you are, that was the beauty. And
- 52:07Speaker 1: she you know what's crazy, she dreamed of me being
- 52:10Speaker 1: a preacher. I can still see that happening, right. So,
- 52:12Speaker 1: but look at what I'm playing on being matters right
- 52:14Speaker 1: before she passed away. It's like, this is the spirit
- 52:17Speaker 1: of everything just coming back for a circle. And I
- 52:20Speaker 1: made a gospel album, right I made it for my
- 52:23Speaker 1: mother and my grandmother. My grandmother passed away, but when
- 52:25Speaker 1: I made the record, I had my mother come to
- 52:27Speaker 1: the studio and I played it from top to bottom
- 52:30Speaker 1: of all of the musicians. And she was so happy
- 52:33Speaker 1: because she was fighting for me for so many years
- 52:35Speaker 1: in the church, to defend me, and I didn't give
- 52:38Speaker 1: her nothing to fight with. Wow, and I finally gave
- 52:41Speaker 1: her something. You know what she said, She said, now
- 52:44Speaker 1: I don't have to talk no more. You can fight
- 52:45Speaker 1: for yourself. That was heavy. I was heavy, you know.
- 52:50Speaker 1: I always wanted like you know when you thought about
- 52:51Speaker 1: like what see the lords Tucker was doing you back
- 52:54Speaker 1: in the day. Did you ever you look back now
- 52:55Speaker 1: and say it? Well? Else? She was right, She was right,
- 52:58Speaker 1: All of them was right. We was young and dumb,
- 53:00Speaker 1: and you know we needed aunties. They just didn't know
- 53:02Speaker 1: or to talk. You know, when you're auntie, you got
- 53:05Speaker 1: certain aunties that will be like, come over here, boy,
- 53:07Speaker 1: let me talk to you. And you got a certain
- 53:08Speaker 1: aunt I'm gonna beat your ass come here from them exactly.
- 53:12Speaker 1: And that's what it was. And remember we were teenagers
- 53:14Speaker 1: or either becoming young adults, so we could use our
- 53:17Speaker 1: voice back, like shut up, he talking to me like that.
- 53:20Speaker 1: But if you got the right auntie, you respect him
- 53:23Speaker 1: and you're like, yeah, Auntie, sure, Maxine. We don't play
- 53:27Speaker 1: no games with Maxine. One. He understand what I'm saying
- 53:30Speaker 1: because she's a front liner and she's always been our auntie.
- 53:34Speaker 1: She's always put her arms around us and not try
- 53:36Speaker 1: to scold us. But teachers a big difference. Yeah, we
- 53:40Speaker 1: got to do that conversation because I mean, your your
- 53:42Speaker 1: evolution alone, it needs to be documented, man, People need
- 53:45Speaker 1: to see that. I'm trying every day, Charlotte. Man, I'm
- 53:47Speaker 1: just trying to be better every day at master and
- 53:50Speaker 1: me and once people understand how to master themselves and
- 53:53Speaker 1: we're gonna be a better world instead of trying to
- 53:55Speaker 1: duplicate to be like somebody else, be yourself. Well, listen,
- 53:58Speaker 1: algorithm is coming out soon. Let let's snoop go never
- 54:01Speaker 1: appreciate you. Hey man, y'all got my spirit right. I
- 54:04Speaker 1: didn't know how I was gonna be this morning. We
- 54:07Speaker 1: love you. You got I love y'all too, man. And
- 54:08Speaker 1: this is what I'm this is what I'm supposed to
- 54:10Speaker 1: be doing. I'm supposed to be back in front of people,
- 54:12Speaker 1: chopped it up, representing my mama through the spirit of
- 54:15Speaker 1: who I am, absolutely and being strong and being positive
- 54:18Speaker 1: and not being sad and crying and being weak but
- 54:20Speaker 1: celebrating the life and just thanking God that I had
- 54:23Speaker 1: an angel for a mother. But that's not yourself for
- 54:27Speaker 1: a moment to grieve. That ain't weak at all. It's human.
- 54:30Speaker 1: That's human. But can we play a record off the
- 54:32Speaker 1: album which let's play anxiety ahead? Charlemagne requested Anxiety. I
- 54:36Speaker 1: play that anxiety. Anxiety, all right, it's the breakfast joy.
- 54:43Speaker 1: This is a miracle. There is no question that there
- 54:48Speaker 1: are problems in this country between police and community. Yes,
- 54:53Speaker 1: you are a donkey to the latest on that police
- 54:57Speaker 1: killing of a black man. Now a new developments in
- 54:59Speaker 1: the definitely spotshooting ramphos. It was a really bad day
- 55:01Speaker 1: for him and this is what he did, and so
- 55:03Speaker 1: we are in a state of emergency. Okay, white supremacist
- 55:07Speaker 1: violence it is always have been the number one threat
- 55:10Speaker 1: to otracide. But I'm also very proud that my wife
- 55:13Speaker 1: was white to practice club bitches. Please tell me why
- 55:19Speaker 1: was I your donkey of the day, Hey, donkey, the
- 55:22Speaker 1: Dave goes to Abigail Elphick. Boy, when I tell you
- 55:24Speaker 1: the mannaidse is heavy on this one, I'm talking helmets
- 55:27Speaker 1: on helmets on helmets. I mean. This is a high
- 55:28Speaker 1: fat condiment made from egg yolks, vinegan lemon juice if
- 55:32Speaker 1: I've ever seen one. If you ever wanted to know why,
- 55:34Speaker 1: too much goddamn mayonnaise ruins the dish. This is it now.
- 55:38Speaker 1: I am a resident of New Jersey, a native of
- 55:40Speaker 1: South Carolina, resident of New Jersey. All my kids of
- 55:42Speaker 1: Jersey born, except for my first one. She was born
- 55:44Speaker 1: in Manhattan. Here I go over sharing again. I'm saying
- 55:47Speaker 1: all that to say in New Jersey. There is a
- 55:49Speaker 1: mall that my wife likes to frequent. She used to
- 55:51Speaker 1: frequent often, not as much anymore, and that is Short
- 55:54Speaker 1: Hills Mall. Angelie. Ye you're a frequent Yes, I am
- 55:58Speaker 1: visitor of short Hills Mall just there last week. How
- 56:01Speaker 1: would you describe Short Hills Mall? Is it high end? Yes,
- 56:03Speaker 1: it's very high. Enda has a Nieman Market, has Chanel.
- 56:07Speaker 1: They got the Herms store to the Lewis boutin, the
- 56:12Speaker 1: Channel store, restoration hardware, a full storter. Yeah, high end
- 56:17Speaker 1: stuff that I can't pronounce, nor do I can't learn
- 56:19Speaker 1: they did. I can't pronounce none of that. Okay, I
- 56:26Speaker 1: only care to pronounce black owned luxury brands correctly. But
- 56:29Speaker 1: Short Hills is a high end mall. But this weekend
- 56:31Speaker 1: they were infiltrated by the ghetto. I mean, seriously, they
- 56:33Speaker 1: might need to vaccinate the whole mall because Abigail Elphick
- 56:36Speaker 1: pulled up and displayed a lack of class education and manners,
- 56:40Speaker 1: I mean, just dangerously ratchet ass behavior. I am currently
- 56:43Speaker 1: reading a great book called My Grandmother's Hands. Racialized Trauma
- 56:47Speaker 1: and the Pathway to Mending Our Hearts and bodies in
- 56:49Speaker 1: Chapter seven discusses exactly what we saw on displaying Short
- 56:53Speaker 1: Hills Mall. And that's white fragility. Also the title of
- 56:56Speaker 1: a great book by Robin D'Angelo. Now, what did Abigail's
- 56:58Speaker 1: ghetto ass do? She savagely, ferociously attacked and attempted to
- 57:03Speaker 1: maul a black woman. I don't want to miss this
- 57:07Speaker 1: sister's name up. Her name looks like a store that's
- 57:10Speaker 1: way too expensive, a Short Hills with I Gioma you Kinta,
- 57:13Speaker 1: Igioma you Kinta. I think Beyonce got that new you
- 57:16Speaker 1: kin too bag, non't she? Oh no, that's to tell
- 57:18Speaker 1: far that knew you Kinta not in yet. But Queen
- 57:20Speaker 1: you Kinta was just trying to buy some damn clean drawers.
- 57:23Speaker 1: All she wanted with some no show cheeky panties. Maybe
- 57:26Speaker 1: some corded throng panties. Maybe she was getting the five
- 57:29Speaker 1: pack of cotton lace waste cheeky panties. I don't know,
- 57:32Speaker 1: because it doesn't seem all. I have a wife. Sorry
- 57:36Speaker 1: that you don't, okay, but I don't know what kind
- 57:41Speaker 1: of panty she bought, because it doesn't seem like she
- 57:43Speaker 1: got the opportunity to do this because she was bombarded
- 57:45Speaker 1: by this thug named Abigail Elfick Okay, who was chasing
- 57:48Speaker 1: her around the store and then charged her with her
- 57:52Speaker 1: hands open, ready to strike. Oh, Abigail chose violence for
- 57:55Speaker 1: five hundred alex until she realized that Queen you Kinto
- 57:59Speaker 1: was recording, Okay, acording the whole exchange. Now, what happened
- 58:01Speaker 1: when Abigail realized Queen you Kent was recording? Manna's all right,
- 58:06Speaker 1: that's what happened. Just manas spread all over everything in
- 58:09Speaker 1: Victoria's secrets. Would you like to hear the type of
- 58:11Speaker 1: white fragility that has been sending black people to early
- 58:14Speaker 1: graves for years? Well, listen now you are Oh my god,
- 58:23Speaker 1: do you see this? I never thought nothing like this
- 58:26Speaker 1: would happen to me. She just tried to run and
- 58:28Speaker 1: hit me. And now did you see ya? They all flow.
- 58:34Speaker 1: Karl had a breakdown. She tried to hit me. As
- 58:38Speaker 1: your workers, she tried to hit me. I just came
- 58:45Speaker 1: to get my free panny. You know how you get
- 58:47Speaker 1: to keep on in the noil? Yes? No, why don't
- 58:50Speaker 1: she walk away from me? We're not doing this. You
- 58:56Speaker 1: keep lying saying I'm threatening you. So I'm recording to
- 58:58Speaker 1: protect myself. What you look at your y'all bet to
- 59:09Speaker 1: get this rating white people. I'm so mad when that
- 59:13Speaker 1: coupon expires. And I didn't get my free panties for
- 59:15Speaker 1: Victoria's secret because she was willing. She came firmly these panties. Please.
- 59:19Speaker 1: I love it, love it. The audio doesn't know justice.
- 59:22Speaker 1: She really have to go watch this video to watch
- 59:23Speaker 1: how whiteness works. Didn't Dear McKesson used to say something
- 59:26Speaker 1: like that, watch whiteness work. This lady's in getleman his
- 59:29Speaker 1: white fragility on full display. If you want to know
- 59:31Speaker 1: why some people push back on the concept of believe
- 59:34Speaker 1: all women, look no further than Abigail Elfick. Okay, those
- 59:37Speaker 1: are the same white tears that caused them Ittail to
- 59:39Speaker 1: be murdered, all right, because Carolin Bryan, who lied about
- 59:42Speaker 1: the matail sexually harassing her in the grocery store. Oh,
- 59:44Speaker 1: we talk about black wallscreet being burned to the ground,
- 59:46Speaker 1: but do you know why it all started? After an
- 59:48Speaker 1: elevator encounter between the seventeen year old white woman named
- 59:51Speaker 1: Sarah Page and a nineteen year old black man named
- 59:53Speaker 1: Dick Roland. It was alleged that Roland had assaulted Page
- 59:56Speaker 1: in the elevator, which he denied. But it didn't matter. Okay,
- 59:59Speaker 1: news of a black man's a legend sort of a
- 1:00:01Speaker 1: white woman spread like wildfire throughout the white community of Tulsa.
- 1:00:04Speaker 1: They formed a racial mob and burned black wall, screed down.
- 1:00:08Speaker 1: Abigail Elphick knew exactly what she was doing and why
- 1:00:11Speaker 1: she was doing it, because in America, whiteness means fragility. Okay,
- 1:00:17Speaker 1: white people, listen, only you can prevent forest fires. Okay.
- 1:00:20Speaker 1: I don't believe white people are inherently racist, but I
- 1:00:23Speaker 1: do believe this American system is inherently racist. And when
- 1:00:26Speaker 1: you are a white person who does things like this
- 1:00:28Speaker 1: and you know that this system is inherently racist, then
- 1:00:31Speaker 1: you are weaponizing your whiteness against me. Therefore you are
- 1:00:34Speaker 1: racist too. Now how do we fix this? I don't know. Okay,
- 1:00:40Speaker 1: she laid on the floor like she was dead. I
- 1:00:43Speaker 1: was like, why is she laying on the floor, Because
- 1:00:45Speaker 1: that's how whiteness works. She was weaponizing her whiteness, her
- 1:00:50Speaker 1: white fragility, against you know, this dangerous black skin that
- 1:00:54Speaker 1: this system possessed. Um, well, it's crazy that nobody was
- 1:00:57Speaker 1: doing anything nothing. She was in there for like him,
- 1:01:00Speaker 1: minutes going off and nobody did anything. Nobody intervening secured
- 1:01:04Speaker 1: it in escort the woman out. I don't know how
- 1:01:07Speaker 1: we fix this. I don't know, but my grandmother's hand is.
- 1:01:10Speaker 1: The book that I referenced earlier has some answers what
- 1:01:12Speaker 1: should we do in regards the white fragility? While I
- 1:01:15Speaker 1: have a piece of the audio version courtesy are audible,
- 1:01:18Speaker 1: It's a couple of minutes long. But I want to
- 1:01:20Speaker 1: teach my white brothers insisted this morning. How do we
- 1:01:23Speaker 1: solve white fragility? I don't know, but listen. A common
- 1:01:26Speaker 1: form of white fragility involves a strong and immediate defensive
- 1:01:30Speaker 1: response whenever a white body is challenged on the subject
- 1:01:33Speaker 1: of race and equality, or whenever the topic of race emerges.
- 1:01:37Speaker 1: This has inspired a contorted form of white self talk.
- 1:01:40Speaker 1: We white people are incapable of soothing ourselves and feeling
- 1:01:44Speaker 1: safe in the presence of black bodies. White fragility is
- 1:01:48Speaker 1: a reflexive, protective response, a way for the white body
- 1:01:52Speaker 1: to avoid experiencing the pain of its historical trauma inflicted
- 1:01:56Speaker 1: by other white bodies. Many white Americans need to be
- 1:01:59Speaker 1: con hunted firmly and compassionately on their white fragility. Much
- 1:02:04Speaker 1: of that fragility is a trauma driven lizard brain defensiveness
- 1:02:08Speaker 1: that quickly fights, flees from, or freezes out all such
- 1:02:12Speaker 1: caring confrontation. There is only one way through this stalemate.
- 1:02:16Speaker 1: White Americans must accept, explore, and mend their centuries old
- 1:02:20Speaker 1: trauma around oppression and victimization. Whiteness does not equal fragility. Nope,
- 1:02:26Speaker 1: that's a dodge created by white fragility itself. It's a
- 1:02:30Speaker 1: way for white Americans to avoid the responsibility of soothing themselves,
- 1:02:34Speaker 1: metabolizing their own historical and secondary trauma, accepting and moving
- 1:02:39Speaker 1: through clean pain, and growing up, growing the hell up.
- 1:02:44Speaker 1: Please let Cathy Griffin give Abigail Elphick, Please give this
- 1:02:49Speaker 1: giant jar of male the biggest he ha. Let Chelsea
- 1:02:54Speaker 1: handleging in on this too. I know she got he
- 1:02:56Speaker 1: ha he ha. That is way too much, Dan manne
- 1:03:00Speaker 1: Ron got anything to say? I ask We got more
- 1:03:02Speaker 1: coming up next to don't move, Happy Holidays, don't go anywhere.
- 1:03:06Speaker 1: It's the breakfast club. Good morning, the breakfast club. These
- 1:03:14Speaker 1: relationship advice need personal advice, just the real advice. Haul
- 1:03:19Speaker 1: up now for asking morning. Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee,
- 1:03:25Speaker 1: Charlomne the guy. We are the breakfast club. It's time
- 1:03:28Speaker 1: to ask ye. Hello, who's this? My name is us, Hey, duchess,
- 1:03:33Speaker 1: what's your question for you? So my best friend of
- 1:03:37Speaker 1: twenty years broke up with me because she said that
- 1:03:40Speaker 1: I've changed and I'm high and mighty. So I started
- 1:03:45Speaker 1: a podcast. And when I get invited to things, because
- 1:03:49Speaker 1: I'm a small try, you only get one invitation, or
- 1:03:52Speaker 1: if you get two, I take my husband. And so,
- 1:03:56Speaker 1: like she sees the promo pictures afterwards and she'll be like, oh,
- 1:04:00Speaker 1: you got invited to something. You're too good to me.
- 1:04:03Speaker 1: And I'm like, that's not the case. You know, I
- 1:04:05Speaker 1: would say this. There might be some things going on
- 1:04:08Speaker 1: in her life and she might be projecting that onto you. Yeah,
- 1:04:12Speaker 1: and you're her best friends, so I'm sure you know,
- 1:04:14Speaker 1: it feels like maybe there's some things that she's disappointed
- 1:04:17Speaker 1: about that she doesn't have going on. Maybe things are
- 1:04:20Speaker 1: advancing for you and she doesn't know how to handle it. Yeah.
- 1:04:23Speaker 1: I mean if I was to a point where if
- 1:04:26Speaker 1: I if I got invited to stuff and they're like oh,
- 1:04:28Speaker 1: bring five friends. Absolutely, she would definitely be in the
- 1:04:32Speaker 1: five friends or maybe even the three friends too. But like,
- 1:04:37Speaker 1: when I get invited to stuff, I can't bring an
- 1:04:39Speaker 1: entourage because I just got started in the podcast game,
- 1:04:42Speaker 1: so right, And she doesn't understand that people inviting you
- 1:04:47Speaker 1: to places because you got a podcast. Well, it's like
- 1:04:50Speaker 1: virtual things right now because of KOVID. But I live
- 1:04:53Speaker 1: on the Missippi Gulf Coach. So she wants to be
- 1:04:55Speaker 1: able to come to these virtual events and maybe be
- 1:04:58Speaker 1: supportive of you. Yeah, I mean, I guess so, but
- 1:05:01Speaker 1: I'm at the same time, if if if I have
- 1:05:03Speaker 1: an event didn't buy a take assist, you can't invite
- 1:05:06Speaker 1: me to a Zoom event, I'll beat you up that
- 1:05:08Speaker 1: goddamn link. Hell's wrong with you? I don't say listen.
- 1:05:12Speaker 1: I just want to say that the most amazing friends
- 1:05:15Speaker 1: are the people that support you. And support also doesn't
- 1:05:17Speaker 1: mean I gotta get in free everywhere. That also means
- 1:05:20Speaker 1: maybe I spend a few dollars because I see what
- 1:05:22Speaker 1: it is that you're trying to do. And like speaking
- 1:05:24Speaker 1: of free stuff, like she very seldom does she ever
- 1:05:27Speaker 1: share my podcast, Like, are you really a supporter or
- 1:05:32Speaker 1: you just want to go to these nice things that
- 1:05:34Speaker 1: I get to go through. It's a zoom event. What
- 1:05:38Speaker 1: did she have going on in her? Like things going
- 1:05:40Speaker 1: well for her on her end? I thought that they
- 1:05:43Speaker 1: was like she has like a little cake pop business,
- 1:05:47Speaker 1: and like I'm always sharing her STUFFE a little, I
- 1:05:58Speaker 1: have a little podcasts. WHOA Well, you know, I'm feeling
- 1:06:02Speaker 1: kind of softly because she heard my fo You know,
- 1:06:07Speaker 1: it seems like y'all just had a little blowout and
- 1:06:09Speaker 1: some things have simmered and then it exploded. But I
- 1:06:13Speaker 1: don't feel like this is the end of it for
- 1:06:16Speaker 1: you guys. It just feels like there's some unresolved things
- 1:06:18Speaker 1: that are underlying under this. The best thing you can
- 1:06:21Speaker 1: do is ask her, what do you want us to
- 1:06:22Speaker 1: do moving forward? What can I do to be a
- 1:06:24Speaker 1: better friend? And y'all got to be open and honest
- 1:06:26Speaker 1: and willing to hear each other. And when she tells
- 1:06:28Speaker 1: you how she feels, you have to be willing to
- 1:06:30Speaker 1: listen and be open to receive that. Gotcha. Got maybe now?
- 1:06:35Speaker 1: Sometimes it's very simple. I mean, look, the best thing
- 1:06:37Speaker 1: you could do right now is ordered some items some
- 1:06:39Speaker 1: hell little cake pock business. Y'all, So foulso foun she
- 1:06:45Speaker 1: made me mad. She said some really mean things to
- 1:06:48Speaker 1: me last night, like stuffody you think abroad on the
- 1:06:51Speaker 1: street would say, almost cup. I had to make sure.
- 1:06:54Speaker 1: I had to keep it together. Yeah, you do some
- 1:06:56Speaker 1: really hurtful things to me, and you know, it's really
- 1:07:00Speaker 1: hard on this podcast and building the brand up. What
- 1:07:04Speaker 1: is this podcast? We want to know because you on
- 1:07:06Speaker 1: the breakfast clap and you haven't said the name of
- 1:07:08Speaker 1: it once. Oh the name. It's a podcast. It's called
- 1:07:11Speaker 1: a Cashmere Room. It's like adult story time where I
- 1:07:15Speaker 1: tell sixety stories. Tell us what now? Tell us what now?
- 1:07:18Speaker 1: Tell us what now? Now? So it was the first
- 1:07:22Speaker 1: night of the first full moon of two thousand nineteen,
- 1:07:25Speaker 1: and I decided to touch myself. I touched my arms
- 1:07:31Speaker 1: and my shoulders, my legs. I gave myself some good
- 1:07:36Speaker 1: self love. I turned myself into a goddess right before
- 1:07:41Speaker 1: the moon. You got a podcast about masturbation. Different stories.
- 1:07:47Speaker 1: I see, I see, I see. Your last one was
- 1:07:49Speaker 1: on your submissive persona. You have a submissive persona? Yeah, okay,
- 1:07:55Speaker 1: did I read it? But I tell right up story times.
- 1:07:59Speaker 1: So it's like a poetry. Let me tell you what
- 1:08:02Speaker 1: why don't you do a sexy story involving her little
- 1:08:05Speaker 1: cake pops? Yes, y'all can do something together. Yeah, gotta collaborate.
- 1:08:15Speaker 1: I gave her her a little anal suave with a
- 1:08:17Speaker 1: cake pop. You're so nasty, you got But it's got
- 1:08:21Speaker 1: to be artistically nasty though, But I like it. I like, Yeah,
- 1:08:24Speaker 1: you can't just be shoving a cake pop up your
- 1:08:28Speaker 1: to get lost? How are you gonna get the chocolate
- 1:08:31Speaker 1: in this German cake? Oh? What's throw with you? Man?
- 1:08:35Speaker 1: You've been kinky all more. I'm glad I'm not the studio.
- 1:08:38Speaker 1: You've been kinky all morning long. But man, you definitely
- 1:08:40Speaker 1: need to listen to the video. Listen. You and your
- 1:08:43Speaker 1: best friend should do a podcast episode together. Yeah, why
- 1:08:47Speaker 1: is Charlomagne tin under the desk right now? Look at Charlomagne?
- 1:08:49Speaker 1: Why is his hand just got him going? I got
- 1:08:54Speaker 1: him got him going. I tell stories, so I don't
- 1:08:58Speaker 1: have interviews. But I think you're right if I offer
- 1:09:01Speaker 1: her like a promo commercial in one of my podcasts,
- 1:09:06Speaker 1: I think that, you know, and send her like some
- 1:09:08Speaker 1: flowers or something today, like let's bury the hatchet because
- 1:09:11Speaker 1: we've been friends too long to let get being come
- 1:09:14Speaker 1: between us. Well, I can't let your egos make you
- 1:09:17Speaker 1: guys not be friends anymore. You know, we thought a
- 1:09:20Speaker 1: partner with you and bring you on the black effect.
- 1:09:24Speaker 1: I know, right, I may have to bring await me.
- 1:09:26Speaker 1: I may have to bring await me. We made it
- 1:09:29Speaker 1: when got that kind of budget. Well all right, well
- 1:09:35Speaker 1: you did a good job. You got chanlamine sweat and
- 1:09:37Speaker 1: say you know you did a good job. This is different.
- 1:09:40Speaker 1: I'm looking at it. I like the presentation erotica stories,
- 1:09:43Speaker 1: poems and monologues with duchess casume. Not one coming out
- 1:09:47Speaker 1: very soon. Okay, give me if I can get my
- 1:09:52Speaker 1: me and my best friend back together. But I think
- 1:09:54Speaker 1: that's gonna be a good idea if I just partner
- 1:09:56Speaker 1: with her some kind of way and kind of show
- 1:09:58Speaker 1: I'm not trying to leave her. I'm really not. I'm
- 1:10:00Speaker 1: just trying to take myself up, all right, Kay, Well
- 1:10:02Speaker 1: I like that. See you look at how quickly you
- 1:10:04Speaker 1: tearning that around. We love it. I love her. I
- 1:10:07Speaker 1: hope she's listening, because she listens every morning, so I
- 1:10:09Speaker 1: hope she's listening. Soccer girl, I love you. I want
- 1:10:13Speaker 1: us to be back friends again, Like this is not
- 1:10:16Speaker 1: conducive to you got to write a poem, write a
- 1:10:18Speaker 1: poem called cake pops and really express your I'm serious you. Also,
- 1:10:24Speaker 1: you also did not plug her cake pop business. It's
- 1:10:27Speaker 1: called Paula's Cakes and Corpus Christi Texas. She's gonna love
- 1:10:32Speaker 1: you now, all right, ask Ye eight hundred five eighty
- 1:10:34Speaker 1: five one on five one. If you need relationship advice,
- 1:10:36Speaker 1: hit in the Breakfast Club some real advice with Angela
- 1:10:42Speaker 1: ye gets ask Ye morning, everybody in cdj Envy, Angela Yee,
- 1:10:47Speaker 1: Charlomagne the guy. We are the breakfast club. We're in
- 1:10:51Speaker 1: the middle of asking yee, Hello. Who's this? Hey? What's
- 1:10:56Speaker 1: your question for you? Oh? Angela figure Okay, Well, I
- 1:11:02Speaker 1: am twenty seven and I've been had like this insecurity
- 1:11:06Speaker 1: all my life like this, I've been having sake getting
- 1:11:11Speaker 1: m Okay. I have a boyfriend that I'm with and
- 1:11:14Speaker 1: we've been together for like two years now, and in
- 1:11:18Speaker 1: those years we've done it twice like where I've gotten
- 1:11:21Speaker 1: on top. But like I think it's an insecurity thing
- 1:11:24Speaker 1: and I actually just really don't know how. So I'm
- 1:11:27Speaker 1: just trying to, you know, get some advice on what
- 1:11:29Speaker 1: I need to do is it like a rhythm thing.
- 1:11:32Speaker 1: Or is it being so exposed that you're on top
- 1:11:34Speaker 1: and he's looking at you like everything, he could see
- 1:11:37Speaker 1: you everything and see everything. Honestly, I think that might
- 1:11:40Speaker 1: be what it is, because let me tell you something,
- 1:11:43Speaker 1: he obviously loves what he sees, and I'm sure for him,
- 1:11:47Speaker 1: the visual of seeing you on top is just amazing.
- 1:11:50Speaker 1: And sometimes I think we put too much on ourselves
- 1:11:53Speaker 1: and worry about how he looked. But trust me, guys,
- 1:11:55Speaker 1: seeing his girl naked on top of him, no matter
- 1:11:58Speaker 1: what insecurity you might have about your body, he loves
- 1:12:00Speaker 1: everything about it. He tells me that, and I mean,
- 1:12:04Speaker 1: and I listen to him, and I love him this
- 1:12:06Speaker 1: as a much loves me. It's just I guess, I
- 1:12:09Speaker 1: don't know. I just be I don't know. Sometimes by
- 1:12:12Speaker 1: even like if I'm in the bathroom and stuff like that,
- 1:12:14Speaker 1: I'm covered until we get in the bed, Like, I
- 1:12:16Speaker 1: don't know. It's just I think this is my whole
- 1:12:18Speaker 1: body being like I'm being picture about and he wouldn't
- 1:12:22Speaker 1: be with you. And I'm sure that he Uh, I'm
- 1:12:25Speaker 1: trying to think of the right word to use. Can
- 1:12:27Speaker 1: I say ejaculate? I'm sure that he ejaculates every time. Right, Yeah,
- 1:12:30Speaker 1: he does well, clearly he likes what he sees and
- 1:12:33Speaker 1: he likes how it feels. And you have to trust
- 1:12:36Speaker 1: that he's looking at you and he's seeing something amazing,
- 1:12:39Speaker 1: and you're looking at you and being too critical of yourself.
- 1:12:42Speaker 1: And I will say, if there's things about yourself that
- 1:12:44Speaker 1: you don't like that you feel like, okay, you know,
- 1:12:46Speaker 1: maybe I need to work on this. That's fine. You
- 1:12:48Speaker 1: can work on things on yourself. But he loves you
- 1:12:50Speaker 1: how you are. He wouldn't be with you and he
- 1:12:52Speaker 1: wouldn't want you to be honest, I think it's I
- 1:12:56Speaker 1: think more or less like with my thumb and stuff
- 1:12:58Speaker 1: or whatever. I would talk to him about why boat
- 1:13:00Speaker 1: and he was just like, I would not like that
- 1:13:03Speaker 1: if you wouldn't did that. I think you're fine how
- 1:13:05Speaker 1: you are, and you know it's so yeah, you're right,
- 1:13:08Speaker 1: you're right. I'm doing it. I'm doing the detox. If
- 1:13:12Speaker 1: you want to do the detox with me, and I'll
- 1:13:13Speaker 1: send you the mail plan the detox now. But sometimes
- 1:13:17Speaker 1: it's just little things that can give you some more confidence.
- 1:13:19Speaker 1: But I promise you this is how you start off
- 1:13:21Speaker 1: on top, because that is one of the best positions,
- 1:13:22Speaker 1: and for a lot of women, it's the easiest way
- 1:13:25Speaker 1: for us to have an orgasm because of the positioning.
- 1:13:28Speaker 1: But I will say, maybe you start off on top
- 1:13:30Speaker 1: where you're laying on top of him. You don't necessarily
- 1:13:32Speaker 1: have to be sitting up, and then you can advance
- 1:13:35Speaker 1: to that where you're dropping on him. But maybe you
- 1:13:37Speaker 1: just lay on top so he's not so you're not
- 1:13:39Speaker 1: feeling so self conscious until you feel more confident in
- 1:13:41Speaker 1: that and do it at night. Yeah, yeah, you know,
- 1:13:46Speaker 1: have a little candle lid, so it's just like you
- 1:13:49Speaker 1: just see the silhouette and then and then you'll feel
- 1:13:51Speaker 1: more confidence. But trust and believe you're a man loves
- 1:13:54Speaker 1: what he sees and that's a beautiful thing. And men
- 1:13:57Speaker 1: love confidence too. Yeah they do. When I'm feeling my bed,
- 1:14:02Speaker 1: it makes him happy. And girl, don't be afraid to
- 1:14:05Speaker 1: do that reverse cow girl too, you know, turn around? Okay,
- 1:14:11Speaker 1: then all right, queen, how you have a good night tonight?
- 1:14:19Speaker 1: I think I got tonight? All right, Mama, half fun tonight? Alright?
- 1:14:23Speaker 1: I will alight. Cry baby challenge, y'all? Next? Ask ye
- 1:14:28Speaker 1: eight five one five? Hell is the cry baby challenge?
- 1:14:32Speaker 1: He's done it before for sure? All right, we got more.
- 1:14:34Speaker 1: Don't move. It's the best of the breakfast Club. The
- 1:14:36Speaker 1: breakfast Club. It's that time. Ask Charlomagne a dj Envy
- 1:14:44Speaker 1: anything up? It's time to a morning. Everybody is dj
- 1:14:52Speaker 1: Envy Angela. Yee, Charlomagne the guy. We are the breakfast club.
- 1:14:56Speaker 1: Now it's time for ass and e Angela is out,
- 1:14:59Speaker 1: so Charlomagne and I will be holding it down. So
- 1:15:01Speaker 1: let's go to the callers. Hello, who's this? Hello? There
- 1:15:05Speaker 1: was a bro? What's your question for c and E?
- 1:15:07Speaker 1: Order me something? Man, order me something? Man, give me something,
- 1:15:10Speaker 1: ain't Charlemagne? Yeah, listen, I got a question for you,
- 1:15:14Speaker 1: a real quick like look I got I'll be married
- 1:15:16Speaker 1: for like sow them too many to me? Right, I'm
- 1:15:19Speaker 1: just able military. I got one hundred pers some disabilities.
- 1:15:22Speaker 1: I originally called who say something about my wife? But
- 1:15:26Speaker 1: if this anyway, look, I meet your help. I needed
- 1:15:28Speaker 1: your help like a year there because one of my
- 1:15:32Speaker 1: disabilities is like PC and all the stuff. And I
- 1:15:35Speaker 1: almost cure myself. I got two kids, right, and so resually,
- 1:15:39Speaker 1: why I'm calling me me is because you always speak
- 1:15:42Speaker 1: to our mental health, right, and I'm do Minican. I'm
- 1:15:45Speaker 1: do Milican, right, so we don't believe in that stuff,
- 1:15:48Speaker 1: just like black people. You know what I mean. I
- 1:15:50Speaker 1: can see myself like not that I considered myself black.
- 1:15:53Speaker 1: That's not what I'm saying. But we all know what
- 1:15:56Speaker 1: I'm saying. Okay, that's what I'm don'kay cool. I want
- 1:16:00Speaker 1: you to tell my number because I'm gonna need you.
- 1:16:02Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, because I'm getting help right
- 1:16:05Speaker 1: now with my mentor you know what I'm saying, and
- 1:16:08Speaker 1: I'm getting better. But what I'm saying is I try
- 1:16:11Speaker 1: to call these ragizations before because I feel like you
- 1:16:14Speaker 1: know how sometime guy tells you to like do something
- 1:16:17Speaker 1: and you you either listening to it or you don't.
- 1:16:20Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. So I was calling you
- 1:16:22Speaker 1: back then when I was in my darkest place because
- 1:16:24Speaker 1: I feel that you have the answer to help me out. Well,
- 1:16:27Speaker 1: I tell you what, I don't have all the answers.
- 1:16:29Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. I'm still going on my journey,
- 1:16:31Speaker 1: just like you going on your journey. But I do
- 1:16:34Speaker 1: have a lot of resources and a lot of people
- 1:16:36Speaker 1: that you can talk to, people that you know have
- 1:16:38Speaker 1: have helped me get through, and I have no problem
- 1:16:40Speaker 1: sharing those resources with you, my my Dominican brother. Okay,
- 1:16:44Speaker 1: hold on, hold one second, we're gonna hang up. We're
- 1:16:46Speaker 1: gonna get your information. But I got a real question
- 1:16:48Speaker 1: for the brother though, okhead, go ahead, asked me a question.
- 1:16:52Speaker 1: You're a Dominican, right, yes, sir? How many pair of
- 1:16:55Speaker 1: white jeans do you own? I have you owned? I
- 1:16:57Speaker 1: knew it throughout your life. Seriously, hold on, like seriously,
- 1:17:02Speaker 1: probably like once or twice because there was some white
- 1:17:05Speaker 1: party and I needed to everything white. Okay, okay, all
- 1:17:09Speaker 1: the mini kids don't have white jeans. Show me hold on, man,
- 1:17:12Speaker 1: yes to that man about his white jeans. Man, I'm
- 1:17:14Speaker 1: about to get your I'm gonna get your number. Leave
- 1:17:16Speaker 1: your number with the producer. I'm gonna hit you. I'll
- 1:17:18Speaker 1: hit you in the show over in like an hour.
- 1:17:19Speaker 1: All right, goodness, gracious, hello, who's this? Yo? This magic
- 1:17:24Speaker 1: magic question? Yeo, Man, I got I got some questions. Man,
- 1:17:28Speaker 1: A little relationship problem I got going on right now.
- 1:17:31Speaker 1: Be on my girl for a year. She got three kids,
- 1:17:34Speaker 1: and uh she's pregnant now with the fourth one by me.
- 1:17:39Speaker 1: It is my first one. But it ain't easy she
- 1:17:42Speaker 1: got three from another man. He got three different baby daddy.
- 1:17:47Speaker 1: Well she has four and now four baby daddy in there.
- 1:17:49Speaker 1: Well that okay, yeah, and then it's been rough to me. Man.
- 1:17:52Speaker 1: It's like I go through hell. I do everything she has. Basically,
- 1:17:56Speaker 1: I've been a dude boy for her since she's been pregnant.
- 1:17:59Speaker 1: And she called me selfish just because like I complain
- 1:18:03Speaker 1: or something like that for getting up in the middle
- 1:18:05Speaker 1: of the night doing something for her, like I'm doing
- 1:18:08Speaker 1: it sold shut up. But she don't respect you, bro. Man,
- 1:18:12Speaker 1: it's kind of hard to respect the fourth baby daddy.
- 1:18:14Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. Yeah, I'm scared for my
- 1:18:16Speaker 1: life though. For real, man, I ain't say she put
- 1:18:20Speaker 1: hands on you. Yeah she has, she has, yeah, yeah, No,
- 1:18:26Speaker 1: I ain't know what I'm saying. It is this one
- 1:18:27Speaker 1: time incident, but that's what she used to in her path.
- 1:18:31Speaker 1: And I'm to woman, I'm not that guy you know
- 1:18:35Speaker 1: from you. I'm not your eggs baby daddy or nothing
- 1:18:37Speaker 1: like that. Want to come home, get drunk and put
- 1:18:40Speaker 1: you know, put my hands on and stuff like that.
- 1:18:41Speaker 1: You know, I communicate, you know, just talk to me.
- 1:18:45Speaker 1: Whatever the problem is. We'll try to thought and instead
- 1:18:47Speaker 1: of this argument back and forth. But like I said,
- 1:18:49Speaker 1: she ain't got there hook and Nazi pregnant now and
- 1:18:54Speaker 1: Nazi time. I she don't want to be me, no mode,
- 1:18:56Speaker 1: And that's not what I wanted on my wife, my
- 1:18:58Speaker 1: first child. I wanted to be old family. Now did
- 1:19:01Speaker 1: I feel bad for your brother with somebody that's toxic man?
- 1:19:07Speaker 1: Are you taking care of other three? I'm thirty one
- 1:19:09Speaker 1: having my first child and it ain't how I wanted
- 1:19:12Speaker 1: to be a boy. If you don't listen to me,
- 1:19:18Speaker 1: are you taking care of others? Three kids? Barely? Are
- 1:19:22Speaker 1: you taking care of them? So you are? You know
- 1:19:24Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Like I'll do what she asked me
- 1:19:26Speaker 1: to do for them or whatnot? Listen if the roads
- 1:19:30Speaker 1: were reversed and you was dating a toxic man with
- 1:19:33Speaker 1: four different baby mamas who put hands on you, what
- 1:19:37Speaker 1: would your girls be telling you to do? Leave? People
- 1:19:39Speaker 1: been telling me to leave, but I just didn't listen.
- 1:19:42Speaker 1: I don't know why I really listen to goddamn girlfriends.
- 1:19:46Speaker 1: Your girlfriends right now, you said you fair for your life.
- 1:19:49Speaker 1: She puts hands on you, she makes you do everything.
- 1:19:52Speaker 1: You sound like you do everything, and you're about to
- 1:19:54Speaker 1: lose it, So you better leave her alone before she
- 1:19:56Speaker 1: hit you with frying pan? Are your girlfriend? I envious,
- 1:20:02Speaker 1: Joan Clayton. We're telling you to leave Maya. Okay, Actually
- 1:20:06Speaker 1: you would be lending a situation like this is something
- 1:20:08Speaker 1: Lynn would get herself into. All right, you got she
- 1:20:11Speaker 1: got three kids already from three different baby daddies. He's
- 1:20:14Speaker 1: got one on the way from you. Be a father
- 1:20:16Speaker 1: to your child. But this sounds like a very toxic
- 1:20:19Speaker 1: human that you're dealing with. And she needs to get
- 1:20:21Speaker 1: some healing. And when she gets some healing, it becomes
- 1:20:23Speaker 1: the woman that you need her to be. Then you
- 1:20:25Speaker 1: can be with her. Told her I told her a
- 1:20:27Speaker 1: few time about getting married and stuff before the baby
- 1:20:29Speaker 1: get here. I told her, you want to do that?
- 1:20:31Speaker 1: We gotta have to go to counsel that Thomas, he
- 1:20:33Speaker 1: don't need that. Really, it's a stressful, man, it's really
- 1:20:37Speaker 1: putting a toll only for real. You know what toxic
- 1:20:39Speaker 1: people do. They never let things go. They can't move forward.
- 1:20:43Speaker 1: They bully, they intimidate, they lie, they create drama, they
- 1:20:46Speaker 1: play the victim, and they act out of fear and insecurity.
- 1:20:49Speaker 1: That's all that person is doing to you. Right now.
- 1:20:51Speaker 1: You gotta go, bro, be a father to your child.
- 1:20:54Speaker 1: That's a very toxic woman. She sounds like the future
- 1:20:56Speaker 1: of females for Pete after me. I am strong. I
- 1:21:00Speaker 1: am strong. I will not let her hit me anymore.
- 1:21:04Speaker 1: I will not let her hit me anymore. What do anymore?
- 1:21:10Speaker 1: That's right? I am strong. I am a good man,
- 1:21:13Speaker 1: and I am a good father. I am strong, I
- 1:21:16Speaker 1: am a good man, and I will be a good father. Yeah,
- 1:21:18Speaker 1: you go when you got that written down at envy
- 1:21:20Speaker 1: and why are you that's your daily affirmation? I'm trying
- 1:21:23Speaker 1: to give him a self esteem to make him feel
- 1:21:25Speaker 1: good this morning. Man. Brother, you go out there, you
- 1:21:27Speaker 1: have a great day, and you take kid business. I brother,
- 1:21:29Speaker 1: eliminate all toxic people from your life. Man, Why we
- 1:21:32Speaker 1: always give people more chances than they deserve? Why do
- 1:21:35Speaker 1: we do that? Man? A little self esteem? All right?
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