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DLHS HOUR 2 | Weird or Good Parenting? The Streaming Hack Warrior + MORE · The D.L. Hughley Show

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  Speaker 1: You think that sleeping, taking a shower with a father,
• 0:05
  Speaker 1: taking a shower with.
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  Speaker 2: A nine-year-old is a little weird or is it good parenting?
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  Speaker 2: What do you think, Sandy? I think it's weird.
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  Speaker 3: I think, you know, a nine-year-old, especially nowadays, young girls
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  Speaker 3: go through puberty so much earlier. You know, and the
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  Speaker 3: fact that she probably could name that that's a penis,
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  Speaker 3: it's a problem for me.
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  Speaker 2: Not at nine. Five, okay, I get it.
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  Speaker 3: And even sleeping together at nine. If you're getting in
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  Speaker 3: the bed with your dad and you're nine, I don't
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  Speaker 3: think there's anything wrong with that.
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  Speaker 4: Unless it's straight out the shower and you ain't getting
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  Speaker 4: no clothes on.
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  Speaker 2: Naked changes everything for me.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: And the girl, you know, if you listen to the story,
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  Speaker 1: she doesn't do that because she is between the mother
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  Speaker 1: and the father.
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  Speaker 2: But this was.
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  Speaker 1: a story that was relayed by the girlfriend of the man.
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  Speaker 1: And sometimes they can't even be intimate because the little
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  Speaker 1: girl's in the bed with them.
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  Speaker 2: At nine years old, she shouldn't be in the bed.
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  Speaker 2: And she's always like, come, Daddy, it's time for us
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  Speaker 2: to take a shower. That's a little weird. That's very weird.
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  Speaker 4: And when Daddy's not around, she has no problem taking
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  Speaker 4: a shower by herself or sleeping by herself.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Go to your room.
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  Speaker 1: I do think that we are a society where too
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  Speaker 1: many people got tested the wrong way and not enough
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  Speaker 1: people got tested the right way. So I think that
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  Speaker 1: that is true. But this is even far from it.
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  Speaker 1: give me a call and let us know what you think.
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  Speaker 1: Is it good parenting or just a little weird? 877-242-2426.
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  Speaker 1: It's the DL Hughley Show. So the question we're asking,
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  Speaker 1: here's the scenario.
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  Speaker 7: Last time I was there, he said she was jumping
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  Speaker 7: in the shower and he wouldn't be long. Finally, I said,
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  Speaker 7: she's nine. She shouldn't be showering with you. He said
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  Speaker 7: she yells for me if I don't and disturbs the boys.
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  Speaker 7: I told him they'd be okay. Let her have her tantrum.
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  Speaker 7: And at nine, she shouldn't be throwing tantrums anyway. Thank you.
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  Speaker 7: Don't give in. It's time to stop running whenever she yells.
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  Speaker 7: and a dad showering with his almost 10-year-old daughter is
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  Speaker 7: not okay. He told me that's how he parents, and
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  Speaker 7: he's not changing that until she's ready. I told him
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  Speaker 7: I'm not being a part of this dynamic anymore, that
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  Speaker 7: it's inappropriate, and I left. Since then, he's been messaging me,
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  Speaker 7: asking me to come over to talk, and asking me
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  Speaker 7: to accept and understand his parenting. But he asked me
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  Speaker 7: not to talk about it with anyone. And she said,
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  Speaker 7: so I haven't yet. I've even watched the kids a
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  Speaker 7: few nights when he's been called to work. When I do,
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  Speaker 7: she sleeps and showers just fine on her own. I'm
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  Speaker 7: just kind of done with the weirdness.
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  Speaker 2: You think it's a little weird or it's a good parenting?
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  Speaker 2: We're going to go skip. What do you think?
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  Speaker 4: Well, it's not weird if your last name is Epstein or,
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  Speaker 4: you know, you happen to be defended in that case.
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  Speaker 1: But Donald Trump says some very provocative things.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah. Had her sitting on a lap in
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  Speaker 2: a weird way, didn't he? She did. Talked about her boobs.
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  Speaker 2: Her legs.
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  Speaker 4: That's totally inappropriate. I mean, you know, you get to
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  Speaker 4: a certain age and she's at that certain age. You're
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  Speaker 4: talking about, well, she's almost 10. She's 9. They said
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  Speaker 4: she's almost 10.
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  Speaker 2: And, you know, no.
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  Speaker 4: You need to, while you're being a good parent, also
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  Speaker 4: is teaching them what's appropriate and what's not.
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  Speaker 2: So that's out of bounds.
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  Speaker 1: But I do think, and I think that we, in America,
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  Speaker 1: we have a lot of people who have not been
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  Speaker 1: touched the right way and too many that's been touched
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  Speaker 1: the wrong way. And I think that almost any level
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  Speaker 1: of affection is weird to some people.
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  Speaker 3: But I also think as children, boys and girls, certainly girls,
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  Speaker 3: in learning the autonomy of your body and privacy of
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  Speaker 3: your body is important, especially as you're about to go
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  Speaker 3: through puberty and a lot of things you don't totally
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  Speaker 3: understand what's going on with your body.
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  Speaker 2: You know, I just, I have some concerns there.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I think protected child services will have some concerns.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: That is a little weird. So we're going to leave
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  Speaker 1: it up to you.
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  Speaker 6: 877-242-2426.
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  Speaker 2: It's the D.L. Hughley Show. Good parenting or a little weird?
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  Speaker 2: Go right to the phones.
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  Speaker 8: I don't think it's just absolutely. It's so sad. This
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  Speaker 8: man has no reason, none whatsoever. getting in the shower
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  Speaker 8: with his 10-year-old daughter. If the child has special needs,
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  Speaker 8: then that's where, where's the mother? What is she doing?
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  Speaker 8: That's her, that's her job. The child has, the father,
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  Speaker 8: the baby has no business sleeping with the child. You know,
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  Speaker 8: that's just my opinion. I think he's a pervert. He
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  Speaker 8: is a pervert. Why in the world would your 10-year-old
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  Speaker 8: daughter be still getting in the shower with you? No,
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  Speaker 8: that's sick.
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  Speaker 6: That's sick.
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  Speaker 8: And somebody needs to really, really do something to him.
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  Speaker 8: That is absolutely ridiculous. I think it's ludicrous. And where
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  Speaker 8: is the mother? And this just gave me chills when
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  Speaker 8: I heard about it. I had to call in.
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  Speaker 9: I don't allow my children's dad to whip them. They
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  Speaker 9: can't sit in his lap. And he damn sure better
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  Speaker 9: not be in no shower. Seven years old, and she
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  Speaker 9: thinks that's okay. I mean, this is just my opinion
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  Speaker 9: because this is the way I was raised.
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  Speaker 8: I respect other people.
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  Speaker 10: But no.
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  Speaker 9: Seven years old, that little girl is developing. He shouldn't
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  Speaker 9: even want to be in the shower with her. And
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  Speaker 9: when my kids will be in the bed, if we're
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  Speaker 9: all in the bed, trust me, my child is not
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  Speaker 9: in the middle at all.
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  Speaker 8: I think that's sick.
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  Speaker 9: This ain't that kind of world no more.
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  Speaker 11: So I watched that video, and the part you guys
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  Speaker 11: are leaving out is the part where she says he
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  Speaker 11: told her not to say anything to anyone about it.
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  Speaker 11: That alone tells you that he knows he's wrong.
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  Speaker 5: There is no way in the world.
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  Speaker 11: A grown man should be getting in the shower with
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  Speaker 11: any 11-year-old, especially his daughter. And I don't know where
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  Speaker 11: the mom is, but somebody need to let her know
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  Speaker 11: that's wrong if.
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  Speaker 5: She doesn't know he's doing it.
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  Speaker 8: He's wrong. Period.
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  Speaker 12: First off, a 9-year-old child deserves privacy and protection. That's period.
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  Speaker 12: Sleeping in the bed with dad, taking a nap, that's
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  Speaker 12: one thing, but taking a shower... crosses so many boundaries,
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  Speaker 12: and something like that, when it's happening, honestly, it needs
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  Speaker 12: to be reported, and it shouldn't be minimized. I couldn't
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  Speaker 12: even sit on a man's lap at that age. So
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  Speaker 12: my grandmother, we weren't having that. So getting in the
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  Speaker 12: bed or taking a shower with your dad naked, that
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  Speaker 12: is like never. I can't even imagine a time when
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  Speaker 12: that's okay.
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  Speaker 2: Give me a call. Let us know what you think.
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  Speaker 2: Is it good parenting or just a little weird?
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  Speaker 5: 877-242-2426.
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  Speaker 2: It's the D.L. Hughley Show.
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  Speaker 7: So the question we're asking, here's the scenario. I, 42 female,
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  Speaker 7: have been dating my boyfriend, 38 male, for over two years.
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  Speaker 7: He has three kids, two boys ages 13 and 11,
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  Speaker 7: and a daughter who is nine. When we first started dating,
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  Speaker 7: his daughter slept with him and his boys shared a room.
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  Speaker 7: I assumed it was a space issue. Plus, she was seven.
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  Speaker 7: I didn't think much of it. A couple months in,
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  Speaker 7: I'd be at his place during the kids' bedtime and
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  Speaker 7: he'd say, the kids have to shower before bed. Okay, normal.
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  Speaker 7: So I'd hear him run the shower for his daughter.
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  Speaker 7: He'd say, I have to hop in there with her.
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  Speaker 2: Good parenting or a little weird? Go right to the phones.
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  Speaker 10: Is Dio serious with this question? That's my thought. Is
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  Speaker 10: she serious with this question? Are they asking out of
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  Speaker 10: their minds? There is no way her little butt should
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  Speaker 10: ever see her daddy's dingleberries and stick. There's no way
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  Speaker 10: ever in life that it's not okay at no point.
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  Speaker 10: I mean, well, at nine or ten months when they
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  Speaker 10: don't even know what that is, yeah, it might be
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  Speaker 10: cute to get in the shower with daddy or mommy,
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  Speaker 10: but no, there ain't no way after that that baby
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  Speaker 10: was supposed to be exposed to that situation in no
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  Speaker 10: type of way. And you a woman and sat there
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  Speaker 10: and watched that and felt like now you want to
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  Speaker 10: pose a question? Lord Jesus.
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  Speaker 12: I don't know.
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  Speaker 10: I think we all have lost something in our lives.
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  Speaker 5: That is not right. As a former law enforcement officer,
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  Speaker 5: children's services should be immediately involved so that they can
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  Speaker 5: interview all the kids in that house. The daughter might
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  Speaker 5: not tell anybody else, but she will tell the brothers
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  Speaker 5: if something is going on. And that guy really needs
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  Speaker 5: some serious counseling.
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  Speaker 6: He's a pervert.
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  Speaker 10: He's a pervert to his own daughter.
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  Speaker 2: There is no way.
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  Speaker 5: She's seven years old.
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  Speaker 10: She has no business.
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  Speaker 9: Being in the presence of him being totally naked, taking
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  Speaker 9: a shower, really?
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  Speaker 10: He can go to jail for losing the serious acts
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  Speaker 10: of a child, of his own child. She needs to
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  Speaker 10: just leave him alone because he's an undercover pervert, and
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  Speaker 10: he seems to have an excuse for the things that
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  Speaker 10: he's doing, and it's not right.
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  Speaker 5: The gentleman, he sounds like a loving father, but he's
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  Speaker 5: a creep. That's it.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, shower with his daughter.
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  Speaker 5: Something wrong with him.
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  Speaker 6: That is the most outrageous thing. What type of weird-ass
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  Speaker 6: child abuse household is that? There is no way that
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  Speaker 6: this man needs to be taking a shower with his daughter,
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  Speaker 6: whether she's one years old, nine years old. This is
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  Speaker 6: some weird-ass shit. Child services need to be called on
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  Speaker 6: this man. There is clearly no boundaries available in that household.
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  Speaker 6: That's just some weird shit, and I call that child abuse.
• 9:14
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• 10:31
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• 11:03
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• 11:39
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• 11:59
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