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TikTok Lesbian INSISTS She's "Conventionally Attractive" (Gets Humbled!) · NORMAL GAYS Podcast

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  This girl made a video saying what it feels like to be a
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  conventionally attractive lesbian now.
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  People in the comments of that video were absolutely flaming.
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  Her She is not, in fact, a. Conventionally attractive.
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  Lesbian actually explain it in an easier way to understand
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  since she didn't get it. The people in your comments.
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  The standard. The standard was created by the
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  white man. They only think you're not
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  conventionally attractive because that's based on a white
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  male standard. No, actually it's based on the
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  lesbian standard, and we were evaluating it within that
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  context. Hey guys, welcome back to Normal
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  GAZE, where we take on insanity. I'm Brad Polumbo here with
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  Clarkson. What's?
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  Up guys, last weekend we reacted to crazy LGBT cringe on TikTok
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  for our members only do. I look non binary to you, yeah.
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  That type of, so make sure you join as a member.
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  And in the meantime, we're going to talk about a TikTok trend
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  that's kind of funny and sort of relevant to us.
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  Are are you a? Have you heard of the
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  conventionally attractive lesbian?
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  No. Oh God, how are you?
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  Like a conventionally attractive lesbian.
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  Trend where this girl went viral for saying, you know, as a
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  conventionally attractive lesbian and then everyone
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  roasted her first thinking she was conventionally attractive
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  and it became a sound on How are you literally a tik toker and
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  you literally scroll a lot. Yeah.
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  And yet you never know anything that's going.
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  On I'm telling you, my whole For You page is literally like just
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  Katy Perry. I don't know what.
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  Doesn't get old. Not really, no.
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  Oh my God, I kind of love. It all right?
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  Here's a video from Noah Glenn Carter on TikTok summarizing the
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  trend. So how does it feel to be a
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  conventionally attractive lesbian?
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  So you may have seen this meme that goes like.
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  They stir me while I crave you. So this girl made a video saying
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  what it feels like to be a conventionally attractive
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  lesbian. Now, people in the comments of
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  that video were absolutely flaming her, and the whole
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  situation just turned into this huge meme where people are
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  basically just like what it feels like to be a
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  conventionally attractive whatever, so.
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  She is not, in fact, a. Conventionally attractive.
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  Lesbian and she is beautiful in her own way, but she's not a
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  conventionally attractive words. Used to have meanings.
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  Yeah, conventionally attractive means that you are attractive
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  based on the beauty standard of. Let's.
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  Be correct. Well, I thought I I should
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  explain it in an easier way to understand since she didn't get
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  it. So yeah.
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  So basically there's a beauty standard that most people are
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  attracted to. And then there's you.
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  And that OK. That was that was me, this girl.
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  Didn't do too much. You may be outside of those
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  lines. It doesn't necessarily mean that
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  you're ugly. It just means you shouldn't
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  label yourself eventually attractive.
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  Be the type of people who are who like people who are not
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  conventionally attractive. That was a great PR response.
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  Politically correct? Yep.
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  You're not cute. Well, cute is.
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  I wouldn't say is is. People can be cute and not
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  conventionally attractive. Well, she's certainly not
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  conventionally attractive. Yeah, I will.
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  I will agree to the point that she's not conventionally
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  attractive, but this? Really did go too far where
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  everyone was dogging on this girl, clowning on this girl
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  who's not, like, a creator. She's just a Mirando.
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  Yeah. So it like any of these trends,
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  it does. They gets unhinged quick.
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  It goes out of control really fast.
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  And she posted a video about like, well, this didn't go well
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  for me. Oh, she did.
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  Yeah. So we're going to watch that
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  now. All right guys, I messed that up
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  a little. Actually, the video I'm about to
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  play for us is some woke chick ranting about this whole thing.
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  Then we'll get to the video where the girl makes a oh so I
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  went viral and talks about it. They.
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  Stir me while I crave. You as a black lesbian woman.
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  I hope this message reaches you, the people in your comments,
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  anybody who is disrespecting you, anybody who's saying that
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  your beauty doesn't meet the standard and all that standard.
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  The standard was created by the white man.
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  As a black lesbian woman, I don't base my standard of beauty
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  off of what a cisgender white man thinks.
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  I don't believe you do either. We got to stop letting people
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  with colonized minds get in here and get in here.
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  All of that, live your life, you're beautiful, you're
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  attractive. Anybody's standard that isn't
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  your own. I want you to continue on,
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  Thrive, get you some views out of this, turn this into an
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  opportunity if you can, flip the script on this because people
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  whose standard revolves around the white man are not people who
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  have your best interest in mind. And we'll just stop there.
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  You take care of yourself. She had me at the beginning.
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  She really did. I was like, you know what?
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  Yeah, fuck these people. Like, I get it.
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  She's not conventionally. She shouldn't attract.
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  I'm conventionally attractive. Yeah, but like picking that
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  apart and like doing all of that, I mean, I guess.
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  But also, I, I have to disagree. She's like, they only think
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  you're not conventionally attractive 'cause that's based
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  on a white male standard. No, actually it's based on the
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  lesbian standard and we were evaluating it within that
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  context, she said. A conventionally attractive
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  lesbian. We're all like, that's not a.
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  Conventionally attractive lesbian.
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  Also of course the bitch have beauty non binary.
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  But do you think lesbian beauty is different from like straight
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  like hetero beauty? Yes, yeah, absolutely.
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  Because I do think there's an argument to be made that there
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  is a that the beauty standard is set by the majority.
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  Sure. So you can make the case that
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  like, well, I don't know if men it's it's just like white
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  features are more desirable in a majority white country.
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  I would say. I think you can make that
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  argument very loosely. It's kind of a weak argument.
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  So I'm not necessarily disagreeing that like the beauty
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  standard may be influenced by the majority of said country
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  like, but it's still just like, I don't know, it's a little bit
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  of a weak but also. Not the beauty standard for her.
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  No, because she's a lesbian. And she's a white woman as well.
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  So it's like they judge, they judge, do judge white women by a
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  white. If she does standard, right, but
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  if she doesn't fit in the white person's beauty standard, then
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  she can still say standard because she's not a part of it.
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  sponsoring. And let's get back into the
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  episode, right? But she is a white person.
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  But she doesn't fit the the top tier of the.
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  So just don't claim to meet the standard, correct?
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  No, I'm not. I'm not.
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  I'm not making an argument saying she's right.
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  Nobody would be talking about her if she just said I think I'm
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  pretty. Or whatever.
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  Yeah, I mean, I kind of love delusion.
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  Well, we know, so I get it. But just be prepared 'cause
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  people all do not like delusion. So when you say something
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  delusional, just be ready. Like, I've, I've been there.
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  I say it all the time. Just be ready for a response.
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  Like those girls that go on the Whatever podcast and they're
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  like, you know, looking like. Themselves like 8 out of 10 and
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  they're like a four. They're looking like a 14
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  Wheeler truck and they're out here like I think I'm a nine.
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  Well, yeah, when you enter discussions talking about other
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  people's, like, you can have a very high view of yourself, but
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  if you're talking about other people's perception of you, you
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  kind of have to be realistic or else or you're just going to be
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  wrong or you need to just be happy sitting in your delusion,
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  which I fully support, I think. But you don't have to share.
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  With Mania is very camp, I think you should share it with the
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  class because it's entertaining. I love it and I think it's
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  great, but just be prepared. All the people and other people
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  don't think. It's great too.
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  Anyway, let's watch her video where she addresses all the
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  backlash she's got because I will.
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  Regardless of what I think of this girl it it clearly was way
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  disproportionate and ridiculous. She was getting memed on and
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  clowned on all over TikTok and it's just some poor girl above.
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  Of course I do. She loses sympathy points as
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  soon as the non binary thing like I.
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  Oh the girl is non binary. The original creator.
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  Apparently there's the mania. I mean the delusion is is there
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  from the jump. Not great.
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  Not, not. Yeah, OK, let's watch this.
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  Well I learned my lesson didn't I?
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  Y'all sure made an example out of me God damn it.
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  I mean the piercings don't help the whole like in cell TikTok
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  like taking this over and making me a meme.
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  I kind of expected that. I kind of knew that this was a
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  cringe post and I just did not expect it to blow up like it did
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  but once it did I got excited and stubborn and I thought it
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  would blow over. But genuinely this got really
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  scary. I talked about it on my YouTube
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  it's fine now but genuinely like the amount of women that wanted
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  to hop on this train and emulate and sell hate trains it was.
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  That's disturbing and you need to actually look at yourself.
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  A lot of beautiful women, a lot of ugly women came up to me and
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  said the most vile, insane SH. I don't know what that means
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  about how you view yourself, but it's not good.
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  OK doubt. I highly doubt a single person
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  approach her in person because of this TikTok.
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  Maybe she means her DMS? Yeah, she probably just means
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  yes, which I guess is the same as as telling someone and I'm
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  sure people have said some violin insane, but also like,
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  what do? You mean you expected it?
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  Then I feel less. Bad for you.
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  I yeah, that's true. But like, is it violent, insane,
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  vile, vile and insane to tell you like that you're not not
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  conventionally attractive. I mean, 'cause if you wanna, if
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  you wanna make. I'm sure they went a lot
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  further, but I'm just curious if she agrees that if you make a
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  definitive statement like that, that is public, Public and low
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  key. Like, I know it's smoking.
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  Like objectively untrue. It does.
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  I mean, I don't think it can be. Objective, but it's something of
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  a perception. But the standards are close to
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  objective. They're not objective, but they
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  they do become close to it because it's like a collective
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  agreement. And I just feel like if you're
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  going to make that statement, I would be curious if disagreeing
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  with it is vile to you. Because if that's true, then I
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  don't think you should be making said statements.
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  And I also believe that if she knew also in cell Tiktok is not
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  a thing. She's like, no, there's.
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  No non binary Tiktok. That's not in cell.
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  Non binary people are not involuntarily celibate.
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  I think they are. No, I think a lot.
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  Of them are. First off, the men are getting
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  with lots of women. That's true.
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  First off, like that creepy one we would just watch or they're
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  gay so. I'm wrong?
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  And then the females aren't getting any, but they just
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  because they don't want to. Yeah, not because they're.
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  It's unable to presence. Oh.
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  It is. Well, and they they just label
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  it asexual. Or whatever.
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  It's like, no, baby, you're on the highest, Joseph, you're not
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  asexual. That's incredibly offensive.
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  Anyway, do I feel bad for this girl?
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  A little bit, but not that much. And did this really need to be a
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  trend? Not really, no.
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  Like it sucks being trolled on the Internet but like.
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  Also, but she says I expected this.
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  Then I feel less bad because then you were more in the rage
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  baiting category and less in the innocent victim category.
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  And also, if everybody who is trolling you is like somebody
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  that you, or if like people disagreeing with you is your
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  version of trolling you, then I just don't really, I think
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  you're fine because you've demonized them in your head so
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  much that you really, you clearly shouldn't even care
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  about what they think. So I don't know whatever.
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  OK, we're going to read a few member comments before we
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  conclude this episode. Do become a channel member and
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  whatever on air. Somebody says, have either of
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  you seen or read Dune? I think Brad would like it
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  because of all the politics and Clark would like it because of
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  the commentary. A religion, a spirituality, part
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  of the yawn. We've been going at it for a
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  while. That's what she said.
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  Sorry, that was too good. I.
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  Loved the movies because I love Timothy Chalamet but also they
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  were really cool. I did read the Dune the first
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  book and I liked it, but it's extremely dense and a little
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  tough to read because there's so much going on.
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  So it's a little dense of a read.
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  So I wasn't a huge fan of it and I did not keep going.
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  No me, no read well, no read book.
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  I know I'm. Kidding.
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  No, I've never seen it. OK.
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  So that answers that. You might like it though,
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  because it is. It does a lot of commentary on
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  spirituality. Maybe, yeah, maybe I'll read it.
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  Not a question, but wanted to tell Clarkson that I have 7
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  kids. As of last year, we are
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  officially empty nesters. None of my kids went to college.
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  They each chose jobs that didn't require it.
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  My oldest daughter is now in nursing school, though she's 26,
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  and each of them have good paying jobs.
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  All four of them are making six figures, one of those being our
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  youngest son, 22, who ranches with us and they're able to save
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  all of his wife's salary from teaching.
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  I say that all because a part of me always wanted to give you a
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  hug when the no college teases begins.
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  You are doing great in life. Love from South Dakota to both
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  of you. Heart emoji.
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  You're going to hug Brad after you just said his teases are are
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  bullying me and like, don't hug him.
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  Hug me. No, that's very sweet.
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  I I take it with a grain of salt, like I know I'm very
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  successful regardless of college.
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  I always tell you that though. I know you do.
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  Brad does. Does say that and I always point
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  out how many dumb as people have.
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  These degrees, I mean, I'm fully aware that people are very
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  stupid, but I just think I would benefit from continuing my
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  education. I think I agree, so I hope.
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  Pretty much. I really hope you get a pronoun
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  circle. If I get that, I will actually
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  I'm going to. There's going to be problems.
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  But probably it won't happen where you're going.
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  No, probably not. OK next comment.
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  Am I crazy or are most if not all non binary identifying
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  people females? Is there a trend going on or
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  something? You're not crazy.
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  No. Are they all females?
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  Most. I'd say probably like 70%, yeah.
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  Yeah, yeah, vast majority. And then the rest are just like
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  gay men, gay bottoms, or creepy heterosexuals like that one dude
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  from. The queer They're more like
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  performative in cells. Yeah, or not in cells.
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  Performative or like if they were like hypersexual cells.
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  Well, in cells women are still hyper straight or hypersexual.
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  Maybe. I just think they're like
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  performative men that are very like kind of weird and maybe
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  play video games a lot and don't.
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  Shower not too much on the video games.
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  You don't have to be non binary just to like video games.
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  And some of us miss a day once in a while.
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  It's not the end of the world. Are you guys Star Wars fans and
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  if So what is your favorite Star Wars movie slash TV show?
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  I'm personally a huge fan of Revenge of the Sith and Clone
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  Wars. I do like Star Wars, I like the
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  prequels, I'm a prequel guy. I also think Hayden Christensen
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  is was at least hot. The guy who played Anakin.
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  An odd question and might be too personal, but at what point did
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  you really realize that you were gay and not bi or questioning
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  etcetera? I feel like.
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  Deep down, you know, there's like two different they like
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  there's like, you know, and then.
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  There's acceptance. Can I change this?
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  And then it's acceptance. So I would say the acceptance
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  part was when I moved to Miami and finally got surrounded by
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  hot men that I was like, oh, I'm going to accept this.
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  So I accepted it. That's when I was like 16.
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  Yeah, for me it was experiences with the high school girlfriend.
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  I was like Nope. See, that didn't do it for me,
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  even when I lost my virginity to a girl.
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  You weren't like actively grossed out by it.
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  No, because I just looked at it like it's better than a hand.
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  That's just not how I look at things, but.
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  I'm sorry to objectify the girls that I was with, but that's the
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  way the cookie crumbled. That's why you need to be with
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  Bonnie. She won't mind.
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  Bonnie won't. Care.
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  Bonnie won't care. OK guys, become a member if you
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