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COUPLES THERAPY: Valentine's weekend with Payton and Kadeem · Johnjay & Rich On Demand

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  Speaker 1: Broadcasting live across the world right now.
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  Speaker 2: This is the John Jay and Rich radio program. A
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  Speaker 2: while since we've had Kadema on the Couple's podcast. This
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  Speaker 2: whole thing is literally supposed to be couples but since
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  Speaker 2: we've been kicking it with memis, she's low key taking
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  Speaker 2: your spot.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, she's better at it.
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  Speaker 2: No she's not. Yeah, she'd keep her no, but she
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  Speaker 2: she has fund to doctor and get her opinions on
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  Speaker 2: things and her stories on things. But I'm not gonna
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  Speaker 2: lie to you. I am exhausted. I just got back
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  Speaker 2: from the Lady Gaga concert and it was such a
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  Speaker 2: good show. It felt like it was like a like
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  Speaker 2: a one woman show. Low key, what's your favorite concert
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  Speaker 2: that you've ever been to? Uh?
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  Speaker 1: Probably did Drake?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, when she's perform to twenty one Savage. Yeah, that
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  Speaker 2: was the same exact venue that Lady Gaga was at,
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  Speaker 2: Desert Diamond Arena and Dale. But the difference was is
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  Speaker 2: Drake had his show like that big square in the
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  Speaker 2: middle of the arena so everyone could see. It wasn't
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  Speaker 2: like that for Lady Gaga. She had a long stage
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  Speaker 2: that came out into the crowd, but it wasn't like
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  Speaker 2: like a big square writ in the middle. You know
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  Speaker 2: what I'm talking about you, I mean, you barely remember
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  Speaker 2: that night. I'm sure pull thee. No, that was a
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  Speaker 2: super fun show. No, we were talking about it in
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  Speaker 2: the car meet my brother Jalen and his boyfriend Alex.
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  Speaker 2: We all went and we were just talking about some
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  Speaker 2: of our favorite shows that we've been to, and that one,
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  Speaker 2: I want to say, like it got a solid eight
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  Speaker 2: eight for me. It was a good show. Genuinely.
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  Speaker 1: It's good you go to a lot of shows.
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  Speaker 2: I know. I've been booked in busy lately. This month
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  Speaker 2: of February, I feel like has completely kicked my ass.
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  Speaker 2: Like earlier this morning, so I had basketball practice and
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  Speaker 2: we went a little bit earlier because the girls had
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  Speaker 2: that pre what's that called the watch party or whatever
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  Speaker 2: it's like on the news, and we found out which
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  Speaker 2: seed we are. So we're number ten in the open division,
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  Speaker 2: which is super dope. So I had to be at
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  Speaker 2: practice in the morning, and then from practice, I had
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  Speaker 2: to go to the Arizona Renaissance Festival. I was there
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  Speaker 2: for like four hours, just having a great time. I
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  Speaker 2: got all dressed up and then after that went straight
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  Speaker 2: to the lady Gaga concert. And then now I got
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  Speaker 2: to finish packing for my trip to New Orleans that
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  Speaker 2: I leave for tomorrow.
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  Speaker 1: You're doing PA got to pack most stuff, I.
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  Speaker 2: Know, well unpacking some of your stuff because I don't
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  Speaker 2: want you to have to check a bag since you're
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  Speaker 2: only coming for a couple of days. But I'm pretty
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  Speaker 2: much packed for the most part. I just got to
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  Speaker 2: do like the little things, you know. So I'll probably
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  Speaker 2: wake up early tomorrow and get it done.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, you'll be fun.
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  Speaker 2: I am kind of salty though, that you're not wearing
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  Speaker 2: your your suit that we got you for Rich's wedding,
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  Speaker 2: that you're not wearing it to the wedding.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, I don't need to wear it.
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  Speaker 2: But I feel like you should. Like this is a
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  Speaker 2: wedding in New Orleans, like it's literally on French Quarter,
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  Speaker 2: like it's gonna be like this is gonna be a
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  Speaker 2: nice wedding. You don't want to wear your suit? Okay,
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  Speaker 2: I mean, I'm.
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  Speaker 1: Just I mean what I'm I just I just think
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  Speaker 1: that over and over it's not gonna change.
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  Speaker 2: I just feel like you should wear it, but it's
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  Speaker 2: not gonna change whatever anyway. So I'm super excited to
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  Speaker 2: get to Mardi Gras. But I'm not gonna lie. I
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  Speaker 2: am not that I'm dreading this trip because I'm not,
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  Speaker 2: because I'm so excited about it. I've been planning it
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  Speaker 2: for months. I'm going with my cousins. My cousin Shannon,
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  Speaker 2: she's getting married on the twenty first Saturday, the twenty first,
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  Speaker 2: so we're all going out the week before to basically
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  Speaker 2: just hang out and do a big cousin's trip. But
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  Speaker 2: I am like already exhausted just looking at the itinerary,
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  Speaker 2: and also also I don't need to see food, Like
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  Speaker 2: apparently it's gonna be lots of gumbo and raw fish
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  Speaker 2: where in New Orleans that's like what they're known for.
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  Speaker 2: And Beignet's like okay, So Monday, we're doing an alligator
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  Speaker 2: hunting like excursion and Lonna del Ray's husband works for
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  Speaker 2: this airboat company, so we're really hoping that he's there
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  Speaker 2: and we get him because that would be super dope.
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  Speaker 2: Tuesday's Marty groth Wednesday is like rest recovery, and then
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  Speaker 2: it's ash Wednesday, so we're gonna go to Mass. And
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  Speaker 2: then Thursday that's when like all the rest of the
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  Speaker 2: family comes in, like my mom, my, dad, memme, and
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  Speaker 2: then all our aunts and uncles and other cousins come in,
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  Speaker 2: and then you come in Friday, and then Saturday's the wedding,
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  Speaker 2: and we come back home Sunday.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, I can't wait to get this over with.
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  Speaker 2: Why do you say that, though, Like, do you just
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  Speaker 2: not think it's gonna be a fun trip?
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  Speaker 1: No, I just don't like traveling, Okay, but.
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  Speaker 2: Once you get there, it only sucks because you have
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  Speaker 2: to travel there by yourself.
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  Speaker 1: For the first part, I travel by myself.
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  Speaker 2: What what.
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  Speaker 3: I mean?
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  Speaker 1: What do you mean?
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  Speaker 2: What? Why would you rather travel by yourself?
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  Speaker 1: You were not joking, I'm joking.
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  Speaker 2: I'm joking whenever, bro, I think it's gonna be a
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  Speaker 2: really really fun time. But yeah, but I'm not gonna lie.
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  Speaker 2: I am beat beat down. But it's gonna be a
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  Speaker 2: really fun week. And I'm excited to make all the
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  Speaker 2: content and post all the pictures and do all that jazz.
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  Speaker 2: But it's just been a really long, long month. Like
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  Speaker 2: we're halfway through February. The first week of February was
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  Speaker 2: the Open. That was so much fun. But then that
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  Speaker 2: weekend of the Open, I went dress shopping. Your mom
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  Speaker 2: was in town. That was I'm not I was pretty
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  Speaker 2: stressed out on that Saturday before we went to breakfast,
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  Speaker 2: or before we did breakfast at the house because I
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  Speaker 2: was stressed out because we were supposed to do breakfast
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  Speaker 2: at eight thirty and nobody was here. I was like,
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  Speaker 2: I don't know, I just don't like, I don't like
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  Speaker 2: it would be born on time.
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  Speaker 1: Well that's not the first or the last time, so
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  Speaker 1: I know.
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  Speaker 2: But I was pretty stressed. But that was actually like
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  Speaker 2: a really fun day. And it was super fun because
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  Speaker 2: your mom went to the birds Nest with me, She
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  Speaker 2: went to Nelly John Rum Decress. We had a blast.
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  Speaker 2: But you saw some pictures on Instagram of me trying
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  Speaker 2: on dresses. Were there any that you were like, oh,
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  Speaker 2: I like this a lot? Or no, I mean no,
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  Speaker 2: so like no because you don't like them, or no
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  Speaker 2: because you don't think of it.
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  Speaker 1: I mean I didn't have a like, oh, I think
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  Speaker 1: where it is okay?
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  Speaker 2: So like when you saw the pictures where you like
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  Speaker 2: emotional when you saw me in a wedding dress, like
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  Speaker 2: so you just were like, oh, there's another post of
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  Speaker 2: wearing some dresses.
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  Speaker 3: Like you're asking me questions that you already know to answer.
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  Speaker 2: I want to know.
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  Speaker 3: We've talked about this, we have, just want me to
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  Speaker 3: say it so other people can hear.
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  Speaker 2: No, we have not talked about it.
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  Speaker 1: Yes we are, So you didn't.
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  Speaker 2: You just looked at that post and you're like, whatever,
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  Speaker 2: double time? What I mean I didn't show you the
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  Speaker 2: pictures before I posted. Then none of my top dresses
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  Speaker 2: are in that post.
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  Speaker 1: But I know I've seen. I've seen them all, seen
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  Speaker 1: all what pictures of what the top dresses?
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  Speaker 2: No, you haven't. You're lying, bro, You're over there, capin
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  Speaker 2: right now. You're so full of it. I really did
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  Speaker 2: you really did not? And I cried case and I
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  Speaker 2: are over We were just lying. But that's beside the point.
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  Speaker 2: Speaking of lying, Lincoln Lawyer, you finally got the Netflix,
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  Speaker 2: so can you and I. We've been in this room
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  Speaker 2: and the Netflix hasn't been working because it says that
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  Speaker 2: the account isn't in the same household. But literally, the
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  Speaker 2: person that owns the account is fifty feet away, So
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  Speaker 2: what do you mean we're not in the same household? Anyway,
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  Speaker 2: we thought we were going to have to get it
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  Speaker 2: figured out, and we went to go turn on the
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  Speaker 2: Lincoln Lawyer and it let us write in and apparently
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  Speaker 2: you watched Lincoln Lawyer while I fell asleep last night.
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  Speaker 2: That's just wrong. That's kind of a red flag, like
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  Speaker 2: the fact that you willingly watched a show that we
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  Speaker 2: watched together while I fell asleep, Like.
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  Speaker 1: I thought you were the whole time. I didn't know
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  Speaker 1: you were asleep.
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  Speaker 2: No, that's not No, that's.
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  Speaker 1: When I seen you asleep, I turned it off.
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  Speaker 2: That's not true, because you asked me one time. You
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  Speaker 2: were like, I can turn it off if you're ready
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  Speaker 2: to go to bed.
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  Speaker 1: You said he was check.
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  Speaker 2: What if I was just they're dead? You wouldn't know
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  Speaker 2: because you until looked at you.
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  Speaker 1: Whatever.
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  Speaker 2: Bro, that's so your breathing changes when you're sleep. You
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  Speaker 2: knew I was knocked out. You just wanted to see
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  Speaker 2: what was going to happen to Mickey Holler.
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  Speaker 1: Let me tell you, no, that's fake.
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  Speaker 2: You watched the whole thing. No, oh, I don't believe you. Okay,
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  Speaker 2: But what's your thoughts on the Lincoln Lawyer, Like he's
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  Speaker 2: like working on his own case. I don't know if
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  Speaker 2: I like it.
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  Speaker 1: You haven't even watched you watched one episode?
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  Speaker 2: Well, yeah, and I'm saying I like him. Working on
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  Speaker 2: other people's cases. That's like Olivia Benson trying to get
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  Speaker 2: herself out of jail.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know who that is.
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  Speaker 2: And we're about to get married, and you don't know
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  Speaker 2: who Olivia Benson is. Law and Order SVU is wrong.
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  Speaker 1: I'm supposed to know who that love law order.
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  Speaker 2: Law and order is the only.
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  Speaker 1: Reason I never but I've never seen watch.
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  Speaker 2: But one of the reasons, yes you have. But one
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  Speaker 2: of the reasons I went literally to school for criminal
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  Speaker 2: justice because I love law.
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  Speaker 1: Order so much. Mm hmm.
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  Speaker 2: But you don't like to watch shows like that, Like okay,
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  Speaker 2: I mean, I guess not. You don't like to watch
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  Speaker 2: documentaries because you're like, those are real people.
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  Speaker 1: Why are you just like telling my business.
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  Speaker 2: I'm telling your business in your opinion, it's honestly a
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  Speaker 2: valid opinion.
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  Speaker 1: Well, it's an opinion that I wanted private.
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  Speaker 2: Why is that a private opinion because.
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  Speaker 1: It's my it's coming out of it's coming out of
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  Speaker 1: my mouth.
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  Speaker 2: I don't feel like that is a private opinion. I
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  Speaker 2: feel like that's how are you.
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  Speaker 1: Going to tell me what I'm saying?
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  Speaker 3: How you gonna tell me what I'm what I put
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  Speaker 3: out into the world And where I put it out
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  Speaker 3: to like you're in control of it, that you're right.
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  Speaker 2: You're right. You want me to take it back?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I honestly, I mean it's a valid now everybody
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  Speaker 3: sees what I deal with.
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  Speaker 1: Whatever, And you mix up my words?
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  Speaker 2: How do I make a few words.
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  Speaker 3: I'm just saying, you do when you blurt out my business,
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  Speaker 3: you add a little your own.
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  Speaker 1: Little twist to it.
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  Speaker 2: So now you're calling calling me out over here.
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  Speaker 1: That's what you do.
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  Speaker 2: Well on that note, good night. I don't think we
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  Speaker 2: can end on that note. Actually when you rub my
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  Speaker 2: feet all right here, No, seriously tell us your take
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  Speaker 2: on thinking lawyer that we can leave. I don't have
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  Speaker 2: a take you like, okay, so.
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  Speaker 1: No, this ain't the last podcasts.
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  Speaker 2: No, you'll be back in a couple of weeks.
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  Speaker 1: Well I thought your grandma is going on. Yeah, but
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  Speaker 1: the fans liked her.
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  Speaker 2: Why do you call her my grandma? Like? You don't
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  Speaker 2: call her men?
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  Speaker 1: I don't I say your grandma all the time. And
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  Speaker 1: you know that.
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  Speaker 3: So cut this out, like it's like, why do you like?
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  Speaker 3: Why do you do stuff like that?
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  Speaker 1: See that's what I'm the blurred the stuff out anyway.
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  Speaker 2: Well, actually enough Yeah, and you're talking too much kidding.
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  Speaker 2: I gotta get to pack him you
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  Speaker 1: I already said, good nay, okay,