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Stop Letting Comparison Shake You · Beyond Limits With Olivia Marie

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  SPEAKER_00: Welcome to Beyond Limits, the podcast designed to unlock your highest potential with powerful strategies, energetic frequencies, and mindset shifts to create a limitless life.
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  SPEAKER_00: Hello, beautiful humans, and welcome back to another episode of Beyond Limits.
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  SPEAKER_00: And today I have a short but important one.
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  SPEAKER_00: And it's about comparison.
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  SPEAKER_00: And again, I see so many women, so many female entrepreneurs get stuck in this comparison issue.
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  SPEAKER_00: Now, if you haven't listened to the previous episode called Get Out of the Conviction Collapse Cycle, go listen to that.
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  SPEAKER_00: But I want to talk about comparison because it's an aspect that really makes the conviction collapse cycle worse.
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  SPEAKER_00: And it's something that I see derail and distract a lot of entrepreneurs.
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  SPEAKER_00: Right?
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  SPEAKER_00: So this is what tends to happen.
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  SPEAKER_00: You're feeling a little off, sales feel a little bit slow, and then you see it.
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  SPEAKER_00: Karen's sales are at the wazoo.
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  SPEAKER_00: She's celebrating her 500K month.
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  SPEAKER_00: And with every post you read and every story you watch, your conviction dilutes even more.
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  SPEAKER_00: And instead of staying rooted in your magic, you enter a comparison spiral.
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  SPEAKER_00: You start tweaking your strategy, switching your messaging, and trying to mimic what seems to be working for her.
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  SPEAKER_00: And in doing that, you dilute the one thing that makes people want to buy from you.
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  SPEAKER_00: Your unique magic.
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  SPEAKER_00: Comparison is like pouring water into a rich, perfectly brewed cup of coffee.
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  SPEAKER_00: What was once a bold, delicious, irresistible becomes watered down, bland, forgettable.
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  SPEAKER_00: Or what's worse, and this is what happens, you start mixing in so many different things that people don't even know who the hell you are anymore.
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  unknown: Right?
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  SPEAKER_00: You start putting so many things in your coffee.
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  SPEAKER_00: Ooh, I'm gonna put in some collagen and some cinnamon and some MCT oil and maybe some jam and almond butter.
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  SPEAKER_00: And why not like bone broth?
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  SPEAKER_00: And then it's like, you don't even know what the hell cup of coffee we're drinking.
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  SPEAKER_00: What is this?
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  SPEAKER_00: People don't even know what it is anymore.
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  SPEAKER_00: They don't see you, let alone feel your conviction.
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  SPEAKER_00: Right?
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  SPEAKER_00: The real magic happens when you stop trying to mimic someone else and anchor into the conviction of who the hell you are.
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  SPEAKER_00: And hi, my name is Liv.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm here to remember and help you remember who the hell you are.
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  SPEAKER_00: Sorry, my dog's barking.
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  SPEAKER_00: UPS.
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  SPEAKER_00: Hi, nice to meet you.
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  SPEAKER_00: Let's build unshakable conviction together.
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  SPEAKER_00: This is why conviction is so important.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because this comparison, oh, it dilutes so many women's magic.
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  SPEAKER_00: And then everyone kind of like looks the same, but you don't stand out.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I want you to think about the people who stand out to you, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: The people you stand out on on social media that you love.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's because they are rooted in who the hell they are.
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  SPEAKER_00: They're not trying to be anyone else.
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  SPEAKER_00: They do things differently.
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  SPEAKER_00: Their content looks different, like their voice, you can tell.
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  SPEAKER_00: What's even worse?
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  SPEAKER_00: Oh my God, when people outsource their voice to Chat GPT, I can tell instantly.
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  SPEAKER_00: Instantly that your caption was not written by you.
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  SPEAKER_00: I do this with my clients, and I'll call them out in Rich and Regulate CEO.
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  SPEAKER_00: We go over, like, you know, building convicted messaging, and we do that also in the power program.
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  SPEAKER_00: And we're gonna be doing it in Unstoppable.
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  SPEAKER_00: We have like a live workshop where I'm going to be helping you anchor into conviction.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'll call you out.
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  SPEAKER_00: I see it.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm like, this was not written by you.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm like, I don't feel you.
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  SPEAKER_00: I I know this is not you.
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  SPEAKER_00: I can scroll social media, I'm like, this is not you.
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  SPEAKER_00: This is not you.
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  SPEAKER_00: Like, this is she's trying to be this person, or she's like saying what she thinks she needs to say, or it's chat GBT.
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  SPEAKER_00: I can tell instantly.
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  SPEAKER_00: You want more sales to flow with ease, you want them to feel light as a feather?
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  SPEAKER_00: Stop letting comparison shake your conviction.
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  SPEAKER_00: Stop diluting your magic.
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  SPEAKER_00: Stop forgetting who the hell you are.
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  SPEAKER_00: And start coming back to the fact that you are actually unstoppable.
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  SPEAKER_00: Come back to your work, your unique magic, and why you are amazing at what you are, or what you do and who you are.
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  SPEAKER_00: And when you're ready to build unshakeable conviction, so solid that no amount of scrolling or story watching can shake it, I'm the woman you hire.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'll see you guys in the next episode.