Latest / Sri Aurobindo Studies / A Positive Focus Is More Productive Than a Negative Fixation for Spiritual Growth
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- 0:00We go wherever we focus our attention.
- 0:04If we focus on difficulties, we wallow in those difficulties.
- 0:10If we focus our attention on growth and development, then we
- 0:14draw to ourselves those opportunities that support that
- 0:17growth. There are examples.
- 0:20Certain traditions make the rooting out of what they
- 0:23consider to be sins of the flesh through extremes of discipline
- 0:28or even self punishment through use of whips, hair shirts and
- 0:32the Solis. We can observe the results in
- 0:35history as some of these same groups turned their attention on
- 0:39others and undertook radical means of action to dominate and
- 0:44control others. Including as an example, things
- 0:47like the Holy Inquisition where anyone not adhering to the
- 0:51specific faith was haunted down, tortured, and in many cases
- 0:56burned to death. Clearly the individuals carrying
- 1:00out these actions were so fixated on the negative side of
- 1:04finding and rooting out sin that they had little time or mind to
- 1:09try to make life better through positive growth and efforts.
- 1:14While this represents only a small fraction of the religious
- 1:18or spiritual tradition or practice, it highlights for us
- 1:22the difference between a fixation on the negative versus
- 1:26a focus on the positive. Blaming oneself and by extension
- 1:31others, does not move the evolutionary effort forward as
- 1:36much as simply turning the attention to the truth and
- 1:40result we aspire for. There is of course a place for
- 1:46self examination and an effort to remove weaknesses or focuses
- 1:50that hold one back from achieving the evolutionary step
- 1:53forward. This should not, however, become
- 1:57an obsession in lieu of the turning of attention upwards
- 2:00towards the light, harmony, truth and love that emanates
- 2:06from that higher consciousness. In many cases, as we see in a
- 2:11normal growth process of the external being, the shift of
- 2:15focus automatically results in past habits or activities
- 2:20falling away. Naturally, when we grow out of
- 2:24childhood, we leave our childish pursuits behind for the most
- 2:28part. A disciple asks, is blaming
- 2:34oneself a good method of progressing?
- 2:37The mother replies quote No, not necessarily.
- 2:43It may be useful. It is indeed useful from time to
- 2:46time in order to get out of the illusion of one's own
- 2:49perfection. But one wastes much energy and
- 2:53self criticism. It is much better to use the
- 2:57same energy in making progress, a concrete progress, something
- 3:02more useful. For example, if you have
- 3:06thoughts which are unpleasant, ugly, vulgar and disturbing, and
- 3:10you say, ah, ah, how intolerable I am, I still have such
- 3:15thoughts, what a nuisance it is. It would be much better use this
- 3:20very energy simply to do this gesture and drive away the
- 3:25thoughts. And this is only the first step.
- 3:30The second is to try to have other thoughts, to take interest
- 3:34in something else, either read or reflect, but in any case try
- 3:39to fill your mind with something more interesting.
- 3:42To use your energy in constructing rather than in
- 3:46destroying. It is of course necessary from
- 3:50time to time. To recognize one's faults, it is
- 3:54altogether indispensable, but to dwell too much upon them is not
- 3:59necessary. What is necessary is to use all
- 4:03one's energy in order to build up the qualities one wants to
- 4:07have and do what one wants to do.
- 4:10This is much more important and quote reference Srioro Bindu and
- 4:17the Mother, Looking from Within, Chapter 2.
- 4:21Looking at Oneself and Others, pages 40 to 41.