Latest / THE BELIEVER'S CHURCH | Let’s Build Our Faith Together / Friends and Foes in the Church, Part 2 (3 John 9–14) John MacArthur
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- 0:01Speaker 1: Let's open our Bibles tonight. We have a little time
- 0:03Speaker 1: before we're going to go outside. And I do want
- 0:06Speaker 1: to finish up our study of 3 John. I've been
- 0:10Speaker 1: asked several times, since this is a special night, are
- 0:12Speaker 1: you going to do something special? And I said, sure,
- 0:15Speaker 1: I'm going to do the rest of 3 John. How
- 0:17Speaker 1: special can you get? I mean that's where we are
- 0:21Speaker 1: and I'd like to finish this little epistle. It has
- 0:24Speaker 1: been a really wonderful blessing. for me personally to go
- 0:30Speaker 1: back through 1, 2 and 3 John and I think
- 0:32Speaker 1: you'll find this a really compelling study. 3 John and
- 0:38Speaker 1: we're going to be looking at the final half of
- 0:41Speaker 1: this book, verses 9 through 14. Let me read it
- 0:47Speaker 1: to you. I wrote something to the church, but Diotrephes
- 0:50Speaker 1: who loves to be first among them does not accept
- 0:53Speaker 1: what we say. For this reason, if I come, I
- 0:56Speaker 1: will call attention to his deeds which he does. unjustly
- 0:59Speaker 1: accusing us with wicked words and not satisfied with this,
- 1:03Speaker 1: neither does He Himself receive the brethren. And He forbids
- 1:07Speaker 1: those who desire to do so and puts them out
- 1:10Speaker 1: of the church. Beloved, do not imitate what is evil,
- 1:16Speaker 1: but what is good. The one who does good is
- 1:19Speaker 1: of God, the one who does evil has not seen God.
- 1:23Speaker 1: Demetrius has received a good testimony from everyone and from
- 1:27Speaker 1: the truth itself and we also bear witness and you
- 1:30Speaker 1: know that our witness is true. I had many things
- 1:33Speaker 1: to write to you but I'm not willing to write
- 1:36Speaker 1: them to you with pen and ink. But I hope
- 1:39Speaker 1: to see you shortly and we shall speak face to face.
- 1:43Speaker 1: Peace be to you. The friends greet you. Greet the
- 1:46Speaker 1: friends by name. Now the main character in this section
- 1:51Speaker 1: of this little epistle. is a man named Diotrephes followed
- 1:55Speaker 1: at the end by another man named Demetrius. But for
- 1:58Speaker 1: the most part, Diotrephes occupies our attention and you might
- 2:02Speaker 1: even title this section, The Man Who Loved the Preeminence.
- 2:05Speaker 1: There have always been such people who love the preeminence,
- 2:09Speaker 1: who are proud and selfish and self-centered, who seek the
- 2:14Speaker 1: places of power and the places of fame and the
- 2:17Speaker 1: places of prestige. In fact, the Scriptures literally abound with
- 2:22Speaker 1: such characters in this category and I thought it might
- 2:25Speaker 1: be instructive for us to just go back and meet
- 2:28Speaker 1: some of this hall of infamy, people who would never
- 2:34Speaker 1: show up in the eleventh chapter of Hebrews, that's for sure.
- 2:40Speaker 1: These are the anti-heroes. Genesis chapter 4 introduces us to
- 2:44Speaker 1: such a man by the name of Lamech in Genesis
- 2:48Speaker 1: chapter We meet him in verse 23 in regard to
- 2:53Speaker 1: this particular perspective. And Lamech said to his wives, Ada
- 2:58Speaker 1: and Zillah... he had already broken God's commandment by being a polygamist... but
- 3:04Speaker 1: he said to his wives, Ada and Zillah, listen to
- 3:06Speaker 1: my voice, you wives of Lamech, give heed to my speech.
- 3:11Speaker 1: For I have killed a man for wounding me and
- 3:14Speaker 1: a boy for striking me, if Cain is avenged sevenfold
- 3:20Speaker 1: Then Lamech seventy-sevenfold. This is the first bully in the Bible.
- 3:27Speaker 1: Lamech composed his own song here. It is Hebrew poetry.
- 3:32Speaker 1: I have slain a young man who merely wounded me,
- 3:36Speaker 1: a young man who merely hurt me. God may take
- 3:40Speaker 1: care of Cain sevenfold, but I'll take care of myself seventy-sevenfold.
- 3:49Speaker 1: Here is an illustration of blasphemous arrogance. The first murderer, Cain,
- 3:58Speaker 1: had produced a grandson who was also a murderer. The
- 4:03Speaker 1: first murder was the result of envy. This one was
- 4:07Speaker 1: the result of pride. And what you have there is
- 4:11Speaker 1: a picture of Lamech strutting before his two wives and
- 4:15Speaker 1: pontificating about his bloody deed. And how able he is
- 4:21Speaker 1: to defend himself even to the 77th limit. Interestingly enough,
- 4:30Speaker 1: Lamech was the seventh in the line from Adam. And
- 4:36Speaker 1: God calls Lamech's cousin, Enoch, the seventh. In the book
- 4:44Speaker 1: of Jude, verse 14, it says,' Enoch in the seventh
- 4:48Speaker 1: generation from Adam prophesied saying,' Behold, the Lord came with
- 4:53Speaker 1: many thousands of His holy ones to execute judgment upon
- 4:57Speaker 1: all and to convict all the ungodly of their ungodly
- 5:02Speaker 1: deeds which they've done in an ungodly way and of
- 5:05Speaker 1: all the harsh things which ungodly sinners have spoken against Him.' Well,
- 5:11Speaker 1: we must conclude then that Lamech was an object of
- 5:17Speaker 1: Enoch's testimony since Enoch lived in the same generation. Lamech
- 5:22Speaker 1: was one of those ungodly people who did ungodly deeds
- 5:29Speaker 1: in an ungodly way and spoke harsh things against God.
- 5:36Speaker 1: Lamech was a hard sinner and he flaunted his sin.
- 5:42Speaker 1: against God. He viewed himself as above God. Another such
- 5:50Speaker 1: proud man we find in Genesis chapter 10. This man's
- 5:57Speaker 1: name is Nimrod and it says in verse 9, he
- 5:59Speaker 1: was a mighty hunter before the Lord, therefore it is said,
- 6:03Speaker 1: like Nimrod, a mighty hunter before the Lord. And the
- 6:08Speaker 1: beginning of his kingdom was Babel and Erek and Akkad.
- 6:12Speaker 1: and Kelna in the land of Shinar. Now when you
- 6:17Speaker 1: read verse 9, he was a mighty hunter before the Lord,
- 6:19Speaker 1: that's a rather weak translation, it doesn't seem to carry
- 6:24Speaker 1: what the Hebrew carries. His story is really the story,
- 6:28Speaker 1: a horrible story of desperate rebellion against God by one
- 6:31Speaker 1: who wanted to be preeminent. Cush begat Nimrod, the Hebrew says,
- 6:38Speaker 1: and he began to be a tyrant in the land.
- 6:44Speaker 1: He was a terrible subjugator, defiant, says the Hebrew, before
- 6:49Speaker 1: the face of Jehovah. Saddam Hussein isn't the first by
- 6:52Speaker 1: any means of such Middle Eastern tyrants. And they all
- 6:59Speaker 1: have their little day and are brought to an end.
- 7:05Speaker 1: But Nimrod appears to be the first of such dictators.
- 7:09Speaker 1: The first one who brought together an organized rebellion against God.
- 7:14Speaker 1: And Nimrod wanted to be first and it all ended
- 7:19Speaker 1: up in Babel and Babylon, the mother of all false religion.
- 7:23Speaker 1: It can all be traced back to Nimrod. And you
- 7:27Speaker 1: could also go to the book of Judges and the
- 7:31Speaker 1: ninth chapter and you would meet another one of these
- 7:34Speaker 1: kinds of people by the name of Abimelech, the son
- 7:38Speaker 1: of Jerubbaal. named after Baal and went to Shechem. He
- 7:43Speaker 1: was the half-breed son of Gideon. And he wanted to
- 7:49Speaker 1: be king, did Abimelech. He had these tremendous aspirations to
- 7:54Speaker 1: become king and he sought power and prominence and preeminence
- 7:59Speaker 1: so that he gathered together all of his brothers to
- 8:03Speaker 1: support him in his effort to be king and then
- 8:06Speaker 1: killed them all. committing atrocities in order that He might
- 8:10Speaker 1: eliminate any other potential claimant to His throne. God dealt
- 8:19Speaker 1: with him in a most bizarre way. He did ascend
- 8:23Speaker 1: to that power that He wanted. Three years later, however,
- 8:28Speaker 1: He was trying to smash down the tower while His
- 8:33Speaker 1: army was attacking an enemy at Thebes. And there was
- 8:35Speaker 1: a tower at the place. While he was there with
- 8:39Speaker 1: his army attacking Thebes, from the top of the tower
- 8:43Speaker 1: a woman dropped a millstone and she had tremendous aim.
- 8:51Speaker 1: It hit him on his head, split his skull open.
- 8:55Speaker 1: He immediately cried for his armor-bearer to run him through
- 8:59Speaker 1: with a sword before he died from the crushed skull
- 9:05Speaker 1: lest it go down in history. that he was killed
- 9:08Speaker 1: by a woman. Thinking only of his pride down to
- 9:13Speaker 1: the very end, he sought preeminence. There was in the
- 9:17Speaker 1: book of Esther another man like this by the name
- 9:20Speaker 1: of Haman. You remember King Ahasuerus ruled all the way
- 9:24Speaker 1: from India to Ethiopia and he had raised a man
- 9:28Speaker 1: by the name of Haman to very high rank in
- 9:30Speaker 1: his kingdom. And Haman became drunk with power and drunk
- 9:34Speaker 1: with prestige. He demanded everybody to obey him and bow
- 9:37Speaker 1: before him and pay him homage and honor him and
- 9:41Speaker 1: there was a Jew who did not by the name
- 9:43Speaker 1: of Mordecai, remember? He decided that because of what Mordecai
- 9:48Speaker 1: had done, he would literally annihilate the Jews. He would
- 9:52Speaker 1: commit genocide. He loved the preeminence to such a degree
- 9:58Speaker 1: that he would literally obliterate a whole race of people
- 10:02Speaker 1: because of one man who would not bow to him.
- 10:04Speaker 1: The story of Esther is a pretty incredible story. He
- 10:08Speaker 1: wound up, by the way, being hanged on the gallows
- 10:10Speaker 1: he built to hang the Jews on. And as long
- 10:14Speaker 1: as we're thinking about these people, we would be remiss
- 10:17Speaker 1: if we didn't make a comment or two about one
- 10:19Speaker 1: other very famous man who sought the preeminence by the
- 10:22Speaker 1: name of Nebuchadnezzar in Daniel chapter 4. Nebuchadnezzar sought to
- 10:28Speaker 1: exalt himself and because he sought to exalt himself, you
- 10:33Speaker 1: remember God turned him into a maniac and left him
- 10:36Speaker 1: out grazing like an animal for years, seven years in fact,
- 10:43Speaker 1: till he finally came to his senses. model of self-centered, proud, power,
- 10:49Speaker 1: mad love for preeminence. And then, of course, if you
- 10:53Speaker 1: come to the New Testament, there is Herod. And we
- 10:57Speaker 1: find that story in the twelfth chapter of Acts. Herod
- 11:02Speaker 1: declared it Herod Day in all modesty. And on appointed day,
- 11:07Speaker 1: Acts 12 21, put on his royal apparel, came out
- 11:12Speaker 1: before the people took his seat there in Caesarea, sat
- 11:18Speaker 1: in his throne and began delivering an address to them.
- 11:24Speaker 1: And the people kept saying, the voice of a God
- 11:27Speaker 1: and not a man, and that's what he wanted. And
- 11:32Speaker 1: immediately an angel of the Lord struck him because he
- 11:34Speaker 1: didn't give God the glory, he was eaten by worms
- 11:37Speaker 1: and died. And so ended Herod's day. Not exactly the
- 11:43Speaker 1: way He had planned it. And then you could also
- 11:46Speaker 1: throw into the little list that we've been putting together,
- 11:48Speaker 1: Matthew 23, because in Matthew 23 you have not one
- 11:52Speaker 1: but a whole collection of people who love to have
- 11:54Speaker 1: the preeminence. Jesus identified them as whited sepulchers, as tombs
- 12:01Speaker 1: full of dead men's bones. Jesus identified them repeatedly as hypocrites.
- 12:07Speaker 1: He identified them as snakes and vipers. And who were they?
- 12:12Speaker 1: They were the scribes and the Pharisees who seated themselves
- 12:15Speaker 1: in the chair of Moses, Matthew 23...they loved to be
- 12:21Speaker 1: noticed by men. They broadened their phylacteries, the little leather
- 12:27Speaker 1: boxes that held slips on which were written passages of
- 12:31Speaker 1: the Mosaic Law. They carried them around. They made theirs very,
- 12:35Speaker 1: very big so that people would know how devoted to
- 12:39Speaker 1: Scripture they were. They lengthened the tassels of their garments.
- 12:45Speaker 1: Tassels were supposed to be evidences of their devotion and
- 12:50Speaker 1: they made theirs as long as possible, extending them down
- 12:55Speaker 1: so that they were dragging on the ground so people
- 13:00Speaker 1: would exalt them for their piety. And then they love
- 13:03Speaker 1: the place of honor at the banquets and the chief
- 13:05Speaker 1: seats in the synagogue and the respectful greetings in the marketplace.
- 13:09Speaker 1: And they love to be called rabbi. They love to
- 13:14Speaker 1: be called father, source. They love to be called leader.
- 13:21Speaker 1: There always have been these kinds of people, always. And
- 13:26Speaker 1: even among the people of God, we've given you an
- 13:28Speaker 1: illustration of it, and it's a temptation even for good people.
- 13:33Speaker 1: You go to Matthew chapter 20 in your mind and
- 13:35Speaker 1: you will remember that James and John had the audacity
- 13:38Speaker 1: to get their mother to go to Jesus and plead
- 13:40Speaker 1: with Jesus to give them the preeminent place in His
- 13:42Speaker 1: kingdom because they thought they were worthy of it. Can
- 13:44Speaker 1: you imagine that? Matthew 20, 20 to 28, Jesus said,
- 13:50Speaker 1: you know, that's something for the Father to give but
- 13:52Speaker 1: it goes to those who have suffered the most, not
- 13:55Speaker 1: those who have sought the preeminence. If you want to
- 14:00Speaker 1: be first... You should seek to be last. You should
- 14:05Speaker 1: be like the Son of Man who didn't come to
- 14:09Speaker 1: be served but to serve and give His life a
- 14:12Speaker 1: ransom for many. And that ended that conversation. Well all
- 14:17Speaker 1: of that leads us to 3 John. Let's go back.
- 14:20Speaker 1: And here in 3 John we meet a man who
- 14:22Speaker 1: belongs in the Hall of Infamy with all the rest
- 14:24Speaker 1: of those people I've just kind of rehearsed for you.
- 14:28Speaker 1: This is a man named Diotrephes. And He loved to
- 14:34Speaker 1: have the power, the preeminence, the prestige, the prominence, the
- 14:40Speaker 1: chief seat, the chief place. It says it in verse 9,
- 14:45Speaker 1: Diotrephes who loves to be first, Phileo who has a
- 14:52Speaker 1: strong affection, Protuo, to be first... to be first, that term
- 15:00Speaker 1: Protuo is used only one other place Colossians 1.18 and
- 15:04Speaker 1: there it talks about the preeminence of Christ. So here
- 15:08Speaker 1: is a man who's competing with Christ. Here is one
- 15:12Speaker 1: who doesn't believe that Jesus alone is first but seeks
- 15:15Speaker 1: to supplant Christ and to rule the church in the
- 15:19Speaker 1: place of Christ. He's like a New Testament Absalom, so
- 15:26Speaker 1: power hungry that he would murder his own father to
- 15:31Speaker 1: take the throne. And Diotrephes was a very proud man.
- 15:36Speaker 1: He was so proud that in seeking his place of preeminence,
- 15:40Speaker 1: he was actually busy supplanting Christ, busy replacing Christ in
- 15:47Speaker 1: the church. How did he do it? By rejecting those
- 15:52Speaker 1: who were serving Christ. Now if this sounds a little
- 15:57Speaker 1: bit familiar, this is an old, old story and a
- 16:00Speaker 1: new one as well. We see this all the time
- 16:03Speaker 1: with young men that come out of the seminary. They
- 16:05Speaker 1: go into a church, they are the servants of Christ,
- 16:08Speaker 1: they are prepared, they are heart-ready, they are mind-ready, they
- 16:11Speaker 1: are soul-ready, they are ready to labor, to pour their
- 16:14Speaker 1: lives into the congregation. They run right into a diatrophies
- 16:19Speaker 1: who loves to have the power in the church and
- 16:22Speaker 1: before they know what hit them, they're out of the church.
- 16:25Speaker 1: Happens all the time. It's a constant battle. So common.
- 16:35Speaker 1: Now remember, this is in the middle of a letter
- 16:38Speaker 1: about hospitality, right? This letter is basically about how we
- 16:47Speaker 1: are to open our hearts to the servants of Christ,
- 16:54Speaker 1: how we are to accept them, as verse 7 says,
- 16:56Speaker 1: for they went out for the sake of the name
- 16:59Speaker 1: They accepted nothing from the Gentiles. Therefore we ought to
- 17:02Speaker 1: support such men that we may be fellow workers with
- 17:06Speaker 1: the truth, as we pointed out last week. And yet,
- 17:08Speaker 1: though it is our obligation as a church to open
- 17:12Speaker 1: our arms and embrace the faithful servants of God, here
- 17:16Speaker 1: is a man in the church who because he loves
- 17:19Speaker 1: to be first, sees everybody as a threat to his power.
- 17:25Speaker 1: So in this local assembly... Diotrephes was forbidding anyone to
- 17:32Speaker 1: receive the traveling preachers. He saw the traveling preachers as
- 17:35Speaker 1: a threat. And there were believers who wanted to open
- 17:39Speaker 1: their arms to them. And so John writes to one,
- 17:43Speaker 1: beloved Gaius, whom he loves in the truth and wishes
- 17:47Speaker 1: him well and tells him about what good reports he
- 17:51Speaker 1: hears from the brethren who came to him to tell
- 17:54Speaker 1: him of Gaius. And then he reminds him, as I
- 17:57Speaker 1: just read in verses 5 to 7, to make sure
- 17:59Speaker 1: that he continues to love the truth by loving those
- 18:02Speaker 1: who are the messengers of the truth. And then he
- 18:05Speaker 1: stops and there's almost a startling change in verse 9
- 18:11Speaker 1: and injects this whole section about this man. who contrary
- 18:16Speaker 1: to the call for loving hospitality is doing everything he
- 18:19Speaker 1: can to prevent the servants of the gospel from having
- 18:23Speaker 1: any reception in the church because he sees them as
- 18:25Speaker 1: a threat to his power, threat to his preeminence. Is
- 18:31Speaker 1: there anything as ugly as spiritual pride? Anything? I don't
- 18:36Speaker 1: think so. Now last time in the opening eight verses
- 18:41Speaker 1: we saw Gaius, the man who gave hospitality. I want
- 18:45Speaker 1: you to look in verses 9 and 10 at Diotrephes,
- 18:48Speaker 1: the man who refused to give hospitality. As graciously hospitable
- 18:54Speaker 1: as Gaius was, so ungracious and unhospitable was Diotrephes. They
- 19:00Speaker 1: are poles apart. They are absolute opposites. Gaius is seen
- 19:04Speaker 1: knowing truth, walking in truth, loving the brethren, entertaining strangers
- 19:09Speaker 1: who are faithful ministers of the gospel. Diotrephes is seen
- 19:13Speaker 1: loving himself, refusing to allow anyone to come in who
- 19:16Speaker 1: might somehow receive the accolades, the love, the affection, the
- 19:21Speaker 1: response of the congregation which he wants for himself. The
- 19:26Speaker 1: conflict is not doctrinal, it's not theological, it's not a
- 19:30Speaker 1: spiritual issue, it is a personal issue. of loving oneself.
- 19:38Speaker 1: And so does John address this issue so frequently arising
- 19:46Speaker 1: in the church. Look at verse 9. I wrote something
- 19:50Speaker 1: to the church but Diotrephes who loves to be first
- 19:54Speaker 1: among them doesn't accept what we say. John wrote a
- 19:57Speaker 1: letter to this church. And Diotrephes had managed to put
- 20:01Speaker 1: himself in a position to filter everything and so who
- 20:06Speaker 1: loves to be first among them doesn't accept what we say.
- 20:11Speaker 1: We do not know about this letter written earlier to
- 20:14Speaker 1: this church. It was not written to Diotrephes, it was
- 20:17Speaker 1: written to the church. It is lost perhaps because Diotrephes
- 20:23Speaker 1: destroyed it, probably never even read it to the church
- 20:26Speaker 1: and that's why John tells Gaius who's in that church
- 20:29Speaker 1: that he wrote that letter. Diotrephes had managed to move
- 20:34Speaker 1: himself into the position of power and became the screener
- 20:37Speaker 1: for anything and everything that came to the church and
- 20:40Speaker 1: literally rejected a letter from the Apostle John. John says,
- 20:48Speaker 1: Diotrephes does not accept what we say. Another way to
- 20:54Speaker 1: translate that, we'll have nothing to do with us. He
- 20:59Speaker 1: is his own authority. even to the point where he
- 21:02Speaker 1: rejects one with apostolic authority. These kind of people who
- 21:08Speaker 1: are proud and self-righteous, these kind of people who love
- 21:12Speaker 1: spiritual preeminence and seek power and control, they know no
- 21:17Speaker 1: bounds on who they will reject. They will reject the
- 21:24Speaker 1: most faithful. profound, respected, revered authorities of Scripture. In fact,
- 21:34Speaker 1: the more influence a person has because of faithful ministry,
- 21:38Speaker 1: the more likely they are to reject that person. Now
- 21:42Speaker 1: the man's name, Diotrephes, is interesting. It means reared by Zeus... reared
- 21:50Speaker 1: by Zeus. or nursed by Zeus. And it was a name,
- 21:55Speaker 1: as far as we could tell, it was found only
- 21:57Speaker 1: among nobility in ancient families. So it may have been
- 22:01Speaker 1: that he had a self-importance problem because he came from
- 22:04Speaker 1: some noble family. Perhaps he was aristocratic in his background
- 22:10Speaker 1: and because he had a little bit of an aristocratic background,
- 22:12Speaker 1: thought more highly of himself than he ought to think.
- 22:14Speaker 1: But that really wasn't his problem. It doesn't really have
- 22:16Speaker 1: to do with his background. His problem is clearly identified
- 22:19Speaker 1: in verse 9, he loved to be first. That's the issue.
- 22:25Speaker 1: There really are no environmental contributions to this issue here.
- 22:30Speaker 1: This is not a circumstantial situation. This isn't because of
- 22:32Speaker 1: the way he was raised. This is a man who
- 22:35Speaker 1: is greedy for power because he loves himself. He's guilty
- 22:39Speaker 1: of spiritual pride of the rankest kind and he's worked
- 22:43Speaker 1: his way into spiritual leadership in the church. He's not humble.
- 22:46Speaker 1: He's not selfless. He's not loving. He's not compassionate. He
- 22:51Speaker 1: certainly doesn't have the mind of Christ, let this mind
- 22:54Speaker 1: be in you which was also in Christ Jesus, Philippians 2,
- 22:58Speaker 1: 3 and following. And you will notice, he loves is
- 23:03Speaker 1: in the present tense. This is a pattern for him.
- 23:05Speaker 1: This is habitual for him. He is driven by personal ambition.
- 23:10Speaker 1: This is so hard to deal with in the church,
- 23:13Speaker 1: particularly in small congregations where these people are entrenched, as
- 23:17Speaker 1: I've said, we've picked up the pieces of many very
- 23:20Speaker 1: heartbroken young men who go out and are chewed up
- 23:25Speaker 1: by diatrophies here and there and everywhere. Not only was
- 23:31Speaker 1: he perverted by ambition, but it led to perverted action.
- 23:36Speaker 1: Verse 10,' I will call attention,' he says,' if I
- 23:41Speaker 1: come to his deeds which he does.' It's not just
- 23:46Speaker 1: an attitude, you can't contain an attitude anyway, whatever an
- 23:49Speaker 1: attitude is becomes an action. John says, for this reason,
- 23:54Speaker 1: because of the fact that in his self-love and in
- 23:59Speaker 1: his longing to be pre-eminent, he doesn't even accept what
- 24:04Speaker 1: I am. An apostle of Jesus Christ, I have to say,
- 24:09Speaker 1: because of this, for this reason, if I come, I
- 24:12Speaker 1: will call attention to his deeds which he does. I'm
- 24:15Speaker 1: going to expose the man if I come. I will
- 24:18Speaker 1: not forget, John is saying, I will not forget. I
- 24:22Speaker 1: will bring up the subject of diatrophies, conduct, and I
- 24:25Speaker 1: will make it an issue in the church because it
- 24:27Speaker 1: is an issue for discipline. And the question always arises,
- 24:30Speaker 1: and I've had this question with so many young pastors,
- 24:33Speaker 1: What do I do? There's a guy in my church
- 24:35Speaker 1: who's like Diotrephes, he has the preeminence, what do I do?
- 24:39Speaker 1: And I encourage them, I encourage the leaders who are
- 24:43Speaker 1: supportive of the pastor, you must take the power away
- 24:47Speaker 1: from the man. If you do not take the power
- 24:50Speaker 1: away from the man now, then you're going to lose
- 24:52Speaker 1: the pastor you have and you're going to lose the
- 24:54Speaker 1: next one and the next one and the next one
- 24:56Speaker 1: until you finally do what you have to do. Churches
- 25:00Speaker 1: seem so reluctant to do that. Why? Because these people
- 25:04Speaker 1: are manipulators. They didn't get into power for nothing. They
- 25:07Speaker 1: didn't get there by just rolling out of bed. They
- 25:09Speaker 1: worked their way into that. And John says, when I
- 25:13Speaker 1: get there, I'm not going to overlook this. This man
- 25:17Speaker 1: is challenging my authority as an apostle of Jesus Christ.
- 25:21Speaker 1: This man is forbidding believers to be hospitable toward faithful preachers.
- 25:29Speaker 1: I'll take disciplinary action. All the verbs here are present tense, does, accusing,
- 25:38Speaker 1: does not receive, forbids, puts out, all present tense verbs.
- 25:47Speaker 1: This is the habitual work of this man who's worked
- 25:50Speaker 1: his way into a position of power in the church
- 25:54Speaker 1: by deceiving people. basically indicts him on four counts. Look
- 26:00Speaker 1: at them in verse 10, four counts. Number one, unjustly
- 26:03Speaker 1: accusing us with wicked words. This is characteristic in every
- 26:08Speaker 1: occasion of these people who rise to preeminence. They falsely
- 26:12Speaker 1: accuse other people. This is how they gain trust. They
- 26:17Speaker 1: don't gain trust by the virtue of their life. They
- 26:19Speaker 1: don't gain trust by their character. They don't gain trust
- 26:22Speaker 1: the long, slow, true way by exposing all that they
- 26:26Speaker 1: are to people and letting people make a judgment on
- 26:28Speaker 1: their righteousness and on their integrity. They get the trust
- 26:31Speaker 1: of the people by destroying the people's trust in everybody else.
- 26:37Speaker 1: They are malicious and destructive. Accusing... the word accusing here... is
- 26:46Speaker 1: actually a word that occurs only here in the entire
- 26:50Speaker 1: New Testament, but a cognate form of it occurs in
- 26:53Speaker 1: 1 Timothy 5...13 where it can be translated, tattlers. They
- 26:57Speaker 1: are tattlers. They go around telling malicious, gossiping tales. By
- 27:01Speaker 1: the way, the root word in the Greek comes from
- 27:04Speaker 1: boiling up or bubbling over. And there's a reason for that.
- 27:08Speaker 1: Bubbles are hollow. This is hollow talk, foolish talk, but
- 27:13Speaker 1: they foment foolish, nothing, bubble talk that bursts when it's poked. False, unfounded, foolish, contrived,
- 27:25Speaker 1: manipulated accusations to cause people to distrust those in leadership
- 27:31Speaker 1: and then the people are left with them as the
- 27:33Speaker 1: only one they can trust. They get good at this,
- 27:38Speaker 1: very adept. They bring up malicious charges. They don't make
- 27:44Speaker 1: them minimal, superficial. They use evil words. There's a certain
- 27:51Speaker 1: viciousness here. By the way, this term wicked words is
- 27:58Speaker 1: used of Cain's wickedness in 1 John 3...and it's used
- 28:02Speaker 1: of the devil in 1 John 5...they accuse these people
- 28:07Speaker 1: that they want to replace these people that they want
- 28:10Speaker 1: to rise above of devilish things, horrible things, and including us.
- 28:18Speaker 1: Notice it there, unjustly accusing us. You mean to tell
- 28:22Speaker 1: me Diotrephes was even falsely accusing the Apostle John? Yes.
- 28:29Speaker 1: If anybody was a threat, John was a threat. And
- 28:32Speaker 1: if you're a threat, you'll get it. Oh, you may
- 28:36Speaker 1: not know it at first. They may give you that. Silky,
- 28:40Speaker 1: hypocritical facade, but underneath the surface, they'd like to slit
- 28:46Speaker 1: your throat. It's amazing through the years how many times
- 28:50Speaker 1: people have treated me on the surface with kindness and respect,
- 28:54Speaker 1: and it's come to light behind the scenes, known by me,
- 29:01Speaker 1: the maliciousness with which they speak to others about me
- 29:05Speaker 1: in an effort to push themselves up as the only
- 29:09Speaker 1: ones who are virtuous and prominent. Everybody's a threat... everybody' s a
- 29:14Speaker 1: threat to the position of power. And then he adds,
- 29:20Speaker 1: as if it's not enough to destroy all those around
- 29:24Speaker 1: you with malicious, destructive gossip, it says, and not satisfied
- 29:29Speaker 1: with this. It's not enough to do that. Neither does
- 29:35Speaker 1: he receive the brethren, whoever is already respected, they seek
- 29:40Speaker 1: to destroy. And anybody who comes in, they begin to
- 29:44Speaker 1: undermine as well. In fact, they will not even receive them.
- 29:49Speaker 1: They will not treat them with humble love. They not
- 29:52Speaker 1: only slandered the Apostle John himself, the deatrophies not only
- 29:56Speaker 1: slandered John, But he deliberately defied John by refusing to
- 30:00Speaker 1: welcome the faithful brethren who came to preach for the
- 30:03Speaker 1: sake of the name. Because everybody's a threat. If you're
- 30:09Speaker 1: on the inside, you get undermined so they can get
- 30:12Speaker 1: into the prominent place. If you're on the outside and
- 30:14Speaker 1: you're coming along, they shut you out. And, of course,
- 30:18Speaker 1: they don't want anybody too close because somebody might discover
- 30:21Speaker 1: what's really going on. And they go a step further
- 30:24Speaker 1: than that. Neither does he receive the brethren and he
- 30:29Speaker 1: forbids those who desire to do so. If you are
- 30:35Speaker 1: going to receive those brethren, he'll forbid you to do that.
- 30:37Speaker 1: How in the world does a man like this get
- 30:40Speaker 1: into such a power position in a church? That he
- 30:42Speaker 1: literally shuts off the Apostle John, that he maliciously destroys
- 30:47Speaker 1: the people's confidence in their other spiritual leaders and their
- 30:50Speaker 1: true spiritual leaders. that He will not acknowledge true preachers
- 30:54Speaker 1: of the gospel and that He forbids people to receive those,
- 30:59Speaker 1: how does He get into that position in the church
- 31:02Speaker 1: of Jesus Christ? It's amazing how subtle and devious people
- 31:08Speaker 1: can be, not only personally rejecting John and the other preachers,
- 31:13Speaker 1: but He koulouo, prevents, hinders everybody else, and finally puts
- 31:22Speaker 1: them out of the church, ek balo, literally means to
- 31:26Speaker 1: toss them out, throw them out. He's protecting His... it' s like
- 31:30Speaker 1: King of the Mountain, protecting His power base. Anybody who's
- 31:35Speaker 1: a threat, He figures out a way to get them
- 31:38Speaker 1: out of the church through the use of malicious gossip,
- 31:41Speaker 1: through the destruction of their personality, their character, their integrity.
- 31:46Speaker 1: Pretty soon they're gone. You know, this may have been
- 31:50Speaker 1: what happened to Gaius. It may have been what happened
- 31:55Speaker 1: to Gaius. And that is why John tells Gaius what's
- 32:00Speaker 1: going on in the church. Why would John need to
- 32:02Speaker 1: tell Gaius about Diotrephes if Gaius was still there? And
- 32:07Speaker 1: maybe Gaius had been hammered by this Diotrephes and that's
- 32:09Speaker 1: why in verse 8 John says, we ought to support
- 32:11Speaker 1: such men that we may be fellow workers with the truth,
- 32:14Speaker 1: which is another way of John saying to Gaius, keep
- 32:16Speaker 1: it up, Gaius, you've got to keep doing it. I
- 32:17Speaker 1: know there may be a price. Theatrophies slandered John, cold-shouldered
- 32:24Speaker 1: the preachers of the gospel, excommunicated the loyal and the
- 32:28Speaker 1: faithful from the church, all because he loved the preeminence
- 32:31Speaker 1: and wanted to stand alone at the top of the heap.
- 32:35Speaker 1: And maybe Gaius had fallen victim to that whole thing.
- 32:38Speaker 1: Maybe Gaius had just literally been either put out of
- 32:42Speaker 1: the church or crushed in his efforts to show hospitality,
- 32:45Speaker 1: and that's why John says, you must support such men.
- 32:50Speaker 1: But it may be well that he had actually been
- 32:52Speaker 1: put out of the church and didn't exactly know what
- 32:55Speaker 1: was going on. You know what happens, men are put
- 32:57Speaker 1: out of a church, they don't even know that a
- 32:58Speaker 1: diatrophies did it to them. Well, all of that simply
- 33:03Speaker 1: to say the Bible warns us here about those people
- 33:06Speaker 1: who are power hungry in the church. Arrogance is where
- 33:09Speaker 1: it all starts. It starts with arrogance. Arrogance produces ambition.
- 33:12Speaker 1: Ambition produces accusations and accusation leads to annihilation. You start
- 33:19Speaker 1: out driven by pride, your pride produces the desire to
- 33:25Speaker 1: be preeminent. Preeminent then leads you to falsely accuse everybody
- 33:30Speaker 1: else so you can clear the field of all other
- 33:32Speaker 1: claimants and then eventually you have to annihilate and put
- 33:36Speaker 1: them out if they don't roll over. So sad when
- 33:41Speaker 1: this happens in the church. And many churches aren't willing
- 33:43Speaker 1: to deal with it, they aren't willing to face it,
- 33:45Speaker 1: they aren't willing to overturn such a man because many
- 33:48Speaker 1: of them have been deceived, others in the name of love.
- 33:51Speaker 1: church unity, allow this to be perpetuated. And I've learned
- 33:56Speaker 1: through the years in dealing with our young men who
- 33:59Speaker 1: go out to preach that rarely ever have I heard
- 34:02Speaker 1: of a church dismissing a pastor for poor preaching, rarely
- 34:07Speaker 1: ever for poor living, almost always power struggles because somebody
- 34:13Speaker 1: loves to be first. And that's what splits churches, destroys ministries. Well,
- 34:21Speaker 1: more could be said about that. But Diotrephes, for all
- 34:24Speaker 1: his efforts to be preeminent, got his name in the book,
- 34:27Speaker 1: didn't he? He got his name in the book. But
- 34:31Speaker 1: it is a shame that it's here. There is a
- 34:36Speaker 1: third character in this book by the name of Demetrius.
- 34:40Speaker 1: And if Gaius showed hospitality and needed to continue to
- 34:43Speaker 1: do it, no matter what pressure might be coming, and
- 34:46Speaker 1: if Diotrephes was the man who refused to give hospitality,
- 34:50Speaker 1: Demetrius is one who is to receive hospitality. So here
- 34:56Speaker 1: to the beloved Gaius, John introduces a man that he
- 34:59Speaker 1: wants Gaius to receive. Beloved, verse 11, do not imitate
- 35:03Speaker 1: what is evil but what is good. The one who
- 35:05Speaker 1: does good is of God, the one who does evil
- 35:07Speaker 1: has not seen God. Demetrius has received a good testimony
- 35:10Speaker 1: from everyone and from the truth itself and we also
- 35:13Speaker 1: bear witness and you know that our witness is true.
- 35:16Speaker 1: He's introducing him to this man Demetrius and then saying,
- 35:19Speaker 1: receive him. You need to do that. He said that
- 35:23Speaker 1: to faithful men who go out for the sake of
- 35:25Speaker 1: the name back in verses 7 and 8. You need
- 35:27Speaker 1: to do that to be a fellow worker of the truth.
- 35:29Speaker 1: In spite of the fact that there's diatrophies in the church,
- 35:32Speaker 1: you need to do that. And here's one in particular
- 35:35Speaker 1: that I want you to receive and his name is Demetrius.
- 35:40Speaker 1: And if you will receive him, you will not be
- 35:42Speaker 1: imitating what is evil but what is good. You will
- 35:45Speaker 1: then give evidence that you are of God. Look back
- 35:48Speaker 1: at verse 11, we'll pick it up right there. Beloved,
- 35:50Speaker 1: do not imitate what is evil. How does that fit in? Well,
- 35:53Speaker 1: it simply means don't follow the pattern of Diotrephes. Don't
- 35:58Speaker 1: follow the pattern of Diotrephes. He's saying to Gaius, don't
- 36:04Speaker 1: be like Diotrephes, he may be the leading influence in
- 36:06Speaker 1: your church, don't be like him. Demetrius is coming, he
- 36:11Speaker 1: is to be commended. Maybe he was a member of
- 36:13Speaker 1: the Ephesian church coming to whatever church this was. He
- 36:17Speaker 1: doesn't want Gaius to be influenced by Diotrephes if he's
- 36:20Speaker 1: still in the church and thus not to receive Demetrius.
- 36:24Speaker 1: It may have been that he was thrown out of
- 36:25Speaker 1: the church and maybe he's back in, we don't know
- 36:27Speaker 1: those details. But the bottom line is, he says, do
- 36:30Speaker 1: not imitate what is evil. Do not mimeomai, do not
- 36:34Speaker 1: become a mimic of what is evil. Don't follow that model.
- 36:39Speaker 1: Just do what is good. Everybody follows somebody, don't they?
- 36:44Speaker 1: You choose whether you're going to follow those who do
- 36:46Speaker 1: good or those who do evil. And he goes right
- 36:49Speaker 1: back to the basic principle, verse 11, the one who
- 36:51Speaker 1: does good is of God, the one who does evil
- 36:52Speaker 1: has not seen God. It's that simple. That sounds like
- 36:55Speaker 1: 1 John, doesn't it? Back to the distinction between the
- 36:58Speaker 1: true Christian and the false Christian, the moral test. The
- 37:03Speaker 1: person who does good is of God. The person who
- 37:05Speaker 1: does evil is not of God. The person who does
- 37:08Speaker 1: righteousness is of God. The person who sins is not
- 37:10Speaker 1: of God. To do good is evidence of divine birth
- 37:15Speaker 1: for you're ordained unto good works. So imitate those who
- 37:19Speaker 1: do good. John may well be saying that it's doubtful
- 37:23Speaker 1: if Diotrephes is even a Christian and I will tell you, folks,
- 37:26Speaker 1: there are many churches ruled by Diotrephes-like personalities who claim
- 37:30Speaker 1: to be Christians and claim to be spiritual leaders but
- 37:32Speaker 1: in fact are not even Christians at all because they
- 37:36Speaker 1: do evil to the servants of God and they live
- 37:39Speaker 1: to elevate themselves. They have not seen God. Another way
- 37:44Speaker 1: to say they don't know God. They don't know God.
- 37:48Speaker 1: So John is again writing this beautiful little letter to
- 37:54Speaker 1: his beloved friend Gaius whom he calls beloved repeatedly, whom
- 37:59Speaker 1: he loves in the truth, to tell him that he
- 38:02Speaker 1: needs to embrace the traveling missionaries, the traveling preachers of
- 38:05Speaker 1: the truth for the sake of the extension of the
- 38:09Speaker 1: gospel and not be intimidated by a man who loves
- 38:13Speaker 1: to have the preeminence who tries to shut this down.
- 38:17Speaker 1: for the sake of His own glory. Likely then the
- 38:21Speaker 1: primary purpose of the letter was to accompany Demetrius who
- 38:25Speaker 1: was coming to visit that area. It may well be
- 38:27Speaker 1: that the letter was given to Gaius from the hand
- 38:30Speaker 1: of Demetrius sent by John. Demetrius hands him the letter
- 38:35Speaker 1: and says, I'm the man of whom John writes. Demetrius,
- 38:41Speaker 1: says John in verse 12, has received a good testimony.
- 38:45Speaker 1: You received this man. He is one of those mentioned
- 38:49Speaker 1: in verse 7 who has gone out for the sake
- 38:50Speaker 1: of the name. He is one of those accepting nothing
- 38:53Speaker 1: from the Gentiles. Verse 8, one of those we ought
- 38:55Speaker 1: to support, one of those with whom we can be
- 38:58Speaker 1: fellow workers with the truth. Demetrius, name coming from Demeter,
- 39:05Speaker 1: the goddess of fields and crops, another Gentile name. But
- 39:09Speaker 1: do you know in the Old Testament how many, if
- 39:11Speaker 1: something was to be affirmed as true, how many witnesses
- 39:13Speaker 1: were needed? Two or three? Or three, right? Everything had
- 39:17Speaker 1: to be confirmed in the mouth of two or three witnesses,
- 39:19Speaker 1: Deuteronomy 17 6, Deuteronomy 19 15. Notice three witnesses to
- 39:24Speaker 1: Demetrius in verse 12. He's received a good testimony, first
- 39:27Speaker 1: from everyone. Do you know very many? people like that?
- 39:31Speaker 1: From everyone, hupapanton, all. The testimony of everyone to Demetrius
- 39:40Speaker 1: in the past remains valid in the present, perfect passive.
- 39:43Speaker 1: He has received an ongoing and continually good testimony from everyone.
- 39:51Speaker 1: Second witness, and from the truth itself, that is to
- 39:56Speaker 1: say you can measure Him by His doctrine, you can
- 39:58Speaker 1: measure Him by the truth, He is loyal to the truth.
- 40:03Speaker 1: And again, it's an ongoing thing. The truth He professes
- 40:06Speaker 1: and the truth He preaches is the truth He embodies
- 40:10Speaker 1: and lives. It is self-evident and always has been. And thirdly,
- 40:16Speaker 1: verse 12, He says, and we also bear witness. John says,
- 40:19Speaker 1: we bear witness. We continue to bear witness. Gaius, if
- 40:24Speaker 1: you have any question about this man, everybody will testify
- 40:28Speaker 1: to his character and his faithfulness. The truth will testify
- 40:34Speaker 1: to his character and faithfulness. He can be measured against it.
- 40:37Speaker 1: And we also, as an apostle, bear witness and you
- 40:41Speaker 1: know that our witness is true. You know you can
- 40:48Speaker 1: trust Me. How do you know a man's worth? What
- 40:55Speaker 1: does everybody say about him? How does his life match
- 40:58Speaker 1: up with Scripture? And what do Christian leaders say about him?
- 41:05Speaker 1: And when you get a man who passes muster on
- 41:07Speaker 1: all three of those, open your arms, notwithstanding diatrophies or
- 41:12Speaker 1: anybody else, and embrace the man. Well, that closes the
- 41:18Speaker 1: letter on hospitality, really, in a short one. And again,
- 41:23Speaker 1: underlying all of this is the truth. The truth needs
- 41:25Speaker 1: to be spread. If it's going to be spread, the
- 41:28Speaker 1: church has to support the preachers of the truth and
- 41:30Speaker 1: the missionaries. We have to embrace them when they're faithful
- 41:33Speaker 1: to the truth. We can't see them as a threat
- 41:36Speaker 1: to our positions of power and preeminence. If we're going
- 41:40Speaker 1: to follow an example, may it be an example of
- 41:42Speaker 1: one who sacrificially loves, not one who seeks to be preeminent,
- 41:46Speaker 1: lest we betray the fact that we may not know
- 41:48Speaker 1: God at all. And then comes the closing, very parallel
- 41:54Speaker 1: to the closing of 2 John, so we'll just look
- 41:56Speaker 1: at it briefly. I had many things to write to you,
- 41:59Speaker 1: I'm not willing to write them to you with pen
- 42:01Speaker 1: and ink. Remember what we read at the end of
- 42:03Speaker 1: 2 John? Having many things to write to you, I
- 42:06Speaker 1: do not want to do so with paper and ink.
- 42:09Speaker 1: Exactly the same thing. Verse 14, I hope to see
- 42:13Speaker 1: you shortly. I want to come and see you. Same
- 42:18Speaker 1: thing He said to the lady. and her family in
- 42:21Speaker 1: the second epistle, I hope to come to you and
- 42:23Speaker 1: speak face to face so that your joy may be
- 42:29Speaker 1: made full. I told you that actually means mouth to mouth.
- 42:34Speaker 1: I don't want to say any more than this in
- 42:37Speaker 1: a letter. I want to come and see you face
- 42:41Speaker 1: to face. And then He closes,' Peace be to you.'
- 42:45Speaker 1: And I'm sure He wished that peace could pervade that congregation.
- 42:50Speaker 1: And then he adds, the friends greet you, which adds
- 42:52Speaker 1: intimacy to the brothers. Gaius and John must have had
- 42:56Speaker 1: mutual friends that they both knew. And then he adds,
- 43:00Speaker 1: greet the friends. I love this, by name. John, the
- 43:07Speaker 1: beloved apostle, John, the great apostle, the last apostle who
- 43:11Speaker 1: had that amazing life with our Lord Jesus Christ who
- 43:14Speaker 1: lived into his 90s. who was now the only Apostle
- 43:18Speaker 1: left who had absorbed so many friendships and relationships, still
- 43:22Speaker 1: knew the names... still knew the names of the people in
- 43:26Speaker 1: his life. And he closes out his last letter by
- 43:32Speaker 1: affirming how important friendship is, fellowship is, and peace in
- 43:39Speaker 1: the church. Three great truths stand out and I'll close.
- 43:46Speaker 1: Know the truth and walk in it. Second, be hospitable
- 43:52Speaker 1: to others who preach the truth. Third principle, pattern your
- 43:57Speaker 1: life after godly examples. And then there will be peace
- 44:03Speaker 1: in the church and God will be glorified in His church. Well, Father,
- 44:08Speaker 1: we thank You tonight for this insight into what seems
- 44:12Speaker 1: such a small thing And yet how really critical it
- 44:16Speaker 1: is that the church be what you want it to be.
- 44:21Speaker 1: Protect your church from evil men who rise to power
- 44:26Speaker 1: and protect your faithful servants from the deatrophies of this
- 44:32Speaker 1: world who bring grief and pain and sadness to those
- 44:40Speaker 1: who want to serve faithfully. not just for the sake
- 44:43Speaker 1: of the servant but for the sake of the church.
- 44:47Speaker 1: Protect your church. We pray that your church would be
- 44:51Speaker 1: under the leadership of the humble, the godly and the faithful,
- 44:55Speaker 1: those loyal to the truth who are selfless and sacrificial,
- 45:00Speaker 1: that you truly might be glorified in your church. And
- 45:05Speaker 1: may we with open arms embrace with love all those
- 45:07Speaker 1: faithful preachers and missionaries May we never be so foolish
- 45:12Speaker 1: as to be threatened by anybody who comes to us
- 45:17Speaker 1: from You. We pray, Lord, that You'll continue to bless
- 45:21Speaker 1: our church with protection from this. May we continue to
- 45:26Speaker 1: know Your grace that humbles us. For this we'll give
- 45:31Speaker 1: You praise because our heart's desire is that Christ would
- 45:34Speaker 1: be glorified in His church and not any man ever.
- 45:38Speaker 1: We pray in His name. Amen. You've been listening to
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