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- 0:00Reformed thinking. Welcome to the Deep Dive.
- 0:02Today we're focusing on something absolutely central to
- 0:04understanding ourselves and our Walk the Heart.
- 0:08You know what captures it? How does that influence
- 0:10everything we do? Yeah, it really gets to the core
- 0:13of our struggles and hopefully the path forward.
- 0:15We've been spending time with a stack of material for this deep
- 0:18dive. Some detailed notes teaching
- 0:20sessions that really open up some powerful biblical passages.
- 0:24They give us a framework, sort of for understanding what's
- 0:27genuinely going on inside us. And our aim here is to unpack
- 0:30what these sources reveal about, well, the deceitfulness of the
- 0:34heart, the true nature of idols that can grab hold, the reality
- 0:38of sinful fear. And thankfully also the upward
- 0:40path towards a life that's really oriented towards pleasing
- 0:43God. We'll see why, looking beyond
- 0:45the surface stuff, the behavior and getting to the root, why
- 0:48that's what truly matters for lasting change.
- 0:51So to start, let's get foundational.
- 0:53The sources we looked at draw heavily from places like
- 0:55Jeremiah 17 and Ezekiel 14. Jeremiah 17.9 paints a pretty
- 1:00stark picture, doesn't it? It does.
- 1:03The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately sick.
- 1:07Who can understand it? Right.
- 1:08It's described not just as the center of life, but as
- 1:11inherently flawed. It's prone to wandering, prone
- 1:14to self deception. And Ezekiel 14 echoes this,
- 1:18talking about people who've set up idols in their hearts.
- 1:21And this leads right into a key concept from the material, this
- 1:25idea of root versus fruit. It's quite a useful analogy.
- 1:28It really is. Think of a tree.
- 1:30The fruit is everything you see on the outside.
- 1:33Your actions, sure, but also your words, your visible
- 1:37responses to life. Even those internal thoughts and
- 1:39feelings that just kind of bubble up, those are part of
- 1:41this fruit, right? Exactly.
- 1:43The root on the other hand, that's the underlying condition
- 1:46of your heart. It's like the trees nature.
- 1:48You don't get apples from an oak tree.
- 1:50Our outward fruit reveals what's rooted deeply inside us.
- 1:54That analogy is so helpful because it shifts our focus.
- 1:57We stop just managing behavior and start trying to understand
- 1:59its source. And the sources introduce a
- 2:01related concept here, the heat. This isn't about, you know, the
- 2:04weather. No, it's a metaphor for the
- 2:06circumstances. The pressure filled situations
- 2:09we run into could be anything really.
- 2:11Yeah, it's stressful day at work, maybe getting criticized,
- 2:14dealing with a tough relationship or even achieving
- 2:16something, a success, facing temptation, all that's the heat.
- 2:21And the material makes a really crucial point about this heat.
- 2:25It's neutral. It isn't the sin itself.
- 2:27Right. Nor is it the cause of sin.
- 2:29The heat simply reveals what's already inside the heart.
- 2:33It's like the same circumstance, the same heat can fall on two
- 2:36different people and you get totally different responses.
- 2:39Think back to Jeremiah 17. The man who trusts in the Lord
- 2:43is like that tree planted by water.
- 2:46Even when heat comes, his leaves stay green.
- 2:48He keeps bearing fruit. But the one who trusts in man,
- 2:50he's like a shrub in the desert. When the heat comes, he just
- 2:53Withers. Yeah.
- 2:54The heat acts like a squeeze. Whatever is inside the heart,
- 2:58that's what comes out under pressure, as actions, thoughts,
- 3:00feelings, desires. It reveals the condition of the
- 3:02root. It doesn't put the sin or the
- 3:04idols there. No, it just shows what was
- 3:06already residing in the heart, directing how that person
- 3:08responds. And what is often residing
- 3:11there, according to Ezekiel 14, are these idols of the heart.
- 3:14That's a central idea from the sources.
- 3:16As you mentioned, God tells Ezekiel that the people have
- 3:20taken their idols into their hearts, and this isn't primarily
- 3:23about, you know, bowing down to statues.
- 3:26It's about things or even people that have captured our deepest
- 3:30affections, our loyalties, our trust more than God.
- 3:33They become the things we value most, the things our minds dwell
- 3:37on, the things our hearts long for.
- 3:38Above the Lord Himself, our affections get set on something
- 3:42else. And the sources argue pretty
- 3:44convincingly that these idols are the root issue underlying
- 3:47our sin. They explain the why.
- 3:49The why behind our struggles. Why do I get angry here?
- 3:52Why do I worry there? Why do I pursue this thing so
- 3:54relentlessly? Often it's because an idol has
- 3:57taken up residence in the heart. And it's useful to grasp that
- 4:00different outward sins, different fruit, can actually
- 4:03stem from the very same root idol.
- 4:05Definitely. And conversely, the same outward
- 4:08sin might be produced by different root idols and
- 4:10different people. It's complex.
- 4:11It makes me think of that weed analogy the sources use.
- 4:14If you only chop off the leaves, the outward bad behavior, the
- 4:20root is still there, right? And the weed grows right back.
- 4:23You might manage to suppress one behavior for a while, but if
- 4:27that underlying idol remains, it'll just pop up in a different
- 4:30way, produce different fruit. So lasting biblical change
- 4:33requires getting to the root, pulling up the idol entirely.
- 4:36And this is precisely why this is so relevant for you, the
- 4:39listener, if your approach to change is just, you know, trying
- 4:43harder to stop doing bad things and start doing good things.
- 4:46Like clipping off bad fruit and trying to staple good fruit onto
- 4:50the tree as they put it. Yeah, you're bypassing the core
- 4:53issue. The appearance might improve,
- 4:54superficially maybe, but the hearts orientation hasn't
- 4:58actually shifted. It's still rooted in something
- 5:00other than full dependence on God.
- 5:02So real, lasting change has to start by addressing heart and
- 5:05uncovering the idols that have settled in there.
- 5:07OK, so how do we start to identify these things, these
- 5:10hidden idols? Because it's not always obvious.
- 5:13Jeremiah 17 Again, the heart is deceitful.
- 5:15True, but the sources give us a kind of diagnostic question like
- 5:19a spiritual X-ray, which is is it something you will sin to
- 5:23get, or sin if you don't get it? The question is incredibly
- 5:27clarifying, isn't it? Yeah, something feels so
- 5:30essential to your well-being or your identity or your happiness.
- 5:35You're willing to compromise God's ways to obtain it.
- 5:37Or you respond sinfully, maybe with anger, despair, anxiety,
- 5:41manipulation, withdrawal if it's threatened or withheld.
- 5:44Then that thing likely functions as an idol in your heart.
- 5:47It's something you feel you absolutely must have.
- 5:50And a really common, pervasive example of this kind of heart
- 5:53issue, this deep seated idol, is what the source is called the
- 5:56fear of man. Which isn't just being shy or,
- 5:59you know, socially awkward. No, it's defined as a sinful
- 6:02fear and it's caused by focusing on self rather than on God.
- 6:06Is when someone else holds a place of awe or influence in
- 6:09your heart that really should only belong to God.
- 6:11It's being controlled and mastered by their opinion, their
- 6:14potential reaction, their approval for their disapproval.
- 6:18Right. It's ultimately about living to
- 6:20please man rather than living to please God.
- 6:22That's the bottom line. And the sources helpfully
- 6:25breakdown how this fear of man shows up, giving us categories
- 6:29to help diagnose it in ourselves.
- 6:31Yeah, the first category, and probably the most relatable for
- 6:34many of us, is focused on validation.
- 6:38What does man think of me? Oh, this shows up constantly,
- 6:41doesn't it? It includes that pressure to go
- 6:43along with wrong things because you want acceptance from a
- 6:45group. Peer pressure, basically.
- 6:48Or people pleasing, finding it incredibly hard to say no.
- 6:53Maybe overextending yourself, becoming over committed because
- 6:56the thought of disappointing someone feels unbearable.
- 6:59It can manifest as codependency too, where your emotional state
- 7:03is just excessively tied to another person's mood or
- 7:06opinion. And there's the fear of being
- 7:08exposed as an imposter, maybe, or a failure that leads to
- 7:11constant anxiety about performance.
- 7:13Or second guessing your decisions because you're so
- 7:15preoccupied with how they'll be perceived by others.
- 7:18Being afraid of making mistakes, not necessarily because they're
- 7:20wrong in God's eyes, but because they might make you you look
- 7:23bad. Even getting easily embarrassed
- 7:26or as the source suggests, maybe overusing I'm sorry as a way to
- 7:30constantly smooth things over, sort of being ruled by the
- 7:33perceived offense of others. They even point out that
- 7:36sometimes the main drive behind something like a diet isn't
- 7:39really health, but it's the desire for the praise or
- 7:43admiration of others. Wow.
- 7:44OK, so that's the first category.
- 7:46What's the second? The second category shifts focus
- 7:48slightly towards dependence. What can man do?
- 7:51For me this is about needing things from others in a way that
- 7:55replaces or competes with needing God like.
- 7:58Needing certain things from a spouse, maybe needing them to
- 8:01listen a certain way, or needing their respect to the point where
- 8:04your well-being or sense of security hinges on it exactly.
- 8:07They can become a kind of functional replacement for God,
- 8:10or you might even fear them more than God because you depend so
- 8:13much on what they provide, whether that's emotional
- 8:15support, relational stability, even financial security.
- 8:19This. Category sounds deeply connected
- 8:20to self esteem issues too. Very.
- 8:22Much so where your identity, your worth, your sense of being
- 8:26filled or OK depends on getting validation from others or
- 8:30constantly comparing yourself favorably to them.
- 8:32That love hunger idea fits here. Needing affirmation from outside
- 8:37yourself to feel whole. And the third category you
- 8:39mentioned, it's particularly subtle, yes.
- 8:42This one can even masquerade as godliness sometimes.
- 8:45What can God do for me now this? Isn't just about praying for
- 8:48daily bread or asking for help in genuine need, right?
- 8:50No. It's when you view God primarily
- 8:53as a means to an end, and that end is the fulfillment of your
- 8:56own desires or the meeting of your needs.
- 8:59Needs that are often rooted in those other idols themselves so.
- 9:03You might be seeking God, but your eyes and heart aren't fixed
- 9:07on Him for who He is, correct? They're fixed on what he can
- 9:09provide for you. Maybe a marriage specific job,
- 9:12financial security, relief from a hard situation, or even just a
- 9:16better self-image. God becomes the mechanism to
- 9:19achieve what you really want, which might.
- 9:20Actually be approval like in category one or security
- 9:23category 2 or comfort. Precisely.
- 9:26Your ultimate desire is still centered on self or worldly
- 9:29things, and God is seen as a supplier for those desires.
- 9:33So. All these different ways the
- 9:35fear of man shows up. Regardless of the specific
- 9:38flavor, they share that common root issue, a heart motivation
- 9:42that elevates self and lowers God.
- 9:45It's putting trust and hope in something other than God seeking
- 9:50fulfillment or security or identity from created things or
- 9:53people instead of the Creator thinking.
- 9:55About that, I was reminded of something years ago.
- 9:58I had this incredibly beat up old Honda Civic.
- 10:00Really wasn't much to look at. I got this job as an inspector
- 10:04at a sewage treatment plant, which meant interacting with a
- 10:06lot of contractors, you know, generally big burly guys.
- 10:09And I had this tiny little Christian sticker on the back
- 10:12window. Just said one truth, OK?
- 10:14For weeks, I consistently parked my car way away down the street,
- 10:17far from where anyone would see it.
- 10:18And why I was also aware of my beat up car, my relative youth
- 10:21compared to these guys. And I cared more about what
- 10:24these guys might think of me judging my car, judging me as an
- 10:27inspector, than I did about simply having that small, quiet
- 10:30statement of faith on my car. It was a classic everyday
- 10:33example of valuing their potential opinion, their
- 10:36potential judgment, more than being openly identified, even
- 10:40subtly, with something pointing to God.
- 10:42Just petty, undeniable fear of man that.
- 10:45Story really illustrates how this isn't just about grand
- 10:48moments or huge decisions. The fear of man and other idols
- 10:51too. They show up in the quiet, often
- 10:54subconscious choices we make every single day.
- 10:57They reveal where our trust and concern are really located.
- 11:00So. If simple fear is fearing man
- 11:02focusing on self, what's the alternative then?
- 11:04What's the right kind of fear? The sources present 2 forms of
- 11:07appropriate fear. The 1st and the most vital one
- 11:10in this context is reverence for God, often called the fear of
- 11:13the Lord. And this isn't a crippling dread
- 11:16or terror, no. Not at all.
- 11:17It's a deep, holy awe, a profound respect for His
- 11:20absolute holiness, His sovereignty, His might.
- 11:23Proverbs 1.7 tells us this fear is the beginning of knowledge
- 11:26and. Ecclesiastes 12.1314 concludes
- 11:30that the whole duty of man is to fear God and keep His
- 11:33commandments right. This fear is a spiritual
- 11:37orientation where you care infinitely more about what God
- 11:40thinks of you in your life than what anyone else on earth
- 11:43thinks. It's fearing his response to
- 11:45your actions more than man's reaction that.
- 11:48Fundamental shift moving from fearing man to fearing God seems
- 11:51like the well, the radical treatment for the fear of man
- 11:54it. Is it's replacing one fear with
- 11:56another, but the object is entirely different.
- 11:58It's a reorientation of who sits on the throne of your heart.
- 12:02Is it man's opinion or is it God's glory and.
- 12:05The second legitimate fear. The second.
- 12:07One mentioned is just the practical fear of legitimate
- 12:09danger. They use an anecdote of a dirt
- 12:11bike rider who lacks this basic sense of self preservation and
- 12:15well, suffers consequences. It's a God-given instinct for
- 12:18protection. OK.
- 12:19But the focus for spiritual change is cultivating that
- 12:22reverent fear of God to counteract the sinful fear of
- 12:24man. That's right.
- 12:25Which brings us to the path forward.
- 12:27The solution presented in the sources?
- 12:29Biblical repentance. And they are very careful to
- 12:32define repentance as far more than just stopping bad behavior.
- 12:36Yes, it's not just ceasing the bad fruit or as they describe
- 12:40it, trying to staple good food onto the tree.
- 12:43That's surface level. So what?
- 12:44Is true biblical repentance. Falling Acts 26.20.
- 12:48It's fundamentally a turning towards God.
- 12:51It's described as a vertical turning from darkness to light,
- 12:54From the dominion of Satan to God.
- 12:57It means. Actively leaving the old way of
- 12:59living, the way dictated by self centeredness and idols and
- 13:02turning. To God to restore the
- 13:04relationship that was fractured by fin.
- 13:06It requires addressing the root issue in the heart, the idol
- 13:09itself, not just the outward manifestation and.
- 13:12Confession is presented as an essential part of this process,
- 13:16absolutely. Confession is inseparable from
- 13:18repentance. It means honestly acknowledging
- 13:20your sin, including the underlying heart issue or idol
- 13:23to God. It's calling spade a spade,
- 13:25agreeing with God about the nature and severity of your sin.
- 13:28Psalm. 32 is such a powerful picture of this it.
- 13:31Really is David describes the agony, physical and emotional,
- 13:35of keeping silent about his sin his strength just wasted away
- 13:40but when he acknowledged his sin and confessed it to the Lord,
- 13:44what happened God forgave him the.
- 13:47Promise is clear when you confess your sin to God, that
- 13:50full confession is met with full forgiveness.
- 13:53It's like the. Father and the Prodigal Son
- 13:54story. When the son turns and starts
- 13:56his confession, the father doesn't even wait for him to
- 13:59finish listing his failures. He runs and embraces him with
- 14:02compassion and restoration and confession.
- 14:04Should be willing right? Not forced or dragged out, yes.
- 14:07Psalm 32 mentions that contrast with the horse and mule that
- 14:11need a bit and bridle to be controlled.
- 14:13Our confession should flow from a heart turning towards God.
- 14:16So. Repentance involves confession
- 14:18and a turning towards God. What about good deeds?
- 14:21Acts 26.20 also mentions doing deeds and keeping with their
- 14:25repentance. Those deeds, that good fruit,
- 14:28they're not the cause of repentance or forgiveness.
- 14:30They're the evidence or the reflection of a heart that is
- 14:33genuinely turned towards the Lord in repentance.
- 14:35They're the natural. Outflow of a restored
- 14:37relationship not. The means to earn it.
- 14:40Biblical repentance is about restoring that dependency on
- 14:43God, where your affections and trust are placed back in Him,
- 14:47not in the idols or self-serving desires that drove your sin in
- 14:50the first place. OK, so this is the theological
- 14:52framework. How do we live this out
- 14:54practically? What does this upward path of
- 14:57repentance and pleasing God look like day-to-day?
- 15:00Well, the source has outlined several key steps.
- 15:02The first one is maybe the most difficult identified the sin
- 15:06specifically the root issue, the idol and the heart going.
- 15:09Beyond just saying I got angry. Exactly.
- 15:12It's asking why did I get angry in this situation?
- 15:14What was being threatened or withheld that felt so important?
- 15:17And it's acknowledged this is a lifelong process.
- 15:20It takes humility, consistent effort it involves.
- 15:22Looking inward with real honesty using those good hard questions,
- 15:26the X-ray questions they mentioned, yeah.
- 15:28What was I wanting in that moment?
- 15:30What was I doing or tempted to do?
- 15:33And critically, why? Why did I want it?
- 15:36Why did I respond that way? That self confrontation sounds
- 15:39challenging. It's often easier to see the
- 15:41flaws in others. It is.
- 15:43The Matthew 7 analogy about the log and spec is used here.
- 15:47We're often quick to spot the little speck of sin in someone
- 15:50else's eye while completely missing the massive log in our
- 15:53own. The point?
- 15:54Isn't to compare who's worse, No.
- 15:56But to highlight where our primary focus for change needs
- 15:59to be working honestly and rigorously on the sin that's
- 16:03most obvious in your own life, The log that fundamentally
- 16:06changes your perspective. It enables you to help others
- 16:09with their struggles from a place of humility and genuine
- 16:12compassion, not judgment. Let's circle back.
- 16:14To those case studies to see how this diagnostic step works.
- 16:18Mary with the worry and sleeplessness, right?
- 16:21Mary's outward fruit was anxiety and sleeplessness.
- 16:24The heat was her husband's demanding work schedule leading
- 16:27to him being absent or exhausted.
- 16:29Asking those why questions revealed an underlying I must
- 16:33statement I. Must have control, yes.
- 16:36Particularly over the stability and health of her marriage.
- 16:39This desire for control may be stemming from a fear related to
- 16:43her parents. Marriage was the root idol.
- 16:46The heat of the schedule squeezed her heart, exposed her
- 16:48fear and desire for control, which then produced the fruit of
- 16:52worry and sleeplessness when that control felt threatened
- 16:55and. Ed, the high school senior at
- 16:56the award ceremony. The award.
- 16:58Ceremony Seeing successful peers was the heat.
- 17:02His initial fruit was that mix of emotions, anger, shame,
- 17:06worry, fluctuating self worth, the why?
- 17:08Questions pointed to a deeper struggle, fear of.
- 17:11Man specifically needing approval and dreading failure.
- 17:14His potential I must statements were things like I must not be a
- 17:18failure or I must be well liked and perceived as successful by
- 17:22everyone. The heat exposed the root idol
- 17:25of needing approval and avoiding disapproval, producing the fruit
- 17:28of emotional turmoil it. Seems even seemingly simple
- 17:31struggles like dreading Monday morning can have deeper roots
- 17:34than we might first assume. Oh.
- 17:36Absolutely. If you just say I hate Mondays,
- 17:38you're only looking at the fruit.
- 17:40Asking why can reveal different roots.
- 17:44Maybe it's fear of failure at work, feeling inadequate, fear
- 17:48of man, category one. Or maybe.
- 17:49Dreading interaction with a difficult Co worker you rely on
- 17:52for something. Fear of man category 2 or.
- 17:55Perhaps in one example from the sources, it was sadness about
- 17:58ending the weekend, which for that person was filled with
- 18:01ministry opportunities. It revealed their hearts
- 18:04affection was maybe more rooted in the feeling of significance
- 18:07from ministry than in their calling to the Monday job.
- 18:10Getting to the root changes everything about how you address
- 18:13the problem. You have to be diligent in
- 18:15asking those probing questions of yourself.
- 18:18OK. So once you've done the hard
- 18:19work of identifying the root, sin and idol, what's next?
- 18:22Step 2. Step 2.
- 18:23Is to confess the sin. This is about willingly,
- 18:26honestly acknowledging the sin, including the identified heart,
- 18:29root or idol to God. It's agreeing with God about its
- 18:32reality, calling it what He calls it without minimizing or
- 18:35excusing it, and AS. We discussed this full
- 18:37confession meets God's full forgiveness, Yes.
- 18:41Then Step 3 follows naturally. Repent of the sin.
- 18:45This is the act of turning towards God.
- 18:47It's not just feeling sorry, it's leaving the old way, rooted
- 18:50in self and idols and turning to the Lord to restore the
- 18:53relationship it. Means cultivating a heart
- 18:55posture of full dependence and trust in God rather.
- 18:59Than continuing to live for what the idol promised or what your
- 19:01flesh desired. OK.
- 19:03And step four step. 4 is to reset priorities.
- 19:07This moves into the practical ways we live out that repentance
- 19:10and reorientation towards God. It involves several actions.
- 19:14First, you commit yourself to God's sovereignty and rule
- 19:16Romans. 12 talks about presenting your body as a living
- 19:19sacrifice, which is an. Act of worship and dedication.
- 19:22Calling God Lord isn't just a title, it's a commitment to live
- 19:25according to His ways and His purposes.
- 19:27Not your own or the idols, but what?
- 19:30If you struggle with even wanting to do these things, what
- 19:32if the desire to turn to God or read the Word just isn't there?
- 19:36That happens it. Does.
- 19:38And that's where you pray for wisdom to walk in His ways.
- 19:41If you lack the right desires, if you don't feel like turning
- 19:44to God or engaging with His Word, be honest with Him about
- 19:48that. Confess the lack of right
- 19:50desires, but don't. Stop there.
- 19:52No. Pray specifically that God would
- 19:54cultivate those desires in you and critically you.
- 19:57Don't wait for the feeling before you obey.
- 20:00You choose to meditate on the Word and be obedient to it,
- 20:03regardless of your feelings that.
- 20:05Seems so counterintuitive in our feeling driven world.
- 20:08Obey even when you don't feel like it it.
- 20:10Does. But the sources make a strong
- 20:12point here. Obedience isn't earned by having
- 20:15the right feelings first. It's done because you understand
- 20:18and believe in the rightness and goodness of God's command and
- 20:21the desired outcome of obeying Him.
- 20:23They use. That anecdote about the little
- 20:25boy? Weston, right?
- 20:26Weston, if you have to go to the bathroom very badly, he has an
- 20:29intense physical feeling or urging him to go right now, but
- 20:32he exercises self-control and waits until he gets to the
- 20:35bathroom. Why not?
- 20:37Because he feels like waiting, no?
- 20:39But because he knows the desired outcome, not having an accident,
- 20:43not being embarrassed, he acts against a strong feeling for a
- 20:47desired outcome. So.
- 20:48In the spiritual life, while we. Desperately need the Holy Spirit
- 20:52to give us the desire to do what pleases the Lord.
- 20:55We aren't meant to wait until we feel like obeying before we
- 20:57actually obey. We choose God's way based on His
- 21:02truth, even when our flesh or feelings scream the opposite
- 21:05asking. The Spirit to enable us and
- 21:07shape our desires along the way. Yes.
- 21:10Living God's way requires putting away that self
- 21:12centeredness and committing to follow His word despite contrary
- 21:15feelings. So.
- 21:16It's an act of the will, empowered by the spirit, not
- 21:19driven by emotion. And this is part of walking in
- 21:21the spirit, yes. Absolutely.
- 21:23Walking in the Spirit is relying on His enablement and guidance
- 21:26to live God's way, recognizing you can't do it in your own
- 21:29strength and the. Sources list other practical
- 21:32things that fall under resetting priorities, too.
- 21:34Things like diligently studying and memorizing scripture.
- 21:38To fill your mind with God's truth and counteract deceitful
- 21:41thoughts and the lies of idols praying.
- 21:43Ceasingly maintaining constant communication and dependence.
- 21:47Denying self, actively choosing God's will over your own
- 21:50desires, which directly confronts those idols rooted in
- 21:54self judging. Yourself biblically applying
- 21:56God's standard to your own life with humility regarding.
- 21:59Others is more important than yourself which directly combats
- 22:02the self focus in the fear of man dwelling.
- 22:05On biblical truths, intentionally focusing your mind
- 22:07on what's true, noble, right, pure, lovely, admirable.
- 22:11Like Philippians 4.8 says instead.
- 22:14Of letting it drift towards worry, fear or covetousness and
- 22:18actively cultivating godly characteristics like compassion,
- 22:21kindness, humility, gentleness, patience, the opposite fruit of
- 22:26a heart ruled by idols living. God's way really requires
- 22:29conscious intentional effort. Then turning away from those
- 22:32self-centered default settings. It really.
- 22:34Does. And this whole process brings us
- 22:36to a pivotal point that's constantly before us, especially
- 22:38when the heat is on. When circumstances squeeze the
- 22:41heart, those underlying desires and idols surface, and you face
- 22:44a decision the. Sources illustrate this with
- 22:46what they call AY diagram. Yeah.
- 22:49At any point, faced with temptation or a challenging
- 22:51situation, you're standing at a fork in the road.
- 22:54You're either choosing to please yourself or you're choosing to
- 22:56please God that. Decision point seems incredibly
- 22:59significant. Every moment, almost, it is.
- 23:02Everything as First Corinthians 10.31 says, whether you eat or
- 23:06drink, whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God.
- 23:09In 2nd Corinthians 5.9 states our aim is to please Him that.
- 23:13Decision made repeatedly throughout the day, in countless
- 23:17small moments. That's.
- 23:18What shapes the direction of your life, whether you're
- 23:20walking the upward path towards God or veering off onto paths
- 23:24dictated by self and idols and. This process of change, of
- 23:28moving along that upward path, it isn't instantaneous, is it?
- 23:32No. Definitely not a quick fix.
- 23:34The principle from Galatians 6 of reaping and sowing is very
- 23:37applicable here. Change takes time.
- 23:39It requires faithful obedience, consistently choosing to sow to
- 23:42the Spirit even when it's difficult or you don't see
- 23:45immediate results. You're in a.
- 23:47Season of sowing to the glory of God, yes.
- 23:50And the fruit of righteousness will come.
- 23:52But don't focus on achieving instant perfection.
- 23:55Focus on moment by moment faithfulness in choosing God's
- 23:57way. So.
- 23:59To recap the practical steps, identify the roots and idol,
- 24:02confess it, repent, turn to God, and then consistently
- 24:06intentionally reset priorities through actions like committing
- 24:09to God's rule, praying for wisdom and desire, obeying His
- 24:13Word regardless of feelings, walking in the Spirit, and
- 24:16practicing those disciplines that reshape the heart.
- 24:18It sounds like it requires constant vigilance it.
- 24:21Does the sources conclude the practical steps with a very
- 24:24clear reminder? If you don't intentionally
- 24:27organize your life in such a way that it pleases God, it will by
- 24:30default organize itself to please the flesh pleasing.
- 24:33Yourself is the natural inclination after the fall.
- 24:36And it takes conscious, deliberate work enabled by God's
- 24:39Spirit to reorient your life towards pleasing Him in every
- 24:42area well. This deep dive has certainly
- 24:44given us a comprehensive look at what the sources say about the
- 24:46heart. We've explored how the heat of
- 24:48circumstances reveals what's truly rooted inside us.
- 24:51How? Idols, things that capture our
- 24:53affections more than God, are the underlying issue behind our
- 24:56struggles, particularly that pervasive fear of man in its
- 25:00various forms and we've. Looked at how biblical
- 25:02repentance involves turning away from those idols and self
- 25:06focused towards God resetting our lives to please him through
- 25:09practical spirit enabled steps. These aren't just abstract
- 25:13theological concepts, are they? They are intensely practical.
- 25:17They apply directly to the pressures you face, the desires
- 25:20you wrestle with, and the choices you make every single
- 25:23hour of every day. So thinking about the heat
- 25:25revealing the heart and that crucial decision point we
- 25:28constantly face. Pleasing self or pleasing God.
- 25:31Maybe a final thought for you listening what specific heat in
- 25:34your life right now might be exposing an idol or a fear of
- 25:38man you weren't fully aware of. And in that moment of pressure,
- 25:42who are you choosing to please? It's something to consider as
- 25:45you navigate the upward path. A.
- 25:47Challenging thought to end on. Thanks for joining us for this
- 25:49deep dive.