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DLHS Hour 2 | Daughter lies about what stepdad did to her · The D.L. Hughley Show

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  Speaker 1: This is very interesting.
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  Speaker 2: A mother finds out that her daughter lied to her
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  Speaker 2: about her husband, her husband, uh, molesting her.
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  Speaker 1: Wow, that's that's diabolical.
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  Speaker 2: Is that's dirty as bus as?
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  Speaker 1: I blame the father, and I do. She was grown and.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, well she was. She was a child at the time.
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  Speaker 1: She knew she was lying, She knew that was a lie.
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  Speaker 4: But both of them all he needs to be the blame.
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  Speaker 2: I'm sorry, I think Wow, I certainly think he be
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  Speaker 2: is the bunt of the brain, brunt of the blame.
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  Speaker 1: But I think you can't. You can't. She's guilty of something.
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  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, without a doubt.
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  Speaker 4: But what if she was like ten or you know,
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  Speaker 4: less than ten years old?
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  Speaker 1: So she still she knows she wasn't touched.
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  Speaker 4: The children will lie for their parents, you know, for
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  Speaker 4: her dad's like, look, once and your mama get back together,
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  Speaker 4: and you know she probably does.
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  Speaker 3: As a child, you always want your apparently, okay, but
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  Speaker 3: I can't. I can't let her off the hook either though.
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  Speaker 1: No, me neither.
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  Speaker 5: And I hope the stepdaddy didn't get in any real
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  Speaker 5: legal trouble because of that.
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  Speaker 1: That would have been unforgivable. You got legal trouble, We
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  Speaker 1: lost the job and went to jail.
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  Speaker 2: Come on, now, yeah, because what you know that that
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  Speaker 2: that kind of accusation that that usually comes with that's
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  Speaker 2: what was supposed to happen.
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  Speaker 1: If you does somebody touch you want them in jail.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, well, with the quickness, they'd be lucky to go
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  Speaker 3: to jail. But right, that's what I'm saying. I don't
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  Speaker 3: want to.
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  Speaker 1: That that was that's horrible. So the question we're asking.
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  Speaker 2: My mother finds out that her her daughter, teenage daughter
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  Speaker 2: lied to her daughter lied to her, causing the breakup
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  Speaker 2: of her man. She's claimed she was molested by her stepfather.
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  Speaker 2: Her mariage broke up ten years later, she finds out
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  Speaker 2: about it. What do you think she should do? I
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  Speaker 2: think that that is such a horrible. She ruined their
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  Speaker 2: their relationship, She ruined she more live.
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  Speaker 1: Well the father did to father.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, man, that's hard, that's tough. If I were the mother,
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  Speaker 4: I don't know, it would take a whole lot. We
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  Speaker 4: would have to go to therapy to mend our relationship
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  Speaker 4: because depending on how I felt about my ex husband,
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  Speaker 4: who she you know, broke up. That's gonna take some
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  Speaker 4: time to heal from that. And it made they may
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  Speaker 4: need counseling real.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, or restraining order yeah.
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  Speaker 3: And daddy might Oh.
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  Speaker 1: Oh my god, I catch Oh my god.
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  Speaker 2: This is I've heard a lot of bad things obviously,
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  Speaker 2: but this is pretty.
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  Speaker 1: Bad up there. That's man, that's horrible. This is very interesting.
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  Speaker 2: A mother finds out that her daughter lied to her about.
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  Speaker 1: Her husband, her husband, uh, molesting her. What do you
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  Speaker 1: think he do? Go right there?
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  Speaker 6: Bok, oh my god, she was divorced for ten years.
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  Speaker 6: Well she's going to have to go another ten years
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  Speaker 6: finding him and apologizing. And while she's apologizing, her daughter's
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  Speaker 6: standing right there. Because that could have ruined this man's life,
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  Speaker 6: and not only ruined his life just from a you know,
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  Speaker 6: from a prison standpoint, we're talking about mentally ruining his life.
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  Speaker 7: You know.
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  Speaker 6: It's one thing to be a pedophile, and it's one
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  Speaker 6: thing to be accused of being a pedophile. And I
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  Speaker 6: should know because I got a plenty pedaphiles in my family.
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  Speaker 6: So that is just horrible. And what you do on today,
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  Speaker 6: you're gonna come out in the night at behest to
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  Speaker 6: her father. I don't know how young she was, but
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  Speaker 6: it need to be some repercussion.
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  Speaker 8: I would definitely want to.
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  Speaker 9: Know if if does he have a wife or ex husband,
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  Speaker 9: does he have a wife, does he has a wife
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  Speaker 9: or girlfriend? Because I would definitely want to tell his
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  Speaker 9: wife his girlfriend what he did. And I would go
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  Speaker 9: further than that. I would make my daughter tell his
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  Speaker 9: wife or his girlfriend what type of man is that
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  Speaker 9: she's married to us, if he's got a girpand that
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  Speaker 9: she's with because man, that is the young crazy to
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  Speaker 9: me to have your daughter to accuse her stepfather that
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  Speaker 9: he had touched her, and I was wondering I would
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  Speaker 9: want to know what the authority that police would have
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  Speaker 9: to say about that, because I don't think that she
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  Speaker 9: should the only one you should suffer to lose her.
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  Speaker 9: I'm sure she was in love with him or you know,
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  Speaker 9: but I would think he would have to feel some
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  Speaker 9: type of resolution for what he did, so that that
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  Speaker 9: is a tough thing.
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  Speaker 7: That's her daughter, that.
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  Speaker 9: Would always be her daughter. So I don't know what
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  Speaker 9: she could do about that, but for him, I would
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  Speaker 9: kind of find out some way to get back at him.
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  Speaker 8: Though, I just wanted to say that I think that
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  Speaker 8: these two people need to go to counseling. There had
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  Speaker 8: to be something really unhealthy going on with this little girl.
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  Speaker 8: For her to tell such a blacksomeness, why on her
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  Speaker 8: dad just to get her real dad in back in
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  Speaker 8: the picture. There's something that has not been resolved there. Mentally,
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  Speaker 8: I believe there needs to be some counseling or something
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  Speaker 8: at the very least going on with this this little
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  Speaker 8: young lady. Now that she's an adult now, so at
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  Speaker 8: least that needs to happen. But I think personally, if
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  Speaker 8: it was me, I would withdraw from my child at
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  Speaker 8: least some because there has to be consequences for this.
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  Speaker 8: In life, you got to know there's consequences for every action.
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  Speaker 8: Every action has a reaction, and that would be my reaction.
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  Speaker 1: Mother finds out their daughter like, well, let me let
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  Speaker 1: you hear.
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  Speaker 4: Imagine ding Doris for ten years, living life, a peaceful.
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  Speaker 1: Life, when you're now grown.
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  Speaker 4: Daughter comes to crying saying, Mom, I'm so sorry my
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  Speaker 4: set dad never did touch me.
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  Speaker 3: Dad put me up to it because he was trying
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  Speaker 3: to get back with you.
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  Speaker 1: What's your response, What do you think she should do?
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  Speaker 3: Oh, it's that sit you.
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  Speaker 10: But the child depending on how old she was, but
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  Speaker 10: I'm sure she was very young at the time. You
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  Speaker 10: can't blame her, But man, I would try to look
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  Speaker 10: him up maybe and see if he's with somebody else.
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  Speaker 10: He probably won't forgive her. But that ex husband, what
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  Speaker 10: a gush. Oh that's terrible. I just I don't know,
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  Speaker 10: I don't know. I can't be mad gropa. She was
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  Speaker 10: a child, But I think I wouldn't be a little bit.
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  Speaker 10: But I try to look him up and me if
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  Speaker 10: he was available.
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  Speaker 11: Man, this is a hard one, Like Dae. Thing I
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  Speaker 11: can say is go to the men, apologize to him
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  Speaker 11: and just forgive them, Like just to give the other
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  Speaker 11: guy for making his daughter do that. And you know
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  Speaker 11: you're gonna have to.
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  Speaker 8: Leave that one to God.
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  Speaker 11: That's the only way you can handle out on.
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  Speaker 12: The mother should go no contact with her daughter. I
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  Speaker 12: also feel that she should host something in the local
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  Speaker 12: newspaper or in his town where he's from, stating what
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  Speaker 12: she did and how sorry she is, and how she
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  Speaker 12: knows that this can never undo what she did, but
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  Speaker 12: she acknowledges that she was wrong and she was foolish
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  Speaker 12: about it. Let people know what she did. That will
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  Speaker 12: also allow folks to not want to deal with you
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  Speaker 12: or handing you with kitten gloves because they know the
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  Speaker 12: character of you.
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  Speaker 13: Originally, what they did was very morbid and dark, and
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  Speaker 13: I think it's gonna leave some everlasting scars.
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  Speaker 8: But at this point, what can she do.
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  Speaker 13: It's nothing you can do that's done over water under
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  Speaker 13: the bridge. But like I said, it's gonna leave some
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  Speaker 13: everlasting stars, and it may affect her relationship with her.
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  Speaker 10: Dorder and of course with the egg husband too, okay,
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  Speaker 10: because he put her up to it.
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  Speaker 7: I got two sides of that. I'm gonna give you
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  Speaker 7: my right hand side. My right hand side is the good.
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  Speaker 7: It's a good upperty side. I would grab him, call
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  Speaker 7: the cops, parent post charges on him, and throw him
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  Speaker 7: in jail because he shouldn't have never did nothing like that. Now,
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  Speaker 7: I'm gonna give you the real deal. New York City,
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  Speaker 7: uptown guide. Call him over to the house, have your
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  Speaker 7: friends there, which would be a bunch of guys, and
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  Speaker 7: just whoop the holy crap out of his board. And
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  Speaker 7: the dude that he that dude that she was dating
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  Speaker 7: or she was married to that best marriage up. Let
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  Speaker 7: him be a has to be handset the whole thing,
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  Speaker 7: and let him get the first in shot fit.
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  Speaker 14: If this man has gotten out, but if he's now
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  Speaker 14: free or not. And I just found out my daughter
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  Speaker 14: made a claim like this and sent this man to jail. Hey,
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  Speaker 14: I'm gonna fight to get that sponge off his record.
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  Speaker 14: Now she's told me, I'm gonna have I'm gonna foul
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  Speaker 14: charges or have them tries to foul charged against her.
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  Speaker 14: And I don't deal with you anymore because you don't
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  Speaker 14: know the type of anguish a mother or his parent
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  Speaker 14: goes through after something like that happens, not just the
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  Speaker 14: person that's been that's been charged and has to deal
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  Speaker 14: with that lie.
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  Speaker 8: But now I'm thinking my ticker is broken.
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  Speaker 14: So maybe I'm I need to not even date anyone,
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  Speaker 14: to deal with anyone until my children are child as
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  Speaker 14: an adult, and maybe I can I can do better,
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  Speaker 14: but I want to protect my kids. A lot of
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  Speaker 14: women that never have gone to death have children not
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  Speaker 14: today during their children's childhood for the fact of protecting them.
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  Speaker 14: Let alone one that tells their mom or this man
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  Speaker 14: harmed me in some kind of boys, she's gonna close
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  Speaker 14: herself up most likely and be isolated.
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  Speaker 8: So yeah, I think I would.
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  Speaker 14: Definitely need a season of me and you don't get
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  Speaker 14: down and this man, whether he's with me, or not,
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  Speaker 14: or he's cool with me or not we get along.
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  Speaker 14: I want this off his record.
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