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Dirty Little Secret: What happens when your relationship starts getting serious — but there’s a chapter of your past you’ve never mentioned? · Billy The Kidd In The Morning

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  Speaker 1: It is Dirty Little Secret, Little.
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  Speaker 2: Secret, Dirty Little Secret is on It's mixed one or
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  Speaker 2: two point nine and Billy the Kid, Candice low Pas
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  Speaker 2: producer Poo And if you have a secret, anytime you one,
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  Speaker 2: just reach out call us eight three three seven eight
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  Speaker 2: seven one o two nine, or you can get me
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  Speaker 2: up on Instagram. I could set it up that way
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  Speaker 2: at Billy on the radio. Although my Instagram is acting
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  Speaker 2: weird right now. I don't know if it's just mine
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  Speaker 2: or if Instagram is down or something, but I cannot
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  Speaker 2: see Candas's stories.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I haven't had any problems today. Did you block me? Maybe?
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  Speaker 2: Okay?
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  Speaker 1: See that?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: Unblock me real quick? Did you mute me?
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  Speaker 3: No?
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  Speaker 2: Don't you wish you could do that to people in
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  Speaker 2: real life? Just mute them right that annoying coworker.
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  Speaker 1: Mute at any moment.
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  Speaker 2: Just unmute volume down, you know what I mean, it'd
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  Speaker 2: be just so great. All right, what's your secret?
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  Speaker 1: Let me know? Now you got one?
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  Speaker 3: Good morning.
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  Speaker 1: We got to know your secret. I'm excited. What's going on?
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  Speaker 3: So my secret is I can't really say this out
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  Speaker 3: loud to any one in my real life yet. Okay,
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  Speaker 3: I've been dating this woman for about six months, and
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  Speaker 3: it's like it's getting pretty serious, like meet the family,
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  Speaker 3: talk about future kind of stuff.
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  Speaker 1: Good for you, congret. How many How long? Six months?
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  Speaker 2: You said?
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  Speaker 3: Six months?
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  Speaker 2: Okay, good, well that's yeah, that's pretty quick, but not
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  Speaker 2: too crazy.
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  Speaker 1: What's the issue.
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  Speaker 3: So there's part of my past she didn't really know about.
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  Speaker 3: Oh no, so a few years ago I worked as
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  Speaker 3: a male entertainer.
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  Speaker 1: Oh a few years ago.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, a few years ago. Really recent path until a
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  Speaker 3: few years ago.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, maybe you know.
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  Speaker 2: My producer work at Laberry. He worked at a male
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  Speaker 2: strip club for many years. He was not a stripper,
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  Speaker 2: but he I don't know what he did.
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  Speaker 1: It's kind of hosted amateur night.
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  Speaker 2: What did you Yeah, he I don't know. Did things
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  Speaker 2: behind the scenes? No, anyway, did you work in the
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  Speaker 2: bear No, I'm.
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  Speaker 3: Not ashamed of it, but I did bachelor parties, birthdays,
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  Speaker 3: that kind of stuff, like private event.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, so you didn't like, you know, you were doing
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  Speaker 2: it for the ladies and doing it for some a.
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  Speaker 1: Cop and then was like, oh the cops here. Oh,
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  Speaker 1: let's calm down with your fans.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah. I wasn't a pity shift or anything.
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  Speaker 2: All right, You weren't like, okay, now, try to lunch special.
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  Speaker 2: So you would show up and do you know your
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  Speaker 2: little dance, make some money and leave and it was
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  Speaker 2: over that that had to be a wildlife.
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  Speaker 1: Though it was.
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  Speaker 3: It was a lot of money, That's what That's the
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  Speaker 3: thing I remember the most about it. Yeah, okay, good
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  Speaker 3: and paid off to helped me get ahead and you know,
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  Speaker 3: let me move to a normal, regular job after that,
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  Speaker 3: which is what I have now.
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  Speaker 1: Good.
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  Speaker 2: So she doesn't know this, I mean I could see
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  Speaker 2: your where you're worry maybe are you worried about it?
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  Speaker 1: You were? She's going to judge you.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, she doesn't know who I was back then.
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  Speaker 3: She just knows who I am now sure, And I
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  Speaker 3: don't know if she'll sort of judge me or be
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  Speaker 3: insecure or just see me differently.
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  Speaker 1: This is way different for men and women.
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  Speaker 2: I'll tell you this that much because I feel like
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  Speaker 2: if I found out that a girl used to be
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  Speaker 2: an entertainer, that's like a big bomb that you dropped
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  Speaker 2: on me.
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  Speaker 1: That like, to me, is I'm looking at you different? Whatever? Yeah?
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  Speaker 2: I do. It's like that's a big part of your story.
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  Speaker 2: I'm not gonna say I break up but that takes.
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  Speaker 1: It until you just casually leave that out. Yeah, like
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  Speaker 1: you left that out.
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  Speaker 2: But when I feel like it's a guy saying it,
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  Speaker 2: I feel like most women would laugh and be like,
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  Speaker 2: wait what because a guy doing it feels silly, Hey,
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  Speaker 2: feel silly.
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  Speaker 1: I'll call him silly silly.
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  Speaker 2: It feels silly, whereas when a woman does it, it feels
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  Speaker 2: kind of serious.
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  Speaker 1: You're right, you know what you are? Right, that's that
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  Speaker 1: might be what it is.
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  Speaker 2: Like if who gets up on stage and dances, I'm
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  Speaker 2: cracking up, that's silly. If I get on stage and dance,
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  Speaker 2: I'm laugh nobody's like that's hot.
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  Speaker 1: They're like, what the hell is going on? And how
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  Speaker 1: do I get out of here?
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  Speaker 2: But when a woman does it, it's it's sexual, it's
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  Speaker 2: intimnutes personal. I don't know. Maybe it's a double standard,
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  Speaker 2: but that's what you're worried about. You're worried about that
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  Speaker 2: she's going to judge you.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, and it's you know, six months in, I don't
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  Speaker 3: know what the point of you know, being withholding is,
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  Speaker 3: and I think it might be soon. Right. If I
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  Speaker 3: don't tell her down the line, she finds out, it's
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  Speaker 3: that's bad.
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  Speaker 1: How is she gonna find out? Well, unless you run
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  Speaker 1: into a few clients.
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  Speaker 2: Clients sometimes the truth, I don't know, the truth always
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  Speaker 2: finds a way to come out. I feel like eventually,
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  Speaker 2: so why she was just circulating in your head right now?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's going to bother you.
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  Speaker 2: I don't think, Cannice, you could speak for you know,
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  Speaker 2: as a woman with if a guy dropped this bomb
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  Speaker 2: on you at six months when you're starting to get
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  Speaker 2: serious and he's like, hey, I got to tell you
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  Speaker 2: something that I'm it's and he maybe he kind of
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  Speaker 2: frames it as funny. I can't believe I did this,
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  Speaker 2: but I'm just gonna ahead and get it out there.
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  Speaker 1: Right, What do you do? What do you think? Again?
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  Speaker 1: That feels silly? You are very silly for a while.
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  Speaker 1: It made a lot of money, Like you're done with that.
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  Speaker 1: It's like it's just different. I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: So you're laughing at him and you're like, dude, right, hilarious,
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  Speaker 2: show me what you did?
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  Speaker 1: What was your thing.
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  Speaker 3: Moves?
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  Speaker 1: What was like you you know, like not so magic Mike, right,
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  Speaker 1: like that stuffs funny? Magic Mike is funny to me? Really?
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  Speaker 2: Yes, I say, you tell her, just tell the truth.
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  Speaker 2: You can't lie anymore, just say it.
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  Speaker 1: Why not?
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  Speaker 2: Okay, unless you add extracurricular activities with the client.
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  Speaker 1: Now that's a different line of work. I assume that's
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  Speaker 1: not what we were talking about. That wasn't a thing.
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  Speaker 2: So then you just then you're just a retired stripper. Okay,
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  Speaker 2: thank you for your service.