Latest / The BEYOND Podcast / Jamie Roberts: The Money Taboo That Holds You Back
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- 0:00Unknown: What does success look like for you?
- 0:01Why are you doing this? And very few say because I want
- 0:05to make money. Why do some people make money
- 0:16while others play it safe and miss out?
- 0:19Jamie Roberts has spent a decade betting on people deciding who's
- 0:24worth backing. So if you are better like who's
- 0:28on that conveyor belt to constantly churn out that better
- 0:33way of working you've. Got to be careful about numbers
- 0:36not dictating our world. Yeah, I was going to.
- 0:38That's my next question for you. I do like nice stuff.
- 0:41It's probably the most important training course you can you can
- 0:45receive. He'll show you how investors
- 0:47really think, when to risk it, when to walk, and most
- 0:52importantly, how to back yourself.
- 0:55And I promise you, the number is always either
- 0:575102030405060708090A-100. It's always very round ballpark.
- 1:06Yeah, yeah. People who have stuff going on
- 1:08outside of work. I'm significantly more stable.
- 1:11And I'm really flattered, honoured and delighted that
- 1:15you've seen this as a valuable session as well to come here to
- 1:18give you time. It's definitely been valuable
- 1:20for me. I know people are going to
- 1:21definitely find it interesting. So yeah.
- 1:23Thank you for having me. I was thinking of how to
- 1:30introduce you, and I think the best way for people to
- 1:33understand what you do is to go back to The Apprentice when all
- 1:38those cannon fodder, I'm going to call them cannon fodder
- 1:42candidates, all naive and optimistic.
- 1:45We're trying to get an investment for their business
- 1:49and the whole show of all those seasons is about them coming in
- 1:53and they present their business plans and then they get put
- 1:55through a series of tasks. And then he whistles out, you
- 1:59know who's good, who isn't every week.
- 2:01And then you left at the end with the one that gets £250,000
- 2:06for their business. 50% of the business goes to Lord Sugar, 50%
- 2:10stays. Let's talk about it.
- 2:14But basically it's, it's a fight for that investment.
- 2:18And, and the hope is, of course, that OK, by associating yourself
- 2:22then with Lord Sugar, you get all these other benefits, which
- 2:25turned out not always to be the case because sometimes when they
- 2:28hear I'm Lord Sugar's business partner, it's like, yeah.
- 2:30And but that's a different story.
- 2:32But basically, you're the Lord Sugar times 50 plus businesses.
- 2:39You do this all the time. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
- 2:42But basically, you decide who gets the money.
- 2:45That is your role. Am I correct in in later terms.
- 2:48OK. So how would you describe
- 2:49yourself, you know, in more sort of the polished way?
- 2:52Yeah. So I, so I'm the manager,
- 2:55partner and chairman of investment committee for WI FM
- 2:58Equity Partners. So we see about 1500
- 3:02opportunities a year for businesses and entrepreneurs
- 3:04looking for funding and we invest in about 1% of them.
- 3:10We do, it's about 1% and it's been 1%.
- 3:12I've been at WI FM for for 12 years and, and the person who
- 3:15trained me to do how I trained me to do what I do, Paul David,
- 3:19they and the two Davids one pool, they always just say to me
- 3:22we only ever convert 1 in 100 and the number's been one in 100
- 3:25since sort of private investing began in the UK.
- 3:28And I was pretty sceptical. And actually, I look back over
- 3:31the 12 years I've been at Wyfem and it is one in 100, it's still
- 3:34one in 100. So mean.
- 3:36So it's, it's really interesting because there's A, and I'm sure
- 3:39we'll talk about this, but it's not.
- 3:41So as a fund manager, we make our money by investing in
- 3:45businesses. So we are absolutely, if I could
- 3:47change that 1% to 2%, YFM would be twice as big.
- 3:52You'll need fewer people because we spend so much time looking at
- 3:55businesses and working with businesses that we then decide
- 3:58not to win, to invest in. So we, we actively want to do
- 4:02more. The reason we don't do more is
- 4:04either because the business isn't, isn't quite ready for
- 4:07the, for the investment. It's not quite what we do or we
- 4:11just can't agree commercial terms to invest in the business.
- 4:15So the selection criteria for I, I'm for entrepreneurs, I imagine
- 4:18they feel massively frustrated by people like me because they
- 4:21sit here and think you're only investing one in 100.
- 4:23That's mean the words you used. It's why don't you invest in
- 4:27more? And it's because we're investing
- 4:28other people's money. So we go out and raise funds
- 4:31from our investors and we tell them this is our our process for
- 4:35making investments and working with the companies and
- 4:37delivering value. So we have to go through this
- 4:39journey to decide which ones we think are going to work, not
- 4:42work, which are right for us, which fall within our criteria.
- 4:44OK. So just to be clear, it it looks
- 4:47like your default is basically no.
- 4:49Someone walks through the door, very excited.
- 4:51It's no. Yeah, so, so it's a great that I
- 4:54can see that we, the way one of my colleagues talks about it is
- 4:58our job is finding 9999% of the time we're finding reasons to
- 5:02politely say it's not you, it's us politely declining because
- 5:08you work really hard to get people to come and talk about
- 5:09their businesses and you don't want to be rude.
- 5:11So you try and give constructive feedback, but ultimately you are
- 5:14saying it's it's not for us and nobody really wants to hear
- 5:17that. The other 1% of the time we're
- 5:18saying we desperately want to invest in your business, please
- 5:21choose us. Please choose us.
- 5:22Please choose us because there's lots of people like us.
- 5:25OK, but that's extremely right. And basically it hardly ever
- 5:27happened and and the default is no.
- 5:30So how do you make that decision?
- 5:32Within seconds sometimes? I mean, how quickly?
- 5:36So we do, we do quite a lot of work on conscious bias,
- 5:40unconscious bias. We try and avoid the making a
- 5:43snap judgement when somebody walks in the room, when somebody
- 5:47starts talking to us. You can, you can quite easily.
- 5:50If somebody feels like us, that's really easy to warm to
- 5:53them as they will naturally like people who look, sound and feel
- 5:57like us. But the reality is people who
- 5:59look, sound and feel like me as an investor probably aren't the
- 6:03right people to be running a business because they're running
- 6:06a trading business, operating business.
- 6:08I'm running an investment business.
- 6:09So we do work quite hard with the teams to, to get past that
- 6:13first try not to make a decision in the first half an hour of the
- 6:16meeting. It worked really hard.
- 6:18We've got a, there's a process you go through which is to tell
- 6:21us your story, like get to the end of the story before you
- 6:23start making the, before you start making the decision in
- 6:26your head. I think the reality is sometimes
- 6:29people walk in the room and you will, you will go.
- 6:33Actually, I just can't, not when they first walk in, but within a
- 6:35few minutes you can sit there and go.
- 6:37Actually, this is going to feel quite difficult for us.
- 6:40OK, so if you are going to take someone's seriously, someone's
- 6:45business seriously, what's the first sign indication that they
- 6:50will give you to make you think, which is obviously the one out
- 6:53of 100? Yeah, so, So what?
- 6:58So for me, I like to be quite prepared going into a meeting.
- 7:01So whilst we, it sounds like we see a lot, so we see 1500
- 7:04opportunities a year. I've got 65 people that work
- 7:07within YFM. So if you let's say 38 weeks, 36
- 7:10weeks of the year, 46 weeks of the year that everybody works 40
- 7:13hours a week, the 65 people, they're not looking at a huge
- 7:17volume of, of opportunities. It's a big number as a firm, but
- 7:21individually it's not. So we quite like to people who
- 7:24share the information in advance so we can read it, think about
- 7:27it. That's a, that's a tick for us
- 7:29because we want to go to the meeting and form.
- 7:31Yeah, because they're proud of what they're doing.
- 7:34Scratch our heads a bit with people who say, let let me talk
- 7:37to you about the business on the phone.
- 7:39Cool was happy to do that and then I'll get in the room and
- 7:41I'll present it to you and then I'm a bit of a why wouldn't you
- 7:44send us just a bit more information in advance so I
- 7:47could do some proper thinking. So that's that's one thing I
- 7:50that's probably a personal bugbear I sort of thing I'm now
- 7:53going to turn up to that meeting.
- 7:55I'm not going to be able to be that well informed.
- 7:58It's a bit of a blind meeting. Of course, I think any yeah,
- 8:00preparation professionally, you want to be as prepared as you
- 8:03can be so that you know what you're doing.
- 8:05You put the information beforehand and then the meetings
- 8:07was more meaningful because you're talking about critical
- 8:10details and you know a deeper level instead of the surfacey,
- 8:14sort of almost fluffy gimmicky. And never forget.
- 8:17So we're selling to the company as well.
- 8:19So whilst we only invest in one in 100 that we see we have to
- 8:23start work and meet like as soon as something comes through the
- 8:25door, we're working quite hard to win it, even if we're going
- 8:28to decide we don't want to do it.
- 8:29Because if you don't, if you're not positive and upbeat at the
- 8:33beginning, it's quite hard for us to win them back.
- 8:36So we go into everything absolutely with the mindset of
- 8:39we want to win this opportunity. Because if we don't, if we, if
- 8:43we sit there asking lots of difficult questions and being
- 8:45all aloof like people think investors are, they're not going
- 8:50to warm to us as people. They're not going to want to
- 8:51take our money. Yeah.
- 8:52So you go in there thinking, motivated to win this
- 8:56opportunity, but at the same time you know that only one in
- 8:59100 are worth it and you know all the reasons why you wouldn't
- 9:02invest. And you've got them all too well
- 9:04in your mind, and you're trying not to be too negative.
- 9:06So it's really interesting thing that because one in 100 work for
- 9:11us, it doesn't mean the 99 others won't work for somebody
- 9:14else, but it's just the the bit of the journey that we do with
- 9:18our two main strategies. It just means that quite a lot
- 9:21of them don't fit with that. And and back to the how we how
- 9:25we present when we meet people the first time.
- 9:27If we look at the TV shows that people that people say to me,
- 9:32oh, what do you do? And when I sort of say, oh, what
- 9:34I did, I mean, I tend to sort of say, oh, I work for a bank or
- 9:37something because it's just easier than trying to explain it
- 9:40or yeah. And then if you go a bit deeper
- 9:42and you explain it, people will automatically say, oh, like
- 9:44Dragons den or like The Apprentice apprentice.
- 9:48Yeah. And I sort of go, yeah, yeah,
- 9:49kind of. But if we behaved in that way to
- 9:53companies coming into us, we wouldn't exist.
- 9:56No, because they bring they bring something different
- 9:59through the process, right? They bring something different
- 10:00to what we bring. They bring a profile and a
- 10:03stuff, whereas we're sitting say actually we're professional
- 10:06investors, we want to work with you on the journey.
- 10:08That on average is sort of five to seven years.
- 10:11So we're going on a long journey with them.
- 10:13If we behaved in a obtuse way to them at the beginning, why would
- 10:16they want to? Why would they choose us?
- 10:19Yeah, true. I think Lord Sugar's really
- 10:21lucky, isn't he? He can get away with his.
- 10:24Yeah, he they have platforms, they're very successful, they're
- 10:27very good. But yeah, I think the you don't
- 10:31go just go on those shows for the for the investment, the like
- 10:34people go, you've done it. People go on those shows because
- 10:36there's it's a big platform that's profile I get to, I get
- 10:39to push my product. Do you think Dragons Den really
- 10:42is an 8 minute advert on prime time BBC television?
- 10:46I mean, it's an awesome, it's an awesome opportunity for
- 10:47entrepreneurs to go and talk about their business.
- 10:49It is. You definitely get the platform
- 10:52to showcase yourself. You're still with, you know,
- 10:55many have continued with their businesses and many have gone
- 10:57very much into immediate direction and forgotten
- 10:59completely about that business plan that they once put on their
- 11:02table. But it's great for us.
- 11:04So if I think when I was growing up, so I'm 43, so I grew up in,
- 11:08I was born in 1982. You had Luke Johnson of Pizza
- 11:11Express frame fame, did a little bit on TV about going into
- 11:15businesses, like walking the floor.
- 11:17There was a chapter for him whose name I can't remember.
- 11:21Then we had Wall Street film in the 80s, but that's like that
- 11:24was like the the end of sort of business on TV.
- 11:28So for now, whilst it sooner people didn't think about us
- 11:30like Dragon's Den because we're not quite behaviourally like
- 11:33that or or like The Apprentice, it's still better.
- 11:36People think business and entrepreneurship is much cooler
- 11:40today than it was when I was growing up and that is because
- 11:43of the TV shows. Now we succeed.
- 11:45We we celebrate more entrepreneurialism and business
- 11:49success than we ever have before.
- 11:51We do, we do. But like with The Apprentice,
- 11:54you'll get many that are very upbeat about their businesses,
- 11:58very confident, you know, and then you can see that as
- 12:03enthusiasm, but you can also see it as arrogance very often.
- 12:06And like not my businesses, you know.
- 12:07How much of that do you see and how do you sort of draw the the
- 12:10distinction between genuine confidence that you think, yeah,
- 12:13that that's a person with Becky and they know they really
- 12:15believe versus. Yeah, it, it's hard, isn't it?
- 12:18If you think starting a business and you're doing this with the
- 12:20podcast, right, to start something from fresh, it's
- 12:23really hard. So you do have to have an
- 12:26element of self belief because lots of people will knock you
- 12:29down. So when I meet founders or or
- 12:32people running businesses, my starting point is this person is
- 12:37is probably a bit different to most people because they're
- 12:40taking so much risk to do what they're doing.
- 12:43So you sort of have to forgive them for sometimes behaving
- 12:46forgive. Them I love.
- 12:47It, but you can't judge them. I think sometimes you sort of
- 12:50go, you do get founders who can come across.
- 12:54If you met them in the pub and they talked about their business
- 12:57in that way in the pub, I'd probably sort of turn the other
- 12:59way and talk to somebody else. But actually, I do want people
- 13:02to come in and be really proud of what they've done and be
- 13:05quite, this is going to look great.
- 13:08The ones who come in and tell us that they've developed the next
- 13:12Google, Facebook, you know, whatever, it's great.
- 13:15But the chance, you know, that's such an infinite, infinite, like
- 13:18really small chance that they've done that.
- 13:20I struggle with that. But the, the people who come in
- 13:23and say, look, this is what I've got.
- 13:24This is what I've done. This is how I've done it.
- 13:26This is why it's going to be awesome over the next five
- 13:29years. I I love that.
- 13:30Yeah, I suppose as a, as a business owner as well, you've
- 13:32got to be careful who you're speaking to.
- 13:34So if you're speaking to, you know, your mum in law or the
- 13:37next one AB, you're not going to go.
- 13:38This is why my business is going to really do well in five years
- 13:41and start going to numbers because they'll be like.
- 13:44You're. Crazy basically.
- 13:47So yeah, I suppose. But but to an investor, you
- 13:49really have to go into that. So when you look at personality
- 13:54drive and then you look at hard numbers and then you look at the
- 13:58actual concept, whether that concept has legs.
- 14:03But you were saying you have to understand the concept because
- 14:05it might be different industries that maybe you're not that
- 14:07familiar with in sectors. But but let's say out of those
- 14:10three sort of idea, whether it's feasible numbers and person,
- 14:15what do you think would take the most weight people?
- 14:19Oh, right. It's always, always, always
- 14:21people. So I would back, I would say
- 14:24we've done but it's why phones been investing for 43.
- 14:27It's been around for a long time and if we look back, we've we've
- 14:30done really well with great people with not great products
- 14:35and difficult markets. If you don't have great people
- 14:42or if you have people that just can't execute, it doesn't matter
- 14:44how great the product is or how great the market is, it's going
- 14:48to be really hard if they can't execute.
- 14:50So we don't run businesses. We back people to run their
- 14:53businesses. So we don't have nobody at
- 14:55Wi-Fi, Amazon operator, we we set on boards, we're strategic.
- 14:59We help with strategic direction, but we're not in
- 15:01there everyday running the business.
- 15:03So we've got to back them to run their business and.
- 15:06Deliver them OK, that, that's super interesting.
- 15:08You know, as a, a marketer, you know, I, I will see a lot of
- 15:12businesses and I'll, I have to understand how they work, how
- 15:16they run. I have to understand where they
- 15:17get their sales. You know what, what's their main
- 15:20source and across various industries.
- 15:24And you can sort of, you start to get an idea quite quickly
- 15:27whether some of their plans, you know, they want to launch
- 15:29something, you know, you kind of have an idea.
- 15:32And then, but you, you do get to see businesses from that
- 15:37financial angle. And sometimes the business owner
- 15:40as well. There might be, this is maybe
- 15:42for younger businesses, for newer businesses, they will come
- 15:46to you with an idea, but when it's too much like, oh, look at
- 15:50this idea can, can you basically make all of it happen?
- 15:54And then there's not the sort of strategic analysis, intelligence
- 15:59and drive that is definitely a worry to.
- 16:02Yeah, that's hard. Can you just do it?
- 16:04Yeah. So it comes back to that.
- 16:05We invest in one in 100 because some of them, some of the
- 16:08businesses we meet want more from us than we can give them.
- 16:11Yeah. So if we meet a business and we
- 16:13go think the team's really great, think the market's really
- 16:15great, think the product's really great, but they need
- 16:17somebody who's going to get really heavily involved, open
- 16:21doors, help them to help them with the next tech development
- 16:25and and do something more. We sort of say, well, that's not
- 16:28us. We can't do we really can't do
- 16:29that. We don't want you to take our
- 16:30money. It's.
- 16:31The open doors thing, so the, the most common thing for the
- 16:34younger ones, the raw ones, they come in and go look, I've got
- 16:37this really good idea. I've got this website.
- 16:38That's right. Can you just go and open doors?
- 16:41Go get me some sales please. Yeah, that we get that a lot.
- 16:45You get that a lot. What does the net one look like?
- 16:47One of the questions we get is can we sell to the other WI FM
- 16:51portfolio companies? So we've got 56 portfolio
- 16:54companies and they will, not all of them, but most businesses we
- 16:57meet will say, oh, we'd love the opportunity to go and pitch to
- 17:00your portfolio companies to which I say, yeah, that's
- 17:02brilliant. But if we invest in you, do you
- 17:04want to hear from the other 55 trying to sell their products to
- 17:08you because because they don't. So we'll absolutely be helpful.
- 17:13If so, often portfolio company will come to us and say we've
- 17:18we've got this, we're targeting this company or or this person
- 17:21we want to sell to and we can see that on LinkedIn.
- 17:25You're connected to them or you're a second connection.
- 17:28What's that? Is there anything there that you
- 17:30can help us with? And absolutely, if we can help,
- 17:32of course we will and we're well networked.
- 17:34So we can do that. We will help provide.
- 17:39So a lot of our companies want to go into the US.
- 17:41We've got quite a lot of experience of backing businesses
- 17:43going to the US. So if somebody says we want to
- 17:45move in, we want to open up in the US.
- 17:47What can you do to help us? We sort of say, look, here are
- 17:49the 10 great non execs we know or advisors who will join your
- 17:53board or come into the business as a consultant and they'll help
- 17:56you look around corners. But it's not me, it's not it's
- 17:58not our team, it's not Y FM S who can do that.
- 18:01But we there's not many sectors. We don't know somebody that can
- 18:05go in and help, but as an operator rather than investor.
- 18:08And I do encourage people to think really hard about what
- 18:10they want. So do they want an investor
- 18:13who's there to put money into the business and help as much as
- 18:15they can or do they want to recruit an operator?
- 18:18So when somebody says to me can you open doors, I said, well, I
- 18:21can give you the money to recruit a sales director or a
- 18:24marketing director, but I can't go and do can't be selling for
- 18:27you. But sometimes it's, look, here's
- 18:30the idea. Can you just run my business for
- 18:33me and so tell me what to do at every stage and you know, yeah,
- 18:38that that's a tricky 1. Yeah, it's the can you bring,
- 18:42you probably get this more than we do, but can you bring your
- 18:45profile to my business? At which point you end up sort
- 18:48of saying, well, I, I, I assume I can give you, if I give you my
- 18:51profile, then I'm, I'm sort of investing quite a lot in your
- 18:54business because if your business doesn't do great, that
- 18:56impacts my, that impacts my profile.
- 18:58It's. A Co branding thing, Yeah.
- 19:00So I suppose you deal with risk. That is the emotion that you
- 19:06deal with all the time. And you probably define risk
- 19:10differently to the average person because you're exposed to
- 19:13it all the time. So how do you think about risk?
- 19:16Yeah. So risk reward, right.
- 19:20I believe risk reward is 100% balanced in a in a normal
- 19:24market. So sometimes credit crunch,
- 19:27everybody was overpricing risk and worrying about risk too
- 19:29much. And sort of post COVID when
- 19:32money was sort of free, people were under pricing risk.
- 19:34But if you look back over time, there is no reward without risk.
- 19:39So when we see, and that's not just for investors, that's for
- 19:42founders. We see people who have these
- 19:43massive exits and have done really, really well and people
- 19:46talk about the overnight success.
- 19:48That's ignoring the 10 years of risk they took to get to the
- 19:51overnight success. And I, so I for us it's all we
- 19:55try and quantify which is really difficult.
- 19:59How are we going to feel if this business gets sold for £500
- 20:04million in five years time? How much, what sort of return
- 20:09are we making on our money and how are we going to feel?
- 20:12So if we make, if the Business Today he's got a million or two
- 20:15of revenue and ten members of staff and it's going to and we
- 20:19think we sell it for 500 million and we make 10 times our money.
- 20:23Does that feel good for the risks we've taken?
- 20:26Because you could have got to visualize what's the business
- 20:28got to look like to sell for 500 million?
- 20:31What's going to happen from here to here?
- 20:33And if all that happens and we make 10 times the money, are we
- 20:35happy with that? Or are we saying that's not
- 20:38quite enough? And we try and think about it a
- 20:40bit like that rather than what's the day what, what are we
- 20:44investing on day one? It's more about when this goes
- 20:46really well, are we going to make enough money at the other
- 20:49end? So you can be nice.
- 20:51Yeah, yeah, yeah. So what's a a red flag that will
- 20:56torch a deal pretty much straight away?
- 20:59Lying. Lying.
- 21:01Oh, that's a strong word, isn't it?
- 21:03Deliberately misrepresenting. Well, that is again, like The
- 21:06Apprentice candidates ACV, where it's like they there was one,
- 21:09which is really funny. I actually rewatched it the
- 21:11other day because I was doing some research for something and
- 21:14one of the candidates didn't know the differences between,
- 21:16you know, gross profit and all this just basic terms, didn't
- 21:20understand. And then basically gave the
- 21:23wrong impression of how much money the business was making
- 21:27and a lack of knowledge. And all of it sort of came
- 21:29together in one awful encounter with Claude Litner, I think it
- 21:33was of. A test.
- 21:34I've seen that, yeah. Horrific.
- 21:35And he ended up with me because he that's his part of it, isn't
- 21:38it? Is to play that I'm the suit.
- 21:40You think Alan Sugar's bad cop? I'm.
- 21:42Actually. Claude Litner But so, so that's
- 21:45interesting because for us as investors, it comes back to this
- 21:47different style. I don't expect founders to know
- 21:52all of that stuff because they're not, they're not
- 21:55accountants, they're not investors, they're not bankers.
- 21:58They're running their business. So they've got no sales,
- 22:00marketing, tech, HR, they're doing everything.
- 22:04So they're in everything. So I, we never, we don't, we
- 22:07take a different approach. That's if we ask a question,
- 22:09they don't and the answer we're like, well, that's, that's cool.
- 22:12Of course you're a small business, you've got loads of
- 22:13people. It'd be great if you could come
- 22:14back to us with that. And if you don't know how to get
- 22:16that, then we can help you do that.
- 22:19And actually, if you've if you're on, if it's a numbers
- 22:23numbery question, then you're probably using one of half a
- 22:26dozen software tools. We've got people at Wife M that
- 22:29we can just just give them login access to your stuff and they
- 22:32can go in and do all that work and you don't have to.
- 22:35Yeah, they can answer those questions.
- 22:36It does get complicated. It does, and we talk so we don't
- 22:39judge. We don't.
- 22:40We don't consider not knowing something a red flag, somebody
- 22:45who deliberately misrepresents. So if they say I've got 50
- 22:49customers and I'm generating this much revenue and then we
- 22:53get into exclusivity and then when we start doing the work you
- 22:55realise they've got 15 customers, but 45 or 35 have
- 23:01said they really want to buy it. Yeah.
- 23:04All that that's quite difficult because it's I think about
- 23:07investing is it's like getting married.
- 23:10So I've been with my wife. It's like getting married.
- 23:12It's like getting married. No, I do.
- 23:13I do. I absolutely think it's like you
- 23:15married. Somebody said I was, I was at an
- 23:17event earlier this week and somebody said the average Angel.
- 23:22So Angel investing in the UK is really early stage investing.
- 23:25The average Angel investment in the UK is longer than the
- 23:28average marriage in America. I don't know if that fact's
- 23:31true, but I'm definitely going to take it as my own.
- 23:34So you meet, we meet a new, we meet a new opportunity.
- 23:38We're going to get to know them really well.
- 23:40And then at some point we're going to decide actually, this
- 23:42is we want to go on this journey together.
- 23:45And then we're going to invest some money in their business and
- 23:47they're going to give us some shares and then we're going to
- 23:48build the value together. And then at the end of it,
- 23:50hopefully there's some great event.
- 23:53If somebody behaves, and if we behave in a way that's
- 23:56unpleasant or they behave in a way that makes us nervous before
- 23:59we've transacted or got married, we sort of know what's gonna
- 24:03happen on the other side. Yeah.
- 24:05So we do think about it as a we're building a relationship,
- 24:09marriage and whatever you show, however we all behave now is a
- 24:11really good example to how we're gonna what.
- 24:13Happens if you get married and you want the divorce.
- 24:16It's tough. So it happens.
- 24:17It's really, yeah, it's tough. It's really tough.
- 24:20And ultimately you end up trying to say.
- 24:22The documentation includes lots of stuff to try and.
- 24:25Yeah, legal things and this protection in place, but it's
- 24:28going to be. Protection for everybody.
- 24:30Like every divorce, it's going to be yeah.
- 24:31It's going to be, it's not going to be helpful in creating value,
- 24:36but we've got lots of examples where the management team has
- 24:39said we don't want to do this anymore.
- 24:40It's really tiring running a business.
- 24:42So sometimes teams will say to us is we've been at this for
- 24:46five years now, we want to, to either want to stop work now,
- 24:50want to keep our equity, let's go and recruit our successors,
- 24:53brilliant. Let's go and do that together.
- 24:54So you can, if you're open, like all things, you get through the
- 24:58bumps in the road just by being open.
- 25:00The the ones that are difficult is if people aren't open.
- 25:05OK, what if they're a little bit too open and they're like too
- 25:08optimistic and they're overstretching their their their
- 25:10ambitions and that do you see that quite quickly?
- 25:12Do you spot that you know they're trying to stretch out
- 25:15what they they close plan and I. Think that's cool as long as
- 25:18it's fundable. Yeah.
- 25:19So we, so we get nervous about blind optimism, but people
- 25:23coming to us test and learn. We we think we really like the
- 25:26test and learn philosophy. So yeah.
- 25:28So I want to go into the US so somebody got a business in the
- 25:31UK turning over 20 million makes a couple of million profit.
- 25:34I want to go and open up in the US.
- 25:36If the plan is I want to open an office in, I don't know,
- 25:41Washington. And here's a really good reason
- 25:43why I'm Washington. I'm going to recruit 3 people.
- 25:45I don't really know what I'm going to do after I've recruited
- 25:47the three people, but I'm going to try that.
- 25:49That's really cool. That's, that's ambition.
- 25:51We'll try it. We're going to get some stuff
- 25:53wrong. We're going to get some stuff
- 25:54right. And if the more right we get,
- 25:57we'll recruit more people, we might open another office.
- 25:59The ones that the ones that would be nervous, orange flag I
- 26:05guess are the ones who say I've got 20 million of revenue in the
- 26:08UK and 100 people. I want 5 million investment
- 26:11because I'm going to go and recruit 300 people in the US
- 26:13that open 30. OK, yeah, I get it.
- 26:16Yeah, that's extreme. Yeah.
- 26:17And it doesn't, it doesn't mean they can't do it.
- 26:20It's just executionally quite tough.
- 26:22Yeah, maybe step your toes. Yeah, you'd be surprised how
- 26:26many times we see business plans and we say to people, right, so
- 26:29by the end of this year, you're going to have an extra 20 staff.
- 26:32So that means you've got to recruit 2 people a month on
- 26:35average. How many people do you have to
- 26:37meet to recruit to? And most people will know off
- 26:40the top of the head, you know, in their sector probably got to
- 26:43meet 5 to recruit to, right? So you've got to be interviewing
- 26:4610 people a month, every month for the next 12 months you can
- 26:49see and you start to play it back.
- 26:51Actually, maths can be useful. Yeah, yeah, it can be useful
- 26:55when you break it down like that.
- 26:57OK. So what's 1 type of risk that
- 27:01people should actually take more often, you know, business
- 27:04owners? It's quite, quite a general
- 27:06question, I guess, but you know. I think in the UKI think in the
- 27:11US there's people are more and this is going to come straight
- 27:14back at me, right, Because investors are exactly the same.
- 27:16I'm not sure we take enough risk in the UK generally.
- 27:20I don't think, I don't think we, when people say why doesn't the
- 27:24UK build asset companies like they did in the US, part of that
- 27:28is because the US is bigger. So it's multiple times bigger.
- 27:31So of course their, their exits are going to be multiple times
- 27:34bigger than ours. I think there is a, it's sort of
- 27:38quite British, isn't it, to not be out there.
- 27:42You'd be surprised how many one of the questions we asked really
- 27:45early first meeting is what does success look like for the
- 27:47founder? So what does success look like
- 27:49for you? Why are you doing this?
- 27:51And very few say because I want to make money.
- 27:54Yeah, Oh my gosh, this is such a.
- 27:56You've just hit something that, you know, this is definitely
- 27:59being on my mind and I, I interview a lot of people as
- 28:02part of this podcast and I, I get a lot of insights as well
- 28:05into, into, you know, with business owners and things like
- 28:07that. And there is, there is a thing
- 28:11about the UK being a little bit like that sort of humble.
- 28:16It's not nice to show off. Put that down.
- 28:19Don't be so, you know, out there, don't do the personal
- 28:23brand. Just, you know, that's not very
- 28:25English. Just maybe just calm down.
- 28:27You're putting yourself out there.
- 28:29Whereas, you know, I grew up in South Africa and actually that
- 28:33was a very entrepreneurial country.
- 28:34It was building sizzling sort of like the UAE.
- 28:36Now there's like an entrepreneurial, you know, like
- 28:40flame almost when you're going to the country, you almost feel
- 28:42it. It's like a sizzle in the
- 28:43streets. You can feel that business
- 28:46energy. And in America you feel the
- 28:48energy as well. And in the UK there is that.
- 28:51And The thing is we're, we also don't want to be too mean about
- 28:56the British, the way Brits run their businesses, because they
- 28:58are such grafters. And, you know, we get down and
- 29:00we don't talk a lot. We work, we get things done.
- 29:03We're very, you know, we move through stuff.
- 29:06But yes, we probably don't put ourselves on a stage enough.
- 29:10We probably don't ask for enough money.
- 29:12That includes from our clients. And we're not openly well open
- 29:17about money because it's rude to.
- 29:19Be in the British culture, we talk about it.
- 29:22We have phrases in the UK, don't we have old money, New money.
- 29:25It's really weird, isn't it? Like what?
- 29:26What does that? I don't know what that means.
- 29:27What does new money mean? Old, old money?
- 29:30We don't we the absolute bugbear for me that we will take a
- 29:37positive and the media, let's blame the media, right, because
- 29:40that's easy. The media make positives,
- 29:44negatives. And I was talking to a
- 29:45journalist from abroad sheet a couple of months ago and I said,
- 29:48why did you represent this successor?
- 29:52So when Dark Trace got sold, instead of the headline being
- 29:56Dark Trace gets sold for many billions of pounds to the US,
- 30:00the US investor is going to keep Dark Trace based in the UK
- 30:03female founder success story. We don't have enough of those.
- 30:05Like why aren't we making this like a really big thing?
- 30:08Why was the headline another UK business sells out too soon?
- 30:14And and the the journalist said to me, great question Jamie.
- 30:17So what happens is we print the the journalist and this lady had
- 30:21written the the article. So I had written the article.
- 30:24I submit it to the online editor and the online editor has
- 30:28control of to what the hook is on the website.
- 30:31And that article was online and had got very little click
- 30:35through rate by because it's mid morning.
- 30:39As soon as the the online editor changed that headline to British
- 30:42success story sells out, another British success story sells out
- 30:45too soon. The click rate was 40 times
- 30:48faster. So we blame the media, but of
- 30:50course, now the media just presents back to us what what
- 30:53we're conditioned to like. So I do, I think that
- 30:57Britishness is, is a bit self. We don't we we're always looking
- 31:02to knock. I think there's a habit if we
- 31:03knock people down rather than I think other countries are better
- 31:07at celebrating their success, celebrating their heroes
- 31:10continually. Whereas we I think as a as a
- 31:14culture can be a bit too quick to to point and poke.
- 31:18I've got someone actually coming on that that will, you know,
- 31:20guess that will talk about that, you know, the cultural shift and
- 31:24the mindset of of Brits and whether we celebrate wealthy
- 31:29people in this country, people that have achieved things or
- 31:31whether we go, oh, you're you're posh tough or you're yeah,
- 31:35you're rich. So you wouldn't, you know,
- 31:36you're not one of us. It's like, yeah, it is such a
- 31:41topic. You stop being allowed an
- 31:43opinion. So I'm lucky enough to know
- 31:45people who've done very well through through work, through
- 31:48network, and it's like they stop being allowed an opinion.
- 31:53It's because it becomes that it's all right for you.
- 31:56Yeah, it's all right for you. Yeah.
- 31:57And I do. I do worry that they, we should
- 32:01want those people to talk more. We should want those people to
- 32:04be out about more and being listened to and and dare I say
- 32:08being more involved around the country.
- 32:10But we sort of go the other way and say, well, you, you, what do
- 32:13you know? No, no.
- 32:14So, so This is why I love this podcast so much.
- 32:17And I love the fact that I can host the podcast because there's
- 32:21no room for that negative talk in this space.
- 32:24I just think that that all has to change.
- 32:26Let's get, you know, if we want to grow the economy of this
- 32:29country, we want to do well. We want to be positive.
- 32:31We want to have really good lives, you know, make it, you
- 32:35know, just enjoy our country, build wealth, engineer our lives
- 32:39so that they amazing. Then we need to start being
- 32:42positive. We need to start really, you
- 32:44know, rewarding ambition and hard work.
- 32:48And it doesn't matter where you know your your beginnings, the
- 32:52IT matters what work you've done, what skills you've brought
- 32:56in, how much heart you've put into it.
- 32:58That's what matters. And everything else is
- 33:01irrelevant really. I agree and it and actually we
- 33:05can all poke at the dangerous if we talk about politics, but it's
- 33:08very easy to blame the government and meet yourself.
- 33:10But actually the UK has the best tax advantages for individuals
- 33:14to invest in early stage businesses in the world.
- 33:17So SEISEIS venture capital trusts, R&D, tax credits,
- 33:21Innovate UK, all the regional venture growth funds, there is
- 33:24so much say government money, it's our money, isn't it?
- 33:28The government are giving back, but the, the government have all
- 33:31of these schemes out there to encourage people to invest in
- 33:35businesses that are growing. So we're really good at that.
- 33:37I think we're awesome at that bit.
- 33:39The bit that gets a business from start up to 20 million of
- 33:44revenue, the UK can't, there's nowhere else you'd be better off
- 33:48to do that financially. And and that's before you get to
- 33:50the legislative. The UK is a great place legally
- 33:53to build a business because the the courts and the law is so
- 33:57fair. But once you get to that 20
- 34:00million revenue, all of that support starts to disappear
- 34:05because we just don't have the same.
- 34:07It's like, that's enough success now.
- 34:09You shouldn't need help from the the government tax advantage
- 34:12schemes for people to invest in your business because you're big
- 34:15now. Because actually I sort of go,
- 34:16God, they need that. Well, that's what if they said
- 34:19you could keep accessing that money from that investor base
- 34:23until you're very big, That's how we'd end up with very big
- 34:26business. Oh yeah.
- 34:28I mean, that's just such practical, excellent advice that
- 34:31you can be giving to the government.
- 34:33They need to listen. They need to listen to people
- 34:35that know about these things and get proper advice.
- 34:37Sometimes you think, but where did you who, who advised you?
- 34:41Did anyone in the entrepreneurial world literally
- 34:44advise you? Have you had the conversation
- 34:45with business people or not? So it's, and it, so I, I talk to
- 34:51a local MPA tiny bit through somebody else I know.
- 34:54So I've been introduced to him and he, he genuinely Labour MP,
- 34:58he genuinely wants to learn and understand and you know, but
- 35:02he's coming from a really low base.
- 35:05So he's trying to learn. But he also, it's only, it's a
- 35:08four year term or something. Like how much, how much can you
- 35:10expect them to learn and be ready given everything else
- 35:13they've got to do? But yeah, I mean, that'd be my
- 35:15absolute message. We, we're really great at the
- 35:18early stage, but if we could just grow that a bit higher,
- 35:21start saying actually we support these businesses for much
- 35:23longer. OK, So the businesses that you
- 35:26do support, what separates like a nice business, you know,
- 35:29you're yeah, you're good. You know you've got some
- 35:31potential or whatever from one that you know like OK, you are
- 35:33really a business that can scale up massively in the next 5
- 35:37years. We've kind of touched on this
- 35:41but but. Just so market, I mean you
- 35:43ultimately come the amount of times that I so you get two
- 35:48types of opportunities. One is there's a massive market
- 35:52and our product is better or as good as and we're going to
- 35:57execute it really well and that's exciting.
- 36:00It's hard, isn't it's not impossible, but it's just a bit
- 36:02harder because you've got lots of people already supplying the
- 36:07solution. And if your product is X percent
- 36:11better, it's great. But you've got to convince
- 36:13somebody to go through the heartache of changing a piece of
- 36:16software that's really difficult so you can sit in front of it.
- 36:20If I've got a software product that's better than your software
- 36:22product and you're more established and I go to your
- 36:25customers and say please swap to mine because it's better.
- 36:29It's a big change. Just change, isn't it?
- 36:30Everyone's busy. Why would I?
- 36:31How much better is better? So if you're going into a market
- 36:34that's already well served, you've got to, it's got to be
- 36:37materially better, but they can still do really, really well.
- 36:41You just got to execute really, really well.
- 36:43So it comes back to the people being top notch.
- 36:46The other part of the other side of that is people who say there
- 36:50is a big market coming. There is a market here that's
- 36:53currently small, but it's absolutely exploding.
- 36:56So it's from a risk. Risk for us probably the risk is
- 37:02a bit higher because the market might stop growing.
- 37:05And if the market doesn't grow, you've got no chance.
- 37:07But the upside is bigger because there's what we call white
- 37:10space. There's more white space to go
- 37:12for because you're going to, you're going to somebody and
- 37:14saying you're currently doing something in a way that's not
- 37:17great. My solution makes that 100 times
- 37:20easier. Yeah.
- 37:22So we try and mix the 2, the portfolio.
- 37:24We don't do this too actively, but we try and create a mix of
- 37:27portfolios, the two different types that we're going after.
- 37:31Yeah. There's this so much in business
- 37:32and there's so many different angles to approach it from.
- 37:36But yes, if you've got that the better product, the better
- 37:40software, are you also able to communicate it easily to say
- 37:46that it's is there a road map to that?
- 37:48That's pretty obvious and then and proven as well that it
- 37:52translates, you know into a sale that customers are moving to us
- 37:58because we better. But I also love that whole
- 38:00execution thing that you were talking about.
- 38:05So if you are better like who's on that conveyor belt to
- 38:09constantly churn out that better way of working, you know, and
- 38:16how feasible is unscalable and and.
- 38:18What does the, what does the plan look like?
- 38:19So the, so if we're investing in a Business Today with a million
- 38:22of revenue, maybe there's 10 or 20 people in that business, but
- 38:26the founders probably still do, all the founder or founders are
- 38:29still doing a bit of everything. Well, that business is doing 30
- 38:33million of revenue. It's going to need team heads,
- 38:36it's going to, it's going to be management layers, it's going to
- 38:38well, who are you, who are you bringing?
- 38:39Who are you bringing through to do that?
- 38:41So we talk a lot about people planning organizational design
- 38:45when this business, we, I know we started this by saying we
- 38:48could be negative and start from no.
- 38:50But when we're saying that when this is when we go into an
- 38:53investment, one of the things we look at is in five years time
- 38:56when we're delivering 50 million of revenue, what's the plus the
- 39:00organogram. So how are we bridging from the
- 39:02organogram we've got today to the organogram in five years
- 39:04time? Because we've probably got to
- 39:06start bringing those people through now because they're
- 39:09going to need developing for Year 5 or they're going to need
- 39:11hiring. And that is a I'm not sure
- 39:14people think about that bit enough when they come to talk.
- 39:16Yeah. And they also don't think about
- 39:19when they do hire these people, OK.
- 39:21So we're looking at CVS, we're looking at whether people can do
- 39:23the job. You're bringing them in, you're
- 39:24growing, but then also you're thinking about culture or you're
- 39:27thinking about, of course, you'll get a feeling for a
- 39:30person in the interview. Hopefully there's a few
- 39:33interviews, but, but, but once they are on board, there's also
- 39:38there's, you know, I find I think we spoke about this even
- 39:41earlier that there has to be some process where well, as a,
- 39:44as a founder, you want the people working with you.
- 39:47You never want to lose touch with the way they working, you
- 39:51know, with your company culture, like with the absolute core
- 39:54fundamental behaviour traits that anyone in this business
- 39:57should have, you know, honesty and, you know, putting the
- 40:00client first, like actually doing it and not saying that
- 40:03they're doing it. And, and, and there should be a
- 40:06process to on board that and then to just touch in with that
- 40:10and ensure that you're not losing as the business grows,
- 40:14that you're getting in people that actually they're not right
- 40:16and they're starting to tank the business from within because
- 40:18cracks form. They'll communicate really badly
- 40:20with a client, or even worse, they won't communicate with a
- 40:22client. And they'll just sort of do
- 40:24their work and the client has no clue what's so all of that.
- 40:27There's so much throughout that growth that you then also have
- 40:31to think about and not lose sight of.
- 40:33Otherwise, you'll end up with something that you never
- 40:36intended. So real, real example for us is
- 40:39the, so when you were in that growth hacking phase, sort of
- 40:42pre us investing 10 to 20 people, probably it's not always
- 40:47the case now, but probably in one office or in one region and
- 40:52they will get together a couple of times a week.
- 40:55Building a culture is hard, but not too hard because you're all
- 41:00together. We're all in this together.
- 41:01We're going to take over the world.
- 41:03There's not a lot of HR processing and stuff.
- 41:06You do everything you need to do, but you're not worrying too
- 41:08much about layers. That is one type of
- 41:10organization. When you're 100 people, you've
- 41:14suddenly got different departments.
- 41:15You're probably not, you're probably not in the same
- 41:17building. Hopefully you are, but you might
- 41:19be on different floors, you might be on different teams and
- 41:21stuff. So one of the things we've seen,
- 41:23it was an investment I made a long time ago was and it went
- 41:26really well, really quickly. Brilliant.
- 41:27That's what a great investment. Aren't I smart?
- 41:30And then what we found was the the sales team was on boarding
- 41:35clients and clients were saying, oh, I'd love it if you had this
- 41:38functionality. Sales team were going, oh,
- 41:40brilliant. We'll put that in the, we'll put
- 41:42that in the tech stack because the tech team were somewhere,
- 41:45they were in a different part of the country.
- 41:46So what was happening, the sales team to get the sale, we'll just
- 41:49say, yeah, we'll do that. And then the tech stack was like
- 41:51this. And then customers were saying,
- 41:53I've, you know, 6-9 months in and I brought your product
- 41:56because you were going to change this.
- 41:57And the sales guys are then saying, yeah, sorry, the tech
- 41:59guys haven't done it. The tech guys are saying, but
- 42:01that was never in our road map. So why have you promised that
- 42:04one feature to that one customer?
- 42:06And it was, and it was fine. We had about a year where we had
- 42:09to tidy stuff up and get everything right.
- 42:11And we've exited that investment and it was great for everybody.
- 42:13But there was a even, we do this all the time, and even we just
- 42:17missed that moment where that business had scaled so quickly
- 42:20and had become desperate. And it was nobody's fault.
- 42:23Everyone was just really busy. And what we found was the new
- 42:26salespeople weren't quite brought into the culture of all
- 42:29together. The salespeople were brought
- 42:31into their target, their quota. I'm going to hit my quota.
- 42:34So they hit their quota and they're doing a great job and
- 42:37they're being celebrated. Tech team who were doing
- 42:39everything they'd agreed to do in the year were then being
- 42:42moaned up because churn was high, because customers were
- 42:44leaving, because they weren't getting the product they'd been
- 42:46sold. Yeah, interesting, Interesting.
- 42:50When I started, I joined a consulting company in my career,
- 42:54early days and an American one and the culture there, you know,
- 42:58the Accenture guys, all those big consulting companies, they
- 43:00bring consultants and contractors.
- 43:02But basically when you come into the tech IT stuff, you come in
- 43:06there, everyone gets a consulting skills one O 1
- 43:11course. It's a three day course and you
- 43:15get a communications course because they will not let you go
- 43:18near the client without that training, even though you're
- 43:20doing, you know, technical things when you're sitting
- 43:22behind the computer and doing your business analysts, let's
- 43:24say, they will not let you go near them until you've passed
- 43:28these things. And it's really cool because
- 43:30they'll teach you just they'll give examples of things that can
- 43:32happen, real life scenarios and they'll teach you in a, in a
- 43:35setting, you know, they'll set something up and they'll teach
- 43:38you how to behave and that it's fantastic because you would be
- 43:41surprised, you know, even now how to how to, what's the
- 43:44correct way to appear on a zoom? And it's quite rude when you
- 43:47have your camera off. But just little things, you
- 43:48know, little things that make so much difference to just bring.
- 43:51But yes, we're we're going into the so I.
- 43:53We. Meet here. 1012, we have 12
- 43:56investment managers if you like. So they're sort of people
- 43:58joining the the investing, most of them just joining the
- 44:01investment world for the first time.
- 44:03Most of them are accountants, unfortunately.
- 44:05Mostly been through a bit. Yeah.
- 44:07I'm not an accountant. You've got to be careful about
- 44:09numbers not dictating our world. Yeah, I was going on.
- 44:12That's my next question for you. My next question for you.
- 44:14Actually, we'll be fine when we bring people in is we do end up
- 44:17talking to them a lot about sort of two ears, one mouth.
- 44:20So like you've, you know, used them in that ratio.
- 44:22So you should be listening more than you're speaking always if
- 44:26you're are you listening to speak or listening to hear.
- 44:29So too often people are listening because they're
- 44:32waiting for a gap, because they want to show how smart they are.
- 44:34Actually just really engage with the pert Show your listening.
- 44:36Like just really engage. Not a creepy stairway.
- 44:39Just show you or actually do stuff that shows your shows your
- 44:43listening. I don't know where those skills
- 44:45are meant to be taught, but I don't.
- 44:47I suspect you were probably quite lucky to go through that
- 44:50sort of on boarding process early in your career.
- 44:53They really teach you, they really teach you.
- 44:55It's a fantastic training, fantastic literally how to speak
- 44:59to the client, you know, on how to stand, what to do with your
- 45:02hands, how to present, how to everything, what what to say,
- 45:05what not to say. What happens in a crisis, You
- 45:07know, something goes wrong. What do you do?
- 45:09Who do you, who do you not blame?
- 45:13All that kind of thing. And you think it's actually
- 45:15quite basic, but it's also not, because so many people get it
- 45:18wrong. Yeah, it's basically when you
- 45:19know it, like that's the that's the thing that there's one chap
- 45:23who works for us now and he's like you, you talk about all
- 45:25this stuff, Jamie, like it's really easy.
- 45:28But then I can't, I'm not an account addict really.
- 45:30I'm not great with, I'm OK, I'm good with numbers, but I'm not
- 45:32great with numbers. And I'll say to the the people
- 45:35in the team who are just great on Excel and can do all this
- 45:37stuff, I'll be like, oh, wow, I can't believe you can do that
- 45:40thing with you've built this thing and this Excel is getting
- 45:42all very exciting. I can't believe you can do that.
- 45:45And because that's a hard, tangible skill, I'm comfortable
- 45:49in saying that to them and teach me how to do that.
- 45:52Whereas when it's a softer skill, like engaging with
- 45:54people, people who haven't been taught it find it a bit harder
- 45:57to say, please can you just teach me how to engage with
- 46:00people in the way you engage with people?
- 46:02It's probably the most important training course you can, you can
- 46:06receive, I mean, if you're client facing, you know, because
- 46:09maybe the developers who will never, ever see the client
- 46:11really don't need it. But anyone in the business who's
- 46:14talking to a client, they need to know how to to run a meeting,
- 46:19all of that, how to behave, how to, what to say, what not to
- 46:21say, how to present information, everything.
- 46:24And there's just a huge kaleidoscope of things.
- 46:26If you change the word client to stakeholder and suddenly the IT
- 46:30guys and girls do need to know how to talk to people.
- 46:33Because in that example I gave earlier, if the the tech team
- 46:38had a maybe they did. This might go farther.
- 46:40It is, but if the tech team were more comfortable in
- 46:43communicating with the sales team, maybe the sales team would
- 46:45have realized sooner what they were, what they were getting
- 46:48wrong. So I do, we talk a lot about
- 46:51everybody's your customer. So if you need somebody in turn,
- 46:53the wife owns 65 people, so it's not massive, but we've offices
- 46:57all around the UK, so there is a bit of distance sometimes.
- 47:00You need to be talking to everybody.
- 47:02If you need somebody to do something for you, let's rely on
- 47:05the fact they want to do it for you rather than they should do
- 47:08it for you. That comes down to building a
- 47:10good relationship, talking to them, listening, all that stuff
- 47:12that you would use for your customers, but let's use it
- 47:15internally as well. Yeah, gosh, I could run away
- 47:18with about 400 other statements. I need to stick to the script
- 47:23because we're we're moving around a little bit.
- 47:26OK. So what is the the main
- 47:28differentiator for you from a lifestyle business and a
- 47:31business that's got the potential to be a proper
- 47:35business, not a lifestyle business basically?
- 47:37Yeah, lifestyle's a great, a great bucket, but it's really
- 47:44changed, hasn't it since COVID. So lifestyle before would be
- 47:48considered, I would say when I started my career in the city,
- 47:52lifestyle would have been considered lazy.
- 47:55Whereas now we have people who don't work very hard, We have
- 47:59lifestyle, we have work life balances, this whole bucket of
- 48:03stuff. And we also have the 24/7 on,
- 48:05which is terrible because we've all got our phones in our
- 48:08pockets all the time. So for me, lifestyle, if I meet
- 48:11founders who talk about their children, their families, going
- 48:16on holiday, picking the kids up from school, going to sports
- 48:19days, their hobbies, that's awesome because I need people to
- 48:22have something outside of work. People who have stuff going on
- 48:25outside of work are significantly more stable than
- 48:28people. Who stable?
- 48:29I like that word, absolutely. Significantly more stable than
- 48:32people who are working 150 hours a week.
- 48:35They're on it. You know, all the tech bro stuff
- 48:37that we get out of the US that that worries me so for.
- 48:41So I don't want people that do that.
- 48:42I don't want people coming in looking shattered and wired and
- 48:46chugging cans of Red Bull. You'd be surprised how many
- 48:47times that happens. But I, I also look for people
- 48:51who there is language that people will use around.
- 48:55So what does success look like for you if people start talking
- 48:58at 35 about wanting to retire in two or three years time and
- 49:02sitting on the beach. And I don't mind that as an
- 49:04aspiration, but I just want to check in that they're not
- 49:06already. Can I ask you a question about
- 49:09that? If the if you know you say that,
- 49:11do you expect someone to answer in monetary terms or can they
- 49:14answer with an ambition? So I, I want, I like people to
- 49:20talk about the ambition. So what does success look like?
- 49:22I want to build a good people say to me at WAFEN like, what
- 49:25does success look like? I've been there for 12 years.
- 49:28I became manager partner six months ago.
- 49:30So what does success look like for me now because I've been
- 49:33working my way up to the top job, if you like.
- 49:36What does success look like for me now?
- 49:37I want to build a great business that I'm really proud of and I
- 49:40love seeing all the, the people joining our business, not
- 49:43perhaps not knowing private equity and then smashing it,
- 49:45doing really well. That's the thing I'm most proud
- 49:47of. We took everybody away a couple
- 49:49of weeks ago. I love the fact we're in some
- 49:51decent restaurant and it's expensive and everyone's
- 49:53enjoying it. I get a lot of satisfaction from
- 49:55that. But I do also like providing
- 49:57security for my family. And I do like, I do like nice
- 50:01stuff. I do like, I like going on
- 50:04holiday with my children and I like my children doing things
- 50:07that I didn't do when I was growing up.
- 50:09So, and they're the sort of answers I really like.
- 50:13And at at some point, yeah, hopefully I've got a long time
- 50:16working. At some point I won't be
- 50:18working, somebody else will be running WI FM and I'll look at
- 50:20it from afar and be really proud that I was part of that journey.
- 50:24And hopefully some people will think I've done a good job.
- 50:27I like that chat from founders, the the founders who don't
- 50:30really have an answer to it. They're the ones where I go.
- 50:33Isn't that weird? Because you did set this up for
- 50:35a reason. You are going through this pain
- 50:38every day for a reason. So what is it?
- 50:41What is it? Yeah.
- 50:42Yeah, that would, it's odd that they wouldn't say it or maybe
- 50:45they're afraid that if they monetize it, it sets an
- 50:48expectation then they I, I don't, I don't.
- 50:50And there's also a fascinating, A fascinating fact that if you
- 50:53say to somebody what does success look like?
- 50:55And they talk it through and say, is making money success?
- 50:58And they'll always say, yeah, actually, I do want to make some
- 51:00money. And I promise you, the number is
- 51:02always either 51020304050, 60708090, a hundred.
- 51:08It's always very round ballpark, round ballpark numbers.
- 51:12Yeah, yeah. That'll do me, yeah.
- 51:15OK. So in terms of the founders that
- 51:18you connect with, that you feel have potential, what is the
- 51:21trait that many of them share? They're oh, I was going to say
- 51:28they're all a bit bonkers. That's a.
- 51:29Terrible thing, yeah, but mad? Yeah, they you.
- 51:31Said you want them to be stable. I do so.
- 51:33That, that, that's. Something we can we can throw in
- 51:36at it. I do what what's the common
- 51:39trait is there's a burning desire in them.
- 51:44There's something in them that makes puts them apart from most
- 51:48people. There is a thing that their
- 51:50passion, they show a passion. There's a thing in it when
- 51:53they're talking about it that they light up, they're
- 51:55absolutely like they're telling you their story and they're
- 51:58lighting up about it and they the the ones who are super
- 52:01polished. That's great, right?
- 52:02And a lot of founders of salespeople, marketers and
- 52:05stuff, so they can be super polished, but they will they
- 52:07will over talk. They'll the amount of times you
- 52:10you hear in a first meeting, God, sorry, I've gone a Segway
- 52:12there. Love it.
- 52:14I want you to go in a Segway. I want you to I want you to sort
- 52:17of drift off and dream and talk about things.
- 52:19They say, Oh God, no, sorry. Let me take you back to the
- 52:21point, because what that's showing me is your, your, your
- 52:24mouth or whatever your brain and your mouth have got so excited.
- 52:27You've got out of sync of what you prepared.
- 52:29I want to see that sort of excitement in.
- 52:32But at what point does that become a delusion as well?
- 52:36Actually there was a TikTok going around the other day which
- 52:38was about most really successful people are actually quite
- 52:44delusional or have been delusional about the success.
- 52:48I mean, I'd it delusional is quite a negative term, but yeah,
- 52:51where's the line between that and then tipping over to that
- 52:56it's slightly too much. I know so well you take it to
- 52:59it's absolute extremes. The lady in the US who started
- 53:03that blood testing business. Oh yes, yes, yes, she's got
- 53:06prison, right. And, and lots of people lost
- 53:08lots of money. It's a terrible story.
- 53:09But at what point do you go from faking it till you make it to
- 53:13fraud? And I don't know the, you know,
- 53:16I've read the book and it's, it's fascinating and it's
- 53:18presented in a way that presents her terribly and she's gone to
- 53:20prison and stuff. So let's assume she was on the
- 53:22bad end of it. But actually when you're a
- 53:24founder, you do have to sit there and go, I'm going to do
- 53:27this thing. I'm going to build this thing.
- 53:29I haven't got it yet, but I'm going to build this thing.
- 53:31So you do have to have some. I don't know what the word is.
- 53:35Chutzpah. Is that the word?
- 53:36I don't know. Like something about you that
- 53:38says actually, I'm going to present this, but there's levels
- 53:42of believe, isn't it? So you think about Elon Musk who
- 53:45says I'm going to go and conquer Mars and everyone goes, what an
- 53:50idiot. But then now he's got Stalink.
- 53:53He's got he's right. He puts more rockets in space
- 53:55than anybody else as well. He's yeah, he's a long way on
- 53:58that journey. So he's not.
- 54:00So I wouldn't meet a founder and say you're delusional.
- 54:04I'd meet a founder and say we're not you're we're not the right
- 54:07investor for you wanting to go and put colonize Mars.
- 54:11We're not that journey. If you were to come to us and
- 54:14say I think space travel is going to get space is going to
- 54:19become more and more interesting.
- 54:20So I'm developing this product that makes it easier for
- 54:25satellites to be smaller because you can put more satellites on a
- 54:27rocket and more rockets are going to go up.
- 54:29And I've made, I've got 15 customers already and we turn
- 54:32over £1,000,000 and I think we can probably get this to being
- 54:36200 customers and 300 million of revenue, but I'm going to need a
- 54:40lot of money to do it. That's where I sort of think
- 54:43about actually on the spectrum of ambition.
- 54:45That's what feels like AY? FM on on the road map.
- 54:48Yeah, that's a Y FM ambition versus the I want to go and
- 54:52colonize Mars. That's a USVC vision.
- 54:58Yeah, for somebody that's not me.
- 55:00OK. But how much do you expect them
- 55:03to know? Let's say they've got that big
- 55:05vision. How much do you expect them to
- 55:07know how to get there? Is is that a an expectation or
- 55:11you're happy to figure it out with them?
- 55:12That's a difficult one because they must have some idea.
- 55:15So most founders are first time founders.
- 55:18So the amount of times I meet people who say, well, I've never
- 55:21done this before. I remember everybody's never
- 55:23done anything for the first time they do it.
- 55:25So I think we we really like, I was before I came in this
- 55:30morning, I was talking to to somebody on the portfolio side
- 55:32who sits on the the company's boards and he's talking about
- 55:35one of his businesses that are looking to make an acquisition.
- 55:37And I was like, yeah. And one of the comforts for me
- 55:40is they're really engaged in finding people to help them.
- 55:43So I love a founder who talks about mentors and coaches.
- 55:46And yeah, I've just changed my mentor because the last mentor I
- 55:49had I've outgrown and they're apologetic for outgrowing them.
- 55:53But actually they were great for this part of my journey.
- 55:55Now I've got. To find the one for.
- 55:56My next part, I love that. I love people who go looking for
- 55:59the help and believe they don't know everything.
- 56:01They're really festival. Yes, I love that.
- 56:04I love that very much for so many reasons.
- 56:06Some of them I'm I'm not even allowed to say.
- 56:07But yeah, I love that Michael Phelps.
- 56:10I also love athletes. I adore super athlete mentality
- 56:15and they do have these visions of like, I am, I am going to.
- 56:19It's not I might. It is.
- 56:21I am going to be the best in the world, Michael Phelps.
- 56:24I am going to win 8 Olympic gold medals come on, that's unreal
- 56:30don't do that It's a bit unrealistic or very unrealistic.
- 56:33Don't do it. And he did and it's like, and
- 56:36and that those medals come in very careful planning,
- 56:40orchestration, determination and died all those millions of
- 56:44little steps. But actually with an athlete
- 56:48and, and, and also speaking to much bigger and Better Business
- 56:52owners than I am, they they make it, they simplify the whole mess
- 56:57that business can be. And it is the little steps of
- 57:00execution. And it's like, right here's the
- 57:02stages, here's the work that has to be done.
- 57:06Here's how you do it. Like here's the people that you
- 57:07need. And then you just go 123 and
- 57:11it's actually not that bad when you sort of demystify how you
- 57:16get this 8 Olympic medal, gold medals, but actually how many
- 57:19hours should you be swimming, What massages do you need?
- 57:23What's your nutrition, actrolytes, all that stuff, Your
- 57:26team? So it's marginal gains, isn't
- 57:28it? So we marginal gains that is.
- 57:30Now that's a phrase that has been in whoever the guy who took
- 57:34over the cycling team, I can't remember, but he the guy who?
- 57:37Yeah, yeah, I know. He marginal gains and business.
- 57:41I'm not massively into sports and stuff, but so I run and I
- 57:44like Formula One, but that's about the beginning end of it.
- 57:48But I I listen to a lot of stuff from sports people because I'm
- 57:51not really that interested in which football game they won or
- 57:54didn't win. That's not my thing.
- 57:55But I'm interested in how they got there.
- 57:57I love that story. Natural, natural talent is a
- 58:01natural talent is a way to be controversial here.
- 58:04Natural talent is used by people to justify whether they haven't
- 58:08done something someone else has done is my view.
- 58:11So they will say, well, you're just naturally gifted at that,
- 58:14aren't you? Maybe I was naturally gifted at
- 58:17it. But, you know, I've worked
- 58:18really hard. So it's, we think about super
- 58:21sports people and the sacrifices they make to get there.
- 58:25They just make sacrifices that that most people sit there and
- 58:28go, I just can't believe, I can't envisage myself ever doing
- 58:32that. So I'm going to tell myself,
- 58:34yeah, but they've got natural talent, haven't they?
- 58:36It's not that, you know, I just, you know, have a more balanced
- 58:38life. I'd sooner watch some Netflix
- 58:39and go to the gym. So we use natural.
- 58:42I think natural talent is a, it's sort of very lazy way of
- 58:46saying I don't want it as much as as that person wants it.
- 58:50Yeah. And then also if you're speaking
- 58:52to someone and then you if if you're the person that's sort of
- 58:55putting the idea down or whatever, like why, why are you
- 58:58putting that down? Of course, don't feed delusions.
- 59:00So if someone does have a tendency to get a bit, you know,
- 59:03that way, then you can gently bring them in.
- 59:05But I think when someone has that entrepreneurial spirit,
- 59:08it's nice to encourage them to anyone listening, I think it's
- 59:11nice to. So I have some friends of mine
- 59:14who, so people will talk about me as being a toxic optimist.
- 59:17So we have a WhatsApp group between some friends and the,
- 59:20and the, the WhatsApp group is called toxic optimism because I,
- 59:23I sort of do believe you can do anything if you really want it
- 59:27enough and you're prepared to make enough sacrifices.
- 59:30There's probably not a lot you you can't achieve, but what you
- 59:33do need is smart people around you professionally and in your
- 59:36personal life who just rein that back a bit, test it a bit as So
- 59:41my wife Sarah and I've been together since university.
- 59:44Sarah's like Mike. Yeah, we both talked about.
- 59:47We met the January of our first year at university.
- 59:49It's adorable. It's definitely not.
- 59:50We talk about the fact that it ruined our university
- 59:52experience. No, it's love.
- 59:54It's so good. I.
- 59:55Love that, but Sarah's that challenge.
- 59:57So I'll be like, I'll go home and I'll be like, right, we're
- 59:59going to go and. Let's go and take the let's go
- 1:00:01and buy that wreck of a house and do it up because won't that
- 1:00:04be really fun? And Sarah would say hi, that
- 1:00:06would be really fun. But have you thought about the
- 1:00:07fact that we have no time? So we is that really what we
- 1:00:11want to do? So for me it's you can do
- 1:00:13anything as long as you've got smart people around you just
- 1:00:15pull in that break a bit really just testing the hypothesis of
- 1:00:18can you? Check in with with more, maybe
- 1:00:22even some more stable people just to make sure that you're.
- 1:00:24Sarah is definitely the stable person the the two of.
- 1:00:27Us, yeah, exactly. But but careful who you're
- 1:00:29listening to. So it's a trusted, the trusted
- 1:00:32voice versus maybe the maybe the slightly, you know the ones.
- 1:00:35It's really easy to poke other people, isn't it?
- 1:00:36While you're doing that, I, I lot of people, a lot of people
- 1:00:41don't want other people to be successful because it makes them
- 1:00:43reflect on of their life. So I, when I meet starters, we
- 1:00:48don't need to start up investing.
- 1:00:50But when I meet ups, when I meet start up founders, I'm always
- 1:00:53really honest. And I'll say that here's here's
- 1:00:55why I hit that's great. That's not great.
- 1:00:57I want to be really honest with you because loads of people will
- 1:00:59either just be really positive. Your mum will tell you it's
- 1:01:01brilliant. All your mates will tell you
- 1:01:03it's brilliant because they don't want to hurt you.
- 1:01:05And other people will poke you because they're a bit jealous
- 1:01:08that you're doing a thing that they're not.
- 1:01:11Yeah. So you've really got to bring in
- 1:01:12some some. Trusted advisors, Mentors.
- 1:01:14Yeah, it's key, Yeah. And even if if you are a
- 1:01:18business owner speaking to people like yourself as well,
- 1:01:20getting sort of just can you maybe take a look at this?
- 1:01:23Is this something that can grow not poke, you know, but but like
- 1:01:28properly look into it and then that will give you information
- 1:01:30is power totally. So we so we have a full time
- 1:01:33person at what I think called Christina.
- 1:01:35Christina's full time role is managing our network of people.
- 1:01:39So when something new comes in, the the chances of us having
- 1:01:43invested in that exact space before are pretty slim.
- 1:01:46So when something new comes in, we review it, we think about it
- 1:01:49and then we hit our network to understand it.
- 1:01:51So we are then reaching out to lots of smart people that we
- 1:01:55know, people we don't know but we think look smart and saying,
- 1:01:57can we just chat with you about this opportunity we've got
- 1:02:00because we think it's interesting and we think you'll
- 1:02:02really help us understand it. Yeah, definitely information
- 1:02:06that is power. OK, we're going to slightly move
- 1:02:09into a different direction just about money.
- 1:02:12Let's talk about money because you think about money, I'm sure
- 1:02:15very differently. So how do you think about money?
- 1:02:18Do you have a good relationship with money?
- 1:02:20Do you are you are you careful about what you spend?
- 1:02:23Very or are you a spender or? So I, so I grew up in a council
- 1:02:27state. So I, so my, my mum and dad had,
- 1:02:30had varied what I would think of normal working, working lives.
- 1:02:34There wasn't a lot of money knocking around.
- 1:02:35There was, yeah, there was challenges.
- 1:02:38I was growing up in the 80s, I grew up in a steel town so that
- 1:02:41my parents weren't involved in the steelworks, but the, the
- 1:02:43town was decimated when the steelworks got closed.
- 1:02:45So there was a lot of poverty. I don't know if it is poverty
- 1:02:49versus today, but there was a lot of poverty.
- 1:02:51So I, I've, my parents did a great job of making sure we had
- 1:02:55what we needed and we had some of what we wanted.
- 1:02:59And there was a, there was a good balance in, you know, I
- 1:03:02look back now and think, actually, it's right to not
- 1:03:04spoil your kids. But I've lived that way.
- 1:03:07And now I'm lucky enough that I get paid loads more than more
- 1:03:12than probably I should and more than more than we need.
- 1:03:16That gives loads of choices. So I have loads.
- 1:03:18We have choices. Yeah.
- 1:03:20Yeah, I like it and I'm not. And it's funny, isn't it,
- 1:03:22Because back to what I was saying earlier.
- 1:03:23So I'm a bit embarrassed saying that.
- 1:03:25So we do very. Well, you've, you've really, you
- 1:03:28know, you've worked your way to what you've.
- 1:03:29We've, we've taken loads of risks.
- 1:03:32I've taken risks, Sarah's taken risks.
- 1:03:34We moved. We, I was born in Corby, Sarah
- 1:03:37was born in the Northwest. We moved down to London.
- 1:03:39We knew nobody. We hated it for God knows how
- 1:03:41many years. We didn't know anybody.
- 1:03:42We couldn't really get into it and now it's paying off.
- 1:03:45So that's great. In answer your question, the
- 1:03:48relationship with money is. Is it good?
- 1:03:52Is money good do? You have a good relationship
- 1:03:54with money. Probably not.
- 1:03:59Why? Because I because I, because I
- 1:04:04believe I can always make more. So I don't wait, I don't waste.
- 1:04:07I'm so I'm Penny. So I drives me mad when the kids
- 1:04:10leave the lights on in the house.
- 1:04:12I walk around, I'm turning lights off all the time.
- 1:04:14You're watching the pennies. Yeah.
- 1:04:16Am I? Yeah, I don't.
- 1:04:18Know well you must be if you're. Switching the lights.
- 1:04:19I'm aware of the cost of stuff. So like when I got coffee before
- 1:04:23I came in here and I was like, oh, is that really how much that
- 1:04:25is? And then I was and I was hungry
- 1:04:27and I had some rice cakes. Oh, they look good, but they're
- 1:04:302 lbs. And like in my head I'm actually
- 1:04:31questioning do I want them enough for for 2 lbs, which is
- 1:04:37and I got them and then I had one that was very nice to eat.
- 1:04:39But so stuff like that I can get a bit caught up on.
- 1:04:43But then when it comes to experiences and doing fun things
- 1:04:49with the children, with my family, with, with Sarah, with
- 1:04:54friends, I don't, I sort of put, I would say I don't care, but
- 1:04:59I'm quite like, actually, if it's going to make it 10%
- 1:05:00better, let's spend a lot of money to do it because I'm such.
- 1:05:04A money person, you're such a money person because basically
- 1:05:06yes, that you're because the value, you see it in value
- 1:05:10terms. So the value of the experience
- 1:05:12of the holiday with your family with a time you will never get
- 1:05:15back is valuable enough that you can justify the the spend, which
- 1:05:20is way over what you would anyone would consider, let's
- 1:05:23say. But it's in the value of that
- 1:05:26for that the trade you're thinking about the trade.
- 1:05:28All the time, absolutely. So I'll spend a lot of money on
- 1:05:32holidays and we stay in in nice hotels because, well, that's a,
- 1:05:35you know, I'm a bit of actually if we're away, I want to stay
- 1:05:37something really nice. I'm also the guy that walks to
- 1:05:39the shop to buy 12 cans of Pepsi Max because in the shop down the
- 1:05:45road, I'd say what I mean I we were in Dubai earlier this year
- 1:05:49and I'd walk about 20 minutes to the shop to buy 12 cans of Pepsi
- 1:05:52Max because they were a pound each in the shop and they were
- 1:05:55£9 at swimming pool. I just couldn't bring myself.
- 1:05:59Yeah. So you also, the relationship
- 1:06:01with money is 1, where you're constantly thinking about value.
- 1:06:05And that's why you're doing the job that you're doing today,
- 1:06:06because you're constantly in value analyzing all the time.
- 1:06:10I can see that even though you're speaking to me, you're
- 1:06:11thinking it's value. You're always looking at that.
- 1:06:15And my and and I don't treat it. I I'm not I'm getting better but
- 1:06:20I can get it wrong with my friends and family because I.
- 1:06:23Because you're too emotional. You're letting.
- 1:06:25Emotions behaving like that with because I can be a bit like,
- 1:06:27well, I'll get dinner because it's not.
- 1:06:30It's just fine. It doesn't that the cost of this
- 1:06:32dinner isn't material. And I've really enjoyed spending
- 1:06:35time with everybody. Nobody wants that.
- 1:06:37Everybody wants to pay their own way, don't they?
- 1:06:38So I've got that wrong in the past.
- 1:06:41All right, so what's your experience?
- 1:06:43Is the biggest mistake that ambitious people make?
- 1:06:46Can you can you answer that question, even something you've
- 1:06:48seen? I think people feel like they've
- 1:06:51got to present themselves in a way that's fit.
- 1:06:54I think people do, do and say what they think society wants
- 1:06:58from them. So I work really, really hard.
- 1:07:01Really hard. I think about work all the time.
- 1:07:04It impacts our family life. I have to work quite hard to not
- 1:07:07be on my phone all the time. I get to a Saturday and I'll get
- 1:07:09up and go. Actually, do you know what?
- 1:07:10I just do a bit of work doesn't need doing.
- 1:07:12It's just because I'm super lucky.
- 1:07:14I love what I'm doing. I love what I love the people I
- 1:07:16do it with so I can. It's a real Gray line for me
- 1:07:21between home and work because I'm lucky enough that I love.
- 1:07:25I love it. Yeah, For me, working on a
- 1:07:28Saturday, I'm not the working bit, doesn't bother me.
- 1:07:31Working on a Saturday, not spending time with my family
- 1:07:34bothers me. I don't go to bed on a Sunday
- 1:07:36night worrying about going to work on a Monday.
- 1:07:39Dare I say sometimes I go to bed on a Sunday night really excited
- 1:07:42because I'm going to work on the Monday.
- 1:07:44So I don't think people present that enough because the current
- 1:07:49sort of thing is to be, you know?
- 1:07:52Perfect, Yeah. Yeah, everyone wants to present
- 1:07:56this. I I achieve what I achieve by I
- 1:08:00do it within set working hours. I'm there for every school, I'm
- 1:08:04there for pickups, I'm there for drop UPS.
- 1:08:06I work from home. I do this, I do that, I do the
- 1:08:07other. It's just impossible.
- 1:08:09Nobody can do that. We're just going to blow
- 1:08:10ourselves up by pretending that you can't have it all.
- 1:08:14You just can't. And that is, I think my wife
- 1:08:17suffers from that more than I do as, as a male, because nobody
- 1:08:21said to me, are you going to go back to work after Josh is born?
- 1:08:23Nobody once ever said that you're going back to work once
- 1:08:26Josh is born. The first child, our first
- 1:08:28point, you know, but Sarah, people said, Sarah, are you
- 1:08:31going back to work? Like, why didn't they say that
- 1:08:34to me? Just all that stuff.
- 1:08:36And I, I think people can get a bit caught up in the, I've got
- 1:08:40to present myself in a certain way.
- 1:08:42And I, the one thing I can't do is just say, do you know what?
- 1:08:44I love what I do and I work really hard.
- 1:08:46I work too many hours. I'm probably too stressed.
- 1:08:49I'm overweight. I don't exercise enough.
- 1:08:50We sort of think we've got to do the I do yoga at 5:00, I have my
- 1:08:54green tea, I do meditation, I do my journals, CBD.
- 1:08:58Oils, whatever. And I just, I don't get it.
- 1:09:00I don't get why I I think successful people should be
- 1:09:05proud that they're successful because they work, really.
- 1:09:07Hard. I mean, I've got someone coming
- 1:09:08on later as well and we're going to talk about anxiety in in
- 1:09:11great detail. But I think what one of the
- 1:09:14themes is about this perfectionist culture and these,
- 1:09:18you know, we, we do demand things of ourselves and
- 1:09:20apparently one in five people suffer from this kind of, it's a
- 1:09:23form of anxiety, which is like perfectionism and putting these
- 1:09:26things on. Then you always like playing up
- 1:09:28to this role and it gets very stressful because you can't
- 1:09:31maintain that, that level. You know, I mean, when it comes
- 1:09:34to me personally, I, you know, with The Apprentice and
- 1:09:37everything and I walked out for, you know, my own reasons and
- 1:09:41things. I yeah, I think that there's
- 1:09:43some things that are going to come out.
- 1:09:46You know, you can't, you have to be yourself.
- 1:09:49You can't live a life of being something you're not.
- 1:09:52You are going to, you know, like it's just the way it is.
- 1:09:56I think weakness is, is really telling people.
- 1:09:59So our chairman Dave, he's to be our managing partner.
- 1:10:03He, I, I communicate about all my weaknesses loads.
- 1:10:06So I did my so my. That's some.
- 1:10:08Bray but. But because I'm not, I think
- 1:10:10this will be odd for people, but I'm not perfect.
- 1:10:13So my full year review, our year ends March, we do my full year
- 1:10:16review in April. So I've just been my managing
- 1:10:18partner and I sit down with our head of investor relations and
- 1:10:22CFO. So the three of us run the
- 1:10:23business together. One of us has to be the managing
- 1:10:25partner. So that's me, but really the
- 1:10:26three of us are. Yeah, we do work together.
- 1:10:28Yeah, so I said to the guys, why don't we do our reviews
- 1:10:31together? So rather than me doing yours,
- 1:10:33Eamonn as head of our and yours Marcus, the CFO, why don't we do
- 1:10:37it together? And what I'd really like us to
- 1:10:38do is go and get feedback on everybody.
- 1:10:40So they went and got, I got feedback on Eamonn, Marcus got
- 1:10:43feedback on, I can't remember. But anyway, they got a load of
- 1:10:47feedback from me and we said what we'll do is we'll type it
- 1:10:49into Word documents. So you don't know who's can't
- 1:10:51tie back to it. Let's just give each other
- 1:10:53feedback. So great.
- 1:10:54So they gave me this three page, they talked me through this
- 1:10:57three page Word document. That's quite hard.
- 1:11:00And I'm sort of sat there going, that hurts, but it hurts because
- 1:11:03a lot. Yeah, it did because it was
- 1:11:05true. And it was people saying, well,
- 1:11:07actually Jamie did this, which made me feel like this.
- 1:11:09And oh, God, I don't. I really, I really want to know
- 1:11:12who that is because I want to go and tell them I'm sorry for how
- 1:11:14I made them feel. And of course you can't.
- 1:11:15That's not fair. So I had it and then I was like,
- 1:11:17can I have the document take the names out?
- 1:11:19So they gave me the document and then I sent it around the
- 1:11:21business a week later and just went look, here's here's the
- 1:11:25feedback on me. Here's how that made me feel and
- 1:11:28here's why. Here are the things I'm doing to
- 1:11:30course correct. And here's some stuff in that
- 1:11:32that I'm that's just probably me and I hope it's not me and I'll
- 1:11:36I'll promise I'll try. But brave, really brave.
- 1:11:38But it but isn't that interesting works.
- 1:11:40That's what everyone said, but how was that brave?
- 1:11:42I'm saying. It is brave.
- 1:11:43A load of people that I really like and I'm really fond of
- 1:11:46everybody at wife M Here's here's you.
- 1:11:49You know this about me already. Here's me telling you that I now
- 1:11:52know too. Like, is that brave?
- 1:11:55I think it is brave. You've got to, you've got to
- 1:11:57handle it. You've got to be able to handle
- 1:12:00it. So hearing criticism of yourself
- 1:12:03is difficult. So you have to handle it.
- 1:12:05And then how do you handle it? You know, are you going to, are
- 1:12:08you the sort of person that's able to make the change?
- 1:12:11Yeah. You know how flexible are you?
- 1:12:13So I had a great, I had a great mentor.
- 1:12:16Don't sorry. I had a great mentor years and
- 1:12:17years ago I called son Palmer. That's when I worked for the
- 1:12:20bank and he he was sort of like my he was great or two above me,
- 1:12:23but in the same business but in a different team.
- 1:12:26And he I got some really bad feedback one year end.
- 1:12:29I was awesome back then and thought I was awesome.
- 1:12:32I thought I was better than I was back then.
- 1:12:34And he was. Yeah.
- 1:12:35And I had a bad year end review and I I reacted pretty badly
- 1:12:40visibly in the office and he just grabbed me and took me to a
- 1:12:43great room. He said this is going to define
- 1:12:45your career, how you react to how you react.
- 1:12:47No one's you you're feeling hurt and attacked.
- 1:12:50They haven't given you that feedback to hurt and attack you.
- 1:12:52They've given you that feedback because that's real how you
- 1:12:54choose to accept. So you could say there, you
- 1:12:57could say everybody else is wrong and that's OK because you
- 1:13:00you can believe that and that could be your truth or you can
- 1:13:03go away and reflect. So he's like, I want you to
- 1:13:05leave the office, just go for a walk, come back.
- 1:13:08You can't come back for two hours and then come back in two
- 1:13:10hours once you've calmed down and just walked the entire two
- 1:13:13hours. And of course, by the time I'd
- 1:13:14come back and reflected on it, I was actually, yeah, that
- 1:13:17feedback is I agree with all of it, but.
- 1:13:19You can't be quite accurate, you.
- 1:13:21Can't tell people they don't feel the way they feel.
- 1:13:23So it yeah, it is real. It's absolute gold.
- 1:13:26I mean, I, I do love it. I think it's gold.
- 1:13:28But yeah, it's how you what you do with that.
- 1:13:31Yeah, you need to be pretty arrogant, right?
- 1:13:32It's back to the founders. Back to the founders we meet.
- 1:13:35You sort of go for me, people. I will extrude this confidence,
- 1:13:39but for me that confidence is I'm really happy and comfortable
- 1:13:42in who I am and I know I'm not perfect.
- 1:13:45So isn't it the most generous thing in the world when someone
- 1:13:48takes the risk to tell the managing partner, here are the
- 1:13:51things you're not good at? I'm like, wow, they've done the
- 1:13:54risky thing. I should be grateful to.
- 1:13:56Receive I I get it and I think it is it is a it is like a
- 1:14:00little gift because I yeah, I would love to know.
- 1:14:03I do sometimes think, you know, I do these podcasts and
- 1:14:05everything and then I and I have my business, you know, running
- 1:14:09the marketing company. And then I think, how do I, I
- 1:14:11said opposite you. How do you then take me?
- 1:14:14How am I coming across? I would love to know all of it.
- 1:14:17Let's just talk about, can you fill out this question about
- 1:14:19exactly how I've come across how No, no, no.
- 1:14:22But even if we did, but it's. Just so interesting.
- 1:14:24Even if we did it, we'd still be nice because we haven't built
- 1:14:27until you can trust somebody because.
- 1:14:29And by trust I don't mean because I think you're going to
- 1:14:31attack me if I say something you don't like.
- 1:14:34I want to trust that if I gave you that feedback, you'd be OK.
- 1:14:36Dealing with it. Because nobody wants to.
- 1:14:38Hurt. I think it's incredibly
- 1:14:39important, especially when you're starting off and
- 1:14:41everything and you're learning or in a new industry or in a new
- 1:14:43market or in a new role, whatever it might be.
- 1:14:46And if someone gives you feedback and you know that
- 1:14:48you've done something wrong, like you'll know, you will know.
- 1:14:52I, I do take it really seriously, you know, like I, I
- 1:14:55take it, I'm going to admit I will take it personally, but
- 1:14:58it's good because if I take it personally, I will personally
- 1:15:01work so hard to change it because it stings so bad that I,
- 1:15:07that I, I like it. Like, I like modifying myself
- 1:15:10from the sting. That the sort of the the passion
- 1:15:12of the sting of it, the stronger it is, the more that I know
- 1:15:15myself as well that that person is so completely right.
- 1:15:18I've got to change this particular thing and that's the
- 1:15:21way to improve. And it's almost like can
- 1:15:23everyone just give you that sort of feedback to would be so much
- 1:15:27better when. We're putting in a would.
- 1:15:29Be so much better. A tool in the it'd be live in a
- 1:15:33couple of weeks for 360° feedback by software.
- 1:15:36So actually everybody gets to just fill it in, but the only
- 1:15:39person who sees it as the individual and if they choose to
- 1:15:42share that with their line manager or their mentor, that's
- 1:15:44awesome. There's no need to.
- 1:15:46It's just a tool for those who want and not everybody has to
- 1:15:49use it. If you want to use it because
- 1:15:50you'd value the the feedback, then use it, but it's for you.
- 1:15:53Nobody else can see it. Nobody knows you've used it.
- 1:15:55You asked the people that you want for the feedback and then
- 1:15:59they can provide it to you in a super cool.
- 1:16:01They type stuff in it and it gets jumbled up so that you
- 1:16:03can't work out language and stuff.
- 1:16:05So it is true anonymized feedback.
- 1:16:08And I'm, if there's 65 people in my FM today, I probably could
- 1:16:12tell you the 30 that I know will absolutely get that out on the
- 1:16:15first day because they want the, they've got the hunger for the,
- 1:16:19for the learning and for the improvement.
- 1:16:22Well, again, it comes back to the way that you view value.
- 1:16:26And I'm going to say value, not money.
- 1:16:28It's the way that you view value and I'm really flattered,
- 1:16:32honoured and delighted that you've seen this as a valuable
- 1:16:36session as well, to come here to give your time.
- 1:16:38It's definitely been valuable for me.
- 1:16:39I know people are going to definitely find it interesting.
- 1:16:41So yeah. Thank you for having me.
- 1:16:43It's been incredible. Thanks for coming on.
- 1:16:45Thank you. Thank you.