Ep. 50 · “You're overthinking.” (The sentences that destroyed our self-confidance. 6/8) | Extreme Daily® Podcast

PODCASTS EXTREME® Daily with Vida Macura Maglica - Extreme Training® · Sep 21, 2026 · 6m

How many times have you heard: “Don’t make such a big deal out of it” — just when you were trying to say that something wasn’t okay with you?

Someone hurts you.

You tell them they hurt you.

“Come on, don’t make such a big deal out of it.”

Someone doesn’t keep their word.

You point it out.

“Why do you always have to make such a big deal out of everything?”

You set a boundary.

You say “no.”

You say how you feel.

And suddenly, the problem is no longer what happened.

You become the problem because you spoke up about it.

And if you hear this often enough, something even worse can happen.

You start…