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- 0:01Speaker 1: Welcome to Stuff you should know, a production of iHeartRadio.
- 0:11Speaker 2: Hey, and welcome to the podcast. I'm Josh and there's
- 0:14Speaker 2: Chuck and it's just us. Jerry's on vacation actually as usual,
- 0:19Speaker 2: and this is stuff.
- 0:20Speaker 1: You should not. Have you read any Judy Bloom books.
- 0:26Speaker 2: Yes, I've read a bunch of them. I was going
- 0:27Speaker 2: down the list checking off the ones I've read.
- 0:29Speaker 1: Oh, interesting, me too. I had a feeling you hadn't
- 0:32Speaker 1: for some.
- 0:32Speaker 2: Reason, because I'm soulless and robotic.
- 0:37Speaker 1: Meet Mark. Yeah, I bet you. We've read a lot
- 0:41Speaker 1: of the same one. So let's go over that.
- 0:42Speaker 2: I bet too. All right, now, okay, you ready, Yeah,
- 0:45Speaker 2: we'll say them all at the same time.
- 0:47Speaker 1: Now you say yours, and I'll say whether that's one
- 0:49Speaker 1: of mine?
- 0:50Speaker 2: All right?
- 0:51Speaker 1: Freckle Juice did not read that one?
- 0:53Speaker 2: I did? It was a good one. I'm going to
- 0:56Speaker 2: say that about all of them. Tales of a fourth
- 0:58Speaker 2: grade nothing.
- 0:58Speaker 1: I did read that.
- 1:00Speaker 2: I did two, but I didn't remember what that was about,
- 1:02Speaker 2: and I didn't go look it up. Okay, otherwise known
- 1:06Speaker 2: as Sheila the Great.
- 1:07Speaker 1: I read that.
- 1:08Speaker 2: That was a good one, blubbers the one aside from
- 1:11Speaker 2: are you there? God? It's me, Margaret that I remember
- 1:14Speaker 2: the most.
- 1:14Speaker 1: Yeah, I read both of those, and then I think
- 1:17Speaker 1: that was it for me, all right. I think I
- 1:20Speaker 1: read all the I read. Then again, maybe I won't, Okay,
- 1:24Speaker 1: And I also read Superfudge.
- 1:28Speaker 2: Oh I did too. I'm sorry I did too. I
- 1:30Speaker 2: read Superfudge.
- 1:31Speaker 1: Yeah, so I think I read six or seven of these.
- 1:34Speaker 2: And I had a question mark next to then again,
- 1:36Speaker 2: maybe I won't. I may have read that one, or
- 1:38Speaker 2: I just may have been aware of it.
- 1:40Speaker 1: Yeah, And then the one what is it? Tiger Eyes?
- 1:43Speaker 1: Sounded familiar, but I'm not sure if I read those,
- 1:46Speaker 1: but I think it, like, you know. One reason I
- 1:47Speaker 1: wanted to ask because I think Judy Bloom and her
- 1:50Speaker 1: books get associated with young girls. Sure, and I was like,
- 1:54Speaker 1: was I an outlier because I read six or seven
- 1:56Speaker 1: Judy Bloom books and like loved them all? Or you know,
- 1:59Speaker 1: maybe both out liars.
- 2:01Speaker 2: I don't think so. I don't remember being particularly odd
- 2:04Speaker 2: or weird, at least in my elementary school, so the
- 2:07Speaker 2: fact that you did too, I would guess it was
- 2:10Speaker 2: probably fairly normal. I also read a lot of Ramona
- 2:13Speaker 2: Quimby books. Did you read any of those? Now?
- 2:15Speaker 1: I never read those.
- 2:16Speaker 2: I knew that the day I became at an adolescent,
- 2:20Speaker 2: I guess, uh huh, because that was halfway through a
- 2:23Speaker 2: Ramona Quimby book, You're Seven, and I realized I didn't
- 2:26Speaker 2: give a good damn what was about to come next
- 2:30Speaker 2: in Ramona Quimby's life. All of a.
- 2:31Speaker 1: Sudden, Oh no, that was it for me and Ramona.
- 2:35Speaker 2: I always have fond memories of her. Those were great
- 2:38Speaker 2: fun books.
- 2:39Speaker 1: Yeah, well, I think it's cool that we both read
- 2:40Speaker 1: this stuff that our parents were. My suspicion is that
- 2:45Speaker 1: it was the same in my house, is that they
- 2:47Speaker 1: weren't paying attention enough, probably to say, hey, should you
- 2:50Speaker 1: be reading this book about, you know, a young girl
- 2:53Speaker 1: going through menstruation and discovering her sexual awakening?
- 2:57Speaker 2: Right exactly? My parents paid enough attention. I remember my
- 3:00Speaker 2: dad like some tense conversations I barely overheard. The only
- 3:04Speaker 2: word I could make out was fruity.
- 3:07Speaker 1: Oh man, goodness me.
- 3:09Speaker 2: He was a real jerk. Grow now.
- 3:11Speaker 1: Yeah, well, here we are, though, well adjusted and kicking
- 3:15Speaker 1: button life.
- 3:16Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, it's great. Is I can't wait to
- 3:18Speaker 2: get the one or two emails really like that was
- 3:20Speaker 2: really mean of your dad to call.
- 3:22Speaker 1: You fruity, right, yeah, get some support.
- 3:25Speaker 2: Right, he didn't. Really everybody, is what I'm trying to say. Okay,
- 3:29Speaker 2: I think you make a great point though, Chuck, Like
- 3:31Speaker 2: I think it's whether it's normal or not. I feel
- 3:35Speaker 2: like it was great that we read those books. They
- 3:37Speaker 2: were great books to start with, totally, but also like,
- 3:41Speaker 2: it's just so rare for an adult to have that
- 3:44Speaker 2: level of insight into what it's like to be a
- 3:47Speaker 2: kid growing into well an adolescent again, right, that's just
- 3:53Speaker 2: people have memories of that. I have memories of it,
- 3:55Speaker 2: but the vibe, the feeling and being able to convey
- 3:58Speaker 2: it again, that is long gone.
- 4:00Speaker 1: Yeah, I totally agree.
- 4:02Speaker 2: So she was good at what she did and she
- 4:05Speaker 2: was a trailblazing pioneer of the first kind.
- 4:11Speaker 1: Yeah, totally. And when you say was Judy Bloom amazingly
- 4:15Speaker 1: is still with us in her late eighties, living down
- 4:18Speaker 1: in Key West, but I think she's basically given up writing.
- 4:23Speaker 1: She hasn't put out a book in a while. She
- 4:25Speaker 1: does run a bookstore down in Key West, which I
- 4:28Speaker 1: would love to go to sometime.
- 4:30Speaker 2: I wish I had known the one time I went
- 4:32Speaker 2: to Key West, because I definitely would have popped in
- 4:34Speaker 2: to see her.
- 4:34Speaker 1: Yeah, so today we salute Judy Bloom. And I guess
- 4:37Speaker 1: let's go back to her childhood. Sure, because she was
- 4:41Speaker 1: born Judith Marcia Sussman on February second, nineteen thirty eight
- 4:46Speaker 1: in Elizabeth, New Jersey, just outside of New York, and
- 4:50Speaker 1: grew up in a pretty just normal, middle class Jewish family.
- 4:54Speaker 1: Her dad was a dentist, her mom was a homemaker,
- 4:57Speaker 1: and she you know, seemed to have a I was
- 5:01Speaker 1: about to say, a happy life. But she was a
- 5:04Speaker 1: fraught kid about some stuff. But not because she had
- 5:07Speaker 1: like some awful life. It was a pretty normal life,
- 5:09Speaker 1: but a lot of angst.
- 5:10Speaker 2: It seems like, yeah, I'm fairly well earned. I feel like, yeah,
- 5:16Speaker 2: for sure, but not because her family dynamic was screwed up.
- 5:19Speaker 2: It was like her father was her confidant. Yeah, her
- 5:23Speaker 2: entire childhood sounds like a really good father. I didn't
- 5:27Speaker 2: get the impression that her mom was anything terrible, but
- 5:31Speaker 2: I think her father played a more prominent role.
- 5:33Speaker 1: Yeah, I think such a But what her.
- 5:35Speaker 2: Mom gave her was the gift of loving to read,
- 5:39Speaker 2: which is man, there are a few gifts you can
- 5:42Speaker 2: give a kid better than.
- 5:43Speaker 1: That, you know, yeah, no kidding. And I know you
- 5:45Speaker 1: and I have talked about this privately, but you know,
- 5:47Speaker 1: when Ruby was diagnosed with dyslexia, we were both as
- 5:51Speaker 1: avid readers, just you know, sort of afraid that meant
- 5:54Speaker 1: she wouldn't have that joy. And she's gotten over it
- 5:57Speaker 1: to the point where she's an avid reader and it
- 5:59Speaker 1: just makes it so happy. And you always wonder what
- 6:02Speaker 1: your kid's going to be like. And when I was
- 6:03Speaker 1: reading about young Judy Bloom making up stories like life
- 6:08Speaker 1: stories and backstories for her dolls and playthings and creating
- 6:11Speaker 1: characters and scenarios, like Ruby does a lot of that stuff,
- 6:15Speaker 1: and I'm always wondering if, like you know, she'd writes
- 6:18Speaker 1: stories and stuff like is that her path? And like
- 6:21Speaker 1: who knows, But you know, just like Judy Bloom, they
- 6:24Speaker 1: both had these active or have these active kind of
- 6:29Speaker 1: make believe lives, which I think is super cool and
- 6:32Speaker 1: healthy and awesome.
- 6:34Speaker 2: Yeah. The thing that stuck out to me was that
- 6:36Speaker 2: she would take piano lessons and then whilst she was
- 6:39Speaker 2: practicing the piano herself, she in her head she was
- 6:43Speaker 2: teaching imaginary students like characters. I love that she was
- 6:47Speaker 2: giving them piano lessons yeah, and you know that's pretty
- 6:50Speaker 2: cool in and of itself. She actually kept a journal
- 6:52Speaker 2: a notebook to chart their progress the imaginary student. She
- 6:56Speaker 2: was teaching progress in her notebook, like that's how we're
- 7:00Speaker 2: find her imagination was as far as character development goes
- 7:04Speaker 2: as a kid.
- 7:05Speaker 1: Yeah, that's super cool. And that reminded me and again
- 7:09Speaker 1: not to just keep bringing Ruby into it. But I
- 7:11Speaker 1: know you're a fan, so you don't mind. Yeah. But
- 7:14Speaker 1: when I took her to her first Hawks game when
- 7:16Speaker 1: she was like eight or nine, maybe she sat there
- 7:21Speaker 1: and I don't think I've told this before, but she
- 7:23Speaker 1: I looked and she brought her a little notebook like
- 7:24Speaker 1: she always does, just in case she gets bored, and
- 7:26Speaker 1: she was keeping notes. And finally was like, what are
- 7:28Speaker 1: you noting? And she had noted all the players and
- 7:32Speaker 1: all of their shoes and what brand and what color
- 7:34Speaker 1: shoes they had, and what number they were and everything.
- 7:37Speaker 1: And I just thought, what an interesting thing to do that.
- 7:41Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I was never into that kind of
- 7:44Speaker 2: thing now, so I yeah, I feel like I'm definitely
- 7:47Speaker 2: looking at it from the outside in.
- 7:49Speaker 1: Yeah. I just you know, when you're a parent, you're
- 7:51Speaker 1: always like, what does that mean? And like maybe one
- 7:54Speaker 1: day I'll look back and go like, oh it all
- 7:55Speaker 1: makes sense now or whatever. Sure, maybe she'll be an
- 7:58Speaker 1: inventory or something. Yeah, what's it called when you manage.
- 8:06Speaker 2: Logistics?
- 8:06Speaker 1: Yeah, logistics.
- 8:08Speaker 2: She'll be in charge of logistics of moving basketball players
- 8:11Speaker 2: around the country. Great, Yeah that's cool. That's a great story.
- 8:16Speaker 2: And yeah, I can't quite get it either. I mean,
- 8:19Speaker 2: is it like a calming thing?
- 8:21Speaker 1: I don't know, I have no idea.
- 8:23Speaker 2: Well, let me know when you figure it out.
- 8:26Speaker 1: Like twenty years probably.
- 8:28Speaker 2: So even though Judy Bloom was like she came up
- 8:33Speaker 2: with characters and had a very rich internal life as
- 8:38Speaker 2: a kid, she apparently never particularly aspired to be a writer.
- 8:42Speaker 2: She ended up wanting to find essentially like a creative
- 8:46Speaker 2: outlet later on, as we'll see. But as a kid
- 8:49Speaker 2: that wasn't she wouldn't like, that's what I'm going to
- 8:51Speaker 2: be as a writer. And so that comes later in
- 8:55Speaker 2: between then and now. But the opposite, so now would
- 9:01Speaker 2: be while she was a child, then would be as
- 9:04Speaker 2: she's grown up a little more. Oh man, you said
- 9:08Speaker 2: that she had a kind of a fraught childhood, and
- 9:10Speaker 2: as a result of that, she definitely suffered from anxiety
- 9:13Speaker 2: as a kid. And this is like nineteen fifties anxiety,
- 9:16Speaker 2: so like the real deal kind where you saw like
- 9:18Speaker 2: a psychoanalyst sometimes.
- 9:20Speaker 1: Yeah, certainly starting out in the forties when you're a
- 9:23Speaker 1: little kid, especially a Jewish American kid, and World War
- 9:26Speaker 1: II is going around, there was a big preoccupation in
- 9:30Speaker 1: her family and you know, every probably Jewish American kid's
- 9:32Speaker 1: life about what was going on overseas, afraid that could
- 9:36Speaker 1: happen to them and their family, that kind of thing.
- 9:39Speaker 1: And then really, this is so sad. She was always
- 9:41Speaker 1: just worried about her father dying because a couple of
- 9:44Speaker 1: her uncles died when they were younger, in their early
- 9:47Speaker 1: forties of heart attacks I guess heart failure. Yeah, and
- 9:51Speaker 1: she was just always worried about her dad, and you
- 9:54Speaker 1: know doing kid stuff like you know, making a deal
- 9:57Speaker 1: with God, like hey, if I ace this test, it'll
- 10:00Speaker 1: help my dad live. And just it's just so sort
- 10:03Speaker 1: of heartbreaking to hear that stuff.
- 10:05Speaker 2: Yeah, and if that sounds a little familiar, then you
- 10:07Speaker 2: probably have read are you there, God, it's me Margaret. Yeah.
- 10:11Speaker 2: So yeah, that was a big deal. Like that kind
- 10:13Speaker 2: of guided her outlook, and that's a lot to worry
- 10:17Speaker 2: about as a little kid, right, totally. H So another
- 10:21Speaker 2: thing that happened. Remember I said her dad was like
- 10:22Speaker 2: one of her biggest, most prominent figures in her entire
- 10:26Speaker 2: life as a kid. There were two years where she
- 10:30Speaker 2: and her mom and brother moved to Miami Beach because
- 10:33Speaker 2: her brother had suffered some sort of chronic illness I believe,
- 10:38Speaker 2: and they were like, go to Miami apparently the one
- 10:40Speaker 2: hundred and ten percent humidity will be good.
- 10:43Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 10:44Speaker 2: And her father stayed back in Elizabeth, New Jersey because
- 10:46Speaker 2: he was a dentist, so he had to stay dentisting. Yeah,
- 10:52Speaker 2: and that separation apparently was so significant that she developed
- 10:56Speaker 2: an obsessive compulsive disorder. Only would she, like you said,
- 11:01Speaker 2: kind of make deals with God. She would, you know,
- 11:05Speaker 2: maybe turn a door knob handle X number of times,
- 11:07Speaker 2: and as long as she remembered to do that, her
- 11:09Speaker 2: father would stay alive. Like that kind of stuff. Again,
- 11:12Speaker 2: we're talking about a kid who's less than ten years old.
- 11:16Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a lot to take on. It just made
- 11:19Speaker 1: me real sad to hear that. But she also had
- 11:22Speaker 1: a few and you know, as we'll see, she wrote
- 11:25Speaker 1: a lot about stuff that she knew either places where
- 11:28Speaker 1: she lived, or about things that were you know, like
- 11:30Speaker 1: you said, and are you there, God it to me
- 11:32Speaker 1: Margaret kind of writing about that. She also wrote later
- 11:35Speaker 1: in life about a family who experienced these three plane
- 11:39Speaker 1: crashes sort of near their house that affected their household,
- 11:42Speaker 1: and that really happened to her, right.
- 11:45Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, over the course of fifty eight days,
- 11:47Speaker 2: less than two months, there were three separate plane crashes
- 11:52Speaker 2: from the Newark Airport, which apparently was like right there
- 11:56Speaker 2: that the runways were pointed essentially at Elizabeth. Yeah, and
- 12:01Speaker 2: a hundred people died from those three crashes, eleven of
- 12:06Speaker 2: which were like neighbors, friends and neighbors, like townfolk from
- 12:10Speaker 2: Elizabeth who had been on the ground in the wrong
- 12:12Speaker 2: place at the wrong time.
- 12:14Speaker 1: Yeah. So that's obviously gonna you know, color young kids, psyche,
- 12:18Speaker 1: you know for sure.
- 12:19Speaker 2: I mean, what are the odds of something like that happening.
- 12:23Speaker 2: I guess it was bad enough that they closed the
- 12:25Speaker 2: Newark Airport for a year and rebuilt the runway so
- 12:28Speaker 2: that they weren't pointed at Elizabeth anymore.
- 12:31Speaker 1: Yeah, that's that's terrible.
- 12:33Speaker 2: Yeah, So all those things together certainly like shaped her childhood,
- 12:38Speaker 2: her pre adolescence.
- 12:40Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't think so.
- 12:41Speaker 2: Yeah, and then she like kind of grew up, like
- 12:44Speaker 2: her life was pretty normal nineteen fifties early nineteen sixties
- 12:49Speaker 2: type life, although she was a little more on the
- 12:52Speaker 2: alternative side. It looks like it sounds like she was
- 12:54Speaker 2: a bit of a beatnik.
- 12:56Speaker 1: Yeah. I think she gravitated towards that, like when she graduated,
- 12:59Speaker 1: and she graduated, you know, high school, at the top
- 13:01Speaker 1: of her class, and then went to NYU, and then
- 13:03Speaker 1: there in the fifties at NYU, it sounds like she
- 13:05Speaker 1: was definitely kind of slanted toward that bohemian culture and
- 13:09Speaker 1: drawn to the beatnik types.
- 13:10Speaker 2: Yes, she was hanging with Llewell and Davis.
- 13:15Speaker 1: Should we take a break, Yeah, all right, we'll take
- 13:17Speaker 1: an earlier break. It seems like a good college seems
- 13:20Speaker 1: like a good breaking point to me. Oh, I agree,
- 13:22Speaker 1: all right, we'll be right back.
- 13:42Speaker 2: So we're back, Chuck and Judy Bloom is stuck in
- 13:45Speaker 2: college because we took an ad break, and we're going
- 13:47Speaker 2: to dislodge her. She's a junior. It's nineteen fifty nine.
- 13:52Speaker 2: She meets a guy named John Bloom. She was twenty
- 13:56Speaker 2: one at the time. He would have been twenty seven. Yeah,
- 14:00Speaker 2: he was already like well out of school, established himself
- 14:02Speaker 2: as a lawyer, and he said, hey, tootz, how about
- 14:06Speaker 2: we get married. And she liked that idea, so they
- 14:10Speaker 2: got engaged and they got married that year. Sadly, very
- 14:14Speaker 2: very sadly. I'm sure this hit her quite hard. Her
- 14:16Speaker 2: father wasn't there to walk her down the aisle because
- 14:18Speaker 2: like a month before the wedding he died from a
- 14:21Speaker 2: heart attack. He wasn't early forties, but he was early
- 14:25Speaker 2: mid fifties, which is still very very young.
- 14:28Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean to see your fear realize like that,
- 14:31Speaker 1: like the one thing that she was worried about, specifically
- 14:33Speaker 1: the heart attack too, must have been devastating. So she
- 14:38Speaker 1: gets married. In nineteen sixty one, she grad graduated from
- 14:42Speaker 1: NYU with a degree in early childhood education, and the
- 14:46Speaker 1: plan was to sort of you know, you know, you
- 14:48Speaker 1: mentioned earlier she didn't want to be a writer necessarily,
- 14:51Speaker 1: and you know, one of the big reasons, because it
- 14:53Speaker 1: is in the nineteen forties and early nineteen fifties when
- 14:56Speaker 1: she was a kid, that just wasn't an avenue that
- 14:59Speaker 1: was as open to young women. It's a big reason
- 15:02Speaker 1: that se Hinton kept the initials se Hinton when she
- 15:06Speaker 1: wrote The Outsiders and all those books.
- 15:08Speaker 2: You know, I didn't know se Hinton was a woman.
- 15:12Speaker 1: Are you serious?
- 15:13Speaker 2: Yeah, that's serious.
- 15:14Speaker 1: Yeah. I thought c Hinton was a teenage girl when
- 15:17Speaker 1: she wrote The Outsiders.
- 15:19Speaker 2: I had no idea. Wow, yeah, yeah, I thought that
- 15:23Speaker 2: was Steve and Edie Hinton.
- 15:26Speaker 1: That's why she did it. I mean it worked. I
- 15:28Speaker 1: guess she's like, I got to be able to fool
- 15:29Speaker 1: Josh Clark.
- 15:30Speaker 2: No, but I mean like, I had no idea. This
- 15:33Speaker 2: is literally the first time I'm hearing that. It's not
- 15:35Speaker 2: even like, oh that vaguely rings a bell. I have
- 15:38Speaker 2: never heard that in my entire life.
- 15:40Speaker 1: Well, there you have it. She was a teenage girl
- 15:42Speaker 1: in high school when she wrote The Outsiders.
- 15:43Speaker 2: That's really cool.
- 15:44Speaker 1: But again, that's why she kept the name se Hinton
- 15:47Speaker 1: because just publishing wasn't so open to young women writing books.
- 15:50Speaker 1: So that's why Judy Bloom didn't. And when she was
- 15:54Speaker 1: graduating college, she was just sort of on that track.
- 15:57Speaker 1: She was like, I'm going to get my degree, I'm
- 15:58Speaker 1: going to get married, which I already did before I graduated.
- 16:01Speaker 1: I'm gonna have kids and be a homemaker, and within
- 16:05Speaker 1: a couple of years of graduating, she had a daughter
- 16:07Speaker 1: named Randy Lee and then a son named Lawrence Andrew
- 16:10Speaker 1: and was you know, very happily it seems, back in
- 16:12Speaker 1: the New Jersey suburbs. Yep, while her husband was attorneying.
- 16:17Speaker 2: Yes, so I had said though that she was. She
- 16:22Speaker 2: started writing because she was like, I need to do
- 16:24Speaker 2: something else besides just like raise kids and sit at
- 16:27Speaker 2: home and dust. That just was not enough to fulfill
- 16:31Speaker 2: her as a person. So once both of her kids
- 16:34Speaker 2: were in preschool, she was like, I'll write some books
- 16:38Speaker 2: for my kids, or at least my kids friends if
- 16:40Speaker 2: the kids don't like it, she started creating picture books.
- 16:44Speaker 2: Essentially the first one she came up was, or at
- 16:47Speaker 2: least the first one. Her first published book was a
- 16:50Speaker 2: children's picture book called The One in the Middle is
- 16:52Speaker 2: the Green Kangaroo, which is a great, great children's book name.
- 16:58Speaker 2: But that didn't come like easy. That wasn't like a
- 17:01Speaker 2: you know, first try. And she she got her big break.
- 17:05Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean it's I think she went a couple
- 17:08Speaker 1: of years, like two two and a half years, getting
- 17:10Speaker 1: you know, rejection letter after rejection letter. I think they
- 17:14Speaker 1: dug who helped us with this one.
- 17:16Speaker 2: Julia.
- 17:17Speaker 1: Yeah, Julia found that she was getting like six no
- 17:20Speaker 1: letters per week before she became like an overnight success.
- 17:24Speaker 1: You know, that's how the media like tends to view
- 17:26Speaker 1: those things. But it seems like the big turning point
- 17:30Speaker 1: was when she took a continuing ed class at NYU
- 17:34Speaker 1: in the late sixties, like a writing class for like
- 17:37Speaker 1: tween writing and teen writing. And she told NPR a
- 17:41Speaker 1: few years ago that it was like such a monumental
- 17:44Speaker 1: thing for her to like to know that she was
- 17:47Speaker 1: going to leave every Monday, leave her family, go to
- 17:50Speaker 1: the bus to New York City, and like her husband
- 17:53Speaker 1: was going to feed the kids, and she wasn't going
- 17:55Speaker 1: to be home until later that night. And just knowing
- 17:57Speaker 1: she had that creative outlet really freed her up men,
- 18:00Speaker 1: I think, yeah, and led to that children's book, and
- 18:03Speaker 1: then eventually led to the publishing of her first novel,
- 18:07Speaker 1: Iggy's House.
- 18:08Speaker 2: Yeah, it was a children's book, I guess maybe young
- 18:12Speaker 2: adult book about It's from the viewpoint of a little
- 18:17Speaker 2: white girl named Winnie who lives in a neighborhood where
- 18:20Speaker 2: her best friend has just moved and a black family
- 18:23Speaker 2: moves into the neighborhood, and it's all about the racial
- 18:26Speaker 2: tensions that developed White Flight. But it's rather than Judy
- 18:32Speaker 2: Bloom trying to make it from the viewpoint of the
- 18:36Speaker 2: little girl from the black family that just moved in.
- 18:39Speaker 2: I think she very wisely did it from the viewpoint
- 18:42Speaker 2: of this, you know, little white girl who's looking at
- 18:45Speaker 2: it from the outside and was kind of innocently trying
- 18:49Speaker 2: to figure out what the problem was, what was going on.
- 18:52Speaker 2: And this is nineteen seventy when it was published, and
- 18:55Speaker 2: this is not the kind of book that children were
- 19:00Speaker 2: finding in the library at the time by any means.
- 19:03Speaker 1: Yeah, for sure. So that's her first one published in
- 19:06Speaker 1: nineteen seventy, as far as the novel goes, and then
- 19:09Speaker 1: right out of the gate, her follow up book, again
- 19:12Speaker 1: also in nineteen seventy, was are you there, God, It's
- 19:15Speaker 1: me and Margaret Wow. So, I mean, can you just
- 19:18Speaker 1: imagine starting your career out with a stone cold classic
- 19:21Speaker 1: like that. It was eventually made into a movie that
- 19:25Speaker 1: was actually pretty good. I know, she Yeah, it wasn't bad.
- 19:29Speaker 1: You know, it's hard when you have such a beloved
- 19:31Speaker 1: book from your childhood, and I think that's why she
- 19:34Speaker 1: waited so long. You know, overtures for years and years
- 19:38Speaker 1: and years to like decades to try and get it
- 19:40Speaker 1: made into a film, and she always said no. And
- 19:42Speaker 1: I think she finally found you know, that it was
- 19:44Speaker 1: time and it turned out pretty good. I'm waiting, you know,
- 19:46Speaker 1: Ruby saw it, and I'm waiting for her to want
- 19:48Speaker 1: to read these books. Yeah, we got them all, like,
- 19:50Speaker 1: you know, ready at the gate, waiting for it.
- 19:53Speaker 2: I in the bookshelf.
- 19:54Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, they're ready.
- 19:57Speaker 2: I didn't see it. I saw. I had a seven
- 19:59Speaker 2: point three on IMDb, which is definitely respectable, in ninety
- 20:02Speaker 2: nine percent on Rotten Tomatoes. So you're not the only
- 20:05Speaker 2: one who thought it was pretty good. So this book
- 20:09Speaker 2: that comes out, let's talk about Are you there, God,
- 20:11Speaker 2: it's me Margaret for a second. Okay. The reason we
- 20:15Speaker 2: referred to Judy Bloom as the Trailblazer is because she
- 20:17Speaker 2: was she was one of the first people writing this
- 20:21Speaker 2: kind of book for this age group as the hitting her.
- 20:27Speaker 2: Her book, The Outsiders takes place among high schoolers, same
- 20:32Speaker 2: with like The Chocolate War by Yeah Yeah, Robert love Them, Yeah,
- 20:40Speaker 2: Robert Ludlan's Chocolate War. And then also there's another one
- 20:45Speaker 2: called The cat ate My Gym Suit by Paula Danzinger.
- 20:48Speaker 2: That was fairly all of them had to do with
- 20:51Speaker 2: ninth graders or up right. Yeah, she's writing about like
- 20:55Speaker 2: eleven year olds. It's going through the beginnings of what
- 20:59Speaker 2: high school are now dealing with, right, And the only
- 21:02Speaker 2: person who beat her was as he hitting. From what
- 21:05Speaker 2: I could tell, I think The Outsiders came out in
- 21:06Speaker 2: nineteen sixty seven. Are you the Gut? Are you there? Gut?
- 21:09Speaker 2: It's me Margaret came out in nineteen seventy, and again
- 21:12Speaker 2: it was just totally different from other books for kids
- 21:15Speaker 2: at the time.
- 21:16Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, you know, in kids books are still
- 21:19Speaker 1: like this in a lot of ways, although there's a
- 21:20Speaker 1: lot more variety now, thankfully, But back then it was
- 21:24Speaker 1: kind of like, you present a big problem, maybe there's
- 21:27Speaker 1: a moral issue or something, and there's some big grand
- 21:29Speaker 1: solution that teaches a big grand lesson. And she was like,
- 21:35Speaker 1: you know what, it's not that easy and it's not
- 21:37Speaker 1: that clean to grow up and black and white, So like,
- 21:42Speaker 1: I'm going to write books about how messy it is
- 21:45Speaker 1: and how maybe it's just a struggle sometimes, and you know,
- 21:48Speaker 1: there's just a lot of realism in her books of
- 21:51Speaker 1: like what it was really like to be an adolescent.
- 21:54Speaker 1: And you know, critics liked them right away, the buying
- 22:00Speaker 1: public love them. I think it was an are you there? God?
- 22:04Speaker 1: Was a New York Times bestseller in a New York
- 22:06Speaker 1: Times Book Review Outstanding Book of nineteen seventy and just
- 22:10Speaker 1: kind of launched her right out of the gate, you know,
- 22:12Speaker 1: for sure?
- 22:14Speaker 2: Yeah, I saw. It also really took off when it
- 22:17Speaker 2: came out in a trade paperback version in nineteen seventy
- 22:19Speaker 2: two at a price that, like younger kids, her audience
- 22:23Speaker 2: could afford. Oh yeah, they didn't have to ask their
- 22:25Speaker 2: parents to buy it for them anymore. Right, So, one
- 22:30Speaker 2: of the things that Judy Bloom is credited with is
- 22:35Speaker 2: essentially approaching adolescents, approaching well, not just menstruation, chuk but monarchy.
- 22:41Speaker 2: Remember that. Yeah, monarchy used to be like a guest character,
- 22:45Speaker 2: a recurring guest character on early stuff you should know,
- 22:48Speaker 2: weirdly enough.
- 22:49Speaker 1: Yeah, it's just a good trivia word.
- 22:52Speaker 2: For sure. But she approached it as like it's a
- 22:55Speaker 2: good thing. This is exciting, Like her characters are like,
- 22:58Speaker 2: hurry up, I want to hurry up. And one passage
- 23:01Speaker 2: that's very, very famous is when Margaret and her friends,
- 23:07Speaker 2: who all collectively make up the Preteen Sensations. It's their
- 23:11Speaker 2: little secret club where they get together and talk about
- 23:13Speaker 2: this stuff. One of them has the idea they want
- 23:15Speaker 2: to basically grow breasts, I guess is the best way
- 23:19Speaker 2: to put it. And so one of them suggests they
- 23:22Speaker 2: like move their elbows like back and forth alongside of
- 23:26Speaker 2: their like they're basically pumping. And while you do that,
- 23:30Speaker 2: you have to say, I must, I must, I must
- 23:33Speaker 2: increase my bust.
- 23:34Speaker 1: Classic.
- 23:35Speaker 2: I didn't know that came from that. I always associate
- 23:37Speaker 2: that with the Lords of Acid. Remember that song.
- 23:40Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I had.
- 23:41Speaker 2: No idea that Jade for You from Lords of Acid
- 23:46Speaker 2: was a Judy Bloom fan and was sighting are you there?
- 23:49Speaker 2: Got It's me?
- 23:50Speaker 1: Margaret pretty cool and s he Hinton was a teenage
- 23:53Speaker 1: girl when she wrote The Outsider.
- 23:54Speaker 2: I'm just finding out all sorts of big stuff.
- 23:57Speaker 1: Yeah, it's pretty cool. I mean, monumental book right out
- 23:59Speaker 1: of the gate. She is. At the same time this
- 24:02Speaker 1: is going on, you know, a kind of playing this
- 24:06Speaker 1: housewife role, but again realizing, like you know, I don't
- 24:11Speaker 1: know if that was the life for me. I got
- 24:13Speaker 1: married when I was young. I never had sort of
- 24:15Speaker 1: the freedom and adventure that I longed for in her life.
- 24:19Speaker 1: And she said, you know, there was a quote where
- 24:22Speaker 1: she said, for sixteen years writing save me and my marriage,
- 24:25Speaker 1: but by the mid seventies the rules it changed. So
- 24:28Speaker 1: by nineteen seventy five she's like, you know, I think
- 24:32Speaker 1: I want a divorce, and she did that. She divorced
- 24:34Speaker 1: her first husband, moved to New York, and then a
- 24:37Speaker 1: year later married a physicist named Thomas Kitchens. They were
- 24:41Speaker 1: only married for about four years, but they had a
- 24:43Speaker 1: pretty adventurous life. They lived in London and in New Mexico.
- 24:47Speaker 2: Right, I think at Los Alamosh Okay. So also by
- 24:54Speaker 2: nineteen seventy five, when she decided to get divorced from
- 24:57Speaker 2: her first husband, the lawyer, she had put out ten
- 25:01Speaker 2: books between nineteen seventy and nineteen seventy five.
- 25:05Speaker 1: Pretty amazing.
- 25:06Speaker 2: Yeah, basically almost all the ones that you and I
- 25:09Speaker 2: read came out in that first like ten year spurt.
- 25:12Speaker 2: Like she just wrote classic best selling kids books just
- 25:17Speaker 2: right out of the gate. It's just really cool how
- 25:20Speaker 2: much she was able to do, how much she was
- 25:22Speaker 2: able to just connect with little kids. I still don't
- 25:25Speaker 2: get it, like I do not understand how an adult
- 25:27Speaker 2: can do that. I'm just in awe of it.
- 25:30Speaker 1: Yeah, for sure. I know her nineteen seventy five book
- 25:33Speaker 1: Forever is not one that I read. But that's a
- 25:37Speaker 1: very big book for Emily, and I know, a very
- 25:40Speaker 1: big book for a lot of like probably girls of
- 25:43Speaker 1: all generations, but gen X's Girls in particular, because that
- 25:46Speaker 1: was the one where she had kind of been building
- 25:48Speaker 1: up to, you know, you know, talking about prepubescent stuff
- 25:53Speaker 1: and adolescents and puberty and then finally and Forever, it's
- 25:56Speaker 1: like finally a character that wants to try and have
- 25:59Speaker 1: sex for the first time, and Emily is just like, oh, man,
- 26:02Speaker 1: like to read that book as a kid, it was
- 26:03Speaker 1: like a really big deal.
- 26:05Speaker 2: Yes, And the book itself, I've seen it described as
- 26:09Speaker 2: essentially a self help manual for having safe sex because
- 26:13Speaker 2: she follows the main character Catherine throughout like this process
- 26:17Speaker 2: where she meets the dude, she falls in love, she
- 26:20Speaker 2: decides to have sex, and then before she has sex,
- 26:22Speaker 2: she goes to like planned parenthood to get condoms. Yeah,
- 26:27Speaker 2: Like she basically learns anatomy and reproductive stuff, like all
- 26:33Speaker 2: sorts of different things that are laid out like this
- 26:37Speaker 2: is what's happening to Catherine. But reader, I'm really talking
- 26:40Speaker 2: to you, and I'm making it as plain as possible.
- 26:42Speaker 2: If you're gonna have sex, do this stuff, because this
- 26:45Speaker 2: is how you have safe sex. And of course, as
- 26:48Speaker 2: we'll see, like that just made it an absolute target
- 26:51Speaker 2: for book challenges, where you formally request a book be
- 26:56Speaker 2: being under removed from a library.
- 26:58Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, we can go into talk about that
- 27:00Speaker 1: if you want. I mean, as much as people love
- 27:03Speaker 1: Judy Bloom, there was another set of people that hated
- 27:08Speaker 1: an author, a grown woman writing about the realistic challenges
- 27:11Speaker 1: of like being a kid and being a tween or
- 27:14Speaker 1: a teen and going through puberty and all that stuff.
- 27:17Speaker 1: So she was a target right out of the gate
- 27:20Speaker 1: for book banning, like you said, and is on a
- 27:23Speaker 1: lot of lists. As you know, some of the most
- 27:26Speaker 1: banned books of all time have been Judy Bloom books,
- 27:28Speaker 1: which is like a to me, a feather in your
- 27:31Speaker 1: cap as an author, because that means you're probably telling
- 27:33Speaker 1: the truth about something.
- 27:34Speaker 2: Yeah, but as we'll see, that drove her crazy, like
- 27:36Speaker 2: she is not one for censorship, you know.
- 27:40Speaker 1: Oh yeah, for sure.
- 27:41Speaker 2: So the key I saw to understanding why everybody wants
- 27:46Speaker 2: to ban Judy Bloom books. Is that Judy Bloom was
- 27:49Speaker 2: the epitome of second wave feminism. Like all the stuff
- 27:53Speaker 2: that Betty Fridhan talked about, the feminine mystique is embodied
- 27:57Speaker 2: in the writing of Judy Bloom, and Judy Bloom is
- 28:00Speaker 2: talking directly to the next generation of kids, essentially saying
- 28:03Speaker 2: this is the way to be, this is a good
- 28:05Speaker 2: this is a good way to become a good person
- 28:08Speaker 2: and love yourself and treat other people kindly. And the
- 28:13Speaker 2: arch rival to second wave feminism in the seventies and eighties,
- 28:17Speaker 2: and I just think still today is conservativism. They don't
- 28:22Speaker 2: want kids shaped like that. So when they see people,
- 28:27Speaker 2: when they see books like that should He Bloom books
- 28:29Speaker 2: in their library, they don't want their kids anywhere near it,
- 28:32Speaker 2: so they request the book be removed. That's why those
- 28:36Speaker 2: those books get challenged all the time, is because they're
- 28:38Speaker 2: a challenge themselves to conservative ideology, which largely revolves around
- 28:44Speaker 2: the idea that if you don't teach kids stuff, they're
- 28:48Speaker 2: not going to do it. They're not going to think
- 28:50Speaker 2: of it themselves, and they're not going to do it.
- 28:52Speaker 2: And yeah, it seems preposterous to me too, and it
- 28:54Speaker 2: gets proven wrong time and time and time again. But
- 28:58Speaker 2: that's just how that's just the conservative outlook. That's just
- 29:01Speaker 2: they don't feel comfortable trying a different way in that respect.
- 29:05Speaker 2: And you know, I mean that's a lot of people's viewpoint,
- 29:09Speaker 2: it's not necessarily mine. But I think, you know, it
- 29:12Speaker 2: doesn't mean that's inherently wrong. I just I just don't
- 29:15Speaker 2: like the idea of banning books, even though I get
- 29:18Speaker 2: to an extent where they're coming from. They're trying to
- 29:20Speaker 2: protect their children, not take off Judy Bloom or the liberals.
- 29:24Speaker 1: Yeah, and I think a lot of what that frame
- 29:26Speaker 1: of mind comes from is I want to be the
- 29:30Speaker 1: decider of my kid learning what they learn when they
- 29:33Speaker 1: learn it. As far as sexuality goes, right, I want
- 29:36Speaker 1: to be in charge of that. I don't want it
- 29:37Speaker 1: to come from some book from some lady that they
- 29:39Speaker 1: happen to check out at the library.
- 29:41Speaker 2: Because they had a good like cover illustration.
- 29:43Speaker 1: Yeah, and you know, I get that to a certain degree.
- 29:46Speaker 1: But like ts, you know, for Judy, as far as
- 29:51Speaker 1: she goes, she didn't think she was being very controversial.
- 29:53Speaker 1: She thought I'm just writing in a very frank way
- 29:56Speaker 1: about how kids really are, Like I was writing the truth, right, Chuck,
- 30:00Speaker 1: All right, Well, one day, say she didn't like the
- 30:03Speaker 1: sterilized adolescents that she saw portrayed in like other kids
- 30:07Speaker 1: books and you know, books that ignored the angst of
- 30:10Speaker 1: what was going on in kids' lives. So she thought,
- 30:13Speaker 1: and I think she was very much correct in my opinion,
- 30:15Speaker 1: and I'm sure yours that she was doing a service
- 30:18Speaker 1: by like kind of portraying the realism of childhood and teendom. Yeah.
- 30:23Speaker 2: Better to learn this stuff from an adult who knows
- 30:26Speaker 2: what they're talking about, who's been through this and knows
- 30:28Speaker 2: how to describe the process of having safe sex than
- 30:32Speaker 2: from Tina who has an older brother that mentioned to
- 30:35Speaker 2: her like, you know one time.
- 30:37Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly.
- 30:39Speaker 2: So, yes, she has been I think she's not just
- 30:43Speaker 2: been one of the most banned authors of the eighties
- 30:46Speaker 2: and the nineties, but also the twenty first century. I
- 30:50Speaker 2: think even in twenty twenty five, twenty twenty four to
- 30:53Speaker 2: twenty twenty five school year, she was her novel Forever
- 30:58Speaker 2: was on the list of most banned books. The one
- 31:02Speaker 2: that had it was basically a safe sex self help Yeah,
- 31:07Speaker 2: so yeah, you can kind of understand that. But it's
- 31:09Speaker 2: not just that. There's been other ones too, Like Tiger
- 31:12Speaker 2: Eyes is about a girl whose father is killed during
- 31:19Speaker 2: a robbery of the seven to eleven that he works at,
- 31:22Speaker 2: and her coming to terms with that and suffering from
- 31:24Speaker 2: grief and depression, and one of her friends is an
- 31:27Speaker 2: underage binge drinker. I mean, that book gets banned a
- 31:31Speaker 2: lot too.
- 31:33Speaker 1: Yeah. Man, I just think it's so cool that she
- 31:35Speaker 1: was brave enough to like write these stories, you know.
- 31:38Speaker 2: Yeah, for sure. I mean like she was very brave,
- 31:41Speaker 2: especially after it became clear and I think it did
- 31:43Speaker 2: fairly early on that there was a large segment of
- 31:47Speaker 2: America that viewed her books as controversial, And so yeah,
- 31:52Speaker 2: every time she sat down and wrote one of these,
- 31:54Speaker 2: it was a greater and greater act of bravery.
- 31:57Speaker 1: Yeah, and a bigger and bigger middle finger. Should we
- 32:02Speaker 1: take our second break?
- 32:03Speaker 2: Yeah?
- 32:04Speaker 1: All right, we'll be right back, everybody with more on
- 32:06Speaker 1: Judy Bloom. All right. So I did mention, and you know,
- 32:27Speaker 1: this isn't the most revealing thing in the world. A
- 32:29Speaker 1: lot of authors write about what they know, but Judy
- 32:31Speaker 1: Bloom definitely did that. When she was living in Maine,
- 32:35Speaker 1: she wrote a story said in Maine. When she lived
- 32:37Speaker 1: in New Mexico, she wrote, I think I said movie.
- 32:40Speaker 1: She wrote a book. You know, I'm talking about books here.
- 32:43Speaker 1: She wrote a book. Did I say movie?
- 32:45Speaker 2: I don't think so.
- 32:46Speaker 1: Okay, I thought it said movie.
- 32:48Speaker 2: If you did, I'm sorry I missed Anyway.
- 32:50Speaker 1: A lot of times she wrote books like set where
- 32:52Speaker 1: she was living, or about sort of veiled, thinly veiled
- 32:55Speaker 1: sort of things that happened in her own childhood. Super unusual.
- 33:01Speaker 1: But she also did the same thing. You know, she
- 33:02Speaker 1: wrote adult books too. We're talking about her kid's books.
- 33:04Speaker 1: She wrote four novels for adults. They were all bestsellers
- 33:07Speaker 1: as well, and they were all sort of about her
- 33:11Speaker 1: life experiences, starting with Wifey in nineteen seventy eight, about
- 33:15Speaker 1: a woman who was in a sort of traditional marriage
- 33:18Speaker 1: he wanted to break out of that.
- 33:19Speaker 2: Yeah, pretty autobiographical. There's also Smart Women, which was about
- 33:25Speaker 2: women navigating dating and relationships after like post divorce.
- 33:30Speaker 1: Yeah, there you go.
- 33:31Speaker 2: That was eighty three. There's also one that came out
- 33:34Speaker 2: in ninety eight called Summer Sisters. It's about a female friendship.
- 33:37Speaker 2: That sounds pretty sweet.
- 33:39Speaker 1: Yeah, Summer's in the season.
- 33:40Speaker 2: And then in the Unlikely Event from twenty fifteen. That
- 33:44Speaker 2: was the one you mentioned that she wrote about a
- 33:46Speaker 2: family going through those actual plane crashes that she went through.
- 33:50Speaker 1: Yeah, for sure. And you know I said that critics,
- 33:53Speaker 1: they certainly didn't love everything. I know, are you there,
- 33:55Speaker 1: Goud It's me Margaret. And a lot of her best
- 33:57Speaker 1: sellers got some good marks with critics, but a lot
- 33:59Speaker 1: of critics kind of dunked on her for being a
- 34:04Speaker 1: simplistic writer. And there was one critic who compared her
- 34:07Speaker 1: writing to a shopping list. And I always just thought
- 34:10Speaker 1: her work was just very readable for her audience. If
- 34:15Speaker 1: that's simplistic, then I guess it works in my opinion,
- 34:18Speaker 1: you know, yeah.
- 34:20Speaker 2: I mean we're talking about eleven year old readers who
- 34:23Speaker 2: may have only been reading for the last handful of years, you.
- 34:26Speaker 1: Know, yeah, totally.
- 34:27Speaker 2: Yeah. But the difference is she didn't write down to them, right,
- 34:32Speaker 2: So yeah, I think I think there were just people
- 34:35Speaker 2: who didn't like what she was writing, and we're taking
- 34:38Speaker 2: potshots wherever they felt they could get.
- 34:41Speaker 1: This made me kind of want to reread one of
- 34:43Speaker 1: her books and just see how it grabbed me as
- 34:45Speaker 1: an adult.
- 34:46Speaker 2: You know, Yeah, I ran across a couple of people
- 34:48Speaker 2: who were talking about some of these books and they're like, yeah,
- 34:51Speaker 2: I spent three hours reading this and it was.
- 34:52Speaker 1: Well worth right, and it just plays through it.
- 34:55Speaker 2: Yeah. I feel the same way that I'd like to
- 34:58Speaker 2: read some more, just at least one or two and
- 35:02Speaker 2: then the entire catalog of Sweet Valley High.
- 35:06Speaker 1: Emily read those two man, she reads a lot and
- 35:09Speaker 1: read a lot as a kid.
- 35:10Speaker 2: Yeah, well they were huge when we were younger.
- 35:13Speaker 1: Yeah. And the other one for Emily was the Nancy
- 35:16Speaker 1: Drew books. She still has her collection from like her mom,
- 35:19Speaker 1: from when she was a kid, and she read all
- 35:20Speaker 1: of those.
- 35:20Speaker 2: That's really cool.
- 35:22Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 35:22Speaker 2: Yeah, my sisters read those. And The Hardy Boys a
- 35:25Speaker 2: little bit.
- 35:26Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 35:26Speaker 2: I was a fan of Alfred Hitchcock's Three Investigators.
- 35:32Speaker 1: Two. Why does it sound so familiar?
- 35:35Speaker 2: It was like Alfred Hitchcock's nephew and every once in
- 35:38Speaker 2: a while they could call on Alfred Hitchcock.
- 35:40Speaker 1: Yeah, but they read some of.
- 35:42Speaker 2: Them, investigate some It was very Hardy Boys esque.
- 35:45Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 35:45Speaker 2: Yeah, I like them for some reason.
- 35:48Speaker 1: What a time, What.
- 35:49Speaker 2: A time to be alive.
- 35:52Speaker 1: So because of all of the book banning and stuff
- 35:55Speaker 1: that went on, it's probably no surprise that she became
- 35:59Speaker 1: very much a a kind of central person in the
- 36:03Speaker 1: anti book banning movement. Yeah, she has worked a lot
- 36:08Speaker 1: over the years with the National Coalition Against Censorship. She
- 36:11Speaker 1: had a couple of projects in the eighties trying to
- 36:15Speaker 1: get like parents and kids talking more, and one was
- 36:17Speaker 1: called the Kids Fun Capitol Kids in nineteen eighty one. Yeah,
- 36:20Speaker 1: very cool, And that's to develop programs that encourage communication
- 36:23Speaker 1: between parents and teens, the foster parent child discussions through books.
- 36:28Speaker 1: And then she had a book she I don't think
- 36:31Speaker 1: we mentioned. One of the things that she got a
- 36:33Speaker 1: lot through her career was letters from kids who often
- 36:37Speaker 1: told her things that like they would never tell their
- 36:39Speaker 1: parents and were just very open and expressive. So she
- 36:44Speaker 1: hopefully had permission, but she eventually put those out in
- 36:46Speaker 1: a book called Letters to Judy Colon What your kids
- 36:50Speaker 1: wish they could tell you, And this was in nineteen
- 36:52Speaker 1: eighty six.
- 36:53Speaker 2: Yeah, I thought that was a pretty cool thing to do.
- 36:55Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 36:56Speaker 2: Same, So yeah, I'd like she's the real deal. She's
- 37:01Speaker 2: not just in it for the dough, although I'm quite
- 37:04Speaker 2: sure she's made quite a bit of dough, because I
- 37:07Speaker 2: think she's sold like ninety million copies of her books
- 37:10Speaker 2: over the years. Ooh, man, forty different languages.
- 37:14Speaker 1: That's amazing.
- 37:16Speaker 2: Yeah, so she has made quite a bit of money,
- 37:19Speaker 2: but she's also legit in the fact that she's she
- 37:23Speaker 2: really genuinely wants to figure out how to bridge the
- 37:26Speaker 2: gap between parents and their kids to help both groups.
- 37:32Speaker 2: She also you said that she was like really against censorship.
- 37:37Speaker 2: One of the things that she took a stand against
- 37:39Speaker 2: was back in twenty twenty three was a cancel culture.
- 37:44Speaker 2: Basically any kind of intellectual censorship or anything that was
- 37:49Speaker 2: against any intellectual freedom. She was against. And she was
- 37:54Speaker 2: talking about this in an interview with The Times of
- 37:56Speaker 2: London in April of that year. Apparently they asked her
- 38:01Speaker 2: about JK Rowling, who, at the time and I think
- 38:03Speaker 2: still basically every day was controversial because she made some
- 38:08Speaker 2: like repeated double down comments about that we're just transphobic essentially. Yeah,
- 38:18Speaker 2: and out of that context, in a different context, they
- 38:21Speaker 2: I asked Judy Bloom about that about JK Rowling, and
- 38:25Speaker 2: she said that I love her. I am behind her
- 38:28Speaker 2: one hundred percent. As I watched from afar and the
- 38:32Speaker 2: way that it was printed in the Times of London article,
- 38:35Speaker 2: it made it sound like she was like, yeah, I'm
- 38:38Speaker 2: backing up this person's transphobic comments. I'm behind her one
- 38:42Speaker 2: hundred percent. So she had to take the social media
- 38:45Speaker 2: to be like that was out of context.
- 38:48Speaker 1: Yeah, in fact, I think we should read her quote
- 38:50Speaker 1: even she said I wholly support the trans community. My point,
- 38:54Speaker 1: which was taken out of context, is that I can
- 38:56Speaker 1: empathize with the writer or any person who has been
- 38:59Speaker 1: harassed online, stand with the trans community, and vehemently disagree
- 39:03Speaker 1: with anyone who does not fully support equality and acceptance
- 39:06Speaker 1: of LGTBQ plus people. Anything to the contrary is total
- 39:11Speaker 1: b sh And I love that she took such a
- 39:15Speaker 1: hard stance of like, hey, hey, hey, don't misunderstand my words,
- 39:20Speaker 1: like I'm Judy effing Bloom exactly.
- 39:23Speaker 2: That was pretty much what's between the lines there for sure. Yeah,
- 39:28Speaker 2: so let's see, you said that she lives in Key West.
- 39:31Speaker 2: Now you can go to books and books at the
- 39:33Speaker 2: studios of Key West and say hi, maybe buy something,
- 39:36Speaker 2: and then she's I mean, she's just basically been really
- 39:39Speaker 2: back in the spotlight in the last few years, even
- 39:41Speaker 2: though she's from what I understand, still on hiatus since
- 39:45Speaker 2: twenty fifteen from writing or at least publishing. But starting
- 39:50Speaker 2: in twenty twenty three, there were not just that movie
- 39:53Speaker 2: for Are You There Got It to Me? Margaret, which,
- 39:55Speaker 2: like you said, people have been waiting decades for. There's
- 39:58Speaker 2: a documentary that came out that year, Bloom Forever.
- 40:01Speaker 1: It's great and yeah.
- 40:02Speaker 2: And then in twenty twenty four there was a biography,
- 40:05Speaker 2: The Genius of Judy, by rachelle Bergstein, that was kind
- 40:10Speaker 2: of like a scholarly exploration of how Bloom's work impacted kids.
- 40:17Speaker 2: And then there was another one. It was a authorized
- 40:20Speaker 2: and then unauthorized autobiography called Judy Bloom Colon a Life
- 40:25Speaker 2: that her friend Mark Oppenheimer published in March twenty twenty six,
- 40:30Speaker 2: and that she publicly removed her support from cut off
- 40:33Speaker 2: contact with Oppenheimer. Yea, and then didn't explain to the
- 40:37Speaker 2: public or Oppenheimer why.
- 40:39Speaker 1: Yeah. I don't know why.
- 40:41Speaker 2: No, no one knows why she didn't tell me. Poured
- 40:43Speaker 2: over those books and have been like or that book
- 40:47Speaker 2: and have been like, maybe this is it? Is this it?
- 40:49Speaker 2: I don't know. Mark Oppenheimer's like, I have no idea.
- 40:52Speaker 2: She didn't explain it to me. There wasn't anything controversial
- 40:55Speaker 2: she like, but she read the first draft and that
- 40:58Speaker 2: was it.
- 40:58Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, who knows, you know, I know what you mentioned.
- 41:01Speaker 1: She had those two divorces, but you'll be glad to
- 41:04Speaker 1: know that she found long lasting true love. Sometimes it
- 41:08Speaker 1: takes a couple of times to get it right. But
- 41:10Speaker 1: she met a guy named George Cooper in nineteen seventy
- 41:13Speaker 1: nine and they moved in together after their very first
- 41:16Speaker 1: date and got married eight years later in nineteen eighty seven.
- 41:20Speaker 1: And that is who helps her run that bookstore down
- 41:23Speaker 1: in Key Wes. So they're still together after all these years.
- 41:25Speaker 2: That is super cute. Yeah, he's like a civil rights
- 41:29Speaker 2: law professor.
- 41:30Speaker 1: I think, yeah, that sounds about right.
- 41:34Speaker 2: What else you got?
- 41:36Speaker 1: I got nothing else I don't either.
- 41:38Speaker 2: Hats off to Judy Bloom. Even if you don't agree
- 41:41Speaker 2: with her writing and what she writes about to kids,
- 41:44Speaker 2: you still got to admire bravery, courage.
- 41:47Speaker 1: Agreed.
- 41:49Speaker 2: And if you want to know more about Judy Bloom,
- 41:51Speaker 2: doesn't really matter what aide you are, go read some
- 41:53Speaker 2: of her books. While you're doing that, And you know what,
- 41:56Speaker 2: you could do a lot worse than checking it out
- 41:58Speaker 2: at your local library to support its existence there true
- 42:02Speaker 2: and or could do both. Buy one from your local
- 42:06Speaker 2: independent bookseller.
- 42:07Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe from Judy Bloom herself, sure you're in Key West.
- 42:13Speaker 2: Or if you find a dude selling books out of
- 42:16Speaker 2: the trunk of his car that is as independent a
- 42:18Speaker 2: bookseller as you can find.
- 42:20Speaker 1: I wonder if you bought one from Judy Bloom herself
- 42:23Speaker 1: in her own bookstore and you're like, oh my god,
- 42:25Speaker 1: will you please sign this, She's like, I don't sign
- 42:27Speaker 1: books on Judy writing Bloom.
- 42:29Speaker 2: Please leave.
- 42:29Speaker 1: Here's your receipt middle finger.
- 42:32Speaker 2: Let's see. Chuck just made himself laugh, which is wonderful.
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